Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make.
Speaker 2: Horrible decision.
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. I'm
Speaker 3: your girl, Mandy b a k A. Pet Is Signing
Speaker 3: aka Dan Beach.
Speaker 4: We got to stick our tongues out, real early, real gay.
Speaker 2: You know you're not all the way gay. First off,
Speaker 2: I can't go to the sex club.
Speaker 1: It out of men because I'm not gay enough to be.
Speaker 2: No. No, no, no, no, no no. Here's the thing I
Speaker 2: need to know I want. Don't do that crazy No no,
Speaker 2: what's crazy is not shut up?
Speaker 3: This is so no, so it's crazy. I'm not gay
Speaker 3: for a nigga. I just enjoy both. What is it
Speaker 3: the reproductive systems? Okay, I like the dick and the
Speaker 3: vagina both at once. It's like a buffet.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say this though, as someone that was gay
Speaker 4: one gay and realized we didn't need to bring big in,
Speaker 4: I knew that I really liked pussy when I was
Speaker 4: just with women alone, because it's actually super different like
Speaker 4: having a threesome.
Speaker 1: Do feel like you're gay for a niggas?
Speaker 4: I am totally into the girl in the moment, but
Speaker 4: it does feel like a spectacle with all of us.
Speaker 4: When you're with a woman alone, for anyone listening that
Speaker 4: like wants to dabble, you'll always write us about this.
Speaker 4: It genuinely is like, oh, no, you have to like
Speaker 4: this taste and.
Speaker 2: I like pussy.
Speaker 5: So don't be saying I'm fake gay. No, we just
Speaker 5: said you gave for Okay, we're not doing that anyway, y'all.
Speaker 5: Let me introduce this guest who want to sit here
Speaker 5: and call me out y'all. We have jazz finally in
Speaker 5: the motherfucking building, singer songwriter extraordinaire.
Speaker 4: All the things I'm tired of you people saying, Josie yeah,
Speaker 4: not you get that a lot, don't you, Josie, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I get that a lot.
Speaker 5: Jazzy Jazzy is crazy. There's no a that's Nigga's vow.
Speaker 5: Sounds just crazy.
Speaker 4: The last time I saw you was at the Roots
Speaker 4: Brunch and I gave out flowers. You did passed off
Speaker 4: flowers at the No no waiting I had by the
Speaker 4: time you was there, I probably didn't have, God damn it, but.
Speaker 1: I wanted to tell you h quest of before he
Speaker 1: walked up to you.
Speaker 4: John like practice saying it and I realized, like, oh
Speaker 4: my god, everybodys because.
Speaker 1: Even me, when I'm reading it, you want.
Speaker 5: To stay Josie, I didn't even know question Love knew
Speaker 5: who I was. The craziest hell that you say. You
Speaker 5: said you're going to come up here being humble, bitch,
Speaker 5: like you'll be you've been working, working, But see that's
Speaker 5: the thing, Like I'm not humble at all, but I'm
Speaker 5: very like, no humble is I think nobody should be humble.
Speaker 5: I mean, I hate that way. I think humble that
Speaker 5: means you know your inferior, your inferior, you don't really
Speaker 5: know your yourself. I know who I am, you know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. It's just that I'm just I don't
Speaker 5: have to like I'm just confident. But I'm not like
Speaker 5: over the top with it. But I'm not humble, Like
Speaker 5: I know I'm that nigga, but it's still like a
Speaker 5: respect thing. And I don't know if Quest well, he's
Speaker 5: still a llegend, right, you know me, I actually get
Speaker 5: mad when I walk out and niggas know us or
Speaker 5: for me, I'll be like I've gotten to the point
Speaker 5: where now walk in the rooms and me and celebrities
Speaker 5: embrace each other, and my friends will be like, you
Speaker 5: know them, and I'll be like, no, but they know me,
Speaker 5: And then I'll be mad because I'm like, damn, they
Speaker 5: know I. I like balls. Then that's only matter I
Speaker 5: remember in a query, so I know I know she'll
Speaker 5: be down getting with the.
Speaker 2: Guy one of those.
Speaker 4: And this is not to be disrespectful. It's like Natasha Leone,
Speaker 4: you know someone that just should have been gay. I
Speaker 4: look at Kelly Rowland, I'm like, oh my god, she
Speaker 4: could have definitely.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's just in.
Speaker 1: My brain, my fantasy when I was a kid.
Speaker 5: She got that you think she would be a top
Speaker 5: of bottom. I don't think there's a top of bottom,
Speaker 5: get there.
Speaker 2: I just think that's me.
Speaker 4: You're gonna say why.
Speaker 2: I I don't say that top of bottom.
Speaker 5: I just feel like I just feel like that's like
Speaker 5: a match, Like you take control?
Speaker 2: Are you? Like? Yeah?
Speaker 4: When I say that people should have been gay, it's
Speaker 4: their presence of like some women have a daintiness that
Speaker 4: puts them in the box of girly. Kelly's femininity is
Speaker 4: very powerful. Is I kind of associate with lesbian.
Speaker 2: Them legs and all power. She could definitely have been
Speaker 2: on the l word.
Speaker 1: We all watched me clearly, listen, listen.
Speaker 3: Well, I want to start with an icebreaker because my
Speaker 3: first time meeting you, y'all met Jossy for the first time,
Speaker 3: which is crazy because you're like really good friends with
Speaker 3: a lot of like so many mutuals, and so met
Speaker 3: you in person. I would say, probably in Brooklyn, but
Speaker 3: for real, for real. The first time was at the
Speaker 3: Revolt summit like two years ago, and.
Speaker 2: Literally she comes up to me and this is how
Speaker 2: we're gonna start our icebreaker. She literally bends over and.
Speaker 5: Start wait, wait, wait, please say I consented that it
Speaker 5: was consensual.
Speaker 2: Hold On, it was.
Speaker 1: She said, Hey, every white girl is playing my song.
Speaker 2: Please understand that. I asked.
Speaker 3: Hold On walked up, very very with all the slag.
Speaker 3: It was like, may I give affirmations to your box.
Speaker 3: I have a series called Box Talks, and I'd love
Speaker 3: to breathe life into your box.
Speaker 2: And I was like, you want to do what? I said, Hell, yeah,
Speaker 2: you could bring it into my box. No, no, no.
Speaker 3: I stood up and literally and she didn't have to
Speaker 3: go very far because we both kind of short, but
Speaker 3: literally just gave She gave the most.
Speaker 5: Affirmation and I was like I said, Josie, I like this.
Speaker 5: You just made made it jump a little bit. I said,
Speaker 5: we got to have you on horrible decisions.
Speaker 2: So I don't remember the exact affirmation. However, for the
Speaker 2: audience and for Wheezy.
Speaker 3: I would love to bring box talk back in our Icebreaker,
Speaker 3: and I would love for you to box talk.
Speaker 6: We to a box, all right, ready.
Speaker 2: All right, so.
Speaker 5: I mean all right, all right, so pretty much your
Speaker 5: box is powerful, so I call it pee your piece powerful.
Speaker 5: It's prestigious, so you should never let anybody just get
Speaker 5: it because it's on a plateau, like it's on the
Speaker 5: Like I said, I feel like it's like rejuvenated. I
Speaker 5: feel like it's glorious. I feel like it's like sunshine. Yeah,
Speaker 5: you got that box.
Speaker 2: You make a pilgrimage anytime when when you want it, I'll.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 4: Have you I don't know if it's fame or your look, aesthetic, whatever, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm sure you have been someone's first or they want
Speaker 4: to try it out because of your look or whatever
Speaker 4: it is.
Speaker 1: Are you over it?
Speaker 2: Are you just kind of like that's so crazy?
Speaker 1: Is the fantasizing?
Speaker 5: What have you've been talking about? Y'all, y'all been talking
Speaker 5: about yo, so so so okay, So this is twenty
Speaker 5: twenty four. I made a intentional decision to not have
Speaker 5: sex a straight women anymore. Oh no, seriously, and like
Speaker 5: I've been a I've been a straight woman nigga like
Speaker 5: I love like I love straight tour.
Speaker 1: Manager does too. He only gets up straight white.
Speaker 2: He only wants Yeah, he loves the ego thing. I think, Yeah,
Speaker 2: but and I do only the ego thing.
Speaker 5: I just think it's just the it's just the thing
Speaker 5: where you feel like I do feel like if you're
Speaker 5: not with the proper god, I don't think girls really
Speaker 5: be getting what they like really could get like orgasm wise.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I just feel like, only with the right guy, I'll
Speaker 5: be saying, you got to get a nigga that's kind
Speaker 5: of like darn there, like a Lenny Kravits.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's what I love.
Speaker 2: You gotta get a nigga like a.
Speaker 5: Lenny Kravitz, who just I feel like it's just not
Speaker 5: scared of anything and he's just willing to like, please
Speaker 5: you please.
Speaker 3: That's why I feel like, as a woman, the best
Speaker 3: type of nigga is one that's a little game. Yes,
Speaker 3: I was just literally gives Lenny Kravitz and all my
Speaker 3: friends is like, bruh he gave.
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, he's not. He's the most masculine, sure
Speaker 2: of him something, but yes he do.
Speaker 4: You know why you say that, Jazz, because the thing
Speaker 4: with Lenny and a man like prince or Lenny or
Speaker 4: whatever is that confidence saying you don't care about whatever
Speaker 4: for some reason.
Speaker 1: And this is the patriarchy.
Speaker 4: Women's pleasure seems like you're demasculated thinking about you're a munch.
Speaker 1: Even though it's a great fucking bar.
Speaker 4: Like seriously, like the fact that it's so diminished to
Speaker 4: please women, the way that porn ends with cumshots but
Speaker 4: never women orgasms, Like it is all boiled down to
Speaker 4: the fact that we have to be in service.
Speaker 3: I think it's crazy. Why man can't he pussy well,
Speaker 3: I mean us even bringing up Lenny Kravitz. My heart
Speaker 3: sunk when it came out that he been celibate for
Speaker 3: nine years.
Speaker 5: Now, God, you gotta respect that and that and that
Speaker 5: makes me respect him even more, only because like it's.
Speaker 2: Hard to give over that ship.
Speaker 5: It is so like they going to get that ship
Speaker 5: away for nine years, you know what I mean, joints.
Speaker 3: It's crazy that you that so many joints like, but
Speaker 3: women too be celibated for that, not nine years.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, Lenny Gravita them me and my friends
Speaker 4: always talking about this is hilarious.
Speaker 5: He's the only guy what ever in my life ever
Speaker 5: think about ever. Really, it's just because I just think
Speaker 5: he's a He's just a I like people who just
Speaker 5: know who they are, Like they ain't got a nipples
Speaker 5: purious does he?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 2: I just want to know that. I just think that
Speaker 2: that's like you, I don't know, I know who you are.
