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Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser Podcast, Glaser, here's Nikki.

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Speaker 2: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's a

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Speaker 2: Nicky Glaizer podcast. My mom is in studio today.

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Speaker 3: Hi Nikki, Hi my everybody.

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Speaker 2: Hiver animal print? Yeah, Brian Franie's here, Noah's here?

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Speaker 4: Was that song and one point one speed? Or am

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Speaker 4: I going insane?

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Speaker 2: One point one?

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Speaker 4: Did that feel like it was slightly faster?

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Speaker 2: Like one tenth faster.

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Speaker 4: I just I feel like I'm losing my mind.

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Speaker 2: I mean that is really an imperceptible amount of speed.

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Speaker 2: More like, I feel like you start to notice when

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Speaker 2: it's one point twenty five. But below that, I think

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Speaker 2: you could trick everyone, except when you're listening to comedy

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Speaker 2: because last go ha, like people's like when you're listening

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Speaker 2: to stand up because I always speed it up and

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Speaker 2: then the laughter sounds and saying that.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like everyone's just making fun of the comedian. Real funny.

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Speaker 3: I do like listening to fast forward on podcasts. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: get those done.

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Speaker 2: Get them done, get them done, get information in fast

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Speaker 2: And there's.

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Speaker 3: No reason to listen to somebody hesitate.

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Speaker 2: No, because that would build suspense, and who needs that

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Speaker 2: in this kind of world? I need to know what's

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Speaker 2: gonna happen right now. Tell me I don't need any

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Speaker 2: kind of I can't even like I sometimes will see

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Speaker 2: stand ups that have really pregnant pauses in between jokes,

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Speaker 2: and I just cannot.

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Speaker 3: Well, they're waiting for a laugh.

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Speaker 2: No, they're not like the laugh. They let the laughter

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Speaker 2: die down and then they take a sip of water

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Speaker 2: and then they like hold for a beat. And it's

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Speaker 2: like very impressive to me because I'm desperate to ever

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Speaker 2: have any moment where anyone can start letting in the

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Speaker 2: thought she sucks. So if I keep dancing, no one

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Speaker 2: ever thinks she's ugly and she sucks. And that's why

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Speaker 2: you keep That's why I talk so much, is because

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Speaker 2: you don't let anyone in to have the because when

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Speaker 2: there's silence, there's thoughts.

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Speaker 3: I got you. Yeah. Now I feel like I talk

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Speaker 3: too much? When and is that? What was that directed

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Speaker 3: at me?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 5: No, okay, are you a comedian that has pausitive?

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Speaker 4: Is there anything more vulnerable than taking a drink of

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Speaker 4: water while you're doing stand up?

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Speaker 2: I literally have never once sipped from water on stage.

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Speaker 2: And I go on stage sometimes for an hour and

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Speaker 2: thirty minutes, and I have never once taken a sip

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Speaker 2: of water because even though I've desperately needed it, because

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Speaker 2: I do, I don't want anyone to have a moment

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Speaker 2: to hate me.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it really is. That's insane.

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Speaker 2: If you also, when I say good night, I am

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Speaker 2: instantly walking off the stage. I do a thing now

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Speaker 2: where I'll wave and I'll try to linger, but I

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Speaker 2: am walking as I wave. I would never just stand

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Speaker 2: there and take it in because that's the other time.

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Speaker 5: For people to think, what are they gonna do?

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Speaker 2: That wasn't as good as I wanted it to be?

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Speaker 3: Like are they going to slow down on the class?

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Speaker 2: Or I might see them like getting up and starting

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Speaker 2: to talk amongst themselves about me, Like I just don't

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Speaker 2: want to hear any feedback that I might not they

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Speaker 2: might not like me, And so I just run off

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Speaker 2: stage instantly. People like stand out there and bask in it.

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Speaker 2: I could never ever do that. I'm like Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 2: I want that Florida open up and just to fall

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Speaker 2: underneath it. I don't even like to walk. That is

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Speaker 2: my dream is lowered.

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Speaker 6: Where people are specifically buying tickets for your show, They're

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Speaker 6: not just like showing up to comedy club but the roster.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: It's been like this for years, and I will never

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Speaker 2: lose the feeling that I'm not good, and you don't

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Speaker 2: want me to lose that. I'm listening to my fans

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Speaker 2: who love me so much and want me to have

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Speaker 2: self esteem. No, you don't. You don't want me to

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Speaker 2: get used to it or think that I'm cool or

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Speaker 2: For me, I think there are some comedians that can

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Speaker 2: like themselves and still be funny, but not me. I

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Speaker 2: need to be desperate for your approval Otherwise the second

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Speaker 2: I have I start going like I'm amazing and like

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Speaker 2: I feel, it shifts and I get less funny. And

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Speaker 2: we've seen it with like the best comedians that have

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Speaker 2: because their audiences just applaud everything they say. They stop

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Speaker 2: trying because you don't need to try. Its hard when

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Speaker 2: everyone likes you for no reason because.

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Speaker 3: Your face, well, you got to try to get better always.

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Speaker 2: You just have to keep hating, finding new ways to

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Speaker 2: hate yourself and be disappointed in yourself.

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Speaker 3: Hurt it like that but I get it. I end

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Speaker 3: up sharing that there.

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Speaker 4: Was another way. I mean, I guess if you're so famous,

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Speaker 4: if you're like Seinfeld or something, and everybody knows you,

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Speaker 4: then it's hard. But like if you just make an

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Speaker 4: effort to go out and perform in front of groups

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Speaker 4: of people that aren't your fans, I think that helps too.

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Speaker 2: That Yeah, that's good, and I do do.

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Speaker 5: I do do.

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Speaker 2: That a lot. I do sets all the time when

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Speaker 2: I'm in LA and people know who I am and

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Speaker 2: are excited to see me. But I never but I

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Speaker 2: literally never even think about my audience as like because

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Speaker 2: I think about of course, I think about the people

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Speaker 2: of mine, but I think about the guy they brought

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Speaker 2: with them who's never heard of me, or the woman

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Speaker 2: that I met this weekend who said I had never

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Speaker 2: heard of you before and now I'm a fan. Like

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Speaker 2: I think about those people that kind of have to

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Speaker 2: be sold on me and are kind of like or

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Speaker 2: the people that are expecting me to have like the

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Speaker 2: kind of tight roast set that I had at tom Brady,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm thinking, oh, I'm going to disappoint those people

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Speaker 2: because they expect me to like roast the front row,

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Speaker 2: and I'm not going to do that. Down road there's

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Speaker 2: I always am feeling like I'm disappointing people. But I

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Speaker 2: think it's good.

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Speaker 4: You could throw one roast in there just to you

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Speaker 4: just say like you look like a pig or whatever

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Speaker 4: and then move on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that'll be great.

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Speaker 2: Is if I look at them, then I then I

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Speaker 2: will see them, and I can't see their faces because

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Speaker 2: if I see that they're not having fun or like

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Speaker 2: they're looking at their phone or something, I will take

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Speaker 2: it too personally and I'll derail my set. So in

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Speaker 2: order to roast them, I have to look at them,

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Speaker 2: but I blur my eyes.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you said you can do that, and so.

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Speaker 2: I don't see anyone. And I hope you don't take

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Speaker 2: that offensively. If you're like someone who comes to my

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Speaker 2: like I go to Taylor Shop shows, there's no part

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Speaker 2: of me that's like she saw me, Like I've lost

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Speaker 2: that kind of That was like a hope I had

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Speaker 2: when I saw Dave Matthews in high school.

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Speaker 5: Now as a performer, I know you don't really.

