Speaker 1: Second date of date DA dating older women. It's like
Speaker 1: adult braces, because we're gonna get to a point in
Speaker 1: your life where it's like, gosh, I probably need it.
Speaker 1: I know it's good for me, but it's also gonna
Speaker 1: be weird because everyone around me is gonna see me,
Speaker 1: They're gonna be judging me for it. I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: and keep it a secret, you know, keep my mouth shut. Literally.
Speaker 1: That is a younger man's perspective on dating up above
Speaker 1: his age. One day, one day, I might get to
Speaker 1: the point where I need adult braces and I need
Speaker 1: an older woman. But one of our listeners says he's
Speaker 1: brave enough to admit it right here on our show,
Speaker 1: and even braver to admit that she's not calling him
Speaker 1: back after their date. Okay, so let's talk to him. Nate,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hi, thanks for having me brave.
Speaker 3: Why is this brave?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 4: Why is like that is such a weird r to
Speaker 4: take on it to deal with them, It's such a
Speaker 4: weird thing to say, like how much older is this woman?
Speaker 4: I mean, I guess if she's thirty years older, then
Speaker 4: that's a yeah, that's a thing to tax.
Speaker 1: What your retirement home. Did you meet this?
Speaker 2: I didn't meet her at a retirement home. I met
Speaker 2: her on a dating.
Speaker 3: App okay, okay? And what's your guys' age gap? Do
Speaker 3: you know?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's not like you're a twenty two year old.
Speaker 3: That would be weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, only because like what do you want to
Speaker 5: do with a twenty two year olds?
Speaker 1: Are kind of which did the matter? It's seventeen years
Speaker 1: difference between the two of them, is that right?
Speaker 2: Yeah? That sounds about right.
Speaker 3: That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable.
Speaker 1: Notice what's her name?
Speaker 2: By the way, her name is Laurie okay.
Speaker 1: And how did you find Lauri online?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 6: I decided, after a long time of just using dating apps,
Speaker 6: like with people around my own age, that I needed.
Speaker 2: To branch out, okay, because I was getting kind of bored.
Speaker 5: So what do you think like an older woman has
Speaker 5: to offer you instead of a woman in her thirty.
Speaker 6: Well obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something neway.
Speaker 5: Okay, And there's probably not much pressure for like babies
Speaker 5: and marriage because I could be her daughter.
Speaker 3: That's done.
Speaker 1: Actually, might be going out with your mom.
Speaker 3: I mean no, my mom is not Laurie. Thank god.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so you went out with Laurie. Where'd you
Speaker 1: guys go?
Speaker 2: You know, we want to have to eat.
Speaker 3: We had a nice time, really, like, what'd you guys
Speaker 3: connect over?
Speaker 2: We just sort of talked. She actually invited me out
Speaker 2: and picked the place. She's much more successful than I am.
Speaker 2: She was like, I'm going to treat you.
Speaker 1: Yes, the older people tend to be for some reason,
Speaker 1: it comes to the territory.
Speaker 3: They just have more money.
Speaker 1: You didn't feel emasculated at all?
Speaker 2: No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know
Speaker 2: I'm not. I don't need to be quote unquote the
Speaker 2: man all the time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, for sure we should.
Speaker 1: When you say that she was successful, what do you
Speaker 1: mean by that? Like you talking about her job, sort of.
Speaker 2: Dealing her job. She's a businesswoman, she's like, is one
Speaker 2: of like a higher up some company. Like she's like
Speaker 2: a boss.
Speaker 3: That's awesome.
Speaker 7: I like that.
Speaker 1: What do you do do you mind us asking?
Speaker 2: I am a valet.
Speaker 3: Okay, she's a boss. You're an employee.
Speaker 5: Did you notice, like at any point in your guys'
Speaker 5: conversation like, oh god, we do come from two different generations.
Speaker 8: You know.
Speaker 2: I initially I was worried about that, but it ended
Speaker 2: up working. Okay. We talked about video games a lot,
Speaker 2: Like we talked about Rocket League, which is crazy, Like
Speaker 2: I can't believe that she even knows knows Rocket Lead
Speaker 2: you get all.
Speaker 3: Was there anything like sexy about that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, she plays video games, Brooke. That is sexy to.
Speaker 5: A man, you know, but I mean to her, it
Speaker 5: probably feels like she's talking to a teenage boy.
Speaker 3: I don't know she brought it, did she or did
Speaker 3: he bring it up? She just knew what it was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were just talking about what we were into,
Speaker 2: and I said, lately, I've been playing a lot of
Speaker 2: Rocket League, and she was like, I know a Rocket League.
