Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sinners Podcast with your host and fun that with your
Speaker 1: low blasses Malone. According to ABC seven News, newlyweds Kiara
Speaker 1: Broken Bro and her husband Joel spent five hundred dollars
Speaker 1: covering her dress, venue and reception. Her goal was to
Speaker 1: just be as minimal as possible, to spend the least
Speaker 1: amount of money as possible. She bought her dress from
Speaker 1: a fashion brand called Shine or Shane, which costs forty
Speaker 1: seven dollars. I didn't want to spend a lot of
Speaker 1: money on a dress because I had the mindset and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear this one time for a few hours.
Speaker 1: They didn't have a permit. They did it in the
Speaker 1: Angeles Crest Highway all right, with the Saint Gabriel and
Speaker 1: Sierra Polona Mountains as the back drop. Because they didn't
Speaker 1: have a hermit, they only had to rent chairs and
Speaker 1: the arch. Thirty to forty relatives and close friends. Her family,
Speaker 1: god sister and aunt right chipped in on the wedding cake.
Speaker 1: They did the reception at a place called Misty's Lounge,
Speaker 1: and the guests and the guests who came purchased their
Speaker 1: own food. And drinks. She might be in the running
Speaker 1: for one of the greatest women to ever breathe air.
Speaker 1: There's no confident I'm aware of I'll tell you that much.
Speaker 1: This is another couple of dope ladies. It's one specifically
Speaker 1: they talked about. Instead of trying to get child support
Speaker 1: from her baby dad, she just loaned him some money
Speaker 1: to help him start a trucking business. M hm. That
Speaker 1: she's she's there too. That's for another day. That was
Speaker 1: called a long money play. Yeah, brilliant, but it's one
Speaker 1: of the five. Okay, I'm just gonna be nice. She's
Speaker 1: one of the ten greatest women to ever live for
Speaker 1: that stunt, easily. Sure, she's top ten, No way below
Speaker 1: fourth in the top ten. And I've been to weddings.
Speaker 1: My home girl Devi Dave wedding was insane. Was at
Speaker 1: this ranch. You know, it was real nice, laid in
Speaker 1: and out truck come food, The in and out truck
Speaker 1: came for the receptions like you ate two or three
Speaker 1: times truck. Yeah, they went all the way. People are
Speaker 1: spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on weddings, thirty to
Speaker 1: three hundred thousand dollars on weddings. I went to one
Speaker 1: of those. One of my homies is getting married and
Speaker 1: him and his girl right there, they're trying to figure
Speaker 1: out what they're gonna do about their place m hm
Speaker 1: um wait, their place to live or their place for
Speaker 1: the one place to live once they get married. Gotcha?
Speaker 1: And instead of I think he would like for her
Speaker 1: to say, let's minimize the wedding right to a small
Speaker 1: number and take the rest of the money right and
Speaker 1: go get a place to live. And she doesn't want
Speaker 1: to do it because this is her dream day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not the rest of the marriage, no, but just this
Speaker 1: specify day because you don't get attention the rest of
Speaker 1: the time. Is that what it is? Yeah? Women love attention.
Speaker 1: That's all that they ever wanted. Like they're all narcissists.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows that if if she invited her friends and
Speaker 1: family over every single day to the new house, the
Speaker 1: new house would be pristine, no sillies, zel my man
Speaker 1: Peter and his bizag going crazy. What was the most
Speaker 1: extravagant wedding you've ever been to? By far? Easily? I've
Speaker 1: been to some good weddings. Um my cousin right, like
Speaker 1: my family, like my grandpa, you know, has some money.
Speaker 1: My cousin married a lady whose dad has a lot
Speaker 1: of money, like hundreds of millions of dollars type ship.
Speaker 1: So we went to his wedding out in Colorado and
Speaker 1: it was Yeah, there were ice sculptures of swans. It
Speaker 1: was at this huge, massive mega resort in the mountains.
Speaker 1: It had a live band with live dancers, it had
Speaker 1: it was ridiculous. Where were they from Denver? The guy
Speaker 1: like built Denver. He was a real state developer. Wow,
Speaker 1: what kind of fool was it? Honestly, I don't even remember.
