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Speaker 1: Hey, we got it for you, a brand new one.

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Speaker 1: I know you love those new episodes. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for finding the Second Date podcast. It's Brooking Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning, and I think.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna enjoy it today. I do you think so?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, guess we probably shouldn't post it if we all

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Speaker 1: thought it sucked, But here we go.

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Speaker 2: What do we got? In the comment sectionallexis.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Casparava said, my ex boyfriend and I were together

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Speaker 1: for four years and he introduced.

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Speaker 2: Me to you guys.

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Speaker 3: Oh, but then we broke up, so I had to

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Speaker 3: stop listening for a little while.

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Speaker 1: It heard.

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Speaker 2: But I'm doing better now and I'm finally all caught up.

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Speaker 4: And just so you know, we don't listen to him anymore.

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Speaker 5: We child you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we love you.

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Speaker 4: We're happier with us. He's a dirt bag.

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Speaker 2: You want us in the In the breakup, he listens,

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Speaker 2: the volume goes weird, something witches. Yeah, I don't worry.

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Speaker 2: He sucks. Yeah. Yeah. The brand new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Second Date updates.

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Speaker 3: Today, We've got a lovely woman named Tory joining us,

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Speaker 3: and Tory says she's doing her date a favor by giving.

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Speaker 6: Him another chance.

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Speaker 3: Hey, okay, probably something he doesn't even deserve.

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Speaker 6: That's according to her email. Those are her words, not mine.

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Speaker 1: It's either going to be he did something really bad

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Speaker 1: or she's really entitled.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 3: Both of those sound like good scenarios to me, So

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Speaker 3: let's find out.

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Speaker 6: Tory.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, and I appreciate you being generous

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Speaker 3: and humble enough to make the first move using our help.

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Speaker 3: Of course, tell us about the guy that made you

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Speaker 3: want to do that. Hi?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so I had matched with Chad on honestly more

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Speaker 7: than one dating app over the last six months.

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Speaker 2: Oh, the same guy. How is that?

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Speaker 1: Like, if you commit to one dating app, you should

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Speaker 1: stick with just that one.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Well, it's hard out here on the streets.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, it's a numbers game, broke cast a wide net,

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Speaker 3: get as many matches as you can from as many different.

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Speaker 1: Sites, which is obviously the same people on all the

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Speaker 1: sites if you're all matching with Chad, all the same strategy.

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Speaker 7: Literally. Yeah, and I had unmatched him before, but he

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Speaker 7: was basically begging, like, give me one shot, and I

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Speaker 7: was like, okay, well maybe this's gonna be my good karma.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we have a question.

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Speaker 1: Do all guys have to beg and plead to get

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Speaker 1: a date with you? Or was there something wrong with

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Speaker 1: Chad where you didn't.

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Speaker 2: Think you liked him?

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Speaker 7: Not all guys need to beg and plead, but he

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Speaker 7: was just like, you know, he wasn't the hottest guy,

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Speaker 7: but he was cute enough. And I was like, you

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Speaker 7: know what, I've been out here searching for perfection. Obviously

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Speaker 7: that's not working for me, so I can get a project.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, all right.

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Speaker 6: Okay, what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 1: To hear this, I'm sorry, I'm overwhelmed how romantic it was.

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Speaker 3: I know a lot of construction workers, Brooke who love projects,

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Speaker 3: and that doesn't make them bad people, all right, so

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Speaker 7: So I was like, okay, well I'll go out with you.

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Speaker 7: And I was honestly a little bit disappointed. But he

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Speaker 7: just wanted like a regular restaurant day. Oh like a

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Speaker 7: restaurant is so ghost you know? Ghost like yawn like

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Speaker 7: everyone does that.

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Speaker 4: A new word learning.

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Speaker 6: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. So ghost?

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Speaker 4: Yeah it did? You get ghosted?

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Speaker 3: So you were expecting more than a restaurant. But that

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Speaker 7: That was what I was given. And you know what,

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Speaker 7: if it was a train wreck, it wouldn't last all

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So you are willing to settle every turn.

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Speaker 4: Willing to just have this steak out.

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Speaker 3: You've been so brave in this so far tory. We're

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Speaker 3: all very minded. So tell us about how the restaurant went.

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Speaker 7: So he overed me to the restaurant. That was nice.

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Speaker 7: And then like right when I met him, I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 7: his styles could be a little bit better, but honestly,

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Speaker 7: what guys can't fashion?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the clothes are in easy fix.

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Speaker 7: Yes, a break for that.

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Speaker 7: We're at the restaurant and he tries to order scallops

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Speaker 7: at the menu and I was like, honey, this isn't

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Speaker 6: Oh, that is really good advice.

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Speaker 2: The way he ordered. And you shamed him in the

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Speaker 7: honestly I was saving his life, like ordering peacefood if

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Speaker 4: I mean, you don't go to Applebee's for the oysters?

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Speaker 7: No, I mean he was like thank you, Like that's

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Speaker 3: So aside from his terrible choice in food and fashion,

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Speaker 7: I like talking to him. You know, we talked a

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Speaker 7: a person. And honestly, his upbringing was just kind of

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: What what's so funny? You haven't heard of people going

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Speaker 2: And public schools are amazing schools.

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Speaker 4: I went to both.

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Speaker 4: I went to Calage School until I got kicked out,

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Speaker 1: And neither system wants to claim host.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So he's making something of himself despite disadvantages in

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Speaker 7: Which is like it's so commendable, Like I can admire that.

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Speaker 2: So his greatest his greatest hill he's climbed is going to.

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Speaker 4: Guys give her credit. At least she's not saying, oh,

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Speaker 4: it's a deal breaker.

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, you've made a lot of sacrifices for Chad,

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Speaker 3: and I think that's it's a big thing for you

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Speaker 6: How did you end the date?

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Speaker 7: It was better than I had expected, and like by

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: I like, you're open to seeing people for who they are,

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Speaker 6: We're seeing him in a different outfit possibly.

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Speaker 2: I mean, was there a kiss or did he just

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Speaker 5: Home?

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Speaker 7: We hug outside the restaurant, and then that's the last

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Speaker 2: Oh have you texted him?

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Speaker 7: so this is quite rare for me, Like, this doesn't

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Speaker 4: Maybe he has the same rule you have, and you're

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Speaker 4: in a standoff right now. Someone's waiting for the first text.

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Speaker 2: Like that is probably pretty common.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well you don't.

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Speaker 3: Like me that I'm not going to text you eight

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Speaker 3: It is very unbecoming public school behavior of him.

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Speaker 4: To leave you on wed like that, So it's etiquette.

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Speaker 7: To Yeah, I would never do that, So, Tory, I

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Speaker 6: Thing he needs to It is disgusting. You're right, so

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Speaker 6: let's let's call it his job whatever.

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Speaker 3: We're going to get to the bottom of this, and

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Speaker 3: we're going to take the reins. We will dial up

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Speaker 3: Chad and figure out why he has the nerve to

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Speaker 3: not be calling you back after.

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Speaker 2: Four days you, Jeffrey, thank you, You are welcome.

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Speaker 6: We're going to do it with your second date update

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Speaker 6: right after this hold.

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Speaker 1: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 3: How many glaring red flags can one woman ignore in

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Speaker 3: the pursuit of finding a decent guy? For our listener, Tory,

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Speaker 3: she's looked past at least four, but we've counted goodness one.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Still, those counts are one his clothes, to his dinner

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Speaker 3: selection of scallops at a non seafood restaurant.

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Speaker 2: To say that even picked a restaurant to begin with, Jeffy.

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Speaker 3: Even that that was a borderline pink flag. Three, his

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Speaker 3: rudely not texted her after almost one full business week. Wow,

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Speaker 3: that is not cool, or, as Tory would say, that

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Speaker 3: is so ghost. But just like her selfless generous self,

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Speaker 1: I mean, Toy, has it ever crossed your mind that

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Speaker 2: By your perfection that that's why he hasn't called you?

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Speaker 7: Honestly, that is what my mom said.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like something your mom would say.

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Speaker 3: Well, hopefully we can convince him that you're not too

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Speaker 3: good for him. Equals well, we're not going to cut

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Speaker 3: you down, We're gonna lift him up higher.

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Speaker 4: There you go, Jeff, thank you.

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Speaker 7: That is so kind of you.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, we'll see how this goes. I'm just

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Speaker 3: going to dial Chad's number and hopefully, hopefully has the

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Speaker 1: I'm a public school kid, would always pick up a call,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, let's find out.

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Speaker 6: I'm going to dial it right now.

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Speaker 5: Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Chad speaking?

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Speaker 6: Picked up really early.

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Speaker 2: There and energetically you did.

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Speaker 5: I'm actually already working. Uh. Who is this? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: This is this is It's a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 3: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, good morning.

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Speaker 2: You sound so likable.

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Speaker 5: Chad, Good morning. Why are you guys calling me?

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Speaker 3: We're calling because we're doing a segment it's called a

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Speaker 3: second Date Update, and we're trying to get some answers

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Speaker 3: for one of our very confused listeners who went out

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Speaker 3: with you recently, a woman named Tory.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, and miss is on the radio.

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Speaker 2: You mean, wow toy right?

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Speaker 6: Wo wow? What a knockout right right? Yeah, But to

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Speaker 6: answer your earlier question, yes, it is on the radio

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Speaker 6: and podcast.

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Speaker 5: Uh okay, So what is it night all about?

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Speaker 3: Well, Tory is a little confused because after your restaurant date,

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Speaker 3: she says, you haven't reached out to her at all.

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Speaker 5: Tory hasn't reached out to me either.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's not really her thing, that's her job.

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Speaker 1: She'll only reach out to radio stations who then reached

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Speaker 6: Oh what is that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she is a perfect example of why

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Speaker 2: Like that sounds negative.

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Speaker 5: She's just like any of the other forty nine ers

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Speaker 2: Okay, the football team, which is the NFL team.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, forty nine ers is a term here where

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Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait, you don't find Tori attractive? Is that

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Speaker 5: She's fine, It's just look, I know I'm not the

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Speaker 5: Right at the beginning of the day, and I could

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Speaker 5: Guys, I have never taken an uber black in my life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, we heard you into public school, so you

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Speaker 5: You heard that I went to public school.

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Speaker 6: Well we were.

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Speaker 2: It was a joke.

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of obstacles to overcome during this

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Speaker 1: So wait, so right from the very beginning, did you

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Speaker 5: I'm a go with the flow kind of guy, so like,

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Speaker 5: I just thought like, huh, I've never actually taken an

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Speaker 5: We got to the restaurant, we sat down, she asked like,

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Speaker 5: You want to text this toast with your spaghetti?

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Speaker 2: Yes, right, there is so good.

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Speaker 4: She wants a moose booch a pre starter, but.

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Speaker 1: She hasn't probably tried Texas toast before and that's why

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Speaker 3: It Texas toast at the restaurant she goes were at

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Speaker 3: the private schools.

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Speaker 2: It's better.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So all of this put together was kind of

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Speaker 6: It sounds like Chad.

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Speaker 5: I mean, all these things just kept going on throughout

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Speaker 1: Okay, Wait though, wait, maybe that's I mean, maybe it's

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Speaker 2: That's not her fault. I mean, honestly, it's not.

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Speaker 1: She didn't choose it, and it's probably just the lifestyle

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Speaker 5: It was really just like a vibe thing like when

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Speaker 3: Than now kind of well, I exactly, I am curious

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Speaker 6: Whence we bring her on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Right now, I feel actually kind of bad.

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Speaker 3: Because she has been listening to this conversation the entire time.

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Speaker 5: No way is this.

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Speaker 2: It's in a moose moose trap, Tori, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Don't think I use that right?

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Speaker 7: Did you call me a forty nine er?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god? Uh, you're doing okay to Tori?

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Speaker 7: Actually kind of no, that is so beyond rude.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't know you were listening, Tori.

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Speaker 2: He was trying to be honest and maybe a little funny.

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Speaker 7: I don't know you would think that when somebody's talking

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're you're you're one to talk about being rude,

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Speaker 6: You mean the uber black?

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Speaker 5: Right? Right? Right, right right?

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Speaker 7: What do you mean, Chad? I've been perfectly.

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Speaker 5: It's like I ki't you a chance Tory. At one

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Speaker 2: But that's really in right now to do?

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Speaker 7: Did you maybe not take the things that I said

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Speaker 7: I don't I don't know what mean the public school?

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Speaker 2: Well, it means that you don't understand subtext, Chad?

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Speaker 5: What public school were great? You know we're.

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Speaker 6: Joking, joking, you use the word subtext.

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Speaker 1: I do think that you're being as close minded as

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Speaker 4: What right now?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean sometimes when you feel rejected by someone

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Speaker 4: Absolutely.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I totally get that, And honestly, daddy would say

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Speaker 8: Your daddy, that's her real dad, my father.

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Speaker 7: Excuse me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, sorry, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe she can do the more normal life

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Speaker 1: stuff with you, Chad, and then she can also introduce

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Speaker 6: A reverse my fair Lady.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let her pick the restaurant. You can take her fish.

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Speaker 3: Remember My Fair Lady where he takes the poor woman

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Speaker 3: and he shows her the finer things they like you?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 7: Yes, a classic who has not seen My Fair Lady exactly.

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Speaker 4: Gets I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It was part of my I really appreciate that. I

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Speaker 5: that wasn't.

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Speaker 2: As good as forty nine ers.

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Speaker 7: Se honestly that I love. I'm going to take that.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Her.

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Speaker 7: Okay, And you know what, Chad, If anything, I'm in

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Speaker 2: And wait, isn't that, like she said, nine to acts

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I might give you a fifty nine, but

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, numbering people, yeah, I hate that.

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Speaker 3: Let's do this instead. Let's offer to send you to

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Speaker 3: Just let's just send you on another day. If you're

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Speaker 5: I do not want to come back out with her.

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Speaker 7: Well, my feelings are really hurt. But I'm going to

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Speaker 7: I hear you, the bigger.

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Speaker 2: Persons accepting you couldn't have said no.

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Speaker 6: I'm still going to give the wind to toy in this.

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Speaker 1: Situation, will give you forty nine ers for life, Brook.

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Speaker 7: And Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Only mean words fun.

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Speaker 3: And even though yes, her and I are both kind

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, even you were being judged to the other judges.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I expected a little better from a fellow preppy princess.

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Speaker 8: Is what in private school is like, exactly so much fun,

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Speaker 1: A little bit, okay, we can't see what number you are,

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Speaker 3: But we will call whoever's not calling you back on

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Speaker 3: us online wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and

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