Speaker 4: You can do things to your body, like even your part,
Speaker 4: like this isn't a common piercing anymore. When people do
Speaker 4: things like that, they don't give a about ship. That
Speaker 4: ship is hot to me. It's like big dick wet
Speaker 4: pussy raight like it's weird.
Speaker 3: Piercings are one of the things that I find turmy
Speaker 3: off sometimes No no, no, no, not like face is fine,
Speaker 3: but like I watched I watch a lot of gay
Speaker 3: porn and there's this one.
Speaker 5: There's two point stigns that I really enjoy watching. But
Speaker 5: they have their goops like right under their balls pierced,
Speaker 5: and I hate seeing that ship. I mean, like, I
Speaker 5: don't know why that bothers me, and nipple pierce things
Speaker 5: would bother me.
Speaker 2: Do pussy pierces bother you?
Speaker 1: Because I don't know what to do?
Speaker 2: One? I never seen you? Never seen a pierce pussy?
Speaker 2: How have I been out here? I was about to say,
Speaker 2: I definitely ain't pussy with in the dark.
Speaker 5: A lot of nipples, A lot of those are my favorites,
Speaker 5: but I ain't never never seen it.
Speaker 2: Really, have you ever had your one one one? Did
Speaker 2: you like it? Mm? It's cool? It wasn't I don't
Speaker 2: like it's cool.
Speaker 5: It's pussy like I love it regardless, So like, I
Speaker 5: don't think it was something that was just like, oh no, piercing.
Speaker 4: It's so scary for me because of the the I'm
Speaker 4: scared it's gonna rip.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 5: I feel like I wasn't doing my best job. I
Speaker 5: was really being gentle. I was like, I don't what
Speaker 5: I didn't want to pull.
Speaker 1: The rink like you're a good dick girl. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you, but first.
Speaker 2: Off, bitch, I'm gun at both. Don't do me.
Speaker 5: She'd be trying to hate all my bisexuality and you did,
Speaker 5: so what about you? Like she swears she og you
Speaker 5: straighten out or no, no, she always joking when.
Speaker 1: I said I used to be gay, it's just good.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not in a relationship with a woman, are the okay?
Speaker 2: So you so no titles fuck gay for all of it?
Speaker 2: Do you like women?
Speaker 1: Of course? So for me, when when I was dating
Speaker 1: a woman, I was really in it.
Speaker 4: So I make a lot of jokes about not being
Speaker 4: gay because being with a woman was a very deep
Speaker 4: experience for me. Because liking pussy when you're not sure
Speaker 4: how to navigate it, WU is why we have so
Speaker 4: many women writing and like what do I do? It's
Speaker 4: difficult when you like men and women because one being
Speaker 4: a byegirl, nobody takes you serious. And she was also
Speaker 4: film so they was like used to think we were prostitutes.
Speaker 3: I want to I want to actually ask you that,
Speaker 3: because that brings up a good point. You said you
Speaker 3: wouldn't deal with straight women.
Speaker 5: When I was going through my lesbian phase, especially when
Speaker 5: I wanted to study, like I wanted a bitch to
Speaker 5: look like Brittay grinding, I.
Speaker 2: Was in the lesbian.
Speaker 3: I was in the lesbian clubs and when I tell you,
Speaker 3: as soon as the bitches were new.
Speaker 5: I liked real dick. They didn't want to talk to me.
Speaker 5: They actually don't like bisexual women.
Speaker 3: I want to know for you, do you distinguish between
Speaker 3: straight by and lesbian.
Speaker 5: No, I just I just like I mean, in the
Speaker 5: industry that I'm in, like I'm always around just women
Speaker 5: who around with this straight I haven't be playing around
Speaker 5: of course I hate them playing Yeah, they play around
Speaker 5: this stuff. Like I don't know, I'm gonna tracted to
Speaker 5: just straight women just because it's a challenge like the
Speaker 5: energy bisexual too. It's just that now that I'm really
Speaker 5: trying to be in a relationship and I'm trying to
Speaker 5: do different things, Like I'm so I just want somebody
Speaker 5: who's like.
Speaker 2: And it could be a new girl, it could be whatever.
Speaker 5: But I'm just kind of trying to stop away from
Speaker 5: straight women because it's only a sex thing.
Speaker 4: Thirty two, So I feel like at this age I'm
Speaker 4: thirty three, I don't think if I mean, if I
Speaker 4: was really just looking for women, I don't think I
Speaker 4: would want to date someone that's never been in a relationship.
Speaker 2: Exactly exactly because it's so hard.
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't, I don't. I think all relationships
Speaker 5: are hard, So I don't even think. I don't even
Speaker 5: think that I think they're supposed to be. I think
Speaker 5: that anything that you want is going to be hard.
Speaker 5: Anything to maintain is hard, like really, I mean not
Speaker 5: in a bad way, but like.
Speaker 1: Love, falling in love shit feel easy.
Speaker 5: No, falling in love is easy, but maintaining the maintenance
Speaker 5: of it is not gonna I mean I'm hard in
Speaker 5: the way of like difficulty, it's gonna have You're gonna
Speaker 5: have difficulty. Nothing but anything but hard about what about
Speaker 5: especially in a lesbian relationship with two women, because I
Speaker 5: understand emotions, like the things.
Speaker 3: Dealing with women is way different than dealing with men.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm like, that's why I think she
Speaker 3: calls me fake. Ay, I can only see myself in
Speaker 3: a head sexual relationship. But I love sex with women.
Speaker 3: But once them bitches want me to start taking them
Speaker 3: to the movies and all that shit, I'd be like, hey,
Speaker 3: calm down. So to me, what do you find difficult
Speaker 3: about being in a relationship? You like to be, you
Speaker 3: like to have the masculine energy around you. So even
Speaker 3: if it was with a girl, she has to have
Speaker 3: a masculine energy to kind of like take care of you.
Speaker 2: Right. No, that's the thing.
Speaker 5: I like masculinity with men and I love femininity with women.
Speaker 5: And so for me, I think my brain not wanting
Speaker 5: to show up masculine with a woman, especially because patriarchy.
Speaker 5: I think that's where my difficulty license.
Speaker 3: I love just women, the human the body of a woman,
Speaker 3: the touch of a woman, and they could be masculine
Speaker 3: or feminine, but I prefer feminine.
Speaker 2: But relationship wise, I think giving to.
Speaker 3: A woman in the way that they need and the
Speaker 3: way that they require is a lot and I don't
Speaker 3: think I have that.
Speaker 2: I love that as a woman.
Speaker 3: Men don't require as much emotional labor as I think
Speaker 3: women do. On even when I used to hear of
Speaker 3: you and with your relationship with scissors, being with a
Speaker 3: woman to me just sounds like more work.
Speaker 2: It is.
Speaker 5: But I mean that's all I know really, So Okay,
Speaker 5: there's more depth, I'll say this, there's okay, there was
Speaker 5: a lot more depth early on.
Speaker 1: Man, you gotta work too hard to get them.
Speaker 2: To open them to open up.
Speaker 1: And with her, very simple, very passionate and very passionate.
Speaker 2: She was very.
Speaker 4: Intentional too, like I didn't really have to teach this
Speaker 4: bitch how to treat me, which I feel like I
Speaker 4: do with a lot of men. But you know what's
Speaker 4: crazy to your point, I was recently thinking like, damn,
Speaker 4: I've really never been with a masculine woman, and I
Speaker 4: wonder if it's because I like men too, so I
Speaker 4: feel like.
Speaker 2: It's cheatless, like yo, I might as well go to
Speaker 2: a nigga.
Speaker 5: But then you feel like, you know, make me change
Speaker 5: my mind.
Speaker 1: Just the one bitch I could take my pussy Punky.
Speaker 5: I hate this Punky for resting now and I we
Speaker 5: are okay, okay, okay, Punky.
Speaker 4: Punky got she's you've seen her face, but it's it's
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 1: I love.
Speaker 4: I've seen like Punky has a cooking series online, so
Speaker 4: every night before I said, now she's cooking, and I
Speaker 4: think what I've always associated with studs, masks, women, whatever?
Speaker 2: Butch why the white people say but it's like what
Speaker 2: you said, it's ugly. It sounds like you hate it.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't like any terms don't come out,
Speaker 2: but really, if you mean whatever.
Speaker 1: But his mask preferred if someone's gonna say, so.
Speaker 5: I'm just a masculine because I have feminine energy as well,
Speaker 5: Like that's the thing, like you, you just gotta get
Speaker 5: to see me in my different energies.
Speaker 4: And I think I got to see her in that
Speaker 4: energy made me kind of like bunky, and I I
Speaker 4: started to be like, oh, because that's what I want
Speaker 4: out of the woman experience.
Speaker 1: I want to have both.
Speaker 4: But I've been so used to living in a masculine
Speaker 4: energy with these fem girls and being that bitch paying
Speaker 4: for ship doing ship, that I don't know what it's
Speaker 4: like to be treated the other way around.
Speaker 3: I think my my other I wouldn't say problem, but
Speaker 3: I like strapping. No, well, I like stop it. I
Speaker 3: like strapping. I like strapping. Man, WHOA, don't do that?
Speaker 2: Don't do that? Wait, don't hold on? Did you miss
Speaker 2: pat the Stallion girl? Wait a minute, however, I realized
Speaker 2: wants to give me a minute. Let me prossess this. Right, Okay, yes,
Speaker 2: you don't like gay guys? Right? You say that you
Speaker 2: don't like Lenny Kravish type nig No, I do like
Speaker 2: Lenny Kravist type nick? Did she say she I love?
Speaker 3: I don't like Lenny is literally I like, I like Lenny,
Speaker 3: I like it. So okay, So I did have one
Speaker 3: girlfriend I like where you're going with. Well, I realized
Speaker 3: to me too, and this could just be the way.
Speaker 3: So sex is way more psychological than anything, and so
Speaker 3: I enjoy strapping men. But in the one time that
Speaker 3: I did get strapped by a girl, the reason why
Speaker 3: I realized I didn't enjoy it was because I like
Speaker 3: to know that there's a pulse. I also like to
Speaker 3: know that he feels me inside, and I like to
Speaker 3: see it come and so to not have that be
Speaker 3: a part of sex was a problem for me because
Speaker 3: I only come off penetration.
Speaker 2: So I think that's maybe why I want a man
Speaker 2: there because but if you you can tinue in a strap,
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna penetrate. Like I ain't go front man.
Speaker 2: I like trying to like say too much.
Speaker 6: Wait what you mean?
Speaker 5: I just feel like you have to literally just find
Speaker 5: the right girl who can like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But but again, to me, the psychology of seeing it
Speaker 2: come on tight. I ain't got no type, not even
Speaker 2: the way they look, just like the way they is
Speaker 2: the only period. Yes, I like I like black black
Speaker 2: women never dated. I saw my race me neither. I
Speaker 2: love it for you.
Speaker 4: Good for you living in l A. I'm got to
Speaker 4: be everybody does. Who doesn't have a Persian girl friend
Speaker 4: right now?
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's a big thing, like because like a
Speaker 5: black woman is just a different type of energy anyways,
Speaker 5: Like that's my type whatever that energy like just confidence,
Speaker 5: like attitude. I love somebody who's like godfearing but a freak.
Speaker 2: Mm like a.
Speaker 5: God I love like I mean, no, I'm but see
Speaker 5: this is crazy because that's all.
Speaker 2: No, no, that's crazy. Let me say you. It's the
Speaker 2: lady in the street. Are you wow?
Speaker 1: Really meieve that is such a guy thing?
Speaker 2: You're wow?
Speaker 1: I've heard that, yo.
Speaker 5: You Like, girls are not the most sexual beings in
Speaker 5: the world, and women are Women like are nasty?
Speaker 2: Women are freaks, Like like, I don't know why you
Speaker 2: make it. It seem like this is a nigga thing like
Speaker 2: women are.
Speaker 4: I think God fearing requests okay, because God fearing freak
Speaker 4: like you're here.
Speaker 2: We feel like y'all are that women are nasty?
Speaker 5: The niggas in my eyes, I think, oh yeah, niggas.
Speaker 3: Literally say he was scared. He said he was scared
Speaker 3: I was gonna turn him out. I said, I consent everything,
Speaker 3: But men be way more scared.
Speaker 4: Than women because I men feel like freaking this again
Speaker 4: is like their masculinity just goes away. The dirtier they get,
Speaker 4: the nastier they get, they feel like it's some bitch shit,
Speaker 4: Like they're really scared to let their guard down, which
Speaker 4: is polly wide.
Speaker 1: Straight girls was let's go back to that. Why did
Speaker 1: you change your mind on straight?
Speaker 2: She? No, because they're crying right now now.
Speaker 5: I changed them out, the straight girls just because like
Speaker 5: I don't really I'm not fulfilled and what I really want,
Speaker 5: like I really want to partner.
Speaker 1: Were you getting your feelings hurt?
Speaker 2: I got my feelings hurt once on.
Speaker 1: Was she straight?
Speaker 2: Yeah? But the thing is, like, man, I.
Speaker 5: Got callous around my whole I've been doing this so
Speaker 5: like cain't nothing Like I don't really get hurt like that.
Speaker 5: So that was a while back, like she, If it
Speaker 5: wasn't for her, I don't think I would probably have
Speaker 5: been able to like do this shit as far as
Speaker 5: like I would have.
Speaker 2: Just wanted to be with one person calling today gay girl.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, just not even be out
Speaker 5: here doing just living, like just being just trying.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Just.
Speaker 1: Are you just gonna say a nice word for being
Speaker 1: for me?
Speaker 2: I'm not, but I'm not a hope. But I'm definitely
Speaker 2: not a hope.
Speaker 5: Just no, jumped around on no, but I'm definitely not
Speaker 5: a hope. It's just like being able to say if
Speaker 5: I want to do this, I want to do this.
Speaker 3: You said, you said, you've been doing this. I want
Speaker 3: to know in terms of your sexuality, in terms of dating,
Speaker 3: have you been dating women since middle school? And I'm
Speaker 3: asking this because Weezie and I are going to be
Speaker 3: talking about the Gerrod Carmichael Show, And it's so interesting
Speaker 3: to me how people are hooking the fact that men
Speaker 3: and women who are coming out of the later age
Speaker 3: have the mindset of a teenager or someone, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, because they haven't been doing this for
Speaker 3: a while. Were you dating women in elementary, middle school,
Speaker 3: high school?
Speaker 2: When was your first girlfriend? We was humping in elementary
Speaker 2: street with girls in my neighborhood.
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I was doing that. It was all
Speaker 5: doing We was all hunching. Actually talked about this in
Speaker 5: the book though. One of my friends the straightest buck today.
Speaker 5: So no, it's not because we all gay. We was
Speaker 5: all hunching though, but you was well children like we were.
Speaker 5: We would play school and house, but we were oh no,
Speaker 5: as it.
Speaker 2: Was always I was closed. I don't think I was today.
Speaker 2: I was. He was innocent.
Speaker 1: I was a baby boy and just leave it on
Speaker 1: the loop.
Speaker 2: And we were.
Speaker 3: So so outside of hunching then, like because I guess
Speaker 3: we all did that at a very young age.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did start talking to girls.
Speaker 5: To like like high school into high school, okay, but
Speaker 5: always knew, always.
Speaker 2: Knew, always knew. But I'm Memphis my moment, she wasn't
Speaker 2: having it what you said, she wasn't having hell. No, really,
Speaker 2: Bema were good. Now we we have you.
Speaker 4: This is bringing up a point from that dry Camic show.
Speaker 4: You watched it through.
Speaker 2: It's so good.
Speaker 4: So I have a really strong opinion about me thinking
Speaker 4: that he kind of pushed his gayness on his parents too.
Speaker 2: Rush.
Speaker 4: I feel like we are in such a liberal time,
Speaker 4: in a very white time of coming out parties and
Speaker 4: all this shit, and I think that we don't acknowledge
Speaker 4: that black parents church religion is they kind.
Speaker 2: Of need a second man.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I didn't like watching him one call his
Speaker 4: mother a bitch. By the way, I'm a very big
Speaker 4: fan of Jard calling his mom a bitch. The way
Speaker 4: that he was talking about her, I felt like he
Speaker 4: was doing this and it's like, yo, their image of
Speaker 4: you just died.
Speaker 2: Let them work slowly.
Speaker 4: Talk about this with a Keen Woods who agreed with me,
Speaker 4: who's gay one of our friends. Another gay friend who
Speaker 4: thought I was so wrong, And I'm curious to know
Speaker 4: with you, like, do you agree with that? Do you
Speaker 4: think sometimes we push our sexuality and acceptance on our
Speaker 4: family a little too much.
Speaker 2: We need to give them their space or no. I
Speaker 2: mean my pup always my papa always be like.
Speaker 5: He always been telling me to read this book called
Speaker 5: The Prodigal Son is pretty much when like I like,
Speaker 5: I give you, after I birth you, I give you
Speaker 5: to the world. I can't come as your father. I
Speaker 5: can't come into your world. That's what my pop always say.
Speaker 5: Oh wow, he's like, yo. My pop is my like
Speaker 5: my biggest supporter. He's like, yo, I want you to
Speaker 5: do what you want. I would never get mad. I
Speaker 5: can't come into your world. So I feel like we
Speaker 5: all need to remember that like our parents are our parents,
Speaker 5: but we would get to a certain age.
Speaker 2: It ain't about them, it's about us.
Speaker 5: So I think they've lived their life, like if you
Speaker 5: look at the Prodigal Son, like they've lived it.
Speaker 2: It's time for us to do it. So I would say,
Speaker 2: whatever that person wants to do. If they want to
Speaker 2: rush and talk to it, they should do whatever they want.
Speaker 2: They don't want to speak about it, do whatever they want.
Speaker 2: I think that's up to them.
Speaker 5: I don't have an opinion on what a person should do,
Speaker 5: but I do know that, Like there's a book called
Speaker 5: The Prodigal Son that tells you, like, yo, you can't
Speaker 5: come into your kids world after a certain age.
Speaker 2: You teach them everything you need. What is that age?
Speaker 5: I mean that's up to whenever we get out the
Speaker 5: day of the house and be like, you know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying. I got out, you know that's why I
Speaker 5: had to go get it. I was like, Yo, I
Speaker 5: can't be in Memphis at my mama house because I
Speaker 5: want to be able to do what I want to do.
Speaker 5: So let me go get this money. Let me move
Speaker 5: to Miami and figure it out. Let me hustle because
Speaker 5: I want to be free. And I want my life,
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So that's why I had
Speaker 5: to go get it. So I think that's when like
Speaker 5: as a kid, as a as a adult, that's I
Speaker 5: think that's when you like, but kids are coming out
Speaker 5: like twelve thirteen, and I got nothing but respect for that.
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, that's beautiful, like that you can do that.
Speaker 2: I didn't.
Speaker 1: That's a privilege.
Speaker 4: By the way, that is a lot of the things
Speaker 4: that we're seeing now TikTok, and I feel like maybe
Speaker 4: it is a black thing, but like my friend, my family,
Speaker 4: they're not having this experience, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So sometimes I get a little irritated and angry when
Speaker 4: people expect their experience to be yours and.
Speaker 1: It comes with age.
Speaker 4: Like I don't know if I've ever told this on horle,
Speaker 4: but my aunt had passed from cancer and when she
Speaker 4: was getting in a hysterectomy, my dad is is really
Speaker 4: my mom is black. He was never hating the gaze,
Speaker 4: but he was always like, you go your mom best
Speaker 4: friend again type shit right.
Speaker 2: Never said it, but you could see.
Speaker 4: So my aunt's doctor came out to say her sex
Speaker 4: surgery was successful.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever brought this up ever,
Speaker 1: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: And she was trans, Oh, and my dad's face was
Speaker 4: so crazy, right, and we're driving home.
Speaker 1: I was maybe sixteen.
Speaker 4: He was like, Wow, that could have been you, that
Speaker 4: could have been your mother, that could be me. And
Speaker 4: I don't know what was in my head before, Like
Speaker 4: what was I thinking before, Like they're.
Speaker 1: Not people or something.
Speaker 4: And for an adult to say this to a kid,
Speaker 4: you know, it's pyper moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think everybody kind of needs that. It'll hit them
Speaker 4: at some point. And I'm not saying this with like
Speaker 4: race or anything. I think, you know, that's different. But
Speaker 4: when it comes to old people, how they grew up,
Speaker 4: what they learned is right and wrong.
Speaker 2: I mean it's a deep programming. Have you got to
Speaker 2: see that?
Speaker 3: And I mean I think that that even with this show,
Speaker 3: like us talking about the non traditional way of being
Speaker 3: in a relationship, that's new sexuality.
Speaker 2: Every year, there's they add.
Speaker 3: A lot of lgbt qu I a elemental p like,
Speaker 3: there are so many ways in which we can identify
Speaker 3: and we're also being open to just accepting how people
Speaker 3: want to show up sexually. Because because we're talking about Uh,
Speaker 3: let's be honest. One of the things that you said
Speaker 3: is that you know, in terms of orgasming, figuring that
Speaker 3: out can sometimes kind of be hard. So our vanilla
Speaker 3: ship for this episode, I know, I said, I come
Speaker 3: from penetration. You love giving the tip to turn your
Speaker 3: head to the side and eat some KOUCHI I've said,
Speaker 3: I'm just saying you love eating. So I wanted to
Speaker 3: talk about because a shocking number of people this is
Speaker 3: our vanillaship. By the way, are orgasming now from tickling.
Speaker 3: So uh, this will tickle your A quarter of respondence
Speaker 3: surveyed in a new study said they've orgasm from being tickled.
Speaker 3: The research was conducted by scientists at University Medical Center
Speaker 3: Mainz in Germany, aimed to annuloze analyze how adults use
Speaker 3: tickling in connection with asexual activity. Previous studies on tickleness
Speaker 3: tickleishnists have mainly focused on the sensory consequences and playful aspects. However,
Speaker 3: in the study, they investigated the role of tickling in
Speaker 3: a sexual context for the first time. They recruited seven
Speaker 3: hundred and nineteen people who profess to have tickling fetishes
Speaker 3: to see whether they experienced arousal from the act or not.
Speaker 4: Has no one heard of the documentary Tickled. No, maybe
Speaker 4: it's not called Tickle. I don't know if someone could
Speaker 4: google it, but there is a documentary about teenage boys,
Speaker 4: not young, not under age, but basically getting paid on
Speaker 4: Craigslist or something.
Speaker 1: I want to be tech.
Speaker 4: And then it was a sex tape and they didn't
Speaker 4: know and it was like a whole thing. Wait, I
Speaker 4: watched it years ago. Do y'all see the name?
Speaker 1: No, is it tickle?
Speaker 2: Is it tickle? Bro?
Speaker 1: That shit is so good?
Speaker 4: And basically these people were saying, Oh my god, this
Speaker 4: ruined my life, Like I just need to make some
Speaker 4: extra money.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm not gonna lie. So I got I got
Speaker 3: tricked into that. I was sixteen or seventeen years old,
Speaker 3: not tickling. So let me tell y'all. So in Florida,
Speaker 3: like you remember last Maham No so yes, So there
Speaker 3: was a there was a website called Model Mayham. Back
Speaker 3: in the day, I was on Pliza's street team. I
Speaker 3: was in magazines by the time I was eighteen. I
Speaker 3: was in high school, published in Ink magazine and Straight Sunton. Okay,
Speaker 3: so a bitch was like, I'm gonna be a video mix,
Speaker 3: and that was my goal at one point. That probably
Speaker 3: that's why I moved to Atlanta. So I end up
Speaker 3: on Model Mayhem and this photographer contacts me. He lives
Speaker 3: in Tampa and he's like, I'd love you to come
Speaker 3: and be videotaped and photographed. He did jiu jitsu, but
Speaker 3: I had to be in a bikini, no nudity, no
Speaker 3: nothing like that. So I'm like, bet, it was like
Speaker 3: only for it was a one hour shoot and he
Speaker 3: was like three hundred and fifty dollars now, nigga begg day.
Speaker 2: Hold on. I worked at the mall.
Speaker 5: It took me about thirty two hours to make three fifty, Okay,
Speaker 5: So I was like, oh, bitch, all I gotta do
Speaker 5: is drive forty five minutes to Tampa.
Speaker 2: Bet. So I go over there.
Speaker 3: We shoot by myself because I thought all bitch was grown.
Speaker 3: Took my little Yundai Sonata ride on over the motherfucking
Speaker 3: Tampa and again at this time, I'm doing photo shoots.
Speaker 3: I'm again on the street team. I wearing the cut
Speaker 3: up shirt with the boys shorts and the heels. I
Speaker 3: don't think anything of it. I'm fully I'm fully dressed.
Speaker 3: So I go over there and literally I get down
Speaker 3: to a bathing suit and we're like wrestling, but it's
Speaker 3: jiu jitsu.
Speaker 2: So he's doing jiu jitsu moves on me recording this.
Speaker 2: Swear to god.
Speaker 3: Maybe a year and a half later, this is like
Speaker 3: a thing where it's on fucking porn hub.
Speaker 2: People are I wasn't on there, thank God.
Speaker 1: But I realized it.
Speaker 3: But I realized, but I realized that what I had
Speaker 3: actually done was a form of Even though I'm thinking
Speaker 3: I'm modeling and it's nothing, I'm in a bathing suit
Speaker 3: doing jiu jitsu moves. This nigga's putting me in positions
Speaker 3: that someone on the other end don't never got the photos, videos,
Speaker 3: don't know where it lives.
Speaker 2: So if y'all see me, baby I'm under age, don't
Speaker 2: watch it.
Speaker 3: But literally, I'm seventeen years old just thinking I'm doing
Speaker 3: this modeling thing and it's sexual.
Speaker 2: So I'm curious to and no, but also well, I
Speaker 2: was just thinking about it. I got it. My daughter.
Speaker 2: I gotta just well. No, we actually did this.
Speaker 3: So our last two our last two live shows at
Speaker 3: Black Effect and at together Land, we had someone come
Speaker 3: up and do splashing. So splashing is just sitting on
Speaker 3: cakes if you're on TikTok oh yeah, sitting on cakes food,
Speaker 3: it's actually making a mess.
Speaker 2: There's a whole thing right now.
Speaker 5: Oh ASMR. People are coming off of watching people eat
Speaker 5: crab leg cake. There's a lot of kinks that you
Speaker 5: know what you don't know it.
Speaker 4: Sex shows you how much nakedness and how much sexuality
Speaker 4: is out there.
Speaker 1: We're going back my hand to make out with me
Speaker 1: for like forty five minutes.
Speaker 4: John, I'm not joking. So sometimes I'll be trying to
Speaker 4: pull the dick out and he be stopping me, and
Speaker 4: I'm like, damn, he really like needs this intimacy. And
Speaker 4: I believe it's because when we've had so much sex
Speaker 4: and we've done all this ship, we kind of sensitize it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 5: When I go on I can't even open my Twitter
Speaker 5: app in public no more. It's just nothing but boodles, bussies,
Speaker 5: koochie everything.
Speaker 2: Like if you have my algorithm, my algorithm is terrible.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Though I love it,
Speaker 1: I was thinking about it now. Obviously it's horrible.
Speaker 4: So we want to talk about your sexuality, But does
Speaker 4: it ever, I don't want to say hurt your feelings,
Speaker 4: but annoy you that maybe when you do interviews or
Speaker 4: have conversations, your sexuality is brought up.
Speaker 5: No, it doesn't know because I think we're humans and
Speaker 5: I think we're we're all sexual.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, like one.
Speaker 5: Thing that brings us all together is we love sex
Speaker 5: or we don't love set like there's a sexuals like
Speaker 5: who do things like like.
Speaker 1: Tickling you know what I'm saying, or kissing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like the common thing is we're all we
Speaker 5: love intimacy. So I think, yeah, it's sexually like that's
Speaker 5: why my sexuality.
Speaker 2: I mean, like I don't.
Speaker 1: I just feel like with lesbian artist the thing that it's.
Speaker 2: Not a lot of us. I was about to say,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, like it's a handful, and I'm.
Speaker 5: Grateful that that I'm the me alongside of some other
Speaker 5: ones like that we're like like umbraid, you know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Kaylan Younger May young Man, Janelle kind of right, Janelle name, Yeah.
Speaker 1: We saw her, Oh god we were in the Southern Friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I tell you, I ain't never seen bitches on somebody
Speaker 1: dick pussy.
Speaker 2: I was like bro.
Speaker 1: I mean, there was all these ball players.
Speaker 2: In the club.
Speaker 5: I'm mad because I've been loved her back when, back
Speaker 5: when she had thirty suits and rotations, and now she's
Speaker 5: showing them titties. And now I'm mad she got all
Speaker 5: the attention telling you in the suit being able she
Speaker 5: can do both. I love it, but I love it
Speaker 5: so dope. It's just that it's not a lot of us,
Speaker 5: but we're cutting through, and I think that's what's so
Speaker 5: good about it is that I'm able to like be
Speaker 5: the next voice or the next like for the next.
Speaker 3: I think what I love about you and Ombre too
Speaker 3: specifically is a lot of times when bronation and just
Speaker 3: oh my god, so sounds beautiful. But the fact that
Speaker 3: kind of like what Frank Oshin ended up doing, is
Speaker 3: that you're able to make music and sing to women
Speaker 3: and it be acceptable and you don't have to use
Speaker 3: your music and singing to a nigga.
Speaker 5: When you don't want man, i'd be having women be
Speaker 5: like yo, your song made me like you, like they
Speaker 5: be curious not to my music, and you said I.
Speaker 2: Don't want you because few I got a few.
Speaker 1: Funny look at singers that I definitely.
Speaker 2: Not funny looking. Look at singers.
Speaker 4: I can't say one of these they because they ain't
Speaker 4: kind of in proximity to you. That's buddy, I want
Speaker 4: to know.
Speaker 5: I want to you gotta tells Okay.
Speaker 4: Ddigan got that song with the digger with the dreads
Speaker 4: open whatever his name is?
Speaker 2: What open? Wait? He funny looking? Yeah he is?
Speaker 1: But I know that Freddie got a song with you
Speaker 1: and him.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: Sometimes I confuse it when I'm just seeing it pop up.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go now, I'm But at the same time,
Speaker 2: I'll be like, music, make you want to go? Get me?
Speaker 2: Want to what? Ship? You know what? I have?
Speaker 3: The opposite when I be hearing beautiful ass songs and
Speaker 3: then I look at him, I'll be like the nerve.
Speaker 2: This dude, niggas be toxic.
Speaker 1: I'd be like the nerve tell me this.
Speaker 2: Okay, tell you this? What's what you want?
Speaker 1: The song?
Speaker 2: I'm like, why are we good? Every got that to
Speaker 2: do that?
Speaker 4: Get some flissy too. That was a little too groofy,
Speaker 4: but she was like, fuck it, man, have you ever
Speaker 4: have you.
Speaker 2: A group a groupie? No? No? I like, nah, I'm
Speaker 2: telling you that, don't do nothing for me.
Speaker 5: I like girls that like not just ever no, it
Speaker 5: doesn't like I like a challenge. I don't want you
Speaker 5: to give it to me, like if I can get
Speaker 5: it so easy, all right?
Speaker 2: Is that such a nigga? Not fight for pay for
Speaker 2: no pay for it? What okay? From Memphis Love? We
Speaker 2: don't do that for the horrible hell.
Speaker 3: Not the horrible decision for the whole derve though, because
Speaker 3: sing so now into it.
Speaker 5: I want, I want you to give a sex tip.
Speaker 5: And this could be for someone who is pleasing you
Speaker 5: or how you like to please someone else. But if
Speaker 5: you could give a sex tip to the audience, but
Speaker 5: we're only half help, then please I could give somebody.
Speaker 5: I just feel like pay attention to the breaths to
Speaker 5: like breathing. Oh, I just think like I really that's
Speaker 5: what I really feel like. I feel like breathing and
Speaker 5: just like just pictures to everything with a guy with
Speaker 5: your girl. It's just like the breathing.
Speaker 2: Could you can we do some answer? Mark? Could you
Speaker 2: give a good breathing? Come on? I can't do it.
Speaker 2: I can't do it.
Speaker 5: Wait, wait you a low performance with I ain't had
Speaker 5: no come on and I had no I don't got
Speaker 5: no alcohol.
Speaker 2: We got alcohol.
Speaker 5: You need a shot to give us some good breathing water. Hold, hey,
Speaker 5: can we get john Zy a shot real quick? It's
Speaker 5: only some run, but it's okay.
Speaker 2: Hey you look, you say that's what you're welcome in French?
Speaker 1: What is it? I thought it was.
Speaker 2: I thought it was.
Speaker 1: I just like Paris. I should be sorry. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys know.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 5: I was out there like a whole nigga, speaking Spanish
Speaker 5: because I knew I had to speak another language, but
Speaker 5: I don't really don't bridge, So I was like why,
Speaker 5: like what like poppy?
Speaker 2: I was like, wrong country way, You're gonna give us
Speaker 2: the breathing now?
Speaker 5: No, No, what did you thought that thought? I thought
Speaker 5: I drink that I was gonna get it going. That's
Speaker 5: you told me what to do? Is that what you do?
Speaker 5: Are you normally like? Do you normally give instruction?
Speaker 4: During said.
Speaker 2: You to open it up? Oh? Look very much.
Speaker 5: I'm a I'm a I'm a pleaser, So I like
Speaker 5: to talk my girl through it.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. How could I hear you?
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, stop right now, blessing, we got jack, blessing.
Speaker 5: You know my mama probably gonna watch this one day.
Speaker 2: We don't blow up in algorithm, we shadow bend. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be searching me up. Just now she found the pictures.
Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you where you found this?
Speaker 5: Because she don't got instagirls, so, like, what the that's
Speaker 5: my mama googling everything?
Speaker 4: My mama will click on it YouTube. Oh wait, that's
Speaker 4: what I want to ask. So you just told me
Speaker 4: what to do. So I'm asking if you tell people
Speaker 4: what to do in the reverse. You don't seem like
Speaker 4: you can give something, miss, but I'm sure that you
Speaker 4: have me right. Does it take love or a lot
Speaker 4: of trust?
Speaker 5: It's got to take a girl just know if she
Speaker 5: knows what she's doing, Like if you know what you do.
Speaker 5: If you know what you're doing, I'll let you do it.
Speaker 5: But if you wouldn't, like, I'm not gonna play. I'm
Speaker 5: not fena like like I like it, I'm not about
Speaker 5: to like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So with the straight girls, did you enjoy the sex
Speaker 1: because of the challenge?
Speaker 2: I loved it? You did? Sometimes you know they didn't
Speaker 2: know what they was doing.
Speaker 5: I'm a pleaser, so like I love to like and
Speaker 5: they wanted to learn, like they willing to, like you know,
Speaker 5: And I feel like when girls like really like when
Speaker 5: they really get pleased, like now they're just they're nasty
Speaker 5: ship and they just wanted to.
Speaker 2: Do whatever that like all right, we're gonna dam damn yeah,
Speaker 2: you know you know what. I feel like that only
Speaker 2: happens to me with women.
Speaker 4: Like what I was saying, I feel like with lesbian sex,
Speaker 4: like plus be on my titt, I don't know what
Speaker 4: the I don't do that with men.
Speaker 1: Actually, I feel like lesbian sex gets very.
Speaker 2: To put his dick on your on your on your chest,
Speaker 2: and I'm not saying let me.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just want to be rubbed all over with
Speaker 1: juices and ship. It's weird.
Speaker 4: And I feel like with men sometimes it's so like
Speaker 4: we know this is going in there. I don't know,
Speaker 4: so it's just like a maybe, but it does feel
Speaker 4: like you just start playing around getting aasty.
Speaker 2: It's just free.
Speaker 5: I just think you're free. I just really think women
Speaker 5: just really we just love to like please each other.
Speaker 5: I think it's beautiful. I think every girl should fuck
Speaker 5: a girl. I believe, I really do think that. I
Speaker 5: think every girl, every woman should experience sex with a
Speaker 5: woman because I just think that I just don't think
Speaker 5: you like you, you'll appreciate your orgasms.
Speaker 2: You'll appreciate now you know what that is like? Oh no,
Speaker 2: I never felt that before, like you.
Speaker 5: Know, because like man, a girl can come so many times,
Speaker 5: like back to back, girls become like two times, like
Speaker 5: you know, you can come water than that.
Speaker 2: If if he likes you know what I'm saying, figures
Speaker 2: it out or she figures it out. I like that.
Speaker 1: She said, yeah, well strappering, No strap, I.
Speaker 2: Don't really like strap. I don't really like giving it,
Speaker 2: but I got it.
Speaker 1: Do you find that got that trap heard by straight women?
Speaker 2: Nah? They be because they like fingers.
Speaker 4: If you do it right, if you do it right,
Speaker 4: perfect sex for you or maybe maybe your favorite type.
Speaker 2: Perfect fingers is the scissoring? Is it everything?
Speaker 1: Everything?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's a concoction. It's like a cocktail.
Speaker 7: Come on, minus minus the cock the coochs tale, the
Speaker 7: horrible decision.
Speaker 3: Your last album songs for women niggas. I want to
Speaker 3: get into more full court you know about me because
Speaker 3: it was.
Speaker 2: Singing to the ladies I wanted to.
Speaker 5: So we've been talking about dating we've been talking about
Speaker 5: all the things, but you have a freaky business. Now
Speaker 5: we've been talking about sex. However, you have another snippet
Speaker 5: that you've been teasing like me. That's that's dropped right,
Speaker 5: like me dropped. I wanted to get into like Me,
Speaker 5: which is on the project.
Speaker 2: Because you kind of the lyrics.
Speaker 3: I want to read the lyrics just because I was
Speaker 3: going through the I was going through the I said,
Speaker 3: let me see which one I want to go through,
Speaker 3: and I wanted to get a little bit away from
Speaker 3: sex only because it seemed like in the song you
Speaker 3: wanted them to say they liked you. You were begging
Speaker 3: them to tell you because maybe their actions didn't show it,
Speaker 3: or maybe you were confused. And I think that's my
Speaker 3: confusion with dat having sex with women or navigating women.
Speaker 2: Is that to me?
Speaker 5: I feel like all women just like women. I feel
Speaker 5: like it's easier to tell when a woman likes you
Speaker 5: than when a man likes you. So I want to
Speaker 5: ask you the difficulty in dating women, how you determine
Speaker 5: if a woman really likes you, because again, because women
Speaker 5: show up so emotional all the time, and.
Speaker 2: Do you need to hear it? Man?
Speaker 5: You know what that's such a good one right here,
Speaker 5: because I've been talking to my brothers because like the
Speaker 5: more successful I get, I'll be having to make sure
Speaker 5: girls don't want.
Speaker 2: To just fuck with me because of just who you
Speaker 2: because the money or the accents, right.
Speaker 5: Like, So I don't like that, and that's why I said,
Speaker 5: if it's easy, I don't want it, yeah, because I
Speaker 5: don't know, Like I don't and I'm not.
Speaker 2: The good ones really hide it well the right and
Speaker 2: you know it they because let me tell you this,
Speaker 2: one girl like I talked to, I was bobbing with her.
Speaker 2: Are we cool? We cool? Like, hey, I can hear
Speaker 2: her right now. It's all love like but literally I
Speaker 2: met her, how did I mean?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I met her at my boy's birthday party
Speaker 5: and then I like got a number talk to her
Speaker 5: and she's she's she's only been with one girl, so
Speaker 5: she's back to talking to niggas.
Speaker 2: Okay, But we was vibbing. I didn't think she knew
Speaker 2: I was and nothing. She likes she know who I was.
Speaker 5: Of course, Then like we went out to eat and
Speaker 5: like she she started naming all my songs. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 5: you know me, but like there's you didn't like you
Speaker 5: didn't like that she did. That kind of turned me
Speaker 5: off a little bit. Oh like that kind of you
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. It just turned off just because
Speaker 5: like when I saw you there at the party, I mean,
Speaker 5: the energy was good, but you didn't like it wasn't
Speaker 5: that There.
Speaker 2: Has to be some you know what I'm saying, acknowledgement,
Speaker 2: acknowledge it. I feel like, especially if you really know me,
Speaker 2: one of my.
Speaker 1: Recent encounters, I just brought up to you this name.
Speaker 1: This isn't in a name drop you way. This is
Speaker 1: because I feel like I had to start saying it.
Speaker 4: I went to a party that Steve Lacey was at
Speaker 4: and I really and I liked Steve Lacey from the
Speaker 4: before the pandemic, which is I feel like when he
Speaker 4: blew up right and I was like, fuck, I really
Speaker 4: love this man. And talking for maybe five minutes, something
Speaker 4: else comes up about how he had to travel for
Speaker 4: work or whatever, and I was like, oh, this is
Speaker 4: the icebreaker, Like I have to talk. I was like,
Speaker 4: by the way, I love your work, big fan. He
Speaker 4: was like, oh thanks, and he smiles at me. We
Speaker 4: got back to normal.
Speaker 1: Congo.
Speaker 4: A friend of mine was across from me, and it
Speaker 4: was like, bruh, I've been talking to this nigga for
Speaker 4: two hours. It was a game, right, He's like, and
Speaker 4: I didn't know how to say that. And now I
Speaker 4: feel like I'm weird because we're about to all hang
Speaker 4: out and do some other shit later. And now I
Speaker 4: gotta then tell you I know you are. There is
Speaker 4: a weird thing of like when do I acknowledge it?
Speaker 4: And I think exidily. We are so scared to tell
Speaker 4: people when we're an admire Yo, let.
Speaker 2: Me tell you some shit.
Speaker 5: Like if I know, if I sit in the girl's
Speaker 5: DM and I see her out and I know she
Speaker 5: didn't read it, I'm like, fuck, I gotta like uncended.
Speaker 1: No, you gotta break it.
Speaker 5: Hell no, this is the perfect icebreaker, Like I'm about
Speaker 5: to go over there, like that's like that's my icebreaker
Speaker 5: to go over there and be like I ain't gonna
Speaker 5: lie like any idea and it's always a joke.
Speaker 2: Oh let me see. And then I'm like, you know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, but like that's kind of where it goes.
Speaker 2: Oh god, yes, how do you shoot your shot? I
Speaker 2: ain't got one. I mean, you're not gonna break my
Speaker 2: your boyfriend somewhere over here watching right now. Man, you
Speaker 2: like Lanny's, keep going Lenny Lenny's. She said, Leandy Kravit,
Speaker 2: not like Ny.
Speaker 4: You are fucking hilarous about a foursome I had with
Speaker 4: a woman that has never had sex with a man,
Speaker 4: right and her firm girlfriend.
Speaker 1: So me and him and his ports. Wow.
Speaker 4: And he was like, yo, I don't even give a
Speaker 4: fuck about this other bitch. I want to fuck the virgin.
Speaker 1: And he said to me, like, not a virgin, just
Speaker 1: goo star lesbian.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: He was like, I feel like niggas don't like it
Speaker 4: because of masculinity. He's like, I see the girliness, I
Speaker 4: see the femininity.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, he fucked the masculine girl.
Speaker 1: Oh no, she started crying because she started crying.
Speaker 2: It was like yeah, but anyway, oh no, it was crazy.
Speaker 1: But when he said that to me, I realized, like,
Speaker 1: there's so many men that feel like that. They feel
Speaker 1: like you've got to look like X y Z and
Speaker 1: to not see the woman in somebody.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel like could be rude the woman in me. Yes,
Speaker 2: you said, you said, are dangerous? Are they not? Are
Speaker 2: they not more easily accessible or either to talk.
Speaker 1: To with, I don't like three.
Speaker 2: I've had bad three experience, he said, yo, wa because.
Speaker 5: Like the bread, because my I never asked for it
Speaker 5: and like my exit brought it and then got mad
Speaker 5: at her friend, like they starting to fight in the.
Speaker 2: Living room, like I didn't ask for this, Like you
Speaker 2: did this? I have the most successful what they was doing?
Speaker 5: Yes, they was like it was bad and that was
Speaker 5: the only time I've had a few, but they have
Speaker 5: all been bad.
Speaker 1: Just just give us that horror story.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's hear the bad.
Speaker 5: Three horror story, except that one when they started fighting
Speaker 5: wait scratch, wait literally fighting they was fighting in the
Speaker 5: bad What did you do?
Speaker 2: I was, I didn't I didn't have no, I didn't
Speaker 2: have no, I didn't have I was, I wouldn't have
Speaker 2: a house yet I was. But you're gonna tell you
Speaker 2: as a law homeless and you set up a threezom
Speaker 2: in your manager bed And I sent the video to
Speaker 2: my manager like yo, and he was like, Johns, what
Speaker 2: the fuck is you doing? I was reckless, but it
Speaker 2: was fun. It was a story. And tell the story.
Speaker 1: We brought her friend.
Speaker 2: Did you talk about it before? No? Literally? So all right, boom,
Speaker 2: here we go. I'm in bed. This is late.
Speaker 5: This is like, she's not from La, She's from She
Speaker 5: was living in Houston at the time, and so she
Speaker 5: was out.
Speaker 2: She was out for a long song.
Speaker 5: So I'm sleep, I'm not. She comes in, well her
Speaker 5: friend okay, never met a friend, don't know. She is
Speaker 5: bad as fuck though bad. They get in bed and
Speaker 5: they just started kissing, and I'm like, oh shit, it's
Speaker 5: about to go. Like nobody says nothing, like, they're not
Speaker 5: explaining nothing like it's not a jockey, you want this
Speaker 5: none of that ship My god, I know it was
Speaker 5: crazy bro, and so like boom.
Speaker 1: So we start.
Speaker 2: So I start kissing my girl. But where I fucked
Speaker 2: up at I started kissing the other girl too.
Speaker 5: Okay, I started, but I'm thinking this is the game time,
Speaker 5: like we're all in this together. So like, but what
Speaker 5: I should have did, honestly, now that I'm like older
Speaker 5: and myn mature, I should have just let them vibe and.
Speaker 2: I should have just like, probably, oh, you went too
Speaker 2: hard enough.
Speaker 5: No, I didn't go too hard at all. It wasn't that,
Speaker 5: but to her it was hard, like it wasn't even
Speaker 5: that I didn't even do nothing. That crazy brought in
Speaker 5: the band.
Speaker 1: Kiss it.
Speaker 2: What she said, are you fucking serious? From the kiss
Speaker 2: you didn't even get to eat the coochie? And from
Speaker 2: the kids, No, I didn't. I was like we was
Speaker 2: about to and like she was like, are you fucking serious?
Speaker 2: You are you dumb to you? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Like did she rock out the room? And now the
Speaker 5: other girls like, yo, you said you want to do
Speaker 5: go in there, and they starting to like push each
Speaker 5: other in the It was it was crazy. So I
Speaker 5: go sit in the living room and I'm just like this,
Speaker 5: like what yo, y'all figured that out, like I'm just here,
Speaker 5: and then they figured it out and we finished.
Speaker 2: That's just crazy.
Speaker 1: It was crazy. It was enough drama to send the
Speaker 1: video and then y'all ended up sucking anyway.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did it for sure.
Speaker 1: Let's let this be a testimony. Is this the camera here?
Speaker 8: Bitches are crazy fuck ridiculous, But you know you just
Speaker 8: need ridiculous too, and went back and got it. Don't know.
Speaker 2: I just think she needed what it was was she
Speaker 2: just needed assurance.
Speaker 5: She needed assurance that I'm only doing this because you
Speaker 5: brought this to me, Like you know what I'm saying, you.
Speaker 1: Got some nerve to bring me say, and I gotta
Speaker 1: tell you.
Speaker 3: Listen, God shows it. I've had a very successful threesomes.
Speaker 3: They've been amazing and I love it.
Speaker 2: The one where the girl, oh what happened with that?
Speaker 2: I mean she started crying. Basically, we met these bitches.
Speaker 1: We didn't even ask for it.
Speaker 2: She basically went up to my dude.
Speaker 1: And liked, you look like Lenny Travis and Tracy Chapman.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is crazy.
Speaker 2: Let me see your nigga. Don't like Tracy Chapman.
Speaker 1: She's just a pretty nigga.
Speaker 2: And I don't like when bitches dat she's gay. Let
Speaker 2: me see what Tracy Chapman, Lenny gravit. Okay, okay, I
Speaker 2: can see you see it that, you can see it.
Speaker 2: Let me look up Tracy Chapman. Hold on, you see it?
Speaker 2: Damn Oh that's crazy. He really.
Speaker 1: Hold on. Because actually they got to say a lot
Speaker 1: as fun and you know, white visits.
Speaker 4: To oh my god, he looks like the girlfriend and
Speaker 4: her girl back and for it. So she want to
Speaker 4: fuck the film girl wants to fuck him the butcher.
Speaker 4: And I say that because white people want to fuck me.
Speaker 4: So it was their idea.
Speaker 8: Bro.
Speaker 4: We met them for ten minutes. By the time we
Speaker 4: got back to the crab Scissor and I ain't have
Speaker 4: pussy in a minutes. I'm going hard ship. He get
Speaker 4: in there and I see the other the bush bitch
Speaker 4: go in the bathroom. I'm like, let me go check
Speaker 4: on her, bro, because why you just like jump this
Speaker 4: niggas just I.
Speaker 1: Mean, it's like just pussy. Yeah, yeah, I go in
Speaker 1: the bathroom.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you're okay.
Speaker 1: I just asked, and I mean this is the reality.
Speaker 1: I mean, and you could just hear them moaning in
Speaker 1: the bag and he was going.
Speaker 2: Over to him to stop.
Speaker 5: I don't even know what I would do if I
Speaker 5: got in this situation, bro, I don't think people know
Speaker 5: what to do. Safe words, But even in your case,
Speaker 5: they ended up in your bed and there was no
Speaker 5: prior conversation.
Speaker 2: That's my thing to me.
Speaker 3: If you're gonna even consider a threesome, and for anyone
Speaker 3: that just wants to even surprise their partner with it,
Speaker 3: there has to be a conversation leading into it about
Speaker 3: how it would happen.
Speaker 1: We have these scenarios, just scenarios. We have to talk
Speaker 1: about it at dinners.
Speaker 4: Those two women never discussed that we were such a
Speaker 4: safe couple because we were straight and on vacation.
Speaker 2: Oh, I goned you right now? In my mind, I
Speaker 2: want an MMF.
Speaker 5: It's I'm trying to like drop hits to be like, now,
Speaker 5: what if I just invited two niggas I to the bar,
Speaker 5: they start talking about sports.
Speaker 2: I kissed one, kiss the other, and I'd be like,
Speaker 2: y'all should both y'all that.
Speaker 1: You are too?
Speaker 3: That is not what that is me setting up a
Speaker 3: three something I wanted to I wanted to ask you though,
Speaker 3: because of your album.
Speaker 5: Stop uh free game for niggas? What three things do
Speaker 5: you feel like women do better in dating than me?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 5: Communication I can work well, I think yeah, because even me,
Speaker 5: this is the best I've ever been communicating with somebody.
Speaker 5: But communication, I think transparency, Yeah, these niggas don't be transparent.
Speaker 5: Transparent and just being also emotionally like sound too. I
Speaker 5: think one thing like women are not perfect. That's why
Speaker 5: I was trying to tell like girls who like think
Speaker 5: that I'm going to be like better than a nigga.
Speaker 2: I'm not better than a nigga. Like, this is not
Speaker 2: what this is. It's just that when I mess up
Speaker 2: and when a god mess up.
Speaker 5: I probably I take accountability and I know or I
Speaker 5: know what is wrong and right like, and I'm using
Speaker 5: sensible like.
Speaker 1: It's a little mind.
Speaker 4: It is mainly because the main issue that we have,
Speaker 4: it is a relationship, is that men aren't considerate enough exactly,
Speaker 4: and so that accountability is consideration accountability and mature at
Speaker 4: a slower.
Speaker 1: Pace than we do. So you're kind of lucky with that.
Speaker 4: But I will say there is one thing that I
Speaker 4: will say in my straight relationships hadn't really been an issue,
Speaker 4: the emotional instability. It was very hard to read when
Speaker 4: she was upset. I didn't understand what I was doing
Speaker 4: to her. Men were very direct in letting me know
Speaker 4: when I had a song upset. The Taurus and my
Speaker 4: Nigga are a really good mess.
Speaker 2: You know what do you I'm going to quarry. I
Speaker 2: don't know whatever I mean, but excellent Aquarius hate on January.
Speaker 5: Don't know January one. All I know is that Nigga
Speaker 5: wasn't ship still. Look, I don't know signs but now
Speaker 5: a query. But you are a woman, so it's different.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna let you ride.
Speaker 1: Yeah, girls do want you to figure out while they're upset.
Speaker 2: It's so funny.
Speaker 5: I won't lean into the horse as soon as I
Speaker 5: hear Aquarius Si Leebra only the best sign o Lord
Speaker 5: down scale over here, my god.
Speaker 1: Mess a mess.
Speaker 2: That's a lie you got You just think they got
Speaker 2: to figure it out? And do do we have whole mail?
Speaker 1: Or can I pose?
Speaker 3: I mean if you want to ask when we do
Speaker 3: have homemail? But you guys one and then I'll take
Speaker 3: to one.
