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Speaker 1: What's up. It's lift Service. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: I'm g G Maguire, I'm Laura Ramara.

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Speaker 3: I'm stuff G like a G like a G like.

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Speaker 3: But first of all, I'm want to thank Steph G.

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Speaker 3: Because I see all the work you do in the community.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: She just recently came out to an event as you

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Speaker 3: did to Laura, supporting a man of these children's hospital

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Speaker 3: where I was born.

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Speaker 1: Do y'all know where you were born?

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 4: I was born at Chestnut Hill Hospital in Philadelphia, and

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Speaker 4: fun fact, my daughter was born there as well, and

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Speaker 4: my sister had her daughter there a year after my daughter,

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Speaker 4: and her and my daughter have the same doctor.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's a good feeling.

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Speaker 2: Keep it in the family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know your hospital, Lauren.

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Speaker 2: No. I was born in the Dominican Republic.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I haven't even seen my birth.

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Speaker 1: This is a Dominican couch.

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Speaker 2: I haven't even seen. I probably have two birthdays.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: And you were just there though not that yet long ago. Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: sitting your dad.

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Speaker 2: Yes, visiting my dad, which I could bring him here

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Speaker 2: so he could come visit and sell right here.

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Speaker 1: But okay, and Steph G. You know what hospital.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was born in Boue Hospital.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he said yea in the city like that every time, Like, yo,

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Speaker 2: you was born in the crazy people hospital.

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Speaker 3: All right, but you're from Brooklyn. Yeah you're kind of

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Speaker 3: you're from Brooklyn too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm from Crown Heights from Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yes, now listen, we were watching the video where yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: and it's about to go down when like, when's the

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Speaker 3: last time you've been in a fight.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna lie, it's been a little minute. But there's

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Speaker 2: a couple of girls that I'm like, you know what,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I need to come out of retirement

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Speaker 2: real quick because they just be talking crazy about you.

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Speaker 1: Now. Is it because you as an artist?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like artist ship, like you know, people just

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Speaker 2: be talking online or whatever. So that song, I really

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Speaker 2: wrote it like when I was feeling a way oh damn, yeah,

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Speaker 2: don't sleep because it's always about the bitch season. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it is for me. You know, I'm all about love

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Speaker 2: right now, like I'm in my glow up season, so

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Speaker 2: I'm not really about that. But when I wrote that,

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Speaker 2: I was I was feeling like, you know what, I'm

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Speaker 2: coming out of retirement, Like she's talking too much.

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Speaker 3: But is it about you or is it about because

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Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of times we get into

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Speaker 3: it over you know who we're dating.

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Speaker 2: No, I wasn't off for no guy, Okay, nah. I

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Speaker 2: feel like that'd be the.

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Speaker 3: Number one reason we don't get alone with people they

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Speaker 3: masally don't like you that you don't even know.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what really my situation like. I

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Speaker 2: feel like a lot of girls don't even know me,

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Speaker 2: and it's like y'all already talking smack about me, but

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Speaker 2: it's like y'all don't even know me, like relax.

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Speaker 1: Is it like other artists?

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Speaker 2: It was some artists, but they weren't really nobody big.

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Speaker 2: I don't really get I really let the internet get

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Speaker 2: to me because I already know like what the internet

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Speaker 2: is here for. But you know, I'm human, and.

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Speaker 3: You know, sometimes it is a conversation like people talk

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Speaker 3: shit but then they meet you and have it and

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Speaker 3: then like.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, and that happened to me so many times.

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Speaker 2: It's like you see you, you you you was not

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Speaker 2: liking me for no reason, like when you meet me,

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Speaker 2: you love me. So it's like it was all for nothing.

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Speaker 3: All night and you got to have like forgiveness you

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Speaker 3: certain extent, there's some things that people can say about

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Speaker 3: you that's unforgivable.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like when people make up shit about you. Yes,

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Speaker 2: making up womans is crazy.

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Speaker 1: That I remember that happened to me. I ran into

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Speaker 1: a girl.

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Speaker 3: She had been talking mad shit about me, and I

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Speaker 3: was like, man, So she was actually applying for a

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Speaker 3: job somewhere right. My friend owned the clothing line, and

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Speaker 3: line and the girl was there interviewing for a job.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Guess when you get hired then, but guess who did not.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, can I talk to you for

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Speaker 3: a second, you know, in the hallway. And so we

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Speaker 3: went to the hallway and I was like, you said X,

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Speaker 3: Y and Z about me. I heard about it. She

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Speaker 3: was like, well no, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: She just felt crazy because sometimes when people talk about you,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't like confer her like I want to

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Speaker 3: fight her, like and.

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Speaker 2: You were just on some Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to let her know that I know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I went back inside and I told

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Speaker 3: my friend and she was like, oh, yeah, she's not working.

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Speaker 2: Here period period.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you. When's the last time you've been

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Speaker 1: in the fight.

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Speaker 2: You I am a lover. When is the last time

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Speaker 2: I've been in the fight? Years?

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Speaker 4: Probably the time I knoed out that girl in the

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Speaker 4: bathroom in Orlando house.

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Speaker 2: She was she was white, and she called me a

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Speaker 2: black bitch.

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Speaker 1: What she drunk or something?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Probably I think I was. I think I might have

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Speaker 4: been drunk. We was with Jock shout Out, a young

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Speaker 4: job was with jo It was Guardian.

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Speaker 2: And you know, this was my cream cartel days.

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Speaker 4: We used to roll thick out, throwing our things so

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Speaker 4: out of the jasmine because she was there. But anyway,

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Speaker 4: in the bathroom, get into a argument with this girl

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Speaker 4: and I was by myself and she like had like

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Speaker 4: people with her whatever. And I remember I had on

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Speaker 4: some Gucci mules. Remember the Gucci mules with the wooden bottoms.

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Speaker 1: I had one.

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Speaker 2: I had those on and I walked I left. She

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Speaker 2: called me a black bitch.

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Speaker 4: I was like, okay, I turned around, I walked speed

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Speaker 4: walked to the section.

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Speaker 2: I kicked my soul.

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Speaker 4: I come to imagine, I come to the section and

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Speaker 4: I just like kicked my shoes off, put my bag

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Speaker 4: to the bathroom. When I tell you, I started running

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Speaker 4: and by the time I got to that girl, I

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Speaker 4: hit her so hard that she hit the ground and

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Speaker 1: I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 3: Her friends was like, oh, but you know what, I'm

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Speaker 3: lying because I think the first time I met Gigi

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Speaker 3: she might have gotten in a fight and live.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that.

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Speaker 4: Was the first time we met. Okay, we met, but

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Speaker 4: we were but we did meet that live. That wasn't

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Speaker 4: the first time we met, but it was around that

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Speaker 4: begin that into a fight.

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Speaker 2: I remember that that was that over a guy. That

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Speaker 2: wasn't over a guy. Okay, And.

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Speaker 3: Me ask you this, if your friend starts fighting or like,

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Speaker 3: let's say in a situation where I didn't know Gig

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Speaker 3: that well but she we at the same table.

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Speaker 1: Am I supposed to jump in.