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Speaker 2: You can't and she doesn't people and goes, I love

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Speaker 2: your outfit like she does look at people, but but

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Speaker 2: she's just like, I'm not going to get seen by

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Speaker 2: Taylor Ship. So if you're going to my show to

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Speaker 2: get seen by me, I'm so sorry. Just DM me,

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Speaker 2: I'll like your thing, or like, post a picture of me,

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Speaker 2: and I'll DM you back thank you, and I will

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Speaker 2: totally see you then. Yeah, but that's all I can

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Speaker 2: meet and greets. I don't do that no more.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so proud of you forgiving those up.

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Speaker 2: I see. So I put the mandate out for no

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Speaker 2: more meet and greets after the roast because I was

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Speaker 2: just adding all these dates, and Chris and I have

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Speaker 2: been talking about like for safety measures and just for

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Speaker 2: It's just too much and it's just it's exhausting, and

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Speaker 2: because I like to give it my all and I

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Speaker 2: actually do have fun at them, but like you can't.

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Speaker 2: You can't keep doing things just because they're fun. Yes,

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Speaker 2: my ass has been slightly graised by someone who my

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I like the roast you did tonight was a little

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Speaker 2: bit different, but you did good kid like that. I

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Speaker 2: have had enough of that. I will miss meeting so many.

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Speaker 3: People people it's so much fun to be so.

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Speaker 2: Fun, but it is tiring, and it's you know, if

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Speaker 2: that's you can't keep going to raves your whole life.

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Speaker 2: You might be someone who used to like go to

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Speaker 2: raves or go out to parties. Like you could argue

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Speaker 2: that's fun. Why don't you keep doing that? Like because

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Speaker 2: meet and greets aren't fun because I think a lot

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Speaker 2: like you know that, I'm not faking that.

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Speaker 5: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: Like I met this weekend. There was a bestie that's

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Speaker 2: listened to every show. I was so excited to meet her.

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Speaker 2: I met, you know, we met what's her name, Renee

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Speaker 2: at Eras in Indie. I was so excited to meet her.

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Speaker 2: Please find me you know who she was? By chance,

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Speaker 2: if she would have said, I'm Renee Guitar, okay, I

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Speaker 2: commented on her name when she's been in the lives

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Speaker 2: watching me play guitar. I'm like, your name's guitar. Please

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Speaker 2: don't judge me. I'm so sorry to bastardize your last name.

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Speaker 2: And so I would have known, but she just said Renee,

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Speaker 3: She's someone with the guy that was in the text,

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Speaker 3: and that's her husband. And she wrote to me laughing

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Speaker 3: so much because she was like, that's so funny. You

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Speaker 3: thought he was gay.

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Speaker 5: It's oh, like, yeah, I said it on.

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Speaker 2: The show that I was unclear of if it was

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Speaker 2: her husband or a gay her gay friend.

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Speaker 3: But he's just a.

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Speaker 2: It was he is her husband. And she took no

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Speaker 2: offense and as why but by the way, why would

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Speaker 2: anyone take offense to being thought that they were gay?

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Speaker 2: Like that shouldn't be something that people go, Oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: so sorry. I thought you were gay. Being gay is awesome.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 5: I'm done apologizing.

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Speaker 2: If something I think someone's gay and they're not, that

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Speaker 2: is that's insulting to gay.

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Speaker 3: It could be insulting to him because he's why why

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Speaker 3: do I look so femin you do? I look feminine?

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Speaker 5: But why is that a bad thing?

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Speaker 3: I don't. Macho men don't like that.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm nominated for Best Traditional R and B Album.

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Speaker 5: It's an audio album.

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Speaker 5: You just thought I was getting a Grammy for my special.

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Speaker 5: Albums comedy album.

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Speaker 5: Go eight or nine.

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Speaker 2: they were, because I probably would have gotten away with

443
00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:27,800
Speaker 2: saying that if it was our close I never I

444
00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,480
Speaker 2: don't think it was the first time I'd ever used

445
00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,280
Speaker 2: the word, but I wasn't trying to be indecent. I

446
00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,480
Speaker 2: was just trying not to say penis because I knew

447
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,119
Speaker 2: penis was a bad word, but I was trying to

448
00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,040
Speaker 2: come up with a different word. And then another time

449
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,160
Speaker 2: and you were like nicky, and I remember being like, oh,

450
00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:42,960
Speaker 2: that's a bad word.

451
00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:44,920
Speaker 5: Cannot ever say dick ever, ever, ever.

452
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,960
Speaker 2: And then another time I was talking about someone in

453
00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,119
Speaker 2: our memory, Well, no, I have memories of when I've

454
00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,200
Speaker 2: been like when people go nick like you have memories

455
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:56,159
Speaker 2: of when someone shamed you about something you've done. You

456
00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:01,000
Speaker 2: definitely carry childhood memories of that. Maybe yeah, you and

457
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:05,359
Speaker 2: everyone's memories. People go you whenever someone This is just

458
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,200
Speaker 2: a note. When someone remembers something that you don't, it's

459
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 2: not because you have a bad memory.

460
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,520
Speaker 5: Anya does this all the time. I'll say I remember something.

461
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:12,679
Speaker 5: She goes, you have the best.

462
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 2: Memory, and I go, no, I remember that because it

463
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 2: was emotionally disturbing to me in some way. You don't

464
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,880
Speaker 2: remember it because it wasn't like it's not you remember,

465
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 2: but you remember emotionally. I remember, but I've told you

466
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:25,879
Speaker 2: about it.

467
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of it. But as soon as you

468
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:27,880
Speaker 3: said it, I.

469
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,600
Speaker 2: Was like, but another time I told our we were

470
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,199
Speaker 2: talking about someone in your friend group and you were

471
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 2: complaining about him, and I said, he's such a prick,

472
00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 2: and you guys were like, you do not say and

473
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,679
Speaker 2: I go, but you do. It just sense to me.

474
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:45,119
Speaker 2: But I wasn't like, ooh, yeah, I'm gonna keep saying that.

475
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 2: Like I never understood kids that like were bad and

476
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,919
Speaker 2: would I would never cuss on purpose whenever I got

477
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 2: trouble for cussing it.

478
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 3: That's probably why I was like, Niki, you know, yeah,

479
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:56,200
Speaker 3: because I was not a bad kid.

480
00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 2: I wasn't like, ooh, I learned a word that makes

481
00:20:58,200 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 2: mommy mad, Like.

482
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 3: No, you never came up with words like that. I was.

483
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 3: I'm shocked when I'm sure.

484
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:07,359
Speaker 2: Like Don Johnson was just talking about Dakota Johnson, his daughter,

485
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 2: who was a famous actress, and they were on Kimmel

486
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 2: and they were he was asking her, like what was

487
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 2: she like as a kid, And he was like, you

488
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,919
Speaker 2: couldn't leave your phone out around her because she would

489
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 2: pick someone in your contacts and just send them a

490
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 2: text message of filthy things.

491
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

492
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 2: And I was like, I would have been so trouble.

493
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 2: I would have never done something like that. And I

494
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:28,880
Speaker 2: wish there was a part of me that was, like, God,

495
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 2: I wish it was. I was like more of an

496
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,400
Speaker 2: interesting kid like Dakota.

497
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 3: That's a really bad child, really, but that's cool.

498
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 2: I think that's a cool story. That's colorful, like gives

499
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 2: you ad idea of what kind of kids she was.

500
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 2: I was just like picking my nose and had buck

501
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 2: teeth and was kind of just like what, I'm just

502
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,120
Speaker 2: staring at things and like.

503
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:48,720
Speaker 4: And this nose.

504
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 5: All the time.

505
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 2: Because you guys, smoked inside, no big deal, just the

506
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 2: reason my whole childhood. But if we don't know why

507
00:21:56,080 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 2: she did, and then Nick comes up smoke, give me

508
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 2: a break. You guys didn't know the eighties, no one knew.

509
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,360
Speaker 3: Thank got I smoke anymore.

510
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 5: Thank god.

511
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll be coming, We'll be coming right back up

512
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: to this thing. Yeah, you don't smoke anymore. You haven't

513
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: smoked for how long.

514
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,919
Speaker 3: It's been almost thirteen years.

515
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 2: That's so good, So proud of you.

516
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, dammage is done.

517
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 4: I know your lungs regenerate after ten years. They're like

518
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 4: new lungs.

519
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 3: I do get them checked every year.

520
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 4: I get it and they're not good.

521
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 3: They're actually they're good, right, they're good. It's like shock,

522
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 3: so excited every time I get that X RAM.

523
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 5: Like, so, kids, you don't need to quit smoking.

524
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 2: You don't need fifties or whatever.

525
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 6: It was.

526
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 2: No, it's some I've actually I have a friend who smokes,

527
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 2: and recently I've been really stressed on the road, and

528
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 2: I was like, I just want I want to be bad,

529
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 2: Like I want to just do something bad.

530
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 3: Could be tempting you.

531
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 2: And I asked him for a cigarette and I took

532
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: like tupuffs and was like, this is fucking disgusting. And

533
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: then I did it again a couple weeks later and

534
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 2: felt the same way, and it was like, this is fucking disgusting,

535
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 2: and it was so great to know that I can

536
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: just like, do it feel a little bit bad and

537
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: go yeah and walk away like I used to always think, oh,

538
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 2: you'll get sucked back in. I don't recommend that for

539
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 2: people who miss smoking a lot. I don't miss it.

540
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 2: I don't think about it a lot. It's been for

541
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: me fifteen years if it's been thirteen for you. So

542
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 2: so I was ready to just like test the waters.

543
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 2: And it makes me think that I could probably have

544
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 2: a glass of wine and be like, I don't need

545
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 2: more than this.

546
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 5: But I don't want to test that one.

547
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 3: Because I think you'd be fine.

548
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 5: I know I have a lot of self control.

549
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,120
Speaker 2: I think you are because I won't do anything that's

550
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: going to fuck with my career.

551
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that made me a great decision when you

552
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 3: made it.

553
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 2: I was so proud of My health doesn't matter my career.

554
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 2: Your career the only thing that I care about, truly.

555
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 2: If you tell me if you want me to stop these,

556
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 2: if you will behavior and say you will not, you

557
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: will be less successful in your career if you do this,

558
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: I'll stop doing that. And in a fucking heartbeat, and

559
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 2: if you but there are also things that if I

560
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 2: would be more successful if I did it, and I

561
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 2: don't do. But I will say if something I'm doing

562
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 2: is going to make me less, I will stop it.

563
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: But nothing else will get me to stop it. Not

564
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 2: my health, my or vanity will too. Health.

565
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 3: As you get older, you realize, oh my god, it's

566
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 3: I used to laugh at that when people go well,

567
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 3: at least you got your health. It's like, what, who

568
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 3: gives a shit about health? You know, it's all about

569
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 3: anything else?

570
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 2: And you start feeling bad, and I realize how bad

571
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: it feels to feel bad.

572
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, have bad health.

573
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, you just gotta.

574
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

575
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 2: Brian's had struggles too with pain and stuff. Yeah, I

576
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 2: mean matters.

577
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 3: But as a teenager, if you ever thought, at this

578
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 3: age you are that i'd be you know, you'd struggle

579
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 3: with pain like Brian. Would you have thought there's no way,

580
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 3: who cares? You know, you just wouldn't think that.

581
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 4: When I was a teenager, I had IBS and I

582
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 4: would go to the hospital like every four months. Oh

583
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 4: so I was like that I was pain.

584
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you poor thing that's gone? Now what

585
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 3: is it? I mean, it just goes away or you've

586
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 3: got it under control?

587
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,679
Speaker 4: No I did. I cured it with the d NRS program.

588
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 4: Now I have no IBS at all.

589
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the DNRS program.

590
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 4: The d NRS program.

591
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 3: Would you like to.

592
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 4: Just a test if diet it's psychosomatic? I mean, IBS

593
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 4: is a psychosomatic disorder. It is not is it is

594
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 4: due to stress, anxiety and emotions. And I cured it.

595
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 4: I thought. I went to all these doctors. I went

596
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 4: to you know, all these specialists who did all these

597
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 4: tests on me, all these genetic tests, and you know,

598
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 4: I sent my shit. I froze it and sent it

599
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 4: to Texas and they did tests on that. And everyone

600
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 4: tried to give me different pills and make me do

601
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 4: different things, and nothing worked. The only thing that worked

602
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,959
Speaker 4: was realizing that it was my brain that was creating

603
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 4: the pain. And through the d n R S for

604
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 4: an other things, I was able to get rid of

605
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 4: it completely. I can meet whatever I want with no pain.

606
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 4: So if you have IBS out there, bothers, you can

607
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 4: cure it.

608
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: To be being told that their brain is causing the pain.

609
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 2: But the truth is the no matter if you break

610
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 2: a bone, your brain is what's sending the pain signal. Right,

611
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 2: So it's like it doesn't matter if it's your emotions

612
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 2: or stress causing you pain. Your pain's still valid. We

613
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 2: still feel sorry for you, you still feel it should

614
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: get all the sympathy in the world. But because we

615
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: don't give people with mental illness sympathy like we do

616
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 2: people with a cancer or a disease a physical disease.

617
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 2: And by the way, a brain is a physical thing,

618
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 2: so there is a physical element to diseases. It's just

619
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 2: on a like a you know, like you're if you're

620
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: if you have bipolar, there's something in your brain that's

621
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 2: doing something different than other people's brain, or if you're

622
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 2: like have OCD, like your brain literally there probably is

623
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 2: a physical thing going on in your brain. Don't you

624
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 2: think it's not just all well, your.

625
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 4: Brain controls everything in your body, so your brain is physical.

626
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 2: Symptoms, neurons are physical. It's not like you have to.

627
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 4: Rewire the neuropathic pathways.

628
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 2: So, but we need to like change the way we

629
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 2: talk about psychosomatic things as like it's your feelings, because

630
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: that like makes people, that turns people off of like

631
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 2: ever accepting it. We have to just say it's your brain.

632
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 2: Your brain is doing something is causing the pain, Like

633
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 2: your brain is doing a physical thing that's causing the pain.

634
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 2: So if you really want to focus on a physical

635
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 2: thing that's going wrong, it's in your brain.

636
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 3: And then you got to talk your brain out of

637
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 3: that physical And the treatment is, yeah, you.

638
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 4: Gotta have to train it. You have to you have

639
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 4: to have new you have to develop new pathways that

640
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 4: are positive as opposed to negative due to your triggers

641
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 4: and things like that. They call it like a learned

642
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 4: brain injury. They call it retraining your brain.

643
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 2: Was it like overnight with you doing this dion RS

644
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 2: stuff or was it.

645
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 4: A gradual For the IBS, it was I knew that

646
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 4: it was my brain. I knew that it wasn't what

647
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 4: I was eating. And then I just I saw some

648
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 4: like slideshow or something online that someone put on the

649
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 4: slide show. It's not your diet. It's not your diet.

650
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 4: No matter what you're thinking, the one thing that's true

651
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 4: is that it's not your diets. Then I just kept

652
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 4: thinking that. And then whenever once I realized that whenever

653
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 4: I saw food that I was like scared was going

654
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 4: to cause some huge reaction, I would eat double and

655
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 4: it would be really horrible. For about two and a

656
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,719
Speaker 4: half months, I would be like, oh, I can't have

657
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 4: fu because that'll give me horrible stomach cramps. And then

658
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 4: I'd like, well, now that I've thought that, I'm gonna

659
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 4: eat double pha, And then I would eat double Pha

660
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 4: and I would be in horrible pain, but I would

661
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 4: just keep going. And then after two more months of

662
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 4: doing that, the pain just went away.

