WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Practice Makes Perfect

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're here for a brand new second date update

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<v Speaker 1>today and we want to talk about what we said

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>We put up a second date video of us.

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<v Speaker 1>We did and I think you guys liked it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>reading the comments is well, I know, seeing us can

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<v Speaker 1>be a shocker, you know, like for example, Dominic Mark said,

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<v Speaker 1>after watching the YouTube video, who is the swol guy

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<v Speaker 1>and the blonde woman on the Spotify cover? I assume

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<v Speaker 1>jeff from YouTube videos was bottom right, Brooke was the redhead.

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<v Speaker 2>Jose was obvious. Yeah, but I don't know who's swoll

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<v Speaker 2>that they're seeing.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I'm I'm two people.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's the thing. Yeah, I'm sorry, I asked now

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<v Speaker 2>my fifth person in the room, I'm the stupid vie. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, all right, go watch that you haven't already

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<v Speaker 1>and here's your brand new second date update right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't normally talk about this, but if you feel

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<v Speaker 4>like you've made a connection on a first date, when

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<v Speaker 4>should the second date be put down like in concrete?

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<v Speaker 2>Oo? Oh, I think in the twenty four hours following?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait wait, well no, I'm setting the date.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying when you're trying to schedule it, when

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<v Speaker 4>should it be locked in by?

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<v Speaker 3>How long is too long to wait?

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<v Speaker 4>Because our listener has been trying for almost a full

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<v Speaker 4>week and now he's getting to the point where he

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<v Speaker 4>thinks something must be off where maybe she's avoiding it

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<v Speaker 4>on purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you should have it locked in within twenty four hours,

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. Every day that passes after the

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<v Speaker 2>date is less chance of you booking that second Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so maybe his confidence is starting to fade. His

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<v Speaker 4>name is Alex, Alex, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 2>We probably didn't help your confidence right there, and did we, Alex?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Not really. It's very strange.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, brow, we're men. Are you being too subtle? Are

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<v Speaker 3>you being direct and saying I'd like to see you again?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, no, I'm being direct.

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<v Speaker 4>Interesting, but you're showing up to her house knocking on

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<v Speaker 4>the door, being like, when can we go out?

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<v Speaker 5>Not that direct?

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<v Speaker 2>Please?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, not that direct. That's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Good somewhere in the middle is probably better. But maybe

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<v Speaker 4>we need to learn more about your first date before

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<v Speaker 4>we already start jumping to the second one.

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<v Speaker 3>What's this girl's name, by the way, her name is Mia.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how'd you guys meet? We always start there.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 6>Very typical.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know that there was going to be something

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<v Speaker 2>special about this date going in?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean we're both big baseball fans and love trying

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<v Speaker 6>new restaurants, so I don't know. We just it felt

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<v Speaker 6>like a very easy to chat with her.

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<v Speaker 4>Baseball and food go hand in hand, so I mean

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<v Speaker 4>that's totally okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you guys do on your date?

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<v Speaker 6>So we went to a restaurant. But I have to

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<v Speaker 6>tell you it was really interesting because I went to

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<v Speaker 6>her apartment to pick her up.

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<v Speaker 3>And with her permission or without her permission, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>With her permissions.

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<v Speaker 6>And she told me on the way to the restaurant

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<v Speaker 6>that she had memorized the whole menu.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this sounds like going out with.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to act like I'm looking, but I already

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<v Speaker 3>picked what days ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody studies the menu to pick something out, but to

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<v Speaker 4>memorize the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the next level.

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<v Speaker 6>So I asked her, like, okay, so what's on page

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<v Speaker 6>two four down?

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<v Speaker 5>Smart?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, acquiz you?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>And she did it.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, Oh, she was joking.

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<v Speaker 2>It was okay, right, because she's a liar. This is better,

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<v Speaker 2>this is better.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know, I think I took memorize a little literally.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was basically saying, I'm excited for this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>But she did tell me a few thinks she liked.

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<v Speaker 6>And she was funny. She laughed a lot.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually when we were at the restaurant, she was laughing

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<v Speaker 6>so much that it was like getting attention from other tables,

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<v Speaker 6>like it was her laugh is like a machine gun,

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<v Speaker 6>Like it's like I can't even do an impression, but

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<v Speaker 6>you can imagine. Oh yeah, totally, that's it. That's it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you put your hand over her mouth and be

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<v Speaker 4>like you're embarrassing us now?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean I like the she was comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean what were you too laughing about?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it was like normal conversation and it was

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<v Speaker 6>just like you would find little tidbits, little anecdotes that

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<v Speaker 6>were funny, and that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, you had to be there funny moment. Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>maybe yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh oh, I do remember one thing we were laughing about,

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<v Speaker 6>and it's how dates end, because it's always like a

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<v Speaker 6>little awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So I asked her like, Okay, what's the most awkward

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<v Speaker 6>thing that happened to you? And she was like, one

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<v Speaker 6>guy hugged her and then kissed the back of her neck.

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<v Speaker 3>Ew, yeah, a little what's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 2>I hope her hair was up because.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean just the visual when she was going

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<v Speaker 6>into it. It made me crack up because it was hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like she's a good storyteller, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>I love people like that.

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<v Speaker 3>And also, remember, you're better than that guy. She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>this is a horror story.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's still I don't know. Did you go in

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<v Speaker 2>for the neck as a joke at the end?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no, okay, that would have been pretty funnyough.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe that's why I'm not going to get Did you.

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<v Speaker 3>Kiss he from the mouth or on the cheek or

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<v Speaker 3>on the hand or anything?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>So then I drove her back and I opened the

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<v Speaker 6>door for her, and it was kind of like, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>what what are we gonna do? Speaking of ends and dates?

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<v Speaker 6>And then she gave me a really big kiss on

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<v Speaker 6>the mouth, not the neck.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so good. I don't understand where.

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<v Speaker 2>I know why would it be a week since you've

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<v Speaker 2>talked to her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean it's been four to five days, and

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<v Speaker 6>like she's not ghosting me.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not. So what does she say when you say, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go out.

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<v Speaker 6>Like, hey, something came up to me, push this stuff

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<v Speaker 6>like that, like a little hm generics.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, maybe after the kiss happened, you did something

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<v Speaker 4>that was a.

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<v Speaker 3>Little off pudding what I don't think so, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Right after the kiss, did you like wipe your mouth

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<v Speaker 4>and be like, oh, I don't normally kiss on a first.

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<v Speaker 2>Date and then sounds yeah wow, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, it would be horrible if you did that.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, that definitely didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why you bring that up.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of things Jeff brings up that we're

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<v Speaker 2>not quite sure on.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just brainstorming why she wouldn't be calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just call her instead. Less brainstorming from Jeff. I

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<v Speaker 2>was talking to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I have ten other possible things you could have done

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<v Speaker 4>wrong after you kissed her.

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<v Speaker 2>If you say yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, then we're gonna move on. Fine.

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<v Speaker 4>We will reach out to Mia for you and try

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<v Speaker 4>and get you your second date. Update normal mouth kissing

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<v Speaker 4>edition only right after this hold on.

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've been

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<v Speaker 4>getting a peek into the love life of our listener Alex.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yes we have.

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<v Speaker 3>The most intriguing part of.

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<v Speaker 4>His date was a story about a different date that

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<v Speaker 4>the girl had gone on. Where at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the night, this mystery guy I'm assuming it's our technical

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<v Speaker 4>director Ashton went in for a two handed.

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<v Speaker 3>Hug and ended up making out with the back of

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<v Speaker 3>her neck.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I don't know what base that counts, as

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<v Speaker 4>it might be caught like in a pickle between first

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<v Speaker 4>and second.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's a bold move whatever it's called.

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<v Speaker 4>Still, Alex claims that didn't happen with him and Mia.

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<v Speaker 4>He got the full on two lip tango at the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the night.

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<v Speaker 2>See it's such a good sign when people share horror

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<v Speaker 2>stories with the dating because that means you're not one

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<v Speaker 2>of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and the conversation was a plus.

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<v Speaker 4>So why is he having such a difficult time locking

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<v Speaker 4>down a second meetup?

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<v Speaker 3>He has no idea and he needs our help.

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<v Speaker 6>Alex Oh sorry, yeah, yeah, thanks guys, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you busy right now? Are you doing something else?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, sorry, sorry that was just such a long It

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<v Speaker 6>was a long preamble. I'm very ready.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, let's see what happened. But yeah, jeff works. Sorry. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 5>I was very well written.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like, Alex, I'm so much less inclined to

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<v Speaker 4>help you.

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<v Speaker 5>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fine, it's okay. Well dial this school's number.

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<v Speaker 4>We might even say nice things about you too, depending

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<v Speaker 4>on how it goes.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just going to dial the number. Hopefully she

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<v Speaker 3>picks up.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, is this Mia?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? Hello, who's it?

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<v Speaker 4>This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the Morning. You don't have to be scared of us.