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Speaker 2: The way I look at it is like, if there's

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Speaker 2: one on one, let them fight, Like, let them fight

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Speaker 2: now if you've seen it's an unfair fight. I'm jumping

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Speaker 2: in for my front.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's your you know, that was my girl,

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Speaker 3: that's yeah. I feel like it was just more like throwing.

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Speaker 2: We were selling.

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Speaker 4: It was like I remember the girls was like going

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Speaker 4: up the steps and he was like throwing stuff down

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Speaker 4: and stuff.

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Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was like a reality TV show

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Speaker 2: it I guess we did continue to party right after.

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Speaker 1: Have you been in a fight?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, back in Miami.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: I think I had a fight and forge I go

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Speaker 2: to fight. She was fighting me and that my friend

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Speaker 2: beat her up. Why you ain't fight my friend didn't

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Speaker 2: even give me a chance to hit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to period.

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Speaker 2: I had a fight like that before. Like that. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: I didn't even get out. I was like, damn, could

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Speaker 2: you let me get the person.

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Speaker 3: With a guy and he gets into a fight, right,

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Speaker 3: what's your responsibility me?

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Speaker 2: It depends how much. Look I got my system, Like

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Speaker 2: if you with me, I just always feel like I

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Speaker 2: gotta like protect you. No matter who you are. You

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Speaker 2: could be ten times bigger than me. I'm gonna fight

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Speaker 2: with you, like that's just what I am. Again, Like

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Speaker 2: if it's two girls, I'm gonna let you fight. But

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Speaker 2: if I feel like it's unfair, I'm probably gonna jump

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Speaker 2: in after a guy. I'm doing the same thing. Especially

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Speaker 2: if you my man, I'm fighting.

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Speaker 1: Right, are you there. Let's just say, yeah, man, do

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Speaker 1: you have a boyfriend now? Nah? Okay, so you're single? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: When was your last relationship?

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Speaker 2: It was like two years ago.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a decent amount of time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Single. Are you enjoying single life?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Because I just feel like I'm more focused when

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Speaker 2: I'm single, Like, I don't got the distractions. I don't

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Speaker 2: got somebody like bugging me and stuff. I feel like,

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Speaker 2: especially what I do, like, I just can't, like, I can't.

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Speaker 2: I gotta be like this right now, tunnel vision. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I got a little booth thing. But okay, yee my man,

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Speaker 2: they going towards that or nah? Why not? We just

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Speaker 2: you know, having fun, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Does he know that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I tell him. I remind him all the time.

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Speaker 1: He did, so he hasn't tried to make it more serious.

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Speaker 2: Of course, he always tries to make it serious. But

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Speaker 2: I'm just not with that right now.

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Speaker 1: Are you okay with him seeing other women and stuff?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I understand him, Like I got it, like it

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Speaker 2: is what it is.

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Speaker 1: You got it? Okay?

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Speaker 2: With you see another man? Yeah? Show every chance I get.

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Speaker 2: I tell him, like, I tell him go talk to

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Speaker 2: other girls, like don't just stay stuck on me because

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to other guys if I feel like

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Speaker 2: I want to talk to other guys. So I don't

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Speaker 2: want you feeling like this is going somewhere, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't like to leave people on if it's not really

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Speaker 2: going nowhere.

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Speaker 1: Why so he's just your boot thing? Why won't it

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Speaker 1: go to them?

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Speaker 2: Maybe I need them wrong? Maybe he's not my booth thing,

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Speaker 2: and we fucking So there's chemistry, you know, sometimes chemistry

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Speaker 2: and that, but you don't see it going nowhere else,

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Speaker 3: What about spinning in your mouth? Yeah okay, she said

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, I've done that and I've gotten in trouble

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Speaker 1: That day the night. Why you do that?

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Speaker 2: I made like a little joke like, yo, you remember

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Speaker 2: I do it, but I gotta be really fucked up.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to find something that she would be stuck on.

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Speaker 1: What about golden showers?

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 2: Had a crazy experience. Yes, you have really crazy experience.

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Speaker 2: So that's why I'll never be like I'll never do this,

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Speaker 2: I'll never do that. Because I just don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was about to say, camera blackout. I'll be blacking

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Speaker 1: No, you don't even know if it was fun.

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Speaker 2: It's fun in the moment. Yeah, I'm saying, I know

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Speaker 3: You gotta just drink to get nice. Yes, I don't

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Speaker 3: I'm blacking out. There's a lot of steak here, and

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Speaker 3: Not I'm just crazy, you trust right? So why did

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Speaker 2: He cheated on me And it was not like one

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Speaker 2: that's like the icebreaker for me, Like you catching feelings,

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Speaker 3: Oh damn, yeah, I said, do you think that if? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't tell him that. But it was like, you know,

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Speaker 2: But I feel bad for her. So it's like hitting you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: never spun the block, not one time. No. I don't

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Speaker 2: not happening with me. Like once we're done but it

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Speaker 3: Super young, and she's not doing the mech and summer

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Speaker 3: Walker like exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's more accurate, right that.

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Speaker 3: It's interesting because you your goal was never even to

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Speaker 2: You know what it was like. I was always into music,

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Speaker 2: but like I don't know if you know you notice

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Speaker 2: to be a dancer. So I was always like into music,

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Speaker 2: It was one of those situations. It was never like

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Speaker 3: And then I think even for you to be able

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Speaker 2: Maybe? Maybe I feel like right now I'm I'm at

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm in a different space. But I

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Speaker 2: what we love you for, Like can we get that again?

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Speaker 2: I'm like I will, I will eventually.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes if people keep asking for something.

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Speaker 4: But it's good that you go through your eras and

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Speaker 2: My thing is universatility, That's the thing. Like I feel

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Speaker 2: like I don't want anything to ever feel forced with me,

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Speaker 2: like whatever I'm feeling and whatever, that's what I write

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Speaker 2: to them. Right, did you work if you had the

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Speaker 2: which artists would be bad Bunny, for sure. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to get that future too.

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Speaker 1: To exist.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you think being from Brooklyn has influenced like who

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Speaker 2: But brown Yeah, from Brownsville. Like, I just feel like

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Speaker 2: Like I know it sounds very cliche, but if I

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Speaker 2: it's like I just have like that hard like and

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Speaker 2: I feel like in this industry you have to be tough.

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Speaker 2: You can't be weak. Like I tell a lot of

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Speaker 2: you gotta you gotta be shown like stuff is gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: You just gotta keep going. I feel like coming from Brooklyn,

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Speaker 1: Who are your other artists friends? Like, who do you

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Speaker 2: Of course right now I really got close shot Lesh.

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Speaker 2: She's Muslim, but she does music as well. Brittany Blanco,

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Speaker 2: I funck with Breezelan. You know a lot of the

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Speaker 2: they're cool as fuck. Like it's a lot of girls

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Speaker 3: I know that previously You've talked about just going into

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Speaker 3: This is one question I used to get a lot

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Speaker 1: How do you handle that?

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Speaker 3: Because sometimes you still want to work, you still want

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Speaker 1: What advice would you.

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Speaker 2: Give honestly, like, don't feel pressured, Like, don't feel like

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Speaker 2: gonna be for you. That's how I see it. So

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Speaker 2: whenever that situation approached me, like the first initial thing

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Speaker 2: like you know, like stop playing with me, Like I'll

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Speaker 2: do something like that now if you continue. Now, I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, all right, this is a lose lose for me.