Speaker 3: She didn't just say, oh, it's a game with the.
Speaker 5: Rockets, it's actually a card game, or like I buy
Speaker 5: it for my sons.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, Nate tell us, was there any like weird
Speaker 1: stuff that happened during the day.
Speaker 2: I mean, like the waier thought it was weird. Like
Speaker 2: the waiter was kept looking at me like really, man.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's kind of rude.
Speaker 1: Imagine Nate, She's like drawing with crayons. What so, how
Speaker 1: did the night end?
Speaker 7: Well?
Speaker 2: I invited her back to my place, which she declined,
Speaker 2: which is in her right to do, okay, and then
Speaker 2: she gave me a kiss on the forehead.
Speaker 5: Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him
Speaker 5: as like it's.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, back in the day, I used to
Speaker 1: take things a lot slower romantically. So you started with
Speaker 1: a forehead kiss and then you slowly there's way more
Speaker 1: basis back in the day. I bet she kissed the
Speaker 1: surfer on the forehead?
Speaker 4: Was I born in the nineteen fifties or forties or
Speaker 4: something like? Have you seen what Alexis's mom is wearing
Speaker 4: out on it?
Speaker 3: He's not doing four head cans.
Speaker 1: No, don't wear much. Let's you left the date she
Speaker 1: went home. What's happened since then?
Speaker 6: Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but
Speaker 6: she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy
Speaker 6: job and everything. But she did try to see if
Speaker 6: I was free this coming Tuesday at two pm?
Speaker 3: So weird time. Did you say yes or no to
Speaker 3: Tuesday at.
Speaker 2: Two I said no because I'm at work. I mean,
Speaker 2: I'd love to meet her at two pm on a Tuesday.
Speaker 2: But okay, I'm parking cars man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 3: And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, this is definitely a new one for us.
Speaker 3: You don't think it's just that she's not interested because
Speaker 3: he's a younger guy that spent the day talking about
Speaker 3: video games and he, you know, doesn't have an equal
Speaker 3: job to her.
Speaker 1: I don't see a single wrong thing that what she
Speaker 1: said there, so.
Speaker 2: She wouldn't need at all.
Speaker 9: Though.
Speaker 2: The thing, I think if she didn't like me, she.
Speaker 1: Pursued him on the app like she swiped right on him,
Speaker 1: just the same way she swiped right on her, or whatever.
Speaker 3: You have ideas, so that they turn out to be
Speaker 3: not as great as he thought. I don't okay, I.
Speaker 1: Don't appreciate that attitude. Coming into the second part, we're
Speaker 1: going to call this lovely, mature woman who is totally
Speaker 1: into you one hundred percent.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to call her that when we talked
Speaker 3: to her.
Speaker 1: Okay, whatever the right thing to call her is. We're
Speaker 1: going to figure that out, and then we'll try and
Speaker 1: get you a second date update. Right after this second
Speaker 1: date update, we have a guy on the line named Nate,
Speaker 1: who just revealed to us he went on a date
Speaker 1: with a woman seventeen years his senior.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big gaps in size.
Speaker 1: They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in
Speaker 1: the room think it's because he was too immature and
Speaker 1: she's not going to want to talk to him about
Speaker 1: video games and Rocket League and that was a turn off,
Speaker 1: a gap, So yeah, excuse me, let me remind me
Speaker 1: you the And to my left, Jose Bolanos plays video
Speaker 1: games all the time and he's the most mature person
Speaker 1: I know. Hit him up at hilarious Jose on Twitch
Speaker 1: and find out what a catch he truly is. And
Speaker 1: I will say, for the record, I am the most
Speaker 1: single person I know. That's my choice. Maybe that's not
Speaker 1: how cool. No woman holds him down and that's why,
Speaker 1: But I also think that's it. I think our listener
Speaker 1: name brought up a good point to the ladies. Think
Speaker 1: she regrets going out with a younger guy after the date,
Speaker 1: but she's the one who is asking him to hang out.
Speaker 3: Again, Not a younger guy, just him and ask him time.
Speaker 3: No one's ever free.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Tuesday, just the point that she's reaching out
Speaker 1: still engaging him asking to see him again. I mean
Speaker 1: that must mean something, right.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, like me to some degree. But she hasn't
Speaker 2: answered my last.
Speaker 3: Four tex She's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman.
Speaker 1: Let's just give it a shot. Respect a lady forever.
Speaker 1: We need to call and find out. I've never called
Speaker 1: someone this old one before, so I want to do that.
Speaker 3: When we're on the phone with her, she is going
Speaker 3: to hang up on us.
Speaker 1: Okay, I won't say it.
Speaker 3: Do we need Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't say it. Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi? Is this slurry.
Speaker 8: Speaking calling?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice
Speaker 1: kind of took me by surprise. I don't know, Uh,
Speaker 1: I know why you have some weird I'm sorry. We're
Speaker 1: show called broken Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Yeah, why are you calling?
Speaker 3: It's a great question, Laurie.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update,
Speaker 1: and that's where we help our listeners who have gone
Speaker 1: out with somebody hook up with them one more time,
Speaker 1: go out with them one more I don't know if.
Speaker 7: You have I think you might have the wrong number.
Speaker 8: I'm so sorry?
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you the LORI that went up with
Speaker 1: a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh god, a
Speaker 1: little younger than you.
Speaker 3: What, I'm sorry? How do I know that you are
Speaker 3: having a reaction right now to that name?
Speaker 1: Sorry, We're not trying to like make this awkward for you,
Speaker 1: But Nate reached out to our show and told us
Speaker 1: that you guys went out and he's been trying to
Speaker 1: see you again.
Speaker 3: But oh god, he really liked you.
Speaker 5: Oh no, okay, okay, why.
Speaker 10: I'm well, I just I don't I think something got
Speaker 10: like some lires have been crossed here.
Speaker 1: We're we're a little bit confused because he told us
Speaker 1: that you even mentioned a specific time and a date
Speaker 1: like two o'clock on a Tuesday, where you wanted to
Speaker 1: meet up with you couldn't make it.
Speaker 10: Yeah, Well, I'm just I feel bad because I had
Speaker 10: to be honest. I haven't been one hundred percent up
Speaker 10: front with him about my I guess my intentions for
Speaker 10: wanting to meet up with him.
Speaker 5: You met him on the dating app, right, Like, I mean,
Speaker 5: if you meet anybody on a dating ap, it feels
Speaker 5: like the intention is to date romantic.
Speaker 1: Oh, so you're just looking for a fling.
Speaker 9: No, I'm not.
Speaker 2: I'm married.
Speaker 3: Wait wait what? Oh wow, what do you mean you're married?
Speaker 3: Why do you want an app?
Speaker 7: I don't mean to be on a dating the dating part.
Speaker 9: I play on this app and you can, you can
Speaker 9: look for friendship. I was, you know, I put on
Speaker 9: my profile.
Speaker 3: Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Woit? So you were on the wrong section or he.
Speaker 3: Was on the wrong section.
Speaker 1: Did you did that come up during your date that
Speaker 1: you're trying to be his friend?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 7: I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying,
Speaker 7: you know, I'm just looking for a friend.
Speaker 9: I think.
Speaker 8: I just what's happening is I have a step son
Speaker 8: and he is he's seventeenth and he can't drive. He
Speaker 8: can't think you're aft driving? And I was looking at
Speaker 8: this app.
Speaker 9: You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said,
Speaker 9: you know, take a look because sometimes you can meet
Speaker 9: people that have different skills that can actually help you
Speaker 9: out in the real world.
Speaker 3: I don't get it.
Speaker 11: They came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a
Speaker 11: valet and my son is having trouble with parking, Like.
Speaker 5: Why wouldn't you just be out front and ask him
Speaker 5: like hey and tell him what's going on as soon
Speaker 5: as you message him on the app.
Speaker 9: Well, I mean he we were talking about, you know,
Speaker 9: what do you like to do in your spare time?
Speaker 9: And so Nate brought up that he likes to play
Speaker 9: this game, Rocket League, and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 9: know Rocket League because I have a kid who plays
Speaker 9: Rocket League.
Speaker 3: Oh that's how you know?
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, this is clearing up a lot of things. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say other than we need
Speaker 1: to tell you that Nate is on the other line
Speaker 1: right now and has been listening to this conversation.
Speaker 4: Oh great, okay, God, wouldn't that be good because now
Speaker 4: it's clear Nate, I mean, actually.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I think this is I mean, I don't I
Speaker 10: can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me, but I could.
Speaker 1: Now's your chance to do it, Nate.
Speaker 2: You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked.
Speaker 5: Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to
Speaker 5: just hire you to help her son?
Speaker 2: No? And I'm regretting calling the radio about it.
