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Speaker 1: That is a younger man's perspective on dating up above

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Speaker 1: an older woman. But one of our listeners says he's

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Speaker 1: brave enough to admit it right here on our show,

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Speaker 1: and even braver to admit that she's not calling him

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, thanks for having me brave.

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Speaker 3: Why is this brave?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 4: Why is like that is such a weird r to

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Speaker 4: take on it to deal with them, It's such a

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess if she's thirty years older, then

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Speaker 4: that's a yeah, that's a thing to tax.

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Speaker 1: What your retirement home. Did you meet this?

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Speaker 2: I didn't meet her at a retirement home. I met

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Speaker 3: App okay, okay? And what's your guys' age gap? Do

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's not like you're a twenty two year old.

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Speaker 1: Are kind of which did the matter? It's seventeen years

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Speaker 2: Yeah? That sounds about right.

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Speaker 3: That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable.

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Speaker 1: Notice what's her name?

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Speaker 2: By the way, her name is Laurie okay.

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Speaker 1: And how did you find Lauri online?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 6: I decided, after a long time of just using dating apps,

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Speaker 2: To branch out, okay, because I was getting kind of bored.

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Speaker 5: So what do you think like an older woman has

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Speaker 6: Well obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something neway.

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Speaker 5: Okay, And there's probably not much pressure for like babies

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Speaker 3: That's done.

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Speaker 1: Actually, might be going out with your mom.

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Speaker 3: I mean no, my mom is not Laurie. Thank god.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so you went out with Laurie. Where'd you

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Speaker 2: You know, we want to have to eat.

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Speaker 3: We had a nice time, really, like, what'd you guys

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Speaker 2: We just sort of talked. She actually invited me out

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Speaker 2: and picked the place. She's much more successful than I am.

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Speaker 2: She was like, I'm going to treat you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the older people tend to be for some reason,

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Speaker 3: They just have more money.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know

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Speaker 2: Dealing her job. She's a businesswoman, she's like, is one

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Speaker 3: That's awesome.

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Speaker 7: I like that.

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Speaker 1: What do you do do you mind us asking?

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Speaker 2: I am a valet.

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Speaker 2: I initially I was worried about that, but it ended

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Speaker 3: Was there anything like sexy about that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she plays video games, Brooke. That is sexy to.

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Speaker 5: A man, you know, but I mean to her, it

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Speaker 3: I don't know she brought it, did she or did

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we were just talking about what we were into,

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Speaker 5: Rockets, it's actually a card game, or like I buy

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, Nate tell us, was there any like weird

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Speaker 2: I mean, like the waier thought it was weird. Like

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's kind of rude.

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Speaker 1: Imagine Nate, She's like drawing with crayons. What so, how

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Speaker 1: did the night end?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 2: I invited her back to my place, which she declined,

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Speaker 5: Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, back in the day, I used to

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Speaker 4: Was I born in the nineteen fifties or forties or

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Speaker 3: He's not doing four head cans.

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Speaker 1: No, don't wear much. Let's you left the date she

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Speaker 6: Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but

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Speaker 6: she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy

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Speaker 2: Two I said no because I'm at work. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'd love to meet her at two pm on a Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: But okay, I'm parking cars man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes sense.

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Speaker 3: And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out.

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Speaker 3: You don't think it's just that she's not interested because

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Speaker 1: I don't see a single wrong thing that what she

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Speaker 2: She wouldn't need at all.

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Speaker 2: The thing, I think if she didn't like me, she.

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Speaker 1: Pursued him on the app like she swiped right on him,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big gaps in size.

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Speaker 1: They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in

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Speaker 1: video games and Rocket League and that was a turn off,

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Speaker 1: you the And to my left, Jose Bolanos plays video

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Speaker 1: I know. Hit him up at hilarious Jose on Twitch

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Speaker 3: Again, Not a younger guy, just him and ask him time.

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Speaker 3: No one's ever free.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, like me to some degree. But she hasn't

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Speaker 3: Four tex She's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman.

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Speaker 1: Let's just give it a shot. Respect a lady forever.

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Speaker 1: We need to call and find out. I've never called

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Speaker 3: When we're on the phone with her, she is going

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Speaker 1: Okay, I won't say it.

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Speaker 3: Do we need Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't say it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi? Is this slurry.

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Speaker 8: Speaking calling?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice

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Speaker 1: I know why you have some weird I'm sorry. We're

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Speaker 7: Yeah, why are you calling?

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Speaker 3: It's a great question, Laurie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: and that's where we help our listeners who have gone

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Speaker 1: out with somebody hook up with them one more time,

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Speaker 1: go out with them one more I don't know if.

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Speaker 7: You have I think you might have the wrong number.

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Speaker 8: I'm so sorry?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Are you the LORI that went up with

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Speaker 1: a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh god, a

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Speaker 1: little younger than you.

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Speaker 3: What, I'm sorry? How do I know that you are

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Speaker 3: having a reaction right now to that name?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, We're not trying to like make this awkward for you,

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Speaker 1: But Nate reached out to our show and told us

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Speaker 3: But oh god, he really liked you.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, okay, okay, why.

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Speaker 10: I'm well, I just I don't I think something got

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Speaker 1: We're we're a little bit confused because he told us

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Speaker 10: Yeah, Well, I'm just I feel bad because I had

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Speaker 5: You met him on the dating app, right, Like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you're just looking for a fling.

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Speaker 9: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm married.

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Speaker 3: Wait wait what? Oh wow, what do you mean you're married?

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Speaker 3: Why do you want an app?

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Speaker 7: I don't mean to be on a dating the dating part.

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Speaker 9: I play on this app and you can, you can

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Speaker 9: look for friendship. I was, you know, I put on

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Woit? So you were on the wrong section or he.

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Speaker 3: Was on the wrong section.

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Speaker 1: Did you did that come up during your date that

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 7: I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying,

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Speaker 9: I think.

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Speaker 8: I just what's happening is I have a step son

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Speaker 8: can't think you're aft driving? And I was looking at

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Speaker 9: You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said,

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Speaker 3: I don't get it.

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Speaker 11: They came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a

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Speaker 11: valet and my son is having trouble with parking, Like.

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Speaker 5: Why wouldn't you just be out front and ask him

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Speaker 5: like hey and tell him what's going on as soon

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Speaker 9: Well, I mean he we were talking about, you know,

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Speaker 9: And so Nate brought up that he likes to play

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Speaker 9: this game, Rocket League, and I was like, oh, I

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Speaker 9: Rocket League.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's how you know?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, this is clearing up a lot of things. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to say other than we need

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Speaker 1: right now and has been listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 4: Oh great, okay, God, wouldn't that be good because now

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Speaker 4: it's clear Nate, I mean, actually.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I think this is I mean, I don't I

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Speaker 10: can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me, but I could.

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Speaker 1: Now's your chance to do it, Nate.

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Speaker 2: You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked.

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Speaker 5: Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to

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Speaker 5: just hire you to help her son?

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Speaker 2: No? And I'm regretting calling the radio about it.

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Speaker 3: That's a little embarrassing.

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Speaker 7: Why do you think I bought you dinner?

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Speaker 9: I bought you dinner. It wasn't a date.

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Speaker 7: I didn't want you to think it was a date.

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Speaker 9: It was like sort of an interview.

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Speaker 4: You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews, Like

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Speaker 4: I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I wanted.

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Speaker 4: I've never been like, hey, is there a young thirty

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Speaker 4: me take you out to dinner.

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Speaker 1: Like that just seems you should give it a try.

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Speaker 3: Works out really, well, that's weird, it doesn't because she's here.

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Speaker 7: Well on the app, we were chatting before the date,

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Speaker 7: and he was saying how he was interested in, you know,

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Speaker 7: in other business and e commerce, and so I have

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Speaker 7: experience in that, and I thought, you know, I'll scratch

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Speaker 7: his back if he can scratch mine.

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Speaker 3: I think literally.

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Speaker 1: Some actual skin to skin contact.

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 1: I can't see that.

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Speaker 3: Like, I can see why there's a miscommunity.

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Speaker 1: And Nate, are we clearing things up for a year.

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Speaker 2: So just to be clear, the two PM thing, that's

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Speaker 2: not like a hangout afternoon delight sort of Oh yeah, you.

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Speaker 1: Have to hang out with him on a Tuesday at two.

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Speaker 9: No, my son's off from school at that time, so

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Speaker 10: I just thought, see that's perfect time for driving lesson

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Speaker 10: before the cross lessons, or.

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Speaker 3: A perfect time before your husband gets home.

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Speaker 5: I don't know still, but okay, no, you can go to.

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Speaker 7: My profile right now, I says, looking for friendship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles.

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Speaker 2: That just usually means you're not looking for something serious.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean maybe include a picture of you and your husband

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Speaker 5: next time.

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Speaker 3: That could be something else.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I guess I'll do that.

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Speaker 2: I will do that.

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Speaker 1: Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us here. Maybe there's some sort of deal that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping

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Speaker 1: Oh, he's interested.

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Speaker 2: I'll pick money over the forehead kiss any day.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm probably about the forehead kiss. I honestly, I

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Speaker 5: I do that to all my babysitters and people that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't day. When we leave, it's super awkward.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the

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Speaker 7: If you can help me with my son.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: What do you say, Nate, this once of a lifetime opportunity.

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Speaker 2: You know, I've got your number. Let's work something out.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Now I actually paying for a real business dinner

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Speaker 5: this time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well look at that, Nate. We're trying to hook you

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Speaker 2: We go, you know what, I'll take it.

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Speaker 3: Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn. Okay,

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Speaker 3: we'll do it.

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Speaker 1: It'll be a reference for you.

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Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: We get a lot of text in seventy five nine

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Speaker 1: two from people saying they meet friends on these dating

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Speaker 3: Time dating apps. Will you go in the friend part

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Speaker 1: You could meet friends on the dating part two? According

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Speaker 1: to our listeners, it's more common than you'd think. Should

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Speaker 1: we set up a friend Maybe we should set up

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Speaker 1: a friend seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder.

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Speaker 3: Sketchy dude.

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Speaker 1: To have all these people who want to be your friend,

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Speaker 1: you can reject them one by one, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Or just claim I just hiring him for my kid.

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Speaker 1: I swear now you get it, then you'll end up

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well it's not for everybody, but if you ever

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Speaker 1: do go out on a date, please just let's save

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Speaker 1: it for the dates. Yeah, we're not doing the friend

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Speaker 1: match online for this second. Yeah. If your friend's not

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry that hurts more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, painful. No, if you want help hooking up your

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Speaker 1: romantic live email the show, we'll call that person wasn't

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning