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Speaker 1: Okay, you're here for a brand new second date update

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Speaker 1: today and we want to talk about what we said

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Speaker 1: on YouTube yesterday.

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Speaker 2: We put up a second date video of us.

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Speaker 1: We did and I think you guys liked it, you know,

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Speaker 1: reading the comments is well, I know, seeing us can

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Speaker 1: be a shocker, you know, like for example, Dominic Mark said,

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Speaker 1: after watching the YouTube video, who is the swol guy

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Speaker 1: and the blonde woman on the Spotify cover? I assume

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Speaker 1: jeff from YouTube videos was bottom right, Brooke was the redhead.

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Speaker 2: Jose was obvious. Yeah, but I don't know who's swoll

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Speaker 2: that they're seeing.

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Speaker 3: Oh I'm I'm two people.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's the thing. Yeah, I'm sorry, I asked now

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Speaker 2: my fifth person in the room, I'm the stupid vie. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, all right, go watch that you haven't already

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Speaker 1: and here's your brand new second date update right now.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 4: We don't normally talk about this, but if you feel

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Speaker 4: like you've made a connection on a first date, when

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Speaker 4: should the second date be put down like in concrete?

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Speaker 2: Oo? Oh, I think in the twenty four hours following?

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Speaker 3: Wait wait, well no, I'm setting the date.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying when you're trying to schedule it, when

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Speaker 4: should it be locked in by?

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Speaker 3: How long is too long to wait?

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Speaker 4: Because our listener has been trying for almost a full

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Speaker 4: week and now he's getting to the point where he

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Speaker 4: on purpose.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you should have it locked in within twenty four hours,

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Every day that passes after the

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Speaker 2: date is less chance of you booking that second Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so maybe his confidence is starting to fade. His

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Speaker 4: name is Alex, Alex, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Thanks guys.

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Speaker 2: We probably didn't help your confidence right there, and did we, Alex?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: Not really. It's very strange.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, brow, we're men. Are you being too subtle? Are

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Speaker 3: you being direct and saying I'd like to see you again?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, I'm being direct.

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Speaker 4: Interesting, but you're showing up to her house knocking on

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Speaker 4: the door, being like, when can we go out?

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Speaker 5: Not that direct?

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Speaker 2: Please?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, not that direct. That's a good idea.

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Speaker 4: Good somewhere in the middle is probably better. But maybe

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Speaker 4: we need to learn more about your first date before

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Speaker 4: we already start jumping to the second one.

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Speaker 3: What's this girl's name, by the way, her name is Mia.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how'd you guys meet? We always start there.

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Speaker 5: You know, on a dating app.

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Speaker 6: Very typical.

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Speaker 2: Did you know that there was going to be something

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I mean we're both big baseball fans and love trying

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Speaker 4: Baseball and food go hand in hand, so I mean

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Speaker 4: that's totally okay.

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Speaker 2: So what do you guys do on your date?

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Speaker 6: So we went to a restaurant. But I have to

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Speaker 6: tell you it was really interesting because I went to

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Speaker 3: And with her permission or without her permission, yeah.

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Speaker 5: With her permissions.

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Speaker 6: And she told me on the way to the restaurant

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Speaker 2: Well, this sounds like going out with.

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Speaker 3: I like to act like I'm looking, but I already

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Speaker 4: Everybody studies the menu to pick something out, but to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the next level.

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Speaker 6: So I asked her, like, okay, so what's on page

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Speaker 5: Smart?

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Speaker 3: Okay, acquiz you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: And she did it.

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Speaker 3: Now, Oh, she was joking.

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Speaker 2: It was okay, right, because she's a liar. This is better,

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, I think I took memorize a little literally.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was basically saying, I'm excited for this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: But she did tell me a few thinks she liked.

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Speaker 6: And she was funny. She laughed a lot.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 6: Actually when we were at the restaurant, she was laughing

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Speaker 6: Like it's like I can't even do an impression, but

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Speaker 6: you can imagine. Oh yeah, totally, that's it. That's it.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Did you put your hand over her mouth and be

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: No, I mean I like the she was comfortable.

