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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make.

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Speaker 2: Horrible decision.

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. I'm

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Speaker 3: your girl, Mandy b a k A. Pet Is Signing

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Speaker 3: aka Dan Beach.

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Speaker 4: We got to stick our tongues out, real early, real gay.

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Speaker 2: You know you're not all the way gay. First off,

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Speaker 2: I can't go to the sex club.

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Speaker 1: It out of men because I'm not gay enough to be.

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Speaker 2: No. No, no, no, no, no no. Here's the thing I

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Speaker 2: need to know I want. Don't do that crazy No no,

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Speaker 2: what's crazy is not shut up?

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Speaker 3: This is so no, so it's crazy. I'm not gay

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Speaker 3: for a nigga. I just enjoy both. What is it

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Speaker 3: the reproductive systems? Okay, I like the dick and the

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Speaker 3: vagina both at once. It's like a buffet.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say this though, as someone that was gay

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Speaker 4: one gay and realized we didn't need to bring big in,

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Speaker 4: I knew that I really liked pussy when I was

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Speaker 4: just with women alone, because it's actually super different like

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Speaker 4: having a threesome.

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Speaker 1: Do feel like you're gay for a niggas?

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Speaker 4: I am totally into the girl in the moment, but

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Speaker 4: it does feel like a spectacle with all of us.

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Speaker 4: When you're with a woman alone, for anyone listening that

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Speaker 4: like wants to dabble, you'll always write us about this.

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Speaker 4: It genuinely is like, oh, no, you have to like

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Speaker 4: this taste and.

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Speaker 2: I like pussy.

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Speaker 5: So don't be saying I'm fake gay. No, we just

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Speaker 5: said you gave for Okay, we're not doing that anyway, y'all.

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Speaker 5: Let me introduce this guest who want to sit here

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Speaker 5: and call me out y'all. We have jazz finally in

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Speaker 5: the motherfucking building, singer songwriter extraordinaire.

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Speaker 4: All the things I'm tired of you people saying, Josie yeah,

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Speaker 4: not you get that a lot, don't you, Josie, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I get that a lot.

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Speaker 5: Jazzy Jazzy is crazy. There's no a that's Nigga's vow.

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Speaker 5: Sounds just crazy.

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Speaker 4: The last time I saw you was at the Roots

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Speaker 4: Brunch and I gave out flowers. You did passed off

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Speaker 4: flowers at the No no waiting I had by the

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Speaker 4: time you was there, I probably didn't have, God damn it, but.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to tell you h quest of before he

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Speaker 1: walked up to you.

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Speaker 4: John like practice saying it and I realized, like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, everybodys because.

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Speaker 1: Even me, when I'm reading it, you want.

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Speaker 5: To stay Josie, I didn't even know question Love knew

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Speaker 5: who I was. The craziest hell that you say. You

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Speaker 5: said you're going to come up here being humble, bitch,

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Speaker 5: like you'll be you've been working, working, But see that's

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Speaker 5: the thing, Like I'm not humble at all, but I'm

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Speaker 5: very like, no humble is I think nobody should be humble.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I hate that way. I think humble that

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Speaker 5: means you know your inferior, your inferior, you don't really

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Speaker 5: know your yourself. I know who I am, you know

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying. It's just that I'm just I don't

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Speaker 5: have to like I'm just confident. But I'm not like

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Speaker 5: over the top with it. But I'm not humble, Like

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Speaker 5: I know I'm that nigga, but it's still like a

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Speaker 5: respect thing. And I don't know if Quest well, he's

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Speaker 5: still a llegend, right, you know me, I actually get

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Speaker 5: mad when I walk out and niggas know us or

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Speaker 5: for me, I'll be like I've gotten to the point

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Speaker 5: where now walk in the rooms and me and celebrities

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Speaker 5: embrace each other, and my friends will be like, you

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Speaker 5: know them, and I'll be like, no, but they know me,

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Speaker 5: And then I'll be mad because I'm like, damn, they

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Speaker 5: know I. I like balls. Then that's only matter I

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Speaker 5: remember in a query, so I know I know she'll

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Speaker 5: be down getting with the.

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Speaker 2: Guy one of those.

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Speaker 4: And this is not to be disrespectful. It's like Natasha Leone,

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Speaker 4: you know someone that just should have been gay. I

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Speaker 4: look at Kelly Rowland, I'm like, oh my god, she

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Speaker 4: could have definitely.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's just in.

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Speaker 1: My brain, my fantasy when I was a kid.

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Speaker 5: She got that you think she would be a top

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Speaker 5: of bottom. I don't think there's a top of bottom,

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Speaker 5: get there.

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Speaker 2: I just think that's me.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna say why.

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Speaker 2: I I don't say that top of bottom.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like I just feel like that's like

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Speaker 5: a match, Like you take control?

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Speaker 2: Are you? Like? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: When I say that people should have been gay, it's

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Speaker 4: their presence of like some women have a daintiness that

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Speaker 4: puts them in the box of girly. Kelly's femininity is

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Speaker 4: very powerful. Is I kind of associate with lesbian.

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Speaker 2: Them legs and all power. She could definitely have been

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Speaker 2: on the l word.

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Speaker 1: We all watched me clearly, listen, listen.

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Speaker 3: Well, I want to start with an icebreaker because my

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Speaker 3: first time meeting you, y'all met Jossy for the first time,

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Speaker 3: which is crazy because you're like really good friends with

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Speaker 3: a lot of like so many mutuals, and so met

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Speaker 3: you in person. I would say, probably in Brooklyn, but

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Speaker 3: for real, for real. The first time was at the

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Speaker 3: Revolt summit like two years ago, and.

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Speaker 2: Literally she comes up to me and this is how

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Speaker 2: we're gonna start our icebreaker. She literally bends over and.

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Speaker 5: Start wait, wait, wait, please say I consented that it

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Speaker 5: was consensual.

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Speaker 2: Hold On, it was.

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Speaker 1: She said, Hey, every white girl is playing my song.

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Speaker 2: Please understand that. I asked.

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Speaker 3: Hold On walked up, very very with all the slag.

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Speaker 3: It was like, may I give affirmations to your box.

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Speaker 3: I have a series called Box Talks, and I'd love

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Speaker 3: to breathe life into your box.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, you want to do what? I said, Hell, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you could bring it into my box. No, no, no.

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Speaker 3: I stood up and literally and she didn't have to

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Speaker 3: go very far because we both kind of short, but

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Speaker 3: literally just gave She gave the most.

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Speaker 5: Affirmation and I was like I said, Josie, I like this.

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Speaker 5: You just made made it jump a little bit. I said,

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Speaker 5: we got to have you on horrible decisions.

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Speaker 2: So I don't remember the exact affirmation. However, for the

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Speaker 2: audience and for Wheezy.

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Speaker 3: I would love to bring box talk back in our Icebreaker,

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Speaker 3: and I would love for you to box talk.

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Speaker 6: We to a box, all right, ready.

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Speaker 2: All right, so.

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Speaker 5: I mean all right, all right, so pretty much your

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Speaker 5: box is powerful, so I call it pee your piece powerful.

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Speaker 5: It's prestigious, so you should never let anybody just get

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Speaker 5: it because it's on a plateau, like it's on the

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Speaker 5: Like I said, I feel like it's like rejuvenated. I

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Speaker 5: feel like it's glorious. I feel like it's like sunshine. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you got that box.

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Speaker 2: You make a pilgrimage anytime when when you want it, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.

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Speaker 4: Have you I don't know if it's fame or your look, aesthetic, whatever, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm sure you have been someone's first or they want

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Speaker 4: to try it out because of your look or whatever

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Speaker 4: it is.

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Speaker 1: Are you over it?

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Speaker 2: Are you just kind of like that's so crazy?

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Speaker 1: Is the fantasizing?

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Speaker 5: What have you've been talking about? Y'all, y'all been talking

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Speaker 5: about yo, so so so okay, So this is twenty

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Speaker 5: twenty four. I made a intentional decision to not have

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Speaker 5: sex a straight women anymore. Oh no, seriously, and like

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Speaker 5: I've been a I've been a straight woman nigga like

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Speaker 5: I love like I love straight tour.

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Speaker 1: Manager does too. He only gets up straight white.

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Speaker 2: He only wants Yeah, he loves the ego thing. I think, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but and I do only the ego thing.

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Speaker 5: I just think it's just the it's just the thing

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Speaker 5: where you feel like I do feel like if you're

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Speaker 5: not with the proper god, I don't think girls really

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Speaker 5: be getting what they like really could get like orgasm wise.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like, only with the right guy, I'll

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Speaker 5: be saying, you got to get a nigga that's kind

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Speaker 5: of like darn there, like a Lenny Kravits.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's what I love.

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Speaker 2: You gotta get a nigga like a.

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Speaker 5: Lenny Kravitz, who just I feel like it's just not

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Speaker 5: scared of anything and he's just willing to like, please

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Speaker 5: you please.

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Speaker 3: That's why I feel like, as a woman, the best

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Speaker 3: type of nigga is one that's a little game. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I was just literally gives Lenny Kravitz and all my

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Speaker 3: friends is like, bruh he gave.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, he's not. He's the most masculine, sure

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Speaker 2: of him something, but yes he do.

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Speaker 4: You know why you say that, Jazz, because the thing

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Speaker 4: with Lenny and a man like prince or Lenny or

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Speaker 4: whatever is that confidence saying you don't care about whatever

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Speaker 4: for some reason.

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Speaker 1: And this is the patriarchy.

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Speaker 4: Women's pleasure seems like you're demasculated thinking about you're a munch.

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Speaker 1: Even though it's a great fucking bar.

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Speaker 4: Like seriously, like the fact that it's so diminished to

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Speaker 4: please women, the way that porn ends with cumshots but

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Speaker 4: never women orgasms, Like it is all boiled down to

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Speaker 4: the fact that we have to be in service.

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Speaker 3: I think it's crazy. Why man can't he pussy well,

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Speaker 3: I mean us even bringing up Lenny Kravitz. My heart

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Speaker 3: sunk when it came out that he been celibate for

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Speaker 3: nine years.

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Speaker 5: Now, God, you gotta respect that and that and that

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Speaker 5: makes me respect him even more, only because like it's.

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Speaker 2: Hard to give over that ship.

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Speaker 5: It is so like they going to get that ship

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Speaker 5: away for nine years, you know what I mean, joints.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy that you that so many joints like, but

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Speaker 3: women too be celibated for that, not nine years.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, Lenny Gravita them me and my friends

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Speaker 4: always talking about this is hilarious.

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Speaker 5: He's the only guy what ever in my life ever

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Speaker 5: think about ever. Really, it's just because I just think

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Speaker 5: he's a He's just a I like people who just

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Speaker 5: know who they are, Like they ain't got a nipples

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Speaker 5: purious does he?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: I just want to know that. I just think that

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Speaker 2: that's like you, I don't know, I know who you are.

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Speaker 4: You can do things to your body, like even your part,

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Speaker 4: like this isn't a common piercing anymore. When people do

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Speaker 4: things like that, they don't give a about ship. That

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Speaker 4: ship is hot to me. It's like big dick wet

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Speaker 4: pussy raight like it's weird.

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Speaker 3: Piercings are one of the things that I find turmy

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Speaker 3: off sometimes No no, no, no, not like face is fine,

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Speaker 3: but like I watched I watch a lot of gay

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Speaker 3: porn and there's this one.

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Speaker 5: There's two point stigns that I really enjoy watching. But

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Speaker 5: they have their goops like right under their balls pierced,

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Speaker 5: and I hate seeing that ship. I mean, like, I

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Speaker 5: don't know why that bothers me, and nipple pierce things

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Speaker 2: Do pussy pierces bother you?

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know what to do?

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Speaker 2: One? I never seen you? Never seen a pierce pussy?

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Speaker 2: How have I been out here? I was about to say,

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Speaker 5: A lot of nipples, A lot of those are my favorites,

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Speaker 2: Really, have you ever had your one one one? Did

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Speaker 5: It's pussy like I love it regardless, So like, I

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Speaker 4: It's so scary for me because of the the I'm

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Speaker 5: I feel like I wasn't doing my best job. I

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Speaker 1: The rink like you're a good dick girl. I don't

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Speaker 2: Off, bitch, I'm gun at both. Don't do me.

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Speaker 5: She'd be trying to hate all my bisexuality and you did,

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Speaker 5: so what about you? Like she swears she og you

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Speaker 5: straighten out or no, no, she always joking when.

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Speaker 1: I said I used to be gay, it's just good.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not in a relationship with a woman, are the okay?

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Speaker 2: So you so no titles fuck gay for all of it?

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Speaker 2: Do you like women?

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Speaker 1: Of course? So for me, when when I was dating

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Speaker 4: So I make a lot of jokes about not being

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Speaker 3: I want to I want to actually ask you that,

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Speaker 3: because that brings up a good point. You said you

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Speaker 5: When I was going through my lesbian phase, especially when

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Speaker 5: I wanted to study, like I wanted a bitch to

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Speaker 5: look like Brittay grinding, I.

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Speaker 2: Was in the lesbian.

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Speaker 3: I was in the lesbian clubs and when I tell you,

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Speaker 3: as soon as the bitches were new.

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Speaker 5: I liked real dick. They didn't want to talk to me.

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Speaker 5: They actually don't like bisexual women.

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Speaker 3: I want to know for you, do you distinguish between

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Speaker 5: No, I just I just like I mean, in the

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Speaker 5: who around with this straight I haven't be playing around

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Speaker 5: energy bisexual too. It's just that now that I'm really

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Speaker 2: And it could be a new girl, it could be whatever.

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Speaker 5: But I'm just kind of trying to stop away from

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Speaker 4: Thirty two, So I feel like at this age I'm

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Speaker 2: Exactly exactly because it's so hard.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't, I don't. I think all relationships

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Speaker 5: Anything to maintain is hard, like really, I mean not

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Speaker 1: Love, falling in love shit feel easy.

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Speaker 5: No, falling in love is easy, but maintaining the maintenance

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Speaker 5: especially in a lesbian relationship with two women, because I

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Speaker 5: understand emotions, like the things.

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Speaker 3: Dealing with women is way different than dealing with men.

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Speaker 3: And that's why I'm like, that's why I think she

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Speaker 3: calls me fake. Ay, I can only see myself in

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Speaker 3: But once them bitches want me to start taking them

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Speaker 3: to the movies and all that shit, I'd be like, hey,

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Speaker 3: calm down. So to me, what do you find difficult

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Speaker 3: if it was with a girl, she has to have

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Speaker 2: Right. No, that's the thing.

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Speaker 5: I like masculinity with men and I love femininity with women.

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Speaker 5: And so for me, I think my brain not wanting

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Speaker 5: I think that's where my difficulty license.

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Speaker 3: I love just women, the human the body of a woman,

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Speaker 2: But relationship wise, I think giving to.

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Speaker 2: I love that as a woman.

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Speaker 3: Men don't require as much emotional labor as I think

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Speaker 3: women do. On even when I used to hear of

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 5: But I mean that's all I know really, So Okay,

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Speaker 5: there's more depth, I'll say this, there's okay, there was

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Speaker 5: a lot more depth early on.

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Speaker 1: Man, you gotta work too hard to get them.

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Speaker 2: To open them to open up.

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Speaker 1: And with her, very simple, very passionate and very passionate.

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Speaker 4: Intentional too, like I didn't really have to teach this

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Speaker 4: do with a lot of men. But you know what's

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Speaker 4: crazy to your point, I was recently thinking like, damn,

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Speaker 4: I've really never been with a masculine woman, and I

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Speaker 4: wonder if it's because I like men too, so I

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Speaker 2: It's cheatless, like yo, I might as well go to

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Speaker 2: a nigga.

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Speaker 5: But then you feel like, you know, make me change

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Speaker 1: Just the one bitch I could take my pussy Punky.

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Speaker 5: I hate this Punky for resting now and I we

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Speaker 5: are okay, okay, okay, Punky.

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Speaker 4: Punky got she's you've seen her face, but it's it's

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Speaker 4: I've seen like Punky has a cooking series online, so

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Speaker 4: think what I've always associated with studs, masks, women, whatever?

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Speaker 2: Butch why the white people say but it's like what

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Speaker 2: you said, it's ugly. It sounds like you hate it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't like any terms don't come out,

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Speaker 1: But his mask preferred if someone's gonna say, so.

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Speaker 5: I'm just a masculine because I have feminine energy as well,

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Speaker 5: Like that's the thing, like you, you just gotta get

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Speaker 5: to see me in my different energies.

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Speaker 4: And I think I got to see her in that

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Speaker 4: started to be like, oh, because that's what I want

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Speaker 4: out of the woman experience.

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Speaker 1: I want to have both.

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Speaker 4: But I've been so used to living in a masculine

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Speaker 4: energy with these fem girls and being that bitch paying

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Speaker 4: for ship doing ship, that I don't know what it's

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Speaker 3: I think my my other I wouldn't say problem, but

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Speaker 3: I like strapping. No, well, I like stop it. I

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Speaker 3: like strapping. I like strapping. Man, WHOA, don't do that?

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Speaker 2: Don't do that? Wait, don't hold on? Did you miss

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Speaker 2: pat the Stallion girl? Wait a minute, however, I realized

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Speaker 2: wants to give me a minute. Let me prossess this. Right, Okay, yes,

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Speaker 2: you don't like gay guys? Right? You say that you

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Speaker 2: don't like Lenny Kravish type nig No, I do like

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Speaker 2: Lenny Kravist type nick? Did she say she I love?

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Speaker 3: I don't like Lenny is literally I like, I like Lenny,

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Speaker 3: girlfriend I like where you're going with. Well, I realized

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Speaker 3: So sex is way more psychological than anything, and so

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Speaker 3: I enjoy strapping men. But in the one time that

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Speaker 3: I realized I didn't enjoy it was because I like

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Speaker 3: to know that there's a pulse. I also like to

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Speaker 3: see it come and so to not have that be

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Speaker 3: I only come off penetration.

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Speaker 2: So I think that's maybe why I want a man

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Speaker 2: there because but if you you can tinue in a strap,

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna penetrate. Like I ain't go front man.

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Speaker 2: I like trying to like say too much.

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Speaker 6: Wait what you mean?

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Speaker 5: I just feel like you have to literally just find

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Speaker 2: But but again, to me, the psychology of seeing it

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Speaker 2: come on tight. I ain't got no type, not even

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Speaker 2: the way they look, just like the way they is

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Speaker 2: the only period. Yes, I like I like black black

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Speaker 4: Good for you living in l A. I'm got to

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Speaker 4: be everybody does. Who doesn't have a Persian girl friend

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Speaker 4: right now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's a big thing, like because like a

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Speaker 5: Like that's my type whatever that energy like just confidence,

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Speaker 5: like attitude. I love somebody who's like godfearing but a freak.

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Speaker 2: Mm like a.

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Speaker 5: God I love like I mean, no, I'm but see

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Speaker 5: this is crazy because that's all.

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Speaker 2: No, no, that's crazy. Let me say you. It's the

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Speaker 1: Really meieve that is such a guy thing?

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Speaker 2: You're wow?

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Speaker 1: I've heard that, yo.

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Speaker 5: You Like, girls are not the most sexual beings in

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Speaker 5: the world, and women are Women like are nasty?

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Speaker 2: Women are freaks, Like like, I don't know why you

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Speaker 2: make it. It seem like this is a nigga thing like

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Speaker 4: I think God fearing requests okay, because God fearing freak

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Speaker 2: We feel like y'all are that women are nasty?

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Speaker 5: The niggas in my eyes, I think, oh yeah, niggas.

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Speaker 3: Literally say he was scared. He said he was scared

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Speaker 3: I was gonna turn him out. I said, I consent everything,

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Speaker 3: But men be way more scared.

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Speaker 4: is like their masculinity just goes away. The dirtier they get,

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Speaker 4: the nastier they get, they feel like it's some bitch shit,

441
00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,440
Speaker 4: Like they're really scared to let their guard down, which

442
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,200
Speaker 4: is polly wide.

443
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 1: Straight girls was let's go back to that. Why did

444
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 1: you change your mind on straight?

445
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 2: She? No, because they're crying right now now.

446
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,199
Speaker 5: I changed them out, the straight girls just because like

447
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,160
Speaker 5: I don't really I'm not fulfilled and what I really want,

448
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 5: like I really want to partner.

449
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 1: Were you getting your feelings hurt?

450
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,359
Speaker 2: I got my feelings hurt once on.

451
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 1: Was she straight?

452
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? But the thing is, like, man, I.

453
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 5: Got callous around my whole I've been doing this so

454
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 5: like cain't nothing Like I don't really get hurt like that.

455
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 5: So that was a while back, like she, If it

456
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,399
Speaker 5: wasn't for her, I don't think I would probably have

457
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 5: been able to like do this shit as far as

458
00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 5: like I would have.

459
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,880
Speaker 2: Just wanted to be with one person calling today gay girl.

460
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,360
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, just not even be out

461
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 5: here doing just living, like just being just trying.

462
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:05,919
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Just.

463
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 1: Are you just gonna say a nice word for being

464
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 1: for me?

465
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 2: I'm not, but I'm not a hope. But I'm definitely

466
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 2: not a hope.

467
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 5: Just no, jumped around on no, but I'm definitely not

468
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 5: a hope. It's just like being able to say if

469
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 5: I want to do this, I want to do this.

470
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 3: You said, you said, you've been doing this. I want

471
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 3: to know in terms of your sexuality, in terms of dating,

472
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 3: have you been dating women since middle school? And I'm

473
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 3: asking this because Weezie and I are going to be

474
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 3: talking about the Gerrod Carmichael Show, And it's so interesting

475
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 3: to me how people are hooking the fact that men

476
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,160
Speaker 3: and women who are coming out of the later age

477
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: have the mindset of a teenager or someone, you know

478
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 3: what I mean, because they haven't been doing this for

479
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 3: a while. Were you dating women in elementary, middle school,

480
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:57,400
Speaker 3: high school?

481
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 2: When was your first girlfriend? We was humping in elementary

482
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 2: street with girls in my neighborhood.

483
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I was doing that. It was all

484
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 5: doing We was all hunching. Actually talked about this in

485
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 5: the book though. One of my friends the straightest buck today.

486
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 5: So no, it's not because we all gay. We was

487
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,639
Speaker 5: all hunching though, but you was well children like we were.

488
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 5: We would play school and house, but we were oh no,

489
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 5: as it.

490
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 2: Was always I was closed. I don't think I was today.

491
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 2: I was. He was innocent.

492
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: I was a baby boy and just leave it on

493
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 1: the loop.

494
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 2: And we were.

495
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 3: So so outside of hunching then, like because I guess

496
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 3: we all did that at a very young age.

497
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did start talking to girls.

498
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 5: To like like high school into high school, okay, but

499
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 5: always knew, always.

500
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 2: Knew, always knew. But I'm Memphis my moment, she wasn't

501
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:51,160
Speaker 2: having it what you said, she wasn't having hell. No, really,

502
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 2: Bema were good. Now we we have you.

503
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 4: This is bringing up a point from that dry Camic show.

504
00:22:59,160 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 4: You watched it through.

505
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 2: It's so good.

506
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 4: So I have a really strong opinion about me thinking

507
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 4: that he kind of pushed his gayness on his parents too.

508
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 2: Rush.

509
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 4: I feel like we are in such a liberal time,

510
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 4: in a very white time of coming out parties and

511
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 4: all this shit, and I think that we don't acknowledge

512
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 4: that black parents church religion is they kind.

513
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 2: Of need a second man.

514
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I didn't like watching him one call his

515
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 4: mother a bitch. By the way, I'm a very big

516
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 4: fan of Jard calling his mom a bitch. The way

517
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 4: that he was talking about her, I felt like he

518
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 4: was doing this and it's like, yo, their image of

519
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 4: you just died.

520
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 2: Let them work slowly.

521
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 4: Talk about this with a Keen Woods who agreed with me,

522
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 4: who's gay one of our friends. Another gay friend who

523
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 4: thought I was so wrong, And I'm curious to know

524
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 4: with you, like, do you agree with that? Do you

525
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 4: think sometimes we push our sexuality and acceptance on our

526
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 4: family a little too much.

527
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 2: We need to give them their space or no. I

528
00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 2: mean my pup always my papa always be like.

529
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 5: He always been telling me to read this book called

530
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 5: The Prodigal Son is pretty much when like I like,

531
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 5: I give you, after I birth you, I give you

532
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 5: to the world. I can't come as your father. I

533
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 5: can't come into your world. That's what my pop always say.

534
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 5: Oh wow, he's like, yo. My pop is my like

535
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 5: my biggest supporter. He's like, yo, I want you to

536
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 5: do what you want. I would never get mad. I

537
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 5: can't come into your world. So I feel like we

538
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 5: all need to remember that like our parents are our parents,

539
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 5: but we would get to a certain age.

540
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 2: It ain't about them, it's about us.

541
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 5: So I think they've lived their life, like if you

542
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 5: look at the Prodigal Son, like they've lived it.

543
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 2: It's time for us to do it. So I would say,

544
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 2: whatever that person wants to do. If they want to

545
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 2: rush and talk to it, they should do whatever they want.

546
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 2: They don't want to speak about it, do whatever they want.

547
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 2: I think that's up to them.

548
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 5: I don't have an opinion on what a person should do,

549
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 5: but I do know that, Like there's a book called

550
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 5: The Prodigal Son that tells you, like, yo, you can't

551
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 5: come into your kids world after a certain age.

552
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,400
Speaker 2: You teach them everything you need. What is that age?

553
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 5: I mean that's up to whenever we get out the

554
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 5: day of the house and be like, you know what

555
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 5: I'm saying. I got out, you know that's why I

556
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 5: had to go get it. I was like, Yo, I

557
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 5: can't be in Memphis at my mama house because I

558
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 5: want to be able to do what I want to do.

559
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 5: So let me go get this money. Let me move

560
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 5: to Miami and figure it out. Let me hustle because

561
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 5: I want to be free. And I want my life,

562
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So that's why I had

563
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 5: to go get it. So I think that's when like

564
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 5: as a kid, as a as a adult, that's I

565
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 5: think that's when you like, but kids are coming out

566
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 5: like twelve thirteen, and I got nothing but respect for that.

567
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, that's beautiful, like that you can do that.

568
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 2: I didn't.

569
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 1: That's a privilege.

570
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 4: By the way, that is a lot of the things

571
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 4: that we're seeing now TikTok, and I feel like maybe

572
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 4: it is a black thing, but like my friend, my family,

573
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 4: they're not having this experience, you know what I'm saying.

574
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 4: So sometimes I get a little irritated and angry when

575
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 4: people expect their experience to be yours and.

576
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: It comes with age.

577
00:25:58,680 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 4: Like I don't know if I've ever told this on horle,

578
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 4: but my aunt had passed from cancer and when she

579
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 4: was getting in a hysterectomy, my dad is is really

580
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 4: my mom is black. He was never hating the gaze,

581
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 4: but he was always like, you go your mom best

582
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 4: friend again type shit right.

583
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 2: Never said it, but you could see.

584
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 4: So my aunt's doctor came out to say her sex

585
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 4: surgery was successful.

586
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever brought this up ever,

587
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

588
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 4: And she was trans, Oh, and my dad's face was

589
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 4: so crazy, right, and we're driving home.

590
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 1: I was maybe sixteen.

591
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 4: He was like, Wow, that could have been you, that

592
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 4: could have been your mother, that could be me. And

593
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 4: I don't know what was in my head before, Like

594
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 4: what was I thinking before, Like they're.

595
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: Not people or something.

596
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 4: And for an adult to say this to a kid,

597
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 4: you know, it's pyper moment.

598
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

599
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 4: I think everybody kind of needs that. It'll hit them

600
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 4: at some point. And I'm not saying this with like

601
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 4: race or anything. I think, you know, that's different. But

602
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 4: when it comes to old people, how they grew up,

603
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 4: what they learned is right and wrong.

604
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 2: I mean it's a deep programming. Have you got to

605
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 2: see that?

606
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: And I mean I think that that even with this show,

607
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 3: like us talking about the non traditional way of being

608
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 3: in a relationship, that's new sexuality.

609
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 2: Every year, there's they add.

610
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 3: A lot of lgbt qu I a elemental p like,

611
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 3: there are so many ways in which we can identify

612
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 3: and we're also being open to just accepting how people

613
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 3: want to show up sexually. Because because we're talking about Uh,

614
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 3: let's be honest. One of the things that you said

615
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 3: is that you know, in terms of orgasming, figuring that

616
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 3: out can sometimes kind of be hard. So our vanilla

617
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 3: ship for this episode, I know, I said, I come

618
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 3: from penetration. You love giving the tip to turn your

619
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: head to the side and eat some KOUCHI I've said,

620
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 3: I'm just saying you love eating. So I wanted to

621
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 3: talk about because a shocking number of people this is

622
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 3: our vanillaship. By the way, are orgasming now from tickling.

623
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 3: So uh, this will tickle your A quarter of respondence

624
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 3: surveyed in a new study said they've orgasm from being tickled.

625
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 3: The research was conducted by scientists at University Medical Center

626
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 3: Mainz in Germany, aimed to annuloze analyze how adults use

627
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 3: tickling in connection with asexual activity. Previous studies on tickleness

628
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 3: tickleishnists have mainly focused on the sensory consequences and playful aspects. However,

629
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 3: in the study, they investigated the role of tickling in

630
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 3: a sexual context for the first time. They recruited seven

631
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 3: hundred and nineteen people who profess to have tickling fetishes

632
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 3: to see whether they experienced arousal from the act or not.

633
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 4: Has no one heard of the documentary Tickled. No, maybe

634
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 4: it's not called Tickle. I don't know if someone could

635
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 4: google it, but there is a documentary about teenage boys,

636
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 4: not young, not under age, but basically getting paid on

637
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 4: Craigslist or something.

638
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: I want to be tech.

639
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 4: And then it was a sex tape and they didn't

640
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 4: know and it was like a whole thing. Wait, I

641
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 4: watched it years ago. Do y'all see the name?

642
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: No, is it tickle?

643
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:06,719
Speaker 2: Is it tickle? Bro?

644
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: That shit is so good?

645
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 4: And basically these people were saying, Oh my god, this

646
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 4: ruined my life, Like I just need to make some

647
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 4: extra money.

648
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm not gonna lie. So I got I got

649
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,959
Speaker 3: tricked into that. I was sixteen or seventeen years old,

650
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 3: not tickling. So let me tell y'all. So in Florida,

651
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,479
Speaker 3: like you remember last Maham No so yes, So there

652
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 3: was a there was a website called Model Mayham. Back

653
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 3: in the day, I was on Pliza's street team. I

654
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 3: was in magazines by the time I was eighteen. I

655
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 3: was in high school, published in Ink magazine and Straight Sunton. Okay,

656
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 3: so a bitch was like, I'm gonna be a video mix,

657
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 3: and that was my goal at one point. That probably

658
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 3: that's why I moved to Atlanta. So I end up

659
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: on Model Mayhem and this photographer contacts me. He lives

660
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: in Tampa and he's like, I'd love you to come

661
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 3: and be videotaped and photographed. He did jiu jitsu, but

662
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 3: I had to be in a bikini, no nudity, no

663
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 3: nothing like that. So I'm like, bet, it was like

664
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 3: only for it was a one hour shoot and he

665
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 3: was like three hundred and fifty dollars now, nigga begg day.

666
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 2: Hold on. I worked at the mall.

667
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 5: It took me about thirty two hours to make three fifty, Okay,

668
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 5: So I was like, oh, bitch, all I gotta do

669
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 5: is drive forty five minutes to Tampa.

670
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: Bet. So I go over there.

671
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 3: We shoot by myself because I thought all bitch was grown.

672
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 3: Took my little Yundai Sonata ride on over the motherfucking

673
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 3: Tampa and again at this time, I'm doing photo shoots.

674
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: I'm again on the street team. I wearing the cut

675
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 3: up shirt with the boys shorts and the heels. I

676
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 3: don't think anything of it. I'm fully I'm fully dressed.

677
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: So I go over there and literally I get down

678
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 3: to a bathing suit and we're like wrestling, but it's

679
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 3: jiu jitsu.

680
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 2: So he's doing jiu jitsu moves on me recording this.

681
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 2: Swear to god.

682
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,959
Speaker 3: Maybe a year and a half later, this is like

683
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 3: a thing where it's on fucking porn hub.

684
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: People are I wasn't on there, thank God.

685
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: But I realized it.

686
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 3: But I realized, but I realized that what I had

687
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: actually done was a form of Even though I'm thinking

688
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 3: I'm modeling and it's nothing, I'm in a bathing suit

689
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 3: doing jiu jitsu moves. This nigga's putting me in positions

690
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 3: that someone on the other end don't never got the photos, videos,

691
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 3: don't know where it lives.

692
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: So if y'all see me, baby I'm under age, don't

693
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 2: watch it.

694
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: But literally, I'm seventeen years old just thinking I'm doing

695
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 3: this modeling thing and it's sexual.

696
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 2: So I'm curious to and no, but also well, I

697
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: was just thinking about it. I got it. My daughter.

698
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: I gotta just well. No, we actually did this.

699
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 3: So our last two our last two live shows at

700
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,479
Speaker 3: Black Effect and at together Land, we had someone come

701
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 3: up and do splashing. So splashing is just sitting on

702
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 3: cakes if you're on TikTok oh yeah, sitting on cakes food,

703
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 3: it's actually making a mess.

704
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: There's a whole thing right now.

705
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 5: Oh ASMR. People are coming off of watching people eat

706
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 5: crab leg cake. There's a lot of kinks that you

707
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 5: know what you don't know it.

708
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 4: Sex shows you how much nakedness and how much sexuality

709
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 4: is out there.

710
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: We're going back my hand to make out with me

711
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: for like forty five minutes.

712
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 4: John, I'm not joking. So sometimes I'll be trying to

713
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 4: pull the dick out and he be stopping me, and

714
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, damn, he really like needs this intimacy. And

715
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 4: I believe it's because when we've had so much sex

716
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 4: and we've done all this ship, we kind of sensitize it.

717
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

718
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

719
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 5: When I go on I can't even open my Twitter

720
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 5: app in public no more. It's just nothing but boodles, bussies,

721
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 5: koochie everything.

722
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 2: Like if you have my algorithm, my algorithm is terrible.

723
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Though I love it,

724
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: I was thinking about it now. Obviously it's horrible.

725
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 4: So we want to talk about your sexuality, But does

726
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,719
Speaker 4: it ever, I don't want to say hurt your feelings,

727
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 4: but annoy you that maybe when you do interviews or

728
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 4: have conversations, your sexuality is brought up.

729
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 5: No, it doesn't know because I think we're humans and

730
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 5: I think we're we're all sexual.

731
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, like one.

732
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 5: Thing that brings us all together is we love sex

733
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 5: or we don't love set like there's a sexuals like

734
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 5: who do things like like.

735
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: Tickling you know what I'm saying, or kissing.

736
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like the common thing is we're all we

737
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 5: love intimacy. So I think, yeah, it's sexually like that's

738
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 5: why my sexuality.

739
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: I mean, like I don't.

740
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: I just feel like with lesbian artist the thing that it's.

741
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: Not a lot of us. I was about to say,

742
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, like it's a handful, and I'm.

743
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 5: Grateful that that I'm the me alongside of some other

744
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 5: ones like that we're like like umbraid, you know what

745
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

746
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 3: Kaylan Younger May young Man, Janelle kind of right, Janelle name, Yeah.

747
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: We saw her, Oh god we were in the Southern Friend.

748
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

749
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: I tell you, I ain't never seen bitches on somebody

750
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: dick pussy.

751
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 2: I was like bro.

752
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: I mean, there was all these ball players.

753
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 2: In the club.

754
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 5: I'm mad because I've been loved her back when, back

755
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 5: when she had thirty suits and rotations, and now she's

756
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 5: showing them titties. And now I'm mad she got all

757
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 5: the attention telling you in the suit being able she

758
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 5: can do both. I love it, but I love it

759
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 5: so dope. It's just that it's not a lot of us,

760
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 5: but we're cutting through, and I think that's what's so

761
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 5: good about it is that I'm able to like be

762
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 5: the next voice or the next like for the next.

763
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 3: I think what I love about you and Ombre too

764
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 3: specifically is a lot of times when bronation and just

765
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 3: oh my god, so sounds beautiful. But the fact that

766
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 3: kind of like what Frank Oshin ended up doing, is

767
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 3: that you're able to make music and sing to women

768
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 3: and it be acceptable and you don't have to use

769
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 3: your music and singing to a nigga.

770
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 5: When you don't want man, i'd be having women be

771
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 5: like yo, your song made me like you, like they

772
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 5: be curious not to my music, and you said I.

773
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 2: Don't want you because few I got a few.

774
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: Funny look at singers that I definitely.

775
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 2: Not funny looking. Look at singers.

776
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 4: I can't say one of these they because they ain't

777
00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 4: kind of in proximity to you. That's buddy, I want

778
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 4: to know.

779
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 5: I want to you gotta tells Okay.

780
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 4: Ddigan got that song with the digger with the dreads

781
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 4: open whatever his name is?

782
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: What open? Wait? He funny looking? Yeah he is?

783
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: But I know that Freddie got a song with you

784
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: and him.

785
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

786
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 4: Sometimes I confuse it when I'm just seeing it pop up.

787
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,399
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go now, I'm But at the same time,

788
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 2: I'll be like, music, make you want to go? Get me?

789
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: Want to what? Ship? You know what? I have?

790
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 3: The opposite when I be hearing beautiful ass songs and

791
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 3: then I look at him, I'll be like the nerve.

792
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 2: This dude, niggas be toxic.

793
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: I'd be like the nerve tell me this.

794
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 2: Okay, tell you this? What's what you want?

795
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: The song?

796
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, why are we good? Every got that to

797
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: do that?

798
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 4: Get some flissy too. That was a little too groofy,

799
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 4: but she was like, fuck it, man, have you ever

800
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 4: have you.

801
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 2: A group a groupie? No? No? I like, nah, I'm

802
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: telling you that, don't do nothing for me.

803
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 5: I like girls that like not just ever no, it

804
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 5: doesn't like I like a challenge. I don't want you

805
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 5: to give it to me, like if I can get

806
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 5: it so easy, all right?

807
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 2: Is that such a nigga? Not fight for pay for

808
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 2: no pay for it? What okay? From Memphis Love? We

809
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 2: don't do that for the horrible hell.

810
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 3: Not the horrible decision for the whole derve though, because

811
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 3: sing so now into it.

812
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 5: I want, I want you to give a sex tip.

813
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 5: And this could be for someone who is pleasing you

814
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 5: or how you like to please someone else. But if

815
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 5: you could give a sex tip to the audience, but

816
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 5: we're only half help, then please I could give somebody.

817
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 5: I just feel like pay attention to the breaths to

818
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 5: like breathing. Oh, I just think like I really that's

819
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 5: what I really feel like. I feel like breathing and

820
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 5: just like just pictures to everything with a guy with

821
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,240
Speaker 5: your girl. It's just like the breathing.

822
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 2: Could you can we do some answer? Mark? Could you

823
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 2: give a good breathing? Come on? I can't do it.

824
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 2: I can't do it.

825
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 5: Wait, wait you a low performance with I ain't had

826
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 5: no come on and I had no I don't got

827
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 5: no alcohol.

828
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: We got alcohol.

829
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 5: You need a shot to give us some good breathing water. Hold, hey,

830
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 5: can we get john Zy a shot real quick? It's

831
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 5: only some run, but it's okay.

832
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 2: Hey you look, you say that's what you're welcome in French?

833
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: What is it? I thought it was.

834
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 2: I thought it was.

835
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: I just like Paris. I should be sorry. I don't

836
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 1: know if you guys know.

837
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you.

838
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 5: I was out there like a whole nigga, speaking Spanish

839
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 5: because I knew I had to speak another language, but

840
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 5: I don't really don't bridge, So I was like why,

841
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 5: like what like poppy?

842
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 2: I was like, wrong country way, You're gonna give us

843
00:37:58,719 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 2: the breathing now?

844
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 5: No, No, what did you thought that thought? I thought

845
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 5: I drink that I was gonna get it going. That's

846
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 5: you told me what to do? Is that what you do?

847
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 5: Are you normally like? Do you normally give instruction?

848
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 4: During said.

849
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 2: You to open it up? Oh? Look very much.

850
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 5: I'm a I'm a I'm a pleaser, So I like

851
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 5: to talk my girl through it.

852
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. How could I hear you?

853
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, stop right now, blessing, we got jack, blessing.

854
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 5: You know my mama probably gonna watch this one day.

855
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: We don't blow up in algorithm, we shadow bend. I'm

856
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: gonna be searching me up. Just now she found the pictures.

857
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you where you found this?

858
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 5: Because she don't got instagirls, so, like, what the that's

859
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 5: my mama googling everything?

860
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 4: My mama will click on it YouTube. Oh wait, that's

861
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 4: what I want to ask. So you just told me

862
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 4: what to do. So I'm asking if you tell people

863
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 4: what to do in the reverse. You don't seem like

864
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 4: you can give something, miss, but I'm sure that you

865
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 4: have me right. Does it take love or a lot

866
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:15,240
Speaker 4: of trust?

867
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 5: It's got to take a girl just know if she

868
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 5: knows what she's doing, Like if you know what you do.

869
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 5: If you know what you're doing, I'll let you do it.

870
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 5: But if you wouldn't, like, I'm not gonna play. I'm

871
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 5: not fena like like I like it, I'm not about

872
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:26,879
Speaker 5: to like you know what I'm saying.

873
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: So with the straight girls, did you enjoy the sex

874
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: because of the challenge?

875
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 2: I loved it? You did? Sometimes you know they didn't

876
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 2: know what they was doing.

877
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 5: I'm a pleaser, so like I love to like and

878
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 5: they wanted to learn, like they willing to, like you know,

879
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 5: And I feel like when girls like really like when

880
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 5: they really get pleased, like now they're just they're nasty

881
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 5: ship and they just wanted to.

882
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: Do whatever that like all right, we're gonna dam damn yeah,

883
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 2: you know you know what. I feel like that only

884
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: happens to me with women.

885
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 4: Like what I was saying, I feel like with lesbian sex,

886
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 4: like plus be on my titt, I don't know what

887
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 4: the I don't do that with men.

888
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: Actually, I feel like lesbian sex gets very.

889
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 2: To put his dick on your on your on your chest,

890
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 2: and I'm not saying let me.

891
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just want to be rubbed all over with

892
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 1: juices and ship. It's weird.

893
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 4: And I feel like with men sometimes it's so like

894
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 4: we know this is going in there. I don't know,

895
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 4: so it's just like a maybe, but it does feel

896
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 4: like you just start playing around getting aasty.

897
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: It's just free.

898
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 5: I just think you're free. I just really think women

899
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 5: just really we just love to like please each other.

900
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 5: I think it's beautiful. I think every girl should fuck

901
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 5: a girl. I believe, I really do think that. I

902
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 5: think every girl, every woman should experience sex with a

903
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 5: woman because I just think that I just don't think

904
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 5: you like you, you'll appreciate your orgasms.

905
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 2: You'll appreciate now you know what that is like? Oh no,

906
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: I never felt that before, like you.

907
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 5: Know, because like man, a girl can come so many times,

908
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 5: like back to back, girls become like two times, like

909
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 5: you know, you can come water than that.

910
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,720
Speaker 2: If if he likes you know what I'm saying, figures

911
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 2: it out or she figures it out. I like that.

912
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: She said, yeah, well strappering, No strap, I.

913
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 2: Don't really like strap. I don't really like giving it,

914
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 2: but I got it.

915
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: Do you find that got that trap heard by straight women?

916
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,280
Speaker 2: Nah? They be because they like fingers.

917
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 4: If you do it right, if you do it right,

918
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 4: perfect sex for you or maybe maybe your favorite type.

919
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 2: Perfect fingers is the scissoring? Is it everything?

920
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 1: Everything?

921
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's a concoction. It's like a cocktail.

922
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 7: Come on, minus minus the cock the coochs tale, the

923
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 7: horrible decision.

924
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 3: Your last album songs for women niggas. I want to

925
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:53,959
Speaker 3: get into more full court you know about me because

926
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 3: it was.

927
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 2: Singing to the ladies I wanted to.

928
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,879
Speaker 5: So we've been talking about dating we've been talking about

929
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 5: all the things, but you have a freaky business. Now

930
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 5: we've been talking about sex. However, you have another snippet

931
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 5: that you've been teasing like me. That's that's dropped right,

932
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 5: like me dropped. I wanted to get into like Me,

933
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 5: which is on the project.

934
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 2: Because you kind of the lyrics.

935
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 3: I want to read the lyrics just because I was

936
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: going through the I was going through the I said,

937
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 3: let me see which one I want to go through,

938
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 3: and I wanted to get a little bit away from

939
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 3: sex only because it seemed like in the song you

940
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 3: wanted them to say they liked you. You were begging

941
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 3: them to tell you because maybe their actions didn't show it,

942
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 3: or maybe you were confused. And I think that's my

943
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 3: confusion with dat having sex with women or navigating women.

944
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 2: Is that to me?

945
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 5: I feel like all women just like women. I feel

946
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 5: like it's easier to tell when a woman likes you

947
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 5: than when a man likes you. So I want to

948
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:58,760
Speaker 5: ask you the difficulty in dating women, how you determine

949
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 5: if a woman really likes you, because again, because women

950
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 5: show up so emotional all the time, and.

951
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 2: Do you need to hear it? Man?

952
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 5: You know what that's such a good one right here,

953
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 5: because I've been talking to my brothers because like the

954
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 5: more successful I get, I'll be having to make sure

955
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 5: girls don't want.

956
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 2: To just fuck with me because of just who you

957
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 2: because the money or the accents, right.

958
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 5: Like, So I don't like that, and that's why I said,

959
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 5: if it's easy, I don't want it, yeah, because I

960
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 5: don't know, Like I don't and I'm not.

961
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 2: The good ones really hide it well the right and

962
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 2: you know it they because let me tell you this,

963
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 2: one girl like I talked to, I was bobbing with her.

964
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: Are we cool? We cool? Like, hey, I can hear

965
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 2: her right now. It's all love like but literally I

966
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 2: met her, how did I mean?

967
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I met her at my boy's birthday party

968
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 5: and then I like got a number talk to her

969
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 5: and she's she's she's only been with one girl, so

970
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 5: she's back to talking to niggas.

971
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 2: Okay, But we was vibbing. I didn't think she knew

972
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 2: I was and nothing. She likes she know who I was.

973
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 5: Of course, Then like we went out to eat and

974
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 5: like she she started naming all my songs. I'm like, oh,

975
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 5: you know me, but like there's you didn't like you

976
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 5: didn't like that she did. That kind of turned me

977
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 5: off a little bit. Oh like that kind of you

978
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. It just turned off just because

979
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 5: like when I saw you there at the party, I mean,

980
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 5: the energy was good, but you didn't like it wasn't

981
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 5: that There.

982
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 2: Has to be some you know what I'm saying, acknowledgement,

983
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 2: acknowledge it. I feel like, especially if you really know me,

984
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 2: one of my.

985
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 1: Recent encounters, I just brought up to you this name.

986
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: This isn't in a name drop you way. This is

987
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: because I feel like I had to start saying it.

988
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 4: I went to a party that Steve Lacey was at

989
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: and I really and I liked Steve Lacey from the

990
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 4: before the pandemic, which is I feel like when he

991
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 4: blew up right and I was like, fuck, I really

992
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 4: love this man. And talking for maybe five minutes, something

993
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 4: else comes up about how he had to travel for

994
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 4: work or whatever, and I was like, oh, this is

995
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 4: the icebreaker, Like I have to talk. I was like,

996
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 4: by the way, I love your work, big fan. He

997
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 4: was like, oh thanks, and he smiles at me. We

998
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:00,959
Speaker 4: got back to normal.

999
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 1: Congo.

1000
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 4: A friend of mine was across from me, and it

1001
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 4: was like, bruh, I've been talking to this nigga for

1002
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 4: two hours. It was a game, right, He's like, and

1003
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 4: I didn't know how to say that. And now I

1004
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 4: feel like I'm weird because we're about to all hang

1005
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 4: out and do some other shit later. And now I

1006
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 4: gotta then tell you I know you are. There is

1007
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 4: a weird thing of like when do I acknowledge it?

1008
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 4: And I think exidily. We are so scared to tell

1009
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 4: people when we're an admire Yo, let.

1010
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:23,919
Speaker 2: Me tell you some shit.

1011
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 5: Like if I know, if I sit in the girl's

1012
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 5: DM and I see her out and I know she

1013
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 5: didn't read it, I'm like, fuck, I gotta like uncended.

1014
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 1: No, you gotta break it.

1015
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 5: Hell no, this is the perfect icebreaker, Like I'm about

1016
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 5: to go over there, like that's like that's my icebreaker

1017
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 5: to go over there and be like I ain't gonna

1018
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,879
Speaker 5: lie like any idea and it's always a joke.

1019
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 2: Oh let me see. And then I'm like, you know

1020
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, but like that's kind of where it goes.

1021
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: Oh god, yes, how do you shoot your shot? I

1022
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 2: ain't got one. I mean, you're not gonna break my

1023
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 2: your boyfriend somewhere over here watching right now. Man, you

1024
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 2: like Lanny's, keep going Lenny Lenny's. She said, Leandy Kravit,

1025
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 2: not like Ny.

1026
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 4: You are fucking hilarous about a foursome I had with

1027
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 4: a woman that has never had sex with a man,

1028
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 4: right and her firm girlfriend.

1029
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 1: So me and him and his ports. Wow.

1030
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 4: And he was like, yo, I don't even give a

1031
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 4: fuck about this other bitch. I want to fuck the virgin.

1032
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: And he said to me, like, not a virgin, just

1033
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 1: goo star lesbian.

1034
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1035
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 4: He was like, I feel like niggas don't like it

1036
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 4: because of masculinity. He's like, I see the girliness, I

1037
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 4: see the femininity.

1038
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, he fucked the masculine girl.

1039
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: Oh no, she started crying because she started crying.

1040
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:47,760
Speaker 2: It was like yeah, but anyway, oh no, it was crazy.

1041
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: But when he said that to me, I realized, like,

1042
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: there's so many men that feel like that. They feel

1043
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 1: like you've got to look like X y Z and

1044
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,280
Speaker 1: to not see the woman in somebody.

1045
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel like could be rude the woman in me. Yes,

1046
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 2: you said, you said, are dangerous? Are they not? Are

1047
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: they not more easily accessible or either to talk.

1048
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: To with, I don't like three.

1049
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 2: I've had bad three experience, he said, yo, wa because.

1050
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 5: Like the bread, because my I never asked for it

1051
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 5: and like my exit brought it and then got mad

1052
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 5: at her friend, like they starting to fight in the.

1053
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: Living room, like I didn't ask for this, Like you

1054
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 2: did this? I have the most successful what they was doing?

1055
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 5: Yes, they was like it was bad and that was

1056
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 5: the only time I've had a few, but they have

1057
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:37,439
Speaker 5: all been bad.

1058
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,439
Speaker 1: Just just give us that horror story.

1059
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's hear the bad.

1060
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 5: Three horror story, except that one when they started fighting

1061
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 5: wait scratch, wait literally fighting they was fighting in the

1062
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 5: bad What did you do?

1063
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 2: I was, I didn't I didn't have no, I didn't

1064
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 2: have no, I didn't have I was, I wouldn't have

1065
00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 2: a house yet I was. But you're gonna tell you

1066
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: as a law homeless and you set up a threezom

1067
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 2: in your manager bed And I sent the video to

1068
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 2: my manager like yo, and he was like, Johns, what

1069
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 2: the fuck is you doing? I was reckless, but it

1070
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: was fun. It was a story. And tell the story.

1071
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: We brought her friend.

1072
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 2: Did you talk about it before? No? Literally? So all right, boom,

1073
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 2: here we go. I'm in bed. This is late.

1074
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 5: This is like, she's not from La, She's from She

1075
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 5: was living in Houston at the time, and so she

1076
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 5: was out.

1077
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 2: She was out for a long song.

1078
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 5: So I'm sleep, I'm not. She comes in, well her

1079
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 5: friend okay, never met a friend, don't know. She is

1080
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 5: bad as fuck though bad. They get in bed and

1081
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 5: they just started kissing, and I'm like, oh shit, it's

1082
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 5: about to go. Like nobody says nothing, like, they're not

1083
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 5: explaining nothing like it's not a jockey, you want this

1084
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 5: none of that ship My god, I know it was

1085
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 5: crazy bro, and so like boom.

1086
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: So we start.

1087
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 2: So I start kissing my girl. But where I fucked

1088
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 2: up at I started kissing the other girl too.

1089
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,439
Speaker 5: Okay, I started, but I'm thinking this is the game time,

1090
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 5: like we're all in this together. So like, but what

1091
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 5: I should have did, honestly, now that I'm like older

1092
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 5: and myn mature, I should have just let them vibe and.

1093
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: I should have just like, probably, oh, you went too

1094
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 2: hard enough.

1095
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 5: No, I didn't go too hard at all. It wasn't that,

1096
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 5: but to her it was hard, like it wasn't even

1097
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 5: that I didn't even do nothing. That crazy brought in

1098
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 5: the band.

1099
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: Kiss it.

1100
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: What she said, are you fucking serious? From the kiss

1101
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: you didn't even get to eat the coochie? And from

1102
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 2: the kids, No, I didn't. I was like we was

1103
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 2: about to and like she was like, are you fucking serious?

1104
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,319
Speaker 2: You are you dumb to you? Yeah?

1105
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 5: Like did she rock out the room? And now the

1106
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 5: other girls like, yo, you said you want to do

1107
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 5: go in there, and they starting to like push each

1108
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 5: other in the It was it was crazy. So I

1109
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 5: go sit in the living room and I'm just like this,

1110
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 5: like what yo, y'all figured that out, like I'm just here,

1111
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 5: and then they figured it out and we finished.

1112
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 2: That's just crazy.

1113
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 1: It was crazy. It was enough drama to send the

1114
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: video and then y'all ended up sucking anyway.

1115
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did it for sure.

1116
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: Let's let this be a testimony. Is this the camera here?

1117
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 8: Bitches are crazy fuck ridiculous, But you know you just

1118
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 8: need ridiculous too, and went back and got it. Don't know.

1119
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 2: I just think she needed what it was was she

1120
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 2: just needed assurance.

1121
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 5: She needed assurance that I'm only doing this because you

1122
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 5: brought this to me, Like you know what I'm saying, you.

1123
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: Got some nerve to bring me say, and I gotta

1124
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: tell you.

1125
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 3: Listen, God shows it. I've had a very successful threesomes.

1126
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 3: They've been amazing and I love it.

1127
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 2: The one where the girl, oh what happened with that?

1128
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 2: I mean she started crying. Basically, we met these bitches.

1129
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 1: We didn't even ask for it.

1130
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 2: She basically went up to my dude.

1131
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: And liked, you look like Lenny Travis and Tracy Chapman.

1132
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: I was like, this is crazy.

1133
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 2: Let me see your nigga. Don't like Tracy Chapman.

1134
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 1: She's just a pretty nigga.

1135
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: And I don't like when bitches dat she's gay. Let

1136
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 2: me see what Tracy Chapman, Lenny gravit. Okay, okay, I

1137
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,880
Speaker 2: can see you see it that, you can see it.

1138
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,800
Speaker 2: Let me look up Tracy Chapman. Hold on, you see it?

1139
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 2: Damn Oh that's crazy. He really.

1140
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: Hold on. Because actually they got to say a lot

1141
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: as fun and you know, white visits.

1142
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 4: To oh my god, he looks like the girlfriend and

1143
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 4: her girl back and for it. So she want to

1144
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 4: fuck the film girl wants to fuck him the butcher.

1145
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 4: And I say that because white people want to fuck me.

1146
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,720
Speaker 4: So it was their idea.

1147
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 8: Bro.

1148
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 4: We met them for ten minutes. By the time we

1149
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 4: got back to the crab Scissor and I ain't have

1150
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 4: pussy in a minutes. I'm going hard ship. He get

1151
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 4: in there and I see the other the bush bitch

1152
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 4: go in the bathroom. I'm like, let me go check

1153
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 4: on her, bro, because why you just like jump this

1154
00:51:58,520 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 4: niggas just I.

1155
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: Mean, it's like just pussy. Yeah, yeah, I go in

1156
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:06,240
Speaker 1: the bathroom.

1157
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, you're okay.

1158
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 1: I just asked, and I mean this is the reality.

1159
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:13,800
Speaker 1: I mean, and you could just hear them moaning in

1160
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,760
Speaker 1: the bag and he was going.

1161
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 2: Over to him to stop.

1162
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 5: I don't even know what I would do if I

1163
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 5: got in this situation, bro, I don't think people know

1164
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:29,479
Speaker 5: what to do. Safe words, But even in your case,

1165
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,320
Speaker 5: they ended up in your bed and there was no

1166
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 5: prior conversation.

1167
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: That's my thing to me.

1168
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 3: If you're gonna even consider a threesome, and for anyone

1169
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 3: that just wants to even surprise their partner with it,

1170
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: there has to be a conversation leading into it about

1171
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 3: how it would happen.

1172
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 1: We have these scenarios, just scenarios. We have to talk

1173
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: about it at dinners.

1174
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 4: Those two women never discussed that we were such a

1175
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 4: safe couple because we were straight and on vacation.

1176
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I goned you right now? In my mind, I

1177
00:52:58,480 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 2: want an MMF.

1178
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 5: It's I'm trying to like drop hits to be like, now,

1179
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,399
Speaker 5: what if I just invited two niggas I to the bar,

1180
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 5: they start talking about sports.

1181
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 2: I kissed one, kiss the other, and I'd be like,

1182
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: y'all should both y'all that.

1183
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: You are too?

1184
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 3: That is not what that is me setting up a

1185
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 3: three something I wanted to I wanted to ask you though,

1186
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 3: because of your album.

1187
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 5: Stop uh free game for niggas? What three things do

1188
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 5: you feel like women do better in dating than me?

1189
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 2: Man?

1190
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 5: Communication I can work well, I think yeah, because even me,

1191
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 5: this is the best I've ever been communicating with somebody.

1192
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 5: But communication, I think transparency, Yeah, these niggas don't be transparent.

1193
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 5: Transparent and just being also emotionally like sound too. I

1194
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 5: think one thing like women are not perfect. That's why

1195
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 5: I was trying to tell like girls who like think

1196
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 5: that I'm going to be like better than a nigga.

1197
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 2: I'm not better than a nigga. Like, this is not

1198
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 2: what this is. It's just that when I mess up

1199
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 2: and when a god mess up.

1200
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 5: I probably I take accountability and I know or I

1201
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 5: know what is wrong and right like, and I'm using

1202
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 5: sensible like.

1203
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 1: It's a little mind.

1204
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 4: It is mainly because the main issue that we have,

1205
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 4: it is a relationship, is that men aren't considerate enough exactly,

1206
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 4: and so that accountability is consideration accountability and mature at

1207
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 4: a slower.

1208
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: Pace than we do. So you're kind of lucky with that.

1209
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 4: But I will say there is one thing that I

1210
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:37,240
Speaker 4: will say in my straight relationships hadn't really been an issue,

1211
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 4: the emotional instability. It was very hard to read when

1212
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 4: she was upset. I didn't understand what I was doing

1213
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 4: to her. Men were very direct in letting me know

1214
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 4: when I had a song upset. The Taurus and my

1215
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:54,879
Speaker 4: Nigga are a really good mess.

1216
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 2: You know what do you I'm going to quarry. I

1217
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:02,240
Speaker 2: don't know whatever I mean, but excellent Aquarius hate on January.

1218
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 5: Don't know January one. All I know is that Nigga

1219
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 5: wasn't ship still. Look, I don't know signs but now

1220
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 5: a query. But you are a woman, so it's different.

1221
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna let you ride.

1222
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, girls do want you to figure out while they're upset.

1223
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

1224
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 5: I won't lean into the horse as soon as I

1225
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 5: hear Aquarius Si Leebra only the best sign o Lord

1226
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 5: down scale over here, my god.

1227
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 1: Mess a mess.

1228
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 2: That's a lie you got You just think they got

1229
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 2: to figure it out? And do do we have whole mail?

1230
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 1: Or can I pose?

1231
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 3: I mean if you want to ask when we do

1232
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 3: have homemail? But you guys one and then I'll take

1233
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 3: to one.

1234
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 4: Women are constantly asking us. Never dated a woman for

1235
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 4: the first time? How do I approach? Where do I

1236
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:48,720
Speaker 4: get started? I said, I think you need to download

1237
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 4: the apps Christians.

1238
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 5: Mingle, not Christians, Christians Christians free God, fear free, Christians

1239
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 5: ing I need at You know, Christians don't like the gates.

1240
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: Come on, now, how do the girls started off the

1241
00:55:59,320 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: first time?

1242
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 2: What you mean like, how do they say? How the

1243
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 2: Christian start off?

1244
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how does a girl?

1245
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 2: I want to explore. I feel like this is the

1246
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 2: the Pride edition and y'all just bring Johnny on the

1247
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 2: Pride edition of Decisions. I said, you know what this is,

1248
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,399
Speaker 2: this Pride. We know who to get? You said, never

1249
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: got me no other time.

1250
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 5: Don't do this, no other Pride episode that even dropping in.

1251
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 2: Pride money here. All right, that sounds good?

1252
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 8: Hell, all right, all right, let me get serious. I'll

1253
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,800
Speaker 8: be saying, get drunk and kiss someone I don't know.

1254
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 8: I mean, just treated like I think it's easy. I

1255
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 8: think just flirt, just talk.

1256
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 2: It's the flirting. It's flirting like I love.

1257
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 5: I'm a flirt like don't don't catch me up, like

1258
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 5: I love, bumming the ship out of you all night

1259
00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 5: like energy. If I want you better, I'm like, I'm

1260
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 5: gonna let you know.

1261
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, why not.

1262
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: Other women ship?

1263
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 2: I am?

1264
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,879
Speaker 5: I was in friends kids and two friends. I said

1265
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 5: one little beautiful. I said, your friend beautiful too. I

1266
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 5: was at the DJ booth. You ain't probably get me

1267
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 5: on video.

1268
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 2: It was French. Yeah, I'm not either.

1269
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 5: So that's the thing about me is like rejection doesn't

1270
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 5: mean that I'm not like good looking or a confident

1271
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 5: who I am. I'm it's not your type. That's cool, right,

1272
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 5: I got that doesn't hurt my feelings that you know

1273
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So like, so I'm shooting at anything.

1274
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: That's that's very confident.

1275
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 3: It's very confident, and you know, because that's actually I'm

1276
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 3: to be married. And be like for me, you you

1277
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 3: reaching that level of confidence that literally is our homemail.

1278
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 3: Oh so I do want to ask this That's exactly

1279
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 3: what it is. It says uh the title by the way.

1280
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 5: By the way, if you would like to send in

1281
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 5: homemail to get advice from me, Weezy and whatever guests

1282
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 5: are sitting with us, please send it in Horrible Decisions

1283
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 5: at Gmail.

1284
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 2: So this one's title is how can I be more confident?

1285
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 3: Hey, Mandy and WEEZI, I want to start by saying

1286
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 3: I'm so thankful for both of you and horrible Beyond

1287
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 3: the obvious tips, stories and laughs, y'all redefine the boundaries

1288
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 3: of embracing and protecting sexual and feminine energy. With that

1289
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 3: being said, it's been amazing watching you both navigate through

1290
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 3: your different relationships and the way that men you were

1291
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 3: choosing to entertain affected your self confidence. I currently am

1292
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 3: entering my grown Baddy era, and as my dating pool

1293
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:32,000
Speaker 3: continues to get finer, richer, and more high profile, I

1294
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 3: find myself so insecurely. I know I'm pretty, but I'm

1295
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 3: constantly surrounded by women who I feel like look better

1296
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 3: than me.

1297
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm worried that a man will notice something like.

1298
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 3: The fact that my teeth aren't perfect, or my hairline

1299
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 3: or my eyebags, and decide that they can do better.

1300
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 3: I think maybe I need to stay away from athletes

1301
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 3: and men who chase the next best thing in general,

1302
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 3: But what are some ways that I can feel more

1303
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 3: confident in myself? Are there any game changers to actually

1304
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 3: help me appear here to others? I'm about to be

1305
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 3: twenty five, and I just want to feel grown and sexy,

1306
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 3: not awkward and insecure. She needs to thank you.

1307
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 2: I know what she needs to do.

1308
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 5: She needs to look at these niggas and find flaws

1309
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 5: out of them. I ain't gonna front those hold I

1310
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 5: like that. I like that all that like you really

1311
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 5: start looking at it and be like, oh, this nigga

1312
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 5: kind of let me tell you sign like.

1313
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:25,479
Speaker 2: So like money makes these nigga not needs.

1314
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 5: Look at them not needs, bro oh God, Like, start

1315
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 5: look at their teeth behind the beard, Oh God, exactly.

1316
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 5: Start paying attention to the person that that you're talking to,

1317
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 5: and then you be like own that, Like I think, man,

1318
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 5: what she said for hers?

1319
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 2: You need to just look at that.

1320
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 5: Start dissecting these niggas, man, dissect everything, how they talk

1321
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 5: how they ub predation.

1322
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 2: Is such a because that's bull.

1323
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 5: So I want to ask you then, in terms of

1324
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 5: being okay with rejection, how did you become confident in

1325
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 5: accepting that maybe you're not somebody's type because that's hard

1326
00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 5: for a lot of people to to breach. Yo. I mean, bro,

1327
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 5: we are you know how many people are in there's

1328
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 5: a lot billions, Like I'm not like for me to

1329
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 5: think that I'm everybody's type? Is that's crazy for you? Like, nigga,

1330
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 5: I like motherfucking Oreos the like the old way. I

1331
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 5: don't like the gold Oreo rap. I don't like the

1332
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 5: Oreos with the birthday cake. Give me the old school

1333
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 5: Oreos like, but like my cousin to be fucking them

1334
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 5: shits up, So like that's the that's their preference, right,

1335
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 5: That's how I look at it with women and with gods.

1336
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 5: So like it doesn't that that was the thing that

1337
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 5: I had to like that was always in me, I think.

1338
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 5: But the confidence came from just wanting to be my

1339
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 5: best self. So like every time I feel every time

1340
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 5: I get a goal in myself, like I'm just I

1341
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 5: feel like supercharged, like I'm that nigga, Like huh, yeah,

1342
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 5: but you know, my shit, I hate that.

1343
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 1: It's comfort, success and age for me.

1344
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 4: When you said you're turning twenty five, the confidence was

1345
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 4: next level for me after thirty.

1346
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 2: After thirty absolutely, man, absolutely.

1347
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 4: I don't know if you need to just attain those things.

1348
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 4: My self worth wasn't really about beauty standards at first.

1349
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 4: It was more like I would look at women and

1350
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 4: I hope you can change your framework and think because.

1351
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: I would really look at girls and be like, damn

1352
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 1: she got this and that, like she bossed up. I

1353
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: really would.

1354
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 4: It was so like it was never about their looks,

1355
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 4: and I really wanted those goals for myself. But I

1356
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 4: mean it may attribute to all of our success though,

1357
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 4: feeling like that, because we all do. I mean, I

1358
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 4: don't know you that well, but even you making that comment,

1359
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 4: just knowing I got a goal, it's the battery in

1360
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 4: my back, Like the second I accomplish it, that really

1361
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 4: has attributed to my confidence. And if you can get there,

1362
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 4: and I don't think at twenty four you can yet

1363
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:46,919
Speaker 4: you kind of got to figure out that career path

1364
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 4: and what makes you happy and are you fulfilling your passions?

1365
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 1: And this isn't money success. This is are you doing

1366
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: what you want to do?

1367
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 2: Best? Success not the best show.

1368
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 4: I think that's why like athletes, Yeah, why I say

1369
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 4: they do fee is because if they're not living in

1370
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,919
Speaker 4: their truest form of what's happy, Like bro, you break

1371
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 4: that acl tear it?

1372
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: Where who are you now?

1373
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1374
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 4: So to only be defined by that, like I don't

1375
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 4: know to for someone's beauty, that whole could be a lane.

1376
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 2: Think. I think confidence comes to with, like you said,

1377
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 2: accepting rejection.

1378
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 3: I think one of the things that I've been saying

1379
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 3: for a long time and one that I sit with

1380
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 3: is the fact that I enjoy the power to say no.

1381
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 3: I enjoy the power to tell somebody I'm good. You

1382
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 3: not my type, I don't want it, I'm good. So

1383
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 3: the fact that I know I enjoy the power to

1384
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 3: say it, I have to be able to receive it.

1385
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 3: And so if I'm not somebody's type or they say

1386
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 3: no or they decline, okay, that's fine.

1387
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 2: On to the next one. And you have to be

1388
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 2: able to sit in the things that you like to give,

1389
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 2: you also need to be able to receive.

1390
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 6: Imply put, I'm gonna tell you.

1391
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 4: This, I have seen the finest niggas in the world,

1392
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 4: be ugly women or women that just are kind of like, wow,

1393
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to freak real ship. And I hate that

1394
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 4: I think this about other women because I don't want

1395
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 4: to like say that, but I really looked at it.

1396
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 2: I have been shocked.

1397
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 3: So I say that to say, I highly doubt did

1398
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 3: they looking at your hairline unless that Lasa's lift.

1399
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 4: And since we are even tea girl, I've had an

1400
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 4: overwrite since I came out.

1401
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 2: Of the womb, and I told actually looked good. I'm

1402
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 2: getting racist. You know it's thumb.

1403
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 1: I was on a bottle too long.

1404
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 4: My mom told me once because she was an overwrite too,

1405
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 4: and I remember I was feeling ugly about it. She

1406
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 4: was like, hey, you can fix that, but you know

1407
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 4: what makes your lips stick out? And men love that

1408
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 4: you got that energy? Hello, I M I, actually that's crazy.

1409
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 4: Before we get out of here, Josie, you have a

1410
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 4: new record tied Down. Can you tell a little bit

1411
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 4: what that's about, because you are you trying to get

1412
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:51,960
Speaker 4: tied down?

1413
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 2: Are you tying people down? BDSM style? What is it about?

1414
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 2: I love that?

1415
01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 5: So no, literally, this is like I'm telling them, my girl,

1416
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 5: A girl don't get tied down during the summer, like

1417
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 5: suns summertime flirt, you know, okay, because normally, you know,

1418
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 5: people break up during the summer and then during the

1419
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 5: winter they get back because it's cold, cuddle. So I'm like, yo,

1420
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 5: don't be tied down for the summer. And it was

1421
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 5: just one of them joints that I ain't I don't know.

1422
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 5: I'm such an aquarious woman. I want to be a

1423
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 5: relationship and the next I just want to be outside.

1424
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 2: That's Libra too. It's a scale.

1425
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 5: I want to dress, and it's like, and I ain't

1426
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 5: see the summer dress. I be seeing the wrestling suits,

1427
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 5: not the restlers suit, the raw body always. You don't

1428
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 5: like that, you like it, you do like it, but

1429
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 5: you want you want.

1430
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 2: The summer dresses back. Yeah, it's dope. I think. I

1431
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 2: think that's gets to New York. You're gonna see I

1432
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 2: got a dyke now.

1433
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: I don't know about it all right.

1434
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 2: That's what.

1435
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 3: I literally was just on live the other day, like okay,

1436
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 3: I'm ready to settle down and get a boyfriend. Now,

1437
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 3: summer's almost over there, like bit it just started, I

1438
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:56,360
Speaker 3: said so much, just started.

1439
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 2: I didn't know it's been hot forever. I'm ready to

1440
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 2: fu get up. I'm trying to be booed up. It's

1441
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 2: trying to go outside and catch you. Yeah, I ain't

1442
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 2: gonna I've been a little live the last couple of months.

1443
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, have my fun time to get.

1444
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 1: Tired outright, falling in love in the summertime. It's fun.

1445
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 1: But there was a moment we went out and I

1446
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 1: was like, let me.

1447
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 2: They niggas want you.

1448
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 5: I feel like people want you even more when you

1449
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 5: got it somebody like when I have a girl on

1450
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 5: my arm or somebody that I'm with, like it's crazy,

1451
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 5: y sick.

1452
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 1: You should see me around father.

1453
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 3: Industry parties, like damn, let me know when you need

1454
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 3: someone on your art. When somebody come into fine, yeah,

1455
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 3: I hate that.

1456
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 2: It validates the person, but you just be like like

1457
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 2: what you what?

1458
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 1: Let's to talk about? See you a bad bitch? I'm

1459
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 1: on your ass?

1460
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 2: Really?

1461
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted just to be I want to be

1462
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: the three something that you didn't get in a fighter.

1463
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying. You have a me.

1464
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 5: If you if you was in a relationship, would you

1465
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 5: have a dough We're in a relationship, She'll have a

1466
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 5: three no, but if you won, that's not with your nigga.

1467
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 2: I'm not doing nothing. I'm saying you would wait, your

1468
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 2: nigga would watch? Could he watch? Who? You would have

1469
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 2: a man watch?

1470
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: People want to know where to admit it. I don't know.

1471
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:14,439
Speaker 2: We gotta take baby.

1472
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: Wait, who are you talking about?

