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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl, lex p Any Sugarls

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Speaker 1: Ryan the Cald and you are tuned into another episode

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Speaker 1: of poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: So let me just start this off right now and

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Speaker 3: just say I'm hung over as fuck. So y'all is

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Speaker 3: gonna have to bear with me today cause I'm really

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Speaker 3: like half asleep. I really went to sleep probably about

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Speaker 3: like three hours ago. No, lie, so we gonna make

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Speaker 3: it through today. How are you doing today? How are

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Speaker 3: you doing today?

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Speaker 1: My friend? I'm doing good today. What did you do

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Speaker 1: this past week? Good mood? Somebody must have sent you

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Speaker 1: some money?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I have a flight later, so.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's why she y'all happy. I'm in a great mood.

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Speaker 1: My weekend was cool.

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Speaker 2: I just really was chilling for the most part, you know,

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Speaker 2: me and you have to record the little episode or

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Speaker 2: whatever on Friday, and then we went to rosso she

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Speaker 2: we had a little girl's night.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty all I is. Saturday.

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Speaker 2: I mean, the weather has been so good, so ugly

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Speaker 2: out here, so I just really haven't been in the

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Speaker 2: mood to do anything. I just been chilling in shit,

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Speaker 2: but I'm super super excited because I'm getting out of

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Speaker 2: Atlanta today, so I'll get to get away from this.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully the weather the would be nice.

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Speaker 1: Don't see.

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Speaker 3: It's Diamond's birthday today and we went out last night.

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Speaker 3: I got so fucked up. I took an edible in

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Speaker 3: the club. I was eating an edible in the club.

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Speaker 3: I'm smoking hooks.

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Speaker 1: I had my shampagne. I had my champagne.

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Speaker 3: I was missing it with mixing it with the class

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Speaker 3: alst see. I was just doing a lot for no reason.

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Speaker 3: I'm old, I can't. I hate going to the club.

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Speaker 3: Stop inviting me to the club. I don't want to

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Speaker 3: go anymore.

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Speaker 1: I hate it here. You are definitely very drunk. I

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Speaker 1: can't call me. I'm not gonna say who it is.

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Speaker 1: Of course, can I tell the story, tell a story.

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Speaker 1: I saw dress Boo last night and I was like this,

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Speaker 1: I'm so fucking did I was. I gave him.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to, like to say anybody was like no,

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Speaker 3: but I definitely made sure that he saw me.

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Speaker 1: And he was just like he gave that laugh, like

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Speaker 1: he was like, oh.

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Speaker 3: Like he saw a ghost. And then he was like

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Speaker 3: laughing because I was like, yeah, you know I'm snitching.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm ain't child.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, you know. I just had to

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Speaker 3: you know, had to be a little missing. Anyways, let's

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Speaker 3: get into these topics. Marin, how are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Oh man, I'm good. I'm just listening to y'all.

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Speaker 2: The peoples missing you like we're Moran, we're freaky in

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Speaker 2: Then I be asking what's your I g They be.

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Speaker 1: Saying you sound fine.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate all the love. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: But I'm gonna tell y'all like I just told the

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Speaker 5: fabulous you know Queen here and the.

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Speaker 4: Cash as well. I was supposed to tell y'all this

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Speaker 4: last week, but you.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, things happened.

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Speaker 5: But eight these next three months, we gotta go hard bro. Yes,

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Speaker 5: three months, we got an N twenty twenty. On a

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Speaker 5: way the Lakers just ended.

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Speaker 1: We got Oh yeah, I forgot.

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy the Lakers one. Because now NBA is over.

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Speaker 3: We just got to get rid of football and we're

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Speaker 3: back to normal.

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Speaker 1: For how long?

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Speaker 2: But I mean, like, I feel like off season don't

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Speaker 2: what two three months after year. That is no sports,

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Speaker 2: I know, but those two three months live.

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Speaker 1: They do, cause the niggas be freedom all the time,

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Speaker 1: al ready for football to end right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we having way more time on their hands during

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Speaker 2: off season.

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Speaker 1: Off season be so that's when you can really catch

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Speaker 1: you a BDB.

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Speaker 5: Y'all nasty, nasty, we say.

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Speaker 4: Nothing about y'all know anything about the sport of football.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, the niggas be looking good in their pains,

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Speaker 2: beat wow, like Beefnick.

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Speaker 1: I love a fat neck. I don't like that, especially

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Speaker 1: then when they shoulders be like.

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Speaker 2: All layer they be looking they looking like Thanos not Thanos.

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Speaker 1: Thick is swollen. He got his big beef Nick and

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Speaker 1: he got that ass he does. Why are you looking

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Speaker 1: is double teethed up for real, bitch, I'm not looking

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Speaker 1: play with you, not sad hose. Goodbye.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's get into these topics, man. So the first

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Speaker 3: topic I wanted to talk about, how long should a

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Speaker 3: that you look stupid if you're if you're like in

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Speaker 3: a talking stage or just casually dating somebody for a

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Speaker 3: year because they're like, what are y'all doing? I look

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Speaker 3: stupid if you're just kind of like in a situation

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Speaker 3: ship with somebody for a year, Like by that time,

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Speaker 3: if y'all enjoy each other's time that much, y'all should

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Speaker 3: have established something like y'all wanting to be together. So

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Speaker 3: I want to to know what y'all think of, Like

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Speaker 3: how long should a talking stage be?

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Speaker 1: Like is there a time limit on that? No? Nah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like shit, you talk to somebody long as

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Speaker 3: Hell, I feel like just I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 3: in six months a year, yeah, you getting to know somebody,

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Speaker 3: but you still don't really know that person like that,

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Speaker 3: and some people they need a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: Time, you know what I mean. And then a lot

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Speaker 1: of people like to play the field.

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Speaker 2: If you're talking to somebody, you don't have no obligation

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Speaker 2: to them, right, you know what I mean? So you

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Speaker 2: can still date other people if that's what you want

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Speaker 2: to do. So I feel like, if you want to

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Speaker 2: still play the field and fuck with other people, there's

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Speaker 2: nothing wrong with they I mean, talking to somebody for

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Speaker 2: versus getting in a relationship with them and you're not

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Speaker 2: ready and then you cheating on as Yeah, and not

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Speaker 2: only that, I feel like for me, like if if

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Speaker 2: I don't have a lot of I don't talk.

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Speaker 1: Girl at this point, we overyo disclaimers. We know don't.

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Speaker 1: But like if somebody asked me to be their girlfriend

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Speaker 1: right now, no, it's just sounded bad. Is that I

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Speaker 1: just I don't have a lot of bodies. I really

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Speaker 4: I'm sure, Yeah, I'm I've.

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Speaker 1: Really been chilling. I really be chilling.

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Speaker 3: Now like recently, as of recently. But anyway, if like

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Speaker 3: wanting to play the field or wanting to date other people,

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Speaker 3: but you know, you have to be in.

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Speaker 1: That mind frame of being a good partner.

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like right now, I'm focused on work

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Speaker 3: and doing things that I have to do to make

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Speaker 1: And do things that I want to do.

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Speaker 3: So I can't focus on being a girlfriend to anybody

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Speaker 3: right now. But of course I'm still a woman and

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Speaker 3: I have needs. Of course I want a man's presence

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. And I think a lot

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Speaker 3: of times people I'm ruin dating by giving people ultimatums.

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Speaker 3: How can you say, like, oh, I'm not gonna deal

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Speaker 3: with you no more if we don't be together. Like

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Speaker 3: why are y'all putting a time limit on stuff like that?

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Speaker 2: Because what type of boyfriend and or girlfriend is somebody

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Speaker 2: not ready to be in a relationship and you force

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Speaker 1: A relationship, Because like I know, I would.

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Speaker 2: Be a trash ass girlfriend if a nigga was like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like basically, I'm not gonna fuck with you no

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Speaker 3: more if you don't be with me.

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Speaker 1: And then I like you.

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Speaker 2: So I'm kind of like, oh, I'm kind of like okay,

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Speaker 2: I guess they could try it out, and I'm not

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Speaker 2: niggas and she's still because I really wasn't ready to

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Speaker 1: And that's what I was about to say.

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Speaker 2: Who makes up the rules of how long it's too

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Speaker 2: long to be dating or talking.

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Speaker 4: To somebody relationship? Twitter?

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Speaker 1: No, Sierra started that years.

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Speaker 2: I feel like as long as both parties, as long

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Speaker 2: as it's not one person in the situation that feels slighted,

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Speaker 2: then we could keep dating as long as we want to,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: How do you feel so even during the talking stage

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Speaker 5: because you brought up playing the fist? Huh, so y'all

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Speaker 5: are open to whoever you're talking to them fucking with

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Speaker 5: other people too?

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Speaker 6: Hell?

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I mean that's how the game goes unfortunately, yause.

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Speaker 3: I mean once we say, oh, you're not allowed to

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Speaker 1: A relationship, right.

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Speaker 2: I feel like getting too much pressure on exclusivity is

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Speaker 2: a relationship, Like, you know what I mean? So I

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Speaker 2: feel like if I'm if we're just dating, that means

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Speaker 2: that we're dating people. A lot of people were not

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Speaker 2: just dating each other unless we decide we're exclusively.

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Speaker 4: Dating that you was talking to.

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Speaker 1: Dude like a deal with like.

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Speaker 3: We're talking to okay. I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: It would hurt my feelings. I'm gonna feel some type

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Speaker 3: of way, but I can't charge him up about it

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Speaker 3: because you're not my boyfriend at the end of the day,

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Speaker 3: and I can't get mad because most likely I was

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Speaker 3: probably with somebody else the.

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Speaker 2: Night before myself, and if I didn't know that we

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Speaker 2: was like saved for example, I didn't know that we

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Speaker 2: was on this type of time. Maybe I did think

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Speaker 2: that we was only dating each other, and then I

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Speaker 2: see you out with a girl, Well, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 2: out with a.

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Speaker 1: Nigga the next day because that's what we're doing obviously.