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Speaker 2: So I just honestly I just dot it. I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: and I just keep it moving.

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Speaker 1: And then what happens when you run into that person again?

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Speaker 2: Fact like nothing ever happened. Okay, I'll be like, hey, bro,

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Speaker 2: just always brow them. That's it, right, so you can understand,

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Speaker 2: like that's the space I'm in, but you're my bro,

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Speaker 2: that's what it.

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Speaker 1: Is, all right, and what is sim all right?

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Speaker 3: So I was reading this article about the small but

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: What's something small that's made you be like I can't

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Speaker 2: I would say hygiene, yeah, like you can't think. I

445
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,840
Speaker 2: think that's a big no, like automatically turned.

446
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:21,600
Speaker 1: Would you tell them?

447
00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,240
Speaker 2: I'll probably tell you the first time, like yo, like baby,

448
00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:27,399
Speaker 2: like your breaststink or like you know, like when I

449
00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,880
Speaker 2: was down there, it was smiling a little like did

450
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 2: you just come from were you hugging the block all day?

451
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,760
Speaker 2: Tell you twice? But if you if it's continuous, it's

452
00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 2: over for you. Like no, I cannot do that.

453
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,879
Speaker 1: What about you, Gigi, what's one small thing for me?

454
00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,919
Speaker 2: It's how you treat other people like that.

455
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 4: I literally had to stop talking to somebody because they

456
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,480
Speaker 4: I just didn't like the way to handle people around them.

457
00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,800
Speaker 4: I feel like, because like, if you handling them like that,

458
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,119
Speaker 4: I can only see the way you will potentially handle me.

459
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 2: And I'm not right.

460
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,199
Speaker 3: You want somebody that you feel like it's a good person, yes, regardless.

461
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 4: Of who it is, Like you can't And and it's

462
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,160
Speaker 4: usually people who feel like they have like some type

463
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,159
Speaker 4: of power that they just want to be an asshole

464
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,560
Speaker 4: because they feel like that's what they're supposed to do,

465
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 4: Like how cops are just like you. You know what

466
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:21,480
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like you can't treat people that work for

467
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 4: you or that's here with you, you.

468
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 2: Know, like because it shows your character very much so

469
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:27,280
Speaker 2: and I don't like that.

470
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:28,359
Speaker 1: What about you, Lara?

471
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:35,920
Speaker 2: Hmmm? Both of those show inconsistency. Yeah, like the first

472
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 2: sign of inconsistency. I'm not like, not of your word,

473
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 2: even if it's something small that you didn't even have to.

474
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:46,919
Speaker 1: I want to ask you this.

475
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 3: So I just executive produced this show for v and

476
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 3: it's so amazing.

477
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 1: Graduation friend.

478
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,120
Speaker 3: Chavy, and I wanted to ask you, have you ever

479
00:20:59,160 --> 00:20:59,800
Speaker 3: been scammed?

480
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 1: I feel that way like everybody has scam, like.

481
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,120
Speaker 2: They use my credit card type shit or just scammed

482
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:06,639
Speaker 2: in general.

483
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 3: That's somebody you know, like just scammed you or you know,

484
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 3: got some money out of you or got something out

485
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 3: of you.

486
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, a thousand times, really that many? Yes? You know

487
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 2: what it is that I give people chances, too many chances,

488
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,239
Speaker 2: So I give you the benefit of the d I'm like, nah,

489
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 2: they would never do me like that. They would never

490
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 2: do me like that until they do me like that.

491
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 3: Like what's the worst scam you've ever been a victim of?

492
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 3: And sometimes it's embarrassing.

493
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 1: For people to talk about it, but I think we've

494
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 1: all been right.

495
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:37,959
Speaker 2: I would say my ex was my biggest scam for real.

496
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 2: I feel like my ex was my biggest scam because

497
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,439
Speaker 2: he made me like get into like get cars. He

498
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 2: made me like yeah, like I've got into so much depth.

499
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 2: Wait time you got a car. I was really a

500
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 2: dumb girl, like it was.

501
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:53,919
Speaker 1: I wanted this is a safe yeah to talk about it.

502
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 3: So because the guy that we did the story on,

503
00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 3: he he talked this one woman into getting like four

504
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 3: cars in her name.

505
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are professional scammers. That's how I look at them.

506
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 1: He touched me to get in your car, and he's

507
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,679
Speaker 1: using your credit for him to get everything.

508
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 2: Like everything was all me, Like I got the car,

509
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 2: I got the crib everything, Like I always been a hustle,

510
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 2: Like I always have my own money, Like that was

511
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 2: just always me. So yeah, he was my biggest scam.

512
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 2: Like I lost a lot of money, Like I just

513
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: want the money back.

514
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 1: That's so annoying. That's great. So when you say a

515
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 1: lot of money, what's a lot of.

516
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 2: Money like a couple of bands?

517
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 1: Like, so is your credit okay now now?

518
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 2: Because I fixed it right damn?

519
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

520
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know I had to spend money on

521
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,880
Speaker 2: that too, So that's still part of the.

522
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,880
Speaker 1: Scam to me. You know, it's hard because you can't

523
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: really do much about it, like you know, can.

524
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 2: You just got to charge to the game, keep going

525
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 2: like it is what it is.

526
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 3: Because if you hold a grudge and you be met

527
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 3: like yeah, because you can't.

528
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 1: Even go to court, they'd be like, well you willingly

529
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: yeah did x y. But it makes you learn.

530
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, I definitely learned. That's one thing I feel

531
00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 2: like everything in life is a lesson. You just gotta

532
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 2: try just the game and keep going.

533
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: That's it makes it harder for the next guy though.

534
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 2: Definitely, because now, let me tell you something, I ain't

535
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 2: taking nothing like if you're not if you're not marking

536
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: everything on my list, you cannot be my man. That's

537
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 2: just what it is. Like. For example, when she said

538
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 2: you have to treat other people nice, you have to

539
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 2: treat me like a princess. I don't expect you to

540
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: give me all of your time, but give me enough time.

541
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta have. You gotta have some type

542
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: of money because you gotta at least match me or

543
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: more because I'm not taking care of you. Those days

544
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 2: are over. Yeah, those days are over.

545
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 1: What did this guy do for a living?

546
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 2: Did he? Girl? I don't know what the hell he

547
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 2: did at this point. Yeah, it was like it was

548
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 2: one of those situations they were just selling dreams to

549
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 2: be honest. Yeah, you know, you just gotta like she's

550
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: gotta being she gotta be a boss. You gotta be

551
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: a boss, nigga, like you have to be on your ship.

552
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: It looks matter.

553
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: I feel like now like if everything else is there,

554
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 2: I might bypass your looks. Okay, if you're really that

555
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: good of a person, you treat me like a queen.

556
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 2: It's happened, you know, it's happened before.

557
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 1: So mm hmm.

558
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 2: What about you though?

559
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 1: Are you ever been scammed by a guy?

