WEBVTT - Ep 219: Ain't No Outline Bih 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:08.719 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Okay, 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:15.800 everybody also any oh my goodness show we are speaking 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:23.119 English today because we're making practice after so E s 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:27.240 L and Esau same thing, but in Florida, we say, 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:29.440 but you know, apparently in Florida we do everything differently 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:38.760 though Florida Haitian Creole Haitian. And I'm gonna tell you 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:43.600 what Haitian hati English Haitian is. When you're from Miami, 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:47.760 yours though your head, your hair is like not dreadlocked, 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.400 it like sticks together in a very Kodak blackish way. 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:55.600 That's just Miami baby African. Don't do that. It don't 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:59.720 be only Haitians with the dreads anything. Those not all. No, 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:04.320 that's that'd be regular, like just regular niggas with dreads 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:06.679 like that. It's a Miami culture thing, not a Haitian thing. 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:10.160 I don't think so. But anyway, though, damn, this show 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:16.520 is so ghetto. It's it's not Joscelyn's Cabaret Gatto. Mike Hey, 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.360 Jocelyn asked to come on the Joslin is making we 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:22.720 might have to say money for network. I never thought 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:24.360 I would pay for it, but did you see the 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.360 white bitch that got her ask beat and she was like, 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:29.080 I could do it again time. I'll take the ass 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:31.920 beating bit. You just got beat beat up three times. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:35.080 You guys remember the abortion double homicide clip. This is 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:36.840 my favorite thing Johnson has ever said on the show, 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:38.960 and this is what made me buy zeus one moment. 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:40.920 Here we go. This is Jocelyn getting a lap dance. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:45.240 For those of you who can't watch today, Sandy Beach 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.760 just got it, imbord you and she probably not busy 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:49.640 right in front of my favor I was like, what 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:53.280 blood clock's gonna come out of there? Jack Napkin. She 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:56.680 not say that. That's not gonna come out of that bit. 0:01:56.760 --> 0:02:00.400 I ain't got no knacking. She did not say that, dude, 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:02.760 but she is curry on the show. I know we 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:05.480 don't do zoom guests, but we have to approve that request. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:13.760 Oh my god, because you know miss Wendy we yes, no, 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:16.760 you know what, she had some valid points there she 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.640 did and people are like, oh, she's cracked out, coked out. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:22.120 I'm sorry, I don't think that. My thing, and my 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:27.640 thing is Wendy B. Shady, But you're also still needed 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:31.240 that look So if you didn't like anything that weezy 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:34.640 not weezy that Wendy Williams does for you to still 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:37.160 go on to promote your show on her platform. No, 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:40.200 you need media as much as media needs you sometimes. 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:46.720 So what she went on on the Wendy Williams Show 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:50.320 doing her press run for Jocelyn's Cabaret when it was airing. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:55.280 So but then she spent like six minutes telling Wendy 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:57.280 that she's not nice to black women and she should 0:02:57.280 --> 0:02:59.600 be nicer because she came from the gutter and she 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.760 should go on the Breakfast Club to hell off Charlemagne 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:03.200 all the time. But do you know how many people 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:05.320 also refused to go on the Breakfast Club as well 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:08.280 because of how they feel like it doesn't do anything 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.080 for black artists and they talk down on black women. 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.320 Are black artists, So to me, if you want to 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.240 make a stance, don't show up because now you still 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.520 using her while you're sitting here trying a dog her. 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.120 So you will say that about the Breakfast Club because 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:22.000 like they're gonna talk to that's their job. But how 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:25.520 many fucking people but they have been uploaded by the 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:28.920 slop is Wendy Williams. I agree to be fair, So 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:31.200 that's what I'm saying. Key wrong too, And I'm gonna 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:34.280 be real. I love Kiki and Wendy was that was 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:40.480 I hated watching that. I mean, I mean, she's means 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.200 she's Nancy. But people have said that same thing to Charlemagne, 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:47.720 to envy and you and I love Charlemagne. So I 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:51.160 mean it's it's their job. And at the same time, 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:54.120 America's sweetheart, well, if you're if you're as who's the 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:59.280 white America's sweetheart? Jennifer Anison, Keky Palmers, are is Jennifer Jennifer? 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:06.480 Now google it? Who's America's like white sweetheart once Miley 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:11.080 dropped twenty three? No, no white American cared for Miley anymore. 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:15.920 No girl, just because she was I legally blind. I 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:19.039 just like her. First of all, what's the criteria for 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:22.560 America's what is American sweetheart? American? Look, I don't know, 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:26.880 Hillary Duff. I'll give you that's a good one. No, 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:32.240 those are years back right now? You mean, yeah, you 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:37.000 think I know current people, bro, I'm right now? Who 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:41.560 is currently lively? Maybe so apparently, Yeah, America's Sweetheart eighteen 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:47.359 was Julia Roberts. She likes seventy well. I vote for 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:50.520 Kiki as black America's sweetheart, and white people no Kiki too. 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:54.840 Kiki Palmer is America's sweetheart, and no Kiki Palmer slander 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.120 I think should ever be tolerated. And to come from 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:02.520 Wendy's mouth like how again, it's not surprising, but Wendy 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:06.159 has what I guarantee, but I guarantee you with the treatment. 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.000 If Kicky comes out with a movie tomorrow and it's 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.839 on her press run, she will choose against probably sitting 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:15.520 with Wendy again. That is my point. If you don't 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.200 like what the people said, which is why Meg didn't go, 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.920 But that's what I'm saying. So Joscelyn girl, you still 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.599 need Wendy. So don't come on talking about you don't 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:28.040 respect Da Da da because it's the use Miss Wendy 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:32.040 Willias Williams. You're getting close. She had I have the 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.320 number one show in America, Miss Wendy, but she didn't 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.359 know you have it on Zeus. That's the fact that 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:40.280 she didn't even know girls on Zeus and I real quick, 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:43.520 and do you know one person that has Zeus? Because 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:48.760 I don't know I don't yet. I want Oh I 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:52.040 never heard of Zeus before this before I know if 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:55.360 they have. They bought her season one for we TV. Yeah, 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:58.640 and I know be Simone front of the show. She 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:01.400 had a show on that she a dating show, actually 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:06.280 trying to find love. So having some shows go TV. Okay, 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:10.400 so now we got so you have the abortions w talking. 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:14.480 I mean, you're you're nailing it though. I feel when 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:18.040 you have blood clock were blood after your abortion? Yeah, 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:21.440 we can't talk about our abortion. I yeah, you know 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.719 what you did. I don't really remember. I'm sorry. It 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:28.520 was so long ago. Who is this? I was sorry? 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:30.159 I know I was about to think that. I know. 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:33.719 I think everything was normal, really, I think. But I 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:36.400 had to pill. That's why. Oh yeah no, not me. 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.719 My ship was crazy. I call the hot line. It's 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:44.360 trying the pot forces you to miscarry. Yeah. I went 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:47.040 and they gave me a little pill to go to sleep, 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:50.080 and then they put a little tool up down and 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.599 sucked it right out. Okay, but it was only like 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.359 a dit like. Of course, they try to make you 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:57.000 feel bad, so they did the sonogram. They make you 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:59.400 feel bad when you make you too bad for doing 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.920 an abortion. Wait, wait, can we not talk about this? 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:07.479 What's so red? Quick? They make you do the little 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:10.600 sonogram and they'd be like, here's what your baby looks 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:13.400 like before they take it. We can't they show it 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:14.760 to you. And I was like, I was just that's 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.600 how she knew she had twins. Oh, what's the girl 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:23.800 on Johnson's Cabaret? No, they do they show you the sonogram? No? 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:27.360 I was serious. They I was like, bitch head on twins. Bitch, 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:33.880 it was a ballpoint pen what I was gonna say? No, 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:36.360 but morial weekends coming and people maybe having to get 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:39.600 into well good, we're letting them know that, Hey, if 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.880 you're gonna get vaccinated and you're already getting shots, get something, 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.360 get a depot and something. Bitch, I don't know, because 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.040 that's really I feel like a lot of people are 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:50.280 don't get pregnant this summer. A lot of people got 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:54.160 pregnant over the last year in quarantine. What do you mean, bitch? Everybody? 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:57.680 I popped out? Goddamn about now? You you know what 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:59.200 I'm saying, a lot of people are going through dry 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.680 spells too. A lot of people wasn't a lot of 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:09.640 people who wasn't sucking you know, can I tell you review, like, 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:14.760 I'm tired of the perfect sex people have imperfectly, you 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:18.320 know what I mean? And they are so mad that 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:22.720 I in my in my thirty years and orgasming with 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:25.480 a man that I actually like. Here's the thing they 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.520 just loved. Do you think do you think we got 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:31.840 mad comments about seven? No, they loved the fact that 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.680 I was just sucking a nigga I ain't really like, 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:37.200 didn't care for, but it was good sex. People felt 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:39.960 like they could relate to just fucking niggas with good dick. 0:08:40.000 --> 0:08:42.080 But we don't want nothing else now that I have 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:45.640 a good dick given niggas that actually hangs up stuff 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:52.040 on my walls. Now, in her defense, she says, you know, 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:56.360 she just feels like everything can't be perfect. So you 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:59.560 do us a favor and tell us about one imperfect 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:03.040 sex with the imperfect sex time had to do with me. 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:04.960 My boothole wasn't clean all the way. And then I 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:08.000 had to change the sheets because he were playing with 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:11.000 butt plugs and all these type of ships and literally 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.480 the ships was on the sheets. But he's so but 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:17.319 also he's amazing. He was just like, maybe it's okay, 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.040 and he took the sheet off and then we just 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:25.680 laid on the fitted sheet for to night. Bro because 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.720 if you want to know about imperfect sex but still 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.960 he's perfect. She getting dry? Maybe there maybe but I 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:35.760 used loop, I mean, maybe something goes on. She was like, no, 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:37.679 bit I had to ship. I mean I didn't have 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:41.440 to ship, but not it's just my boothole one all 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:42.960 the way clean. I don't know. Maybe I had too 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:47.080 much coffee that day and it just could you smell it? No, 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:50.560 but I thought like the color was right there on 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:55.200 on the sheets, but it was before I got my Brooklyn, Nigga, 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:59.319 what what color is? Your ship? Wasn't like a light? 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.760 Did you have dragon for it that day? Did you? 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:08.760 This is not on your outline. Let's get into the 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:12.400 motherfucker's show. Welcome you all the horrible SI. No, we're 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:17.160 not because for example, for ship's kind of like okay, 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:19.199 so it wasn't ship ship like it wasn't a herd. 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:21.480 It was like a skid mark. But on my sheet, 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:27.280 my child, because you see and you're like, oh my god, 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:29.560 I was like I made a mess. He's like, it's okay, baby, 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:33.520 I'm saying that when I'm getting wet everywhere. Not when 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:36.480 I shipped. I didn't ship the bed. It was like 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:47.080 just I did. So they're everything is not perfect. Okay, 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:52.120 clapping out for Mandy. We need I don't like the 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.240 whole room clapping now because you know what I feel 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:57.000 what she's saying, Like I would do you you feel 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.680 what she's saying. What is the problem with me actually 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.839 having good sex and getting fucked by nigga? Actually like, 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:06.599 no shade to the chick. I am getting sucked. But 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:09.920 I mean, like I just had those really rough dry spells. 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.160 I'm like, damn, bro, like we get it. Like so 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:17.640 sorry that I'm getting fun multinlogy who you didn't have 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:19.760 a year? I mean a year is a little Are 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.319 you almost a year? What are you talking about? It 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.320 was almost like a year ago. It was three months 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:30.959 before COVID it was it was it was like it 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:35.440 was like five six months, the same way you don't 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:37.439 be counting all your dicks whatever. When I had in 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.360 that five six months, I can count it. So I was. 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:42.480 I was. Mandy went over through a month of not 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:47.599 getting fucked. She goes, I'm cellibate. I was cellibate. I was, 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.640 by the way, as someone who talks to Brianda every 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:54.040 week for her show, and someone who's actually cellibate. I 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:59.400 was celibate, bro, and you're just because you be in 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:03.199 disrespect right now? How are you taking away the experience 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:09.240 of my life? The bro? God, really, this is what 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:12.480 we're doing in Brianda is actually celibrate. Okay, no, I'll 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:18.319 tell Mendy right, yeah, well what he said, you a 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:26.760 lying asshole. You know what, y'all don't think my relationship 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:30.360 is perfect, y'a. Don't believe I was celebated relationship is perfect, 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:38.360 but mine is very close. I'm glad. I am glad 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:42.040 you're happy though whatever, so whatever perfection could be. And 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:45.800 mind you, I'm we made it past the year. He's 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:47.960 even getting a guy damn pass for the beach. We're 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:49.599 about to go weekly to the to the baby, and 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:52.920 he's getting a past to like a parking pass, and 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:54.800 so instead of paying every time because we were going 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:57.599 so often, we're just gonna get the yearly pass. But 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.040 I mean, we communicate, we talk. I mean, it's all 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:03.880 of the things that we've been telling the women who 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.240 listen to this show that they should seek in partners 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:09.440 or not put up with the bullshit, ain't shit ass niggas, 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:12.520 and so y'all should be motherfucking proud. The only thing 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.760 I will say that kind of annoys me. Okay, what 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:17.640 you no like? As far as like criticism, I get 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:20.679 right like you're getting their boyfriend criticism right now. I 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.079 think over the years the criticism I've guying is like 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.960 when I've put up with bullshit bits, just be right 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.600 in me. But I think you like drama. I think 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.480 you're one of those women, like a lot of my friends, 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.559 you like the toxicity. You like to argue sometimes. I 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:35.600 think you'd like to just be like no, no, you're 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:38.599 not ship come fucking good. Like I think there's I 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:41.839 think you have excited. You find excitement in that solier No. 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:43.959 I think it's something like that, Like there are women 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.360 that if a man is too perfect, oh he's boring, 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.320 he was too nice. I think she likes the niggas 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:51.360 where she has to be dragged through a little bit 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:53.240 of hell and then she could be like, no, but 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:56.480 he's he's great, he's just for me. Look look at 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:59.600 her face. She is one of them bitches. I don't 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:02.079 like drama more than I like make up sex. But 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.800 see if so you gotta argue make up. But I 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.400 don't want to be like maybe like a bad like 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.640 a fucking serial cheat or type of guy, you know 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:11.679 what I mean. Like but like if you get on 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:14.199 my nerves, if you cheat just a few times, well no, no, 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.280 I don't like like cheating is lying to me, so 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:19.440 like I don't like the seat. But for example, my 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:23.200 largest arguments with old Bay are like either like time 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:28.960 management type of things, or like he's just very lackadaisical 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:32.920 when I need like actual like physical help and people 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.400 with money do this a lot. Right, If I'm like 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:39.560 I need help in the studio because he's great at design, right, 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.000 he helped me with a lot of ship. I was like, 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:42.800 I need you to help me. Um, can you come 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.440 by and measure da da da da. He's like, um, yeah, 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:46.720 I don't know if I'm gonna be in soha, but yeah, 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:48.400 let me get a task grab it. No, nigger, I 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.440 want you to do this with me, right, like figure 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:53.840 out the time to fucking schedule to do ship with me. 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:55.520 And then I will blow up and start an argument. 