1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: All right, This is from Lucretia on Steve Harvey f M. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Lucretia says, my ex and I broke up over a 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 2: year ago, but his mom and I stayed close. 4 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: Every couple of weeks. 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: We meet for coffee, texts about books, and she even 6 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 2: invited me to her birthday brunch. My ex just found 7 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 2: out and flipped thing, I'm crossing a line, But honestly, 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: she feels like family to me and we never even 9 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 2: talk about him. So is it wrong to stay friends 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: with her? Or does breaking up with someone mean breaking 11 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 2: up with their family too? 12 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: What do you think. 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 3: That's a thin line, because now is the family disrespecting 14 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 3: you by by continuing that friendship relationship? 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: You mean the mother, the mother disrespecting her son, her son. 16 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: The mother don't care, she won't Yeah, yeah, I know. 17 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, but you're not thinking about your son. 18 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: But that could happen though. I could see how that 19 00:00:59,520 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: would happen. 20 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 2: And if you're in a relationship with someone and you 21 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 2: meet the mom and you guys just bond instantly or 22 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: just bond over time, you know it would be hard 23 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 2: to break off that relationship. 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: I mean, what happens when he brings a girl over 25 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 3: and then hit an ex. Se don't that look crazy too? Well? 26 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 1: You think awkward? Yeah, awkward? Yeah, the ex at the house. 27 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, one of the family gatherings because her mama 28 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 3: is cool. 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know she would go to the gathering. Now. 30 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 2: I hope she would have sense enough not to go 31 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 2: to that because he might be there. 32 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: You know, she gonna be there and he'll come. 33 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 4: The new girl is going the mom separately away. 34 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 5: My mama is not breaking up with her. She got 35 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 5: a relationship with my ex. They're not they're not breaking up. 36 00:01:56,840 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: They still friends. Yeah, do go over to my mama house. 37 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 5: And I have walked in the house and said hey, 38 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 5: and then they oh, they is right there. I said, 39 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 5: oh my god. 40 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: Because they were just talking about you. 41 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, my mama and my eggs are in the kitchen cooking. 42 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: My wife would be with me. 43 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 5: Yes, that just stopped lessing and stop which even what. 44 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 5: I don't want her here if you don't get out 45 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 5: of my face and go in there and sit down 46 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 5: and wait for this food for this. 47 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:30,119 Speaker 1: Together. No, I eat in a different room. I ain't 48 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: s if I played in a folding chair. 49 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 2: So is you're ex married or does she have a 50 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: man and her like what friend or something? 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 3: Now? 52 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 5: But my wife. Now they will all be in there talking. 53 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 5: They was all friends and stuff. 54 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: You go in there like he come now. 55 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 5: You know all the jus about you. 56 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: Look at him trying to grow a mustache? Now, yea 57 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: all that all that? 58 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 3: Wow? Take the chili. 59 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: Yet you know that. 60 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: Y'all, y'all have not lived until y'all go spend a 61 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 3: gathering with Junior and his family. 62 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: I'm telling you you, oh, you. 63 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: Are in for a treat. Now. You don't know what's 64 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 3: gonna happen, but you have something. 65 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: I love Junior's family. I love Junior's family. I do too. 66 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: I met Junior's daddy. 67 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 5: I went to a comedy show Tommy, Yes, and I 68 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 5: met Junior's daddy and uh, I was with my best friend. 69 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, come take a picture. 70 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 4: Junior has a great family. Yeah, his mom, his grandmother, everybody. Yeah, 71 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 4: it's fun all right. I think we have time for 72 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 4: another one. This is Manny and Steve Harvey FM. For 73 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 4: reasons I don't quite understand. Man He says, why the 74 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 4: funeral home gave me the ashes of my aunt and 75 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 4: now I have no clue what to do with them. 76 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 4: I offered them to my mom, my uncle, and my 77 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 4: aunt's kids, my aunt's kids, and nobody wants them. So 78 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 4: here I am with a box full of my aunt's ashes. 79 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 4: As I know, she didn't have any final wishes. So 80 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 4: I'll ask you, what does one do with the ashes 81 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 4: of someone They really weren't that close to. 82 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: Why are you asking us we don't have any ashes. 83 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 3: Ashes? 84 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: Give him something, give him, give him something he could 85 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: do with the ashes. Us it fertilizer for the yard. 86 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, you're gonna put in the yard. 87 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's gonna rain grass, ashes, dust to dust. For 88 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 5: once we came, we go all right back to the earth. 89 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 5: Go ahead for lined that, y'all. 90 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.