1 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to a special episode of The Bobbycast. 2 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: This is before they made it big. I love these 3 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: kinds of episodes. It was super cool to compile all 4 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 1: of this because over the years, I've sat down with 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: artists who are massive stars now, but once upon a time, 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: they were just normal people trying to figure out live 7 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: whether going to college or starting a family, or playing 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: in a band in their hometown. And I've talked to 9 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: most of them six seven, eight years ago and an 10 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: inside look at what they were doing before they moved 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: to Nashville, what made them pull the trigger to actually 12 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: move to Nashville, because again, that's a big decision, and 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: then the very beginning of their careers. It's fun to 14 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,599 Speaker 1: listen to them talk about life years ago, the mindset 15 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 1: they had then. Some of these interviews are from years ago, 16 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: and some of them talking about back before they made it. 17 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: On this episode, you're gonna hear some great stories they're 18 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: in the archives of the Bobbycast. From Thomas Rhet, Dirk Spentley, 19 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: Jacob and Chris Staple, Timbrett Eldridge, John Party, Cole Swindell, 20 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: and Walker Hayes. Let's kick off the special with Chris 21 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: Stapleton talking about his days of playing football in high 22 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: school and coming to Nashville, and originally it was just 23 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: to be a songwriter. The like to look at the 24 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: pictures of the shows. It's been so crazy to watch 25 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: the growth. There's been two artists that I've seen grow 26 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: like the like I've watched this grow, this. 27 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 2: Part of you, this. 28 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: Chapter of Chris Stapleton, you and Sam and you're not 29 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 1: the same, but it's like nobody kind of came out 30 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: of nowhere, completely organic, and it's been boom songwriting first, 31 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: like paying dudes writing songs for people, like that's why, 32 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: Like that way you moved, you moved down to write 33 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: song a songwriter. 34 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 3: I thought that was that sounded like the greatest job 35 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 3: I've ever heard of, and I heard of even. 36 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 2: Though singing like you did you want to like, I 37 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 2: can go be an artist. So let's be honest. 38 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: You know, sitting in a room playing a guitar for 39 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 3: maybe three hours a day and getting paid to do 40 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 3: that is probably still the greatest job in the world. 41 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: Would you rather sit in a room and write a 42 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 2: great song with one of your songwriter buddies or play 43 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: on stage for fifty thousand people. 44 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 3: I like to play, so that that's hard to say. 45 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 3: But I like to write a good song too. But 46 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 3: you know, at this point, I probably have to pick 47 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 3: playing because I like playing. I like playing a whole lot. 48 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: Do you ever get to where I'm getting kind of 49 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: tired of playing? I just kind of want to write 50 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: songs for a few months. 51 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 3: No, No, I mean certainly, if you're if you're not 52 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 3: feeling one hundred percent, if you're sick, you know, there's 53 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 3: times I'm sure you get out there, not sleeping and 54 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 3: working nine days a week where you're just like, you know, 55 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 3: I wish I could just, you know, chill out just 56 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 3: a minute. But the fear will keep you going. 57 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: The fear. That's why I have fear. 58 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 1: I'm terrified that I feel like, and I don't know 59 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: if you feel this way, because I'm obviously nuts, but 60 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I've been committing crimes for a long time, 61 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: and eventually the cops are gonna catch me, and when 62 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 1: they do, my career is over because they're if they've 63 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: got me, or everyone's going to figure out that I'm 64 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: not even some imposter syndrome, you. 65 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 3: Feel like, absolutely, I think I think a lot of 66 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 3: people feel that. Not a lot of people will verbalize it, 67 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 3: you know. But I had somebody that uh and I 68 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 3: won't say his name, but uh, you know it was. 69 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: A hero of mine. You have that very thing. 70 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 3: He's like, I'm just waiting for everybody to figure you know, 71 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 3: figured out, and I'm just like, I was just like, 72 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 3: even you feel that way. 73 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, all right, do you feel that way? Oh? 74 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 3: Sure, everybody you know to some degree, nobody you know. 75 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 3: But then you know the flip side of the corner. 76 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: I used to say to people when even when you 77 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: walking to meet somebody, hey you doing man, and be like, oh, 78 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 3: I'm far better than I deserve. 79 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 2: I used to say that the people. 80 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 3: And then I had I met somebody and then and 81 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 3: they were walking up on the bus and there was 82 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: another artist and he said, uh, he said, well me too, 83 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 3: But do you know, maybe we all deserve great things? 84 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 3: And it really made me. It took me back for 85 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 3: a minute, and I was just like, wow, that's uh okay, 86 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: maybe we did, and maybe that makes it okay, you know, 87 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 3: like maybe that can make the fear go away a 88 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 3: little bit if you if you just think that we 89 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 3: all probably deserve great things. You know, not all of 90 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 3: us get it, but I think everybody certainly deserves it. 91 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 2: Do you get in your own head a lot? 92 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 4: You feel like. 93 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 3: I can in a moment, And yeah, I get in 94 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 3: my own head quite a bit. That's probably why I 95 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 3: don't talk that much. 96 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: What's your fear getting in your own head of talking? 97 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: H Like, what's the worst that could happen in your mind? 98 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 2: What you say? 99 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to get in my own head, 100 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: So that's why I don't. 101 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 3: I might get in my own head on stage. Sometimes 102 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 3: that's the worst place for it to happen to me, 103 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 3: you know, like maybe I don't like how something sounding, 104 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 3: or I don't like the way guitar feels at the moment, 105 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 3: you know, or it's you know, any little thing that 106 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 3: can happen, you know, is the danger for me to 107 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 3: go completely off the edge and just like not be 108 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 3: able to dig myself out of that moment. It's bad 109 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: when I go down, but I try to avoid it. 110 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: Will you go down like that? Because I'll go down 111 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 3: like that absolutely, and it can ruin my whole day 112 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 3: and everybody else's whole day. So I try to be 113 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 3: conscious of it and not do it for. 114 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: Me my co host Amy can you can notice that 115 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: and she's the one that goes boom and she'll try 116 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: to pull me out of it. 117 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: Is that what Morgan does for you? Absolutely? 118 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: Absolutely, because she can see it sometimes or she can 119 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: see it happening when maybe. 120 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 2: You can't, or you're just starting. Absolutely, Yeah, same thing, 121 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: just delevery slow because part of the creative part of 122 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 2: you needs to be in that space. Well, yeah, you've 123 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 2: got to be on the edge. You just can't fall 124 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 2: off of it. Do you feel like sometimes you don't 125 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 2: want to fix yourself because you'll lose your edge. Do 126 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 2: you ever have that thought? I'm not till now, never 127 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 2: mind scratch that, because that's something I'll be like, I 128 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 2: don't know if I should get better because I'll lose it. 129 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 3: No, you know I used to think those kind of things, 130 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 3: but I always feel like there's room for improvement and 131 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 3: and if something's making your your overall health or life better, 132 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 3: it's not necessarily it's not losing your edge, you know, 133 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 3: I feel like those things. 134 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: It's not losing edge. It's just it's making making you sharper. 135 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: You finish the show, you come off stage, what's the 136 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: what's the first thing you do finish the show. 137 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, I thank all the local crew guys for for 138 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 3: the work, and a lot of times my wife is 139 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 3: retired for the evening before the encore. 140 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 2: Is over, so. 141 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 3: I'll go find out where she is if she needs anything, 142 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: and then I'll probably why not hang with the band 143 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 3: guys for a few minutes in the dressing room and 144 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 3: then hit the bus and I'll be up till two 145 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,679 Speaker 3: three in the morning watching Face Off. 146 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 2: For the eightieth time for the eightieth time. 147 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: Do you go back and listen to shows like your 148 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: live shows and then criticize or love on yourself. 149 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 3: No, not, No, I try not to. I mean, we 150 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 3: do record now, and we have a pretty elaborate recording rig. 151 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 3: We basically, you know, have as much of that kind 152 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: of stuff as we can have out there for cataloging, 153 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: and we're trying to put together some live things. But 154 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: it's a real uh, well, that microscope is tough, you know, 155 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 3: on live shows, you know, because there's so much other 156 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 3: external things going on. You know that sometimes you can 157 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: be too hard on yourself, so you have to really 158 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 3: listen to it with a different set of ears, and 159 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: maybe you would listen to something you're really picking on 160 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 3: in the studio. 161 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: So, well, you look at a crowd, and when you 162 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: look at a crowd, will you focus on the people 163 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: that are having a great time or you see the 164 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: one that's. 165 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 3: Like anybody that spending my show just knows that I 166 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 3: don't look at the crowd a whole lot, because that 167 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 3: a little bit can break focus for me. Like I'll 168 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 3: look at the crowd when I'm not playing and I'll 169 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: try to interact with them in that way. But if 170 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 3: I do look out there and I see somebody not 171 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 3: having a good time, it can do that thing and 172 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 3: we're talking about or if I see somebody having too 173 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 3: good of a time, it will make me smile, it 174 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: will make me too happy, and I forget what I'm doing. 175 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 3: So I'm I'm very add that way, So I have 176 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 3: to be real careful about, you know, eye contact. I 177 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 3: do a very controlled version of it for myself, just 178 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: to try to and make sure I don't lose focus 179 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 3: of what I'm doing in the circle of everybody in 180 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: the band. 181 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, I didn't know that because I do. 182 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: I've seen you play a bunch and you do kind 183 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: of keep down a bit when you play. 184 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here, yeahside the circle, like. 185 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 2: Somebody can see me over the radio or whatever this is. 186 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 3: And but I'm I'm very much in the guitar and 187 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 3: I'm in my singing, and I'm in with the rest 188 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 3: of the band. That's where that's where the stuff's happening. 189 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 3: And when that's not going on, then the interaction happens 190 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 3: a little bit more in the crowd. Maybe if I 191 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 3: take a solo off step out front just for a minute, 192 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 3: and we can give a little plants here in there. 193 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 3: But for the most part, I try to keep there's 194 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 3: this like a little circle happening on stage no matter 195 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 3: what we're playing that I'm trying to stay in that circle. 196 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: That circle too is important to you. Oh yeah, the 197 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: people in that circle. Absolutely, they're the same people on 198 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: the record. Absolutely Why they's so important to you? 199 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 3: None of we wouldn't be sitting here talking if it 200 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 3: wasn't for the people in that circle. You know, none 201 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 3: of this would be what it is, and none of 202 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 3: it would be happening at all if it weren't for 203 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 3: the people in that circle. 204 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 2: You really care about it, huh, oh yeah, absolutely. 205 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 4: Can it? 206 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: Try as I can tell you, I feel like with me, 207 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm as good as the people around me are. Like 208 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: I try, I surromise. The people made me. 209 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 3: Better, right, And that's that's one of the best things 210 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,199 Speaker 3: you can do if you want to be better, surround 211 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 3: yourself with the best people you can find and whatever. 212 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 3: And that extends into you know, when we're on the 213 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 3: road with a pretty what I will consider a good 214 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 3: sized crew, and everybody in that crew is that for us. 215 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 3: And I think that's the key to putting on a 216 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: successful tours is you get the absolute best people to 217 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 3: work with you. 218 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 2: Can find at all times. 219 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: And uh, there's four on stage, but the four on stage, Yeah, that's. 220 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's that's the fist for you. 221 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 4: That's you. 222 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the type like right there, those four. I 223 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: mean it sounds like ten, but it's you four. 224 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, that's that's the you know. 225 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 3: And then you know, Dave Cobbs in there when he 226 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 3: wants to be in there, and uh, you know, Micky 227 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 3: rolfe Els in there when he has meant to be. 228 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: In there, and Dave go wherever he wants to be 229 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 2: whenever he wants to be like. 230 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 3: That dude, But interpically, Dave likes the show up for 231 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 3: things that are really easy travel or very high profile. 232 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 3: Those those are days too. He'll he'll tell you as 233 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: much he likes you know, those the best things to 234 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: go to. You know, this is the easiest things to 235 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 3: go to. So uh oh, let me talk about Blue 236 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 3: Egg all right? So all right, let's let's switch. 237 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 2: It up a bit. 238 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: Uh You you played for Tom Petty, you get to 239 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: play it wriglely with Tom Petty. 240 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 2: Yes. 241 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: I don't know anyone who loves music, you know, just 242 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: genre less music that didn't love Tom Petty. 243 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 3: If you don't love Tom Petty, I don't know what's 244 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 3: the matter with you? 245 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 2: Ready to go. 246 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 3: Seek some kind of help. It's you know, if you 247 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 3: can't find something in some of Tom Petty's music that 248 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 3: you like, I worry about you a little bit. 249 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: When you're when you're playing before Tom with Tom, did 250 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: you take a second and like take. 251 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 2: It in when you're on stage? 252 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 3: Absolutely, you're well, first of all, we're at wrigley Field. 253 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 3: The first first show we played with him was at 254 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 3: wrigley Field, And so that alone would be enough to 255 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 3: be like, hey, we're playing a wrigley Field. But then 256 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 3: you add to the fact that we're there with Tom 257 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: Petty and the harb Wreckers. It's you know, that's you know, 258 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 3: if you told seventeen year old me that that was 259 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 3: going down, my head would blow up. And it still 260 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 3: felt that way a whole lot. You know, Seventeen year 261 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 3: old me showed up that day it was like really yeah. 262 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 3: I was just like, yeah, Wrigley Field with Tom Petty 263 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 3: sounds great. 264 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 2: You still get excited? Yeah, oh yeah. Yeah. 265 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 3: Every night it's a new thing, you know, because you know, 266 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 3: we don't run tracks, we don't do any that kind 267 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 3: of stuff. So every night anything can happen. 268 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: Which is crazy because again it's for the most part, 269 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 2: it's four people on stage. Yes, and you don't run tracks. 270 00:12:58,880 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 271 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 5: It sounds like ten people up there. Well, we're just 272 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 5: playing your dad can and you and you're playing the 273 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 5: lead I am, and you're singing. I watch it and 274 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 5: I'm just like, okay. 275 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 4: Are you are you harsh on? 276 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: Let's say you're doing a solo, Well you pick a part, 277 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,319 Speaker 1: We're like, oh man, I really I really screwed that up. 278 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 3: Well I'm gonna screw this. Let's just get one thing 279 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 3: out of the way. I'm gonna screw up a solo 280 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 3: at some point in a show, and probably two or 281 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 3: three solos in the show. But hey, it's that way, 282 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 3: you know, it's live, and I've I've learned to just 283 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 3: laugh it all a little bit, you know, and then 284 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 3: and then see if I can find my way back home, 285 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 3: you know. 286 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 2: So it's Soloing is a very new thing to me. Really. 287 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 3: It's really only something I started doing pretty much right 288 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 3: before the Travel record because I had two guys in 289 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 3: the band quit and it got down to me and 290 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 3: JT and Derek and we had we had. 291 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 2: Three gigs that weekend. I was like, hey, you think 292 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 2: we can cover this. They're like, I don't know that. 293 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: You have a bass player and a drummer. You really don't 294 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: have many options. Except it was out of. 295 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 3: Necessity that that I started doing that, and I was like, well, 296 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 3: maybe I uncover it, maybe I'll figure something out, and 297 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 3: then you know, from there, I've learned to forgive myself 298 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 3: my shortcomings as a guitar player and just you know, 299 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 3: enjoy it, because I do enjoy playing guitar. 300 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 2: I really do. 301 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 3: It's probably as much as I enjoyed saying I enjoy it, 302 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 3: and so you know, maybe someday I'll wake up and 303 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 3: be a real boy, you know, like be a real 304 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 3: guitar player. 305 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: You know, whenever you hurt yourself, you just didn't want 306 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: to sing, You don't want anybody to come in? Was 307 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: that a like a when you hurt your hand, you 308 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: didn't want to not be able to do both? 309 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 3: Well, So much of our show is, like I said, 310 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 3: we don't run tracks. There's not a roadmap necessarily for 311 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: what we do. A lot of it is very much 312 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 3: something we've developed over time of I'm gonna do this here, 313 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 3: and you know, and like Derek, A feel things coming 314 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 3: when I'm playing that he can catch. And so much 315 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 3: of our show is that if I can't play, we 316 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 3: can't do a show because nobody coming in is going 317 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 3: to have that you know, understanding of the musicianship within 318 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 3: the circle of the piece. It's not gonna work. It's 319 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 3: gonna be something different. And I feel like that's selling 320 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 3: a little short and I don't like that. 321 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 2: When you had to cancel the shows, that sucked for 322 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 2: you that. 323 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, well it sucked worse for the people that had 324 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 3: tickets and plans than it did for me. You know, 325 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 3: I had to deal with. You know, it's still a 326 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 3: little aggravating to deal with, but you know, I felt 327 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 3: worse about the people that I was inconvinced than anything 328 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 3: I was having to go through. So it'd be fine, 329 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 3: what's up with. 330 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 2: These the Eagles. That's that's pretty freaking cool. That is cool. 331 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: I'll say that, be proud. It's pretty freaking cool. Yeah, man, 332 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 2: it's it was Eagles with Vince Gill. 333 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 3: So it's just like, yeah, you know, I'm I was 334 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 3: trying to talk to somebody the other day. 335 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: You know, I paid, I. 336 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 3: Saved up my money and when the hell is over 337 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 3: to it was out and I bought me a ticket, 338 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 3: my brother a ticket, and we would fourth throw up 339 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 3: in Charleston, West Virginia, and they played for four hours, 340 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 3: and to this day it's one of the greatest shows. 341 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: I've been to. So they played for four hours. 342 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: They played for four hours, They played us to the 343 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 3: Eagles for like two hours, and then the Eagles became 344 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 3: the house bands, so to speak, and they played everybody's solo. 345 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 4: So, like Henley when did. 346 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 3: Anything you can think of, yeah, that was solo stuff. 347 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 3: So that you got the Eagles and all their solo stuff. 348 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: Did you watch the documentary on CNN that like the 349 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: Eagles multi part document you ever see that, No, that's it. 350 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 6: That's the first of all. It was like a hundred 351 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 6: hours and way better than Face Off. So it covers 352 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 6: like it's a on Direct TV. On the bus is 353 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 6: probably not on Direct TV. Okay, well that's on my 354 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 6: own entertainment. I don't have TV at home. 355 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 1: Here's Derek Spentley on driving to Nashville with his dad 356 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 1: and how he had to learn to balance life on 357 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: the road and being a new dad back in the day. 358 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 1: You mentioned a minute ago in two thousand and eight 359 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: when you say your career is stalled. M M nine, Yeah, 360 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: eight or nine, because right now we see you as 361 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: the guy who has You're now in the A it's 362 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: hard to get in the A group. 363 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 2: You're in the A group. You're now in the A group. 364 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: I think you're a recent addition, just speaking frankly to 365 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: the your regional edition to the A group. Yeah, B 366 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 1: plus maybe you're you really are in the I would 367 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: tell you if you weren't plus plus. 368 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 2: You're in the U. 369 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 1: You're in the You're in the like you're in that 370 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 1: mix of is he going to be in the Entertainment 371 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: of Year category. Now it's not He's for sure going 372 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: to be nominated, Like you know Luke is going to 373 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 1: be nominated, Yeah, and probably gonna win yeh. 374 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 2: And he didn't win ACML, Dean did. 375 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 1: But like you know, Luke's gonna be But you're on 376 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: that is he going to be in and it's happened 377 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: in the last couple of years. But it's but you're 378 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 1: like the consumate grinder. Yeah, I've used that word a lot. 379 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 7: It's like the hockey player that goes down there and 380 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 7: not the slap shot guy from out top, not the 381 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 7: fancy ford that's getting the sweet goals with the guy 382 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 7: that goes down in the corner and digs the pucks out. 383 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 1: You know. 384 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 7: It's probably that's when I play hockey here in town 385 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 7: in my little league at the Beer League. That's kind 386 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 7: of my role in real life on that hockey team, 387 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 7: and I think in my career, yeah, it's all about 388 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 7: well grinding. My favorite quote is was written on a 389 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 7: It was the Calvin Coolest quote. But it's about you know, 390 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 7: persistence and determination. It's you know, education and talent and 391 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 7: genius can't take the place of persistence and determination. That 392 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 7: is the key to my success for sure, and I 393 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 7: know probably for yours as well. I mean, there's no 394 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 7: reason why I should be a country singer or a pilot, 395 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 7: but you know, those are just things that I wanted 396 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 7: to do. And if you work harder than anyone else, 397 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 7: you got a better chance of making that happen. 398 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: What what happened in two thousand and eight, two thousand 399 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: and nine, and your mind, where do you. 400 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 2: Take a step back? 401 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 7: You know, I went out on the road with I 402 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 7: played a thousand dates on my own. I went out 403 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,239 Speaker 7: of the road with Kenny, and then I went out 404 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 7: of the road towards straight and I went back on 405 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,879 Speaker 7: the road with Kenny. And that's usually that's usually the 406 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 7: platform to jump off of. You know, that's where urban 407 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 7: flats everyone went through Kenny back when those when we 408 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 7: were starting off. And if you got the Kenny gig boom, 409 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 7: you were a couple years in New you be headlining 410 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 7: on your own, and you know, we were really looking 411 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 7: like a two thousand and eight. We'd be bringing out 412 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 7: some video and it's gonna be this kind of the 413 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 7: ground swell, and really, uh, it's for you know, it's 414 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 7: just the songs weren't there. That's what it comes down to. 415 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 7: I was writing pretty much all my own songs, working 416 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 7: love with some friends mind here in town. And and 417 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,120 Speaker 7: it's not their fault either, it's it's it's nobody's fault. 418 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: I'm so happy that things are where they are. But 419 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 2: I think I discovered you can't tour. 420 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 7: I think I was in my mind, I was trying 421 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 7: to make albums that would be jet fuel for the 422 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 7: for touring, like how can this album, how can this 423 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 7: song lead to headlining? And that's and you know, I need, 424 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 7: I need the song help me get there. And that's 425 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 7: just a terrible way to make records. And nothing against 426 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,360 Speaker 7: those records. Those records still sound like some are still 427 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 7: some of my favorite signing records, but as far as 428 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 7: singles go and songs are going to move the needle, 429 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 7: and really, uh you know, and I feel like I 430 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 7: just needed to reset. I don't know, I just I 431 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 7: was you can only work so hard, man. I was 432 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 7: working so hard on the road, touring NonStop, you know, 433 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 7: jumping off stage, I'm stage diving, I'm pulling fans up. 434 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 7: I'm just you know, known as the hard working men 435 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 7: in country music, we did like forty one shows. 436 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 2: In forty five days one time. 437 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 7: I mean, I'm out there all the time, and I'm 438 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 7: trying to rush back here and make records and go 439 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 7: back out there again. 