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:57.640 And what does he have to do? I mean a 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:03.520 bag say sorry, okay, see my frustration comes in HM 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:06.360 to where I actually have to clean up because my 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.280 nigga's O c D, so a dish can't be in 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:13.360 the same clothes. Like he's very O c D. So 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.520 my stress in my relationship is fun. He's coming over, 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.360 I got to clean up the house? Are you dead? Ass? 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:24.440 I swear he's never not on time. I mean, I 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:25.800 can live in my own mess. But that's why I 0:15:25.840 --> 0:15:27.600 also never want to live with someone else again. Mean, 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:31.200 I don't know. You said he's retired, right, No, he works, 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:35.360 So I thought he was retired. He works, Um, where 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:37.360 did I get that from? Because the oldest fun No, No, 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:40.360 maybe he had a job he stopped for a while, 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.560 but no, Obey has a vigor schedule and it's like 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:47.920 I understand, So do I understand that? So when I 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:50.480 make time for you, do the same. And granted his 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:53.080 free time is mine, but it's just like he's so 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:55.640 jim obsessive, like he'll rather go to the gym than 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.360 do something I really need him to do. Yeah, I 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:58.760 need to be an equinox and when I'm done with 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:01.520 my equonox routine, did it, I'll come over there. And 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:04.040 he's just like too methodical with well know the problem 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:08.640 is you, which you're spoiled as when you want something, 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:10.800 you want it right then and there. Because my Nigga 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:14.000 two comes over after he's done with his stuff. You 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:17.880 are like, but no, I want you right now, and 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.400 because he wants to, he has something else. If you 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:25.760 the couple, yourself as the priority, Like that's what but see, 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:28.280 you gotta allow people to to still live their lives. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:30.560 He can live it. Yeah, but you you fit into 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:34.040 his see what I mean? What I mean you you 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:36.080 might need to go on that show, that couples therapy 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:39.160 show is when you look at both sides of the stories. 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.640 It's just like you're the one woman in season one, 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.720 the black lady who was like, I know he's at work, 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:46.920 but so if I call, you need to answer because 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:48.600 maybe I just want to know what you're doing for 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:52.240 the day. Yeah, she's bad, but you're not far off. 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:58.920 My thing is more like I don't ask for much. 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:03.200 That's really what it is. So and I feel like 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:04.920 I give a lot, not saying he asked for it. 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.959 But dude, I mean when we were away, like when 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:12.680 we were touring Old Day was like every five minutes, 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:14.359 how do I make this? How do I put the 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:16.320 chicken in this How many minutes do I put this 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:18.560 in for it? Like I do so much? Right, Like 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:21.320 I really and I love doing it. You know. I'm like, 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:23.920 I'd love to take care of a nicket, so to 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:27.080 know that I do these things. If I really need 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:29.440 you to do this one little manly fucking thing, you 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:31.320 don't need to throw money at it, like be here 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:34.000 because it is more important. Building a studio for me 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:38.320 was like something that not only did it require you know, time, 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:41.320 but it was just a milestone, right, Like, I mean, 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:43.000 we did this together and it was a very big 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:44.840 deal to just be there on the ground together. So 0:17:44.880 --> 0:17:46.400 it's like, NICKI, if I asked you to do something 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:48.359 we obviously know I could pay somebody to do it. 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:52.959 Just fucking be here with me, damn. But then we're 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:56.879 gonna fuck after all right, get gets here outline what 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:59.480 we're talking about today. It's my show today, Yes, your show? 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:02.680 IM all right, I forgot about it, you guys know, 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:06.600 like an outline. So I want to start with a 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:10.280 good review. Read really quick. Um the only pod with 0:18:10.480 --> 0:18:13.400 coherent host. I listened to a lot of women podcast 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:17.560 and I can't stick around or subscribe. Yeah, where was 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:21.720 this review at okay Um, I can't stick around because 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:24.840 they say like nine times when my sensions and it 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:26.800 makes the other women talking on the podcast on a 0:18:26.840 --> 0:18:28.680 literate or stupid for lack of better words. And I 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:31.879 listened to every episode loaded by these talented and funny 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:33.720 ladies without rolling my eyes because I hear like like 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:35.840 like like like but you know, like I don't know 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:40.399 what show she's like. Maybe she white, it says, maybe 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:43.960 she talks, so listens to white girl shows. Wheezy and 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:46.240 Mandy also talked about the mouth washed for dry mouth. 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:48.760 I used it for years and it's amazing. Please come 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:51.520 to Sacramento. Probably won't happen since our governors and modern 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:55.479 day Hitler minus the physical genocide and mental murder. But lastly, 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:57.920 the one star people, you all don't listen for the 0:18:58.000 --> 0:19:01.240 intent because you are all typical annoying people that get 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:04.240 offended by the lack of crust on a grilled cheese sandwich. 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:08.720 Can't like we really appreciate you for all, Like I 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:12.320 just feel like you're our tribe. I'm only talking to 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:14.280 me like that because they feel like yeah, because she 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:17.800 just said she doesn't like people saying like yeah, I 0:19:17.920 --> 0:19:20.359 just don't think we talked like that. We don't because 0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:24.199 like it's just not my thing. So I no more 0:19:24.280 --> 0:19:26.320 serious note. I mean I used to say, um, I 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:28.840 feel like you say, I know what you say, what 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:31.240 I say, We're gonna kind of get into the outline, 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:35.520 I can say kind of. It's those are words you'd 0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:38.120 be like, we're just gonna kind of into this. It's 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:40.400 an intro. Like when you had to write a five 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:42.960 paragraph essay back in the day that is called a 0:19:43.080 --> 0:19:47.880 transition home like you got instead of me saying, well, 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:51.040 you know, this is like the introduction, then I wasn't 0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:56.320 gonna say firstly, secondly, thirdly in conclusion information like bro, 0:19:56.480 --> 0:20:00.560 those are called transition kind of I don't say you 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:04.480 say all the time, but that's in the middle of 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:06.159 a sentence, it's not I don't use it like an 0:20:06.200 --> 0:20:11.560 ad lib, like like that's the ad libe what do 0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:13.320 I say in the bottom and let us know what 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:16.159 do I say? Too much? What do I say? No? 0:20:16.920 --> 0:20:18.680 I say booda hole? And that's why air about it. 0:20:19.160 --> 0:20:21.600 Did you see the guy on Twitter he said the 0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:24.680 some of horrible decisions and he put wheezy, Oh my god, 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:26.520 you guys, I'm so grateful for this moment. Thank you 0:20:26.600 --> 0:20:29.720 so much. And then he put Mandy boota hole. Yeah, bitch, 0:20:32.080 --> 0:20:37.480 shout out to you, like the Vanilla ship is actually 0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:39.400 a little more serious. But I really want to read 0:20:39.440 --> 0:20:43.040 this because I couldn't believe this. Um, how to hit 0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:45.080 a woman? So no one knows. I don't know if 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:48.560 you saw this on Twitter, hyped into Google a hundred 0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:53.000 and sixty three million times. Um, that's wild. How to 0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:55.400 control your woman was searching a hundred and sixty five 0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:58.399 million times. This is a sixty seven percent jump compared 0:20:58.440 --> 0:21:02.119 to two thousand nine. These are increasing in time, and 0:21:02.160 --> 0:21:04.960 we know domestic violence went up during quarantine, but it 0:21:05.040 --> 0:21:07.760 says the pandemic has been deadly or for women in 0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:10.320 februaries because they couldn't leave a lot of women had 0:21:10.400 --> 0:21:14.119 to stay in homes where they felt unsafe for their partners. 0:21:14.160 --> 0:21:17.240 And you have to realize to just the strain of 0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:21.680 what quarantine and the coronavirus did for couples. You have 0:21:21.840 --> 0:21:24.560 people who lost their jobs, You have people who were 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:28.920 losing family members and friends. You have people who especially 0:21:29.520 --> 0:21:32.480 we got locked down in March. For us here up north, 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:36.560 it's winter, so you're fighting seasonal depression, and then we 0:21:36.680 --> 0:21:38.720 just had all of last winter being stuck in the 0:21:38.800 --> 0:21:41.359 house on on just you know, on a higher alert 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:45.080 type scale. So you know, that's not surprising to me, 0:21:45.240 --> 0:21:47.760 and being that people lost all of these jobs and 0:21:47.800 --> 0:21:51.280 couldn't be outside, and even family members probably were scared 0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:53.240 to take people in they had to stay. I know 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:55.240 I was staying with that family members taking you in. 0:21:55.800 --> 0:21:58.400 It says that a woman and her mother were purportedly 0:21:58.440 --> 0:22:00.159 shot and killed by a boyfriend in Dallas, US and 0:22:00.200 --> 0:22:02.840 then he broadcasted his apology live on i G before 0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:05.600 dying by suicide. A nurse was then killed by her 0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:08.680 ex boyfriend in Minnesota. Dispatricks received a call from a 0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:11.000