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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show, Amanda, Good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing well?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing okay? What's going on with this dude? Blake?

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Speaker 1: I gotta know how you met about any dates that

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Speaker 1: you've been on and then what's happening now? Why you

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Speaker 1: think you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 2: So I met this guy Blake on Hinge and we

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Speaker 2: went for a drink and I walked away from the

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Speaker 2: date thinking it was really fun, like we had good chemistry,

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Speaker 2: kind of hit it off right away. So I just

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Speaker 2: texted him and I got home and thanked him for

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Speaker 2: the date and like, you know, sent a little inside

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Speaker 2: joke from the date to and he didn't respond at all,

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Speaker 2: like completely ghosted me. So I'm just confused about what happened,

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Speaker 2: and I want to know. Yeah, I just I felt

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Speaker 2: like it was a good date, so it was kind

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Speaker 2: of rude for him to.

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Speaker 1: Respond, right, Paulina, Tail's the oldest time, you know, old

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Speaker 1: as time. People go on these dates, they think it

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Speaker 1: went well, they feel connection, and then for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: they never hear from these people again. It's like why, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how can it be? And I know how

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Speaker 1: it can be because has happened hundreds of times, But

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Speaker 1: how can it be that you thought that you went

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Speaker 1: on a great date and the other person didn't think

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Speaker 1: so and doesn't call you back. It's very frustrating. So

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Speaker 1: let's get to the ottom of this. We're going to

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Speaker 1: play a song and come back and call Blake. You'll

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Speaker 1: be on the phone at the same time. And the

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Speaker 1: hope is always is that we can set you up

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Speaker 1: on another date, straighten things out, set you guys up,

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Speaker 1: and then pay for that. All right, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Blake. You guys, you met and went on

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Speaker 1: a date and you felt like everything went really well

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Speaker 1: after meeting on Hinge of the dating apps, you go

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Speaker 1: on this date. You thought the chemistry was good, the

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Speaker 1: conversation was great. You texted him thanking him for the

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Speaker 1: date afterwards, and you never heard back and haven't heard

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Speaker 1: from him since, and you want to know why. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Amanda, thank

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Speaker 1: you hisus Blake Blake. Good morning. My name is fredam

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Speaker 1: calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. I

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now. I would need your permission to continue with

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Speaker 1: the call. Can which that for just a second, would

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Speaker 1: you mind?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we're calling on behalf of a woman named

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Speaker 1: Amanda who said that she met you on Hinge. Guys,

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Speaker 1: went out for a drink state do you remember going

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Speaker 1: out with her? Yeah, this is weird.

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Speaker 3: It's on radio, but Okay, well yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: I said that weird, it's very normal. But anyway, so

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Speaker 1: what happened because we're don't worry about that part. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's never one relax so uh no, but we're trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out what happened because she said she had

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Speaker 1: a good time with you, and uh and then for

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Speaker 1: whatever reason, you haven't called her again. She said she

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Speaker 1: even texted you after the date, something I don't know

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Speaker 1: she thought was an inside joke. But what happened? Why

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Speaker 1: are you not calling her?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm actually surprised she even wants to see what happened.

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Speaker 3: Like she seemed like she totally did not care.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean she said she did care, So what

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Speaker 3: I mean, she's just what Amanda's just like one of those,

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Speaker 3: you know, really independent girls.

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Speaker 1: Do you hear about? What do you what do you mean?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Right now?

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Speaker 1: Right here?

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Speaker 3: Right like the whole time, I'm the whole date, she

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Speaker 3: being single and like how good she is at being single,

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Speaker 3: and like she spoke about her friend Cooper, who I

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Speaker 3: guess it's her gay bestie, her guestie, whatever you call it.

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Speaker 3: And she was like saying how he basically filled every

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Speaker 1: And oh you were worried about the radiole minute ago.

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Speaker 1: Apparently we've gotten over that, so like bringing.

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Speaker 3: Up but I'm like, why why why am I even here?

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Speaker 3: Why are we even going out? If you have you

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Speaker 3: have everything you need pretty much?

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, I'm just little taking it back. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: but which is hard to do. That's hard to do.

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Speaker 1: So your your issue with this is that she she

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Speaker 1: you're looking for a partner and this woman's just sitting

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Speaker 1: a whole time going I don't really essentially I don't

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Speaker 1: need you. And I also, by the way, have another

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Speaker 1: person in my life who fulfills so many of these

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Speaker 1: things that you would do. So it's like, I get

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Speaker 1: it now. So what am I doing here? Is what

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Speaker 1: you're saying to yourself totally Yeah, well Amanda is here.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Amanda in Amanda. Wait, was it this

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Speaker 1: much or this much talk about how you don't need anybody,

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Speaker 1: but yet you're on a date with somebody.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just expressing that. I yeah, like I'm

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Speaker 2: independent and I don't need anyone, but that doesn't mean

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Speaker 2: I don't want someone. I thought that, like people like that,

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Speaker 2: people want that from a partner.

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Speaker 1: I think it's attractive to be out, you know, to

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Speaker 1: But I also think, and I'm probably guilty of this myself,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's easy to go on a date and

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Speaker 1: you know, it's except for the gay best friend thing,

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Speaker 1: which I sort of wish I had a lesbian best friend,

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Speaker 1: but I don't. I mean, I have Jason, so there's that.

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Speaker 1: But but I'm just I'm curious, Like, can you see

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Speaker 1: I don't think this person's actually looking to partner up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if I didn't want to partner up, why

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Speaker 1: You know, but I can see why he was confused.

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Speaker 1: And what about this best friend of yours? I mean,

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Speaker 1: were you that explicit? Did you say, like, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: Cooper, I mean pretty much like, yeah, like it's good

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Speaker 2: to have friends that check other boxes. You can't put

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Speaker 2: all that pressure on a partner.

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Speaker 1: So for you, Blake, she took the independence thing too far.

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Speaker 1: There's a point which it's no longer attractive for you

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Speaker 1: for sure.

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Speaker 3: Like, you know, I don't want someone quingy with no wife,

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Speaker 3: but that's not a thing. That's not good either. But

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Speaker 3: but but there's a balance, and it just sounded like

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Speaker 3: she doesn't need anyone, and I'm like, you know, I

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Speaker 3: want something more. Seriously, I think.

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Speaker 1: She's good, okay, I mean, it's not worth seeing where

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Speaker 1: it goes. I mean I also think that maybe a

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Speaker 1: maybe I do want someone in my life, and maybe

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Speaker 1: I do want to give up some of that independence,

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Speaker 1: and maybe I want to spend less time with my

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Speaker 1: gay best friend Cooper.

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Speaker 3: Nah. I mean, it just seems she was real set

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Speaker 3: on it, So I don't think it's a good match.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, because in fairness, if we talked to you

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Speaker 1: and you said, well, she was over the top, you know,

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Speaker 1: Klingia needed to be with someone all the time, and

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Speaker 1: you know, was really rushing things. You wouldn't like that either.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I would rather a person who

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Speaker 1: Then somebody who from day one it's zero to one

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Speaker 1: hundred and you're responsible for everything. Right, So I don't

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Speaker 1: think this is the worst thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I guess to me, it's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: if you're applying for a job, you don't want a

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Speaker 3: job where they're like, we're going to work you one

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Speaker 3: hundred hours a week. But you also don't don't want

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Speaker 3: to play stuff like you got to be here for

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Speaker 3: eight hours. We only need you for twenty minutes during

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Speaker 3: That's no fun either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I might need you to draw me a picture,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, but I hear what you're saying. And also,

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Speaker 1: you know, let's say I think some guys. I think

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Speaker 1: some guys kind of get off on women that need them. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and that's that's your thing or maybe it's your thing,

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Speaker 1: and so anyway, Amanda, look, I'm not sure you did

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Speaker 1: anything wrong. I mean, that's authentically who you are and

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Speaker 1: it's not for him, so, uh, Blake, I assume you're

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Speaker 1: not interested. I tried to talk you into it, but

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Speaker 1: you don't want another date. We'll pay for it. I'm good.

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Speaker 3: She's so independent that it's not attractive.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, all right, well Amanda, Hey, he's not for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. But there's

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Speaker 1: your answer. I wish you the best as well. She

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Speaker 1: hung up on never mind. Cool, she's that independent, Blake.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I don't need you. I don't need to

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Speaker 1: show I don't need nobody. Maybe I kind of see

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Speaker 1: what you're saying. All Right, good luck, Blake, all right,

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Speaker 1: thanks sm