560
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 2: Yes, a couple of times. A couple of times. It's

561
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 2: crazy scam like things like let's see. Oh yeah, so

562
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 2: this one guy was like, YO, give me such like

563
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 2: the bitcoin when bitcoin was out, and he was like, YO,

564
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 2: give me two thousand dollars and I'm gonna make sure

565
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 2: you that I'm gonna get you back like fifty thousand,

566
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 2: like I'll watch, I'll do everything. So I gave it.

567
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 2: So I gave him the money until this day, I

568
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 2: don't have no freaking returns and now everybody getting arrested

569
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: and my money is going with his ass got crazy? Well, no,

570
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 2: you know, like whoever he was working with that was

571
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: doing as one of the people that has been indicted

572
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 2: for bitcoin scams and pyramid and another one remember that

573
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 2: wheel that was going around in COVID. Remember calling and

574
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 2: what is it? You don't have anything but.

575
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: Try to get me to do that.

576
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did it, but I learned in college I

577
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 3: did a paramid sk.

578
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: You told me that.

579
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 4: Then when I told you I did it, and you

580
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 4: was like, did you ever get your money? You know

581
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 4: how like you win like it's your turn or whatever.

582
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I never yeah, and in the

583
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 2: end nobody wins.

584
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: But now tell you.

585
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 3: When I did it in college, I definitely got it early,

586
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 3: so me and my best friend, she started it.

587
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 2: She was I was lucky because you get in, you

588
00:25:59,480 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: get somebody.

589
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 3: By the time I made third and fourth years, yeah,

590
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 3: I made my money twice and then but then people

591
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 3: be mad.

592
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 2: Yeah and once god yeah, like sixty years and the

593
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: ones like you got to bring two people in. So

594
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 2: for this person, I'm gonna fay's crazy.

595
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

596
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 2: The only time that was like the scam of all skins.

597
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 2: Do it until everybody, don't you tell me how to

598
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:30,239
Speaker 2: do it? I think I had already did it.

599
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: There was.

600
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Once you see that circle

601
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: is full and.

602
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 3: You're trying to get handed, called it that sou because

603
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 3: that's a real thing, like an.

604
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 1: Asian this true.

605
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 2: This group I was and started doing different trees. I'm like, yeah,

606
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: we have a whole forest. And I still didn't get

607
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 2: your whole larious. It's ridiculous. But yeah, that was like

608
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 2: a mug especially throughout, but I think came up.

609
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I made like four thousand.

610
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 2: Dollars and walked out wife.

611
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 3: Because you got to see people weren't so mad because

612
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 3: when you get your money, they want you to put.

613
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: You have to back in.

614
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 4: And that's why people wasn't get any money because people

615
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 4: were taking the money and running. They want money back

616
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 4: because there's any money.

617
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: So when did the scot then four then sixteen?

618
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was a true scam story.

619
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: I had interview ship.

620
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 2: I was just got of scam.

621
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: What tell me?

622
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 2: But that's what I get though.

623
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 4: So when I was doing the shoot for the last

624
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 4: dance Readmaster that I'm about to release, I called this

625
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 4: guy I know that be boosting so he can get

626
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 4: my wardrobe and I sent him the money to give

627
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 4: my wardrobe and I never heard back from him. So

628
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 4: I had like a crisis, like I had like a

629
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 4: nine to one one.

630
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: You're lucky I wasn't on your phone because if I

631
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 2: could have got to New York, I would have came

632
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 2: and rided your closet like the day before my shoes

633
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 2: I didn't have anything for my shoes. And that's because

634
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 2: he had I had stopped hearing from him. Now this

635
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 2: is somebody that I knew, I know well, and I

636
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 2: trusted him. So I'm like, I know, he just get

637
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 2: on my money kind of find out he got up. Yeah, yeah,

638
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: he got I didn't but I just found out literally,

639
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 2: Like that's why I'm like, oh, I just got scared.

640
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 2: I just found out probably a week ago there did

641
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 2: he No he in jail, But like so my home,

642
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 2: you know, you have we all got that one friend

643
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 2: that could find out anything on the Instagram on the right.

644
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 4: So I hit her, I hit up on my front

645
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 4: and I hit her up when it first happened, because

646
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 4: I'm like, do you think this thing of woul ghost me? Like,

647
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 4: I don't think that he would do that, Like I

648
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 4: thought from the rip that something happened. But the fact

649
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 4: that I gave him my money and this was like

650
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 4: a few thousand dollars.

651
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: Like the fact that I gave him my money and

652
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 2: he just I stopped hearing from him, like three days later,

653
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: some ship I just I could have, but you know,

654
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 2: I wanted the plug.

655
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:51,959
Speaker 1: I want the hook up.

656
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 4: You know, we always trying to save a coin anyway

657
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 4: for sure. So she looked into it and she's like,

658
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 4: I don't know. And then I doubled back and she

659
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 4: was like, oh girl, he'd lock up.

660
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 2: She said, he went.

661
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 4: She went under his page and it's all types of

662
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 4: people under there and looking for him, like yo with

663
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 4: a Chanelle bag like.

664
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: Him even more, like yo, where you at? We're that bag?

665
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: What's the lesson we learned from this?

666
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 2: No more? Buy No more because unless they already got

667
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 2: the product in your face and you can just buy

668
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: it the money upfront without the product, because I'm still

669
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,959
Speaker 2: because I'm still. And the thing is that everybody has

670
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: trust the shoes. They're like, no, you have to pay me,

671
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: or no you're not. You don't You're not getting anything.

672
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: So nobody is like, it's like a trust you see again,

673
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: I know this person for like eighteen years, so I

674
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 2: really trusted that he.

675
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: Was not What was you trying to get?

676
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 2: I needed two outfits?

677
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 4: Full had to tell out I needed shoes and everything,

678
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 4: and he was like, I got you sis.

679
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, he got your money back when you get out

680
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 2: of there.

681
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 3: Because I think it is important to have that conversation

682
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 3: because with Jennifer, the that you know she dated. He

683
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 3: scammed like so many people, his own family.

684
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 2: Members that shi it was crazy. Father crazy. Yeah, he

685
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 2: scammed his own father out of forty.

686
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: Spoke to his dad. He took his dad's money, his

687
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: dad a disability check.

688
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: That's crazy. I mean, you just don't care about nobody

689
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 2: when you see that. Yeah, the lady that lost her house,

690
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 2: that had the daughter. Yeah, and she was the woman

691
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 2: and the FED showed up to her job.

692
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like an engineer like that.

693
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 2: That That was like, damn, have you ever been arrested? Yeah?

694
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: It was petty though it was I was smoking weed

695
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: in the park. It was never nothing crazy.

696
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 3: That's crazy because that's not even illegal. Nost No, that's

697
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 3: the funny part.

698
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 2: And it was like I feel like those cops they

699
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 2: took advantage, like it was crazy that night, Like I

700
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 2: should never even been arrested that night, but it was.

701
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: It happened.

