WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Driving Miss Laurie

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date DA dating older women. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>adult braces, because we're gonna get to a point in

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<v Speaker 1>your life where it's like, gosh, I probably need it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's good for me, but it's also gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be weird because everyone around me is gonna see me,

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna be judging me for it. I'm gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>and keep it a secret, you know, keep my mouth shut. Literally.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a younger man's perspective on dating up above

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<v Speaker 1>his age. One day, one day, I might get to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where I need adult braces and I need

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<v Speaker 1>an older woman. But one of our listeners says he's

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<v Speaker 1>brave enough to admit it right here on our show,

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<v Speaker 1>and even braver to admit that she's not calling him

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<v Speaker 1>back after their date. Okay, so let's talk to him. Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, thanks for having me brave.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is this brave?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Why is like that is such a weird r to

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<v Speaker 4>take on it to deal with them, It's such a

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<v Speaker 4>weird thing to say, like how much older is this woman?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I guess if she's thirty years older, then

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<v Speaker 4>that's a yeah, that's a thing to tax.

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<v Speaker 1>What your retirement home. Did you meet this?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't meet her at a retirement home. I met

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<v Speaker 2>her on a dating.

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<v Speaker 3>App okay, okay? And what's your guys' age gap? Do

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<v Speaker 3>you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's not like you're a twenty two year old.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, only because like what do you want to

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<v Speaker 5>do with a twenty two year olds?

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<v Speaker 1>Are kind of which did the matter? It's seventeen years

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<v Speaker 1>difference between the two of them, is that right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? That sounds about right.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable.

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<v Speaker 1>Notice what's her name?

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, her name is Laurie okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did you find Lauri online?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>I decided, after a long time of just using dating apps,

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<v Speaker 6>like with people around my own age, that I needed.

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<v Speaker 2>To branch out, okay, because I was getting kind of bored.

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<v Speaker 5>So what do you think like an older woman has

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<v Speaker 5>to offer you instead of a woman in her thirty.

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<v Speaker 6>Well obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something neway.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, And there's probably not much pressure for like babies

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<v Speaker 5>and marriage because I could be her daughter.

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<v Speaker 3>That's done.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, might be going out with your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean no, my mom is not Laurie. Thank god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, so you went out with Laurie. Where'd you

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<v Speaker 1>guys go?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we want to have to eat.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a nice time, really, like, what'd you guys

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<v Speaker 3>connect over?

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<v Speaker 2>We just sort of talked. She actually invited me out

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<v Speaker 2>and picked the place. She's much more successful than I am.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, I'm going to treat you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, the older people tend to be for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to the territory.

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<v Speaker 3>They just have more money.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't feel emasculated at all?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not. I don't need to be quote unquote the

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<v Speaker 2>man all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, for sure we should.

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<v Speaker 1>When you say that she was successful, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean by that? Like you talking about her job, sort of.

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<v Speaker 2>Dealing her job. She's a businesswoman, she's like, is one

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<v Speaker 2>of like a higher up some company. Like she's like

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<v Speaker 2>a boss.

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<v Speaker 3>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 7>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do do you mind us asking?

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<v Speaker 2>I am a valet.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, she's a boss. You're an employee.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you notice, like at any point in your guys'

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<v Speaker 5>conversation like, oh god, we do come from two different generations.

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<v Speaker 8>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I initially I was worried about that, but it ended

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<v Speaker 2>up working. Okay. We talked about video games a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>Like we talked about Rocket League, which is crazy, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe that she even knows knows Rocket Lead

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<v Speaker 2>you get all.

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<v Speaker 3>Was there anything like sexy about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she plays video games, Brooke. That is sexy to.

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<v Speaker 5>A man, you know, but I mean to her, it

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<v Speaker 5>probably feels like she's talking to a teenage boy.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know she brought it, did she or did

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<v Speaker 3>he bring it up? She just knew what it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we were just talking about what we were into,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, lately, I've been playing a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>Rocket League, and she was like, I know a Rocket League.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't just say, oh, it's a game with the.

