Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second date up date. And we've heard a
Speaker 1: lot of reasons why people didn't think their date went well,
Speaker 1: but this is an interesting one. Ben. The guy was
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date up date right
Speaker 1: now thinks his date was ruined because he ironed his clothes. What.
Speaker 1: I don't know exactly how that could ruin a date,
Speaker 1: but we'll find out. Ben. How are you? Hopefully you're
Speaker 1: wearing some wrinkled clothing right now so this goes well.
Speaker 1: I'm doing okay. How are you guys? Okay? I mean
Speaker 1: a little confused because it feels like you think that
Speaker 1: women love crumpled T shirts. But I don't know really
Speaker 1: what's going on. I should explain a little bit more
Speaker 1: so you guys understand. I understand perfectly. No, I don't
Speaker 1: think I have no idea what you're talking about. Ben, Yeah,
Speaker 1: please explain. What's the name of the girl you want
Speaker 1: to call to day? Alicia? Alicia? Okay? And where did
Speaker 1: you meet Alicia? Just on Tinder? Okay? Okay? And you
Speaker 1: were both really interested in dry cleaning and that's what
Speaker 1: brought you together. Good one. Thanks Ben, with bricling and
Speaker 1: jokes us. Tell us about your date, Ben, I mean,
Speaker 1: I feel like it just went off the rails just
Speaker 1: from the beginning, and my mojo is just off. That
Speaker 1: showed up twenty minutes late. Is that because you were ironing? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's exactly why I forgot to iron My clothes looked
Speaker 1: all over my house for my ironing board. You know,
Speaker 1: I wanted to look nice, and I totally forgot that
Speaker 1: whole part of my routine. I feel like ten minutes
Speaker 1: late is the max that you can do without annoying someone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right. And what's worse is I lied about why
Speaker 1: I was late on the spot. I was just like
Speaker 1: I traffic was horrible. You know, you might have known
Speaker 1: I was lying, right if you use the traffic excuse
Speaker 1: a lot, and if you're going to the same place
Speaker 1: and there was no traffic and you travel basically the
Speaker 1: same direction, you're like they're lying. I was just really nervous,
Speaker 1: you know, and I was just touching my face a lot.
Speaker 1: Looked like I was lying, all right, So your first
Speaker 1: impression sucked, is what it sounds like. Yeah, definitely, and
Speaker 1: it just got worse for then. Okay, so how did
Speaker 1: I like just tell us about what exactly happened. So
Speaker 1: she was really nice and pleasant, but for some reason,
Speaker 1: I hunt on this weird rant about people who ride bikes,
Speaker 1: like you don't even know why you hate those people,
Speaker 1: or I mean hates a strong word. I just I
Speaker 1: just don't like how they ride on the sidewalk when
Speaker 1: there's a little bike lane, you know, and kind of
Speaker 1: dodged him on the sidewalk. I've been hit by a
Speaker 1: couple of bikes. Yeah, and then did you find out
Speaker 1: she was an avid bike rider at the end of
Speaker 1: your rant. No, she just kept nodding the whole time.
Speaker 1: She did really add a lot to the bike conversation. Okay,
Speaker 1: that was just you pretty much spelling about your hatred
Speaker 1: toward bicyclists and bikes. Yeah, basically, Okay, that's a good
Speaker 1: impression to leave on a person. But that's like the
Speaker 1: worst feeling because you're nervous and you're trying to get
Speaker 1: the conversation going. I think we've all been there, and
Speaker 1: like you just start snowballing and suddenly you hear yourself
Speaker 1: speaking and you can't even stop yourself from doing it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's exactly what happened to me. Okay, on top of that,
Speaker 1: had I asked her a question that I already asked her.
Speaker 1: You know, it was like, I think where you go
Speaker 1: to school? And she decid, you already asked me that, Like, ah,
Speaker 1: she thinks I'm not paying attention to her now yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then right after that, as I'm apologizing, I accidentally
Speaker 1: elbow a waiter walking by, gets drinks spilled on both
Speaker 1: of us, but mostly on me. Well at least it
Speaker 1: wasn't spilled mostly on her. That's the I guess bright
Speaker 1: side all of it. It just makes me like the
Speaker 1: whole thing is a disastrous date. Ben. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: don't think it maddened that I got the most of
Speaker 1: it because she said, hey, I love close by. Let
Speaker 1: me go to my place real quick change and come back.
Speaker 1: And waited a good twenty twenty five minutes for her
Speaker 1: to come back. She never did. She just ditched. That's
Speaker 1: so cruel, Like your date was bad, but you weren't
Speaker 1: rude to her or anything. Yeah, that's what I thought.
Speaker 1: But I was being a big dumb the whole time,
Speaker 1: so I kind of get it. No chemistry, I can
Speaker 1: see why. You know, you don't just leave in the
Speaker 1: middle of a date. Okay, you end it and you
Speaker 1: don't ever call him back. That's one thing, but like
Speaker 1: that's rude. Did you try to reach out to her after? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I called the check in on her right after that
Speaker 1: same night and the next day, and she never picked up.
Speaker 1: I should probably think I'm a loser. Okay, So, but
Speaker 1: you do want another date with her? Yeah? Yeah, I'd
Speaker 1: love to see her again. She's pretty cool because she
Speaker 1: sounds like a big jerk to me. I mean, I
Speaker 1: feel like you're letting yourself be walked on here. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't think that went wrong with the date was
Speaker 1: my fault, So I feel like if I got to
Speaker 1: do over, it could probably work out. Okay, Well, we'll
Speaker 1: try to get you a do over. We'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date up date. Okay, all right, thanks man, Okay,
Speaker 1: hang on frooking jubil in the morning date. When you
Speaker 1: think of disasters, you might think of an earthquake or
Speaker 1: hurricane or a typhoon. I think of Ben and his
Speaker 1: dating life. Ben is on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update right now, and his date was a did Ben,
Speaker 1: are you okay? Okay? Yeah, I'll survive it. Just sounds
Speaker 1: like you just you fell down or something. I'm doing okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right. Well, if you missed the first part of
Speaker 1: the second day update, Ben went out with this girl
Speaker 1: named Alicia. He was twenty minutes late for their date
Speaker 1: because he was ironing, and then he got there and
Speaker 1: was just very awkward, went on a rant about how
Speaker 1: he doesn't like bikers, then asked her the same question twice,
Speaker 1: and then elbowed a waiter and spilled drinks all over
Speaker 1: the place, and then she left and just ditched him,
Speaker 1: and is of course not calling him back. So now
Speaker 1: we're gonna get on the phone and see if we
Speaker 1: can get Ben Adu over. Are you ready, man, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: But when you recap the whole thing, it sounds pretty bad. Head.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, just used your words. Well, you know
Speaker 1: you you did make some mistakes, but I think the
Speaker 1: biggest mistake you made was right off the bat, just
Speaker 1: not being honest with her and telling her that you
Speaker 1: were nervous for the date and that you liked her.
Speaker 1: Apparently a lot to be that nervous. Well, I don't
Speaker 1: know if that's the complete truth. I was just handing
Speaker 1: my clothes way too long. Wasn't it to impress her though? Right?
Speaker 1: He handsome? I don't like having a wrinkly clothes. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, maybe I'm wrong. I'm gonna dollar fun of
Speaker 1: her right now. Here we go? All right, I hope
Speaker 1: she's cool about this. Like I said before, I really
Speaker 1: screwed up this date. All right, well we'll see. Here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, all R Is this Alicia? Yes? Hey Alicia?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is jew BWL from Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. Okay, U what is this? More?
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I think a couple of my friends watched listen to that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have no idea watched listen. It's a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning, so they'd
Speaker 1: be listening properly. Okay, how did you get my number? Well?
Speaker 1: I got your number because somebody emailed it to us.
Speaker 1: His name is Ben and you guys went on a
Speaker 1: date recently. Yeah, why did he give you my number?
Speaker 1: Because we do a segment on our show it's called
Speaker 1: a second date update. So it's where if you go
Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and then end up
Speaker 1: not calling them back or ditching them in the middle
Speaker 1: of the date. They can email us to get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what happened. And that's
Speaker 1: why Ben emailed us. Wow, I can't believe that he
Speaker 1: only had nice things to say about you, even though
Speaker 1: you left him just sitting at a restaurant alone. Well,
Speaker 1: he was extremely awkward. We heard that. Yeah, he did
Speaker 1: tell us that we talked to him a little bit
Speaker 1: about your date. He said it probably wasn't the best
Speaker 1: look for him. Yeah. I mean, first of all, he
Speaker 1: showed up twenty minutes late, within two minutes of the date.
Speaker 1: The first thing he says, Oh, look at that blonde
Speaker 1: at the bar with the fake boots. Wait, I did
Speaker 1: I expect you to say that? Yeah, so right away
Speaker 1: I was completely turned off, and like I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: this guy's really awkward and arrogant and rude. Huh. Like
Speaker 1: I said, we talked to him about the date. He
Speaker 1: didn't come off as arrogant or rude at all. Awkward, Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: very awkward for sure. He seemed nervous and awkward. And
Speaker 1: I don't know if he was acting that way to
Speaker 1: like contemplate maybe. Oh so he was like trying to
Speaker 1: be a man, you think by telling you to check
Speaker 1: out the blonde with the fa Yeah, and then he
Speaker 1: was telling me about all the dates he's been on
Speaker 1: lately and how everyone's in love with him and I
Speaker 1: can't get enough with him, and because there was like
Speaker 1: a ninety nine percent chance of them to sleep with him,
Speaker 1: they wanted me to like high five him. Okay, and
Speaker 1: you wanted you to high five him. Yeah. We definitely
Speaker 1: went on dates with different bends. We talked to him
Speaker 1: and he did not sound like that type of dude.
