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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Andy,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing good?

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Speaker 1: All right? What's going on with this woman? Mina?

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Speaker 3: Tell us how you met? About any dates that you've

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Speaker 3: been on, and then why you think you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 4: Other than that, I should say.

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Speaker 3: So that is always funny that people go, yeah, like

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Speaker 3: I'm so good. It's like you're good, but you're obviously

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Speaker 3: very distraught about it. No, it's true that is true.

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Speaker 3: Like oftentimes when I'm very bad, I still say, nobody

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Speaker 3: wants to hear your Honestly, we get that around here. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so Mina is ghosting? You tell us though about like

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Speaker 3: we need to know kind of everything that happened before them.

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Speaker 4: All right, So I met me through Bumble Okay, So yeah,

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Speaker 4: I saw her on Bumble and asked to grab some

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Speaker 4: dinner and a few drinks. You know, date was really

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Speaker 4: ten and she just kind of stopped answering me though.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, so you chatted on the app, which is

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Speaker 3: annoying how it goes you match, You chatted, you agreed

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Speaker 3: to go on this date, and you thought the date

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Speaker 3: went well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I thought it went really well.

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Speaker 1: We were having a good time, okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, she seemed into me. I could

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Speaker 4: not really tell you why things went south or what happened,

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Speaker 4: but you know, she seemed into me definitely, like you

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Speaker 4: know someone I saw him Bumble and I was like, wow,

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Speaker 4: she looks great.

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Speaker 2: And then we, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, had the date, and I wanted to have more dates,

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Speaker 4: but she's just like, I don't know, it's not not

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Speaker 4: into it for some reason.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's call her right now. Good luck, man. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: is this Mina. It is Mina. Hi, good morning. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred.

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Speaker 3: I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 3: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 3: the radio right now and I wouldn't need your permission

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Speaker 3: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Is Is that cool? If we talk for a second

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Speaker 1: on the air, you can hang up anytime. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I know it's a little bit weird, but I'm not

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Speaker 3: sure if you've heard this before. He's called waiting by

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Speaker 3: the phone, and we're calling on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 3: named Andy who reached out to us and says that

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Speaker 3: he met you on Bumble and you guys went on

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Speaker 3: a date recently that he was really excited about. Thought

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Speaker 3: it went well, but he says he hasn't been able

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Speaker 3: to get ahold of you since then. So what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Ah? Okay, did Andy tell you that he works at

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Speaker 2: a funeral home?

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Speaker 3: No, he didn't share that he worked at a funeral home?

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Speaker 3: What does that have to do with not wanting to

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Speaker 3: go out with him again?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: Did he take you over there or something? Did you

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Speaker 3: did you take a little sewer? Did you show up

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Speaker 3: in a hearse? I think we've had that one before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild.

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Speaker 2: No, not that specifically, but I mean I'm completely fun

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Speaker 2: of the he worked at a funeral home. You know,

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Speaker 2: we all got to nickel itting somehow, that's not the issue.

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Speaker 2: And he actually put it on a dating robile, so

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Speaker 2: it's not like I was thrown for a lucid that responct.

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Speaker 2: But what I wasn't really okay with was that he

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Speaker 2: was showing me pictures of.

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Speaker 1: Dead body.

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Speaker 2: Working on yeah, that day at work, and so you know,

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Speaker 2: we were eating, which was like and also like you know, like,

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Speaker 2: oh I don't I didn't. Did these people get permissions

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Speaker 2: from their families?

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Speaker 1: Gross?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the relatives like that's anyway.

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Speaker 5: So the whole thing that I don't know, if you

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Speaker 5: were me, you were sitting and eating, you know, dinner,

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Speaker 5: and having a photo of somebody else's dead body that

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Speaker 5: you didn't really want to see.

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Speaker 2: Shown to you, like, I don't know, maybe not like

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Speaker 2: the most romantic situation.

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Speaker 3: Right, Okay, so you knew what he did and you

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Speaker 3: were okay with it, but you didn't necessarily need to

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Speaker 3: see examples of his work. Literally, no, huhring Andy, And

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Speaker 3: I forgot to mention that Andy is here?

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Speaker 1: Andy, what are you doing? Is there?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm very forgetful. Is there no privacy?

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Speaker 3: But I know they're dead, but they have families and

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Speaker 3: stuff like are you allowed to do that?

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, they have families, But I mean it's

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Speaker 6: pretty standard practice. I mean, if if I were a

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Speaker 6: chef or a bartender that was proud of his work

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Speaker 6: and I showed you pictures of my drinks or the

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Speaker 6: food that I made, then you know you might take.

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Speaker 1: You would maybe be impressed.

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Speaker 4: But I'm not just showing you the makeup that I did.

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Speaker 1: Very strange.

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Speaker 4: Good for their families for their viewings.

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Speaker 1: Show it to their families, not to some random date.

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Speaker 5: Bro, Like, if you're going to be like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: here's the makeup I did on whoever?

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Speaker 1: Does this look okay?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Why do you have a camera roll full of dead

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Speaker 1: people in your phone? Y?