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Speaker 3: I mean what were you too laughing about?

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Speaker 6: I mean it was like normal conversation and it was

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you had to be there funny moment. Yeah

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Speaker 6: Oh oh, I do remember one thing we were laughing about,

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Speaker 6: and it's how dates end, because it's always like a

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 6: So I asked her like, Okay, what's the most awkward

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Speaker 6: thing that happened to you? And she was like, one

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Speaker 3: Ew, yeah, a little what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean just the visual when she was going

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Speaker 2: It's not like she's a good storyteller, you know, like

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Speaker 2: I love people like that.

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Speaker 3: And also, remember, you're better than that guy. She's like,

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Speaker 2: So she's still I don't know. Did you go in

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, okay, that would have been pretty funnyough.

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Speaker 5: Maybe that's why I'm not going to get Did you.

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Speaker 3: Kiss he from the mouth or on the cheek or

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: So then I drove her back and I opened the

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Speaker 6: what what are we gonna do? Speaking of ends and dates?

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Speaker 6: And then she gave me a really big kiss on

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Speaker 3: That's so good. I don't understand where.

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Speaker 2: I know why would it be a week since you've

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it's been four to five days, and

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Speaker 2: She's not. So what does she say when you say, hey,

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Speaker 6: Like, hey, something came up to me, push this stuff

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Speaker 6: like that, like a little hm generics.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, maybe after the kiss happened, you did something

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Speaker 3: Little off pudding what I don't think so, like.

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Speaker 4: Right after the kiss, did you like wipe your mouth

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Speaker 2: Date and then sounds yeah wow, Jeff.

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Speaker 3: I agree, it would be horrible if you did that.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, that definitely didn't happen.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why you bring that up.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of things Jeff brings up that we're

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Speaker 3: I'm just brainstorming why she wouldn't be calling you back.

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Speaker 2: Let's just call her instead. Less brainstorming from Jeff. I

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Speaker 4: I have ten other possible things you could have done

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Speaker 4: wrong after you kissed her.

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Speaker 2: If you say yeah.

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Speaker 3: Okay, then we're gonna move on. Fine.

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Speaker 4: We will reach out to Mia for you and try

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Speaker 4: and get you your second date. Update normal mouth kissing

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Second date update.

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Speaker 4: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've been

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Speaker 4: getting a peek into the love life of our listener Alex.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes we have.

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Speaker 3: The most intriguing part of.

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Speaker 4: His date was a story about a different date that

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Speaker 4: the girl had gone on. Where at the end of

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Speaker 4: the night, this mystery guy I'm assuming it's our technical

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Speaker 4: director Ashton went in for a two handed.

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Speaker 3: Hug and ended up making out with the back of

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't know what base that counts, as

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Speaker 4: it might be caught like in a pickle between first

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Speaker 3: But it's a bold move whatever it's called.

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Speaker 4: Still, Alex claims that didn't happen with him and Mia.

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Speaker 4: He got the full on two lip tango at the

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Speaker 2: See it's such a good sign when people share horror

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Speaker 3: Yes, and the conversation was a plus.

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Speaker 4: So why is he having such a difficult time locking

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Speaker 3: He has no idea and he needs our help.

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Speaker 6: Alex Oh sorry, yeah, yeah, thanks guys, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Are you busy right now? Are you doing something else?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: No, sorry, sorry that was just such a long It

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Speaker 6: was a long preamble. I'm very ready.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's see what happened. But yeah, jeff works. Sorry. Sorry,

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Speaker 5: I was very well written.

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Speaker 4: It was like, Alex, I'm so much less inclined to

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: That's fine, it's okay. Well dial this school's number.

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Speaker 4: We might even say nice things about you too, depending

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Speaker 3: But I'm just going to dial the number. Hopefully she

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hey, is this Mia?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Hello, who's it?

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Speaker 4: This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the Morning. You don't have to be scared of us.

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Speaker 4: We're a pretty friendly group.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, just not a phone call I've expected the morning,

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Speaker 7: that's all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can understand that we do reach out of

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Speaker 4: the blue, but we're trying to help out a listener

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Speaker 4: that you went on a date with recently, a guy

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, what, Yes.

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Speaker 2: I guess your guys' date was like four or five

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Speaker 2: days ago, he said, because we do.

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Speaker 3: This thing called second date updates.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you're familiar with that, but if

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Speaker 4: you go out on a date with someone and you're

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Speaker 4: not getting a call back. Listeners can email us and

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Speaker 4: have us reach out on their behalf to figure out

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Speaker 4: if there's a reason why.

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, that feels invasive.

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Speaker 2: I think it's we're trying to be helpful. I mean,

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Speaker 7: What's in it for me? Possibly your friend, I don't know,

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Speaker 4: Well, don't even let's not even worry about.

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Speaker 7: I mean, if everything's being aired for the public and

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Speaker 3: What did you think of him?

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Speaker 7: He was nice. He was a really good guy. You know.

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Speaker 7: He teased me a little bit because I like to

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Speaker 2: He mentioned that you had made a joke that you

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Speaker 7: Yeah, oh yeah, I will look things up ahead of time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, everybody does that.

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Speaker 4: We did hear a lot about the date from Alex,

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Speaker 7: No, No, he was really nice. It was fun. I

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, what specifically is holding you back from, like,

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Speaker 7: Okay, this is probably going to be too much information, but.

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Speaker 2: Oh I love too much. Yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 3: What do you want to share?

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Speaker 7: Well, the last guy I dated, when he broke up

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, kissing chemistry, yeah, kiss.

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Speaker 7: So I'm like, okay, well, maybe I just need practice,

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, no, don't give him the good No, that guy sucks.

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Speaker 2: We're not going to do that.

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Speaker 7: I'm going to do it.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, this is not going to give you

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, no, why instead of going back into that

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Speaker 4: situation why not focus on Alex, who assumingly already thinks

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Speaker 3: A good kisser.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he loved the kiss.

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Speaker 7: I mean, this is how messed up he put in

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Speaker 2: Oh, because you told that story about the back of

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Speaker 3: Oh that was a move he told you that. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: We heard about a different date you went on where

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Speaker 4: thought that was weird.

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Speaker 2: Was that even true?

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Speaker 7: She wasn't exactly true, but it definitely helps break the

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, but he's just a practice, that's the sad part.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he shouldn't feel bad. I've been practicing with a

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Speaker 4: No, I'm sure he's gonna love to hear that. And

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Speaker 3: The entire time. Mia, we don't know, Yeah, waiting to

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Hey, Mi yah, Yeah I heard all of that.

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Speaker 7: Oh I'm so sorry. Okay, so I'm.

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Speaker 6: Basically being used as like a practice dummy for kissing

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Speaker 7: You were I actually really liked you, and I'm like,

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Speaker 7: you're my favorite to practice on.

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Speaker 2: Why would you go out on dates?

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Speaker 5: Mia?

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Speaker 2: Why not just go to a club and start making

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Speaker 2: out with people on the dance floor. It is so

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Speaker 2: easy to get guys to kiss you. I'm going to

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Speaker 7: Yeah, oh, I've done that too.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, she's got to get the whole experience.

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Speaker 4: Oh, just anybody who's willing to kiss you and give

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Speaker 2: That sucks. That sucks for our guy, man, Yeah it does.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't suck for me.

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Speaker 7: I'm in the teens already.

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Speaker 4: Oh Alex, does this change your mind that you're helping

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Speaker 6: I mean, look, this is a weird situation, but I

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Speaker 6: do appreciate that people that you've kissed you're putting me

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Speaker 2: Well you think it's a compet I mean it's not.

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Speaker 7: Really ranking or competition, but you're definitely in the top third.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean, is it possible that there's another way to

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Speaker 2: Does you just find someone where your chemistry matches? I mean,

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Speaker 2: obviously you two had an amazing kiss. Like he's calling,

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Speaker 2: he's so excited to see you again, Like this is working.

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Speaker 2: The stuff with your ax didn't work. That's why.

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Speaker 6: Look, Mia, we had such a great time. Like the

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Speaker 6: kissing is only going to get better. So I'm sure

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Speaker 6: I'll move up to first eventually.

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Speaker 2: What you're still to compete?

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Speaker 3: It's the competitive side of a guy.

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Speaker 7: They have to be number one, which is definitely something

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Speaker 2: What we are not over him? Are we? Okay?

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Speaker 7: I'm teasing. I'm teasing.

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Speaker 6: I'm teasing him now.

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Speaker 7: That you should try this. Go out, meet people, kiss

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Speaker 7: different people. It's not as bad as these guys are

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Speaker 7: making it sound. I mean plenty has met, have been

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Speaker 7: kissing and telling for years.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Me, I'm familiar with the concept of dating.

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean we do that. Keep on kissing, keep

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Speaker 6: Wait, it seems like you think I'm a good kisser,

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Speaker 6: and you know what, frankly, you're not a very good kisser.

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Speaker 5: I mean you're you're for your ex.

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Speaker 7: Wow, you sound like my ex.

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Speaker 4: You want to hang out that's a healthy thing to

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Speaker 4: say the world.

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Speaker 5: I think I'm done with this. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: I can't believe it.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe we went this far for you to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but after she lied about kissing the other people

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Speaker 4: just to get you to kiss her.

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Speaker 7: But you can always get better ping me when you

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Speaker 7: need it.

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Speaker 4: In fact, I'm gonna there's a high probability of kissing

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Speaker 4: in the forecast with a chance of hands play if

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Speaker 4: you two would agree to see each other again.

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Speaker 2: Think he just said no?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, there's been a lot of new information

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Speaker 4: to give her another chance, especially after thirty seconds of

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Speaker 3: So, Alex, what do you think?

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Speaker 5: I mean?

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Speaker 6: This is weirder than just a booty call.

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Speaker 5: Like it's a lipy call.

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Speaker 3: It's not weird if you don't think about it, though.

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Speaker 3: What do you eat on a kissing date?

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Speaker 6: Lots of I'm going to pass on that, Okay, we're

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Speaker 6: looking for different things.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we are all right.

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Speaker 6: Well she enjoyed kissing me.

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Speaker 5: I don't care what she says.

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Speaker 2: Now, that's right, you stick with that confidence.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Top third, all.

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Speaker 2: The dogs in the city just started barking.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: If you put on your dating profile that you're just

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Speaker 4: improve kissing enough to get back together with your ex, would.

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Speaker 3: That get you more matches or would it get you less?

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Speaker 2: More? Girl? Yes, if you're a guy, no more. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The same thing like if a guy put it on

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Speaker 4: his bio, Alexis, would you swipe.

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Speaker 3: Right on that? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I don't want to relationship anyway. There you go. Yeah, okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I think honestly goes a long ways.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, everyone's changing their bios.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we speak. You're just trying to get better at

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Speaker 2: Wow, that is going to be a nightmare when she

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Speaker 2: gets back and kisses that ex. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: Or we could be really optimistic and he's like, wow,

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Speaker 4: you've really come a long way.

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Speaker 2: She's missing out on the guy that was like decent

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Speaker 2: and nice to go back and kiss her ex.

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Speaker 3: It's not a good like Alexi said, who wants that.

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Speaker 2: Ah, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Figure out what kissing leads to.

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Speaker 5: That's even more fun.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, the level I know that she has forty

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Speaker 4: more dudes to improve on that. No, okay, well, if

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Speaker 4: you want to improve just on your dating life in

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Speaker 4: any way, you can always email our show and we'll

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Speaker 4: call that person who's not calling you back and go

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Speaker 3: Our podcast and tell us how we can improve on that.

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