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Speaker 1: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just wonts Amy

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Speaker 2: and Cat got your cover and locking m brother ladies

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Speaker 2: and felts, you just follow an the spirit where it

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Speaker 2: telling front over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and

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Speaker 2: the m but Swayne. Sometimes the best thing you can

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Speaker 2: do it jes stop you feel things. This is feeling things.

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Speaker 3: With Amy and Kat.

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm

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Speaker 1: Kat and we're kicking things off today with a question,

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Speaker 1: okay from me to you Kat and anybody else listening.

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Speaker 1: Are you aware of skims having little holes down there

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Speaker 1: when you put them on?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Yes, well I got this is gonna be something

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Speaker 3: very different, so you can okay to the bathroom without

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Speaker 3: taking them off.

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Speaker 1: Genius. I'm going to tell you all the different feelings

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Speaker 1: I had when I recently bought some because I have

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Speaker 1: a pair of skims that I've bought before and they

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Speaker 1: don't have a hole, so I don't think they all

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Speaker 1: have a hole?

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Speaker 3: Is it full butted? Full butted with shorts?

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Speaker 1: No? Like compression? What are they called? They're like spanks,

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Speaker 1: but SPANX is the og, so I have spanks as well.

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Speaker 1: None with a p hole.

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Speaker 3: Na, huh Kat.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, the p hole is very new to me because

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. I bought these at Nordstrum last minute

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Speaker 1: for something, and I thought I got a bad batch.

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Speaker 1: Like I thought they were ripped, and I thought, oh no,

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Speaker 1: I ripped them because they're so tiny and they're tight,

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Speaker 1: and you put them on and they and I thought,

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Speaker 1: oh no, I pulled them too tight, and I ripped

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Speaker 1: a hole and then ill. But I didn't realize it

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Speaker 1: was well, it would make sense there's a seam there

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Speaker 1: that you could rip it. But then to your point,

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Speaker 1: I did feel around. I'm like, oh, this seems like

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Speaker 1: a well constructed soone hole. Oh my gosh, this is

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Speaker 1: a hole so I can go pee. Like if I

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Speaker 1: had not felt that or not known, if I had

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Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom, I would have pulled them

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Speaker 3: This is interesting that you've never You've owned many pairs

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Speaker 1: And I've never had a pair a hole.

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Speaker 3: Never had a pair without a hole really well, unless

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Speaker 1: I'll go show you mine. I mean, I believe you,

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Speaker 1: I know, I just feel like I thought I was

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Speaker 1: going to be shocking you with information.

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Speaker 3: No wait, and did you try to return it?

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Speaker 1: No, because I realized that the hole wasposed to be there,

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Speaker 1: but I almost I was really bummed I had I

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Speaker 1: so it was putting them on really quick, and I thought, oh, dang,

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Speaker 1: I rip them and I'm like, I can't take these

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Speaker 1: up with these on, there was a hole and then

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Speaker 1: they would be like, mana, this is a pee hole.

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Speaker 1: But luckily my trained eye because I used to sew

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Speaker 3: So then did it just like feel so amazing to

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Speaker 1: All the different feelings I had, I think when I

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Speaker 1: at first I was like bums because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I got like a dud, but I have to wear

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Speaker 1: them and am I going to be able to return them?

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Speaker 1: And then I was more perplexed and like curious, like hmmm,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that solves a huge problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see that for a lot of reasons.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I thought I.

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Speaker 1: Was gonna be like telling you something. You'd be like,

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Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna be telling me something really

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Speaker 1: Week Okay, wait, Shannon and Cat are in here. Did

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Speaker 1: y'all know they make those with holes?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Really?

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Speaker 1: Okay Shannon didn't know Cat. Okay, three women, four women

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Speaker 3: This is like crazy to me because I've never had

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Speaker 3: them without the hole.

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Speaker 1: Where are you shopping?

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Speaker 3: Minor skims and spanks.

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Speaker 1: Simple pleasures or whatever that place is?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I know I'm shopping the same place as you're shopping.

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Speaker 1: Now, what are you and Big P are doing?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: Because I have with the whole well.

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Speaker 1: Because that was my next thing that I wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about, was you and Big PM blindfolds?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I blindfolded him about five or six times yesterday.

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Speaker 3: Tell us more. Okay, so this turned out to be

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Speaker 3: a much cooler thing that I thought it was going

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Speaker 3: to be. Originally, we decided he loves march badness. I

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Speaker 3: I'll do a racket with you, sure, But to make

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Speaker 3: share that and I doesn't feel like you win anything.

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Speaker 3: So the winner, no, the loser had to plan a

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Speaker 3: full day of surprises of all the winner's favorite things

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Speaker 3: as their price. Anyway, So I lost obviously, And again

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Speaker 3: this was like not a competitive thing. I probably knew

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Speaker 3: yesterday I planned from like seven am to we got

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Speaker 3: home at nine to fifteen pm. Yes, yes, And I

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Speaker 1: Y'all were gone that you had stuff planned that were gone.

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Speaker 3: We left the house at like eight and our first

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Speaker 3: and I blindfolded him everywhere we went, so he would

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Speaker 1: I know when I was watching this, I thought to myself,

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Speaker 1: I was like, can big peer doing life right? Like

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Speaker 1: whatever it is y'all are doing, like it just seems

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Speaker 1: y'all do all these you take pottery classes and you

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Speaker 1: do those movie nights that you're talking about too, Like

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Speaker 1: y'all just y'all are doing it right. Yeah, whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: I need more of that.

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Speaker 3: Well, and this is an easy thing to I mean, you.

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Speaker 1: Don't have to do there's a game to do it.

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Speaker 3: You could just do it, and you don't have to

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Speaker 1: So, like, give an example of something you did.