Speaker 1: There was too much going on. I've been to four
Speaker 1: or less weddings in my life. I've been the fifty funerals,
Speaker 1: but I've been the four weddings. Um huh oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been to baby six. Yeah. The homie Chuck Dizel
Speaker 1: married the homegirl Tosa Chuck Diesel, who worked at ninety
Speaker 1: two point three l A. So I went to his wedding.
Speaker 1: I went to Debby Deve, who was my dog. I
Speaker 1: make Debbie Deve used to work at K Day. Her
Speaker 1: husband plays football for one of those teams. Cool does though,
Speaker 1: cool dog? Um m. I went to my nieces Tavine's wedding, right,
Speaker 1: she married, uh, a professional basketball player named Eugene Jetter,
Speaker 1: the homie poole mhm. And I went to my homeboy,
Speaker 1: who did probably eight nine years in jail, ten years
Speaker 1: in jail somewhere like that. I went to his wedding. Huh.
Speaker 1: He didn't get married in Cartrated, did it. No? No,
Speaker 1: he came home and got married like a year after.
Speaker 1: I was the four weddings that I've been to, and
Speaker 1: when I tell you, they couldn't they were so different.
Speaker 1: But I just think about what a wedding really represents.
Speaker 1: What do you think of wedding girly representtion? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: definitely think it's women's turn to have all livees on me.
Speaker 1: I think they have a few moments in life where
Speaker 1: it's all lies on me. Right, the baby shower is
Speaker 1: all lies on me, The wedding to some degree is
Speaker 1: all livees on me, and prim is all livees on me.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah. And my miss is something in the
Speaker 1: in the Latin community, excuse me, and that what I
Speaker 1: say for me. So that's another one, but I don't
Speaker 1: even want to count that. And if you're a Jewish,
Speaker 1: the botto mitzvah. Oh yeah, yeah, I just don't get it, Like,
Speaker 1: what's the point? I mean, to some to some degree
Speaker 1: of scale, most of the time, women are just in
Speaker 1: the midst of inexplicable actions for the purpose of trying
Speaker 1: to gain unwarranted attention, And you're asking, what's the point, Well,
Speaker 1: what's the point of which part? What's the point of
Speaker 1: the wedding? Because the point of the wedding is where
Speaker 1: I just described. What's the point of what I just described?
Speaker 1: There isn't one, but if you ask them, that's the
Speaker 1: only point in life. So it's just a natural wire
Speaker 1: for a tency. Yeah, because women are men are producers
Speaker 1: and women are consumers. Say it for years. If you
Speaker 1: ever get married, Yeah, well, what kind of wedding would
Speaker 1: he be? Um, it's gonna be a wedding. I actually
Speaker 1: want to have my wedding at a graveyard because there's
Speaker 1: gonna be an unnamed guest of honor at the wedding
Speaker 1: and the crowd who has been paid an obscene amount
Speaker 1: of money to assassinate me. So I'm already at the
Speaker 1: graveyard from my wedding assassination. Oh man, it's autography. Help,
Speaker 1: I don't know at this point, probably not. Now, I
Speaker 1: don't want to go on a dinner date for Christ's Sacre.
Speaker 1: That's me if I want to get married. You really
Speaker 1: don't want to go on a dinner date now I would.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind getting married. If I could be a
Speaker 1: strange husband, that would be cool. I wouldn't mind being
Speaker 1: desfined as estranged, so you would get married just to
Speaker 1: be defined as an extant what you and women? Man,
Speaker 1: we gotta we gotta get the spokesman for women to
Speaker 1: sit down at the table with you, because this ship crazy. Man.
Speaker 1: I've never met anyone get demoted like and and honestly, Pete,
Speaker 1: do you hate women? No? We had this episode before
Speaker 1: we're gonna get back to weddings. I was just saying
Speaker 1: before we slip back, so I can see how that
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Do you have an extreme dislike for women's ways? Um?
