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Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions.

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Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, friend,

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Speaker 2: Decisions.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, it's another Wednesday, drops, and remember if you

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Speaker 3: want us to answer your questions, make sure you send

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Speaker 3: your question, your hotmail, your hotel, your everything over to

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Speaker 3: Decisions Decisions at gmail dot com. This Wednesday, I'm joined

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Speaker 3: with Eden. Y'all know, no need for an introduction, and

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Speaker 3: this week we are getting into the mess. Okay, So

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Speaker 3: I'm excited because you're a logical person. I feel like

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Speaker 3: if Weezy was.

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Speaker 2: You think I'm logical.

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Speaker 3: I think I think in comparison to what Weezy may

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Speaker 3: have had for this one.

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Speaker 2: You know, here we go.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, if you read the title, you see

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Speaker 3: that we are talking about dating my ex best friends

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Speaker 3: at So you guys beating your ex best friends best friends.

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Speaker 2: Ok So let's get into it.

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Speaker 3: Hi. So my first write in was supposed to be

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Speaker 3: a hotel about how I got the worst and best

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Speaker 3: But I have a more pressing matter that I'd like

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Speaker 3: my other best friends a mutual friend between us bachelorette party.

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Speaker 3: Our falling out was not messy, okay, it was more

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Speaker 3: so years of unsaid things and resentment on my part

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Speaker 3: distance I was putting between us without explanation. Really good backstory,

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Speaker 3: thank you, I like that any horror. A couple of

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Speaker 3: At this time, we were both in college, probably the

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Speaker 3: most time me and my ex best friend spent apart

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Speaker 3: here we go. Now. I am currently not in the

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Speaker 3: I've been going back and forth with myself because I

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Speaker 3: But a part of me knows will never be where

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Speaker 3: any capacity. So here's my question. Am I a horrible

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Speaker 3: I have a thorough betting process which he checks all

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Speaker 3: again because the turnover rate and this motherfucker is crazy,

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Speaker 3: I truly think he fits what I'm looking for and

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Speaker 3: which is what I need. Other question, but should the

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Speaker 3: really did want to hear what you guys think. Thank

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Speaker 3: you in advance, anonymous. So how do we want to

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Speaker 3: I haven't broken down how we're gonna attack this. Let's

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Speaker 3: dissect that she puts she wants some friends with benefits

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Speaker 2: Weird?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So are you horrible if you make this your

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Speaker 2: Talk about that. Let's put ourselves in this here.

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Speaker 3: Let's put ourselves in so right, y'all gonna sit here

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Speaker 3: and be like, Mandy's so different. I have maybe two

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Speaker 3: way more than that that are off limits to my friends.

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Speaker 2: Gotcha, everybody else is up for grabs.

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Speaker 4: It was known though, but like you guys discussed it,

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Speaker 4: and you knew that those such and such as cannot

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Speaker 3: Within within within my dynamics of friendships. Yes, However, here's

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Speaker 3: the other thing. If I am no longer friends with

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Speaker 2: Doesn't owe me any loyalty.

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Speaker 3: And I think the same way where if she's thinking

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Speaker 3: that element, that's a big element. This was her ex

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Speaker 3: I also want to preface, or not preface, but state

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Speaker 2: That ain't her soulmate though you don't know. We don't

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Speaker 4: I don't know that that soft eyes that she saw

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Speaker 4: was like, all right, cool, I need a primary person.

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Speaker 4: Primary care doctor, primary person. Well, and to me, let's

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Speaker 4: also break that down. She wants the friends with benefits okay,

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Speaker 3: She wants one person that she's fucking because she don't

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Speaker 2: But she knows how's messy that's gonna be. So to me,

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Speaker 2: it's not that messy.

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Speaker 3: You're no longer best friends with this girl, and so

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Speaker 3: I think that's what we have to dissect.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you that question. Do you owe loyalty

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Speaker 3: Friend relationships former friend as in, like, we haven't been friends,

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Speaker 3: we're not friends anymore for how long ago now? She said,

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Speaker 3: This point, they're not even talking. She's waving and smiling

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Speaker 4: Okay, so that was the thing, right, So they were

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Speaker 4: both at a bachelotte party. That means they're both which

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Speaker 4: still means that they're in the same group. Yes, which

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Speaker 4: is still means that if she gets involved in this scenario,

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Speaker 3: You're gonna get back to the friend.

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Speaker 2: And it don't matter she finds out. It's what it

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Speaker 3: Said she doesn't care to be friends with her.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie no no, but fuck her, no,

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Speaker 4: not fuck her, you know what I mean? But like,

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Speaker 4: I know my bad but I mean more so, like

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Speaker 4: what about everybody else?

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Speaker 3: So, so you are saying that, yes, she would be horrible.

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Speaker 4: I don't think she's a horrible person. Well she's making

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Speaker 3: Move to you? Yes, okay, so Eden believes this is

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Speaker 3: So let's move on. Next question. Oh, I guess we

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Speaker 3: kind of answered it. Should the past relationship of my

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think no, no. And I don't think that any

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Speaker 3: like I don't know. To me, I have a strong

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Speaker 2: But you knew that like I was with such and such,

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Speaker 3: Oh, let's be very clear. For example, right, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: I want you to know. Let's be very clear.

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Speaker 2: I can call you every bit of a trifling ass

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Speaker 3: Bitch, however, but as the receiver, she can be all

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Speaker 2: Name in the book. You feel me like two things

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Speaker 3: I don't think she owes me that loyalty, and at

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Speaker 2: But I think that's what I think, that's what she

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Speaker 3: Still a oh nasty ass how But again I don't

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Speaker 4: Loyalty is not she wants to die on this hill

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Speaker 4: on the dick. No, she is dead. You know why

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Speaker 4: that dick feel better because she knows that's her ex man,

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Speaker 4: and that's why she's doing that ship.

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Speaker 2: How many dudes are there in this world?

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Speaker 3: So you you brought up how many dudes are in

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Speaker 3: this world? And I want to bring this to you too.

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Speaker 3: With women, is there a scenario then we know this scenario?

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Speaker 3: Is there a scenario where an X is not off limits?

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Speaker 3: Is there a time frame? Well, y'all only dated for

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Speaker 3: six months? Or y'all only went on a couple of dates.

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Speaker 3: I think there's a difference to between dating and an

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Speaker 2: Now is basically the same thing for me? Don't do that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So then X, But what about someone you dated?

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Speaker 3: What if you were just recording and going on dates

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Speaker 3: with stilling?

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Speaker 2: Still?

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Speaker 4: Okay, let me give you a word example about you.

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Speaker 4: One of my one of my homies, right, so we

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Speaker 4: actually became really great best friends years ago. And before

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Speaker 4: he was like, yo, hold on, I gotta let you

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Speaker 4: know something I actually fucked when you got exes. He

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Speaker 4: told me that straight up, and it was an X

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Speaker 4: from way long ago, and we weren't me and him

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Speaker 4: weren't cool at that time when me and her were dating,

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Speaker 4: but he let me know, okay, and I was chilling

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Speaker 4: because I'm all right, what it is, what it is, right.

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Speaker 4: So that's where I'm like, Okay, here's an exception. Now,

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Speaker 4: he's trying to catch it after. I feel like that

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Speaker 4: I'm not I've never been a person like that. Given

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Speaker 4: Outsider now from the group, Yes, y'all have mutual Oh okay, No, sorry,

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Speaker 3: Still share a friend but he hecluse, I don't think

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Speaker 4: It's not a big deal at that point, it's not

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Speaker 4: Is there other people? Absolutely? I think she's caring too

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Speaker 4: I think you're overthinking it. You again, you done already

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Speaker 2: She said, I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 3: What I want to do anyway I'll want to think

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Speaker 3: She was, Yeah, I'm still gonna figure it out, but

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: So again, I think that if this person no longer

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Speaker 3: How do you properly gauge that? Though I ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: hold you. Oh, that's the decision. No, there's no gauge.

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Speaker 2: Do I care about her? Okay?

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Speaker 3: We're not friends now, but could we be friends again?

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Speaker 3: We're not friends now, but do I believe she's a

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Speaker 3: Don't fuck this nigga however you like. But y'all don't

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Speaker 4: Fuck him, bro, I think she wants a man. I

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: No, she would if it's good or what she likes him?

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Speaker 4: What if it grows, right and now that's your partner,

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Speaker 2: I don't think she would care. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: it may be lingering, Like damn.

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 3: I made this decision that now does impact probably a

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't even good. So if the dick is good,

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Speaker 2: it's worth it. If it's not good, it's not worth

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Speaker 3: If the dick is bad, why am I here? If

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Speaker 3: Like why why did I do this to begin with?

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Speaker 3: So to me, as women, we always think, if the

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Speaker 2: It? Have I done? What with an sleep with a friend?

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Speaker 3: First off, this is what y'all don't know. All of

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Speaker 3: my best friends are still around. So I've been best

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Speaker 3: friends with my best friends for ten years plus all of.

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Speaker 2: Them DeAndre, Lena, Crystal.

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Speaker 3: I can start listening them Stacey Jasmine who I forget

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Speaker 3: Carla Antonett's my newest best friend because I got eight

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Speaker 3: of them, okay, but all of my best friend So

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Speaker 3: to be fair, though me and my me and a

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Speaker 3: few of my best friends are eskimo sisters or.

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Speaker 2: Have the same guys, that's different, but we have just go.

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Speaker 3: Us which ones are off limits especially and y'all, this

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Speaker 3: in Harlem, so he don't count. None of my friends

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Speaker 3: would ever run into that nigga. But there's two like

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Speaker 5: Limits, off limits, off limits because of emotion, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 4: But that's those are the ones that were athletes. What

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Speaker 3: So all the other guys I dealt with, I could

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Speaker 2: Would you care?

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Speaker 3: He said, what?

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Speaker 2: Why do you care?

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Why do you care for the ones?

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Speaker 3: For the ones that I actually have feelings with?

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Speaker 2: To be fair, because it's let's say, if it's just

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Speaker 3: If an ex best friend decided to fuck the guys

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Speaker 3: that I'm talking about, I would feel like she just

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Speaker 3: I could sit here and call you all ragny, trifle

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Speaker 2: Owe me that loyalty. Well that's what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: Oh and again we have a lot of unrealistic expectations

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Speaker 3: who can do what, who goes where with who? We

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so all in all, do whatever the fuck you want.

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Speaker 2: Go fuck him. You probably ready did. She definitely.

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Speaker 3: So you know, we brought a hypothetical question into decisions

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Speaker 4: Okay, or girlfriend in your case. Now, I'm still do

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Speaker 4: a man in this case too, Fuck it, let's do it. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm straight, I'm straight, but I'm just I just think

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Speaker 4: it would be funnier. No, No, we're not going to

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Speaker 4: be gay for this, it's hypothetical. What are we doing

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Speaker 4: gay for the hypothetical? Let me find out. I mean,

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Speaker 4: if you want to come out right now, imagine that's

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Speaker 2: In this moment. If you want to come out, just

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Speaker 2: let me know.

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Speaker 3: We can literally throw a party, nod, we can.

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Speaker 2: Go get thetty cake and all rainbow colors. Just girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: So hypothetical again, and if you're sitting at your desk,

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Speaker 3: A psychic tells you that your soul mate that you

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Speaker 3: How much does love matter to you? Do you tell

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Speaker 4: Can we do reality and the play into it reality wise? Ian,

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Speaker 4: like I am listening to you? What the are talking about?

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Speaker 3: You're not going to listen to this song?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Now?

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Speaker 4: In this beautiful hypothetical decisions world which it is true

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Speaker 4: and psychic's real memory, the.

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Speaker 3: Psychic is right.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 3: The psychic is right that this is your soulmate that

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Speaker 3: you will grow old with and be happy with and

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Speaker 2: Do you part? Let's settle this first? Yes? Does us

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Speaker 2: finding the love of our lives in this case?

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Speaker 3: First off, matter can we get into the hypothetical, because

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Speaker 2: Answered this question. I believe.

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Speaker 3: That there's multiple loves of our lives.

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Speaker 2: Boo.

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Speaker 3: I do believe though, a soul mate. Okay, maybe the

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Speaker 2: Of us in our thirties. I know you're not gonna

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Speaker 3: I know most women have a nigga to keep coming

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Speaker 2: Nineteen, oh, babe.

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Speaker 3: Maybe the one is they just won't go away, that

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Speaker 2: He still comes to you.

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Speaker 3: He currently thinks he's gonna get an apartment, A key

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Speaker 3: to my new apartment.

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Speaker 2: You got me fucked up.

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Speaker 3: If girls tell me no, I know you're not gonna know.

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Speaker 3: Let's be very clear, most men do not know who

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Speaker 2: He exists that that's insane.

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Speaker 3: I know it is.

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Speaker 2: I know what are you doing? Are you telling her?

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Speaker 2: Are you telling him?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm who I am right now where I think

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Speaker 3: all these niggas ain't ship that I may never find

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Speaker 3: my one.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna let my best friend know, girl, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 4: your best friend. I'm your best friend. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 4: you just came from the psychic.

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Speaker 3: And you know what, I'm gonna tell her, this psychic

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Speaker 2: We go, my best friend, would it be? Though, Let's

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Speaker 3: Best friend knows I don't believe the psychics or starts

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Speaker 3: and moons, so she's gonna be like, bitch, just tell

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Speaker 3: me you want my nigga. So let's let's move it

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Speaker 3: into the realm that I believe in this ship. Maybe

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Speaker 3: this was God, not even a psychic. God came down

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Speaker 3: and said, no, soul mate is with your best friend.

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Speaker 2: Girl. What's what happened?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you want to know where my mind just went.

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Speaker 2: I knew it's gonna be raggedy.

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Speaker 3: My soul make got money? Probably like is he rich

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Speaker 3: or no? Like I need to know no, no, no, no not.

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Speaker 3: Probably my friends on all date rich niggas may be.

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Speaker 4: Putting up with some she was the richest, like your mind.

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Speaker 4: Don't say it out loud. Choose the richest of your

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Speaker 4: best friend's boyfriend. And let's say it's that one.

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Speaker 3: Niggas.

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Speaker 2: Jack queeze.

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Speaker 3: I ain't I told you not to say which one,

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Speaker 3: but I feel like we've got a little bit of coins.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's say all my.

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Speaker 3: Best friends, because most of my best friends are single

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Speaker 3: right now, shout out to Jack Queeze.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 3: First off, I'm not God, ain't playing with me. He

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Speaker 3: don't have a short king in my future. You don't

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Speaker 3: know that. You don't know that what's from yo? You

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Speaker 3: know I don't hold you ded you could, you could.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna live unhappily ever after.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but then you're gonna be from a distance knowing

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Speaker 4: that that's the love that is your soul maid over

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Speaker 4: there being with somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's fine. I mean I feel like that happens

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Speaker 3: love you love you, queen. If he's Jack Queeze's height.

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Speaker 2: That's what end. That's your soul me, your sow me, my.

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Speaker 3: Soulmate is eye to eye with me with heels.

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Speaker 2: No, that's not my ma.

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Speaker 4: I like it's so crazy because I feel like, to

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Speaker 4: this day you're exceptional, but like there are women that

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Speaker 4: cannot stop. Like the heights stops y'all, and it stops

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Speaker 4: y'all for so much. I'm a fuck you, that's fair.

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Speaker 4: Fuck you overall. We know you already fucked to your

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Speaker 4: friend's ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 5: UH.

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Speaker 3: Clearly we are on the different UH coin, the different

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Speaker 3: side of the coin here. We would love to hear

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Speaker 3: next home day.

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