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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for yelling at my husband's

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Speaker 1: mother for announcing my pregnancy using my husband's Facebook account?

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Speaker 2: That is so many layers. Probably like you shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: going on someone else's Facebook account because.

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Speaker 3: Who freaking uses Facebook anymore? That's just wow. Use I

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Speaker 3: used TikTok.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, use TikTok. Use like boomer Reddit, I like freaking Facebook.

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Speaker 3: Do you use your pregnancy red? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why you do an announce that you're dying in the

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Speaker 2: Internet age? Like Jesus, right, the obituary Now send it

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Speaker 2: to Mark Zuckerberg.

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Speaker 3: And have them be like you are dead. You're dead.

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Speaker 3: That's the real story. How date op is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jesus, Jesus Louis's anyway? Okay, yeah, tell us about

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Speaker 2: your life, all right?

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Speaker 1: So I female twenty three, found out that I was

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Speaker 1: pregnant very recently.

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Speaker 4: Twenty three. You're twenty three and you're using Facebook?

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Speaker 3: What and having kids? You know?

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Speaker 2: I mean, like, you know there's this the you know,

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Speaker 2: there's like religious people in the South all stuff.

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Speaker 3: Trust I know. Oh yeah, all my cousins had kids

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Speaker 3: at twenty Yeah.

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Speaker 2: My cousin's got getting married like she's twenty three. There

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Speaker 2: you go, freaking crazy, bro have it crazy Christians. Christian

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Speaker 2: is going to a wedding for one of his friends

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty five. I thought you were going to say

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Speaker 2: Christians getting married and Christians getting married to Alexa.

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Speaker 3: Now those are some friends.

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Speaker 1: So here's the thing. This pregnancy was not planned. But

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Speaker 1: she has a husband, and my husband and I are

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Speaker 1: trying to make a decision regarding going through with the pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, this makes it so much worse about the announcement.

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Speaker 3: You thought there was layers before.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, doky okay.

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Speaker 1: And here's the other thing. I told my husband not

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Speaker 1: to tell anyone, but he ended up telling his mom,

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Speaker 1: but made her swear she wouldn't tell Burrow, idiot, Borrow,

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Speaker 1: you dumbass.

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Speaker 2: When she said, don't tell anyone, that's the worst person.

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Speaker 2: I mean, don't tell anyone, not your ma, not your girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: no one.

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Speaker 4: This was this is not no nobody.

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Speaker 3: Ain't got it to nobody. And he didn't tell her.

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Speaker 3: We aren't sure about it.

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Speaker 2: And just to be quiet, Oh dude, that's if you're

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Speaker 2: gonna tell her, you gotta give her some context, dude,

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Speaker 2: because like, maybe she's tricking you, maybe she's just proud

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Speaker 2: you know, Mama Mama Bird wants to be involved.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's like, oh my god, I'm having a

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Speaker 4: grand SunDog. Little does she know, Jesus good God.

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Speaker 1: Well, she begged and begged that she announced it on

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Speaker 1: her Facebook under the guise of using our permission. But

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Speaker 1: I said absolutely not no, and I I know if

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Speaker 1: they're gonna keep it, and I lied and said my

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Speaker 1: husband and I wanted to announce it ourselves later if

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Speaker 1: we decide to grow through with it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so she at least dropped a hint. Yeah, she

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Speaker 3: dropped a hint, dude.

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Speaker 1: Okay, just a day ago, I found out she logged

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Speaker 1: onto my husband's Facebook account.

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Speaker 3: And dropped the bomb.

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Speaker 1: No, she made the announcement, and yes, she pretended to

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Speaker 1: be my husband.

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Speaker 3: No, no, dude, that's atrocian.

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Speaker 2: Dude, that's so bunkers, bro, that's so frickin' fucked.

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Speaker 1: That's got to be like illegal assuming someone's identity to

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Speaker 1: like make a.

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Speaker 3: Make identity theft is not a joke, Jim.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not that, not that he would necessarily pursue legal

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Speaker 2: action against his own mother.

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Speaker 3: But still still, it's just that's terrible.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I was floored. I was floored, and I called

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Speaker 1: her and she said she and she said she figured

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Speaker 1: if she made the announcement using one of our social

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Speaker 1: media accounts, then we wouldn't mind and it and it

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Speaker 1: would still look like we made the announcement.

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Speaker 4: Yo, what kind of rick frackt that logic is?

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Speaker 3: That? That's some no logic right there.

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Speaker 2: That's some mother in law crazy shit logic, big time

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Speaker 2: big dad.

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Speaker 1: But like I stated earlier, we're still trying to make

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Speaker 1: the decision. If you catch my drift, I lost my

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Speaker 1: temper and yelled at her, which made her cry. I

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Speaker 1: said she overstepped and messed up completely, and then hung up.

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Speaker 4: Click click clack, don't call back.

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Speaker 1: Eh. My husband comes into the room yelling about my

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Speaker 1: poor treatment and abused towards his mother. I told him

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Speaker 1: his mom violated our privacy and put us in more

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Speaker 1: pressure to finally make a decision for the baby, since

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Speaker 1: everyone is the since everyone in the family is now

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Speaker 1: saying congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: He said that it was his Facebook, so none of

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Speaker 1: my personal privacy was quote unquote violated, and that.

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't have yelled at her and hurt her feelings.

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Speaker 2: She's involved in this, dude, bro, if you no, I

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Speaker 2: see you know when the husband takes the wrong side.

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Speaker 2: That's rough, bro, Yeah, that that's no good. Got a

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Speaker 2: mama's boy over you, big time, mama's boy. Mama's boy

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Speaker 2: sucking on the teeth.

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Speaker 4: Still, that teet's getting chapped, buddy, Yeah, that dad's getting

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Speaker 4: old and saggy.

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Speaker 1: He demanded I apologize and said we'll talk about the

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Speaker 1: pregnancy later, but I didn't give an answer and refused

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Speaker 1: when he tried to force me to go over to

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Speaker 1: our house and grovel with apologies.

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Speaker 3: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: No, no, dude, you're making out you're making a decision

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Speaker 2: that will change the trajectory of the rest of your life.

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Speaker 2: And hear your mother in law goes and evade your

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Speaker 2: privacy and tells all your friends that you've already made

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Speaker 2: this decision that's going to change your life for the

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Speaker 2: rest of your life. Like like this is I just

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Speaker 2: no words, no words.

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Speaker 3: It's insane.

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Speaker 1: Mother in law actually understood what her hint was that

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Speaker 1: they might get an abortion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like maybe she wanted the grandchild and

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Speaker 2: so this is her way of like.

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Speaker 3: How can they do it?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have all your your.

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Speaker 1: Friends and family have to like lie and say it

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Speaker 1: was a miscarriage.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to actually go through, actually go through,

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Speaker 3: or be honest with everybody.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's tough.

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Speaker 4: That's tough, But you know what's even more tough.

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Speaker 3: Click