WEBVTT - Conversations About Weddings 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.840 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:05.920 Sinners Podcast with your host and fun that with your 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:17.959 low blasses Malone. According to ABC seven News, newlyweds Kiara 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:23.080 Broken Bro and her husband Joel spent five hundred dollars 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:27.440 covering her dress, venue and reception. Her goal was to 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:30.800 just be as minimal as possible, to spend the least 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:34.559 amount of money as possible. She bought her dress from 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:39.000 a fashion brand called Shine or Shane, which costs forty 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.559 seven dollars. I didn't want to spend a lot of 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:44.400 money on a dress because I had the mindset and 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:46.920 I'm gonna wear this one time for a few hours. 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:49.920 They didn't have a permit. They did it in the 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:54.640 Angeles Crest Highway all right, with the Saint Gabriel and 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:59.640 Sierra Polona Mountains as the back drop. Because they didn't 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:03.640 have a hermit, they only had to rent chairs and 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:08.000 the arch. Thirty to forty relatives and close friends. Her family, 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:12.000 god sister and aunt right chipped in on the wedding cake. 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:15.440 They did the reception at a place called Misty's Lounge, 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:20.920 and the guests and the guests who came purchased their 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:26.280 own food. And drinks. She might be in the running 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:30.120 for one of the greatest women to ever breathe air. 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:34.200 There's no confident I'm aware of I'll tell you that much. 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:38.600 This is another couple of dope ladies. It's one specifically 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:41.880 they talked about. Instead of trying to get child support 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.240 from her baby dad, she just loaned him some money 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:48.880 to help him start a trucking business. M hm. That 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:52.600 she's she's there too. That's for another day. That was 0:01:52.640 --> 0:02:00.200 called a long money play. Yeah, brilliant, but it's one 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:04.440 of the five. Okay, I'm just gonna be nice. She's 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:08.200 one of the ten greatest women to ever live for 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:17.160 that stunt, easily. Sure, she's top ten, No way below 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:26.880 fourth in the top ten. And I've been to weddings. 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:32.520 My home girl Devi Dave wedding was insane. Was at 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:38.440 this ranch. You know, it was real nice, laid in 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:41.680 and out truck come food, The in and out truck 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:43.679 came for the receptions like you ate two or three 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:50.160 times truck. Yeah, they went all the way. People are 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:55.440 spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on weddings, thirty to 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.720 three hundred thousand dollars on weddings. I went to one 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:04.560 of those. One of my homies is getting married and 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:06.960 him and his girl right there, they're trying to figure 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:09.640 out what they're gonna do about their place m hm 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:13.280 um wait, their place to live or their place for 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.800 the one place to live once they get married. Gotcha? 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:22.160 And instead of I think he would like for her 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.400 to say, let's minimize the wedding right to a small 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:29.120 number and take the rest of the money right and 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:32.600 go get a place to live. And she doesn't want 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:37.160 to do it because this is her dream day. Yeah, 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.640 not the rest of the marriage, no, but just this 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:45.920 specify day because you don't get attention the rest of 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:51.600 the time. Is that what it is? Yeah? Women love attention. 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:53.600 That's all that they ever wanted. Like they're all narcissists. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:59.080 Everybody knows that if if she invited her friends and 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:02.560 family over every single day to the new house, the 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:09.600 new house would be pristine, no sillies, zel my man 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:16.320 Peter and his bizag going crazy. What was the most 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:20.880 extravagant wedding you've ever been to? By far? Easily? I've 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:24.359 been to some good weddings. Um my cousin right, like 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.599 my family, like my grandpa, you know, has some money. 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:31.920 My cousin married a lady whose dad has a lot 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:35.800 of money, like hundreds of millions of dollars type ship. 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.839 So we went to his wedding out in Colorado and 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:46.359 it was Yeah, there were ice sculptures of swans. It 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.719 was at this huge, massive mega resort in the mountains. 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:55.120 It had a live band with live dancers, it had 0:04:55.279 --> 0:05:05.520 it was ridiculous. Where were they from Denver? The guy 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:10.839 like built Denver. He was a real state developer. Wow, 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:16.760 what kind of fool was it? Honestly, I don't even remember. 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:23.880 There was too much going on. I've been to four 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:27.920 or less weddings in my life. I've been the fifty funerals, 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:35.320 but I've been the four weddings. Um huh oh, yeah, 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.080 I've been to baby six. Yeah. The homie Chuck Dizel 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.720 married the homegirl Tosa Chuck Diesel, who worked at ninety 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:46.200 two point three l A. So I went to his wedding. 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:49.960 I went to Debby Deve, who was my dog. I 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:53.240 make Debbie Deve used to work at K Day. Her 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:57.719 husband plays football for one of those teams. Cool does though, 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:05.159 cool dog? Um m. I went to my nieces Tavine's wedding, right, 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:10.680 she married, uh, a professional basketball player named Eugene Jetter, 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:17.440 the homie poole mhm. And I went to my homeboy, 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:22.520 who did probably eight nine years in jail, ten years 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:27.159 in jail somewhere like that. I went to his wedding. Huh. 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.640 He didn't get married in Cartrated, did it. No? No, 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.559 he came home and got married like a year after. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:38.160 I was the four weddings that I've been to, and 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:43.000 when I tell you, they couldn't they were so different. 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:51.680 But I just think about what a wedding really represents. 0:06:55.400 --> 0:07:01.839 What do you think of wedding girly representtion? Yeah, I 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:06.240 definitely think it's women's turn to have all livees on me. 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.800 I think they have a few moments in life where 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:16.440 it's all lies on me. Right, the baby shower is 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:19.880 all lies on me, The wedding to some degree is 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:23.560 all livees on me, and prim is all livees on me. 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:30.720 Mm hmm. Yeah. And my miss is something in the 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.920 in the Latin community, excuse me, and that what I 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:37.560 say for me. So that's another one, but I don't 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:39.239 even want to count that. And if you're a Jewish, 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:47.480 the botto mitzvah. Oh yeah, yeah, I just don't get it, Like, 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:59.240 what's the point? I mean, to some to some degree 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:05.880 of scale, most of the time, women are just in 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:09.800 the midst of inexplicable actions for the purpose of trying 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:14.560 to gain unwarranted attention, And you're asking, what's the point, Well, 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:16.520 what's the point of which part? What's the point of 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:17.960 the wedding? Because the point of the wedding is where 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:19.880 I just described. What's the point of what I just described? 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:22.960 There isn't one, but if you ask them, that's the 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:27.520 only point in life. So it's just a natural wire 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:32.400 for a tency. Yeah, because women are men are producers 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:38.320 and women are consumers. Say it for years. If you 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:42.880 ever get married, Yeah, well, what kind of wedding would 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:45.920 he be? Um, it's gonna be a wedding. I actually 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:48.280 want to have my wedding at a graveyard because there's 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:52.720 gonna be an unnamed guest of honor at the wedding 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:55.440 and the crowd who has been paid an obscene amount 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:59.240 of money to assassinate me. So I'm already at the 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:07.320 graveyard from my wedding assassination. Oh man, it's autography. Help, 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:14.880 I don't know at this point, probably not. Now, I 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:16.719 don't want to go on a dinner date for Christ's Sacre. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:20.520 That's me if I want to get married. You really 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:24.280 don't want to go on a dinner date now I would. 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:27.400 I wouldn't mind getting married. If I could be a 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:30.240 strange husband, that would be cool. I wouldn't mind being 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:35.440 desfined as estranged, so you would get married just to 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:39.800 be defined as an extant what you and women? Man, 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:43.000 we gotta we gotta get the spokesman for women to 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:46.840 sit down at the table with you, because this ship crazy. Man. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:52.880 I've never met anyone get demoted like and and honestly, Pete, 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:56.920 do you hate women? No? We had this episode before 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.880 we're gonna get back to weddings. I was just saying 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:02.199 before we slip back, so I can see how that 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:08.160 I'm saying, Do you have an extreme dislike for women's ways? Um? 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:10.680 I just don't want to be bothered with women. I 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:15.359 understand it depends on how all right, in the context 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:18.760 of me personally in my life, they're good for nothing, 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:23.079 what they other other than a sexual ship? I mean, really, 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:27.280 you take that out of there, what are we doing 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:32.560 the rest of It's just just an agitation. But in 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:36.240 the greater scheme of humanity and society and everything like that, Yeah, 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.240 there's value there. I understand that there's a lot of 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:42.839 value to the greater population and to other individuals in 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:47.439 the scope of my individual existence. It's full sy, it's 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:52.720 about it. I'm sorry. Not the cooked meals. No, I'm 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:54.400 a better cook than most any woman I ever met 0:10:54.400 --> 0:11:01.160 in my life. I like companionship, God, even't know. Fuck, 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:06.839 that's the worst part. The companionship is the worst part. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:10.120 What part would be worse than that? If that's not 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:16.040 the worst part, then what's the worst part? Exactly? I 0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:20.920 arrest my case. I don't think. I don't know. If 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:24.679 the companionship is the worst part that, what's the worst part? 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:27.160 In the companion is the worst part, what would be 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:31.440 the worst part? Then what's worse than that? In dealing 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:38.760 with a wife or a woman or a wedding, like 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:42.720 so certain parts I'll agree with. Right. I agree women 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:46.800 tend to want to turn what should be affairs will 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:50.880 right as a relationship, they tend to naturally want to 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:56.560 turn into a roller coaster. I agree. I'm not gonna lie. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:00.520 I've seen that enough times. I don't know I think 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:05.480 they want to I interact with a ton of traumatized women. Yeah, 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.840 I mean, because you know, from the community. But I 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:14.360 have watched women turn fairest will relationship, which that's how 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:18.280 a great relationship should be. Is a fairest will should 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:20.760 be a smooth process that got its high low points, 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:23.800 but it should go as a small circle, smooth setting. 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:29.080 And I have watched for sure and been a victim 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:32.320 of them turning it into a roll across them. So yes, 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:36.439 I'll agree, as long as we're keeping the carnival theme, 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:42.480 you know, going with that relate, I'm gonna put a twister. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.839 I don't disagree with the roller coaster thing. I think 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:48.760 that that's very true. I could also make a strong 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:52.360 case that instead of a fairest whill, women want to 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:55.360 turn a relationship into a house of mirrors where everywhere 0:12:55.360 --> 0:13:02.600 they turn they just see themselves, not even you in 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:06.040 the picture with them. Not if I have my way, 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.960 I'm saying they don't want you in that house of 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:12.320 mirrors with him. They probably do. They just want me 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:14.520 to stand in a corner so that I'm not in 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:21.080 the way of the mirrors. I've said a relationship is 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.600 I said a marriage. Right, so post the wedding, I said, 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:31.200 a marriage is a man walking with a woman, a 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:34.160 woman walking trying to find her way through life and 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:38.640 having a man to hold the flashlight. Yeah, as they 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:41.640 try to discover who they are. Dude, you know what 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:45.839 weddings are like? Weddings are like Joe Biden press conferences. 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:49.080 You have one handler walk her up to the podium 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:51.439 and then another handler grabs her real quick and but 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:53.720 make sure she's where she is, and then that guy 0:13:54.040 --> 0:14:01.120 walks her off. Otherwise joke gets lost. That's a wedding 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:07.240 right there. So we'll forget it. But by the time 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:15.600 you know it starts, he'll call me. So so, how 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:21.760 could this woman, how could this woman right yes, be 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:25.680 so selfless? Or is their selfish motivation that we're not 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:28.440 aware of. Maybe she has you know how you can 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.840 get a vitamin that like vitamin B for example, that's 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:37.400 time distributed. Maybe she has buffered time distributed selfishness, and 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:39.680 she thinks to herself, you know what, I'm not gonna 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.440 spend all my money on these friends and family. I'm 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.720 gonna hoard all my money and spend it on me later, 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:53.320 which sounds kind of like what she said so, then 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:58.760 that means, oh, so she still got the attention for free? Yeah, 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:00.720 she got the money and he Yeah, she's a Tony 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:12.960 Montana of Bryan's. Oh is it? And right now that 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:15.120 guy which he was the one who got his head 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:22.240 sought into by a chainsaw? Yeah? Do you know anything 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:26.440 about weddings at all? Besides that you don't want one? Yeah? 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:30.760 I've been most of the weddings I go to. I'm 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:33.280 in the What are the group of guys that are 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:36.560 there with the guy? Yeah, I'm one of them. I 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:40.000 was the best man one time, for real. Yeah, that 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:46.680 was a mistake. They got divorced. Why was it a mistake? Though? 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:49.640 They shouldn't have asked me to be best man. I 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:51.080 didn't want to be at that wedding. I hate going 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:54.800 to weddings man, for real? Yeah, I hate that ship? 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:58.720 Is it too much happiness? I don't like small talk 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:02.240 of people. That's a lot of that ship. You always 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:03.880 get stuck talking to a bunch of people you don't know. 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:05.800 Don't like, I don't want to be talking to Am 0:16:05.840 --> 0:16:10.200 I doing here? Yeah? But you actually formulate an opinion 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.160 on that, like, I don't think I've ever formulated an 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:17.840 opinion on small talk. It's most all of what you're 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.280 doing there. Like if you're there for four hours, you 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.080 sit there, you watch the wedding for an hour, then 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.120 you're at the reception for three talking to people you 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:26.680 don't don't know, don't care about, and whatever the fuck. 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:30.840 Like we haven't got a gill from there. Hell no, 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:33.480 I don't think so. Uh no, not really. I mean 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:37.280 I met a couple of girls at um at one wedding, 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:39.320 but it was like a super Christian wedding. So that 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:45.440 was a waste of time. It was a super Christian wedding. Yeah, 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.400 so that was a waste of time. That's right. Why 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:51.800 the funk would that be a waste of time? Pete? 0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:57.560 We real quick? So you really feel like women are 0:16:57.640 --> 0:17:01.200 only good for just six Not in the world. I 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:04.879 know everyone wants to hear this I'm saying in the world, 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:06.399 that's not what I'm saying. Am I saying? In the 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:10.320 greater society? Your personal existence to me? For me, there's 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:13.200 not a whole lot else to that did you bring 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:17.879 to the table? I asked you, I ask girls, why 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:19.879 what do you do? What is it that? What am 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.720 I getting out of this? There's no answers. There's a 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:27.920 blank stairs. What if a woman wanted to marry you, 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:30.880 but she was a billionaire, so she could finance all 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:35.679 your ideas she brings them. I'm not dumb enough to 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:38.560 fall for that ship. There's no way that. Then immediately 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:45.080 they become her ideas. That's any wealthy person. No not, 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:49.119 they become her ideas on paper. As soon as she 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:53.200 doesn't like the direction I'm taking my idea, it goes 0:17:53.240 --> 0:18:00.240 a different direction that it's her idea. Now. Yeah, so 0:18:00.600 --> 0:18:05.640 there's no woman breathing air that you would marry at 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:10.200 this point in my life, Rihanna. Hell no, I'm manly, 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:13.800 got knocked up. Jesus Christ, What does she got? One 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:17.880 of them? Late abortions? You want to know the cold 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:23.600 this ship, I'm gonna say on this entire podcast. Serious 0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:27.440 they might want with you? I don't know. Look, here's 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:31.080 my here, here's my rule on abortions to me. If 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:33.240 you wait so long that the stretch marks are already there, 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:38.440 you might as well keep it because you're good. You're 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:40.480 good for nothing. Now, you wore yourself out, Now you 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:42.919 might as well just keep it. You don't like stretch marks, 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:45.920 not if they came from somebody else. No, I don't 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:48.600 want to look at a bunch of reminder lines of 0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:52.159 the last guy's dick. I'm cool on that, but do 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:57.920 it matter. Yeah, I don't want to buy a car 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:01.720 with someone else's face painted on the hood. That's not 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:05.080 a face, it's just reminded somebody else drove the car 0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:10.640 every time I try to look at it every goddamn time. 0:19:12.800 --> 0:19:16.480 That's what you see, a stretch marks. I offered to 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:18.919 pay a girl that at the time I would have 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:22.440 married like ten grands to get an abortion because she 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:23.919 was with another dude for a minute. They wanted to 0:19:23.920 --> 0:19:26.080 come be with me, but she got pregnant. I'm like, man, 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:27.879 give I'll buy you a ring. I'll pay for it. 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:29.680 I give you five thousand cash, all that ship, whatever 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:33.720 you want. She kept that motherfucker straight up, and a 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:39.919 dude left her in like a week. It's not to 0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:44.159 bribe somebody's baby mama to get an abortion. It was 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:47.959 super early. It was super early. It woult to show nothing. Bro, 0:19:48.119 --> 0:19:52.359 you a sick nigga. Bro, I never looked sick. I 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:54.400 never said I was nice. Man. You guys over there 0:19:54.400 --> 0:19:56.760 acting like, oh, how you're not nice? Because I never 0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:58.920 said I was nice. I didn't think you were nice 0:19:58.920 --> 0:20:00.960 on it for life? Why I didn't know you was 0:20:01.000 --> 0:20:05.119 the same matter? For sure, you will matter, but you 0:20:05.280 --> 0:20:12.440 actually are a white person, that's right. That was what 0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:15.399 the fuck? And it sounds like you loved her, So 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:19.280 I guess that's how it worked. Whatever, that's how, that's 0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:21.400 how it didn't work. I tak that much. I don't 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:23.840 even know what to say, man, I ain't never what's 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:27.360 funny is he said some ship? Because I don't even 0:20:27.359 --> 0:20:30.120 know what to say. Sometimes I'll be like, damn, how 0:20:30.160 --> 0:20:33.040 do I even respond to that? I just was thinking, like, 0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:38.000 I don't know, Pete, you're a different breed dog, different 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:41.640 breed you and sugar free man, You and sugar free 0:20:42.960 --> 0:20:47.119 y'a awesome ship? Tell you that he is weird though, 0:20:47.160 --> 0:20:52.159 When some when people have these huge, giant weddings and 0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:58.720 they marriage don't last, that's hilarious. And then you see 0:20:58.720 --> 0:21:01.800 these people who don't have these huge weddings and they'd 0:21:01.800 --> 0:21:03.919 be married for eighty years. I don't know what the 0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:07.000 correlation is, if there is one. That's a good question, 0:21:07.800 --> 0:21:11.120 because it has to be some kind of correlation. Yeah, 0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:13.800 I mean, I look around it like people that I know. 0:21:15.119 --> 0:21:20.760 There isn't any I've seen like um, like relatives that did, 0:21:20.840 --> 0:21:23.960 like the just did, like the city hall marriages and 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:25.800 that kind of thing that neils didn't work. They were 0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:28.280 done in eighteen months. And I've seen the big old 0:21:28.320 --> 0:21:32.560 blowout ones burned down too, and I've seen them both work. 0:21:33.400 --> 0:21:36.240 My grandparents wentn't eloped in lank Yuma. It's some tiny 0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:37.920 It was like the Vegas of the time back in 0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:40.720 the forties or fifties or whatever the hell, some tiny 0:21:40.720 --> 0:21:42.920 little chapel that ran over there and got married, came back, 0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:52.479 you know, until death did them part. Have no idea. Um. 0:21:52.640 --> 0:21:55.240 The weirdest ship to weddings with me is when you 0:21:55.280 --> 0:21:57.960 see a girl were white. Now, sometimes I'll be thinking 0:21:57.960 --> 0:22:01.399 to myself, like am I the ownly person here? Thinking 0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:05.800 why is this woman wearing white? Like, and I'm talking 0:22:05.800 --> 0:22:07.520 about like I've only been the four wedding, so I'm 0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:09.960 thinking of who wearing white? I'm like, and they probably 0:22:09.960 --> 0:22:11.320 go here this's it cuts me out. But I was 0:22:11.359 --> 0:22:14.520 thinking to myself, like, this is such a lie. It 0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:17.160 didn't help that you mentioned some of the weddings already, 0:22:18.480 --> 0:22:22.800 but it's like, why would you be wearing white. This 0:22:22.880 --> 0:22:25.919 is not a token color for a wedding, you feel me. 0:22:25.960 --> 0:22:35.680 It's supposed to be emblematic. Yeah, they're supposed to be emblematic. Yeah. Yeah, 0:22:36.800 --> 0:22:39.280 But I think, but I think sometimes I think that 0:22:39.480 --> 0:22:44.359 also is a problem. Right, because our whole life white. 0:22:44.359 --> 0:22:48.320 We're taught that bride like women are like innocent. I mean, 0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:51.840 they're innocent, they're like precious, they desctly look after and 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:55.960 care for. Right. That's how you kind of are brought 0:22:56.000 --> 0:22:58.360 into this world believing or you should never put your 0:22:58.400 --> 0:23:02.000 hands on them. They are speed shure, right. And then 0:23:02.040 --> 0:23:05.960 every day you're on planet Earth for as long as 0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:10.200 you could remember, you start noticing that something about what 0:23:10.240 --> 0:23:15.800 people are saying is not either true or easily identifiable. Oh, 0:23:15.840 --> 0:23:18.639 it's female propaganda big time. It's just a bunch of 0:23:18.680 --> 0:23:22.440 lies being fed to us by by women, or being 0:23:22.480 --> 0:23:26.240 fed to men who propagate them with the behest of women. 0:23:28.520 --> 0:23:34.480 So one of the main problems is if you're a bribe, 0:23:34.520 --> 0:23:37.240 if you're a groom, right, and you see this lady 0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:41.520 coming down the aisle, h and she's wearing his white dress, 0:23:41.880 --> 0:23:45.960 she's with her father, you're just staring at it. It 0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:54.160 almost sends off a false like sense of like, what's 0:23:54.200 --> 0:23:58.399 about to happen. So now, now the average nigga, the 0:23:58.440 --> 0:24:01.439 average human being might not look at that deep, but 0:24:01.640 --> 0:24:07.280 that's what I see. I mean, I don't think there's 0:24:07.320 --> 0:24:09.560 anything I can disagree with on that. You're kind of 0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:13.400 almost are saying, Wow, I have a big lie head 0:24:13.440 --> 0:24:16.560 in my way, and the whole family appears to be 0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:19.040 in on it, because the patriarchal said a family is 0:24:19.080 --> 0:24:23.960 the one handing the live to me. I just don't 0:24:24.000 --> 0:24:26.800 understand why they can't wear yellow or like a darker color. 0:24:27.760 --> 0:24:31.280 I mean, and if it was if white signified pure 0:24:31.400 --> 0:24:34.160 in the wedding, no white, you as most of these 0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:37.399 motherckers should be wearing brown or black. Well, if you 0:24:37.480 --> 0:24:40.200 ask the women who are wearing the dresses, all those 0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:44.520 other dicks didn't count, so they vergens because said, you know, 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:49.120 I said, the only person, the only person a woman 0:24:49.200 --> 0:25:01.639 is more comfortable lying to than you is herself. Hey, 0:25:02.880 --> 0:25:04.920 I need to get you on with a woman man, 0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:08.960 because you just really and you know what, I can't 0:25:09.000 --> 0:25:13.640 just say you're crazy. That's that's my because because it's right, 0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:17.359 I ain't gonna jump off that cliff because women do 0:25:17.520 --> 0:25:22.040 have more value. Now, what you find valuable is different, right, 0:25:22.080 --> 0:25:26.760 So I can't tell you what you found value in that. 0:25:27.359 --> 0:25:32.160 I know women have more value to me than vagina, 0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:36.639 of course, and I acknowledge to me, not not to 0:25:36.680 --> 0:25:39.480 the world, but to me totally. So what else do 0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:42.359 you value of a woman? If it's totally you know 0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:45.199 I'm saying, I totally can understand based on knowing you 0:25:45.280 --> 0:25:48.760 know me where you're coming from. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah, 0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:51.960 I don't think that you're crazy, you're weird. No, not 0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:54.840 at all. I don't think that I understand that ever 0:25:55.000 --> 0:25:59.639 looked at another human being. I mean, I guess some 0:25:59.680 --> 0:26:02.800 people it is only good for one thing. I guess 0:26:02.800 --> 0:26:06.680 some humans are whatever that one thing could be the 0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:09.040 humans I look at when I or I look around 0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:13.119 and see, I'm like, just just good for nothing, just 0:26:13.119 --> 0:26:16.960 just in my way, just in my fucking way. I 0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:21.680 can't focus because you just really going right now, I'm not, 0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:26.719 I'm not going. But when the monologue starts, it's evident 0:26:33.720 --> 0:26:35.960 I don't know. I just I just like I said. 0:26:36.080 --> 0:26:39.040 I question a lot of different things about weddings, like 0:26:39.160 --> 0:26:41.040 why do people who don't go to church do it 0:26:41.080 --> 0:26:45.160 in the church, the same reason they wear a white dress. 0:26:45.160 --> 0:26:48.800 It's all about optics, It's all about your moment in 0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:51.120 the sun. Everyone's looking at you and Saras you wanted 0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:53.000 to be right. You want them to think exactly of 0:26:53.119 --> 0:26:55.080 you what you want them to think of you. So 0:26:55.160 --> 0:27:00.480 at that point, is that a conscious line? Yeah? You 0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:02.159 know you want to know how I know what the 0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:05.600 conscious wants lie? Because who the funk plans the wedding 0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:13.240 out of the two people involved? Sure, the woman. But 0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:17.600 I'm saying, do you think they're aware that only like 0:27:17.680 --> 0:27:23.320 a white dress signifies pure. Women don't aren't aware of truth, 0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:28.399 so they don't know truth exists. No truth exists as 0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:33.840 they see it. The only truth is the on of 0:27:34.080 --> 0:27:37.800 the multiple choice of options for perspective on everything. We're 0:27:37.840 --> 0:27:41.199 looking at it like false false true false false, and 0:27:41.280 --> 0:27:46.120 we go see they're like, hmm A, B, C, D 0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:54.480 E which one makes me feel the best? B. So 0:27:54.560 --> 0:27:58.840 you think when they're wearing these white dresses, they're conscious 0:27:58.840 --> 0:28:03.639