Speaker 1: I feel awful. When I was talking to him, I'm like,
Speaker 1: what if she is for ditching you? And no, I
Speaker 1: understand why I would have left too. Yeah. I actually
Speaker 1: nucked to the bathroom and handed the waiter ten dollars
Speaker 1: to get him to spill a drink ale. It was
Speaker 1: just setup, he thought, Yeah, that was mine setup. I
Speaker 1: did that. I needed to leave. I needed a reason
Speaker 1: to leave, he said. The waiter spilled it on him, though, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was an accident. The waiters was spilled up mostly
Speaker 1: on me, but only a little bit got on me.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. I mean, I think your reason to leave
Speaker 1: was when he said that there was a nine to
Speaker 1: nine percent chance you were going to sleep with him,
Speaker 1: but you outdid yourself. Oh yeah, one hundred percent. And
Speaker 1: he wasn't joking, Like if he was like trying to
Speaker 1: be funny, then it would have worked. But he was
Speaker 1: so serious he was joking about it. No, no, not
Speaker 1: like you know how some people have good personalities where
Speaker 1: they just like humorous. Yeah, he wasn't like that. He
Speaker 1: was serious, like it's worth where it's like self deprecating. Ye. Actually,
Speaker 1: like he wasn't being sarcastic serious Okay, man, he was awful.
Speaker 1: Id not get that sense from him? Yeah? I don't
Speaker 1: know what else you need from me right now. I
Speaker 1: mean I left on purpose. I'm not going to see
Speaker 1: him again. I have no intentions. Well what I would
Speaker 1: like I would just like one more thing, and I
Speaker 1: would like you to actually talk to Ben about it,
Speaker 1: because he's on the other line listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. What are you talking about? Like he's
Speaker 1: on the race right now, he's online, Yes, he's he's
Speaker 1: on another phone line and maybe Ben, are you still there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Haley Shaw's going. Why would you call the radio station
Speaker 1: like this? Why would you do this? It was very
Speaker 1: clear that I didn't want to see you again. I
Speaker 1: feel like I should ask a question before I answer
Speaker 1: any of yours. Why did you peace want to still
Speaker 1: a drink on me? Did you got here you know
Speaker 1: that things weren't going well between us and I just
Speaker 1: need to get out of there. Well, yeah, that pays
Speaker 1: the one to still a drink on my freshly ironed shirt.
Speaker 1: You could just ask to leave. Wait, hold on, Ben,
Speaker 1: how are you turning this on her? You should be
Speaker 1: groveling and apologizing for all the rude comments. You said
Speaker 1: she's a dad. Grey didn't say ninety nine percent. I
Speaker 1: said it's like ninety one or like ninety two. Why
Speaker 1: would you even say that? Though? Ben? Well, you know
Speaker 1: I'm not the most confident guide on dat a lot.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to play up my coolness a little bit.
Speaker 1: It's hard to tell which Ben is the real Ben?
Speaker 1: Is it the arrogant a hole or is the awkward dorca?
Speaker 1: I think I think I'm just an awkward dork. Okay,
Speaker 1: you've made your voice crack on purpose there, I didn't you, Alicia,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I came off as an toll. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't compensate and try to be a just be yourself,
Speaker 1: Like I think it would have been less awkward if
Speaker 1: you just weren't so arrogant and saying rude comment. I
Speaker 1: think I could have tolerated the dull conversation. Thank you.
Speaker 1: You were nothing but kind. It's pleasant the whole time
Speaker 1: and very attentive. I really appreciate that you seem like
Speaker 1: a really person Thank you. I appreciate that. That's nice.
Speaker 1: I'm surprised I'm hearing a compliment from you. Usually you're
Speaker 1: just rude. It sounds like you guys are getting along now,
Speaker 1: I think so, Alicia, do you think so? I don't
Speaker 1: really know what to think at this point. The whole
Speaker 1: thing was just really awkward and left like a bad
Speaker 1: taste in my mouth, and I can't get it out
Speaker 1: of my head, the whole thing, the whole experience, If
Speaker 1: it helps, I really think the whole water spilling thing
Speaker 1: was pretty genius now I think about it. I wish,
Speaker 1: you know, I could have done that, not on our date,
Speaker 1: but like, I don't know, in a different awkward situation.
Speaker 1: You really really smart person, she's laughing at. Well, all right,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you guys are getting along better now, Alicia,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Ben.
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I don't know. I kind of
Speaker 1: like the awkward dorc type, and I feel like he
Speaker 1: sounds a little bit different than when we were on
Speaker 1: the date, So I wouldn't mind giving him like a
Speaker 1: second chance. I think, Okay, it might be worth it.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Thanks. Just let you know there's a zero
Speaker 1: percent cancer you're gonna be sleeping with me. It was
Speaker 1: just it's gone from ninety one, ninety two percent to
Speaker 1: zero percent now, Alicia, Oh my god, just stay away
Speaker 1: from the percentages. No percentage graduate. That's the humor I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. Yeah, congratulation has been you got your second date,
Speaker 1: and Alicia, good luck on the next one. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: You guys are the best. I can't believe it. My
Speaker 1: first thing was with a disaster. Now I'm getting a
Speaker 1: second one. This is the best day of my wife,
Speaker 1: broken jewil in the morning.