440 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 2: It just it just doesn't It just doesn't work that way. 441 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,159 Speaker 7: So I was on the road in two thousand and 442 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 7: eight or nine with Paisley and except I tried my 443 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 7: headlining thing, it just wasn't working. So it was like, okay, 444 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 7: retreat Brad was I had a chance to go with 445 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 7: Brad and it was on that tour and I was 446 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,159 Speaker 7: opening for him, and there's a lot going on that tour. 447 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 7: Weren't really getting a chance to sound check, and there's 448 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 7: just the vibe of my band just as it was 449 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 7: kind of the tour that just everyone just like, you know, 450 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 7: we're just only playing for forty five minutes, and it's 451 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 7: just the songs weren't really there. And I just was 452 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 7: like in the back of my bus one day and 453 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 7: I remember thinking, I'm gonna make a bluegrass record. I'm 454 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 7: wanna make a blue grass record and a country record, 455 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 7: and just I need to get creative. That's what I 456 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 7: kept thinking, is I need to get creative, because when 457 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 7: you're you're in that opening slot, especially after you've headlined 458 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 7: for a little while, it's techic go back and just 459 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 7: do forty five minutes of the same show every night. 460 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 7: You know, you're trying to make the most of that 461 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 7: forty five minutes, so you kind of get locked into 462 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 7: doing the same show. 463 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 2: And it just killed all of us. 464 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 7: So I left and made ended up making just just 465 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 7: a bluegrass record, and uh it really and I went 466 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,679 Speaker 7: back in the process of making that, being off the 467 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 7: grid and not worrying about singles or touring or anything, 468 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 7: just trying to make a great record that stood alone 469 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 7: by itself and existed just for for itself totally rechanged 470 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 7: my thinking. And you know, I still looking around people 471 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 7: like Miranda Lambert and you know she only writes half 472 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 7: an album, if even that, you know, and Lady A 473 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 7: and these people at the time were like, you know, 474 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 7: they're collecting great songs. You know, they came to realize 475 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 7: that after your second album, you can't write an entire 476 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 7: album just there's no time. You're touring all the time. 477 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 7: You saw some man of the responsibilities I had. I 478 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 7: was married at this point, as kids too, So the 479 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 7: blue grass record, you know, I was working with the 480 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 7: guy m John Randall one of my best friends, and 481 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 7: he was bringing me great songs from Christopherson and Buddy 482 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 7: Miller and just we started making a collection of an 483 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 7: album that had my input but also had songs that 484 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 7: kind of rounded out what I was trying to say 485 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 7: or the field the album. 486 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 2: And I carry that on with working with. 487 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 7: Ross Kapperman into the next couple of albums and uh, 488 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 7: really trying to make albums that don't worry about touring, 489 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 7: do worry about anything. 490 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 2: Who cares? Just make a great record. 491 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 7: And one of the great things now I don't have 492 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 7: an A lister, but who are am in my career 493 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 7: is there's the better off you are doing touring and 494 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 7: the more of you you have those fans, more freedom 495 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 7: you have to say, who cares, Let's make the record 496 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 7: you really want to make. I feel like that's why 497 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 7: Keith is making like his best records, Keith Thurman's records 498 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 7: me just get better and better each time because I 499 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 7: feel like he's even more like I don't care. I'm 500 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,880 Speaker 7: gonna make great music that makes me happy that I 501 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 7: like and hopefully you like it too. But there's no 502 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 7: there's no math behind it. You know, it's just totally. 503 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 7: It's pure art and he didn't have to worry about 504 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 7: where he's gonna get his next meal. You know, he's 505 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 7: just making great records. And I feel like there's on 506 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,959 Speaker 7: both ends of the spectrum. When you're first starting off 507 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 7: and you're so hungry, and then when you get to 508 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 7: place you have a little bit of success and you 509 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 7: have that freedom that it brings. 510 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 2: To you, you can really make your best records. And I 511 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 2: feel like that's what's happening now. I'm not sure to 512 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 2: I answer your question, but yeah, you and Keith get 513 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: along pretty well. 514 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 7: I love him man too. It's hard for me to 515 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:35,959 Speaker 7: be friends with them because I just have so much 516 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 7: respect for him. It's like we're good friends, but at 517 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 7: the same time, like you're Keith Urban. 518 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: It's almost it's almost like why do you This is 519 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: the feeling I have with him because him and I 520 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: are closer than him than. 521 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: Me and other arms. 522 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's one of the guys I like when 523 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: we'll talk to off the show. But it's like what 524 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: I was, like, why do you want to be friends 525 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: with me? He like, you're so smart, yeah, and he's 526 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: so talented and you're so rich, like everything about you 527 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 1: is way better than why would you want to be 528 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 1: friends with me? 529 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 4: That's how I feel with him. 530 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,159 Speaker 2: He is for me. 531 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 7: He's like a he's like a beacon. He's someone I 532 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 7: look up to for advice on just for for lifestyle 533 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 7: and management and how you approach things. And he's just 534 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 7: he's so present, which is something I always you know, 535 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 7: that's my main thing with anything I do is trying 536 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 7: to be as present as possible in the moment that 537 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 7: I'm in. 538 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,679 Speaker 2: And he really is a true reflection of that. 539 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 7: I mean when when you speak to him, and you 540 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 7: talk to him, he's so focused on what you have 541 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 7: to say. He's listening, and uh, it's very uncommon in 542 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 7: this business full you know, singers and people are trying 543 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 7: to look at me and you know are have like 544 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 7: five seconds look into your eyes and they're kind of 545 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 7: thinking about the next thing. He's just really focused and 546 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 7: present and has great advice and he's been through a lot, 547 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 7: so he can offer a good good gems. But whenever 548 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 7: I see him a choosing on a Sunday, uh and 549 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 7: we're doing some with our kids or something, and I'm 550 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 7: like coming off the road and just beat up my brain. 551 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 7: His brains are aready functioning faster than mind. Anyway, I'm 552 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 7: coming off like no sleep, I'm tired. I'm trying to 553 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,439 Speaker 7: make conversation with him, like hopefully I see you one day, 554 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 7: and I'm not like just so exhausted because it'd be 555 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 7: fun to. 556 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 2: Talk, like have an actual real conversation. 557 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 8: Hang tight, the Bobby Cast will be right back. Wow, 558 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 8: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 559 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 4: What was that for you? 560 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: What was the song that were you kind of switched 561 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 1: it up for You're like, oh boy, we're a different 562 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: plant Field now. 563 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 7: As man, I think my career has been so different 564 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 7: than anyone else's. I know it's it's just been so 565 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,679 Speaker 7: such a long slow. 566 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 2: What comes to mind where you're like, I'll be talking 567 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 2: a plane changed a lot for me. I'm getting drunk 568 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,959 Speaker 2: on playing. I mean the biggest song, this song had 569 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 2: a big like body. 570 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 7: The most important song of my whole career, and I 571 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 7: say every night when I'm on stage is as I 572 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 7: Hold On. That's a song that like connects the most 573 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 7: of the whole most personal song for me. I wrote 574 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,360 Speaker 7: a rap my I passed away and the audience, man, 575 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 7: those it's a song in the show where like we're 576 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 7: having a party. 577 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 2: Thing's fun. It's awesome. 578 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 7: We're all fully connect because we're all having so much 579 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,640 Speaker 7: fun and throwing a party. In this song I play, 580 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,719 Speaker 7: it's just like it loses in a different direction. It's 581 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 7: it's it's more just like this instead of this. It's 582 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 7: like we just come together over the let's share sentiment 583 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 7: of the whole amount of things that mean something to you, 584 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 7: and it's it's more important song. 585 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: The important, but not the one you felt flipped you like, 586 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: oh boy, this is it. I remember the day drunk 587 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: on a playing like I heard of at the first time. Yeah, 588 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 1: you brought it into the studio. I hadn't been played yet, 589 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: and you were like, I want you to hear this song. 590 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: I was like, this is a real song, drunk on 591 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: a playing. I thought you were messing with me. Yeah, 592 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 1: And I almost didn't even put it on the record. Really, 593 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: who makes that call then to put it on the record. 594 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 7: Just you know, I'm so everyone I work with there's 595 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 7: such an open communication. 596 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 2: If I like even the label. 597 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 7: With Mike and sending everyone to Capital, If if I 598 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 7: have doubts about something, they don't immediately jump on that 599 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 7: new set to promote their agenda. Everyone just just like cooling, 600 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 7: work out together and work with Mary and we just 601 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,479 Speaker 7: kind of like and our tour and my executive producer 602 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 7: and Ross and just okay, let's put it on there, 603 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 7: you know. 604 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 1: But then they make it a single you're talking about 605 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 1: like completely left of center. 606 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 2: I know. 607 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,919 Speaker 7: I remember I had some people like that's all will 608 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 7: never worked. Man, Red necks don't fly like I don't know. 609 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 7: I don't know if it will work either, but it's 610 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 7: it's I'm a pilot and I love you know. At 611 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 7: the time, it was a few drinks and it was 612 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 7: it was. But it is a huge song for me, 613 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 7: for sure. 614 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 1: It was a month it was. It was a monster. Yeah, 615 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: and then it flew up the charts. Yeah, it was big. 616 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 1: I remember the day it came on the radio. We 617 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 1: did a debut, like a world premire of it, and 618 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: it played all day long. And I won't say what 619 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,959 Speaker 1: it is, but I was like, man, this sounds really good, right, 620 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,360 Speaker 1: because I like things that are different. Yeah, I don't care. 621 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: I like taking big chances and hitting home runs more 622 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: so than being consistent and just you know, having that 623 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: three hundred bating average. 624 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 625 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: So it came out I was like, man, I love 626 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: this song because this is sound like anything else, and 627 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,400 Speaker 1: that one of our radio guys, with a big radio guy, 628 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: he was like, this sucks. 629 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,199 Speaker 2: Sucks, We're gonna work. It's too weird. No, it's not. 630 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 1: Obviously it wasn't right because but like I love this song. 631 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,160 Speaker 1: You know a song I loved yours it didn't work 632 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: for you was Bourbon in Kentucky. Yeah, well you and Casey. 633 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 1: I loved that song too. 634 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 7: That album cycle is so funny because I put up 635 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 7: Bourbon it didn't work, pulled it back, put out I 636 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 7: Hold On, which probably you know, was a huge songf 637 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 7: for me, then Drunk on a Plane, which was obviously 638 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,920 Speaker 7: the biggest song off that album. But Bourbon, it was 639 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 7: a great song that Hillary Lindsay wrote, and I just 640 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 7: I love that song. And I had to call her up. 641 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 7: She's down Orange Beach. She had a few drinks and 642 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 7: I was like hey, She's like, hey, what are you doing. 643 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 7: I was like, you're not gonna believe this, but we're 644 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 7: pulling that song and she was like so confused. She's 645 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 7: just like I thought the next time I heard from 646 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 7: me would be like the number one party. I'm like 647 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 7: I've never had a pull song for my life. But 648 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 7: it's the middle of summer and I'm getting all his 649 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 7: feedback that the song's too dark, and that's why I 650 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 7: loved it, though I know, I mean, I know I 651 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 7: love it too, and I just everyone's everyone around. He 652 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,479 Speaker 7: was like, it's just not gonna work, and you can 653 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 7: either work it for thirty weeks and have it die 654 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 7: in the thirties or make a change now. It was 655 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 7: the first song off the record, and I hate that. 656 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 7: It was a great tune, but yeah, just that's what 657 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 7: happens sometimes. 658 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: What for you, because the artists will come in and say, hey, 659 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: this is like, for example, I think, who was it? 660 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: My American kids like Kenny cut a little big town 661 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: had it yeah, and Kenny cut it yeah, and so. 662 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 2: No, no, Kenny had it. Wait, yeah, a little bit 663 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 2: down had it. Yeah, a little bit down had it. Yeah. 664 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 1: Shane was telling the story. Okay, now it's all sorts 665 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 1: of yeah, a little Shane had it. He's on a 666 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: flight and uh, he's on a flight with Kennedy. He 667 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: plays his song for Kken. He's like, I gotta have 668 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:42,959 Speaker 1: the song. But Shane's like, I'm too scared to tell 669 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: him a little bit now I's already cut it. Yeah, 670 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 1: so he has to call they have to call a 671 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 1: little big down and Kenny said like, I would love 672 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 1: to have this song. And Shane's like oh, and Kenny's like, 673 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 1: I want to make this the single. Oh yeah, and 674 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: He's like, it's up to you, guys, it's your song. 675 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: You've already started paying your your tracking it. And so 676 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: a little big town gave this song American Kids to Kenny. 677 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 678 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: So a lot of people come to the stories like, man, 679 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: I had this song and then I was like, yeah, 680 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: last minute, I let it go. 681 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 7: I have a bunch of songs that like I heard 682 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 7: and I because the main thing if you're picking singles 683 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 7: you got to pick are picking songs. You gotta pick 684 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 7: songs that are hits, but also their hits for you, 685 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 7: and that's that's that's how you get the big hits 686 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 7: out of the park. 687 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 2: And I hit three hundreds. 688 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 7: When you pick singles that are like made for you, 689 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 7: you think of songs like Don't Close your Eyes by 690 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 7: Keith Whitley, songs that like We're just as a singer 691 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 7: was made for that song, John Party song during my Boots. 692 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 2: I heard that song. I think before he you know, 693 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 2: before he cut. 694 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:36,719 Speaker 1: It, and what did you think when you heard it? 695 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 2: Huge hit? This is a monster, This is a huge song. 696 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 2: There's a line there about. 697 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 7: A tractor, you know, and I was like that, I 698 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 7: don't have that tractor factor. 699 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 2: You know, I don't have that thing. It's not what 700 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 2: I do. So, like, I could either try to change 701 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 2: this song up to make it work for me, or 702 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 2: just let it go and help those guys, you know. 703 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 2: I don't want the songwriters. 704 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 7: I want them to find for songwriters, man, they might 705 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 7: get one or two great Oh these guys, they probably 706 00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 7: get five great songs. 707 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: Right. 708 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 7: I don't want to stand away someone's like baby and 709 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 7: tied up, because that's the way Nashville used to be. 710 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 7: People to hold songs like yours, you know, hold thirty 711 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 7: forty songs to the record, and the hold was respected 712 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 7: nowadays as it should be. It's not like you either 713 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 7: cut it or you don't. And if you're you're you're 714 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 7: taking your time. I'm gonna pictck it to somebody else 715 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 7: and get them to cut it. 716 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: You know. 717 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 2: Songwriters have more power now, I think than they did 718 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 2: back in the late nineties. 719 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 7: But so that song Whiskey Lullaby is a song that 720 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 7: came that I oh, that's a good herd and I 721 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 7: was like, ah, and then and why why not that one? 722 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 9: What? 723 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 2: What? 724 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 4: What? That? 725 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 7: It's just uh, I don't know just what, you know. 726 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 7: I didn't hear it as a duet that the way 727 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 7: Brad heard it, which is genius. 728 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 2: It just wasn't. I don't know. I just didn't have it, 729 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 2: didn't do it, didn't do something for me. I don't 730 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 2: know what it was. 731 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 7: But there's that happens all the time, but for me, 732 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 7: it's there. I ever go, oh my gosh, I'm kicking myself. 733 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 7: I'm always like, I'm happy for that that song found 734 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 7: the right home and made its way. 735 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 2: There's there's always another song out there. 736 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: Who have you heard the opposite where you got this long? 737 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: Because somebody else was like, and you made it a 738 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 1: hit and they have to be well, man, you know, 739 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: somewher on the Beach was a big deal. 740 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 2: It really was. 741 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 10: Man. 742 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 2: That was like, uh, yeah, I. 743 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 7: Had this song on hold. And there's five guys who 744 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 7: wrote that song. And there's a lot of people wanted 745 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 7: that song, and I just who wanted it wrote One 746 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 7: of those the writers of the song. I'm totally drawing 747 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 7: a blank right now. My brain is what happens when 748 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 7: you're on the road for three days straight. But well, actually, 749 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 7: Michael Knox, I think I think Michael Knox wanted it 750 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 7: for one of his artists of what it was, and 751 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 7: we kept saying, you know, our tour. I luckily I 752 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 7: don't to fight those battles. My one of my producers 753 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 7: really goes in the trenches for that stuff and it 754 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 7: worked out as a big hit for for me and 755 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 7: it helps him go on the road and kind of 756 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 7: have a song and talk about But at the same time, 757 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 7: I know it's to be tough. 758 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 2: When you're a new artist. 759 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 7: You know, a big song that that's different you can 760 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 7: kind of set you apart from other people. 761 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 2: But I hopefully they're happy it was a big hit. 762 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 2: You know. 763 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 4: It's like Lady A you know, Lady has You Look good? Notice. 764 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, And that was Thomas Rhetts first. That's his song, 765 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: and it was he didn't write it, he had it 766 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: okay and he was like he was gonna cut it huge. 767 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: It's awesome the whole I mean and the whole. But 768 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 1: every artist does different things with it too. Yes, that's 769 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: what we don't know too, Like, yeah, what are you 770 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 1: gonna do different about? Like Kenny's totally was like this 771 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: beach vibe. Who knows how Little Big Tow went cut 772 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: it and tracked it when what they would have had 773 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: as a part of. 774 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 7: This song, and it's it's yeah, totally, it's you know, 775 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 7: I think all you can do. I mean, it's just 776 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 7: the business we're in and in life in general, is 777 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,719 Speaker 7: you have to like you cannot like hold like that 778 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 7: you could. You got to be have an attitude of 779 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 7: gratitude and be thankful for what you got. And if 780 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 7: something it's all meant to be, it's it's it's there's 781 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 7: a reason why you didn't cut that song. There's just 782 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 7: wanted someone else to cut the song. And otherwise you're 783 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 7: gonna drive yourself crazy and you're gonna be resentful and you're 784 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,320 Speaker 7: gonna be you're you're playing a small game and you 785 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 7: should be playing a much bigger game where you're looking 786 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 7: at a macro view of it, not just this micro. 787 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 2: Like song song, song, song song. If you're you know, 788 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 2: that's not that's not the work. 789 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: Jake Cohen says he owes his career and where he 790 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 1: is today to the Nashville songwriters that he met real 791 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 1: early on. Because here, I'll tell you, I was talking 792 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 1: to Ross Kapperman and good Man. 793 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 4: We were talking about you know, we had a. 794 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: Really good talk and he's coming to the stand up 795 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 1: show Saturday. Just talked to him and we were you know, 796 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:17,959 Speaker 1: you kind of get lost in these conversations and didn't 797 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: feel like this microphone in front of you. 798 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 2: For a while. 799 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,760 Speaker 1: And we're talking about songs, and I'm just so interested 800 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 1: in the songwriter part of it for me, Like that's 801 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 1: why I started this thing. Were like, I'm interested in 802 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: songwriters and why they write songs, artists, artist or songwriter, 803 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: songwriter a song I just wanted to know, Like I 804 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: want to put some light in a place that really 805 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: there's not a lot of lights shined on. And so 806 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 1: I was like, so tell me you write these songs. 807 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,640 Speaker 1: These these guys take these cuts that aren't theirs, Like 808 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: most artists, if it's fifty to fifty or if it's 809 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: sixty forty, they'll still go with their own song over 810 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: another cut if if it's close. And he was like, 811 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: you're right, that does happen a lot, he said, But 812 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: you know, here's what Kenny Chesney had told him. He said, 813 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 1: you will sell more and merch if you have a 814 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 1: hit it's not yours. Then if it's a great song, 815 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 1: then if you have a good song, it is yours. 816 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 4: The money you'll make. 817 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And he. 818 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: Was like, that's what a lot of artists. And again 819 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: he's a songwriter who isn't and who's not on the radio. 820 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: So you gotta understand way's come up from a biased 821 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 1: agenda phil place. We all are, I am, your everybody is. 822 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 1: But he was like, you know, that's what the new 823 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: artist should know, and that's what artists should know, Like 824 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,720 Speaker 1: you should take outside song from songwriters, because here's Kenny Chesney, 825 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: who I don't know that Chesney writes anything on his 826 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 1: records anymore. 827 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, he has very little. Yeah, so but. 828 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: He's not he doesn't, it's not it doesn't matter to him. 829 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: He wants to find great songs. 830 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,279 Speaker 2: Well, he said, what's. 831 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 11: Yeah, And that's why Kenny's always been great. He's found 832 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 11: the greatest way possible of doing something, whether it be 833 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 11: a song, whether it be a show, whether it be 834 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 11: his body working out. Like the guy does everything to 835 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 11: a high level, and he expects a high level of 836 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 11: of everything and his music. He's written great songs that 837 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 11: were number one hits. You know, I go back, you 838 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 11: wrote that by himself? I think, but a lot like 839 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 11: I've learned from him being on the road as many 840 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 11: much as I was. Where he was like, Jake, you 841 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 11: just got to take what's the best song. And he's right, 842 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 11: because my first two albums I wrote every song everything. 843 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 11: And it wasn't until I recorded Barefoot Blue je Night 844 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 11: and heard Eric Possel singing the demo on it, I 845 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,919 Speaker 11: was like, man, this sounds like me. And I didn't 846 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 11: write it, but it sounds like me. I thought, was it. 847 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,239 Speaker 1: Tough for you to take an outside song for the 848 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,320 Speaker 1: first time and go, well. 849 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 11: Here's what a lot of people don't know either, Like 850 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 11: when you come to town, when you're come to town 851 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 11: and you're just a guy that is trying to make 852 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 11: it and be validated as a great Like I wanted 853 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 11: people in town to be like, man, have you heard 854 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,280 Speaker 11: this j Kid. He's a great singer, he's a great songwriter, 855 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 11: He's a great I felt like in order to get 856 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 11: that buzz happening, I had to write my own songs 857 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 11: and write with other songwriters and show that I could 858 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,000 Speaker 11: I could do that. But and I was also with 859 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 11: a buddy of mine who was helping me. We were 860 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 11: writing everything together, and I was being loyal to him 861 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 11: and never realized that by reaching into this beautiful, deep 862 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 11: well of songwriters. 863 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: That you can have a hit that and and people 864 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:16,879 Speaker 2: don't care. They don't. 865 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 11: You're just as much validated if you have a if 866 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 11: you because you know, what's funny is, I think probably 867 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 11: a lot of people thought I probably wrote Barefoot Blue 868 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 11: j Knight because it was so much like me, but. 869 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,359 Speaker 1: It also made it sound like you too. That's also yeah, 870 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 1: well thank you. 871 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:31,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. 872 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 11: I think that's what I realized is that I had 873 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 11: hits by songs I wrote. I had a career song 874 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 11: by taking an outside song, which that career song started 875 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 11: a string of Alone with You was next and went 876 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 11: number one. Uh, Anywhere with You was the third one. 877 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 2: It went number one. Well a second, let's let's learn 878 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 2: over a second. Le me tell you my favorite. 