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<v Speaker 4>We're a pretty friendly group.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, just not a phone call I've expected the morning,

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<v Speaker 7>that's all.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can understand that we do reach out of

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<v Speaker 4>the blue, but we're trying to help out a listener

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<v Speaker 4>that you went on a date with recently, a guy

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<v Speaker 4>named Alex.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry, what, Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess your guys' date was like four or five

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<v Speaker 2>days ago, he said, because we do.

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<v Speaker 3>This thing called second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you're familiar with that, but if

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<v Speaker 4>you go out on a date with someone and you're

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<v Speaker 4>not getting a call back. Listeners can email us and

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<v Speaker 4>have us reach out on their behalf to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>if there's a reason why.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh wow, that feels invasive.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's we're trying to be helpful. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not a negative thing.

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<v Speaker 7>What's in it for me? Possibly your friend, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 7>you pay for it, or gift card or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, don't even let's not even worry about.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, if everything's being aired for the public and

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<v Speaker 7>my co workers, whoever's listening, I mean, I want something

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<v Speaker 7>out of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, sure, we'll get to that down the road, but first,

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<v Speaker 4>let's talk about Alex.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you think of him?

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<v Speaker 7>He was nice. He was a really good guy. You know.

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<v Speaker 7>He teased me a little bit because I like to

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<v Speaker 7>go into a restaurant prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>He mentioned that you had made a joke that you

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<v Speaker 2>had memorized the menu.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, oh yeah, I will look things up ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 7>I want to make sure there's stuff there that I like.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, everybody does that.

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<v Speaker 4>We did hear a lot about the date from Alex,

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<v Speaker 4>and we're wondering if maybe there was any part of

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<v Speaker 4>it that you didn't like. That might explain why you're

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<v Speaker 4>not meeting up with him again.

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<v Speaker 7>No, No, he was really nice. It was fun. I

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<v Speaker 7>just don't know where I am as far as being

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<v Speaker 7>ready to get into a relationship again.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, what specifically is holding you back from, like,

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<v Speaker 4>at least just seeing him for one more date, not

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<v Speaker 4>jumping into a relationship, but just hanging out.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, this is probably going to be too much information, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I love too much. Yeah, let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you want to share?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, the last guy I dated, when he broke up

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<v Speaker 7>with me, he said, I can't date you. You're a

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<v Speaker 7>terrible kisser.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, kissing chemistry, yeah, kiss.

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<v Speaker 7>So I'm like, okay, well, maybe I just need practice,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, like work on technique, kiss like thirty different guys,

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<v Speaker 7>and then just kind of go back and say, see

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<v Speaker 7>I actually can kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, go back to your ex and kiss him after

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<v Speaker 2>you've learned how to.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, don't give him the good No, that guy sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not going to do that.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, this is not going to give you

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<v Speaker 2>the satisfaction that you think it will.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, no, why instead of going back into that

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<v Speaker 4>situation why not focus on Alex, who assumingly already thinks

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<v Speaker 4>you are.

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<v Speaker 3>A good kisser.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he loved the kiss.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, this is how messed up he put in

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<v Speaker 7>my head, like the ax I I, before I even

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<v Speaker 7>go in for a kiss, I will tell a bad

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<v Speaker 7>kiss story just to kind of like break the ice

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<v Speaker 7>a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, because you told that story about the back of

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<v Speaker 2>the neck.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that was a move he told you that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we heard.

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<v Speaker 4>We heard about a different date you went on where

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<v Speaker 4>some guy kissed the back of your neck and you

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<v Speaker 4>thought that was weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that even true?

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<v Speaker 7>She wasn't exactly true, but it definitely helps break the

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<v Speaker 7>ice for when I go in for a kiss later.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, but he's just a practice, that's the sad part.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, he shouldn't feel bad. I've been practicing with a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of people.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm sure he's gonna love to hear that. And

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<v Speaker 4>he actually already has heard it because he's been listening

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<v Speaker 4>to this phone call on the other line.

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<v Speaker 3>The entire time. Mia, we don't know, Yeah, waiting to

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<v Speaker 3>talk to you. So Alex are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Hey, Mi yah, Yeah I heard all of that.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh I'm so sorry. Okay, so I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>Basically being used as like a practice dummy for kissing

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<v Speaker 6>for you.

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<v Speaker 7>You were I actually really liked you, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 7>you're my favorite to practice on.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you go out on dates?

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<v Speaker 5>Mia?

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<v Speaker 2>Why not just go to a club and start making

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<v Speaker 2>out with people on the dance floor. It is so

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<v Speaker 2>easy to get guys to kiss you. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>tell you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, oh, I've done that too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, she's got to get the whole experience.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, just anybody who's willing to kiss you and give

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<v Speaker 4>you a little practice so that you can improve for

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<v Speaker 4>your ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>That sucks. That sucks for our guy, man, Yeah it does.

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<v Speaker 6>It doesn't suck for me.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm in the teens already.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Alex, does this change your mind that you're helping

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<v Speaker 4>her improve?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, look, this is a weird situation, but I

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<v Speaker 6>do appreciate that people that you've kissed you're putting me

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<v Speaker 6>at number one.

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<v Speaker 2>Well you think it's a compet I mean it's not.

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<v Speaker 7>Really ranking or competition, but you're definitely in the top third.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, is it possible that there's another way to

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<v Speaker 4>get good at kissing where you don't have to lock

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<v Speaker 4>lips with forty strangers.

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<v Speaker 2>Does you just find someone where your chemistry matches? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>obviously you two had an amazing kiss. Like he's calling,

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<v Speaker 2>he's so excited to see you again, Like this is working.

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<v Speaker 2>The stuff with your ax didn't work. That's why.

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<v Speaker 6>Look, Mia, we had such a great time. Like the

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<v Speaker 6>kissing is only going to get better. So I'm sure

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<v Speaker 6>I'll move up to first eventually.

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<v Speaker 2>What you're still to compete?

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<v Speaker 3>It's the competitive side of a guy.

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<v Speaker 7>They have to be number one, which is definitely something

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<v Speaker 7>my ex would say.

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<v Speaker 2>What we are not over him? Are we? Okay?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm teasing. I'm teasing.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm teasing him now.

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<v Speaker 7>That you should try this. Go out, meet people, kiss

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<v Speaker 7>different people. It's not as bad as these guys are

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<v Speaker 7>making it sound. I mean plenty has met, have been

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<v Speaker 7>kissing and telling for years.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Me, I'm familiar with the concept of dating.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean we do that. Keep on kissing, keep

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<v Speaker 7>on improving.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, it seems like you think I'm a good kisser,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know what, frankly, you're not a very good kisser.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean you're you're for your ex.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, you sound like my ex.

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<v Speaker 4>You want to hang out that's a healthy thing to

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<v Speaker 4>say the world.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I'm done with this. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't believe we went this far for you to

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<v Speaker 2>finally deny her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but after she lied about kissing the other people

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<v Speaker 4>just to get you to kiss her.

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<v Speaker 7>But you can always get better ping me when you

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<v Speaker 7>need it.

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<v Speaker 4>In fact, I'm gonna there's a high probability of kissing

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<v Speaker 4>in the forecast with a chance of hands play if

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<v Speaker 4>you two would agree to see each other again.

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<v Speaker 2>Think he just said no?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, look, there's been a lot of new information

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<v Speaker 4>and emotions that have come out during this call, and

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<v Speaker 4>sure he may have said some stuff in the heat

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<v Speaker 4>of the moment like no, I'm not interested, But when

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<v Speaker 4>the dust settles, I bet you he's going to want

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<v Speaker 4>to give her another chance, especially after thirty seconds of

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<v Speaker 4>him non stop saying no.

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<v Speaker 3>So, Alex, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean?

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<v Speaker 6>This is weirder than just a booty call.

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's a lipy call.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not weird if you don't think about it, though.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you eat on a kissing date?

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<v Speaker 6>Lots of I'm going to pass on that, Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 6>looking for different things.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we are all right.

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<v Speaker 6>Well she enjoyed kissing me.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't care what she says.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, that's right, you stick with that confidence.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Top third, all.

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<v Speaker 2>The dogs in the city just started barking.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>If you put on your dating profile that you're just

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<v Speaker 4>looking to make out with a bunch of people to

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<v Speaker 4>improve kissing enough to get back together with your ex, would.

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<v Speaker 3>That get you more matches or would it get you less?

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<v Speaker 2>More? Girl? Yes, if you're a guy, no more. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The same thing like if a guy put it on

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<v Speaker 4>his bio, Alexis, would you swipe.

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<v Speaker 3>Right on that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to relationship anyway. There you go. Yeah, okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I think honestly goes a long ways.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, everyone's changing their bios.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we speak. You're just trying to get better at

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<v Speaker 3>locking lips.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that is going to be a nightmare when she

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<v Speaker 2>gets back and kisses that ex. Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Or we could be really optimistic and he's like, wow,

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<v Speaker 4>you've really come a long way.

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<v Speaker 2>She's missing out on the guy that was like decent

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<v Speaker 2>and nice to go back and kiss her ex.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a good like Alexi said, who wants that.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Figure out what kissing leads to.

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<v Speaker 5>That's even more fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, the level I know that she has forty

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<v Speaker 4>more dudes to improve on that. No, okay, well, if

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<v Speaker 4>you want to improve just on your dating life in

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