702
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 2: We was parked up smoking. It was nothing crazy, but

703
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 2: we was like in a dad end. So it was

704
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: like these undercover cops. It wasn't even like regular blue

705
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 2: and whites. They were undercover cops. They came, they did

706
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: a whole like scene. They like it was all surrounding

707
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: me on some weird ship. Like I feel like it

708
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 2: was crazy, Like I've never been arrested before, right, so

709
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 2: that is traumatized. It really trauma sized me. And when

710
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 2: I got out, like they was going through my phone,

711
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: they was going through my pictures. Yeah, yeah, for no reason,

712
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: for no reason. Wait, and it was like, you know,

713
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 2: I had like private stuff in there, a lot of stuff.

714
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: They really went through everything. They went through everything. And

715
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: the craziest thing about the story is that they knew

716
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: what our car looked like. So every time they saw

717
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: our car, they will stop us and they will harass us.

718
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: Why for no reason? That's why that East New York.

719
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: I still remember their faces. It's like, it's crazy preeson.

720
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: I think it was pret seventy three. I don't know

721
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: what Preeson it was, but wow, it was crazy commercizing experience.

722
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 2: Like it's over now. I was like, Joe's not for me,

723
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: Like we.

724
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: Know Gigi's been to jail, yes, yeah, she had a

725
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: whole girlfriend.

726
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 4: I did ninety days on vikers when I was twenty two.

727
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 2: But in total, I've been arrested probably like three times.

728
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: What did that, Laura, have you ever been arrested.

729
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: That's one of my friends. Got please please, please please. Yeah,

730
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 2: I am not cut for it. I'm not making I

731
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: ain't not lie though I kind of had like I

732
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 2: thought Jim's gonna be different. Like I had girls in there.

733
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: They was like, you so pretty. They started braiding my

734
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 2: hair like I was like, this is jail. But I

735
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: just didn't like like the compability of it.

736
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: They said it brady.

737
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: It was brady. Yeah, they was braiding my hair. There

738
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 2: was like going for free like they was braiding my hair.

739
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 2: They was like like catering to me. I was like

740
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 2: the same, Like I was only there for like three days.

741
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: It was like my hair.

742
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 2: I didn't go to right though, right it is probably different,

743
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: but I was in the booking.

744
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, when I first got there, I had girls trying

745
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 4: to take me home today pet I was like, oh no.

746
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: Girl, get you out of here.

747
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: They weren't trying to break my hair, they were trying

748
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 2: to try me out.

749
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: Do you think there's such a thing as loving somebody

750
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: too much?

751
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I learned that. I feel like when I

752
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: was younger, I always felt like I had to. I

753
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 2: always loved the person more than I love myself. And

754
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 2: it took time it actually took time me being by myself,

755
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 2: and once I was by myself for like a good

756
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: two three years, it was over. Like I love myself

757
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 2: more than I will ever love anybody else. And I

758
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 2: feel like that's for a lot of girls nowadays lack.

759
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 2: That's why they do so much for their man and

760
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: they let men disrespect them because they don't love themselves enough.

761
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: Right, that's a that's a big deal.

762
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 3: And they also feel like, you know, it's hard for

763
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 3: people to be honest and share certain things because you

764
00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 3: don't want to get judged.

765
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not me like I was always scared

766
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 2: to like you know, like whenever i'm you hire ancient

767
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 2: nigga my family, like yo, like I am going and

768
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, you're just hating, like you.

769
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: Know, let me like some guys didn't make you defend

770
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: the person more.

771
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't love yourself, you do? Yeah?

772
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you also want to prove everybody wrong, like

773
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to admit, like I fucked up.

774
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 2: But then at night you're crying by yourself yourself. It's

775
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: like they're my family.

776
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, I was right? Yeah what about you? You

777
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: think you could love somebody too much.

778
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, all the time. Not just men mm hmm. Friends, family, Yeah,

779
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 2: you can't let your kids too much though, oh no,

780
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 2: I'm a little that's the exceptions. Like the only week.

781
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: First of all, there my heart beating, like I have to.

782
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: They're attached to my heart, so like that's unconditional love.

783
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, but I have family, friends.

784
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 1: Everybody don't let it kids. Let's be real, that's.

785
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: Kind of crazy. Gonna lie people, no disrespect, But mothers

786
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 2: that don't have their kids, I question because it's like,

787
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 2: how can you be away from somebody that came from

788
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: your wounb That's how I look at it. I mean,

789
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 2: it happened. Sometimes it happens because that's my and you're

790
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 2: just doing it just it's my choice. It's like you

791
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 2: had a choice and you just gave them away that

792
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 2: I know. I know situations like I have friends that

793
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 2: situations where it's not their fault. But if you just

794
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 2: like you know what, like I don't want to deal

795
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 2: with this, go to your dad. I don't respect that, but.

796
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 3: You know it's not there sometimes too, Why do dads

797
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 3: not have That's they're fair, that's it's not.

798
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: But as a mom, you shouldn't naturally want to be

799
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 2: with your child. That's just how I.

800
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: Feel like dad should want that too.

801
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 2: Absolutely, they absolutely should. They don't. They don't. It's sad

802
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: that they don't.

803
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you have kids.

804
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 2: That's what I do. I don't talk about them because

805
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 2: the internet is we are. Don't post on nothing.

806
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: Because I've never seen your post anything.

807
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 2: I just keep them like in the you know, yeah,

808
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 2: I get that you're doing that basis because and listen,

809
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 2: you can't give everything, you know, certain things that you

810
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: really really care about.

811
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,879
Speaker 1: When did you suppose your ex when you guys were together.

812
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 2: When I was younger. I'm not posting him no more

813
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 2: like nobody that I'm with, You're not getting posted until

814
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 2: we married. Now you're going to see the white pictures.

815
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna come out pregnant with a baby, like yeah,

816
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 2: not gonna fuck.

817
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: But so we're gonna be watching because if you post

818
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: somebody before.

819
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: That, no ever, you can see that. Nah, nobody getting

820
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: you're not getting posted.

821
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: You'll wake up and be like, ship, how long ago that?

822
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: I No, you're not getting posted. Nobody's gonna post.

823
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,919
Speaker 1: You think you can somebody too much?

824
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 4: Yes, I think I have loved somebody too much. And

825
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 4: I think the lesson I learned in that is to

826
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 4: love myself.

827
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, or how do you learn? Like how do you

828
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: love yourself more?

829
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: What are so the way I did it? To be honest,

830
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: I kind of had to train my mind. Like I

831
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 2: would literally sit in front of a mirror and I'll

832
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: be like like no, like you're important, Like like it

833
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 2: sounds weird or whatever, but that's really what I had

834
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 2: to do. I really had to sit down and be like, listen,

835
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: you come first, no matter what, Like, you come first.

836
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: If they can't meet your requirements, they don't deserve you,

837
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 2: like you're a good girl. Like I had to sit

838
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 2: here and think about all the good things that I

839
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 2: felt about myself, and once I learned that, it was over,

840
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: Like nobody's playing with.

841
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: Me, Like one are some of the good things that

842
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: you would say about yourself.

843
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: I'm very loyal when I'm with you, like even not

844
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 2: even just with guys, like even like my makeup artists.

845
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 2: My hairstyle is everything. If I fuck with you and

846
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: I like what you're giving me and you treat me good,

847
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick by you, right they don't it's over?

848
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, So I feel like it's very hard

849
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 2: to come across people like that, like people that's actually

850
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,399
Speaker 2: really there for you. So I feel like.