879 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 4: Jake On song. 880 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,240 Speaker 2: This one here. 881 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 9: Songhand and that's not some beechy coastal song, you know, 882 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 9: it's just a song that I And what's funny is 883 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 9: Shane Mcanawly wrote this song and I told him for 884 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 9: a year before I recorded it, I didn't even have 885 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:11,959 Speaker 9: it on hold. 886 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 2: I was just like, dude, I love that song. I 887 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 2: was like, I hate the line in. 888 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 12: It you got edge every time you call? 889 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,280 Speaker 2: Uh? He said, you you don't have to, I sang 890 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 2: and change the lyrics. 891 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,879 Speaker 12: You've got me out on the edge every time you call. 892 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 11: You know what he said originally in this in that line, 893 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 11: no kidding, said you've got me running. 894 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 2: With scissors now the hall, Yeah, you know, okay? 895 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 11: And he said because he was right reading a book 896 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 11: called running with Scissors. 897 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 2: Another book, dude. And I was like, no, that's terrible. 898 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,239 Speaker 11: I was like I can't know, and like I was like, 899 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 11: I don't run with ever since my mom was a 900 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 11: I was a kid. My mom's like, don't run with scissors. Like, 901 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 11: and I understand the idea of it, but like, isn't 902 00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 11: it more of a metaphor? Now I'm not saying the 903 00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 11: line was right now, I like the line change, but 904 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,879 Speaker 11: isn't it a metapal run with scissors? Like it's a metaphor. Yeah, 905 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 11: it is a metaphor. And I know it was a metaphor, 906 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 11: but there's also lines and songs like that's the thing 907 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,759 Speaker 11: getting back to taking outside songs. There's so many times 908 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 11: I hear songs I'm like, I love it, love it, 909 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,759 Speaker 11: love it, love it, love it, love it, love it. 910 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 11: What did you just say? I'm like, uh huh. And 911 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,799 Speaker 11: that one thing. It's kind of like, you know, people 912 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 11: say they're not like vain or whatever, but you might 913 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 11: be like super into a dude or a guy or 914 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:23,879 Speaker 11: whatever and be like, oh everything about him, Oh my god, 915 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 11: he's one like big toe. 916 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,439 Speaker 2: It's just like and it turns you off. Right. I'm 917 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 2: not saying I've ever done that. I'm just saying. 918 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 11: People people can be like particular about certain things. And 919 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,799 Speaker 11: that's how I am with songs. Like if I hear 920 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 11: one thing that, it'll throw me off, so I either 921 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 11: have to rewrite it and then just say, hey man, 922 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 11: I'll cut this song. I just had to rewrite this 923 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,239 Speaker 11: one part. But that's one thing I'll tell you I've 924 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 11: never done. You can ask Eric Paslay this and he 925 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 11: talked about it on this really for extensively. Like I 926 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 11: cannot take credit on like even if I write something 927 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 11: within a song, since the song wasn't originally my idea, 928 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,960 Speaker 11: I can never feel comfortable taking credit for that, Eric, 929 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 11: because they set me up for the home run. I 930 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 11: just and I didn't have anything to do with it. 931 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,879 Speaker 11: I'd rather give the credit back to their songwriter. That's 932 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,720 Speaker 11: where it to do. Songwriter's man or songwriters have made 933 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 11: my I'm a songwriter, but these other songwriters in Nashville, 934 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 11: Ross Coffin, I mean, he produced and it was a 935 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 11: big part Shane of my last album. And without these 936 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,520 Speaker 11: types of guys like I wouldn't I wouldn't be where 937 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 11: I am in my career. I wouldn't have the things 938 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 11: I have in my life, No way, absolutely not. So 939 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:29,879 Speaker 11: I always get to give that back to them. 940 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Eric talked for a long time about how you 941 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 1: came into that song and fixed it to be you 942 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 1: a lot and didn't want any credit for it, Like 943 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: he was like it was kind of unbelievable that he 944 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,399 Speaker 1: came in, did so much rearranging of things that made 945 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: it felt like his song and never asked for anything. 946 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 2: Man, I just I don't feel like it's right. 947 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,400 Speaker 11: Plus, it will all come back around one day, you know, 948 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 11: like I've always looked at it, like you do the 949 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,840 Speaker 11: right thing right, good things come back around. 950 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 1: Barefoot Blue Jenn Number one Alone with You number one 951 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:02,160 Speaker 1: one that. 952 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,479 Speaker 11: Got away When we got away every one. I wrote 953 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 11: that song, Uh true story about a girl of it 954 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 11: just came to town in my small town, go to beach, 955 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 11: Florida and met her one summer and she went away 956 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 11: and never met. 957 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:16,680 Speaker 2: Never saw her ever again. 958 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,680 Speaker 11: And I thought this song actually would like as much 959 00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 11: like the reset that story, that person would pop up 960 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 11: and be like, did. 961 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 1: You ever look for on Facebook? You never even looked 962 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 1: for it. 963 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,239 Speaker 2: I don't even have a Facebook, man. 964 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that didn't mean you didn't have Facebook, like old Jabe, 965 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: Twitter or something old Jake. 966 00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,279 Speaker 2: Maybe my Space. I looked up around MySpace a. 967 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 1: Lot of places in our lifetime. We've got to see 968 00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,320 Speaker 1: it all like start. Yeah, how about uh. 969 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,960 Speaker 2: For Jane too? Yeah? Another song I didn't write. I 970 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 2: did not write that song. I just love it. David 971 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,799 Speaker 2: Lee Murphy wrote this song, I think with Ben Hayslip 972 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 2: and Uh, well, man, I feel terrible. I'm forgetting the 973 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 2: third writer on this song right. 974 00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 11: Now because we had a great night in d and 975 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 11: my awards or game my show that I did. There 976 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 11: you came out the first time and introduced team Actually 977 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,919 Speaker 11: if you remember that did yeah you did? 978 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:09,759 Speaker 2: Yeah? 979 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 1: Again, it's been I've been here four years now, you did. 980 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 2: That's when I gave you that photo. 981 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 1: Lived twenty years. Yeah, does it feel like you've been 982 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: here one hundred years. 983 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:20,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. But I love it here, like I moved here 984 00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 2: because I love it here, Dude. 985 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 1: I love it here. I hate the industry. I love 986 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,800 Speaker 1: the people, and I love the part of the country. 987 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,879 Speaker 1: And I love the listeners of my show because they're 988 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 1: normal people and I get to be a normal person 989 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 1: with them. 990 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,239 Speaker 11: Yeah, I hate the music industry. Here's the thing about 991 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,719 Speaker 11: the music industry. And this is dude, I could say 992 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 11: whatever I want about the music industry and it wouldn't 993 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,359 Speaker 11: matter one way or another as far as you know 994 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 11: how I feel or whatever. No one gives us a 995 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 11: crap about what I think. But I do believe that 996 00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,279 Speaker 11: there are so and I think you have to admit 997 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 11: in this, like the music industry gets a rep for 998 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 11: what it is. But there's so many great people, dude, Like, 999 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 11: there are so many great people and so many creative 1000 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 11: a lot of people and so many like, there's so 1001 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,439 Speaker 11: many people that have helped like, and I keep going 1002 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 11: back to it, like I know because I've messed up 1003 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:07,720 Speaker 11: many of times I've said. 1004 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,279 Speaker 2: Things that people I should never said. I've done that, 1005 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 2: like and. 1006 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,560 Speaker 11: I've said things that I didn't They weren't even meant 1007 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 11: the way they received them that were played against me. 1008 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 11: But I've learned that like in a town where people 1009 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 11: in and then this business, which is creative, by the 1010 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 11: worst thing you can do is be like the negative 1011 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 11: nanny of the day, you know about the business, because 1012 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 11: I found like it can turn against you quick. 1013 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 1: Here's John Party talking about moving to Nashville and the 1014 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 1: time he got stabbed right before he moved. 1015 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,120 Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot before Nashville. When was it okay? 1016 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,080 Speaker 1: So you start making music in California about what age 1017 00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 1: when you start actually performing and making some money and thinking, okay, 1018 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,759 Speaker 1: maybe I could do something musically. 1019 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 10: Well, I have a first band of fourteen and we 1020 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 10: played the Dixon Mayfair and you know, like during it 1021 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 10: was kind of like rock and roll punkish, kind of 1022 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 10: like the rebellion from being growing up singing Alan Jackson 1023 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 10: and George Strait And. 1024 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 1: Were you still doing some like Nirvana any of the 1025 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,400 Speaker 1: nineties mock. 1026 00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 2: Me we we did? 1027 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 10: You know, we were in the letter skinnered phase and 1028 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,919 Speaker 10: like you know, some classic rock and Tom Petty, lots 1029 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 10: of Tom Petty. All of my friends jammed out to 1030 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,719 Speaker 10: like Rage Against Machine and Nirvana and you know, like 1031 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:25,719 Speaker 10: Blink Blink. 1032 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 2: Went a two and Green Day were huge at a time. 1033 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:32,160 Speaker 10: And and and I kind of took that when you 1034 00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 10: ask the question when you start like playing for real 1035 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,360 Speaker 10: and kind of making tips and stuff. Eighteen but I 1036 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 10: was singing country again, but I had this like kind 1037 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 10: of fast rock and roll vibe to it. And then 1038 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,839 Speaker 10: I went to a place called Chico, California, and has 1039 00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,799 Speaker 10: a college there called Chico State, and it is like 1040 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,920 Speaker 10: party down, good time, and formed a country band and learned. 1041 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 10: And I had a mandolin player and he kind of 1042 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 10: taught me a lot about bluegrass. And so we had 1043 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,720 Speaker 10: this up about eighteen years old. Here I was nineteen 1044 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 10: nineteen twenty. Basically that lasted nineteen to twenty two. 1045 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 2: And then after that I moved to Nashville. 1046 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:06,319 Speaker 1: And. 1047 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 4: I was new. 1048 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 2: I wanted to move in Nashville. 1049 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,160 Speaker 10: I took some trips out kind of you know, realize 1050 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 10: that I should probably be twenty one so I can 1051 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 10: get into the bars. 1052 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 2: You know, like hang out and like get up and 1053 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 2: do a microphone. 1054 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,960 Speaker 10: You get there's still places you can play with back 1055 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 10: in two thousand and eight, you know, even that way, 1056 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 10: maybe I moved here with an atlas, like I didn't 1057 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 10: have GPS on my phone, like it's still kind of 1058 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:29,279 Speaker 10: it was. 1059 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:30,839 Speaker 2: It seemed so like. 1060 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,400 Speaker 10: Really, did you have a horse and a buggy? And 1061 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,359 Speaker 10: it seems like so long ago, years ago? Yeah, like 1062 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 10: what would you do without your GPS now? But there 1063 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 10: we're back in the day. 1064 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 2: We have maps, and it was pretty easy. It was 1065 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,720 Speaker 2: three three highways and. 1066 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 4: What's that drive? What's that drive? 1067 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:48,760 Speaker 2: Like three days? 1068 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:53,919 Speaker 10: Yeah, three days of excitement, you know, twenty two. 1069 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,640 Speaker 2: I was excited, like I'm doing it. My mom was sad. 1070 00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,760 Speaker 2: My dad was like, go get a job. 1071 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 4: Like trying to. 1072 00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:05,040 Speaker 10: He's such a worker, but he you know, my dad. 1073 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 10: Everybody pushed me to go to Nashville. 1074 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:07,480 Speaker 4: You know. 1075 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,719 Speaker 10: It's they always said, ain't gonna happen here, you know, 1076 00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:14,600 Speaker 10: And so saved up some money when I was working 1077 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,520 Speaker 10: for my dad, and I got my dog in a 1078 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,000 Speaker 10: PA system and I drove to Nashville, found a place 1079 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,839 Speaker 10: to live and was on the grind, you know, kind 1080 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:24,760 Speaker 10: of hanging out and. 1081 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,839 Speaker 4: You drove three days, three three and a half. 1082 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 1: I think, so you and your dog, you sleep in 1083 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 1: the truck, you stop at hotels that we kept the dogs. 1084 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 10: He'd stay in the truck because sometimes I'm stinking in 1085 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,120 Speaker 10: but we had you know, he had guitars and stuff 1086 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 10: back there, and he like, he wasn't the dog that 1087 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 10: you wanted to open the camber fell you would like 1088 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:51,319 Speaker 10: he would bite you and he's scary, and uh so 1089 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,359 Speaker 10: he kind of and he was fine staying in the truck. 1090 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 1: So how do you get a place to lift, Like 1091 00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 1: if you're coming from California, northern California or so, and 1092 00:46:59,160 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 1: you gotta find a. 1093 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:00,920 Speaker 2: Place of people. 1094 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 10: Well, it came to a couple of trips that I've 1095 00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,759 Speaker 10: come out, you know, like you can easily network and 1096 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:06,880 Speaker 10: you know, kind. 1097 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 2: Of meet people. And I just did that, and I 1098 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:09,920 Speaker 2: you know, I was excited. 1099 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 10: I live within you know, when you're twenty two, you 1100 00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:15,799 Speaker 10: live in a bathroom. You know, if you had if 1101 00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,919 Speaker 10: it was cheap enough to you know, provide and and 1102 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 10: a lot of those people I don't even I don't 1103 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 10: even talk to you anymore. 1104 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 2: It is like that that phase where it's just you know. 1105 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 10: Kind of starting at the bottom, I mean the bottom 1106 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,120 Speaker 10: learning learning the town learn to learning how it was 1107 00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 10: back in the day. I mean it's totally different. 1108 00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,440 Speaker 1: Now you move here, you're twenty two, you moving with 1109 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,760 Speaker 1: a roommate or two. Yeah, how do you start? Meaning 1110 00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 1: if you get here, you met a few people on 1111 00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: some trips where you come check it out, But how 1112 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:48,759 Speaker 1: do you start making a life in music? What's the first. 1113 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:49,279 Speaker 2: Thing that you do? 1114 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:50,720 Speaker 4: Well? 1115 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,360 Speaker 10: I had songs I've written in Northern California with my 1116 00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:56,560 Speaker 10: band called. 1117 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 2: Northern Comfort shout out doing the Comfort. 1118 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,560 Speaker 10: That were fun, they were upbeat, they were different, you know, 1119 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 10: And so I always had that in my back pocket. 1120 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 10: I never like really even shared that, but I just 1121 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 10: go out and mingle. I got a job as a 1122 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:14,520 Speaker 10: lifeguard and an after school counselor. That kind of helped 1123 00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 10: me get by and and and uh, I got it 1124 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,360 Speaker 10: back up before really getting down to the nitty gritty 1125 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 10: of how I survived the long haired days. So in 1126 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 10: my neighborhood, while I was living in a basement, there 1127 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 10: was a townhouse that you can get with no payment. 1128 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:37,480 Speaker 4: Down in Nashville. 1129 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 10: Yeah, And my mom was like, she was all co 1130 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,280 Speaker 10: signed with it. It wasn't you know, going from California 1131 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,759 Speaker 10: and Nashville that townhouse wasn't too bad, but I. 1132 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:51,760 Speaker 2: Had like four rooms and two and a half bathrooms. 1133 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 2: It's like I could totally rent this out. And like 1134 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,840 Speaker 2: I literally rented every room at the house. 1135 00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:00,279 Speaker 10: And that was I was paying my mortgage and I 1136 00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,400 Speaker 10: was playing and I had my little lifeguarden job. But 1137 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 10: I did, you know, through mingling basically and kind of 1138 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 10: getting that one shot to get up there and play 1139 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,359 Speaker 10: a song at the time, and you know, everybody kind 1140 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,360 Speaker 10: of liked and it was fun and we get like 1141 00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:16,760 Speaker 10: get down and play that song again. 1142 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:18,040 Speaker 2: And uh. 1143 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,960 Speaker 10: That kind of happened in a place called Losers and 1144 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,279 Speaker 10: that was kind of like my home. And I ended 1145 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 10: up playing substituting. You know, if the guy couldn't make 1146 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 10: a gig, they'd call me come play four hours. I 1147 00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,520 Speaker 10: knew a bunch of covers because we played in covers 1148 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,960 Speaker 10: and we played for four hours in northern California, like 1149 00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,439 Speaker 10: we were, you know, we started tending and we ended 1150 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,799 Speaker 10: it too, so I was like, I can do that, 1151 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:42,480 Speaker 10: you know, I can do that. So we just kind 1152 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 10: of did that for two years and I landed through 1153 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:51,080 Speaker 10: mingling and taking songs with publishers, and I knew bart 1154 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:52,719 Speaker 10: my co producer. 1155 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 2: Now I kind of knew him, and he would sometimes 1156 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 2: answer my phone calls always to make that joke. Now 1157 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 2: he answered my phone calls. 1158 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 10: But he kind of set me up in with some 1159 00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 10: people and and and just kind of climbed the ladder 1160 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:11,600 Speaker 10: to this old school way like shaking hands. You know, 1161 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,239 Speaker 10: I'm John Like, yeah, I'm a songwriter. I kind of 1162 00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,200 Speaker 10: focused on songwriting. I didn't want to go play downtown. 1163 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:19,239 Speaker 2: You didn't want to go play like Broadway where all 1164 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,480 Speaker 2: the mornings, right, No, I was I did that, you know. 1165 00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:23,439 Speaker 10: I got that I need to learn how to write, 1166 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,640 Speaker 10: like what how does Nashville write? 1167 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 2: How can I put? How could I fit into. 1168 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 10: This this system that that there it's obviously songwriters, you know, 1169 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,279 Speaker 10: and really focused on that and got a publishing deal 1170 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,439 Speaker 10: and then got some songs and you know, how to show, 1171 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 10: you know, started doing We got enough songs for a showcase. 1172 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:48,600 Speaker 10: Three showcases in I got signed by Capitol Records with 1173 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 10: handshake deal. 1174 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,080 Speaker 2: It was kind of like and it took a year 1175 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:52,080 Speaker 2: to sign the contract. 1176 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:56,040 Speaker 10: Once twenty eleven we got signed and then they were 1177 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 10: like your first single comes out in twenty twelve, so 1178 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 10: there's another year. 1179 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,320 Speaker 2: So two years and I just kept. 1180 00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:05,240 Speaker 10: Writing and writing and writing and recording songs, even demos 1181 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,360 Speaker 10: and kind of learning learning, and then you know, I 1182 00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:09,120 Speaker 10: bet that felt like. 1183 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 1: Forever though, Like from the moment that your handshake signed, 1184 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 1: you're excited and you had your wait two years for 1185 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 1: your first song to come out. I bet that was 1186 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,360 Speaker 1: it felt like a slow two years to get that 1187 00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:20,240 Speaker 1: first thing out there. 1188 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 10: Well, I mean, we had a great booking agent and 1189 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 10: we had a lot of we had a lot through showcase. 1190 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,279 Speaker 10: I found a band, and we had a van, and 1191 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,080 Speaker 10: we learned the South and there was a lot of 1192 00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 10: places that we still talk about playing and like a 1193 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 10: lot of guys that are still I see all the 1194 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 10: time that that gave us a shot because we could 1195 00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:42,879 Speaker 10: play cover. We could do this, you know, we could 1196 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 10: we could play for three hours, you know, with no 1197 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 10: problem with me throwing some originals. Make eight hundred bucks, 1198 00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:53,880 Speaker 10: you know, max out your credit card, hop in the 1199 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:55,239 Speaker 10: van and go, you know in the van. 1200 00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:55,839 Speaker 2: It is great. 1201 00:51:55,880 --> 00:52:00,160 Speaker 10: That's why now why everyboys asked why is music in Nashville? Well, 1202 00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 10: it's it's easy for a van to get around really, 1203 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 10: when it comes down to because back in the day, 1204 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 10: it was built for Cadillacs to get around. So, I 1205 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,120 Speaker 10: mean the van was really hard to keep up with 1206 00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 10: a tour bus. Let me tell you that was like 1207 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,240 Speaker 10: play a show, getting a van dry for five hours, 1208 00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,359 Speaker 10: sleep in a hotel, wake up early to go keep 1209 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:20,319 Speaker 10: you know, trying to trying to catch up. But we 1210 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,480 Speaker 10: were always playing. I was always writing, so it just 1211 00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 10: and everything was new. You know, I wasn't from the South. 1212 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:30,640 Speaker 10: I learned what college football was all about because back 1213 00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,840 Speaker 10: in the West it's not as huge as this year. Like, 1214 00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 10: so I was learning all this stuff. I was making 1215 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,400 Speaker 10: new friends, and of course, you know, I had a 1216 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:38,919 Speaker 10: record deal. 1217 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:40,960 Speaker 2: But you know, one day, it was always one day. 1218 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:44,560 Speaker 2: It's still always one day. But just kept on grinding 1219 00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 2: and kept on believing it's still always one day. 1220 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,360 Speaker 4: You're right about that, It's still always one day for 1221 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:49,879 Speaker 4: all of us. 1222 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to do a better job. And now 1223 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 1: I had not always looking for one day. One day, 1224 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: this next thing's gonna happen. Yeah, one day, this next 1225 00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 1: you know, I try, I really try to put myself 1226 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,720 Speaker 1: in today. I think that's a struggle for me sometimes. Yeah, 1227 00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,120 Speaker 1: all right, so let me let's put this a little 1228 00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: head over. 1229 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:10,320 Speaker 4: Boots from from John Party here before we get back. 1230 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:10,400 Speaker 2: Into the. 1231 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,319 Speaker 1: I mean, this is the one here. It kind of 1232 00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,800 Speaker 1: catapulted the next level. Yeah, this was the next leveler. 1233 00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 1: It's just the first one off the record. 1234 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,319 Speaker 4: Huh. 1235 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:26,360 Speaker 1: This thing came out and it was just like, oh yeah, 1236 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,160 Speaker 1: well I felt that the record sounded. 1237 00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 4: It sounded super. 1238 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:37,640 Speaker 1: Super forward while still being a country record. You know, 1239 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,279 Speaker 1: it wasn't one of these where you listen to and 1240 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 1: you go, oh, that's trying to be something new. It 1241 00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 1: felt country. Yeah, yet it sounded you're using cool sounds. 1242 00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,799 Speaker 1: There sounds that I think, am I to you? 1243 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:51,280 Speaker 12: Sonically? 1244 00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:56,879 Speaker 2: What's this record about? California Sunrise? You know it was. 1245 00:53:58,560 --> 00:53:59,400 Speaker 4: I was. 1246 00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 10: It was a kind of this is where I am now? 1247 00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,320 Speaker 10: Because I had a first record. I had four singles 1248 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,000 Speaker 10: on the radio. My first record is called Rayu Song, 1249 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 10: and we got up all night on the radio. We 1250 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 10: got to number ten, and that let me get my 1251 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 10: album out and my first record. Literally once it got 1252 00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,080 Speaker 10: on iTunes and people started listening to it, we're selling 1253 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,680 Speaker 10: out clubs. We're selling out clubs, is that right with 1254 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,400 Speaker 10: with We're we're out selling people with number ones? But 1255 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,760 Speaker 10: and then you know, it was just kind of fun 1256 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:35,200 Speaker 10: and you got that that crowd singing back with songs 1257 00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,239 Speaker 10: that were just on the on the record, you know, 1258 00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 10: and and and it's still to this day we play 1259 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 10: songs of that first record. But four years being on 1260 00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:48,680 Speaker 10: radio tour, you know, twenty twelve January, Miss New Crazy 1261 00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:49,120 Speaker 10: comes out. 1262 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,880 Speaker 4: Now, Oh we got it, already. 1263 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 2: Got it, we gotta got it. We got the whole 1264 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 2: story down. Then Up all Night and that was in 1265 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:00,480 Speaker 2: two thousand fourteen. 1266 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 4: Here's a little Up all Night. This is a jam too. 1267 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: I gotta come back to this, but yeah, this is one. 1268 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:11,880 Speaker 1: When I moved to town, I think this had had 1269 00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 1: lived its life and had gone away, but was still 1270 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:17,919 Speaker 1: one that people were. 1271 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:18,480 Speaker 2: Kind of in love with. 1272 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 4: Still, yeah, this is one. This is one turned up 1273 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:28,520 Speaker 4: a little bit, you know, the wrong baby, were getting. 1274 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 2: A good one? 1275 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:31,759 Speaker 4: You still like that one? 1276 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:33,680 Speaker 10: Yeah, we played we still play it. I still like 1277 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 10: what I can't put down? That was right, That was 1278 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,799 Speaker 10: right before Up all Night and I was. 1279 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,319 Speaker 2: Like, this is it. This is the one, you know, but. 1280 00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,680 Speaker 10: It just didn't you know, tests well, and people played it, 1281 00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 10: but it got the thirty three and then would put 1282 00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,239 Speaker 10: up on I O and uh, we got to put 1283 00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,759 Speaker 10: the album out and which is a big deal because 1284 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 10: you have to have some momentum in a single for 1285 00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:55,880 Speaker 10: them to go okay. 1286 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,840 Speaker 4: Well, now put some money behind a full album. 1287 00:55:57,960 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 10: And it was a full album, had eleven songs on 1288 00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 10: and it changed the van life basically. And so, but 1289 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,239 Speaker 10: what my point is of California Sunrise, there's four years 1290 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:15,200 Speaker 10: of writing and being on the radio. Regardless of what 1291 00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,880 Speaker 10: you know, I still was always top forty because I 1292 00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:22,280 Speaker 10: still have believers in country radio. No matter how high, 1293 00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 10: what failures, whatever it, I still believed. Like we got 1294 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:30,280 Speaker 10: in a label. Was always like, it's not a race, 1295 00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,600 Speaker 10: it's a marathon. You know, you got to take your 1296 00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:34,319 Speaker 10: time and like, just keep doing what you're doing. 1297 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 4: Can you believe that what was happening? 