1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: My fiance was furious I didn't give her brother a 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Rolex for his wedding. Now I'm reconsidering if I want 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: to go through with our wedding. 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: He just wants so right X come on so rowly. 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 1: I thirty two male, have a successful business in NYC, 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: and I'm engaged to my fiance, twenty six female. We've 7 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: been together for a few years and we're planning to 8 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: get married in June twenty twenty five. I'm doing pretty 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: well financially, and I recently bought a house where she'll 10 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 1: move in after the wedding. I'm really close with my 11 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: younger brother, thirty male, and we've been best friends for 12 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: as long as I can remember. By the way, this 13 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: comes from Faz drew on the r slash shokey story 14 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,959 Speaker 1: to him subvert it. So he was married in April, 15 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: and as a wedding gift, I surprised him with a 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: Rolex he'd been eyeing for a while. He didn't expect 17 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: it and was over the moon about it, which makes 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: me feel great because I love him to death. Now 19 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: here's where things get sticky. Ooh. My fiance's older brother 20 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 1: got married two weeks ago, and leading up to his wedding. 21 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: She kept making comments about how much her brother loves Rolexes. 22 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: She'd mention it here and there, but I didn't really 23 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: pay much attention. For her brother's wedding. I decided to 24 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: gift him a two thousand dollars prepaid credit card as 25 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: a honeymoon gift. That's a pretty great gift. 26 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, just two bands on a two K card. 27 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: That's exceptional. 28 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: That's really good gift. I thought it was a generous gesture, 29 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: and he seemed grateful. But after the wedding, my fiance 30 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: started acting strange. Today, she finally told me she was 31 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: disappointed in me. Apparently she'd convinced herself that I was 32 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: going to get her brother a Rolex, just like I 33 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: did for mine. So the thing is that her brother 34 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: is actually not a pie's brother. Why would he gets 35 00:01:59,320 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: not related? 36 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 3: I think she also said it perfectly. She had convinced herself. 37 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: So she had gone through kind of like a short 38 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: term psychosis where she convinced herself. 39 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: She's just going to bed every night. She's like, oh, 40 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: I can't wait. 41 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 1: She's manifesting. 42 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 3: She can't wait for that, Ely, I can't wait for 43 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 3: that Roly it didn't work. It's not there yet. 44 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: Oh it's going to be there soon coming. 45 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: She even hinted to her brother and some of her 46 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: friends that I was going to buy him a fancy 47 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: gift like a rolex. Now she's saying that I was 48 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: cheap because I only gave her brother a two thousand 49 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: dollars gift, and how it doesn't compare to the twenty 50 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 1: twenty thousand dollars I spent on my brother's watch. 51 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 3: Who wee. 52 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: But again, is this brother is that a. 53 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 2: Fair like ratio? 54 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 3: It's like actual brother twenty thousand brother in law like 55 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 3: ten of a real brother. 56 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: So you knock that down to two thousand, right? 57 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? 58 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: You know yeah maybe yeah? 59 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 2: You know his brother a percentage bracket. 60 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe next year I get like a four K Yeah, bruse, 61 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: you now keep it up, maybe next year. I'm honestly 62 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: shocked and upset. Why would she think I'd spend that 63 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: kind of money on her brother just because I did 64 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: it for mine. I love her brother, but there's no 65 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: comparison between him and my own brother, who's my best friend. 66 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: I feel like she'll she's completely overlooking the fact that 67 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: I gave her brother a gift that most people would 68 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: consider very generous. Now I'm starting to have serious second 69 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: thoughts about this relationship. I never imagined she'd put this 70 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: kind of pressure on me or act like I owe 71 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: her family the same kind of money I spend on 72 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: my own. I'm thinking of confronting her, but I'm wondering 73 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: if I'm missing something here? Am I the a hole 74 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: for not buying her brother a Rolex and being upset 75 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: about her reaction? And there is an update? No? 76 00:03:55,920 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: No, no, no, she's the a hole. 77 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: Yeah for expecting that and also telling her brother to 78 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: expect it. 79 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the things she set him up. Yeah, this 80 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: failure for some reason, she just expected. 81 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 2: That's you know. 82 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: Also, I want to know what Ope's wife, Oh, well, 83 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 1: a fiance. I guess what O Peace fiance got Opie's brother? Yeah, 84 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: did you get a twenty thousand dollars watch brand? 85 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 2: Maybe we should do a little examination. 86 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: Of that, perhaps freebares. But there is an update. It's 87 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: been a few days since my original post, and I've 88 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: gone through many of your comments. Before I dive into 89 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: the update, I want to address some address some common questions. First, 90 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: a lot of you criticized me for giving my brother 91 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: a Rolex as a wedding gift, saying a wedding gift 92 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: should be for the couple. To clarify, I did give 93 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: my sister in law a separate gift, a gold jewelry 94 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: set from her favorite brand. Second, many of you said 95 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: some harsh things about my fiance, questioning whether she even 96 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 1: had a job. She's currently completing her PhD, which offers 97 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: from both with offers from both Meta and Google. 98 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 2: So no, yeah, she's like, Hey, by the way, my 99 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:13,679 Speaker 2: fiance has got. 100 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: It going on. 101 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: She's got offers on the table. 102 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't have a job currently, but. 103 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 3: You know those are juicy offers though. If those are 104 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,239 Speaker 3: pretty tech sector, pretty good, all my goodness. 