Speaker 3: That's a little embarrassing.
Speaker 7: Why do you think I bought you dinner?
Speaker 9: I bought you dinner. It wasn't a date.
Speaker 7: I didn't want you to think it was a date.
Speaker 9: It was like sort of an interview.
Speaker 4: You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews, Like
Speaker 4: I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I wanted.
Speaker 4: I've never been like, hey, is there a young thirty
Speaker 4: something man that wants to babysit my kids and let
Speaker 4: me take you out to dinner.
Speaker 1: Like that just seems you should give it a try.
Speaker 3: Works out really, well, that's weird, it doesn't because she's here.
Speaker 7: Well on the app, we were chatting before the date,
Speaker 7: and he was saying how he was interested in, you know,
Speaker 7: in other business and e commerce, and so I have
Speaker 7: experience in that, and I thought, you know, I'll scratch
Speaker 7: his back if he can scratch mine.
Speaker 3: I think literally.
Speaker 1: Some actual skin to skin contact.
Speaker 5: Huh.
Speaker 1: I can't see that.
Speaker 3: Like, I can see why there's a miscommunity.
Speaker 1: And Nate, are we clearing things up for a year.
Speaker 2: So just to be clear, the two PM thing, that's
Speaker 2: not like a hangout afternoon delight sort of Oh yeah, you.
Speaker 1: Have to hang out with him on a Tuesday at two.
Speaker 9: No, my son's off from school at that time, so
Speaker 9: you know.
Speaker 10: I just thought, see that's perfect time for driving lesson
Speaker 10: before the cross lessons, or.
Speaker 3: A perfect time before your husband gets home.
Speaker 5: I don't know still, but okay, no, you can go to.
Speaker 7: My profile right now, I says, looking for friendship.
Speaker 1: Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles.
Speaker 2: That just usually means you're not looking for something serious.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, I.
Speaker 5: Mean maybe include a picture of you and your husband
Speaker 5: next time.
Speaker 3: That could be something else.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I guess I'll do that.
Speaker 2: I will do that.
Speaker 1: Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone
Speaker 1: with us here. Maybe there's some sort of deal that
Speaker 1: we could strike up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping
Speaker 2: your son out, because like I could use some money.
Speaker 1: Oh, he's interested.
Speaker 2: I'll pick money over the forehead kiss any day.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm probably about the forehead kiss. I honestly, I
Speaker 7: didn't know what to do there.
Speaker 5: I do that to all my babysitters and people that
Speaker 5: help with my kids too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't day. When we leave, it's super awkward.
Speaker 10: I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the
Speaker 10: offer stands, I'm willing to help you out with some
Speaker 10: business business document and you know different tips and everything.
Speaker 7: If you can help me with my son.
Speaker 3: That's pretty good.
Speaker 1: What do you say, Nate, this once of a lifetime opportunity.
Speaker 2: You know, I've got your number. Let's work something out.
Speaker 5: Okay, Now I actually paying for a real business dinner
Speaker 5: this time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well look at that, Nate. We're trying to hook you
Speaker 1: up with like a romantic partner, but we may have
Speaker 1: just gotten you a part time job instead.
Speaker 2: We go, you know what, I'll take it.
Speaker 3: Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn. Okay,
Speaker 3: we'll do it.
Speaker 1: It'll be a reference for you.
Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: We get a lot of text in seventy five nine
Speaker 1: two from people saying they meet friends on these dating
Speaker 1: apps all the.
Speaker 3: Time dating apps. Will you go in the friend part
Speaker 3: b FF?
Speaker 1: You could meet friends on the dating part two? According
Speaker 1: to our listeners, it's more common than you'd think. Should
Speaker 1: we set up a friend Maybe we should set up
Speaker 1: a friend seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder.
Speaker 3: Sketchy dude.
Speaker 1: To have all these people who want to be your friend,
Speaker 1: you can reject them one by one, yeah.
Speaker 3: Or just claim I just hiring him for my kid.
Speaker 1: I swear now you get it, then you'll end up
Speaker 1: on some other morning show during another second.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy.
Speaker 1: Okay, well it's not for everybody, but if you ever
Speaker 1: do go out on a date, please just let's save
Speaker 1: it for the dates. Yeah, we're not doing the friend
Speaker 1: match online for this second. Yeah. If your friend's not
Speaker 1: calling you back.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry that hurts more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, painful. No, if you want help hooking up your
Speaker 1: romantic live email the show, we'll call that person wasn't
Speaker 1: calling you back.
Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning