1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast? 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 1: Fine Elviss Morning Show really started a storm again, and 3 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: he doesn't see it. He thinks it's totally fine and 4 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: we're crazy Morning show here, scary over here. That's Danielle 5 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: and then Garrett Gregg, t Brody and producer Sam. Yes, 6 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: I want to know after I read this to you, 7 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: what did you if you? I have questions. Okay, I 8 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: don't know if you really said so. The Elvis Duran Show. 9 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: The Elvis Duran Show tweeted out do you think humans 10 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: are meant to be in monogamous relationships? And Greg t 11 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: answered I do not. I'm married and holding it down, 12 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: but we all should be with other people as frequent 13 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: as possible. How else will we ever continue to grow 14 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: and test our minds? Then he writes, reading the trick 15 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: is to not allow our partner to know. Otherwise people 16 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: can be hurt heart. No one wants a broken heart. 17 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: So my first question to you is has your wife 18 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: Trish seen that tweet? I don't know, and I really 19 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 1: don't care if she saw the tweet or not. It 20 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: doesn't do anything, Yes it does. And then right this 21 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: this is a very cutchy subject when it comes to 22 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: matters the heart and cheating, because there are people in 23 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: the world that you know, don't ever want to be 24 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: in that kind of relationship with somebody cheats, because we 25 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: all know what happens when someone cheats, You get hurt, right, 26 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: it hurts. And how many how many people in this 27 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: room have been cheated on? Right? Have? I don't think 28 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: I was ever cheated on? Okay, lucky you, but it 29 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: definitely hurts. No one likes that. No one likes that 30 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 1: at all, right, devastating, right, Okay, but let's just take 31 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: take our feelings out of it, all right, And all 32 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: I wanted to say tweet, I wanted you all to 33 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: just honestly reflect now, like I don't criticize anybody that's 34 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: criticizing me, but you can't criticize me. You have to 35 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: just take it for what it's really worth and the value. 36 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: You can't you can't just go. But you can't start 37 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 1: pointing fingers and going no, no, no, check and you 38 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: kidding around. I'm not kidding around, and I'm not going 39 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: to back off from what I'm saying is I'm a person, 40 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: I'm a human being, Okay, and I have a feeling 41 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: in my heart. That's why I wanted to get married. 42 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: I fell in love. It's great. I still love Trish 43 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: and my my love is still there. That is not changing. 44 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: But what does change is that I don't need to 45 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: be in love to actually have the act of sex 46 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: with somebody. I don't need that. I don't feel that 47 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: I can have sex with anybody or anything and enjoy 48 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: what that actual physical ability feels like. That's what I'm asking. 49 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: You're preferred to be in a polyamorous relationship where you 50 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: know what he is saying is, I'm not preferring that 51 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: kind of like can translate you want to be able 52 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: to go have sex with thumb girl, some woman. I 53 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: don't be anybody, right whatever, man, you want to go 54 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 1: have sex. It's meaningless. It's just for the enjoyment of sex. 55 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: And you feel like as long as you don't upset 56 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: your wife. That's telling her it's a big deal. I 57 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: have to live with that guilt, and if I feel 58 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: that guilt in the flip side, it should that's fine. 59 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: I heard. It's really can two things. One, you shouldn't 60 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: have guilt because it's totally natural according you and to 61 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: you wouldn't care if Trish was out doing whatever she's doing. Okay, 62 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: that is a terrible example, and that's a bad question. 63 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: Why because I would care it would hurt me if 64 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: I knew. I don't want If she just does that 65 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: and she can live with herself and still pull it 66 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: off that like everything's wonderful, then then what do I 67 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: So you don't mind getting into bed with her having sex, 68 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: but you but you do know she's not right. If 69 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: I find out, I am hurt. As long as you 70 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: don't find out, you're good. I need to help draw 71 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: a line here because you're meshing two different topics and 72 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: that could be a little confusing. There's a difference between 73 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: do you believe in monogamy or do you believe in 74 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: multiple partners and cheating? So you could be in a 75 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 1: committed relationship with someone and both of you agree and 76 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: that's fine. So you're meshing the two worlds together right now. 77 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: What you're doing, I'm just drawing a line because I 78 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: don't want to besip and cheating. He wants to wants 79 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: to be in an open relationship, I know, which is 80 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: fine if that's what you're in. The don't That's why 81 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to communicate it. That's the thing I 82 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: don't need. I don't want to communicate that. I don't 83 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: want to be in an open relationship like that. I 84 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: like the relationship with men because I like my wife, 85 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: my family, my house. I love that, it's great dinner 86 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: at five thirty six o'clock. Everything's wonderful. We all gonna work. 87 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: But of that, all I'm saying is if gone, if 88 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: I find someone, and and they and everybody I believe 89 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: they got that we should all be. If your wife 90 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 1: whenever they want, what if your wife felt that way? 91 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: What if your wife felt the same way, then I 92 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: don't I wouldn't want to be with her. If she 93 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: feels like you want to be in an open relationship, 94 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to know that you want you want 95 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: to go sleep with Mary right, let's just say your 96 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: name if she wants to go sleep with Steve right 97 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: and not tell you you're fine with that. No, I'm 98 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 1: not fine with that because when you're when I find 99 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: out understanding, No, I understand you, just you don't want 100 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 1: to know. So your belief system is that peoplen't want 101 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: to be most multiple people, you don't want to know 102 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: that it's happening. No, one wants to get hurt. No 103 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: one wants to let me ask you a question. So 104 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: you're saying, as long as Trish doesn't find out about it, 105 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: it's fine for you to go have sex with something. 106 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: You can do the shame if as long as you 107 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: don't find out, I can live with that guilt. If 108 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: I can live with that knowing that I did that. 109 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: And if she finds out, she's gonna be hurt. What's 110 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: going to happen to that Even if she doesn't know 111 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: you're lying to her, right and she's in a relationship, 112 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: that's a lie, and that if she ever found out, 113 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: she would feel that. So then why why would you 114 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: even right that that's okay? Okay, I'm not saying that 115 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: that's okay. I would hurt to be I would I 116 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: would not want to be the person to break her 117 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: heart and be like that. That would be devastating. But 118 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: you want to go sleep. I don't want to go 119 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: to jail, but I'm going to rob that. I exactly 120 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying is that, But you're right. If 121 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: I see anybody and I feel like I want to 122 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 1: get it on, and they want to get it on, 123 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: the act of getting it on is so incredible. Okay, 124 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: what you're saying is you're married, you don't that's act 125 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: of getting on commitment. Shouldn't you made a commitment unless 126 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: you and Trish sit down and I have a discussion where, yes, 127 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: you want to suck someone else, that's fine. You want 128 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 1: to do someone else, that's fine. Unless you have that conversation, 129 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: it shouldn't even be on the table you If you 130 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: want to rob a bank, right that means the excitement 131 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: of robbing a bank is more important to you than 132 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: the fear of going to jail. Right then, in that situation, 133 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: the excitement of having sex with is more valuable to 134 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,799 Speaker 1: you than the fear of hurting and destroying your wife 135 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: right here, exactly, yes, here. The reason why you can't 136 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: have this conversation is because there are people that are 137 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: extremely passionate about this, like Danielle just just showed where 138 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: you know immediately it's like your cheaters, your cheaters talking 139 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: about cheater unless you've already done. But you can't. That's 140 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that if we can absolutely positively 141 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,559 Speaker 1: have a conversation, no, no, no, you get everybody gets 142 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: so amped up on this top, But what do you. 143 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: You're again as a friend. You're looking for that guy 144 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: and or woman to tell you, Greg T you know 145 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: what you're right, and then you're happy with no. No, no, 146 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: You're talking to a bunch of friends. You asked a 147 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: question and we're giving you the answer. I don't believe 148 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: that this conversation can ever happen. We're actually where people 149 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: are actually sitting round whizing. I'm so confused to because 150 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: I feel like you're there's being a line drawn between 151 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: being emotionally exclusive and physically exclusive. So it sounds like 152 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: you're saying that physically exclusive doesn't make sense, but you want, 153 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: you need to be emotionally exclusive, so you're that's right, 154 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: But that's not how people work for the most part, 155 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: they work together, correct. But I think that that is 156 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: ridiculous because I think that working together in communicate that 157 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: I want to I want to be with other people 158 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: is crazy. I think I think the issue here is 159 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: because there's people with all kinds of relationship. You're just 160 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: feel like going out and someone and nobody knows. There's 161 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 1: people with kinds of relations open relationships, swinging relationship, that's right, whatever, 162 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: whatever the problem is, the differences, they know what they're 163 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: in correct. You can't be in a swinging, commit or 164 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: open relationship. It would bother me for her to because 165 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: somebody else. Do you think Trish would care less if 166 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: you had sex with someone it meant nothing, or if 167 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: you had sex something and you kind of like them. 168 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 1: Not either way, Oh probably if I like them, But 169 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: either way, she's gonna be very hurt. Right. So the 170 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: fact that you're yelling and screaming how it doesn't mean 171 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,719 Speaker 1: anything to you. It is irrelevant to the woman you 172 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: committed to. No, why can't we just be married? And 173 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: why do the whole I don't know why? Why do 174 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: I have to communicate with that? How do you what 175 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: does that mean? How do you feel? Aside from like, 176 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 1: how do you feel? But but just listen to this. 177 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: You just wrote that on Twitter in front of millions 178 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: of our listeners. Okay, that's one embarrassing to your wife. 179 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: Oh come on, and to the fact that she has 180 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: no probably is no idea that you feel that way. 181 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: And so if she was to see that, but you 182 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: tweeted any time, do you really think that she's not 183 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 1: going to find out and not question your relationship. I'm 184 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: gonna say I'm gonna say, Trish, what do you think 185 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: the odds are that I'm going to go out and 186 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonn to meet somebody's like you go to unrealistic, 187 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:09,359 Speaker 1: that's unrealistic. But you want you want something, you want respectful, 188 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: you want something that is really cherishes the supposed Let's 189 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: call Trish right now, read the tweet to her and 190 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: ask her how she feels. Again, why would I do 191 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: that and risk her? It doesn't matter. She doesn't see, 192 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. She follows our Twitter. She's gonnareat So 193 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: if you don't get a ship right that, let's call 194 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: He says. I'm saying you're now you're taking it to 195 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: a whole new level of bringing up and like and 196 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: like including her him a little bit dead inside right now, 197 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 1: cannot include her on him. You know this podcast by 198 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 1: the time, whoever's listening to this podcast, you know it's listenable. 199 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: Now people can listen, listen, listen to if I go 200 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: on if I go on the radio show or a 201 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: podcast or on Twitter. And I say, even though my 202 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: wife doesn't follow me on social media, she wants nothing 203 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 1: to do with my career. She's not into the radio thing. 204 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: If I go on the air and I say, yeah, 205 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: my wife slipped in the kitchen. By the time I 206 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: get home, she's like, oh, so I slipped in the kitchen. 207 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: Everybody will tell her that I mentioned her or name, 208 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: or I said she sneezed. She knows, right, So your 209 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: wife knows. So think about what you think about if 210 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: your wife tweeted. If your wife tweeted, God, I wish 211 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: I could bang some dude, but I'm married. Okay, you'd 212 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: be like, I'd be upset about that. I actually don't 213 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: think you're being either. It's not being completely truthful with us, 214 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: with yourself, I am being are so worried about her 215 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: finding out because you keep saying no, no, no, Why 216 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: would you do that? You wouldn't have tweeted that in 217 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 1: the first place. I'm I'm not lying to anybody. You're 218 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: not fully connected with how you feel. You would not 219 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: have put out the universe. I really didn't want your 220 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: wife to ever find I don't believe that everybody can 221 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: act really have these understandings that I'm explaining. There's a 222 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: difference between from me. There is a difference between doing 223 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: with someone and caring is doing. I don't mean someone 224 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: doesn't want something to be I don't think that hurts 225 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: someone on Twitter. Let's pretend that everybody in this room 226 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 1: and everyone listening to the podcast. Let's pretend Danielle changes 227 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 1: her mind and stay, let's pause, everybody listening to this 228 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: podcast suddenly agrees with you. Okay, none of that matters, 229 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: because your wife doesn't want you banging anybody else. But 230 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to get caught and I wouldn't want 231 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: her to know that any Hold on, a second, hold on, 232 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: here's the thing. We we are not living up to 233 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: our end of the bar. Because Greg t came on 234 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: and said, and I stated, can we have a level 235 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 1: head of commodations? Say because I'm curious to see the popcorn. 236 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm Kermit the Frog with his fucking lifting 237 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: tea right now going into the bush. I'm Michael Jackson 238 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: and Thriller video eating my popcorn. I'm watching you go. 239 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: This topic gets everybody's so angry, fucking stupid. It is 240 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: not that you put on Twitter in front of millions 241 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: of people that you're fine cheating on your wife, but 242 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 1: that you don't want her to know. Right that kick 243 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: if I'm Trish right, I'm reading this and I'm going 244 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: Holy sh it. I need to check his phone. You 245 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: know what she's reading, find out if he's cheating. Has 246 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: he cheated? I have a million questions and I'm not 247 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: trusting your asset. You know what reading she's reading and 248 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: going so stupid he writes these stupid Okay, so then 249 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: you take advantage of it, and then you go and 250 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 1: sleep with whoever you want. It happens. You have to 251 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,319 Speaker 1: make sense of your guys. This makes sense and of 252 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,079 Speaker 1: you guys, because I'm thinking about this as we we're 253 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: sitting here, right, He's right, I haven't said it yet. Uh, 254 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: you are thinking about he thinks that it's less it's 255 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: less meaningful that he just went out and had sex. 256 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: It didn't mean anything, right, But I'm thinking about with 257 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: if my significant they're cheated on me. Right, if she 258 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: met a guy and they hit it off, that a 259 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: million things in common, and they had like a six 260 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: month eight month relationship, they worked together, whatever, and over 261 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: time it's happened because they got so close and learned 262 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: so much about each other and fell in love. I 263 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: would be upset, But wouldn't I be more upset if 264 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: she just met some guy meant nothing and she banged 265 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: them and she might be worse. It might actually be 266 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: worse for me that she didn't even love the guy 267 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: and was willing to hurt me just for an orgasm. 268 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: I think it's worse cheating sensitive. Any type of cheating hurts, 269 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: you know, obviously, But if you have that much disrespect 270 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: for our relationship that you're just going out and having 271 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: sex with someone you just met in a bar and 272 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: couldn't give two ships about, that's why you have two 273 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 1: kids at home. I don't think it's minute morning show.