105 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: I have no doubt she'll be earning a great salary 106 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: when she finishes. And if she does get that great salary, 107 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,119 Speaker 1: then she better get your brother a twenty thousand dollars gift. 108 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 1: As for our age difference, she's twenty six and I 109 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: just turned thirty two, so it's only a five year gap. 110 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: It's disappointing that some of you assumed she was with 111 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: me just for money. Also, for the for those who asked, 112 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: she gave my brother a gift worth around one thousand dollars. 113 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 3: Okay, so o Pee doubled that for her brother, Like, 114 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 3: it's can we all just be happy that we can 115 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 3: afford nice things? 116 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: Clearly, Hey, come on. 117 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 4: They're gifts. Their gifts if they're meaningful gifts. Fifty bucks, 118 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 4: ten bucks, no bucks, their gifts. I don't know why. 119 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 4: This is like a measuring contest right Literally. 120 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you have to spend a certain amount 121 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: or you don't love me? 122 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 123 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: No, who do you love more? Spend more money? Oh? 124 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 3: I thought I thought you would love me twenty thousand. 125 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 3: You only love me two thousands? 126 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 2: Like I love you infinite, Dakota, do you love me 127 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: three thousand? Tony Stark too soon? 128 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: Now for the actual update. I asked her to meet 129 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: me for dinner, and after we went to a nice restaurant, 130 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: we headed back to my place. I brought up the 131 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: tension that's been building in our relationship over the last 132 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: few weeks, and she immediately blamed me, claiming I embarrassed 133 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: and insulted her brother with the gift I gave him. 134 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: At that point, I nearly lost it. I reminded her 135 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: of everything I've done for her over the years, including 136 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: letting her live rent free in my old apartment, which 137 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: I could easily rent out for thirty five hundred dollars 138 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:02,239 Speaker 1: per per month. I was too drained to argue any further, 139 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 1: so I brought up the topic of a prenup. I 140 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 1: told her it was in both of our best interests 141 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: to sign one before getting married. Her reaction was intense. 142 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: Oh boy, she went wide eyed, started yelling and accused 143 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: me of believing she was only with me for my money, 144 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: which you know you're not doing a good job of, 145 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: you know, proving otherwise. 146 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: Your reaction is maybe a little telling, a little bit telling. 147 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: How dare you think I'm only with you for your money? 148 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: I'm not signing that because it's I watch your money. 149 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: I'm offended, Diana says, someone insult me with two K Please. Yes, 150 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: I was just just really rub it in my face. 151 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Oh, two thousand dollars would have hurt my 152 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 3: feelings right now. 153 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 2: Fifty bucks have hurt my feelings right now. To be 154 00:07:53,440 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: so mean? What was that? What is that? Please? Please, 155 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: please please hello. 156 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,559 Speaker 1: Her reaction was intense. She went, I said that, Umm. 157 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: She was furious that I would even consider divorce after 158 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: arguing for over an hour. I finally said I needed 159 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: more time to think about a relationship. She asked if 160 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: I was breaking up with her, and I said yes, 161 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: woh prevorce. She went quiet for a few minutes before 162 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: asking what I wanted her to do with the engagement ring. 163 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: I told her she could keep it, Sally, give it 164 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: to your brother and I don't care. 165 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Maybe you can use it as 166 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 2: a gift, Shay, yeah. Or you could just take it 167 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 2: to the punch shop. 168 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: Thank to the porn shop. 169 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 2: The pa w are we go there? 170 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: We go on? Um, still, it's still sounded bit. Where 171 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: was I just someone just donate? Oh my god, Trish 172 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 1: twenty one, thank you, Oh my. 173 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 5: God, I was, and I was jugging actually Nick Chris 174 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 5: Day Gifts twenty twenty memberships Trish. 175 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: Twenty one, thank you for the ten gifted memberships. 176 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: Geez, Louise. 177 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: Also, I do have to unfortunately we can only go 178 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: until five today, just so you guys, don't you know, 179 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: donate you know, all of your stuff today because we 180 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: were doing that. We're recording the game show, so we 181 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: can only go to five day, but we will continue. 182 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: For now, so we only have one more donation, Milestone. 183 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: We only have one more donation, Milestone, tap, but thank 184 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: you so much. I will continue the story and then 185 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: read those donations. She went quiet for a few minutes 186 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: before asking what I wanted her to do with the 187 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: engagement ring. I told so she could keep it. Then 188 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: she asked about the apartment. I told her she could 189 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 1: stay until the end of October, but after that she'd 190 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,959 Speaker 1: need to find a new place. She seemed shocked by 191 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: my answer, though I'm not sure what she was expecting. 192 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:19,119 Speaker 1: In short, we've ended our relationship. She tried calling me yesterday, 193 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: but I was in a meeting and didn't pick up. 194 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: She later texted asking if we could meet on Saturday, 195 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: and while I agreed, I've already made up my mind 196 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: I'm not going back to her. Her dad reached out, 197 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: and while we've always gotten along, he was understanding and 198 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: wished me the best. On the other hand, my mom 199 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: isn't happy with me, mostly because she got close to 200 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: her and I didn't share the real reason behind the breakup. 201 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: It sucks, especially after all the time and energy I 202 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: invested in the relationship, but honestly, I'm glad it happened 203 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: now rather than a few years down the line. 204 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 2: Dude, big facts, big old facts. 205 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: Before you got married. Going forward, I'm not rushing into 206 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: another serious relationship until I find the right person time 207 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: to enjoy it being single. 208 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: I like the way that that was. 209 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 3: I'm not going to rush into it a serious relationship 210 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 3: until I find the right person to rush into a 211 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 3: serious and then. 212 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: I'll rush in and then it'll be fine. But we 213 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: would love for you guys to rush into our live 214 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: streams every week to at three pm ps T, just 215 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: topper profile as best as you can rush on over all, Right, 216 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: I need to pop this one over into uh, into 217 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: the one that we in one second, pop it on 218 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: some of the donations. 219 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 2: But ah, let's go from the top. Here from the top, Yeah. 220 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 3: Sam e you same same Yeah. Gifted five okay storytime memberships. 221 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 3: Welcome to the family, five beautiful little babies. 222 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 4: Uh. 223 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 3: Then we have Stella Davis member for six months. Could 224 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 3: I also get a kiss blown from keon? Also, I'm fine, 225 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 3: just feeling miserable, but I have a ton of vitamin 226 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 3: C and okay, okay stories to help me through. 227 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 2: Oh love y'all, love you. 228 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 4: Here's a kiss blown from me, Go wow to you 229 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 4: and to everyone else. 230 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 2: There's a wing to. 231 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 3: MJ grow gifted five okay, storytime memberships, just grow in 232 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 3: that family. 233 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: Trish twenty one with the ten it was a subtrain. 234 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 2: It was it was gift sub training, got a gift, gift, gift, 235 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 2: some trade gift, some train. There's oh oh ke on 236 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 2: nick On. That's why we say that you're the degenerator 237 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 2: of this. She didn't say that Sophia was the one 238 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 2: who she little did like the little the chuckle because 239 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 2: she caught you. Because she caught you. 240 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 3: All right, I fixed and I do think we have 241 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 3: some in the other Wait, go down the way, vix 242 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 3: mix two dollars, Thank you very much. 243 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: Be Florida strong. We are going to be all right, 244 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 2: Yes you are. Yeah, I'm glad. If ever anyone over 245 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 2: there please be okay and yeah you know, yeah, sorry, 246 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: But that it generally it was. 247 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 3: It was less extreme than they predicted, thank goodness, because 248 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: they were predicting it was gonna be the end of 249 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 3: the world. 250 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 2: Can we kick the chat? Kick me got? 251 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: Emily, thank you for the two bucks, and Kristin foid Hot, 252 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: thank you again for the twenty gifted memberships. 253 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 2: And like the stream, We're only one hundred and eighty 254 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 2: five likes away from a wheel if you. 255 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:37,719 Speaker 1: Write, click and then refresh. Yeah, so, okay, at the top, 256 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: got it should be at the top. We're good, Joe 257 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: smiamat olber Quez, thank you for the twenty seven Swedish Corona. 258 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 4: Ken. 259 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: You guys have to stop turning me straight. 260 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 2: I'll stop when you guys stop. 261 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 3: You know that's means he'll never stop because y'all are 262 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 3: never stopping. 263 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 2: There you go, can't won't stop, So I won't stop. 264 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 2: But I believe that's no we have. We have all 265 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 2: those donuts in the other chat. 266 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: I think no, no, no, those are from uh. 267 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 2: No, oh yeah they are not. I m. 268 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: Good. 269 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 2: Eyes are full of dirt. 270 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: My eyes are pretty bad. I have to go get 271 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: my content. I have to go to an. 272 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 3: Okay, let's got a donation from Winter for ten dollars. 273 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 3: Steak you Winter. 274 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 5: Uh. 275 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 3: I love watching you guys. You help me get through 276 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 3: the end of my workday. We love to hear it. 277 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: You're end of workday and are end of work day. 278 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 2: Sometimes we all need a little help. Donation for ten dollars. 279 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 3: I wanted to let everyone know that we are safe 280 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 3: from Hurricane Milton still out of power, but no damage 281 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 3: that is Yeah, that's great. Yeah, you've heard the power 282 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 3: is the biggest. There's a lot of power outages that 283 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 3: who knows when it will be back. 284 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 285 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 3: Next one is from Purple Hair Fox. Five dollars, Thank 286 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 3: you very much, Purple Hair Fox. The father is the 287 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 3: a hole for knocking insulting with the mother before putting 288 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 3: chemicals on the child's hair. But the mother is overreacting 289 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 3: because that's not how it works. There is no healing 290 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 3: the hair. The hair will just grow out natural. It 291 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 3: won't go back to natural after it's damage. Oh, I 292 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 3: think you're talking about Op's mom. Yes, that mays back 293 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 3: to the second story. Yes, mama or lord five dollars. 294 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 3: If you're a racist and a biginning you know, I 295 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 3: clap your hands. 296 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 2: Oh God. 297 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: Zoned out and I heard clap your hands. 298 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: And I like, like monkey instincts, I'm not gonna lie. 299 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: Put one hand up. 300 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 4: Okay, you didn't say Simon says you didn't say Simon says, Yeah. 301 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: You didn't say Simon. Sorry, guys, who. 302 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 3: Someone's gonna put that now? Not a single inch I 303 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: moved zero inches. 304 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: Okay, But you were the Simon in the situation. 305 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: You're the one reading it and we're like, oh my mess, 306 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 2: I guess that because that does look bad on me. 307 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 3: Uh. Another vix Makes donation for five dollars. Thank you 308 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 3: vix Makes. The Power company is here and we have power. 309 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god, the power's back already. I was looking 310 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 3: for all my fellow Floridians. Donation from shell Bell five dollars. 311 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 3: Thank you, shell Bell. Love you guys, We love you. 312 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 3: Uh from La five dollars, Thank you. 313 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 2: Al A. 314 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 3: Just found you yesterday. Thanks for the entertainment while working 315 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 3: on my MBA got it. 316 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: Welcome. 317 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a master. Yeah, well master. 318 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: It's so freaking good. 319 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 3: By the end of this and last donation from Sam 320 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 3: E for twenty five slidh. 321 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I have not been on a lot. Don't 322 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 2: don't apologize. Everybody's got stuff going on. Still listening to 323 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: you guys as I work. 324 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 3: It's keeping me from going crazy from delivering packages. 325 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: And all this darn political mail. 326 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 3: We mail carriers are tired of passing it out and 327 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 3: getting out late, getting off late every day being nice 328 00:16:58,680 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 3: to us. 329 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: Please irispect our federal post work. 330 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: Yes, you guys work so hard. 331 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 2: Shout out shout out to you guys. The only federal 332 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 2: is that I respect with my whole heart. Okay, well, okay, 333 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 2: you mean yeah. 334 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 3: Okay, name one other federal agency that you like as 335 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,439 Speaker 3: much as the post Hey, there might be some in 336 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 3: the chat you never developed. 337 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: This office is like the best one. 338 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 2: Post office is the best one, the best one. 339 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:19,400 Speaker 1: Chat. 340 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 3: Tell me what federal agency you work for, and I'll 341 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 3: tell you why they're bad except for the Post Office. 342 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: For the best office. But you know what's great this 343 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: next story and this is a new episode. 344 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 2: It's what are we starting on now? Because you kind 345 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: of you We're going to S two now? 346 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: Sorry? Sorry, no the two? What's it called? 347 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 2: Oh? No? Nine three? I did drink a year, but 348 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 2: I think I have that I did drink. 349 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: Is that the it should just be the second? 350 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 2: Easy to hush me into? Yep, cool, got that one? 351 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 3: All right? 352 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 2: Let me get that ready? Make that song is stuck 353 00:17:58,040 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 2: in my head, the clap they clap your hands song 354 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:00,360 Speaker 2: and stuff in my head. 355 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: But this version of. 356 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 2: It, no, just the normal one. 357 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:06,479 Speaker 1: Is the normal one? Guy, just a normal one. 358 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 2: I didn't I know. Okay, we're ready, yep, all. 359 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: Right, let's do it. I just told my husband I'm pregnant, 360 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: but he accused me of cheating and demanded oppaternity tests. 361 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 2: I don't think that's my baby. Oh bo, why don't 362 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 2: you get it too? A little test for me. 363 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: I had twenty six female and my husband Alex twenty 364 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 1: seven male. Have been married for a year. Recently I 365 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: found out I was pregnant. This was not planned. However, ever, 366 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: since we got married, we have not been using protection 367 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: every time we got intimate, and I'm currently not on 368 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 1: any birth control. By the way, this comes from pink 369 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: Fremmen on the r slash. Okay, story time is subritt 370 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: it so oh. 371 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 3: Wait, pause, because I'm seeing some comments in here talking 372 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 3: about the military. 373 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: Everybody in the military. 374 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 3: I'm not Yeah, well, what do you say all the 375 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 3: people that are that, the soldiers, the enlist, the the 376 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 3: the yanizational structure themselves. My problem is with bureaucracy. It's 377 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 3: not with the people that are in them. Okay, to 378 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 3: be clear, I love you all, thank. 379 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: You for serving our country. 380 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 2: For real, I have a family intervets. 381 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 3: I mean that, yeah, which is part of why I 382 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 3: don't like Yeah, bureaucracy, No, I get you. 383 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, sorry, my gas is that I wait, where 384 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: am I? My gas is that I'm. 385 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 2: Only a few weeks along. Let's just go right back 386 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: from the top. I'm sorry. I just had it jumping 387 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 2: because everyone was like saying that was flaming vets. So 388 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 2: I didn't want to let that slide. You are digging off. No, 389 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 2: you do not want to I really did not want 390 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 2: to let that. 391 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 4: I saw this coming a mile away chat and. 392 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, he's saying it with 393 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 2: his chest. He's going to do it, and you know 394 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 2: what to do it. 395 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 3: It's the terrible wheels of bureaucracy. Okay, rant about it forever. Okay, 396 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,719 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm I will stop interrupting. 397 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 2: Now, let's go. 398 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: That's good to do. My gas is that I'm only 399 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 1: a few weeks along. I haven't seen a doctor yet. Anyway, 400 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,360 Speaker 1: I told him when he got back home from work yesterday. 401 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: I personally was very happy about it because I've always 402 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 1: wanted to be a mom. I was pretty sure. I 403 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 1: was all smiles when I told him, and I thought 404 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: he would be too once he found out the news. 405 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 1: Let me add that he's been neutral on having kids. 406 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:22,959 Speaker 1: My assumption was wrong. Immediately he gets super upset. And 407 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: asks how in the hell this could happen. I explained 408 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: to him that while it was sudden, so we haven't 409 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: been using protection every time, so it wasn't that surprising. 410 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: I thought he would understand for some reason, he didn't. 411 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: After a few minutes of back and forth, he demanded 412 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 1: a paternity test and told me there was no way 413 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 1: it was his. I was hurt and insulted. Let me 414 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 1: be very clear that I did not and will never 415 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: cheat on my husband. I have also never given him 416 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: any reason for him to be suspicious about me cheating 417 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: on him either. I was so taken aback that he 418 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: doubted my loyalty enough to ask for a paternity test. 419 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 2: It is pretty bad. 420 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's a horrible jaccusation. 421 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 2: As a significant other. Bad look. 422 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: I wonder why he's so jinx Angel says he has 423 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 1: to be projecting. 424 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 2: I wonder if, perhaps, perhaps is he the cheater? 425 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: I think I I think maybe. 426 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 3: That would be the first time that's ever happened. What 427 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 3: if he was the cheater? 428 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: No, he's kidding. 429 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: Oh, I was like just kidding. 430 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 3: It was sarcastic. Okay, okay, sorry your eyes worm, queen. 431 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It's in my eye, waited. 432 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,679 Speaker 2: To get you gas. I think that's what needs to happen. 433 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: I need new prescription. I told him I couldn't believe 434 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 1: he was seriously asking for that. He said that I 435 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: wasn't helping my case and that if I had nothing 436 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: to hide, then I would take the test and prove 437 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: my loyalty to him. Okay, cop I honestly can't remember 438 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: all that I said, but I ended up saying something 439 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: along the lines of, if you're doubting me and my 440 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: loyalty so much that you think I cheated on you 441 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: and got pregnant with someone else's baby, then I don't 442 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: think I want one with you anymore. I don't want 443 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: to be tied to someone who clearly doesn't trust me. 444 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, baby, very fair, fair enough. 445 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 1: He blew up at me again and accused me of 446 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 1: cheating once again. It was a big argument, and he 447 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: said I was being crappy, dismissing his concerns and saying 448 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: that asking for a paternity test was valid. 449 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 3: No, I mean, according to who if you guys got 450 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 3: together in the last month, Yeah, maybe, like I don't know, 451 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 3: like what if this was a whirlwind and yet but 452 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 3: that doesn't sound like the case. 453 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: Don't sound like it. It was a big argument, but 454 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 1: in the end I agreed to the test, but said 455 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 1: that I stood by my words. Had to highlight that 456 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 1: because some people are saying that I didn't agree to 457 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: it when I very much did. We haven't spoken since 458 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 1: the argument, and he's currently at work. I went to 459 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: my friend for advice, and she said that while he 460 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: was out of line for accusing me of cheating, I 461 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 1: shouldn't have said that to him over one of his 462 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: valid concerns. What your friend is wrong? Valid concern? Why 463 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: does everyone think that you're cheating? 464 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, is this friend like I know you, 465 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 2: I know you. 466 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 1: It's a pretty valid concern. 467 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,199 Speaker 2: He knows you, I know, he knows, he knows you. 468 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: We know I know you. There we go, baby, Valid and. 469 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: That clearly had a reason to feel that way. Oh, 470 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: and that he clearly had a reason to feel that 471 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: way about the situation. I cannot fathom what made him 472 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: feel like I was cheating on him. I was just 473 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: so hurt that he wouldn't sult me like that and 474 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 1: accuse me of doing something so disgusting when I thought 475 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 1: we were supposed to have trust in each other and uh, 476 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: but am I the able for saying what I did? 477 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: And there is an edit and an update, But uh, what. 478 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 3: Do you think to Gooda and Keon, I mean, I 479 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 3: don't think you're the a hole first suggesting like that, 480 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,719 Speaker 3: it's it's kind of extremely whack for you to I 481 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,360 Speaker 3: don't think tell me any test. But at the same time, 482 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 3: like I would just get it and be like, see, look, 483 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 3: you're an idiot. 484 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 2: But I think that, like and then I would leave. 485 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I think I would get it and then 486 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: be like, you don't trust me. So clearly this relationship 487 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: is not working. 488 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, did on Dakota, Like, can you imagine just 489 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 4: like Okay, got the paperwork, slam, now we're done. 490 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you do a double kind of so you have 491 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: the the paternity test and then underneath it with like 492 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: a little uh, with a little clip. Uh, there's a 493 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: divorce paper. 494 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 2: The divorce paper you just got served double time edit. 495 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 1: A lot of people are suggesting he got a secret besectomy, 496 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,919 Speaker 1: and I think some of you in the comments were 497 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: saying that that failed, and that did cross my mind 498 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: during the argument. I did ask if he got a 499 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 1: aseectomy or was infertile, and that's why the baby couldn't 500 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: be his, but he dismissed that and continues saying it 501 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: just couldn't be his. We what without providing me a 502 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: solid reason. So in that regard, I have really no 503 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: idea what to say. Edit too, I feel I should 504 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: elaborate on the neutral about kids part. I told him 505 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: while we were still just stating that no kids was 506 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: a deal breaker for me. He said that was fine 507 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: because his stance on it was that if we ever 508 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 1: have kids, it's fine. If something happens and we don't, 509 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 1: it's fine. I'm calling that neutral since I don't know 510 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,479 Speaker 1: what else to call it. So when I told him 511 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: I was pregnant, I thought he would be fine with it, 512 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: like he said, but apparently he just changed his mind 513 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 1: about that and didn't tell me. And also, I have 514 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 1: no issues with men wanting paternity tests. I just had 515 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: an issue with him latently accusing me of being a 516 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: cheater with no solid proof to back it up with. 517 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: What's your conspiracy theory? My conspiracy theory is that we 518 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: stop it hit it. 519 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 3: I bet you that this guy had news from a 520 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 3: doctor in his past where the doctor was like, you're 521 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 3: not going to be able to have kids, buddy. Yeah, 522 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 3: and he just was like he just took that as 523 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 3: absolute fact. And now that maybe maybe Doc was a 524 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 3: little off littles a couple eggs sperm. 525 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 2: You'll learn one day, I think how that works. Eggs 526 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 2: a little bit off, a couple eggs of sperm. Did 527 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,640 Speaker 2: you just say that? Did you just say a couple 528 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,479 Speaker 2: eggs of sperm? 529 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: I think that was the kid said a couple off, 530 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: a couple of eggs, and then I went, no, sperm off. 531 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,919 Speaker 3: He was just off. He was off the air. I 532 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 3: only think about women. Doc, pardon me, doc ate way 533 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 3: too many just blew up? Is that the doctor ate 534 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 3: too many eggs. Cholesterol was causing his brain to work improperly, 535 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 3: exactly right, exactly, and sperm also was a. 536 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:51,439 Speaker 2: Burd but part of that. 537 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: And there you have a biology and we're doctors now, 538 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: and we're doctors. 539 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Birds and Bees with your time. That's 540 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 2: the new name of the show. 541 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: But there is an update, so let's get into it. Hi, everybody. 542 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,880 Speaker 1: This isn't going to be a super crazy update saying 543 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: we got the test back and he got a secret visectomy, 544 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 1: but it is kind of a big one. Oh, this 545 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: might be a long post, so i'll post also, I'll 546 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: put a TLDR at the bottom. Thank you for everyone's 547 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: kind words and advice. It was all super helpful, including criticism, 548 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: because it really made me reflect on my behavior and 549 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 1: how I handle the situation. On top of that, I'm 550 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: so sorry that I didn't really respond to any comments. 551 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: There were a lot just coming in NonStop and it 552 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: was a little overwhelming. Moving on, after I made that 553 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,360 Speaker 1: post and he came home from work, I cooked him 554 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 1: his favorite dinner and let him relax a bit before 555 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 1: I calmly approached the subject again. You're being too nice 556 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: to him, Sam. I told him that I was happy 557 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: to do the paternity test, just that I was a 558 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 1: little hurt that he would accuse me of cheating on 559 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: him because I loved him a lot and would hate 560 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: to make him feel that way. I also apologized for 561 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,919 Speaker 1: what I said. I asked him if he was just 562 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 1: overwhelmed scared from the news and that's why he accused 563 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 1: me like he did. He said that wasn't it, and 564 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: that was genuinely his biggest concern. He then told me 565 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 1: he wasn't willing to talk to me, say anything else, 566 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 1: or negotiate about anything until after we get the test done. 567 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 2: Oh. 568 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 1: I asked if he was sure, and he practically yelled 569 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 1: at me, telling me to drop the subject for now. 570 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: So I did, and so things have been super tense. 571 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 3: Him drop this guy, drop him if he does have 572 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 3: something he needs to shay. 573 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: It's like you use your words. 574 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, communicate, bro. 575 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: Literally communicate. I'd been scrolling through comment after comment for 576 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: what feels like forever. A lot of you said he 577 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: was cheating. I wanted to give him the benefit of 578 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 1: the doubt and chalk it up to him being told 579 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: he was infertile or something, but I ended up getting 580 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: a really bad, sinking feeling in my gut that I 581 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: should check his phone. I never wanted to be the 582 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: type of person that goes through the esso's phone obsessively 583 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: for no reason, but my gut has never really steered 584 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: me wrong. So I did it last night while he 585 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: was sleeping. I snuck his phone off his nightstand and 586 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 1: went out to the living room. Are you not known 587 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: going on phones? Because I think it ruins relationships? But 588 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: I think your relationship was already ruined. So I love, Hey, 589 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: he's cheating on me. And if that wasn't bad enough. 590 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: It is. Indeed, with my friend I mentioned in the 591 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: last bust, I was like, oh, it's a valid concern. 592 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 2: Wow, wow, Wow. 593 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: The audacity, the audacity. Also, Nicole h is getting std 594 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: panel absolutely because they were doing it without protection. 595 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my goodness, Yeah yeah. 596 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 2: You would have thought maybe us at the very beginning 597 00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 2: of this episode. You are not the father. 598 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: You're not like a lot of you said. I guess 599 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,719 Speaker 1: it does make sense now that I think about it, 600 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 1: but I'm still really shocked. I'd never been suspicious of 601 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: the relationship before, but after reading the comments, I realize 602 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: her reaction was a red flag. I went through their texts, 603 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: and from what I can tell, it's only been going 604 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,800 Speaker 1: on for a few months and started after we got married. 605 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: Why why Why would you get married? If you why? Why? 606 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: But really I only focused on the text from right 607 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: after I told him I was pregnant. You texted her 608 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 1: saying things like, I don't know what I was thinking 609 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: when I decided to effor without a prediction. She says, 610 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 1: it's mine, of course, but I swear to God it'd 611 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: better not be. I'll be happy if it isn't. Obviously, 612 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't want a kid with her, I'd rather be 613 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: with you than stuck with her, you in this context 614 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 1: being my friend. Dude, I know I should have been careful. 615 00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: I don't care if she thinks I'm a d or 616 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: an awful husband right now. This was his reply when 617 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: my friend told him that I came to her about 618 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 1: the situation. This guy sucks? Why are you with your wife? 619 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: They both suck? 620 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,240 Speaker 1: They both Yeah, the wife and the I mean the 621 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: husband and the friend are terrible. 622 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 2: You chose to buried this person. 623 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: Literally, they said, do you take this person to be 624 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: your lawfully wedded wife? And you said yes? 625 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 2: And she didn't say she objects? Yeah, friend, the friend. 626 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, No, it doesn't make any sense. 627 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 3: This guy's stinkiest little stink bug. 628 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: Stink or stinky stinker. So yeah, those were just a 629 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: few messages, but their conversations were hard to read, and 630 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 1: I ended up crying a lot. 631 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 2: Oh. 632 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: I screenshoted the messages, sent them to myself from his phone, 633 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: deleted the text on his phone so it looked like 634 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 1: he never sent anything, and then deleted the screenshots and 635 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: deleted them from the recently deleted folder. I also went 636 00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: on his laptop to check if they were deleted there too. 637 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: From his text, I gathered that he did not have 638 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: a secret vasectomy that failed. Nor does he think he's 639 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: sterile sterile since he said himself that he should have 640 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: been more careful and he doesn't know what he was thinking. 641 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 1: I don't think he'd be saying that if he thought 642 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 1: he was infertile. I also want to say that, yes 643 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: he knows I'm not currently on birth control, and he 644 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 1: was the one that decided to not use protection, not me. 645 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: I just agreed. I did not pressure him at first 646 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 1: he was pulling out, but occasionally he wouldn't This man 647 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: doesn't I seem to understand biology. 648 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 3: This guy needs to get thrown into the sun. Dude's 649 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 3: real elon, If you're gonna do anything for the human race, 650 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 3: create a system that allows us to throw people into 651 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 3: the sun, and then. 652 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 2: And then yourself. 653 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: I was about to say that, just to make sure 654 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: it works. 655 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you wouldn't you want to be in charge. 656 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 3: Wouldn't it be cool to be the first person to 657 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 3: be thrown into the sun? 658 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 1: Really, wouldn't that be so cool? 659 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 2: Wouldn't you'd be a cool first thing to go down? 660 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 1: As I think it would be so cool if I 661 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: were such a martyr. Oh my god, I really want 662 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: to do that. 663 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 3: Hold on, there are precious gems in the sun for 664 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 3: your family to exploit. 665 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: I don't know why he would continue not always say that. No, 666 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 1: I don't know why he would continue not wearing protection 667 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: occasionally after the affairs started. I'm guessing it was because 668 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: telling me he no longer wanted to go without protection 669 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: every time, no matter what would make me suspicious. Still sucks, 670 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: but that's basically it for now. I am not going 671 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 1: to confront him about cheating right away. I am going 672 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: to get tested, then confront him and tell him I 673 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 1: want a divorce along with the test results. I mean, 674 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 1: that's currently my plan, but my mind is all over 675 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 1: the place, so maybe that's not the best way to 676 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:45,479 Speaker 1: do this. 677 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. 678 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 1: It's like six am. I feel like crap, and I 679 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: haven't got gotten any sleep. I almost forgot to mention 680 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: that I am going to get an STD test just 681 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: to be safe, and just to be safe, you should 682 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: join us live every week three pm PST. Just tap 683 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 1: her profile, just to be safe, Just to be safe. 684 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 1: I think I am going to terminate the pregnancy just 685 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: because I don't want my first full term pregnancy to 686 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 1: be literal hell when it should be a happy experience. 687 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: But thank you to everyone congratulating me. It means a 688 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: lot and that is the end of that story. But yeah, 689 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: get rid of this man. He sucks. 690 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, no need, no need to apologize. 691 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 3: Also, I think it's great that she literally took your 692 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,360 Speaker 3: advice and was like, I'm gonna give him the paternity 693 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 3: test and. 694 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: Paper. 695 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, get rid of his husband, get rid of the friend, 696 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 4: get rid of them. 697 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 2: Yep. 698 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 3: And we always to the sun to the I just 699 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 3: want them to just be thrown into the sun. 700 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 2: Yes, Elon, get to work. 701 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 1: Let's actually do a poll. 702 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 2: Let's check check donus pole. 703 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 1: While we're checking donus, can you make a poll that 704 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 1: says sun or just. 705 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:59,399 Speaker 2: Divorce Sun or Moon? I know what wins here. 706 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: Josephine Madola bequise. Thank you for the twenty seven sick. 707 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: If you're anti racist and you know it, clap your cheeks. 708 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, Oh you don't want that. 709 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: Um sprinkles. Thank you for joining the night swoom? Was 710 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: there another one below that? 711 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:21,359 Speaker 3: Good? 712 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 2: Sorry? 713 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: Thanks makes Thank you for the five bucks. Just lost 714 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: power again and am sitting in the car watching y'all, 715 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 1: so give all love to Florida. Getting so much love 716 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 1: to Florida. 717 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,879 Speaker 2: Twists and turns with your power, victime. 718 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,839 Speaker 1: Hopefully, I mean like definitely, you know if you need 719 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 1: us to get by, like to entertain yourself, but also 720 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 1: please save enough power. 721 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,959 Speaker 2: On your phone use story time? 722 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 3: Do it? 723 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 1: Can you click the others? 724 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? If you really care. 725 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 1: Mama or lord? Thank you for the five bucks. Simon says, 726 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,280 Speaker 1: if you're awesome and you know it, clap your hands. WHOA, 727 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 1: let's gonna say you're pretty? 728 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 3: You pretty? 729 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,240 Speaker 2: Clap your hands. Clap your hands. 730 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 3: Oh stop loud, I'm clapping really loud about you guys 731 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 3: are really awesome? 732 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 2: Really full up your chat? 733 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: Uh Sammy, thank you for the twenty five bucks. Sorry, 734 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 1: I haven't been on a lot. 735 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 2: Still that we already read that you think there's one 736 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: more donut? Actually that we didn't read. I just want 737 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 2: to make sure I don't know what tearing the fun. 738 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:23,400 Speaker 1: Thank you for the five bucks. 739 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,239 Speaker 2: WHOA, that's it? Did you refresh the one? 740 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: Do we have any refreshing donations? 741 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 2: I believe that's all. That's it? All right? Did you 742 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 2: like my uh into the sun? Do you like my 743 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 2: bigger son? Into the Sun or into the bigger like. 744 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 3: I like that the Sun is winning, because if we 745 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 3: were to launch them into a bigger son, it would 746 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 3: take a lot take longer for him to get there. 747 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys notice, but the other 748 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 2: stars are really far. 749 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 1: Away, really far far away. Our son is kind of small. 750 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 2: Intro to astrology. Other stars far away. 751 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 1: Really far away. But there is another story. 752 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:01,800 Speaker 2: We're being we're being real science today. Really another story 753 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,280 Speaker 2: or another storry story. 754 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,919 Speaker 1: So let's read some comments. Four minutes. Uh, Taryla Fond says, 755 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: I did the five bucks, but sneezed and didn't get 756 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,319 Speaker 1: to put in the message. What did you want to say, 757 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: Tarylor Fond, I will read it, put it in the chatsy. 758 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 1: But wait, was there more comments about the story that 759 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:23,439 Speaker 1: we just read. 760 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going up. Everyone just like one two one, everyone, 761 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 2: just like this is probably the most fifty fifty. I'm 762 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 2: gonna keep going up, keep. 763 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: It going, keep it going, keep keep. 764 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 2: Getting Someone said they safely escaped Milton. 765 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 1: Heck, yeah, we'd love to hear it. Let's go okay, 766 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:45,760 Speaker 1: well that's all right, you know what, because we're about 767 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 1: to uh finish up and I think that the other 768 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 1: story would be just a tad too long. Let's do 769 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 1: some freaking trivia. Oh, let's do some four minutes of trivia. 770 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 1: I know we didn't get to the wheelhole. 771 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,760 Speaker 2: But I know what trivia. We could do trivia. 772 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,400 Speaker 4: But a lot of people are asking about Dakota, and 773 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,240 Speaker 4: I are like, like, us. 774 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 2: What about it? What about us? I don't know? 775 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: Okay, have so many. 776 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 2: They're doing, we're doing trivia about us. I guess about us? 777 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: What are they asking you about? I don't know. 778 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 3: I think someone asked for my mom, for me and 779 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 3: Prince X like this stream and Dakota will take your 780 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,280 Speaker 3: spicy bluetooth codes. 781 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: I don't know what that. 782 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 2: I don't even know what that old. 783 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what that. 784 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 2: I know what bluetooth is code. 785 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:38,440 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, would you prefer trivia or you ask questions 786 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 1: the Actually, let's spin the wheel, but we can't do 787 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 1: the fifteen more minutes. 788 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:45,280 Speaker 2: What does Dakota do get being used for free labor? 789 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 1: Okay? Can you look up some look up some Greek 790 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:49,240 Speaker 1: mythology trivia. 791 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 2: You don't even know the Greek mythology, but you know. 792 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 1: You're asking us questions like like Jeopardy and then and 793 00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,880 Speaker 1: then Dakota and I got a face off in the 794 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: last two minutes and forty three seconds. 795 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:10,240 Speaker 2: Review eighty nine Greek Mythology Tribune. Questions are freaking goal chat. 796 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 2: Guess what color my shorts are? You'll never guess. 797 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 3: You'll never guess, chat because someone just get ready? Jeliba 798 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 3: told me to stand up. What Yeah, I was going ready. 799 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 3: I don't even need to be ready for this. 800 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 4: That's like the first one. The first one is so easy. 801 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 4: Do I want to give you like ABC or no? 802 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,359 Speaker 2: Just who gets? Are we just doing it like you go? 803 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,280 Speaker 1: You go a buzz and you just say buzz. 804 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 2: Oh, all right, this is going to be not fair. 805 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 2: Who is the King of the Gods and Mythology Sophia Zeus? Okay, 806 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 2: but you finished. 807 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 3: You were supposed to stop the question when she said 808 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 3: buzz who is the King of the gods? In I 809 00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 3: didn't yet and then he buzzed and he should have 810 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:45,439 Speaker 3: stopped the question. 811 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 1: I said, I would have gotten either way. 812 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 2: No, because what if he's next? Which king? 813 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:55,360 Speaker 4: Turned everything he touched into gold? 814 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: Say we're just going out with a buzz? Takes too long? 815 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,320 Speaker 4: That's not no, Okay, keep going, which which figure flew 816 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 4: too close to the sun? 817 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 3: I said, Chris, Chris, are we wait? So we're not 818 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 3: doing the buzz But I didn't know. 819 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 1: I was another one. Okay, we're doing buzz. 820 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 2: Who is the nymph who pined away for narcissists? 821 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:17,280 Speaker 1: Buzz? 822 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 2: Echo? It is Echo? Okay, I'm yeah. I went from 823 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 2: the the really hard ones to really I mean really 824 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 2: easy ones, the really hard ones. 825 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:26,359 Speaker 1: Okay, keep going. 826 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 2: Who is the god of the wild and nature? 827 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 1: Buzz? Pan? 828 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 3: We have. 829 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 2: Pan, and I think that's wrong. It is Pan. 830 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 3: It is What about Artemis? 831 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 2: No, that's the goddess which hero was invulnerable except for 832 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 2: his heat Buzz. I'm not saying buzz. 833 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 3: I'm slapping, but I'm not saying buzz. They don't have 834 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:55,799 Speaker 3: to say buzz On Jeopardy, who is the titan who 835 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:56,719 Speaker 3: personified the head? 836 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: I didn't even hear you. 837 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 2: Just no it? 838 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 4: Uh oh wait wait, yeah, it taken me. Who is 839 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 4: the king of crete who built the labyrinth to contain 840 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 4: the minotaur? 841 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 1: Buzz minus minos? No, that's Datles is the way who 842 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,160 Speaker 1: built it? 843 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 2: So if he is right, But didn't you say it 844 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,760 Speaker 2: was the one who built he said the king the King. Guys, 845 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,280 Speaker 2: I'm losing the titan one more. Who is the titan 846 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 2: who stole fire and gave it to mankind? 847 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,360 Speaker 1: Prometheus? 848 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 2: I already knew that one. Now. 849 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:36,800 Speaker 1: Oh, we're going to finish this so we can record 850 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: a little game show that you got to see to 851 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:39,879 Speaker 1: see later. Oh my god. 852 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 5: Wait, Grandma's got a potty mouth just tipped seventy dollars. 853 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, they really like it. 854 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,239 Speaker 2: I don't know who guessed what color my pants were. 855 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: Granda's got a potty maup. Thank you so much. 856 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:58,320 Speaker 2: Whoa, bro, whoa. That's what you get for seventy dollars. 857 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,359 Speaker 1: But that is the end of this dream. So if 858 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 1: you love us, make sure to subscribe. 859 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 2: We love you and Si