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Speaker 3: I think the only time a conversation really needs to

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Speaker 3: be had is like if you're fucking with somebody constantly

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Speaker 3: and like y'all stop, y'all stop using protection, right, Like,

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Speaker 3: then a conversation needs to be had like okay, we're

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Speaker 3: having sex with other people. You need to make like

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Speaker 3: we need to be using protection or we need to

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Speaker 3: start back using protection. Like those are conversation that needs

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Speaker 3: I just feel like it just brings that's taking another

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Speaker 1: I really don't know. I mean not to say they

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Speaker 2: Think that they just really like niggas really are not

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Speaker 1: We're the ones. We're the ones that don't feel any

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Speaker 5: I mean, if I'm speaking for myself, I have to

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Speaker 1: But you just said that thought we talking about niggas

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Speaker 3: But I feel like nowadays though, and then like when

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Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, I know, I definitely agree with you,

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Speaker 2: And see, I've never really been like that, Like I

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Speaker 1: It would just end up happening.

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Speaker 2: And then it's like we just ended up, you know,

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Speaker 2: we just kept doing it because that's just what That's

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Speaker 3: Something happens to me whenever that when I get that

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Speaker 1: But yeah, back to the conversation at hand. I feel like.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, it just is what

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Speaker 3: And even though it's not a relationship, that is a

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Speaker 3: whether you like it or not.

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Speaker 1: When you're complicate things. Yeah, because I mean it do.

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Speaker 2: Cause I'm really just thinking about times that I've been in,

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Speaker 2: complicate the situation. It does, and then you, like you said,

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Speaker 2: You can ask questions, you could trip, you could pop up.

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Speaker 3: Ooh we don't do pop ups no moment. We talked

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Speaker 3: we don't do pop up no more. Or y'all don't.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't as women, we don't black women. So

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Speaker 2: what did y'all say? Why y'all said, y'all don't do

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Speaker 1: Because it's just it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: You look stupid, like it's not necessary, it's unnecessary drama,

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Speaker 3: Like if a nigga not answer your phone, are not

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Speaker 1: It's just like Ceise, that's not the nigga for you. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't pop. I never popped up because the nigga

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Speaker 1: why you didn't just call him to see what was

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Speaker 1: going on? Because I wanted to pop up. I preferred

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Speaker 1: to see what was going on and what was going on? Nothing,

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Speaker 1: And I was glad and I was happy.

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Speaker 2: And I will say that every time that I ever

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Speaker 1: When I did, I haven't talk. It is my choice,

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Speaker 1: though I don't want to talk to that nigga no more.

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Speaker 2: But cap No, it ain't no cap. I put that

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Speaker 1: It was? Definitely made think nothing because we talked long

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Speaker 3: I did cap Brent said, he on your ass.

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Speaker 1: He don't know nothing. You don't know.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, like I was saying, yeah, I just feel

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Speaker 2: like I just anytime that I ever popped up on

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Speaker 2: it anytime that I ever who me. No, I was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, anytime I popped up on the nigga,

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Speaker 2: I never had, like, no crazy shit happened, though. I

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Speaker 2: feel like sometimes girls be popping up on niggas and

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Speaker 3: I said, I feel like that's also something that's just

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Speaker 1: Like all that stuff is just unnecessary.

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Speaker 2: It's a nigga can pop up on me. And that's

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Speaker 2: another thing. This is somebody who used to pop up

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Speaker 2: I could pop up on your ass.

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Speaker 1: That just sounds toxic.

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Speaker 3: It probably was, but that was our relationship. It was

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Speaker 4: That's not good though.

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Speaker 1: I'm not did I say it was good.

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Speaker 4: I mean you you kind of got a smirk on

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Speaker 1: I always got a smirk on my fad this story

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Speaker 4: The way you're you're kind of making it sound like

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Speaker 4: that's okay.

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Speaker 5: Like the way you're delivering the story, you're making it

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Speaker 1: At the time, it was because that's what it was.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that I would do that going forward

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Speaker 1: It's something that I did in the past.

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Speaker 4: Okay, But you've grown, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Don't be popping up on niggas.

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Speaker 2: I ain't popped up on a nigga in like a year,

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Speaker 2: and you're not doing it anymore. I didn't say this.

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Speaker 2: He depends on the circumstance. I'm fucking big, Okay. So

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Speaker 3: An all stage should be whenever you're dealing with someone,

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Speaker 3: or do you feel like it doesn't matter? Because I

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Speaker 3: that because of Sierra.

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Speaker 1: You remember that song.

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Speaker 3: If that boy don't love you by now, he will

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Speaker 3: so have never That song came out in nineteen eighty three.

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Speaker 3: It did, But that's why girl started putting that pressure.

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Speaker 3: They're like Sierra's right, if he don't love you.

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Speaker 1: By now, I ain't never gonna love you. I don't

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Speaker 1: think we should even give Sierra that much creedy. I

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Speaker 1: think that women being doing it, but I'm saying that

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Speaker 3: But I feel like a lot of times like that's

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Speaker 3: how people think that, like, oh shit, if that nigga

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Speaker 1: Me by now, he ain't never gonna love me, I

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Speaker 1: though I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if a nah, I feel like you

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Speaker 2: don't take a nigga along time to know if he

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Speaker 4: Yes, it does.

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying marry you. I mean like it's this

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Speaker 1: If it is in love?

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Speaker 4: Why do I feel this way? You're trying to figure

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Speaker 3: Saying, I feel like a lot of times men do

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Speaker 3: or you end up stop fucking with them, and then

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they don't even realize like that they're in love.

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Speaker 3: Men are stupid, no offense marine, but a lot of

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Speaker 3: times they just they're not like us. We can recognize

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Speaker 3: Men will be like, well, I fuck with a tough

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, she here fucking cool, she's

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Speaker 3: sucking my dick, the puss, it good, the conversation straight like,

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Speaker 3: and they'll just be but they don't realize, Okay, nigga,

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Speaker 3: you saying all this good stuff.

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Speaker 1: You you really fuck with this girl and you key

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Speaker 3: And then once she bounce and leave, they want to

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Speaker 1: My bad come back.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, be too late, and then

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Speaker 3: it'd be too fucking late. We'll not for Cardi B

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Speaker 3: But well, yeah, I was just saying how Offset be doing.

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Speaker 1: I was just mean.

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Speaker 5: Luckily for me, I've never experienced that, but I do

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Speaker 1: And they don't see it, and they don't see it.

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Speaker 5: Takes her leaving for you to see like she leaves you,

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Speaker 5: not you leave.

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Speaker 4: Her, because you know.

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Speaker 5: I'm a firm believer that a man, if he knows

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Speaker 5: he has a good girl, he's not gonna leave her.

444
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Speaker 4: She might leave him and leave her.

445
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Speaker 7: I agree.

446
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Speaker 2: And I also feel like if a nigga stop fucking

447
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Speaker 2: with you, he really done with you.

448
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:46,760
Speaker 4: I agree, cause nigga's never.

449
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Speaker 1: Gonna leave you alone.

450
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Speaker 4: I agree.

451
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Speaker 2: I feel like if a man really cuts you off

452
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Speaker 2: and stop fucking with you, be she is done with

453
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Speaker 2: your ass. Because I have not meant, not one nigga

454
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Speaker 2: that will cut a woman off and then come back.

455
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Speaker 4: I agree.

456
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Speaker 1: Wait, what do you mean.

457
00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:06,119
Speaker 2: Like cut a woman off completely and then just come back.

458
00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:08,720
Speaker 2: If they do, they don't take you serious.

459
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Speaker 1: They just trying to okaya.

460
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Speaker 2: I never What I'm saying is like usually when I

461
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,200
Speaker 2: stop talking to guys, I be dead in the situation,

462
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Speaker 2: like I be ending in She so a nigga gonna

463
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Speaker 2: always try to come back because I ended it, you

464
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Speaker 2: know what I mean. But I've never really been in

465
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Speaker 2: a situation where a nigga was just like, yeah, I'm

466
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Speaker 2: not fucking with you no more. I don't want to

467
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Speaker 2: fuck with you no more because I feel like when

468
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Speaker 2: it be that men be done. I feel like sometimes

469
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Speaker 2: you agree, I do, Yeah, I mean I do. I

470
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Speaker 2: feel like it just depends though, because sometimes I know

471
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Speaker 2: I've been in heated arguments with niggas and we've both

472
00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:44,240
Speaker 2: said things that we didn't mean.

473
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

474
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Speaker 3: A lot of times mental say stuff just trying to

475
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Speaker 3: hurt your feelings and make you feel like, oh yeah,

476
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Speaker 3: I don't need you, I'm over this, but deep inside

477
00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,480
Speaker 3: they're like, man, I miss my bitch. And I just

478
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,439
Speaker 3: said that because she was like saying, like they be

479
00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:58,040
Speaker 3: trying to go tip for tat.

480
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, I'm more so talking about

481
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Speaker 2: with the nigga just stop talking to you though, like

482
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Speaker 2: dead you.

483
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean.

484
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Speaker 2: It's different having an argument and then y'all in the

485
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Speaker 2: heat of the moment and then a few days later

486
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Speaker 2: y'all reconcile.

487
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Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I mean. Yeah.

488
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Speaker 3: I feel like if if a guy like really like

489
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Speaker 3: dead you just like, oh, somebod like, hey, you know what,

490
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Speaker 3: this is not working out for me and da da da,

491
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Speaker 3: that's a little different.

492
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Speaker 1: But if you're having like a heat of conversation and

493
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Speaker 1: you just like he's just like I can't do this,

494
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Speaker 1: and you're like I can't do that. Yeah, I'm gonna

495
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Speaker 1: get back together. Yeah yeah, no, that that's completely different.

496
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Speaker 2: I'm talking more so like I said, like a nigga

497
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Speaker 2: just being like I don't want to fuck with you

498
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Speaker 2: and I'm weren't in Okay, I will say this, A

499
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 2: nigga might come back, but he ain't about to be

500
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Speaker 2: with you for real.

501
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Speaker 1: He probably just wants you gotta keep that. I'm just

502
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,400
Speaker 1: you gotta keep that thing one because.

503
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Speaker 2: Like Morin said too, if a nigga really fuck with you,

504
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 2: he not gonna Like if a nigga really care about you,

505
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 2: he not gonna leave something that he thinks he can't find.

506
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Speaker 1: Again, that is true.

507
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Speaker 4: I do agree with that.

508
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Speaker 5: Leave a good woman, a good woman to leave a

509
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 5: good right, but man like, okay, let me give an example,

510
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 5: a good situation. That's a better way, Okay, not to

511
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 5: throw shade, right, not to Let's let's use like Tiny

512
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:17,280
Speaker 5: for example.

513
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Speaker 4: I remember when they went through their thing.