663
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 3: Wait, you ate double fuck just test it.

664
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like going again. It's like your your

665
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 4: brain develops a negative association with the food that cause

666
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,479
Speaker 4: you symptoms and it and so when you eat them,

667
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 4: you're like scared. You're like scared to eat them, and

668
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 4: that causes your brain to be like this is dangerous.

669
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 4: You shouldn't eat this, and then it gives you horrible symptoms.

670
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 4: And it's the more you practice, But.

671
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 2: Why would you do well, that's it's the backbook where

672
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 2: they say if you if you have back pain, instead

673
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 2: of every time you bend down and.

674
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 5: You have that like and you braceport, you go, just

675
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 5: do do the keep doing those motions.

676
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: Don't avoid moving in ways that make your body pain

677
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: up here, because when you avoid it, you're causing the

678
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: stress of oh, this is gonna hurt, and that feeling

679
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: of it's gonna hurt causes the hurt because it's the

680
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 2: hurt is caused from stress. So you're you're the stress

681
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 2: over the pain is causing the pain.

682
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 5: Practicing do those moves a lot.

683
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 4: When you do, when you bend over and you go, oh,

684
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 4: this causes back pain, you're just practicing that pathway in

685
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 4: your brain that leads to pain.

686
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

687
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like learning a scale on an instrument.

688
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: Right, So you're you're practicing your brain learning. This isn't

689
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 2: about the movement, This isn't about the movement. This is

690
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: this is in my head. So when you do the

691
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 2: painful thing, you tell yourself this is it's not the

692
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 2: movement that's causing this.

693
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 5: It's not the movement.

694
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 4: That's right. And you can go even further and instead

695
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 4: of saying it's not the movement that's causing this, you

696
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 4: can make it a positive association. Righty, it's even stronger.

697
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 4: And you just practice that over and over again until

698
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 4: you start acting normal.

699
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: And what's the positive association?

700
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 5: Give us one.

701
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 4: So, like the DNRS program, you do these things called

702
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 4: rounds where you will trigger yourself exposure therapy to something

703
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 4: like if it's your back you're bending over, it's a

704
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 4: food you'll have a little bit of the food and

705
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 4: then you put yourself in a Basically it's kind of

706
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 4: like a meditation, but you do these positive associations where

707
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 4: you think about positive memories and you let yourself feel

708
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 4: calm and positive, and you put yourself in that space

709
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 4: after exposing yourself to the thing that causes you problems,

710
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 4: and over the course of many, many rounds and a

711
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 4: lot of time and a lot of practice, eventually it's

712
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 4: a stronger pathway to go to the positive thing than

713
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 4: to the negative thing, and your brain will automatically do

714
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 4: that without even trying, not having.

715
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 5: To think about it.

716
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

717
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 2: Wow, it's like how I've been using sleigh recently without

718
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: having to try. So Emily has taught me all of

719
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 2: these gen z terms like sleigh dead, Oh that slaps

720
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 2: and you're killing it? Yeah, oh my god, that's oh

721
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: sleigh sleigh please, like not you wearing animal print today,

722
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 2: like things, phrases like that. I So Chris and I

723
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: like didn't really talk that much for about a month

724
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 2: and a half because he was so busy on his

725
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: work thing. We would like text like I love you,

726
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: I missed you, like quick things, and over that month

727
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: and a half. I've just hung out with Emily so

728
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 2: much that my I've started talking differently. Like at first

729
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: I would intentionally write to her like, oh, that's slagh,

730
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: like I would like almost jokingly, like, oh, Mickey's using

731
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: this and we all know like my struggle with these words.

732
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: But I have recently been saying sleigh sincerely and slaps

733
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: without having to think about it. But it's just a

734
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 2: part of my slaps is like that fucking cool that kills,

735
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 2: Oh that slapped, that song slaps, And it doesn't sound

736
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 2: weird to me when I say it, like in my head,

737
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm sure to others.

738
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 5: But the other other day, I was talking about.

739
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 2: A uh god, I guess, oh, the the cold open

740
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 2: for SNL after the election, and I was telling Chris, oh,

741
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: my god, the Cold Open fucking slade, and I could

742
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: tell like right after I went right back to like

743
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: millennials speak with him like hardcore, because I'm like, I

744
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 2: don't want him to think like I've changed since we've

745
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 2: been on this kind of like because I would have

746
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 2: been if he would have said slavest man, like who

747
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 2: are you fucking who taught you slaves? And why are

748
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 2: you using it? Like it's a normal thing and it's

749
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 2: not ironic. But yeah, I think that you. I think

750
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: that's like anything in life, like no matter how much

751
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: I think, it won't work, Like this sounds like it

752
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 2: won't work, you know, like, oh, you have to make

753
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: new If I keep telling myself I love myself, then

754
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: I won't even have to tell myself that I love myself.

755
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 2: I just will Like that just sounds like hogwash and

756
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: it's and it's or I'll bend over in this way

757
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: that has hurt me for years and years. Yes, Emily

758
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 2: has not approved of that. Mad a phrase does not

759
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: slap that sucks.

760
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: Wait.

761
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 2: By the way, Emily said that the word cool is

762
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: not used by gen z. Literally cool is like unused.

763
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: What about awesome?

764
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: And she said that, wait, no awesome. She was like, no,

765
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 2: I don't make sure to approve of awesome either.

766
00:33:58,320 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

767
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,239
Speaker 2: She also is like, stops saying thanks. She was like,

768
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: she didn't say stop, but she was like, you're adorable

769
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: when you write thanks with two exclamation marks. Like she

770
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: was like, you always say that. It just sounds like too.

771
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 2: She's like, it just is like it's just giving. I

772
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 2: forget what she said. It was giving. It was just

773
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 2: trying to order or she goes, I go, well, then

774
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: what do you do? I want to be sincere and

775
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 2: I want to let people know I'm very grateful for

776
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 2: what they just did for me via text. And she

777
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 2: said t y in all caps, a space and then

778
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 2: a double exclamation mark. So that's no effort to me,

779
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 2: less caps.

780
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then it's space and then double exclamation the

781
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 4: space I.

782
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 2: Don't understand or a gay A gay man can and

783
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with that, not that there's anything wrong

784
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 2: with that. We're getting back to Seinfeld. Seinfeld always did

785
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: everything first. But yeah, I was thinking about Yeah, just

786
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 2: the you can't even imagine that you will get used

787
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: to something, or when you first start working out and

788
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: it hurts so much and you're like, I'll never be

789
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 2: strong enough to do this, where it's there's just I

790
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 2: don't what is it about our human brains that just

791
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 2: have no faith in ourselves for like learning new habits.

792
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 2: It's happened to me, But your whole life is just

793
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: a bunch of habits, habits that have turned into your personality.

794
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 2: But for some reason, when you start a new one,

795
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 2: you just go it won't stick, it's never going to

796
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: and it eventually does Sean O'Connor. Because he has had

797
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 2: to take flights so often to be on the road

798
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: with me, he is terrified of flying.

799
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 3: Okay.

800
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: He has to have a special shirt that he brings

801
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 2: with him, not that he wears, that he brings with him.

802
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,919
Speaker 2: That's like a good luck shirt. That's like a thing.

803
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 2: And he and I'm always worried about him when he's

804
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: flying out because I'm like, God, you're just like on

805
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: the plane. I don't want to white knuckling, like a

806
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 2: five hour flight and sometimes there's turbulence, and I just

807
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 2: want him to understand.

808
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 5: Like it's it's okay.

809
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 2: But he says it's gotten so much better because he

810
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: just has to do it a bunch and there's no choice,

811
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 2: you're forced. Then he says his anxiety is way less,

812
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 2: and I'm so happy to hear that, because but it

813
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 2: can't not be.

814
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 3: What does he do with that shirt? Does he cover

815
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 3: his head with it?

816
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 2: I think it's just like has to be all like

817
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 2: in his bag or something. It just has to be

818
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: with him. Do you guys have any superstitions like that?

819
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 4: I mean, I knock on wood all the time whenever

820
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 4: I say something that's gonna happen.

821
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you find wood?

822
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 4: I find wood. It must be wood. I don't accept

823
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 4: if someone knocks on their head and goes, oh, this

824
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 4: is wood and it's like, that's not wood, that's bone

825
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 4: and hair.

826
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: I agree with you. I was on a red carpet

827
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 2: once and said something that made me feel like I

828
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 2: jinxed myself. So I said, oh my god, I have

829
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 2: to knock on wood. And there was no wood anywhere

830
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 2: near red carpet. So I had to run off the

831
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 2: red carpet to like go find a floorboard that was

832
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 2: like in a bathroom off the.

833
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: That's the hall that.

834
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: We were in. But it was because even the girl

835
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: was like, you got to knock on wood, and I

836
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 2: was like, oh fuck, you're right, Like I can't screw

837
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: myself over like that.

838
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 4: And sometimes see things that are that are fake wood

839
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 4: and you think they're real wood and you knock on

840
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 4: that you wait a second, this is just plastic. This

841
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 4: isn't real wood.

842
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 3: Yeah.

843
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 2: I always worry about the wood has a varnish. Does

844
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 2: that keep you from the wood because you're not knocking

845
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 2: on varyeah, but the wood is vibrating. Yeah, that's vibrating.

846
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,720
Speaker 4: Okay, that's okay, that's okay. Sometimes I'm in the woods

847
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh, I got a knock on wood,

848
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 4: and I look around like there's no wood around, and

849
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 4: then I realize that trees are wood.

850
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 2: You forget, Yeah, so quickly we forget. No, do you

851
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 2: have any superstisions?

852
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: No? I don't.

853
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 6: I mean they don't pop up into my head. I

854
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 6: just feel like, whatever happens happens. There's it's out of

855
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 6: my control.

856
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, that's.

857
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 4: Bullshit.

858
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 2: No, it's it's true. The illusion that you have any

859
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,879
Speaker 2: control over the way that your life is.

860
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 4: Going to No, no, no, if you knock on wood,

861
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 4: you will have control.

862
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,280
Speaker 3: Everything will be okay.

863
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 2: I do want to believe in manifestation, but I'm I

864
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: saw a thing about one of my favorite you know

865
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: uh guys that made manifestation almost about like science that

866
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 2: I really believed.

867
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 5: I even bought Dad his book.

868
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: And then I saw a podcast and listen to a

869
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: podcasts that he's like a quack, Joe Despenser, and that he's.

870
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 4: Just he's that quack.

871
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,360
Speaker 2: I was really into what he was putting out for

872
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 2: a while, and that's and you know, well.

873
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 3: Why are you saying that out loud. You could be introuble.

874
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 2: Because but there's art. I'm saying that I heard something

875
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: that said he was a quack. I think he's a quack.

876
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 3: That I'm making that I'm clarifying that my mom's terrified

877
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 3: canceled because of guy.

878
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 5: Guy might manifest.

879
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 2: If he can really do what he says he can do,

880
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 2: my life could be over very quickly.

881
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 3: Well, you were into manifestation. I know. I know.

882
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 2: I'm still into the the pod. Like when I'm on

883
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 2: a plane and I picture it crashing, I instantly stop

884
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 2: doing that, and then I picture myself landing and being

885
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 2: at the baggage claim board, and it costs me so

886
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 2: much as if you imagine if you manifest being at

887
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 2: the baggage claim in you know, Albany board, that is

888
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 2: where you will be and that will one hundred percent happen,

889
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 2: and you'll go, wow, I manifested it because there's no

890
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 2: other way to be at a baggage claim except board. Which,

891
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: by the way, when I was doing some modeling last

892
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 2: week at a photo shoot, I asked the photographer for

893
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 2: advice about how to model.

894
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 3: Is that what happened? What I have never seen more

895
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 3: beautiful pictures?

896
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 2: Well, I think the photographer was really really really oh

897
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 2: my god, because I didn't bring anything to the table

898
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 2: that was different.

899
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 3: She told me, credible.

900
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 2: You would never think this from a fashion photographer to

901
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 2: give advice on how to look like a great model,

902
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 2: of great high fashion model. My god, this is brilliant

903
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 2: because it is exactly the note. But you would never

904
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 2: you would never give this note. You would never think

905
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 2: she goes bored at a bus stop.

906
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 3: Oh whoa.

907
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 2: And now look at fashion models and they always look

908
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 2: bored at a bus stop. Wow, pissed, angry that the

909
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: bus is late, and bored at a bus stop, and

910
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 2: it it I just.

911
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 5: Would look bored.

912
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:18,760
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

913
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: It was like I was trying too much with my

914
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 2: face before. I feel like I'm You're like even Cara Dellavine.

915
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 2: I remember one time she said, Uh, it's not about

916
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 2: making faces, about.

917
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 5: Like not doing things with your face.

918
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,720
Speaker 2: It's about like an attitude that you exude by thinking

919
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 2: more than like.

920
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 3: More doing your face. Oh yeah, wow, I've never seen

921
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 3: such professional picture.

922
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. I did this photo shoot for this amazing fashion

923
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 2: magazine that I don't think I can talk about yet.

924
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 2: But it was like the highest It was like the

925
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 2: most fashioning thing I've ever done in my life. And

926
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 2: what I felt, imposter syndrome was on fleek that day.

927
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 2: And I know on fleek is not something anyone says anymore,

928
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 2: but it was. I could not believe that I was

929
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 2: in this setting. And then after the day was done,

930
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 2: Emily was like, girl, can I send pictures to your mom?

931
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 2: Because I think she would love these? And I go,

932
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 2: She goes, I know you don't want to see them,

933
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: but I feel like your mom needs to and I

934
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: was like, of course you can. And so she sent

935
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 2: you a bunch of pictures for the day and she

936
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: said that you guys are best friends.

937
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 5: Now, oh god, lover, I guess you don't feel the

938
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 5: same way.

939
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 2: She's listening for her.

940
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 3: I love what she's uh, she's done for you, and

941
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 3: I love that she sent me those pictures.

942
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 2: I was like, friends, but friends, I don't know. She

943
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 2: was like, I love Julie. Like me chat now it's happening.

944
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know we haven't chatted enough. Yeahs, I'm concerned

945
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 3: you should chat more.

946
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 2: She loves you, she loves.

947
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 3: I will I didn't know. That's awesome. Yeah, no, they're

948
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 3: they're they're great pictures. I cannot wait till this comes out.

949
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 3: It's gonna be I thought, well, now you're going into modeling.

950
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,879
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're gonna be a oh

951
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 3: I'm not kidding.

952
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 5: I will say I saw one.

953
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 2: It was really good. Yeah, but really modeling is a

954
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 2: very very hard, and I would not want to do

955
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 2: it because you have zero control.

956
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 5: I just didn't feel control.

957
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 2: It's like you you can't talk. It's like my way

958
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 2: of like being entertaining and feeling like I have any

959
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 2: kind of power control is like talking and like having

960
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 2: words to express myself, like just looks and your body

961
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: and like movement like that's why it's so funny that

962
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 2: like that would be a medium I would ever do

963
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 2: well in. And also like these lip sync videos I've

964
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 2: been doing, like and then Brian saying last week, like

965
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,399
Speaker 2: so you you came up with the choreography, Like that's

966
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: so funny to me because I've never been good at

967
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 2: my body does not it only betrays me. But it

968
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 2: is something that I've thrown myself into every weekend because

969
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 2: it's really fun. I'm just trying to do fun stuff

970
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: that's cool. But the photoshoot was really fun. You just

971
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: blast the music you want to listen to, and then

972
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 2: you have a bunch of people putting things on you,

973
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 2: and you're you do realize that as a model, though,

974
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,800
Speaker 2: you are like a commodity and you're not. You're just there, gotcha,

975
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 2: And they set me a little probably better than a

976
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,760
Speaker 2: model generally gets treated because I'm not there for the product.

977
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 2: I'm more there to for like myself the product, and

978
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,839
Speaker 2: they they have to be I'm I'm like, I'm not.

979
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 2: But I think modeling is probably a very dehumanizing experience

980
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: because you're being like pinned and poked and people are

981
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 2: commenting on your body, well, no, show her shoulder. Actually no,

982
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 2: that's not good like, and they forget that you are

983
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 2: attached to the things.

984
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 4: That they're You're not a person. You are a vehicle

985
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 4: for a product. You're just you're a hot show.

986
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 2: You are.

987
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 3: Listen, those girls that are high Gigi or whatever, Now, yeah,

988
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 3: those girls are all you know, live in the life.

989
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 4: Well, once you transcend the generic.

990
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 2: Model on the models for like J Crew or Amazon

991
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 2: like or any you know, revolve these girls that just

992
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 2: have to put on thousand outfits in one day, I

993
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 2: just standing there like it's yeah no, and I don't.

994
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 4: They're all going to be replaced. They're going to be

995
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 4: replaced by AI anyway, everything online.

996
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: Why haven't they been already? It's insane. It would be

997
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,720
Speaker 2: the easiest thing to replace. But I don't think they should.

998
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 2: But like, I just think that's definitely coming.

999
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 4: Billionaires haven't best interesting about it.

1000
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 2: But then who would take billionaires? Fuck if there weren't models, if.

1001
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 4: They weren't shipping models to Yeah, no, that's a good point.

1002
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 4: I think that that's the one thing that'll save us,

1003
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 4: is if they can just fuck them then.

1004
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: Because it's not interesting to say I'm fucking a beautiful woman.

1005
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 2: It's better to say I'm.

1006
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 5: Fucking a model.

1007
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 2: Like that gives a billion mind, right, Like, so they

1008
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 2: have to keep them working and modeling. The robots will not.

1009
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 2: I will not replace models because then want to be

1010
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 2: able to say they control.

1011
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 3: That's right.

1012
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 2: That is we figured it out. Okay, we cracked the code. Okay,

1013
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 2: we'll be back after this.

1014
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 4: Nineteen ninety four Winter Olympics. I've uncovered where it was.

1015
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 4: It's in lily Hammer, which is which is in Norway,

1016
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 4: lily Hammer, And do you remember that there was like

1017
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:07,280
Speaker 4: one of the very first Netflix actual scripted shows. After

1018
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 4: what was the first one, Orange Is the New Black.

1019
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: After that was Lily Hammer, this show that starred this

1020
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,439
Speaker 4: like one of the side characters from the Sopranos who

1021
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 4: had to go into witness protection. It was he was

1022
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 4: playing basically the character from the Sopranos, but he wasn't

1023
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 4: actually the character from the Sopranos. That's just his range.

1024
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 4: I guess he had to. He was put a mobster

1025
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 4: in New York who had to go into witness protection

1026
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 4: and chose to go to Lily Hammer, Norway. And he

1027
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 4: was like a fish out of water, Italian New York

1028
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 4: guy in Norway going Hey, what's with all these reindeer

1029
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 4: and snow? And everyone's like this guy's too aggressive and

1030
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 4: he's like, actually a nice guy.

1031
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 2: Probably still on Netflix, right, Yeah?

1032
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 4: I actually think yeah, no, it's still on, but I

1033
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 4: think maybe they they're gonna remove it soon because it's

1034
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 4: so like old Netflix, like Netflix BC.

1035
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 2: You know, God, it's so crazy how much effort and

1036
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 2: money goes into these shows that we just forget about instantly.

1037
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, especially with the binge model. The binge model needs

1038
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 4: to end. It has ruined.

1039
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 2: If models aren't binging, how do they purging. How will

1040
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:19,919
Speaker 2: they say, then, okay, the binge model.

1041
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 5: Uh huh.

1042
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 4: Here's what happened in when you have the binge model,

1043
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 4: you wind up.

1044
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 2: It's the model where they drop the whole season of

1045
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 2: TV in one day instead of so they allow you

1046
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 2: to binge on it.

1047
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, everybody winds up watching the show and the

1048
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 4: weekend it comes out and no one talks about it

1049
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 4: ever again. And there used to be a time where

1050
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 4: there'd be weeks between the episodes where people would discuss

1051
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 4: the show and it would become a thing in culture.

1052
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 4: And because of the binge model, not only are we

1053
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 4: now missing that those discussions, but it's also hindering our culture,

1054
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 4: like there's no more like, Hey, what's going to happen

1055
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 4: on Game of Thrones, what's going to happen on The Wire?

1056
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,280
Speaker 4: What's going to happen on Sex and the City.

1057
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 2: It's like it's I haven't watched that yet, so don't

1058
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 2: talk about it. I haven't gotten there yet. But then

1059
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 2: you're talking about it, No, but you end the conversation

1060
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 2: because you go, no more spoilers. I haven't finished it yet,

1061
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 2: so we're not talking about this anymore.

1062
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 3: Well, it's a suspense thing. I like it.

1063
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was. But what he's saying is that

1064
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 2: suspense thing would we would all be on board, we'd

1065
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 2: all watch TV at the same time, we'd all find

1066
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: out what happened.

1067
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 3: Right, Why don't they do that? Because why don't they

1068
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 3: do it? It's the benefit of the binge.

1069
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 4: Well. Netflix tried to disrupt the industry by doing the

1070
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 4: binge system because they don't have commercials, they just want subscriptions,

1071
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 4: and everyone followed suit because Netflix was so successful with it.

1072
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 4: The second thing that happened, it wasn't really just like

1073
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 4: here's why. It was just like we're going to try this,

1074
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,240
Speaker 4: and it was like working I guess, and I guess save.

1075
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 5: Enough money to make enough content to That's.

1076
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 4: The other problem. The other problem is when you have

1077
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,919
Speaker 4: a bing show and it gets released, the show gets

1078
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 4: watched in a weekend or a week and then it's

1079
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 4: over and then the next season of the show is

1080
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 4: not going to come out for like two years.

1081
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1082
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, it used to.

1083
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 4: Be a show was parsed out over ten to fifteen

1084
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 4: weeks over the course of the year. So while episode

1085
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 4: four was airing for the first.

1086
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: Time, they got a pick up and then they would

1087
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:22,720
Speaker 2: start writing the next season as that season was still airing,

1088
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 2: so then by the time that season was over, they

1089
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 2: were in pre production for the next season, and then

1090
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: you would probably get the next season within a year.

1091
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: And now that has been like it's now you get

1092
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 2: the next season, you know, like nobody wants this. There

1093
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 2: was a bit like that obviously was a hit right away,

1094
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 2: and they picked up a second season, and I think

1095
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 2: they're writing it right now, but it's gonna be then

1096
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: they have to shoot it, then they have to edit it,

1097
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 2: and it's going to be a while before that dumps again.

1098
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 2: Even though people are clamoring for a second season like.

