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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellancamps and camera judge. Hi, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy

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Speaker 1: Mellencamp and myself Teddy Mellencamp. Tamra is filming today, so

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Speaker 1: I have a special guest and I'll be grilling him alone.

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Speaker 1: It is Sergio Carreo, Caroline Stanberry's husband, who you know what,

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Speaker 1: Let's be honest. He may as well be a housewife

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Speaker 1: because he was pretty much in the show more than

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Speaker 1: some of the housewives. All right, well, I'm excited to

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Speaker 1: bring him on, grill him on a little sex education

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Speaker 1: and go from there. Hi, Sergio, how are you look

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Speaker 1: at you with your pink Oh my god, the pink

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Speaker 1: background and the do you think this is a confessional?

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Speaker 1: Oh my? Is your dog matching you? I hold on?

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Speaker 1: Is that your Yeah? I can't. And I also need

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Speaker 1: to know, is Caroline. I feel like I see an

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Speaker 1: additional person on the zoom is sheet and you're watching

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Speaker 1: us too. I knew, and I was like, she's got

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Speaker 1: her finger on the pulse somewhere. There is absolutely no

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Speaker 1: way she's my kind of girl. She has got this

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Speaker 1: on lock. I even put him in the closet. That's

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Speaker 1: why you will thank you belong. Oh speak, well, let's

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Speaker 1: just jump right into that because when I posted that

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Speaker 1: you were coming on, everyone and their mother sent me

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Speaker 1: text messages saying you need to ask him who Derek

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Speaker 1: Warburton is. Oh, okay, so who is Derek? And do

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Speaker 1: we need to just cover this? It's basically is the

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Speaker 1: his friend of a friend of mine who was kind

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Speaker 1: of like doing all these parties in Los Angeles and

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Speaker 1: I was just literally just a gay friend of his.

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Speaker 1: No, no no, I don't even a friend anymore. Like I

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Speaker 1: was invited to party and they do that picture of

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Speaker 1: fast with other people and that's it. We're gonna yeah,

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Speaker 1: which is like completely normal like us Europe being he's Latin,

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Speaker 1: ridiculous when he dresses. I mean, my husband is also

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Speaker 1: Latin um, but I have yet to make him dress

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Speaker 1: up to match. His dogs are dogs. But that's happening

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Speaker 1: next it made happen. I don't know that I'm actually

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Speaker 1: know what I'm going to get out of this, but

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Speaker 1: I actually think it's really sad that we have beaten

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Speaker 1: feelings and whatever out of our men. If a man

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Speaker 1: shows his feelings, he's gay or you know, hugs or

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Speaker 1: cries or does you know whatever. I mean, he was

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Speaker 1: a soccer player, and I mean, I mean stand for

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Speaker 1: this part. I mean, I think that's huge, especially because Caroline,

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Speaker 1: you are very much in the same way that I am,

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Speaker 1: where we are very like, we're kind of type A.

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Speaker 1: We can be come off as a little you know,

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Speaker 1: like I wait until I trust somebody to really open up,

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Speaker 1: and you can see that Sergio is the opposite, and

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Speaker 1: opposites attract, Like my husband always believes in the best

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Speaker 1: in everybody. I believe the worst and everybody and you know,

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Speaker 1: you say also like thinking about tamer and Eddie, they

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Speaker 1: have a very similar situation. So I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: we have to see all different types of relationships because

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Speaker 1: that's how we work. If we're all the same, we'd

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Speaker 1: all kill each other just because other people don't understand it.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is, you know, like again, it just

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Speaker 1: annoys me that I have to prove whether I have

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Speaker 1: sex with my husband. We've been together four years, and

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Speaker 1: do you think I got divorced so that I couldn't

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Speaker 1: have sex for the rest of my life? But I

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Speaker 1: do want to know why you guys call it uticky

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Speaker 1: because we call ours wicky wicky. Yes, because our old

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Speaker 1: when we didn't have we're kind of broke, our bed

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Speaker 1: would always go wick wick wick wick Wi. I love that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you think he's like easy way just to say, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we definitely have sex. He's not gay and he has

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Speaker 1: gay friends like we all do. I love that. He's

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Speaker 1: comfortable in his own skin. Why not. It's just sad

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Speaker 1: for the fact that Yes, sold my feelings and I

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Speaker 1: just literally I'm just romantic. I have to do jets. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you are ridiculously romantic. He is. He lives in a movie,

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Speaker 1: one of those old movies. He's like, it's just you know,

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Speaker 1: asked Instagram question out of the way at the beginning,

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Speaker 1: so then we can get to the fun stuff, like

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Speaker 1: the sex education you're going to teach me. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting out of it. I'm gonna okay. So I

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Speaker 1: was books afternoon till well, my producer just texted me

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Speaker 1: She's like, by the way he looks fire, please tell

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Speaker 1: him so compliments from her, um, But I mean, another

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Speaker 1: big thing that I need to know is how does

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Speaker 1: it feel essentially being a housewife. You are more talked

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Speaker 1: I love, with his Caroline and when it together is

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Speaker 1: it's amazing. Yeah, when you first started filming where you're nervous,

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Speaker 1: they said, listen, come in this hour and then just

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Speaker 1: I literally just get out. I didn't have toweling almost

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Speaker 1: just he told me a while just to get used

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Speaker 1: to it. Well, my husband actually was watching because there

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Speaker 1: He's like, I am so irritated. They never let me

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Speaker 1: film without a shirt because like the mic pack or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know things are different, du buy,

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Speaker 1: I guess, let me put it in um and then

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Speaker 1: so you remember the first day, do you think that maybe,

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Speaker 1: like next season, you should actually be holding one of

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Speaker 1: the gold coins at the front. I mean yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: I oh my gosh, I love it. Okay, So from

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Speaker 1: your point of view, not not Caroline cannot chime in here?

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Speaker 1: How did you and Caroline meet? I thine we met?

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Speaker 1: So we were I wasn't in Newport, California. I lived

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Speaker 1: within three years, and he was doing um uh like

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Speaker 1: I got invited there. Uh basically, I can't invite to

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Speaker 1: so you are on a date when you met Caroline.

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Speaker 1: I mean I didn't know what I was going to

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Speaker 1: then had so you weren't living in Dubai. That happened later, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: happened later. That happened a year after, and now I

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Speaker 1: need to know. So we have absolutely no idea how

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Speaker 1: much money your dad would have paid you to not

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Speaker 1: marry Caroline. Now, I mean, it wasn't enough. It was, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And he didn't believe for me, and that's when he

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Speaker 1: I always learned the best way to say is you

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Speaker 1: just a friend. You know, I want you to see

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Speaker 1: to see me as an older brother. H two of them,

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Speaker 1: because he was very at that stood car languages and

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Speaker 1: would I would do you know, anything for them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you can definitely that that definitely translate on translates

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Speaker 1: on camera, and especially when you're filming with kids, that

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Speaker 1: can be difficult. I'm gonna have to ask you, do

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Speaker 1: you officially know what pre acclamps here means? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I want you to give me your definition, Like, honey, no,

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Speaker 1: you cannot call a friend. This isn't like whatever that

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Speaker 1: show is where you get to call in a friend. Now,

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Speaker 1: now you go with what you think it is. You know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you know, he's gonna take your shirt off.

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Speaker 1: You know what I think it is. It's just in English,

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Speaker 1: like five minutes. Caroline is like a whole thing. Well,

426
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: my husband, it's mainly he just he will wait till

427
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: the last minute it's time to go, and then he

428
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: starts getting ready. So then he's the one that makes

429
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,120
Speaker 1: us late. I'm like, I may take longer, but you're

430
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: always freaking late, like always late, and it makes me nuts.

431
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 1: And then he's like, what why since dress? I mean,

432
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm not late. Caroline is the one who is kind

433
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: of like always on the time, like right there. But

434
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 1: it's true that I I just love Caroline, so I

435
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: rely a lot on her. So I asked her a

436
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: lot of things. That's why in the show it looks

437
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: like I'm kind of like, honey, do you like this, honey, this, this, this, this,

438
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: you know, because I just I just I don't know,

439
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 1: I like her opinion. Yeah, Well, what was your favorite

440
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 1: memory from your wedding? Oh? My god, so many. I

441
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 1: mean a few of them, but I think one of

442
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: them because you know, we've been going to this place,

443
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: to the desert, uh where we have the pretty wedding

444
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 1: party maybe for the last three years since we met,

445
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: and we always dream about having this like walk you

446
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: know on the stairs together with the music, the friends,

447
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: So that wasn't a body special moment because we kind

448
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:12,479
Speaker 1: of like be sliced since the beginning. And then also

449
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: just the father there's been in Bruffels, the palm, in

450
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: the hotel, you know, seeing our families and everybody, you know,

451
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: everything and white. It was just so special, like sometimes

452
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: we think about it and it was just wow, everything

453
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: just went so perfect, you know, I wouldn't think anything.

454
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: And so many apps and now because it was COVID,

455
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 1: it was quite complicated. You know, some guests couldn't make it,

456
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 1: but at the end it was it was beautiful. And

457
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,360
Speaker 1: then how do you think that your families, I mean,

458
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 1: obviously they have some differences, but it really did seem

459
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: that they appreciated each other. How do you think that

460
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: your parents actually hundrevers and the appertity each other they

461
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: you know, the competition was so much fluent that what

462
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 1: he shows in the show. It was my father worked

463
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,159
Speaker 1: in you know, in an American company. He you know,

464
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: he actually speaks like amazing English. My mom as well.

465
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 1: It was just kind of like weird in the show

466
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: but they really, you know, appreciate each other and they

467
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 1: you know, they gotta go amazing. How is it working

468
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: with your wife? Because I when I first met my

469
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: husband and I wrote horses for a living, and then

470
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: I got pregnant. I wasn't able to do that anymore,

471
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: and I started like helping him with work stuff. I

472
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: maybe made it like I don't know, six weeks and

473
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: then I was like, I prob, you will no longer

474
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: be living if we continue doing this, Like I need

475
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 1: to figure out something else. So like, how is that

476
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: and how do you deal with it when it starts

477
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: to bubble over? I mean, to be honest, I think

478
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: because I'm younger, and I kind of since the beginning,

479
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,959
Speaker 1: I kind of decided to join the cow I extumbled train. Yes,

480
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: you know, like I decided to, Okay, let's just do

481
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: this together because I think together we can be stronger

482
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: and let's just build it together. Ah. So I think,

483
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 1: you know, for me, it's it's kind of like, you know,

484
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: I look up to her a load, so I listened

485
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: to her a load. So I take her advices a lot,

486
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: but I run, you know, kind of all the social

487
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: media stuff and all the marketing. I you know, I

488
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: move her with the whole team downstairs and everything, so

489
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: you know, we do together. Sometimes it's true that I

490
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: just have to. Let's we just you know, fight and

491
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: I just have to you know, but I learned how

492
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: to do it. Just leave her alone, you know, and

493
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: come back later. Okay, So what what's your fighting style? Like?

494
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: Are you you get quiet and you sunk or you

495
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: a like you say something that you regret or do

496
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: you need to talk it out before you got to sleep.

497
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: I have to talk. If not, it will never I

498
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: will literally die. You know. We just see goals all out.

499
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: Sounds like a sponge. I just get everything and then

500
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: sometimes I explode. But normally, you know, in general, we

501
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: just get it and just be quiet and leave and

502
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: then come back later. Yeah, and then you make sure

503
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 1: that but you can't go to bed angry. We're sad. No,

504
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: that's that's not I can't either. It like eats me alive,

505
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: like I if I feel like there's something going, like

506
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: if we fall asleep, and like we can't even like

507
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: touch hands before we got a battle again we have

508
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: when we go to wed we put the feet together,

509
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: you know, likedies and we have to do that because

510
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: that means like peace, that means that lacks you know,

511
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: if we do that, it means that everything is good. Yeah,

512
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Um, And you just got back from

513
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 1: a two month honeymoon. What's the next trip for y'all?

514
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: That was crazy? I'm actually we just thinking here. I'm

515
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: actually going back to Bali for business and stuff and

516
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: I'm going alone just for two days and then coming

517
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: back here and then we're gonna go to New York

518
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: to Bravo corn Oh fun, Well, I like that. And

519
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: then can you set the record straight on your soccer career?

520
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, all right, explain it to me like I

521
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: don't know anything about soccer because I don't. My son

522
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: plays football, like actual football, not soccer. That's so basically.

523
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: I am from Spain, Madrid. I started when I was

524
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: five years old playing for a small team in my town,

525
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: and then slowly I got a queer by Nike. I

526
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: started traveling with Nike, and then after that I got

527
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: realmari called me when I was fourteen thirteen, fourteen years old.

528
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: I was sorry, thirteen two fourteen years old. Real Marie

529
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: called me. I became professional at the age of fifteen.

530
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: You can become a professional active team. Yeah. So then

531
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: a professional contract for five years with Marria fifteen and

532
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: kind of my life you know, changed completely because I

533
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: have to leave the normal school. I went to like

534
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: a different school. Uh. And then you know I played

535
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: for them, Uh almost six and a half years. I had,

536
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:52,719
Speaker 1: you know, a five years contract and an omber three

537
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: years contract, but I broke the last contract because I

538
00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: was not playing because I was on the bench, uh them.

539
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: From there, I moved to the US. I end up

540
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: playing in New York and then transfer to Los Angeles. Okay,

541
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: so you broke the contract because you you were still

542
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: being paid to play, but you weren't actually being put

543
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: on the field. So you're like, yeah, so if you're

544
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: a soccer player, I think any sport, Yeah, if you

545
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: have a contract for a professional team, they no matter

546
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: what you do, nor whether if they pay you no money,

547
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: if you broke a lego anything, they have to pay you.

548
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: So I was getting paid, Caroline. You know, seem my contract.

549
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to solve but you know

550
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: I have a Contractum. But you know, I started very

551
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: early stage in my life to play soccer and to

552
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: it becomes a full time yob you know, and basically

553
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: it's all you do. So I didn't really have any childhood.

554
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: So that's why when I was twenty three twenty four,

555
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: I was ready to change kind of you know, and

556
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: turned into a different life. But at the same time

557
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: I was always playing soccer. I got my international business degree,

558
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: I got my NBA Media and Communication and the etal marketing,

559
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: and then that's why that allowed me to change into

560
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: the business side of you know, of of of you know,

561
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: of the of life. Basically, yes, you're a worker. No, listen,

562
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: I had so many I mean, I would have to

563
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: talk about this because it's like a whole thing, but

564
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: you know, I I would never forget it. When I

565
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: was sixteen, my coach called me. He brought them into

566
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: the office and he said to me, listen, I see

567
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: that you have different priorities in life. Um, you know

568
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: that you have your modeling because I was doing modeling

569
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: at that time. You are studying, you are going to university,

570
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: et cetera, and you are playing soccer. So for me,

571
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: I had two options or soccer or the construction, and

572
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: I chose soccer. You because you have so many possibilities,

573
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: you aren't gonna play any menal with me. So because

574
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: of him, basically he kind of like me a little bit.

575
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: My career because of that, because he bends me. And

576
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: he was just yellows of because I was coming from

577
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: a good family, you know, think that I have, you know,

578
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: a normal you know, like worker family, you know, but

579
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: the realities that in soccer, the you know, it's the

580
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: life like well it's just very very low class people,

581
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: you know, and that's sad, but it's just like that,

582
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: you know, because I was coming from a good family

583
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: with possibilities that kind of like you know translated, it

584
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: ruined my career. And if you had if you guys

585
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: had a son, if you if your son, that is honest,

586
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: we can, would you have them play soccer? If you

587
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: loved it? Would you would you like being one of

588
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: those dads outside like or would you be like looking

589
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: to Yeah, socre was amazing for me and um who

590
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: I am because of soccer. But also it was very

591
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: hard for me, you know because you know, I cry

592
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: a lot. It was very tough. You know, when I

593
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: was here after leaving soccer, I had one year and

594
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: a half that I couldn't watch or feel aball, you know,

595
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: I couldn't watch any oka. It was. It was very

596
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: hard for me. Even now, I still you know, I

597
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: cannot do it. So I don't know if I would

598
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: put my son into that professional a little maybe he

599
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: will play, but I don't know. He's very top because

600
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: he left that thing here in my heart. You know.

601
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: I have the same thing with with riding horses, and

602
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: I can't do it. I can't do it half in

603
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 1: half out. People say, you know you're a professional for

604
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: so long, why don't you do anymore? And I'm like,

605
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: because I can't half asset, Like I either need to

606
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: like be all in and all my time and be

607
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: one of the best, or just not do it and

608
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: route my daughter on like, but I can't. It's hard

609
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: for me to do it a little bit and not

610
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: be very good at it. And then you're like, oh,

611
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: what am I doing not with my thing? When I

612
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: when I finished round, I would like, listen, I want

613
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 1: to be I want to be a businessman work because

614
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: it was just no, my my, my, my route, and

615
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: I took the business side. You know, I think that

616
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: makes sense. And I'm gonna leave you with one final question.

617
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: Do you have any the most what was the most

618
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 1: positive thing from your first season of filming on the

619
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: Real House Lives of Dubai and do you have any regrets?

620
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: The most positive thing it was getting to know all

621
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: this amazing women in the show, all the people arounder

622
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: the other queue. It was just such an amazing experience.

623
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: You know, you're having everybody in the house is for me.

624
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: It's a once in a lifetime life experience. And you know,

625
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 1: to be honest, I don'nderget anything, you know, and I'm

626
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: so happy and I tell Carol all the time that

627
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: we are able to do it together, which is incredible.

628
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: You know, that's huge. Any regrets like it? It's maybe

629
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 1: no knowing not that many things about babies and people

630
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: are going into it. Uh, well, you know what, You're

631
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: a good sport, so we um. We appreciate you so

632
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: much for coming on and letting us tease you, and

633
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 1: we wish we could give you a big hug because

634
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: you know, we watched last night and we were like,

635
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: like that whole first segment was about you. So we

636
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: are looking forward to continue watching the reunion. Hopefully we'll

637
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: see you. I know we can't. You can't tell us,

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Speaker 1: but we'll keep tuning in. Okay, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for having thanks for coming on by him,