514
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Speaker 1: Yeah like Tiny lift, Yeah, I ain't about to leave Tiny.

515
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Speaker 4: He's not gonna leave her. She might leave him, He's

516
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Speaker 4: not gonna leave her, But that's not.

517
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Speaker 1: But you said a good woman leaving a good man

518
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Speaker 1: a good.

519
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Speaker 4: Well, I didn't mean to say that a good situation.

520
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Speaker 3: I'm not saying is a bad man. I'm just saying, like,

521
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 3: you know, like we don't know.

522
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Uh.

523
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 3: I feel like if a good woman leaves a quote

524
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Speaker 3: unquote good situation from what we think on the outside

525
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 3: is good, the situation probably not.

526
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Speaker 1: That good behind behind clo.

527
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Speaker 3: You know, I don't feel like a good person is

528
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 3: leaving a good person, you know what I'm saying, Like, honestly,

529
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 3: when it comes down to it, like I have never

530
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 3: left a good man in my life.

531
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Speaker 1: I agree, I've never a good man.

532
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: I might have left good situations.

533
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 1: It was beneficial, you know what I mean.

534
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: It was beneficial in certain areas, so to other people

535
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 2: it looked like it was good, you know what I mean?

536
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 2: But I never left a good man.

537
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Speaker 1: You better speak on it, girl, right?

538
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 4: That hit me to the core, right, Well, I definitely

539
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 4: I definitely misspoke. I didn't mean it like that.

540
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 5: But the point I trying to ain't no real dude

541
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 5: with a brain gonna leave a solid woman unless it's

542
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 5: like Yoda.

543
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 4: Just ain't it like? Unless I don't know we clash.

544
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Speaker 6: Well.

545
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Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes women are solid with men and

546
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Speaker 3: they be like, but it's just something about her that

547
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Speaker 3: they just.

548
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Speaker 1: Or a woman with an It might be a solid dude.

549
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 3: That you're fucking with, but it's just something missing and

550
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 3: they want this other person because you're just not them.

551
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 1: So sometimes you know, a dude will be with a

552
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Speaker 1: good chick.

553
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: She's good, she's solid, and she cool, but she's just

554
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 3: not person B and he wants person B, you know

555
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,679
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So it's like, sometimes you can be

556
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 3: everything for a man, be good to him, look good,

557
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 3: have your ship together, but he is.

558
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 1: Just not what he wants, you know what I'm saying.

559
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 1: So it's like I feel like sometimes good because good

560
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: women be getting shipped all them. Yeah, I feel like good.

561
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 3: I feel like, then do leave good women alone and

562
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 3: scorning them?

563
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: A lot of a lot of married men have great

564
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Speaker 1: wives at home.

565
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 4: And wow, but that's but lying out.

566
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Speaker 5: I mean, I just feel like, Okay, fine, I guess

567
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 5: I'm just speaking for myself. I don't understand how you

568
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 5: can have the woman that everybody wants and fuck that up.

569
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:37,360
Speaker 4: I don't get that ship.

570
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: I'm to figure that out.

571
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 4: I don't get that. I don't get that ship.

572
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 5: I understand like being in a relationship, Like I can admit, yeah,

573
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 5: I probably was a good guy, but I probably wasn't

574
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Speaker 5: the guy she wanted.

575
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Speaker 4: Cool, that's fine. I can live with that. That's not

576
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 4: that big of a deal to me.

577
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 5: But if you with somebody who solid they helping you

578
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 5: with everything, they have made you, they helped you become

579
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 5: a millionaire, and leave them for a squirrel, I don't

580
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 5: get this shit.

581
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 3: Yeah I I definitely agree with that. But you know,

582
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of times as women too,

583
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 3: like we always look at ourselfs and blame ourself when

584
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 3: men do what's wrong because I know, like we've had

585
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 3: this conversation before, because I feel like I joke on

586
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 3: here a lot, and I'd be like, oh, I'm cheating

587
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 3: nine shit. But when I'm dealing with somebody and I

588
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 3: really fuck with somebody, I'm really a softy at heart.

589
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: Like I'm a super lover. I love love, I love romance,

590
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: all that good stuff.

591
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 3: So I feel like one thing that I did as

592
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 3: a woman that I grew out of was blaming.

593
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Myself, like, oh, I could have fucked him more.

594
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 3: I could have maybe had better conversations or I always

595
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 3: was trying to blame myself for Oh why this nigga

596
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 3: not fucking with me like I want him to? And

597
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 3: then when I realize, I'm like, Okay, it has nothing

598
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 3: to do with me. As a person, you can't do nothing.

599
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 3: You can't make somebody feel a certain type of way

600
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 3: about you, either somebody fucking with you or they not.

601
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 3: But that doesn't make you less than or make you

602
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 3: like like you're not I was always feeling like I'm

603
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 3: not good at enough? What's wrong with me? And I'm like, oh, bitch,

604
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 3: it ain't you. You the shit You and this person

605
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,959
Speaker 3: just not meant to be. And I think a lot

606
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 3: of people get in depression and be so hard on

607
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 3: themselves because they're always blaming themselves for situations not working out.

608
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 1: When sometimes it just is what it is. Y'all weren't

609
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: meant to be together.

610
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 4: Sometimes it really is that simple.

611
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 1: It's really it is.

612
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you and a person supposed to

613
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 2: be together, y'all gonna end up being together, or y'all

614
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,360
Speaker 2: gonna always find y'all way back.

615
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 1: To each other. If that's what he's supposed to be,

616
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

617
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: So it's like, you can't be hard on yourself when

618
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 2: and when things don't work out.

619
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Speaker 1: And that's what women tend to do.

620
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 3: Like when a man moves on and you see him

621
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 3: with another girl, we on their Instagram.

622
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: Page, like what does she have that I do on?

623
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 3: She's not cuter than me, or she's this, she's that,

624
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 3: and we always comparing ourselves. But it's like, you don't

625
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 3: know what goes on behind closed doors between those two people,

626
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 3: Like maybe their connection is deeper.

627
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: Maybe you know what I'm saying.

628
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 3: You don't know what two people have going on, and

629
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 3: it has nothing to do with surface level things that

630
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 3: we see.

631
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think.

632
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 3: That's one thing that women should definite stopped doing, is

633
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 3: comparing ourselves to other women and trying to figure out, oh,

634
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 3: why is he fucking with her and not fucking with me,

635
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 3: because well you'll never know.

636
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I don't know. I just feel like

637
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 2: you just shouldn't be comparing yourselves to other people, period,

638
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. People just have a really

639
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 2: bad people have a really bad habit of comparing their lives, comparing.

640
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: Themselves in general to other people.

641
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: You just gotta stop doing it because you never really

642
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: know what people be having going on. You don't know

643
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 2: what people.

644
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 1: Had to do to get what they got and all

645
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: that type of sheet. So I mean, you just I

646
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: don't know.

647
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 2: I've always kind of been I always tried to like

648
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 2: be I don't know what's the word I'm looking for.

649
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

650
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 7: We know you got a degree, it's a couple of.

651
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 5: Got a piece of smart It's okay.

652
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: I was trying to say, I don't know what wired

653
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 2: I'm looking for, But I was just trying to say that.

654
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 2: I just always try to keep that in my mind though,

655
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 2: to not compare myself to other people. So I think

656
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: that there's something and I think I do a pretty

657
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: good job of it too. So I feel like, you know,

658
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 2: people do need to stop doing.

659
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: It because it's just not good.

660
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 2: It's unhealthy. It's very very, very very unhealthy. That's something

661
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 2: that I used to do a lot.

662
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 3: I talked about that on the Patreon episode when I

663
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,679
Speaker 3: talked about my depression and everything. I talked about like

664
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 3: how it's but it's hard not to It's how social

665
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 3: media is set up. They want to see they want

666
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 3: you to look at your feed and see things that

667
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 3: you feel like you can't attain and so you can

668
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,160
Speaker 3: just be addicted to scrolling, like everybody's addicted to scrolling

669
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 3: and it's really crazy. But it's like once you have

670
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 3: more control, like the Internet and our phones are set

671
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 3: up that we don't have control over our minds anymore,

672
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 3: for real, for real, Like they don't want us to

673
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 3: have any That's why you get on Instagram and thirty

674
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 3: minutes later you don't bought a parson some shoes. You

675
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 3: didn't even realize it, Like they planted that there so

676
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 3: you could buy that.

677
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: You know what.

678
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 2: I'm time out now. When you google things and then

679
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 2: you get on Instagram, it's an.

680
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: Ad talk about something.

681
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, the way your phones are set up, you can say, oh,

682
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: I want some Louis v something and you get on Instagram.

683
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: It's the Louis v ad right there.

684
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 3: So they're programming and stuff for us to not even

685
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 3: have control over our own minds.

686
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of times you do have

687
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: control over what you search.

688
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 2: I think a lot of the time people go looking

689
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 2: for stuff, and when you looking for shit, you gonna find.

690
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

691
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 3: But I also, like I said, I just feel like

692
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 3: we need to do a better job at controlling our

693
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 3: minds and controlling what we see and what we're consuming

694
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 3: every day. You know what I'm saying, because I know

695
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 3: I was bad with that when I first moved here,

696
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 3: like looking at girls and being like, damn, she got this,

697
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 3: Damn she got that? How she get this and got

698
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 3: and like I'm not living like this, And I'm like, oh,

699
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 3: like I said before on past episode, she's sleeping on

700
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: somebody couch and she.

701
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: Don't got a job. People be scammers and ship.

702
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, you know what I'm saying, So the bags

703
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: and shit, I will say, when I get on my

704
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 3: Instagram feed, all I see is nails and like travel pages.

705
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 3: I don't even follow ship like that, no more like

706
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 3: I took that ship completely off of my feed.

707
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: The only bad bitch I follow is Dralla. I'm so

708
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: dead well, I would say when.

709
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 3: I say that, the dam When I say bad bitch,

710
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 3: I mean like an Instagram model, Like you're like in

711
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 3: that Instagram model category. So when I say that, I

712
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 3: mean like you're the only quote unquote i G girl

713
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 3: that I follow.

714
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: I don't follow Instagram girls. I'm not an Instagram you

715
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: are an Instagram girl. Now, I'm not why because I

716
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: have three hundred thousand followers. You have to say why

717
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: because I have three hundred thousand? No, I didn't have

718
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: to say that. I'm just being real.

719
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 2: It's running like yes, but I was saying that to say,

720
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 2: is that why that inst You know, because I have

721
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 2: a lot of followers? That's so stupid that I didn't

722
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 2: make the room? Who made them?

723
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: If you know exactly that ain't no Instagram got a

724
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: fat ass and you got a lot of followers.

725
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 3: You an Instagram girl? Oh you're not the definition of

726
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 3: an Instagram girl marine a fat ass and a lot

727
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 3: of followers.

728
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, exactly, I don't feel like I feel

729
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 5: like but at the same time, it's about your content.

730
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: She too, Like that's why I said I'm not one.

731
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like this is like I just realized.

732
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: Don't play with her. She is not one of them all.

733
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 5: I don't know what her name is, but she's like

734
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 5: this fine ass girl who's a post office woman right

735
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 5: around delivering newspapers.

736
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: But she got a lot of followership.

737
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 3: Fine exactly, swinging that ass and swinging that man.

738
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 5: Hey, bro, hey, like we know why y'all are here.

739
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: We don't.

740
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 4: Give a fuck about the mill.

741
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: It ain't hours about this ship.

742
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 4: We know why y'all are here so crying. Hey man,

743
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 4: but shout out to her.

744
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I just hate that time

745
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: Instagram girl.

746
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 2: Yes, it's just like I don't know, and then I

747
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: know what I think of when I think of an

748
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 2: Instagram girl.

749
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: So I just be like, you know, that's not me. Okay.

750
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't saying it in a negative one, I know,

751
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 2: because you want to police she got one hundred K now, y'all?

752
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, the price done went up now.

753
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 3: So technically Lex is an Instagram girlg now hashtag swipe up?

754
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I don't know how we got off topic.

755
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 3: But speaking of let's go to this topic, then this

756
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 3: is your topic that you wanted.

757
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: To talk about. Uh so I'll let you introduce this one.

758
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I was speaking of being this Instagram girl

759
00:31:59,360 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: right right?

760
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 4: What a transition?

761
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 2: A transition I wanted to talk about, like, yeah, being

762
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 2: popular or being an Instagram girl influencer and pete trolls

763
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 2: ts just thinking that they could just say whatever to

764
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 2: you because you have a lot of followers or because

765
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 2: you're popular. I guess maybe they think you won't get

766
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 2: around so they come in so they think you're supposed

767
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: to be a buzz you want or you won't see

768
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: it or whatever.

769
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: No, I will get on your ass.

770
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 2: I don't care how famous I ever get. I'm just saying,

771
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: I mean, that's your celebrity right now. No, absolutely, I

772
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 2: think you are.

773
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 1: I think you're like a Z list then wezy list. No,

774
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: your Z list. I'm not even before poor mind. I'm like.

775
00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 4: Ask questions. He was, so, what's it life being a woman?

776
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: What he had at eating some chimps, y'all, yes, but it's.

777
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 5: Not like the chips wasn't so bad because at least

778
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 5: with the chimps, I was tasting them.

779
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 2: So I was kind of giving a review on the chips.

780
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 2: He had me reviewed that Rihanna Puma sneaker when he

781
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: came out to one with the little satin bow on it,

782
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 2: and I remember.

783
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: Bitch, I ain't ever wear them shoes. I ain't even

784
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: get to try to shoe on. They had to do a.

785
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: Review on it on how it looked, how it feels. Yeah,

786
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: that was an interesting interview. Shout out to DJ Small.

787
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: We had a great interview.

788
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 3: But anyways, but I feel like if I'm a Z

789
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: less celebrity then you want.

790
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm Z eleven. What's the difference after

791
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: the Z, After you do a small, a small interview,

792
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: you will be Z with you. Yeah, okay, okay, I

793
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: gotta get up there. I gotta get up there. We

794
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:02,959
Speaker 1: gotta get you a small I want to if you're

795
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: watching it, you love the Booty Chips. Even though you

796
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: trying to say he looked like Ray Charles, he likes.

797
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 6: Man, come on, fucks but video on our poor mind

798
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 6: stage right now.

799
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this booty?

800
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 2: It's when you was talking about their fucking bag. But anyways, Yeah,

801
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: I definitely don't think that I'm a celebrity. But I

802
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 2: do feel like, you know, our platform is growing, and

803
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, we're starting to get more followers,

804
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 2: get more people listening to the show and stuff like that,

805
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 2: and I feel like, you know ed y'all following growth

806
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 2: and you become more of a person and more people know.

807
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: People think that they could just say crazy shit to you,

808
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: and you're not gonna say nothing. Like I said, I

809
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 2: usually don't respond to negative comments.

810
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 1: I really don't.

811
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: I usually either delete them black people and just don't respond.

812
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 2: But occasionally I'm gonna get on your head because some

813
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,479
Speaker 2: of y'all just be saying some out of line shit.

814
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 3: I just don't know where people get off, Like, first

815
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 3: of all, we're here for entertainment. Don't be taking this

816
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 3: shit seriously. I say this every week and y'all just

817
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 3: be like you wouldn't say that a live because I

818
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 3: have to because I feel like a lot of times

819
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 3: like it's not my job to sit here and defend us.

820
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 3: But at the same time, I am gonna defend us

821
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 3: because I feel like damn like.

822
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all and y'all be going hard.

823
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 3: Like y'all be like these bird brain wig wearing bitches.

824
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,479
Speaker 2: Somebody said under the eighty five South show these lace

825
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: front wearing beaches. First of all, beach, I don't wear

826
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 2: lace free, but I do, and.

827
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: Y'all was wrong. But I say it was like them

828
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: wigs look terrible.

829
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 3: I said, now you just flying beach, just flat outline

830
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 3: because my ship was looking good on a eighty five.

831
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 3: So now I'm little rough today.

832
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: Now, eh.

833
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 2: I just what I was saying was that I'm playing

834
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: cause I have wear lace front before. But what I

835
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 2: was saying is, see how y'all was wrong in at

836
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 2: one coming because that was a U part weed.

837
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: I'm y'all don't even be accurate.

838
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 3: I mean either way, they just be like talking about

839
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 3: our wigs and how we have fake nails and fake lashes,

840
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 3: and it's like we acknowledge that we know what we

841
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,439
Speaker 3: put on, just like that way we were talking about

842
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 3: the Beijing, Like I said, we got fake tennis, fake ass,

843
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: everything fake.

844
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: Who can I saw a comment.

845
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 2: Under our YouTube yesterday that said I could tell y'all

846
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 2: come from a broken home.

847
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,240
Speaker 1: Come from broken home.

848
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 2: I was like, Damn, that's crazy because my parents was

849
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 2: literally married my whole life, and I grew up in

850
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: the two parent household.

851
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. I feel it's like y'all

852
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 1: just be so weird.

853
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 3: But one thing for me that I noticed, especially after

854
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 3: we did this show, was we receive a lot more

855
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 3: love than hate.

856
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: Oh for sure.

857
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 3: So and I don't get me wrong, sometimes I do

858
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 3: be wanting to react, but it's like it's hard to

859
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 3: react when I have literally three thousand comments being like,

860
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: oh you did you fire, y'all, funny y'all, y'all this,

861
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 3: and then there's one comment like these bitches is whack. Okay, cool,

862
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 3: but you know it's hard. Honestly, it's hard to hear

863
00:36:58,800 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: the hate with all the love.

864
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 5: Seriously, Yeah, I said all the time, bro, somebody in

865
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 5: the world thought Michael Jackson music was trash.

866
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 4: Somebody thinks it.

867
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:07,479
Speaker 1: Right, it's not.

868
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 3: Somebody like not everybody is like, We're not gonna be

869
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 3: liked by everybody. We're not here for everybody. We're just

870
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 3: here to, you know, fuck with the people that fuck

871
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 3: with us. But I do feel like, you know, if

872
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: you in people comments. But a lot of times I

873
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 3: noticed too, somebody will say something negative and I'll respond

874
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 3: They was like, oh ship, I didn't mean it.

875
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to get to say something.

876
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that too, definitely happens all the time, you

877
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

878
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: You'll response to something. They'd be like, oh, I just

879
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: wanted to response. You find this FuG or girl.

880
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 3: Some girls will be hating and then they don't realize

881
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 3: that the girls fuck with us and they was they

882
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 3: be getting on people ass too. It's just like, if

883
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 3: you don't have nothing positive to say, just keep it pushing, y'all.

884
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, please, it's just not becoming. You know, it's not

885
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 2: becoming I'm becoming at all.

886
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm sure your mothers didn't raise.

887
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 3: You like that, So and that were weird, Like y'all

888
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 3: be in shade room comments going in on people like

889
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 3: that is so mean and ruine.

890
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 2: But I wonder do people like that everythink that that's

891
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 2: like weird? First of all, be in the comments going

892
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 2: so hard on people that don't even know you existed.

893
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 3: And not only that, let me tell y'all something. Y'all

894
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 3: be asking us how to catch a BDB. If a

895
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 3: bdbc's you in them comments, they're gonna be like, she

896
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 3: a lamee.

897
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, a BDB not gonna see them

898
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 2: because they're not gonna be in the comments.

899
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: No, but sometimes niggas be reading the comments section.

900
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 3: Let's not lie here, like if it's a post about

901
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 3: them or something or somebody that they know, let's be

902
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 3: let's be one hundred people do be reading the shade

903
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 3: room comments.

904
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,240
Speaker 1: That's what it is. We all read shape room comments.

905
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 3: But it's like, if a niggas see you in the

906
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 3: comments arguing with somebody, you you a dug like, so

907
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 3: y'all be like, oh, how y'all get a BDB? Well,

908
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 3: let me tell you what to do to not get one.

909
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 3: It's being fucking blog comments trying to be a comedian.

910
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 3: That shit is so fucking lame, Like extremely don't trying

911
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 3: to be comedians.

912
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: They just be attacking people, just being nasty and roots,

913
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 1: so nasty and rude. Okay, shame. So yeah, So let

914
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: us know.

915
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 3: If you're a troll out there that likes to mess

916
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 3: with celebrities, do you think do you really think.

917
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: They got a message us? They might. We ain't got

918
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: some crazy messages these past couple of weeks.

919
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 3: Now you're probably right. If you a troll messages, maybe

920
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 3: we can have you on the show.

921
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: I would to have a troll on the show too.

922
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: I would love like a troll, a known one. Are

923
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 2: there any known troll?

