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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Catrese in Baltimore, who writes,

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Speaker 1: my sister suspects her husband of cheating, and she's so

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Speaker 1: worried that she's losing weight and she can't sleep. I've

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Speaker 1: seen him out with the lady and I met her.

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Speaker 1: Would it help if I had a real conversation with

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Speaker 1: my brother in law? Will he stop cheating?

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Speaker 2: No? No, he's not gonna stop cheating. If you have

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Speaker 2: real conversation with your brother in law, he married to

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Speaker 2: your sister, he cheating, he ain't married to you. Well,

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Speaker 2: what what are you gonna say? What are you gonna say?

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Speaker 2: The girl already suspects him. You've seen him with the girl,

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Speaker 2: and now you're gonna bring it up. He know he busted,

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Speaker 2: He know he busted. It's nothing you could say that's

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Speaker 2: gonna make What you're gonna say, I'm gonna tell your

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Speaker 2: wife she already know. So this is this is none

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Speaker 2: of your business. You have to let this play out now,

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Speaker 2: it's not your business. I know you love your sister

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Speaker 2: and everything. Just going and be there for holding, you know,

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Speaker 2: just going just going to court.

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Speaker 3: He go louse a lot of stuff. When he get

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Speaker 3: that too, he ain't gonna believe it is all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, moving on to Lawanda and Macon. Lawanda says, I

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Speaker 1: had a thing with my coworker before I got married,

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Speaker 1: and she told me she missed me. So I went

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Speaker 1: by her house one day last week. I feel bad

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Speaker 1: about sneaking around on my hobby. So do you think

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Speaker 1: he'll have an open mind about it? If I tell

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Speaker 1: the truth?

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Speaker 2: I know you're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Say, mixed up a little bit what you heard.

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Speaker 1: Lawanda says she had a thing with her coworker before

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Speaker 1: she got married, and the coworker told her that she

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Speaker 1: missed her. So she went by her house one day

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Speaker 1: last week, and she says she feels badly about sinking

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Speaker 1: around her husband. So do you think an open mind

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Speaker 1: about it if she tells the truth.

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Speaker 2: Well, so, if he's gonna have an open mind, but

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Speaker 2: the first thing he gonna want to do is join in,

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Speaker 2: I can almost assure you that that's going to happen

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Speaker 2: and right for Lizzo. Right, But he's not gonna have

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Speaker 2: an open mind. He might but or or it could

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Speaker 2: end y'all's relationship. It was one of the two. He

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Speaker 2: gonna either want to join in or y'all gonna end

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Speaker 2: this relationship. That's the chance you're gonna have to take

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Speaker 2: because I can't help you. Shut your damn mouth.

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Speaker 1: You're out of this one, all right.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why y'all got to tell everything.

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Speaker 2: No, just be quiet. You'd have made the mistaken and

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Speaker 2: went over the girl house. Y'all have been.

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Speaker 3: At it again. Shut up, let it go. Why did

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Speaker 3: y'all have to talk? I don't understand that.

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Speaker 4: Shut up, it's the same reason you have shut off. Well,

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Speaker 4: let's shut up. Lying and talking too much is too

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Speaker 4: damn too totally different things. We lie out of necessity,

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Speaker 4: ain'tybody ask?

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Speaker 3: Y'all walk ahead and tell the damn truth.

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Speaker 1: That's on.

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Speaker 3: Why Sir.

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Speaker 1: Frisia in Dover says, my husband told me that he

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Speaker 1: didn't mind if I got breast in plants as long

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Speaker 1: as he got to pick the sides. I don't want

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Speaker 1: the big ones that he wants me to have. So

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Speaker 1: should I be honest with him or go ahead and

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Speaker 1: get the sea cup that I want and deal with

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Speaker 1: him later?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you're gonna put something on. You don't want this.

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Speaker 2: You're crazy you're already married to him.

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Speaker 3: Me is stupid. He'd have put something over here.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna be crushing beer cans with your breasts if

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Speaker 2: you listening to him.

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Speaker 3: Stop that girl talk to It's gotta make sense.

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Speaker 2: That's what's happening with these women going here asking these

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Speaker 2: men about these bb ls.

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Speaker 3: That's why these assers and got out of control.