1298 00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,440 Speaker 10: You know, I never really got too worked up about 1299 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,759 Speaker 10: it because you know, if you did listen to what 1300 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,680 Speaker 10: I was doing, it was kind of it was kind 1301 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,400 Speaker 10: of different. You know, it's countrier, but it was upbeat, 1302 00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 10: but it was a country and I kind of came 1303 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,319 Speaker 10: into my own, like I'm still growing up. 1304 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,160 Speaker 2: I was only I got signed at twenty six, and 1305 00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:58,359 Speaker 2: I don't even know, I don't even know, I don't remember, but. 1306 00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,600 Speaker 10: I'm still growing up. As I come into a young man, 1307 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 10: into a man, and I got to do that with 1308 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:09,000 Speaker 10: the record label and kind of under the radar, you know, 1309 00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:12,319 Speaker 10: not like just boom, here I am world. I kind 1310 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:16,240 Speaker 10: of got to learn it all and not be like 1311 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 10: the the headliner, you know, where it's just like because 1312 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,200 Speaker 10: you know sometimes like boom, I'm here, and it wasn't 1313 00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 10: like that for me. And then I kind of became this, 1314 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 10: you know, this is this is who I am. When 1315 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:29,760 Speaker 10: California Sunrise came out and I had friends on worked 1316 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:33,240 Speaker 10: at radio, friends that listen to my music, people are 1317 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,600 Speaker 10: giving me great advice and all that just through hard work, 1318 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,960 Speaker 10: and what California Sunrise was me is like this is 1319 00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:43,040 Speaker 10: what I This is the new take on that. Four 1320 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:47,440 Speaker 10: years of radio touring, country fiddle still you know, all 1321 00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,360 Speaker 10: the stuff I love, And it was just at that point. 1322 00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:53,600 Speaker 1: I remember you posted an Instagram video probably two years 1323 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,800 Speaker 1: ago and it was at a festival and the entire 1324 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,760 Speaker 1: crowd was singing head over Boots. I remember a message 1325 00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:03,120 Speaker 1: you go one good God, like it's this is amazing, 1326 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,280 Speaker 1: Like they were singing all of it. Watershit, it was 1327 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:11,360 Speaker 1: watersheded yeah, and George Comma Washington yeah, and it was 1328 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:12,040 Speaker 1: the Gorge. 1329 00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:13,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, the Gorge. 1330 00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 2: I probably spelled him wrong. Was so exciting. 1331 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 4: Is it Gorge not George? 1332 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:17,240 Speaker 2: No, it's the Gorge. 1333 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 1: I've played that well. I played Watershed. I thoughtay, thought 1334 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 1: it was George Washington. I thought it was the Gorge 1335 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:21,280 Speaker 1: and George. 1336 00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 2: I mean, it's cooler George Washington. 1337 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:24,280 Speaker 1: I always thought that was the thing I was like, 1338 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:25,360 Speaker 1: named George Washington. 1339 00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:27,360 Speaker 4: Did you ever think that, my dear tonight, I thought 1340 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:27,920 Speaker 4: it was a gorge. 1341 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:29,600 Speaker 1: Oh, it is called the Gorge. I thought it was 1342 00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:32,840 Speaker 1: the Gorge and George. Anyway, I'm an idiot. But moving on, 1343 00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 1: I remember watching that video and going, oh, this has 1344 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:36,120 Speaker 1: now arrived on. 1345 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:37,080 Speaker 4: Kind of a macro level. 1346 00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 1: No, it's not just a song that is cool and 1347 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,320 Speaker 1: it's going to come and go like it's still the 1348 00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 1: one when you have a whole thirty or forty thousand 1349 00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,120 Speaker 1: people singing every word of the Yeah. 1350 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:46,800 Speaker 4: Give me some of that again. 1351 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,720 Speaker 1: I mean, the whole crowd was out of their minds 1352 00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 1: singing that song. 1353 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:51,960 Speaker 12: Bonkers. 1354 00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:53,160 Speaker 2: It was fun. 1355 00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,400 Speaker 10: That was That was the first that was probably one 1356 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,800 Speaker 10: of the most surreal, Like, wow, this is the first 1357 00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 10: you know, you can't get emotional and stuff, and it 1358 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 10: was that was that was really cool and uh, I 1359 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 10: always I always remember that because that. 1360 00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:12,920 Speaker 2: Partico there we go with them words, but. 1361 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:19,320 Speaker 10: That slot was uh we finally got you know a 1362 00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,120 Speaker 10: little later on, and like Merle Haggard was supposed to 1363 00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,640 Speaker 10: play either I think right in front of me or 1364 00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:25,200 Speaker 10: right behind me. 1365 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:25,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1366 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 10: It was like, you know, but he passed like two 1367 00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,680 Speaker 10: months before and then then came out and played before us, 1368 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 10: and it was like kind of crazy that like with 1369 00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,560 Speaker 10: that moment and Merle Haggard was, you know, gonna play 1370 00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:39,200 Speaker 10: right for me, which probably would have been like no, 1371 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:40,960 Speaker 10: Marl not playing before me, but it was like he 1372 00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 10: just passed it, and it was It's one of those 1373 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 10: things like dang, you know, uh from that crowd and 1374 00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,200 Speaker 10: that kind of just that introspect of me and Merle 1375 00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,440 Speaker 10: would play together and it didn't happen. 1376 00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:53,640 Speaker 1: You know. 1377 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 2: It's one of the moments I'll never get. 1378 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a good one just watching it so 1379 00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,240 Speaker 1: that that hits and then it was like, all right, right, 1380 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:02,240 Speaker 1: what's happening next with John Party? 1381 01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:04,600 Speaker 4: He had head over Boots. Surelie's not gonna put another 1382 01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:05,320 Speaker 4: songid Boots in it. 1383 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:12,800 Speaker 1: And then boy, did you ever I mean and you 1384 01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:14,640 Speaker 1: raised that. I mean you saw Boots and you raised 1385 01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 1: that funkier Boots man. Yeah, what's that conversation like where 1386 01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:20,760 Speaker 1: you go, all right, we got another song that we love, 1387 01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 1: but it's name is basically the same thing. 1388 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 4: What do we do? 1389 01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:25,480 Speaker 1: Is that a room conversation whereverybody's sitting around? 1390 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,080 Speaker 2: Well, I, you know, I research a lot. I you know, 1391 01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:30,880 Speaker 2: I listen. 1392 01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:31,360 Speaker 4: You know. 1393 01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:36,600 Speaker 10: iTunes is great because they have like they have you know, 1394 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:42,160 Speaker 10: things like playlists of like, hey, you know, new artists 1395 01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,960 Speaker 10: from all top of the levels, and you know, I'm 1396 01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:48,280 Speaker 10: always like listening and stuff and so like I do 1397 01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 10: pay attention. And I pointed out that Keith Urban had 1398 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 10: two head at that year. He had cop car and 1399 01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:57,919 Speaker 10: then somewhere in my car and I was like, well, 1400 01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:01,360 Speaker 10: this is another car song, other Boots song out, you know. 1401 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:05,880 Speaker 10: And my favorite was the president of Universal, Mike Dungan, 1402 01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,200 Speaker 10: was like, you know, I don't care about back to 1403 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,360 Speaker 10: back Boots songs. I care about back to back hits. 1404 01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:13,000 Speaker 10: That's literally what he said. And I was like, all right, 1405 01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:14,200 Speaker 10: put it out. 1406 01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: You know. 1407 01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:18,680 Speaker 2: I always say to everybody asked me, I wear boots 1408 01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:20,160 Speaker 2: all the time. I we're on boots right now. So 1409 01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:24,680 Speaker 2: it's not it's not like something that it is just 1410 01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:25,040 Speaker 2: a thing. 1411 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:25,240 Speaker 1: You know. 1412 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:26,400 Speaker 2: I have a lot of boots. 1413 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,120 Speaker 4: Look at that two Boots songs in a row, you know. 1414 01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:32,240 Speaker 1: Look at that hit after it hit you started. So 1415 01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: when did you go from the band of the tour bus. 1416 01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,200 Speaker 1: That's a big step in the life because the tour 1417 01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:37,000 Speaker 1: bus is expensive. 1418 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, well there's still expensive. 1419 01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 4: Two of them are really how you go too? Now? 1420 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,600 Speaker 4: The humble brack right there. Oh, it's so expensive, it 1421 01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,560 Speaker 4: really is, it really is. Uh. 1422 01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,000 Speaker 10: Now went up at the end of the year when 1423 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,680 Speaker 10: Up All Night was was peaked and we started going 1424 01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,320 Speaker 10: in and we started own records and kind of selling 1425 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 10: out clubs. 1426 01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 2: We got our bush. It was fun. 1427 01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,880 Speaker 4: I want to bring up this story about you getting that. 1428 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:02,520 Speaker 2: I didn't know. 1429 01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:05,360 Speaker 4: I felt like I knew everything about you already. I'm stalker, 1430 01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:07,040 Speaker 4: a big jump party fan, my man. 1431 01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I know you got stabbed, uh huh in 1432 01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:12,280 Speaker 1: a belly Yeah five times? 1433 01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:13,360 Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't see. 1434 01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,120 Speaker 1: I didn't even know it was five times. So you're 1435 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 1: at you're at a like a bar. 1436 01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:20,520 Speaker 2: No, I was eighteen, So the first two or just 1437 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:23,000 Speaker 2: slices on the arm. But who get so where were you. 1438 01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,800 Speaker 10: I was out in the country and I was at 1439 01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,160 Speaker 10: my one of my best friends, and we were two 1440 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:32,120 Speaker 10: towns that were not rivals, which just you know, you 1441 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:32,800 Speaker 10: always kind. 1442 01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:36,920 Speaker 2: Of have bad kids in your town. 1443 01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:37,120 Speaker 4: Man. 1444 01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:39,479 Speaker 10: There's always the guys that always get in trouble or fight, 1445 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 10: you know. And uh, in this town and on name 1446 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,800 Speaker 10: towns or anything. He got jumped by my hometown by 1447 01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:49,760 Speaker 10: guys I didn't even know. But he found out that 1448 01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 10: I was from my hometown. And you know, we had 1449 01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 10: a great time at this party. I met a bunch 1450 01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,560 Speaker 10: of new people and we were you know, I was 1451 01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:01,760 Speaker 10: nice to meet you. We gotta go then, and uh 1452 01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,280 Speaker 10: he was waiting outside for me and he was like 1453 01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:05,240 Speaker 10: having me pinned out. 1454 01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,040 Speaker 2: And I was walking back. 1455 01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,600 Speaker 10: To the to the car, and he came up and 1456 01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:11,200 Speaker 10: asked me where I was from, and I told where 1457 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 10: I was from. I said, yes, you know, and he 1458 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:17,240 Speaker 10: popped me in his mouth, knocked me down, yeah, busting 1459 01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:17,640 Speaker 10: my lip. 1460 01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:20,000 Speaker 2: I got back up and I started, you know, I 1461 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:20,920 Speaker 2: started fighting him, you know. 1462 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:24,439 Speaker 10: And it wasn't he said, he got scared and pulled 1463 01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:26,520 Speaker 10: a knife out, but he started to fight, you know, 1464 01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 10: and and uh, I ended up with losing that fight. 1465 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:32,440 Speaker 2: You know, you know, he's just swinging. You know, I'm 1466 01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,680 Speaker 2: not like a trained karate man or something. You know, 1467 01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 2: I was just swinging. I just it's you know, had 1468 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,520 Speaker 2: adrenaline at eighteen. It's like ah. 1469 01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:45,640 Speaker 10: And then I didn't even know I got stabbed, and 1470 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:47,440 Speaker 10: my buddy came and broke up the fight and pushed 1471 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,280 Speaker 10: me back in his hands full of blood. And then 1472 01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,200 Speaker 10: that was like the beginning of. 1473 01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 2: The ride to the hospital. So what happens. 1474 01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:58,040 Speaker 10: So we're in the country and my my, my buddy, 1475 01:03:58,080 --> 01:03:59,920 Speaker 10: he's now firefighter to paramedic. 1476 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:01,880 Speaker 2: He was always trying to be a firefighter paramedic. So 1477 01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 2: he was like, all drive, We're going to hospital. 1478 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:05,360 Speaker 10: So he's like he knew the back road. So we're 1479 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,800 Speaker 10: like screaming down his back roads. Girls are screaming and crying, 1480 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,840 Speaker 10: calling nurses and like. So the nurse through the phone 1481 01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:14,840 Speaker 10: was like, you know, compressing the wounds. Took my shirt off, 1482 01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:18,919 Speaker 10: blood everywhere you got stab what part of your belly's 1483 01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:20,680 Speaker 10: eleven inches across the center. 1484 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,320 Speaker 4: Oh, he stuck it and then went across and I got. 1485 01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:24,760 Speaker 2: Two right on the left side. 1486 01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:27,160 Speaker 1: Wow, So you're bleeding pretty hard. 1487 01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:31,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, we were bleeding, and we were bleeding. 1488 01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:37,560 Speaker 10: The first hospital we stopped at didn't have emergency room. 1489 01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 4: It was like an animal hospital. 1490 01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:41,680 Speaker 2: At the time. 1491 01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,920 Speaker 10: They didn't have emergency room. So we had to drive 1492 01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:50,840 Speaker 10: I don't know, fifteen miles to UC Davis and we 1493 01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,920 Speaker 10: got there and they didn't even know what do me that, like, 1494 01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:55,440 Speaker 10: you there's not ever a feeling you want to go 1495 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 10: through when you're like going into like the sports er 1496 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 10: and like there's a guy in the football pads like 1497 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 10: busted arm and like, you know, hold. It was just 1498 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 10: kind of very calm injuries and where I busted to the. 1499 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:10,120 Speaker 2: Door, like you know, like he's dad. 1500 01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:11,760 Speaker 4: It's just blood everywhere. 1501 01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 10: Like I couldn't imagine being in the lobby and be like, 1502 01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 10: oh my god, this guy comes in here, this blood everywhere. 1503 01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:24,400 Speaker 10: And so they kind of did some tests on me, 1504 01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:28,320 Speaker 10: like for visual and like asking me like you know, 1505 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,000 Speaker 10: they wanted me to pee and try to see if 1506 01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,720 Speaker 10: there's blood in the her and to kind of see 1507 01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:35,280 Speaker 10: if they got any internal organs. 1508 01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:39,000 Speaker 2: And I couldn't pee. She was kind of cute nurse, 1509 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:39,320 Speaker 2: and I was. 1510 01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,920 Speaker 10: Like she's just sitting there like pee and I'm like, 1511 01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:46,560 Speaker 10: I can't pee right now. 1512 01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 2: Like stop it stop, I'll be fine. 1513 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 4: Uh. 1514 01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:54,520 Speaker 10: And so they sent me off Sacramento and ambulance and man, 1515 01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,440 Speaker 10: I was it's and then you know, going from that 1516 01:05:57,600 --> 01:05:59,520 Speaker 10: like kind of sports and you know, saying that they 1517 01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,160 Speaker 10: always get anybody will get bad things and you know 1518 01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 10: are but when you got to a big city like Sacramento, man, 1519 01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,720 Speaker 10: there it was people were shot. One girl was to 1520 01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:10,760 Speaker 10: the side of me got chopped up by a bull propeller. 1521 01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:15,960 Speaker 10: One girls just grabs a curtain, says how Bay how man. 1522 01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 10: It was like literally, like I said, I was in 1523 01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,000 Speaker 10: like this is where it goes down, like what you 1524 01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:24,400 Speaker 10: see on you know, durrama hospital movie or you know 1525 01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:28,400 Speaker 10: television shows. And and the doctor was like, oh no, 1526 01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:30,240 Speaker 10: there's stab victorm, you know. And he like put his 1527 01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:33,480 Speaker 10: glove on, put like put his fingers inside of my 1528 01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:36,400 Speaker 10: wounds and and just kind of felt muscle, you know, 1529 01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:38,160 Speaker 10: you couldn't like fill in my organs. 1530 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:39,120 Speaker 7: And uh. 1531 01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,920 Speaker 10: They stitched me up and then the next day I 1532 01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 10: was out and I had to have a nurse come 1533 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,080 Speaker 10: to the house and pack my We stitched them an 1534 01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:48,720 Speaker 10: inch apart, so. 1535 01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:51,280 Speaker 2: We'd pack alcohol gauze. 1536 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:54,439 Speaker 10: Down in the wound, so it grew from the bottom up, 1537 01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:57,360 Speaker 10: so you know, you didn't just have a big hole 1538 01:06:57,440 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 10: inside your stomach. 1539 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:02,920 Speaker 2: So we had to pack wound for I don't know. 1540 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:04,400 Speaker 2: It was a long time ago, but. 1541 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:05,840 Speaker 4: Would you ever do to that dude or get whatever 1542 01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:09,360 Speaker 4: happened to that dude jump back? 1543 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,480 Speaker 1: No, he still happening in town. They're still paid half 1544 01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:15,760 Speaker 1: in each other every month. You know. 1545 01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:18,920 Speaker 10: He uh, he got away with he has a phony 1546 01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:23,240 Speaker 10: and he got away with I saw with the dead weapon, 1547 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:30,400 Speaker 10: a deadly weapon. And uh, two years later, you know, 1548 01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,200 Speaker 10: I was I needed some money and there. 1549 01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 2: Was some he he had got a job, and he 1550 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:37,560 Speaker 2: offered to pay the restitution. 1551 01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:43,320 Speaker 10: And uh, in all realness, like he looked at me 1552 01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,440 Speaker 10: like he messed up, Like that's I didn't talk to him, 1553 01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,640 Speaker 10: but you know, it was just kind of that moment because. 1554 01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:51,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, we're all young. 1555 01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:54,680 Speaker 10: You know, I'm just thankful to be a lie basically 1556 01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,200 Speaker 10: and not peeing out of a bag for the rest 1557 01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:58,440 Speaker 10: of my life, you know, because there was that option, 1558 01:07:58,840 --> 01:07:59,720 Speaker 10: and uh. 1559 01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:02,080 Speaker 2: I don't know, wait, what's that option? I don't know. 1560 01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,280 Speaker 10: Well, you got you get cut cut right, you know, 1561 01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:08,280 Speaker 10: and your your center and your all your organs. I 1562 01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:10,920 Speaker 10: don't know that that's that's that's what somebody told me. 1563 01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:14,080 Speaker 10: But that may not even be true. But regardless, I survived. 1564 01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,400 Speaker 10: I didn't die. Nothing really bad happened. I got big 1565 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:20,960 Speaker 10: scars across my stomach and I was, you know, I 1566 01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 10: was getting ready to move to Nashville. You know that 1567 01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:25,640 Speaker 10: that would help out with the whole move, you know. 1568 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,040 Speaker 2: And uh, he paid me like. 1569 01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,600 Speaker 10: I don't know, eight or nine grand and and uh 1570 01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,519 Speaker 10: I got to keep it and he he got to 1571 01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:35,840 Speaker 10: live a life of a felony, which isn't easy. 1572 01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:39,920 Speaker 2: And but I did, you know it was no. I 1573 01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:44,120 Speaker 2: think we both moved on and he's looking for better things, 1574 01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:44,320 Speaker 2: you know. 1575 01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:46,000 Speaker 4: And that guy's name is Dirks Bentley. 1576 01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,360 Speaker 2: And that's how I met Dirk's Bentley. 1577 01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:51,280 Speaker 4: And that's the rest of the story. 1578 01:08:52,640 --> 01:09:00,519 Speaker 8: The Bobby Cast will be right back. Welcome back to 1579 01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:01,479 Speaker 8: the Bobby Cast. 1580 01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 1: Bred Eldridge got super vulnerable and talked about the terrible 1581 01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:07,280 Speaker 1: anxiety that he had early in his career. 1582 01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:09,559 Speaker 2: It's funny. 1583 01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:11,519 Speaker 1: We were talking about Kip with the phones and I've 1584 01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:14,439 Speaker 1: Kip and I have a friendship that has grown over 1585 01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:19,240 Speaker 1: first fighting lot and then like, hey, we're both weird 1586 01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:23,840 Speaker 1: introverted people. Let's probably be on the same team we had. 1587 01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:26,040 Speaker 1: We had the same team talk at a coffee shop 1588 01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:29,720 Speaker 1: one morning. Our relationship had gotten actually really good since then, 1589 01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 1: so I say, this is a friend. 1590 01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:34,720 Speaker 4: But Kip and I were sitting and I think I 1591 01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:35,479 Speaker 4: do Kip does? 1592 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:35,800 Speaker 12: I don't know? 1593 01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:37,599 Speaker 1: Probably you because you're an artist a heart. We have 1594 01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:40,160 Speaker 1: huge insecurity issues. Oh yeah, like we may be these 1595 01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,000 Speaker 1: larger than life characters on stage behind the microphone, but 1596 01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: really it all comes down to we're searching for some 1597 01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,479 Speaker 1: kind of love. Oh yeah, we're in some place searching 1598 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:49,360 Speaker 1: for some kind of love. And Kip and I were 1599 01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:51,760 Speaker 1: talking about watching a crowd and for me, if I'm 1600 01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,400 Speaker 1: doing a stand up, I can't look at faces because 1601 01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:56,760 Speaker 1: if I see someone's face and they're not laughing, I go, oh, 1602 01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:57,679 Speaker 1: I must be bombing. 1603 01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:59,120 Speaker 4: So I just look at foreheads. 1604 01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,720 Speaker 1: I can't look at face and kept we'll go oh, 1605 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:03,639 Speaker 1: I'll see someone not having a good time, and it'll 1606 01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,639 Speaker 1: throw me. It'll completely throw me from doing a show. 1607 01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:08,960 Speaker 1: Do you will you look down and see people not 1608 01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:11,840 Speaker 1: feeling it? And or do you let that affect you? Oh? 1609 01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:13,760 Speaker 13: Yeah, I've had times where it really affected me that 1610 01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 13: my my thing that I've you know, you have certain 1611 01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:20,800 Speaker 13: fans that are I almost always have fans that I 1612 01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:24,839 Speaker 13: know are going to be repeat fans, like for different shows, 1613 01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:26,880 Speaker 13: and if I know out they're there, and if I'm 1614 01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:29,439 Speaker 13: feeling like if I see some people that I don't 1615 01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:31,080 Speaker 13: know if they're really totally into it, it kind of messes 1616 01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 13: me up. I I because I struggled with that for 1617 01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:38,120 Speaker 13: a while. Then I would start looking at my fans 1618 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:40,680 Speaker 13: that are my diehard fans that are always there for me, 1619 01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:42,920 Speaker 13: and I see them singing the words, I'm like, oh man, 1620 01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:46,120 Speaker 13: they care, they care, and so I try to That's 1621 01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:48,120 Speaker 13: how I've tried to figure out how to shift it, 1622 01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,720 Speaker 13: and that's helped me. But yeah, that's that is That's 1623 01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:53,800 Speaker 13: a weird feeling because you're given everything of yourself and 1624 01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:57,519 Speaker 13: you know, and somebody you want every single person to 1625 01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:01,760 Speaker 13: feel as passionate about it as you are, and the 1626 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,280 Speaker 13: truth is it's never gonna be. No, there's never been 1627 01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:05,320 Speaker 13: an artist that can do that. 1628 01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,040 Speaker 1: And I do feel it's a bit unfair for us 1629 01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,519 Speaker 1: as people, if on the stage performing to judge people 1630 01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:14,600 Speaker 1: based on just their outward reactions, because if I'm comparing 1631 01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,760 Speaker 1: myself or yourself. We're watching a movie. Unless they're watching 1632 01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,719 Speaker 1: the same movie, we may react absolutely different to watching 1633 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:21,240 Speaker 1: old school. 1634 01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:21,519 Speaker 4: Now. 1635 01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,599 Speaker 1: I may be laughing out loud. You may be enjoying 1636 01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:25,559 Speaker 1: it the same amount, but laughing in a different way. 1637 01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:27,840 Speaker 1: You keep it outside, but that doesn't mean somebody is 1638 01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:30,040 Speaker 1: not enjoying it as much as the other person. But 1639 01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:32,640 Speaker 1: when we step away, it's so easy for us. You 1640 01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:35,760 Speaker 1: can't disconnect from that in a show. But we just 1641 01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:36,639 Speaker 1: feel like, oh. 1642 01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:38,880 Speaker 13: I haven't thought about that, and that's that's really good 1643 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,080 Speaker 13: to talk about that because it's a it's the hardest 1644 01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:44,040 Speaker 13: thing to explain to anybody, and there's so many people 1645 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:47,080 Speaker 13: that get And I've never really talked about this, but 1646 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:51,640 Speaker 13: I used to get nervous about I used to be. 1647 01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:56,720 Speaker 13: I'm I was born a warrior, like worry, anxiety, all that, 1648 01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:00,360 Speaker 13: and I so I used to I was never afraid 1649 01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,639 Speaker 13: to go on stage. I'm not like I'd love to perform. 1650 01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,479 Speaker 13: I'm actually the most comfortable doing that a lot of time. 1651 01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:07,800 Speaker 13: But before it, I was like if I was worn out, 1652 01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:09,640 Speaker 13: I'm a terrible sleep. I used to be a real 1653 01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:11,800 Speaker 13: bad at sleeping all this stuff, and so I had 1654 01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:14,800 Speaker 13: this little period where I was not sleeping much, and 1655 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:17,240 Speaker 13: then I would I'll get to the point where I 1656 01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:19,200 Speaker 13: was about to go on stage and I would get 1657 01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:19,800 Speaker 13: short of breadth. 1658 01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:20,960 Speaker 4: I think I was going to pass out. 1659 01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:24,680 Speaker 13: I have because I thought, Okay, well I'm gonna I'm 1660 01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:26,080 Speaker 13: going to fail in front of all these people. I'm 1661 01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:28,439 Speaker 13: going to pass out or something, which you know, you're 1662 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,080 Speaker 13: not going to dive from passing out in front everybody, 1663 01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:31,400 Speaker 13: and I'm probably not going to pass out. But I 1664 01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:33,720 Speaker 13: was telling myself that. So I was learning that. So 1665 01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:36,000 Speaker 13: I had all these these things and all these things 1666 01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:38,040 Speaker 13: because you're about to go give all yourself and you 1667 01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:41,479 Speaker 13: don't want to see yourself fail. And I don't have 1668 01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:44,000 Speaker 13: that anymore, really, I mean, you still have some days 1669 01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:45,639 Speaker 13: you're like, God, I'm so tired. 1670 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:46,240 Speaker 1: You know. 1671 01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,559 Speaker 13: Sometimes you're headlining at festival or show at eleven o'clock 1672 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:49,920 Speaker 13: at night. 1673 01:12:50,200 --> 01:12:52,679 Speaker 2: I wake up at seven o'clock, so you have the whole. 1674 01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:55,519 Speaker 13: Day to think about a show, and I've had to 1675 01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:58,320 Speaker 13: try to forgure out ways keep your mind busy. You're 1676 01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,360 Speaker 13: here for a reason. You're you're playing this show because 1677 01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:01,040 Speaker 13: people are coming. 1678 01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:01,360 Speaker 4: Here to love you. 1679 01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:04,479 Speaker 13: But it is it's a complete mind game. As performer 1680 01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:08,200 Speaker 13: he gives. You know, it's a major sacrifice throughout that 1681 01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 13: all day to you to be up there for an 1682 01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:11,760 Speaker 13: hour and a half and you and you have to 1683 01:13:12,040 --> 01:13:14,519 Speaker 13: get your mind right to that point of the show, 1684 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:15,679 Speaker 13: athlete even. 1685 01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's a lot of downtime. You got 1686 01:13:19,200 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: your ninety minutes to perform, and it all is inside 1687 01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:23,639 Speaker 1: that ninety minutes. 1688 01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:23,920 Speaker 4: Yep. 1689 01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:25,479 Speaker 1: And then if you don't, you got a lot of 1690 01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:27,639 Speaker 1: game tape to watch the next time. 1691 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:29,479 Speaker 4: And you're going to think about it. You can't not 1692 01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:31,559 Speaker 4: think about it. Yeah, all right. 1693 01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:32,839 Speaker 2: So you talk about sleeping. 1694 01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:35,439 Speaker 1: I've had real bad issues with sleeping, and a lot 1695 01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:38,439 Speaker 1: of mind comes from a mile PTSD stuff. I got 1696 01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:40,720 Speaker 1: jumped and robbed a gun point, stuff like that. You know, 1697 01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:45,559 Speaker 1: anxiety issues from that. What's your issue with sleeping? 1698 01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:46,000 Speaker 2: What was it? 1699 01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:47,600 Speaker 4: Anxiety? 1700 01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:50,760 Speaker 2: Just right about? What do you know? 1701 01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:51,639 Speaker 4: Dumb stuff? 1702 01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:55,120 Speaker 13: I mean, you know, I thought, honestly, I so, I 1703 01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:59,920 Speaker 13: mean I tried everything. I mean I would try and medicase, 1704 01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:03,200 Speaker 13: I would try whatever it was to try to get sleep. 1705 01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,479 Speaker 4: Never like a problem with it. I would just you know, 1706 01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:06,479 Speaker 4: try to figure it out. 1707 01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,439 Speaker 2: Stay sick. I stayed sick. Oh yeah, constantly run down. 1708 01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:10,479 Speaker 1: I wasn't getting it. 1709 01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,200 Speaker 13: And if if you feel like you're never going to 1710 01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:14,960 Speaker 13: get out of it. And it's not like I still 1711 01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:16,800 Speaker 13: don't have bad nights to sleep, but i'd sleep great last night. 1712 01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:19,360 Speaker 13: But it doesn't mean like you know, if you tell 1713 01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:21,240 Speaker 13: yourself you're not going to you're not a good sleeper. 1714 01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:23,280 Speaker 4: You're not going to be a good sleeper, you know 1715 01:14:23,320 --> 01:14:23,680 Speaker 4: what I mean? 1716 01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,559 Speaker 1: Like a lot of the time thing where you close 1717 01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,040 Speaker 1: your eyes and you go fall asleep. Right now, I 1718 01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:30,360 Speaker 1: get five hours twenty seven, oh yeah, thirty seconds. 1719 01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:33,120 Speaker 13: Yeah, then you then then another hour goes by, and 1720 01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:33,679 Speaker 13: then I got this. 1721 01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,599 Speaker 1: Four hours twenty seven and thirteen seconds. 1722 01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:36,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1723 01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:40,679 Speaker 1: And so I tried the I tried antidepressants for a while. 1724 01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:41,520 Speaker 2: I tried. 1725 01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:47,040 Speaker 1: Xan x, the alpaslem for a while. I've tried I've 1726 01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:50,439 Speaker 1: tried everything but smoking weed. And I I was talking 1727 01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,559 Speaker 1: to front even today because I have I've never drank 1728 01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:55,080 Speaker 1: alcohol or smoke weed, but I want to do both. 1729 01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:56,280 Speaker 1: But I just know I would do all the both. 1730 01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:59,400 Speaker 1: Like if I started, I would do it, and I wouldn't. 1731 01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,080 Speaker 1: I would be like a I'll take that and I'll 1732 01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:02,960 Speaker 1: have all of that and go ahead and give me 1733 01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:04,519 Speaker 1: the rest of all that that's just how I live 1734 01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:07,000 Speaker 1: my life or everything. But I went to the dentist 1735 01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:09,040 Speaker 1: today just to get a fix. They put a temporary 1736 01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:10,519 Speaker 1: on and they gave me the laughing gas. 1737 01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:13,639 Speaker 4: Yeah. I got so high. 1738 01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:14,160 Speaker 2: And then I don't. 1739 01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:16,920 Speaker 1: I don't relax have trouble relaxing this in general. I 1740 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:19,200 Speaker 1: got so high. I became so relaxed. I started to 1741 01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:27,799 Speaker 1: have these really deep emotional sharing within my self thoughts, 1742 01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:29,120 Speaker 1: and I'm like, man, if this is what it's like 1743 01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:30,360 Speaker 1: to get high, I gotta do this. 1744 01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:30,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1745 01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:33,560 Speaker 1: And I felt like I could go to sleep or 1746 01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:36,680 Speaker 1: I could stay awake. I just felt great. So I 1747 01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:37,840 Speaker 1: was talking to a friend and she was like, you 1748 01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:41,720 Speaker 1: should try the gummies. But I hear a snoopg talk 1749 01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,360 Speaker 1: about this stuff and he's like, don't eat it. He's like, 1750 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,799 Speaker 1: you can't control it if you If you eat it, 1751 01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:48,120 Speaker 1: you can't control it. 1752 01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:51,519 Speaker 4: Man. I just don't like eating. 1753 01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:52,320 Speaker 12: I don't. 1754 01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:55,360 Speaker 1: I don't like hot this, smoking anything. It seems like 1755 01:15:55,360 --> 01:15:58,640 Speaker 1: it would just be pain on the lawn. A cigarettes, yeah, 1756 01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:02,599 Speaker 1: I actually never re smiled a cigarets. That that heat 1757 01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:05,160 Speaker 1: going into the I don't like I don't drink coffee. Yeah, 1758 01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:09,479 Speaker 1: because I mean I've tasted coffee once. No way, I'm 1759 01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:11,759 Speaker 1: not against coffee. Yeah, I mean it's not a moral 1760 01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:17,320 Speaker 1: church of coffee. You have issues with sleeping. But also 1761 01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,719 Speaker 1: sounds like when you talk that have you been in therapy, 1762 01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,080 Speaker 1: because you sound like, Okay, I get it because again 1763 01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:22,919 Speaker 1: I'm just looking. 1764 01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:26,320 Speaker 13: At I'm like, I'm very and I've I've just recently 1765 01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:29,680 Speaker 13: started becoming very open with it because I mean, I 1766 01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:32,360 Speaker 13: feel like everybody should go to therapy. Honestly, me too. 1767 01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:35,200 Speaker 13: I mean it's it's for me too. And it's not 1768 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:40,360 Speaker 13: like you're not crazy, you're not whatever. We all have anxieties, 1769 01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:43,639 Speaker 13: we all have worries, we all have I mean, it's human, 1770 01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:45,519 Speaker 13: the most human thing we were. 1771 01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:47,360 Speaker 4: This is how we're built. 1772 01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:50,519 Speaker 13: And for me, it got to a place where I 1773 01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:54,439 Speaker 13: was like, I'm not I'm really good at covering that up. 1774 01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:56,640 Speaker 13: And I wasn't like depressed or like major. I was 1775 01:16:56,720 --> 01:16:58,840 Speaker 13: just always worried about stuff and it totally throws your 1776 01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:02,400 Speaker 13: body out of a whack and so I was I 1777 01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:04,400 Speaker 13: was like, I'm tired of this. So I actually got 1778 01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:07,519 Speaker 13: into mindfulness. So meditating really helped me a lot. 1779 01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:09,760 Speaker 4: You able to do that, I have trouble. It's hard. 1780 01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:10,479 Speaker 2: I have trouble. 1781 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:13,360 Speaker 4: It's hard. I mean I've been doing over like a 1782 01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:13,680 Speaker 4: year and. 1783 01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:16,760 Speaker 1: A half, likesidental, like what kind of meditation, just like 1784 01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:19,360 Speaker 1: mostly just sign like so I did the apps, So 1785 01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:22,639 Speaker 1: I did. I started with headspace. Tell me about that. 1786 01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:24,920 Speaker 1: I've done the sleep app. I haven't done any meditation. 1787 01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:26,920 Speaker 13: Head Space is great. It just kind of walks you through. 1788 01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:28,960 Speaker 13: It's not like one of those things where you're feeling 1789 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 13: very sleepy or you know whatever. It's very much like, 1790 01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:36,639 Speaker 13: all right, now, take your now. No, you might feel 1791 01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,880 Speaker 13: yourself your mind wandering and having all these thoughts throughout 1792 01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:41,880 Speaker 13: the day whatever, I'll take it back to the breath 1793 01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:44,280 Speaker 13: and so you you switch your focus back to the 1794 01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:46,479 Speaker 13: breath and you just focus on your breath. It's pretty 1795 01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:49,559 Speaker 13: much just training your brain to see thoughts is just thoughts, 1796 01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:53,559 Speaker 13: because we have thousands of thoughts every day, all of them, 1797 01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:56,479 Speaker 13: almost all of them are crap. They're just worthless, you know. 1798 01:17:56,520 --> 01:17:58,720 Speaker 13: I mean you can tell I've studied a lot of this, 1799 01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:00,719 Speaker 13: but it is the truth. I have so many thoughts. 1800 01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,439 Speaker 13: So I think the most that it's taught me is 1801 01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:05,439 Speaker 13: to not sweat that stuff as much, not that I 1802 01:18:05,439 --> 01:18:05,920 Speaker 13: don't still. 1803 01:18:05,960 --> 01:18:08,320 Speaker 4: I mean you still. You never get rid of anxiety. 1804 01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,400 Speaker 13: You just have a different relationship with and I think 1805 01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:12,640 Speaker 13: through a lot of different things, I've I've got a 1806 01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:14,920 Speaker 13: different relationship with it. And I used to not be 1807 01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:17,000 Speaker 13: able to enjoy tour and all that kind of stuff 1808 01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:19,240 Speaker 13: near as much because you'd always be worrying about worrying 1809 01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:21,880 Speaker 13: about feeling this way. Then you're feeling more that way, 1810 01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:23,800 Speaker 13: and it's like it doesn't have to be that way. 1811 01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:26,679 Speaker 13: And so I think now to more, I've got uh 1812 01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:29,200 Speaker 13: And I mean this is really one of the most 1813 01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:31,720 Speaker 13: open I've ever really talked about it, But I've got 1814 01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:35,280 Speaker 13: way more. I want to help other people realize that 1815 01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:38,679 Speaker 13: happens to everybody. It's not a big deal. It sucks, 1816 01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:42,280 Speaker 13: but it's real and you can you can get through that. 1817 01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:43,920 Speaker 1: So you know why it sucks? Is it not enough 1818 01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,000 Speaker 1: people talk about it? I know I grew up like 1819 01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:48,559 Speaker 1: you in a really small town. Therapy wasn't a thing. 1820 01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:50,639 Speaker 1: Oh no, it was more like you got to pay 1821 01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:53,160 Speaker 1: the bills, So therapy doesn't matter. You know, when you're 1822 01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:55,920 Speaker 1: trying to buy Manwich, there's not money for therapy or 1823 01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:58,760 Speaker 1: even to know that mental illness is like a real 1824 01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:00,479 Speaker 1: life thing. And I'm not even a mental I'm just 1825 01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:03,200 Speaker 1: talking about any sort of therapy like it. Just so 1826 01:19:03,680 --> 01:19:05,840 Speaker 1: I remember going and I was like, this is my insurance, 1827 01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:07,439 Speaker 1: so I can actually go talk to someone. And it 1828 01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:10,679 Speaker 1: was talking to someone who did not have a bias. 1829 01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,840 Speaker 1: Yes that would judge zone call you not only on 1830 01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:16,519 Speaker 1: your crap, but also tell you when things were good, 1831 01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:19,960 Speaker 1: so you could trust both. And we're both in a 1832 01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:21,600 Speaker 1: position too, where we're in a creative space where if 1833 01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:23,000 Speaker 1: we're doing well, there are a lot of people tell 1834 01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:25,920 Speaker 1: us how cool we are, and it's it gets harder 1835 01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:29,479 Speaker 1: and harder to separate. I wrote my new book that 1836 01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:30,640 Speaker 1: came out of this week. I have a whole thing 1837 01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:34,439 Speaker 1: about trusting a certain few people that will tell you suck. 1838 01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:36,759 Speaker 1: But everybody will tell you suck. But if you find 1839 01:19:36,760 --> 01:19:40,040 Speaker 1: the people that you trust to tell you suck, whenever 1840 01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,639 Speaker 1: they tell you that you do really good, you can 1841 01:19:42,720 --> 01:19:46,760 Speaker 1: believe them. And that's the hardest thing. It's not hard 1842 01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:48,680 Speaker 1: to find somebody to tell you suck. Trust me. All 1843 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:50,760 Speaker 1: I got is go to Facebook right now, and I 1844 01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:53,479 Speaker 1: got a thousand people telling me and we naturally search 1845 01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:55,720 Speaker 1: for that stuff too. It falls right in our lap 1846 01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:57,760 Speaker 1: or just stare at it, and people are loving us 1847 01:19:57,760 --> 01:19:59,719 Speaker 1: all around us, but we're looking at this little angry 1848 01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:02,040 Speaker 1: monster and that we're like, what's up? But you can 1849 01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:05,559 Speaker 1: you came to see me. But if you find someone 1850 01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:09,760 Speaker 1: that can say, hey, I don't know about that. But 1851 01:20:09,800 --> 01:20:12,400 Speaker 1: then when they do say, oh, I do know about this, 1852 01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:14,600 Speaker 1: you trust that good because they're able to tell you 1853 01:20:14,640 --> 01:20:17,719 Speaker 1: whenever they feel it's not good. I found that with therapy. 1854 01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:19,840 Speaker 1: Then I've started to be able to find it with friends. 1855 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,559 Speaker 1: But I had to find it with me first before 1856 01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:25,040 Speaker 1: it was anything else. I had to go in and 1857 01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:28,040 Speaker 1: trust the process a bit, a little, only a little, 1858 01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:29,439 Speaker 1: trust that it was the process. 1859 01:20:29,760 --> 01:20:30,880 Speaker 2: But therapy changed me. 1860 01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:33,880 Speaker 1: And listen, I'm still in my thirties, I'm single, I'm married, 1861 01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:36,120 Speaker 1: I got no kids. Like I struggle with relationships and 1862 01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:39,320 Speaker 1: trust I do. Yeah, bridges raise his hand too. But 1863 01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:43,800 Speaker 1: for me, it showed me that I'm struggling. Before I 1864 01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:45,960 Speaker 1: just didn't know, like what's the problem? Why am I? 1865 01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:49,400 Speaker 1: But now I see there's a struggle and the first 1866 01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:51,000 Speaker 1: and best way to talk about this. And as you 1867 01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:52,960 Speaker 1: were saying these words, the words that I hear all 1868 01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:54,840 Speaker 1: the time because I read about it, and I go 1869 01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:56,960 Speaker 1: to therapy, I'm like, oh, he's had some sort of 1870 01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,360 Speaker 1: self reflection in some way, and I like that, and 1871 01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:00,320 Speaker 1: I commend you that. 1872 01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:03,160 Speaker 13: Yeah, well the same here, And I think I think 1873 01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:07,479 Speaker 13: it's it's up to you know, each of us to 1874 01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:10,720 Speaker 13: try to get everybody to look at that and just 1875 01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,320 Speaker 13: say you're not crazy for going to get help from 1876 01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:15,439 Speaker 13: orders telling or even going through a friend or whatever. 1877 01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:17,240 Speaker 4: I mean, does it have to normal? 1878 01:21:17,320 --> 01:21:20,599 Speaker 1: You're normal, You have this stuff, totally normal, I mean, 1879 01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:23,880 Speaker 1: but nobody talks about it, so then you feel isolated 1880 01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:25,760 Speaker 1: and alone when you're feeling these well, I'm the. 1881 01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:28,599 Speaker 13: Only person that I just feel like, no, try hundreds 1882 01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:29,479 Speaker 13: of millions of people. 1883 01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:31,400 Speaker 1: Nobody's post on Instagram, so it can't be real. 1884 01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:35,280 Speaker 13: Yeah, that's a feeling of it because they know, yeah exactly. 1885 01:21:37,280 --> 01:21:39,479 Speaker 1: Walker Hayes talks about trying to make ends meet early 1886 01:21:39,520 --> 01:21:42,439 Speaker 1: on and what helped him stay motivated when times are tough. 1887 01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:47,599 Speaker 1: So you you decide we're moving to Nashville just from 1888 01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:49,000 Speaker 1: one night of playing in front of people. 1889 01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:50,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was pretty wild. 1890 01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:53,800 Speaker 14: I mean, I played, had such a great time. I 1891 01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:56,320 Speaker 14: called Lanny said, I don't want to move to Nashville 1892 01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:58,400 Speaker 14: to sing that was it? 1893 01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:01,559 Speaker 4: So I want to go, what's her action? Uh? You know, 1894 01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:03,200 Speaker 4: I think she was pretty adventurous. 1895 01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:06,519 Speaker 14: You know, at the time we were kids excited about 1896 01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:09,680 Speaker 14: you know, getting out of town. She was with it. 1897 01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:13,439 Speaker 14: I mean, oddly enough, there was no second guessing on 1898 01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:13,920 Speaker 14: her part. 1899 01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:15,000 Speaker 4: She was ready to go. 1900 01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:17,400 Speaker 1: And so what was your style back then? 1901 01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,800 Speaker 4: So my style back then? I remember two songs that 1902 01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:21,559 Speaker 4: I played. 1903 01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:25,599 Speaker 14: One was sitting on the dock of the bay, and 1904 01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:30,160 Speaker 14: then didn't Adobie Gray drift Away? Yeah, drift I guess 1905 01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:33,840 Speaker 14: drift Away. And uh I only played like five songs. 1906 01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:36,439 Speaker 14: I just played them over and over and so yeah, 1907 01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:38,400 Speaker 14: I mean I was just gonna come up and sing, 1908 01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:40,639 Speaker 14: you know, move to Nashville, try to be a rock. 1909 01:22:40,520 --> 01:22:43,200 Speaker 4: Star, make it. Yeah I did. 1910 01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:45,880 Speaker 14: I was dumb enough to be like, yeah, I'm gonna go, 1911 01:22:46,200 --> 01:22:47,320 Speaker 14: you know, and figure this out. 1912 01:22:47,439 --> 01:22:49,160 Speaker 4: Be famous. I mean I knew nobody. 1913 01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:52,600 Speaker 14: We had a great time picking out our apartment and 1914 01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 14: stuff like that. Honestly, meeting with her parents, they were 1915 01:22:56,439 --> 01:23:00,080 Speaker 14: really frightened and just thought I was nuts. You know, 1916 01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:03,400 Speaker 14: this was not This was on such a whim and 1917 01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:06,679 Speaker 14: the security that I had, you know, and mobile made 1918 01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:10,599 Speaker 14: a lot more sense. To them and so yeah, I mean, man, 1919 01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:13,800 Speaker 14: we just found an apartment, got married, and drove up here. 1920 01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:16,479 Speaker 1: So you move here? And what does one do when 1921 01:23:16,479 --> 01:23:18,320 Speaker 1: you don't know anybody into town like Nashville and you 1922 01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:19,080 Speaker 1: want to make music? 1923 01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:20,719 Speaker 2: Like, what's the first step? You go outside? 1924 01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:23,640 Speaker 14: And man, I mean, as cliche as it sounds, the 1925 01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:26,360 Speaker 14: absolute first thing I did was go sign up for 1926 01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:29,920 Speaker 14: an open mic night at the Bluebird. I was I 1927 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:32,960 Speaker 14: don't remember exactly what number I chose, you know, to 1928 01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:35,680 Speaker 14: get selected that night, But so you played the first 1929 01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:37,880 Speaker 14: night you went. I came on a Monday night, stood 1930 01:23:37,880 --> 01:23:43,200 Speaker 14: in the line, got selected. They were about to call 1931 01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:45,880 Speaker 14: my name, but I realized that everybody in there was 1932 01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:48,720 Speaker 14: playing songs that they had written, and I showed up 1933 01:23:48,760 --> 01:23:51,360 Speaker 14: to play covers. So we left and then I came 1934 01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:54,800 Speaker 14: back the next Monday with a couple of songs that 1935 01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:58,800 Speaker 14: I wrote that week and then performed and it was. 1936 01:23:58,720 --> 01:23:59,559 Speaker 4: The same rush. 1937 01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:01,760 Speaker 1: Know, so the first time you went, you end up 1938 01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:02,280 Speaker 1: not playing. 1939 01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:04,479 Speaker 14: Well, I check it out, but you know, I wasn't 1940 01:24:04,520 --> 01:24:05,920 Speaker 14: about to get up and play that. 1941 01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:07,760 Speaker 4: I was gonna play drift. 1942 01:24:07,439 --> 01:24:12,320 Speaker 1: Away, give Me the Bee Boy Free? And what did 1943 01:24:12,360 --> 01:24:15,880 Speaker 1: you write that you something? I wrote so so you 1944 01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:17,880 Speaker 1: first time you don't do it. The second time you 1945 01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:18,880 Speaker 1: go and you do it. What did you play? What 1946 01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:19,559 Speaker 1: song you remember? 1947 01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:20,360 Speaker 2: I do? 1948 01:24:20,400 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 14: I remember I played a song about as short of 1949 01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:26,120 Speaker 14: a time period as we had been married. I learned 1950 01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:28,759 Speaker 14: very quickly that when you bring up the in loss 1951 01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:31,719 Speaker 14: that your significant other gets really pissed. 1952 01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:33,200 Speaker 4: And so I wrote a song about that. 1953 01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:35,120 Speaker 14: And it was kind of a joke, you know, a 1954 01:24:35,160 --> 01:24:38,599 Speaker 14: funny song, and uh, I don't remember the title of it. 1955 01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:41,799 Speaker 14: And I played too and I just remember the crowd reacting, 1956 01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:44,400 Speaker 14: you know, they laughed, they had a great time, and 1957 01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:45,200 Speaker 14: they went nuts. 1958 01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:47,920 Speaker 4: It's a real supportive crowd, and the Bluebergs. 1959 01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:50,800 Speaker 14: They're there to hear the writer performing their songs, so 1960 01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,120 Speaker 14: they went nuts. And it was not I didn't like 1961 01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:54,719 Speaker 14: get a deal or anything quick. 1962 01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:55,000 Speaker 4: You know. 1963 01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:57,479 Speaker 1: Did you feel like after that night, though, that you 1964 01:24:57,520 --> 01:24:59,200 Speaker 1: had submitted a little more in your head, like I 1965 01:24:59,240 --> 01:24:59,760 Speaker 1: can do this. 1966 01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:02,080 Speaker 4: Uh? 1967 01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:05,000 Speaker 14: I didn't really think about whether I could or not. 1968 01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:07,280 Speaker 14: I just did, you know what I'm saying. And I 1969 01:25:07,439 --> 01:25:13,160 Speaker 14: also it was like a drug, I mean honestly, but 1970 01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:17,280 Speaker 14: since then, I haven't stopped writing songs. It's just I 1971 01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:21,000 Speaker 14: fell in love with that that conceiving the idea, putting 1972 01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:25,000 Speaker 14: it together, playing it for somebody, getting their reaction, moving 1973 01:25:25,040 --> 01:25:27,240 Speaker 14: on to the next one. You know, my favorite song 1974 01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:30,559 Speaker 14: is always the one I'm working on right now, and 1975 01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:32,880 Speaker 14: that's kind of how it been since then. It just 1976 01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:36,720 Speaker 14: it pretty much consumes my life and has since then. 1977 01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:37,719 Speaker 4: So how long. 1978 01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:39,920 Speaker 1: Until you get and I'm assuming you're getting into publishing 1979 01:25:39,960 --> 01:25:41,840 Speaker 1: deal first, which is what happened to they pay you 1980 01:25:41,880 --> 01:25:43,920 Speaker 1: to write songs. How long did it take from you 1981 01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:45,880 Speaker 1: playing that bluebird till you getting a publishing deal? 1982 01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:47,479 Speaker 2: So had I had a day job. 1983 01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:52,840 Speaker 14: I booked motivational speakers at Premiere Speakers Bureau in Franklin. 1984 01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:55,599 Speaker 1: Like what motivational speakers ran through in Franklin. 1985 01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:56,599 Speaker 4: A lot of right. 1986 01:25:56,439 --> 01:26:01,440 Speaker 14: Wing conservatives, old Steelers player Rocky Bleier, a couple of authors, 1987 01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:05,760 Speaker 14: Oliver North and the guy Sean Hennity. We booked them. 1988 01:26:06,240 --> 01:26:11,840 Speaker 14: Uh some of those were exclusive. Sorry again trying to 1989 01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:12,759 Speaker 14: get rid of that tic. 1990 01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:17,400 Speaker 4: Uh but yeah, just I booked them and uh lost. 1991 01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:20,559 Speaker 14: I actually lost my job in a year and then 1992 01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:22,720 Speaker 14: I got a pub deal. So it took me a 1993 01:26:22,800 --> 01:26:25,599 Speaker 14: year and a couple of months to secure a pub deal. 1994 01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:28,160 Speaker 1: So in that year, you're just writing and sending songs 1995 01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:29,960 Speaker 1: to people going, hey you check it out. 1996 01:26:30,040 --> 01:26:32,280 Speaker 4: No, in that year I was working, you know, that 1997 01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:34,080 Speaker 4: was No. Nine to five. 1998 01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:38,439 Speaker 14: My clientele was West Coast event planner, so I got 1999 01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:40,040 Speaker 14: to show up a little bit later and stay a 2000 01:26:40,080 --> 01:26:42,559 Speaker 14: little longer. But I was writing songs while I was working, 2001 01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:46,200 Speaker 14: you know, on my computer, just loading it up. And yeah, 2002 01:26:46,240 --> 01:26:49,120 Speaker 14: I mean playing open mic nights anybody I could ever 2003 01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:52,000 Speaker 14: get my songs in front of. Obviously I was trying 2004 01:26:52,040 --> 01:26:55,839 Speaker 14: to do that, playing all the local you know, songwriter 2005 01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:59,880 Speaker 14: nights that I could. And yeah, I wasn't really comparing 2006 01:26:59,880 --> 01:27:02,360 Speaker 14: myself to other people. I just love, like I said, 2007 01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:06,960 Speaker 14: I loved, loved, loved writing, I mean obsessed with writing. 2008 01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:09,759 Speaker 1: So you write and you start to get paid to write. 2009 01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:12,759 Speaker 1: And what did your first cut? 2010 01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:14,719 Speaker 4: Shoot? Man? 2011 01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:18,400 Speaker 14: I mean, my my first pub deal actually got me 2012 01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:19,679 Speaker 14: a record deal first. 2013 01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:21,240 Speaker 4: I mean I didn't get a cut. 2014 01:27:22,160 --> 01:27:23,960 Speaker 1: So your pub deal got you a record deal first? 2015 01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:27,799 Speaker 1: Is this the Keith Urban Demo story? No, that's that's capital. 2016 01:27:27,920 --> 01:27:28,720 Speaker 1: That's the second deal. 2017 01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:31,679 Speaker 14: The first pub deal I ever got was from a 2018 01:27:31,800 --> 01:27:34,960 Speaker 14: neighbor heard me messing around on the porch. He said, man, 2019 01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:37,160 Speaker 14: I really like what you do. I'm gonna take you 2020 01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:39,599 Speaker 14: to introduce you to two or three people. He brought 2021 01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:43,919 Speaker 14: me into town. I met two big time producers Franklin. 2022 01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:46,719 Speaker 14: In Franklin, here's your porch, here's me on the porch. 2023 01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:47,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 2024 01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:49,680 Speaker 14: He's like, dude, I really love your voice. Did you 2025 01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:51,760 Speaker 14: write that? I'm like, yeah, you want to hear some more? 2026 01:27:52,040 --> 01:27:54,200 Speaker 14: And up I wrote a song about his kid, whose 2027 01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:57,280 Speaker 14: name is Hogan, which that was a business move right there. 2028 01:27:57,320 --> 01:28:00,519 Speaker 14: I was like, dude, if I write somebody's kid, really, 2029 01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:03,240 Speaker 14: you know, hooked me up. So he takes me into town, 2030 01:28:03,520 --> 01:28:07,679 Speaker 14: introduced me to introduces me to Scott Hendricks, David Malloy, 2031 01:28:08,160 --> 01:28:11,960 Speaker 14: and a guy named Christy DiNapoli. And Christy wanted to 2032 01:28:11,960 --> 01:28:14,599 Speaker 14: sign me to a pub deal. The other two wanted 2033 01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:17,840 Speaker 14: to maybe cut some sides and do the shoppy thingy 2034 01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:20,200 Speaker 14: and I wasn't really ready for that. I just wanted 2035 01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:22,479 Speaker 14: to write, you know, really bad. I wanted to get 2036 01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:25,880 Speaker 14: paid to write songs, and at that time I only 2037 01:28:25,920 --> 01:28:27,439 Speaker 14: had one kid, so I didn't have to make that 2038 01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:31,880 Speaker 14: much money. And so anyway, Christy signed me under a 2039 01:28:31,880 --> 01:28:35,920 Speaker 14: guy named Buddy Killing, who's gone now but great. First 2040 01:28:35,920 --> 01:28:38,240 Speaker 14: publisher to have learned a lot from that guy and 2041 01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:41,479 Speaker 14: Alison Jones. I know this is the industry, but signed 2042 01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:43,480 Speaker 14: me at Mercury. 2043 01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:45,920 Speaker 1: And so you get a publishing a deal and a 2044 01:28:45,920 --> 01:28:47,400 Speaker 1: record deal basically at the same time. 2045 01:28:47,920 --> 01:28:50,400 Speaker 14: Well, I got a pub deal and then we worked 2046 01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:52,759 Speaker 14: on it, you know, and he had cut some sides 2047 01:28:52,800 --> 01:28:55,400 Speaker 14: there and then they shot me and then got me 2048 01:28:55,479 --> 01:28:57,160 Speaker 14: my first record development deal. 2049 01:28:57,280 --> 01:28:59,479 Speaker 1: So when you get signed to a development deal, what 2050 01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:01,120 Speaker 1: do they start doing with you? Where do they develop? 2051 01:29:01,439 --> 01:29:07,120 Speaker 14: So the development deal basically got me James Stroud, great producer. 2052 01:29:07,320 --> 01:29:08,640 Speaker 4: He cut some sides on me. 2053 01:29:08,720 --> 01:29:11,479 Speaker 14: So what we did is just accumulate songs, kept writing 2054 01:29:11,479 --> 01:29:15,240 Speaker 14: for a little while, chose the best ones, went in 2055 01:29:15,320 --> 01:29:17,640 Speaker 14: the studio, cut them with an excellent band. So that 2056 01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:20,240 Speaker 14: was my first experience with that, you know, And of 2057 01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:22,880 Speaker 14: course we came home with five songs. I thought I 2058 01:29:22,920 --> 01:29:26,720 Speaker 14: was gonna be Garth Brooks, were you I sounded like him? Yeah, 2059 01:29:26,760 --> 01:29:29,599 Speaker 14: it sounded better than Now. I was not Garth Brooks. 2060 01:29:29,640 --> 01:29:32,360 Speaker 14: I had some great stuff, you know, looking back, I 2061 01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:34,240 Speaker 14: think some of those sides were good. 2062 01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:36,000 Speaker 4: But there was a. 2063 01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:39,080 Speaker 14: Falling out within the company and it wasn't long till 2064 01:29:39,680 --> 01:29:42,120 Speaker 14: I was off that that labeled me and that that 2065 01:29:42,160 --> 01:29:43,599 Speaker 14: deal expired pretty quick. 2066 01:29:44,080 --> 01:29:47,280 Speaker 4: So you're on. Did you put a record out? I didn't. 2067 01:29:47,320 --> 01:29:51,600 Speaker 14: I cut five sides, literally celebrated the cutting. 2068 01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:54,439 Speaker 4: My first five songs. You cut five songs. Yeah, I'm 2069 01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:57,720 Speaker 4: going We're beside myself and this stuff sounds so great. 2070 01:29:58,000 --> 01:29:58,120 Speaker 2: Uh. 2071 01:29:58,520 --> 01:30:00,000 Speaker 4: We finished those in a December. 2072 01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:04,280 Speaker 14: I got a call in January saying that James Stroud 2073 01:30:04,400 --> 01:30:06,840 Speaker 14: was gone from the label and that they he had 2074 01:30:06,880 --> 01:30:11,439 Speaker 14: parted with co you know, head People, and Alison Jones 2075 01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:13,240 Speaker 14: was leaving and I wasn't. 2076 01:30:13,600 --> 01:30:16,479 Speaker 4: I wasn't on the label anymore. But the label stayed. 2077 01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:17,320 Speaker 4: Label stayed. 2078 01:30:17,400 --> 01:30:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you never put out a single? 2079 01:30:19,320 --> 01:30:21,320 Speaker 4: No, never put out a single. Did you tell a 2080 01:30:21,320 --> 01:30:24,120 Speaker 4: publishing deal? I did? Okay, still writing. 2081 01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:28,640 Speaker 14: Still writing, and still still still trying to get outside cuts, 2082 01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:30,519 Speaker 14: but did not get outside cuts. 2083 01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:33,400 Speaker 1: So you have to go to another try to get 2084 01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:35,599 Speaker 1: how long until you get signed to a different label. 2085 01:30:35,640 --> 01:30:39,439 Speaker 14: So after that it took me two years to get 2086 01:30:39,479 --> 01:30:40,240 Speaker 14: another label. 2087 01:30:40,640 --> 01:30:42,680 Speaker 4: That is this when Urban here's your This is. 2088 01:30:42,600 --> 01:30:45,840 Speaker 14: When Autumn House, a friend of mine, pitched the song 2089 01:30:45,960 --> 01:30:50,000 Speaker 14: for Keith Urban. Keith Urban did not take the song, 2090 01:30:50,800 --> 01:30:54,840 Speaker 14: but the A and R rep at Capitol Autumn House said, 2091 01:30:55,040 --> 01:30:58,080 Speaker 14: I like this guy singing, I like this writing style. 2092 01:30:58,560 --> 01:31:02,120 Speaker 14: You know, who is this kid? And they said it's 2093 01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:05,400 Speaker 14: Walker Hayes, you know. And within a couple of months 2094 01:31:05,520 --> 01:31:07,320 Speaker 14: I had a deal in Capital. A lot of my 2095 01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:10,160 Speaker 14: deals came pretty quick, you know, deals are hard to get, 2096 01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:14,080 Speaker 14: but my first two just kind of fell into my lap. 2097 01:31:14,160 --> 01:31:17,120 Speaker 14: I mean they just kind of came out of nowhere 2098 01:31:18,040 --> 01:31:18,320 Speaker 14: for me. 2099 01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:20,800 Speaker 1: So you get a deal, you start to cut songs 2100 01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:21,960 Speaker 1: again or to use your old song. 2101 01:31:22,120 --> 01:31:22,280 Speaker 4: Oh. 2102 01:31:22,360 --> 01:31:25,480 Speaker 14: Man, when I got a deal at Capital, I was writing. 