924
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: Yeah?

925
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 3: Sometimes people like they go viral a lot, like on

926
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 3: Twitter for just trolling people and just being a dumb

927
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: at like six nine. Well, even if we were big

928
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 3: enough to have him on the show, I would never

929
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 3: wouldn't on.

930
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 4: The show neither.

931
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,839
Speaker 2: I was just asking, like somebody like that, Yeah, like somebody, yeah,

932
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 2: not like that because he's a celebrity.

933
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:03,320
Speaker 1: No he's not because he's a celebrity.

934
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 3: I mean, like somebody who's like an actual They're just

935
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 3: known for like trolling and saying stupid ship Like I

936
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: follow this girl, I'm not gonna lie. It do be

937
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 3: kind of funny. Sometimes let you follow her. I'm not

938
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 3: gonna lie. The ship do be funny. And all she

939
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 3: does is and people be mad as fuck at her.

940
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 3: But she'd be saying a lot of problematic shit. But

941
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 3: sometimes that ship do be funny.

942
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: But why do they be mad? She be going in bruh,

943
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: She'd be like, broke you.

944
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 3: She said something one day like, if you want to eat,

945
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 3: you order a lemon with your water, you broke because

946
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 3: you're trying to make lemonade.

947
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 1: And everybody everybody went in on her. That was like, what,

948
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

949
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: Why would people get That's the type of stuff that

950
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 3: is crazy to me because I literally only get mad

951
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 3: at she.

952
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: On the internet.

953
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 3: Wait, one time she said, if I'm on a date

954
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: with a nigga he pays with her credit card, you broke.

955
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: Where's your cash?

956
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 4: I heard like that.

957
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 2: No, that's not what she said at first. At first

958
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 2: she said that the girl said, if you go out

959
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 2: to eat and you order a lemon with your water,

960
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 2: you broke because you're trying to make lemonade.

961
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:11,760
Speaker 4: Don't want to drink juice and soda.

962
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 2: I like lemons in my water because it actually makes

963
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 2: a regular water alkaline.

964
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 4: Oh brother, I believe.

965
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 2: I believe you alkaline puts it, so I'm just saying

966
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 2: it does. So it's like, you know, it's a health benefit.

967
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 2: But I don't never really understand why people get so

968
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 2: mad about stuff like that on the internet. Like I

969
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 2: literally never get mad at nothing on the internet unless

970
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 2: it's about me, say something about me or one of

971
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 2: my friends. That's the only way I get upset about

972
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 2: things stuff like that. I could never get mad and

973
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: be arguing with somebody on the internet all the time.

974
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: And it's so funny because they be they be mad

975
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 1: as fun. That's wild. That's what I'm saying. She's a super.

976
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 4: Paying for your food, yeah, but the own food.

977
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: She didn't, That's what she said.

978
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 3: She was like, if we're on a day, day, if

979
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 3: we're on a day and you pay with a credit card,

980
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 3: you broke wear your cash.

981
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: That's that's wild.

982
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 4: That's wild, that's wild.

983
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 1: That was going hard. We just want some sky miles.

984
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:13,879
Speaker 1: I said, that should be fun.

985
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 3: She's like, that is funny because she's not attacking you know,

986
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 3: specific person.

987
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, I would love to have a troll on this.

988
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 1: You need to charge. No, I wouldn't have her on

989
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 1: the show because we just talked about her.

990
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 3: No.

991
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: I mean no, not bad. I don't mean no. I

992
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: just wouldn't have her on the show.

993
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 4: She don't mean that.

994
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: There's no way we do need to have a troll

995
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: on credit score.

996
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:44,280
Speaker 3: Okay, so let's get into by hey, so going along,

997
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 3: speaking of not using condoms, I wanted to talk about

998
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:49,240
Speaker 3: men nutting.

999
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: In you dun dumb? Never did? You've never nutted in

1000
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: a girl? Everyone? Really? Wow? Why not?

1001
00:42:58,880 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 4: I ain't stupid?

1002
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 1: Wow?

1003
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 4: But what you mean you ain't stupidy'd that?

1004
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 1: Bro? I agree? That's why I don't really like it myself.

1005
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let you talk.

1006
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 3: First for the new listeners because you talked about this

1007
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,280
Speaker 3: before about men's nutting and how can.

1008
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 1: It how it can throw your pH balance off?

1009
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, so what can we do to get

1010
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 3: our pH balance balanced?

1011
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 1: Well? I was gonna do an episode on our Patreon

1012
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: about that.

1013
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, So so, but number one, which you

1014
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 2: can start with, is not letting these niggas nutting you.

1015
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: But sometimes I need that nut.

1016
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 2: If y'all not exclusive, I need it sometimes. If you're

1017
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,439
Speaker 2: it's different if you're in a relationship with a guy.

1018
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, y'all being exclusive with one another,

1019
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 2: that's fine because your pH shouldn't get thrown off because

1020
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 2: he's not having sex with other people with majority of

1021
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 2: the time, these niggas are so yeah, I feel like,

1022
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 2: don't be let niggas nutting you because he throws your

1023
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 2: pH off unless I mean you just like that, cause

1024
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,280
Speaker 2: some girls really just like it. I personally don't really

1025
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 2: like it. Number one and E through your PHR.

1026
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 3: Well, I wanted to talk about the side of taking

1027
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 3: a Plan B. I don't take birth control because I

1028
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 3: have really it's me like bad side effects. You remember

1029
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 3: when I first moved out here and I was still

1030
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 3: on my birth control and I had like I just

1031
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 3: started having issues.

1032
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: Do you remember that? So I had to take.

1033
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 3: A Plan B recently and my period was just like

1034
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: so fucking weird. Like, first of all Plan b's it's

1035
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 3: the it's less likely to work the bigger you are,

1036
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 3: So the taller, like heavy set you are, the less

1037
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 3: likely it is to work.

1038
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: So for my.

1039
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 3: Stallions, out there. You gotta be fucking careful. And then

1040
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 3: that plan b it just throws everything off. Like, I

1041
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 3: was sick as fuck. I had really bad cramps. My

1042
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 3: period was super heavy.

1043
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 1: Sorry Marin, the first time I've heard this before. Yeah,

1044
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: it was.

1045
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 2: Just so bad. Bro, Now is your cycle? I mean,

1046
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 2: like at a different time.

1047
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I'm sorry, I actually just got off

1048
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 3: my cycle, okay, and it came. It came two weeks early.

1049
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 3: Like I just got off my period and it came again.

1050
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 3: And now I'm like worried that it's gonna come again

1051
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 3: regular time. So I just feel like, was it worth it?

1052
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 8: Youak, what was the point of even talking about this ship?

1053
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: It's like being in jail.

1054
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, we brought a lot of the bank, but it.

1055
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: Was worth it.

1056
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 3: But it was worth honestly, know, I'm really serious. Wasn't

1057
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 3: worth it? Like, no, it wasn't think about it. I

1058
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 3: mean it was fun in the moment, don't get me wrong.

1059
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 1: Like it was like.

1060
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 3: And we bonded and I looked into his eyes and

1061
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 3: we made the week the week love.

1062
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: But after that, going through all that, I just felt

1063
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: sick as fuck. I was scared.

1064
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, what if the Plan

1065
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 3: B doesn't work. So I was just like, my house

1066
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 3: don't be working, don't working?

1067
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: Real?

1068
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, yes, that's.

1069
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 2: Whole thread on Twitter, like with women talking about how

1070
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 2: they took a Plan B and then posting a picture

1071
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 2: of their baby.

1072
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: Well mine's up in heaven. But well, I mean, I'm yeah, us,

1073
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: it didn't work for me.

1074
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 4: I'm just f honest.

1075
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 3: It hasn't worked for me in the past. They all

1076
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 3: there together, they haven't.

1077
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: Also, you had you you took a Plan B before.

1078
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: It didn't work. No, that shit did not work.

1079
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 4: Oh damn you immediately.

1080
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: Huh. Yeah, the sooner you take it, the better. But

1081
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: you have seventy two hours.

1082
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 3: You have seventy two hours. So I took it the

1083
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 3: next day and that shit did not work. I've only

1084
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 3: had to take a Plan B twice. I assume it worked.

1085
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: I need I need a Plan B. Y'all need to

1086
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: holler at me.

1087
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 3: I need like a bag of them, like skittles, so

1088
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 3: I can just be popping.

1089
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: Maybe they can, maybe we can do anything we can

1090
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 1: get to endorse me.

1091
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 4: We needed a lawsuit the fact that didn't work.

1092
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 3: I mean, but it's in the warnings though, Like it's

1093
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 3: just like birth control.

1094
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 1: It's like, no contraceptive is one hundreds.

1095
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, it says it it's like ninety nine percent or

1096
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,919
Speaker 3: something like that. And then they've had studies that show

1097
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 3: like the more you weigh and the bigger you are,

1098
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 3: it's less likely to worry. But yeah, so I was

1099
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 3: just you know how when you like google stuff too,

1100
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 3: Like I was googling symptoms. I was like what color

1101
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 3: is my blood? And this and that and like cause.

1102
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: It was just like weird.

1103
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 3: Like my period was just weird and it was just

1104
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 3: not yes because you know, like.

1105
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to get too deep. Yeah, yeah, it

1106
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:47,439
Speaker 1: was just.

1107
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 3: Not a normal period. I mean, it ended up being

1108
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 3: a normal period. But in the beginning, I was like, oh.

1109
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: My god, there's a baby in there, and I was

1110
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 1: just freaking out, and I was like, oh my god,

1111
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:58,919
Speaker 1: it was just a lot.

1112
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 3: That's why I said, I've never you never know how

1113
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 3: your body is gonna react to things, Like I haven't

1114
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 3: taken a plan be in years, in years, and last

1115
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 3: time I took one, nothing happened.

1116
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: It just didn't work.

1117
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 3: And this time, I guess, you know, because I'm older,

1118
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 3: my body is going through changes. It's just like fuck

1119
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 3: that shit. So so what do you suggest. I'm honest,

1120
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 3: people like to get nutted. Yet for me, I'm going

1121
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 3: to Uh. I actually made a doctor's appointment because I

1122
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 3: need to find another form of birth control. That's something

1123
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 3: that's not going to affect me because I really have

1124
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 3: My body is super sensitive. I have a very sensitive vagina.