Speaker 4: Women are constantly asking us. Never dated a woman for
Speaker 4: the first time? How do I approach? Where do I
Speaker 4: get started? I said, I think you need to download
Speaker 4: the apps Christians.
Speaker 5: Mingle, not Christians, Christians Christians free God, fear free, Christians
Speaker 5: ing I need at You know, Christians don't like the gates.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, how do the girls started off the
Speaker 1: first time?
Speaker 2: What you mean like, how do they say? How the
Speaker 2: Christian start off?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how does a girl?
Speaker 2: I want to explore. I feel like this is the
Speaker 2: the Pride edition and y'all just bring Johnny on the
Speaker 2: Pride edition of Decisions. I said, you know what this is,
Speaker 2: this Pride. We know who to get? You said, never
Speaker 2: got me no other time.
Speaker 5: Don't do this, no other Pride episode that even dropping in.
Speaker 2: Pride money here. All right, that sounds good?
Speaker 8: Hell, all right, all right, let me get serious. I'll
Speaker 8: be saying, get drunk and kiss someone I don't know.
Speaker 8: I mean, just treated like I think it's easy. I
Speaker 8: think just flirt, just talk.
Speaker 2: It's the flirting. It's flirting like I love.
Speaker 5: I'm a flirt like don't don't catch me up, like
Speaker 5: I love, bumming the ship out of you all night
Speaker 5: like energy. If I want you better, I'm like, I'm
Speaker 5: gonna let you know.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, why not.
Speaker 1: Other women ship?
Speaker 2: I am?
Speaker 5: I was in friends kids and two friends. I said
Speaker 5: one little beautiful. I said, your friend beautiful too. I
Speaker 5: was at the DJ booth. You ain't probably get me
Speaker 5: on video.
Speaker 2: It was French. Yeah, I'm not either.
Speaker 5: So that's the thing about me is like rejection doesn't
Speaker 5: mean that I'm not like good looking or a confident
Speaker 5: who I am. I'm it's not your type. That's cool, right,
Speaker 5: I got that doesn't hurt my feelings that you know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So like, so I'm shooting at anything.
Speaker 2: That's that's very confident.
Speaker 3: It's very confident, and you know, because that's actually I'm
Speaker 3: to be married. And be like for me, you you
Speaker 3: reaching that level of confidence that literally is our homemail.
Speaker 3: Oh so I do want to ask this That's exactly
Speaker 3: what it is. It says uh the title by the way.
Speaker 5: By the way, if you would like to send in
Speaker 5: homemail to get advice from me, Weezy and whatever guests
Speaker 5: are sitting with us, please send it in Horrible Decisions
Speaker 5: at Gmail.
Speaker 2: So this one's title is how can I be more confident?
Speaker 3: Hey, Mandy and WEEZI, I want to start by saying
Speaker 3: I'm so thankful for both of you and horrible Beyond
Speaker 3: the obvious tips, stories and laughs, y'all redefine the boundaries
Speaker 3: of embracing and protecting sexual and feminine energy. With that
Speaker 3: being said, it's been amazing watching you both navigate through
Speaker 3: your different relationships and the way that men you were
Speaker 3: choosing to entertain affected your self confidence. I currently am
Speaker 3: entering my grown Baddy era, and as my dating pool
Speaker 3: continues to get finer, richer, and more high profile, I
Speaker 3: find myself so insecurely. I know I'm pretty, but I'm
Speaker 3: constantly surrounded by women who I feel like look better
Speaker 3: than me.
Speaker 2: I'm worried that a man will notice something like.
Speaker 3: The fact that my teeth aren't perfect, or my hairline
Speaker 3: or my eyebags, and decide that they can do better.
Speaker 3: I think maybe I need to stay away from athletes
Speaker 3: and men who chase the next best thing in general,
Speaker 3: But what are some ways that I can feel more
Speaker 3: confident in myself? Are there any game changers to actually
Speaker 3: help me appear here to others? I'm about to be
Speaker 3: twenty five, and I just want to feel grown and sexy,
Speaker 3: not awkward and insecure. She needs to thank you.
Speaker 2: I know what she needs to do.
Speaker 5: She needs to look at these niggas and find flaws
Speaker 5: out of them. I ain't gonna front those hold I
Speaker 5: like that. I like that all that like you really
Speaker 5: start looking at it and be like, oh, this nigga
Speaker 5: kind of let me tell you sign like.
Speaker 2: So like money makes these nigga not needs.
Speaker 5: Look at them not needs, bro oh God, Like, start
Speaker 5: look at their teeth behind the beard, Oh God, exactly.
Speaker 5: Start paying attention to the person that that you're talking to,
Speaker 5: and then you be like own that, Like I think, man,
Speaker 5: what she said for hers?
Speaker 2: You need to just look at that.
Speaker 5: Start dissecting these niggas, man, dissect everything, how they talk
Speaker 5: how they ub predation.
Speaker 2: Is such a because that's bull.
Speaker 5: So I want to ask you then, in terms of
Speaker 5: being okay with rejection, how did you become confident in
Speaker 5: accepting that maybe you're not somebody's type because that's hard
Speaker 5: for a lot of people to to breach. Yo. I mean, bro,
Speaker 5: we are you know how many people are in there's
Speaker 5: a lot billions, Like I'm not like for me to
Speaker 5: think that I'm everybody's type? Is that's crazy for you? Like, nigga,
Speaker 5: I like motherfucking Oreos the like the old way. I
Speaker 5: don't like the gold Oreo rap. I don't like the
Speaker 5: Oreos with the birthday cake. Give me the old school
Speaker 5: Oreos like, but like my cousin to be fucking them
Speaker 5: shits up, So like that's the that's their preference, right,
Speaker 5: That's how I look at it with women and with gods.
Speaker 5: So like it doesn't that that was the thing that
Speaker 5: I had to like that was always in me, I think.
Speaker 5: But the confidence came from just wanting to be my
Speaker 5: best self. So like every time I feel every time
Speaker 5: I get a goal in myself, like I'm just I
Speaker 5: feel like supercharged, like I'm that nigga, Like huh, yeah,
Speaker 5: but you know, my shit, I hate that.
Speaker 1: It's comfort, success and age for me.
Speaker 4: When you said you're turning twenty five, the confidence was
Speaker 4: next level for me after thirty.
Speaker 2: After thirty absolutely, man, absolutely.
Speaker 4: I don't know if you need to just attain those things.
Speaker 4: My self worth wasn't really about beauty standards at first.
Speaker 4: It was more like I would look at women and
Speaker 4: I hope you can change your framework and think because.
Speaker 1: I would really look at girls and be like, damn
Speaker 1: she got this and that, like she bossed up. I
Speaker 1: really would.
Speaker 4: It was so like it was never about their looks,
Speaker 4: and I really wanted those goals for myself. But I
Speaker 4: mean it may attribute to all of our success though,
Speaker 4: feeling like that, because we all do. I mean, I
Speaker 4: don't know you that well, but even you making that comment,
Speaker 4: just knowing I got a goal, it's the battery in
Speaker 4: my back, Like the second I accomplish it, that really
Speaker 4: has attributed to my confidence. And if you can get there,
Speaker 4: and I don't think at twenty four you can yet
Speaker 4: you kind of got to figure out that career path
Speaker 4: and what makes you happy and are you fulfilling your passions?
Speaker 1: And this isn't money success. This is are you doing
Speaker 1: what you want to do?
Speaker 2: Best? Success not the best show.
Speaker 4: I think that's why like athletes, Yeah, why I say
Speaker 4: they do fee is because if they're not living in
Speaker 4: their truest form of what's happy, Like bro, you break
Speaker 4: that acl tear it?
Speaker 1: Where who are you now?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: So to only be defined by that, like I don't
Speaker 4: know to for someone's beauty, that whole could be a lane.
Speaker 2: Think. I think confidence comes to with, like you said,
Speaker 2: accepting rejection.
Speaker 3: I think one of the things that I've been saying
Speaker 3: for a long time and one that I sit with
Speaker 3: is the fact that I enjoy the power to say no.
Speaker 3: I enjoy the power to tell somebody I'm good. You
Speaker 3: not my type, I don't want it, I'm good. So
Speaker 3: the fact that I know I enjoy the power to
Speaker 3: say it, I have to be able to receive it.
Speaker 3: And so if I'm not somebody's type or they say
Speaker 3: no or they decline, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 2: On to the next one. And you have to be
Speaker 2: able to sit in the things that you like to give,
Speaker 2: you also need to be able to receive.
Speaker 6: Imply put, I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 4: This, I have seen the finest niggas in the world,
Speaker 4: be ugly women or women that just are kind of like, wow,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to freak real ship. And I hate that
Speaker 4: I think this about other women because I don't want
Speaker 4: to like say that, but I really looked at it.
Speaker 2: I have been shocked.
Speaker 3: So I say that to say, I highly doubt did
Speaker 3: they looking at your hairline unless that Lasa's lift.
Speaker 4: And since we are even tea girl, I've had an
Speaker 4: overwrite since I came out.
Speaker 2: Of the womb, and I told actually looked good. I'm
Speaker 2: getting racist. You know it's thumb.
Speaker 1: I was on a bottle too long.
Speaker 4: My mom told me once because she was an overwrite too,
Speaker 4: and I remember I was feeling ugly about it. She
Speaker 4: was like, hey, you can fix that, but you know
Speaker 4: what makes your lips stick out? And men love that
Speaker 4: you got that energy? Hello, I M I, actually that's crazy.
Speaker 4: Before we get out of here, Josie, you have a
Speaker 4: new record tied Down. Can you tell a little bit
Speaker 4: what that's about, because you are you trying to get
Speaker 4: tied down?
Speaker 2: Are you tying people down? BDSM style? What is it about?
Speaker 2: I love that?
Speaker 5: So no, literally, this is like I'm telling them, my girl,
Speaker 5: A girl don't get tied down during the summer, like
Speaker 5: suns summertime flirt, you know, okay, because normally, you know,
Speaker 5: people break up during the summer and then during the
Speaker 5: winter they get back because it's cold, cuddle. So I'm like, yo,
Speaker 5: don't be tied down for the summer. And it was
Speaker 5: just one of them joints that I ain't I don't know.
Speaker 5: I'm such an aquarious woman. I want to be a
Speaker 5: relationship and the next I just want to be outside.
Speaker 2: That's Libra too. It's a scale.
Speaker 5: I want to dress, and it's like, and I ain't
Speaker 5: see the summer dress. I be seeing the wrestling suits,
Speaker 5: not the restlers suit, the raw body always. You don't
Speaker 5: like that, you like it, you do like it, but
Speaker 5: you want you want.
Speaker 2: The summer dresses back. Yeah, it's dope. I think. I
Speaker 2: think that's gets to New York. You're gonna see I
Speaker 2: got a dyke now.
Speaker 1: I don't know about it all right.
Speaker 2: That's what.
Speaker 3: I literally was just on live the other day, like okay,
Speaker 3: I'm ready to settle down and get a boyfriend. Now,
Speaker 3: summer's almost over there, like bit it just started, I
Speaker 3: said so much, just started.
Speaker 2: I didn't know it's been hot forever. I'm ready to
Speaker 2: fu get up. I'm trying to be booed up. It's
Speaker 2: trying to go outside and catch you. Yeah, I ain't
Speaker 2: gonna I've been a little live the last couple of months.
Speaker 2: I'm like, have my fun time to get.
Speaker 1: Tired outright, falling in love in the summertime. It's fun.
Speaker 1: But there was a moment we went out and I
Speaker 1: was like, let me.
Speaker 2: They niggas want you.
Speaker 5: I feel like people want you even more when you
Speaker 5: got it somebody like when I have a girl on
Speaker 5: my arm or somebody that I'm with, like it's crazy,
Speaker 5: y sick.
Speaker 1: You should see me around father.
Speaker 3: Industry parties, like damn, let me know when you need
Speaker 3: someone on your art. When somebody come into fine, yeah,
Speaker 3: I hate that.
Speaker 2: It validates the person, but you just be like like
Speaker 2: what you what?
Speaker 1: Let's to talk about? See you a bad bitch? I'm
Speaker 1: on your ass?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted just to be I want to be
Speaker 1: the three something that you didn't get in a fighter.
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying. You have a me.
Speaker 5: If you if you was in a relationship, would you
Speaker 5: have a dough We're in a relationship, She'll have a
Speaker 5: three no, but if you won, that's not with your nigga.
Speaker 2: I'm not doing nothing. I'm saying you would wait, your
Speaker 2: nigga would watch? Could he watch? Who? You would have
Speaker 2: a man watch?
Speaker 1: People want to know where to admit it. I don't know.
Speaker 2: We gotta take baby.
Speaker 1: Wait, who are you talking about?
Speaker 2: What you're talking about? Show me off on my phone
Speaker 2: and we can talk about boundaries right before I'm sitting there.
Speaker 1: That is, I don't want to finger out back.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's that's your only boundary. That's an easy bound
Speaker 2: that's a boundary. You know what.
Speaker 4: It is. My main thing with casual sex when I'm
Speaker 4: having like rough sex, I don't like being called a
Speaker 4: bitch sex.
Speaker 5: To do.
Speaker 1: That's actually something I brought up, like little things like
Speaker 1: oh I don't like talking. Don't talk to me too hard.
Speaker 1: You can slap me in the face and call me
Speaker 1: pretty and I'll be okay, okay.
Speaker 5: It's like it's like a sweet and sour energy that you.
Speaker 5: I can't talk respect, I can't I be talking dirt
Speaker 5: like that's like, oh, I love it.
Speaker 1: It's not bad talking.
Speaker 2: No, So wait, bitch is worse than foot your pump.
Speaker 2: You need to do a master class or just a
Speaker 2: way just calm down. I don't I like intimacy, No,
Speaker 2: only a slept for your slept for your boodo. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I like you. You need a master class.
Speaker 5: You need to you need to give a master class
Speaker 5: because I think like I love your I love your
Speaker 5: confidence with like with sex because you don't want to.
Speaker 2: Have to because.
Speaker 5: But what I mean, but it's like you that you
Speaker 5: showing out like that bitch with the blue balloon. You
Speaker 5: get attention in that you may what happened. It's a
Speaker 5: little little balloon popping thing that went you little friend
Speaker 5: was jealous when the other girls started getting attention, girls.
Speaker 2: Hated, hated. I think we just be putting such a
Speaker 2: taboo on sex.
Speaker 5: And that's why I like pumps, because like sexist shouldn't
Speaker 5: be like a like a bad thing.
Speaker 2: It's not. It's nothing wrong with if you if it's
Speaker 2: consensual and like adults. So I love that you just like,
Speaker 2: oh god, shut up, Johnny.
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Speaker 3: for finally being on two years later.
Speaker 2: I just felt like I just got we just had
Speaker 2: at whoa I would never beautiful?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean we would beat the niggas where
Speaker 1: it's like.
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck out there. Okay, so y'all okay, Well
Speaker 2: it was just a yeah, yeah, you know what.
Speaker 1: I would never fuck her, But you can.
Speaker 2: You can go back and forth from the room. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: train that way, that's a train. You can run a
Speaker 2: different that. I can go murder.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you, though, but after you get
Speaker 3: it done, you gotta do the mouthwash between me and
Speaker 3: her coochie and coming home saying I don't want.
Speaker 2: To kiss and eat your pussy. If she eat your pussy,
Speaker 2: didn't come to me and we kiss, now h your
Speaker 2: pussy technically, but they're technically I'm messing with Tracy Chapman.
Speaker 2: Thenny Sabbage too, goddamn say queen. So I don't really
Speaker 2: know about discussion. I gotta I had to look her up.
Speaker 2: It's fine. I'm gonna call it Tracy, Tracy.
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Speaker 2: Or some couch.
Speaker 5: I'm sure I don't gave four a nigga.
Speaker 2: You need to go and get a shirt.
Speaker 5: I'm your girl many b aka pantas aka Beach. Hey, y'all,
Speaker 5: I'm easy. What's really good? I'm the sex operator.
Speaker 1: Boy, I'm trying.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to do something different.
Speaker 1: I have a bone to pick.
Speaker 2: Okay, pick the bone. I was sucking a lot of bones,
Speaker 2: but you could pick the bone.
Speaker 4: I have a bone to pick with friends that don't
Speaker 4: realize that you're not being a bad friend if you
Speaker 4: set a boundary with trauma dumping. Okay, literally wh when
Speaker 4: you were like, y'all go with these angles. I just
Speaker 4: got a text about how I haven't been there for
Speaker 4: somebody and girl, I feel like we give a certain
Speaker 4: amount of hours. Okay, why don't you get a certain
Speaker 4: amount of hours with me? I'm finished?
Speaker 2: How do you communicate that though?
Speaker 3: Or do you or do you just like remove yourself
Speaker 3: because you've been you feel like you've been dumped on enough?
Speaker 2: Like how do you respond to that when you reach
Speaker 2: that point?
Speaker 4: Like basically I had dubbed a few of her calls
Speaker 4: we were in London, but when she called me today
Speaker 4: and asked me if I'm back, I literally was like, girl,
Speaker 4: I'm just kind of having a mood, like I really
Speaker 4: can't hear, and she feels like I'm not being her
Speaker 4: And she basically feels like she wants to keep her
Speaker 4: business private from other friends, and I'm the one that
Speaker 4: she trusts with the info. But like, it's really hard
Speaker 4: to talk to someone that's depressed. Would you be on
Speaker 4: the brink of being depressed?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: And so I don't know what to say. Do I
Speaker 1: send you a therapy gift card?
Speaker 2: Bro?
Speaker 4: I feel like you gotta have some discernment and think
Speaker 4: about how much you are unloading on somebody.
Speaker 3: And I hate that I would be in it for
Speaker 3: her and it's it's specific to not her overall well
Speaker 3: being or depression, but it's about a nick like it's
Speaker 3: about a man.
Speaker 2: Like if someone's going.
Speaker 4: Through it and needs to pick me up, that's different
Speaker 4: than someone that's like constantly trying to figure out what
Speaker 4: they can do to you know, not get someone's attention,
Speaker 4: but just like what did I do?
Speaker 2: What did I do wrong?
Speaker 1: And I'm not doing this and blah blah.
Speaker 2: Blah, like waste. She might be with a narcissist too.
Speaker 2: You ain't never gonna do nothing right, but ease new
Speaker 2: to me.
Speaker 3: To me, so I am very adamant actually with drawing
Speaker 3: the boundary with my friends and their partners specifically, because
Speaker 3: once you've said enough but you've stayed, baby.
Speaker 2: Girl, I don't I don't want to hear about it anymore.
Speaker 3: So like to me, when it comes to the friendships
Speaker 3: that I have, specifically, our friendships are able to exist
Speaker 3: depending like beyond whoever you're dating or not.
Speaker 2: But to me, once you've come to me about how
Speaker 2: this niggative did you wrong? Did you wrong again? Did
Speaker 2: you wrong again?
Speaker 5: Like I got to the point where I stopped talking
Speaker 5: to my friends about That's why y'all motherfuckers heard it.
Speaker 5: My friends wasn't hearing nothing about my ex. Nomo, No, bitch,
Speaker 5: you don't even win back?
Speaker 2: How many times?
Speaker 3: So I even stopped sharing with my friends because this
Speaker 3: was a person that I knew all right at this
Speaker 3: the end of the day, I keep going back.
Speaker 1: Nobody elves to hear that shit.
Speaker 2: But no, and I get that, like, nobody like that.
Speaker 2: That's the thing, right and we know it.
Speaker 3: But so I'm telling you as a friend, I love
Speaker 3: you dearly to all my friends. This is this is
Speaker 3: literally how I communicated to my friends.
Speaker 2: Friend.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll be like friend, bitch, you know I love you, right,
Speaker 3: Let's talk about your career the next trip. We going
Speaker 3: on the size jeans you can now fit into the
Speaker 3: tiktoks that we fucking come across.
Speaker 2: Share all the means. You want a baby girl, that
Speaker 2: nigga not not here, brut on my phone about someone
Speaker 2: we know. Literally, I have to do that. I'm dying that.
Speaker 2: Let's go on Instagram. Look at this bitch, what a
Speaker 2: wig awful. I'm fine with that.
Speaker 3: I have removed for so many of my friends, especially
Speaker 3: when they choose to stay with a guy for eons.
Speaker 3: So it's where, oh, bit, you're not gonna leave him
Speaker 3: until you ready you're not gonna waste my my three
Speaker 3: minutes on that ship.
Speaker 2: Homeboys. Due on the contrary, what.
Speaker 4: My homeboys when they're feeling hurt, they call me about
Speaker 4: how wacko bitch was. Okay, are almost a little too
Speaker 4: much and it starts to become a little triggering because
Speaker 4: I'm like, is.
Speaker 2: A nigga talking about me? Like this? Is a nigga
Speaker 2: talking about me like this one?
Speaker 1: But also, baby, you were so into her last month.
Speaker 2: Now she's trash.
Speaker 4: Now she's I literally had one of my homeboys and
Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, this bitch I halla sex
Speaker 4: work her energy now And I'm like, Okay, I understand
Speaker 4: she's a bottle girl.
Speaker 2: Wow, However, your first date was a vacation that you
Speaker 2: took her on. Yeah, what the fuck? Standard do you think?
Speaker 1: You said?
Speaker 2: Right? A trick? I think that there is.
Speaker 3: You can definitely dump on your friends too much about
Speaker 3: your relationship, but I think as the friend instead of
Speaker 3: dubbing the calls to where now she doesn't feel hurd
Speaker 3: or seems