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Speaker 3: So play pickleball free, went to the driving range that

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Speaker 3: was like ten dollars. We went to Pins, which is

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Speaker 3: And we played like Jenga and then this other game

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Speaker 3: the most expensive one is. We went to TEJ Man.

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Speaker 3: david Busters, which was another game place we love to

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Speaker 1: David Busters. That's makes me think of that NFL player

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Speaker 3: Yes? Well I don't remember David Busters being part of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah he met oh girlfriend there.

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Speaker 3: And you know that's my alma mater, alma mater.

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Speaker 3: That's about southern Mississippi. Yeah, that's our one claim to fame.

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Speaker 1: A million from welfare to not worth it build it?

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Speaker 1: It's not to completely deras because we're not a sports podcast,

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Speaker 1: thank god. But whenever I think of David Buster's now,

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Speaker 3: I had to stop watching it. Why because I was

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Speaker 3: getting anxiety and I wanted to be like, stop doing that.

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Speaker 3: It's going to be bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's stealing from his neighbors, and you know

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Speaker 1: something bad's going to happen. So John Hamm is in

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Speaker 1: it pretty sure. It's on Apple or Max Apple or

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Speaker 1: See those words would never come out of my mouth.

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Speaker 1: be like, this is a lot.

440
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 3: I like that I have. I'm feeling conflicted. I like

441
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 3: that idea. That's really sweet to have those words from

442
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 3: your mom. Yeah, and can we do like one a month.

443
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, or less or what every birthday?

444
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 3: Every birthday?

445
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 1: But hers is like no, just like here's what you

446
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 1: read for breakfast.

447
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,920
Speaker 3: I don't need that. I need like it. Yeah, that's

448
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 3: a lot. I wonder if she's how old are her kids.

449
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:31,399
Speaker 3: That's a lot to keep up with.

450
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:32,679
Speaker 1: Don't know they ages.

451
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Speaker 3: I feel like I would, knowing me, I'd start that

452
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 3: every day and then they turned seven. Honestly, they'd turned three,

453
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:43,640
Speaker 3: and I'd be like, honestly, six months in.

454
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Speaker 1: You'd be done.

455
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:45,920
Speaker 3: To be done.

456
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,360
Speaker 1: Like that was fun while it lasted.

457
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

458
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,600
Speaker 1: I'm not a royal enthusiast, Like I don't know a

459
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 1: lot about the royal family. I mean I was. I'm

460
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 1: intrigued by certain things, but yeah, I'm not like obsessed.

461
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,399
Speaker 1: Like I watched The Crown.

462
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,880
Speaker 3: I tried to watch The Crown. I had to do

463
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,360
Speaker 3: so much research to understand it that I.

464
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 1: Stopped, like what did you what did you have to research?

465
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Speaker 3: Okay, no, I'm just because they know that was sorry.

466
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 1: I wasn't touch your No, I guess I'm asking like

467
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:19,479
Speaker 1: they sort of it sort of covers the racing, like

468
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 1: it goes back in time.

469
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 3: Like it is education, Like what were you researching? I'm

470
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 3: just curious real like who they were, oh, like.

471
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Speaker 5: Like English, like the king, like her dad and where

472
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 5: dad came from, and like there's a lot of different

473
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Speaker 5: like her different stages in her mom and then the

474
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 5: thing with the brother and the.

475
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Speaker 3: Family and that he gave it up, and I don't

476
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 3: get like, well how did she become? I didn't really

477
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 3: understand who they all were, right, so I did do.

478
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,440
Speaker 3: And then my thing is once I start, then I'm

479
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 3: researching more about what I'm researching, So then i'd beat

480
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 3: get fifteen minutes into an episode and I've been reading Wikipedia,

481
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 3: which maybe that's not the source I should be going

482
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 3: to for an hour, and then I still have forty

483
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,640
Speaker 3: five minutes left of the episode. It was too much.

484
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I'm just curious.

485
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 3: Honestly, it's a valid question. It's a valid question.

486
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 1: Well because I was just like, oh, I felt like

487
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 1: I was learning through it. But I will google things

488
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 1: at times if I want to know more, and.

489
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 3: I wanted to know. I wanted to fact check things,

490
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 3: and I wanted to know. I only got to a

491
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 3: couple episodes and obviously, but yea.

492
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: Because it's not a documentary, it's a scripted show.

493
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 3: So his death and all spoiler, it's like.

494
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Speaker 1: He ruined, just like that Sex and the City that

495
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: one time he does die. Cat loves to spoil when

496
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 1: people die. Have you seen any deaths, Like we've talked

497
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: about this before on the Bobby Bone showing like fun

498
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,120
Speaker 1: Back Friday, but I saw a real the other day

499
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: that reminded me of it, and it just popped into

500
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 1: my head when you said this. But like JFK and Lincoln,

501
00:22:56,000 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 1: you know, they were both our presidents fun Factor, but

502
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 1: they were both assassinated and all these similarities around their

503
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: presidencies and their assassinations, Like Lincoln was shot in eighteen

504
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 1: sixty nine and JFK was shot in nineteen sixty nine,

505
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: so everything's one hundred years apart.

506
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 3: Okay, what else.

507
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: Stuff like that? Like Lincoln was shot in Ford Theater

508
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: and then JFK was shot in a Ford Lincoln car

509
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:33,400
Speaker 1: Wait really or yeah? And Lincoln and Ford are made

510
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: by whatever the other. Both of them had vice presidents

511
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: named Johnson, so Johnson became president after them, crazy, and

512
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: then both of them had their wives had miscarriages while

513
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 1: they lived in the White House or lost babies or

514
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: something like that.