Speaker 1: I just don't want to be bothered with women. I
Speaker 1: understand it depends on how all right, in the context
Speaker 1: of me personally in my life, they're good for nothing,
Speaker 1: what they other other than a sexual ship? I mean, really,
Speaker 1: you take that out of there, what are we doing
Speaker 1: the rest of It's just just an agitation. But in
Speaker 1: the greater scheme of humanity and society and everything like that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's value there. I understand that there's a lot of
Speaker 1: value to the greater population and to other individuals in
Speaker 1: the scope of my individual existence. It's full sy, it's
Speaker 1: about it. I'm sorry. Not the cooked meals. No, I'm
Speaker 1: a better cook than most any woman I ever met
Speaker 1: in my life. I like companionship, God, even't know. Fuck,
Speaker 1: that's the worst part. The companionship is the worst part.
Speaker 1: What part would be worse than that? If that's not
Speaker 1: the worst part, then what's the worst part? Exactly? I
Speaker 1: arrest my case. I don't think. I don't know. If
Speaker 1: the companionship is the worst part that, what's the worst part?
Speaker 1: In the companion is the worst part, what would be
Speaker 1: the worst part? Then what's worse than that? In dealing
Speaker 1: with a wife or a woman or a wedding, like
Speaker 1: so certain parts I'll agree with. Right. I agree women
Speaker 1: tend to want to turn what should be affairs will
Speaker 1: right as a relationship, they tend to naturally want to
Speaker 1: turn into a roller coaster. I agree. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I've seen that enough times. I don't know I think
Speaker 1: they want to I interact with a ton of traumatized women. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, because you know, from the community. But I
Speaker 1: have watched women turn fairest will relationship, which that's how
Speaker 1: a great relationship should be. Is a fairest will should
Speaker 1: be a smooth process that got its high low points,
Speaker 1: but it should go as a small circle, smooth setting.
Speaker 1: And I have watched for sure and been a victim
Speaker 1: of them turning it into a roll across them. So yes,
Speaker 1: I'll agree, as long as we're keeping the carnival theme,
Speaker 1: you know, going with that relate, I'm gonna put a twister.
Speaker 1: I don't disagree with the roller coaster thing. I think
Speaker 1: that that's very true. I could also make a strong
Speaker 1: case that instead of a fairest whill, women want to
Speaker 1: turn a relationship into a house of mirrors where everywhere
Speaker 1: they turn they just see themselves, not even you in
Speaker 1: the picture with them. Not if I have my way,
Speaker 1: I'm saying they don't want you in that house of
Speaker 1: mirrors with him. They probably do. They just want me
Speaker 1: to stand in a corner so that I'm not in
Speaker 1: the way of the mirrors. I've said a relationship is
Speaker 1: I said a marriage. Right, so post the wedding, I said,
Speaker 1: a marriage is a man walking with a woman, a
Speaker 1: woman walking trying to find her way through life and
Speaker 1: having a man to hold the flashlight. Yeah, as they
Speaker 1: try to discover who they are. Dude, you know what
Speaker 1: weddings are like? Weddings are like Joe Biden press conferences.
Speaker 1: You have one handler walk her up to the podium
Speaker 1: and then another handler grabs her real quick and but
Speaker 1: make sure she's where she is, and then that guy
Speaker 1: walks her off. Otherwise joke gets lost. That's a wedding
Speaker 1: right there. So we'll forget it. But by the time
Speaker 1: you know it starts, he'll call me. So so, how
Speaker 1: could this woman, how could this woman right yes, be
Speaker 1: so selfless? Or is their selfish motivation that we're not
Speaker 1: aware of. Maybe she has you know how you can
Speaker 1: get a vitamin that like vitamin B for example, that's
Speaker 1: time distributed. Maybe she has buffered time distributed selfishness, and
Speaker 1: she thinks to herself, you know what, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: spend all my money on these friends and family. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna hoard all my money and spend it on me later,
Speaker 1: which sounds kind of like what she said so, then
Speaker 1: that means, oh, so she still got the attention for free? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she got the money and he Yeah, she's a Tony
Speaker 1: Montana of Bryan's. Oh is it? And right now that
Speaker 1: guy which he was the one who got his head
Speaker 1: sought into by a chainsaw? Yeah? Do you know anything
Speaker 1: about weddings at all? Besides that you don't want one? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I've been most of the weddings I go to. I'm
Speaker 1: in the What are the group of guys that are
Speaker 1: there with the guy? Yeah, I'm one of them. I
Speaker 1: was the best man one time, for real. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: was a mistake. They got divorced. Why was it a mistake? Though?