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Speaker 3: Just like if you're a professional makeup artist, you have

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Speaker 3: a Yeah, if you're an in me way and you.

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Speaker 1: Show people in your books or whatever, is that the

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Speaker 1: way I do?

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Speaker 6: Proud of what I do?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm proud of the work I do. I

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Speaker 4: thought that she would find it interesting.

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Speaker 1: That's my job.

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Speaker 3: Well, you're allowed to be proud of your job, and

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Speaker 3: there's nothing to be ashamed of, of course. But at

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Speaker 3: the same time, not everybody wants to look at dead bodies.

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Speaker 3: I mean, there are all kinds of jobs out there

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Speaker 3: that people have and people have relationships, but they don't

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Speaker 3: necessarily bring it home. I mean, you got to know

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Speaker 3: that that's kind of a controversial topic for people, Like

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Speaker 3: some people aren't comfortable with that.

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Speaker 1: But I do such a good job. They look alive.

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Speaker 6: Like I got photos where I'm looking like it's weaken

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Speaker 6: at Bernie's.

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Speaker 3: You know, no, you post them for the photos. You

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Speaker 3: post them for the photos. Okay, it's a sick man, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is actually a little bit twisted and me and

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Speaker 3: I so much the vibe that you were getting like

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Speaker 2: Little Yeah, I'm glad I'm being like confirmed in my

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Speaker 2: feelings about this, because the more we're talking about the

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Speaker 2: more I'm like, you know, there's like a period of

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Speaker 2: time I'm like, am I being irrational?

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Speaker 5: Am I being conditional about it? Am I overreacting?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: And then frankly speaking.

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Speaker 2: It's like listen, you can't talk about it like this

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Speaker 2: and like no, thank you, And frankly, it's like at.

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Speaker 5: This point it feels like it's such a point of pride,

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Speaker 5: which is like good on him, not for me, you know,

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Speaker 5: different shows, folks, But like I don't feel like at

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Speaker 5: any point when we ever have but it feels like

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Speaker 5: dead bodies would always be around and I don't really

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Speaker 5: need to be like in a relationship with somebody who

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Speaker 5: like won't you can't like wash dead bodies off their

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Speaker 5: hands and their phones.

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Speaker 2: And then if I wanted to be like.

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Speaker 5: Hey, bade show show a picture of us from Yosemite,

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Speaker 5: it's like you have a dead body.

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Speaker 1: Dead bodies can't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm an artist, I'm doing I'm making art over here,

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Speaker 4: you guys should come see it, like you guys should

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Speaker 4: come on.

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Speaker 1: I'm a beach ass to this phone.

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Speaker 6: Weird.

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Speaker 4: It's not like I'm sleeping with them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, now, I understand why say that proud of the

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Speaker 3: makeup work that you're doing on on these people.

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Speaker 1: But let the family be the judge of that. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, do a nice job.

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Speaker 3: That's wonderful that you do a nice service for people

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Speaker 3: they can remember their loved one. But it's is like

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Speaker 3: taking pictures and showing it to other people. One I

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Speaker 3: really don't know if that's ethical, and two you're assuming

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Speaker 3: everybody wants to see it, and unfortunately not everybody wants

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Speaker 3: to see it, so h And I don't know, you're

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Speaker 3: a little bit lax about this, which also kind of

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Speaker 3: creeps me out a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Andy, to be honest with.

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Speaker 4: You, I mean, it's w a pride for me. It's

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Speaker 4: what I've been doing for a long time.

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Speaker 1: It's it's my art.

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Speaker 4: I don't see anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: I think you should go to like one of those conventions,

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Speaker 3: you know. I think they probably got to have a

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Speaker 3: mortician convention, right people who do this, and maybe you'll

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Speaker 3: meet somebody who also does it and y'all can like

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Speaker 3: compare notes and like, you know, do your thing.

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Speaker 1: I think he should go to jail.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, I do kind of wonder if what you're

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Speaker 3: doing is legal. But anyway, I mean it's rhetorical, but

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Speaker 3: do you want to go out with him again? And

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Speaker 3: we'll pay for it?

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Speaker 2: I mean I think maybe you could use that money

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Speaker 2: and go out with him instead.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, we don't want to know.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do it.

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Speaker 3: You don't know moving you know, we've been moving headstones around.

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Speaker 3: It's this weird, though, I think it's Andy.

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Speaker 4: Look, keep my business card on you guys at all time.

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Speaker 3: Day.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be the one to call you. M yeah,

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Speaker 1: on your wallet.

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Speaker 6: They can call me and I'm going to make you

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Speaker 6: look good so.

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Speaker 3: You can take pictures of me and show them to

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Speaker 3: your dates. Like, no, thank you anyway. It's one thing

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Speaker 3: to be passionate about your job and good at it

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Speaker 3: and proud of it. That's fine whatever you do, but

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Speaker 3: it's another thing to insist that other people look at it.

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Speaker 1: And this is a lot of layers here. This is wild. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, thank you for your time, Andy, Im I

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Speaker 3: might even say good luck.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say Andy, all right,