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Speaker 2: I listen to the black guy who tips podcasts because

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Speaker 2: with many of my female American friends I have, is

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Speaker 2: how invested they are in being liked, How they have

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Speaker 2: been raised to believe that their being likable is very important,

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Speaker 2: and that this likable trait is a specific thing, and

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Speaker 2: that specific thing does not include showing anger or being

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Speaker 2: teaching girls to work worry about what boys think of them,

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Speaker 2: but the reverse is not the case.

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Speaker 3: We don't teach boys that care about being likable.

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Speaker 2: We spend too much time telling girls that they cannot

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Speaker 2: be angry or aggressive or tough, which is bad enough

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Speaker 2: but then we turn around and either praise or excuse

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Speaker 2: men for the same reasons.

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Speaker 3: All over the.

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Speaker 2: World, there are so many magazine articles and books telling

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Speaker 2: women what to do, how to be, and not to

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Speaker 2: be in order to attract or please men. There are

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Speaker 2: far fewer guys for men about pleasing women. Hey, welcome

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Speaker 2: to the Blackout Tells podcast. The host Rod and Hearing,

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Speaker 2: and we're live on Saturday morning ish Saturday afternoon. It's

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Speaker 2: Takes us time out to leave those five star reviews

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Speaker 2: Okay, well you did just take a shower. Could be

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Speaker 2: some water in your ears that I know when I

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Speaker 3: On the headphones and kind of pressurizes my ears. Weird.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what's happening here?

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Speaker 5: My bad, y'all.

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Speaker 3: It's all good, It's all good.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, and the quote from the start of the

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Speaker 2: show is from uh Tima Monda's book We Should All

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Speaker 2: Be Feminist. It's really just like an essay that she

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Speaker 2: turned it to a book. So, uh, it's a very

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Speaker 2: short read. I'm talking about, like literally, it's like reading

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Speaker 2: a long article, like you can be done with this

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Speaker 3: But I do recommend this very I liked it.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's very feminism, one on one type stuff

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Speaker 2: for most people. But hey, look, you gotta start somewhere.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people need some feminism one on one

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Speaker 5: Yeah they do.

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Speaker 4: And listening to what you were saying, I one hundred

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, well, I think a lot of the

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Speaker 2: to be likable, and for likability for women specifically to

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Speaker 2: be about a lack of aggressiveness, a lack of disagreeableness,

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Speaker 3: And yeah, it's sad how much we praise that in men.

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Speaker 2: I know, I've had men who are my boss and

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Speaker 3: Let's move up the ladder. It was, Wow, what a

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Speaker 2: She calls people out when they don't do their work

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Speaker 3: He comes in, he's all rumpy and he's and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like, well, technically, you know, that's that's kind of an

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Speaker 4: Right, and people don't They don't look at it like that.

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Speaker 4: It could be somewhat frustrating because basically, when you do this,

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Speaker 5: You're not considered a young lady.

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Speaker 4: And the thing is when you raise little girls that

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Speaker 4: it's like you got to embrace that, because no, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we teach women to be all support And then

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Speaker 2: the other problem with that is it's not bad to

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Speaker 3: Correct.

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Speaker 2: It is bad to say aggressiveness in a girl is wrong,

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Speaker 2: there's women that don't want to be with a man, right,

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Speaker 3: What are we really defining so? Right?

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Speaker 4: And also when you talk about aggressiveness, what is he

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Speaker 4: that aggressiveness turns into being aggressive towards women and then

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Speaker 2: Right, And of course the box that puts a lot

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Speaker 2: And you know, we've all seen the end results of that.

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Speaker 2: The domestic violence, the aggressiveness, criminality type elements that we

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Speaker 3: Are you? Yeah? I agree?

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Speaker 3: Lol.

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Speaker 2: On Halloween, I watched the first three screen movies at

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Speaker 2: my desk.

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Speaker 3: L L that nine one, one, dispatcher.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Ron though Jack Ryan is a dope ass show

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Speaker 2: Kenny Jackson from that kitaj Okay, well, hopefully you don't

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Speaker 2: work at a as a nine one one operator.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's hope.

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Speaker 3: So like he not, It's like I don't work at

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Speaker 3: nine one one. That's ridiculous. I work at the What's

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Speaker 3: our hotline? They need training to what's happening?

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Speaker 2: Popey's app five Stars Sons of Chaft says one of

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Speaker 2: is mad at you for telling me about the Popeyes app. Lol,

457
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Speaker 2: But thank you big just I got y'all fam you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry to your doctor. Okay, it's not you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's not my fault. I wasn't trying to get y'all

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Speaker 2: y'all in trouble with y'all doctors.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: So if something you know, you're having some cholesterol emergencies

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Speaker 2: or some ship like.

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Speaker 5: That, pure under control.

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Speaker 2: Now, don't put that on the black out tips. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I just told you how.

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Speaker 3: To get one a little easier. They can come call me.

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Speaker 3: I hate to say it.

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Speaker 5: I hope I don't sound right because I don't know

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Speaker 5: who this man is. I mean, he could be walking

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Speaker 5: down the street.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't I wouldn't know a thing.

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Speaker 5: Sorry to this man.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna be my response if they come call me

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Speaker 2: he had a heart attack, He says, your fault, sorry

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Speaker 2: this man. Episode four on the blackoutills dot com, where

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Speaker 2: you can leave comments, we got a couple of comments

478
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Speaker 2: to our fee our feedback show we did a couple

479
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Speaker 2: weeks ago. Mike and London says, I'm so interested to

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Speaker 2: hear you comments on Francesca Ramsey. That bit you read

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Speaker 2: out sounded almost like a textbook.

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Speaker 3: I've notiver studied in training.

483
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Speaker 2: I deal with narcisstic people every day and my work

484
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Speaker 2: as a therapist.

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Speaker 3: They can get.

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Speaker 2: Better if they want to, but usually they don't see

487
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 2: that they have a problem. And to me, social media

488
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,239
Speaker 2: and activism looks like an amplifier for it.

489
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Speaker 3: I'm glad you're seeing this stuff now. Yeah, yeah, man.

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Speaker 2: I everybody got to go through their own journey in life,

491
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Speaker 2: and you see shit. When you see shit, you get

492
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Speaker 2: hip things when you get hit the things. But I

493
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Speaker 2: don't know, I've had some experiences in the last few years. Well,

494
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Speaker 2: I'm just like a lot of people that present themselves

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Speaker 2: online as whether it be activists or whatever, cars or whatever,

496
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Speaker 2: you know, even an influencer or whatever. A lot of

497
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Speaker 2: people got issues man, and they like haven't necessarily worked

498
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Speaker 2: it through it. And online also attracts a certain type

499
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Speaker 2: of personality that I'm not sure. Like I said, in

500
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Speaker 2: order to be good at social media, think about the

501
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: tactics that you have to use, and then think about

502
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 2: certain mental illnesses and the symptoms of those illnesses and

503
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: the tactics that those brains tell people to use, and

504
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Speaker 2: how we consider those not to be healthy. Shunning, ostracization, harassment, stalking.

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Speaker 2: These are all things you can do via social media. Also,

506
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 2: because of our reach now and because of people being

507
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Speaker 2: interested in us, we're now introduced to way more people

508
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Speaker 2: in our lives than we would necessarily before. So, and

509
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Speaker 2: especially content producers like me and Karen, like we run

510
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Speaker 2: into people where it's like, I don't think this person

511
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Speaker 2: as well.

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Speaker 3: But I don't want to be mean and I don't

513
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Speaker 3: want to be a dick.

514
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Speaker 2: So you want to give them some level of like, hey,

515
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Speaker 2: it's cool, you know, but that you're not always dealing

516
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Speaker 2: with somebody that's coming to you on the same level

517
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Speaker 2: and sometimes people can. I mean, we've had people get

518
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Speaker 2: obsessed with us. We've had people threatened us. We've had

519
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 2: people you know, just do weird shit, cut us off

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Speaker 2: and and blame us for the shit we have. People

521
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Speaker 2: you know have persecution complexes like harass us, all kinds

522
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Speaker 2: of shit. And I'm just getting to the point now

523
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Speaker 2: where I'm learning, like, okay, that some people you can't

524
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Speaker 2: do shit with and it's just unfortunate. And I think

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Speaker 2: a lot of this stuff is people having different trauma

526
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Speaker 2: from childhood, different trauma they've experienced in real life, and

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Speaker 2: how that plays out and affects the way they view

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Speaker 2: the world as compared to me.

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Speaker 3: And I can only control my side of that equation.

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Speaker 2: So I have to learn how to remove myself from

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Speaker 2: certain situations, to be on my guard and to be

532
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Speaker 2: cautious about certain things, and to trust my instincts. There's

533
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Speaker 2: a lot of people where I get like a vibe

534
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Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm ignored.

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Speaker 3: You got to get people fat shot, that's not right.

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Speaker 2: What if you just and I don't know, Man, I'm here,

537
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Speaker 2: I'm batting in the high ninety nine percentile, So I

538
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Speaker 2: really need to just stop doing that shit. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just learning how to tune in for myself. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you guys are enjoying the things I'm sharing. Yes, sir, Hey, Ron,

541
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Speaker 2: and Karen, I'm listening to episode in nineteen eighty four

542
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Speaker 2: and had to give my thanks and appreciation to your

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Speaker 2: commentary around narcissists and apaths. I really don't have the

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Speaker 2: words to express how grateful I am for y'all being

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Speaker 2: authentic and sharing, but I want to say something. This

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Speaker 2: is the first time I've heard the word apath, and

547
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Speaker 2: hearing it has really opened my eyes to my own

548
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Speaker 2: behaviors and people I have around me. There have been

549
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Speaker 2: so many times where y'all starts and opinions are giving

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Speaker 2: me a different perspective and cause me to check in internally.

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Speaker 2: Just need to say thank y'all. Yeah that's from an

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Speaker 2: anonymous person, and yeah, I'm glad. I'm glad we talked

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Speaker 2: about it specifically for.

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Speaker 5: That because.

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Speaker 4: I know for me, I have to be because that's

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Speaker 4: the first time I have heard the apath to y'all,

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Speaker 4: So I was kind of hearing it, you know, kind

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Speaker 4: of for the first time once Roger introduced it to me,

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Speaker 4: and particularly apath a lot of people can fall into

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Speaker 4: an apath and not really realize that that's what they are,

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Speaker 4: you know, not really realize that they're actually doing the

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Speaker 4: work of somebody else thinking this.

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Speaker 5: And the trick is it's a just cause for you.

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Speaker 4: And because it's a just calls for you, you don't

565
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Speaker 4: question it, you don't analyze it, you don't think about it.

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Speaker 4: You just do because it has been presented to you

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Speaker 4: as just calls. And the thing is, once you start

568
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Speaker 4: asking questions, once you start digging, once you start being like, hey,

569
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Speaker 4: if I was the other person, how what I feel.

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Speaker 4: Once you start doing that, you've got to get out

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Speaker 4: of the group because all of a sudden you're no

572
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Speaker 4: longer useful anymore because it's not attack attack, attack, attack, attack,

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Speaker 4: attack attack. And once you realize that, it's easier for

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Speaker 4: you to accept that.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to be a part of a group.

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Speaker 4: Because the thing about social media put up this social

577
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Speaker 4: is the part of social media. Everybody with social creatures,

578
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Speaker 4: which is understandable. But also sometimes you have to be

579
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Speaker 4: alone in social media and people don't want to hear that.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you have to be the odd man out. Sometimes

581
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Speaker 4: you have to have the opinion to do go with

582
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Speaker 4: the flow, which is cool too, but you have to

583
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Speaker 4: be willing to accept that and embrace that and be

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Speaker 4: willing to live with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think the thing a lot of people

586
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Speaker 2: don't realize about the apath thing for those that are

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Speaker 2: like in my apath and my part of this, well,

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Speaker 2: I think one anyone could kind of be one. You

589
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Speaker 2: need to be careful with the information you're receiving, correct,

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Speaker 2: But the way that a lot of these communities around

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Speaker 2: trauma are built, it's made so that you can't question

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Speaker 2: the person who is claiming to be the victim.

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Speaker 3: No matter what.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, even if that story is fishy or

595
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Speaker 2: it doesn't check out, or they won't tell you what happened,

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00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 2: you have to accept their version of events even if

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00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: it doesn't match up. You know, I've had people approach

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Speaker 2: me to because I think people think a rise an mpath,

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Speaker 2: so I can make him an apath like.

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Speaker 3: He'll, he'll, he'll.

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Speaker 2: Narcissists are good at selling their trauma and being like

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Speaker 2: this is my story, my tragic story, and then you go,

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Speaker 2: I want to help this person, I want to protect

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Speaker 2: this person.

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Speaker 3: What do I do?

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Speaker 2: And they take that impulse and then turn you into

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Speaker 2: a person that attacks someone else. But the key for

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Speaker 2: a path is that two types of them want and

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00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: sometimes you know they can be both. But one they're

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Speaker 2: a person that can feel no empathy towards the target. Right,

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Speaker 2: So if I tell you, hey, Karen Justin, we're not

612
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 2: fucking with Justin, no more fuck him, and you go okay,

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00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: And then I'm like, and if you see him, tweet in,

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Speaker 2: harass him if.

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Speaker 3: You you know, if you see.

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Speaker 2: Him at his job, show up at his job and

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Speaker 2: make us seen, you know, and you start doing that, well,

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Speaker 2: guess what that means?

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Speaker 3: You have no empathy for Justin.

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Speaker 2: So that's one type of a path is just the

621
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Speaker 2: fact you have no empathy for that for the target.

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Speaker 2: The second one is that they may have empathy for

623
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Speaker 2: the target, but they're scared of the narcissists, correct, So

624
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Speaker 2: they just don't want to be the next target. And

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Speaker 2: a lot of people, as much as they bragg and

626
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Speaker 2: boast online, a lot of people are that type of coward.

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Speaker 2: And if I like, I like, I always try to

628
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Speaker 2: check in with myself, have to make sure I don't,

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Speaker 2: you know, trying to possess any of these traits and shit,

630
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Speaker 2: because I think it's so scary because narciss are so

631
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Speaker 2: they're not even aware, you know. But I'll think about

632
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Speaker 2: it and I'll be like, you know what, I have

633
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Speaker 2: No matter how much grief and shit I've had with people,

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Speaker 2: I've never sick. We have an audience. I have never

635
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Speaker 2: once been like, let's get this motherfucker.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: If I have a problem with somebody, I'll be like,

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Speaker 2: I'll handle it myself, and now like it's handled. This

639
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 2: is what I did, you know, something like that. And

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Speaker 2: even over the years, I've actually gotten more and more

641
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Speaker 2: keep that.

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Speaker 3: Kind of shit to the vest.

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Speaker 2: So if somebody's if I'm having an issue with somebody,

644
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Speaker 2: I'd really just be like, I'm not going to bring

645
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Speaker 2: it up on the show. I'm not gonna say their names.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna tell people to go harass them. I'm

647
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: not gonna tell people even where to find this person,

648
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 2: because it's really about the situation and the universal the

649
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Speaker 2: universality of universality.

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Speaker 3: I don't know I made that word up.

651
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Speaker 5: The I understand you speaking my language.

652
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Speaker 2: Yeah, the universal experience that we all share is what

653
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 2: it's about to me. So I can describe a conflict

654
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 2: without going into details, and the audience can connect with

655
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 2: that conflict and I can give you like this is

656
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Speaker 2: what I'm thinking about, as opposed to you know, a

657
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: narcissists like yo, this person did this thing, Go get them,

658
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

659
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 4: Or.

660
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: Less harass them to this person doesn't have a job

661
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 2: and they don't want to have a place to stay,

662
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: and they can't make a living and they like they

663
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 2: that's the.

664
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 3: Kind of shit they do.

665
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 2: And so having my eyes open to that was important

666
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 2: because I've dealt with it before. I've just never fucking

667
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: had the words. I've had people try to sek me

668
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 2: on someone before. One of the reasons I got out

669
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: I don't like I didn't want to run a Facebook group.

670
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: I had more than one person come to me behind

671
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: the scenes and try to get me to like either

672
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: secretly ban or kick somebody out of our Facebook group

673
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 2: for something that had nothing to do with Facebook or

674
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: the group, Like It'll be like, well, you know, in

675
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: real life, me and this person got a problem. I'm like,

676
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 2: I'm this is a Facebook group, right if this well,

677
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: I'm just scared now I think this person may know, uh, you.

678
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 3: Know where I live or something you should.

679
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 2: Call the police if that, if it's really that serious,

680
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: you know, a face only thing, a face only thing.

681
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 2: Me kicking them out of Facebook is going to do

682
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 2: is escalate this situation. And you think about it, You're like, wait,

683
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 2: why are you trying to win a Facebook fight?

684
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 5: Right?

685
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 3: Facebook fight?

686
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: And you're claiming that this is real life drama, Like dog,

687
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: A podcaster can't help you. A podcaster who's one hundred,

688
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 2: you know, hundreds of miles away from you is not

689
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 2: the solution to your problem, you know, especially when you know,

690
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: when I start looking into details, things I don't really

691
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 2: want to know. But now I start looking at details,

692
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: and you're like, wait, this isn't matching up with the

693
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: stuff you're saying. This person isn't harassing and they're not

694
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: targeting you, they don't even talk to you, blah blah blah.

695
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: So you know, I look at shit like that. But

696
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: also there's a lot of people who need community correct

697
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 2: and I've watched those communities form around certain negative type

698
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: of personalities, and you know, I don't say shit to them,

699
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 2: but you can see when they're like hiving up, and

700
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 2: I think maybe they're bored or they just I don't

701
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: know they need a bad guy. I don't know what

702
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 2: it is they have to do that. Yeah, they have

703
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: to do the work with their own therapist. But I've

704
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 2: seen that happen before where I'm like, y'all don't even

705
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: know how fucked up y'all are being, because y'all are like,

706
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 2: your concept of this is so shallow and your lack

707
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 2: of self awareness and reflection is so fucking low.

708
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 3: So you don't like, I don't know if it just

709
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:32,959
Speaker 3: have bad self esteem.

710
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is, cause, like I said,

711
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 2: I've never been the apath person, you know, but I

712
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 2: have been in situations where I believe people that you know,

713
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 2: later I look back and I'm like, I don't know

714
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 2: if that person's telling truth.

715
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 3: Correct, you know.

716
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: So I've had those situations before, and I've had people

717
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 2: around me. Why I just let them be around where

718
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not gonna go out and attack these

719
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 2: people just because you put them on some shit list.

720
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: But what am I gonna stop you? You know, you're

721
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 2: an adult. You can do whatever fuck you want to.

722
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 2: But you know, looking back at it now, I'm like, yeah,

723
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 2: I don't even want that kind of person around me.

724
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: Agreed, like your whole fucking you know.

725
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: It's like if I said, well, I don't like the

726
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: breakfast club, and then I expect our listeners to go

727
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 2: out and harass all the breakfast club people every day,

728
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 2: like there's something wrong with that, and the like. Even

729
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: if you feel like that's what being a good fan

730
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 2: or a friend is, there's something wrong with you. That's

731
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: not you know, a good friend and a good fan,

732
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 2: A good person says, how do we solve the trauma

733
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 2: within you?

734
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 3: Because because this isn't it ain't so it's just it's

735
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 3: just a little shit. I'm money. I'm glad people aren't

736
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 3: picking it up though and enjoying it.

737
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 2: And I'm also glad that that person was able to

738
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 2: see their role in some of this shit and their

739
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 2: own because look, in most of these conflicts, all conflicts, really,

740
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 2: especially when it gets escalated, there's two sides. There's two parts,

741
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: there's sometimes multiple people, but everyone has a bit of

742
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 2: responsibility to it. Whether you're the escalator, whether you're the

743
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: narcissist person, whether you the person that assists the narcisst

744
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: even sometimes when you're the target, there's things you can

745
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 2: do to stop escalating. For example, when you're targeted by

746
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 2: somebody who's harassing you a thing I used to do,

747
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 2: I run on my platform and be like, hey, this

748
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: shit is happening to me.

749
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 3: It's terrible.

750
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 2: Can y'all see this because they gas like you and

751
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 2: you want people to make you feel sane and be like, oh,

752
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 2: I see what's happening.

753
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: It's not fair. You didn't say that on your show.

754
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 3: Why is this person lying on you? You didn't do this,

755
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 3: so why is this person threatening you?

756
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 2: But you know what, I'm also escalating the situation because

757
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 2: I'm now letting that person know they got to me,

758
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,760
Speaker 2: and I'm also telling my audience here's this person who's

759
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: talking shit about me. Check them out either, you know.

760
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 2: And even if I say don't don't harass them, don't.

761
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 2: Some people are so fucked up or so like even

762
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: in their naivete or they're like I want to help,

763
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 2: they'll go do the thing I say not to do.

764
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 2: So I had to learn to keep some of this

765
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,320
Speaker 2: shit to myself and be like, all right, well fuck it,

766
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: this person's gonna be crazy. I don't have time to

767
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 2: fucking to play in that crazy land that's just up

768
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: for them. So I'm glad people are learning, all right, yeah.

769
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,479
Speaker 5: And also not to get up copyed.

770
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 4: Sometimes this has to do with people conflict resolution skills,

771
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 4: and so I'm learning, though I get so many people

772
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 4: don't have conflict resolution skills, and so many people everybody

773
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 4: is I'm.

774
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 5: Right, you're wrong, I'm right, you're wrong. Ain't never considered anything.

775
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 4: I had an incident that happened a while ago with

776
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,240
Speaker 4: like an ups up management at my other job, And

777
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,439
Speaker 4: what that happened was that I interpreted it one way.

778
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 4: She interpreted it another way. And we was talking about

779
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 4: something in front of another manager and.

780
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 5: I'd said something in her tone. I listened to her

781
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 5: tone and I was like, oh, somebody just don't feel right.

782
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 4: So then I went back to her and I was like, hey,

783
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:43,720
Speaker 4: did you really think.

784
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 5: That I met this in a negative way? And she

785
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 5: was like yeah. I was like, well, I want you

786
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 5: to know that's not what I'm meant.

787
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 4: I'm sorry you interpreted it what I said like that,

788
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 4: but that's not how this was meant to come off,

789
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 4: you know, And I want you.

790
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 5: To get a I talked to her directly.

791
00:36:58,160 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 4: I was like, I want you to get a clear

792
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 4: understand because I want it in my mind.

793
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 5: I was like, I want this shit squashed. I don't

794
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 5: want to escalate it. You have authority over me.

795
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 4: You can fucking fire me over a misgoddamn understanding, and

796
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 4: me quote unquote being right can lose my fucking job. Like,

797
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 4: you have to think about the bigger picture, and that

798
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 4: goes into the conflict resolution skills.

799
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, a small thing that happened to day even.

800
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 2: I was playing basketball and this guy was making a

801
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 2: move on the sideline and it to me, it looked

802
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 2: like he was about to travel, and instead he stopped

803
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 2: and was like.

804
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 3: Oh wait, what's the score? Da da da da?

805
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 2: And I was like, nigga, what like, you just clearly

806
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 2: was about to walk and you stopped the game so

807
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: we couldn't call walk.

808
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 3: He's like, no, man, I was just picking the ball

809
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 3: up because of this. I was like, man, that's bullshit.

810
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 3: And we was about to have the.

811
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: Ball and my teammates was like, nah, like it's cool,

812
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 2: don't worry, just let him have the ball.

813
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck that shit, he tricking all, you know,

814
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 3: blah blah.

815
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 2: Blah, and uh, you know, and they got the call.

816
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: We ended up winning the game anyway, We went five

817
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 2: and two. Shout out to my crew today. But the

818
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 2: end of the the end of the day though, when

819
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 2: he was leaving, everybody was leaving, well, he was leaving,

820
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 2: and I think I was still winning, so I was

821
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 2: still about to play. But I actually went over to

822
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 2: him and was like, hey, man, so now that the

823
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 2: game is over, right, like, no, there's no agendas anymore

824
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 2: about who went in and shit, did you really call

825
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 2: that time out because you knew you was about to walk?

826
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 3: And he was like, no, I didn't.

827
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: I really stopped because they didn't have to score, right,

828
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And I said, you know what, dog,

829
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: I believe you. Man, I'm sorry that I called you

830
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: out or whatever. He was like, nah, it's cool, He's like,

831
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 2: it's just basketball. Said soon as the game is over,

832
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: it's you know, it's no hard feelings or whatever. I said,

833
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 2: I appreciate you being, you know, the bigger man.

834
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

835
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 2: Now, obviously that's a very small example. I don't lose

836
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,479
Speaker 2: anything by doing that. But let me tell you something.

837
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: I know niggas that wouldn't have done that. I also

838
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 2: know people that would have absolutely let that kind of

839
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 2: shit quell until the next time they see him, it's

840
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 2: this nigga always cheating, you know, and they just keep

841
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 2: going and keep going. And to me, I wanted him

842
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 2: to understand, like, hey man, I really passed. Nearly thought

843
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 2: you were cheating, but you wasn't, So my bad, and

844
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: you know, I'm gonna just take your word that it

845
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 2: doesn't hurt me to take your word for it or whatever,

846
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 2: and we'll just leave it at that. But I think

847
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: that that's a kind of a that's kind of a

848
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: thing that I think is a thing that's true in life.

849
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,320
Speaker 2: That's a small example, but that's something I do in life,

850
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: not like I'm willing to sit down and talk to

851
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 2: you and work it out. But a lot of people

852
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 2: they not, And a lot of times that's because of

853
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 2: the trauma they've gone through, you know. Like I said

854
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 2: in the book, I'm reading, conflict is not abuse, Like

855
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: you're talking about people that may have experienced trauma and

856
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 2: abuse as a child, and so they can't. They see

857
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 2: negotiation and they see compromise as injury. So even when

858
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 2: you say you apologize to that women, you say you know,

859
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, you're interpreted that way. What traumatic a person

860
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: that's been traumatized a person that has been injured to

861
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 2: an f degree, who has dealt with that their whole lives.

862
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 2: They won't even let you say that. They'll be like

863
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: a lot of times people say that stuff. The worst

864
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 2: thing you say in apologies, I'm sorry if you're offended,

865
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, that's okay. That doesn't bother me

866
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 2: because because that means you're apologizing to the offended person.

867
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 3: I'm not worried about that. Now.

868
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: There's other tales in the apology that does show when

869
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: it's insincere. We've all heard them correct and sometimes that

870
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: is the tale for a lot of people. But there's

871
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 2: a certain extent where like, no, you're recognizing that you

872
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 2: that you're intent with something than other than what I

873
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 2: took it as.

874
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 3: And you know what, that fucking matters. Intent does matter.

875
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 2: These people that don't want you to believe that are

876
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 2: people that want to escalate shit, and so.

877
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 3: That's why they don't accept apologies.

878
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 2: That's why they'll every apology is not good enough and

879
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 2: they escalate off the apology. I've seen people take it

880
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 2: every way. Like you read an apology from some celebrity

881
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 2: or some brand. I can show you where a person

882
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 2: can take it negative no matter what they say. You know, hey,

883
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 2: here is so and so we did we messed up,

884
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: and we are sorry to the people will offend it

885
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 2: and we won't happen again, blah blah blah.

886
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 3: And then somebody will be like, oh, well, what about

887
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 3: these other people? You know?

888
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: What about this or what you know? It's always some

889
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 2: other thing because escalation is the game, Like how do

890
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 2: we keep from accepting this because then we have to

891
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: give up something and we have to give up our hate.

892
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 2: When people say they don't forgive, I think about that.

893
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,439
Speaker 2: What was so traumatic in your life that you see

894
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: forgiveness as losing a negotiation because at some point in

895
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 2: time it may have been used to continue injuring you.

896
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 2: So you may have somebody that was like violated the

897
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 2: trust with a family member or something. Maybe you had

898
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 2: a family member that was on drugs and they constantly

899
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 2: stole from you, and so you forgive them because hey,

900
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 2: family forgive you know, they said they sorry, they're not

901
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 2: gonna do it again, and it stole something else. And

902
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 2: then so eventually you start associating the idea of forgiveness

903
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: with being weak, the idea of forgiveness with allowing Yeah,

904
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: the idea of forgiveness with allowing yourself to be violated again,

905
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 2: allowing this person to violate, to trust and betray you again.

906
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 2: So you go, if I never forgive, they can never

907
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 2: do it again, or at least when they do it,

908
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 2: I can say it didn't hurt me because I already

909
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 2: never forgave them. But I think that's a you know,

910
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 2: that's a that's a deeper level of thinking than people

911
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: want to go to, right, And I know I was

912
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 2: raising a mostly happy home. So part of my outlook

913
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 2: on life is just a little bit more optimistic in

914
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 2: that way, in the rel in my personal relationship way

915
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 2: of looking at things, I'm more optimistic. I've never had

916
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 2: some of the trauma that certain people have had. You know,

917
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: we all have some traumas, but I haven't had the

918
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 2: family trauma certain people have had. So my core unit

919
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 2: is just different, and my belief in people is just different. So,

920
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 2: you know, it's something I had to, Like I said,

921
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 2: it's something I've been educating myself on and I see

922
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: now my role and all that.

923
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:03,879
Speaker 3: The poem was, have you ever been targeted by a narcissist? Yes? No?

924
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:06,280
Speaker 3: Or I am the narcissist.

925
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: Oh shit, sixty five percent say yes, thirty percent say no,

926
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 2: and four percent say I am the narcissist.

927
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 3: Shout out to you. Four percent I'm.

928
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 5: Scared of you. Me too bad to go get help.

929
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 2: I'm in the sixty five percent. I have been targeted

930
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: by a couple. I think it's because of what we

931
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 2: do for a living at this point, because it wasn't

932
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 2: like this before, but once we started this show.

933
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 4: Man or either the thing is I may have and

934
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 4: just didn't realize it, because sometimes I go back and

935
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 4: I think about, you know, interactions and stuff, and.

936
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, that's what actually that was.

937
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 4: But a lot of times, if you go back in

938
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 4: your youth, a lot of people have crossed these people.

939
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 5: They just didn't know what it was or what the

940
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:48,720
Speaker 5: day it was.

941
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 3: And all this shit. You know.

942
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 4: Now it's more of a commonplace, but back then it wasn't.

943
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 4: So I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've crossed these

944
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 4: these people.

945
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 3: Yes I have.

946
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 2: And let's see, we had a couple comments Brooklyn shoe

947
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,280
Speaker 2: Base says, my ex boyfriend we broke up in June

948
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: after nearly four years agether when I could find it

949
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 2: in my brother the situation that led my ex to

950
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 2: my ex discarding me.

951
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 3: My brother figuratively.

952
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 2: Took me by the shoulders, told me not the cry,

953
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 2: and said, you were in an abusive relationship with a narcissist.

954
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 2: Now that I'm exploring in therapy and how I ended

955
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 2: up in this relationship, joined the support group of victims

956
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: of narcissistic abuse. I realized all the red flags I

957
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: ignored or forgave out of duty of love and because

958
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 2: he was hurt as a child. The recovery is hard

959
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: because who wants to admit they stayed in a toxic relationship.

960
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 2: Even my daughter's twelve and fourteen saw how I was

961
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 2: in a terrible relationship. I feel guilty because I feel

962
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 2: I let my daughters down. I'm ranning, But thank you

963
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 2: once again for bringing this up. Yeah, yeah, that's that's

964
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 2: the sad part too, is that they shake your reality

965
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 2: so much and they make you question yourself and all

966
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: this stuff, and a lot.

967
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 3: Of times you're the one left holding the guilt, even

968
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 3: when they're the one that they started. You like they

969
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 3: because they love bombing.

970
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 2: Part of it that cycle was they're telling you how

971
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 2: fucking great you are and how you're the best everything,

972
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 2: and they're whatever they want access to. You know, with us,

973
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 2: a lot of times it's our platform is how can

974
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 2: I get on your show?

975
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 3: How will I get uh seen with you? And all

976
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 3: this shit? But then on the way out, you ain't shit,

977
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 3: like you never was shit.

978
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 2: And that's the part that fucks with your reality because

979
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: it's like, so what was real?

980
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 4: Was it?

981
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 5: Either?

982
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 3: Was the love ever real? Was the hate real?

983
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 2: Like now all of a sudden, I'm the worst person

984
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 2: in the world. I shouldn't even be talking about the

985
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 2: things I'm talking about. I have no fucking business doing

986
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: whatever like that kind of shit. Like that's when you're like, oh,

987
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 2: this this is some like heavy doodle, heavy duty, like

988
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 2: mental shit you're doing on me, right.

989
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,280
Speaker 4: Because a lot of times the average person, a average

990
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,280
Speaker 4: person enjoys being praised, like like if some form of praise.

991
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 4: But the thing is a lot of times they up

992
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 4: quote unquote, they overpraise. They get to the point where

993
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 4: you'd be like, oh, okay, like something something.

994
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 5: Wrong, like oh no, no, no, no, no, no no.

995
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

996
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 2: My natural disposition not to take compliments to has served

997
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 2: me well dealing with this shit because it's easy, especially

998
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 2: now it's just much easier for me to be like

999
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 2: it's I mean, it's sad that I can't take compliments.

1000
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 3: I'm trying to get better on that. But at the.

1001
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:20,760
Speaker 2: Same time that natural like instinct of like, eh, like okay, cool,

1002
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: Like I don't want to be a big deal. And

1003
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,919
Speaker 2: I think because people don't understand that, because they they'll say, well,

1004
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 2: with what you do, you clearly want to be a

1005
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 2: big deal. You want to go place, you want to

1006
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 2: be recognized, you want to speak at places, you want

1007
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 2: to be on TV, you want And I'm like, that's

1008
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 2: not really my dream, Like that's not the goal. Yeah,

1009
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: if that happens, cool, right, But I don't wake up

1010
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 2: every morning feel like a failure if I haven't made

1011
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 2: the something go viral correct, and I don't feel like

1012
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 2: a success when things do, like us being on Vice

1013
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: did a lot for us, but it also at the.

1014
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 3: Same time still keep saying nothing changed.

1015
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 2: So it's you know, it's that kind of thing where

1016
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 2: I don't get too high when people are telling you

1017
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 2: you're the greatest out of and then you know and

1018
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 2: then it's always some some hook, it's always some catch

1019
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 2: to itself.

1020
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, And I think for me, the older I

1021
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 4: got the more I began to be aware of the

1022
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:12,240
Speaker 4: over praising.

1023
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 5: When I was younger, I didn't.

1024
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 4: Know, and you particularly being a young lady, and then

1025
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 4: you've been taught, Hey, you get praises, praises, you know

1026
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 4: love that the praises equals love, you know you that's

1027
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 4: how most I know, that's kind of how I was

1028
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 4: kind of taught that thing, and which with the just

1029
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,919
Speaker 4: the naivety and you not knowing and ship like that,

1030
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 4: you can get yourself a lot of fucked up situations

1031
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 4: out of just praise, praise, praise, praise, be like I

1032
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 4: didn't expect to be here or I didn't know it

1033
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 4: was gonna turn left.

1034
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 3: Uh, what what the fuck is this? And they was like, well,

1035
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 3: I praised.

1036
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 4: You, now you owe me quote unquote, and you're like no, no, no,

1037
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 4: like and then once you began to say no, it

1038
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 4: becomes a fucking problem because y'all will not ever own

1039
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 4: the same wave limb. So now I approach that completely different.

1040
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 2: And it's also weird because the thing, the thing that

1041
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 2: riddered me out was how could you be all up

1042
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 2: on me to a point where I was uncomfortable where

1043
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, this person is really they really like

1044
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 2: some me.

1045
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 3: That's a lot, you know.

1046
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: And then but with the Nazis, when they're done with you,

1047
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 2: it's a cold cut off.

1048
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 3: So so you completely it's completely.

1049
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: All the love, all the praise, all the contact, all

1050
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 2: that you ain't shit. They'll rather spend time harassing you.

1051
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 2: They'll all to spend time trying to come for your

1052
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 2: reputation and all this shit. And so when you have

1053
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 2: that part of the experience, that's what makes you question reality.

1054
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 3: Because you're like, what was real? You know? And so

1055
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 3: that's that's that was a big thing for me.

1056
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, in reality, let's be truth with them. None of

1057
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 5: it was real.

1058
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, none of it was real. But but but

1059
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 3: the first time.

1060
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: Through it, or until you read about it, you just

1061
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,280
Speaker 2: think you just think you're crazy.

1062
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 3: You're like, am I crazy?

1063
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, the first time you deal with it, it is

1064
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 2: a lot, because like I'm thinking of relationships where like

1065
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 2: if something went souring or like say something happened with

1066
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 2: me and Justin had an argument or whatever, I'm gonna

1067
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 2: still try to reach It's I'm not I'm not winning doneude,

1068
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 2: Like that's my friend.

1069
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 3: We're gonna try to work one down. You know like

1070
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 3: I'm not saying this is not all relationships last forever. Nah.

1071
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 3: I mean I have people that come and go like

1072
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 3: seasons is fine.

1073
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,919
Speaker 2: But when there's like a conflict and a falling out,

1074
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 2: I'm the kind of person that's gonna try to work

1075
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 2: it out with you.

1076
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: If you if you give me that energy of you,

1077
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 3: ain't shit. Fuck you. I'm done. I don't, I don't.

1078
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 3: I don't even talk to you. I don't see you anymore.

1079
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 2: I'm cool. I'm like, you don't have to worry about

1080
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 2: me harassing you ever again. Right the same U mom says.

1081
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 2: Last year, my sister added me to this Facebook group

1082
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 2: for people who have had who have or slash had

1083
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 2: narcissic parents. I eventually left the group because I didn't

1084
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 2: feel like it was helping me at all.

1085
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 3: In fact, it shocked me.

1086
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 2: We had a happy childhood and well in the adulthood,

1087
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 2: it was pretty good. My dad's narcissism didn't become a

1088
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 2: parent of us as kids until my parents separated and

1089
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: eventually divorced.

1090
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 3: There were only.

1091
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 2: Things looking back where I can see how he allowed

1092
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,240
Speaker 2: his narcissis to affect his parenting. Being in the Facebook

1093
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 2: group and seeing the serious trauma narcisst can have on

1094
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 2: the kids made me feel like all of us kids

1095
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 2: are in therapy. We often joke about how we're all

1096
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 2: in therapy, but the one person who shouldn't be who

1097
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 2: should be won't go.

1098
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,760
Speaker 5: But normally how it is when it comes to therapy

1099
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 5: for a lot of people.

1100
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 2: But after my parents' divorce, I caused myself so much

1101
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 2: emotional harm because of the way I let my dad

1102
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 2: control our relationship. It took a long time for me

1103
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 2: to see that I had to take control and established boundaries.

1104
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes my sisters and I will get worried because we

1105
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 2: know we had narcissic tendencies. The episode of the Red

1106
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: Table Talk for a Second made me sad when the

1107
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 2: doctor said narcissts never get better. But then I know

1108
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: I'm not a true narciss because I'm aware of my

1109
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 2: tendencies and actively worked to change our behavior because and

1110
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 2: know it's unhealthy. It's so weird when I talk about

1111
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 2: it because I don't see my dad as a bad

1112
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,720
Speaker 2: person or even abusive, because I realized he really doesn't

1113
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 2: show no any other way.

1114
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 3: Plus I love him.

1115
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 2: He basically love bombed us our entire lives and used

1116
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,760
Speaker 2: that to control us. Then once he took that away

1117
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,240
Speaker 2: from us after the divorce, we were left feeling empty.

1118
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 2: We're a lot better now emotionally and mentally, but the

1119
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 2: scars are there. It made me sad because I know

1120
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 2: I can never have the same type of relationship I

1121
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 2: have with my dad when I was younger. But it

1122
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 2: made us siblings closer, and I'm really happy about that.

1123
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 2: My sister and my best friend. My sisters are my

1124
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 2: best friends. My advice for anyone with a narcist for

1125
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 2: a parent's boundaries, keeping consistent boundaries and holding yourself and

1126
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 2: them to them is important because you'll naturally want to

1127
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 2: take the boundary down because that's your mommy or daddy.

1128
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 2: And unless they were truly awful, like some of the

1129
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 2: stories I saw in that Facebook group, you still very

1130
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,319
Speaker 2: much loved them. Hope you gave me. Thanks for letting

1131
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 2: me unpack that. Hope you'll had a great break come on.

1132
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 3: Thanks, agreed.

1133
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 4: And sometimes for some people it's so bad, And this

1134
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 4: is why I say people need to be aware of

1135
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 4: how they talk to people when they talk about their parents.

1136
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 4: Sometimes when they be like, oh, I just don't talk

1137
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,399
Speaker 4: to my parents I had to completely cut them off,

1138
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 4: just like they was a stranger on the street, because

1139
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,720
Speaker 4: if I had enough mentally, I just could not have survived.

1140
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 5: Like they just had to be completely out of my

1141
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 5: life and out of my children's life. They had to

1142
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 5: be gone. And when you.

1143
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 4: Say that, like the person who wrote the letter said,

1144
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 4: people act like will did your mammy?

1145
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:01,240
Speaker 5: You know your daddy?

1146
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 3: Okay?

1147
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 5: And but guess what, they're a person. They're an individual person.

1148
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: That Donald Trump is for my daddy. Come on, that

1149
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 2: is fucked up and flowed.

1150
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 4: And I have to protect myself, and sometimes protecting yourself

1151
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 4: be's cutting people off, no matter who they are.

1152
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 2: And lastly, Blue Way Rider says, brut put just put

1153
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: your reading list on the website.

1154
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if that was I don't know what

1155
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 3: that means.

1156
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 4: They're tired of rewinding and remember, and I said, you

1157
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 4: might have to do that, or do a wish list

1158
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 4: or something, not a wish list, but like a list

1159
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 4: with keep you keeping.

1160
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 3: Track of something.

1161
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,439
Speaker 2: I'm not turning my reading into work. I'll tell y'all

1162
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 2: what y'all can do.

1163
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 3: Though.

1164
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 2: I am on good Reads, the website good reads or whatever.

1165
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 2: If you have that site, you can uh follow me

1166
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 2: on there, and that's where I update what I'm reading

1167
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: and it shows what books I've read and all that

1168
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 2: ship because my Kindle does that automatically, So I don't

1169
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 2: mind sharing it that way, but I'm not turning my

1170
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 2: This is what honestly, reading is what is bringing me

1171
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 2: a lot of peace right now. And reading is also

1172
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 2: something that I just find to be therapeutic right now.

1173
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 2: And it's just the same. I feel the same way

1174
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 2: about it when people are like, man, set up some

1175
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 2: cameras in your kitchen and show us how you be cooking,

1176
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's now, that's the work.

1177
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 3: Now.

1178
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,959
Speaker 2: This took my private, private time and turned it into

1179
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 2: fucking work. And I'm not I'm never gonna I'm not

1180
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 2: gonna do that. So I don't mind, you know, sharing

1181
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 2: what I'm reading or whatever on the show. But that's

1182
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 2: for the show really, you know. But if you guys

1183
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 2: want to be my friends on my own good Reads,

1184
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:47,760
Speaker 2: I'll I'll put my profile in the show notes.

1185
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 5: Okay, so just try to remember nobody and.

1186
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 3: Jesus they get it together.

1187
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 2: Br Uh, y'all gotta just rewind to what I said

1188
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 2: I was reading. Come on now, y'all wanted to be

1189
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 2: part of these good conversations. Learn for yourself away. The

1190
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 2: next episode was our recap. Misszekiel was an episode title

1191
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:14,919
Speaker 2: for our recapital Walking Dad Classic R and B lover says, Hello, Rider, character.

1192
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 2: Just wanted you to know how much I love your

1193
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 2: reviews of The Walking Dead. They are both informative and funny.

1194
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of zombie stories, and I only

1195
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 2: started watching for Jeffrey Dean Morgan. I grew to love Micheon,

1196
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 2: Carl and Rick. When then made the inevitable decision to leave,

1197
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 2: I thought I would be out. However, when you guys

1198
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 2: didn't post this week's episode on Wednesday, I realized that

1199
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 2: I enjoyed the show and your recaps enough to miss

1200
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 2: it not being there, So I might just stick with

1201
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 2: the show. At the very least, I'll keep listening to

1202
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 2: your recaps. Thank you, Thank you, Glad.

1203
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:41,760
Speaker 3: You enjoyed those recaps.

1204
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 2: The poe was do you think the Whisperers made the

1205
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: tree fall on Hilltop? Which we found an answer to

1206
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 2: literally that night, So that was a dumb poe question. Anyway,

1207
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 2: some of y'all still missed it, said no, I almost

1208
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 2: have voted Fast said yes. How about Best says this episode,

1209
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,240
Speaker 2: I absolutely cannot stand out of projection in this episode.

1210
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,720
Speaker 2: I hate bullies, and I hate Aaron and Father Gay's

1211
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 2: lack of leadership. A child is bearing the Brunner detention

1212
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 2: and they are just gonna let it happen. Shaking my head.

1213
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: If Terror was still alive, she'd have kicked them in

1214
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 2: the gear. M shit, wasn't tarryor on some other shit

1215
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 2: the last season? Oh no, no, she was. She died

1216
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 2: pretty cool.

1217
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 3: She was still trying to reach out to Ocera side the.

1218
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: Shit she was shaking my head. Guerrera is killing it.

1219
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,959
Speaker 2: And also why the cars separate from King Ezekiel? Yes,

1220
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 2: oh Carol, I'm sorry. Separate from King Zigi. Yes, they

1221
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 2: had six years together, but he was Henry's father before

1222
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 2: she came along him.

1223
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:37,879
Speaker 3: Shaking my damn head.

1224
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 2: Finally, every time I see Alpha, I think of Scenado O'Connor.

1225
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 2: She's a dirty Shnado O'Connor.

1226
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1227
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 3: I love you both. How about Best? Aama says, no,

1228
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 3: I don't think they did did it?

1229
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 2: If they did, I'm wondering how it would make noise

1230
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 2: and the tree scene close enough to the walk to

1231
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 2: the walk for oh the wall, for someone to hear

1232
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 2: hacking or swinging. I feel like this episode was meant

1233
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 2: to make the artists just paranoids and characters.

1234
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 3: And Blue ay.

1235
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 2: Rider says, house way, you're telling me they knocked down

1236
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 2: a healthy tree and didn't draw any attention themselves.

1237
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 3: How, how and what the hell were the guards?

1238
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 2: They didn't see nothing. Maybe Jada's Olidia was hooking up

1239
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 2: the guards of hooking up with the guard.

1240
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:22,919
Speaker 3: Yeah. Maybe, all right, let's go to the next one.

1241
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 5: We go up both walking that episode.

1242
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 3: No, that was just the first one. We got. Another

1243
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 3: one coming on dot com was episode nineteen eight is six.

1244
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 2: As we talked about the lies going around about the

1245
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: Harriet movie, Well, guys, we got two comments classic R

1246
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:45,280
Speaker 2: and B Lover says high ride and care. The hatred

1247
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 2: on Harriet that I saw on folding and wound up

1248
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 2: muting was unreal. The only people I saw counting the

1249
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 2: lies being told were you and Chris.

1250
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,479
Speaker 3: I didn't understand the need to lie.

1251
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 2: And when it then it dawned on me that aside

1252
00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,760
Speaker 2: from the obvious the people who didn't see the film,

1253
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 2: you had the people who went to see the Felm

1254
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 2: and the rage and allowed their anger to warp the

1255
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:05,919
Speaker 2: reception of what they saw. The danger of the latter

1256
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 2: is why I didn't go see Joker. When you are

1257
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 2: looking for the worst, you will find it even if

1258
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 2: it isn't in there, because not enjoying it becomes your enjoyment.

1259
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 3: Oh say that again, sir. This is how you get

1260
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: people who watch a show, a film or show, or.

1261
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: Listen to music years later ask themselves why they hated

1262
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 2: it when it was new They had unaggressed unaddressed anger

1263
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,439
Speaker 2: and made the movie show or so on the focus

1264
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 2: of the fury. Well, I'm not just that. I'll take

1265
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 2: it a step further. Like with the Internet, now there's

1266
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 2: kind of an incentive to hate it because it's more attention, right,

1267
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 2: not just attention, but now you belong to something, correct,

1268
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 2: because they're forming entire communities around hating shit. So it's

1269
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 2: like if I don't hate it, I become the asshole.

1270
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 2: So if I look online and five or six of

1271
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 2: the people I follow that are being very very loud

1272
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 2: about this and telling me.

1273
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 3: Essentially coon movie for coons, well.

1274
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 2: I can't come out and be like, well I thought

1275
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 2: it was good since I have seen that movie. I've

1276
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 2: run into people in real life, like several people at

1277
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 2: this point who keep telling me how good that movie

1278
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 2: was to them. And keep in mind, I'm a person

1279
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 2: that thought it was okay because I liked my slavery

1280
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 2: movies to go full slavery. Okay, that's what I meant to.

1281
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 2: I feel vindicated by that, but I know a lot

1282
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 2: of people don't. But I my man Kwan hit me

1283
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 2: up when I was leaving the theater for seeing Jojo

1284
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 2: Rabbit yesterday and was like, oh, man, movie was good.

1285
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 3: Man, I really liked it. Blah blah blah.

1286
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 2: People was clapping and said, okay, so you know. And

1287
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 2: then my mom same thing. My mom was, I just

1288
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: saw the movie. She texted me say how good it was.

1289
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 2: Fuck these people online, man, fuck them. They are so

1290
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 2: fucked up for shitting on this movie to get to

1291
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 2: Cynthia Revo, like they went from, we don't like her too,

1292
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 2: We need to destroy Cassie Lemon's career. We need to

1293
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 2: destroy all the other actors who were in this joint.

1294
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 2: I saw them harassing other actors.

1295
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 3: In the movie.

1296
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 5: They didn't have nothing to do with it, and they keep.

1297
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 2: Talking about well soon as shit was made up. Why

1298
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 2: are you gonna make this? You know what else was

1299
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 2: made up? Gods, gods, The slave Master was made up.

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00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 2: The fucking Janelle Monnain's character is made up. It's all

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00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 2: made up, y'all. A lot of the shit is made up.

1302
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: That's what fucking movies do. You don't like made up shit,

1303
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 2: read a fucking book, that's it.

1304
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 3: Like god, damn sorry.

1305
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 2: It just pissed me off because you know, the shit

1306
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 2: went on and it was so ridiculous. Having I'm so

1307
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 2: glad I saw that movie before I saw that shit,

1308
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 2: because I probably would have been on there cutting motherfuckers out.

1309
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 3: But you know me, guys, I just started making jokes.

1310
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 5: So yeah, you make a man turn the joke time.

1311
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 2: But that, like they talk about what her legacy deserved,

1312
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 2: it deserved better than your niggas going online and making

1313
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 2: shit up.

1314
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 3: That's what it deserved, assholes. As for the Obamas, the

1315
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 3: attacks on them just made me sad.

1316
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 2: The behaviors of the Twitter finger tribe is literally the

1317
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: reason why we have the president we do. Why do

1318
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 2: anything active and beneficial to the world when you could

1319
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 2: sit in your living room and stut on them?

1320
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 3: Holes? Come on, Yeah, they love going out to the Obamas.

1321
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 2: Every time one of them say any thing, it's it's

1322
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 2: like it was a dude. I can't remember his name. Fuck,

1323
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 2: you know, I don't even want to say his name.

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01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 2: That's it's probably just bad. But he uh, he's a

1325
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 2: writer for this publication and he basically wrote this thing

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01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 2: about how like, uh, you know, well some former presidents

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01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 2: think they can lecture the cancel culture about this, that

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01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 2: and the other. And I said, but that's not what

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01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 2: Obama said. And it was like, he goes it did

1330
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 2: I say he said that? And I'm like, okay, I

1331
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 2: can read you just said a former president. We know

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01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 2: that's the only one who gave us who just talked

1333
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 2: and we and I'm saying he didn't talk about cancel

1334
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 2: culture or like he didn't say that, Like but you

1335
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 2: know what I said, I say, you're right, dog.

1336
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 3: It's my bad for coming over here trying to comment, because.

1337
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 2: You know what the fuck am I doing trying to

1338
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 2: talk to somebody on Facebook? And that's literally a person

1339
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 2: that is one of those people that gets paid to

1340
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 2: be like, hey, this guy's falling.

1341
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 3: Everything is bad. It's the worst.

1342
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 2: We gotta you know, they need the content, and I said,

1343
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 2: I'm being an asshole because I'm I'm coming on their

1344
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 2: page saying it's really not that as bad as you're

1345
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,360
Speaker 2: making out to be. What they gonna say, Well, you're right,

1346
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 2: my bad, y'all, Like, no, they had to write their

1347
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 2: piece or what else. Say you know what, dog my fault?

1348
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 3: Uh you got it.

1349
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 2: And I and I deleted my comment and I won't

1350
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 2: be going back over there because that's my bad. That's

1351
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 2: on me for that shit. But that that was the

1352
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 2: thing I've realized. It's like some of these niggas make

1353
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 2: their bones on doing that. Obama fucking walks in the room,

1354
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 2: smiles and they got to tell you how he drawn

1355
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 2: kids and shit like it's just what they do, sir.

1356
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 3: It don't matter. The truth don't.

1357
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 2: Matter, or the the the context don't matter. So Evie says,

1358
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 2: why do you insist on slandering Arby's. I was at

1359
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 2: Arvey's on Well, Arby's is my Obama. Okay, some of

1360
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 2: these niggas had Obama and they Obama can't do nothing right.

1361
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 3: And uh that's how Arby's is with me. Arby's drown kids. Okay.

1362
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 2: Uh, I was at Arvey's on Tuesday and I had

1363
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 2: to petit for l as sandwich.

1364
01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 3: It was delicious. In the restaurant was full of customers.

1365
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 3: They had the meats.

1366
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 2: Keep slaying the ARV's and I'm gonna send you always

1367
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 2: gift cars for Christmas.

1368
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 3: First of all, ri right right number one? Evee picks

1369
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 3: or it didn't.

1370
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 4: Happen come on picks or it didn't happen like I

1371
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 4: really don't in the pack's it's no picks.

1372
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 5: Did it happen?

1373
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 3: Right? I really don't appreciate you just sitting up there

1374
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 3: lying to us to our face. You know what kind

1375
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 3: of world we live in?

1376
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 5: Your proof?

1377
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 4: I would rather die, no Instagram, live, no faith, but

1378
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 4: we don't believe you.

1379
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, as Kevin Hart said, I would rather die than

1380
01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 2: take those RB gift certificates. You don't believe you keep

1381
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 2: those crusty lie.

1382
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 3: You keep those crusty cupons for yourself. Okay.

1383
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 4: I won't do nothing about potato cakes months every five years.

1384
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't step inside of armies unless I have

1385
01:02:58,080 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: no other choice.

1386
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 3: You may go in there and your other cohort.

1387
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 4: I told my mom, I'll never be like any of

1388
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 4: those negroes.

1389
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 3: Every time I step up in the arbist.

1390
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'll be thinking myself, get out, get out.

1391
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 3: Uh.

1392
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 2: The poe was, do you plan on eating pop Eyes

1393
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 2: chicken salwich? Yes, but I'm gonna wait for a while.

1394
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 2: Yes right away or no, I'm good on that. Karen, Yeah,

1395
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 2: I ate one.

1396
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 3: Shit you did, but you didn't plan on it. No,

1397
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 3: but you got one?

1398
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 4: Did?

1399
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 3: Yes right away? Twenty six percent.

1400
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 2: Fifty three percent says yes, but I'm gonna wait a while,

1401
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 2: and twenty one percent said no, I'm good on that.

1402
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 3: They don't want no pop Eyes.

1403
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 2: Well, nigga, you know what I was in. I was

1404
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 2: in the twenty three I was in the twenty six percent.

1405
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 3: I got one.

1406
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 2: Uh, mom says I was playing on getting one, but

1407
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 2: my husband got me one. I didn't get one the

1408
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 2: first time around. I was annoyed because my husband went

1409
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 2: multiple times and never brought one home so I could try.

1410
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:09,959
Speaker 2: There's only two pop Hours I know of in my city,

1411
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 2: and there both out of the way. He usually works

1412
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 2: closer to that side of town. His excuse was he

1413
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 2: wouldn't want me to get a cold salwach like warming

1414
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 2: things up isn't the thing.

1415
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1416
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, you gotter fucking throw that shit

1417
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 2: in the microwave for thirty seconds.

1418
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 5: Lol.

1419
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 2: So I was surprised when we actually got in line

1420
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,920
Speaker 2: Sunday and brought three, one for him, his mom and me.

1421
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 3: I was good, it was good.

1422
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 2: I can say it's better that. I can't say it's

1423
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 2: better Chick fil a, but it's better than Wendy's. Their

1424
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 2: col slaw is good, and if you put it on

1425
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 2: the sandwich, then the salwach is better than Chick fil A's.

1426
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 2: I didn't even know about that. I've been hearing stuff

1427
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 2: about dipping sauces and stuff me do. I just ate

1428
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 2: it the way it comes with them pickles too, so good.

1429
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 2: Amber says, I'm so happy I finally got one two

1430
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 2: of them sandwiches. The first time they came out, I

1431
01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 2: drove to two or three different Popey's.

1432
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:00,439
Speaker 3: They were all sold out.

1433
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 2: This time, I went to Pope's around eleven, and yes

1434
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 2: they were there was already a line, shaking my head,

1435
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 2: but I got my sandwich, got the spicy version.

1436
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 3: It was yummy.

1437
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 2: Fabiola says, I actually never had Popeyes before and I

1438
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 2: lived within walking This is the one maybe five minutes

1439
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 2: anytime I tell people all that I'm close to one

1440
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 2: and never had it. It's like I was cussing out

1441
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 2: their favorite cousin. I figure, I don't need to be

1442
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 2: addicted to another fast food business.

1443
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 3: My pockets, arteries, and overall health will thank me.

1444
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:27,439
Speaker 2: Well, good luck. It's just one sandwich. But I see

1445
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 2: what you're saying, like the first hits free. Maybe you

1446
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 2: gonna eat the sandwich?

1447
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 3: They say, you know to be in the parking line,

1448
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:35,040
Speaker 3: Like I just need chicken sandwiches.

1449
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:36,240
Speaker 5: Manna open up.

1450
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 3: Right, hurry up, be outside scratching your neck? What car

1451
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 3: gets already? Scratch your neck?

1452
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 2: I want to know what that's about. John says, I

1453
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 2: had one of the first on the first go around.

1454
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 2: If you like Popeyes, then you can taste this at

1455
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 2: the essence of Popeyes and the sandwich. And it's a

1456
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 2: nice size filet with the flaked crunch compared to the

1457
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 2: Chick fil A salwich, which usually smaller and that has

1458
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 2: that pressure cooker fried bready.

1459
01:05:59,440 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 3: It's not.

1460
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,720
Speaker 2: It's not as wide as a bo Jago Cajun fil a,

1461
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:05,919
Speaker 2: but nice size and the bread of sauce is good.

1462
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1463
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 2: I feel like the first pop Out sandwich I got

1464
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:10,840
Speaker 2: that motherfucking Fila was so big.

1465
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 3: I was like, is this Church of Chicken? Like, what

1466
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 3: kind of fucking filay is this?

1467
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 2: But then the next one I got, I felt like

1468
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 2: it was It wasn't that big. So our next episode

1469
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 2: was nineteen eighty seven Walk Like You're Free. We didn't

1470
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 2: get any comments and no comments on the pole, so

1471
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 2: that's cool. Uh do you think Summer Walker is really

1472
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:37,480
Speaker 2: done with the pole? Yes, she's done forever. No, she'll

1473
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 2: be back here, see me back all right. Eighty six

1474
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 2: percent of the audience agrees to you.

1475
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 3: Fourteen percent thinks she is done forever. That baby, that

1476
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 3: poor baby. All right, let's see.

1477
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 2: Then we had episode Petted nineteen eighty eight, Petty LaBelle

1478
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 2: because Patty said she's gonna be a movie about her haters,

1479
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 2: all the women as all the women in the industry.

1480
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 3: That's ever slighter.

1481
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 5: Hush, I can't wait. You can be naming all that

1482
01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 5: nineteen eighty stars.

1483
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 2: You got two comments Ramsey puss it by puss it both. Okay,

1484
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 2: I am listening to this episode. That worked, this am

1485
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: thank you both for providing your insights and opinion on

1486
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 2: black women dating, et cetera. I'm cool with people dating

1487
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 2: and loving all whomever they choose you two continued to

1488
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 2: be a couple of inspirations for our stars.