1125
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 3: It's very fat and sensitive. It's big, it's a monster.

1126
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 3: She's moody, sometimes she's happy, sometimes she's sad, has a

1127
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 3: lot going on. My vagina is very I have a

1128
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 3: very sensitive vagina. That's why I don't.

1129
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 2: But that's going back to like the beginning of the conversation,

1130
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: why I.

1131
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 3: Don't like to let's try to make a baby. I know,

1132
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 3: I don't know what we were on. It was just

1133
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: like we were we were fighting and we had made up,

1134
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 3: and I mean he told me he was gonna do

1135
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 3: it before we even started having sex.

1136
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 1: But so I was just there's.

1137
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with it if you like that, because I mean,

1138
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 2: some people just like it. They you know, they feel

1139
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 2: like it feels really good.

1140
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: I feel like it. I mean, you know, I mean

1141
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: you could definitely feel it.

1142
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 3: But I have never really been giving a nigga head.

1143
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 3: He nutted in your mouth and you kind of like

1144
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 3: coughing and came out your nose.

1145
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: One time a nigga did that's me and I spit

1146
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: on him. It came out your nose. No, oh, he.

1147
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 2: Nutted in my mouth and I didn't want him to.

1148
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 2: And I spin on his ass. You spin the nut

1149
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 2: on him, yes, because he.

1150
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: Had me fucked up because I told his ass, no, nigga.

1151
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: So you don't swallow, Yeah, I do. I just didn't

1152
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 2: want to swallow his knugs.

1153
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: Why it tastes like nasty.

1154
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 2: I mean, we have just started talking, so we wasn't

1155
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 2: on that level yet. I feel like for me to

1156
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 2: be just swallowing your nug you know what I mean,

1157
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 2: I am really freaky, but it's certain things.

1158
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: I feel like we gotta get to that point.

1159
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna just swallow your nug on the first day.

1160
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, that's facts, it is.

1161
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 3: But it's still like, but that ship going down my throat,

1162
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 3: that's a whole other.

1163
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 2: Level, you know what I mean. Throat babies, that's a

1164
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:11,280
Speaker 2: whole nother level.

1165
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: Baby. So yeah, but I spent that ship on his

1166
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: ass because he had me.

1167
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's really aggressive. That's disrespectful?

1168
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: Is it? It was disrespectful for him to nut in

1169
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: my mouth when I told him not to.

1170
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 3: Okay, oh yeah, so that's why I wanted to talk

1171
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 3: about today. I wanted to talk about the dangers of

1172
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 3: Plan B.

1173
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 2: So you're gonna So you're thinking about getting back on

1174
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 2: birth control?

1175
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, Because I don't know. I gotta.

1176
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 3: I need to have a talk with him and are

1177
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 3: we gonna continue having sex without using connu like because

1178
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 3: we've already had this conversation before. But I think we

1179
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: need to revisit the conversation because I don't need you

1180
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:52,280
Speaker 3: busting uts all willing.

1181
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 1: Elly and me a little lecks p coming soon.

1182
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 3: Please, I told you where they're going, straight to see

1183
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 3: his brother. No, ma'am, I got shipped to do. We

1184
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 3: have not got time for no poor baby, No ma'am.

1185
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 3: So yes, I not everybody has bad reactions to blabe.

1186
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 3: I was just letting y'all know my personal experience. Y'all

1187
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 3: know we keep it real and wrong on here. So

1188
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 3: I just wanted to all to no, be careful when

1189
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 3: you letting these niggas nut in you, and not everybody

1190
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 3: p h G get thrown off either. Didn't get thrown off,

1191
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 3: you know, with all this that didn't. But yeah, I

1192
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 3: definitely had a weird, bad reaction to the plan b right,

1193
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 3: no no more, no more playing be So we're gonna

1194
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 3: get to the Bob A the Bob A.

1195
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: I actually have a throwback Bob today, do you so?

1196
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 3: I was listening to old Kanye and I really got

1197
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 3: in my feelings. Bro, Kanye used to just be a

1198
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 3: musical genius. He did, and it's so sad how he's

1199
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 3: gonna be remembered. He's not gonna be remembered for none

1200
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 3: of those fire ass albums that he gave us. He's

1201
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 3: gonna be, you remembered for his antics with the Kardashian family,

1202
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 3: and that really fucking sucks, and I hate.

1203
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: Them feel I feel like people will still remember.

1204
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 3: I mean, you have to realize, like you're fucking telling

1205
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,800
Speaker 3: people it's a serious election this year, and you're fucking

1206
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 3: encouraging these people. You got eighteen year olds who love

1207
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 3: you and still follow you, all these little white kids,

1208
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 3: and you're telling them to write your name in on

1209
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 3: the ballot when these are votes that could go towards

1210
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 3: getting Trump out of office. That shit is fucking lame

1211
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 3: and it's whack and you're not you know, you're not

1212
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 3: gonna win. Why are you doing this when you could

1213
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 3: just be campaigning for the right shit right and pushing

1214
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: is just it's very important just to give people real

1215
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 3: political knowledge. I'm not into politics that much, but I

1216
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 3: know and I follow the things I need to know

1217
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 3: and follow. So the fact that he's pushing this agenda

1218
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 3: right now for shits and giggles and attention is just

1219
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 3: not and it's not funny, Like people are laughing, like

1220
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 3: this shit is not funny.

1221
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: This shit is very serious.

1222
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 2: It's not funny, especially for like you say, you know,

1223
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 2: young impressionable.

1224
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 3: People, voters dying literally there's a lot of people dying

1225
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 3: from in these protests and so much shit going on.

1226
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,720
Speaker 3: America has been a racist country, but now they really

1227
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 3: feel comfortable coming back. They feel comfortable coming out and

1228
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 3: showing their heads right right, Like for a while, sh

1229
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 3: it was like, okay, you have to yeah, so you know,

1230
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 3: they're not being quiet and silent anymore. So it's like

1231
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 3: the fact that he's just coming in and doing it's

1232
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 3: just really lame to me. So anyways, I don't I

1233
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 3: want to talk about that. So Yeah, my my bop

1234
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 3: of the week is a throwback from Kanye. I was

1235
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 3: listening to Blame Game yesterday and it was just that

1236
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 3: was just such a good album.

1237
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: It was a good album.

1238
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 3: And it was I was just thinking about when he

1239
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 3: was fucking with Amber Rolls and she just brought a

1240
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 3: different side out of him musically because he was in

1241
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 3: his fucking bag.

1242
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 2: He was in his way Amber, Yes, he was when

1243
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 2: Amber when up my Dark Twisted Fantasy came out, right,

1244
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 2: that's when they broke up.

1245
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,240
Speaker 4: That was a that was the ending of that relationship.

1246
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 4: Is what inspired.

1247
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: Okay, he made good music when they broke up.

1248
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, That's what I'm saying, Like, it was just a

1249
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 2: lot of but no, that's my favorite. And then what

1250
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,800
Speaker 2: what was the song Devil in a Red Dress?

1251
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1252
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 3: The Blame Game is on Dark Twisted Fantasy, right, Yeah,

1253
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 3: So yeah, the album was just I was just listening

1254
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 3: to that. I was like, Wow, this is a fucking masterpiece.

1255
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: It is.

1256
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 3: It was really fucking good, and it was just about

1257
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 3: I'm just like, damn, he's just really not making music.

1258
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,720
Speaker 3: Even I was listening to A eight and Heartbreaks. People

1259
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 3: say that that's their least favorite A.

1260
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:37,240
Speaker 4: Heartbreaks like fire.

1261
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: That's when he looked. That's when he hooked up with

1262
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: Travis Scott. Before Travis Scott was Travis Scott.

1263
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, well that was hood up with Travis Scott.

1264
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 4: Well, I don't want I don't want to make you

1265
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 4: look lame.

1266
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 5: Wait what what because you know how like like the

1267
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 5: lame mass people gonna come like, no, you're wrong. I

1268
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 5: don't want to say it because I don't want the

1269
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 5: people to I don't want the trolls to come at you.

1270
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 1: I'm dead.

1271
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 3: Well no, I'm just saying during this time, he had

1272
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 3: moved to l A and he was like kind of

1273
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:02,879
Speaker 3: working with him.

1274
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: Now he's not in the credits and ship like that,

1275
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: but it was Jesus, Oh no, no, no, no, I'm talking.

1276
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 3: About when Travis Scott like he wasn't uh nobody then

1277
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to say nobody.

1278
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: But this was two thousand and eight.

1279
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 3: He was living in Houston, but he moved to l

1280
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 3: A with one of my close friends, you know what's Ashton.

1281
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: So they were in l A. But like he got

1282
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 1: that kind of sound from Travis because that's when that sound.

1283
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 3: But he's not credited to this stuff, but that's when

1284
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 3: they he started hanging out around them.

1285
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 1: That's what I was just saying.

1286
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 3: But I mean, that's where he got that sound from,

1287
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 3: when he started doing that auto tune sound.

1288
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: You say, what, oh, you're talking about Gotti. But they were.

1289
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:50,720
Speaker 6: But they were together though, they definitely were all together.

1290
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 1: They were I'm not your gott he bit.

1291
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 3: But either way, it goes and Heartbreaks is a fire album.

1292
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 3: People always say that that's the first Kanye album, and

1293
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 3: I thought it was. I don't I thought it was

1294
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 3: at album he was singing his little heart out.

1295
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just wasn't feeling O eight in Heartbreak, but

1296
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 2: Devil in a new dress graduation?

1297
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:17,240
Speaker 1: What's his other album? I forget, I don't know. College

1298
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: drop out boss.

1299
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 3: After shout out to the old Kanye like he had

1300
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 3: on the Life of Apollo, that song the old Kanye,

1301
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 3: Remember that song? He was like, y'all missed the old Yeah,

1302
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 3: and even.

1303
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: The Pablo album. I like that album. It was a

1304
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 1: good album.

1305
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. I was listening to all his old ship the

1306
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 3: other day, right, shout out to the old Kanye.

1307
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1308
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 2: So Niggah Trey song came out with a new album.

1309
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:48,879
Speaker 2: That album too, came out with a new album. Called

1310
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 2: back Home. I used to be a Trey Songs stand.

1311
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 2: I mean he got a few little but you like

1312
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 2: to give Trey Songs some pussy?

1313
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 1: Absolutely nice?

1314
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 2: And you need to stop asking me that on camera.

1315
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, way to put me on the spot.

1316
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 1: I was just wondering if you would like to give

1317
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: him some absolutely not. Would you like to give him some?

1318
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: You know that's how he busted nut.

1319
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 2: I should be scared this fuz what you saying that

1320
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 2: Talmas hit the ghost ty song. You don't know, you

1321
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 2: never know, so anyway, So yeah, I used to be

1322
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 2: like a try song stand back in college and sheets

1323
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 2: so like in his last few albums were cool.

1324
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, he got a new album out. All right,

1325
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: what about you? Maria?

1326
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 4: What MoU? But I will just give you honorable mentions.

1327
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 5: I don't know if like we talked about Larry June

1328
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 5: on the show before you know, chill motivational music, Larry Jim,

1329
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 5: keep going. But there's a new female artist on the

1330
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 5: come up and we'll put you all on game. Her

1331
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 5: name is Destiny Lynn to the track call Tied to

1332
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 5: That and she Hard. She's a singer or rapper with both,

1333
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 5: but mostly rapper. She Hard and shout out to the women.

1334
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 5: It's like the women are not her work at hard.

1335
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: I'm telling you the girl's not playing in twenty twenty period.

1336
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 4: Now, shout out to Destiny Lynn her song tied and not.

1337
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 4: That is my Bob of the week.

1338
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so now we're gonna get into the

1339
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 3: question segment of the show. Y'all, please please please if

1340
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 3: you want your question answered on the show, email us

1341
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 3: at Askpoor Minds at gmail dot com. Don't send us dms.

1342
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 3: Don't send it to our business email. They will not

1343
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 3: get answered. Y'all doing such a great job. Thank y'all

1344
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 3: for all the questions. We're gonna get through all these,

1345
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 3: so yeah, email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail

1346
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 3: dot com. Please try to keep it at a paragraph

1347
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 3: so we can get them read. So I'll start with

1348
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 3: the first one, so this says. Okay, So my question is,

1349
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 3: have y'all ever slid into a guy's dms on Instagram?

1350
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 3: It's this fine ass nigga on the Gram, y'all. He's

1351
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 3: six six, dark skin, got a beard and waves, and

1352
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 3: he plays basketball. I would look the sweat off this

1353
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 3: nigga balls just because of how fine he is. I'm

1354
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 3: ready to make my move, bitch. I'm tired of waiting.

1355
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 3: But what do I say? Do I like some pictures?

1356
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: Help me? I need this nigga in my guts pronto,

1357
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: right after we get married. Of course, how are you twenty?

1358
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 4: How are you?

1359
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 2: Cause first of all, you don't need to be leaking

1360
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 2: the sweat off nobody balls just today fine number.

1361
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 1: One, Well, now.

1362
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 3: We ain't doing I will say I don't like sliding

1363
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 3: guy's dms because guys like to be chased in my opinion.

1364
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 3: I mean they guys like to do the chasing in

1365
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 3: my opinion. So I just always like a few pictures.

1366
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 3: I'll maybe comment on some pictures, like if we have

1367
00:59:55,920 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 3: that type of rapport, respond to his stories sometimes with

1368
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 3: a laughing emoji or something like that if you post

1369
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 3: something funny. But as far as like really just sliding

1370
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 3: guy's inam like, oh on some hay, what's up?

1371
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: Shit?

1372
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 3: That's not in my ministry. I think that comes off

1373
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 3: a little thirsty, especially to a nigga. That's fine because

1374
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 3: you gotta realize it's probably a lot of girls sliding

1375
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 3: his dms and he probably don't like that shit.

1376
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 1: I've noticed one thing about like super fine niggas.

1377
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 3: They get hit on a lot, so it feels good

1378
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 3: when they actually get to do the chasing, right, So

1379
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I don't like sliding guy's dms. That's just

1380
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 3: me personally. Some girls are very forward and they like

1381
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 3: doing that.

1382
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 2: I like being chased personally, I mean, and that works

1383
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 2: for some women, it does, But I'm kind of like

1384
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 2: licks to you know, I don't really like to slide

1385
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 2: in guys dms or anything. I just definitely agree she

1386
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 2: should do something to catch his try to catch his attention,

1387
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, and then if he gonna

1388
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 2: see and if he interested, he gonna slide in your

1389
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 2: DMS or whatever, try to talk to you. So yeah,

1390
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 2: I definitely think that that's the route that you should

1391
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 2: go with that. I don't slide in niggas DM And

1392
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 2: when you do get his number, you know, if you

1393
01:00:58,240 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 2: do get his number.

1394
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: Don't bring up nothing but marriage. Yes, okay, all right,

1395
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: next question kudos.

1396
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 2: Hey ladies, I don't have any other contact info for

1397
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 2: the show, and this isn't a question, but if you decided,

1398
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 2: if you decide to read it on the show, just

1399
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 2: call me P. I'm a new loyal seasoned listener. I

1400
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 2: turned forty on whack Ass Valentine's Day. I first heard

1401
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 2: you on Horrible Decisions. Started binge listening when Rona shut

1402
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 2: the world down and I'm hooked. I see so much

1403
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 2: of myself and licks because I played way too much

1404
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 2: and have that cheating bug.

1405
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: Although excuse me, oh my lady, although I rarely do.

1406
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: Of shout out to Drea though, because of her, I

1407
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: now stare my boyfriend. I now stare my little boyfriend

1408
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 2: in his eyes while we're having six because I want

1409
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 2: his whole soul. Were you supposed to try to snatch

1410
01:01:56,320 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 2: your nigga's souls? Act like niggas gonna be like Yeah,

1411
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 2: ain't nobody about to be like it's supposed to be

1412
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 2: like a sixty.

1413
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: He's twenty nine.

1414
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 2: By the way, Hey, I just wanted to tell you,

1415
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 2: ladies to keep up the awesome work. Keep being beautiful

1416
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 2: at making women like me laugh at work while making

1417
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 2: money for the white men. My favorite cullitable was when

1418
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 2: Drea said, if the dick being in them jaws, he

1419
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 2: ain't getting.

1420
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:28,959
Speaker 1: In my drawers. Love you ladies out, This wasn't too long.

1421
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 1: I don't want no smoke. Oh thank you.

1422
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 5: Great way to compliment after y'all talked about the trolls

1423
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 5: look bright?

1424
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: God man.

1425
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 3: All right, let's move on to the next one. We're

1426
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 3: gonna read another one today. Since that wasn't questioning love

1427
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 3: being real, I'd rather be real. Fine, Hey, ladies, I'm

1428
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 3: twenty six years old with two kids, they're eight and three.

1429
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: Now.

1430
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 3: I live in Maryland, so there aren't any bdb's running around,

1431
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 3: but I still want to look snatched in target.

1432
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: I developed pee? What's that? What's pupps? Pups? What is that?

1433
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 3: I've developed pups with my last pregnancy, and it caused me.

1434
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what that is.

1435
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm ignorant with my.

1436
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 3: Last pregnancy and it caused me to scratch my belly,

1437
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 3: giving me stretch marks on the lower part of my stomach.

1438
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 1: So maybe it's like a skin condition or something.

1439
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 3: He was a big baby, eight pounds and nine ounces,

1440
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 3: so my stomach didn't go back down. And I've gained

1441
01:03:21,120 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 3: about thirty pounds since then, so I have a belly

1442
01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 3: and some rolls. I have small booths and dumb wide

1443
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 3: hips with thick thighs.

1444
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,479
Speaker 1: They may not look like much, but I'm.

1445
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 3: Aside thirteen fat and fashion nova jeans are uncomfortable on me.

1446
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:35,919
Speaker 3: I'm at the point in my life after three years

1447
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 3: in a toxic situation that I want to take back

1448
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 3: my life and live it up. I'm debating on getting

1449
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 3: LiPo and having a fat transfer to the top part

1450
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 3: of my butt. Thing is I would need a tummy

1451
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 3: tuck and that scar is od. My question is what

1452
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 3: are the pros and cons of having surgery?

1453
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 1: What have been would be.

1454
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 3: Some deciding factors in making the choice to not have

1455
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 3: a procedure done or not. Is that scar from hip

1456
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 3: to hip going to be worth living the of my life?

1457
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 3: Or do our rock out with my roles and continue

1458
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 3: avoiding full body pictures.

1459
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: Thank you ladies for your time. I think that's really

1460
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: that's really up to you.

1461
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 3: Personally, me, I got scars all over my body from

1462
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 3: surgery and I don't give a damn.

1463
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 1: I don't mind it. To me, a scar is a scar.

1464
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 3: You get scars doing falling down like from when you

1465
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 3: were a kid.

1466
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: A scar is a scar.

1467
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 3: And to me, honestly now, the way they're doing tummy

1468
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 3: touch scars, they're so low and if you find a

1469
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 3: doctor that does it really good that can make them.

1470
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: Damn, they're like invisible.

1471
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 2: And I know a lot of women who have tummy

1472
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 2: tugs and they got tattoos over them.

1473
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: So I mean, that's a whole another option that you

1474
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 1: could explore too.

1475
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 2: After you get your surgery, you could definitely get like

1476
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 2: a cute little tattoo to cover the scar, if there's

1477
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 2: something that you would be self conscious about, right what

1478
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 2: I mean.

1479
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 3: But it's a lot of pros and cons of plastic surgery,

1480
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 3: you know, but it has to be something that you

1481
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 3: want to do. We get tons of questions about plastic surgery.

1482
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 3: People be asking me my doctor and this and that information.

1483
01:04:56,920 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 3: And I don't mind sharing that information, but never let

1484
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 3: let somebody else be the deciding fact that you want surgery.

1485
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 3: You need to do your own research. And I decided

1486
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 3: I wanted a surgery. I didn't ask anybody what they thought,

1487
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 3: what they I did it for me. I came to

1488
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 3: the conclusion that I wanted to do that for myself.

1489
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 3: So yeah, there's a lot of pros and cons. The

1490
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 3: healing process is a bit is a bitch, it's long,

1491
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 3: it's a lot of money, The aftercare is a lot

1492
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 3: of money. Just you're thinking Okay, I pay six thousand dollars,

1493
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 3: got my surgery, I'm good. No, you're gonna spend about

1494
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 3: another three bands on the aftercare. So it's just a

1495
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 3: lot of stuff that goes into it that you have

1496
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:32,680
Speaker 3: to do your research on. So I'm not gonna tell

1497
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 3: you to do it and not to do it. I'll

1498
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 3: just say do your research and make that decision, you know,

1499
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 3: on your own.

1500
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, you know what I mean. And like

1501
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 2: with scaring, you know a girl, Yeah you are cute,

1502
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 2: but no, what was I saying about scarring or whatever? Like,

1503
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: you have so many options that you can explore with

1504
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:50,960
Speaker 2: scars as well to I wouldn't let that be something

1505
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 2: to stop me from getting surgery if I really really

1506
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 2: wanted to.

1507
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 1: Like when I got my brisk done, I.

1508
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 2: Used mederma a lot on my school on my scars

1509
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 2: and now you can barely see them, you know what

1510
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 2: I mean.

1511
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,440
Speaker 1: So, yeah, girl, you got options.

1512
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 2: But if it's something that's gonna make you feel better

1513
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 2: about yourself, I feel like you should definitely do it. Yeah,

1514
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 2: And I got a breast reduction like three two years ago,

1515
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,439
Speaker 2: two three years ago, and I have like the anchor scar.

1516
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 2: Whenever you get it. So it's like a scar that

1517
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 2: goes from.

1518
01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 3: My nipple all the way down and like underneath, girl,

1519
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 3: I'll be giving a fuck. I still be in my bikinis,

1520
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 3: So always a scar, right, That's just how I am.

1521
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 3: It's just like it's a body you scar up. Things happen,

1522
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 3: like I had to get a breast reduction because my

1523
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 3: boobs are still big. But Drea knows how big my

1524
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 3: boobs were before. Like it was I couldn't do nothing.

1525
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 3: I was literally like I couldn't wear nothing. It was uncomfortable.

1526
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 3: So it's like I did that shit for myself, right,

1527
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 3: I'm saying, So yeah.

1528
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 1: Girl, do what you do, what you gotta do. What

1529
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: is a long one? It is okay?

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Speaker 2: Friends more or less, Hey, ladies, I need some advice.

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01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 2: Me and this dude initially got involved because he made

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01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 2: a tweet talking about he hurt and he needed someone

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01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 2: to talk to.

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Speaker 1: Me.

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01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 2: Being the big cardy person, I am DMed him and

1536
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 2: told him I'm there for him if he needs to talk.

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01:06:57,880 --> 01:07:00,120
Speaker 2: We weren't strangers or anything, so it wasn't weird for

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01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 2: me to offer. From there, we started hanging out, smoking

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01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 2: and venting to each other's strictly friends. I go out

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01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 2: of town and get all cute, and he started saying

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01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 2: perfect and beautiful to my pictures. I see him saying

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01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 2: all these cute stuff. When I come back to town,

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01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 2: he tells me to come over because he wants to

1544
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 2: lay up and I'm down, so I go over there.

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01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:20,400
Speaker 2: We started doing that for a while and chilling on

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01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 2: campus and stuff during the day. One night I stayed

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01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 2: the night with him and we ended up fucking by

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01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 2: the way best six of my life. Our dynamic didn't

1549
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 2: change from that. We were still friends, nothing more or less.

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01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,000
Speaker 2: Over time, it becomes harder to get to text our

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01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 2: conversation from him, but when we link, it's the.

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01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: Same good vibes.

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01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 2: Our birthdays are back to back one day apart, so

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01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 2: we got really drunk and had the nastiest six of

1555
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 2: my life. We bought each other gifts and it was

1556
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 2: real cute. The text combos became dry and the frequency declined,

1557
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 2: was still good vibes when we linked on some chill stuff.

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01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 2: My question is am I a goofy to still try

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01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 2: to text him, hang out with him and stuff? Am

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01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 2: I goofyes to try to keep the friendship alive even

1561
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 2: though the energy isn't being recived, and did he gain

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01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 2: me even though we were working towards a relationship even

1563
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 2: though we weren't working towards a relationship or anything. Keep

1564
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 2: in mind, we initially became friends to be there for

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01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 2: each other, and he has expressed to me that he's

1566
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 2: hard for him to trust. I genuinely want to be

1567
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 2: there for him through his troubles, but I'm starting to

1568
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:18,640
Speaker 2: feel weird about the energy he giving me.

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01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 1: Help. I love y'all so much.

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01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 3: I think a lot of times, when you're in situations

1571
01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 3: like this, people underestimate the power of just talking to

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01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:30,759
Speaker 3: someone and expressing how you feel.

1573
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 1: M It's like because I think a lot of times

1574
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:34,799
Speaker 1: we're scared of the reaction.

1575
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 3: I think a lot of times people are like, oh, man,

1576
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 3: I don't want I want to talk to him about this,

1577
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 3: but I'm scared what he's gonna say, or I'm scared

1578
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 3: he's gonna stop fucking with me. At the end of

1579
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 3: the day, you need answers, and you deserve answers. So

1580
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:46,640
Speaker 3: the best thing you can do is just bring it

1581
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 3: up to him, be like, hey, are we still good?

1582
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:50,559
Speaker 3: I just feel like and let him know all your

1583
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 3: concerns to me, if a guy communicates with you properly

1584
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 3: and he doesn't try to gaslight you or make you

1585
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 3: feel stupid, right, that's a sign that he's a good guy.

1586
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 3: But if if he does gaslights you and make you

1587
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 3: feel like you're tripping all you're freaking out, that's a.

1588
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 1: Red flag that you need to leave him alone.

1589
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 3: Right, Because I feel like there's nothing wrong with communicating

1590
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 3: and telling somebody like, hey, you're kind of hurting my

1591
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 3: feelings or this bothers me.

1592
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:12,879
Speaker 1: We're humans.

1593
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 3: A lot of times the men are doing stuff that

1594
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:16,600
Speaker 3: they don't even know is bothering you. They don't He

1595
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 3: probably has no idea that you're over there feeling a

1596
01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 3: certain type of way. So I think you just need

1597
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 3: to tell him how you feel and talk to him

1598
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 3: about it, and his reaction is gonna let you know

1599
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 3: everything you need to know.

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01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that as well, Like, just have

1601
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 2: a conversation with him. I'm at a point in my

1602
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:34,439
Speaker 2: life where I just feel like I don't like wondering

1603
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 2: things or guessing things and making assumptions. If I want

1604
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:38,679
Speaker 2: to know something, I'm just ask. If I want something,

1605
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 2: I'm gona just ask, you know, what I mean. So

1606
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 2: I feel like that's always the best policy. He's just

1607
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:45,679
Speaker 2: being honest to watch your feelings and telling the person

1608
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 2: because like Lexige, you know, if he don't want what

1609
01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 2: you want, his reaction, you'll gonna tell you everything you

1610
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 2: need to know, and then you'll know how to move

1611
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 2: forward and up to you what you do you know

1612
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 2: after that.

1613
01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 3: Because that's the worst thing to do, is suppress your feelings.

1614
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 3: And then and you wake up six months later and

1615
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 3: you're just frustrated in a situation and you don't know

1616
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 3: what the fuck is.

1617
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:06,479
Speaker 1: Going on, because, like you said, half the time, niggas

1618
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 1: don't even be frustrated. They don't even be thinking.

1619
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 3: They don't even be knowing, Like he probably don't even

1620
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 3: not even realizing, like, oh shit, let me text this

1621
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:14,240
Speaker 3: girl because she like, niggas are dumb.

1622
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,719
Speaker 1: They don't even really think it's that deed. He probably

1623
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 1: don't at all at all.

1624
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,400
Speaker 3: All Right, So I'm gonna read one more since that

1625
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 3: other one was just a statement. It says a butt

1626
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 3: plug question.

1627
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: Hey, y'all. On one of your recent most recent episodes,

1628
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: Drea was talking about leaving her butt plug in all day,

1629
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: and I just want to know what do you do

1630
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: if you have to poop? Bro? That's why I.

1631
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 3: Started laughing before you even ready, because I've read it

1632
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 3: in my.

1633
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: Head, like will it? Will it pop out? If I

1634
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 1: push too hard? I know it may seem like I'm

1635
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 1: trying to do, but I'm bob, are you nuts? Are

1636
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 1: you okay? Seies?

1637
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'll be leaving seat because I don't leave my

1638
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 3: butt plugging all day?

1639
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: Have you ever?

1640
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 3: No?

1641
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 1: I haven't. I never you never had to pood with

1642
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,600
Speaker 1: my butt plug in. I feel like it would just

1643
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 1: kind of come out.

1644
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 3: But I feel like, yeah, it would just come out

1645
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 3: on the sides and stuff that I holly out the

1646
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 3: she just gonna pop out unless you got a real

1647
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 3: strong fart.

1648
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:23,719
Speaker 1: Yazooka booty yay.

1649
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:26,840
Speaker 4: So she keeps it in all day basically.

1650
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 1: Well, Dan, sometimes yeah, I do something in for a

1651
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 1: few hours. So she's asking what happens if you.

1652
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 3: Have if you have to poot while he's in, like

1653
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 3: if we're gonna fly out? Because y'all gotta realize them

1654
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Speaker 3: butt plugs if you've never had, and not only that, No,

1655
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:42,639
Speaker 3: your booty is strong, your.

1656
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Speaker 2: Booty is strong, but also too, butt plugs aren't just

1657
01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 2: like lights.

1658
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:47,040
Speaker 1: Yeah they're heavy.

1659
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I feel like it's going to get the

1660
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:53,080
Speaker 2: butt the room or no, she like to get the

1661
01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 2: butt plug in.

1662
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:56,360
Speaker 1: You gotta put a little ump finger. Now you can

1663
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 1: push it out like how I mean she.

1664
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 3: I can't like how I got a strong booty hole.

1665
01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 3: I cannot push how.

1666
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,640
Speaker 2: I mentioned on one of the previous empisodes, like you

1667
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 2: can push it out, but it's not going to fly

1668
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 2: or anything that's gonna fall out.

1669
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:15,519
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna fly across the room of it if

1670
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:19,600
Speaker 1: you have gas. Why in anyway? And she's trying to

1671
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 1: stop it up. If you got.

1672
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 3: Anything going on down there, like you got a ship,

1673
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:27,920
Speaker 3: she's trying to plug it up, not putting no fucking

1674
01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 3: butt plug in. You need a suppository, bitch, you need

1675
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,679
Speaker 3: an animal. You're putting the wrong thing in that ass.

1676
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 6: Girl.

1677
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