851
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 3: Step on you though, because this business is a very

852
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 3: switch up on you type of business they have.

853
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 2: But right now, like the people that I have in

854
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 2: my circle, they're amazing. So right now I don't really

855
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: have nothing bad to say about my team.

856
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 1: No, yeah, listen, that's good. Yeah, because you've been through

857
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: some ship.

858
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 3: Yes, and you know what you had, so you had

859
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 3: an advant planning business, okay, and so you.

860
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: Still have it though.

861
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 2: I still have it. I just can't really focus on

862
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: it too much because you know, but you can play

863
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,959
Speaker 2: your own ship. I could do whatever I want. Yeah,

864
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 2: Like when I want to throw a party, I'm gonna

865
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: throw a party. It's like I have all the connections.

866
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: I you know, I enjoy seeing the end result. I

867
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 2: just what I didn't enjoy was the labor. I feel

868
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 2: like people didn't want to pay for what I was working.

869
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: Chasing them checks is no way, Like they don't want to.

870
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 2: They want all these nice things.

871
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 3: But they don't want to pay with call for it. Yeah,

872
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,280
Speaker 3: they're like, Okay, I want to have a baby shower.

873
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 3: I have a thousand dollars.

874
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's not even gonna get the girl first budget.

875
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 2: It's me okay, yeah, And it's like like people want

876
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,320
Speaker 2: to pay for the stuff, but they don't want to

877
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 2: pay for your time. That's the most valuable part exactly.

878
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 2: And that was where I was just getting turned off

879
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 2: by the business. I was like, like, I, that's not

880
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 2: what I want to do. You can pay for all

881
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 2: of these things, but until I put it together, it's

882
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 2: not gonna it's not gonna look how you wanted to look.

883
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,720
Speaker 4: And then I feel like that's getting do it yourself,

884
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 4: but you're not gonna give what I'm able to give you,

885
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 4: so my time and my talent.

886
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: And sometimes I will tell them, listen honestly for what

887
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 2: you want. I feel like you're better off just getting

888
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: the items yourself, you know, respectfully, do it yourself.

889
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 3: Go on YouTube university girl, how do you?

890
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 2: Yes?

891
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 3: But how's the music industry when it comes to getting

892
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 3: paid for like show?

893
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 2: I feel like the music industry is very like big

894
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 2: on like numbers and your cloud. So when I first started,

895
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I wasn't really being respected, of course,

896
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 2: which is understandable because I have to you know, I

897
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,479
Speaker 2: have to prove myself. So at the beginning, people didn't

898
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,439
Speaker 2: want to pay me what I thought I deserved because

899
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 2: I was like at the end of the day, you know,

900
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 2: like especially for like features and stuff like that, I'm

901
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 2: still giving you a look, I'm still giving you. I'm

902
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,479
Speaker 2: not giving you no bullshit on the verse, but people

903
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 2: still don't want to pay for it. So now I

904
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: feel like I have a little bit more clout. Now

905
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 2: people are willing to pay a little bit more for

906
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 2: what is a process. Yeah, it's a process, and I

907
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 2: understood the game my first. It will get me frustrated,

908
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 2: but now I understand.

909
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, now I think of that when I first started

910
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 3: doing radio and what I was getting paid for appearances

911
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 3: versus what I get now.

912
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: It's a process.

913
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to be outside for two hundred and

914
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 3: fifty dollars for real.

915
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna lie I did free stuff.

916
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to do it like you have to.

917
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 3: It's part of like work. Yeah, you know, because people

918
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 3: sometimes think that it's a glamorous business, but a lot

919
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 3: of times you are. And I remember when I first

920
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: first started, I was everywhere. I was doing every interview,

921
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 3: I was at every event, I was doing everything not

922
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 3: getting paid because you're thinking about laying down the foundation,

923
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 3: building then the experience.

924
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 2: But that's important because I feel like relationships, relationships, relationships

925
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 2: sometimes is worth more than money.

926
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, and more people need to understand that. And it's yes,

927
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:23,439
Speaker 4: because so many people don't.

928
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, like people feel like, all right, no, like I

929
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,800
Speaker 2: gotta get paid. No, Honestly, I got more out of

930
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: relationships than just me saying this is my price, this

931
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 2: is what you have to pay me. But okay, what

932
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: do you have to show for? But now when I

933
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 2: build a relationship and they actually vibe with me and

934
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 2: they like my personality, I got so much more out

935
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,879
Speaker 2: of that. So I'm like, sometimes I do stuff for free.

936
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,879
Speaker 2: I get a lot of stuff for free, but I've

937
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 2: moved myself. For example, even with bookings, like I come

938
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 2: out with twenty people, we turn up now the next time,

939
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 2: Now you gotta pay me for that, right, you know

940
00:41:54,600 --> 00:42:00,359
Speaker 2: what I mean? Show that I could then about the life,

941
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: like I come through and we turn off and we

942
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: buy bottles and we make y'all look good. So now

943
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 2: you have to pay double.

944
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 3: All right, Now, I want to ask you this, What

945
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 3: are some things that you guys do to spoil your

946
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 3: significant other that doesn't involve money, like no gifts, but

947
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 3: like if you want to spoil your man, Okay, what

948
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 3: are some things that you would do?

949
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: First of all, I think given encouraging words is very

950
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 2: important because as I feel like a lot of people

951
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: forget the men are human.

952
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:33,760
Speaker 1: That's a fact.

953
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you know, men have so much on their plate,

954
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 2: like they have to be the provider. They have to

955
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 2: you know, make sure you're good. They have to be strong.

956
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: They can't really show emotions like that because that's how

957
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 2: men were raised. So I feel like as a woman,

958
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 2: I try to always like yo, it's okay, like you know,

959
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm here if you need this. I try to give

960
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: you a little massage.

961
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I.

962
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 2: Saw your favorite food, you know, stuff like that, Like

963
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: little stuff like that you appreciate, y'all cook Okay, yeah,

964
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 2: I can't cook like that because I'm so busy now.

965
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: But when I get the chance to do, I'm good

966
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: at ordering. Yeah, I love order, you know, I feel like.

967
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: The side all right, that's nice. A little massage.

968
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:19,479
Speaker 3: Encouraging words is important though that always knowing the beef

969
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 3: when things that aren't going good. But do we acknowledge

970
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 3: when things like you did something amazing, right, Like you.

971
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: Have to like thank you, like I appreciate that. Like

972
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 2: you have to show them you appreciate the little things

973
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: the big things that they do, because they do a lot.

974
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 2: And I feel like girls are always like I'm one

975
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 2: of those girls who like fuck niggas whatever. But you

976
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 2: have a good man. You have to learn so appreciate

977
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 2: because a lot of them out here.

978
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: What about you? What some things you do to spoil

979
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: a man?

980
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 2: Cook for sure? Cook for them. I think I ever

981
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: had you cook, no, but and you messed out, throwing down.

982
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 2: I'd be like, baby, we're restaurant. What we're accusing you

983
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 2: want tonight? M you know, whole experience. Yeah, I find

984
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 2: out or conversation. I kind of pick up little things

985
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 2: that they say when we go to restaurants. I notice,

986
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 2: like what they order and things like that. Then I

987
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 2: go and I be on Instagram and I'll be saying

988
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: all these drispes. I'm like, hmm, got gods the way

989
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 2: to a mens?

990
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 1: Now, DC, we know you cook, Yes, I have your

991
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: cooking all right, So what are some things that you

992
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 1: do besides cooking?

993
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 4: I am so much of a caregiver, like I am

994
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 4: always catering to and I always try to and not

995
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 4: just with my significant but even with my friends, Like

996
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 4: I'm always that one that is going to try to

997
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 4: help in any way that I can.

998
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 2: I'm very supportive and.

999
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 4: I always I come through with a solution, like I

1000
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 4: just always have like up fixed to the problem. So

1001
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 4: I think that the cook and the cleaning, the massages,

1002
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 4: it's like that's these child cater to you, like might

1003
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 4: just make you feel good and and not just making

1004
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 4: you feel good physically, but I'm going to make you

1005
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 4: feel like you're pleased with who you chose to be

1006
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 4: your men, right, And.

1007
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 2: I'm gon always be f there for you in that way.

1008
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 2: So yeah, because it's over.

1009
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I'm all about encouraging words. I

1010
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: do acknowledge.

1011
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 3: I always try to make sure that I acknowledge, like

1012
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 3: all the great things. I try to plan things because

1013
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 3: you know, I get a lot of perks from what

1014
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,919
Speaker 3: I do for a living. So if I can be like, look,

1015
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 3: we got invited to this, you want to come, you know,

1016
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 3: I think that's important. I think like encouraging people to

1017
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 3: also not always have to be up under you.

1018
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,320
Speaker 2: Yep, I have fun. I'm not going to there's a

1019
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 2: lot of girls are soul. Ain'tal about that, like they like, definitely,

1020
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 2: they just want you to be with themble. Then you

1021
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 2: gotta understand, like you gotta left them brings. Yeah, you

1022
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 2: give me a chance to miss you.

1023
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: Gotciate you when they go out, and then they'd be

1024
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: like I gotta get home to go.

1025
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's definitely one too. They need their time to.

1026
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: Now, staphy, have you ever been turned out?

1027
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:13,919
Speaker 2: Turned down?

1028
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: Turned it out? Like digmatized?

1029
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 3: Like, have you ever stayed with somebody just for the

1030
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 3: d Yeah?

1031
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: For sure.

1032
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 2: But it's again like I said, like now, it's like

1033
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 2: even if you got good dick, that's not gonna make

1034
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 2: me go crazy having me calling your phone thirty times.

1035
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 2: Like I'm not doing none of that. I'm not understand.

1036
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 2: It's just good dick, that's it.

1037
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: Can you square?

1038
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1039
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 3: Do you remember the first time you squared it? Did

1040
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 3: you know what was going on when you're nervous? Did

1041
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: you try to hold it down?

1042
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 2: Nah? The first time they actually was like trying to

1043
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: tell me, like this is what you gotta do. I

1044
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 2: was like kind of like planted into doing it. Damn,

1045
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 2: Like I didn't even get a chance yet, like my phone,

1046
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 2: like it was like, all right, this is what you're

1047
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 2: gonna do. What was their instructions? Like what did how

1048
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 2: they walk you through? There was just basically telling me

1049
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 2: like you just have to stay focused, close your eyes.

1050
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: You gotta close your eyes, like you just gotta like

1051
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 2: basically it was it was they were saying it was

1052
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: mental and it works, and it worked. Damn. Yeah. The

1053
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: first time I squirted it, I didn't know. Then I

1054
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 2: squirted it, yeah, and he didn't know either. It's like

1055
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 2: you peed on me? What I guess?

1056
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: I bet yeh.

1057
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 2: He's like, yes, you did what. I don't know. I

1058
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 2: don't think.

1059
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 4: Then years down the line because I was this was

1060
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 4: what my daughter's father, so I was like sixteen, and

1061
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 4: then years down the line when I actually did squirret.

1062
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's what it was. I didn't peel.

1063
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 2: I mean, well I kind of did. Because I believe

1064
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 2: that it's it is.

1065
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: Everybody argues about that.

1066
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. I say it's not because of the color.

1067
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 2: When it comes from the words like it's it's clear.

1068
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 2: It's a clear picture of body.

1069
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 4: And it also is the thing that when you're about

1070
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 4: to orgasm and you feel like you gotta pee. If

1071
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 4: you don't release, then that orgasm is not going to happen.

1072
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 4: So it's kind of like you feel like you gotta pee,

1073
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 4: and then when you just let it go, you're not

1074
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 4: really paying your orgasm in. But it's just a whole

1075
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 4: weird mixture of like what's really happening? I think that

1076
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 4: it has pee in it? Sorry a little bit.

1077
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 2: It's maybe like ten percent pieces magic else.

1078
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 1: What did he just that you squatter him? Or did

1079
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: he try to like drink it or what.

1080
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 2: Is he tries to drink it? He just kept going

1081
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,439
Speaker 2: like he just kept going like all right, do it again,

1082
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: do it again? Do it again? The front damn that

1083
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 2: was like a dominatrix type.

1084
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 3: It was, yeah, where is he right?

1085
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 2: Well, that's why I was just like so stupid over him,

1086
00:48:54,760 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 2: because I was like, I was like, I was, I can't.

1087
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 3: But the first time when you lost your virginity is

1088
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 3: that was that a great experience or was it tragic?

1089
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 2: It was weird. It was weird because so he took

1090
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 2: my virginity right, and then he was like he mentioned

1091
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 2: one of my friends. Yeah, like he took my virginity

1092
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 2: and he was like, yeah, stay a virgin like such

1093
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 2: and such. It was fucking weird.

1094
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 3: Well, how can you take your virginity and.

1095
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 2: Tell you no?

1096
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: He said?

1097
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 2: Like why we was fucking He was like, yeah, I'm

1098
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 2: only gonna put a little bit in I want you

1099
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 2: to stay a virgin like such a Why would he

1100
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 2: reference your friend? It was so weird. What did you do?

1101
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: What did you wait? Do that mean that he only

1102
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: put a little bit in her too? Maybe? And what

1103
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 2: did he say? What did you what was your I was?

1104
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 2: It was literally like he took my virginity. So it

1105
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: was really weird for me. I didn't know. I didn't

1106
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 2: even know how to act towards that. But I was like, yeah,

1107
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 2: this think is weird, Like you're weird for even saying that.

1108
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 2: So that that made me think, like, all right, I

1109
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 2: guess he trying to fuck my friend? Like is that

1110
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: what it is?

1111
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: Right? Did you say anything to your friend?

1112
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 2: Nah? No, I'm not giving nobody Like.

1113
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: Nah, have you ever had a friend betray you?

1114
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1115
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: When it comes to I have.

1116
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 2: Family betray me. Worse it was family betray me. Yeah,

1117
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 2: but it is what it is?

1118
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 1: All right? Like what.

1119
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: I had a boyfriend and she made out with him,

1120
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 2: they made out or whatever, they might have fucked. I

1121
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 2: don't know.

1122
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 1: Are you still cool with that family member?

1123
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 2: Not at school now.