Speaker 1: They shouldn't have asked me to be best man. I
Speaker 1: didn't want to be at that wedding. I hate going
Speaker 1: to weddings man, for real? Yeah, I hate that ship?
Speaker 1: Is it too much happiness? I don't like small talk
Speaker 1: of people. That's a lot of that ship. You always
Speaker 1: get stuck talking to a bunch of people you don't know.
Speaker 1: Don't like, I don't want to be talking to Am
Speaker 1: I doing here? Yeah? But you actually formulate an opinion
Speaker 1: on that, like, I don't think I've ever formulated an
Speaker 1: opinion on small talk. It's most all of what you're
Speaker 1: doing there. Like if you're there for four hours, you
Speaker 1: sit there, you watch the wedding for an hour, then
Speaker 1: you're at the reception for three talking to people you
Speaker 1: don't don't know, don't care about, and whatever the fuck.
Speaker 1: Like we haven't got a gill from there. Hell no,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Uh no, not really. I mean
Speaker 1: I met a couple of girls at um at one wedding,
Speaker 1: but it was like a super Christian wedding. So that
Speaker 1: was a waste of time. It was a super Christian wedding. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that was a waste of time. That's right. Why
Speaker 1: the funk would that be a waste of time? Pete?
Speaker 1: We real quick? So you really feel like women are
Speaker 1: only good for just six Not in the world. I
Speaker 1: know everyone wants to hear this I'm saying in the world,
Speaker 1: that's not what I'm saying. Am I saying? In the
Speaker 1: greater society? Your personal existence to me? For me, there's
Speaker 1: not a whole lot else to that did you bring
Speaker 1: to the table? I asked you, I ask girls, why
Speaker 1: what do you do? What is it that? What am
Speaker 1: I getting out of this? There's no answers. There's a
Speaker 1: blank stairs. What if a woman wanted to marry you,
Speaker 1: but she was a billionaire, so she could finance all
Speaker 1: your ideas she brings them. I'm not dumb enough to
Speaker 1: fall for that ship. There's no way that. Then immediately
Speaker 1: they become her ideas. That's any wealthy person. No not,
Speaker 1: they become her ideas on paper. As soon as she
Speaker 1: doesn't like the direction I'm taking my idea, it goes
Speaker 1: a different direction that it's her idea. Now. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: there's no woman breathing air that you would marry at
Speaker 1: this point in my life, Rihanna. Hell no, I'm manly,
Speaker 1: got knocked up. Jesus Christ, What does she got? One
Speaker 1: of them? Late abortions? You want to know the cold
Speaker 1: this ship, I'm gonna say on this entire podcast. Serious
Speaker 1: they might want with you? I don't know. Look, here's
Speaker 1: my here, here's my rule on abortions to me. If
Speaker 1: you wait so long that the stretch marks are already there,
Speaker 1: you might as well keep it because you're good. You're
Speaker 1: good for nothing. Now, you wore yourself out, Now you
Speaker 1: might as well just keep it. You don't like stretch marks,
Speaker 1: not if they came from somebody else. No, I don't
Speaker 1: want to look at a bunch of reminder lines of
Speaker 1: the last guy's dick. I'm cool on that, but do
Speaker 1: it matter. Yeah, I don't want to buy a car
Speaker 1: with someone else's face painted on the hood. That's not
Speaker 1: a face, it's just reminded somebody else drove the car
Speaker 1: every time I try to look at it every goddamn time.
