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Speaker 1: Subject Her husband is better than mine. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have been together for eleven years

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Speaker 1: total and married for eight. My older sister has been

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Speaker 1: married for fifteen years, and her husband is like a

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Speaker 1: big brother and mentor for my husband. My sister and

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Speaker 1: her husband have always done great financially, and when I

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Speaker 1: got married, my sister bought my dress and paid for

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Speaker 1: my glam team. She's always been the one to take

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Speaker 1: care of my parents as well, struggling through graduate school,

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Speaker 1: and then I got pregnant before I got married, so

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Speaker 1: my sister and brother in law stepped in to help

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Speaker 1: us out with the baby because the goal was for

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Speaker 1: me to finish school and for my husband to finish

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Speaker 1: medical school. We have always been appreciative of the help,

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Speaker 1: but along the way we tried not to become a burden.

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Speaker 1: After we got married, we got a loan for home improvement,

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Speaker 1: and my husband decided to chip in and help my

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Speaker 1: sister and brother in law with redoing their outdoor kitchen.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I bought a very expensive grill and

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Speaker 1: smoker for them. Instead of being grateful, my brother in

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Speaker 1: law was offended and said he couldn't accept the gift.

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Speaker 1: From then on, our relationship turned into a competition. My

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Speaker 1: sister and I aren't as close as we once were

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Speaker 1: because she told me that her husband is better than mine.

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Speaker 1: Things were fine and dandy as long as we were needy,

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Speaker 1: but now my husband is one of the most respected

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Speaker 1: doctors in our area and she can't take it. When

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Speaker 1: I got my new car, when I got a new car,

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Speaker 1: she got a new car, more expensive car. I got

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Speaker 1: breast in plants, so did she. Both of our husbands

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Speaker 1: are successful and great fathers, so why can't she be

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Speaker 1: happy for us? Should I even try to repair our relationship?

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I just think, pure and simple, this is nothing but

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Speaker 1: jealousy and hateration from your sister and her husband. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think you're exactly right. They were fine and you

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Speaker 1: guys were the needy ones, and now that you're doing well,

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Speaker 1: they just can't take it. I think it was nice

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Speaker 1: gesture of your husband to help them with their outside

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Speaker 1: kitchen and to buy them those you know, the expensive

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Speaker 2: I just don't think they can take it now.

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Speaker 1: It's killing them that you guys, you know, are doing well,

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Speaker 1: your husband is respected and the community and everything, and

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Speaker 1: that just doesn't seem to sit well with them. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's sad, sister, it's family. You would think, like you said,

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Speaker 1: she would be happy for you and understand that you

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Speaker 1: were struggling, but now you're not. And you guys are

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Speaker 1: grateful for their support and you wanted to pay them

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Speaker 1: back in some way, and of course you know you

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Speaker 1: asked should you try to repair your relationship and that

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Speaker 1: would be nice and you know, because she is your sister,

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. I mean, they're so green with

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Speaker 1: envy right now. I mean, you get breast in plants,

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Speaker 1: she gets breast in plants. Okay, who does that? At

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Speaker 1: least not without a conversation.

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Speaker 2: You like them? Sis? Are they okay? Are they big enough?

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Speaker 2: Did you you know all of that?

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Speaker 1: You know that could have been a conversation between the

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Speaker 1: two sisters, but no, she made it into a conversation.

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Speaker 1: So I say, you know you can try because she

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Speaker 1: right there in her hate space.

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Speaker 4: Steve Well, I really don't understand this letter. I really don't.

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Speaker 4: It don't really seem like that bigger deal to me.

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Speaker 4: I go through it and see you where I so

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Speaker 4: swear I see the problem just Stephen Shirley. The subject

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Speaker 4: is her husband better than mine. My husband and I

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Speaker 4: have been together eleven years, married for eight. My older

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Speaker 4: sister been married fifteen husband like a big brother minute

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Speaker 4: to my husband. You know, my sister bought my dress

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Speaker 4: from a wedding and paid from a glam team. She

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Speaker 4: always took care of parents and stuff. I was struggling

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Speaker 4: through graduate school and then I got pregnant before I

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Speaker 4: stepped in to help us out with the baby. Because

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Speaker 4: and along the way we tried not to become a burden.

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Speaker 4: And after we got married, we got a loan for

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Speaker 4: home improvements, and my husband decided he was now here

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Speaker 4: was what the letter about. My husband decided to chip

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Speaker 4: in and help my sister and brother in law with

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Speaker 4: redoing their outdoor kitchen. My husband and I bought a

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Speaker 4: very expensive grill and smoker for them. Instead of being grateful,

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Speaker 4: my brother in law was offended and said he couldn't

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Speaker 4: accept the gift. From then on, our relationship turned into

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Speaker 4: a competition.

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Speaker 3: Well, I see right here. I don't understand problem.

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Speaker 4: I buy you an explicit grill and the ultimate smoker

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Speaker 4: for your new outdoor kitchen, and you turn it down.

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Speaker 3: But guess what.

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Speaker 4: My outdoor kitchen gonna be banging? Yeah, no problem. Plus,

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Speaker 4: you took some of your home improvement money. Anyway, might

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Speaker 4: well improve your home, you know time. You know, I'll

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Speaker 4: put me out though kitchen out there and it'd be

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Speaker 4: nice then, you know, she said, My sister and I

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Speaker 4: ain't as close because the whole relationship turned to a competition.

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Speaker 4: And then she once told you that her husband is

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Speaker 4: better than mine, Well see why your husband might have

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Speaker 4: been doing better than mine or while back.

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Speaker 3: But we can callt y'all. We in a game.

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Speaker 4: Now you up, We will got, We got you won't,

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Speaker 4: We won't. You bought, we bought. But it to turn

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Speaker 4: into a combination a competition. She wants to know. At

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Speaker 4: the end of the lettership, I try to repair our relationship,

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Speaker 4: and I'm gonna tell you how I think you can

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Speaker 4: finally put a stop to this when we come back.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part

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Speaker 1: after the hour subject her husband is better than mine.

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Speaker 1: four hundred. All right, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter, the subject her husband is better than mine?

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Speaker 4: Well, uh, lady got an older sister, been married longer

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Speaker 4: than her her and her husband was in.

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Speaker 3: Medical school and graduate school.

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Speaker 4: And had a baby before they got married, and their

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Speaker 4: sister and brother in law helped out. Everything seemed to

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Speaker 4: be normal. That's what families do, you know, everything They

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Speaker 4: try not to be a burden to them. But her

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Speaker 4: oldest sist always been the one to help her parents

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Speaker 4: out and everything. Finally, you and your husband got married

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Speaker 4: and you got a loan for home improvement, and your

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Speaker 4: husband decided to chip in and help your sister and

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Speaker 4: his brother in law, who's done so much for them,

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Speaker 4: with redoing their outdoor kitchen. So your husband and you

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Speaker 4: went and bought this expensive grill and a smoker, and

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Speaker 4: instead of being grateful, the brother in law was offended

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Speaker 4: and said he couldn't accept the gift. From then on,

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Speaker 4: our relationship turned into a competition. My sister and I

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Speaker 4: are and as close as we weren't worried because she

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Speaker 4: told me her husband is better than mine. Well, let's

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Speaker 4: see she said that for a while. You know, they

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Speaker 4: were doing better than you all. You know, but my

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Speaker 4: husband is better than yours. You know, I'm not a

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Speaker 4: ready bought y'all. This grill and this smoker you didn't want,

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Speaker 4: which means I've been had a ball of backyard out

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Speaker 4: though barbecue now, thank you, and.

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Speaker 3: So let's just move along.

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Speaker 4: But here's things got a little different though, and things

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Speaker 4: so what's finding dandy? As long as we were needed,

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Speaker 4: But now my husband is one of the most respected

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Speaker 3: Our area, and she can't take it.

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Speaker 4: When I got a new car, she got a new

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Speaker 4: and more expensive car.

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Speaker 3: I got breasting plants, she did.

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Speaker 4: Both our husbands are successful in great father, so why

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Speaker 4: can't she be happy for us? She'd even try to

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Speaker 4: repair relationship. I don't know if this needs repairing. It

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Speaker 4: don't seem like that bigger deal than me. But if

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Speaker 4: some suggestions for you, you said when you got a

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Speaker 4: new car, she got a new more expensive car. Well,

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Speaker 4: you know what your next movie is, don't you. You

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Speaker 4: got to go buy a more expensive car than the

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Speaker 3: Naw, let's see what she go with this.

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Speaker 4: Oh, since we up in each other, you got to

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Speaker 3: And see what she do.

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Speaker 4: Then you ought to call up your sister and say, hey,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go with I'm gonna put it. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm gonna get double d's this time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Now, let's see if she wants to try to get

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Speaker 4: an eve. See, I don't know. I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 4: She ain't gonna be able to cool coffee if you

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Speaker 4: messing with me, because I have a breast right up

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Speaker 4: be able to see your food you eating on the table. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm for all this help, but in all seriousness, you know,

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Speaker 4: So what some people can't take them when you do better.

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Speaker 4: Some people like it when when they doing better than you,

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Speaker 4: the underdogs. Some people just don't like to see you up.

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Speaker 4: Even that's a sad person right there, and it's really

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Speaker 4: nothing you can do for them. But if that's her objective,

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Speaker 4: it's to keep you under her. The best thing you

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Speaker 4: could do is just keep winning. I don't know how

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Speaker 3: With you, but we're doing okay. Now.

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Speaker 4: It's really I don't really see how what it is

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, she can try that because

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Speaker 1: everyone She provided for her family, for her parents and everything.

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Speaker 2: So she liked that position and that feeling.

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Speaker 3: And now, well, what us sister to do is don't

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Speaker 3: get some new friend.

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Speaker 4: You you can find you listen to me, you can

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Speaker 4: find somebody got mold than you. Trust me, you can

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Speaker 4: let me tell you something. Don't go out here trying

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Speaker 4: to get in the competition where who got the most,

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Speaker 4: here in this world right here, man, I don't care

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Speaker 4: where you go.

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Speaker 3: Somebody can show you something.

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Speaker 4: But you know, man, I saw a meeting where a

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Speaker 4: group of people was laughing at Jeff Bezo's money, laughing

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Speaker 2: And he's supposed to be the rich man in the world.

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Speaker 2: Right Wow, he's not.

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Speaker 4: But that's I've been. I've been to me where they

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Speaker 2: But everybody can be great. That's room for everybody to

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Speaker 4: But there are some people who make their greatness based

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Speaker 4: Some people make their greatness based on the group they

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Speaker 3: That's their greatness. And that's a sad way to live.

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Speaker 3: And that's the truly sad way to live.

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Speaker 2: That's not cool at all. That's sad.

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Speaker 3: That's sad.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 4: When you're making your greatness be on the backs of

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Speaker 4: like being the richest richest person in the projects, and

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Speaker 4: ain't we all steal in the projects, don't talk.

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Speaker 2: Right and help get them out.

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Speaker 1: It's such a great feeling when you can pay someone

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Speaker 1: back who's helped you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on anyway, all right?

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