1124
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 3: But but okay, but at family gatherings you're still speaking?

1125
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, because I feel like we was young,

1126
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 2: like everybody was just doing whatever the hell they wanted

1127
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 2: to do. It was like, I really.

1128
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: Take it that serious, to be honest, how did you

1129
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: find out?

1130
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 2: He told me?

1131
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: Oh that's wild? Did you ask her? Like, yo? Did you?

1132
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 2: I told her that I knew?

1133
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:51,959
Speaker 1: And what did she say?

1134
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 2: Nothing? She just got mad, right and didn't say anything.

1135
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 2: She was embarrassed.

1136
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: That's awful. But I think we've all had friends. I

1137
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:02,479
Speaker 1: don't know about family.

1138
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 2: Well I don't have.

1139
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 4: I haven't had from family, but definitely from friends who

1140
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 4: were close like family.

1141
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, her, because you can't choose your family.

1142
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 4: Yeah right, So oh wait, Doug, Yes, I was my

1143
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 4: sister stole my bail money and left me in jail.

1144
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 4: That's betrayal, that is betrays Yeah. And not only did

1145
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 4: she do that, ooh girl, you know what you did.

1146
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 4: Not only does she do that, she sent the cops

1147
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 4: to in a totally different time, sent the cops to

1148
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 4: my house to save her ass and didn't give me

1149
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 4: a warning, like we was involved in some check scam

1150
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 4: situation and we have the same last name. So when

1151
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 4: they were going down the list of all of these

1152
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 4: people who was in this ring, they got her first

1153
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 4: because she had did like way more than me. I

1154
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 4: had only did one check. So then they're like, well,

1155
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 4: who is this person same last name as you? And

1156
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 4: she's like, oh, that's my sister. So instead of giving

1157
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 4: me the heads up like hey, I got locked up

1158
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 4: for this ship and they come for you. No, I

1159
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 4: got to knock on my door eight o'clock in the

1160
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 4: morning on a Wednesday, wowday, and my ass right down

1161
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 4: to the precinct. That was one of those one out

1162
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 4: of three of those times that.

1163
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 2: I got arrested.

1164
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 4: Oh my god from that fuck her. I mean, I

1165
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 4: love her because she's my sister, but she know why,

1166
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 4: don't fuck with her? And then and then the jail

1167
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 4: thing came. After the jail thing was when I moved

1168
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 4: to Atlanta. So I used to dance at Mega City

1169
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,359
Speaker 4: and you have to have a permit and it comes

1170
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 4: from the city to the police department.

1171
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, run your fingerprints, and you can't have anything.

1172
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 4: They student in New York, though, No, they do it

1173
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 4: in Texas, Georgia and Vegasday.

1174
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1175
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, so especially in Atlanta. It's a thing in Atlanta

1176
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 4: any night life, to be a bartender, a bottle server,

1177
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 4: a DJ in the club, you have.

1178
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 2: To have a permit.

1179
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.

1180
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, so anyway, so I want to renew my permit,

1181
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 4: right I hadn't been. I had a warrant. F Iro'm

1182
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 4: not paying a real estate I had a warrant from

1183
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 4: not paying a speeding ticket.

1184
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 2: And I didn't know that that happened either.

1185
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 4: I didn't know that certain counties down there will give

1186
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 4: you a warrant for your wrestling you don't pay a ticket.

1187
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 2: So I just didn't pay the ticket.

1188
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: Not no.

1189
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 4: So I go to get my permit and they run

1190
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 4: my fingerprints and this warrant pops up, so they like,

1191
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 4: we got to arrest you just paid a It was

1192
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,399
Speaker 4: like fourth one hundred dollars. Just pay the money and

1193
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 4: you know they'll they'll let you out. So I had

1194
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 4: just moved to Atlanta a year prior.

1195
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: I had no family down there.

1196
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 4: I called back home and I called my brother and

1197
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm locked up, Send me bail.

1198
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 2: Money.

1199
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 4: So he's like, I got the money in my pocket,

1200
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 4: but I'm not. I can't go to Western Union right now.

1201
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 4: I have somebody to pick it up. My sister went

1202
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 4: and picked up the money and she kept the money.

1203
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 2: To this day. That was like eighteen years ago. I

1204
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 2: never got that money back. So again, what you said

1205
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 2: the people to lock me up and then you're just

1206
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:47,959
Speaker 2: gonna leave me in jail.

1207
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 3: And she didn't even apologize and never never, we still

1208
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 3: got beef.

1209
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 2: She know why I don't like her to this day.

1210
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 2: We still got beef to this day. She's my sister.

1211
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 2: I love it. It's fair, mom, she's my sister. I

1212
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 2: love it. But she knows why. I feel like with

1213
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 2: family is like, let's betrayal. But now I feel like

1214
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 2: now in this stage, it's like I don't care who

1215
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 2: you are, you do me dirty.

1216
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I had to learn that too.

1217
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 3: I've been such a forgiving person my whole life, and

1218
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 3: I had to be like, I can't do this anymore,

1219
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 3: like some people just be a burden on Yeah, my god.

1220
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: Why do that to myself? Yeah?

1221
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 4: I've had so many lessons just in the year twenty

1222
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 4: twenty three of me being there for people and then

1223
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 4: seeing how they were not there for me, and the

1224
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 4: lesson is now moving forward as things are transforming and

1225
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 4: changing my life for the better. Everybody can't go yeah, yeah, yeah,

1226
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 4: and don't take it because you know why you can't come.

1227
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't climb up like I feel like we're too.

1228
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 2: Here up if you're holding me down right right, Like

1229
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: that was cool when we was teenagers, but now we're grown.

1230
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 2: You know what you're doing. You met what you did,

1231
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 2: so now you just got to be left behind. That's

1232
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 2: just how I said. I'm I got y'all this lash.

1233
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 2: I think I'm mad to take it off like.

1234
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 3: A secret like a gene like in case y'all haven't

1235
00:54:58,120 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 3: heard the project made shuw you do that where you at?

1236
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: That's out right now? What else is happening? So we know?

1237
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 2: So I'm dropping a new single. It's cold, that's crazy.

1238
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 2: It's gonna go crazy, It's gonna go crazy. Yeah, it's dropping.

1239
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to say when it's dropping, but it's

1240
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 2: gonna be what's crazy. Yeah, it's a lot of a

1241
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 2: lot of stuff be crazy out here, Like we live

1242
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 2: in a crazy world. What's going on? But some of

1243
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 2: us are crazy. Yeah, I'm a crazy person.

1244
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: Honesty. Thank you so much, and I appreciate.

1245
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 2: You, thank you for having me camera. But I had

1246
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 2: to y'all, I was over here.

1247
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: You put it out yourself.

1248
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 2: I just yeah, it's not easy. Yeah, I look at

1249
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 2: this way. I'm like I should.

1250
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 3: Trying to learn how to do it, and every time

1251
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 3: I do this be like messed up. But I just

1252
00:55:58,120 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 3: be happy if it stays.

1253
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: On all day.

1254
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 2: Love right now?

1255
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 1: Steps all right, well, Steph, do you thank you so much?

1256
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: She like a j. Make sure you take that off.

1257
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: It's lip service. Cheer mm hmmm