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Speaker 2: Good afternoon, everybody, Good afternoon. Put a five in the

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Speaker 2: the host of Street Shot No Chaser podcast on the

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Speaker 2: Black Effect Podcast Network. We are going to unpack this

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Speaker 2: conversation that happened yesterday on the Breakfast Club between Ebony K.

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Speaker 2: this information. For those of you that follow me, you

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to take too much of your time,

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Speaker 2: I met my husband at twenty one. I was in college,

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Speaker 2: This is what was not talked about yesterday, which is

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Speaker 1: Let me. This is straight shot, no chaser. So can

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Speaker 2: See this is the part they didn't get to on

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Speaker 2: No ony, your young woman is gonna lay up with

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Speaker 2: stop trying to hijack the conversation. No twenty five year

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: Let me also say this, And I know y'all not

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you? Are y'all ready for this? Are

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Speaker 2: How y'all keep talking about women's value don't go up

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Speaker 1: Let me humble.

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Speaker 2: Do y'all mind if I humble them just a second. Now,

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Speaker 2: straight shot, no chase of podcasts. Women who get the

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Speaker 1: Sis. So if you.

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Speaker 2: I can take your to the young women. Let's be clear.

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Speaker 2: I can take your baby, daddy, your brother, your daddy,

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. The sugar Mama is alive

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Speaker 1: Uh oh, Am I getting too real? Am I getting real?

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Speaker 2: See the difference between Michael and the comment is talking

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Speaker 1: See, Michael gotta take that blue pill. Uh oh. They

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Speaker 2: See, you ain't gonna never hear this on no podcast

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk about it. Put a five in the

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. And any man, No, I

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Speaker 2: ain't got no problem, noll baby. We talked about science

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Speaker 1: So we must go there. If we're gonna talk about

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Speaker 2: Welcome the straight Shot, No Chase of podcast hashtag somebody

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Speaker 2: Saturday morning. So to the sugar mamas, the potential sugar

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Speaker 2: mama's in the building, the ones who saying you ain't

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Speaker 2: I just want you to know. See, we ain't got

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Speaker 1: I said, Did y'all hear that? I said?

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Speaker 2: The woman the sugar mama, all she got to do

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Speaker 2: DJ n CD and Orlando. I'm on the one in

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Speaker 1: I'm on the one in Toues today. And guess what that.

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Speaker 2: Man or that young man, just like that guy whoever

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry about it, don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: It's a man that's gonna stomach his way through and

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Speaker 1: He need a little bit of help, a little bit

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Speaker 2: So he gonna stomach through it the same way young

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Speaker 2: Let me say it again, the same way the young

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Speaker 2: That's why you better get the bag somewhere doing this

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Speaker 2: marriage doesn't survive. I have no shame in that because

436
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 2: some women have never been asked. Some women ain't. No

437
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 2: man ever got down on their knee and ask them shit.

438
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 2: Some men have never had the commitment to even give

439
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 2: it a go. And for those of you that say, yeah,

440
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 2: but you didn't stay married, let me tell you what

441
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: staying married is all about.

442
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 1: Staying married.

443
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 2: People that stayed married over a long period of time,

444
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 2: they were able to deal with the hardships and a

445
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 2: lot of women just stayed in the relationship and had resentment,

446
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 2: let's go ahead and talk about it, and they were

447
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 2: able to get over it. And that goes the same

448
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,199
Speaker 2: for some men. Some were able to heal, some were

449
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 2: some were not. And I don't have no shame in that,

450
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 2: not at all, because I still did it, and I

451
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 2: didn't do it for no ninety days ninety days. I

452
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 2: did it a long period of time. And my ex

453
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 2: husband is better than a lot of these women's current husband.

454
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 2: Why is there a difference between husband and baby daddy. Well,

455
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 2: there is because if he is a husband, if he

456
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 2: even made the commitment, he even has a different commitment

457
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:49,400
Speaker 2: to you after the marriage. Let me say it again,

458
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 2: This ain't a step on nobody's toes, but it is

459
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 2: the reality. Not all ex husbands are good ex husbands,

460
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 2: but your chances of having a good ex husband or

461
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 2: baby daddy if you will, if he was your husband,

462
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 2: is higher because he was already willing to make the

463
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,239
Speaker 2: commitment to family in one way or the other. So

464
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 2: we still have a very healthy co parent relationship where

465
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 2: we moved to the same city to make sure that

466
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 2: we're there for each other.

467
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: So I don't feel like I'm doing it alone.

468
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 2: And yes, it's there are plenty of people who are

469
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 2: married that are single as hell, and a lot of

470
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 2: these men that push this, get married, get married, get married,

471
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: get married. They're looking for partners to help raise them.

472
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 2: I know y'all don't want to hear it, but when

473
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: I got with my husband and we were both young

474
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 2: and we built together, I taught him everything that he knew.

475
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 2: He didn't have a check in accounty, all the irs

476
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 2: a bunch of money. I taught him how to get

477
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 2: be better about his business. He went and promoted on

478
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 2: his job from Florida to manager, I mean to assistant manager,

479
00:23:54,160 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 2: the manager to run the whole company. Women are better

480
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 2: in that regard, if she is truly the virtuous woman.

481
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: We'll get to that in a second. So women say,

482
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 2: but yeah, but you don't you have to put everything.

483
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 2: Don't you have to put your career on the side

484
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 2: and do everything for your husband. Yes, if you are

485
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: a wife, you do. Let me give you some breaking news.

486
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 2: If you are a wife, you do the virtuous woman.

487
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: Go read it.

488
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 2: You're putting your child and your husband before yourself. So

489
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 2: if you're lucky enough to get yourself in somewhere down

490
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:20,360
Speaker 2: the road.

491
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: Then you're lucky.

492
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 2: But the reality of it is, if you are a

493
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 2: wife and a husband, I mean, if you are a

494
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: wife and have a child, you are putting your husband first,

495
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 2: as you should. So when women tell me, oh, no, no, no,

496
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 2: you can do it all, and you can do this

497
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: and you can do that. Can I give you some

498
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:48,959
Speaker 2: breaking news. Somebody's missing something. Somebody is missing something. They

499
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 2: don't want to hear that part though, because even though

500
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 2: I was started my business when I was married, let

501
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: me tell you what happened when I got divorced. When

502
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 2: I got divorced, I was able to pour more into

503
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: my marriage, mean to my business, and that's how it started.

504
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 2: The Ally Group started on unemployment with two hundred fifty

505
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: dollars a week, zero employees, and the next year I

506
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 2: had three hundred employees. Because I didn't have to worry

507
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 2: about taking care of my husband and my child. I

508
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 2: just had to worry about my child and myself. So

509
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 2: when you don't have to worry about your husband, yes,

510
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 2: you can do more in your business. And I did

511
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: it in a city in Orlando, Florida, where I didn't

512
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 2: know anybody. I got the shit out the mud. This

513
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 2: is why you have to have the conversation with women

514
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 2: who have experienced a little bit of it all because

515
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: I did it while my husband was in another state.

516
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 2: So I did all of the heavylifting because his job

517
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 2: relocated him to another state and I had to meet

518
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 2: new people and start a new business, opposed to when

519
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 2: Jess Hilarry is when I had the conversation with her.

520
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: She's a single mother, she's never been married, but she

521
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: has a family that is very supportive of her.

522
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 2: I didn't have that. My mother was in a whole

523
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 2: another state. I was by myself, had to get it

524
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: out the mud build great relationships. Why DJ and NECD

525
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,239
Speaker 2: is here. If I met her in Orlando, I had

526
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 2: to build a whole new family, a whole new tribe.

527
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: So no, I wasn't able to start a business with

528
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: three hundred employees and have the baby and have the husband.

529
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: There was a sacrifice that needed to be made.

530
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: And that's what y'all don't want to hear, the sacrifice

531
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 2: that you're going to have to make.

532
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: Can you have it all in life? Yes?

533
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: I believe you can, but I'm not sure that you

534
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: can always have it all at the same time. So

535
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 2: a lot of these men are talking about get.

536
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: Married, give mayor give me or give me.

537
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 2: They know women bring stability to their life. That's why

538
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 2: heven Charlottage saying, man, as soon as you do right

539
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: by your wife, your capitol go goes way up. Charlemagne

540
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 2: was with his wife for twenty some years, but they've

541
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 2: only been married for seven, so she stuck stuck it

542
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 2: out all of that time until they got married. And

543
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: these are things they've said publicly, so I'm not talking

544
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 2: about them. I just want you to understand the dynamics

545
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: in the room. M Be married his wife right after

546
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 2: Gay Young. She had six babies. She has said on

547
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: her podcast that she resented not being able to do

548
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 2: the things she wanted to do in her career.

549
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: These are real facts. Anybody that's about me, me me me, me,

550
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: me me.

551
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 2: I got news for you. Marriage ain't for you, and

552
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 2: having a child ain't for you either. If everything's about you,

553
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:44,479
Speaker 2: you you you you, Because there is a sacrifice that

554
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 2: is involved with being married and having children and running

555
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: a business. What if your husband would have been more supportive.

556
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: What makes you think he wasn't supportive. My ex husband

557
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 2: was very supportive. Had nothing to do with support. In fact,

558
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 2: he's supportive. Now I'm able to do the things that

559
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 2: I'm doing because I have a very supportive ex husband.

560
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 2: He calls me is forever wife. Had nothing to do

561
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,959
Speaker 2: with support. Don't assume that I got divorced because he

562
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 2: wasn't supportive. The mister was very supportive because he was

563
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 2: a mechanic, old school nigga. Baby, do whatever you want

564
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: to do. I'm gona pay all the bills and do whatever.

565
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: That wasn't why we're not married. I didn't if you

566
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: want to know, when he started making that money, started

567
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 2: getting two hundred and fifty thousand dollars a year, he

568
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 2: started showing his ass That's.

569
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: What it was.

570
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 2: He had nothing to do with being supportive. When you

571
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 2: take that bus driver who never made that money, and

572
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 2: then you flip it and you show him how to

573
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 2: be all that he can be because he got a

574
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: virtuous woman.

575
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: He started making that money.

576
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: Y'all start showing y'all ass and I don't want to

577
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 2: end up in the penitentiary.

578
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: That's what that's about.

579
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: Don't assume he wasn't supportive, and don't assume I don't

580
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 2: have a man in my life that is very supportive

581
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 2: because I do. That's why big up men all the time,

582
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: black men all the time. I don't know where these

583
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: women talking about that don't find good men because I

584
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: did and have so. Yes, I said it at the

585
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 2: beginning of the podcast. I started my business with my

586
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 2: ex husband when I was married. But when I no

587
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: longer had to be a wife, I had more time

588
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 2: to put into my business. That is a fact. It

589
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 2: doesn't matter how supportive you are. If you are a woman,

590
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 2: a virtuous woman, your husband and your child goes first period.

591
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: Listen to the game. Shall we go over the virtuous

592
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 2: woman in case you're confused. For those of y'all to

593
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: keep looking for marriage, Let's let's go over that for

594
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 2: those of y'all to keep getting confused. The virtuous woman

595
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: who can find a virtuous woman? Her heart is far

596
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: above Ruby's. The first line after that, the first line

597
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: after that says, the heart of her husband safely trust

598
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 2: in her. It immediately talks about her husband. Are y'all

599
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 2: feeling me? Let me do the message version. This is

600
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: the King James version. I want to do the message

601
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: version because the message version is the talking like in

602
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 2: real time, like how we talk. See this is the part,

603
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: Coach that they don't want to talk about. Shall we

604
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 2: go there? Shall we go there? Because this is the

605
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 2: part they don't talk about on these podcasts, And we

606
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: must go there because y'all keep talking about be a wife,

607
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: Be a wife, Be a wife. Do you know what

608
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 2: it means to be a wife? That's the first thing

609
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: and the sacrifice that we go to it.

610
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: Do you know what being a mother is? That's why

611
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: this conversation.

612
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 2: At some point, we got to have this conversation with

613
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: some women that get the bag and also been a

614
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: wife and been a mother and all those things, because

615
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: we have to be I have to be transparent in

616
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: the pros and the cons and what I was able

617
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: to do and what I wasn't able to do and

618
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 2: what the sacrifices were involved. If not, we're just sitting

619
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: around there talking about hypotheticals. I'm not gonna keep having

620
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 2: this conversation with women who had had no kids, because

621
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 2: once you have the child and the bag, mind you,

622
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 2: it's a whole different conversation. Now, let me do this.

623
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: In the message version, it's called the virtuous woman, but

624
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 2: that actually means a hymn to a good wife. Anybody

625
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 2: can be a white But let's talk about a good wife.

626
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: It said.

627
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 2: Good woman is hard to find and worth far more

628
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 2: than diamonds. Her husband trust her without reserve. Hold on,

629
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: I want to say this point before I go through

630
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 2: this good wife, because I'm gonna wrap it up with that.

631
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: But going back to this, there was one comment that

632
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 2: really bothered me yesterday and when the woman called in

633
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: and said, well, you know, white men, our counterparts are

634
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: all looking for a ring before spring, and Ebany addressed

635
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: it with the caller, Can I tell you this, White

636
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: women are not our counterparts, and black men and white

637
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: men are not our counterparts.

638
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: Counterparts.

639
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 2: Forty six percent of white men graduate with a college degree,

640
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: fifty four percent of black women graduate a college degree,

641
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: thirty seven black percent of black men graduate to college degree,

642
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: sixty three percent of black women graduate with a college

643
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 2: degree between the ages of twenty five and twenty nine.

644
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: White people are never our counterparts in anything because they

645
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: have white supremacy. So let's stop comparing ourselves to white

646
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 2: folks on any level. Because yes, white women are groomed

647
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 2: to be married, but white men are groom to find wives.

648
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: So let me say it one more time.

649
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 2: I said, white women are groomed to be married, and

650
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 2: white men are groomed to find wives. So if we

651
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: are not grooming our men and our women, our boys,

652
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 2: and our girls for partnership, it ain't no point in

653
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: us sitting up talking about what white women are doing.

654
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: Can I get a five in the chat of you agree?

655
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 2: Wasn't even no point in the caller even talking about

656
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 2: that because we ain't white folks. So what are we

657
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: talking about? Oh yeah, white women do it all the time.

658
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: You ain't no white woman, sis, you ain't no white man. Bruh,

659
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: So what are we talking about? What are we talking about?

660
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: They do it? Who do it? White supremacy.

661
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 2: So that's why I say, if you want a man,

662
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 2: you better be looking out off off the college campus, sis,

663
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: cause the numbers ain't adding up. Even if you own

664
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 2: the college campus, the numbers are not adding up. That's

665
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: why I dated a mechanic and married a mechanic. Now

666
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 2: let's go back to what a good wife is for

667
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: those of y'all to say you can have it all.

668
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:42,959
Speaker 1: The hymn too.

669
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 2: A good white don't say nothing about running no business.

670
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 2: It's say her husband trusts her without reserve. That's why

671
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: even though I had a pr business when I was married.

672
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: After I got divorced, my business went way up because

673
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 2: I was able to spend more time on my business

674
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 2: because I was a good wife. And if you are

675
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: a good wife, a sacrifice is going to be made.

676
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 2: My best friend is married. She's been trying to get

677
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: her business kicked off for years. She's a full time teacher.

678
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 2: But when she goes home, she been married for twenty

679
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: some years. When she go home, her husband want to

680
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 2: go out, he want to go to HAPPYSS. She got

681
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: to keep it alive with him. She got to keep

682
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 2: it alive with the kids. She's been talking mess starting

683
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 2: her business for years because she got to take care

684
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: of her husband and her children first. That's a fact.

685
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: And any woman that's married.

686
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 2: That's telling you different is lying or she ain't being

687
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:40,439
Speaker 2: honest about what she sacrificing in that marriage for that bag.

688
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: Let me say it again.

689
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 2: To the brother that said what about if he's supported,

690
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 2: sayin't got no to do of being supportive. I'm talking

691
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: about a good wife. So if you want to sign

692
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 2: up to be a good wife, you better damn well

693
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: know what a good wife is. And they say her

694
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 2: husband trusts her without reserve and never has reason to

695
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 2: regret it, never spite well. She treats him generously all

696
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: the days of her life. Treat him generously giving her all.

697
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: That means what giving her all all the days of

698
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 2: her life. That is why Charlemagne and Eny can sit

699
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: up and talk about all the beauty of being married

700
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 2: because they were out getting the.

701
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: Bag where their wives were at home.

702
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 2: Having babies supporting them. You don't hear them talking about

703
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 2: the businesses that they wife got.

704
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: They got through them.

705
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 2: Let's talk about it, do y'all want to talk about

706
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: it or not. I'm quoting the Bible because that's what

707
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 2: I'm doing. And white supremacy, yes, is in the Bible.

708
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 2: But we ain't face to go there, ma'am. This is

709
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 2: what I'm choosing to do on just letting you know

710
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: what a good wife is. So if it bothers you

711
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 2: that it's coming from the Bible, just pretend I'm not

712
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 2: coming from the Bible. If you got a man, you

713
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: need to know how to take care of your man,

714
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: so that if you're getting stopped, if that's stumping you

715
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 2: on this, pretend that it didn't come from the Bible.

716
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 2: The bottom line is, if you're gonna marry and be

717
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 2: in partnership, you better damn well know how to take

718
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 2: care of your man. And yes, that's white supremacy, patriarchy,

719
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 2: it's all of that. That's why getting married ain't for everybody.

720
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 2: Getting married ain't for everybody, because if this brings you

721
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 2: pause on taking care of your man and taking care

722
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: of your husband, then you ain't wife material and you

723
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,240
Speaker 2: can chop it up to white supremacy or whatever, Bible whatever.

724
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: The bottom line is, I'm telling you why men choose wives,

725
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 2: and I'm telling you what it is to be a wife. Now,

726
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: if you just want to be a business partner and

727
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: he cool with being a business, just you being a

728
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 2: business partner and not knowing how to be a good wife,

729
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: then that's a whole other conversation. But I'm talking to

730
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 2: the women that want to know what it is to

731
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 2: be a good wife, because being a good white mean

732
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 2: and says you may not have all the time in

733
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 2: your day to run no business, no million dollar business.

734
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 1: And I'm talking to women who want a million dollar business.

735
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about your little hobby business on the side,

736
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 2: and nobody's talking about your bacon cake and pies. I'm

737
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 2: talking about women that's trying to bring that bag in

738
00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 2: at a quarter of a million and up.

739
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 1: No worries, I'm recording. It's on my podcast.

740
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 2: You can go back and listen and to be on

741
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 2: the Straight Shot and No Chase a podcast today. Now,

742
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 2: I say say he never spiteful, treats him generalsly all

743
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:14,760
Speaker 2: the days of her life.

744
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: She shops around for the best yarns and cottons.

745
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: She enjoys knitching and sewing means you know how to

746
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: put her hands on something and make something half of

747
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 2: you can't thread a needle. Uh oh, let me say

748
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 2: it again. I said a lot of y'all can't thread

749
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 2: a needle. She's like a trading ship that sells the

750
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 2: far away places and brings back exoetic prizes. That means

751
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 2: she knows how to go get that. That means I say,

752
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: she knows how to go get that like the lioness does.

753
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 2: Knows how to go get that and brings it back

754
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 2: to the king. The lines is the hunter. If we

755
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: take it to nature, go back and watch The Predator,

756
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 2: very good series right now on Netflix. I love watching

757
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 2: nature because I love watching how the male and female

758
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: make it happen without arguing about it on Instagram.

759
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: I say the line is, go get that.

760
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 2: Since y'all don't like the white supremacy Bible, let's talk

761
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 2: about the lioness. For those of y'all that didn't like

762
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: the sugar Mama metaphor, can I tell you about what

763
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 2: the lion is do?

764
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: The lion is go get that she's the hunter.

765
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: And when she brings it back, she moves out the

766
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: way and the lion eats first, and it breaks it

767
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: down so beautifully on the predator because it says that

768
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 2: she moves out the way because that is the sacrifice

769
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: that she pays for protection from the lion. It's not

770
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: that the lion is not a good hunter, but the

771
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 2: lion is roll because she moves more stealth. Man, I

772
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 2: wish I had somebody a witness in here today. She

773
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: moves more stealth and more strategic with her other lioness girlfriends,

774
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: and she goes in and she gets that bag, and

775
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 2: she gets that money, and she gets that prey and

776
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: she brings it back. So for the men to say

777
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: it don't matter what a woman brings to the table

778
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 2: must clearly don't understand how nature works. You ain't never

779
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 2: been with a lioness. I wish you knew a lioness

780
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,359
Speaker 2: in the building, because if you did, you would look

781
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 2: at it a little bit different. When she brings it back,

782
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 2: the line pulls up and he begins to feast on

783
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: the prey, and then he moves out the way to

784
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: give it to the cubs because they got to have something,

785
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 2: because it's all about the cycle of life in the jungle.

786
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 2: So he got to give it to the cubs and

787
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: the lion that sits back and allows some man to eat.

788
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: But some of y'all don't even fix y'all men to play.

789
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 2: Uh oh, I just hit I just hit a nerve.

790
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 2: I just hit a nerve. So don't start talking to

791
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: me about no white supremacybody. But I can break this

792
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 2: down to you about nature, because that's undisputed. That's undisputed.

793
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 2: Can I say hashtag undisputed? I said, you know how

794
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: to take care of your man says, So if you

795
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 2: don't want me using a Bible as a term, let's

796
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 2: just go ahead and look at what the lion is

797
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 2: do and what the lione do the King and Queen

798
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 2: of the jungle. Since your hotels always run around the

799
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 2: toper back. Queens and kings, Let's talk about what the

800
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 2: kings and Queen's doing. Shall we go there, Queenness and

801
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: Queen ad and Keenness and King at let's talk about

802
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 2: what the lions do and what the lion is do,

803
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 2: because she go get that, and she ain't working with

804
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 2: no hating ass women, because the females work together. The

805
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 2: females work together to go get that. They got a

806
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 2: whole business, a whole llc on how to go catch

807
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: that prey. And in fact, I love it, y'all. Got

808
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 2: y'all got to go watch it on Netflix. It's called

809
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 2: The Predator. It's called Predators, and it shows how you

810
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 2: know different species and how they move. And in this

811
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 2: particular one with the lioness, she broke her ankle. I

812
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 2: was feeling that because I broke my ankle and I

813
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 2: had six screws in my ankle.

814
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 1: Her name was Nicki, Nicki the lioness. They named her Niki.

815
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 2: And when she broke her ankle, Oh, I'm preaching somebody

816
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 2: to because you know what bother y'all when I talk

817
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 2: about the Bible. So let's just talk about let's just

818
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 2: talk about nature. Then let's talk about taking care of

819
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:10,399
Speaker 2: your man according to nature. According to nature, y'all got

820
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 2: all the excuses on how y'all want a man, but

821
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 2: then you don't know how to take care of them.

822
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: So let's deal with that then.

823
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 2: And it's okay if you don't want to be married

824
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 2: and don't want a man, if you want to take

825
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 2: care of yourself and you don't want to deal with

826
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 2: no man, says, I'm all about it. I'm all about it.

827
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 2: But in this one particular episode, Nicky's foot was broken

828
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: and it took a long time for their foot to heal,

829
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: and they had to take down this twelve foot giraffe.

830
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 2: I believe it was twelve foot, and the other females

831
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 2: see Nicki was the strongest hunter of them all, So

832
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 2: I love this episode. Y'all go back and watch it.

833
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 2: The other females went and grabbed the giraffe. One was

834
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 2: on the left and one was on the right, and

835
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: they couldn't bring the giraffe down. They needed Nikki to

836
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 2: come bring the giraf down. And even though I'm preaching

837
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 2: to somebody today now, if y'all don't want this good word,

838
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: get on tap on out, because this is for the believers.

839
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 2: I got to preach to somebody that needed to hear this.

840
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 2: Even though Nicki was wounded. What does that mean? I'm

841
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 2: talking about if you're wounded in your life, spiritually, physically,

842
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 2: whatever it is, says, if you're wounded in your life,

843
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 2: I hope you got some other women around you that's

844
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: gonna help you go get that because in this particular episode,

845
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 2: the women went and brought and got and grabbed on

846
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: to the giraffe. One was on the right and one

847
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 2: was on the left, and they had to wait in

848
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 2: order for Nikki to catch up because Nicki had a

849
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: broken ankle and she couldn't get there fast enough.

850
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 1: She was moving too slow.

851
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 2: But at the time, the women were bringing down the giraffe,

852
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: but they didn't have it enough in them to bring

853
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,919
Speaker 2: down the giraffe. So then when Nicki was finally able

854
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: to catch up, I wish I had a witness finally able.

855
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 1: To catch up when life pulled her back.

856
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 2: See the reason why you can have this conversation with

857
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: me and see life pulled me back. I've been married,

858
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 2: I've had the divorce. Life pulled me back.

859
00:42:59,320 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: I had the babit.

860
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,760
Speaker 2: I needed somebody to just give me a little grace

861
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: so I could catch up. And it was my ex

862
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 2: husband that allowed me grace so that I could catch up.

863
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 2: That's why I'm able to do the things that I

864
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,439
Speaker 2: do now because somebody allowed me to catch up. Don't

865
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 2: assume that my ex husband and I support it because

866
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 2: he is. Don't assume that it ain't nobody in my

867
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: life because it is. Because I don't have a mom

868
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: and a daddy and a sister and a brother and

869
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,959
Speaker 2: a family that's here to support before my ex husband does.

870
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,720
Speaker 2: That allowed me to catch up, to catch up my breath.

871
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 2: Who I wish I had a witness. And when Nicki

872
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 2: was finally able to catch up, I need y'all to

873
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 2: go back and watch this episode.

874
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: Nicki pounced on the back end.

875
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: She pounced with her broken ankle, and she didn't get

876
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 2: the giraffe down the first time, and she fell down

877
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 2: and then she pounced again. Oh yeah, I'm just speaking

878
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: as somebody that had a broken ankle.

879
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: For those of you that follow me, and you know,

880
00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 1: I broke my ankle.

881
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,399
Speaker 2: During the pandemic and I had to remember I put

882
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 2: on Marcellius's here, I put on Instagram how I had

883
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 2: to scoot up and down my stairs to go do

884
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: those to do that commentary. And I had a mouthguard

885
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,959
Speaker 2: in my mouth because I busted my mouth wide open.

886
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 2: See y'all didn't know that. See when I was fighting

887
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 2: white supremacy, I had a mouthguard in my mouth, I

888
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 2: had a cast on my foot, and I still was pouncing,

889
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 2: still doing what I could. And when Nikki finally got

890
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: the strength even with that broke ankle, the narrator said

891
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:40,240
Speaker 2: she had to fight through the pain, and she pounced,

892
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 2: and she pounced, and eventually they brought down the giraffe.

893
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: What am I saying all that to say?

894
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 2: I'm saying all that to say for those of y'all

895
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 2: that don't like the Bible reference, that you're gonna have

896
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 2: to fight through the pain. You're gonna have to take

897
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: care of somebody else beside yourself if you want to

898
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: go into motherhood or be a wife, because according to

899
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 2: the word, it says she's up before don preparing breakfast

900
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 2: for her family and organizing her day. You are going

901
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:13,359
Speaker 2: to take care of your husband and your children first.

902
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: And if you don't want to do that, then don't

903
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: be a wife. It's okay.

904
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 2: Marriage ain't for everybody, but let's stop having these hypotheticals

905
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 2: on what it mean to be a wife and what

906
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 2: it mean to be a mama. And you ain't been

907
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 2: a wife and a mama, because I'm going to tell

908
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: you what don't mean to be a wife and a mama. Yes,

909
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 2: it talks about she dresses for work first thing in

910
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 2: the morning. She dresses for work, rolls her sleeve, but

911
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 2: it says she's taking up cooking that breakfast first, y'all,

912
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: Why y'all want to skip over that part? It says

913
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 2: she's skilled in crafts and diligent in homemaking, meaning she

914
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 2: know how to get her home. Do y'all know it's homemaking.

915
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 2: Y'all don't want to be homemakers. Oh that's right. You

916
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 2: want to be a boss bitch and a homemaker. And

917
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 2: of this and of that, I'm here to tell you

918
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 2: that is gonna be a sacrifice. Somebody gonna be missing something.

919
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 2: Y'all don't want to talk about that part though. It

920
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 2: says she's quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out

921
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: to the poor. She doesn't worry about her family when

922
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 2: it snows because the winter clothes have been mended. Her

923
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 2: husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers.

924
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what that means. When Beyonce said,

925
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,479
Speaker 2: bring me to the meeting and I'll close the deal,

926
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: and jay Z said, well, how can you upgrade me?

927
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 2: I'm already at number one. See a good wife can

928
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 2: upgrade you? Meaning take me to the business said take

929
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: me to the meeting.

930
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: Baby.

931
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 2: I know you, jay Z, I know you got money,

932
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 2: but it means something when you walk in with me. Now,

933
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 2: this is to the brothers that said don't matter what

934
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 2: a woman brings to the table. Well, I'm here to

935
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 2: tell you that the men that got women that bring

936
00:46:58,480 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 2: something to the table is here to call say you

937
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 2: would the devil is a lie. Yet everything to do

938
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 2: will bring what she brings to the table. That's why

939
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: y'all sitting up upset about Travis Daton, Taylor Swift because

940
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: he know all about bringing.

941
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: It to the table.

942
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 2: You know why you know about what bringing to the table,

943
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 2: because that's what white men are talked about bringing it

944
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 2: to the table. They talked about the bag. They ain't

945
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 2: taught about who looked the good and who looked the

946
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 2: best on Instagram. They're taught about what bring what to

947
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 2: the table. So the white man just simply went back

948
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: to his core fundamental belief of white supremacy, of owned

949
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 2: and dominating control. So while y'all sitting up to Captain Samulights,

950
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 2: sitting around talking about it don't matter what a woman

951
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 2: bringing to the table. Oh, it matters. It matters to Travis.

952
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 2: It matters to Travis even though he in NFL played,

953
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 2: even though he got money, even though he all the

954
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 2: guy got all of that, got all of that, but

955
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 2: he went on head and went over there to Taylor Swift.

956
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 2: And now the tickets don't went up sixty percent, So

957
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 2: now Travis can have a whole nother conversation. Y'all don't

958
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 2: look at that though, because se y'all stop, y'all stopped

959
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 2: right at the He don't need that, he got this

960
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 2: and got that. Don't see white men talk to get

961
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,439
Speaker 2: it all. Let me say it one more time. I said,

962
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 2: white men talk to get it all. Y'all want to

963
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: hear about that part they'll do you they talk to

964
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 2: get it all. No, let me just go ahead. Let

965
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 2: me just go ahead and party up with Taylor Swift.

966
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 2: Because I want to be able to I want to

967
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 2: be able to take the NFL to another level, getting

968
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 2: the college, getting the ring one enough, getting the super

969
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 2: Bowl one enough. White men are talked to get it all.

970
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 2: So that's why we can't see sit up here talking

971
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,959
Speaker 2: about what we need to be doing with white folks

972
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: are doing and what they count what their counterparts are doing.

973
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 2: Because black men and black women and black boys and

974
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 2: black girls are not taught the same thing as children,

975
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 2: so they got different perspectives of the world. So when

976
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 2: they say her husband is greatly respected, he deliberates with

977
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 2: the city fathers greatly respected. That means when he walk

978
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 2: in the room, they respect them based on what that

979
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 2: good woman bring to the table as well. The podcast

980
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,919
Speaker 2: is called straight Shot, No Chase, so you can click

981
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 2: up in the link and find that this is going

982
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 2: to be downloaded for those who want to share this

983
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 2: with somebody. Yeah, it doesn't matter what they beg to differ.

984
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if he beg to differ about what

985
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 2: you bring to the table. I'm telling you reality. I'm

986
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 2: telling you reality. No man that I know, and I

987
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: don't know Jason Black, I've never met him in real life.

988
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to tell you is every multi millionaire

989
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 2: that I know that is a black man don't have

990
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 2: no dumb ass woman beside him.

991
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: That's what I know. These are the realities that I know.

992
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 2: Because one thing about a rich man, a wealthy man,

993
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 2: he want to stay with rich and wealthy. Let me

994
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 2: say it one more time. Let's break that down. I

995
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 2: don't care what y'all talking about in these streets. What

996
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell you is all the men that

997
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 2: I know, and clearly I know wealthy men in my circle,

998
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 2: none of them have dumb women because of nothing else.

999
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: She bringing brains to the table. Because while they're traveling

1000
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 2: all over the place, while being crump is traveling all

1001
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 2: over the place making multi multimillions, his wife, with her

1002
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 2: smart ass and her multiple degrees, is at home managing

1003
00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:01,280
Speaker 2: that household. Same thing applies to Charlotne, same thing applies

1004
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 2: to DJMV. All of their wives are smart, college educated women.

1005
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 2: And let me say this, let me bust this bubble

1006
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 2: right quick. For those of y'all to keep priding y'allself

1007
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 2: on one of the dumb ass woman, Shame on you

1008
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: for want of a dumb woman to raise your children,

1009
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 2: because that means you want a whole bunch of dumb

1010
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 2: ass kids. Let me say it one more time. Do

1011
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 2: you want a woman that's raising your children to not

1012
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 2: know how to think? No critical thinking skills? What kind

1013
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 2: of children are y'all trying to have out here? So

1014
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: when they use a term don't bring to the table,

1015
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,959
Speaker 2: you gotta tell me what that means. You gotta break

1016
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 2: down to that what you mean, because even though she

1017
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 2: may not be working, even though she may not be

1018
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 2: making a whole lot of money, she has the skill

1019
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: set to see, it's about the skill set.

1020
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: Killer Mike talks about this all the time.

1021
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: Shout out to fair grade in the building, who does

1022
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 2: very well financially, who said he agrees a million percent.

1023
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: And I'm shouting him out because I like people's receipts

1024
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 2: that I know for sure, like they are who they are.

1025
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 2: Killer Mike talks about it all the time. He said,

1026
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 2: I have plenty money, but my wife know how to

1027
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 2: manage it. So she may not be she has several businesses,

1028
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,439
Speaker 2: by the way, but when we talk about what brings

1029
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 2: to the table, I need you to know how to

1030
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 2: do something with that thoughts. See, that's what the virtuous

1031
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 2: women talk about. The virtuous woman talk about it says

1032
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,800
Speaker 2: very clearly. It's very clearly. Even though y'all don't like it,

1033
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,800
Speaker 2: it say very clearly. It says she looks over filled

1034
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 2: and binds it. Then with the money she put aside,

1035
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 2: she plants a garden. That means you need to have

1036
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 2: some financial literacy. That means you need to have some

1037
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:46,959
Speaker 2: financial literacy. This is according to what the virtuous woman.

1038
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: She designs gowns and sells them. Bring the sweater she

1039
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 2: knits to the dress shops. That means she's a hustler,

1040
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 2: and she knows how to negotiate. That's bringing something to

1041
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 2: the table ladies and gentlemen. Her clothes are well made

1042
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: and elegant. And she smiles faces tomorrow with a smile

1043
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 2: when she speaks. Can we say this? It's say when

1044
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 2: she speaks, she'd has something worthwhile to say, a lot

1045
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 2: of folks be talking just to talk. It says she

1046
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 2: has something worthwhile to say. See social media got y'all

1047
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: saying anything. Y'all just say anything. Well, I feel like,

1048
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 2: and I feel like, and I did, and I it

1049
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 2: And what I'm saying is and this, And that's why

1050
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 2: y'all get mad when I say I like to talk

1051
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 2: to people with the receipts that I can verify, because

1052
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 2: I need to know that it's worthwhile. Anybody can talk,

1053
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 2: any of y'all can come in to the comments and say,

1054
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,439
Speaker 2: I do make six peoples, I do make three hundred.

1055
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 2: I do.

1056
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 1: I'm happy in my marriage. I'm not happy in y'all

1057
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: say anything.

1058
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 2: I like talking to people that I know for sure

1059
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: that we verify the receipts because that's what makes it worthwhile.

1060
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: Other than that, it ain't worthwhile. Y'all just be talking.

1061
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 2: I ain't saying everybody lying, but I'm saying I don't

1062
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 2: have no way of betting you.

1063
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1064
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 2: I don't know what you do and what you bring

1065
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 2: to the table worthwhile. The definition of that says worth

1066
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 2: the time, money, and ever spent our value of importance.

1067
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 2: So unless I notice you got the receipts that can

1068
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: back up this conversation, we're just talking to be talking

1069
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 2: for the women that's talking about. When I feel like

1070
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 2: I should be in a conversation. Well, since I don't

1071
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 2: know if you know how to get the bag, so

1072
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 2: I'm talking to those who went and got the bag

1073
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 2: and mastered it because that's what the.

1074
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: Women want to hear.

1075
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 2: It's say her children respect and blessed her, and her

1076
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 2: husband joined in the words of praise. This is why,

1077
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 2: at some point we got to have this conversation where

1078
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Speaker 2: women that got children, so we can see how my

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00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 2: child respects me. Sixteen straight, a student, never in trouble,

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00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 2: carries herself like a young lady. Many of you have

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00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,359
Speaker 2: met her here met her in the beginning. Marcella's met

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00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 2: her as a teenager. Dj D has met her as

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00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 2: a baby. I'm talking that real life receipts and they

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00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 2: say her husband joins her in word of praise. Guess what,

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00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 2: My ex husband still praised me. Remember that day y'all

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00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 2: was on live and he said it you the forever wife,

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Speaker 2: the prototype.

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00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:17,919
Speaker 1: Can I go there?

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00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: Can I tell you that my ex husband don't have

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00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 2: no babies by nobody but me.

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Speaker 1: I was the only one worthy. Can I go there?

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00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 2: This ain't the shit on nobody. I'm just giving you

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00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 2: receipts my ex husband and can I say this, he's

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00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 2: lived with women after that, I'm the only one that

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Speaker 2: had his child, the only one worthy.

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Speaker 1: He sure did. Real Kog was there. They heard him.

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Speaker 2: I'm the forever wife. He was over fixing that car,

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Speaker 2: and it ain't in exchange for no sex. He holds

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Speaker 2: me to the highest level. And for those of y'all

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00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 2: say why y'all didn't make it, because every marriage don't

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00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 2: make it. Baby, that's just the realities of life. But

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00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 2: this man is very much in my life, very much

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00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 2: in support. So everybody ain't running around here bitter because

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00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 2: they got a bitter situation. Marriage in my life, in

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00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 2: my family was the rule, not the exception. Let me

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00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 2: say it again. Marriage in my life was the rule,

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00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 2: not the exception. My mother told me you better not

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00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,399
Speaker 2: have no child at a wed lot. So let's end

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00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 2: that myth about because y'all loved him. That's why, y'all. Baby,

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Speaker 2: Mama's now who y'all talk? Who you talking to? You

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00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 2: ain't talking to me. I'm an ex wife, so you

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Speaker 2: ain't talking to me because I got married and had

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00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 2: my baby, waited seven years. And let me give you

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00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 2: some other news, so did my mama. I'm my mama's

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00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 2: only child. And guess what can I give y'all some

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00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:51,360
Speaker 2: more news. I'm my daddy's only child, and my mama's

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00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 2: mama was married, and my mama's mama's Mamas was married

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00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 2: all the way down the line, and that's on the

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00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 2: parental and the maternal side.

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Speaker 1: So I come from a.

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00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 2: Long line of women who were married and had their

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00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 2: children in the wedlock.

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Speaker 1: Big difference.

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00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 2: And it's just not shitting on anybody that's a baby mom.

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Speaker 2: I'm not here to dismiss you, but it is important

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00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 2: that we have this conversation because it is a big

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00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 2: difference because I'm still on that insurance. I'm still on

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00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 2: their health care, I'm still on that life insurance. I'm

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00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 2: still the next line of ken all of that. Meaning

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00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:36,919
Speaker 2: when that man go on, I still get the sold

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00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 2: security check, meaning when he go on, I still get

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00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 2: the life insurance. And it ain't because I'm his baby mom.

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00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 2: It was because i'm his ex wife and he holds

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00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 2: me to a high regard. And that's a big difference.

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00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying baby daddy's don't do it. I

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00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: just can't speak from that because I don't have no

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00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 2: baby dadd I got an ex husband.

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00:56:51,800 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: Big difference, and that ain't shitting on nobody.

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00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 2: But it's important that we stop thinking that everybody's situation

1140
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: is the same, and all black men are the same,

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00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 2: and all black women are the same. I want to

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00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 2: recap this again. The conversation was for women who are

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00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 2: looking for college educated men black women that are looking

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00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 2: for college educated men.

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00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: I'm here to tell you. I'm here to tell Lauren

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00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: and anybody.

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00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 2: Else that that dating pool is going to be small

1148
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:38,479
Speaker 2: whether you are looking young or old. So it would

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00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 2: behoove you to open up your options if you are

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00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 2: looking for a husband, and if you don't, if you

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00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 2: say I just know I only want to date a

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00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 2: man with a college degree, cool, just telling you you

1153
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 2: got a slim chance.

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00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 1: That's all at any age.

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00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 2: Let's stop acting like, Oh if I would have just

1156
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,320
Speaker 2: knew this when I was younger, it would have been different.

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00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 2: It wouldn't have been different because you're only looking for

1158
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: college educated men, so that pool still would have been smaller.

1159
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 2: Until you go outside of that pool and open up

1160
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 2: for something else, it's gonna it's still gonna be a

1161
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 2: short pool. Unfortunately, Instagram Live only allows me to stay

1162
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 2: an hour, so I have one minute and forty five

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00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 2: seconds before this closed out. I hope you found something

1164
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 2: in this. Yes, I'm gonna keep the live up. Yes

1165
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 2: you can go listen on Straight Shot. No, Chaser podcasts.

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00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 2: We are uploading this to my podcast. If you do

1167
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 2: not know where to find me, the link is available

1168
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 2: anywhere you get your podcasts. Put in straight shot, no

1169
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 2: Chaser will test some figure. Just put in my name,

1170
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 2: it will pop up. Please describe, share this with somebody

1171
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 2: that needs to hear this. We can continue this dialogue.

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00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 2: I did not want to have this on a platform

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00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 2: where I had to be interrupted by a producer or

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00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 2: a commercial break or talking points, or forget all of that.

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00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: We just need to have the conversation. And whoever, here

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00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: is it? Here is it? Whoever is meant for?

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00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: It's meant for If it's not, it's not. If you

1178
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 2: think it's meant for somebody, tag a friend. If it's

1179
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 2: too long for you, I don't want to hear all that.

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00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 2: No problem, it wasn't meant for you. I'm like FedEx.

1181
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm dropping it off, no signature required. I always say

1182
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 2: in all of my commentary, use it, lose it can't

1183
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 2: make you choose it. I ain't trying to make you

1184
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 2: choose it. I ain't trying to force it on you. Sis.

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00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 2: If you want a man that make a certain amount,

1186
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 2: go for it. If you want a man that got

1187
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 2: a college degree, go for sis. If you just want

1188
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 2: a good man and you.

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Speaker 1: Want to open yourself to other options, go for it.

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00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 2: We can talk later on, maybe in another time, about

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00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 2: what that means when you do deal with the man

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00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 2: that can't handle your success. That's a whole another conversation.

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00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 2: But I hope you found something out of this. Use it,

1194
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 2: lose it can't make you choose it, y'all. Make sure

1195
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 2: y'all tap into everything that I'm doing. Taz on ten

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00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 2: coming on Revolt this fall. Check in with me every

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00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 2: day on the Breakfast Club on Front Page News. Make

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00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 2: sure you subscribe to the Front Page News broadcast channel

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00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 2: right here on Instagram so that you can have a

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00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: little bit more interaction with me, And of course, subscribe

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00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: to the podcast Straight Shot No Chaser. If you like

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00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,760
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00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,200
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