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Speaker 1: One or two point seven kids have, then there's somebody

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Speaker 1: right now on their way to break up. We're about

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Speaker 1: to send a breakup text. We're thinking when's the right

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Speaker 1: time to break up?

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Speaker 2: It's for sure.

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Speaker 1: And so to that person, sim was actually telling us

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Speaker 1: there may be a delicate way to end it. So

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Speaker 1: if this is in your plans, is that true?

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Speaker 3: It's called delicate dumping.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's.

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Speaker 3: All over TikTok, and it's a toxic way. Peop were saying.

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Speaker 3: People are actually referring to it, and by people I

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Speaker 3: mean experts, dating experts are referring to it as a

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Speaker 3: toxic way to break up because it's cowardly.

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Speaker 2: It's lazy.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of do you remember quiet quitting? Yes, when

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Speaker 3: we talked about quite y, Yes, I do, Yes, I do, Yes,

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 2: You kind of just stop.

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Speaker 3: Doing your work and just hope that your boss might

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Speaker 3: just either fire you or you just kind of lay

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Speaker 3: you off or whatever. You can quite quit. It's kind

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Speaker 3: of the same way, but you apply it to your relationship.

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Speaker 2: Wow, So.

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Speaker 3: You start, you stop putting in the effort in hopes

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Speaker 3: that your partner will just dump you.

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Speaker 1: So basically, you played dull so that they become uninterested.

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Speaker 3: But you don't cheat, So if there's a difference, because

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Speaker 3: a lot of people just end up cheating sometimes so

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Speaker 3: that their partner will break.

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Speaker 1: Up so they she become a dud so they think, oh,

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Speaker 1: this person is not fun being around, or you become

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Speaker 1: cranky or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I was reading this article and I was

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Speaker 3: like totally shaking my head and rolling my eyes, and

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Speaker 3: I was just like, I know my fair share of

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Speaker 3: delicate dumpers, and I was like, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 3: think I think I have been a delicate day.

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Speaker 2: So what did you do? You intentionally acted uninterested? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think I was just like a dud and I

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Speaker 3: was just like, gave and you're weird, you know what?

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Speaker 3: And yeah, until like they were basically over me and

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Speaker 3: then or we just called it quits kind of like.

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Speaker 2: And then when you call it quick, did you regret

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Speaker 2: any of it?

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Speaker 3: No, because obviously I'm not with them, But this is

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Speaker 3: like so in my younger years, I think this is

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Speaker 3: what I did in like my younger years, like high

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Speaker 3: school days, early twenties.

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Speaker 2: And then what do they call it? Delicate?

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Speaker 3: Delicate dumping?

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Speaker 2: Delicate?

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Speaker 3: Nobody delicately dumped?

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Speaker 2: Me.

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Speaker 3: I can tell you that much.

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Speaker 2: It was forceful. Y'all have done this.

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Speaker 3: Y'all have done this at least once, and maybe you

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Speaker 3: didn't even know it. Yeah, probably, yeah, Because I feel

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Speaker 3: like everybody's relationship loses the sparkle at some point and

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Speaker 3: then you just you just go along with the flow

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Speaker 3: and you don't even realize you're delicate dumping.

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Speaker 2: This is why you just don't get into relationships.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that is not the answer, because then we go

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Speaker 3: back to that last.

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Speaker 1: Thing about you know what this show needs. Then all right,

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Speaker 1: we have fifty minutes to kissing music coming the next

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Speaker 1: hang on