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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: one right here, right now. Buggle up here. It is

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. All right, thank you for that introduction. Subject.

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Speaker 1: Believe half of what you see and none of what

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Speaker 1: you hear. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am best friends with

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Speaker 1: the stupidest guy in the world. He's been dating a

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Speaker 1: woman for one year and he's ready to give her

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Speaker 1: the keys to the kingdom. He's a successful realator and

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Speaker 1: has a nice home and two cars. She has access

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Speaker 1: you think I'm jealous, I am married and this is

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Speaker 1: my husband's best friend. That's like family to us. The

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Speaker 1: woman he's dating has dated other high profile men in town,

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Speaker 1: and she is a child by an x NBA player,

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Speaker 1: so that's how she's made a living for herself. As

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Speaker 1: you can imagine, she's bad. She's got the great body,

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Speaker 1: hair down her back, and she's educated. She's smart enough

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Speaker 1: to manipulate men to get what she wants. I was

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Speaker 1: in the mall the other day and I ran into

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Speaker 1: old girl in a high end shoe boutique. She bought

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Speaker 1: three pairs of shoes, and she was seated waiting for

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Speaker 1: credit card, saying thank you, missus. Glenn. That's not her

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Speaker 1: last name. It is the name of one of her

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Speaker 1: sugar daddies. I acted like I didn't hear it. She

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Speaker 1: drives our friend's cars to her child's father's house and

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Speaker 1: our friend to watch this woman because she's tricky, but

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Speaker 1: he's head over heels in love and lost any sense

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Speaker 1: he had. It's to the point where my husband is

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Speaker 1: said to leave it alone, and I want to, but

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Speaker 1: I hate to see a good man being used. The

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Speaker 1: none of what I hear, So now I just try

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Speaker 1: to keep the peace by keeping my mouth shut. Is

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Speaker 1: there anything else we can do? No, there is not.

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Speaker 1: There is not. You already know what we're gonna say,

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Speaker 1: don't you, because you already know the answer to your question.

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Speaker 1: Your husband told it, told you, he said it. Best

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Speaker 1: leave it alone. Then the woman herself told you to

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Speaker 1: mind your business. She also says, believe half of what

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Speaker 1: you see and none of what you hear, which means

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Speaker 1: you don't know what's going on in their lives. Girl,

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Speaker 1: you only think you know, okay, and you say you're

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Speaker 1: not jealous. You said that, you were quick to say

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Speaker 1: that I'm not jealous. I'm married. This is my husband's

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Speaker 1: best friend. But sometimes you know, you can think you're

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Speaker 1: not jealous, but all this sounds like jealousy or envy,

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Speaker 1: you know, all of it. You say you're looking out

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Speaker 1: for your best friend. But that's not your job. That

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Speaker 1: is not your job, that is not your place. These

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Speaker 1: people can be so wrapped up in other people's affairs.

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Speaker 1: Get you some business, what's going on in your life?

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Speaker 1: I just say, stay out of their business. You're in

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Speaker 1: way too deep. This is messy. You're counting shoes, the

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Speaker 1: number of shoes she buys at a high end store,

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Speaker 1: who her baby daddy is how long the car is there?

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Speaker 1: That's too much, all right, you're just nosy and just

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Speaker 1: being messy. These people are grown. Leave them alone, Steve,

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Speaker 1: all right, believe half of what you see and none

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Speaker 1: of what you hear. The name of this letter is

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Speaker 1: this ain't none of your business. That's what this is.

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Speaker 1: This ain't none of your business. All through the letter,

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Speaker 1: that's all I got to say to you. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know where you live. I am best friends with

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Speaker 1: the stupidest guy in the world. He's been dating a

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Speaker 1: to your husband's kingdom? And didn't you have it before

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Speaker 1: you married him? Okay, he's a successful realtor. He's got

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Speaker 1: of your business. That ain't none of your business. Before

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Speaker 1: here your husband's best friend and your best friend. You're

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Speaker 1: making stuff up. He liked family to us. Okay, the

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Speaker 1: that's how she's made a living for yourself. Once again,

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Speaker 1: that also ain't none of your damn business. As you

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Speaker 1: you can imagine she's bad, yes I can't. She got

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Speaker 1: a great body, yes, yes, see she's bad. She got

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Speaker 1: That's how you get a key to the kingdods. She bad.

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Speaker 1: She got a great body, she got heat out of

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Speaker 1: both keys calls to real estate. What's what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: She's smart enough to manipulate men to get what she wants.

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Speaker 1: That's what bad chicks do. That's what ugly women do.

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Speaker 1: That's what blow chicks do. That's what skinny women do.

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Speaker 1: That's what big women do. You manipulate men to get

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Speaker 1: what you want. That's what we're hearing for this say

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Speaker 1: none of your damn business. I was in the mall

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Speaker 1: the other day. I ran a told girl in the

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Speaker 1: Head of her card and said, thanks, Miss Glenn. That

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Speaker 1: bisses not if the salesman ain't have a problem with it,

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Speaker 1: what is your ass halving the problem with? Hold on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: hold on, we'll have part two of you coming up

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Speaker 1: in twenty three minutes after the hour subject believe half

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Speaker 1: of what you see and none of what you hear.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

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Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Believe half of what you see and none of what

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Speaker 1: you hear. We got a letter from his nose ass woman. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that just took on the problem that ain't even hers.

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Speaker 1: She best friends with the stupidest guy in the world.

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Speaker 1: He's been dating a woman for one year and he's

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Speaker 1: already giving her the kings to the kingdom. Well, how

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Speaker 1: It's right, they've been dating a year, they sleep together.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get some keys to the kingdom. He's successful.

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Speaker 1: Reality to Night's home. Two cars, she got assets boats

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Speaker 1: liked family to her. So soul, soul, Why you are jealous?

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Speaker 1: You all through the left before you think, I'm je

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Speaker 1: What you write just letter for, if you wasn't worried

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Speaker 1: it wasn't really bothering you, if you wasn't mad at this?

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Speaker 1: Here for what you write the letter for? Right the

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Speaker 1: woman she's been dating other high profile me and in

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Speaker 1: that's how she has made a living for herself. So

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Speaker 1: but she's educated too, I'm sure. Hold up, head is

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Speaker 1: as you can imagine. She's bad, yes, ask what this

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Speaker 1: is all about? Yeah, she bad. She got a great body, Yes,

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Speaker 1: some keys to somebody's house, man's will be his. Yeah

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Speaker 1: you're lucky it ain't Joe husband giving out keys. All right,

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Speaker 1: because you just said she bad, head down the back, educated,

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Speaker 1: great body. Now she's smart enough to manipulate me and

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Speaker 1: to get what she wants. Women do that that's the game.

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Speaker 1: I was in the mall the other day I ran

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Speaker 1: end shoe booteth Okay, so you're Christian Lubot. She brought

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Speaker 1: payment to go through. The salesperson heading her the credit

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Speaker 1: card said thanks, Miss Glenn. That's not her last name.

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody to ask you what her last name? The

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Speaker 1: damn salesman. The salesman didn't even ask her whose name?

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Speaker 1: Who card is the he referred to as miss Glenn.

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Speaker 1: That's not her last name. That ain't Joe, damn fizz.

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Speaker 1: It is the name of one of hun sugar daddies.

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Speaker 1: How you know? So? But how do you know it's

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Speaker 1: a sugar that I acted like? I didn't hear you

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Speaker 1: so obviously you didn't act real good. She drives our friends,

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Speaker 1: do you know? What is you following this woman from

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Speaker 1: He's sleeping with her. She got a bad body, had

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Speaker 1: down to her back. She's bad, she educated. This ain't

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Speaker 1: It's gotten to the point where your husband has said

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Speaker 1: know so much that ain't your business. Let me get

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Speaker 1: you some more business. This probably ain't the only chick

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Speaker 1: kick out, mkay see. And that's why your husband told

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Speaker 1: he's doing. Yeah, you don't know how the game going on? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know. But I hate to see a good man

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Speaker 1: sure he meant where Yeah, but when I talk was through.

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Speaker 1: I ain't saying. Brother, if your own and knew you

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Speaker 1: do wish that you were in my shoes. You just

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Speaker 1: keep on using me until you use me. Huh. They

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Speaker 1: and know that they're getting used. Yeah, but if it

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Speaker 1: White said leave it alone because it ain't your damn business.

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Speaker 1: What it's wrong with you? Now? You have wrote all

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Speaker 1: Men don't mind getting used when they using. Do you

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Speaker 1: know what this woman in here doing to him? What?

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Speaker 1: What Steve? I want to know? Girl, that bad body

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Speaker 1: in her head? What he liked high heel shoes. See

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Speaker 1: you tripping? Listen to me. I got news for you.

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Speaker 1: That's how you got your husband. Yeah, did you forget?

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Speaker 1: And this might be her husband? Now. The woman has

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Speaker 1: told me in the past to mind my business. She's

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Speaker 1: to keep the peace by keep my mouth shut, shut up,

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Speaker 1: shut shit, damn mouth. All right, thank you, old business?

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Speaker 1: Where about your husband? Quit following this girl around? Post

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook, and coming up at forty six

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk sports with Junior.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show