2103 01:31:25,840 --> 01:31:28,160 Speaker 4: You go through the producer search, you know. 2104 01:31:28,240 --> 01:31:32,360 Speaker 14: I was on Capital two years probably before we even decided, 2105 01:31:32,760 --> 01:31:34,040 Speaker 14: you know, to try a single. 2106 01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:35,880 Speaker 1: You had been signed for two years before you put 2107 01:31:35,880 --> 01:31:36,360 Speaker 1: a song out. 2108 01:31:36,479 --> 01:31:39,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think I've been a Capital around that time. 2109 01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:42,720 Speaker 4: So frustrating. Yeah, it was, yeah, it was. 2110 01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:44,920 Speaker 14: I mean we were looking for the right producer. We 2111 01:31:45,040 --> 01:31:48,559 Speaker 14: tried some, we cut some. They just didn't didn't blow 2112 01:31:48,600 --> 01:31:49,560 Speaker 14: our minds. 2113 01:31:50,000 --> 01:31:50,240 Speaker 4: You know. 2114 01:31:50,560 --> 01:31:53,439 Speaker 1: So then you have your first song. What's your first thingle. 2115 01:31:53,520 --> 01:31:55,080 Speaker 4: My first single was pants? 2116 01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:55,760 Speaker 2: All right? 2117 01:32:03,160 --> 01:32:07,320 Speaker 4: I like that look you're giving you by write that 2118 01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:11,800 Speaker 4: I did. I wrote it for my wife my cringe. 2119 01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:14,599 Speaker 14: I don't know, man, you know, I just hear it, 2120 01:32:14,760 --> 01:32:19,759 Speaker 14: and uh, it just doesn't sound you know, it doesn't 2121 01:32:19,800 --> 01:32:21,120 Speaker 14: sound that great. 2122 01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:21,679 Speaker 4: I just don't. 2123 01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:24,080 Speaker 14: I don't hear it like I did then when when 2124 01:32:24,120 --> 01:32:27,439 Speaker 14: I heard it then, I just I just thought, this 2125 01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:32,080 Speaker 14: is gonna be amazing. And I don't know, I just 2126 01:32:32,200 --> 01:32:35,400 Speaker 14: hear it now and it just the Maybe I've gotten 2127 01:32:35,439 --> 01:32:36,720 Speaker 14: better at writing, you know, and I. 2128 01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:39,040 Speaker 4: Can just see the holes in there. 2129 01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:43,680 Speaker 14: But yeah, I cringe, just like hearing myself on a 2130 01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:49,760 Speaker 14: answering machine. 2131 01:32:50,439 --> 01:32:51,880 Speaker 4: How the single do? I have no idea? 2132 01:32:53,640 --> 01:32:57,280 Speaker 14: The song was added heavily, you know, right off the back, 2133 01:32:57,680 --> 01:33:00,280 Speaker 14: and uh, you know, I saw success coming my way 2134 01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:04,479 Speaker 14: quick and h then it just hit a wall and uh, 2135 01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:07,640 Speaker 14: some people were slow to pick it up, and it 2136 01:33:07,760 --> 01:33:13,360 Speaker 14: went to thirty eight, and eventually, you know, Mike Dungan 2137 01:33:13,720 --> 01:33:17,200 Speaker 14: and Capital pulled it and they decided to go with 2138 01:33:17,280 --> 01:33:19,280 Speaker 14: another one shortly after that. 2139 01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:20,120 Speaker 2: What song was? 2140 01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:20,720 Speaker 4: After that one? 2141 01:33:20,800 --> 01:33:22,920 Speaker 14: They went with a song called why Wait for Summer? 2142 01:33:22,960 --> 01:33:26,400 Speaker 14: And it did not do as well those pants. 2143 01:33:26,439 --> 01:33:29,080 Speaker 1: If you have two singles that didn't work, did they 2144 01:33:29,160 --> 01:33:30,720 Speaker 1: drop you or are they? We're gonna work on some 2145 01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:31,280 Speaker 1: other stuff. 2146 01:33:31,320 --> 01:33:33,360 Speaker 4: So we chilled out for a long time. 2147 01:33:33,439 --> 01:33:36,080 Speaker 14: You know, I got put on the back Burner and 2148 01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:41,040 Speaker 14: I sat for a long long time, and man, honestly, 2149 01:33:41,240 --> 01:33:45,080 Speaker 14: just to give Capital some credit, I mean they believed, 2150 01:33:45,400 --> 01:33:48,479 Speaker 14: I mean, they believed hardcore and they stuck their neck 2151 01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:52,840 Speaker 14: out for me. I didn't fully understand, you know, the 2152 01:33:52,920 --> 01:33:55,519 Speaker 14: need for the machine. I didn't know how the biz 2153 01:33:55,720 --> 01:33:59,400 Speaker 14: really worked, you know at that time. Uh, you know, 2154 01:33:59,720 --> 01:34:02,000 Speaker 14: there was a little bit of arrogance. I'm not the 2155 01:34:02,040 --> 01:34:06,120 Speaker 14: most coachable human being on the planet, and that kind 2156 01:34:06,120 --> 01:34:09,559 Speaker 14: of you know, shot me in the foot back then. 2157 01:34:09,680 --> 01:34:12,920 Speaker 14: But yeah, we sat for a long time. I continue 2158 01:34:12,960 --> 01:34:16,520 Speaker 14: to just write and write and try to give them 2159 01:34:16,880 --> 01:34:20,320 Speaker 14: that one, you know that they felt confident, you know, 2160 01:34:20,320 --> 01:34:23,200 Speaker 14: if you're gonna go three deep, that third one, I 2161 01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:25,920 Speaker 14: mean that's your hell Mary right there, you know, especially 2162 01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:27,360 Speaker 14: if the first two have flopped. 2163 01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:30,600 Speaker 4: So I fought and fought. 2164 01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:33,759 Speaker 14: You know, to write and to get that that song, 2165 01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:37,760 Speaker 14: the one, and man just couldn't find it, and. 2166 01:34:39,160 --> 01:34:41,679 Speaker 4: You know, eventually got dropped. 2167 01:34:42,000 --> 01:34:44,479 Speaker 14: And uh yeah, I mean that was that was the 2168 01:34:44,520 --> 01:34:48,120 Speaker 14: beginning of some dark some dark times right there. 2169 01:34:48,320 --> 01:34:50,800 Speaker 1: So you get dropped every second label. Yeah, what year 2170 01:34:50,840 --> 01:34:51,240 Speaker 1: was that, you. 2171 01:34:51,200 --> 01:34:55,560 Speaker 14: Know, let's see, it's twenty seventeen, sixty fifteen. For probably fourteen, 2172 01:34:55,840 --> 01:34:56,759 Speaker 14: beginning fourteen. 2173 01:34:57,000 --> 01:34:59,760 Speaker 1: So you get dropped in twenty fourteen, So what do you. 2174 01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:03,080 Speaker 4: Do well at that period? 2175 01:35:03,640 --> 01:35:05,800 Speaker 14: I think I have four kids, So I'm still not 2176 01:35:06,960 --> 01:35:11,559 Speaker 14: I'm still not, uh truly buried in finance, financial woes. 2177 01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:13,800 Speaker 14: But I had a pub deal. You know, I'm still 2178 01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:17,840 Speaker 14: my my publishers. That's one thing that's that I've always 2179 01:35:17,920 --> 01:35:20,720 Speaker 14: had as a pub deal, publishers that believe that I 2180 01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:22,080 Speaker 14: can get outside cuts. 2181 01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:25,519 Speaker 4: You know. So at that time, I didn't. 2182 01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:28,400 Speaker 14: I wouldn't say I just shut the artist thing down, 2183 01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:31,800 Speaker 14: but I wrote, man, I aimed and aimed to get 2184 01:35:31,800 --> 01:35:34,519 Speaker 14: outside cuts. You know, I wanted outside country cuts. I 2185 01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:38,600 Speaker 14: wanted these mainstream artists, uh to to you know, I 2186 01:35:38,720 --> 01:35:41,280 Speaker 14: just knew somebody who's gonna cut one of my songs, 2187 01:35:41,320 --> 01:35:44,280 Speaker 14: It's gonna be huge, kind of solidify me as spot 2188 01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:47,040 Speaker 14: in that writer community. 2189 01:35:47,320 --> 01:35:48,479 Speaker 4: And uh, I. 2190 01:35:48,439 --> 01:35:53,880 Speaker 14: Eventually did get a cut from Rodney Atkins. Uh he 2191 01:35:54,000 --> 01:35:57,680 Speaker 14: cut one of my songs called Touching Feet, and uh 2192 01:35:57,880 --> 01:36:02,040 Speaker 14: it was you know, it was a great motivation, you know, 2193 01:36:02,120 --> 01:36:03,080 Speaker 14: to keep on writing. 2194 01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:06,720 Speaker 4: Didn't end up being a single, But hey. 2195 01:36:06,920 --> 01:36:09,120 Speaker 1: What about this here a Cold Fort song, dirty. 2196 01:36:08,800 --> 01:36:10,719 Speaker 4: Side dude, I love this song. 2197 01:36:10,840 --> 01:36:11,599 Speaker 2: This is my jams. 2198 01:36:11,680 --> 01:36:14,920 Speaker 14: You write it, Yeah, you're on Coult. Yeah he featured me, 2199 01:36:17,640 --> 01:36:20,719 Speaker 14: so you wrote we wrote it together. Yeah, I'm super 2200 01:36:20,800 --> 01:36:22,519 Speaker 14: appreciative feature. 2201 01:36:23,200 --> 01:36:25,120 Speaker 4: I'm talking about the perfect girl. Man, I'm gonna tell 2202 01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:28,439 Speaker 4: you everywhere stopped looking at the magazine's head on out. 2203 01:36:28,600 --> 01:36:29,559 Speaker 4: So you're writing, you're out. 2204 01:36:29,640 --> 01:36:31,400 Speaker 1: You don't have artists he all right, which you probably 2205 01:36:31,400 --> 01:36:34,479 Speaker 1: still want even though you're you still want to be 2206 01:36:34,920 --> 01:36:37,120 Speaker 1: the artist, right, but you do you want to be 2207 01:36:37,160 --> 01:36:40,160 Speaker 1: the writer. You talk about having dark times like your mind, 2208 01:36:40,280 --> 01:36:41,880 Speaker 1: just like they. 2209 01:36:41,880 --> 01:36:46,960 Speaker 14: Tell you what the darkest period I ever experienced here 2210 01:36:47,000 --> 01:36:49,120 Speaker 14: in Nashville was past these cuts. 2211 01:36:49,160 --> 01:36:50,840 Speaker 4: You know, you get a couple of cuts. 2212 01:36:51,160 --> 01:36:53,800 Speaker 14: And I'm still I'm not able to I mean, I'm 2213 01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:57,120 Speaker 14: barely supporting this, you know what I'm saying. The money 2214 01:36:57,160 --> 01:36:59,800 Speaker 14: is not just rolling in from from these types of cuts. 2215 01:36:59,800 --> 01:37:02,000 Speaker 14: I'm I'm not having hit singles, which is kind of 2216 01:37:02,000 --> 01:37:06,080 Speaker 14: what you gotta have, you know nowadays to thrive as 2217 01:37:06,080 --> 01:37:08,040 Speaker 14: a writer, you gotta have one every now and then. 2218 01:37:08,880 --> 01:37:10,040 Speaker 4: I'm loving what I'm doing. 2219 01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:12,719 Speaker 14: I mean, i feel like I'm getting better and better 2220 01:37:12,800 --> 01:37:16,120 Speaker 14: and so much closer to dialing it in, you know, 2221 01:37:16,240 --> 01:37:19,760 Speaker 14: with with what artists need and what they want and 2222 01:37:20,160 --> 01:37:23,360 Speaker 14: getting those outside cuts. But I'm playing at Pucket's boat 2223 01:37:23,360 --> 01:37:28,120 Speaker 14: House and money gets real tight. I'm talking seriously tight, 2224 01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:31,120 Speaker 14: and uh, I don't really like to ask for help. 2225 01:37:31,520 --> 01:37:33,400 Speaker 4: And I had toyed with. 2226 01:37:33,920 --> 01:37:36,720 Speaker 14: You know, getting kind of a second gig, and I 2227 01:37:36,720 --> 01:37:39,839 Speaker 14: remember this this night I will never forget. 2228 01:37:40,400 --> 01:37:40,559 Speaker 9: Uh. 2229 01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:42,600 Speaker 4: I'm playing Puckets boat House. 2230 01:37:42,720 --> 01:37:44,920 Speaker 1: Which, by the ways, it's like a restaurant in a 2231 01:37:45,040 --> 01:37:49,160 Speaker 1: stage for people. I just so, it's like a very 2232 01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:53,040 Speaker 1: famous Nashville Southern food restaurant and there's a stage on 2233 01:37:53,160 --> 01:37:53,599 Speaker 1: as well. 2234 01:37:53,520 --> 01:37:55,479 Speaker 14: Right, And so what I what I was doing is, 2235 01:37:55,760 --> 01:37:57,160 Speaker 14: you know, I didn't have an artist deal, but I 2236 01:37:57,200 --> 01:38:01,000 Speaker 14: want to keep performing so that the Annie Marshall at 2237 01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:03,759 Speaker 14: Pucket's so always so gracious to me giving me a gig, 2238 01:38:04,120 --> 01:38:06,479 Speaker 14: and I'm playing for tips, and what I would do 2239 01:38:06,600 --> 01:38:08,880 Speaker 14: is play an hour and then host an open mic 2240 01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:11,040 Speaker 14: night just for the community. 2241 01:38:11,040 --> 01:38:12,519 Speaker 4: I wanted to meet new writers and. 2242 01:38:12,439 --> 01:38:15,320 Speaker 14: Stuff and kind of do what people did for me 2243 01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:18,679 Speaker 14: in my first couple of years here. So one night, 2244 01:38:19,479 --> 01:38:23,320 Speaker 14: this guy comes and his name is Nick Canjre and 2245 01:38:24,520 --> 01:38:28,160 Speaker 14: sweet sweet guy comes up wants to play at the 2246 01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:30,880 Speaker 14: open mic night, and he just thinks, you know, he's 2247 01:38:31,080 --> 01:38:35,040 Speaker 14: heard my songs on Rodney, my stuff on Colt. He 2248 01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:38,320 Speaker 14: thinks I I'm like Elvis, you know, and he's just treating 2249 01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:42,240 Speaker 14: me like it too. And he mentions at one point 2250 01:38:42,280 --> 01:38:44,519 Speaker 14: in the night that he worked at the tire center 2251 01:38:44,600 --> 01:38:47,639 Speaker 14: at Costco, and I was looking for a job at 2252 01:38:47,760 --> 01:38:51,519 Speaker 14: night so I could continue writing during the day. And 2253 01:38:51,600 --> 01:38:55,760 Speaker 14: so it was just a humbling moment to kind of 2254 01:38:55,800 --> 01:38:59,920 Speaker 14: be like, Hey, while you're getting my autograph, do you 2255 01:39:00,280 --> 01:39:03,519 Speaker 14: know any you know, is there any openings at Costco? 2256 01:39:03,640 --> 01:39:06,200 Speaker 14: You know, are they looking for people that stock stuff 2257 01:39:06,240 --> 01:39:09,479 Speaker 14: overnight and stuff? And he hooked me up and that's 2258 01:39:09,520 --> 01:39:11,640 Speaker 14: how I got a job at Costco. But it was 2259 01:39:11,720 --> 01:39:14,800 Speaker 14: just I mean, I don't know if embarrassing is the word, 2260 01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:17,800 Speaker 14: but you know, it was just it was an interesting 2261 01:39:17,880 --> 01:39:20,840 Speaker 14: moment that he saw me as kind of like an 2262 01:39:20,880 --> 01:39:24,600 Speaker 14: influence on him musically. I was so happy, you know, 2263 01:39:24,680 --> 01:39:28,200 Speaker 14: to meet me, and I was like, Hey, kind of 2264 01:39:28,240 --> 01:39:30,519 Speaker 14: need a job, you know, I need some help. 2265 01:39:30,600 --> 01:39:32,599 Speaker 4: Can you can you hook me up? 2266 01:39:32,840 --> 01:39:37,920 Speaker 14: And so that was that that was a low a 2267 01:39:37,960 --> 01:39:42,000 Speaker 14: low point for me, kind of having to ask for 2268 01:39:42,080 --> 01:39:42,920 Speaker 14: help from that guy. 2269 01:39:43,120 --> 01:39:45,599 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you learned from it and appreciate 2270 01:39:45,600 --> 01:39:47,280 Speaker 1: it even more afterward. 2271 01:39:48,200 --> 01:39:53,200 Speaker 14: Just through that experience with Costco experience, everything, everything that 2272 01:39:53,400 --> 01:39:56,040 Speaker 14: is connecting with people now is pretty much about that 2273 01:39:56,120 --> 01:40:00,680 Speaker 14: experience of my life. So yes, it's been truly beneficial. 2274 01:40:03,240 --> 01:40:07,040 Speaker 14: I got a great perspective. Uh, you know what matters, 2275 01:40:08,040 --> 01:40:10,559 Speaker 14: you know, what matter in life. That's kind of what 2276 01:40:10,680 --> 01:40:12,760 Speaker 14: Leela's Stars is about. You know, I did a lot 2277 01:40:12,760 --> 01:40:17,040 Speaker 14: of I did a lot of I don't know what 2278 01:40:17,120 --> 01:40:20,720 Speaker 14: you say, like not soul searching, but you know we 2279 01:40:20,920 --> 01:40:23,760 Speaker 14: uh yeah. 2280 01:40:23,439 --> 01:40:33,679 Speaker 4: Interesting songs. This guy's just from the Car about your daughter. 2281 01:40:33,960 --> 01:40:37,960 Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, that song is about the thumb tacks that 2282 01:40:38,040 --> 01:40:40,240 Speaker 14: she gave me to hold up the roof of my 2283 01:40:40,360 --> 01:40:42,680 Speaker 14: Honda that I had at the time, and when my 2284 01:40:43,200 --> 01:40:45,920 Speaker 14: roof was coming down, I lost it and I was 2285 01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:49,479 Speaker 14: just cuzy. At that point in my life, I was 2286 01:40:49,600 --> 01:40:53,639 Speaker 14: drinking a ton just to kind of cut the edge 2287 01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:57,200 Speaker 14: off the heaviness and the burdens and stuff that I 2288 01:40:57,600 --> 01:41:01,080 Speaker 14: was kind of up against with one to still chase 2289 01:41:01,120 --> 01:41:04,519 Speaker 14: my dream, kind of thinking I was nuts. Pretty much. 2290 01:41:04,800 --> 01:41:07,200 Speaker 14: Let everybody looking at us from the outside, I probably 2291 01:41:07,240 --> 01:41:10,680 Speaker 14: thought I was nuts too. You know, I had all 2292 01:41:10,720 --> 01:41:13,240 Speaker 14: the kids and I was still trying to do that 2293 01:41:13,680 --> 01:41:16,080 Speaker 14: to take care of them when I could have, you know, 2294 01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:18,160 Speaker 14: done a lot of other things that made a whole 2295 01:41:18,160 --> 01:41:20,479 Speaker 14: lot of sense, you know, to take care of them. 2296 01:41:20,479 --> 01:41:24,640 Speaker 14: But yeah, Leadless Stars is about those thumbtacks that she 2297 01:41:24,880 --> 01:41:28,400 Speaker 14: let me borrow. And I was really bombed and frustrated 2298 01:41:28,439 --> 01:41:31,760 Speaker 14: at the time. The roof coming out in my car 2299 01:41:31,920 --> 01:41:34,160 Speaker 14: was one of those moments in your life where you're 2300 01:41:34,200 --> 01:41:36,160 Speaker 14: looking up and you're like, you gotta be kidding me, 2301 01:41:36,640 --> 01:41:41,040 Speaker 14: you know, like I need one fricking more thing, you know, 2302 01:41:41,240 --> 01:41:44,400 Speaker 14: to carry right now. And one morning, when I was 2303 01:41:44,400 --> 01:41:46,920 Speaker 14: about to clock in at Costco, I looked up and 2304 01:41:46,960 --> 01:41:52,559 Speaker 14: I saw those thumbtacks and it just reminded me. Well, 2305 01:41:52,600 --> 01:41:55,599 Speaker 14: first I thought of her face and just her smile 2306 01:41:55,880 --> 01:42:00,200 Speaker 14: and how much fun she had putting those up, and 2307 01:42:00,520 --> 01:42:02,479 Speaker 14: she just thought they were awesome, you know, they made 2308 01:42:02,479 --> 01:42:05,840 Speaker 14: the car look incredible, and it was just an interesting 2309 01:42:05,880 --> 01:42:09,000 Speaker 14: perspective at that time to remember, Hey, I got healthy kids, 2310 01:42:09,200 --> 01:42:12,080 Speaker 14: I do have a job, I have two you know 2311 01:42:12,120 --> 01:42:15,240 Speaker 14: what I mean, and I'm still able to write. My 2312 01:42:15,320 --> 01:42:19,680 Speaker 14: wife never was unhappy, you know, I was really the 2313 01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:24,160 Speaker 14: only one, uh that was unhappy, And so that was 2314 01:42:24,200 --> 01:42:28,120 Speaker 14: a that was a great moment and got a cool 2315 01:42:28,160 --> 01:42:28,800 Speaker 14: song out of it. 2316 01:42:29,240 --> 01:42:31,000 Speaker 1: So you were drinking a lot. You don't drink it 2317 01:42:31,040 --> 01:42:33,479 Speaker 1: all now, no sober, so you must have been drinking 2318 01:42:33,520 --> 01:42:33,800 Speaker 1: a lot. 2319 01:42:34,400 --> 01:42:34,960 Speaker 2: Tend to go. 2320 01:42:35,600 --> 01:42:39,160 Speaker 14: I have to stop, man, I was, I mean, we want, 2321 01:42:39,240 --> 01:42:41,439 Speaker 14: we want to talk about numbers. I mean I was, like, 2322 01:42:42,439 --> 01:42:45,000 Speaker 14: I mean, I was drinking from I was drunk at Costco. 2323 01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:49,599 Speaker 14: You know, obviously I was doing my work, working hard, 2324 01:42:49,640 --> 01:42:53,080 Speaker 14: but I mean I was, I was drinking on on 2325 01:42:53,240 --> 01:42:56,520 Speaker 14: breaks at Costco. You know, I go to the parking lot, 2326 01:42:56,720 --> 01:42:59,840 Speaker 14: you know, and do that leave, go do a show 2327 01:42:59,880 --> 01:43:02,960 Speaker 14: with Bluebird. You know, they were hiring me for shows. 2328 01:43:03,000 --> 01:43:05,040 Speaker 14: I was still able to get some work out of them. 2329 01:43:05,760 --> 01:43:08,920 Speaker 14: I drink before them, drink after them, drink while I wrote, 2330 01:43:09,280 --> 01:43:10,799 Speaker 14: drive home, drink. 2331 01:43:10,920 --> 01:43:13,360 Speaker 4: Drink because you're sad man. 2332 01:43:14,000 --> 01:43:17,559 Speaker 14: Uh yeah, I think, you know, I think I was 2333 01:43:17,680 --> 01:43:21,400 Speaker 14: just uh, I just didn't want to face. 2334 01:43:23,080 --> 01:43:24,800 Speaker 4: Not making it, you know, not not. 2335 01:43:24,800 --> 01:43:28,240 Speaker 14: Being able to to take care of everybody. You know, 2336 01:43:28,280 --> 01:43:32,880 Speaker 14: It's almost like when you're drunk, Uh, those things aren't 2337 01:43:32,880 --> 01:43:35,960 Speaker 14: as heavy, you know, they don't matter, I guess, and 2338 01:43:37,320 --> 01:43:40,719 Speaker 14: drinking a little bit out of just insecurity and fear, 2339 01:43:41,080 --> 01:43:45,920 Speaker 14: you know, I guess, uh, you know, just scared what. 2340 01:43:46,000 --> 01:43:47,400 Speaker 1: Was the point where you were like, Okay, I gotta 2341 01:43:47,560 --> 01:43:48,760 Speaker 1: I gotta chill, dude. 2342 01:43:48,800 --> 01:43:51,680 Speaker 4: Me quitting is the weirdest story, I don't. You know. 2343 01:43:51,800 --> 01:43:53,800 Speaker 14: Hopefully at some point it will make sense where I 2344 01:43:53,800 --> 01:43:57,639 Speaker 14: could kind of help other people and and and and 2345 01:43:57,640 --> 01:44:00,719 Speaker 14: and explain it. But honestly, I mean. 2346 01:44:00,640 --> 01:44:01,360 Speaker 4: I think I was. 2347 01:44:02,040 --> 01:44:05,280 Speaker 14: I think my body just said to my brain, you 2348 01:44:05,360 --> 01:44:07,799 Speaker 14: have to you have to quit. You know, we're working 2349 01:44:08,280 --> 01:44:11,480 Speaker 14: and drinking that much. I woke up on a Saturday. 2350 01:44:11,920 --> 01:44:12,479 Speaker 4: I remember that. 2351 01:44:12,640 --> 01:44:16,400 Speaker 14: It was in October, football game day, me and football. 2352 01:44:16,560 --> 01:44:19,439 Speaker 14: Not drinking just didn't ever happen. That hadn't happened since 2353 01:44:19,439 --> 01:44:23,040 Speaker 14: I was probably like fifteen, I don't know, something crazy 2354 01:44:23,120 --> 01:44:23,439 Speaker 14: like that. 2355 01:44:23,960 --> 01:44:26,559 Speaker 4: And I just didn't drink one Saturday. And I don't 2356 01:44:26,560 --> 01:44:27,200 Speaker 4: even know why. 2357 01:44:27,680 --> 01:44:30,200 Speaker 14: I didn't like wake up and say, man, I gotta stop. 2358 01:44:30,840 --> 01:44:35,559 Speaker 14: I just woke up, didn't drink that day, didn't drink 2359 01:44:35,560 --> 01:44:37,960 Speaker 14: on Sunday. A couple of days turn into a week, 2360 01:44:38,760 --> 01:44:42,960 Speaker 14: you know, and then it became this like challenge where 2361 01:44:43,000 --> 01:44:46,040 Speaker 14: it was like I've gone this far, I want to 2362 01:44:46,040 --> 01:44:49,559 Speaker 14: go backwards, you know. And I also kind of had 2363 01:44:49,600 --> 01:44:53,040 Speaker 14: a little sobriety high. You know, when you quit drinking. 2364 01:44:53,280 --> 01:44:56,960 Speaker 14: You've been drinking that much, your body feels really really 2365 01:44:57,000 --> 01:45:02,920 Speaker 14: good once it gets over, you know, not craving just 2366 01:45:02,960 --> 01:45:06,400 Speaker 14: to drink with all your might. But so yeah, now 2367 01:45:06,800 --> 01:45:10,160 Speaker 14: I'm like, that was two octobers ago, so I'm a 2368 01:45:10,240 --> 01:45:11,879 Speaker 14: year and almost a half. 2369 01:45:12,479 --> 01:45:14,679 Speaker 1: The funny thing is I don't drink. A guy there, 2370 01:45:15,200 --> 01:45:17,479 Speaker 1: Walker doesn't drink. And when we go on tour this 2371 01:45:17,600 --> 01:45:21,240 Speaker 1: beer like the writers like full of beer, and Walker 2372 01:45:22,040 --> 01:45:25,240 Speaker 1: he just sits there. Yeah, it's like, Walker, I know 2373 01:45:25,280 --> 01:45:27,679 Speaker 1: you don't drink, but if you know anybody that wants beer, 2374 01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:28,479 Speaker 1: they can have it. 2375 01:45:29,000 --> 01:45:29,559 Speaker 12: Hang tight. 2376 01:45:29,960 --> 01:45:36,960 Speaker 8: The Bobby Cast will be right back. Wow, and we're 2377 01:45:37,040 --> 01:45:38,920 Speaker 8: back on the Bobby Cast. 2378 01:45:39,240 --> 01:45:41,840 Speaker 1: Cole Swindell talks about making the move in Nashville back 2379 01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:44,280 Speaker 1: in two thousand and seven with the plans on being 2380 01:45:44,320 --> 01:45:49,000 Speaker 1: a songwriter, but became a successful artist too. When you 2381 01:45:49,080 --> 01:45:50,880 Speaker 1: first moved to town, though, you had to be pretty 2382 01:45:50,880 --> 01:45:53,559 Speaker 1: intimidated to walk into some of these big rooms. Oh yeah, yes, 2383 01:45:53,720 --> 01:45:55,880 Speaker 1: Like what was the first ride that you can think 2384 01:45:55,880 --> 01:45:58,040 Speaker 1: about in your head? You walked into and there was 2385 01:45:58,040 --> 01:45:59,720 Speaker 1: like a rider that you're like, man, I should be 2386 01:45:59,800 --> 01:46:01,920 Speaker 1: right with this person, Like actually I'm writing with a 2387 01:46:02,479 --> 01:46:03,760 Speaker 1: legend or somebody that I look up to. 2388 01:46:03,920 --> 01:46:08,320 Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean I remember one of the stories for me, 2389 01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:09,800 Speaker 15: and it goes back to being a kid. 2390 01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:10,040 Speaker 1: You know. 2391 01:46:10,400 --> 01:46:12,719 Speaker 15: I always say I fell in love with nineties country music, 2392 01:46:12,760 --> 01:46:14,920 Speaker 15: and that's one of the guys, you know, Thomas Rhetz 2393 01:46:14,920 --> 01:46:17,320 Speaker 15: that Rhett Akins was one of the artists I loved 2394 01:46:17,320 --> 01:46:20,480 Speaker 15: as a kid. And I remember being in a room 2395 01:46:20,520 --> 01:46:23,080 Speaker 15: the first time we ever read, the first wrote, the 2396 01:46:23,080 --> 01:46:25,960 Speaker 15: first song we ever wrote was a song Thomas Rhett 2397 01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:28,400 Speaker 15: to get me some of that, And that was just 2398 01:46:28,800 --> 01:46:31,160 Speaker 15: that memory was my first like only in Nashville, Like 2399 01:46:31,200 --> 01:46:33,759 Speaker 15: you grew up listening to a guy and the first 2400 01:46:33,800 --> 01:46:36,240 Speaker 15: song you end up writing his son takes to the 2401 01:46:36,240 --> 01:46:38,760 Speaker 15: top of the charts, and it's just that's a Nashville 2402 01:46:38,880 --> 01:46:40,920 Speaker 15: story if I've ever heard one. But yeah, there's so many. 2403 01:46:41,439 --> 01:46:45,320 Speaker 15: You know, you go from playing college bars and so 2404 01:46:46,520 --> 01:46:47,040 Speaker 15: let me stop you. 2405 01:46:47,760 --> 01:46:49,240 Speaker 1: So you go on to write it. How long you've 2406 01:46:49,240 --> 01:46:50,280 Speaker 1: been to Nasville when you wrote the song? 2407 01:46:51,880 --> 01:46:54,920 Speaker 2: Probably for four years or so. 2408 01:46:54,960 --> 01:46:57,280 Speaker 15: I had just gotten off the road from you know, 2409 01:46:57,360 --> 01:47:00,280 Speaker 15: doing the T shirt thing. I had a publishing and 2410 01:47:00,280 --> 01:47:01,720 Speaker 15: this was one of my this is the first time 2411 01:47:01,800 --> 01:47:04,120 Speaker 15: in read everybody, we've been buddies. But that was a 2412 01:47:04,920 --> 01:47:06,840 Speaker 15: man I was. That was a crazy story to go 2413 01:47:06,880 --> 01:47:08,559 Speaker 15: from being a fan of his to write with him. 2414 01:47:08,560 --> 01:47:10,840 Speaker 15: And it was just a straight car, right, me and 2415 01:47:10,880 --> 01:47:12,479 Speaker 15: Rahet and Michael Carter, my producer. 2416 01:47:12,560 --> 01:47:15,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, so you walk in, you write this song, 2417 01:47:15,080 --> 01:47:17,400 Speaker 1: and when you write a song, did you think maybe 2418 01:47:17,400 --> 01:47:17,960 Speaker 1: it would be for you? 2419 01:47:18,200 --> 01:47:18,360 Speaker 13: Now? 2420 01:47:18,960 --> 01:47:21,280 Speaker 15: You know at this point like this is this all happened? 2421 01:47:21,320 --> 01:47:23,360 Speaker 15: Before I got my record deal. I was writing songs 2422 01:47:23,360 --> 01:47:26,800 Speaker 15: every single day, just wishing somebody would record them. And 2423 01:47:26,960 --> 01:47:28,360 Speaker 15: this one, I don't know what. 2424 01:47:28,880 --> 01:47:29,920 Speaker 2: I loved it. 2425 01:47:29,960 --> 01:47:31,479 Speaker 15: I thought it was a great song, but I just 2426 01:47:31,479 --> 01:47:33,000 Speaker 15: didn't have enough going for me. I didn't have the 2427 01:47:33,080 --> 01:47:35,760 Speaker 15: artist thing going and I was willing for anybody when 2428 01:47:35,800 --> 01:47:38,240 Speaker 15: I heard that Thomas Rhett loved it. You know, I've 2429 01:47:38,280 --> 01:47:40,519 Speaker 15: always been the Thomas Repp fan and a Buddy hiss, 2430 01:47:40,520 --> 01:47:42,600 Speaker 15: so I was just hoping to get a cut, you 2431 01:47:42,600 --> 01:47:44,240 Speaker 15: know that those things that's what got me. 2432 01:47:44,400 --> 01:47:44,559 Speaker 1: You know. 2433 01:47:44,600 --> 01:47:46,760 Speaker 15: I think my chance that ultimately had a record deal 2434 01:47:46,920 --> 01:47:49,920 Speaker 15: was getting other big time artists to record my songs. 2435 01:47:49,920 --> 01:47:52,599 Speaker 15: And that was That's one memory of you know, you 2436 01:47:52,640 --> 01:47:55,200 Speaker 15: go from playing songs written by people on the board 2437 01:47:55,200 --> 01:47:57,519 Speaker 15: of sitting in a room with them and writing a song, 2438 01:47:57,560 --> 01:48:00,599 Speaker 15: and that's just that's when you know you're you're living 2439 01:48:00,640 --> 01:48:02,519 Speaker 15: the dream man, when you're getting to do do that. 2440 01:48:02,640 --> 01:48:06,400 Speaker 1: Is that the first song for you that was like, Okay, 2441 01:48:06,600 --> 01:48:09,360 Speaker 1: I can make a little money, I can relax a 2442 01:48:09,439 --> 01:48:09,880 Speaker 1: little bit. 2443 01:48:10,680 --> 01:48:11,960 Speaker 2: Is that the first one of those? 2444 01:48:12,240 --> 01:48:15,040 Speaker 15: I mean, yeah, because I had I had, you know, 2445 01:48:15,080 --> 01:48:18,120 Speaker 15: a couple of early cuts, like Scotty McCreery right after 2446 01:48:18,160 --> 01:48:20,640 Speaker 15: he had won American Idol he want he recorded one 2447 01:48:20,640 --> 01:48:22,680 Speaker 15: of my songs, water Tower Town, I wrote about my. 2448 01:48:24,320 --> 01:48:25,360 Speaker 2: Tea goes come with it. 2449 01:48:25,680 --> 01:48:28,720 Speaker 12: How do you have on this? But that's like we 2450 01:48:28,760 --> 01:48:29,800 Speaker 12: do our research on this. 2451 01:48:29,800 --> 01:48:30,920 Speaker 4: This is water Tower down. 2452 01:48:30,880 --> 01:48:32,679 Speaker 15: Yeah, this is you know that's I wrote that about 2453 01:48:32,720 --> 01:48:35,439 Speaker 15: my hometown. And I remember, you know, thinking that it 2454 01:48:35,640 --> 01:48:37,400 Speaker 15: didn't end up doing you know, what we thought was 2455 01:48:37,439 --> 01:48:39,400 Speaker 15: still that that let me know that, hey, I got 2456 01:48:39,400 --> 01:48:42,160 Speaker 15: a chance in this town. And Scotty what a great 2457 01:48:42,160 --> 01:48:44,960 Speaker 15: guy he is, and speaking to him that his new 2458 01:48:45,000 --> 01:48:47,680 Speaker 15: song that you, Oh my god, that's that's one of 2459 01:48:47,720 --> 01:48:49,479 Speaker 15: the best songs I've heard. I texted him as soon 2460 01:48:49,520 --> 01:48:52,040 Speaker 15: as I heard it when when y'all were talking about it, and. 2461 01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:54,080 Speaker 12: It's just it's he's a great dude. 2462 01:48:54,080 --> 01:48:55,960 Speaker 15: So to have somebody like that to record one of 2463 01:48:55,960 --> 01:48:58,360 Speaker 15: your songs about your town and and you know, some 2464 01:48:58,400 --> 01:49:00,920 Speaker 15: of the same beliefs, it's just a cool moment for me. 2465 01:49:00,960 --> 01:49:03,000 Speaker 15: But Thomas Rhad that was a different level. 2466 01:49:03,000 --> 01:49:04,560 Speaker 1: You know, Paula, let me stop you. So this is 2467 01:49:04,560 --> 01:49:06,760 Speaker 1: Scotty McCurry song. This was the first one by an 2468 01:49:06,920 --> 01:49:10,280 Speaker 1: artist that was somewhat successful that you're like, Okay, this 2469 01:49:10,320 --> 01:49:11,679 Speaker 1: literally has a chance, and it was kind of really 2470 01:49:11,680 --> 01:49:12,800 Speaker 1: a cool moment for you. 2471 01:49:12,880 --> 01:49:15,360 Speaker 15: It's huge, huge moment because I remember it was one 2472 01:49:15,360 --> 01:49:17,640 Speaker 15: of those I learned a lesson because you know, when 2473 01:49:17,680 --> 01:49:19,439 Speaker 15: I wrote this song, ultimately, you know, me and Luke 2474 01:49:19,479 --> 01:49:21,640 Speaker 15: were close, and I was like, man, Luke's gonna love this. 2475 01:49:21,680 --> 01:49:23,799 Speaker 15: I can just see him loving it. And I remember 2476 01:49:23,880 --> 01:49:25,479 Speaker 15: I sent it to him and all he sent back 2477 01:49:25,600 --> 01:49:28,280 Speaker 15: was yeah, man, I love that everybody knows your mom 2478 01:49:28,320 --> 01:49:30,200 Speaker 15: and them lying, and that's all he said. And I 2479 01:49:30,240 --> 01:49:32,679 Speaker 15: was like crushed. I was like, man, I was like oh, 2480 01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:34,320 Speaker 15: I was like, that is not what I was wanted 2481 01:49:34,320 --> 01:49:37,120 Speaker 15: to hear. And literally, you know, a month or two later, 2482 01:49:37,160 --> 01:49:40,200 Speaker 15: Scotty wins American Idol and that song gets recorded and 2483 01:49:40,240 --> 01:49:42,720 Speaker 15: it's on a platinum album, and it just I learned 2484 01:49:42,760 --> 01:49:44,800 Speaker 15: that day that you know, you may think you got 2485 01:49:44,800 --> 01:49:46,760 Speaker 15: it all planned out what but it's it's going to 2486 01:49:46,840 --> 01:49:48,920 Speaker 15: work out how it's supposed to. And that one that 2487 01:49:49,040 --> 01:49:52,000 Speaker 15: was my really first example of you know, I'm just 2488 01:49:52,000 --> 01:49:53,799 Speaker 15: going to try to do the right thing, write songs 2489 01:49:53,800 --> 01:49:55,080 Speaker 15: and they'll end up where they're supposed to. 2490 01:49:55,320 --> 01:49:58,320 Speaker 1: So water Tower Town, Scotty mccury cuts that and then 2491 01:49:58,360 --> 01:50:01,200 Speaker 1: you just realized, Okay, I I can write these songs. 2492 01:50:01,640 --> 01:50:03,200 Speaker 4: Did you have the confidence before that? 2493 01:50:03,600 --> 01:50:04,920 Speaker 1: Was it like it's a matter of time or did 2494 01:50:04,960 --> 01:50:06,920 Speaker 1: it take songs to hit before you started to realize 2495 01:50:06,920 --> 01:50:07,800 Speaker 1: you could play in the league. 2496 01:50:07,880 --> 01:50:09,840 Speaker 15: You know, I would like to say I moved up 2497 01:50:09,840 --> 01:50:11,960 Speaker 15: here thinking I was gonna be but you know, I 2498 01:50:11,960 --> 01:50:14,760 Speaker 15: think you have to, you know, have something like that happen. 2499 01:50:14,920 --> 01:50:18,880 Speaker 15: Have you know, you know, publishing companies, record label doing that. 2500 01:50:18,880 --> 01:50:21,920 Speaker 15: That that means they believe in what you're writing. And yeah, 2501 01:50:22,280 --> 01:50:24,559 Speaker 15: you do get confidence. I mean it's hard to have 2502 01:50:24,680 --> 01:50:26,600 Speaker 15: confidence when you're writing all these songs and you know 2503 01:50:26,600 --> 01:50:29,559 Speaker 15: they're not really getting any traction. But you just learned. 2504 01:50:29,600 --> 01:50:31,439 Speaker 15: You know, that's why they say, you know, write every day, 2505 01:50:31,479 --> 01:50:33,559 Speaker 15: because the more you do it, the better you get, 2506 01:50:33,600 --> 01:50:35,960 Speaker 15: and it's just the chances are better you're going to 2507 01:50:36,040 --> 01:50:38,000 Speaker 15: have a great song the more you write. And that 2508 01:50:38,200 --> 01:50:42,360 Speaker 15: was I remember Dallas and some of my other writer 2509 01:50:42,479 --> 01:50:46,040 Speaker 15: friends calling me and just saying that when that song 2510 01:50:46,080 --> 01:50:48,920 Speaker 15: got recorded, like hey, congratulations, but don't stop like this 2511 01:50:49,000 --> 01:50:51,040 Speaker 15: is this is where you got to show up with a 2512 01:50:51,080 --> 01:50:53,479 Speaker 15: lot of people just say I've made it. And you 2513 01:50:53,520 --> 01:50:55,320 Speaker 15: know that's I think that's what you got to do. 2514 01:50:55,320 --> 01:50:56,080 Speaker 15: You got to keep going. 2515 01:50:56,479 --> 01:50:58,479 Speaker 4: Was that Do you think that'd be a big single? 2516 01:50:58,520 --> 01:51:00,320 Speaker 1: When you when you cut it, were you hoping, like man, 2517 01:51:00,360 --> 01:51:02,040 Speaker 1: that this could be a number one hit? Is that 2518 01:51:02,080 --> 01:51:04,120 Speaker 1: what you Is that what every every time you cut wanted? 2519 01:51:04,280 --> 01:51:05,240 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I. 2520 01:51:05,160 --> 01:51:08,479 Speaker 15: Think you're you're hoping that that's what? Uh you know, 2521 01:51:08,520 --> 01:51:10,280 Speaker 15: but I think being around the business, you know how 2522 01:51:10,320 --> 01:51:13,000 Speaker 15: hard it is to to to do that, to write. 2523 01:51:13,040 --> 01:51:15,360 Speaker 15: There's so many great writers in this town. But yeah, 2524 01:51:15,400 --> 01:51:17,400 Speaker 15: I think you're always wanting like and that that song 2525 01:51:17,400 --> 01:51:19,080 Speaker 15: when it there's one thing for it to be. 2526 01:51:19,080 --> 01:51:19,639 Speaker 2: On the album. 2527 01:51:19,680 --> 01:51:21,720 Speaker 15: I mean, that's a huge album coming straight up. I 2528 01:51:21,720 --> 01:51:23,800 Speaker 15: mean selling over a million copies these days, it's it's 2529 01:51:23,840 --> 01:51:27,800 Speaker 15: hard unheard of and uh, pretty much but and uh 2530 01:51:27,840 --> 01:51:30,040 Speaker 15: to have that. But then when it announced as a single, 2531 01:51:30,040 --> 01:51:32,400 Speaker 15: I remember thinking that was my first single to country radio, 2532 01:51:32,439 --> 01:51:35,000 Speaker 15: and I thought I didn't even know what to think. Man, 2533 01:51:35,040 --> 01:51:37,040 Speaker 15: I mean that song here I wrote about you know 2534 01:51:37,240 --> 01:51:39,680 Speaker 15: where I grew up, and and uh, you know, it 2535 01:51:39,720 --> 01:51:42,160 Speaker 15: was hitting country radio and that just like I said, 2536 01:51:42,200 --> 01:51:43,960 Speaker 15: either way, I mean that that was my first taste 2537 01:51:44,040 --> 01:51:46,960 Speaker 15: of seeing how a song was doing and wondering what 2538 01:51:47,000 --> 01:51:47,840 Speaker 15: was gonna happen with. 2539 01:51:47,800 --> 01:51:50,879 Speaker 2: It, and watching a charge watching it, yeah, watching the chart. 2540 01:51:50,720 --> 01:51:53,280 Speaker 15: And it's it's, uh, you know, that's that's just how 2541 01:51:53,720 --> 01:51:56,640 Speaker 15: how you learn the business, I guess. And I'm just 2542 01:51:56,640 --> 01:51:58,680 Speaker 15: glad that, you know, that song helped me, you know, 2543 01:51:58,840 --> 01:52:01,040 Speaker 15: no matter how it did, it got me. Uh, it 2544 01:52:01,080 --> 01:52:03,240 Speaker 15: gave me the confidence to keep writing and know that 2545 01:52:03,280 --> 01:52:06,439 Speaker 15: how my songs are, you know, hopefully worthy of radio someday. 2546 01:52:06,760 --> 01:52:10,160 Speaker 1: All right, So after water Tower Town, what's the next 2547 01:52:10,200 --> 01:52:13,439 Speaker 1: song you wrote? That you were like, Okay, this one 2548 01:52:13,439 --> 01:52:16,760 Speaker 1: has a shot. Now, okay, like this one has a 2549 01:52:16,800 --> 01:52:20,000 Speaker 1: shot like WaterTower Town had a little higher hopes, but 2550 01:52:20,040 --> 01:52:22,479 Speaker 1: you're still happy about it. It made you feel confident 2551 01:52:22,520 --> 01:52:27,120 Speaker 1: you could walk into a room. Then what'd you write? So? 2552 01:52:27,240 --> 01:52:27,360 Speaker 4: Well? 2553 01:52:27,600 --> 01:52:29,559 Speaker 15: I know, I wrote a song that that Chris Young 2554 01:52:29,600 --> 01:52:34,200 Speaker 15: recorded after that, but then after I wrote wrote a 2555 01:52:34,200 --> 01:52:37,400 Speaker 15: song for Luke Bryan called roller Coaster that I've heard of, 2556 01:52:37,400 --> 01:52:42,479 Speaker 15: that one this is the one. I mean, yeah, this, 2557 01:52:42,479 --> 01:52:44,080 Speaker 15: this was this didn't get me some of that, Like 2558 01:52:44,120 --> 01:52:46,800 Speaker 15: those were almost around the same time, I feel like, 2559 01:52:46,920 --> 01:52:49,160 Speaker 15: and you know, but this one was the one that 2560 01:52:50,200 --> 01:52:53,160 Speaker 15: you know, just our history from you know, knowing Luke 2561 01:52:53,240 --> 01:52:56,320 Speaker 15: and working for him to writing songs. And I mean 2562 01:52:56,360 --> 01:52:58,400 Speaker 15: when we played him this, me and Michael Carter wrote 2563 01:52:58,400 --> 01:53:00,479 Speaker 15: this one, we played it for him. It wasn't even 2564 01:53:00,520 --> 01:53:02,000 Speaker 15: to pitch it to him. It wasn't to see if 2565 01:53:02,000 --> 01:53:03,800 Speaker 15: he would record it with me and Michael. It was 2566 01:53:03,800 --> 01:53:06,040 Speaker 15: the first song we'd kind of written together and we 2567 01:53:06,080 --> 01:53:08,080 Speaker 15: had he had produced it how he wanted, and we 2568 01:53:08,120 --> 01:53:09,479 Speaker 15: just want him to hear my voice on it to 2569 01:53:09,479 --> 01:53:12,080 Speaker 15: see what he thought. And he freaked out, drove us 2570 01:53:12,080 --> 01:53:14,519 Speaker 15: straight over to his producer's house and me and Michael 2571 01:53:14,520 --> 01:53:15,920 Speaker 15: are sitting there like what is going on? 2572 01:53:16,040 --> 01:53:17,559 Speaker 2: Where that feeling is? 2573 01:53:17,640 --> 01:53:20,280 Speaker 15: That's one of a kind feeling when somebody you've looked 2574 01:53:20,320 --> 01:53:22,679 Speaker 15: up to is about to I mean, it's freaking out 2575 01:53:22,720 --> 01:53:24,720 Speaker 15: literally over a song like you've never seen them, you know, 2576 01:53:24,720 --> 01:53:26,320 Speaker 15: you used to freak out over their songs like that, 2577 01:53:26,400 --> 01:53:29,960 Speaker 15: and now here's something we wrote and to see him 2578 01:53:30,000 --> 01:53:34,240 Speaker 15: and Jeff Stevens just you know, go crazy over this song. 2579 01:53:34,280 --> 01:53:35,960 Speaker 15: I mean, it was one of the best, you know, 2580 01:53:36,160 --> 01:53:39,160 Speaker 15: moments of my life, just knowing that man, this song, right, 2581 01:53:39,240 --> 01:53:41,519 Speaker 15: that's it's one of those things. That's why we love songwriting, 2582 01:53:41,600 --> 01:53:44,240 Speaker 15: is because to make somebody feel like that, and that's 2583 01:53:44,400 --> 01:53:46,120 Speaker 15: you know, that's why I moved to Nashville because that's 2584 01:53:46,120 --> 01:53:47,920 Speaker 15: how music, you know, it makes me feel. 2585 01:53:48,000 --> 01:53:49,160 Speaker 2: And that's crazy. 2586 01:53:49,600 --> 01:53:50,800 Speaker 1: But after no on that Astrard, let me hear. 2587 01:53:50,720 --> 01:53:54,520 Speaker 12: This, and now I'm wondering word going. 2588 01:53:54,520 --> 01:53:55,599 Speaker 4: I need to recut this too. 2589 01:53:56,000 --> 01:54:01,960 Speaker 15: I wish yeah, yeah, yeah, and you put your vocal 2590 01:54:02,000 --> 01:54:03,400 Speaker 15: on in the jemo I got to see. 2591 01:54:03,400 --> 01:54:03,840 Speaker 2: I still have. 2592 01:54:03,960 --> 01:54:05,920 Speaker 15: I thought about that someday, you know, like maybe putting 2593 01:54:05,920 --> 01:54:12,080 Speaker 15: out my own little uh like just the you know, 2594 01:54:12,160 --> 01:54:14,519 Speaker 15: the the versions of my versions of the songs, because 2595 01:54:14,560 --> 01:54:17,000 Speaker 15: I mean, that's what pretty much got me my you know, 2596 01:54:17,040 --> 01:54:19,320 Speaker 15: when labels we were pitching my songs and they're like, what, 2597 01:54:19,400 --> 01:54:21,120 Speaker 15: you know, why aren't you why can't you sing this song? 2598 01:54:21,160 --> 01:54:23,360 Speaker 15: Or why wouldn't you sing this? And it just kind 2599 01:54:23,360 --> 01:54:25,200 Speaker 15: of that gave me confidence too. It's like, man, maybe 2600 01:54:25,200 --> 01:54:27,320 Speaker 15: I need to book a show, because you know, when 2601 01:54:27,360 --> 01:54:29,719 Speaker 15: I moved here, I'd just been singing cover songs, playing 2602 01:54:29,720 --> 01:54:32,360 Speaker 15: in bars, me and a buddy of mine. Acoustic no uh, 2603 01:54:32,640 --> 01:54:35,120 Speaker 15: no big band or anything, but we just played country 2604 01:54:35,160 --> 01:54:37,600 Speaker 15: covers and I'd gotten into the songwriting things. So I 2605 01:54:37,640 --> 01:54:39,200 Speaker 15: moved here and fell in love with the. 2606 01:54:39,320 --> 01:54:41,600 Speaker 2: With the writing. Did you move here to be an artist? 2607 01:54:41,880 --> 01:54:45,000 Speaker 15: I mean, ultimately yes, but I knew that I was, 2608 01:54:45,040 --> 01:54:46,400 Speaker 15: you know, I wanted to have my own songs, and 2609 01:54:46,440 --> 01:54:48,000 Speaker 15: I you know, I had friends in the business that 2610 01:54:48,160 --> 01:54:49,840 Speaker 15: was that said, you know, you need to if you 2611 01:54:49,960 --> 01:54:51,760 Speaker 15: like songwriting and you're interested like you are. 2612 01:54:51,800 --> 01:54:53,200 Speaker 2: I mean I was looking up. 2613 01:54:53,240 --> 01:54:55,360 Speaker 15: I was more starstruck by the songwriters when I got 2614 01:54:55,360 --> 01:54:57,640 Speaker 15: here because I you know, I had been on stage. 2615 01:54:57,680 --> 01:55:00,000 Speaker 15: I loved entertaining, but I knew I didn't have the song. 2616 01:55:00,200 --> 01:55:02,640 Speaker 15: I didn't I couldn't write a song like I wanted to. 2617 01:55:02,680 --> 01:55:04,880 Speaker 15: And you know that's why I'm lived here and to 2618 01:55:05,400 --> 01:55:08,400 Speaker 15: take three solid year and just focus on songwriting. I 2619 01:55:08,400 --> 01:55:10,080 Speaker 15: mean that if that wouldn't have happened that way, I 2620 01:55:10,120 --> 01:55:11,800 Speaker 15: wouldn't have had those songs for you know, when I 2621 01:55:11,920 --> 01:55:13,800 Speaker 15: finally got my chance at a record deal. So that's 2622 01:55:13,840 --> 01:55:17,000 Speaker 15: another situation where I thought I was gonna come up here. 2623 01:55:17,040 --> 01:55:18,400 Speaker 15: I was ready to get a record deal, and I 2624 01:55:18,400 --> 01:55:20,560 Speaker 15: would have had have screwed it up so fast. I mean, 2625 01:55:20,680 --> 01:55:22,480 Speaker 15: it just happened that at the right time. But that 2626 01:55:22,920 --> 01:55:25,080 Speaker 15: songwriting was definitely my my avenue. 2627 01:55:25,120 --> 01:55:27,720 Speaker 1: I think, so, you know, in this town and then 2628 01:55:27,800 --> 01:55:29,280 Speaker 1: luckily during the show, I get to bring up all 2629 01:55:29,280 --> 01:55:33,160 Speaker 1: the great songwriters. Yeah, you know, there becomes the coolest 2630 01:55:33,200 --> 01:55:36,280 Speaker 1: songwriters of the moment. Did aren't artists yet, it may 2631 01:55:36,320 --> 01:55:38,839 Speaker 1: never be, but it's like, you know, who's the coolest? 2632 01:55:39,240 --> 01:55:43,000 Speaker 1: Were you for a while? That the coolest songwriter for 2633 01:55:43,000 --> 01:55:43,440 Speaker 1: a minute? 2634 01:55:43,480 --> 01:55:45,080 Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't. 2635 01:55:46,480 --> 01:55:48,600 Speaker 15: You know, I wouldn't think that. I would think that 2636 01:55:48,640 --> 01:55:51,000 Speaker 15: I was a guy that people hopefully wanted to write 2637 01:55:51,040 --> 01:55:51,920 Speaker 15: with a second time and. 2638 01:55:51,880 --> 01:55:52,440 Speaker 2: The third time. 2639 01:55:52,480 --> 01:55:55,320 Speaker 15: I think that's you know something my publisher, the people 2640 01:55:55,360 --> 01:55:57,400 Speaker 15: that you know brought me up through the business. It 2641 01:55:57,520 --> 01:55:59,240 Speaker 15: was like, you know, you got to have this town, 2642 01:55:59,840 --> 01:56:01,560 Speaker 15: you know behind you wanting to write with you again. 2643 01:56:01,600 --> 01:56:05,200 Speaker 15: I mean, you gotta you know, you gotta write the 2644 01:56:05,200 --> 01:56:07,400 Speaker 15: best songs you can. And I think, uh, I never 2645 01:56:07,400 --> 01:56:09,320 Speaker 15: felt like that I just felt like I started getting 2646 01:56:09,320 --> 01:56:12,280 Speaker 15: some songs recorded and people heard my versions and it 2647 01:56:12,320 --> 01:56:14,800 Speaker 15: was like a lot of artists now it's like, well man, 2648 01:56:15,000 --> 01:56:17,960 Speaker 15: that's uh, you know, that's and that was about the 2649 01:56:18,000 --> 01:56:19,240 Speaker 15: time that that you came along. 2650 01:56:19,280 --> 01:56:19,440 Speaker 1: You know. 2651 01:56:19,480 --> 01:56:22,640 Speaker 15: It's it's crazy to think like it's all that happened. Uh, 2652 01:56:23,080 --> 01:56:24,600 Speaker 15: and then I finally got my chance. 2653 01:56:24,680 --> 01:56:27,080 Speaker 1: So I it is crazy to think that you've really 2654 01:56:27,080 --> 01:56:29,640 Speaker 1: only been an artist for about four and a half. 2655 01:56:29,520 --> 01:56:31,760 Speaker 15: Years, and that's what's something I think. 2656 01:56:32,000 --> 01:56:33,200 Speaker 2: You know, there's a ton of hits. 2657 01:56:33,440 --> 01:56:35,920 Speaker 15: Well thank you man, I'm on my It's crazy to 2658 01:56:35,960 --> 01:56:38,040 Speaker 15: me from I mean, I met you during chilling It 2659 01:56:38,120 --> 01:56:40,720 Speaker 15: and now I'm on my seventh single that is in 2660 01:56:40,760 --> 01:56:42,920 Speaker 15: that amount of time. I mean, you know, we talked 2661 01:56:42,920 --> 01:56:44,680 Speaker 15: a little bit of you. I don't know how you 2662 01:56:44,720 --> 01:56:47,120 Speaker 15: measure success really. I think it's happiness. But I think 2663 01:56:47,120 --> 01:56:49,920 Speaker 15: that if you look at what I've done, and I 2664 01:56:49,960 --> 01:56:51,880 Speaker 15: can't I don't have anything to complain about it if 2665 01:56:51,880 --> 01:56:53,840 Speaker 15: something doesn't go my way, I mean, look at look 2666 01:56:53,880 --> 01:56:56,520 Speaker 15: at what's happened for me. And it takes some somebody 2667 01:56:56,560 --> 01:56:59,040 Speaker 15: like your mama or whatever, you know, pointing that out. 2668 01:56:59,080 --> 01:57:00,680 Speaker 15: It's like, you know, we all always in this. We 2669 01:57:00,680 --> 01:57:03,360 Speaker 15: always want what's next, what's next? But man, you're right. 2670 01:57:03,760 --> 01:57:05,360 Speaker 15: Four and a half years I couldn't have couldn't have 2671 01:57:05,440 --> 01:57:06,720 Speaker 15: drawn it up any any better. 2672 01:57:06,760 --> 01:57:08,680 Speaker 1: And you hid from the internet at the same time. 2673 01:57:08,720 --> 01:57:10,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's amazing. Here I'm gonna play chilling It. 2674 01:57:11,000 --> 01:57:12,840 Speaker 2: I think I'm a story about this when I yeah, 2675 01:57:12,880 --> 01:57:14,320 Speaker 2: I got my shame. 2676 01:57:13,760 --> 01:57:16,160 Speaker 4: So this song comes out by this dude. I don't 2677 01:57:16,160 --> 01:57:16,840 Speaker 4: even know what this dude. 2678 01:57:17,600 --> 01:57:19,760 Speaker 1: He says, up a cooler to the studio, and I'm like, 2679 01:57:19,840 --> 01:57:21,839 Speaker 1: let me see what this is. He set up a cooler, 2680 01:57:22,080 --> 01:57:22,880 Speaker 1: Let me see what this is. 2681 01:57:22,920 --> 01:57:23,240 Speaker 4: Chilling it. 2682 01:57:23,280 --> 01:57:25,240 Speaker 1: And I remember listening to it my ears saying, I 2683 01:57:25,240 --> 01:57:26,600 Speaker 1: was like, let me hear, let me hear this, set 2684 01:57:26,680 --> 01:57:30,720 Speaker 1: up a cooler. I was like, I like the sound 2685 01:57:30,720 --> 01:57:33,920 Speaker 1: of that times a little progressive but still country. And 2686 01:57:33,960 --> 01:57:34,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I liked it. 2687 01:57:35,120 --> 01:57:36,960 Speaker 2: And I remember playing it and I know you. I 2688 01:57:36,960 --> 01:57:39,160 Speaker 2: would never met, I know, but I had heard. 2689 01:57:39,280 --> 01:57:41,440 Speaker 15: I remember my mom telling me that you were playing 2690 01:57:41,440 --> 01:57:42,120 Speaker 15: it like and that. 2691 01:57:42,200 --> 01:57:44,280 Speaker 1: Was and you texted me you said, my mom heard 2692 01:57:44,320 --> 01:57:45,800 Speaker 1: the song in the radio for the first I. 2693 01:57:45,720 --> 01:57:47,000 Speaker 15: Had to get you know, of course, you know, I 2694 01:57:47,120 --> 01:57:49,040 Speaker 15: just I was like, hey, some my label was like, 2695 01:57:49,080 --> 01:57:51,040 Speaker 15: can you get me Bobby Bones, and my mom's freaking 2696 01:57:51,080 --> 01:57:52,080 Speaker 15: out he played my song. 2697 01:57:52,160 --> 01:57:54,120 Speaker 2: I just want to thank you because at. 2698 01:57:53,960 --> 01:57:55,760 Speaker 15: That point, you know how to. I mean, somebody's got 2699 01:57:55,760 --> 01:57:58,280 Speaker 15: to give you a chance, and that you know, when 2700 01:57:58,280 --> 01:58:00,640 Speaker 15: you're a new artist and an artist, and I mean 2701 01:58:00,760 --> 01:58:02,600 Speaker 15: putting out a new song anything, you got to have 2702 01:58:02,760 --> 01:58:06,080 Speaker 15: people that believe in you. And I will never I 2703 01:58:06,080 --> 01:58:07,800 Speaker 15: will never forget that the people that you know, you 2704 01:58:07,920 --> 01:58:10,760 Speaker 15: met at the beginning that kind of gave you that shot. 2705 01:58:10,800 --> 01:58:14,080 Speaker 15: I mean, from from you to my label to the. 2706 01:58:14,040 --> 01:58:17,920 Speaker 1: Cooler cool big cooler, like CD is a cooler of 2707 01:58:17,920 --> 01:58:19,600 Speaker 1: the CD. I even listening to CD, I was like, 2708 01:58:19,800 --> 01:58:21,440 Speaker 1: he said, a big old cooler up here. 2709 01:58:21,520 --> 01:58:22,840 Speaker 15: What am I gonna do with it? Well, at least 2710 01:58:22,880 --> 01:58:25,360 Speaker 15: you like the song maybe better than the cooler sends cool. 2711 01:58:26,760 --> 01:58:28,360 Speaker 1: But I was like, well, let me let me listen 2712 01:58:28,400 --> 01:58:30,200 Speaker 1: to the download it and then yeah. 2713 01:58:30,040 --> 01:58:30,880 Speaker 11: I got my shame. 2714 01:58:31,040 --> 01:58:32,200 Speaker 4: Long time as a jam. 2715 01:58:33,040 --> 01:58:34,040 Speaker 12: That crowd's what started. 2716 01:58:34,080 --> 01:58:35,880 Speaker 2: And I watched you at Stage Coach this year. 2717 01:58:35,960 --> 01:58:38,320 Speaker 1: Oh well yeah, we played the same day I played 2718 01:58:38,400 --> 01:58:39,080 Speaker 1: we played before you. 2719 01:58:39,080 --> 01:58:39,520 Speaker 2: We don't worry. 2720 01:58:39,520 --> 01:58:41,480 Speaker 1: We're playing a peon times like we're playing like four 2721 01:58:41,520 --> 01:58:44,160 Speaker 1: you were playing at dark whatever, and I was watching 2722 01:58:44,200 --> 01:58:46,840 Speaker 1: you play the song and the whole crowd was still 2723 01:58:46,920 --> 01:58:49,000 Speaker 1: just they were singing their brains out to the song. 2724 01:58:49,880 --> 01:58:51,880 Speaker 15: And that was my first single. I think that is 2725 01:58:52,440 --> 01:58:54,400 Speaker 15: you know, people ask me buddies that are trying to 2726 01:58:54,400 --> 01:58:56,400 Speaker 15: get record deals or whatever, it's like, you know, what 2727 01:58:56,560 --> 01:58:58,520 Speaker 15: song should I you know, what's the first sing? 2728 01:58:58,600 --> 01:58:59,000 Speaker 2: And I don't. 2729 01:58:59,280 --> 01:59:00,760 Speaker 15: I don't know that as to that, but I just 2730 01:59:00,800 --> 01:59:03,120 Speaker 15: think that if any other song I've had since then 2731 01:59:03,160 --> 01:59:05,360 Speaker 15: would have been my first, it might not have broken 2732 01:59:05,400 --> 01:59:07,160 Speaker 15: me through there like that one did. And that's that's 2733 01:59:07,160 --> 01:59:10,440 Speaker 15: scary to think about. But that's, like I said, and 2734 01:59:10,520 --> 01:59:13,080 Speaker 15: that's why I love writing songs. I've always listened to music, 2735 01:59:13,160 --> 01:59:15,800 Speaker 15: and I think I'm a fan. I grew up a 2736 01:59:15,840 --> 01:59:18,120 Speaker 15: fan of music and I still am. And I think 2737 01:59:18,480 --> 01:59:20,440 Speaker 15: that's why I, you know, try to put myself on 2738 01:59:20,480 --> 01:59:21,960 Speaker 15: their shoes and what would I want to hear? What 2739 01:59:22,000 --> 01:59:24,920 Speaker 15: would you know? It's not always like that, but sometimes 2740 01:59:24,960 --> 01:59:26,720 Speaker 15: you got to think about you know, hey, I'm just 2741 01:59:26,840 --> 01:59:29,560 Speaker 15: like them too, So let's let's try to say some 2742 01:59:29,600 --> 01:59:30,760 Speaker 15: of it's fun, some of us sad. 2743 01:59:30,840 --> 01:59:33,800 Speaker 1: But I wonder let me wonder out loud for a second. 2744 01:59:34,400 --> 01:59:37,480 Speaker 1: I wonder because you put that song out and I 2745 01:59:37,560 --> 01:59:38,800 Speaker 1: was like, I like the song and it sounds a 2746 01:59:38,800 --> 01:59:40,960 Speaker 1: little different. I bet you you got some pushback for 2747 01:59:41,000 --> 01:59:43,600 Speaker 1: that song. Yeah, I bet you did. Yeah, And now 2748 01:59:43,640 --> 01:59:45,320 Speaker 1: it's just a song that there was a hit that 2749 01:59:45,400 --> 01:59:47,360 Speaker 1: gets played as what they call a recurrent and nobody 2750 01:59:47,400 --> 01:59:49,960 Speaker 1: thinks a thing about it. Oh yeah, in just four years, 2751 01:59:50,720 --> 01:59:53,520 Speaker 1: you've seen it change from WHOA, this is crazy. I 2752 01:59:53,560 --> 01:59:55,440 Speaker 1: bet you got some dad in't countries for that song. 2753 01:59:55,440 --> 01:59:57,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, which is crazy to think right now, right 2754 01:59:57,880 --> 01:59:59,000 Speaker 1: oh yeah, now yeah. 2755 01:59:59,520 --> 02:00:02,560 Speaker 15: But like I said, that's I guess that's always you know, 2756 02:00:02,640 --> 02:00:04,760 Speaker 15: it's always gonna be a whole thing. And and you, 2757 02:00:04,920 --> 02:00:07,560 Speaker 15: like you said, man I, that's the one thing about 2758 02:00:07,560 --> 02:00:09,240 Speaker 15: being in positions like we're in. 2759 02:00:09,280 --> 02:00:10,520 Speaker 2: It's like you're opening stuff. 2760 02:00:10,600 --> 02:00:14,640 Speaker 15: You're opening yourself up to just get you know, people 2761 02:00:14,640 --> 02:00:17,680 Speaker 15: that have you know, nothing other to do than just 2762 02:00:18,120 --> 02:00:20,200 Speaker 15: you know, talk trash or whatever it is. But that's 2763 02:00:20,360 --> 02:00:22,360 Speaker 15: you're gonna get pushed back about things. But I think 2764 02:00:22,440 --> 02:00:25,360 Speaker 15: those are always the things that mean you're you're breaking 2765 02:00:25,360 --> 02:00:27,880 Speaker 15: through and getting getting something done. And you know, not 2766 02:00:27,920 --> 02:00:29,880 Speaker 15: everybody's gonna like that's the toughest thing for me is 2767 02:00:29,920 --> 02:00:31,640 Speaker 15: I you know, I try to treat everybody how I 2768 02:00:31,680 --> 02:00:33,840 Speaker 15: want to be treated. But everybody's not gonna like your music. 2769 02:00:33,840 --> 02:00:37,600 Speaker 15: They're not gonna like every song. You're not gonna like me. Yeah, 2770 02:00:37,600 --> 02:00:39,760 Speaker 15: it's like what they don't even know us, you know, 2771 02:00:39,840 --> 02:00:40,280 Speaker 15: but it's. 2772 02:00:40,320 --> 02:00:40,880 Speaker 2: They don't know me. 2773 02:00:40,920 --> 02:00:43,520 Speaker 15: But you know, I uh, you got to understand that 2774 02:00:43,520 --> 02:00:45,760 Speaker 15: you're putting yourself in that position. And I tell you what, 2775 02:00:45,840 --> 02:00:47,640 Speaker 15: I think. We we got a lot more people that 2776 02:00:47,680 --> 02:00:50,600 Speaker 15: do like us than do and that's to me, the fans, 2777 02:00:50,600 --> 02:00:51,800 Speaker 15: I mean people that that's what you. 2778 02:00:51,840 --> 02:00:52,520 Speaker 2: Gotta focus on. 2779 02:00:52,600 --> 02:00:54,520 Speaker 1: And that let me wonder a lot again. 2780 02:00:55,200 --> 02:00:55,640 Speaker 15: I wonder. 2781 02:00:55,800 --> 02:00:58,400 Speaker 1: I wonder because something I've had to do in my life, 2782 02:00:58,600 --> 02:01:01,600 Speaker 1: especially in the last six months to a year, is 2783 02:01:01,600 --> 02:01:04,120 Speaker 1: if I get one hundred tweets, right, I'll zero in 2784 02:01:04,160 --> 02:01:08,280 Speaker 1: on that negative one, yeah. 2785 02:01:07,320 --> 02:01:09,280 Speaker 4: And I'll be like, everybody hates me and this person 2786 02:01:09,360 --> 02:01:09,800 Speaker 4: just rip me. 2787 02:01:09,920 --> 02:01:12,680 Speaker 1: But there are ninety nine positive tweets, and I would 2788 02:01:12,680 --> 02:01:14,200 Speaker 1: always focus in and it would make me go, oh, 2789 02:01:14,200 --> 02:01:18,160 Speaker 1: I'm so angry or I'm sad, or but what why 2790 02:01:18,200 --> 02:01:20,640 Speaker 1: do we do that We should really make an effort 2791 02:01:20,920 --> 02:01:22,760 Speaker 1: to appreciate those ninety nine. 2792 02:01:23,320 --> 02:01:25,720 Speaker 15: I'm not kidding. That is a great point, because you know, 2793 02:01:25,800 --> 02:01:28,040 Speaker 15: that's that's being honest. If somebody says that they don't, 2794 02:01:28,080 --> 02:01:29,960 Speaker 15: then I don't know. I guess they've got it figured out. 2795 02:01:30,000 --> 02:01:32,360 Speaker 15: But it's just it's tough to see that something that 2796 02:01:32,440 --> 02:01:34,360 Speaker 15: you know you love to do and you're doing you're 2797 02:01:34,400 --> 02:01:37,400 Speaker 15: you're not out there, you know, doing what. I don't know, 2798 02:01:37,440 --> 02:01:39,480 Speaker 15: you're doing the right that you're doing great things and 2799 02:01:40,280 --> 02:01:42,240 Speaker 15: trying to do the right thing, and people just no 2800 02:01:42,280 --> 02:01:42,720 Speaker 15: matter what. 2801 02:01:42,640 --> 02:01:44,680 Speaker 2: You just trying to do, just trying to do things. 2802 02:01:44,720 --> 02:01:46,800 Speaker 15: And they they're gonna, you know, they're not gonna like it. 2803 02:01:46,800 --> 02:01:49,160 Speaker 1: And we gotta focus on We gotta focus on the 2804 02:01:49,240 --> 02:01:52,160 Speaker 1: ninety nine I got yeah, gotta focus They play this song, 2805 02:01:52,160 --> 02:01:55,760 Speaker 1: talk about this one here. This is by Craig Campbell. Yeah, 2806 02:01:56,240 --> 02:01:56,880 Speaker 1: Craig singing here. 2807 02:01:56,880 --> 02:01:58,920 Speaker 15: This is the one that was my second thing. Yeah, 2808 02:01:58,920 --> 02:02:01,880 Speaker 15: that was my second single the country readio out there. 2809 02:02:01,880 --> 02:02:04,720 Speaker 15: Craig Campbell, great friend of mine, great friend of yours. 2810 02:02:04,960 --> 02:02:07,320 Speaker 1: The thing about Craig is that and the weird thing 2811 02:02:07,320 --> 02:02:09,680 Speaker 1: about this song, I believe it was a song as 2812 02:02:09,720 --> 02:02:12,800 Speaker 1: it was climbing. He gets dropped from his record label. 2813 02:02:13,200 --> 02:02:14,440 Speaker 1: Now dropped the record of folds. 2814 02:02:14,480 --> 02:02:16,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, you think the song was. 2815 02:02:16,280 --> 02:02:19,520 Speaker 1: Climbing hard es? Yes, And I remember sitting in a 2816 02:02:19,560 --> 02:02:22,440 Speaker 1: meeting with my boss's boss. We were in New York 2817 02:02:22,720 --> 02:02:25,480 Speaker 1: and Craig Campbell was our radio on the Bird artist YEP, 2818 02:02:26,080 --> 02:02:28,200 Speaker 1: and so loved the song and the song was just 2819 02:02:28,600 --> 02:02:31,520 Speaker 1: top ten and boom, his record label goes out, and 2820 02:02:31,520 --> 02:02:34,120 Speaker 1: we're like, what what do we do? So it's like, well, 2821 02:02:34,440 --> 02:02:36,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna keep charging with the song even though there's 2822 02:02:36,440 --> 02:02:38,200 Speaker 1: no record label and no promotion. And I think it 2823 02:02:38,280 --> 02:02:39,640 Speaker 1: ended up getting to like six or something. 2824 02:02:39,760 --> 02:02:40,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, that's huge. 2825 02:02:41,000 --> 02:02:44,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that doesn't even happen. Then we were all flowering. 2826 02:02:44,880 --> 02:02:46,720 Speaker 1: Guess like, he's got a top ten song and now 2827 02:02:46,760 --> 02:02:48,480 Speaker 1: the record label folds and goes away. 2828 02:02:48,520 --> 02:02:50,480 Speaker 2: But just because that's never had, why can't it have? 2829 02:02:50,600 --> 02:02:52,920 Speaker 15: And that's what I love about, Like people that believe 2830 02:02:52,960 --> 02:02:56,000 Speaker 15: in a song, believe in music, and you, like I said, man, 2831 02:02:56,000 --> 02:02:57,640 Speaker 15: you can't really you don't know how to say thanks 2832 02:02:57,680 --> 02:02:59,560 Speaker 15: for this? And I know Craig appreciates that's probably is 2833 02:02:59,600 --> 02:03:01,960 Speaker 15: that when you is that when y'all met kind of yeah, 2834 02:03:02,000 --> 02:03:04,960 Speaker 15: then was it? But I know you've had Yeah, yeah, 2835 02:03:05,320 --> 02:03:07,560 Speaker 15: it's wed that. So you wrote this, Yeah, I wrote 2836 02:03:07,560 --> 02:03:09,400 Speaker 15: this one. So this is the one that as a 2837 02:03:09,440 --> 02:03:11,640 Speaker 15: writer on that scene that happened. And a good friend, 2838 02:03:11,680 --> 02:03:13,160 Speaker 15: I mean me and Craig and he used to play 2839 02:03:13,160 --> 02:03:16,480 Speaker 15: Broadway every Tuesday night at the stage. Me and himould 2840 02:03:16,480 --> 02:03:19,040 Speaker 15: go get sushi right onto Mumbery and right there. Every Tuesday. 2841 02:03:19,040 --> 02:03:22,080 Speaker 15: I'd be off the road from selling merch and he'd 2842 02:03:22,080 --> 02:03:24,160 Speaker 15: be playing the stage and would go down and I'd 2843 02:03:24,160 --> 02:03:26,040 Speaker 15: watch him sing all these songs that. 2844 02:03:26,240 --> 02:03:28,320 Speaker 4: He's crazy to do it, knowing every song. 2845 02:03:28,160 --> 02:03:29,839 Speaker 15: Every song, and I mean i'd sit there that wouldn't 2846 02:03:29,880 --> 02:03:32,200 Speaker 15: be you know that many people in there at the start. 2847 02:03:32,280 --> 02:03:34,000 Speaker 15: I mean they have like four hour sets down there. 2848 02:03:34,000 --> 02:03:35,840 Speaker 15: By the end it was full. But I'd be there 2849 02:03:35,840 --> 02:03:39,280 Speaker 15: from the beginning. I was his buddy and I always 2850 02:03:39,320 --> 02:03:42,880 Speaker 15: supported him. So to see you know, him record a 2851 02:03:42,920 --> 02:03:44,640 Speaker 15: song like that, knowing that he used to get me up. 2852 02:03:44,640 --> 02:03:46,240 Speaker 15: That was my only chance to really ever sing in 2853 02:03:46,280 --> 02:03:48,840 Speaker 15: town was during his sets. He'd get me up to sing, 2854 02:03:49,240 --> 02:03:52,000 Speaker 15: just some nineties country song or something, and you know, 2855 02:03:52,080 --> 02:03:54,160 Speaker 15: that's that was my moment of the week, you know, 2856 02:03:54,200 --> 02:03:56,000 Speaker 15: before I went back on the road to sell T shirts. 2857 02:03:56,000 --> 02:03:57,520 Speaker 2: So Craig has always been. 2858 02:03:57,360 --> 02:03:59,360 Speaker 15: Good to me and I look for hopefully one day, 2859 02:04:00,240 --> 02:04:01,840 Speaker 15: you know, we can do some shows together. I know 2860 02:04:01,880 --> 02:04:03,960 Speaker 15: he's out there, I think with Luke doing some stuff now, 2861 02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:06,320 Speaker 15: and like you said, you've you're a fan of his 2862 02:04:06,480 --> 02:04:08,680 Speaker 15: and I you know, I just I like to pull 2863 02:04:08,800 --> 02:04:10,560 Speaker 15: for good people and he's He's one of those. 2864 02:04:10,720 --> 02:04:12,760 Speaker 1: If you if your friend is an artist, so back 2865 02:04:12,800 --> 02:04:14,280 Speaker 1: when you before you were trying to be an artist, 2866 02:04:14,280 --> 02:04:16,400 Speaker 1: and you wrote something you use that was fantastic, would 2867 02:04:16,400 --> 02:04:17,920 Speaker 1: you go to your friends with it first and say, 2868 02:04:17,920 --> 02:04:20,520 Speaker 1: here's a song I think is really good. And is 2869 02:04:20,600 --> 02:04:22,320 Speaker 1: it awkward when they don't think it's really good? 2870 02:04:22,520 --> 02:04:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 2871 02:04:22,760 --> 02:04:25,960 Speaker 15: I mean that is so so true. I mean yes, 2872 02:04:26,040 --> 02:04:28,680 Speaker 15: it's like, you know, I've had, you know, a couple 2873 02:04:28,680 --> 02:04:31,120 Speaker 15: of close friends. I mean, Luke obviously is one of them, 2874 02:04:31,120 --> 02:04:33,800 Speaker 15: but you know Thomas redd Or but he's a songwriter himself. 2875 02:04:33,800 --> 02:04:35,920 Speaker 15: So I'm trying to think, you know, me and fg 2876 02:04:36,000 --> 02:04:39,120 Speaker 15: O or boys, but it's hard to it's hard to 2877 02:04:39,160 --> 02:04:42,640 Speaker 15: think Dirk's now. But uh, I had to. You know, 2878 02:04:42,680 --> 02:04:45,000 Speaker 15: when you send the artist a song, you want them 2879 02:04:45,000 --> 02:04:46,600 Speaker 15: to love it, but it is awkward, like you if 2880 02:04:47,000 --> 02:04:48,680 Speaker 15: if they don't say anything back. Because now I'm on 2881 02:04:48,680 --> 02:04:50,760 Speaker 15: the other side of it, and I don't know what 2882 02:04:50,800 --> 02:04:52,120 Speaker 15: to do when I don't, like, you don't want to 2883 02:04:52,120 --> 02:04:54,480 Speaker 15: your body say you're sending you know what do you say? 2884 02:04:54,480 --> 02:04:58,000 Speaker 15: It's so it's like you don't I just if you 2885 02:04:58,000 --> 02:04:58,360 Speaker 15: made a song. 2886 02:04:58,400 --> 02:05:00,160 Speaker 1: Lets say I write a song. I'm like by my sitting. 2887 02:05:00,360 --> 02:05:03,160 Speaker 15: About to ask myself songwriters that are pitching me songs. 2888 02:05:03,480 --> 02:05:05,080 Speaker 1: This is something that gets talked about a lot here 2889 02:05:05,320 --> 02:05:09,200 Speaker 1: that and a lot of people say I believe someone 2890 02:05:09,480 --> 02:05:11,120 Speaker 1: like in the last week or so said they would 2891 02:05:11,160 --> 02:05:14,440 Speaker 1: get songs and they just don't reply. And that's kind 2892 02:05:14,440 --> 02:05:20,080 Speaker 1: of these Hey, I wasn't really feeling it without saying 2893 02:05:20,080 --> 02:05:21,360 Speaker 1: I wasn't really feeling it. 2894 02:05:21,840 --> 02:05:24,480 Speaker 15: That's so I'm laughing because I know I've done that before. 2895 02:05:24,560 --> 02:05:28,120 Speaker 15: But I know anybody listening, they just didn't reply. 2896 02:05:28,360 --> 02:05:30,800 Speaker 2: Do you remember who it was, Well. 2897 02:05:33,120 --> 02:05:35,640 Speaker 15: It was Nicole Guy, and that's somebody I'm looking forward 2898 02:05:35,680 --> 02:05:39,240 Speaker 15: to write. She's so I know I'm looking Nicole. I 2899 02:05:39,280 --> 02:05:41,240 Speaker 15: want to write with you, but we're gonna I know, 2900 02:05:41,400 --> 02:05:43,760 Speaker 15: we'll we'll try to work that out. But that is 2901 02:05:43,920 --> 02:05:46,760 Speaker 15: very true. I've done that before too, and you know, 2902 02:05:46,800 --> 02:05:47,280 Speaker 15: you try. 2903 02:05:47,160 --> 02:05:50,480 Speaker 1: To get to hers what it was. It's not Blake, 2904 02:05:50,720 --> 02:05:52,680 Speaker 1: that's what it was because her and Blake are friend. 2905 02:05:52,840 --> 02:05:54,880 Speaker 1: She was like, she'll send Blake songs and if Blake 2906 02:05:54,920 --> 02:05:57,360 Speaker 1: doesn't reply, that just means he wasn't feeling it. 2907 02:05:57,360 --> 02:05:59,800 Speaker 2: That's their universal language. I used to do that. 2908 02:06:00,720 --> 02:06:02,280 Speaker 15: Yeah, I've done that, and you're kind of like, well 2909 02:06:02,360 --> 02:06:04,800 Speaker 15: he hadn't replied by now, she hadn't replied by now. 2910 02:06:05,120 --> 02:06:06,080 Speaker 15: They don't like it, So. 2911 02:06:06,240 --> 02:06:08,920 Speaker 1: Didn't you send it to someone else if they haven't 2912 02:06:08,920 --> 02:06:12,280 Speaker 1: replied in how much time do you give them? 2913 02:06:12,440 --> 02:06:12,640 Speaker 4: You know? 2914 02:06:12,640 --> 02:06:13,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 2915 02:06:13,040 --> 02:06:14,720 Speaker 15: These days, I don't think there is any I think 2916 02:06:14,760 --> 02:06:16,600 Speaker 15: they just send it and if you answer first, then 2917 02:06:16,640 --> 02:06:19,160 Speaker 15: it's good some people. But to me, I mean there 2918 02:06:19,160 --> 02:06:23,360 Speaker 15: were some times when you know, I remember like Roller 2919 02:06:23,360 --> 02:06:25,800 Speaker 15: Coaster when when Luke he had that on whole for 2920 02:06:25,800 --> 02:06:27,520 Speaker 15: a long time, and there were other artists that I 2921 02:06:27,560 --> 02:06:31,000 Speaker 15: remember a couple of artists you know, wanted it or 2922 02:06:31,320 --> 02:06:33,360 Speaker 15: their A and R people wanted it for them maybe, 2923 02:06:33,400 --> 02:06:35,480 Speaker 15: and Luke was like, you know, I want this song. 2924 02:06:35,560 --> 02:06:38,320 Speaker 15: He ended up recording it, you know, like after you know, 2925 02:06:38,520 --> 02:06:40,160 Speaker 15: you never know. I mean when you're holding a song, 2926 02:06:40,200 --> 02:06:41,920 Speaker 15: and especially now me knowing as an artist, I mean, 2927 02:06:41,920 --> 02:06:44,760 Speaker 15: you're taking a chance on if you don't record it. 2928 02:06:44,800 --> 02:06:47,600 Speaker 15: These writers are missing out on you know, other big 2929 02:06:47,680 --> 02:06:48,720 Speaker 15: artists recording the songs. 2930 02:06:48,800 --> 02:06:49,520 Speaker 12: So food. 2931 02:06:49,560 --> 02:06:51,880 Speaker 15: I mean, that's what and that's why I'm so glad 2932 02:06:51,880 --> 02:06:54,600 Speaker 15: I got to do the writing thing, and I still do. 2933 02:06:54,680 --> 02:06:57,160 Speaker 15: But come up that way because I want to write 2934 02:06:57,200 --> 02:06:59,600 Speaker 15: all my stuff, but I don't have have to. I know, 2935 02:06:59,680 --> 02:07:02,640 Speaker 15: I can't write every song because there's too many great 2936 02:07:02,640 --> 02:07:05,040 Speaker 15: songwriters here. And if they're gonna send me their best stuff, 2937 02:07:05,080 --> 02:07:07,160 Speaker 15: I mean, you know, I think that's how you support 2938 02:07:07,240 --> 02:07:09,240 Speaker 15: the indust I'm not going to record that just because 2939 02:07:09,640 --> 02:07:11,640 Speaker 15: of that reason. But I think there's so many great 2940 02:07:11,680 --> 02:07:13,880 Speaker 15: songs that, you know, we're lucky enough to build a 2941 02:07:13,880 --> 02:07:15,800 Speaker 15: record outside. I mean, I'd like to write them all, 2942 02:07:15,840 --> 02:07:18,960 Speaker 15: but I don't. I'm fortunate to have people sending me 2943 02:07:19,000 --> 02:07:22,160 Speaker 15: theirs now, and that's uh, I'm uh, that's a compliment. 2944 02:07:22,240 --> 02:07:24,000 Speaker 2: So let me ask you something about your boy Luke. 2945 02:07:24,000 --> 02:07:25,840 Speaker 1: Why is he falling down all the time we're talking 2946 02:07:25,840 --> 02:07:28,040 Speaker 1: about this today, like he jump on a beer cooler. 2947 02:07:28,840 --> 02:07:31,280 Speaker 15: It's just he's dangerous. I don't know, man, he's worth 2948 02:07:31,320 --> 02:07:33,880 Speaker 15: too much money to be jumping around. I know he's 2949 02:07:33,880 --> 02:07:35,920 Speaker 15: getting a lot of people depending on him out there 2950 02:07:35,920 --> 02:07:38,440 Speaker 15: to that's but he's got too many people to pay. 2951 02:07:38,800 --> 02:07:40,919 Speaker 15: I know he's I don't know, man, he's an entertainer, 2952 02:07:40,960 --> 02:07:44,360 Speaker 15: and that's that's something that I don't know. I literally 2953 02:07:44,360 --> 02:07:47,360 Speaker 15: though I think from being around it, I'm careful, but 2954 02:07:47,480 --> 02:07:50,680 Speaker 15: I have like anxiety about falling off this about your 2955 02:07:50,680 --> 02:07:52,600 Speaker 15: throat ill all of it, man. 2956 02:07:52,480 --> 02:07:56,280 Speaker 1: Because again, if you're not making money, the people that 2957 02:07:56,360 --> 02:07:58,800 Speaker 1: you have you're peging aren't making money. 2958 02:07:58,960 --> 02:08:01,800 Speaker 15: And that's that's and that's something that I never you know, 2959 02:08:02,080 --> 02:08:04,040 Speaker 15: you never think about those things when you're chasing a 2960 02:08:04,120 --> 02:08:05,360 Speaker 15: dream that you may get to. 2961 02:08:05,320 --> 02:08:08,000 Speaker 2: A level where you got a lot of. 2962 02:08:07,920 --> 02:08:09,720 Speaker 15: People behind you that are helping you on your team, 2963 02:08:09,720 --> 02:08:12,000 Speaker 15: and every little thing you do, every decision you make, 2964 02:08:12,080 --> 02:08:16,080 Speaker 15: every song you release, every whatever, it matters. But those 2965 02:08:16,080 --> 02:08:18,880 Speaker 15: people and there's people depending on you. And it's a 2966 02:08:18,920 --> 02:08:21,160 Speaker 15: good thing to have responsibility like that. But I don't 2967 02:08:21,200 --> 02:08:24,200 Speaker 15: think some people understand the pressure that we're, you know, 2968 02:08:24,240 --> 02:08:28,000 Speaker 15: put in in these situations. Anybody in the entertainment business 2969 02:08:28,000 --> 02:08:30,880 Speaker 15: I'm speaking of. So it's it's a different thing that 2970 02:08:30,920 --> 02:08:33,920 Speaker 15: I don't think some things they really realize that, hey, 2971 02:08:33,960 --> 02:08:37,560 Speaker 15: everything we're doing is affecting all of the people on 2972 02:08:37,600 --> 02:08:38,000 Speaker 15: our team. 2973 02:08:38,120 --> 02:08:40,240 Speaker 1: So let's go back to you moving to Nashalle. 2974 02:08:40,280 --> 02:08:42,560 Speaker 2: So what's it? 2975 02:08:42,720 --> 02:08:46,280 Speaker 1: How old are you? What's the thought? Did you always? 2976 02:08:46,360 --> 02:08:48,400 Speaker 1: I think just put me where you are? How old 2977 02:08:48,440 --> 02:08:48,680 Speaker 1: you were? 2978 02:08:48,800 --> 02:08:53,800 Speaker 15: See a lot of people I was leaving college. I 2979 02:08:53,880 --> 02:08:55,920 Speaker 15: left college. I mean I had like eighteen nineteen hours 2980 02:08:56,000 --> 02:08:58,360 Speaker 15: or a lot of people don't even don't know that, 2981 02:08:58,480 --> 02:09:01,240 Speaker 15: but you know, it was just something that I had 2982 02:09:01,240 --> 02:09:03,920 Speaker 15: to do. I was, I was playing shows and I 2983 02:09:03,960 --> 02:09:05,920 Speaker 15: had already just go. When I got to college, I didn't. 2984 02:09:06,120 --> 02:09:08,919 Speaker 15: I was undeclared major. I finally settled in on marketing 2985 02:09:08,960 --> 02:09:10,560 Speaker 15: and did got so close. 2986 02:09:10,600 --> 02:09:12,320 Speaker 12: But it was just it was. 2987 02:09:12,280 --> 02:09:14,640 Speaker 15: Time and I knew that I loved music, I knew 2988 02:09:14,640 --> 02:09:16,520 Speaker 15: what I wanted to do, and you know, I knew 2989 02:09:16,560 --> 02:09:18,880 Speaker 15: I had to get to Nashville. So I moved. I was, 2990 02:09:19,280 --> 02:09:21,200 Speaker 15: I think twenty three. It was August twenty thirds, my 2991 02:09:21,280 --> 02:09:25,080 Speaker 15: dad's birthday, two thousand and seven. So yeah, August twenty third, 2992 02:09:25,120 --> 02:09:28,080 Speaker 15: two thousand and seven, moved to Nashville. I remember broking 2993 02:09:28,200 --> 02:09:30,920 Speaker 15: my mom. She was clutely, I mean, just couldn't understand. 2994 02:09:30,920 --> 02:09:32,760 Speaker 15: She had never really even seen me play in bars 2995 02:09:32,880 --> 02:09:34,920 Speaker 15: or anything. Didn't really understand. She knew I loved music 2996 02:09:34,960 --> 02:09:37,960 Speaker 15: growing up, but it wasn't She had never really seen 2997 02:09:38,080 --> 02:09:40,040 Speaker 15: you know, me play and didn't get it, like some 2998 02:09:40,080 --> 02:09:41,400 Speaker 15: of my friends didn't. There was a lot of people 2999 02:09:41,440 --> 02:09:42,960 Speaker 15: that didn't get it thought I was crazy, and those 3000 02:09:42,960 --> 02:09:44,680 Speaker 15: are the people I think that ended up motivating you. 3001 02:09:44,720 --> 02:09:48,800 Speaker 15: But so I moved to Nashville and I just that was, 3002 02:09:49,200 --> 02:09:50,360 Speaker 15: you know, to write a song. I didn't know what 3003 02:09:50,400 --> 02:09:51,920 Speaker 15: I was going to do. I was in contact with Luke. 3004 02:09:51,960 --> 02:09:54,720 Speaker 15: I had his manager, Carrie, which ended up she's my 3005 02:09:54,760 --> 02:09:58,440 Speaker 15: manager now we you know that he needed a merchandise guy. 3006 02:09:58,360 --> 02:10:00,560 Speaker 12: That did you know Luke like what we met? 3007 02:10:00,640 --> 02:10:00,800 Speaker 9: Uh? 3008 02:10:01,000 --> 02:10:01,080 Speaker 4: He? 3009 02:10:01,240 --> 02:10:04,440 Speaker 15: You know, in college, I was in fraternity fraternity singing 3010 02:10:04,520 --> 02:10:07,120 Speaker 15: with Kay and he was there a few years earlier 3011 02:10:07,120 --> 02:10:09,720 Speaker 15: than me, same fraternity. He was in a band there 3012 02:10:10,120 --> 02:10:11,880 Speaker 15: while he was in college. And they had come back 3013 02:10:11,920 --> 02:10:14,600 Speaker 15: to do like a do a show that weekend and 3014 02:10:14,680 --> 02:10:16,800 Speaker 15: he just stops by and I knew his name and 3015 02:10:17,040 --> 02:10:19,640 Speaker 15: knew that he was pretty popular in the local, you know, 3016 02:10:19,720 --> 02:10:23,080 Speaker 15: coming through Statesboro. So he stopped to change his strings 3017 02:10:23,400 --> 02:10:25,560 Speaker 15: guitar strings for that night, and met him, and he 3018 02:10:25,640 --> 02:10:27,640 Speaker 15: sat down and said, can I care if I play 3019 02:10:27,640 --> 02:10:30,120 Speaker 15: on some stuff I wrote up in Nashville, and I 3020 02:10:30,160 --> 02:10:32,320 Speaker 15: was like, stuff you wrote, you know, I was at 3021 02:10:32,360 --> 02:10:33,960 Speaker 15: that time, I was singing cover songs and on I 3022 02:10:33,960 --> 02:10:36,480 Speaker 15: remember he played a song that he had written and 3023 02:10:36,520 --> 02:10:38,880 Speaker 15: it just blew my mind that he made that up 3024 02:10:38,920 --> 02:10:40,720 Speaker 15: and made me feel like that, you know, and I 3025 02:10:40,760 --> 02:10:43,880 Speaker 15: was like, wow, and that's really that was a big moment. 3026 02:10:43,960 --> 02:10:47,440 Speaker 15: And knowing that, man, some people are behind there's people 3027 02:10:47,480 --> 02:10:49,360 Speaker 15: that aren't singing this that are behind these songs right 3028 02:10:49,440 --> 02:10:52,800 Speaker 15: to men. I learned about who the songwriters were. And 3029 02:10:52,880 --> 02:10:54,480 Speaker 15: from then on, when i'd buy an album, I was 3030 02:10:54,520 --> 02:10:56,640 Speaker 15: looking at every single cut on the album that I 3031 02:10:56,680 --> 02:10:58,560 Speaker 15: loved that I thought maybe he should be on the 3032 02:10:58,640 --> 02:11:01,800 Speaker 15: radio and looking at the right and that, uh, that 3033 02:11:01,960 --> 02:11:04,120 Speaker 15: changed my whole view on song right. And then you know, 3034 02:11:04,160 --> 02:11:07,280 Speaker 15: it was always his demos he'd send me. But you know, 3035 02:11:07,360 --> 02:11:10,520 Speaker 15: then Eric Church's first album, Dirks Bentley's first album came out, 3036 02:11:10,560 --> 02:11:12,680 Speaker 15: and that was just those are the guys that were 3037 02:11:12,680 --> 02:11:15,160 Speaker 15: writing their own songs, and I just I don't know 3038 02:11:15,200 --> 02:11:16,880 Speaker 15: that changed me. I said, I wanted to you know, 3039 02:11:16,880 --> 02:11:18,840 Speaker 15: I knew I wasn't writing the songs I was singing, 3040 02:11:18,840 --> 02:11:20,600 Speaker 15: and I just wanted to be one one of the 3041 02:11:20,600 --> 02:11:22,240 Speaker 15: guys that made people feel the way I did. 3042 02:11:22,280 --> 02:11:24,760 Speaker 1: So, So two thousand and seven, you packed up? Where'd 3043 02:11:24,800 --> 02:11:25,400 Speaker 1: you pack up? 3044 02:11:26,000 --> 02:11:28,160 Speaker 15: I mean not a bed, nothing, my clothes. I had 3045 02:11:28,160 --> 02:11:31,480 Speaker 15: a guard you have. I had a ninety six Chevrolet 3046 02:11:31,560 --> 02:11:36,080 Speaker 15: trucks seventy one. That's that's truck. Eyed Well that was 3047 02:11:36,160 --> 02:11:37,520 Speaker 15: what I had when I was sixteen. So I had 3048 02:11:37,520 --> 02:11:40,240 Speaker 15: a just a black Chevrolet truck. So you loaded down, 3049 02:11:40,280 --> 02:11:42,280 Speaker 15: loaded down the trailer behind it, or just put all 3050 02:11:43,000 --> 02:11:45,080 Speaker 15: it was just all in the in the bed. Because 3051 02:11:45,080 --> 02:11:47,680 Speaker 15: I had a guy here that was from close to 3052 02:11:47,720 --> 02:11:52,280 Speaker 15: my town, Cliff Corps, that that had a house here 3053 02:11:52,360 --> 02:11:54,040 Speaker 15: that he was living in and they had a small 3054 02:11:54,120 --> 02:11:56,880 Speaker 15: extra room and he's like, man, there's a there's a bed, 3055 02:11:56,920 --> 02:11:58,440 Speaker 15: but you know you're not even have any room for 3056 02:11:58,480 --> 02:12:00,880 Speaker 15: any furniture anything. There's you have to put your computer 3057 02:12:00,920 --> 02:12:02,880 Speaker 15: in the closet. And I had to get a flat 3058 02:12:02,880 --> 02:12:04,800 Speaker 15: screen TV at that time, I mean they were common, 3059 02:12:04,840 --> 02:12:06,040 Speaker 15: but still that I had to hang it on the 3060 02:12:06,080 --> 02:12:07,680 Speaker 15: wall because it wouldn't even fit in front of the 3061 02:12:07,720 --> 02:12:10,360 Speaker 15: TV where you walked through. So I was never there, 3062 02:12:10,400 --> 02:12:12,320 Speaker 15: you know, I was on the road a lot. I 3063 02:12:12,360 --> 02:12:14,840 Speaker 15: got the merchant Nized job, so that was I didn't 3064 02:12:14,840 --> 02:12:15,680 Speaker 15: have to pack a whole lot. 3065 02:12:15,720 --> 02:12:15,840 Speaker 4: Man. 3066 02:12:15,880 --> 02:12:17,720 Speaker 15: I never when I moved up there, I didn't bring 3067 02:12:17,720 --> 02:12:19,480 Speaker 15: a bed or anything. It just I lived there for 3068 02:12:19,520 --> 02:12:22,840 Speaker 15: a while until I moved, you know, probably where I 3069 02:12:22,920 --> 02:12:24,480 Speaker 15: moved after a year, and then I lived there for 3070 02:12:24,520 --> 02:12:25,240 Speaker 15: about six years. 3071 02:12:25,440 --> 02:12:26,000 Speaker 4: So would you do? 3072 02:12:26,040 --> 02:12:28,360 Speaker 1: Did you write Monday through Thursday and then go out 3073 02:12:28,360 --> 02:12:29,960 Speaker 1: and sell merch for Luke on the weekend? 3074 02:12:30,080 --> 02:12:31,360 Speaker 15: And you know, I'd like to say I had it 3075 02:12:31,400 --> 02:12:33,800 Speaker 15: set up like that, but you know, at first, who 3076 02:12:33,840 --> 02:12:36,000 Speaker 15: do you write with? I mean, how I'm a merchandise? 3077 02:12:36,320 --> 02:12:38,560 Speaker 15: Nobody took me serious, and I think that had a 3078 02:12:38,600 --> 02:12:40,080 Speaker 15: lot to do with when I was first coming out, 3079 02:12:40,120 --> 02:12:42,840 Speaker 15: people weren't really sure if I you know, was like, 3080 02:12:42,880 --> 02:12:45,440 Speaker 15: who's this guy that just got off and got off 3081 02:12:45,480 --> 02:12:49,680 Speaker 15: the road? Still in teachers? But I think, uh, you know, 3082 02:12:49,800 --> 02:12:52,680 Speaker 15: I don't know how it happened like that. But to write, 3083 02:12:53,200 --> 02:12:56,440 Speaker 15: you know, every day, you can't do that without appointments, 3084 02:12:56,480 --> 02:12:57,680 Speaker 15: And to me, I had to meet people. So I 3085 02:12:57,720 --> 02:12:59,320 Speaker 15: had a couple buddies that i'd write with, and I 3086 02:12:59,400 --> 02:13:01,480 Speaker 15: might write twice a week if I could. But it's 3087 02:13:01,520 --> 02:13:02,920 Speaker 15: the more I did it, you know, I'd rite on 3088 02:13:02,960 --> 02:13:05,040 Speaker 15: the road when I could with Michael, but just thinking 3089 02:13:05,080 --> 02:13:07,600 Speaker 15: about and just knowing that, Man, I'm not there yet. 3090 02:13:07,640 --> 02:13:09,160 Speaker 15: I'm not there yet. I mean, I can't wait till 3091 02:13:09,160 --> 02:13:10,680 Speaker 15: one day get in the room with some of these 3092 02:13:10,720 --> 02:13:13,320 Speaker 15: guys and I can learn. And but I'm glad I didn't. 3093 02:13:13,360 --> 02:13:15,120 Speaker 15: I'm glad I had to learn by myself with the 3094 02:13:15,120 --> 02:13:16,920 Speaker 15: guys that were on my level. And I think that's 3095 02:13:17,000 --> 02:13:19,720 Speaker 15: how you that's how you grow, and it's you know, 3096 02:13:19,920 --> 02:13:22,240 Speaker 15: I wrote when I could, but the more I did, 3097 02:13:22,280 --> 02:13:23,920 Speaker 15: the more I you know, I think you got the 3098 02:13:23,960 --> 02:13:25,760 Speaker 15: feel of it. And it was just a dignity that 3099 02:13:26,080 --> 02:13:28,680 Speaker 15: feeling I used to have on stage of entertaining and 3100 02:13:28,720 --> 02:13:29,760 Speaker 15: watching people have fun. 3101 02:13:30,440 --> 02:13:31,080 Speaker 2: Now it was. 3102 02:13:31,080 --> 02:13:33,080 Speaker 15: Coming up with that line or what I thought was 3103 02:13:33,120 --> 02:13:35,320 Speaker 15: good and that feeling. It just took over. And so 3104 02:13:35,760 --> 02:13:38,480 Speaker 15: songwriting was my new love at that point. 