1489
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 5: Thank you you.

1490
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's always a hard conversation to have because so

1491
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 2: many agendas, man, so much pain that's been done between

1492
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 2: just black men and black women.

1493
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,480
Speaker 5: That it's.

1494
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:40,040
Speaker 3: It's one of the.

1495
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 2: Few things that really makes me sad, you know, like

1496
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 2: even when it's just like you go to Thanksgiving and

1497
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 2: your aunts and uncles just arguing over some bullshit, and

1498
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 2: you're just like, damn, this shit broke down the gender

1499
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 2: lines quick as fuck, you know, even he says, I

1500
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,439
Speaker 2: laughed and laughed at that skim and ass bride when

1501
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 2: you do your white woman voice ride. I laughed so

1502
01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 2: hard my stomach hurts. There are so many Rizilla stories

1503
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 2: out there. This would be such a funny segment if

1504
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 2: you ever thought about in the future. Either way, it's

1505
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 2: such a treat when you read these stories. Yeah, out

1506
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 2: for a while, I was saving articles, and then people

1507
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 2: were sending some of them to me. But I think

1508
01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 2: after summer, like wedding, shit dies down, and then also

1509
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 2: some of the stuff is like not enough of their voice,

1510
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 2: So like you need a good long Facebook post, Yeah,

1511
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 2: you need something from their respective you can't just have

1512
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 2: guests being like she did this, So it's like a

1513
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 2: it's a fine line to catch it. That would be

1514
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 2: a dope website for somebody to start. It was just

1515
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 2: like a you know, all these anonymous bride posts.

1516
01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:39,760
Speaker 3: I think Reddit has a Reddit form for it.

1517
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,839
Speaker 2: But like I said, they're not always the long Facebook

1518
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 2: grants that I need.

1519
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 3: Get my white girl on.

1520
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 2: Would you work in fast food industry if they raised

1521
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:50,759
Speaker 2: men on wage to a livable wage?

1522
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 3: Yes? I consider it? Or no, I'm good.

1523
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 5: Oh I'm old, Now I'm good.

1524
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 2: Y'all also say no, I'm good. And that's my fucking point.

1525
01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 2: That work is hard and don't nobody want to do it?

1526
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 2: So the idea of not paying no motherfuckers no money.

1527
01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 3: Is stupid to me.

1528
01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:12,439
Speaker 2: I thought America is aout paying people who work the hardest.

1529
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 3: Oh, I guess, jokes on me. Capitalism, you know what

1530
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:16,639
Speaker 3: I mean?

1531
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 2: Like that, like everyone believes in that shit until you

1532
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 2: bring up fast food workers.

1533
01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 3: Then it's like that easy ass job. Nigga, I've done

1534
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 3: that job.

1535
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 2: It ain't easy and I ain't going back unless I

1536
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 2: motherfucking have to.

1537
01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 4: Nope, and I've a waitress and forget about two dollars

1538
01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 4: thirteen cent alve on your feet.

1539
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 5: Your sweatings hot.

1540
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:40,760
Speaker 4: They're a nasty as customers, customers with attitudes, customers who

1541
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 4: think you're stupid.

1542
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 5: Racism, fuck that.

1543
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 2: And I'm not even talking about just waitressing jobs, which

1544
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 2: is another category of mental wage. But I've also worked

1545
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:54,839
Speaker 2: in Wendy's and fucking uh McDonald's and shit dog. That's

1546
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 2: you're literally making minimum wage and you're dealing with like

1547
01:09:58,160 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 2: being treated like shit.

1548
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:04,280
Speaker 3: Ah, I'm good. Anyway, we got four comments.

1549
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 2: Eighty percent said they wouldn't do it, by the way,

1550
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 2: and twenty percent say they consider it. Alicia says retailing

1551
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 2: fast for the two industries I will never work in again.

1552
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 2: People are such assholes to the workers for no good

1553
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:15,880
Speaker 2: reason and measure.

1554
01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:17,160
Speaker 3: It usually expects you to take it.

1555
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 2: I worked at Chick fil A in high school, and man,

1556
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:21,559
Speaker 2: even though well meaning white people are getting nasty about

1557
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 2: their food.

1558
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that the power trip that you know.

1559
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 4: I know.

1560
01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 2: My friend ray Sani was kind of talking to me

1561
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:34,560
Speaker 2: about it on Twitter, and I'm not saying she's wrong necessarily,

1562
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:38,879
Speaker 2: but I'm trying to make a connection between this idea

1563
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 2: of like people.

1564
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:41,600
Speaker 3: Had these big broad ideas of capitalism.

1565
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: Right, Billionaires are bad, corporations are bad.

1566
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 3: Things of this nature.

1567
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 2: I don't disagree. I feel them though, that lots of

1568
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 2: mouthfeasings and.

1569
01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 3: Greed and shit.

1570
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 2: But then there's also something inside of me that sees

1571
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 2: like a person stabbs somebody to death over a skipping

1572
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 2: line at Popeye's and just the fact that there's a

1573
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,800
Speaker 2: huge line that Popey's because of this chicken Salwach coming back,

1574
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,520
Speaker 2: like the consumerism that we are trafficking.

1575
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 4: Now.

1576
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 2: I'm not saying this is I'm not making a race thing.

1577
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 2: I'm not saying new or over trickens. No, I don't care.

1578
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,680
Speaker 2: It could be Kanye's hues, it could be it could

1579
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 2: be whatever fucking thing it is. But it's something inside

1580
01:11:20,360 --> 01:11:25,960
Speaker 2: of people that has this like, I don't know, man,

1581
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 2: it's something not right about the way we flex when

1582
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 2: we get a little power, like we always make it

1583
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 2: seem like the working poor and the lower class and

1584
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 2: middle class people are that's where all the American values lie.

1585
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 2: And I'm like, but they people too, so they just

1586
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 2: don't have an opportunity to abuse as often as much

1587
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:48,880
Speaker 2: and as many.

1588
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 3: Right, But the.

1589
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 2: Ability and the propensity to abuse is about power dynamics

1590
01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:59,679
Speaker 2: and having work in situations where I'm not the one

1591
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:02,719
Speaker 2: in because I'm making five dollars of twenty five cents

1592
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 2: and I'm fifteen and I'm working in register at McDonald's.

1593
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:08,800
Speaker 2: You have these experiences where like, you can tell this

1594
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 2: person they could be a fucking janitor, they could be

1595
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 2: also a minimum wage work of some type, right, but.

1596
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 3: Let you fuck up.

1597
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 2: They friars and now they're throwing something at you. You know,

1598
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 2: now they want to physically assault you. Now they're threatening

1599
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 2: the fifteen year old with with death over a fucking

1600
01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:25,599
Speaker 2: salad at Wendy's.

1601
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 3: Like that kind of thing. I don't know.

1602
01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 2: There's something in it that I'm just like, that's in everybody,

1603
01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 2: that's in the enough people that we should all be like, damn,

1604
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 2: people are fucked up. I think that's how I like,

1605
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 2: I don't think anything's wrong with people whose class politics

1606
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:42,840
Speaker 2: is like, yo, we need to make sure the rich

1607
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 2: people pay that fast shirt. They'll definitely agree. But it's

1608
01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:48,800
Speaker 2: also something that's like, well, because rich people are evil

1609
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:50,639
Speaker 2: and everybody else is good, And I'm like, no, you're

1610
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 2: just not rich, correct, You just rich just don't have

1611
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 2: the money to power your fucked upness, but everybody fucked

1612
01:12:57,520 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 2: up in some type of way. But yeah, I'll never

1613
01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:03,679
Speaker 2: look at people to like having worked that job. I'll

1614
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:07,600
Speaker 2: never look at people, uh, the way that like politicians

1615
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:10,519
Speaker 2: and shit talk about like, you know, poor people and

1616
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:12,559
Speaker 2: middle class people. I'm like, you mean the motherfuckers that

1617
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 2: fucking threw shit at me because an ice cream machine

1618
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 2: was broke.

1619
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 3: I don't know, like I'm good on them too.

1620
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, motherfuckers that flipped out of a restaurant because he

1621
01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:22,240
Speaker 4: ran out of fucking milk, Like you don't run out

1622
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 4: of shit at their house.

1623
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 2: I say, be fair because everybody ain't shit. Not be

1624
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:27,719
Speaker 2: fair because these people are better than these other people

1625
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 2: are worse.

1626
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 3: Like no, all, y'all.

1627
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 2: Niggas really ain't shit if we get down to it,

1628
01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 2: you know, like just because you two broke to fucking

1629
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:39,960
Speaker 2: abuse some Amazon workers employees doesn't mean you're not too

1630
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 2: broke to go home and beat your children or whatever

1631
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 2: the fuck kind of shit you get into. Come on, uh,

1632
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 2: but yeah, I just remember that, like, oh you forgot

1633
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 2: my ketchup, all right, no problem, motherfucker ill fuck you?

1634
01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 3: Oh shit, okay, okay.

1635
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 2: And I had an old man that used to move

1636
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:58,160
Speaker 2: his ditches around with his tongue when he was trying

1637
01:13:58,160 --> 01:13:59,360
Speaker 2: to decide what the order is.

1638
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 3: But I will encourage my kids to work a Chick

1639
01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 3: fil A so they.

1640
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 2: Could come home with some free food wiki face or cold,

1641
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 2: because they can get the best employee decount discounts. You know,

1642
01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 2: niggas always got to get the hookup when they work.

1643
01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 2: When you work someone, yeah, they don't they And man.

1644
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 3: Let me go ahead throw pound a bag. Nigga am

1645
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:20,160
Speaker 3: in high school? What are you doing? I need this job,

1646
01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 3: Amm says, No.

1647
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 2: I already know I wouldn't be able to do it,

1648
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 2: which is why I always try to be nicer service workers.

1649
01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 3: And I hate tipping. Coach in America.

1650
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 2: I'll pay for food the services if I didn't have

1651
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 2: to tip, because it makes me feel super awkward.

1652
01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:34,080
Speaker 3: It's like playing a horrible.

1653
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:35,639
Speaker 2: Game of what do you? What do I think You're worth?

1654
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 2: By Wayne Brady. I know other people reveling those type

1655
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 2: of interactions, but I don't. It's so funny when you

1656
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 2: mentioned some service being rude, because that's how it is.

1657
01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:46,559
Speaker 2: In Paris, we went to this famous hot chocolate place

1658
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:49,240
Speaker 2: called Angelina's and the waiters are so snooty to everyone.

1659
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 2: They treat customers like they should be lucky that they

1660
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 2: got to taste the food.

1661
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,720
Speaker 3: Lol. But you know what, we didn't have to do

1662
01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 3: tip them. Same with England.

1663
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 2: We try to tip this lady at the noodle shop

1664
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,639
Speaker 2: because she was so lovely and wonderful server.

1665
01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 3: She looked so confused slightly, and so that said, we

1666
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 3: don't tip here. It was great.

1667
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 2: People provide a stellar service because they just want you

1668
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 2: to come back, not because they're worried about the tip.

1669
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 2: The same should go for fast food workers. They always

1670
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 2: look stressed and grumpy, except Chick fil A workers.

1671
01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:15,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1672
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 2: Also the other thing too with that is uh, people

1673
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:20,719
Speaker 2: power trip off tipping.

1674
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:23,799
Speaker 3: I wish they would abolish tipping because.

1675
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 4: It is one of the reason why so many people

1676
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 4: protest that shit. Get fucking get rid of it, get

1677
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:28,799
Speaker 4: rid of.

1678
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 3: It and their assholes.

1679
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 2: And yeah, someone asked in the chat room that I

1680
01:15:32,600 --> 01:15:35,240
Speaker 2: see the McDonald's manager that through the blender at the customer.

1681
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 3: Yeah I did. Uh.

1682
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:41,000
Speaker 2: My man Randolph Terrence on three yuys on this adamant

1683
01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 2: that that shouldn't that woman, that manager shouldn't have thrown

1684
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:48,400
Speaker 2: that through that Uh that that that blender at that

1685
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 2: customer and uh, yeah, I disagree because that customer was

1686
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 2: throwing ship at that fucking staff and cussing everybody out,

1687
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 2: and uh, don't start no smoke, won't be no smoke.

1688
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:08,799
Speaker 2: I thought we all understood that one. What the fuck, dog,

1689
01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 2: Stop showing your ass at people, because then you think

1690
01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:14,240
Speaker 2: they're not human because they had work, Like, yeah, you

1691
01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 2: and that manager lost their job. I'm not saying they

1692
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:17,720
Speaker 2: should be able to just come back to work the

1693
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 2: next day. That is pretty fucking aggressive to do that.

1694
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 2: But Nah, there's no rules to this shit.

1695
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 3: In life.

1696
01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 2: You can't just fuck people up and fuck with people

1697
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:29,200
Speaker 2: and expect them to be like, well, I have the

1698
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 2: uniform and I make seven seventy five, so I'm just

1699
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,680
Speaker 2: gonna hold my hands. Nigg you could get all the

1700
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,640
Speaker 2: smoke and this idea of the appropriate response to some bullshit.

1701
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 3: Hey dog, that's why you leave people the fuck alone.

1702
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 3: I hate that shit. That's a big thing.

1703
01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 2: I hate these people that do shit and then want

1704
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:48,720
Speaker 2: a measured response to the.

1705
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 3: Infraction they did.

1706
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:53,720
Speaker 2: Nah, that's why you shouldn't have done the foul shit

1707
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 2: in the first place. This isn't the police pulling you

1708
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 2: over for speeding and then beating your ass out of

1709
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 2: the car, like, nah, this is you coming to fucking

1710
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:03,880
Speaker 2: McDonald's throwing shit at people because you mad you had

1711
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:05,599
Speaker 2: to wait for some food or some they got your.

1712
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:08,559
Speaker 3: Order on and you found out the way that a.

1713
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 2: Lot of people find out that those are people too.

1714
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:13,960
Speaker 2: People gotta calm down, man, And.

1715
01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:15,559
Speaker 4: You know what, some people don't give a fuck about

1716
01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:16,960
Speaker 4: the loud and don't give a fuck that you have

1717
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 4: god damn customer and don't give a fuck about losing

1718
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 4: their job.

1719
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you don't know who you're gonna cross it,

1720
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 2: don't care listen, And I look, I love Randolph like

1721
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 2: a brother, but let one of y'all motherfuckers roll up

1722
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 2: on him with some ship and think he won't knock

1723
01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 2: your ass out and not think about that shit twice.

1724
01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 2: Come on now, come on now, like that's my man,

1725
01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:37,240
Speaker 2: But come on now, bring that smoke and seat he

1726
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:39,560
Speaker 2: hit you with all that pent up racism.

1727
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna be and he be boxing this shit too.

1728
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:46,280
Speaker 3: He will whoop your asd.

1729
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:49,600
Speaker 5: Man. This nigga fit a personal trainer. He'll be be

1730
01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 5: at there like that like an anime talking about do

1731
01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 5: you know if I hit you in this spot, you

1732
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:54,960
Speaker 5: will pass it for three seconds.

1733
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:58,080
Speaker 3: They're not gonna be like uh like rand I'm not well.

1734
01:17:58,120 --> 01:17:59,800
Speaker 2: All they did was fit on me, So I felt

1735
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 2: the appropriate responses to spit back. No, you're gonna knock

1736
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:04,560
Speaker 2: your ass off and be like you shit the bothers me.

1737
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:06,280
Speaker 2: You know why you got here with a blender, because

1738
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 2: that's the closest thing that was to me.

1739
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 3: You could have got here with a cash register like

1740
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 3: you just you got hit with what was around.

1741
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:15,920
Speaker 2: Now leave people alone when they had worked, Amber says,

1742
01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 2: I worked in fast food and retail of high school

1743
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:20,439
Speaker 2: and college, and when I say never again, I had

1744
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 2: a manager who used the motto, if you got time

1745
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 2: to lean, you got time to clean. I just I

1746
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:31,639
Speaker 2: rolled reflexively. Fifteen dollars still ain't enough. John says fast

1747
01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:33,680
Speaker 2: food my first job on to twenty five years ago.

1748
01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,080
Speaker 2: It's hard, honest work. But I had some burns that

1749
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 2: only faded in the last ten years. Lunch rushes that sucked,

1750
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 2: and it took a decade before I could stand to

1751
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:43,920
Speaker 2: eat food from that place again. Oh yeah, I used

1752
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:46,080
Speaker 2: to throw up McDonald's every day. I had to stop

1753
01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 2: eating it. They'd be like, oh, you want me what

1754
01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 2: you're getting on your break? I think nothing. You don't

1755
01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 2: wanna get my contents and my stomach inside my stomach. Fuck,

1756
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:58,400
Speaker 2: I don't want I don't want your soda. I don't

1757
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 2: want your fucking It took so long for I can

1758
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:01,720
Speaker 2: eat McDonald's.

1759
01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 3: The smell of the.

1760
01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 2: Grease and the food that just sticks with you and

1761
01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 2: you eat so much of it till you can't stand it.

1762
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:09,719
Speaker 3: But it was fun. Well, you know it's funny. Wendy

1763
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:10,680
Speaker 3: never did that to me.

1764
01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:13,799
Speaker 2: Wendy's actually got That's why I still fuck with Wendy's

1765
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 2: to this day.

1766
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 3: Wendy's food is still good. Fuck with your herd.

1767
01:19:16,680 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 2: I still fold that splice chicken sandwich extra pickles.

1768
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 3: But it was fun.

1769
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 2: We were cooks and we were back there rapping, dancing

1770
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 2: our way and cool, et cetera. Well, that depends on

1771
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 2: which manager was on stuff. They're always one, at least

1772
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 2: as a killjoy. Yeah, have some bad managers too. I'm

1773
01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 2: not even gonna tell the Wendy story, but it's bad.

1774
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:42,439
Speaker 3: I don't want to bring the show down. All right,

1775
01:19:42,560 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 3: Let's get into the next episode. So that was Petty LaBelle.

1776
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 2: Then we had the return of the Back Yes, which

1777
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:57,599
Speaker 2: was our knee end episode of the Walking Dairy cap.

1778
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 2: We only had two common on this thing, as my

1779
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 2: computers sloan to get to these comments. Three comments, okay, three,

1780
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 2: it's been updated. Ama says, I know how Karen. I

1781
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 2: love how Karen Key's changing the number of kids.

1782
01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 3: Jerry and the Bill are have.

1783
01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 5: You the changes?

1784
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:19,160
Speaker 4: One day she walk out, there be three and that's

1785
01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:21,599
Speaker 4: stay she walk out there? How many kids they got?

1786
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 3: Uh?

1787
01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 2: Harmoni says, oh wow, so you just gonna bash my

1788
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 2: head in with a rock.

1789
01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:29,240
Speaker 3: See that's the problem with y'all. Blue check niggas in

1790
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:29,799
Speaker 3: the epoch.

1791
01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:33,640
Speaker 2: Think you better than everybody, try to have a conversation

1792
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:35,559
Speaker 2: in public form. And now I'm the bad guy just

1793
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 2: because I killed the defences woman a child. Wow, I

1794
01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 2: know you didn't hit the love it you my wow.

1795
01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 2: Last comment, Eve says, the time to kill nigga was

1796
01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:49,519
Speaker 2: when the teen family won the war.

1797
01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 3: That's the thing when about this show.

1798
01:20:52,560 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 2: When a character is around long enough, you come to

1799
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 2: like them, except Henry and I like niggas.

1800
01:20:57,120 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 3: So Aaron, Aaron needs to sit his ass down somewhere.

1801
01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:03,760
Speaker 2: Why don't you hate Why don't you love Henry the

1802
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:04,839
Speaker 2: way you love Arby's.

1803
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:05,960
Speaker 3: That's what I understand.

1804
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 2: Why can't you do Why can't you keep that same energy?

1805
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:11,600
Speaker 2: Syst Maybe they should have named him in Rby on

1806
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 2: the show. That should have been his name of state

1807
01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:14,440
Speaker 2: of Henry Arby.

1808
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:17,559
Speaker 3: This is our son Rby, even with like leave him Limb,

1809
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:19,000
Speaker 3: save him.

1810
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 2: He got the meat team Naghan. I was so glad

1811
01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 2: he killed Brandon. I can't believe this show man. I

1812
01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 2: can't believe the show man, a character almost as annoying.

1813
01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:30,360
Speaker 3: As Henry.

1814
01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:35,040
Speaker 2: Looking forward to Nigan and the Whisper showdown, almost as annoying.

1815
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:39,120
Speaker 2: He ain't never kill no kids, you son of a gun?

1816
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:42,320
Speaker 3: Ev Uh? Did someone save Kelly?

1817
01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:45,719
Speaker 2: Yes, the Whisper Savior, Yes, someone other than the Whisper

1818
01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:48,679
Speaker 2: savidor she saved herself or no, it's just some random

1819
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 2: convenience zombie stuff, Karen convenience zombie.

1820
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 3: Sixty eight percent of the audience agrees with Karen.

1821
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:57,599
Speaker 2: Overwhelming percentage of the artist thinks it was just random

1822
01:21:57,680 --> 01:22:01,799
Speaker 2: zombie shit, nine percent thing he's a Whisperer savidor eighteen

1823
01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 2: percent thinks so one other than the Whisper.

1824
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:06,200
Speaker 3: Savior and not five percent that she saved herself.

1825
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:09,680
Speaker 2: Turk says, Hi, guys, remember when Darryl rolled down the

1826
01:22:09,680 --> 01:22:11,080
Speaker 2: side of that cliff and saved himself.

1827
01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:13,160
Speaker 3: I will say Kelly rolled down the bunny hill and

1828
01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:15,800
Speaker 3: saved herself. Peace hurt. Yeah, I remember that.

1829
01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,599
Speaker 2: That's Crazykarina says Hi Rod and Karen. I think that

1830
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:21,200
Speaker 2: Carol saved Kelly, but she didn't want folks to know

1831
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 2: that she's been whisperer.

1832
01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:22,799
Speaker 3: Honey.

1833
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 2: Side note, I think that Earl and Alden will make

1834
01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 2: weapons regardless of what you Mayo said.

1835
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 3: Blue Way Rider says, Nigga is back.

1836
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:35,440
Speaker 2: I wanted this nigga dead when he killed Glenn and Abraham,

1837
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 2: but people are resourced, even Nigan. Please put a reading list.

1838
01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 2: Please put a reading list on your website.

1839
01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 3: Wow. Another one shout out to Henry Hayden, Irvey Love

1840
01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:47,000
Speaker 3: and Evee want to split some load at Curly Fries Booth.

1841
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 2: Whatever y'all gonna be, y'all go go into that cat

1842
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:53,559
Speaker 2: that cat blood bathroom.

1843
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 3: He's on Fries. I'm good with the cat. The cat

1844
01:22:58,920 --> 01:23:02,639
Speaker 3: heads hitting on the change in the station. I don't think.

1845
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, y'all are too much today. What is

1846
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,840
Speaker 2: happening y'all must have really missed us to be out

1847
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:15,920
Speaker 2: here lying like this. All right, we got one, no

1848
01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:17,679
Speaker 2: two voicemails on the sky.

1849
01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:19,880
Speaker 3: I'll try to load them in the background.

1850
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 2: Voicemail line is seven O four five five seven zero

1851
01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:27,080
Speaker 2: one eight six, And of course leave it two minutes

1852
01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:29,519
Speaker 2: or less because if not, the shit is gonna cut

1853
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 2: you off and then you're gonna be like, damn, I

1854
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 2: got a call back and leave another message to finish

1855
01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 2: my message, and it's gonna be embarrassing for all of us, really,

1856
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:37,360
Speaker 2: but more embarrassing for you.

1857
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:43,759
Speaker 7: Man. This is the Lake grass Hi, Ron and Karen,

1858
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 7: you guys are speaking into my heart. I am about

1859
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:53,360
Speaker 7: thirty minutes into your feedback show and titled Flying Monkey,

1860
01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 7: So I know I've yet to hear more words that

1861
01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:04,280
Speaker 7: I almost one hundred percent agree with this empastic versus

1862
01:24:04,479 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 7: narcissistic versus the people who enable the narcissistic personality aka

1863
01:24:11,320 --> 01:24:15,280
Speaker 7: flying monkeys. Y'all are getting at it and I love

1864
01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 7: every second of it. So let me just get back

1865
01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:18,439
Speaker 7: to listening to this.

1866
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:25,720
Speaker 2: But I just wanted to say thank you. You know,

1867
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:28,680
Speaker 2: I think also for people that have had the experience,

1868
01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:34,160
Speaker 2: it really hit home with them to to hear somebody

1869
01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 2: talk about it because it's like, oh, I recognize this,

1870
01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:41,080
Speaker 2: or I've been targeted by this, or you know, put

1871
01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:43,639
Speaker 2: the words into it. And I like to be honest,

1872
01:24:43,680 --> 01:24:45,920
Speaker 2: I really hope I help people to the apath far

1873
01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 2: because you can help yourself. And and and the thing

1874
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:53,120
Speaker 2: they said that's very typical that a pass is that

1875
01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:56,680
Speaker 2: they love gossip, and they and so a whole lot

1876
01:24:56,720 --> 01:25:00,200
Speaker 2: of this is about being in somebody else's business. And i' me,

1877
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:03,559
Speaker 2: I'm like, either your nosy or you're bored, or you're

1878
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:06,719
Speaker 2: just a mean piece of shit. But they're real people

1879
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 2: behind this shit. Like and like I said, I don't

1880
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 2: I'm kind of like Star Trek. I'll try not to

1881
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 2: fuck with other people's cultures. So that's if that's what

1882
01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 2: you're into. The only thing I'm gonna do is try

1883
01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:20,320
Speaker 2: to remove myself from those type of people and let

1884
01:25:20,360 --> 01:25:22,519
Speaker 2: them do that, because I'm not trying to wait to

1885
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:25,280
Speaker 2: be on the Summer Jam screen because then it's gonna

1886
01:25:25,280 --> 01:25:27,800
Speaker 2: be World War fucking three or whatever. Like, nah, you

1887
01:25:27,840 --> 01:25:29,760
Speaker 2: can you can hate me without me being around. You

1888
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,000
Speaker 2: don't need you don't make that, you know, and if

1889
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:35,320
Speaker 2: you think you can get enough traction and attention from

1890
01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 2: hating me, you'll do it.

1891
01:25:36,360 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 3: I've seen people try it before. Good luck, you know

1892
01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:39,599
Speaker 3: what I mean.

1893
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:42,559
Speaker 2: I'm unfortunately for all these motherfuckers, I'm not that hatable

1894
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 2: of a guy. Not that not that I'm not don't

1895
01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:47,720
Speaker 2: have my own flaws and opinions and shit that people

1896
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:50,759
Speaker 2: don't agree with or fuck with. But yeah, your boy's

1897
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:53,240
Speaker 2: not that fucking hateable. So you're gonna have a small

1898
01:25:53,280 --> 01:25:55,840
Speaker 2: group of people that will fuck with you, but it's

1899
01:25:55,840 --> 01:25:57,720
Speaker 2: just gonna be you and some other narcissts playing. Can't

1900
01:25:57,760 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 2: get a fucking hell over there, cause I'm not doing it.

1901
01:26:01,800 --> 01:26:03,880
Speaker 2: But uh, all right, we got one more voicemail.

1902
01:26:04,080 --> 01:26:05,480
Speaker 3: This was my girl Aman.

1903
01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:11,040
Speaker 8: Him Rogers and Karen Morrow. This is April from Recount

1904
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:14,479
Speaker 8: dot Com. I hear that you are interested in supporting

1905
01:26:14,479 --> 01:26:18,959
Speaker 8: the Green Party in the upcoming twenty twenty elections podcasts.

1906
01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:20,000
Speaker 3: The black guy who Tips.

1907
01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:23,800
Speaker 8: We're just thrilled you mentioned us and would love to

1908
01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 8: hear back from you.

1909
01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:27,840
Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, this is be Month.

1910
01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 9: Y'all feeled me with that Recount dot Com thing, but yeah, anyway,

1911
01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:41,960
Speaker 9: I just want to say, uh, also, the Watchman, I've

1912
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:45,799
Speaker 9: been looking for more podcasts that talk about it, because

1913
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 9: right now only two. I was that like from people

1914
01:26:51,960 --> 01:26:53,600
Speaker 9: that I trust to talk about.

1915
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:57,000
Speaker 7: It, and both of those podcasts they had.

1916
01:26:56,920 --> 01:27:01,800
Speaker 6: Like the executive producer writer on show to talk about it,

1917
01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:05,120
Speaker 6: and I was really like hearing him just go down

1918
01:27:05,160 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 6: the whole line of how his journey of how he

1919
01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:10,840
Speaker 6: came up with.

1920
01:27:12,320 --> 01:27:14,599
Speaker 7: Starting the new series where it starts off.

1921
01:27:15,640 --> 01:27:18,320
Speaker 9: But yeah, but I love y'all.

1922
01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:22,160
Speaker 7: Y'all has a really good fun episodes this week.

1923
01:27:22,479 --> 01:27:28,479
Speaker 2: All right, love y'all, Bye, thank you, mom my bad.

1924
01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:31,160
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to ruin yes the day, so I

1925
01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:33,080
Speaker 3: won't say the name until I played it. I need to.

1926
01:27:33,040 --> 01:27:36,280
Speaker 2: Start saying name afterwards so that because that would have

1927
01:27:36,320 --> 01:27:38,040
Speaker 2: been a good surprise, I would be like, what the hell?

1928
01:27:39,560 --> 01:27:43,040
Speaker 2: And as far as uh the what was the second

1929
01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:45,120
Speaker 2: thing she talked about?

1930
01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 3: God? Why am I drawing a blank? Just now? Uh

1931
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:55,640
Speaker 3: the fuck? Oh? Well, all right, that was it. I

1932
01:27:55,680 --> 01:27:56,040
Speaker 3: don't know what.

1933
01:27:56,240 --> 01:27:58,160
Speaker 2: I don't know why I can't remember the second thing

1934
01:27:58,280 --> 01:28:02,680
Speaker 2: she just talked about. But yeah, I'm glad you enjoyed it.

1935
01:28:02,680 --> 01:28:05,160
Speaker 2: I'm glad you enjoyed the Watchman. Oh, Watchman, that's what

1936
01:28:05,200 --> 01:28:08,240
Speaker 2: it was. I'm watching Watchman. I haven't watched this week yet,

1937
01:28:08,360 --> 01:28:09,920
Speaker 2: but I'm reveal with y'all.

1938
01:28:10,240 --> 01:28:13,200
Speaker 3: I don't want it to become work. That's really all

1939
01:28:13,240 --> 01:28:13,639
Speaker 3: it is.

1940
01:28:14,560 --> 01:28:17,160
Speaker 2: I had to set that boundary because you know, we're

1941
01:28:17,160 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 2: doing the Walking Dead already, and Watchman is one of

1942
01:28:20,479 --> 01:28:22,799
Speaker 2: those shows that has a whole lot of Easter eggs,

1943
01:28:22,840 --> 01:28:24,559
Speaker 2: a whole lot of like did you see this?

1944
01:28:25,040 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 3: Did you?

1945
01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 4: You know?

1946
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:29,760
Speaker 3: And uh, it's not.

1947
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:32,360
Speaker 2: We don't know the characters well enough yet to really

1948
01:28:32,439 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 2: have a lot of good jokes and shit. And also man, like,

1949
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:41,400
Speaker 2: I think I have PTSD from the Game of Throne,

1950
01:28:41,439 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 2: shit and Walking Dead. At this point, I don't want

1951
01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:48,760
Speaker 2: to be around for the inevitable. This show ain't shit

1952
01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 2: like it just happens with all the shows. It's okay,

1953
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:54,960
Speaker 2: it's not, you know. I'm not trying to knock people

1954
01:28:54,960 --> 01:28:57,880
Speaker 2: fulfilling changing their opinions on shows. Shit happens, you know,

1955
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:00,760
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I don't like being at the

1956
01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:03,400
Speaker 2: center or even close to the center of that, because

1957
01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:06,280
Speaker 2: then it becomes about do you share my opinion of

1958
01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:06,639
Speaker 2: the show.

1959
01:29:06,640 --> 01:29:08,519
Speaker 3: And right now it's the love fest, right.

1960
01:29:08,439 --> 01:29:11,719
Speaker 2: It's new it's the honeymoon period. You love every episode

1961
01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:15,800
Speaker 2: you look, I'm not saying love bombit. That's that's a

1962
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:19,720
Speaker 2: narcissistic person trade. I'm saying it's the love fest. It's

1963
01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:22,519
Speaker 2: what not the love it's new. You like the characters,

1964
01:29:23,800 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 2: all the special effects is all dope, and then at

1965
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:28,639
Speaker 2: some point it kind of slows down or you get

1966
01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:31,240
Speaker 2: used to it, and you know, it's just a natural

1967
01:29:31,280 --> 01:29:33,400
Speaker 2: progression of this shit. You know, people did it with

1968
01:29:33,479 --> 01:29:37,719
Speaker 2: a what was the other show y'all loved West World?

1969
01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:40,439
Speaker 3: People do it? Did it with West World? You know.

1970
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:43,000
Speaker 2: The only time you really see a complete love fest

1971
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,680
Speaker 2: all the way through is when the show don't have

1972
01:29:45,720 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 2: a big audience in the first place. So, like, who

1973
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:50,080
Speaker 2: the fuck is gonna be mad about it? You know,

1974
01:29:50,120 --> 01:29:52,040
Speaker 2: who's gonna write in? Or I don't like this show

1975
01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 2: like eve in for the Leftovers, So you're not there's

1976
01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:58,479
Speaker 2: twelve of us watching it that like you either like

1977
01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 2: that all the way through it you didn't you So

1978
01:30:01,120 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just don't want to turn it

1979
01:30:02,360 --> 01:30:04,519
Speaker 2: into work, and it's not my work I'm producing, So

1980
01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:09,200
Speaker 2: you know, fuck them. But you know, we might talk

1981
01:30:09,240 --> 01:30:12,400
Speaker 2: about in the pregame a bit behind the paywall, or

1982
01:30:13,439 --> 01:30:16,800
Speaker 2: you know, maybe Karen's not even watching it, so I

1983
01:30:16,800 --> 01:30:18,600
Speaker 2: can't even really recap it anyway.

1984
01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:20,920
Speaker 3: And I don't want to do solo recaps. Big old

1985
01:30:20,960 --> 01:30:21,400
Speaker 3: thank you.

1986
01:30:22,280 --> 01:30:26,920
Speaker 2: This from Isaac, who says, Hello, Rod and Karen. I

1987
01:30:26,960 --> 01:30:29,639
Speaker 2: hope this is an email. The blackoutsis at gmail dot com.

1988
01:30:29,800 --> 01:30:32,000
Speaker 2: Hope this message find you too well. I've been a

1989
01:30:32,000 --> 01:30:33,840
Speaker 2: long time listening and feel bad i never wrote into

1990
01:30:33,840 --> 01:30:36,160
Speaker 2: the show. I discovered y'all years ago through Twitter and

1991
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:41,440
Speaker 2: Bomani Jones. I was in another state, completing my doctoral program, homesick,

1992
01:30:41,560 --> 01:30:44,840
Speaker 2: missing and c and consistently traveling back from Memphis to

1993
01:30:44,920 --> 01:30:47,400
Speaker 2: North Carolina and needed something other than music.

1994
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:50,120
Speaker 3: Y'all were exactly what I needed. Funny, it could keep

1995
01:30:50,200 --> 01:30:50,559
Speaker 3: me up.

1996
01:30:50,520 --> 01:30:52,920
Speaker 2: To date on current events and Twitter drama when I

1997
01:30:52,960 --> 01:30:54,599
Speaker 2: did not have the time to do it myself.

1998
01:30:54,800 --> 01:30:57,160
Speaker 3: Then I found out y'all review my favorite shows too.

1999
01:30:57,200 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 2: My favorite podcast moment was when y'all had Omg Jenkins

2000
01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:05,400
Speaker 2: and Dragon Vly Jones on the recap Game of Thrones.

2001
01:31:05,479 --> 01:31:09,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, the gees throw and doing big things

2002
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:12,599
Speaker 2: over there. It was the perfect combination for the first

2003
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:15,040
Speaker 2: two podcasts that I ever listened to recap. My favorite show,

2004
01:31:15,240 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 2: by the way, both of y'all shows. Y'all kill a

2005
01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:19,960
Speaker 2: kid in the worst way, like it ain't shit. As

2006
01:31:19,960 --> 01:31:22,720
Speaker 2: a child psychologists, I feel conflicted that those are my

2007
01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:25,680
Speaker 2: two favorite shows, don't they though? Like between Game of

2008
01:31:25,720 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 2: Thrones and Walking Dead, they kill some kids I hate.

2009
01:31:29,400 --> 01:31:31,280
Speaker 2: I couldn't make the live show last year. Y'all ever

2010
01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:34,880
Speaker 2: do it again? I will be there. Throughout my listening experience,

2011
01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:36,800
Speaker 2: I noticed that y'all talk a lot about hypocrisy and

2012
01:31:36,840 --> 01:31:39,360
Speaker 2: contradictions that people have often think about this too. That

2013
01:31:39,400 --> 01:31:41,320
Speaker 2: could be frustrated at times when people don't own up

2014
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:45,080
Speaker 2: to their contradictions. As the Black Psychologists Bobby Wright once said,

2015
01:31:45,160 --> 01:31:47,479
Speaker 2: the only contradiction among Black people in America is that

2016
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 2: there are no contradictions right. White supremacy has fucked up

2017
01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:53,840
Speaker 2: our reality and turned it upside down, so that we

2018
01:31:53,960 --> 01:31:57,559
Speaker 2: sometimes engage in illogical and contradictory practices without fully understanding

2019
01:31:57,560 --> 01:31:58,160
Speaker 2: the contradiction.

2020
01:31:58,520 --> 01:32:00,000
Speaker 3: I think this can apply to other groups.

2021
01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:02,960
Speaker 2: Patriarchal capitalism service the same function as white supremacy and

2022
01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:06,880
Speaker 2: other compliments, and off the compliments white supremacy. I will

2023
01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:10,280
Speaker 2: be using a pseudo name to write in the Show

2024
01:32:10,320 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 2: of the Future, but I thought i'd keep it real

2025
01:32:11,960 --> 01:32:14,160
Speaker 2: with you on the first interaction. Thanks Isaac, thank you,

2026
01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:18,000
Speaker 2: and yeah I feel you on that, Like I often

2027
01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:22,000
Speaker 2: have empathy for black people, even like sometimes like black

2028
01:32:22,040 --> 01:32:24,559
Speaker 2: people that are like really doing fucked up shit, I

2029
01:32:24,600 --> 01:32:29,720
Speaker 2: still kind of have a lot of sympathy for those

2030
01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:33,479
Speaker 2: folks because it's like we've all been so fucked over.

2031
01:32:33,960 --> 01:32:36,680
Speaker 3: Yes, so I kind of just think about.

2032
01:32:36,439 --> 01:32:38,840
Speaker 2: That a lot where I'm like, you know, you can

2033
01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:43,000
Speaker 2: become a full lass hotel because why would you not

2034
01:32:43,040 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 2: believe in conspiracies when what's happened to us?

2035
01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:45,840
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

2036
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:47,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, and all of it.

2037
01:32:46,920 --> 01:32:49,760
Speaker 4: It is a production of everybody trying to deal with

2038
01:32:49,840 --> 01:32:53,120
Speaker 4: how they've been fucked up and impacted by white supremacy, right,

2039
01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:55,559
Speaker 4: and everybody has different ways. A lot of people go

2040
01:32:55,640 --> 01:32:59,639
Speaker 4: fucked on white people, like to the extreme where you go, well,

2041
01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:02,000
Speaker 4: what's the in between you and the KKK, Like y'all

2042
01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:04,040
Speaker 4: are really on the opposite ends of the spectrum. Just

2043
01:33:04,080 --> 01:33:05,760
Speaker 4: because you're black don't make you right and all white

2044
01:33:05,800 --> 01:33:07,360
Speaker 4: people ain't, meaning even in the devil.

2045
01:33:07,520 --> 01:33:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny because people say stuff like the same

2046
01:33:10,160 --> 01:33:12,479
Speaker 2: people that quote. I think it's Audrey Lord who said

2047
01:33:12,600 --> 01:33:15,840
Speaker 2: like you can't. You know, I'm fucking up the quote,

2048
01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 2: but it's basically like you can't dismantle the master's house

2049
01:33:19,360 --> 01:33:22,439
Speaker 2: with the master's tools, which is not true. But the

2050
01:33:22,600 --> 01:33:25,960
Speaker 2: point is, don't try to be like white people and

2051
01:33:26,200 --> 01:33:28,519
Speaker 2: use the things they did the black people to and

2052
01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:31,800
Speaker 2: call that justice. But a lot of people do the

2053
01:33:31,840 --> 01:33:33,639
Speaker 2: same people that quote that shit do that shit.

2054
01:33:34,520 --> 01:33:35,559
Speaker 3: They be like, well, now.

2055
01:33:35,400 --> 01:33:38,160
Speaker 2: We're just gonna flip the racism down the other way

2056
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:39,960
Speaker 2: and we're gonna be racist towards white people and that

2057
01:33:40,000 --> 01:33:43,880
Speaker 2: fixes everything, or you know, I'm gonna be you know,

2058
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be going against people that are what I

2059
01:33:48,840 --> 01:33:51,519
Speaker 2: consider to be privileged. Okay, cool, but I'm gonna be

2060
01:33:51,560 --> 01:33:56,800
Speaker 2: using the methods that they use against marginalized people. Well

2061
01:33:56,800 --> 01:33:59,439
Speaker 2: that's kind of not cool, because that's the whole point

2062
01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:01,479
Speaker 2: they use those those methods are fucked up.

2063
01:34:01,600 --> 01:34:06,439
Speaker 3: But anyway, let's get to the next one. All right.

2064
01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:09,960
Speaker 2: We got this one from Nicole who says I tried

2065
01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:12,759
Speaker 2: posting a five star review for you guys on Stitcher,

2066
01:34:13,240 --> 01:34:15,600
Speaker 2: but it's not posted and they have not responded to

2067
01:34:15,600 --> 01:34:16,120
Speaker 2: as to why.

2068
01:34:16,200 --> 01:34:17,920
Speaker 3: Anyway, I wanted to share.

2069
01:34:17,800 --> 01:34:20,280
Speaker 2: With you and Karen because I love the podcast, keep

2070
01:34:20,360 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 2: up with amazing work and sharing the beautiful black love

2071
01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:26,400
Speaker 2: you two have that radiates from my speakers when you

2072
01:34:26,400 --> 01:34:27,559
Speaker 2: guys are oh so.

2073
01:34:27,840 --> 01:34:30,160
Speaker 4: That's sweet, baby, But check your junk mail because with

2074
01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:31,639
Speaker 4: Stitcher you also have.

2075
01:34:31,640 --> 01:34:33,920
Speaker 5: To confirm and if you don't confirm.

2076
01:34:33,760 --> 01:34:36,080
Speaker 2: Well, she does have a picture of her where she's

2077
01:34:36,120 --> 01:34:40,360
Speaker 2: confirming the review and it's not going through your faith

2078
01:34:40,400 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 2: could never five stars know all the stars. The Blackouts

2079
01:34:43,240 --> 01:34:45,920
Speaker 2: is such a refreshing and entertaining podcast. Passion and compassion

2080
01:34:46,240 --> 01:34:49,040
Speaker 2: Roder Carron had for marginalized people is beyond words. Listening

2081
01:34:49,040 --> 01:34:52,720
Speaker 2: to this couple share the authentic perspective on topics that

2082
01:34:52,800 --> 01:34:55,280
Speaker 2: many don't even dare to touch. Beyond the service is

2083
01:34:55,320 --> 01:34:57,599
Speaker 2: one of the many reasons I listen and they funny

2084
01:34:57,600 --> 01:35:01,920
Speaker 2: as fuck, not no no cussing, but just a natural comedians.

2085
01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 2: I just want you to know because I'm looking for

2086
01:35:03,920 --> 01:35:07,000
Speaker 2: the reason it didn't go through too right, natural comedians

2087
01:35:07,080 --> 01:35:09,120
Speaker 2: who would have thought? Who would have thought? Segments like

2088
01:35:09,160 --> 01:35:12,680
Speaker 2: Guess the Race and FWBP would have me in tears

2089
01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:15,800
Speaker 2: of irritation and laughter, not to mention the Walking Dead

2090
01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:18,400
Speaker 2: recast that are flames to hear Karen's out for impressions

2091
01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:20,680
Speaker 2: alone are reasons enough for you to listen. They are

2092
01:35:20,720 --> 01:35:22,840
Speaker 2: one of the hardest working couples in the podcast game

2093
01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:25,400
Speaker 2: and have set the bar hard high. I can't even

2094
01:35:25,439 --> 01:35:27,400
Speaker 2: keep up with the free content they have, and they

2095
01:35:27,400 --> 01:35:29,439
Speaker 2: have so much more behind the pay wild roder kare

2096
01:35:29,560 --> 01:35:32,880
Speaker 2: thank you for being so genuine, unapologetically black and for

2097
01:35:32,960 --> 01:35:34,839
Speaker 2: share your growth a gift with us get tee success.

2098
01:35:34,880 --> 01:35:39,639
Speaker 3: It's their HBO intro effect because y'all famous. Thank you, babe.

2099
01:35:39,760 --> 01:35:40,880
Speaker 3: We appreciation you the color.

2100
01:35:40,960 --> 01:35:42,640
Speaker 5: I don't know why I didn't post Sweedie.

2101
01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah we don't. Yeah, I don't know either. Man who

2102
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:45,720
Speaker 3: knows hope of it?

2103
01:35:45,720 --> 01:35:47,519
Speaker 5: They'll get it together, hopefully. It's just a little bit.

2104
01:35:47,479 --> 01:35:50,800
Speaker 3: Lay Mike Wright saying, Hi, Rod and Karen.

2105
01:35:51,880 --> 01:35:54,960
Speaker 2: Yesterday I was in my favorite diverse quote unquote part

2106
01:35:54,960 --> 01:35:57,599
Speaker 2: of London. It was a big rail station. At the station,

2107
01:35:57,800 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 2: there was a bunch of police in the space. We

2108
01:35:59,720 --> 01:36:02,599
Speaker 2: walked down to the trains with a dog. They said

2109
01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:04,640
Speaker 2: they were training. They were training the dog. It was

2110
01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:07,080
Speaker 2: a cute little dog, waggy tail and the grin, not

2111
01:36:07,160 --> 01:36:09,160
Speaker 2: a big dog. I'm guessing they were training it to

2112
01:36:09,160 --> 01:36:10,160
Speaker 2: sniff people for drugs.

2113
01:36:10,240 --> 01:36:12,840
Speaker 3: Or something. They were saying over and over. Just walk past,

2114
01:36:12,920 --> 01:36:13,479
Speaker 3: Just walk past.

2115
01:36:13,479 --> 01:36:16,519
Speaker 2: Everyone's walking past, no problem, except for one kind of

2116
01:36:16,520 --> 01:36:20,240
Speaker 2: people who look really scared, namely black women. One black

2117
01:36:20,280 --> 01:36:22,920
Speaker 2: woman actually needed help to walk past a few feet away.

2118
01:36:23,040 --> 01:36:25,840
Speaker 2: It made me wonder what they have experienced in the past.

2119
01:36:25,920 --> 01:36:30,160
Speaker 2: Best wishes, Mike. Well, we all know, at least in America,

2120
01:36:30,640 --> 01:36:32,920
Speaker 2: dogs is on the wrong side of the civil rights movement.

2121
01:36:34,040 --> 01:36:35,720
Speaker 3: I'll never forgive dogs for that. I know a lot

2122
01:36:35,720 --> 01:36:37,639
Speaker 3: of black people managed to get over it. That's fine.

2123
01:36:38,040 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 3: It's just hard for me to get over it.

2124
01:36:39,479 --> 01:36:41,639
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sorry, But every time I look at them

2125
01:36:41,640 --> 01:36:44,080
Speaker 2: trying across the bridge, I'm like, white people was on

2126
01:36:44,080 --> 01:36:45,320
Speaker 2: the wrong side for sure, But.

2127
01:36:45,400 --> 01:36:47,400
Speaker 3: These dogs, what are y'all doing?

2128
01:36:48,120 --> 01:36:51,200
Speaker 2: Literally literally, the state is a saying about y'all don't

2129
01:36:51,240 --> 01:36:52,200
Speaker 2: have a dog in the fight.

2130
01:36:52,400 --> 01:36:57,320
Speaker 3: You know, y'all would y'all y'all had to side with them? Huh?

2131
01:36:57,400 --> 01:37:01,760
Speaker 2: Walk like Your free feedback is from Crystal listen to

2132
01:37:01,800 --> 01:37:03,679
Speaker 2: your show and had to pause to write in sorry

2133
01:37:03,680 --> 01:37:06,439
Speaker 2: so long one. I completely understand your insight about when

2134
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:08,719
Speaker 2: you're in white spaces, it feeling like you don't belong.

2135
01:37:08,760 --> 01:37:11,479
Speaker 2: We live in a majority white, affluent neighborhood, not by choice,

2136
01:37:11,600 --> 01:37:14,559
Speaker 2: just no black people around here, unfortunately, and sometimes I

2137
01:37:14,560 --> 01:37:17,439
Speaker 2: feel so uncomfortable. You could tell people who are genuinely friendly,

2138
01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:21,680
Speaker 2: they make conversations as such. Halloween, my daughter's classmate was

2139
01:37:21,720 --> 01:37:23,720
Speaker 2: trick or treating in our neighborhood. The little girl so

2140
01:37:23,720 --> 01:37:26,120
Speaker 2: sweet and hud Christian and just wanted to talk and

2141
01:37:26,520 --> 01:37:29,960
Speaker 2: just wanted to talk to her. Her family never acknowledged

2142
01:37:30,040 --> 01:37:32,320
Speaker 2: us and just called her name to walk away, Versus

2143
01:37:32,320 --> 01:37:34,880
Speaker 2: another family recognized us and invite us to play these, etc.

2144
01:37:35,520 --> 01:37:38,800
Speaker 2: Totally different experience. I'm an introverted impath. Told my Signefican other,

2145
01:37:38,880 --> 01:37:41,000
Speaker 2: you can feel other people's energy and.

2146
01:37:40,960 --> 01:37:43,599
Speaker 3: Some I just don't. Sometimes I just don't push the issue.

2147
01:37:43,640 --> 01:37:45,880
Speaker 2: Our kids are friends, but I know that we will

2148
01:37:45,920 --> 01:37:47,920
Speaker 2: never hang out outside school, and I'm fine with that.

2149
01:37:48,920 --> 01:37:50,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just have to get used to that shit.

2150
01:37:50,800 --> 01:37:52,680
Speaker 3: And honestly, like a lot of cases like.

2151
01:37:52,640 --> 01:37:55,840
Speaker 2: That, you saved me some trouble, dog, because if I

2152
01:37:55,880 --> 01:37:57,519
Speaker 2: get that vibe off of you, I don't want my

2153
01:37:57,600 --> 01:38:00,080
Speaker 2: kid hanging around your house because something gonna happen and

2154
01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:03,599
Speaker 2: depending on your judgment, you know, yeah, you.

2155
01:38:03,520 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 5: Do something to my kid. It's gonna be.

2156
01:38:05,040 --> 01:38:08,519
Speaker 2: Problems, And it's always that little bit of when you black,

2157
01:38:08,520 --> 01:38:10,759
Speaker 2: it's always a little bit of like it's just happening

2158
01:38:10,800 --> 01:38:13,799
Speaker 2: because I'm black, And no, I never really know unless

2159
01:38:13,800 --> 01:38:16,160
Speaker 2: they're stupid as hell, like that Buffalo wild wings waiter

2160
01:38:16,200 --> 01:38:17,639
Speaker 2: that comes over and tells you it's because.

2161
01:38:17,479 --> 01:38:20,519
Speaker 3: You're black, Like nobody ever does the extra step.

2162
01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:22,960
Speaker 2: Typically it tells you, oh, no, we just don't want

2163
01:38:23,000 --> 01:38:25,320
Speaker 2: our kid hanging out with a black kid. They normally

2164
01:38:25,360 --> 01:38:27,479
Speaker 2: are just like, uh, time to go chat to there.

2165
01:38:27,560 --> 01:38:29,679
Speaker 2: They just don't speak to you or make eye contact.

2166
01:38:30,760 --> 01:38:33,599
Speaker 2: Number two, people are in their agendas regarding these movies.

2167
01:38:33,640 --> 01:38:36,000
Speaker 2: I haven't seen Harriet yet, but saw the we need

2168
01:38:36,000 --> 01:38:38,360
Speaker 2: to protest and not support the movie hotels and told

2169
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:40,400
Speaker 2: my significant other, don't you think it's weird that the

2170
01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:42,479
Speaker 2: movie hasn't even really come out and they already want

2171
01:38:42,520 --> 01:38:45,360
Speaker 2: us to not watch the movie. I saw most of Facebook.

2172
01:38:45,439 --> 01:38:47,280
Speaker 2: I'm not on Twitter up in arms about it. I

2173
01:38:47,280 --> 01:38:49,479
Speaker 2: still am not sure why people don't like the actress either.

2174
01:38:49,479 --> 01:38:52,320
Speaker 2: I saw A Joker and heard of all the criticisms too,

2175
01:38:52,439 --> 01:38:55,000
Speaker 2: and was baffled, like, did we see the same movie.

2176
01:38:55,040 --> 01:38:57,720
Speaker 2: I love Joker and think it should be nominated. It

2177
01:38:57,720 --> 01:39:00,280
Speaker 2: was a brilliant take on mental illness. Although technical, he

2178
01:39:00,320 --> 01:39:03,080
Speaker 2: had a neurological disease, which is a real disorder. People

2179
01:39:03,080 --> 01:39:05,320
Speaker 2: don't stop to think, that's your hitting what's your hitting

2180
01:39:05,360 --> 01:39:07,679
Speaker 2: agenda behind this? No one learned from the Russian box

2181
01:39:07,720 --> 01:39:12,720
Speaker 2: of Trump or Trump's selections. Apparently, Yeah, yeah, he took

2182
01:39:12,760 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 2: the words out of my mouth. And I can't remember

2183
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:22,200
Speaker 2: we cover what Cynthia Rivo did on the show or not,

2184
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:24,599
Speaker 2: but I just remember her having some kind of anti

2185
01:39:24,680 --> 01:39:28,400
Speaker 2: Black American tweets and they weren't like to me, they

2186
01:39:28,400 --> 01:39:29,680
Speaker 2: weren't even that egregious.

2187
01:39:29,720 --> 01:39:30,960
Speaker 3: It's just the fact that.

2188
01:39:32,040 --> 01:39:36,000
Speaker 2: You're the it's the fact that a lot of black

2189
01:39:36,000 --> 01:39:39,840
Speaker 2: people have issues with BRIT's playing black, BRIT's playing Black

2190
01:39:39,880 --> 01:39:45,240
Speaker 2: Americans in movies and shit from the actors as an

2191
01:39:45,240 --> 01:39:48,479
Speaker 2: acting standpoint, and all this shit. I'm not one of

2192
01:39:48,520 --> 01:39:52,519
Speaker 2: those people, so to me, I'm already predispositioned to not

2193
01:39:52,560 --> 01:39:56,959
Speaker 2: give a fuck. But as far as her her tweets,

2194
01:39:57,040 --> 01:39:59,320
Speaker 2: I just don't remember any sticking out to me that

2195
01:39:59,400 --> 01:40:03,800
Speaker 2: made me feel like, wow, man, I believe she said

2196
01:40:03,840 --> 01:40:06,120
Speaker 2: that shit, you know what I mean? Like I want

2197
01:40:06,160 --> 01:40:08,560
Speaker 2: to say, like she said, ghetto in one of the

2198
01:40:08,600 --> 01:40:12,160
Speaker 2: tweets or something like that, like a ghetto American accent

2199
01:40:12,360 --> 01:40:15,599
Speaker 2: or something, and I was like, yeah, that's I think

2200
01:40:15,640 --> 01:40:20,559
Speaker 2: if I had already felt away about her, maybe you know,

2201
01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:22,880
Speaker 2: maybe if you already feel away, then you then you

2202
01:40:23,080 --> 01:40:24,160
Speaker 2: are like fuck her.

2203
01:40:24,240 --> 01:40:27,439
Speaker 3: But I don't know. For me, I just didn't feel

2204
01:40:28,760 --> 01:40:30,599
Speaker 3: I never was that mad at her. Man.

2205
01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:33,080
Speaker 2: But I also didn't grow up with this Africa versus

2206
01:40:33,160 --> 01:40:36,120
Speaker 2: everybody and else black people versus Africa shit Like.

2207
01:40:36,160 --> 01:40:37,439
Speaker 3: I just didn't. We didn't.

2208
01:40:37,479 --> 01:40:39,760
Speaker 2: I didn't know anybody from fucking Africa to feel that

2209
01:40:39,800 --> 01:40:44,440
Speaker 2: way about. And I also never met anybody in Africa

2210
01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:47,240
Speaker 2: until I was in college that seemed to have some

2211
01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:50,400
Speaker 2: type of attitude about feeling better than me, you know

2212
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:50,920
Speaker 2: what I mean.

2213
01:40:52,880 --> 01:40:55,040
Speaker 3: And even with that girl, like she tried to do that,

2214
01:40:55,080 --> 01:40:58,800
Speaker 3: and I was just like, and you know, like it

2215
01:40:58,960 --> 01:41:00,280
Speaker 3: just I don't know, man.

2216
01:41:00,320 --> 01:41:03,439
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times with shit online,

2217
01:41:03,479 --> 01:41:05,960
Speaker 2: you can there's this thing that's happening in real life

2218
01:41:06,000 --> 01:41:08,360
Speaker 2: where it's like a lot of times there are things

2219
01:41:08,360 --> 01:41:10,320
Speaker 2: that could be a problem, but most of us go,

2220
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:13,120
Speaker 2: this isn't really a problem, and we walk away.

2221
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:15,080
Speaker 3: Because it's real life and there's just other shit to do.

2222
01:41:15,360 --> 01:41:17,800
Speaker 2: But then online it's like it has to be just

2223
01:41:17,840 --> 01:41:20,320
Speaker 2: a teachable moment. I'm gonna thread this, I'm gonna write

2224
01:41:20,320 --> 01:41:23,639
Speaker 2: about it. I'm gonna use this example to get sympathy

2225
01:41:23,640 --> 01:41:26,120
Speaker 2: from people and shit. And I'm not saying that's wrong,

2226
01:41:26,280 --> 01:41:28,680
Speaker 2: because sometimes it's what you find backup and support, But

2227
01:41:29,080 --> 01:41:30,840
Speaker 2: I think there's a propensity.

2228
01:41:30,320 --> 01:41:33,240
Speaker 3: To make all shit that way. Everything is a.

2229
01:41:33,240 --> 01:41:37,280
Speaker 2: Teachable moment, and that's to me, that's ridiculous. Okay, I'm

2230
01:41:37,280 --> 01:41:41,519
Speaker 2: looking at the h this article about it. This person

2231
01:41:41,680 --> 01:41:47,400
Speaker 2: was Ebo Peep is their name, and they went and

2232
01:41:47,439 --> 01:41:49,920
Speaker 2: then like they went on a whole Twitter campaign of

2233
01:41:50,040 --> 01:41:53,760
Speaker 2: finding screenshots and tagging it about why we need to

2234
01:41:53,840 --> 01:41:57,720
Speaker 2: boycott this movie. So once again, Harry Tubman's life is

2235
01:41:57,720 --> 01:42:00,639
Speaker 2: an expression of so much that makes avery in American

2236
01:42:00,680 --> 01:42:03,719
Speaker 2: descendants of chattel slavery. So that's that ady os ship

2237
01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:08,000
Speaker 2: a unique people with a unique lineage culture in history.

2238
01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:10,439
Speaker 2: How can you portray her when you dismiss and disrespect

2239
01:42:10,520 --> 01:42:14,719
Speaker 2: unique lineage, lineage, culture and history. So let me read

2240
01:42:14,760 --> 01:42:17,160
Speaker 2: what these fucking tweets say. Sorry, it's taking a second

2241
01:42:17,160 --> 01:42:19,519
Speaker 2: to load. You guys know how my computer does. It's

2242
01:42:20,240 --> 01:42:23,479
Speaker 2: uh it doesn't like dance for war, so my computer

2243
01:42:24,240 --> 01:42:27,639
Speaker 2: know only takes a little bit long, right, Like, oh,

2244
01:42:27,720 --> 01:42:28,920
Speaker 2: y'all really want to know?

2245
01:42:29,600 --> 01:42:31,960
Speaker 5: I guess girl, I guess God.

2246
01:42:33,920 --> 01:42:35,920
Speaker 3: All four the tweets'll all four.

2247
01:42:36,520 --> 01:42:39,679
Speaker 2: That's the other thing, too, is like I'm not trying

2248
01:42:39,680 --> 01:42:42,080
Speaker 2: to but it really be over like four tweets and

2249
01:42:42,120 --> 01:42:44,680
Speaker 2: ship you be like, Nigga, I'm not that mad about this.

2250
01:42:45,600 --> 01:42:48,160
Speaker 2: Like I get that y'all gonna be mad, but damn man,

2251
01:42:48,240 --> 01:42:48,919
Speaker 2: four tweets.

2252
01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:51,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I understand people being mad and upset, and

2253
01:42:52,040 --> 01:42:54,760
Speaker 4: like when I talk, I'm not dismissing that anger, but

2254
01:42:54,840 --> 01:42:57,160
Speaker 4: for the majority of the people, they won't admit that

2255
01:42:57,200 --> 01:42:59,599
Speaker 4: they're just not that mad. They just hear just because

2256
01:42:59,640 --> 01:43:01,559
Speaker 4: this is what the party yet, but they ain't like

2257
01:43:01,840 --> 01:43:03,400
Speaker 4: angry angry angry.

2258
01:43:03,439 --> 01:43:05,479
Speaker 2: And Okay, So, first of all, these tweets ire from

2259
01:43:05,520 --> 01:43:13,320
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen h September, and then the other thing it

2260
01:43:13,360 --> 01:43:18,680
Speaker 2: seems like they're doing is resharing the same for screenshots

2261
01:43:18,720 --> 01:43:24,200
Speaker 2: over and over again, like this is weird, Like this

2262
01:43:24,240 --> 01:43:26,559
Speaker 2: is a so this is what I watched happen with

2263
01:43:27,040 --> 01:43:28,640
Speaker 2: when when jay Z?

2264
01:43:31,840 --> 01:43:33,200
Speaker 3: When jay Z Remember when.

2265
01:43:33,160 --> 01:43:35,760
Speaker 2: Jay Z met with the NFL, And I told you this,

2266
01:43:35,880 --> 01:43:38,799
Speaker 2: that one account called resist Programming that just shared nothing

2267
01:43:38,800 --> 01:43:42,280
Speaker 2: but anti jay Z shit every day, and I was

2268
01:43:42,360 --> 01:43:44,760
Speaker 2: and I saw people retweet it over and over and

2269
01:43:44,800 --> 01:43:47,439
Speaker 2: over and over again, many different accounts, and so I

2270
01:43:47,520 --> 01:43:50,040
Speaker 2: muted that account because I was like, this is stupid,

2271
01:43:50,479 --> 01:43:52,439
Speaker 2: Like this is like y'all are making it seem like

2272
01:43:52,479 --> 01:43:54,760
Speaker 2: this is a much bigger deal than it is in

2273
01:43:54,800 --> 01:43:55,320
Speaker 2: real life.

2274
01:43:55,479 --> 01:43:57,880
Speaker 3: Right, people might not like it. That's fine.

2275
01:43:58,360 --> 01:44:00,280
Speaker 2: Am I walking out of my house and every one's

2276
01:44:00,280 --> 01:44:01,639
Speaker 2: stopping to tell me about this ship?

2277
01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:04,360
Speaker 3: No, because it's actually not that big a deal.

2278
01:44:04,520 --> 01:44:08,200
Speaker 2: But if somebody is retweeting and putting out this anti

2279
01:44:08,280 --> 01:44:10,840
Speaker 2: j Z shit every three minutes, it's gonna seem like

2280
01:44:10,840 --> 01:44:15,360
Speaker 2: a big deal. So this person wrote like, there's a

2281
01:44:15,400 --> 01:44:22,679
Speaker 2: long ass thread of them talking about not liking Cynthia Rivo,

2282
01:44:22,800 --> 01:44:25,320
Speaker 2: and it also looks like part of it is related to, uh,

2283
01:44:25,520 --> 01:44:32,479
Speaker 2: not liking Lovey.

2284
01:44:29,880 --> 01:44:31,040
Speaker 5: All types of dots.

2285
01:44:31,400 --> 01:44:34,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so this one's a picture with Cynthia and Lovey

2286
01:44:34,360 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 2: like standing together or something, And.

2287
01:44:40,560 --> 01:44:42,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is.

2288
01:44:43,880 --> 01:44:46,639
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm a little confused as to how fucking far

2289
01:44:46,760 --> 01:44:51,880
Speaker 2: back this ship goes, as far as like the agenda,

2290
01:44:51,880 --> 01:44:54,120
Speaker 2: because some of the stuff is without contexts.

2291
01:44:54,800 --> 01:44:57,519
Speaker 5: Oh, why why do we need that? Just be mad?

2292
01:44:58,640 --> 01:45:01,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, man, this is some wild shit,

2293
01:45:01,720 --> 01:45:06,200
Speaker 2: all right. Cith the Ribo had tweeted in twenty eighteen

2294
01:45:06,240 --> 01:45:10,840
Speaker 2: in August a podcast that celebrates her heritage. Okay, someone

2295
01:45:10,880 --> 01:45:13,400
Speaker 2: says she literally has a podcaster that Carnethia says, she

2296
01:45:13,439 --> 01:45:15,600
Speaker 2: really has a podcaster that title, but okay, I.

2297
01:45:15,600 --> 01:45:17,960
Speaker 3: Don't Yeah, I don't even know what's it in. Is

2298
01:45:18,280 --> 01:45:19,879
Speaker 3: it reference to is it both.

2299
01:45:19,720 --> 01:45:22,200
Speaker 4: Because they are black people outside of the country, outside

2300
01:45:22,240 --> 01:45:24,520
Speaker 4: of the Waman country, outside of the United States?

2301
01:45:25,200 --> 01:45:28,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I'm just so the show.

2302
01:45:28,800 --> 01:45:30,479
Speaker 2: So the shirts they have is I'm just trying to

2303
01:45:30,479 --> 01:45:31,719
Speaker 2: make God it Oprah proud.

2304
01:45:31,760 --> 01:45:35,920
Speaker 3: I don't know why that would be upsetting.

2305
01:45:36,920 --> 01:45:43,320
Speaker 2: And then yeah, the tweet, this is so wrong. Same

2306
01:45:43,360 --> 01:45:45,719
Speaker 2: people with shout racism and a white man not realize

2307
01:45:45,760 --> 01:45:48,799
Speaker 2: how demonstrate all themselves. It's not new that some African

2308
01:45:48,840 --> 01:45:53,880
Speaker 2: Americans are jealous of what. She didn't even say this,

2309
01:45:53,920 --> 01:45:56,640
Speaker 2: by the way, this is while with age jealous of

2310
01:45:56,640 --> 01:45:59,519
Speaker 2: Africans in the US. Example, this person here, so that's

2311
01:45:59,520 --> 01:46:00,920
Speaker 2: somebody else saying it.

2312
01:46:01,040 --> 01:46:05,960
Speaker 3: And then but the pictures of carneaths of Cynthy and Revo.

2313
01:46:07,400 --> 01:46:09,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot, lot of a lot of these people's

2314
01:46:10,080 --> 01:46:10,960
Speaker 5: ship is like a.

2315
01:46:11,000 --> 01:46:14,000
Speaker 4: Deep, dark ass rabbit hole, and I have to make

2316
01:46:14,040 --> 01:46:16,240
Speaker 4: it connect, and I have to make it make sense that.

2317
01:46:18,000 --> 01:46:19,439
Speaker 5: A meme or the white dude.

2318
01:46:19,200 --> 01:46:21,960
Speaker 4: Turn around with all them red lines and pizza spying

2319
01:46:22,000 --> 01:46:22,559
Speaker 4: him connecting.

2320
01:46:22,560 --> 01:46:24,920
Speaker 5: Will people go this year just fucking crazy? Don't make sense?

2321
01:46:25,040 --> 01:46:26,360
Speaker 3: Okay, I see what this is now.

2322
01:46:26,680 --> 01:46:29,920
Speaker 2: So Cynthia's friends would love you and defended people that

2323
01:46:29,960 --> 01:46:33,120
Speaker 2: were attacking, defended lovey against people that attacked her, a

2324
01:46:33,200 --> 01:46:35,760
Speaker 2: podcast that celebrates her heritage without and so than anyone else.

2325
01:46:35,880 --> 01:46:37,400
Speaker 3: Don't think ignorance is unbecoming.

2326
01:46:37,600 --> 01:46:42,320
Speaker 2: Your comment was purposely this decisive, probably divisive, and luck

2327
01:46:42,439 --> 01:46:45,280
Speaker 2: gave you people who cannot see it.

2328
01:46:45,360 --> 01:46:47,599
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's a I don't know.

2329
01:46:47,840 --> 01:46:50,040
Speaker 2: And then Carneta was finally you might want to take

2330
01:46:50,080 --> 01:46:52,120
Speaker 2: a look at history at Black American culture because I did,

2331
01:46:52,200 --> 01:46:55,559
Speaker 2: I wasn't, I wasn't didn't mack a thing. I invited

2332
01:46:55,600 --> 01:46:57,599
Speaker 2: her to participate in her culture and not dispect mine.

2333
01:46:57,640 --> 01:46:59,240
Speaker 2: She has sold a grieving man on the day and

2334
01:46:59,400 --> 01:47:02,639
Speaker 2: elder he has known for decades died for jokes.

2335
01:47:02,960 --> 01:47:05,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. This might be some Twitter b shit.

2336
01:47:06,439 --> 01:47:09,600
Speaker 2: These motherfuckers might not like each other, and Cynthia was like,

2337
01:47:09,680 --> 01:47:10,439
Speaker 2: that's my friend.

2338
01:47:10,680 --> 01:47:11,800
Speaker 5: You never know.

2339
01:47:12,040 --> 01:47:14,880
Speaker 2: Also, this thread is long as fucked like this thread,

2340
01:47:15,040 --> 01:47:17,920
Speaker 2: this person does not fuck with Cynthia Revo anyway. The

2341
01:47:18,000 --> 01:47:22,479
Speaker 2: fact that this shit was given audience specifically to trudge

2342
01:47:22,479 --> 01:47:24,559
Speaker 2: it back up to be like, don't go see this.

2343
01:47:24,479 --> 01:47:26,760
Speaker 4: Movie, y'all right, and all the shit you're talking about

2344
01:47:26,760 --> 01:47:28,679
Speaker 4: has not a goddamn thing to do with the movie.

2345
01:47:28,800 --> 01:47:30,719
Speaker 3: It's it's just that Twitter agenda. Shit.

2346
01:47:30,800 --> 01:47:34,280
Speaker 2: Man, it's such an agenda, and it's like, when it's convenient,

2347
01:47:34,439 --> 01:47:36,840
Speaker 2: everyone hops on it. If you guys could see this

2348
01:47:36,960 --> 01:47:40,120
Speaker 2: fucking matter of fact, you can, can't. You let me

2349
01:47:40,160 --> 01:47:42,240
Speaker 2: show y'all my screen. I want y'all just to see

2350
01:47:42,439 --> 01:47:45,720
Speaker 2: how much this shit goes back, And much of it

2351
01:47:45,760 --> 01:47:50,479
Speaker 2: is just literally retrading the same screenshots and information over

2352
01:47:50,560 --> 01:47:52,439
Speaker 2: and over and over again, making it seem like even

2353
01:47:52,479 --> 01:47:54,360
Speaker 2: bigger deal, Like she has a bunch of history of

2354
01:47:54,439 --> 01:47:54,800
Speaker 2: this shit.

2355
01:47:56,920 --> 01:47:57,679
Speaker 5: That's what they do.

2356
01:47:58,640 --> 01:48:06,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, well yes, yeah, so okay, So I think I

2357
01:48:06,400 --> 01:48:07,400
Speaker 2: finally reached the top.

2358
01:48:07,880 --> 01:48:11,719
Speaker 3: Speaking of specific city, I understand specific Nigeria. Nope, that's

2359
01:48:11,760 --> 01:48:14,679
Speaker 3: not the top. Jesus Christ, how fucking tweets?

2360
01:48:14,760 --> 01:48:15,000
Speaker 5: Is this?

2361
01:48:15,520 --> 01:48:16,960
Speaker 3: All right? So can y'all see my screen?

2362
01:48:17,320 --> 01:48:19,479
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm gonna scroll down because I've been scrolling up

2363
01:48:19,520 --> 01:48:21,880
Speaker 2: for fucking ages to find like when did this start?

2364
01:48:23,640 --> 01:48:28,439
Speaker 3: So this is me scrolling down. These are the tweets.

2365
01:48:31,560 --> 01:48:37,920
Speaker 3: I'm still scrolling. Hold on, it's loading now. Still scrolling. Wow,

2366
01:48:38,720 --> 01:48:39,479
Speaker 3: still scrolling.

2367
01:48:39,800 --> 01:48:43,120
Speaker 5: Not fun to the point I'm like, who is the time?

2368
01:48:43,600 --> 01:48:46,599
Speaker 5: Maybe maybe it's just me. I don't have the time.

2369
01:48:46,800 --> 01:48:49,080
Speaker 5: My life is busy. I got ship to do. I'm

2370
01:48:49,120 --> 01:48:51,280
Speaker 5: not trying me if I personally have shit to do?

2371
01:48:52,040 --> 01:48:55,479
Speaker 4: Still scroll for you that much time to do this?

2372
01:48:55,840 --> 01:48:57,559
Speaker 4: And odds are you doing it for?

2373
01:48:57,600 --> 01:48:58,759
Speaker 5: Probably for free?

2374
01:48:58,880 --> 01:49:01,520
Speaker 2: Also I've just scrolled up a little bit. Notice this,

2375
01:49:01,520 --> 01:49:02,680
Speaker 2: This is a tech. This is one of the things

2376
01:49:02,720 --> 01:49:05,120
Speaker 2: I talk about, these techniques they use. So this picture

2377
01:49:05,160 --> 01:49:08,599
Speaker 2: with her and lovey, right, there's a picture there, here's

2378
01:49:08,760 --> 01:49:12,280
Speaker 2: here's the same picture later like they do ship like this.

2379
01:49:12,439 --> 01:49:15,719
Speaker 2: It's just the same tweets, the same pictures like hate

2380
01:49:15,720 --> 01:49:16,719
Speaker 2: this person, hate person.

2381
01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:18,840
Speaker 3: And of course people that will latch onto it.

2382
01:49:18,840 --> 01:49:23,040
Speaker 2: Because one they need something to talk about, or they gossip,

2383
01:49:23,280 --> 01:49:25,479
Speaker 2: or they got the agenda and now it's time to go.

2384
01:49:25,760 --> 01:49:28,639
Speaker 2: And I'm like, this is the fact that y'all don't

2385
01:49:28,760 --> 01:49:32,400
Speaker 2: like this woman. M hm, you know like that, like

2386
01:49:32,439 --> 01:49:36,160
Speaker 2: it's that fucking simple. But yeah, it's still scrolling, by

2387
01:49:36,200 --> 01:49:38,840
Speaker 2: the way, still have not reached the bottom. It's actually

2388
01:49:38,840 --> 01:49:40,679
Speaker 2: taking a second to load some of this stuff because

2389
01:49:40,680 --> 01:49:44,200
Speaker 2: it's just so many pictures and ship but this is

2390
01:49:44,240 --> 01:49:48,439
Speaker 2: insane to me to care much that much. And of

2391
01:49:48,439 --> 01:49:53,320
Speaker 2: course hashtag American d os that African descent is a

2392
01:49:53,360 --> 01:49:56,760
Speaker 2: slave ship that, as you know, was gonna see what

2393
01:49:56,800 --> 01:49:57,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

2394
01:49:57,680 --> 01:49:59,560
Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, y'all just anyway, I hate that.

2395
01:49:59,640 --> 01:50:03,360
Speaker 2: Wait, joll's time with that shit. But yeah, they refer

2396
01:50:03,479 --> 01:50:05,840
Speaker 2: to that were so fucked up, just were not. They

2397
01:50:05,840 --> 01:50:08,880
Speaker 2: did not bother me. So good luck on to the

2398
01:50:08,960 --> 01:50:10,040
Speaker 2: folks that feel that way.

2399
01:50:10,120 --> 01:50:14,120
Speaker 4: And also maybe people general be aware of when you

2400
01:50:14,120 --> 01:50:16,320
Speaker 4: see this shit, a little bit of research sometimes and

2401
01:50:16,680 --> 01:50:19,599
Speaker 4: think about it and that because a lot of times

2402
01:50:19,640 --> 01:50:22,360
Speaker 4: when people do this, they make shit trend and if

2403
01:50:22,360 --> 01:50:25,719
Speaker 4: you're somebody that is oh kind of just obliviously going

2404
01:50:25,760 --> 01:50:28,799
Speaker 4: through and just like oh and you're just treated or whatever,

2405
01:50:28,880 --> 01:50:30,640
Speaker 4: and next thing, you know, with trending, and you can

2406
01:50:30,720 --> 01:50:31,080
Speaker 4: actually be.

2407
01:50:31,040 --> 01:50:32,439
Speaker 5: A part of the problem. Not realize it.

2408
01:50:32,439 --> 01:50:32,680
Speaker 3: I know.

2409
01:50:33,120 --> 01:50:35,320
Speaker 2: I mean, it's something to talk about. Everyone's looking for

2410
01:50:35,360 --> 01:50:36,920
Speaker 2: something to talk about. So what you do is you

2411
01:50:36,960 --> 01:50:38,640
Speaker 2: find a source of what they're talking about, and you

2412
01:50:38,720 --> 01:50:41,400
Speaker 2: retweet it like wow, I didn't know all this, And

2413
01:50:41,439 --> 01:50:43,639
Speaker 2: then no one ever stops and goes, why the fuck

2414
01:50:43,640 --> 01:50:46,799
Speaker 2: did someone make seven hundred tweets threaded together about Cynthia

2415
01:50:46,920 --> 01:50:51,760
Speaker 2: Rivo in twenty eighteen, Like nobody thought, that's maybe this

2416
01:50:51,800 --> 01:50:54,160
Speaker 2: person's kind of weird, because even if you didn't fuck

2417
01:50:54,160 --> 01:50:55,479
Speaker 2: with her, you know what most of us would be like,

2418
01:50:55,520 --> 01:50:58,240
Speaker 2: as I don't fuck with her, not let me keep

2419
01:50:58,240 --> 01:51:01,040
Speaker 2: posting the same shots and screens over and over and over,

2420
01:51:01,080 --> 01:51:03,960
Speaker 2: the same tweets, over and over and over until everyone

2421
01:51:04,000 --> 01:51:06,719
Speaker 2: gets viled up, and then the fact that resurfaced around

2422
01:51:06,760 --> 01:51:09,800
Speaker 2: this is crazy to me. Monique says, Hey, Roder Karen,

2423
01:51:09,840 --> 01:51:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm listening to you describe your discomforts and walking around

2424
01:51:12,160 --> 01:51:14,400
Speaker 2: your neighborhood and the lack of acknowledgment of your presence.

2425
01:51:14,600 --> 01:51:16,320
Speaker 3: I relate so much to this. I remember in grad

2426
01:51:16,400 --> 01:51:17,799
Speaker 3: school we had a free bus system.

2427
01:51:17,840 --> 01:51:20,120
Speaker 2: My stop was the first and the last stop right

2428
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:22,320
Speaker 2: in front of my apartment, so I pretty much had

2429
01:51:22,439 --> 01:51:26,120
Speaker 2: cart blanche on my seat. Knowing the bus would be packed,

2430
01:51:26,160 --> 01:51:28,320
Speaker 2: I would put my bag down on the floor or

2431
01:51:28,360 --> 01:51:30,000
Speaker 2: between my feet, make sure the seat next to me

2432
01:51:30,080 --> 01:51:32,200
Speaker 2: was empty no matter what. When the bus got packed,

2433
01:51:32,240 --> 01:51:34,479
Speaker 2: white students would not take the seat next to me.

2434
01:51:34,760 --> 01:51:37,080
Speaker 2: They would often rather ask the white person near me

2435
01:51:37,240 --> 01:51:40,559
Speaker 2: that purposely put their bag on the seat next to

2436
01:51:40,600 --> 01:51:43,200
Speaker 2: them to move it so they could sit. There's an

2437
01:51:43,200 --> 01:51:46,600
Speaker 2: emptiness that sets in when that happens. Countless times I

2438
01:51:46,600 --> 01:51:48,960
Speaker 2: could feel my anxiety rising, wondering if I could look

2439
01:51:48,960 --> 01:51:52,120
Speaker 2: scary or bitch you or unapproachable. I definitely have incorporated

2440
01:51:52,160 --> 01:51:55,880
Speaker 2: smiling to my normal resting face, because perhaps my serious

2441
01:51:55,920 --> 01:51:58,400
Speaker 2: face is intimidating. Plus I just have I'm just happy

2442
01:51:58,400 --> 01:52:01,080
Speaker 2: in general, so why not smile. But I'll still get

2443
01:52:01,120 --> 01:52:03,160
Speaker 2: pissed off pissed if a nigga tells me to smile.

2444
01:52:03,280 --> 01:52:06,160
Speaker 2: Ho right, It's like I have to put on this

2445
01:52:06,280 --> 01:52:08,920
Speaker 2: act for everybody so they don't think I'm so mean

2446
01:52:08,960 --> 01:52:09,679
Speaker 2: ass onean.

2447
01:52:09,520 --> 01:52:11,920
Speaker 5: The one time I don't smile here you come not.

2448
01:52:11,920 --> 01:52:14,280
Speaker 2: Even don't smile, But you know then this street harassment.

2449
01:52:14,320 --> 01:52:18,160
Speaker 2: You're scared they invite that shit smile. Oh well, you're

2450
01:52:18,160 --> 01:52:20,759
Speaker 2: a bitch anyway, you know, how the hells. I also

2451
01:52:20,840 --> 01:52:23,800
Speaker 2: remember walking in a cross walk on Cabins at five pm.

2452
01:52:24,120 --> 01:52:26,559
Speaker 2: After five pm, mind you, it's Massachusetts state law that

2453
01:52:26,600 --> 01:52:29,639
Speaker 2: if a pedestrian is on a crosswalk, you must stop.

2454
01:52:29,760 --> 01:52:32,160
Speaker 2: Drivers would stop for the white students, but often I

2455
01:52:32,200 --> 01:52:34,559
Speaker 2: would be waiting for multiple cars in order to cross.

2456
01:52:34,640 --> 01:52:37,439
Speaker 2: I certainly wasn't gonna just look walk across the street

2457
01:52:37,439 --> 01:52:40,280
Speaker 2: because I might have gotten hit. So many times we

2458
01:52:40,360 --> 01:52:43,160
Speaker 2: walked through life and feel so invisible. Yeah, when people

2459
01:52:43,240 --> 01:52:45,040
Speaker 2: try to cross the street in front of the restaurants

2460
01:52:45,040 --> 01:52:47,479
Speaker 2: stuff in the parking lot, it's always weird because you

2461
01:52:47,520 --> 01:52:52,360
Speaker 2: can tell certain people don't expect you to stop. And

2462
01:52:52,520 --> 01:52:56,400
Speaker 2: one of the like, there's a big group that I

2463
01:52:56,520 --> 01:53:01,479
Speaker 2: noticed don't expect you to stop is older women. And

2464
01:53:01,520 --> 01:53:05,400
Speaker 2: a lot of times, like if someone is heavier or whatever,

2465
01:53:05,600 --> 01:53:08,080
Speaker 2: so that's you know, that's when they're like, I know

2466
01:53:08,120 --> 01:53:09,960
Speaker 2: you ain't stopping, you know what I mean?

2467
01:53:10,200 --> 01:53:12,120
Speaker 4: So many people are probably flown right past them that

2468
01:53:12,160 --> 01:53:12,960
Speaker 4: they're like, the fuck I'm.

2469
01:53:12,800 --> 01:53:14,559
Speaker 2: Gonna go out there for They always look shocked and

2470
01:53:14,560 --> 01:53:17,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, go ahead, dude, what the fuck you stopped?

2471
01:53:17,479 --> 01:53:21,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, gentlemen, I'm like, this is the law,

2472
01:53:21,840 --> 01:53:23,240
Speaker 2: and if I would have hit your ass, I've been

2473
01:53:23,240 --> 01:53:23,679
Speaker 2: in jail.

2474
01:53:23,720 --> 01:53:24,920
Speaker 3: But thank you, thank you.

2475
01:53:25,320 --> 01:53:28,439
Speaker 2: Surely isn't dead, I guess, but I'm just literally stopping

2476
01:53:28,520 --> 01:53:32,959
Speaker 2: because that's the lass, right. Thank you for sharing your experience.

2477
01:53:33,160 --> 01:53:34,840
Speaker 2: I hope it gets better for us and we all

2478
01:53:35,040 --> 01:53:38,879
Speaker 2: get acknowledged each other. Thank you, Monique, And uh yeah.

2479
01:53:38,760 --> 01:53:39,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2480
01:53:39,320 --> 01:53:41,160
Speaker 2: The thing I've just made my mind up is I'm

2481
01:53:41,160 --> 01:53:42,960
Speaker 2: still gonna have my black ass out there walking my

2482
01:53:42,960 --> 01:53:46,080
Speaker 2: foux five times a week. So if maybe people get

2483
01:53:46,160 --> 01:53:49,040
Speaker 2: used to my face and start waving or speaking or whatever.

2484
01:53:49,320 --> 01:53:52,360
Speaker 2: If not, fuck them. I'm a pleasure to be around.

2485
01:53:52,520 --> 01:53:56,240
Speaker 2: You are nineteen eighty seven, James Right said the Summer

2486
01:53:56,280 --> 01:53:57,040
Speaker 2: Walker commentary.

2487
01:53:57,120 --> 01:53:57,759
Speaker 3: Hurt my heart.

2488
01:53:57,800 --> 01:53:59,640
Speaker 2: It feels like there are people that want to be

2489
01:53:59,680 --> 01:54:02,160
Speaker 2: star but do not have the same talent and work ethic.

2490
01:54:02,520 --> 01:54:04,920
Speaker 2: It's sad when people would rather tear her down than

2491
01:54:04,960 --> 01:54:07,080
Speaker 2: the work as hard as she does. The frustrating thing

2492
01:54:07,120 --> 01:54:09,400
Speaker 2: about the Internet is it puts the battery in the

2493
01:54:09,400 --> 01:54:09,800
Speaker 2: back of.

2494
01:54:09,720 --> 01:54:11,120
Speaker 3: The hustlers and the lazy.

2495
01:54:11,400 --> 01:54:14,600
Speaker 2: The hustlers are doing it create content entrepreneurship, while the

2496
01:54:14,680 --> 01:54:17,320
Speaker 2: lazy is just eroding everything that the hustles are doing.

2497
01:54:17,720 --> 01:54:20,360
Speaker 2: And both had the same sense of accomplishment. Shaking my head,

2498
01:54:20,400 --> 01:54:22,520
Speaker 2: fam I give Gil Scott.

2499
01:54:22,600 --> 01:54:25,080
Speaker 5: Come on, they both have the same sense of accomplishment.

2500
01:54:25,360 --> 01:54:27,280
Speaker 3: That's a great way to put it. That is a

2501
01:54:27,320 --> 01:54:29,800
Speaker 3: great way to put it. Yeah. And also, man, you're right,

2502
01:54:29,920 --> 01:54:30,759
Speaker 3: there is an.

2503
01:54:31,479 --> 01:54:33,440
Speaker 2: Access on some of the criticism of some of these

2504
01:54:33,480 --> 01:54:36,520
Speaker 2: people that's really about jealousy, and people don't want to

2505
01:54:36,560 --> 01:54:39,520
Speaker 2: talk about that, you know, and like it. That's the

2506
01:54:39,560 --> 01:54:42,160
Speaker 2: way that a lot of people write folks off, like Nigga,

2507
01:54:42,360 --> 01:54:43,320
Speaker 2: they're just jealous.

2508
01:54:43,640 --> 01:54:45,360
Speaker 3: But it's true. A lot of times.

2509
01:54:45,560 --> 01:54:47,360
Speaker 2: I know, I had to slow down on some of

2510
01:54:47,400 --> 01:54:49,840
Speaker 2: the things I was saying and thinking because I had

2511
01:54:49,840 --> 01:54:53,480
Speaker 2: to start examining myself of is it just jealousy? Am

2512
01:54:53,520 --> 01:54:55,440
Speaker 2: I upset that this person's ahead of me in the

2513
01:54:55,480 --> 01:54:58,160
Speaker 2: quote unquote race. They're bigger than my platform than this

2514
01:54:58,680 --> 01:55:00,960
Speaker 2: I had to start thinking like that, And even when

2515
01:55:01,000 --> 01:55:04,160
Speaker 2: I really examine myself and was like, nah, it's not jealousy,

2516
01:55:04,840 --> 01:55:06,880
Speaker 2: I still had to stop and go But how much

2517
01:55:07,240 --> 01:55:11,520
Speaker 2: emphasis am I putting on them? How much more attention

2518
01:55:11,640 --> 01:55:15,120
Speaker 2: am I giving them? Because then it looks like jealousy

2519
01:55:15,160 --> 01:55:17,560
Speaker 2: even when it's not. So I'm just not gonna do it.

2520
01:55:17,640 --> 01:55:20,680
Speaker 2: You know, it doesn't mean you have to not hold

2521
01:55:20,720 --> 01:55:23,080
Speaker 2: people accountab quote unquote if you believe in that bullshit.

2522
01:55:24,160 --> 01:55:27,000
Speaker 2: Cause I'm not sure that talking bad about somebody on

2523
01:55:27,000 --> 01:55:29,920
Speaker 2: the podcast is necessarily holding them accountable. I think accountability

2524
01:55:29,960 --> 01:55:32,320
Speaker 2: comes when you're part of a community and part of

2525
01:55:32,360 --> 01:55:36,160
Speaker 2: somebody you have a relationship with, somebody function. Yeah, like

2526
01:55:36,320 --> 01:55:39,040
Speaker 2: Karen can hold me accountable because we have an actual relationship.

2527
01:55:39,120 --> 01:55:42,320
Speaker 2: But I don't know, some motherfu got on some stranger

2528
01:55:42,400 --> 01:55:45,160
Speaker 2: on Twitter can't hold me accountable. That's just putting a

2529
01:55:45,160 --> 01:55:49,160
Speaker 2: lot of importance on yourself. But anyway, you know, it

2530
01:55:49,240 --> 01:55:51,360
Speaker 2: just made me think about like, nah, I can say

2531
01:55:51,400 --> 01:55:53,000
Speaker 2: that I didn't agree with this, so I don't like

2532
01:55:53,080 --> 01:55:56,839
Speaker 2: this or I without necessarily being personal with this person

2533
01:55:56,960 --> 01:56:00,320
Speaker 2: or coming at this platform all the time, because then

2534
01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:03,600
Speaker 2: it just looks like I'm saying your platform is much

2535
01:56:03,640 --> 01:56:07,160
Speaker 2: more important than mine, and what I have to say

2536
01:56:07,240 --> 01:56:09,120
Speaker 2: is based on what you said today before. That's not

2537
01:56:09,320 --> 01:56:13,720
Speaker 2: that's not me being myself. Preston says Team Bro Walking

2538
01:56:13,760 --> 01:56:15,720
Speaker 2: Down recap. I stopped watching The Walking Dad during the

2539
01:56:15,760 --> 01:56:18,480
Speaker 2: Savior War, but still listening to recaps, they are fantastic.

2540
01:56:18,560 --> 01:56:24,200
Speaker 3: Thanks, thank you, glad you enjoyed. Preston and Steve.

2541
01:56:24,400 --> 01:56:29,120
Speaker 2: Wright said, episode nineteen ninety eight, mispronouncing white names. In

2542
01:56:29,200 --> 01:56:33,480
Speaker 2: case you haven't seen it, it's go oh oh yeah,

2543
01:56:33,520 --> 01:56:38,120
Speaker 2: oh no no no, Steve, Steve, Steve see I love

2544
01:56:38,360 --> 01:56:39,000
Speaker 2: kid pill.

2545
01:56:39,200 --> 01:56:43,280
Speaker 3: Okay, so of course I know substitute teacher ay ay ron.

2546
01:56:43,680 --> 01:56:45,880
Speaker 3: I do this at the I do this at the

2547
01:56:46,760 --> 01:56:48,560
Speaker 3: I do this at the basketball court.

2548
01:56:48,600 --> 01:56:51,720
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm working the list for people signing up, and

2549
01:56:51,760 --> 01:56:53,240
Speaker 2: you know, you call out the people on the list

2550
01:56:53,280 --> 01:56:55,280
Speaker 2: to see who's next, and I'll do something the He's like,

2551
01:56:55,880 --> 01:56:59,360
Speaker 2: but lock a, who is block as Blake?

2552
01:57:00,080 --> 01:57:02,280
Speaker 3: It's like blockee to me. They ain't how you feel,

2553
01:57:02,320 --> 01:57:06,480
Speaker 3: no Blake, you know? So now I love that. No,

2554
01:57:06,600 --> 01:57:09,240
Speaker 3: I can't feel my shit. Yes, it is only sense

2555
01:57:09,240 --> 01:57:09,760
Speaker 3: wal Niggas.

2556
01:57:09,800 --> 01:57:13,960
Speaker 2: They didn't watch. Eric Wright said, hey, you Rod, I'm

2557
01:57:14,000 --> 01:57:16,120
Speaker 2: stow a triatd by your reading list and habits. Thank

2558
01:57:16,160 --> 01:57:18,760
Speaker 2: you for shouting out your current reads. What's your preface?

2559
01:57:18,800 --> 01:57:20,360
Speaker 2: Do you go one book at a time or rotate

2560
01:57:20,440 --> 01:57:23,600
Speaker 2: multiple books at once. I try to go one book

2561
01:57:23,600 --> 01:57:27,720
Speaker 2: at a time when I'm reading, especially long form non fiction.

2562
01:57:28,040 --> 01:57:29,680
Speaker 2: Every once in a while, what I'll do is break

2563
01:57:29,760 --> 01:57:33,480
Speaker 2: it up with like a graphic novel or something really

2564
01:57:33,640 --> 01:57:37,480
Speaker 2: funny and short. But I prefer to do one book

2565
01:57:37,480 --> 01:57:40,200
Speaker 2: at the time. I don't technically read. I prefer audio,

2566
01:57:40,320 --> 01:57:42,320
Speaker 2: but I generally have three to five books in rotation.

2567
01:57:42,880 --> 01:57:45,840
Speaker 2: I like nonfiction for daytime and fiction for nighttime. I

2568
01:57:45,840 --> 01:57:49,040
Speaker 2: don't know how anybody keeps up with more than one

2569
01:57:49,120 --> 01:57:52,200
Speaker 2: fiction story at the time. I probably would start be like,

2570
01:57:52,240 --> 01:57:55,480
Speaker 2: wait a minute, Harry Potter got the Hohore crux at

2571
01:57:55,520 --> 01:57:56,640
Speaker 2: the at the.

2572
01:57:56,840 --> 01:57:59,520
Speaker 3: At the at the Hunger Games, right, I'm like, what happened?

2573
01:57:59,760 --> 01:58:00,440
Speaker 3: Did we get here?

2574
01:58:00,600 --> 01:58:02,840
Speaker 5: No, not the same thing, sir.

2575
01:58:03,960 --> 01:58:06,040
Speaker 3: I like non fiction for daytime fiction for nighttime.

2576
01:58:06,120 --> 01:58:07,960
Speaker 2: To me, fiction at night is equivalent to watch the

2577
01:58:08,000 --> 01:58:10,440
Speaker 2: TV toll I fall asleep, something that I definitely used

2578
01:58:10,480 --> 01:58:10,600
Speaker 2: to do.

2579
01:58:11,080 --> 01:58:13,800
Speaker 3: It doesn't sound like you read much fiction, Nah, I don't.

2580
01:58:14,400 --> 01:58:16,400
Speaker 3: But you read. You do read comic books, Yes, I do.

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01:58:16,680 --> 01:58:18,680
Speaker 3: I haven't Deald in that universe yet. Yeah. I get

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01:58:18,720 --> 01:58:22,040
Speaker 3: my fiction from comic books. Just not much of a

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01:58:22,080 --> 01:58:25,080
Speaker 3: fiction reader, I don't know why. Just never been well, no,

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01:58:25,240 --> 01:58:27,040
Speaker 3: that's a lot I was when I was a kid.

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01:58:27,240 --> 01:58:29,400
Speaker 3: But I don't know. I let that shit go. I'm like,

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01:58:29,520 --> 01:58:32,040
Speaker 3: teach me. I'm like, real life is interesting as fucking

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01:58:32,120 --> 01:58:36,280
Speaker 3: these books. Y'all know this shit. Y'all know the slaver shit.

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01:58:36,160 --> 01:58:38,600
Speaker 5: Was real, and I'm like, what's another spell?

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01:58:39,280 --> 01:58:41,400
Speaker 3: Y'all read about the Hunger Games? You know they was

2590
01:58:41,520 --> 01:58:46,040
Speaker 3: motherfuckers killing cause people because they was hungry. To Karen,

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01:58:46,120 --> 01:58:47,480
Speaker 3: are you still we headed dogs?

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01:58:47,520 --> 01:58:48,120
Speaker 5: I'm here for it?

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01:58:49,120 --> 01:58:51,800
Speaker 3: To Karen? Are you still listening to the Harry Potter series?

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01:58:52,040 --> 01:58:52,440
Speaker 5: I am?

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01:58:52,640 --> 01:58:52,880
Speaker 3: I am.

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01:58:52,960 --> 01:58:55,200
Speaker 5: I took a little bit of break, but I am.

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01:58:55,480 --> 01:59:00,480
Speaker 4: I have really been really loving and I'm almost finished

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01:59:00,520 --> 01:59:02,960
Speaker 4: with the first book. As soon as I finished Listener,

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01:59:03,240 --> 01:59:05,000
Speaker 4: I'm going to purchase the second one.

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01:59:05,360 --> 01:59:07,160
Speaker 3: I begain about a month ago, and I'm now in

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01:59:07,200 --> 01:59:07,640
Speaker 3: book three.

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01:59:07,920 --> 01:59:10,160
Speaker 2: Ironically, back when book one was first released, my high

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01:59:10,160 --> 01:59:12,920
Speaker 2: school started a reading pin pole program. We were supposed

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01:59:12,920 --> 01:59:15,360
Speaker 2: to read books and discuss them with younger kids through letters.

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01:59:15,720 --> 01:59:18,040
Speaker 2: I really enjoyed reading, but just couldn't get into Harry Potter.

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01:59:18,160 --> 01:59:20,640
Speaker 2: I don't think I made it past chapter two or three,

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01:59:20,760 --> 01:59:24,960
Speaker 2: even now, deeply fascinated, entertained by Jk's imagination and creativity.

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01:59:25,000 --> 01:59:27,040
Speaker 2: But if you asked me about specific scenes as such,

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01:59:27,120 --> 01:59:29,120
Speaker 2: I probably couldn't tell you thanks for everything.

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Speaker 3: Y'all are amazing, Thank you, thank you, And that is it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but say it's a total of seven books.

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01:59:37,360 --> 01:59:39,800
Speaker 4: I know because I purchased the whole hit on Manise

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01:59:40,160 --> 01:59:43,280
Speaker 4: and she has I think she may have finished reading

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01:59:43,280 --> 01:59:46,360
Speaker 4: them all a close to finish, yes, a reading girl.

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Speaker 2: So that is it for all the emails and stuff

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01:59:49,600 --> 01:59:52,680
Speaker 2: like that. We'll be back later in the week, of

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Speaker 2: course tomorrow, I believe. So thank you guys for listening,

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Speaker 2: and until next time, I love you.

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Speaker 5: I love you too.

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Speaker 3: One