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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CELO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Parah and Queen's CLO. Sarah writes,

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Speaker 1: my mom and my boyfriend talk on the phone all

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Speaker 1: the time. I've found out he's been complaining to her,

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Speaker 1: and she tells me how frustrated he gets with me.

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Speaker 1: I don't like my mom being in the mix. How

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Speaker 1: do I break up my mom and my boyfriend's relationship.

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Speaker 2: You might not be able to m.

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Speaker 1: You don't think so.

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Speaker 2: You might not be able to they're too close.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Plus I have one. Is your mama fine?

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Speaker 1: And you're asking that because, ah.

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Speaker 2: You might want to consider this.

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Speaker 3: You know I've walked in the house and seen that before.

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Speaker 1: Bet her boyfriend and her mom.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I you know when I was real young, I

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Speaker 3: saw I walked in the house and the girl mama

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Speaker 3: way fine as she was.

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Speaker 1: And so what happened? Then you started what you left?

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Speaker 3: No, I was young, I couldn't. There wasn't nothing I

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Speaker 3: could do. Her husband, I ain't had nothing for him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, when I'm sixteen, this.

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Speaker 3: Man fought No, I'm not finna get quipped like them.

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Speaker 1: Real What was the first thing you said when you

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Speaker 1: saw her mom to yourself. God at sixteen, he's something.

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Speaker 1: So she wants to break them up, though, how does

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Speaker 1: she do that?

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Speaker 2: It's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: They're just gonna stay close and keep talking about her

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Speaker 1: on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you know that's what you got. Two things.

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Speaker 3: You gonna have a conversation with both of them. M

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Speaker 3: don't talk about me to my mama. Mama will not

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Speaker 3: talk me to my boyfriend. And then see how I

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Speaker 3: go if they keep talking and they don't care about you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. That's good advice, all right. This

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Speaker 1: is from Robin Burbank. Rob says, my girlfriend of almost

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Speaker 1: three years is pressuring me to meet my parents. I

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Speaker 1: don't speak to my dad, and my mom lives in

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Speaker 1: New Mexico. My girlfriend and I are in our mid fifties,

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Speaker 1: so it seems a bit childish. Do I have to

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Speaker 1: carve out time for a trip to New Mexico? This

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Speaker 1: is from Rob and Burbank.

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Speaker 3: Rob, you know the answer to that question. Dog, You

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Speaker 3: and your dad ain't speaking. Why you need to fix

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Speaker 3: that because one day you could lose this man. Secondly,

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Speaker 3: every man wants his woman to meet his mama. You know, Rob,

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Speaker 3: if you ain't been took her down there, you know

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Speaker 3: what's happening?

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Speaker 2: A dog?

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Speaker 3: Come on man to Mexico and Hi. She pressing you

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Speaker 3: to meet your family. She ain't pressing you to get married,

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Speaker 3: but she probably of the understanding that if you don't

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Speaker 3: introduce me to your mama, that means you're not interested.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just come clean with how you really feel.

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Speaker 2: You're three years in, you're fifty? What y'all doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he thinks it's childish for her to want to

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Speaker 1: meet his parent.

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Speaker 3: I think it's childish to be fifty in date for

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Speaker 3: three years. But you know who am I who?

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Speaker 1: You're the clo baby you are?

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Speaker 2: I mean you know what I mean? You fifty?

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Speaker 3: What y'all doing? If y'all don't know what you want

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Speaker 3: by fifty?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: If you've been with somebody three years and you don't

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Speaker 3: know this to one by fifty, yes, what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: I just ain't that hard, man. You either want somebody

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Speaker 3: or you don't. That is not hard. Ain't a show,

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Speaker 3: no man, If you ain't show your don't want.

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Speaker 1: Them, okay, because you should be showed. Show almost say

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Speaker 1: show to be.

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Speaker 2: Sure, don't show shut to say, show, what's some country

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Speaker 2: own an? I'm so unbothered by.

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Speaker 1: You should be sure by Ben is what you're saying.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you can be sure if you want to, but

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what you need to be for show.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right? Moving on to Alma in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Alma rights. I went to a retirement party for a friend.

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Speaker 1: And it turns out her that her date for the

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Speaker 1: party was a guy I met at church. He had

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Speaker 1: just called me. H, he had just called to invite

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Speaker 1: me to the movies a few days before that. He

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Speaker 1: has apologized and still wants to go see a movie?

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Speaker 1: Should I go?

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Speaker 2: Already know you're going?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Are y'all old people sitting up in here? How you know?

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Speaker 2: Is rap?

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Speaker 3: You know you're going to the movie? She invited you

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Speaker 3: to the retirement party?

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Speaker 2: Now? Was he dasked specifically for her?

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Speaker 1: Well, she just went to a retirement party for a friend.

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Speaker 1: It turns out that her date for the party was

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Speaker 1: a guy that she met at church.

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Speaker 2: The girl that was retiring. Her date was a guy.

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Speaker 3: That she met it the lady met exactly play boy.

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Speaker 1: Church busy, but he went to her retirement party. But

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Speaker 1: he had just called the other woman a few days

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Speaker 1: ago to ask her to the movie.

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Speaker 2: Oh, well, he go out a lot. You know, he's

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Speaker 2: booked in busy. Yeah. Yeah. When the last time somebody

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Speaker 2: asked you to go to a movie?

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Speaker 1: I know?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know they old. You gotta be old

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Speaker 2: to go to the movies.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: We last time somebody asked somebody, Hey, let's you wanna

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Speaker 3: go to a movie down?

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Speaker 2: Know, kids don't do that no more.

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Speaker 1: They watch it on Netflix and stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: They go, they go up there and hang out. Now

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Speaker 2: hang out. They go to the movie.

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Speaker 3: Well, temmy, you're talking about like your son Jordan, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he's fourteen.

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Speaker 2: They more in the game room area at the movie

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 3: These were talking about these older people that just retirement podcast. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: they really is going to the movie hanging out.

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Speaker 2: They done drove down.

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Speaker 3: They're sitting up there and got popcorn and fell asleep

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Speaker 3: in there.

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Speaker 2: Years.

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Speaker 1: They got the chairs, so you can bring the blanket,

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Speaker 1: replying all the way back.

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Speaker 2: You can order the food and yeah yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you don't want to hear.

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Speaker 1: So she's going to the movies. Okay, Khalila, this is

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Speaker 1: the last one step in Lakeland writes that my husband

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Speaker 1: and I had an argument and he left the house

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Speaker 1: and doesn't answer his phone for hours. He didn't answer

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Speaker 1: his phone for hours. He said he didn't want to

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Speaker 1: talk to me. To get back at him, I have

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Speaker 1: ignored him for four days. He's very mad. How can

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Speaker 1: he dish it out? But he can't take it? What?

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Speaker 2: Two hours? Four days? Come on now?

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Speaker 1: She said, four hours? Yeah, because he didn't want to talk.

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Speaker 3: Surely you just said four days. You wasn't paying attention

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Speaker 3: to what I said.

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Speaker 1: I said two hours, four days.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just saying that don't make no sense.

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Speaker 3: Why he can't dish it out. He only didn't talk

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Speaker 3: to you for two hours. Now you ain't talk to

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Speaker 3: this man for four days. That ain't even fair.

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Speaker 1: Oh we're fair.

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Speaker 2: Oh, oh y'all, Oh y'all.

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Speaker 1: Don't do all right? Thank you, Zlo. You're listening Steve

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