3105 02:13:39,080 --> 02:13:42,840 Speaker 1: So when you were selling for Luke, did he know 3106 02:13:43,000 --> 02:13:44,960 Speaker 1: you wanted to be an artist? And is that a 3107 02:13:44,960 --> 02:13:47,360 Speaker 1: weird dynamic because of that? 3108 02:13:47,880 --> 02:13:49,760 Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean I don't think, you know, he knew 3109 02:13:49,800 --> 02:13:52,400 Speaker 15: that I was interesting, use he knew I loved music 3110 02:13:52,440 --> 02:13:54,640 Speaker 15: and I wanted to be a songwriter. And I think 3111 02:13:54,680 --> 02:13:57,040 Speaker 15: he you know, that was his way of saying, hey, well, 3112 02:13:57,160 --> 02:13:59,560 Speaker 15: you know, come out here and see what goes on 3113 02:13:59,640 --> 02:14:02,680 Speaker 15: and kind. It wasn't a really long term plan, but 3114 02:14:02,720 --> 02:14:05,040 Speaker 15: it was something I went out one weekend and ended 3115 02:14:05,120 --> 02:14:07,640 Speaker 15: up being at for like three years. But you know, 3116 02:14:07,720 --> 02:14:09,640 Speaker 15: that's not what I moved to do. But it gave 3117 02:14:09,640 --> 02:14:11,920 Speaker 15: me an opportunity to just be around the business and 3118 02:14:11,960 --> 02:14:14,120 Speaker 15: be around radio and see how a new artist. I 3119 02:14:14,120 --> 02:14:16,920 Speaker 15: mean see, I'd always thought Luke was the big star 3120 02:14:17,040 --> 02:14:18,600 Speaker 15: back that he is now, but it just, you know, 3121 02:14:18,640 --> 02:14:21,320 Speaker 15: it took a little bit for everything to catch on, 3122 02:14:21,480 --> 02:14:23,720 Speaker 15: but for me to see how he did things, how 3123 02:14:23,760 --> 02:14:27,080 Speaker 15: he treated people, you know, his team, It just think 3124 02:14:27,120 --> 02:14:28,760 Speaker 15: it helped me when I finally got my chance. I 3125 02:14:28,760 --> 02:14:30,920 Speaker 15: felt like I had been around it. I'd seen the 3126 02:14:30,920 --> 02:14:34,120 Speaker 15: good and the bad of the business. I'd seen singles taught, 3127 02:14:34,160 --> 02:14:36,640 Speaker 15: the charts i'd seen. I saw me and him both 3128 02:14:36,720 --> 02:14:39,600 Speaker 15: loved you know, Die thirty seven, and it just, you know, 3129 02:14:39,680 --> 02:14:42,000 Speaker 15: things like that I had going through that with a 3130 02:14:42,040 --> 02:14:44,520 Speaker 15: friend and then finally getting your chance like I do now. 3131 02:14:44,560 --> 02:14:47,880 Speaker 15: I mean, I obviously can't thank him enough, but I think, 3132 02:14:48,720 --> 02:14:50,280 Speaker 15: you know, things like that make you want to get 3133 02:14:50,280 --> 02:14:52,560 Speaker 15: to a point where you can give back and help people, 3134 02:14:52,560 --> 02:14:56,880 Speaker 15: because he certainly you know, put his name out there, 3135 02:14:56,880 --> 02:14:58,720 Speaker 15: and I've tried to. 3136 02:14:58,720 --> 02:14:59,120 Speaker 2: Do the best. 3137 02:14:59,160 --> 02:15:00,080 Speaker 12: I can write the best. 3138 02:15:00,400 --> 02:15:02,200 Speaker 15: And you know, make a name for myself. 3139 02:15:02,280 --> 02:15:04,840 Speaker 1: Talking about the hat because everybody thinks it means Cole 3140 02:15:04,880 --> 02:15:08,280 Speaker 1: Swindell and it doesn't. But tell me about the hat 3141 02:15:08,360 --> 02:15:10,280 Speaker 1: and why you wear that hat all the time. Could 3142 02:15:10,280 --> 02:15:11,240 Speaker 1: you not make any money off the hat? 3143 02:15:11,280 --> 02:15:11,640 Speaker 4: Are you? 3144 02:15:11,680 --> 02:15:12,240 Speaker 2: No? 3145 02:15:12,240 --> 02:15:15,120 Speaker 15: No, I don't, I don't know. I'm just obviously a 3146 02:15:15,200 --> 02:15:17,560 Speaker 15: hat guy is kind of kind of my thing. And 3147 02:15:17,880 --> 02:15:21,680 Speaker 15: the Georgia Southern thing, it just I remember when I 3148 02:15:21,720 --> 02:15:23,400 Speaker 15: went out and did some of my first shows when 3149 02:15:23,440 --> 02:15:24,960 Speaker 15: I got my band and I was gonna try to 3150 02:15:24,960 --> 02:15:27,240 Speaker 15: start getting a record deal. You know, I had a 3151 02:15:27,360 --> 02:15:29,760 Speaker 15: Georgia Southern baseball hat, one of the new ones, and 3152 02:15:29,800 --> 02:15:31,960 Speaker 15: I was like, I'm just gonna rock this, and we 3153 02:15:32,080 --> 02:15:34,680 Speaker 15: ended up out on a big tour and the just 3154 02:15:34,720 --> 02:15:36,800 Speaker 15: pictures on the internet, you know, like coming out there, 3155 02:15:36,800 --> 02:15:40,080 Speaker 15: like who's this guy wearing the Georgia Southern people, you know, 3156 02:15:40,160 --> 02:15:42,080 Speaker 15: we're noticing that. I saw a lot of alumni that 3157 02:15:42,800 --> 02:15:45,160 Speaker 15: were like, this guy's repping our college, you know. And 3158 02:15:45,200 --> 02:15:47,840 Speaker 15: I went to school there for six years and our 3159 02:15:47,920 --> 02:15:50,720 Speaker 15: five five years something, and you know it's where I 3160 02:15:50,760 --> 02:15:52,280 Speaker 15: got my start, and it just kind of I don't know. 3161 02:15:52,320 --> 02:15:55,480 Speaker 15: I like to to be loyal to where I come from, 3162 02:15:55,520 --> 02:15:57,360 Speaker 15: and it just kind of stuck with me. And then 3163 02:15:57,520 --> 02:16:00,320 Speaker 15: people think it means I know, I don't know house 3164 02:16:00,360 --> 02:16:02,560 Speaker 15: because it looks like a C. I understand that. But 3165 02:16:02,640 --> 02:16:04,520 Speaker 15: if you look it is a it's obviously, but I 3166 02:16:04,560 --> 02:16:07,080 Speaker 15: can understand it. So maybe, look, you've got all kind 3167 02:16:07,080 --> 02:16:08,840 Speaker 15: of cool hats, so maybe we can just design me 3168 02:16:08,880 --> 02:16:10,760 Speaker 15: a new And I don't know, I don't do you 3169 02:16:10,760 --> 02:16:13,360 Speaker 15: even want that? No, I mean a lot of people 3170 02:16:13,400 --> 02:16:15,120 Speaker 15: think it's my initials. 3171 02:16:15,120 --> 02:16:17,520 Speaker 2: But what if you don't make any money off that 3172 02:16:17,560 --> 02:16:18,360 Speaker 2: Georgia Southern hat. 3173 02:16:18,520 --> 02:16:20,920 Speaker 15: No, I just I just think it's something that nobody 3174 02:16:20,920 --> 02:16:22,600 Speaker 15: knows to Georgia southing. And I get a chance to 3175 02:16:22,640 --> 02:16:26,040 Speaker 15: represent my college where my family we all, I mean everybody. 3176 02:16:26,040 --> 02:16:28,560 Speaker 15: I think everybody graduated with me from there, but everybody 3177 02:16:28,640 --> 02:16:30,040 Speaker 15: went there, and it's just I don't know. 3178 02:16:30,080 --> 02:16:30,560 Speaker 2: I love that. 3179 02:16:30,520 --> 02:16:32,880 Speaker 1: Schooling and commendable look out the state of Arkansas attitude 3180 02:16:32,879 --> 02:16:35,959 Speaker 1: to my body. I love representing home. I don't always wondered. 3181 02:16:35,800 --> 02:16:38,000 Speaker 15: I got you. Yeah, well you know I appreciate do 3182 02:16:38,040 --> 02:16:41,000 Speaker 15: you sell Georgia's other hats at your shows. No, they 3183 02:16:41,080 --> 02:16:43,280 Speaker 15: have them in the bookstore like at the college. So 3184 02:16:43,320 --> 02:16:45,560 Speaker 15: it's like, I mean, they had a graph of the 3185 02:16:45,600 --> 02:16:47,959 Speaker 15: sales of baseball hats before I started wearing it now 3186 02:16:47,959 --> 02:16:49,240 Speaker 15: and it's pretty it's pretty funny. 3187 02:16:49,280 --> 02:16:51,560 Speaker 4: But to me, it's the col merch booth of the college. 3188 02:16:51,560 --> 02:16:53,080 Speaker 15: I mean, I know, but I make I mean, you know, 3189 02:16:53,120 --> 02:16:55,480 Speaker 15: I have my own line of merch down there at 3190 02:16:55,480 --> 02:16:58,240 Speaker 15: Georgia Southern now, so it's I don't know, I mean, 3191 02:16:58,240 --> 02:17:00,200 Speaker 15: they don't do anything like the baseball hats, but it's 3192 02:17:00,200 --> 02:17:02,560 Speaker 15: still I mean, just to be tied in when I 3193 02:17:02,640 --> 02:17:04,240 Speaker 15: used to be a kid in that bookstore. Now I 3194 02:17:04,240 --> 02:17:07,120 Speaker 15: have stuff in there. But it's it's pretty wild to 3195 02:17:07,600 --> 02:17:10,000 Speaker 15: think about that. But there, I know they're proud of me, 3196 02:17:10,080 --> 02:17:13,280 Speaker 15: and I'm proud to represent them. So I'm glad, glad 3197 02:17:13,360 --> 02:17:15,320 Speaker 15: you uh know, proud of where you come from. 3198 02:17:15,440 --> 02:17:17,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I know this story. I just wanted you 3199 02:17:17,240 --> 02:17:19,320 Speaker 1: to say any because a lot of people don't know. 3200 02:17:19,560 --> 02:17:20,879 Speaker 15: I well, thank you, and this is a lot of 3201 02:17:20,879 --> 02:17:23,360 Speaker 15: people listening and this is my only way. And that's 3202 02:17:23,360 --> 02:17:25,720 Speaker 15: funny about people tweeting and stuff like when I get 3203 02:17:25,840 --> 02:17:28,240 Speaker 15: you know, a couple of TV moments here and there. 3204 02:17:28,240 --> 02:17:30,200 Speaker 15: But when I do, that's like the meanest thing. It's like, 3205 02:17:31,160 --> 02:17:33,120 Speaker 15: why does this guy think he can just wear his 3206 02:17:33,160 --> 02:17:35,800 Speaker 15: initial And it's like, well, okay, I mean that's not 3207 02:17:35,920 --> 02:17:38,200 Speaker 15: that worst thing. I guess I can. I can deal 3208 02:17:38,240 --> 02:17:40,600 Speaker 15: with that, but uh yeah, well who knows, Maybe I'll 3209 02:17:40,680 --> 02:17:42,480 Speaker 15: change it someday. 3210 02:17:43,720 --> 02:17:45,840 Speaker 1: Here's Thomas Rhett talking about what it was like growing 3211 02:17:45,920 --> 02:17:48,480 Speaker 1: up with a famous dad and talking about writing songs 3212 02:17:48,480 --> 02:17:50,400 Speaker 1: for other artists and how he felt like he had 3213 02:17:50,400 --> 02:17:53,920 Speaker 1: to prove to people that he was country. It's kind 3214 02:17:53,920 --> 02:17:55,480 Speaker 1: of wild too, Like your kids are going to grow 3215 02:17:55,560 --> 02:17:58,200 Speaker 1: up in an environment of knowing terrifies me all the 3216 02:17:59,000 --> 02:18:02,640 Speaker 1: like all the Country Star La New York yep, Like 3217 02:18:02,680 --> 02:18:06,000 Speaker 1: they're gonna have I say different. But I mean you 3218 02:18:06,040 --> 02:18:08,480 Speaker 1: grew up knowing some of these guys, Like yeah, when 3219 02:18:08,480 --> 02:18:11,000 Speaker 1: you grew up in Nashville. Ye, Like did you know McGraw? 3220 02:18:11,280 --> 02:18:13,640 Speaker 1: I did from an early age. 3221 02:18:13,920 --> 02:18:15,880 Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean not so much McGraw. I mean I 3222 02:18:16,000 --> 02:18:18,240 Speaker 16: met MacGraw when I was nine. I met Garth when 3223 02:18:18,240 --> 02:18:21,160 Speaker 16: I was like eight or nine years old. We spent 3224 02:18:21,240 --> 02:18:24,279 Speaker 16: like a couple of halloweens over at Reba's house, mostly 3225 02:18:24,280 --> 02:18:26,320 Speaker 16: people that dad toured with. I knew pretty well Blake 3226 02:18:26,360 --> 02:18:28,320 Speaker 16: Shelton when he is back in his younger in his 3227 02:18:28,360 --> 02:18:31,240 Speaker 16: younger days, not saying that you're old, Blake, you're younger. 3228 02:18:31,240 --> 02:18:33,920 Speaker 12: Then he's a big fan. He'll for sure he this, Yeah, 3229 02:18:33,920 --> 02:18:34,600 Speaker 12: for sure. 3230 02:18:35,920 --> 02:18:38,440 Speaker 16: But uh yeah, man, I definitely grew up in that environment. 3231 02:18:38,480 --> 02:18:39,080 Speaker 12: But it was so different. 3232 02:18:39,080 --> 02:18:41,160 Speaker 16: Social media didn't exist then, you know what I mean, 3233 02:18:41,200 --> 02:18:42,960 Speaker 16: Like if if there was an artist that did something 3234 02:18:43,000 --> 02:18:44,640 Speaker 16: that was worth talking about, it was in the newspaper. 3235 02:18:45,560 --> 02:18:48,000 Speaker 16: Just so different now, like if something happens this immediately 3236 02:18:48,640 --> 02:18:49,879 Speaker 16: for anyone in the world to see. 3237 02:18:50,000 --> 02:18:51,600 Speaker 1: Do you and Lauren have the talks about the kids 3238 02:18:51,600 --> 02:18:54,160 Speaker 1: on Instagram and the kids on Twitter and like give rules? 3239 02:18:54,280 --> 02:18:55,920 Speaker 16: We talk about it daily, man, And we get asked 3240 02:18:55,959 --> 02:18:57,800 Speaker 16: that question quite a bit, like what is the balance? 3241 02:18:57,840 --> 02:18:59,560 Speaker 16: And I think we're still trying to figure it out. 3242 02:18:59,600 --> 02:19:01,680 Speaker 16: But I think through it all, me and Laurena are 3243 02:19:01,720 --> 02:19:04,640 Speaker 16: still trying to be super real to how we like 3244 02:19:04,680 --> 02:19:06,600 Speaker 16: to live life. And ever since we got married. We're 3245 02:19:06,600 --> 02:19:09,320 Speaker 16: both twenty two and we got married, and my fans 3246 02:19:09,320 --> 02:19:10,800 Speaker 16: have known that I was married. Since I was married, 3247 02:19:10,959 --> 02:19:12,680 Speaker 16: there was no ever trying to be like, hey, I'm 3248 02:19:12,680 --> 02:19:15,360 Speaker 16: still the single dude, you know what I'm saying, Because 3249 02:19:15,360 --> 02:19:17,960 Speaker 16: I think in a lot of formats it's like, well, 3250 02:19:17,959 --> 02:19:19,480 Speaker 16: you want to be accessible and you want to be 3251 02:19:19,520 --> 02:19:22,200 Speaker 16: the single guy because they think that it drives more 3252 02:19:22,240 --> 02:19:24,440 Speaker 16: fans your way. But that's never something that I really 3253 02:19:24,520 --> 02:19:26,800 Speaker 16: believed in. And so Lauren has been such a huge 3254 02:19:26,840 --> 02:19:28,920 Speaker 16: part of my social media platform that like, when our 3255 02:19:28,959 --> 02:19:31,080 Speaker 16: kids got here, it was like, yeah, there's a lot 3256 02:19:31,120 --> 02:19:33,160 Speaker 16: of things that are too personal that we're definitely going 3257 02:19:33,200 --> 02:19:35,720 Speaker 16: to save for our own family group text and our 3258 02:19:35,760 --> 02:19:39,920 Speaker 16: private Instagram pages and stuff. But like, I mean, you know, 3259 02:19:39,920 --> 02:19:42,880 Speaker 16: we're a family of two kids, and we're gonna project that, 3260 02:19:42,920 --> 02:19:45,560 Speaker 16: you know what I'm saying, And so there's a lot 3261 02:19:45,560 --> 02:19:47,240 Speaker 16: of people that are like, well, maybe that's not protective 3262 02:19:47,240 --> 02:19:49,160 Speaker 16: of your kids, and it's just like, well, the part 3263 02:19:49,200 --> 02:19:51,280 Speaker 16: of our lives and we've always been super transparent and 3264 02:19:51,320 --> 02:19:53,880 Speaker 16: we've always kind of told whatever's on our sleeve is 3265 02:19:53,879 --> 02:19:55,880 Speaker 16: going to be kind of on Instagram, and we're pretty 3266 02:19:55,920 --> 02:19:57,640 Speaker 16: real about the stuff that we deal with and the 3267 02:19:57,640 --> 02:20:00,879 Speaker 16: stuff that we struggle with. I just think it's I 3268 02:20:00,879 --> 02:20:02,360 Speaker 16: just think more so than anything, it's more of a, 3269 02:20:02,440 --> 02:20:04,440 Speaker 16: like you said, a positive influence to other families that 3270 02:20:04,480 --> 02:20:06,240 Speaker 16: have kids and just realize that every day is not 3271 02:20:06,400 --> 02:20:07,400 Speaker 16: rainbows and butterflies. 3272 02:20:08,200 --> 02:20:11,879 Speaker 1: And also, nobody's wrong, right, I mean, I think that's 3273 02:20:11,879 --> 02:20:15,480 Speaker 1: a thing to understand too. Is that because somebody disagrees 3274 02:20:16,160 --> 02:20:18,680 Speaker 1: that you put your kids on Instagram? Yeah, and because 3275 02:20:18,720 --> 02:20:21,160 Speaker 1: maybe they don't, they're not right or wrong exactly right 3276 02:20:21,240 --> 02:20:23,640 Speaker 1: or wrong. There are much like music, there are just 3277 02:20:23,680 --> 02:20:24,760 Speaker 1: different ways to do yeah. 3278 02:20:25,080 --> 02:20:27,480 Speaker 12: Yeah, and it doesn't make you right or wrong. 3279 02:20:27,760 --> 02:20:29,800 Speaker 1: You can be different, yes, and you don't have to 3280 02:20:29,800 --> 02:20:32,680 Speaker 1: hate somebody that's different exactly. But we're in that climate 3281 02:20:32,959 --> 02:20:35,840 Speaker 1: where it's like so it be a climate, political climate, 3282 02:20:35,840 --> 02:20:36,920 Speaker 1: it's all all the time. 3283 02:20:37,040 --> 02:20:38,280 Speaker 12: It is so frustrating to me. 3284 02:20:38,480 --> 02:20:40,520 Speaker 16: Probably one of the biggest frustrating factors in my life 3285 02:20:40,560 --> 02:20:43,400 Speaker 16: of the last five years have been Instagram or Twitter 3286 02:20:43,560 --> 02:20:44,000 Speaker 16: or whatever. 3287 02:20:44,320 --> 02:20:48,040 Speaker 1: And it's funny because Instagram is a big part of 3288 02:20:48,040 --> 02:20:50,640 Speaker 1: your successful career too, yet it's still one of the 3289 02:20:50,640 --> 02:20:51,920 Speaker 1: most frustrating parts of it as well. 3290 02:20:52,000 --> 02:20:52,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. 3291 02:20:52,200 --> 02:20:54,879 Speaker 16: It's such a blessing and a curse, you know, because 3292 02:20:54,920 --> 02:20:56,560 Speaker 16: all you want to do is use your Instagram for 3293 02:20:56,680 --> 02:21:01,360 Speaker 16: a platform and use it to just promote positivity and 3294 02:21:01,400 --> 02:21:03,840 Speaker 16: love and peace and all these things. But it's just like, 3295 02:21:04,400 --> 02:21:06,720 Speaker 16: it doesn't matter what you or I post, there's going 3296 02:21:06,800 --> 02:21:08,040 Speaker 16: to be something ridiculous on there. 3297 02:21:08,040 --> 02:21:08,520 Speaker 2: I posted a. 3298 02:21:08,480 --> 02:21:11,320 Speaker 16: Picture yesterday or video yesterday just of saying, like what 3299 02:21:11,360 --> 02:21:13,720 Speaker 16: my new single is going to be? The first comment 3300 02:21:13,760 --> 02:21:16,480 Speaker 16: was shave your beard? You know what I'm saying. I'm like, 3301 02:21:17,200 --> 02:21:19,920 Speaker 16: first of all, what do you? 3302 02:21:20,000 --> 02:21:21,240 Speaker 12: What are you doing in your life? 3303 02:21:21,320 --> 02:21:23,360 Speaker 16: You have time to just say that to me. You 3304 02:21:23,360 --> 02:21:25,160 Speaker 16: know what I'm saying, like or like, hey, bend the 3305 02:21:25,160 --> 02:21:26,000 Speaker 16: bill of your hat. 3306 02:21:28,000 --> 02:21:30,280 Speaker 1: But okay, let me play Devil's advocate because I agree, 3307 02:21:30,280 --> 02:21:30,840 Speaker 1: what a dumb thing. 3308 02:21:31,000 --> 02:21:33,360 Speaker 12: But you remember that, like, right, That's what I'm saying. 3309 02:21:33,400 --> 02:21:36,080 Speaker 12: I'm giving that person they got noticed. 3310 02:21:36,760 --> 02:21:39,000 Speaker 1: On your next Instagram, I'm gonna write, hey, been the 3311 02:21:39,000 --> 02:21:39,560 Speaker 1: bill of your hat? 3312 02:21:39,640 --> 02:21:41,720 Speaker 12: Right, and I'll remember that some likes I know. 3313 02:21:41,680 --> 02:21:44,840 Speaker 1: It on that what's frustrating for me And I don't know, 3314 02:21:45,840 --> 02:21:48,240 Speaker 1: and I'm not speaking for you, but I know watching 3315 02:21:48,280 --> 02:21:50,000 Speaker 1: you and I'm a big fan of how you. 3316 02:21:49,920 --> 02:21:50,760 Speaker 12: Do your music. 3317 02:21:50,959 --> 02:21:54,879 Speaker 1: Thanks You're you're pretty unapologetic about this is my style? 3318 02:21:55,000 --> 02:21:58,400 Speaker 12: Sure, like this is me and okay, you can get 3319 02:21:58,400 --> 02:21:59,959 Speaker 12: a feeling as mutual man, so you can get all 3320 02:22:00,160 --> 02:22:01,440 Speaker 12: you can get off the ride. But I'm just gonna 3321 02:22:01,440 --> 02:22:01,920 Speaker 12: do what I do. 3322 02:22:02,040 --> 02:22:05,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I know that for me to watch at 3323 02:22:05,920 --> 02:22:08,240 Speaker 1: times some of what to call it the old guard 3324 02:22:08,360 --> 02:22:09,720 Speaker 1: or to go that's. 3325 02:22:09,560 --> 02:22:12,879 Speaker 12: That guy is not country. Yeah, that frustrates me. 3326 02:22:13,000 --> 02:22:15,320 Speaker 1: For you, I don't know how you feel about that, 3327 02:22:15,360 --> 02:22:17,360 Speaker 1: but that for me, I'm like, God, if you guys 3328 02:22:17,360 --> 02:22:19,560 Speaker 1: even just knew like that, dude, as a country. 3329 02:22:19,240 --> 02:22:23,720 Speaker 16: As can be, right, Yeah, man, yeah, I mean that that. 3330 02:22:23,720 --> 02:22:25,760 Speaker 16: That's been my life as a country artists, not necessarily 3331 02:22:25,800 --> 02:22:27,959 Speaker 16: in the beginning, but I'll say on my second record, 3332 02:22:28,000 --> 02:22:31,680 Speaker 16: when I started to like lean way more just progressive 3333 02:22:31,680 --> 02:22:34,480 Speaker 16: as far as production goes, and started to take my 3334 02:22:34,520 --> 02:22:37,400 Speaker 16: singing a whole lot more seriously and doing vocal lessons 3335 02:22:37,440 --> 02:22:39,000 Speaker 16: and all this stuff, trying to just make my record 3336 02:22:39,120 --> 02:22:42,360 Speaker 16: sound like something that wasn't happening in our genre. Dude, 3337 02:22:42,400 --> 02:22:45,600 Speaker 16: I have gotten more comments of you are not country 3338 02:22:45,720 --> 02:22:48,200 Speaker 16: or you are ruining the face of our genre. Might 3339 02:22:48,200 --> 02:22:50,320 Speaker 16: as well quit now, Like I mean, if I could mean, 3340 02:22:50,320 --> 02:22:52,280 Speaker 16: there's I mean, I'm sure that you've had some of 3341 02:22:52,280 --> 02:22:55,640 Speaker 16: those similar comments, but it's just like it in the 3342 02:22:55,640 --> 02:22:57,320 Speaker 16: beginning of the of those days, it was just like, 3343 02:22:57,360 --> 02:22:59,600 Speaker 16: you know what, maybe they're right, you know, what I mean, like, 3344 02:22:59,640 --> 02:23:03,080 Speaker 16: and I think that's the poor four in my enneagram going, 3345 02:23:03,080 --> 02:23:06,080 Speaker 16: They're right, I suck. I'm defeated. It's better for me 3346 02:23:06,120 --> 02:23:09,040 Speaker 16: to quit for the whole world than they. 3347 02:23:09,040 --> 02:23:10,600 Speaker 1: You're gonna take one for the world the team, I'm 3348 02:23:10,600 --> 02:23:11,760 Speaker 1: gonna take one for the world. 3349 02:23:12,000 --> 02:23:15,080 Speaker 16: Yeah, but really I'm taking one for like sixty people. Yeah, 3350 02:23:15,120 --> 02:23:15,680 Speaker 16: you know what I'm saying. 3351 02:23:15,920 --> 02:23:17,240 Speaker 12: A small vocal. 3352 02:23:17,000 --> 02:23:19,280 Speaker 16: My very small vocal minority. And the more I thought 3353 02:23:19,280 --> 02:23:22,560 Speaker 16: about it, I was like, you're not country. You're not country? Okay, 3354 02:23:22,640 --> 02:23:26,040 Speaker 16: Why why am I not country? Well, you don't wear 3355 02:23:26,120 --> 02:23:30,000 Speaker 16: cowboy boots on stage? Okay, let me mentally go through that. 3356 02:23:30,320 --> 02:23:32,320 Speaker 16: The reason I don't wear cowboy boots on stage is 3357 02:23:32,320 --> 02:23:34,240 Speaker 16: because I jump up and down like a crazy person. 3358 02:23:34,720 --> 02:23:37,120 Speaker 16: And on the Aldean tour in twenty thirteen, his thrust 3359 02:23:37,240 --> 02:23:40,080 Speaker 16: was this metal grating material and I was wearing snip 3360 02:23:40,080 --> 02:23:42,480 Speaker 16: toed cowboy boots and got stuck in them every night. 3361 02:23:42,760 --> 02:23:44,640 Speaker 16: That's the reason I don't work cawboy boots on stage. 3362 02:23:44,640 --> 02:23:47,959 Speaker 16: Does that make me not country? I think, no, you're 3363 02:23:48,000 --> 02:23:50,960 Speaker 16: not country because your music doesn't a fiddle in it. 3364 02:23:52,240 --> 02:23:54,520 Speaker 16: I would say ninety eight percent of songs on country radio, 3365 02:23:54,560 --> 02:23:57,039 Speaker 16: don't have a fiddle in it. There's another one, you 3366 02:23:57,040 --> 02:23:58,560 Speaker 16: know what I'm saying, And so you just have to 3367 02:23:58,600 --> 02:24:01,880 Speaker 16: like do this self check. I think through therapy and 3368 02:24:02,040 --> 02:24:04,080 Speaker 16: you know, through talking with my wife and talking to 3369 02:24:04,080 --> 02:24:05,680 Speaker 16: people that I trust about it. It's just like, dude, 3370 02:24:06,000 --> 02:24:07,560 Speaker 16: at the end of the day, is country music not 3371 02:24:07,640 --> 02:24:09,920 Speaker 16: about being yourself? And his country music not about telling 3372 02:24:09,959 --> 02:24:11,800 Speaker 16: the truth in a story? Do I do both those things? 3373 02:24:11,879 --> 02:24:15,039 Speaker 12: Yes? Do I dress a little different? Yes? Are some 3374 02:24:15,080 --> 02:24:18,160 Speaker 12: of my songs more progressive than some things on country radio. Yes, 3375 02:24:18,800 --> 02:24:19,400 Speaker 12: I'm allowed to. 3376 02:24:19,400 --> 02:24:22,520 Speaker 16: Explore my outlets, you know what I'm saying. Like you 3377 02:24:22,560 --> 02:24:24,960 Speaker 16: look back at any and we I think we've had 3378 02:24:25,000 --> 02:24:27,640 Speaker 16: this conversation before. But when Merle Haggard and Willie Nelson, 3379 02:24:27,640 --> 02:24:30,640 Speaker 16: all these dudes came out, they were called outlaws. 3380 02:24:30,120 --> 02:24:30,720 Speaker 12: For a reason. 3381 02:24:31,360 --> 02:24:32,960 Speaker 16: An outlaw is not just a term that you used 3382 02:24:32,959 --> 02:24:36,000 Speaker 16: to describe country music today. It is every twenty years 3383 02:24:36,000 --> 02:24:37,480 Speaker 16: we look back at the artists twenty years ago and 3384 02:24:37,520 --> 02:24:39,760 Speaker 16: say that was real country music. You know what I'm saying. 3385 02:24:39,840 --> 02:24:42,039 Speaker 16: We say Shanaia Twain is real country music. At the time, 3386 02:24:42,240 --> 02:24:44,520 Speaker 16: she was a pop singer. They told her on Instagram 3387 02:24:44,520 --> 02:24:45,600 Speaker 16: shave or beard she was. 3388 02:24:47,440 --> 02:24:49,000 Speaker 1: I was talking to Garth and he said to say, 3389 02:24:49,080 --> 02:24:50,680 Speaker 1: you know, that's my favorite one to share with people 3390 02:24:50,680 --> 02:24:53,840 Speaker 1: who go, uh, it's Garth thrial country. Garth was like, dude, 3391 02:24:53,879 --> 02:24:56,039 Speaker 1: country music did not embrace me. No, he was like, 3392 02:24:56,080 --> 02:24:58,960 Speaker 1: they were antis. I came to town and they were like, 3393 02:24:58,959 --> 02:25:00,600 Speaker 1: you're not country. Get out of here, like what are you? 3394 02:25:01,240 --> 02:25:03,000 Speaker 1: And you can go through and you can go back. 3395 02:25:03,040 --> 02:25:05,520 Speaker 1: And you mentioned some of those guys, but everyone that 3396 02:25:05,560 --> 02:25:09,200 Speaker 1: has changed the music for the better, because they're the 3397 02:25:09,200 --> 02:25:11,840 Speaker 1: ones who we remember as being successful, has been not 3398 02:25:12,080 --> 02:25:13,240 Speaker 1: country exactly. 3399 02:25:13,640 --> 02:25:16,200 Speaker 16: And in any genre people hated and people hated the 3400 02:25:16,360 --> 02:25:18,400 Speaker 16: land because they weren't the Beatles in any art, in 3401 02:25:18,480 --> 02:25:21,480 Speaker 16: any not even just music, in any art whatsoever. 3402 02:25:21,600 --> 02:25:25,600 Speaker 1: You can look at comedy or visual art, just whatever. 3403 02:25:25,879 --> 02:25:28,039 Speaker 1: People that break the mold and are not get the 3404 02:25:28,040 --> 02:25:30,160 Speaker 1: finger like you're not this are the ones that create 3405 02:25:30,240 --> 02:25:33,800 Speaker 1: the new this exactly. And so that's always what's frustrated 3406 02:25:33,840 --> 02:25:36,959 Speaker 1: me for you, and partially too, I think selfishly, when 3407 02:25:36,959 --> 02:25:40,320 Speaker 1: I came to town, it was hey, you're not country, 3408 02:25:40,440 --> 02:25:43,320 Speaker 1: and I'm going m I grew up a mountain pine 3409 02:25:43,360 --> 02:25:47,800 Speaker 1: arch and like, I live in a trailer, Like what 3410 02:25:48,720 --> 02:25:51,000 Speaker 1: animal do you want me to clean because I can 3411 02:25:51,320 --> 02:25:54,640 Speaker 1: any of them. And I started to think, what makes 3412 02:25:54,680 --> 02:25:57,440 Speaker 1: me not have an accent? What makes me not a country? 3413 02:25:57,959 --> 02:26:00,560 Speaker 1: Was it because I was doing it popping hip hop 3414 02:26:00,600 --> 02:26:01,920 Speaker 1: for a while, because that was where I got my 3415 02:26:01,959 --> 02:26:04,600 Speaker 1: first job? I said, because I come on and I 3416 02:26:04,640 --> 02:26:06,840 Speaker 1: just tell my truth all the time. I'm very authentic 3417 02:26:06,840 --> 02:26:09,120 Speaker 1: about my message. Absolutely, And CBS did a story like 3418 02:26:09,120 --> 02:26:11,160 Speaker 1: he doesn't wear cowboy boots or a cowboy hat. 3419 02:26:11,400 --> 02:26:16,000 Speaker 12: He's he's the renegade, Like, isn't country? Just tell him 3420 02:26:16,000 --> 02:26:17,800 Speaker 12: the truth? Yeah, you don't have to be from the South. 3421 02:26:17,879 --> 02:26:19,920 Speaker 1: I am you are, so we kind of get that 3422 02:26:19,959 --> 02:26:21,920 Speaker 1: little nickel that we can defend. 3423 02:26:22,120 --> 02:26:26,040 Speaker 12: Yeah, but there's more seen more country folks in New York, 3424 02:26:26,160 --> 02:26:28,160 Speaker 12: upstate New York. I was about to say, I was 3425 02:26:28,240 --> 02:26:30,160 Speaker 12: just up there and it was country as crap, or 3426 02:26:30,200 --> 02:26:32,320 Speaker 12: like right outside of DC, like northern Virginia. 3427 02:26:32,440 --> 02:26:32,600 Speaker 2: Yep. 3428 02:26:33,280 --> 02:26:35,199 Speaker 12: So like, I feel your pain. 3429 02:26:35,360 --> 02:26:37,400 Speaker 1: And sometimes when I see people write stuff, I'm like, 3430 02:26:38,160 --> 02:26:39,880 Speaker 1: you know what, First of all, who cares? But second 3431 02:26:39,920 --> 02:26:42,520 Speaker 1: of all, I go I know, as a creator, after 3432 02:26:42,560 --> 02:26:44,560 Speaker 1: a while, it starts to go, oh, it just gets 3433 02:26:44,560 --> 02:26:45,920 Speaker 1: to be a weight that you almost don't like to 3434 02:26:45,920 --> 02:26:49,400 Speaker 1: acknowledge because you're giving them power for sure, but it's real. 3435 02:26:49,680 --> 02:26:51,360 Speaker 1: But it also makes me better to Yeah. 3436 02:26:51,360 --> 02:26:54,720 Speaker 16: Absolutely, it's honestly that that's the one area in my 3437 02:26:54,800 --> 02:26:56,720 Speaker 16: life that's has taken a lot of growing. But like 3438 02:26:56,760 --> 02:26:59,240 Speaker 16: you said, like when I do get those comments, it 3439 02:26:59,280 --> 02:27:02,760 Speaker 16: fuels my fire. It used to suck my life away, 3440 02:27:02,840 --> 02:27:04,199 Speaker 16: and now now it fuels my fire. 3441 02:27:04,879 --> 02:27:07,400 Speaker 12: Your dad's country, he was here. My dad is country. 3442 02:27:07,440 --> 02:27:10,320 Speaker 12: Your dad is No one's gonna see your dad and 3443 02:27:10,360 --> 02:27:12,359 Speaker 12: go that game country. 3444 02:27:12,680 --> 02:27:13,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 3445 02:27:13,120 --> 02:27:15,440 Speaker 16: Oh and that's that's my face. That's my favorite comment 3446 02:27:15,440 --> 02:27:18,440 Speaker 16: I've ever gotten. Your daddy must be so ashamed. Oh 3447 02:27:18,480 --> 02:27:21,560 Speaker 16: people say that. Oh yeah, for about a year there. 3448 02:27:21,480 --> 02:27:22,039 Speaker 4: That that was. 3449 02:27:22,120 --> 02:27:24,400 Speaker 16: That was the special comment. Your daddy is ashamed of you? 3450 02:27:24,879 --> 02:27:27,320 Speaker 16: And I was like, I don't think I don't think 3451 02:27:27,320 --> 02:27:31,720 Speaker 16: he is. Well, what, like, what a rotten thing, that's 3452 02:27:31,760 --> 02:27:32,200 Speaker 16: what I'm saying. 3453 02:27:32,480 --> 02:27:34,680 Speaker 1: That that's a rotten thing to write, right, even for 3454 02:27:34,800 --> 02:27:37,160 Speaker 1: trolls exactly, Like I lost a little faith in all 3455 02:27:37,160 --> 02:27:38,879 Speaker 1: trolls that they actually write that, and I know it 3456 02:27:38,879 --> 02:27:40,320 Speaker 1: already didn't have a good opinion of them. 3457 02:27:40,640 --> 02:27:42,960 Speaker 12: So what is it? What's the relationship between and your dad? Now, 3458 02:27:43,360 --> 02:27:44,560 Speaker 12: it's amazing dude. 3459 02:27:44,280 --> 02:27:45,680 Speaker 16: Yeah, me and me and dad have gone through a 3460 02:27:45,680 --> 02:27:48,920 Speaker 16: bunch of seasons in our life, uh, from high school 3461 02:27:48,920 --> 02:27:52,640 Speaker 16: playing football into you know, signing a record deal and 3462 02:27:52,720 --> 02:27:54,600 Speaker 16: kind of starting the career to kind of getting into 3463 02:27:54,640 --> 02:27:56,400 Speaker 16: my career and kind of finding my own voice to 3464 02:27:56,400 --> 02:27:58,640 Speaker 16: my own sound, and then's now going through a lot 3465 02:27:58,640 --> 02:28:00,879 Speaker 16: of different phases in life and all good. 3466 02:28:01,760 --> 02:28:01,960 Speaker 4: You know. 3467 02:28:02,160 --> 02:28:04,800 Speaker 16: I think every father and son has their definitely ups 3468 02:28:04,800 --> 02:28:06,000 Speaker 16: and downs. But I would say that me and my 3469 02:28:06,080 --> 02:28:08,920 Speaker 16: dad today at twenty nine and almost fifty, are in 3470 02:28:08,920 --> 02:28:11,760 Speaker 16: the best place I've ever been in our father son 3471 02:28:11,800 --> 02:28:15,080 Speaker 16: relationship because like, he's so young, and. 3472 02:28:15,240 --> 02:28:16,240 Speaker 12: He had me when he was nineteen. 3473 02:28:16,360 --> 02:28:18,680 Speaker 16: My mom had me when she was nineteen, and so 3474 02:28:18,720 --> 02:28:20,960 Speaker 16: to have a young parent that is I think, because 3475 02:28:21,040 --> 02:28:22,400 Speaker 16: I feel like I'm kind of a young parent, and 3476 02:28:22,400 --> 02:28:23,840 Speaker 16: I feel like when I'm fifty, I'm going to be 3477 02:28:23,840 --> 02:28:26,240 Speaker 16: a lot different than my kids then than I am now, 3478 02:28:26,240 --> 02:28:29,920 Speaker 16: because I think parents just go through continuous learning phases. 3479 02:28:30,879 --> 02:28:33,280 Speaker 16: But my dad is obviously my dad, but he's also 3480 02:28:33,360 --> 02:28:34,959 Speaker 16: like one of my best friends in the world, you know. 3481 02:28:35,040 --> 02:28:36,720 Speaker 12: So he's on tour with us. 3482 02:28:36,600 --> 02:28:41,400 Speaker 16: This year, brings his wife out on the road, and 3483 02:28:41,480 --> 02:28:43,600 Speaker 16: when my kids come out. They just they flock to 3484 02:28:43,640 --> 02:28:45,280 Speaker 16: my dad like they're obsessed with my dad. They call 3485 02:28:45,360 --> 02:28:48,400 Speaker 16: M Popeye. And I think for the longest time, I 3486 02:28:48,440 --> 02:28:49,440 Speaker 16: was like, what does my dad going to be like 3487 02:28:49,480 --> 02:28:51,200 Speaker 16: as a grandfather? And he's like the best grandfather in 3488 02:28:51,240 --> 02:28:53,280 Speaker 16: the world. And we get right during the day, we 3489 02:28:53,320 --> 02:28:55,039 Speaker 16: get to play shows at night, and I just feel 3490 02:28:55,040 --> 02:28:57,320 Speaker 16: like he's just become kind of a person that doesn't 3491 02:28:57,360 --> 02:29:00,360 Speaker 16: have so I mean, he obviously he is very focused 3492 02:29:00,360 --> 02:29:02,400 Speaker 16: and very driven and wants to be an amazing songwriter, 3493 02:29:02,480 --> 02:29:04,240 Speaker 16: but I think a lot of the pressure of going, 3494 02:29:04,560 --> 02:29:06,600 Speaker 16: how do I keep keep doing this is kind of 3495 02:29:06,640 --> 02:29:07,080 Speaker 16: left him. 3496 02:29:07,480 --> 02:29:09,560 Speaker 12: As he's turned forty eight to fifty. I just felt 3497 02:29:09,600 --> 02:29:10,520 Speaker 12: he's got a lot less. 3498 02:29:10,400 --> 02:29:12,480 Speaker 16: Pressure on his shoulders, and I think it's kind of 3499 02:29:12,480 --> 02:29:14,360 Speaker 16: made our relationship a lot better. And he's given me 3500 02:29:14,400 --> 02:29:17,680 Speaker 16: a lot more you know, older man wisdom. I think, 3501 02:29:17,760 --> 02:29:20,080 Speaker 16: did he encourage you early early on to start music? 3502 02:29:20,720 --> 02:29:22,840 Speaker 16: Not really, man, My dad never pressured me to do 3503 02:29:22,879 --> 02:29:25,400 Speaker 16: a lot, but his big things don't quit anything, you 3504 02:29:25,400 --> 02:29:27,640 Speaker 16: know what I mean. Like we battled that for a while, 3505 02:29:27,680 --> 02:29:30,480 Speaker 16: like in high school, like going to football camp. No 3506 02:29:30,560 --> 02:29:32,240 Speaker 16: one likes football camp. I don't care if you're the 3507 02:29:32,240 --> 02:29:34,160 Speaker 16: best football player in the world. You hate football camp, 3508 02:29:34,680 --> 02:29:36,120 Speaker 16: and like I was like, I just I just want 3509 02:29:36,160 --> 02:29:37,800 Speaker 16: to quit and play baseball. I want to quit and 3510 02:29:37,879 --> 02:29:39,760 Speaker 16: go do this or that. And he'd be like, well, 3511 02:29:39,800 --> 02:29:43,200 Speaker 16: you signed up, you're not quitting, and and so when 3512 02:29:43,200 --> 02:29:44,959 Speaker 16: it came to music, he was just he was very 3513 02:29:45,640 --> 02:29:47,440 Speaker 16: weird about it because I think he did it, you know, 3514 02:29:47,520 --> 02:29:49,360 Speaker 16: for ten to twelve years, and he knows the highs 3515 02:29:49,400 --> 02:29:51,119 Speaker 16: and he knows the lows, and he knows what failure 3516 02:29:51,160 --> 02:29:53,440 Speaker 16: feels like and what success feels like. And I think 3517 02:29:53,480 --> 02:29:56,600 Speaker 16: any dubt would want to kind of give their kid 3518 02:29:57,400 --> 02:29:59,879 Speaker 16: whatever they can expect and then be like, hey, now 3519 02:30:00,040 --> 02:30:01,280 Speaker 16: you can make the decision, but I want you to 3520 02:30:01,280 --> 02:30:03,240 Speaker 16: know that it's not going to easy road. And so him 3521 02:30:03,280 --> 02:30:04,640 Speaker 16: and my mom both were like, are you sure that 3522 02:30:04,640 --> 02:30:06,760 Speaker 16: you want to get into music? And when I turned 3523 02:30:06,800 --> 02:30:08,800 Speaker 16: about nineteen years old, it was really the only thing 3524 02:30:08,840 --> 02:30:10,320 Speaker 16: in life that I wanted to do. All I want 3525 02:30:10,320 --> 02:30:11,640 Speaker 16: to do is write songs. All I want to do 3526 02:30:11,680 --> 02:30:14,560 Speaker 16: is play shows. Anything about creating anything, That's what I 3527 02:30:14,560 --> 02:30:15,080 Speaker 16: wanted to do. 3528 02:30:15,400 --> 02:30:18,160 Speaker 1: So do you look back now and see that you're 3529 02:30:18,240 --> 02:30:21,720 Speaker 1: your father's son. Yes, maybe you didn't see it then, 3530 02:30:21,760 --> 02:30:23,520 Speaker 1: but now you look back and go, I'm I didn't. 3531 02:30:23,600 --> 02:30:25,000 Speaker 16: Yeah, I didn't see it a lot then, but now 3532 02:30:25,120 --> 02:30:26,760 Speaker 16: I'm looking at the way that I parent the way 3533 02:30:26,760 --> 02:30:30,360 Speaker 16: that he parented, and we are we are a lot 3534 02:30:30,400 --> 02:30:31,840 Speaker 16: alike in a lot of ways, and we are still 3535 02:30:31,920 --> 02:30:33,680 Speaker 16: very different in a lot of ways, but more so alike. 3536 02:30:34,320 --> 02:30:35,480 Speaker 1: What's your first cut ever? 3537 02:30:37,040 --> 02:30:38,760 Speaker 16: A song called I Ain't Ready to Quit by Jason 3538 02:30:38,800 --> 02:30:44,840 Speaker 16: Eldan twenty ten. 3539 02:30:45,360 --> 02:30:46,640 Speaker 4: You were still in school at the time. 3540 02:30:47,520 --> 02:30:49,480 Speaker 12: I was at Lipscomb University down the street. Yeah, and 3541 02:30:49,520 --> 02:30:51,120 Speaker 12: you get a cut? Yeah, what's that like? 3542 02:30:51,360 --> 02:30:54,360 Speaker 16: I thought that I was a gajillionaire and I probably 3543 02:30:54,360 --> 02:30:57,800 Speaker 16: made a hundred bucks that cut. But I remember when 3544 02:30:57,800 --> 02:31:00,080 Speaker 16: that when that came out, Dude, it was like all 3545 02:31:00,120 --> 02:31:01,920 Speaker 16: my buddies in college. I remember we went to Walmart 3546 02:31:01,959 --> 02:31:04,320 Speaker 16: that night and we all bought two copies of the record, 3547 02:31:04,640 --> 02:31:06,640 Speaker 16: and uh, we parked my truck in the front yard 3548 02:31:06,640 --> 02:31:08,800 Speaker 16: of this little house next Lipscom and we just we 3549 02:31:08,840 --> 02:31:11,080 Speaker 16: had a party to one song. We literally just played 3550 02:31:11,080 --> 02:31:13,440 Speaker 16: this song on repeat for like six hours. It was just, 3551 02:31:13,440 --> 02:31:14,760 Speaker 16: I mean, it was just the coolest thing that ever 3552 02:31:14,760 --> 02:31:16,840 Speaker 16: happened to me in my entire life. 3553 02:31:17,480 --> 02:31:19,039 Speaker 12: You signed a record deal like a year. 3554 02:31:19,000 --> 02:31:22,680 Speaker 1: Later, A year later, Yeah, did you do the let 3555 02:31:22,720 --> 02:31:24,080 Speaker 1: me talk to some record labels? 3556 02:31:24,200 --> 02:31:26,080 Speaker 12: Did you do the showcases for people? 3557 02:31:26,200 --> 02:31:26,360 Speaker 2: Did? 3558 02:31:26,520 --> 02:31:27,440 Speaker 12: Was it a uh? 3559 02:31:27,920 --> 02:31:30,680 Speaker 1: They all offering you deals like what was the Thomas 3560 02:31:30,760 --> 02:31:32,200 Speaker 1: Rhett record label? 3561 02:31:32,720 --> 02:31:32,840 Speaker 4: Uh? 3562 02:31:33,120 --> 02:31:35,000 Speaker 12: Kind of pursuit like they did. 3563 02:31:35,000 --> 02:31:38,000 Speaker 16: Man, I think I played for I played for six 3564 02:31:38,080 --> 02:31:41,560 Speaker 16: or seven record labels, and uh, the only song that 3565 02:31:41,640 --> 02:31:43,600 Speaker 16: I had that I thought was even remotely good was 3566 02:31:43,640 --> 02:31:44,840 Speaker 16: a song called if I Could Have a Beer with 3567 02:31:44,959 --> 02:31:48,760 Speaker 16: Jesus that was on my first record, and every every 3568 02:31:48,840 --> 02:31:50,760 Speaker 16: label that I played for a day later had offered 3569 02:31:50,800 --> 02:31:54,800 Speaker 16: me a record deal, and I couldn't believe it because 3570 02:31:54,840 --> 02:31:56,560 Speaker 16: all all, all I thought I wanted to be was 3571 02:31:56,560 --> 02:31:58,520 Speaker 16: a songwriter. I just wanted to follow in dad's footsteps, 3572 02:31:58,560 --> 02:31:59,920 Speaker 16: like I didn't. I don't think I wanted to go 3573 02:32:00,040 --> 02:32:01,720 Speaker 16: on the road. I wanted to play shows, but I 3574 02:32:01,760 --> 02:32:04,520 Speaker 16: didn't think I wanted to do the whole do the thing, 3575 02:32:04,640 --> 02:32:05,800 Speaker 16: go on radio tour, sign a. 3576 02:32:05,720 --> 02:32:08,039 Speaker 12: Record, to do all that stuff. But as I got. 3577 02:32:07,640 --> 02:32:10,120 Speaker 16: Into it, started to get some cuts, it gave me 3578 02:32:10,160 --> 02:32:12,320 Speaker 16: the bug because when I wrote the songs instead of 3579 02:32:12,360 --> 02:32:14,560 Speaker 16: other people singing, I really wondered what it would be 3580 02:32:14,600 --> 02:32:16,880 Speaker 16: like if I recorded them and put them on the radio, 3581 02:32:17,040 --> 02:32:19,480 Speaker 16: and so once I signed a record of a Big Machine. 3582 02:32:19,480 --> 02:32:22,879 Speaker 16: I think it was twenty eleven. It's just kind of 3583 02:32:22,879 --> 02:32:25,720 Speaker 16: been a roller coaster since then, but it was definitely 3584 02:32:25,879 --> 02:32:26,840 Speaker 16: the right thing for sure. 3585 02:32:32,240 --> 02:32:34,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to this special episode of the Bobbycast. 3586 02:32:35,200 --> 02:32:37,800 Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed hearing stories from the early days 3587 02:32:37,800 --> 02:32:40,560 Speaker 1: of artists who had massive careers and they're still topping 3588 02:32:40,600 --> 02:32:43,560 Speaker 1: the charts, they're winning major awards, but they always weren't 3589 02:32:43,760 --> 02:32:45,879 Speaker 1: chart toppers and award winners at the end of the day, 3590 02:32:46,160 --> 02:32:50,120 Speaker 1: normal folks, dads, brothers, sons, who started somewhere. We'll probably 3591 02:32:50,160 --> 02:32:53,400 Speaker 1: have another episode like this with some really awesome female artists, 3592 02:32:53,440 --> 02:32:55,600 Speaker 1: Gabby Barrett, Martine McBride. We have that coming up to 3593 02:32:55,640 --> 02:32:57,640 Speaker 1: in the near future. Be sure to subscribe to the 3594 02:32:57,640 --> 02:33:00,640 Speaker 1: Bobbycast wherever you're listening to this, it would be awesome. 3595 02:33:00,680 --> 02:33:02,080 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for doing that, And if you 3596 02:33:02,080 --> 02:33:03,879 Speaker 1: have a couple of minutes, please go and rate us 3597 02:33:03,920 --> 02:33:04,560 Speaker 1: five stars. 3598 02:33:04,800 --> 02:33:05,800 Speaker 12: That helps us so much. 3599 02:33:06,080 --> 02:33:11,440 Speaker 1: We'll be back next week with a brand new episode. 3600 02:33:17,840 --> 02:33:20,320 Speaker 12: Thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production