515
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 3: You know what a fun job would be what somebody

516
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 3: who finds fun facts like that?

517
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: We do fun fack Friday on The Bobby Bone Show

518
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 1: every Friday. Tune in.

519
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 3: But are you are you finding the fact or you're

520
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 3: just being.

521
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: Like, oh, well, I'm just googling the fact. But I

522
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: would think that like most people that are finding facts,

523
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: where are they getting them? Prom getting them?

524
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 3: Know what I meant? Like the library, well I met

525
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 3: it's like the person who put all of that together,

526
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 3: the stuff about the Lincoln and yeah JFK or like

527
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 3: Patrick is always talking about like stats, and they're like

528
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,239
Speaker 3: the most random. He's like, this guy is like the

529
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 3: forty second person ever to have four of these, three

530
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 3: of these, and twelve of these, And it's like, who's

531
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 3: researching that detailed of a statistic? You know, Yeah, that

532
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: would be a fun job, I think, to find random

533
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 3: stuff like that and then you know, people pay you,

534
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:46,719
Speaker 3: I guess to come up with that stuff.

535
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 1: Okay, while you were talking about that, I googled, well,

536
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: all the other similatories because they're crazy. I don't know

537
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: who came up with all these. These are from different sources.

538
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 1: They both were assassinated on a Friday. They both were

539
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 1: shot in the b the head both. They were both

540
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: with their wives when they died.

541
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Speaker 3: None of these are too crazy.

542
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 1: Both assassins came from the South. Both assassins had the

543
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: last name Booth.

544
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 3: Shut up. That's when it starts to get wild.

545
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 1: Lee Harvey Oswald, John Wilkes Booth Wait, Lee Harvey Aldwalls

546
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: is not Booth. Assassins with last name Booth. Lincoln's assassin

547
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: was John Wilkes Booth and Kennedy's assassin was Lee Harvey

548
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 1: Oswald with a similar sounding what that must be a

549
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: typo either way. There are three names Lee Harvey, Olswald, Okay,

550
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: Johnny Wilkes Booth, same name on the vehicle. Kennedy was

551
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: shot in a car named Lincoln owned by Ford Motor Company,

552
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: while Lincoln was shot at Ford's theater.

553
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 3: That I mean, it's that's interesting. Imagine a guy that's

554
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 3: putting that together. We would have never just thought of that.

555
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 1: They were both assassinated by a single bullet. People from

556
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: their south. Both of the presidents were in their thirties.

557
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. JFK's personal secretary, Evelyn Lincoln warned him

558
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 1: not to go to Dallas. Her last name was Lincoln.

559
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: What anyway? I could keep going on and on. Both

560
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: assassin nations shocked the nation.

561
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 3: Now that's where it gets me.

562
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: Anyway, there's more. It's kind of crazy too, like even

563
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: like Johnson and Johnson, the two Johnson's, like they were

564
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: both born one was born in eighteen oh eight and

565
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: the other Johnson, was born in nineteen oh eight. It

566
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: was just like all these weird things. That's like, that's crazy. Wow,

567
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 1: this is like a like a parallel thing happening, but

568
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 1: a century apart. Anyway, did we get there I have

569
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: no idea.

570
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think we're talking about the crown.

571
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: And then you said somebody, Michael, you said the king died.

572
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: And then I was like, speaking to death.

573
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Speaker 3: I have some fun facts for you, but that's just

574
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 3: how my brain works.

575
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: And then whenever we were talking about Megan Markle and

576
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 1: parenting and whatever, it made me think of my mom

577
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: and this thing that I also saw online called like

578
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: the boop method. Have you heard of it?

579
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 3: The boop?

580
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: Like, if you're everyone ever wanting to ease tension in

581
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: a relationship, like maybe you and Big P. I know

582
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: that y'all's theme is fun and life, right, but okay,

583
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: if you ever fighting, I want you to just like

584
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: look at Patrick and boop him on the nose. Just

585
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: look at him and go boop.

586
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 3: If we were in an argument and he did that

587
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 3: to me he booped you, I would lose my mind.

588
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: It's a happy tip, but it makes me think of

589
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 1: speaking of death. When my mom was dying my dad.

590
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 3: This is crazy.

591
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: She was in hospice is before we moved her to

592
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: my sister's house to die peacefully there because she was

593
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: able to express we were going to have her die

594
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: at the hospice house in Austin called the Christopher House.

595
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: I didn't know there were these houses where people go

596
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: to die, but I learned a lot. Shout out Christopher House.

597
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: But my Almo was like, I really want to go home.

598
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: Took her to my sister's house because my sister's house

599
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 1: was easier flow for people to come visit in in

600
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: and out, so and by that point my mom didn't

601
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 1: really have any.

602
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 3: Say in Austin. In Austin, your sister, I didn't know

603
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: your sister lived in Oh.

604
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't move to Colorado till after my mom died.

605
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: It was part of her healing. Oh okay, which then

606
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: my mom died in her house. And I always wondered

607
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 1: if with my sister, I was like, when you were

608
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: selling your house, did you have to disclose that someone

609
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 1: died but it wasn't a murder. I don't think you

610
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: have to disclose if someone dies peacefully, but like, what

611
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: if they're murdered.

612
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 3: I think you do have to disclose that.

613
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: But I don't know if they had to say, like

614
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: a woman had cancer and so on, hospice here and

615
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: died peacefully in the Yeah, no, because there's probably a

616
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: lot of people.

617
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: That died peacefully, somebody could have died peacefully in this house,

618
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 3: in this room.

619
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Speaker 1: So while she's at the Christopher House and she's still

620
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: a little bit with it because by the time we

621
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: moved her to my sister's house, she had fallen unconscious

622
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: and was still alive but not responsive much. So my dad,

623
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: luckily this is right before she this is her fine

624
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: day of consciousness. And she had been waiting twenty five

625
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: plus years for my dad to say he was sorry

626
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: for leaving her for another woman way back, and she

627
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: had forgiven him, but so much so that even after

628
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: my dad got out of that relationship and then my mom,

629
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: they were both way older and he wanted to maybe

630
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: start dating her again, and my sister and I were

631
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: so excited about that, but my mom was like, I

632
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: can't date someone who can't own up to and apologize

633
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: to what they've done. Not that she needed that because

634
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: she had forgiven him, but she wasn't gonna date him again.

635
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: And he now saw that as a good opportunity of like, well,

636
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: this is something that was really hard for him. But

637
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: there's anything that I'll push you to do something hard,

638
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,239
Speaker 1: it's you know, Okay, this is the final moment, so

639
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: I've got to go ask her for forgiveness and apologize

640
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: to her. And so he did it, and it was

641
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: this really serious moment, and my sister and I got

642
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: to witness it. We were the only people in the room,

643
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: and so it was really special and emotional and like

644
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: we were just sort of like flies on the wall. It's

645
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: not like we were right there next to them or anything.

646
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: And it was really sweet and he was like putting

647
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: his hand through like what hair she had left. It

648
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: was a really precious moment. And then my mom just

649
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: looked up at him and she goes boop and she

650
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: even did that boop right on his nose. And I

651
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: feel like that was her way of being like it's okay, okay,

652
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: or it was her way of being like I'm dying,

653
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: so like thanks for doing it now. That was their

654
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: thing though, no, oh, she'd never done that before.

655
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

656
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: That's why it's so funny that I saw the happy

657
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: tip and it was such a happy moment for us.

658
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: It was like a boop moment and I don't.

659
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Speaker 3: Know it, Like, did you guys laugh when she did that? Yeah?

660
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: And like my sister and I still joke about the book.

661
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 3: We're like, oh, boop, like when something's.

662
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: Like really hard, because it was like a real serious

663
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: hard moment and it just like brought levity, and so

664
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,479
Speaker 1: you could bring levity with the boop.

665
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 3: I like that more than in an argument, because I

666
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 3: think depending on who you are.

667
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I don't even know if she fully processed

668
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: what was happening. I think she did, but I think

669
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: that's what she could must drop, Like that's the response

670
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: she could give was boom, sort of like it's okay, buddy,

671
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: thanks boom.

672
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 3: Your Dad's like okay, uh huh. It was really precious.

673
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: I love the boop. So if you ever need levity

674
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: or you're looking for a happy tip, maybe with your

675
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: kids or your partner, give the boop a try. Boo

676
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: like I needed to do it to Patrick.

677
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll do it in a different scenario.

678
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: I'll try to boot Alex. Yeah you boot Patrick and

679
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: we were pore back.

680
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 3: But here's the problem. He doesn't show a lot of sadness.

681
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 3: It might take a while for me to get there.

682
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: Oh okay, but I'll try it.

683
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 4: Well.

684
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: I have an update on if you need to disclose death,

685
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: Shannon says in most states, you are not required to

686
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: disclose if someone died in your house, even if.

687
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: It was a peaceful death.

688
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: However, if it was a violent death, like a murder,

689
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: m or death by suicide, disclosure may be required depending

690
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: on the state you live in.

691
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 3: I think in Tennessee, you do. I think that I'm

692
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 3: making that up.

693
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: Would you be able to live in a house that

694
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: somebody was murdered in?

695
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 3: No?

696
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: Me, neither. Even let's say you get a really good deal. Like,

697
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: let's say this house is epic, it's perfect, it's your

698
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: dream house, it has a pick a ball corn.

699
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 3: My dream house, nobody was murdered in. Okay, I get

700
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 3: nightmares anyway. And what if it was in like the

701
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 3: master or the primary bedroom? Then what am I to

702
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 3: put my kid in that bedroom? Because I'm not sleeping

703
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 3: in it?

704
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: We could remodel? What if you read?

705
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 3: Too many houses available for me to do that?

706
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm telling you? Would you do a

707
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: perfect house?

708
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 3: You would do it. I know you're like, actually, somebody

709
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 3: was murdered right where you're sitting, right in this room. Yeah.

710
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 1: No, where we live in Tennessee, you're generally not required

711
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: to disclose if someone died in your house when selling

712
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: it though.

713
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 3: Oh shoot, well good thing. Okay. Somebody could have died

714
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 3: in my old house my new one. They couldn't have

715
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 3: because it was new.

716
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: Oh you mean like last house.

717
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I mean there could have been murder in

718
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 3: my last house.

719
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

720
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 3: I would be. It's better that I don't know.

721
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: I have a fun little game I want to play, okay,

722
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: And I don't know, speaking of seeing things online, I

723
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: don't really know.

724
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 3: How you felt about them as a therapeutic tip.

725
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: But I've seen therapists rating coping skills, like if someone's

726
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: feeling anxious, they can try X, Y Z, and then

727
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,479
Speaker 1: therapists will rate zero to ten if they think that

728
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: it's helpful or not worth your time. So I'm going

729
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: to ten ten being it's amazing, do it every time?

730
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: Ten out of ten recommend zero means like nah, and

731
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: then obviously everything else in between. So I'm just going

732
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: to rattle off the coping skill and then you say, okay,

733
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: you're ready weighted blankets. It depends no, no, the game

734
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,240
Speaker 1: is just like give a number.

735
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 3: I know, but it depends if it depends on what

736
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 3: it is that they're having anxiety about. So it could

737
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 3: be a ten, it could be a zero, okay, but

738
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 3: I love a waiting blanket for myself, so don't give

739
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 3: it a eight. Oh okay there myself there, Okay, in

740
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 3: this moment, and.

741
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: There's so much nuance, like you can't cats, like I can't,

742
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: I can't journaling.

743
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 3: It depends.

744
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: I knew you're about to say it defends a.

745
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 3: Seven, okay, and I was waiting for you to be

746
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: like I said, it depends, and I'm going to give

747
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 3: it a seven. But also for some people it could

748
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 3: be a two.

749
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,959
Speaker 1: So like, have you seen these trending videos?

750
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 3: Just say, I get the point, but I think it's Yeah,

751
00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 3: it depends.

752
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,240
Speaker 1: Okay, it depends. Okay.

753
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 3: Disassociating, well, honestly it depends. It's gonna say zero, but

754
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 3: it could be very helpful.

755
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a coping skilled disassociating.

756
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 3: Give it a number. Well, in this moment, for me,

757
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 3: you would use zero.

758
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: To associate from this you want to disassociate from.

759
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 3: Has saved people's lives. But also it then can really

760
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 3: interfere with it, So it depends. Yeah, it depends.

761
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: It sounds like this trend is problematic because people might

762
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: see it and be like oh, this therapist just quickly said,

763
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 1: waited blanket ten.

764
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 3: Well, I've seen it with like skin like dermatologists or estheticians,

765
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 3: and I've seen it with like different like health guru people,

766
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 3: and it's gotten me before. And then I'm like, oh,

767
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 3: I'm getting sucked in from this, like for an esthetician,

768
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 3: this product might be great for one person but not

769
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 3: great for another. Right, Well, don't worry.

770
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: If we were to do this trend, it wouldn't we

771
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: wouldn't get people because if you honesty isn't people don't

772
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 1: buy it. People will be like, depends, that's not helpful.

773
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 1: It depends, well, it depends. They'll be like swite, No,

774
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: I like it. I love your honesty.

775
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 3: Drinking alcohol do woant me to lie?

776
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 4: No?

777
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 1: Okay, I think this is funny. Drinking alcohol is.

778
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,439
Speaker 3: A copy I mean zero.

779
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 1: And because some people if alcohol doesn't impact them, like

780
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: if they're not an alcoholic at all, they don't have

781
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: any trouble with alcohol. Sometimes maybe a margerita with your

782
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: girlfriends could be fun.

783
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 3: Exactly right, And like after a hard day, if if

784
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 3: my thing is copying skills after a hard day, it's

785
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 3: really not in me like that, but like coping skills.

786
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 3: I like having like a box of them, and you

787
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,359
Speaker 3: it's never good to use all of them always just

788
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 3: grab excess. But to have a group of them a

789
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 3: toolbox which I can pool from, that's what is helpful.

790
00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 3: So like alcohol always and an excess. No, but I'm

791
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 3: not saying blanketly it's a zero. But if I had

792
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 3: to rank it, I would say one. But also it

793
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 3: could be a three for somebody. Yeah, this is causing

794
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 3: me distress. I need my distress to I need my

795
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: coping skill.

796
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: Blocking your ex as a coping skill. That's like a

797
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 1: really firm boundary's.

798
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,760
Speaker 3: Is that a coping skill or is that a boundary?

799
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 3: So I guess I don't think it's always healthy for

800
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 3: people to block people.

801
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: With a relationship with my ex. Yeah, it depends. Are

802
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 1: you co parenting?

803
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it depends.

804
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: Doom scrolling not always bad.

805
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,479
Speaker 3: It also depends I'm going to limit. Yeah, I'm gonna

806
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 3: give it a five. Three.

807
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: Maybe doom scrolling for more than a certain amount of time. Yeah,

808
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: it's bad. Eating something sour. Have you heard that about

809
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: how if you eat something sour it can take the

810
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 1: anxiety away because your brain instantly has to fixate on

811
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: the sour.

812
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 3: We have sour candy in our office.

813
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: Oh so this is probably a ten. Just do that

814
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 1: real quick. Let's practice doing it sour candy and go

815
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: ten or five.

816
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 3: You want to be the practice just giving you I

817
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 3: need it. Takes some sour candy. And then do this trend.

818
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 1: Eating something sour. Six freezing cold showers.

819
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:24,240
Speaker 3: I love that. So six, seven, six, going for a walk? Okay,

820
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 3: this is the problem. Kinds blankly say they all depend

821
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 3: I am going to give a walk.

822
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: And eight okay, but it depends.

823
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, what if it's raining?

824
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, okay, and then what about the last one

825
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 1: going to therapy?

826
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 3: Ah? Are you trying to trick me? No, it's just

827
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 3: the last one. I mean a ten, A ten, ten,

828
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 3: you're like, but it depends, But that's not a I wouldn't.

829
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: Okay, going to therapy is a coping skill, is it not?

830
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say that's a skill or a coping trouble. Yeah,

831
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: I guess. So maybe I'm getting too into semantics. I'm

832
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,959
Speaker 3: gonna give it a nine. Yeah you were You weren't

833
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 3: born for this game. Are you proud of me for trying?

834
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 3: I am?

835
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: Okay, you got a I had fun yeah, I had too.

836
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 3: That's just like a it feels like a trick game. Yeah.

837
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: I do like it though, like you said, when the

838
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: doctors do it or their thoughts on it. But then

839
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: I see sometimes they contradict each other, and then I'm

840
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: all confused because they're like red light therapy. You know,

841
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: it's like world renowned doctor athlete try athlete iron Man

842
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: hates red light. Well universally, I would say overall they

843
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 1: like red light. But then there's conflicting feelings on how

844
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: ona and cold plunge, and I'm like, well, what's what.

845
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 3: Well, here's what gets you, which I probably am the

846
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 3: problem because of how I rated therapy. I've watched those

847
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 3: videos and then at the end when they're like and

848
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 3: this is a twelve or whatever, then they're selling that thing. Mmm.

849
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 1: So and I guess I sell I saw that, did this,

850
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: gave it was one through ten the whole time, and

851
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: then when it came to therapy, she goes eleven. Oh yeah,

852
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: which yeah, and she's like, here's my email.

853
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 3: Sign with me. But that's a good marketing.

854
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,240
Speaker 1: It's like three Chords Therapy.

855
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 3: Seriously, call me, google us, email me Catherine at three

856
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: Chords Therapy. Dot com.

857
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: Thank you. Oh, speaking of well, not an email. We

858
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: got a voicemail, yeah, that I want to play. I mean,

859
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,720
Speaker 1: we've got awesome emails. We'll lover some on couch Shocks

860
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 1: on Thursday, but I do love a good voicemail. And

861
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 1: this is from a listener named Mary, and I will

862
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 1: let her do the talking.

863
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 3: Hit it.

864
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 4: Hi, Amy and Kat, this is Mary. I emailed you

865
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 4: a long time ago when you were first starting out.

866
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 1: Amy.

867
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Speaker 4: I have been listening to you since the very beginning

868
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 4: because I'm a fan of the Bobby Bone Show and

869
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,959
Speaker 4: listen to the podcast I'm Driving. So I've been listening

870
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 4: to all your podcasts, and a long time ago I

871
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 4: emailed you because you were talking about wondering how old

872
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 4: some of your listeners were, and so I wrote in

873
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 4: and said, Hey, I'm sixty two. Am I your oldest listener? Well,

874
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 4: I am still listening and I'll be sixty eight this summer,

875
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 4: and I love listening to you guys. You guys have

876
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 4: been teaching me a lot, helping me with my feelings.

877
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 4: I love the new show and I just wanted to

878
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 4: tell you that I'm so proud that's one of my feelings.

879
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 4: I'm so proud of you, guys, because you have taken

880
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 4: something and grown it and you've reached so many people.

881
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 4: And I love listening to your relationship grow between the

882
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,479
Speaker 4: two of you and how free you feel to talk

883
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 4: about the things that you are feeling and that you

884
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 4: are willing to share them with us so that all

885
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 4: of us know that we aren't alone in our feelings.

886
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 4: And so from Mary, maybe one of your oldest listeners,

887
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 4: congratulations on the show, and I love keep up the

888
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 4: good word, love y'all.

889
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: Bye. Isn't that so sweet?

890
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 3: So sweet?

891
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: And her feeling is proud, She's proud of us.

892
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: I know I felt like that was my mom calling

893
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 3: in me too.

894
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: Thanks Mary, Thank you Mary. And I don't know for

895
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: sure if she is the oldest. I think we've heard

896
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: from a little bit older before. But maybe we just

897
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: have a pool of the older and they can all

898
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 1: hold the title crown where the crown together reach.

899
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 3: All of the all ages.

900
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Kat was looking at this like hat

901
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: that our friend Camille sent us as like a mock

902
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: up for something, and Kat's like, oh, there's cherries on here.

903
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: Gen Z is very into cherries right now, And I

904
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: was like, oh good, because We've got a voicemail from

905
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: Mary the sixty eight, which I don't know what that

906
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: makes her like, I'm a millennial.

907
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 3: What are you millennial? You see you're an elder millennial.

908
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm an elder millennial.

909
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 3: And that wasn't supposed to be rude. No, that's just factual.

910
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: That's what my daughter would say, my mom. But my

911
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: daughter would say facts, this is facts, Mom. It's fine.

912
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: I know. She was trying to get me to wear

913
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: this outfit the other day and I was like to share,

914
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: I can't wear that, Like that's not no, I'm forty four.

915
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 3: Facts.

916
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: It was from this place called the garage or garage.

917
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's a new store and they have one in.

918
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: At the mall.

919
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 3: And I was like, I I'm not a shop at

920
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 3: Cold Water Creek.

921
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm not wearing this from the garage. She was like, no,

922
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: this is cool, Like I'm going to help you. Yeah.

923
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 1: She already reserved in Instagram and she hasn't done anything

924
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 1: with it yet. And I'm like, well, this is all

925
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: on you. You've got to do it and it's called

926
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: fashion for my mom. Stop, yeah, you want a follow her?

927
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: She hasn't done anything with the Yes, and I'm not

928
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: doing anything with this. I was like, you'll have to

929
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: if you want to do this, it's fine. And if

930
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 1: you want to dress me. She wants to dress her

931
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: millennial mom.

932
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 3: I think you will. You get dressed with ease.

933
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: I have to tell myself that, yeah, that's my mantra,

934
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: I get dressed with ease. But she thinks she could

935
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: help me because she did help dress me the other night.

936
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,919
Speaker 1: In fact, I think I maybe wore this shirt.

937
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 3: Like I told you that shirt's cool.

938
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: Well this I got on Amazon, and she kind of

939
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: like tucked it up, but it's like, I guess the

940
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: look is like you tuck it intentionally, but it looks accidental.

941
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: And then oh, I just I just like have this on.

942
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: And then she's like, trust this looks good. And then

943
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: she was trying to tell me about the Southfit from garage,

944
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,720
Speaker 1: and I was like, if you want to do anything

945
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: on fashion for my mom, like, if we're not sucking

946
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:40,959
Speaker 1: from garage, like that seems like a very gen Z

947
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 1: top store.

948
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 3: I know what generation Mary is. What baby boomer.

949
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 1: Is a baby boomer same thing as a boomer, because

950
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,720
Speaker 1: elderly millennial the same thing as a millennial. But elderly.