1473
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 2: What you're talking about? Show me off on my phone

1474
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 2: and we can talk about boundaries right before I'm sitting there.

1475
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: That is, I don't want to finger out back.

1476
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 2: Okay, that's that's your only boundary. That's an easy bound

1477
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 2: that's a boundary. You know what.

1478
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 4: It is. My main thing with casual sex when I'm

1479
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 4: having like rough sex, I don't like being called a

1480
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 4: bitch sex.

1481
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 5: To do.

1482
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 1: That's actually something I brought up, like little things like

1483
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 1: oh I don't like talking. Don't talk to me too hard.

1484
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 1: You can slap me in the face and call me

1485
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 1: pretty and I'll be okay, okay.

1486
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 5: It's like it's like a sweet and sour energy that you.

1487
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 5: I can't talk respect, I can't I be talking dirt

1488
01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 5: like that's like, oh, I love it.

1489
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 1: It's not bad talking.

1490
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 2: No, So wait, bitch is worse than foot your pump.

1491
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 2: You need to do a master class or just a

1492
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 2: way just calm down. I don't I like intimacy, No,

1493
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,760
Speaker 2: only a slept for your slept for your boodo. Yeah,

1494
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 2: I like you. You need a master class.

1495
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 5: You need to you need to give a master class

1496
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 5: because I think like I love your I love your

1497
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 5: confidence with like with sex because you don't want to.

1498
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 2: Have to because.

1499
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:31,040
Speaker 5: But what I mean, but it's like you that you

1500
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 5: showing out like that bitch with the blue balloon. You

1501
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 5: get attention in that you may what happened. It's a

1502
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 5: little little balloon popping thing that went you little friend

1503
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 5: was jealous when the other girls started getting attention, girls.

1504
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 2: Hated, hated. I think we just be putting such a

1505
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 2: taboo on sex.

1506
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 5: And that's why I like pumps, because like sexist shouldn't

1507
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 5: be like a like a bad thing.

1508
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 2: It's not. It's nothing wrong with if you if it's

1509
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 2: consensual and like adults. So I love that you just like,

1510
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 2: oh god, shut up, Johnny.

1511
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 3: Let everyone know where they can support you listening to

1512
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 3: you and sliding them dms Jossy jails as you why boom.

1513
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 3: I love a simple moment Hello, And that will be

1514
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 3: in the description of this episode. Thank you so much

1515
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 3: for finally being on two years later.

1516
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,000
Speaker 2: I just felt like I just got we just had

1517
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:18,759
Speaker 2: at whoa I would never beautiful?

1518
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean we would beat the niggas where

1519
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 1: it's like.

1520
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:26,080
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck out there. Okay, so y'all okay, Well

1521
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 2: it was just a yeah, yeah, you know what.

1522
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: I would never fuck her, But you can.

1523
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 2: You can go back and forth from the room. Oh yeah,

1524
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 2: train that way, that's a train. You can run a

1525
01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 2: different that. I can go murder.

1526
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:42,360
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you, though, but after you get

1527
01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 3: it done, you gotta do the mouthwash between me and

1528
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 3: her coochie and coming home saying I don't want.

1529
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 2: To kiss and eat your pussy. If she eat your pussy,

1530
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 2: didn't come to me and we kiss, now h your

1531
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:53,599
Speaker 2: pussy technically, but they're technically I'm messing with Tracy Chapman.

1532
01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 2: Thenny Sabbage too, goddamn say queen. So I don't really

1533
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 2: know about discussion. I gotta I had to look her up.

1534
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 2: It's fine. I'm gonna call it Tracy, Tracy.

1535
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 4: I want to run into you this week, Cravin Chazy

1536
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 4: crab's so tired of that ship.

1537
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:16,240
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1538
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1540
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1542
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Speaker 3: our top tier patrons. Any who were about to get

1543
01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 3: up out of here, I'm trying to get some dick

1544
01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 3: and so this has been yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.

1545
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 2: Or some couch.

1546
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 5: I'm sure I don't gave four a nigga.

1547
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 2: You need to go and get a shirt.

1548
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:51,719
Speaker 5: I'm your girl many b aka pantas aka Beach. Hey, y'all,

1549
01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 5: I'm easy. What's really good? I'm the sex operator.

1550
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: Boy, I'm trying.

1551
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:57,719
Speaker 2: I'm trying to do something different.

1552
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 1: I have a bone to pick.

1553
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 2: Okay, pick the bone. I was sucking a lot of bones,

1554
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 2: but you could pick the bone.

1555
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:12,719
Speaker 4: I have a bone to pick with friends that don't

1556
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 4: realize that you're not being a bad friend if you

1557
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 4: set a boundary with trauma dumping. Okay, literally wh when

1558
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,040
Speaker 4: you were like, y'all go with these angles. I just

1559
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,040
Speaker 4: got a text about how I haven't been there for

1560
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 4: somebody and girl, I feel like we give a certain

1561
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 4: amount of hours. Okay, why don't you get a certain

1562
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:34,640
Speaker 4: amount of hours with me? I'm finished?

1563
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 2: How do you communicate that though?

1564
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 3: Or do you or do you just like remove yourself

1565
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 3: because you've been you feel like you've been dumped on enough?

1566
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 2: Like how do you respond to that when you reach

1567
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 2: that point?

1568
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:49,360
Speaker 4: Like basically I had dubbed a few of her calls

1569
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:51,960
Speaker 4: we were in London, but when she called me today

1570
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 4: and asked me if I'm back, I literally was like, girl,

1571
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 4: I'm just kind of having a mood, like I really

1572
01:10:56,479 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 4: can't hear, and she feels like I'm not being her

1573
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 4: And she basically feels like she wants to keep her

1574
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,519
Speaker 4: business private from other friends, and I'm the one that

1575
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 4: she trusts with the info. But like, it's really hard

1576
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 4: to talk to someone that's depressed. Would you be on

1577
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 4: the brink of being depressed?

1578
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 2: Right?

1579
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:15,600
Speaker 1: And so I don't know what to say. Do I

1580
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: send you a therapy gift card?

1581
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 2: Bro?

1582
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 4: I feel like you gotta have some discernment and think

1583
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:24,160
Speaker 4: about how much you are unloading on somebody.

1584
01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:27,560
Speaker 3: And I hate that I would be in it for

1585
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 3: her and it's it's specific to not her overall well

1586
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 3: being or depression, but it's about a nick like it's

1587
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 3: about a man.

1588
01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 2: Like if someone's going.

1589
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 4: Through it and needs to pick me up, that's different

1590
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:41,680
Speaker 4: than someone that's like constantly trying to figure out what

1591
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 4: they can do to you know, not get someone's attention,

1592
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:45,519
Speaker 4: but just like what did I do?

1593
01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 2: What did I do wrong?

1594
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: And I'm not doing this and blah blah.

1595
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:50,680
Speaker 2: Blah, like waste. She might be with a narcissist too.

1596
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 2: You ain't never gonna do nothing right, but ease new

1597
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 2: to me.

1598
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 3: To me, so I am very adamant actually with drawing

1599
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 3: the boundary with my friends and their partners specifically, because

1600
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 3: once you've said enough but you've stayed, baby.

1601
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 2: Girl, I don't I don't want to hear about it anymore.

1602
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:15,600
Speaker 3: So like to me, when it comes to the friendships

1603
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:20,839
Speaker 3: that I have, specifically, our friendships are able to exist

1604
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 3: depending like beyond whoever you're dating or not.

1605
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 2: But to me, once you've come to me about how

1606
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 2: this niggative did you wrong? Did you wrong again? Did

1607
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:31,880
Speaker 2: you wrong again?

1608
01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:33,679
Speaker 5: Like I got to the point where I stopped talking

1609
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:35,600
Speaker 5: to my friends about That's why y'all motherfuckers heard it.

1610
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 5: My friends wasn't hearing nothing about my ex. Nomo, No, bitch,

1611
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 5: you don't even win back?

1612
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 2: How many times?

1613
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 3: So I even stopped sharing with my friends because this

1614
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:44,720
Speaker 3: was a person that I knew all right at this

1615
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 3: the end of the day, I keep going back.

1616
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 1: Nobody elves to hear that shit.

1617
01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 2: But no, and I get that, like, nobody like that.

1618
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 2: That's the thing, right and we know it.

1619
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 3: But so I'm telling you as a friend, I love

1620
01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 3: you dearly to all my friends. This is this is

1621
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 3: literally how I communicated to my friends.

1622
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 2: Friend.

1623
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:05,080
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll be like friend, bitch, you know I love you, right,

1624
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:09,960
Speaker 3: Let's talk about your career the next trip. We going

1625
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 3: on the size jeans you can now fit into the

1626
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 3: tiktoks that we fucking come across.

1627
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:19,640
Speaker 2: Share all the means. You want a baby girl, that

1628
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 2: nigga not not here, brut on my phone about someone

1629
01:13:24,160 --> 01:13:27,640
Speaker 2: we know. Literally, I have to do that. I'm dying that.

1630
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 2: Let's go on Instagram. Look at this bitch, what a

1631
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 2: wig awful. I'm fine with that.

1632
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,920
Speaker 3: I have removed for so many of my friends, especially

1633
01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:41,600
Speaker 3: when they choose to stay with a guy for eons.

1634
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 3: So it's where, oh, bit, you're not gonna leave him

1635
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 3: until you ready you're not gonna waste my my three

1636
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 3: minutes on that ship.

1637
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:49,600
Speaker 2: Homeboys. Due on the contrary, what.

1638
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:55,960
Speaker 4: My homeboys when they're feeling hurt, they call me about

1639
01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 4: how wacko bitch was. Okay, are almost a little too

1640
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:01,880
Speaker 4: much and it starts to become a little triggering because

1641
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, is.

1642
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 2: A nigga talking about me? Like this? Is a nigga

1643
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:06,720
Speaker 2: talking about me like this one?

1644
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 1: But also, baby, you were so into her last month.

1645
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:12,000
Speaker 2: Now she's trash.

1646
01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 4: Now she's I literally had one of my homeboys and

1647
01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:17,160
Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, this bitch I halla sex

1648
01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:20,679
Speaker 4: work her energy now And I'm like, Okay, I understand

1649
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 4: she's a bottle girl.

1650
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 2: Wow, However, your first date was a vacation that you

1651
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:30,080
Speaker 2: took her on. Yeah, what the fuck? Standard do you think?

1652
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 1: You said?

1653
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:34,560
Speaker 2: Right? A trick? I think that there is.

1654
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 3: You can definitely dump on your friends too much about

1655
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 3: your relationship, but I think as the friend instead of

1656
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 3: dubbing the calls to where now she doesn't feel hurd

1657
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:45,080
Speaker 3: or seems