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<v Speaker 5>Rockets, it's actually a card game, or like I buy

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<v Speaker 5>it for my sons.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, Nate tell us, was there any like weird

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that happened during the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like the waier thought it was weird. Like

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<v Speaker 2>the waiter was kept looking at me like really, man.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's kind of rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine Nate, She's like drawing with crayons. What so, how

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<v Speaker 1>did the night end?

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<v Speaker 7>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I invited her back to my place, which she declined,

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<v Speaker 2>which is in her right to do, okay, and then

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<v Speaker 2>she gave me a kiss on the forehead.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him

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<v Speaker 5>as like it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, back in the day, I used to

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<v Speaker 1>take things a lot slower romantically. So you started with

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<v Speaker 1>a forehead kiss and then you slowly there's way more

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<v Speaker 1>basis back in the day. I bet she kissed the

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<v Speaker 1>surfer on the forehead?

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<v Speaker 4>Was I born in the nineteen fifties or forties or

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<v Speaker 4>something like? Have you seen what Alexis's mom is wearing

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<v Speaker 4>out on it?

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<v Speaker 3>He's not doing four head cans.

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<v Speaker 1>No, don't wear much. Let's you left the date she

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<v Speaker 1>went home. What's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but

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<v Speaker 6>she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy

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<v Speaker 6>job and everything. But she did try to see if

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<v Speaker 6>I was free this coming Tuesday at two pm?

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<v Speaker 3>So weird time. Did you say yes or no to

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<v Speaker 3>Tuesday at.

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<v Speaker 2>Two I said no because I'm at work. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd love to meet her at two pm on a Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, I'm parking cars man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, this is definitely a new one for us.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't think it's just that she's not interested because

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<v Speaker 3>he's a younger guy that spent the day talking about

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<v Speaker 3>video games and he, you know, doesn't have an equal

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<v Speaker 3>job to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see a single wrong thing that what she

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<v Speaker 1>said there, so.

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<v Speaker 2>She wouldn't need at all.

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<v Speaker 9>Though.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing, I think if she didn't like me, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Pursued him on the app like she swiped right on him,

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<v Speaker 1>just the same way she swiped right on her, or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>You have ideas, so that they turn out to be

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<v Speaker 3>not as great as he thought. I don't okay, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't appreciate that attitude. Coming into the second part, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to call this lovely, mature woman who is totally

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<v Speaker 1>into you one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to call her that when we talked

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<v Speaker 3>to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, whatever the right thing to call her is. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to figure that out, and then we'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date update. Right after this second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, we have a guy on the line named Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>who just revealed to us he went on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman seventeen years his senior.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a big gaps in size.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in

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<v Speaker 1>the room think it's because he was too immature and

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<v Speaker 1>she's not going to want to talk to him about

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<v Speaker 1>video games and Rocket League and that was a turn off,

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<v Speaker 1>a gap, So yeah, excuse me, let me remind me

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<v Speaker 1>you the And to my left, Jose Bolanos plays video

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<v Speaker 1>games all the time and he's the most mature person

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<v Speaker 1>I know. Hit him up at hilarious Jose on Twitch

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<v Speaker 1>and find out what a catch he truly is. And

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, for the record, I am the most

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<v Speaker 1>single person I know. That's my choice. Maybe that's not

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<v Speaker 1>how cool. No woman holds him down and that's why,

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think that's it. I think our listener

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<v Speaker 1>name brought up a good point to the ladies. Think

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<v Speaker 1>she regrets going out with a younger guy after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's the one who is asking him to hang out.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, Not a younger guy, just him and ask him time.

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<v Speaker 3>No one's ever free.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, Tuesday, just the point that she's reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>still engaging him asking to see him again. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that must mean something, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah, like me to some degree. But she hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>answered my last.

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<v Speaker 3>Four tex She's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just give it a shot. Respect a lady forever.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to call and find out. I've never called

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<v Speaker 1>someone this old one before, so I want to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>When we're on the phone with her, she is going

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<v Speaker 3>to hang up on us.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I won't say it.

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<v Speaker 3>Do we need Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't say it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi? Is this slurry.

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<v Speaker 8>Speaking calling?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice

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<v Speaker 1>kind of took me by surprise. I don't know, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I know why you have some weird I'm sorry. We're

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<v Speaker 1>show called broken Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, why are you calling?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great question, Laurie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's where we help our listeners who have gone

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody hook up with them one more time,

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<v Speaker 1>go out with them one more I don't know if.

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<v Speaker 7>You have I think you might have the wrong number.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm so sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? Are you the LORI that went up with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh god, a

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<v Speaker 1>little younger than you.

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<v Speaker 3>What, I'm sorry? How do I know that you are

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<v Speaker 3>having a reaction right now to that name?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, We're not trying to like make this awkward for you,

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<v Speaker 1>But Nate reached out to our show and told us

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys went out and he's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>see you again.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh god, he really liked you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, okay, okay, why.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm well, I just I don't I think something got

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<v Speaker 10>like some lires have been crossed here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're we're a little bit confused because he told us

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<v Speaker 1>that you even mentioned a specific time and a date

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<v Speaker 1>like two o'clock on a Tuesday, where you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>meet up with you couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, Well, I'm just I feel bad because I had

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<v Speaker 10>to be honest. I haven't been one hundred percent up

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<v Speaker 10>front with him about my I guess my intentions for

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<v Speaker 10>wanting to meet up with him.

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<v Speaker 5>You met him on the dating app, right, Like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>if you meet anybody on a dating ap, it feels

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<v Speaker 5>like the intention is to date romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, so you're just looking for a fling.

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<v Speaker 9>No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm married.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait wait what? Oh wow, what do you mean you're married?

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<v Speaker 3>Why do you want an app?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't mean to be on a dating the dating part.

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<v Speaker 9>I play on this app and you can, you can

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<v Speaker 9>look for friendship. I was, you know, I put on

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<v Speaker 9>my profile.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 1>Woit? So you were on the wrong section or he.

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<v Speaker 3>Was on the wrong section.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you did that come up during your date that

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to be his friend?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 7>I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, I'm just looking for a friend.

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<v Speaker 9>I think.

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<v Speaker 8>I just what's happening is I have a step son

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<v Speaker 8>and he is he's seventeenth and he can't drive. He

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<v Speaker 8>can't think you're aft driving? And I was looking at

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<v Speaker 8>this app.

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<v Speaker 9>You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, take a look because sometimes you can meet

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<v Speaker 9>people that have different skills that can actually help you

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<v Speaker 9>out in the real world.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 11>They came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a

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<v Speaker 11>valet and my son is having trouble with parking, Like.

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<v Speaker 5>Why wouldn't you just be out front and ask him

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<v Speaker 5>like hey and tell him what's going on as soon

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<v Speaker 5>as you message him on the app.

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<v Speaker 9>Well, I mean he we were talking about, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>what do you like to do in your spare time?

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<v Speaker 9>And so Nate brought up that he likes to play

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<v Speaker 9>this game, Rocket League, and I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 9>know Rocket League because I have a kid who plays

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<v Speaker 9>Rocket League.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's how you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, this is clearing up a lot of things. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say other than we need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you that Nate is on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>right now and has been listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh great, okay, God, wouldn't that be good because now

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<v Speaker 4>it's clear Nate, I mean, actually.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, I think this is I mean, I don't I

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<v Speaker 10>can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me, but I could.

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<v Speaker 1>Now's your chance to do it, Nate.

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<v Speaker 2>You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked.

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<v Speaker 5>Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to

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<v Speaker 5>just hire you to help her son?

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<v Speaker 2>No? And I'm regretting calling the radio about it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a little embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 7>Why do you think I bought you dinner?

