Speaker 1: What's up. It's lift Service. I'm Angela Yee.
Speaker 2: I'm g G Maguire, I'm Laura Ramara.
Speaker 3: I'm stuff G like a G like a G like.
Speaker 3: But first of all, I'm want to thank Steph G.
Speaker 3: Because I see all the work you do in the community.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 3: She just recently came out to an event as you
Speaker 3: did to Laura, supporting a man of these children's hospital
Speaker 3: where I was born.
Speaker 1: Do y'all know where you were born?
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 4: I was born at Chestnut Hill Hospital in Philadelphia, and
Speaker 4: fun fact, my daughter was born there as well, and
Speaker 4: my sister had her daughter there a year after my daughter,
Speaker 4: and her and my daughter have the same doctor.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a good feeling.
Speaker 2: Keep it in the family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know your hospital, Lauren.
Speaker 2: No. I was born in the Dominican Republic.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I haven't even seen my birth.
Speaker 1: This is a Dominican couch.
Speaker 2: I haven't even seen. I probably have two birthdays.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: And you were just there though not that yet long ago. Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 3: sitting your dad.
Speaker 2: Yes, visiting my dad, which I could bring him here
Speaker 2: so he could come visit and sell right here.
Speaker 1: But okay, and Steph G. You know what hospital.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was born in Boue Hospital.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he said yea in the city like that every time, Like, yo,
Speaker 2: you was born in the crazy people hospital.
Speaker 3: All right, but you're from Brooklyn. Yeah you're kind of
Speaker 3: you're from Brooklyn too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm from Crown Heights from Okay.
Speaker 3: Yes, now listen, we were watching the video where yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: and it's about to go down when like, when's the
Speaker 3: last time you've been in a fight.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna lie, it's been a little minute. But there's
Speaker 2: a couple of girls that I'm like, you know what,
Speaker 2: I feel like I need to come out of retirement
Speaker 2: real quick because they just be talking crazy about you.
Speaker 1: Now. Is it because you as an artist?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like artist ship, like you know, people just
Speaker 2: be talking online or whatever. So that song, I really
Speaker 2: wrote it like when I was feeling a way oh damn, yeah,
Speaker 2: don't sleep because it's always about the bitch season. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it is for me. You know, I'm all about love
Speaker 2: right now, like I'm in my glow up season, so
Speaker 2: I'm not really about that. But when I wrote that,
Speaker 2: I was I was feeling like, you know what, I'm
Speaker 2: coming out of retirement, Like she's talking too much.
Speaker 3: But is it about you or is it about because
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of times we get into
Speaker 3: it over you know who we're dating.
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't off for no guy, Okay, nah. I
Speaker 2: feel like that'd be the.
Speaker 3: Number one reason we don't get alone with people they
Speaker 3: masally don't like you that you don't even know.
Speaker 2: I don't even know what really my situation like. I
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of girls don't even know me,
Speaker 2: and it's like y'all already talking smack about me, but
Speaker 2: it's like y'all don't even know me, like relax.
Speaker 1: Is it like other artists?
Speaker 2: It was some artists, but they weren't really nobody big.
Speaker 2: I don't really get I really let the internet get
Speaker 2: to me because I already know like what the internet
Speaker 2: is here for. But you know, I'm human, and.
Speaker 3: You know, sometimes it is a conversation like people talk
Speaker 3: shit but then they meet you and have it and
Speaker 3: then like.
Speaker 2: Oh yes, and that happened to me so many times.
Speaker 2: It's like you see you, you you you was not
Speaker 2: liking me for no reason, like when you meet me,
Speaker 2: you love me. So it's like it was all for nothing.
Speaker 3: All night and you got to have like forgiveness you
Speaker 3: certain extent, there's some things that people can say about
Speaker 3: you that's unforgivable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like when people make up shit about you. Yes,
Speaker 2: making up womans is crazy.
Speaker 1: That I remember that happened to me. I ran into
Speaker 1: a girl.
Speaker 3: She had been talking mad shit about me, and I
Speaker 3: was like, man, So she was actually applying for a
Speaker 3: job somewhere right. My friend owned the clothing line, and
Speaker 3: so I was going to meet her at the clothing
Speaker 3: line and the girl was there interviewing for a job.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 3: Guess when you get hired then, but guess who did not.
Speaker 3: So I was like, can I talk to you for
Speaker 3: a second, you know, in the hallway. And so we
Speaker 3: went to the hallway and I was like, you said X,
Speaker 3: Y and Z about me. I heard about it. She
Speaker 3: was like, well no, I didn't.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: She just felt crazy because sometimes when people talk about you,
Speaker 3: and I didn't like confer her like I want to
Speaker 3: fight her, like and.
Speaker 2: You were just on some Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to let her know that I know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I went back inside and I told
Speaker 3: my friend and she was like, oh, yeah, she's not working.
Speaker 2: Here period period.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you. When's the last time you've been
Speaker 1: in the fight.
Speaker 2: You I am a lover. When is the last time
Speaker 2: I've been in the fight? Years?
Speaker 4: Probably the time I knoed out that girl in the
Speaker 4: bathroom in Orlando house.
Speaker 2: She was she was white, and she called me a
Speaker 2: black bitch.
Speaker 1: What she drunk or something?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Probably I think I was. I think I might have
Speaker 4: been drunk. We was with Jock shout Out, a young
Speaker 4: job was with jo It was Guardian.
Speaker 2: And you know, this was my cream cartel days.
Speaker 4: We used to roll thick out, throwing our things so
Speaker 4: out of the jasmine because she was there. But anyway,
Speaker 4: in the bathroom, get into a argument with this girl
Speaker 4: and I was by myself and she like had like
Speaker 4: people with her whatever. And I remember I had on
Speaker 4: some Gucci mules. Remember the Gucci mules with the wooden bottoms.
Speaker 1: I had one.
Speaker 2: I had those on and I walked I left. She
Speaker 2: called me a black bitch.
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, I turned around, I walked speed
Speaker 4: walked to the section.
Speaker 2: I kicked my soul.
Speaker 4: I come to imagine, I come to the section and
Speaker 4: I just like kicked my shoes off, put my bag
Speaker 4: down and turn around and walk back. So all my
Speaker 4: friends was like, what the fuck and they followed me
Speaker 4: to the bathroom. When I tell you, I started running
Speaker 4: and by the time I got to that girl, I
Speaker 4: hit her so hard that she hit the ground and
Speaker 4: that was it.
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine.
Speaker 3: Her friends was like, oh, but you know what, I'm
Speaker 3: lying because I think the first time I met Gigi
Speaker 3: she might have gotten in a fight and live.
Speaker 2: Yes, that.
Speaker 4: Was the first time we met. Okay, we met, but
Speaker 4: we were but we did meet that live. That wasn't
Speaker 4: the first time we met, but it was around that
Speaker 4: begin that into a fight.
Speaker 2: I remember that that was that over a guy. That
Speaker 2: wasn't over a guy. Okay, And.
Speaker 3: Me ask you this, if your friend starts fighting or like,
Speaker 3: let's say in a situation where I didn't know Gig
Speaker 3: that well but she we at the same table.
Speaker 1: Am I supposed to jump in.
Speaker 2: The way I look at it is like, if there's
Speaker 2: one on one, let them fight, Like, let them fight
Speaker 2: now if you've seen it's an unfair fight. I'm jumping
Speaker 2: in for my front.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's your you know, that was my girl,
Speaker 3: that's yeah. I feel like it was just more like throwing.
Speaker 2: We were selling.
Speaker 4: It was like I remember the girls was like going
Speaker 4: up the steps and he was like throwing stuff down
Speaker 4: and stuff.
Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was like a reality TV show
Speaker 2: it I guess we did continue to party right after.
Speaker 1: Have you been in a fight?
Speaker 2: Yeah, back in Miami.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
Speaker 2: I think I had a fight and forge I go
Speaker 2: to fight. She was fighting me and that my friend
Speaker 2: beat her up. Why you ain't fight my friend didn't
Speaker 2: even give me a chance to hit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to period.
Speaker 2: I had a fight like that before. Like that. Sometimes
Speaker 2: I didn't even get out. I was like, damn, could
Speaker 2: you let me get the person.
Speaker 3: With a guy and he gets into a fight, right,
Speaker 3: what's your responsibility me?
Speaker 2: It depends how much. Look I got my system, Like
Speaker 2: if you with me, I just always feel like I
Speaker 2: gotta like protect you. No matter who you are. You
Speaker 2: could be ten times bigger than me. I'm gonna fight
Speaker 2: with you, like that's just what I am. Again, Like
Speaker 2: if it's two girls, I'm gonna let you fight. But
Speaker 2: if I feel like it's unfair, I'm probably gonna jump
Speaker 2: in after a guy. I'm doing the same thing. Especially
Speaker 2: if you my man, I'm fighting.
Speaker 1: Right, are you there. Let's just say, yeah, man, do
Speaker 1: you have a boyfriend now? Nah? Okay, so you're single? Yeah?
Speaker 1: When was your last relationship?
Speaker 2: It was like two years ago.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a decent amount of time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Single. Are you enjoying single life?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Because I just feel like I'm more focused when
Speaker 2: I'm single, Like, I don't got the distractions. I don't
Speaker 2: got somebody like bugging me and stuff. I feel like,
Speaker 2: especially what I do, like, I just can't, like, I can't.
Speaker 2: I gotta be like this right now, tunnel vision. I mean,
Speaker 2: I got a little booth thing. But okay, yee my man,
Speaker 2: they going towards that or nah? Why not? We just
Speaker 2: you know, having fun, that's it.
Speaker 1: Does he know that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I tell him. I remind him all the time.
Speaker 1: He did, so he hasn't tried to make it more serious.
Speaker 2: Of course, he always tries to make it serious. But
Speaker 2: I'm just not with that right now.
Speaker 1: Are you okay with him seeing other women and stuff?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I understand him, Like I got it, like it
Speaker 2: is what it is.
Speaker 1: You got it? Okay?
Speaker 2: With you see another man? Yeah? Show every chance I get.
Speaker 2: I tell him, like, I tell him go talk to
Speaker 2: other girls, like don't just stay stuck on me because
Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to other guys if I feel like
Speaker 2: I want to talk to other guys. So I don't
Speaker 2: want you feeling like this is going somewhere, Like I
Speaker 2: don't like to leave people on if it's not really
Speaker 2: going nowhere.
Speaker 1: Why so he's just your boot thing? Why won't it
Speaker 1: go to them?
Speaker 2: Maybe I need them wrong? Maybe he's not my booth thing,
Speaker 2: and we fucking So there's chemistry, you know, sometimes chemistry
Speaker 2: and that, but you don't see it going nowhere else,
Speaker 2: So that's okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah it is okay, right you focused, I mean, and
Speaker 3: so like okay, So for instance, it sounds like pretty
Speaker 3: and nasty. Yeah, okay, you're pretty and you're nasty, so
Speaker 3: way is nasty about you?
Speaker 2: It's no rules to me when it comes to the
Speaker 2: like the bathroom, like there's really no rules, And I
Speaker 2: feel like if you're really nasty, you know, there's.
Speaker 1: No rules, so you've never so there's nothing you were saying, no,
Speaker 1: don't do.
Speaker 2: That, nah, especially on a nineteen forty two night, it's
Speaker 2: like it's over, we're doing whatever, Like, yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, what's the most Like Okay, you're saying you've never
Speaker 3: so you've never said no to anything, like if somebody.
Speaker 2: I said, I never said no before, Like now in
Speaker 2: this stage is like now I'm like with whatever.
Speaker 1: You gotta be a little Are you okay with getting filmed?
Speaker 2: Okay? Books, filming stuff that I'm not really we unless
Speaker 2: like it's like my phone, I gotta be my phone.
Speaker 2: I'm the one that got to request it, Like, yo,
Speaker 2: film me real quick. Okay, but you popping out your
Speaker 2: phone and you having secret little cameras because I know
Speaker 2: guys that you're having secret cameras. Like I'm not with that, right, Okay?
Speaker 3: What about spinning in your mouth? Yeah okay, she said
Speaker 3: that fast. I mean that's what about it?
Speaker 1: But like you know you put a finger in his ass?
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, I've done that and I've gotten in trouble
Speaker 2: a couple of times the next day because of that,
Speaker 2: but not.
Speaker 1: That day the night. Why you do that?
Speaker 2: I made like a little joke like, yo, you remember
Speaker 2: what I did? That's no, you can't do that. That's
Speaker 2: not everyone. You can't talk about it. Why because then
Speaker 2: they gonna then they're gonna fake be bad and then
Speaker 2: it happens again and then let me do it again,
Speaker 2: so you're not like, you know I sometimes they remember
Speaker 2: they'll be like, yo, you really did that's remember that's
Speaker 2: something that you're gonna remember no matter how I like, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I do it, but I gotta be really fucked up.
Speaker 1: Okay, you gotta really be.
Speaker 2: I'm trying.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find something that she would be stuck on.
Speaker 1: What about golden showers?
Speaker 2: All right, I'm probably not Dynasty. I don't do golden shop,
Speaker 2: but would you do it to him if he asks you?
Speaker 2: If you know what, I ain't gonna lie like. It
Speaker 2: really just depends, like how fucked up I am, because
Speaker 2: I do crazy things when I'm like super late, Like
Speaker 2: I like taking edible too. That's like the most drug
Speaker 2: wise that I really go. Like, I don't even smoke.
Speaker 1: I just.
Speaker 2: Had a crazy experience. Yes, you have really crazy experience.
Speaker 2: It gets wold and I like wow. So you know,
Speaker 2: when I feel like I want to have a wild
Speaker 2: I'll do an edible. They have a bottle of nineteen
Speaker 2: forty two, and it's like it's really no telling what
Speaker 2: happens that night.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: So that's why I'll never be like I'll never do this,
Speaker 2: I'll never do that. Because I just don't know.
Speaker 1: Have you ever forgotten, like the next year.
Speaker 2: I black out, like nineteen forty two, I'll be blacking out.
Speaker 1: That's not a good thing.
Speaker 2: I was about to say, camera blackout. I'll be blacking
Speaker 2: out in nineteen forty two. But it'd be fun.
Speaker 1: No, you don't even know if it was fun.
Speaker 2: Like it's fine in a moment. It's fine in the moment.
Speaker 2: It's fun in the moment. Yeah, I'm saying, I know
Speaker 2: I had a good ass time. You wake up with
Speaker 2: that sensation like damn, these two guys with you. Oh no,
Speaker 2: I'm probably gonna flip the funk out.
Speaker 3: You gotta just drink to get nice. Yes, I don't
Speaker 3: I'm blacking out. There's a lot of steak here, and
Speaker 3: you don't want to think. I'm just saying you.
Speaker 2: Don't want to black out and flashes on it. You
Speaker 2: don't drinker like I usually control my ship. It's like
Speaker 2: once we're in action, like I just be like in
Speaker 2: a comfortable It's.
Speaker 3: Not I'm just crazy, you trust right? So why did
Speaker 3: you in your ex breakup?
Speaker 2: He cheated on me And it was not like one
Speaker 2: time music. It was just too much like it's like
Speaker 2: you really just don't care. So how did you find
Speaker 2: out the girl hit me up?
Speaker 1: It was one girl?
Speaker 2: It was. That's the thing with me, I feel like
Speaker 2: I understand, man, I just in the whole concept. Like
Speaker 2: you know, sometimes they get bored and they might have
Speaker 2: a one night stand or whatever. But once you catch feelings,
Speaker 2: that's like the icebreaker for me, Like you catching feelings,
Speaker 2: that's you basically have a whole other girlfriend. And I
Speaker 2: wasn't with that. So right, that's what it was. It
Speaker 2: was another girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Oh damn, yeah, I said, do you think that if? Okay,
Speaker 3: so you would have been okay to forgive him if
Speaker 3: it was. I don't tell him that a big deal.
Speaker 2: I don't tell him that. But it was like, you know,
Speaker 2: you made a mistake. Cool.
Speaker 1: Is he still with the other girl?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Ship, that's annoying, you know.
Speaker 2: But I feel bad for her. So it's like hitting you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like he tried it a couple of times, but it
Speaker 2: was like all right, like, nah, it's not happening. You
Speaker 2: never spun the block, not one time. No. I don't
Speaker 2: believe in spending the block, okay, So no, nah, that's
Speaker 2: not happening with me. Like once we're done but it
Speaker 2: was such a long time and the like they were.
Speaker 3: Super young, and she's not doing the mech and summer
Speaker 3: Walker like exactly.
Speaker 2: That's more accurate, right that.
Speaker 3: It's interesting because you your goal was never even to
Speaker 3: be an artist.
Speaker 2: You know what it was like. I was always into music,
Speaker 2: but like I don't know if you know you notice
Speaker 2: any of my past interviews, but I was always wanted
Speaker 2: to be a dancer. So I was always like into music,
Speaker 2: but I was just expressing it through dance. And it
Speaker 2: was like literally two years years ago I hopped in
Speaker 2: the studio and then they saw the vision and now
Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, this is what I was supposed to
Speaker 2: be doing the whole time.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: It was one of those situations. It was never like
Speaker 2: my initial goal, but I was always infatuated music.
Speaker 3: And then I think even for you to be able
Speaker 3: to put some of your like you know you're a
Speaker 3: Dominican and even on like the chap Cheese song, Yeah
Speaker 3: in corporate, are you going to do more of that?
Speaker 2: Maybe? Maybe I feel like right now I'm I'm at
Speaker 2: a space where it's like I want to talk more
Speaker 2: to my ladies. I'm not really more like I feel
Speaker 2: like I go through erarors with the music, like I
Speaker 2: feel like I was going through my like Spanish English.
Speaker 2: I wanted to do that blend, so I had chop
Speaker 2: cheese and then I did danger Zone so it was
Speaker 2: like do you know, like the Spanish drill. But now
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm in a different space. But I
Speaker 2: have people always in my DM like yo stuff when
Speaker 2: you drop in another Spanish drill, like we this is
Speaker 2: what we love you for, Like can we get that again?
Speaker 2: I'm like I will, I will eventually.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes if people keep asking for something.
Speaker 3: And I thing, girl, Yeah.
Speaker 4: But it's good that you go through your eras and
Speaker 4: you feel like you want to do this and you
Speaker 4: want to do that, because not only are you able
Speaker 4: to express yourself right yeah, but you're also able to
Speaker 4: live in the moment and really just vibe out on
Speaker 4: what you got going on at that time.
Speaker 2: My thing is universatility, That's the thing. Like I feel
Speaker 2: like I don't want anything to ever feel forced with me,
Speaker 2: like whatever I'm feeling and whatever, that's what I write
Speaker 2: to them. Right, did you work if you had the
Speaker 2: chance to work with like uh artist, like a Spanish artist,
Speaker 2: which artists would be bad Bunny, for sure. I'm going
Speaker 2: to get that future too.
Speaker 1: To exist.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you think being from Brooklyn has influenced like who
Speaker 3: you are as a person from Brownsville, not just Brooklyn.
Speaker 2: But brown Yeah, from Brownsville. Like, I just feel like
Speaker 2: it gave me that tough skin. It gave me like
Speaker 2: that heart, like I don't let nobody play with me.
Speaker 2: Like I know it sounds very cliche, but if I
Speaker 2: really grew up seeing a lot of shit, So for me,
Speaker 2: it's like I just have like that hard like and
Speaker 2: I feel like in this industry you have to be tough.
Speaker 2: You can't be weak. Like I tell a lot of
Speaker 2: my other artist friends, like sometimes they'll come to me
Speaker 2: and they'll be like, you know, like I just feel
Speaker 2: like giving up like this, such as I'm like, girl,
Speaker 2: you gotta you gotta be shown like stuff is gonna happen.
Speaker 2: You just gotta keep going. I feel like coming from Brooklyn,
Speaker 2: that's what it gave me, Like it gave me like
Speaker 2: top skin.
Speaker 1: Who are your other artists friends? Like, who do you
Speaker 1: consider friends? Well?
Speaker 2: Of course right now I really got close shot Lesh.
Speaker 2: She's Muslim, but she does music as well. Brittany Blanco,
Speaker 2: I funck with Breezelan. You know a lot of the
Speaker 2: girls I'm really tapping in with them now and they
Speaker 2: they're cool as fuck. Like it's a lot of girls
Speaker 2: in the city that I actually want to do music with.
Speaker 3: I know that previously You've talked about just going into
Speaker 3: the studio where some of these men and they'll try
Speaker 3: to higher at you, and people will ask me this.
Speaker 3: This is one question I used to get a lot
Speaker 3: when I would go talk to younger people who are
Speaker 3: breaking into the industry.
Speaker 1: How do you handle that?
Speaker 3: Because sometimes you still want to work, you still want
Speaker 3: to get something done, but men can be unprofessional and
Speaker 3: try to cross those lines.
Speaker 1: What advice would you.
Speaker 2: Give honestly, like, don't feel pressured, Like, don't feel like
Speaker 2: you have to get that feature. What's for you. It's
Speaker 2: gonna be for you. That's how I see it. So
Speaker 2: whenever that situation approached me, like the first initial thing
Speaker 2: that I do, honestly, I'll laugh at all like bro,
Speaker 2: like you know, like stop playing with me, Like I'll
Speaker 2: do something like that now if you continue. Now, I'm
Speaker 2: just like, all right, this is a lose lose for me.
Speaker 2: So I just honestly I just dot it. I'd be like,
Speaker 2: this is not for me, this is not like gonna work,
Speaker 2: and I just keep it moving.
Speaker 1: And then what happens when you run into that person again?
Speaker 2: Fact like nothing ever happened. Okay, I'll be like, hey, bro,
Speaker 2: just always brow them. That's it, right, so you can understand,
Speaker 2: like that's the space I'm in, but you're my bro,
Speaker 2: that's what it.
Speaker 1: Is, all right, and what is sim all right?
Speaker 3: So I was reading this article about the small but
Speaker 3: justifiable reasons that people have broken up with people are
Speaker 3: still up dating them?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 3: What's something small that's made you be like I can't
Speaker 3: mess with this person anymore. But it's not like they
Speaker 3: did anything like crazy like cheated.
Speaker 2: I would say hygiene, yeah, like you can't think. I
Speaker 2: think that's a big no, like automatically turned.
Speaker 1: Would you tell them?
Speaker 2: I'll probably tell you the first time, like yo, like baby,
Speaker 2: like your breaststink or like you know, like when I
Speaker 2: was down there, it was smiling a little like did
Speaker 2: you just come from were you hugging the block all day?
Speaker 2: Tell you twice? But if you if it's continuous, it's
Speaker 2: over for you. Like no, I cannot do that.
Speaker 1: What about you, Gigi, what's one small thing for me?
Speaker 2: It's how you treat other people like that.
Speaker 4: I literally had to stop talking to somebody because they
Speaker 4: I just didn't like the way to handle people around them.
Speaker 4: I feel like, because like, if you handling them like that,
Speaker 4: I can only see the way you will potentially handle me.
Speaker 2: And I'm not right.
Speaker 3: You want somebody that you feel like it's a good person, yes, regardless.
Speaker 4: Of who it is, Like you can't And and it's
Speaker 4: usually people who feel like they have like some type
Speaker 4: of power that they just want to be an asshole
Speaker 4: because they feel like that's what they're supposed to do,
Speaker 4: Like how cops are just like you. You know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like you can't treat people that work for
Speaker 4: you or that's here with you, you.
Speaker 2: Know, like because it shows your character very much so
Speaker 2: and I don't like that.
Speaker 1: What about you, Lara?
Speaker 2: Hmmm? Both of those show inconsistency. Yeah, like the first
Speaker 2: sign of inconsistency. I'm not like, not of your word,
Speaker 2: even if it's something small that you didn't even have to.
Speaker 1: I want to ask you this.
Speaker 3: So I just executive produced this show for v and
Speaker 3: it's so amazing.
Speaker 1: Graduation friend.
Speaker 3: Chavy, and I wanted to ask you, have you ever
Speaker 3: been scammed?
Speaker 1: I feel that way like everybody has scam, like.
Speaker 2: They use my credit card type shit or just scammed
Speaker 2: in general.
Speaker 3: That's somebody you know, like just scammed you or you know,
Speaker 3: got some money out of you or got something out
Speaker 3: of you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a thousand times, really that many? Yes? You know
Speaker 2: what it is that I give people chances, too many chances,
Speaker 2: So I give you the benefit of the d I'm like, nah,
Speaker 2: they would never do me like that. They would never
Speaker 2: do me like that until they do me like that.
Speaker 3: Like what's the worst scam you've ever been a victim of?
Speaker 3: And sometimes it's embarrassing.
Speaker 1: For people to talk about it, but I think we've
Speaker 1: all been right.
Speaker 2: I would say my ex was my biggest scam for real.
Speaker 2: I feel like my ex was my biggest scam because
Speaker 2: he made me like get into like get cars. He
Speaker 2: made me like yeah, like I've got into so much depth.
Speaker 2: Wait time you got a car. I was really a
Speaker 2: dumb girl, like it was.
Speaker 1: I wanted this is a safe yeah to talk about it.
Speaker 3: So because the guy that we did the story on,
Speaker 3: he he talked this one woman into getting like four
Speaker 3: cars in her name.
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are professional scammers. That's how I look at them.
Speaker 1: He touched me to get in your car, and he's
Speaker 1: using your credit for him to get everything.
Speaker 2: Like everything was all me, Like I got the car,
Speaker 2: I got the crib everything, Like I always been a hustle,
Speaker 2: Like I always have my own money, Like that was
Speaker 2: just always me. So yeah, he was my biggest scam.
Speaker 2: Like I lost a lot of money, Like I just
Speaker 2: want the money back.
Speaker 1: That's so annoying. That's great. So when you say a
Speaker 1: lot of money, what's a lot of.
Speaker 2: Money like a couple of bands?
Speaker 1: Like, so is your credit okay now now?
Speaker 2: Because I fixed it right damn?
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know I had to spend money on
Speaker 2: that too, So that's still part of the.
Speaker 1: Scam to me. You know, it's hard because you can't
Speaker 1: really do much about it, like you know, can.
Speaker 2: You just got to charge to the game, keep going
Speaker 2: like it is what it is.
Speaker 3: Because if you hold a grudge and you be met
Speaker 3: like yeah, because you can't.
Speaker 1: Even go to court, they'd be like, well you willingly
Speaker 1: yeah did x y. But it makes you learn.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I definitely learned. That's one thing I feel
Speaker 2: like everything in life is a lesson. You just gotta
Speaker 2: try just the game and keep going.
Speaker 1: That's it makes it harder for the next guy though.
Speaker 2: Definitely, because now, let me tell you something, I ain't
Speaker 2: taking nothing like if you're not if you're not marking
Speaker 2: everything on my list, you cannot be my man. That's
Speaker 2: just what it is. Like. For example, when she said
Speaker 2: you have to treat other people nice, you have to
Speaker 2: treat me like a princess. I don't expect you to
Speaker 2: give me all of your time, but give me enough time.
Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta have. You gotta have some type
Speaker 2: of money because you gotta at least match me or
Speaker 2: more because I'm not taking care of you. Those days
Speaker 2: are over. Yeah, those days are over.
Speaker 1: What did this guy do for a living?
Speaker 2: Did he? Girl? I don't know what the hell he
Speaker 2: did at this point. Yeah, it was like it was
Speaker 2: one of those situations they were just selling dreams to
Speaker 2: be honest. Yeah, you know, you just gotta like she's
Speaker 2: gotta being she gotta be a boss. You gotta be
Speaker 2: a boss, nigga, like you have to be on your ship.
Speaker 1: It looks matter.
Speaker 2: I feel like now like if everything else is there,
Speaker 2: I might bypass your looks. Okay, if you're really that
Speaker 2: good of a person, you treat me like a queen.
Speaker 2: It's happened, you know, it's happened before.
Speaker 1: So mm hmm.
Speaker 2: What about you though?
Speaker 1: Are you ever been scammed by a guy?
Speaker 2: Yes, a couple of times. A couple of times. It's
Speaker 2: crazy scam like things like let's see. Oh yeah, so
Speaker 2: this one guy was like, YO, give me such like
Speaker 2: the bitcoin when bitcoin was out, and he was like, YO,
Speaker 2: give me two thousand dollars and I'm gonna make sure
Speaker 2: you that I'm gonna get you back like fifty thousand,
Speaker 2: like I'll watch, I'll do everything. So I gave it.
Speaker 2: So I gave him the money until this day, I
Speaker 2: don't have no freaking returns and now everybody getting arrested
Speaker 2: and my money is going with his ass got crazy? Well, no,
Speaker 2: you know, like whoever he was working with that was
Speaker 2: doing as one of the people that has been indicted
Speaker 2: for bitcoin scams and pyramid and another one remember that
Speaker 2: wheel that was going around in COVID. Remember calling and
Speaker 2: what is it? You don't have anything but.
Speaker 1: Try to get me to do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did it, but I learned in college I
Speaker 3: did a paramid sk.
Speaker 1: You told me that.
Speaker 4: Then when I told you I did it, and you
Speaker 4: was like, did you ever get your money? You know
Speaker 4: how like you win like it's your turn or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I never yeah, and in the
Speaker 2: end nobody wins.
Speaker 1: But now tell you.
Speaker 3: When I did it in college, I definitely got it early,
Speaker 3: so me and my best friend, she started it.
Speaker 2: She was I was lucky because you get in, you
Speaker 2: get somebody.
Speaker 3: By the time I made third and fourth years, yeah,
Speaker 3: I made my money twice and then but then people
Speaker 3: be mad.
Speaker 2: Yeah and once god yeah, like sixty years and the
Speaker 2: ones like you got to bring two people in. So
Speaker 2: for this person, I'm gonna fay's crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: The only time that was like the scam of all skins.
Speaker 2: Do it until everybody, don't you tell me how to
Speaker 2: do it? I think I had already did it.
Speaker 1: There was.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Once you see that circle
Speaker 2: is full and.
Speaker 3: You're trying to get handed, called it that sou because
Speaker 3: that's a real thing, like an.
Speaker 1: Asian this true.
Speaker 2: This group I was and started doing different trees. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 2: we have a whole forest. And I still didn't get
Speaker 2: your whole larious. It's ridiculous. But yeah, that was like
Speaker 2: a mug especially throughout, but I think came up.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I made like four thousand.
Speaker 2: Dollars and walked out wife.
Speaker 3: Because you got to see people weren't so mad because
Speaker 3: when you get your money, they want you to put.
Speaker 1: You have to back in.
Speaker 4: And that's why people wasn't get any money because people
Speaker 4: were taking the money and running. They want money back
Speaker 4: because there's any money.
Speaker 1: So when did the scot then four then sixteen?
Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was a true scam story.
Speaker 1: I had interview ship.
Speaker 2: I was just got of scam.
Speaker 1: What tell me?
Speaker 2: But that's what I get though.
Speaker 4: So when I was doing the shoot for the last
Speaker 4: dance Readmaster that I'm about to release, I called this
Speaker 4: guy I know that be boosting so he can get
Speaker 4: my wardrobe and I sent him the money to give
Speaker 4: my wardrobe and I never heard back from him. So
Speaker 4: I had like a crisis, like I had like a
Speaker 4: nine to one one.
Speaker 2: You're lucky I wasn't on your phone because if I
Speaker 2: could have got to New York, I would have came
Speaker 2: and rided your closet like the day before my shoes
Speaker 2: I didn't have anything for my shoes. And that's because
Speaker 2: he had I had stopped hearing from him. Now this
Speaker 2: is somebody that I knew, I know well, and I
Speaker 2: trusted him. So I'm like, I know, he just get
Speaker 2: on my money kind of find out he got up. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: he got I didn't but I just found out literally,
Speaker 2: Like that's why I'm like, oh, I just got scared.
Speaker 2: I just found out probably a week ago there did
Speaker 2: he No he in jail, But like so my home,
Speaker 2: you know, you have we all got that one friend
Speaker 2: that could find out anything on the Instagram on the right.
Speaker 4: So I hit her, I hit up on my front
Speaker 4: and I hit her up when it first happened, because
Speaker 4: I'm like, do you think this thing of woul ghost me? Like,
Speaker 4: I don't think that he would do that, Like I
Speaker 4: thought from the rip that something happened. But the fact
Speaker 4: that I gave him my money and this was like
Speaker 4: a few thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Like the fact that I gave him my money and
Speaker 2: he just I stopped hearing from him, like three days later,
Speaker 2: some ship I just I could have, but you know,
Speaker 2: I wanted the plug.
Speaker 1: I want the hook up.
Speaker 4: You know, we always trying to save a coin anyway
Speaker 4: for sure. So she looked into it and she's like,
Speaker 4: I don't know. And then I doubled back and she
Speaker 4: was like, oh girl, he'd lock up.
Speaker 2: She said, he went.
Speaker 4: She went under his page and it's all types of
Speaker 4: people under there and looking for him, like yo with
Speaker 4: a Chanelle bag like.
Speaker 2: Him even more, like yo, where you at? We're that bag?
Speaker 1: What's the lesson we learned from this?
Speaker 2: No more? Buy No more because unless they already got
Speaker 2: the product in your face and you can just buy
Speaker 2: it the money upfront without the product, because I'm still
Speaker 2: because I'm still. And the thing is that everybody has
Speaker 2: trust the shoes. They're like, no, you have to pay me,
Speaker 2: or no you're not. You don't You're not getting anything.
Speaker 2: So nobody is like, it's like a trust you see again,
Speaker 2: I know this person for like eighteen years, so I
Speaker 2: really trusted that he.
Speaker 1: Was not What was you trying to get?
Speaker 2: I needed two outfits?
Speaker 4: Full had to tell out I needed shoes and everything,
Speaker 4: and he was like, I got you sis.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he got your money back when you get out
Speaker 2: of there.
Speaker 3: Because I think it is important to have that conversation
Speaker 3: because with Jennifer, the that you know she dated. He
Speaker 3: scammed like so many people, his own family.
Speaker 2: Members that shi it was crazy. Father crazy. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: scammed his own father out of forty.
Speaker 1: Spoke to his dad. He took his dad's money, his
Speaker 1: dad a disability check.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. I mean, you just don't care about nobody
Speaker 2: when you see that. Yeah, the lady that lost her house,
Speaker 2: that had the daughter. Yeah, and she was the woman
Speaker 2: and the FED showed up to her job.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like an engineer like that.
Speaker 2: That That was like, damn, have you ever been arrested? Yeah?
Speaker 2: It was petty though it was I was smoking weed
Speaker 2: in the park. It was never nothing crazy.
Speaker 3: That's crazy because that's not even illegal. Nost No, that's
Speaker 3: the funny part.
Speaker 2: And it was like I feel like those cops they
Speaker 2: took advantage, like it was crazy that night, Like I
Speaker 2: should never even been arrested that night, but it was.
Speaker 1: It happened.
Speaker 2: We was parked up smoking. It was nothing crazy, but
Speaker 2: we was like in a dad end. So it was
Speaker 2: like these undercover cops. It wasn't even like regular blue
Speaker 2: and whites. They were undercover cops. They came, they did
Speaker 2: a whole like scene. They like it was all surrounding
Speaker 2: me on some weird ship. Like I feel like it
Speaker 2: was crazy, Like I've never been arrested before, right, so
Speaker 2: that is traumatized. It really trauma sized me. And when
Speaker 2: I got out, like they was going through my phone,
Speaker 2: they was going through my pictures. Yeah, yeah, for no reason,
Speaker 2: for no reason. Wait, and it was like, you know,
Speaker 2: I had like private stuff in there, a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2: They really went through everything. They went through everything. And
Speaker 2: the craziest thing about the story is that they knew
Speaker 2: what our car looked like. So every time they saw
Speaker 2: our car, they will stop us and they will harass us.
Speaker 2: Why for no reason? That's why that East New York.
Speaker 2: I still remember their faces. It's like, it's crazy preeson.
Speaker 2: I think it was pret seventy three. I don't know
Speaker 2: what Preeson it was, but wow, it was crazy commercizing experience.
Speaker 2: Like it's over now. I was like, Joe's not for me,
Speaker 2: Like we.
Speaker 1: Know Gigi's been to jail, yes, yeah, she had a
Speaker 1: whole girlfriend.
Speaker 4: I did ninety days on vikers when I was twenty two.
Speaker 2: But in total, I've been arrested probably like three times.
Speaker 1: What did that, Laura, have you ever been arrested.
Speaker 2: That's one of my friends. Got please please, please please. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I am not cut for it. I'm not making I
Speaker 2: ain't not lie though I kind of had like I
Speaker 2: thought Jim's gonna be different. Like I had girls in there.
Speaker 2: They was like, you so pretty. They started braiding my
Speaker 2: hair like I was like, this is jail. But I
Speaker 2: just didn't like like the compability of it.
Speaker 1: They said it brady.
Speaker 2: It was brady. Yeah, they was braiding my hair. There
Speaker 2: was like going for free like they was braiding my hair.
Speaker 2: They was like like catering to me. I was like
Speaker 2: the same, Like I was only there for like three days.
Speaker 1: It was like my hair.
Speaker 2: I didn't go to right though, right it is probably different,
Speaker 2: but I was in the booking.
Speaker 4: Yeah, when I first got there, I had girls trying
Speaker 4: to take me home today pet I was like, oh no.
Speaker 1: Girl, get you out of here.
Speaker 2: They weren't trying to break my hair, they were trying
Speaker 2: to try me out.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's such a thing as loving somebody
Speaker 1: too much?
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I learned that. I feel like when I
Speaker 2: was younger, I always felt like I had to. I
Speaker 2: always loved the person more than I love myself. And
Speaker 2: it took time it actually took time me being by myself,
Speaker 2: and once I was by myself for like a good
Speaker 2: two three years, it was over. Like I love myself
Speaker 2: more than I will ever love anybody else. And I
Speaker 2: feel like that's for a lot of girls nowadays lack.
Speaker 2: That's why they do so much for their man and
Speaker 2: they let men disrespect them because they don't love themselves enough.
Speaker 1: Right, that's a that's a big deal.
Speaker 3: And they also feel like, you know, it's hard for
Speaker 3: people to be honest and share certain things because you
Speaker 3: don't want to get judged.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not me like I was always scared
Speaker 2: to like you know, like whenever i'm you hire ancient
Speaker 2: nigga my family, like yo, like I am going and
Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, you're just hating, like you.
Speaker 1: Know, let me like some guys didn't make you defend
Speaker 1: the person more.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't love yourself, you do? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you also want to prove everybody wrong, like
Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to admit, like I fucked up.
Speaker 2: But then at night you're crying by yourself yourself. It's
Speaker 2: like they're my family.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, I was right? Yeah what about you? You
Speaker 1: think you could love somebody too much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all the time. Not just men mm hmm. Friends, family, Yeah,
Speaker 2: you can't let your kids too much though, oh no,
Speaker 2: I'm a little that's the exceptions. Like the only week.
Speaker 2: First of all, there my heart beating, like I have to.
Speaker 2: They're attached to my heart, so like that's unconditional love.
Speaker 2: But yeah, but I have family, friends.
Speaker 1: Everybody don't let it kids. Let's be real, that's.
Speaker 2: Kind of crazy. Gonna lie people, no disrespect, But mothers
Speaker 2: that don't have their kids, I question because it's like,
Speaker 2: how can you be away from somebody that came from
Speaker 2: your wounb That's how I look at it. I mean,
Speaker 2: it happened. Sometimes it happens because that's my and you're
Speaker 2: just doing it just it's my choice. It's like you
Speaker 2: had a choice and you just gave them away that
Speaker 2: I know. I know situations like I have friends that
Speaker 2: situations where it's not their fault. But if you just
Speaker 2: like you know what, like I don't want to deal
Speaker 2: with this, go to your dad. I don't respect that, but.
Speaker 3: You know it's not there sometimes too, Why do dads
Speaker 3: not have That's they're fair, that's it's not.
Speaker 2: But as a mom, you shouldn't naturally want to be
Speaker 2: with your child. That's just how I.
Speaker 1: Feel like dad should want that too.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, they absolutely should. They don't. They don't. It's sad
Speaker 2: that they don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you have kids.
Speaker 2: That's what I do. I don't talk about them because
Speaker 2: the internet is we are. Don't post on nothing.
Speaker 1: Because I've never seen your post anything.
Speaker 2: I just keep them like in the you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: I get that you're doing that basis because and listen,
Speaker 2: you can't give everything, you know, certain things that you
Speaker 2: really really care about.
Speaker 1: When did you suppose your ex when you guys were together.
Speaker 2: When I was younger. I'm not posting him no more
Speaker 2: like nobody that I'm with, You're not getting posted until
Speaker 2: we married. Now you're going to see the white pictures.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna come out pregnant with a baby, like yeah,
Speaker 2: not gonna fuck.
Speaker 1: But so we're gonna be watching because if you post
Speaker 1: somebody before.
Speaker 2: That, no ever, you can see that. Nah, nobody getting
Speaker 2: you're not getting posted.
Speaker 1: You'll wake up and be like, ship, how long ago that?
Speaker 2: I No, you're not getting posted. Nobody's gonna post.
Speaker 1: You think you can somebody too much?
Speaker 4: Yes, I think I have loved somebody too much. And
Speaker 4: I think the lesson I learned in that is to
Speaker 4: love myself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, or how do you learn? Like how do you
Speaker 1: love yourself more?
Speaker 2: What are so the way I did it? To be honest,
Speaker 2: I kind of had to train my mind. Like I
Speaker 2: would literally sit in front of a mirror and I'll
Speaker 2: be like like no, like you're important, Like like it
Speaker 2: sounds weird or whatever, but that's really what I had
Speaker 2: to do. I really had to sit down and be like, listen,
Speaker 2: you come first, no matter what, Like, you come first.
Speaker 2: If they can't meet your requirements, they don't deserve you,
Speaker 2: like you're a good girl. Like I had to sit
Speaker 2: here and think about all the good things that I
Speaker 2: felt about myself, and once I learned that, it was over,
Speaker 2: Like nobody's playing with.
Speaker 1: Me, Like one are some of the good things that
Speaker 1: you would say about yourself.
Speaker 2: I'm very loyal when I'm with you, like even not
Speaker 2: even just with guys, like even like my makeup artists.
Speaker 2: My hairstyle is everything. If I fuck with you and
Speaker 2: I like what you're giving me and you treat me good,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick by you, right they don't it's over?
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, So I feel like it's very hard
Speaker 2: to come across people like that, like people that's actually
Speaker 2: really there for you. So I feel like.
Speaker 3: Step on you though, because this business is a very
Speaker 3: switch up on you type of business they have.
Speaker 2: But right now, like the people that I have in
Speaker 2: my circle, they're amazing. So right now I don't really
Speaker 2: have nothing bad to say about my team.
Speaker 1: No, yeah, listen, that's good. Yeah, because you've been through
Speaker 1: some ship.
Speaker 3: Yes, and you know what you had, so you had
Speaker 3: an advant planning business, okay, and so you.
Speaker 1: Still have it though.
Speaker 2: I still have it. I just can't really focus on
Speaker 2: it too much because you know, but you can play
Speaker 2: your own ship. I could do whatever I want. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like when I want to throw a party, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: throw a party. It's like I have all the connections.
Speaker 2: I you know, I enjoy seeing the end result. I
Speaker 2: just what I didn't enjoy was the labor. I feel
Speaker 2: like people didn't want to pay for what I was working.
Speaker 1: Chasing them checks is no way, Like they don't want to.
Speaker 2: They want all these nice things.
Speaker 3: But they don't want to pay with call for it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they're like, Okay, I want to have a baby shower.
Speaker 3: I have a thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's not even gonna get the girl first budget.
Speaker 2: It's me okay, yeah, And it's like like people want
Speaker 2: to pay for the stuff, but they don't want to
Speaker 2: pay for your time. That's the most valuable part exactly.
Speaker 2: And that was where I was just getting turned off
Speaker 2: by the business. I was like, like, I, that's not
Speaker 2: what I want to do. You can pay for all
Speaker 2: of these things, but until I put it together, it's
Speaker 2: not gonna it's not gonna look how you wanted to look.
Speaker 4: And then I feel like that's getting do it yourself,
Speaker 4: but you're not gonna give what I'm able to give you,
Speaker 4: so my time and my talent.
Speaker 2: And sometimes I will tell them, listen honestly for what
Speaker 2: you want. I feel like you're better off just getting
Speaker 2: the items yourself, you know, respectfully, do it yourself.
Speaker 3: Go on YouTube university girl, how do you?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: But how's the music industry when it comes to getting
Speaker 3: paid for like show?
Speaker 2: I feel like the music industry is very like big
Speaker 2: on like numbers and your cloud. So when I first started,
Speaker 2: I feel like I wasn't really being respected, of course,
Speaker 2: which is understandable because I have to you know, I
Speaker 2: have to prove myself. So at the beginning, people didn't
Speaker 2: want to pay me what I thought I deserved because
Speaker 2: I was like at the end of the day, you know,
Speaker 2: like especially for like features and stuff like that, I'm
Speaker 2: still giving you a look, I'm still giving you. I'm
Speaker 2: not giving you no bullshit on the verse, but people
Speaker 2: still don't want to pay for it. So now I
Speaker 2: feel like I have a little bit more clout. Now
Speaker 2: people are willing to pay a little bit more for
Speaker 2: what is a process. Yeah, it's a process, and I
Speaker 2: understood the game my first. It will get me frustrated,
Speaker 2: but now I understand.
Speaker 3: Yeah, now I think of that when I first started
Speaker 3: doing radio and what I was getting paid for appearances
Speaker 3: versus what I get now.
Speaker 1: It's a process.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to be outside for two hundred and
Speaker 3: fifty dollars for real.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna lie I did free stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to do it like you have to.
Speaker 3: It's part of like work. Yeah, you know, because people
Speaker 3: sometimes think that it's a glamorous business, but a lot
Speaker 3: of times you are. And I remember when I first
Speaker 3: first started, I was everywhere. I was doing every interview,
Speaker 3: I was at every event, I was doing everything not
Speaker 3: getting paid because you're thinking about laying down the foundation,
Speaker 3: building then the experience.
Speaker 2: But that's important because I feel like relationships, relationships, relationships
Speaker 2: sometimes is worth more than money.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and more people need to understand that. And it's yes,
Speaker 4: because so many people don't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like people feel like, all right, no, like I
Speaker 2: gotta get paid. No, Honestly, I got more out of
Speaker 2: relationships than just me saying this is my price, this
Speaker 2: is what you have to pay me. But okay, what
Speaker 2: do you have to show for? But now when I
Speaker 2: build a relationship and they actually vibe with me and
Speaker 2: they like my personality, I got so much more out
Speaker 2: of that. So I'm like, sometimes I do stuff for free.
Speaker 2: I get a lot of stuff for free, but I've
Speaker 2: moved myself. For example, even with bookings, like I come
Speaker 2: out with twenty people, we turn up now the next time,
Speaker 2: Now you gotta pay me for that, right, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean? Show that I could then about the life,
Speaker 2: like I come through and we turn off and we
Speaker 2: buy bottles and we make y'all look good. So now
Speaker 2: you have to pay double.
Speaker 3: All right, Now, I want to ask you this, What
Speaker 3: are some things that you guys do to spoil your
Speaker 3: significant other that doesn't involve money, like no gifts, but
Speaker 3: like if you want to spoil your man, Okay, what
Speaker 3: are some things that you would do?
Speaker 2: First of all, I think given encouraging words is very
Speaker 2: important because as I feel like a lot of people
Speaker 2: forget the men are human.
Speaker 1: That's a fact.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you know, men have so much on their plate,
Speaker 2: like they have to be the provider. They have to
Speaker 2: you know, make sure you're good. They have to be strong.
Speaker 2: They can't really show emotions like that because that's how
Speaker 2: men were raised. So I feel like as a woman,
Speaker 2: I try to always like yo, it's okay, like you know,
Speaker 2: I'm here if you need this. I try to give
Speaker 2: you a little massage.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Saw your favorite food, you know, stuff like that, Like
Speaker 2: little stuff like that you appreciate, y'all cook Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: I can't cook like that because I'm so busy now.
Speaker 2: But when I get the chance to do, I'm good
Speaker 2: at ordering. Yeah, I love order, you know, I feel like.
Speaker 1: The side all right, that's nice. A little massage.
Speaker 3: Encouraging words is important though that always knowing the beef
Speaker 3: when things that aren't going good. But do we acknowledge
Speaker 3: when things like you did something amazing, right, Like you.
Speaker 2: Have to like thank you, like I appreciate that. Like
Speaker 2: you have to show them you appreciate the little things
Speaker 2: the big things that they do, because they do a lot.
Speaker 2: And I feel like girls are always like I'm one
Speaker 2: of those girls who like fuck niggas whatever. But you
Speaker 2: have a good man. You have to learn so appreciate
Speaker 2: because a lot of them out here.
Speaker 1: What about you? What some things you do to spoil
Speaker 1: a man?
Speaker 2: Cook for sure? Cook for them. I think I ever
Speaker 2: had you cook, no, but and you messed out, throwing down.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, baby, we're restaurant. What we're accusing you
Speaker 2: want tonight? M you know, whole experience. Yeah, I find
Speaker 2: out or conversation. I kind of pick up little things
Speaker 2: that they say when we go to restaurants. I notice,
Speaker 2: like what they order and things like that. Then I
Speaker 2: go and I be on Instagram and I'll be saying
Speaker 2: all these drispes. I'm like, hmm, got gods the way
Speaker 2: to a mens?
Speaker 1: Now, DC, we know you cook, Yes, I have your
Speaker 1: cooking all right, So what are some things that you
Speaker 1: do besides cooking?
Speaker 4: I am so much of a caregiver, like I am
Speaker 4: always catering to and I always try to and not
Speaker 4: just with my significant but even with my friends, Like
Speaker 4: I'm always that one that is going to try to
Speaker 4: help in any way that I can.
Speaker 2: I'm very supportive and.
Speaker 4: I always I come through with a solution, like I
Speaker 4: just always have like up fixed to the problem. So
Speaker 4: I think that the cook and the cleaning, the massages,
Speaker 4: it's like that's these child cater to you, like might
Speaker 4: just make you feel good and and not just making
Speaker 4: you feel good physically, but I'm going to make you
Speaker 4: feel like you're pleased with who you chose to be
Speaker 4: your men, right, And.
Speaker 2: I'm gon always be f there for you in that way.
Speaker 2: So yeah, because it's over.
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I'm all about encouraging words. I
Speaker 1: do acknowledge.
Speaker 3: I always try to make sure that I acknowledge, like
Speaker 3: all the great things. I try to plan things because
Speaker 3: you know, I get a lot of perks from what
Speaker 3: I do for a living. So if I can be like, look,
Speaker 3: we got invited to this, you want to come, you know,
Speaker 3: I think that's important. I think like encouraging people to
Speaker 3: also not always have to be up under you.
Speaker 2: Yep, I have fun. I'm not going to there's a
Speaker 2: lot of girls are soul. Ain'tal about that, like they like, definitely,
Speaker 2: they just want you to be with themble. Then you
Speaker 2: gotta understand, like you gotta left them brings. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: give me a chance to miss you.
Speaker 1: Gotciate you when they go out, and then they'd be
Speaker 1: like I gotta get home to go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's definitely one too. They need their time to.
Speaker 1: Now, staphy, have you ever been turned out?
Speaker 2: Turned down?
Speaker 1: Turned it out? Like digmatized?
Speaker 3: Like, have you ever stayed with somebody just for the
Speaker 3: d Yeah?
Speaker 1: For sure.
Speaker 2: But it's again like I said, like now, it's like
Speaker 2: even if you got good dick, that's not gonna make
Speaker 2: me go crazy having me calling your phone thirty times.
Speaker 2: Like I'm not doing none of that. I'm not understand.
Speaker 2: It's just good dick, that's it.
Speaker 1: Can you square?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Do you remember the first time you squared it? Did
Speaker 3: you know what was going on when you're nervous? Did
Speaker 3: you try to hold it down?
Speaker 2: Nah? The first time they actually was like trying to
Speaker 2: tell me, like this is what you gotta do. I
Speaker 2: was like kind of like planted into doing it. Damn,
Speaker 2: Like I didn't even get a chance yet, like my phone,
Speaker 2: like it was like, all right, this is what you're
Speaker 2: gonna do. What was their instructions? Like what did how
Speaker 2: they walk you through? There was just basically telling me
Speaker 2: like you just have to stay focused, close your eyes.
Speaker 2: You gotta close your eyes, like you just gotta like
Speaker 2: basically it was it was they were saying it was
Speaker 2: mental and it works, and it worked. Damn. Yeah. The
Speaker 2: first time I squirted it, I didn't know. Then I
Speaker 2: squirted it, yeah, and he didn't know either. It's like
Speaker 2: you peed on me? What I guess?
Speaker 1: I bet yeh.
Speaker 2: He's like, yes, you did what. I don't know. I
Speaker 2: don't think.
Speaker 4: Then years down the line because I was this was
Speaker 4: what my daughter's father, so I was like sixteen, and
Speaker 4: then years down the line when I actually did squirret.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's what it was. I didn't peel.
Speaker 2: I mean, well I kind of did. Because I believe
Speaker 2: that it's it is.
Speaker 1: Everybody argues about that.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I say it's not because of the color.
Speaker 2: When it comes from the words like it's it's clear.
Speaker 2: It's a clear picture of body.
Speaker 4: And it also is the thing that when you're about
Speaker 4: to orgasm and you feel like you gotta pee. If
Speaker 4: you don't release, then that orgasm is not going to happen.
Speaker 4: So it's kind of like you feel like you gotta pee,
Speaker 4: and then when you just let it go, you're not
Speaker 4: really paying your orgasm in. But it's just a whole
Speaker 4: weird mixture of like what's really happening? I think that
Speaker 4: it has pee in it? Sorry a little bit.
Speaker 2: It's maybe like ten percent pieces magic else.
Speaker 1: What did he just that you squatter him? Or did
Speaker 1: he try to like drink it or what.
Speaker 2: Is he tries to drink it? He just kept going
Speaker 2: like he just kept going like all right, do it again,
Speaker 2: do it again? Do it again? The front damn that
Speaker 2: was like a dominatrix type.
Speaker 3: It was, yeah, where is he right?
Speaker 2: Well, that's why I was just like so stupid over him,
Speaker 2: because I was like, I was like, I was, I can't.
Speaker 3: But the first time when you lost your virginity is
Speaker 3: that was that a great experience or was it tragic?
Speaker 2: It was weird. It was weird because so he took
Speaker 2: my virginity right, and then he was like he mentioned
Speaker 2: one of my friends. Yeah, like he took my virginity
Speaker 2: and he was like, yeah, stay a virgin like such
Speaker 2: and such. It was fucking weird.
Speaker 3: Well, how can you take your virginity and.
Speaker 2: Tell you no?
Speaker 1: He said?
Speaker 2: Like why we was fucking He was like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: only gonna put a little bit in I want you
Speaker 2: to stay a virgin like such a Why would he
Speaker 2: reference your friend? It was so weird. What did you do?
Speaker 2: What did you wait? Do that mean that he only
Speaker 2: put a little bit in her too? Maybe? And what
Speaker 2: did he say? What did you what was your I was?
Speaker 2: It was literally like he took my virginity. So it
Speaker 2: was really weird for me. I didn't know. I didn't
Speaker 2: even know how to act towards that. But I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: this think is weird, Like you're weird for even saying that.
Speaker 2: So that that made me think, like, all right, I
Speaker 2: guess he trying to fuck my friend? Like is that
Speaker 2: what it is?
Speaker 1: Right? Did you say anything to your friend?
Speaker 2: Nah? No, I'm not giving nobody Like.
Speaker 1: Nah, have you ever had a friend betray you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: When it comes to I have.
Speaker 2: Family betray me. Worse it was family betray me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but it is what it is?
Speaker 1: All right? Like what.
Speaker 2: I had a boyfriend and she made out with him,
Speaker 2: they made out or whatever, they might have fucked. I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: Are you still cool with that family member?
Speaker 2: Not at school now.
Speaker 3: But but okay, but at family gatherings you're still speaking?
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, because I feel like we was young,
Speaker 2: like everybody was just doing whatever the hell they wanted
Speaker 2: to do. It was like, I really.
Speaker 1: Take it that serious, to be honest, how did you
Speaker 1: find out?
Speaker 2: He told me?
Speaker 1: Oh that's wild? Did you ask her? Like, yo? Did you?
Speaker 2: I told her that I knew?
Speaker 1: And what did she say?
Speaker 2: Nothing? She just got mad, right and didn't say anything.
Speaker 2: She was embarrassed.
Speaker 1: That's awful. But I think we've all had friends. I
Speaker 1: don't know about family.
Speaker 2: Well I don't have.
Speaker 4: I haven't had from family, but definitely from friends who
Speaker 4: were close like family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, her, because you can't choose your family.
Speaker 4: Yeah right, So oh wait, Doug, Yes, I was my
Speaker 4: sister stole my bail money and left me in jail.
Speaker 4: That's betrayal, that is betrays Yeah. And not only did
Speaker 4: she do that, ooh girl, you know what you did.
Speaker 4: Not only does she do that, she sent the cops
Speaker 4: to in a totally different time, sent the cops to
Speaker 4: my house to save her ass and didn't give me
Speaker 4: a warning, like we was involved in some check scam
Speaker 4: situation and we have the same last name. So when
Speaker 4: they were going down the list of all of these
Speaker 4: people who was in this ring, they got her first
Speaker 4: because she had did like way more than me. I
Speaker 4: had only did one check. So then they're like, well,
Speaker 4: who is this person same last name as you? And
Speaker 4: she's like, oh, that's my sister. So instead of giving
Speaker 4: me the heads up like hey, I got locked up
Speaker 4: for this ship and they come for you. No, I
Speaker 4: got to knock on my door eight o'clock in the
Speaker 4: morning on a Wednesday, wowday, and my ass right down
Speaker 4: to the precinct. That was one of those one out
Speaker 4: of three of those times that.
Speaker 2: I got arrested.
Speaker 4: Oh my god from that fuck her. I mean, I
Speaker 4: love her because she's my sister, but she know why,
Speaker 4: don't fuck with her? And then and then the jail
Speaker 4: thing came. After the jail thing was when I moved
Speaker 4: to Atlanta. So I used to dance at Mega City
Speaker 4: and you have to have a permit and it comes
Speaker 4: from the city to the police department.
Speaker 2: Yeah, run your fingerprints, and you can't have anything.
Speaker 4: They student in New York, though, No, they do it
Speaker 4: in Texas, Georgia and Vegasday.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so especially in Atlanta. It's a thing in Atlanta
Speaker 4: any night life, to be a bartender, a bottle server,
Speaker 4: a DJ in the club, you have.
Speaker 2: To have a permit.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so anyway, so I want to renew my permit,
Speaker 4: right I hadn't been. I had a warrant. F Iro'm
Speaker 4: not paying a real estate I had a warrant from
Speaker 4: not paying a speeding ticket.
Speaker 2: And I didn't know that that happened either.
Speaker 4: I didn't know that certain counties down there will give
Speaker 4: you a warrant for your wrestling you don't pay a ticket.
Speaker 2: So I just didn't pay the ticket.
Speaker 1: Not no.
Speaker 4: So I go to get my permit and they run
Speaker 4: my fingerprints and this warrant pops up, so they like,
Speaker 4: we got to arrest you just paid a It was
Speaker 4: like fourth one hundred dollars. Just pay the money and
Speaker 4: you know they'll they'll let you out. So I had
Speaker 4: just moved to Atlanta a year prior.
Speaker 2: I had no family down there.
Speaker 4: I called back home and I called my brother and
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm locked up, Send me bail.
Speaker 2: Money.
Speaker 4: So he's like, I got the money in my pocket,
Speaker 4: but I'm not. I can't go to Western Union right now.
Speaker 4: I have somebody to pick it up. My sister went
Speaker 4: and picked up the money and she kept the money.
Speaker 2: To this day. That was like eighteen years ago. I
Speaker 2: never got that money back. So again, what you said
Speaker 2: the people to lock me up and then you're just
Speaker 2: gonna leave me in jail.
Speaker 3: And she didn't even apologize and never never, we still
Speaker 3: got beef.
Speaker 2: She know why I don't like her to this day.
Speaker 2: We still got beef to this day. She's my sister.
Speaker 2: I love it. It's fair, mom, she's my sister. I
Speaker 2: love it. But she knows why. I feel like with
Speaker 2: family is like, let's betrayal. But now I feel like
Speaker 2: now in this stage, it's like I don't care who
Speaker 2: you are, you do me dirty.
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I had to learn that too.
Speaker 3: I've been such a forgiving person my whole life, and
Speaker 3: I had to be like, I can't do this anymore,
Speaker 3: like some people just be a burden on Yeah, my god.
Speaker 1: Why do that to myself? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I've had so many lessons just in the year twenty
Speaker 4: twenty three of me being there for people and then
Speaker 4: seeing how they were not there for me, and the
Speaker 4: lesson is now moving forward as things are transforming and
Speaker 4: changing my life for the better. Everybody can't go yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: and don't take it because you know why you can't come.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't climb up like I feel like we're too.
Speaker 2: Here up if you're holding me down right right, Like
Speaker 2: that was cool when we was teenagers, but now we're grown.
Speaker 2: You know what you're doing. You met what you did,
Speaker 2: so now you just got to be left behind. That's
Speaker 2: just how I said. I'm I got y'all this lash.
Speaker 2: I think I'm mad to take it off like.
Speaker 3: A secret like a gene like in case y'all haven't
Speaker 3: heard the project made shuw you do that where you at?
Speaker 1: That's out right now? What else is happening? So we know?
Speaker 2: So I'm dropping a new single. It's cold, that's crazy.
Speaker 2: It's gonna go crazy, It's gonna go crazy. Yeah, it's dropping.
Speaker 2: I don't want to say when it's dropping, but it's
Speaker 2: gonna be what's crazy. Yeah, it's a lot of a
Speaker 2: lot of stuff be crazy out here, Like we live
Speaker 2: in a crazy world. What's going on? But some of
Speaker 2: us are crazy. Yeah, I'm a crazy person.
Speaker 1: Honesty. Thank you so much, and I appreciate.
Speaker 2: You, thank you for having me camera. But I had
Speaker 2: to y'all, I was over here.
Speaker 1: You put it out yourself.
Speaker 2: I just yeah, it's not easy. Yeah, I look at
Speaker 2: this way. I'm like I should.
Speaker 3: Trying to learn how to do it, and every time
Speaker 3: I do this be like messed up. But I just
Speaker 3: be happy if it stays.
Speaker 1: On all day.
Speaker 2: Love right now?
Speaker 1: Steps all right, well, Steph, do you thank you so much?
Speaker 1: She like a j. Make sure you take that off.
Speaker 1: It's lip service. Cheer mm hmmm