951
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 3: Whatever, like I'm a geriatric millennial.

952
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can probably link this shirt in the show

953
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: notes because I must say it's one of my favorite

954
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: Amazon purchases as well. And I think it's I know,

955
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: fast fashion. I have a love hate relationship with it.

956
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: That's what we call it, right, You and I were

957
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: talking about this the other day, right, not on air,

958
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: just as friends, but just like getting so I think

959
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: that up with like all the things from Amazon, but

960
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: also there's some that's like, well, okay, this is worth it.

961
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: And I can wear it as summer like I wore

962
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: this as a sleep shirt. I could wear it as

963
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: like overshworts. I can wear it lounging around. I can

964
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: wear it kind of messy tucked with jeans for dinner, with.

965
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 3: My jeans from the garage. Well, I think that's one

966
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 3: of the things I was listening to another podcast talk

967
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 3: about this is the stress of having these black and

968
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 3: white virtues, or I can never shop there. I have

969
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 3: to do everything right, or I buy all my stuff there.

970
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 3: And that's okay if you make intentional decisions to try

971
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 3: to shop elsewhere where when you can and when it's available,

972
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 3: and when you have the means to and if you

973
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 3: ever now and then you do end up buying a

974
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 3: shirt from Amazon, so like, give yourself a break.

975
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: Right, Well, I love those socks we get from Amazon too,

976
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: so I don't want to give those up.

977
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. I bought some at TJ max too the other

978
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 3: day on.

979
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: Your shopping trip with Big P. So you got to

980
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: buy self for you two.

981
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,439
Speaker 3: I got socks and a new water bottle. He picked

982
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 3: it out for me though, and then he got nine shirts.

983
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: How many water bottles do you have?

984
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 3: Well, I have my purple water bottle, I have my

985
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 3: new water. I wanted a water bottle that I could

986
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 3: hold like the handle. This is definitely a millennial of you.

987
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: Ad.

988
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: One of my gen Z clients came in with this.

989
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: Oh it had a handle because when you're.

990
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 3: Walking on a walk, it's annoying to have to hold

991
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 3: the handle. It kind of hurts my oroth.

992
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: Oh see, I was thinking I was giving elderly, but

993
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: you're saying it's.

994
00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 3: Giving gen Z. This is I think this is gen Z. Okay,

995
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 3: Like when I drink out of this, I feel like

996
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 3: a baby because it's like a bottle.

997
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: We'll add a little cherry on there and you'll be

998
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 1: very gen Z.

999
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 3: Anyway, that's just one of my water bottles. I just

1000
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 3: feel like you have a lot of water bottles. Well,

1001
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 3: I like to have them at all times.

1002
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: Shannon just looked up the color of my shirt combo

1003
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:20,720
Speaker 1: and it's dusty blue.

1004
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 3: Great. Now, if I get the link, oh, she linked it.

1005
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: If I check the link, I might have to be

1006
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: like I might have to get a different color combo. Oh,

1007
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: but it is not on sale right now. I bought

1008
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: it on sale. Don't buy it unless you can get

1009
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: it on sale. Okay, it's thirty six dollars right now,

1010
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: but you know how everyone in a while Amazon will

1011
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: be like twelve dollars. Yeah, it's seventy nine percent off

1012
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 1: right now. And you're like, okay, so how much was

1013
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 1: this to? Really? Look at this color combo? Though, that's cute.

1014
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: You don't like it, Okay, you don't like it.

1015
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 3: I like it for you? What about this color combo?

1016
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 3: I like that? Okay, See, I liked it.

1017
00:47:58,200 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: I thought you were real.

1018
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 3: Okay, like say by the bell.

1019
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 1: Ooh, this one looks very like a bee. Uh, what's it?

1020
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: It looks like black and wis ripe? No? What what's

1021
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:12,439
Speaker 1: the school? Notre Dame Rudy, Rudy. Have you ever seen

1022
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 1: that movie? You've never seen Rudy.

1023
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 3: It looks like a bumblebee.

1024
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 1: You've never seen Rudy.

1025
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 3: No, I've never seen Rudy the movie.

1026
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: I know we're on a sports podcast, but about the

1027
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: little football player that.

1028
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 3: Could rude the blindside?

1029
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of Rudy?

1030
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 3: No, Rudy.

1031
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: Go home and just say to Patrick boop him and

1032
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: then say Rudy, Rudy.

1033
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 3: Want to don't myself doing that?

1034
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 4: Yes?

1035
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 3: Okay, and then.

1036
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: He's gonna say, why are you talking about Rudy from

1037
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:43,919
Speaker 1: Notre Dame?

1038
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll see what if He's like, I've never what

1039
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 3: are you doing? What's that from?

1040
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: That's so crazy to me? All the we should have

1041
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: a movie night. You should pick that is your movie

1042
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: and serve like Irish things?

1043
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 3: Is it? Oh? Yeah, are y'all going to do that?

1044
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 3: We're doing it this Sunday.

1045
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, who's hosting?

1046
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 3: Patrick?

1047
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: Shut up at your house? Come yeah, I have to

1048
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: do a thing with Dirk's Finley.

1049
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 3: Oh I have to do it. You can come after. Hey, Derek,

1050
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 3: I have to go watch a movie at my friend's house. Sorry,

1051
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 3: I didn't know CMA fest. Okay, well another time.

1052
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Kat, where can people find us on Instagram?

1053
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 3: At you not that at Feeling Things podcast?

1054
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: That's right, which we are colimbing.

1055
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 3: Oh we are. Yeah, yeah, I'm.

1056
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: Loving that people are enjoying the Instagram videos. So you're

1057
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: doing a really really really really good job with them.