Speaker 1: That's what you see, a stretch marks. I offered to
Speaker 1: pay a girl that at the time I would have
Speaker 1: married like ten grands to get an abortion because she
Speaker 1: was with another dude for a minute. They wanted to
Speaker 1: come be with me, but she got pregnant. I'm like, man,
Speaker 1: give I'll buy you a ring. I'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: I give you five thousand cash, all that ship, whatever
Speaker 1: you want. She kept that motherfucker straight up, and a
Speaker 1: dude left her in like a week. It's not to
Speaker 1: bribe somebody's baby mama to get an abortion. It was
Speaker 1: super early. It was super early. It woult to show nothing. Bro,
Speaker 1: you a sick nigga. Bro, I never looked sick. I
Speaker 1: never said I was nice. Man. You guys over there
Speaker 1: acting like, oh, how you're not nice? Because I never
Speaker 1: said I was nice. I didn't think you were nice
Speaker 1: on it for life? Why I didn't know you was
Speaker 1: the same matter? For sure, you will matter, but you
Speaker 1: actually are a white person, that's right. That was what
Speaker 1: the fuck? And it sounds like you loved her, So
Speaker 1: I guess that's how it worked. Whatever, that's how, that's
Speaker 1: how it didn't work. I tak that much. I don't
Speaker 1: even know what to say, man, I ain't never what's
Speaker 1: funny is he said some ship? Because I don't even
Speaker 1: know what to say. Sometimes I'll be like, damn, how
Speaker 1: do I even respond to that? I just was thinking, like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, Pete, you're a different breed dog, different
Speaker 1: breed you and sugar free man, You and sugar free
Speaker 1: y'a awesome ship? Tell you that he is weird though,
Speaker 1: When some when people have these huge, giant weddings and
Speaker 1: they marriage don't last, that's hilarious. And then you see
Speaker 1: these people who don't have these huge weddings and they'd
Speaker 1: be married for eighty years. I don't know what the
Speaker 1: correlation is, if there is one. That's a good question,
Speaker 1: because it has to be some kind of correlation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I look around it like people that I know.
Speaker 1: There isn't any I've seen like um, like relatives that did,
Speaker 1: like the just did, like the city hall marriages and
Speaker 1: that kind of thing that neils didn't work. They were
Speaker 1: done in eighteen months. And I've seen the big old
Speaker 1: blowout ones burned down too, and I've seen them both work.
Speaker 1: My grandparents wentn't eloped in lank Yuma. It's some tiny
Speaker 1: It was like the Vegas of the time back in
Speaker 1: the forties or fifties or whatever the hell, some tiny
Speaker 1: little chapel that ran over there and got married, came back,
Speaker 1: you know, until death did them part. Have no idea. Um.
Speaker 1: The weirdest ship to weddings with me is when you
Speaker 1: see a girl were white. Now, sometimes I'll be thinking
Speaker 1: to myself, like am I the ownly person here? Thinking
Speaker 1: why is this woman wearing white? Like, and I'm talking
Speaker 1: about like I've only been the four wedding, so I'm
Speaker 1: thinking of who wearing white? I'm like, and they probably
Speaker 1: go here this's it cuts me out. But I was
Speaker 1: thinking to myself, like, this is such a lie. It
Speaker 1: didn't help that you mentioned some of the weddings already,
Speaker 1: but it's like, why would you be wearing white. This
Speaker 1: is not a token color for a wedding, you feel me.
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be emblematic. Yeah, they're supposed to be emblematic. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But I think, but I think sometimes I think that
Speaker 1: also is a problem. Right, because our whole life white.
Speaker 1: We're taught that bride like women are like innocent. I mean,
Speaker 1: they're innocent, they're like precious, they desctly look after and
Speaker 1: care for. Right. That's how you kind of are brought
Speaker 1: into this world believing or you should never put your
Speaker 1: hands on them. They are speed shure, right. And then
Speaker 1: every day you're on planet Earth for as long as
Speaker 1: you could remember, you start noticing that something about what
Speaker 1: people are saying is not either true or easily identifiable. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's female propaganda big time. It's just a bunch of
Speaker 1: lies being fed to us by by women, or being
Speaker 1: fed to men who propagate them with the behest of women.
Speaker 1: So one of the main problems is if you're a bribe,
Speaker 1: if you're a groom, right, and you see this lady
Speaker 1: coming down the aisle, h and she's wearing his white dress,
Speaker 1: she's with her father, you're just staring at it. It
Speaker 1: almost sends off a false like sense of like, what's
Speaker 1: about to happen. So now, now the average nigga, the
Speaker 1: average human being might not look at that deep, but
Speaker 1: that's what I see. I mean, I don't think there's
Speaker 1: anything I can disagree with on that. You're kind of
Speaker 1: almost are saying, Wow, I have a big lie head
Speaker 1: in my way, and the whole family appears to be
Speaker 1: in on it, because the patriarchal said a family is
Speaker 1: the one handing the live to me. I just don't
Speaker 1: understand why they can't wear yellow or like a darker color.
Speaker 1: I mean, and if it was if white signified pure
Speaker 1: in the wedding, no white, you as most of these
Speaker 1: motherckers should be wearing brown or black. Well, if you
Speaker 1: ask the women who are wearing the dresses, all those
Speaker 1: other dicks didn't count, so they vergens because said, you know,
Speaker 1: I said, the only person, the only person a woman
Speaker 1: is more comfortable lying to than you is herself. Hey,
Speaker 1: I need to get you on with a woman man,
Speaker 1: because you just really and you know what, I can't
Speaker 1: just say you're crazy. That's that's my because because it's right,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna jump off that cliff because women do
Speaker 1: have more value. Now, what you find valuable is different, right,
Speaker 1: So I can't tell you what you found value in that.
Speaker 1: I know women have more value to me than vagina,
Speaker 1: of course, and I acknowledge to me, not not to
Speaker 1: the world, but to me totally. So what else do
Speaker 1: you value of a woman? If it's totally you know
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I totally can understand based on knowing you
Speaker 1: know me where you're coming from. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think that you're crazy, you're weird. No, not
Speaker 1: at all. I don't think that I understand that ever
Speaker 1: looked at another human being. I mean, I guess some
Speaker 1: people it is only good for one thing. I guess
Speaker 1: some humans are whatever that one thing could be the
Speaker 1: humans I look at when I or I look around
Speaker 1: and see, I'm like, just just good for nothing, just
Speaker 1: just in my way, just in my fucking way. I
Speaker 1: can't focus because you just really going right now, I'm not,
Speaker 1: I'm not going. But when the monologue starts, it's evident
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I just like I said.
Speaker 1: I question a lot of different things about weddings, like
Speaker 1: why do people who don't go to church do it
Speaker 1: in the church, the same reason they wear a white dress.
Speaker 1: It's all about optics, It's all about your moment in
Speaker 1: the sun. Everyone's looking at you and Saras you wanted
Speaker 1: to be right. You want them to think exactly of
Speaker 1: you what you want them to think of you. So
Speaker 1: at that point, is that a conscious line? Yeah? You
Speaker 1: know you want to know how I know what the
Speaker 1: conscious wants lie? Because who the funk plans the wedding
Speaker 1: out of the two people involved? Sure, the woman. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying, do you think they're aware that only like
Speaker 1: a white dress signifies pure. Women don't aren't aware of truth,
Speaker 1: so they don't know truth exists. No truth exists as
Speaker 1: they see it. The only truth is the on of
Speaker 1: the multiple choice of options for perspective on everything. We're
Speaker 1: looking at it like false false true false false, and
Speaker 1: we go see they're like, hmm A, B, C, D
Speaker 1: E which one makes me feel the best? B. So
Speaker 1: you think when they're wearing these white dresses, they're conscious
Speaker 1: that they should signify pure, but they decide if I
Speaker 1: wear another color, it won't make me feel as good.
Speaker 1: I think it's hard for me to swallow the idea
Speaker 1: that it doesn't cross their mind. I think that it's
Speaker 1: all about, well, I want to look and be perceived
Speaker 1: a certain way. This is my opportunity to paint my
Speaker 1: personality over an entire day in front of everybody that
Speaker 1: I know and care about, and even people that this
Speaker 1: idiot that I'm marrying those and that you know, I
Speaker 1: want to be perceived as prettier better. I mean, you
Speaker 1: see the dress of me that since they're wayte uffing
Speaker 1: that got the fake man? Hey, can they spend hundreds
Speaker 1: of dollars presenting themselves to make themselves look ten times
Speaker 1: more attractive than they will the following morning? Of course,
Speaker 1: so they just they want to make it look like
Speaker 1: this other idiot lucked the funk out. He got a moral, upstanding,
Speaker 1: gorgeous woman, and he should be down on his niece
Speaker 1: thanking God with all the whole hundred of you. And
Speaker 1: it's his my witness and his witness. I can't laugh
Speaker 1: because you it's just give me a trouble every time.
Speaker 1: Oh that's part of the fun. Oh hold up, Hold up.
Speaker 1: So they're consciously aware that the white dress signifies pure
Speaker 1: or do they think just all bride supposed to wear white?
Speaker 1: I think it's like the white is supposed to signify pure.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Is it a conscious lie? I
Speaker 1: don't think it's a conscious lie, but I think it's
Speaker 1: a conscious omission. You know. It's like the truth, the
Speaker 1: whole truth, and nothing but the truth. It's like they're
Speaker 1: a little often see and be m oh Man oh Man.
Speaker 1: And there was the church represent Like if you don't
Speaker 1: go to church right every weekend or this is not
Speaker 1: your church? What does the church represent in the grand
Speaker 1: scale and the wedding? If if you're not if you
Speaker 1: don't have God, if you're not going to the church
Speaker 1: for God to oversee your life, why go to the
Speaker 1: church for God to oversee your wedding? What's their thoughts
Speaker 1: at that point? I think it's simply perception. We want
Speaker 1: to be perceived as good and moral, upstanding, god fearing people. Well,
Speaker 1: this is a great optic for us. It looks very
Speaker 1: conventional and acceptable. And I also have to be here
Speaker 1: so that this idiot that I'm married can thank that
Speaker 1: guy over there on the cross a million times that
Speaker 1: he got such a pure and beautiful woman that I've
Speaker 1: duged myself up into appearing like today, ah oh Man
Speaker 1: oh Man oh man, oh man. Not again. So you're
Speaker 1: saying the whole wedding is just a great lie. It's
Speaker 1: not a great lie. And it's certainly it's a great production.
Speaker 1: You know what it is. It's like it's a TV show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's based on a true story. It's like a sitcom
Speaker 1: that's happening live. Yeah, yeah, it's it's it's like if
Speaker 1: you go onto the Netflix and it says movies based
Speaker 1: on real life. It's not not real life, but it's
Speaker 1: based on it. You know, it's based loosely at one
Speaker 1: time she was a pure person. Yeah, we're summing her
Speaker 1: whole life up into one day. Starts with the dress,
Speaker 1: ends with her half naked and drunk, So it sums
Speaker 1: of her whole life the way she would like other
Speaker 1: people to see it. Yes, it's a little bit of
Speaker 1: her visionist history. So she's rewriting her narrative on this day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's it's a great creative interpretation of reality and
Speaker 1: a based on reality. Um, lifetime movie. Huh. And what
Speaker 1: about the honeymoon? The honeymoon, h I mean ship that
Speaker 1: you owe me if occasion, just see all the effort
Speaker 1: that I put into making that wedding happen for you.
Speaker 1: Did you see how uncomfortable my hair and that dress was,
Speaker 1: so that could look good in front of your family?
Speaker 1: You owe me a vacation. I need to relax. I've
Speaker 1: been stressed out playing this wedding for the last eight months.
Speaker 1: It's a well learned vacation in her mind. Sorry, now,
Speaker 1: it's a well learned vacation with a great opportunity to
Speaker 1: take selfies in an expensive beach resort. So is anything
Speaker 1: about it Real's anything about a wedding reel? Yes? What's
Speaker 1: the realist thing about a wedding? The bill? So what
Speaker 1: about that five or less bill that are here ahead? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is real that that Honestly, I wouldn't have gone
Speaker 1: to that wedding. I don't like weddings. I'm sure ship
Speaker 1: not gonna go to a wedding where you slap me
Speaker 1: in the face and say come through here and we're
Speaker 1: gonna have a checkout cash here so you can buy
Speaker 1: your own food at this reception to this wedding you
Speaker 1: don't want to even be at. So, like, that's pretty
Speaker 1: low rent. If they had done everything except asked the
Speaker 1: guests to pay for their own food, I would have
Speaker 1: been like, this is the most unbelievable thing of all time.
Speaker 1: The fact that they didn't get the permit is the
Speaker 1: greatest thing of all time. They just thumbed their nose
Speaker 1: at the State of California to fuck you. You don't
Speaker 1: fucking permits. You a bunch of communist bastards. I'll stand
Speaker 1: in whatever park I want to. God damn it, I'm
Speaker 1: already paying for the license. Isn't that a permit? It's
Speaker 1: a license, true fact. So your issue is the fact
Speaker 1: she made the guests pay for their own food. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because on the special you should have been them. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's like there's like everything exists on a spectrum.
Speaker 1: There's there, there's obnoxiously overdone, and then there's obnoxiously underdone
Speaker 1: that that's a little bit, and then there's you know,
Speaker 1: right where you want to be in the middle. They
Speaker 1: actually came down so far that they passed the sweet
Speaker 1: spot and were obnoxiously cheap. So what should have they
Speaker 1: done for the food if they wanted to keep the billow?
Speaker 1: Whatever the funk they want, But you've got to provide it.
Speaker 1: I don't I'm not big on inviting people to things
Speaker 1: and asking them to pay for it. Dude, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even be here. You're asked me to be here. Why
Speaker 1: am I? I want to technically have to eat, right?
Speaker 1: You know you don't you don't, but yes, I mean
Speaker 1: I I don't need to eat at the wedding because
Speaker 1: after that miserable display I just witness, I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: a hard ti keeping it down. But most people, yeah,
Speaker 1: I get it. Go ahead, most people. Most people, you know,
Speaker 1: they associate large social gatherings around food and drink. It's
Speaker 1: kind of a tried and true historical culture. It's normal, though,
Speaker 1: It's very normal, very normal. This is, this is, this is.
Speaker 1: I don't know how we spun back I guess because
Speaker 1: we're mentioning women. We're talking about how we spun back
Speaker 1: into this place of why would you wear a white
Speaker 1: dress if you're conscious that white dress is to signify
Speaker 1: Purity's Yeah, it's funny because I just did a podcast
Speaker 1: and I was telling this girl. I was explaining, I'm like,
Speaker 1: makeup is like deceptive, right, It's specially the way it's
Speaker 1: used today. So I'm thinking to myself, right there there,
Speaker 1: women are doing something, whether they're trying to alter the
Speaker 1: contour of their says. The smoothness of their says they're
Speaker 1: altering something, is just mind to deceive you or it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the scene because they're gonna always yes, they're always
Speaker 1: gonna come into a space where it's like, I do
Speaker 1: it for myself, And that's kind of my hardest. That's
Speaker 1: the one point. I don't believe. Everything that they do
Speaker 1: is for themselves. For fox sake. Of course they're doing
Speaker 1: from themselves. They're getting you for themselves because they need
Speaker 1: a man, because they want you to be in their life.
Speaker 1: They want to be seen with you. They want you
Speaker 1: to pay for their ship. They want you to entertain them,
Speaker 1: they want you to company them. They want you all
Speaker 1: that ship. They're doing that for them. Everything that they
Speaker 1: do is for them. And I know for a fact
Speaker 1: that that they know it's a lie because I've tried
Speaker 1: to see girls. I'm cool with it, I like, and
Speaker 1: they refused to see me because their hair is fucked up.
Speaker 1: But they make up, not on or whatever the funk
Speaker 1: else they won't. All right, I can't see you right now.
Speaker 1: I gotta keep up this lie. Funk out of here.
Speaker 1: It's true, I mean, can can can I scratch off
Speaker 1: the serial numbers, change the color of the car, and
Speaker 1: roll back the odometer. No, they don't roll back the oldometer,
Speaker 1: do they. Oh, you can spray all that makeup all
Speaker 1: over your face. That's rolling back the oldometer. Yeah, all
Speaker 1: that work on the face, work, dying the gray out
Speaker 1: of your hair, putting all the spray on, wet foundation on,
Speaker 1: and all that we foundation putting over that, and the
Speaker 1: foundation they put on over that, and then the foundation
Speaker 1: they put on over that to cover up all those wrinkles.
Speaker 1: Your goddamn right. And that one day, that one day
Speaker 1: is the day where nobody's where is it? Is it? No,
Speaker 1: that's not the day everybody's applauding those lives. It's today
Speaker 1: no one is allowed to call bullshit. Good looking out
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