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Speaker 2: Right now, y'all walking down here in the sugar ice

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Speaker 2: cream cone? Yeah, you know them little waffle cones. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: listen to the great, big old ass. A little bitty thighs

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Speaker 2: can't even hold that much tail up this. That's why

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Speaker 2: y'all be listening to me. You can't get the big

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Speaker 2: ones in you little Just gotta make sense. Ask the

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Speaker 2: doctor what he thinks.

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Speaker 3: Damn. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So just you're you're suggesting and agreeing with her that

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Speaker 1: she should just get the smaller size that she wants

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Speaker 1: because it's her body anyway. Okay, all right, last one.

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Speaker 1: Huh no, I'm sorry. Moving on to uh Davion in

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Speaker 1: Fort Lauderdale debian says, I'm a painter, and I went

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Speaker 1: to do a job at one of my buddy's house

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Speaker 1: and his lady friend was walking around in her bra

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Speaker 1: and panties. I was uncomfortable and I told him. He

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Speaker 1: told me that's because I want her. How did he

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Speaker 1: jump to that conclusion?

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Speaker 3: What? What? And okay, this is crazy all of us,

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Speaker 3: all the men went.

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Speaker 1: Why No, Okay, so I'm gonna I'm gonna say it again.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it again because it's crazy. Davion is

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Speaker 1: a painter. He went to do a job at one

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Speaker 1: of his buddy's house and his lady's friend was his

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Speaker 1: lady friend was walking around in her bra and panties.

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Speaker 1: He said he was uncomfortable and he told him, Uh,

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Speaker 1: the guy told him that that's because he wants her.

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Speaker 1: How did he jump to that conclusion? So he went

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Speaker 1: to paint the guy's house. The guy's woman was walking

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Speaker 1: rounding her bron pennies and the painter was uncomfortable, so

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Speaker 1: he told his friend about it.

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Speaker 3: He told the guy about.

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Speaker 1: It who he was doing the job for, and the

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Speaker 1: guy said, that's because you want her. And he's trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out how in the world did he come

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Speaker 1: to that conclusion.

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Speaker 2: Well, these are some swinging right here. Well you over

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Speaker 2: at the house, and then that was the selling tool.

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Speaker 2: And then he goes. That's cause you want him. Now

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Speaker 2: any other man the hell you mean you looking at

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Speaker 2: my wife walking around the house, it would have been

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Speaker 2: all other. But how where the question come from? That's

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Speaker 2: cause you want him? See all that's a set up question.

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Speaker 2: Y'all got to know what's happening here now, and then

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Speaker 2: you gonna say, well, damn, she and my face dog,

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Speaker 2: I'm just letting you know.

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Speaker 3: Well do you want him?

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Speaker 2: Naw? We fin to get into what it's all about

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Speaker 2: right here. See, you ain't finn to just be a painter.

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Speaker 2: You finish be a poem starle You finna be on

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Speaker 2: film though, ye?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so much.

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Speaker 2: She's walking around, start watching she advertising? Should she advertised?

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Speaker 2: Because that's what he likes. He's he likes to watch

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Speaker 2: people with his girl. So now he just set the

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Speaker 2: painting up. Now you're gonna be over there. He's gonna

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Speaker 2: be in the corner drink and strawberry lemon ade watching

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Speaker 2: y'all that what that what didn't have it?

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Speaker 3: Y'all? Let that let that job go. Pardon yeah, just

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Speaker 3: walk yeah.

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Speaker 2: Because you're finna be a world in trouble right here.

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Speaker 2: Your painting Unless you're gonna paint naked unless you're gonna

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Speaker 2: paint naked and going on.

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Speaker 3: We're all in there now.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like he is though he's uncomfortable. He

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Speaker 1: already said he's uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather be known as a sex symbol or

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Speaker 1: would you rather be known as the funniest man?

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Speaker 3: Or I'll be beaten because I ain't gonna be no

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Speaker 3: sex someone that was his body. I missed that. I

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Speaker 3: missed that train. I'm not gonna beat that. I am

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Speaker 3: a sex symbol. I can't get rid of it, but

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Speaker 3: you can't help.

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Speaker 2: I know I can't get rid of that, and that

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Speaker 2: right there is the funniest thing you moran.

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Speaker 3: Steve Harby Morning Show coming up right after