1058
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 1: Like it's so fun to have the reels and cats

1059
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: making those. By the way, if y'all think there's some

1060
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: team of people.

1061
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 3: No gen Z girl doing it, No, it's me.

1062
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 1: No, we have the other cat that's working the switcher

1063
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,839
Speaker 1: on the cameras that goes switch switch, so it goes

1064
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,439
Speaker 1: from like my face to Cat's face, my face, Cat's face.

1065
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: And then and Kat is on her computer and she's

1066
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: making the videos and then we come up with captions

1067
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: and whatnot. Those are for the reels. And then obviously

1068
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: in this room with Kat too, we have Shannon who

1069
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: gives us all of our facts, fun facts like that

1070
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 1: Mary is a baby boomer.

1071
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,720
Speaker 3: Wait, no, I decided that in my head. I'm just kidding.

1072
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: Oh I saw.

1073
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you just guessed it.

1074
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: She didn't typed it because she was born in nineteen

1075
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: sixty three, which makes her a baby boomer smiley face.

1076
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 3: That's what that's what shit I was getting that I

1077
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 3: didn't know.

1078
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: And then Channa goes, uh, link Amy's cute shirt in

1079
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 1: the show notes, question mark question mark it's in color,

1080
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 1: dusty blue combo. Here's the link.

1081
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 3: She just writing your script as you guys are talking. No,

1082
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 3: I mean, that's just she's just letting us know, like

1083
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 3: it's in there.

1084
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: And then she gave us a bunch of facts about

1085
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: earlier when we were talking about hot mail. That still

1086
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: exists technically, but it's now integrated into Microsoft Outlook. You

1087
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: can access your Hotmail account by logging into a look

1088
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: dot com using your hotmail. Couldn't you crazy? But you

1089
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 1: didn't know that? I wonder if I could get into

1090
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: my old hotmail?

1091
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 3: Could you use that for your fun fact this Friday?

1092
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: No, I don't.

1093
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,240
Speaker 3: It's not very fun.

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Speaker 1: It's not very fun, but like maybe it's maybe I

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Speaker 1: go fun fact. In most states, you're not required to

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Speaker 1: disclose if someone died in your house, that's not fun,

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Speaker 1: even if it was a peaceful death. However, if it

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Speaker 1: was a violent death, disclosure may be required.

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Speaker 3: I think we can have that part now. I think

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Speaker 3: we can do better.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well catch us on socials, on YouTube,

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Speaker 1: Feeling Things podcast, All the Things. I'm Radio Amy. She's

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Speaker 1: at Cat van Buren on Socials. I'm Amy Brown. That

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Speaker 1: was taken by somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Would you have not done radio Amy?

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Speaker 1: No? I wanted Amy Brown Amy give her her name back.

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Speaker 1: Let me see who has the Instagram. I know that

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Speaker 1: Amy Brown dot com. She's a fairy artist. But on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 3: You know what's crazy? The Brittany I don't know her

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Speaker 3: last name from and her pump rules. Her Instagram name

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00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 3: is just at Brittany. How did she get that name?

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Speaker 1: Well, she got it early on did she well? Or yeah?

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Speaker 1: And maybe she got it from Look Amy Brown Art.

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00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: That's the fairy artist. See her work. That's who Sometimes

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Speaker 1: people think I am.

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00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,879
Speaker 3: They do they think I make this fairy art.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's not me, guys. She does watercolor fantasy art.

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Speaker 1: She's been doing it for thirty plus years. You can

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Speaker 1: follow her on Patriots.

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Speaker 3: Who's Amy Brown? That's what I'm trying to figure out.

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Speaker 1: And I guys, if this is available Amy Brown, there's

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Speaker 1: I guys. Let me see I see Amy Brown comedy.

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Speaker 1: It's not me. But if people think she's me. I'm

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Speaker 1: fine with that because I want people to think I'm funny.

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Speaker 3: Wait, is there not a Amy Brown? Guys?

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Speaker 1: There has to be an Amy Brown, otherwise I would

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Speaker 1: have Amy Brown. Why is it not coming up? Amy Brown? Oh?

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Speaker 3: There is one?

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Speaker 1: What is it? Why can't I find them?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 3: She's a school teacher, she is. Yeah, she lives in Nottingham.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she's all the ways that across the pond.

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Speaker 3: She's a qualified netball umpire.

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Speaker 1: How many followers does she have?

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Speaker 3: One hundred and fifty seven thousand, one hundred?

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Speaker 1: Let me see?

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Speaker 3: You could buy that from her? Wait? What?

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Speaker 1: Wow, she's very what's a TPN girl?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I didn't say that she's very pretty?

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Speaker 1: Do you see pretty?

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00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 3: You should message and say you're pretty? Can I have

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00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 3: your Instagram name?

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00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,919
Speaker 1: What? Guys? I would have swore that the Fairy Artist

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Speaker 1: had that. I just know that it was taken back

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00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: in the day and who we didn't know Instagram was

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Speaker 1: really going to be a thing or how long we

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Speaker 1: were gonna have it. And so I just did radio

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Speaker 1: Amy or maybe I did radio a me on Twitter

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Speaker 1: first and then I just followed it over to Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I like radio, Amy, But well, what.

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00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: If I'm not always in radio, then I can change

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Speaker 1: it to whatever I.

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Speaker 3: Am podcast Amy. What would I be, uh, motivational speaker? Amy?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't think I'm gonna be a motivational throwing

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Speaker 1: things out. Yeah, but you see that for me because I.

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Speaker 3: Don't, Uh, you could be a speaker, Amy, author Amy,

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Speaker 3: Look at all this you have for me. Zoo keeper Amy, Oh,

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Speaker 3: I don't like zous. You have so many animals. Okay, bye,