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<v Speaker 9>I bought you dinner. It wasn't a date.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't want you to think it was a date.

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<v Speaker 9>It was like sort of an interview.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews, Like

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<v Speaker 4>I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never been like, hey, is there a young thirty

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<v Speaker 4>something man that wants to babysit my kids and let

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<v Speaker 4>me take you out to dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that just seems you should give it a try.

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<v Speaker 3>Works out really, well, that's weird, it doesn't because she's here.

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<v Speaker 7>Well on the app, we were chatting before the date,

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<v Speaker 7>and he was saying how he was interested in, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>in other business and e commerce, and so I have

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<v Speaker 7>experience in that, and I thought, you know, I'll scratch

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<v Speaker 7>his back if he can scratch mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I think literally.

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<v Speaker 1>Some actual skin to skin contact.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't see that.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I can see why there's a miscommunity.

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<v Speaker 1>And Nate, are we clearing things up for a year.

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<v Speaker 2>So just to be clear, the two PM thing, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not like a hangout afternoon delight sort of Oh yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to hang out with him on a Tuesday at two.

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<v Speaker 9>No, my son's off from school at that time, so

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<v Speaker 9>you know.

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<v Speaker 10>I just thought, see that's perfect time for driving lesson

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<v Speaker 10>before the cross lessons, or.

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<v Speaker 3>A perfect time before your husband gets home.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know still, but okay, no, you can go to.

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<v Speaker 7>My profile right now, I says, looking for friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles.

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<v Speaker 2>That just usually means you're not looking for something serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Mean maybe include a picture of you and your husband

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<v Speaker 5>next time.

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<v Speaker 3>That could be something else.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I guess I'll do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I will do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us here. Maybe there's some sort of deal that

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<v Speaker 1>we could strike up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping

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<v Speaker 2>your son out, because like I could use some money.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he's interested.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pick money over the forehead kiss any day.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I'm probably about the forehead kiss. I honestly, I

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<v Speaker 7>didn't know what to do there.

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<v Speaker 5>I do that to all my babysitters and people that

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<v Speaker 5>help with my kids too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it doesn't day. When we leave, it's super awkward.

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<v Speaker 10>I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the

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<v Speaker 10>offer stands, I'm willing to help you out with some

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<v Speaker 10>business business document and you know different tips and everything.

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<v Speaker 7>If you can help me with my son.

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<v Speaker 3>That's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say, Nate, this once of a lifetime opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I've got your number. Let's work something out.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Now I actually paying for a real business dinner

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<v Speaker 5>this time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I guess so.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well look at that, Nate. We're trying to hook you

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<v Speaker 1>up with like a romantic partner, but we may have

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<v Speaker 1>just gotten you a part time job instead.

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<v Speaker 2>We go, you know what, I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be a reference for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We get a lot of text in seventy five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two from people saying they meet friends on these dating

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<v Speaker 1>apps all the.

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<v Speaker 3>Time dating apps. Will you go in the friend part

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<v Speaker 3>b FF?

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<v Speaker 1>You could meet friends on the dating part two? According

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<v Speaker 1>to our listeners, it's more common than you'd think. Should

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<v Speaker 1>we set up a friend Maybe we should set up

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<v Speaker 1>a friend seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 3>Sketchy dude.

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<v Speaker 1>To have all these people who want to be your friend,

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<v Speaker 1>you can reject them one by one, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Or just claim I just hiring him for my kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear now you get it, then you'll end up

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<v Speaker 1>on some other morning show during another second.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well it's not for everybody, but if you ever

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<v Speaker 1>do go out on a date, please just let's save

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<v Speaker 1>it for the dates. Yeah, we're not doing the friend

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<v Speaker 1>match online for this second. Yeah. If your friend's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry that hurts more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, painful. No, if you want help hooking up your

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<v Speaker 1>romantic live email the show, we'll call that person wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning