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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo Okay, Jenna and

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Speaker 1: Lake Charles writes, last month, I got laid off, but

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Speaker 1: I kept my company cards. I want to fill up

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Speaker 1: my pantry and get some toiletries on the card. What's

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Speaker 1: the worst that can happen?

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Speaker 2: Should I use it? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: I used your card?

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Speaker 3: I fill up my pantry, I fill up my tank,

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Speaker 3: I fill up my closet.

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Speaker 2: Or lay me off? I tell you what. Let me

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Speaker 2: tell you something. When she says she got laid off,

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Speaker 2: chances are you ain't coming back.

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Speaker 3: Very few people getting laid off and bought back based

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Speaker 3: on that stat Right there, I'm filling up the pantry,

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Speaker 3: the gas tape, the closet, the living room. I'm filling

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Speaker 3: up everything. Technically, you're still an employee. Right technically, technically,

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Speaker 3: and these are things I now that you've laid me

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Speaker 3: off and set me around this house. I have now

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Speaker 3: discovered a lot of things I need that I think

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Speaker 3: the company's responsible, so I could.

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Speaker 2: Better do my job.

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Speaker 3: I need a bigger TV so I can be better

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Speaker 3: informed of the new so when I come back to work,

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Speaker 3: I'll be more informed.

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Speaker 2: As an employee.

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Speaker 3: I've definitely got to take care of my nutrition. So

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Speaker 3: therefore I have hired me a chef and I got

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Speaker 3: a meal plan sent in from Sunfair. Also, I've decided

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Speaker 3: that I've got to get in better physical shape so

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Speaker 3: we can avoid the next layoffs. So I am a

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Speaker 3: brand new gym membership and trainer. And yes, stink case,

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Speaker 3: now I'm in therapist. Since you laid me off, it

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Speaker 3: has messed my mental up, and so now I have

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Speaker 3: a therapist.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so I.

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Speaker 3: Can cope with this, this suddenness of my unemployment nearly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, well, thank you got that. Jenny. Moving

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Speaker 1: on to me shut in Chicago, Misha says, my brother

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Speaker 1: and my sister in law have split up, and she

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Speaker 1: asked to stay with me for the weekend. I let

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Speaker 1: her come to my house, and she is a wreck.

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Speaker 1: Should I tell her he's a whore and to leave him,

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Speaker 1: or keep lying to her and saying it will get

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Speaker 1: better soon.

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Speaker 3: Well, the key is to get her back out of

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Speaker 3: the house. What you got, Yeah, you know, No, I

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Speaker 3: don't worry about it. She already hurt. She's a wreck. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: your brother is a.

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Speaker 1: Whore, she said, Yeah, that's what she said.

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Speaker 3: Well, your brother is a whore. And the horrors have

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Speaker 3: been over here sleeping in the bed. You will, so no,

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Speaker 3: I just want to mentally put that in your head.

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Speaker 3: So you probably don't want to sleep in that bed,

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Speaker 3: and they do. And my brother watched TV on this couch.

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Speaker 3: You probably don't want that, none of that on you either,

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Speaker 3: So you know, get her out your house?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, by betraying her brother.

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Speaker 2: Well, we didn't know her brother was a whore. That's

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Speaker 2: who she told us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, so get her out of the house.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'd be offended if you called me a whole.

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Speaker 3: We're shutting it up, and I'll understand mobile.

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Speaker 1: You don't want the dictionary term, okay, no, the technical term.

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Speaker 2: Here we go start with no w.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Dominica and New Mexico. Dominica says, I

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Speaker 1: was getting a pedicure the other day and my nail

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Speaker 1: tech told me that my husband was in there last week.

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Speaker 1: He didn't mention that he got a pedicure, and he

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Speaker 1: usually just gets his nails done. Is it customary for

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Speaker 1: men to keep their feet done? What?

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Speaker 2: I'll get them all the time, customer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but hey, now he got somebody he got that's

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Speaker 3: seeing these speech.

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Speaker 2: Now you know that's that's what it's for. I don't

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Speaker 2: get on the day I gonna see that.

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Speaker 3: Summer touch you sandles and stuff there. Please, I can't

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Speaker 3: have my feet hanging all or nails all over the

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Speaker 3: front of the I had that, you know, No you

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Speaker 3: need it now. He getting peticids. But you know, dang

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Speaker 3: for you though, that's what and anyone used to didn't

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Speaker 3: tell you he was going down there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know what Pito is up to, Dominico,

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Speaker 3: but you need to check.

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Speaker 1: Into So she's really asking me wrong question. Is it

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Speaker 1: customary for men to keep their feet done?

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Speaker 3: It is customary for a lot of men to keep

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Speaker 3: their feet down, My wife, you told me you ain't

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Speaker 3: coming in here with.

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Speaker 1: All that your heels.

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Speaker 2: Slicing up my legs.

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Speaker 1: Right and the linen. Yeah, you gotta get your feet done.

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Speaker 1: It's just part of grooming, all right. Last one, Steve,

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Speaker 1: This is from a Glow and Charlotte glow Wrights. I

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Speaker 1: am a fifty year old single woman and I'm dating

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Speaker 1: a man I met online. Fifty eight fifty eight year

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Speaker 1: old single woman and I'm dating a man I met online.

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Speaker 1: We're meeting up at the hotel this weekend to be

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Speaker 1: together for the first time. I have not had sex

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Speaker 1: in four years, so I don't even know if I

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Speaker 1: remember how to Should I be honest with him?

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Speaker 3: Girl, the whole lot? You're wrong, first of all to

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Speaker 3: listen to me. How is the first time you meeting

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Speaker 3: up with him to have sex?

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Speaker 2: Y'all? Don't want to meet up with him and see

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Speaker 2: how tall he is.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to meet up with him and see

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Speaker 3: if he been showing you a headshot and he ain't

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Speaker 3: really three seventy below the neck. You don't want to

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Speaker 3: do none of that. You don't want to see if

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Speaker 3: you really like him in person. You just fit to

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Speaker 3: meet up and have sex, and you fifty eight years

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Speaker 3: old talking about you don't forgot how to do it.

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Speaker 3: This is a bicycle, girl, That's what this is sex

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Speaker 3: is about.

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Speaker 2: Comes right back to you. And I don't know how

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Speaker 2: it ain't It ain't nothing to remember.

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Speaker 1: But see what did he say to get her at

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Speaker 1: the because it's been four years?

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Speaker 2: Is that it's been four years and you fifty eight

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Speaker 2: and don't nobody else won't you?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, wait a minute, did he just say

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Speaker 3: and he is say that to her?

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Speaker 2: That's where her head is.

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Speaker 3: I'm fifty eight, I ain't had nobody in this in

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Speaker 3: a while, and who else gonna want me? And I

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Speaker 3: think I'm lucky that I found this man. I'm finished

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Speaker 3: sleep with him.

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Speaker 1: Friday Declaration speaking.

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Speaker 2: You know, lady, you done just took all caution to

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Speaker 2: the wind.

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Speaker 3: And you know what, I just stopped telling women about

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Speaker 3: the ninety day ruling, all this.

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Speaker 2: Hell because they not listening.

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Speaker 3: Because what's happening today, it's it's not they ain't nobody listening.

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Speaker 2: Hey, nobody listen.

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Speaker 3: Gonna do what you want to do, so longer four years,

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Speaker 3: they ain't gonna last long.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be real.

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Speaker 1: This this, this just sounds crazy to me. So she

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Speaker 1: wants to know should she be honest with him and

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Speaker 1: tell him that that she may have forgot what it's

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Speaker 1: been for years?

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Speaker 3: Need he gonna say that's all right? Yes, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: tell you right now, girl, don't left that father. You Look,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tall he Look, I'm gonna take my time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I tell you it's been four year for me too.

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Speaker 3: Everything we've been to find our way through this together.

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Speaker 1: Let's see Hollo the first time cannot at the hotel.

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Speaker 2: Like you said, at the hotel, just four years. Sit

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Speaker 2: your old down, so lady.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're moving on. Thank you, Celo. You're listening,

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