1099
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 4: That, could you lose all the momentum?

1100
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 2: It wouldn't have even the season one wouldn't have even

1101
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 2: been finished yet. If they were just parsing it out

1102
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 2: week by week.

1103
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 4: Right, people would be talking about it every week. It

1104
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 4: would still be in the zeitgeys. They would still be

1105
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 4: Noumber one on Netflix. And then the next season people

1106
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 4: are gonna forget about Nobody wants this, And then two

1107
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 4: and a half years from now, when Nobody Wants This

1108
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 4: two comes out, people be like, oh, yeah, I remember.

1109
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 2: That show Flight Attendant, Remember flight Attendant. It was all

1110
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,720
Speaker 2: anyone could talk about. Yeah, and then no one watched

1111
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: the second season. Yeah No, I mean because the momentum

1112
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 2: was gone.

1113
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 4: Handmaid's Tale, Handmaid's Tale season and the final seasons of

1114
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 4: Handmaid's Tale, people are like that show is still on

1115
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 4: the air, whereas the first three seasons everybody was but

1116
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 4: two years and that they suffered from COVID. But like,

1117
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 4: a two year gap is too long to expect us

1118
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 4: to remember a show that we liked.

1119
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 2: And I just feel bad for people who make these

1120
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 2: things in them because when I have released, when I've

1121
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: been on a TV show that is going over thirteen weeks,

1122
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 2: you get that you feel like you're you're working for

1123
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 2: that thirteen weeks you made the show that felt like

1124
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: you work. And then then you're like, I'm still working.

1125
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: I'm still promoting this show as soon as it airs,

1126
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 2: and it's done airing, you're like, I got to move

1127
00:49:58,520 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 2: on to the next thing.

1128
00:49:59,360 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 5: So there's that.

1129
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, the second at premieres, you already have that sense

1130
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 2: of loss that you don't even get to like enjoy

1131
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 2: this like kind of rollout and I mean it's kind

1132
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 2: of like a movie. I mean, it just comes out

1133
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 2: and then it's it's gone. I guess it's like the

1134
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 2: same kind of vibe as a movie.

1135
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 4: But a movie is a product in and of itself.

1136
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 4: It sucks for the for the staffs, it sucks for

1137
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 4: the The quality of the show suffers too, because if

1138
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 4: you have a hit show with a full staff and

1139
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 4: then it gets released in a binge model and then

1140
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 4: it gets picked up, all of the writers for that

1141
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 4: show need to have need to get other jobs in

1142
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 4: order to make money. You're much less likely to retain

1143
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 4: your staff if you're doing a binge model then if

1144
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 4: you were releasing it week by week and getting a

1145
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 4: pick up and having a rolling cycle, because every time

1146
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 4: you do a job, you need to go get another

1147
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 4: job immediately because it's over quickly and you don't know

1148
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 4: if it's going to get picked up and you have

1149
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 4: to move on.

1150
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 2: And then when it does get picked up, you aren't

1151
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: available because you add another job, so they have to

1152
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 2: like find someone else to be the new You ever wonder.

1153
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 4: Why, like, well, season one was so amazing and then

1154
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 4: season two sucked, It's because they didn't get the same writers.

1155
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,280
Speaker 5: Right, because those people had to go find other jobs.

1156
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 4: Right.

1157
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:18,360
Speaker 2: AIKE final thought, what do you got going for the

1158
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 2: rest of the day.

1159
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,760
Speaker 3: I might go down to our river.

1160
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, my parents river cabin flooded.

1161
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 3: Just halfway and it's just like the bottom level, which

1162
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:32,760
Speaker 3: it can it can flood because it's.

1163
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 5: A concrete floor. It's like a basement rise.

1164
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 3: But you gotta scoop out that inch of mud and

1165
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 3: it's just a mess. But we're almost done. Hey, we

1166
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 3: got it done. Yeah, we put eight hours in.

1167
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm taking lave. How is your body feeling?

1168
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 3: It's fine? Really? Yeah, I feel great? Oh my god,

1169
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 3: how I said, I was so mad at your father

1170
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 3: for posting that to you. I said, Nicky's gonna be

1171
00:51:58,200 --> 00:51:59,280
Speaker 3: so upset.

1172
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 5: That I'm I'm I'm just like, I give up.

1173
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 4: It's yea.

1174
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 2: The selection has made me so like anything that I

1175
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 2: used to be like upset about, I'm just like, it's

1176
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 2: none of my business anymore. If you if dad wants

1177
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,760
Speaker 2: to tell you to go when you have an injured

1178
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 2: wife who's constantly complaining about her body aching, if you

1179
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,720
Speaker 2: want to tell her to go on a one hundred

1180
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,439
Speaker 2: mile canoe trip with you and your friends, and she says, yes,

1181
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: I can, You know what that's up to do anything.

1182
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 2: I guess, I guess that's just what's going to happen.

1183
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 2: If you have a sixty five year old woman who

1184
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 2: has to scrape mud for eight hours. Instead of hiring

1185
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: someone for a hundred bucks to do it for you

1186
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: or whatever, it would be Craigslist.

1187
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 3: Honestly, honestly, it's not. It wasn't really that big of

1188
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 3: a deal.

1189
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 2: Two guys in a shovel. I'ever company.

1190
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 3: It was great exercise, is it? It was? Well?

1191
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 2: I knew I had a feeling that when Dad sent

1192
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,399
Speaker 2: those you were gonna be like, don't send her those,

1193
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 2: and so I purposely didn't write back anything. Oh, I know,

1194
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 2: why are you doing this? I will pay to have

1195
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: someone do this for you. I why would you live

1196
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 2: an extra ten years longer because you don't do that

1197
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 2: to your body? Then do it and then you then

1198
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 2: you save one hundred and fifty bucks or whatever. I think,

1199
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:19,720
Speaker 2: save money now, don't worry about the damage.

1200
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 3: Really, I did listen to me, vulnerable body, listen. I

1201
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 3: actually really was taking care to not overdo anything. Okay,

1202
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 3: I promise you.

1203
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 5: Well, you're feeling good, so it must have worked.

1204
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:32,439
Speaker 3: And that was three days.

1205
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 5: Did you get your hand scanned back.

1206
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 3: No, I go two days I get my does it

1207
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 3: take for them to result of an I'm not allowed

1208
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 3: to know that what's going on yet until I get this.

1209
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 3: It's a nerve study that I'm having done on Thursday.

1210
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,839
Speaker 3: They do a nerve study on my hand to see

1211
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 3: if you know, if there's entrapment or whatever, which I'm

1212
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 3: sure there is, and we'll find out after that.

1213
00:53:58,400 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 5: What would have caused that, like inflammation.

1214
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 3: No, it's just like an old injury that you know,

1215
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 3: re bumped or something. It's not broken. Uh, you wish

1216
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 3: I wish I would had an answer like that.

1217
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 5: Wouldn't that have been great?

1218
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 3: It would have just come out.

1219
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 5: It was like whenever they do a scan and then

1220
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 5: they go, no.

1221
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 3: It's it's fine, great, Oh well we don't see a break,

1222
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 3: and it's like, what, there's no break there.

1223
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 2: I think Brian would say, do dnrs.

1224
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 3: I he could say that, but it trust me, there's

1225
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: something going on. Yeah, it's an injury. It's an injury

1226
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,760
Speaker 3: that just needs to be give me a shot.

1227
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 5: Wait, did you get the handbrace that I sent to

1228
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 5: your home?

1229
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 3: Yeah? It didn't work. It's just you can't sleep at

1230
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 3: that thing. It's so oh, I'm sorry, no, but we tried.

1231
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 3: You tried. Yeah, it's great, But anyway, I'll have more answers.

1232
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 3: My hand is numb when I wake up in the morning.

1233
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 3: Oh my, oh my god. So it's something's going on.

1234
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 3: But anyway, I'm getting it. I'm working on this. But

1235
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 3: they always said to the girl, what if I they

1236
00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:00,799
Speaker 3: have no feeling in my hand all day? Why why

1237
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 3: do I am on hold for this nerve study? Well,

1238
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 3: because because you can't get in doctors.

1239
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 2: You can't get I can't get into any doctor in

1240
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 2: town for general. I can't get a doctor. And I

1241
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 2: drop people go drop your name, Oh I do, No

1242
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 2: one has any room, there's nowhere to go. And then

1243
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 2: once you go, it's it's I don't know, it's.

1244
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's fifteen thousand dollars. Fifteen thousand dollars for the year,

1245
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 4: and you can see a doctor whenever you want in

1246
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 4: a moment's notice. That's what you have enough money to

1247
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 4: get concierge.

1248
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 2: Yeap, will you send me that because I don't even

1249
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 2: know what that is.

1250
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 4: I don't have the info. I can't I know some

1251
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 4: people who do use it, though she does.

1252
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well why don't we get you that too,

1253
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 2: That would be amazing.

1254
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:47,439
Speaker 3: I don't.

1255
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 5: I would rather give that to you than me.

1256
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 2: I'm a kid, that a daughter I have my God,

1257
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 2: I mean, who wouldn't if you have that money to spend,

1258
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 2: why would I don't know.

1259
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:56,760
Speaker 3: If it's.

1260
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,879
Speaker 4: Thousand, yeah you think, I mean it costs you to go,

1261
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 4: but it's fifteen thousand dollars for your Like you know,

1262
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 4: your membership to their shock depends on the doctor.

1263
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can.

1264
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 4: They don't take insurance or anything. Yeah, No, it's all

1265
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 4: it's the you know, it's just someone. Yeah, that's it's

1266
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 4: it's a great buy. You has any problem at all? Like,

1267
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 4: the answer to your problem is money. You just need

1268
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 4: more money. And if you can't see a doctor, if

1269
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 4: you just had enough money, you could see it. There's

1270
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 4: plenty of doctors who are just there to take rich

1271
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 4: people's money and they totally ignore all the poor people

1272
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 4: and regular people because they don't and they don't take insurance.

1273
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 4: They don't have to. And that's the answer.

1274
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,879
Speaker 2: Oh and also, if you are in trouble with the law,

1275
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 2: if you just have enough money to hire the right lawyer,

1276
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 2: a judge will hear your case. That is the same

1277
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 2: as someone else's that doesn't have that lawyer, and the

1278
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 2: dlorus is nothing different to defend you than the person

1279
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 2: next to you that is, you know, there for the

1280
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 2: same possession charge or whatever you got caught doing. And

1281
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 2: you'll get off if you have that lawyer because they

1282
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 2: have a deal with the judge, and then the person

1283
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 2: who did the same thing as you doesn't and has

1284
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 2: to be on probation for two years. I witnessed that

1285
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 2: happen to myself because I had a good lawyer that

1286
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 2: someone else got for me right out of because we

1287
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 2: got busted together on the street smoking weed.

1288
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 5: And you know, over a decade ago.

1289
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 2: We go to court and we have an amazing lawyer

1290
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 2: because the friend I got arrested with is was super

1291
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 2: rich and was like, I'm at fault here, I'm gonna

1292
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 2: take care of you.

1293
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 5: I'm like, great, we stood up to.

1294
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 2: Get our you know, you go to court and it's like,

1295
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 2: you know, everyone stands up as they read each one.

1296
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 2: You know, we got busted for smoking weed in the street,

1297
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 2: not like any We didn't have a lot on us

1298
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 2: or anything. We all we got was you just for

1299
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 2: a year. You just can't have another drug charge and

1300
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 2: then it'll be expunged from your record, no community service, nothing.

1301
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 2: Then the next person had the same charge.

1302
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 3: The same same judge, but the same cops.

1303
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 2: Same Well, it doesn't matter the cops. It was the

1304
00:57:55,520 --> 00:58:00,919
Speaker 2: same charge, but it was judge sentencing, same same thing, right,

1305
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 2: And they get a year of probation and and you know,

1306
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 2: one hundred hours of community service or whatever. And I go,

1307
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 2: why shouldn't it be this gets rich. It's just everything's

1308
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 2: about money, and so I just that's why when I

1309
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 2: am like motivated by money, it's like.

1310
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 5: Duh, why wouldn't I?

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Speaker 2: And then people go, why are you? You shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: motivated by money. You shouldn't be motivated by esthetic things. Well,

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Speaker 2: when you're hot, people throw money at you. When you're famous,

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Speaker 2: they throw money at you. So me wanting to be famous,

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Speaker 2: me wanting to be hot, me wanting to be rich,

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Speaker 2: it's all because I want to just not go to

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Speaker 2: jail and I want healthcare. Right, So it's not there's

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Speaker 2: nothing vapid about those pursuits at all, because if you

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Speaker 2: look at it, that's the way this world works, and

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Speaker 2: it's fucking shitty. And that's why people with money should

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Speaker 2: spread the money as I try to do as much

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Speaker 2: as possible. But the problem is everyone is that gets

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Speaker 2: money as greedy as fuck and convinces themselves that they

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Speaker 2: did something so special to be rich, and other people

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Speaker 2: who aren't rich aren't you just didn't do as good

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Speaker 2: as me, because I'm special and I did better than you,

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Speaker 2: and I'm better than you, and God chows me to

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Speaker 2: be rich and he didn't choose you, and that must

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Speaker 2: because you're a bad person when it really has nothing

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Speaker 2: to do with that, right, yep. And those who can

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Speaker 2: understand that more quickly. I don't think you even think

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Speaker 2: it's possible for most people to understand that because it

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Speaker 2: requires empathy, which is apparently gay now. To have empathy,

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Speaker 2: it means you're weak. It means you are a sucker

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Speaker 2: to have empathy. It's really all twisted. I really see

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Speaker 2: the messaging being like, if you have empathy, used to

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Speaker 2: be a good thing to have, and it is literally

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Speaker 2: something that people look down upon people for having.

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Speaker 5: Weird you see it? Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It's everywhere. Yeah, No, it's why we're in this position

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Speaker 2: that we're in. Everyone needs to look out for themselves,

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Speaker 2: not for other people. And what is looking out for

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Speaker 2: other people require you to have empathy. If you don't

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Speaker 2: have it, you don't care about other people, right, And

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Speaker 2: so it's just Brian, you were saying it. It's just

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Speaker 2: easier dog eat dog.

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Speaker 4: Just dog eat dog.

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Speaker 2: So the sooner that you accept that and just look

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Speaker 2: out for number one and no one else, the better

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Speaker 2: time you'll have on this planet. But I'm not doing

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Speaker 2: that anytime soon. I I love being miserable. I love

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Speaker 2: being disappointed in other people. It motivates me, it makes

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Speaker 2: me to continue to work be disappointed myself and others.

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Speaker 2: And so I'm in a great fucking position right now

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Speaker 2: for my career in life. I hope. Uh this was

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Speaker 2: fun for you guys. Listen to mom. Thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for coming in. Brian, thank you, Noah, thank you,

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Speaker 2: thank you, besties. I'll see you out on the road.

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Speaker 2: Nikki Glazer dot com for tour dates, so many, more,

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Speaker 4: Check us out tonight on Thursday Night Football.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh my god, it's tonight tonight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Thursday Night Football on Amazon Prime not recorded before.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, so we'll be we'll be. I'll be

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Speaker 2: in Philly tonight on the field at the Eagles and

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