1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,440 Speaker 1: Welcome to Had to Money. 2 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 2: I'm Joel and I am Matt and. 3 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: Today we're talking life after financial independence with the Mad Scientist. 4 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 3: That's right, we are actually talking with Brandon Gansch, also 5 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 3: known as the Mad Fientist. And you might already notice 6 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 3: that it sounds a little bit different than it typically 7 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 3: does when we record a How to Money episode. This 8 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 3: is because we are doing a field recording. We are 9 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 3: actually in Scotland. Joel and I we took a trip 10 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 3: with our wives and we happen to find our way 11 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 3: down where it is that Brandon lives with his wife 12 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 3: and his new son. So first of all, Brandon, he's 13 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 3: originally a programmer. He is a music producer, creates his 14 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 3: own own music. He is a blogger, he's a podcaster, 15 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 3: and we're going to talk about all of the things 16 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 3: that he is up to. This is going to be 17 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 3: maybe a little more of a non traditional episode here 18 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 3: for How to Money, but we wanted to be able 19 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 3: to bring something fun and interesting to all of you 20 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 3: folks out there. So Brandon, thank you so much for 21 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 3: joining us today on the podcast. 22 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 2: Thank you guys for coming all the way to Scotland. 23 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 2: It's not often that people make their way all the 24 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 2: way out to where we are. 25 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 4: So I appreciate you guys coming by. 26 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, we wanted to come to Scotland, wanted 27 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: to hang out with you, two to drink Scotch and 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: three to enjoy the scenery. But our first question to 29 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: every guest we have on the show, Brandon is as 30 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 1: you know, what is your. 31 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 4: Craft beer equivalent? 32 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: Matt and I love craft beer, and we spend way 33 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 1: too much money on it while we're saving and investing 34 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: wisely for the future. So what is that expense in 35 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: your life? So he used to be Kraft beer. 36 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: I am also, and that's how we met and how 37 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: we formed our close friendship is that we do have 38 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 2: a very similar appreciation of Kraft beer. 39 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 4: So it used to be that. 40 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: But nine months ago we had a son, and now 41 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: I can drink maybe half a half a craft beer. 42 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 4: Before I want to fall asleep. 43 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: So our craft beer consumption has drastically declined just because 44 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: we can't stay awake long enough to enjoy it properly. 45 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: But now it seems to be synthesizers, which actually this 46 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: year I haven't spent too much on synthesizers today. This year, 47 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 2: this year was mostly buying a house, which we haven't 48 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: owned a house for almost ten years, and now that 49 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: we have a son, our jet setting lifestyle is over 50 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: for the time being, which I'm perfectly happy with. So yeah, 51 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: this year has been house but in the in the 52 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 2: past few years has been synthesizers, which you are now 53 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 2: surrounded by this in this makeshift studio. 54 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 4: That I just set up for you. Guys. 55 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, there are multiple moog since sitting here. Honestly, I 56 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 3: wish I knew more about them, But maybe we'll talk 57 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 3: a little bit more about that after. 58 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 2: Hey, we can fire them up and we can have 59 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 2: forty five minutes of just weird bleeps and bloops and 60 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 2: you'll think our two DT's are two detas was in 61 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: the room. 62 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, we could do that if you want. Just 63 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 4: let me know. I love it. 64 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 3: I love it all right, Brandon. So, first of all, honestly, 65 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 3: I'm not totally sure of your financial history. I would 66 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 3: love to know how it is that you got to 67 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 3: learn about basically how to handle your own money. Was 68 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: this something that y'all talked about within your own household. 69 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 3: Was this something that you formally learned or is it 70 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 3: something yeah, maybe that you figured out on your own. 71 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know where it came from, but I 72 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: loved money ever since I was a kid. My parents 73 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: have stories of you know, throwing quarters into the deep 74 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: end of the pool, and as soon as I found one, 75 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: then I would spend like five hours searching. 76 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 4: The deep end of the pool to find them. 77 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: And then my grandma actually was like, yeah, you went 78 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 2: home after that night and you called back and said, 79 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: did anyone find any more money in the pool. So 80 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: I really don't understand where it comes from. But I 81 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 2: always loved money. And then as I got older, I 82 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: loved math and I appreciated the fact that hey, you 83 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: could invest this money and then it would grow. So 84 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: my dad bought me five stock certificates back when they 85 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: actually had them on paper, and so I would look 86 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: in the newspaper to see how my stocks were doing. 87 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: And you know, this was back in the days where 88 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: it was like fifty five and one eighth and all 89 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 2: this sort of stuff. 90 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 4: And I'd look and I'd be like, oh, that's good. 91 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 4: It was it was fifty five. 92 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 2: Yesterday, So this is I'm making money. So I don't 93 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 2: know because my brother's he's good with money, but he's 94 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: not obsessed with money like I was. 95 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 4: So I think there's. 96 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 2: Some innate money loving in my life. But yeah, I 97 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 2: guess the fact that I do love math and I 98 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 2: can appreciate even though I can't like fully comprehend like 99 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 2: compound interests, like it's still a difficult thing to like 100 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 2: visualize and imagine, but I think I appreciated it more 101 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 2: than the average person. 102 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: I guess that's so funny because I feel like my 103 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: fascination with money, or the way I started off, was 104 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: so much more emotional than mathematical. My parents not handling 105 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: money terribly well, and it becoming just like this this 106 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: thing in our family that and me at a particular 107 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: age where I was more susceptible to feeling a different 108 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: sense of what was happening in our family than my 109 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: younger sister who was too young to understand, my older 110 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: sister who was kind of in high school hanging. 111 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 4: Out with boys. 112 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: And I'm in this middle school Joel, who is particularly 113 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,799 Speaker 1: vulnerable to kind of what's going on with the family finances. 114 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: So I'm curious, and so much of your content on 115 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: Mad Scientists on your website has really revolved around a 116 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: lot of the mathematics, around money. The way you write 117 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 1: about kind of handling taxes and retirement accounts, you've really 118 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: you really dove into the weeds. And I feel like 119 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: when you started there was no other source on the 120 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: web talking about money really in such like an approachable 121 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: but also nuanced a way. So kind of what made 122 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: you dive so deeply into how to handle money from 123 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 1: like a financial independence perspective. 124 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a really good point because I 125 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 2: guess it was my age, maybe when my parents got 126 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: divorced and then it was mainly my mom raised in 127 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 2: two boys, and you know, money was always tight, and 128 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 2: it was always a focus, and it was never to 129 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: be wasted. And maybe maybe I've never really thought about 130 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: it like that, but I think that's a really good point. 131 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: Like my age at that time really understood that, whereas 132 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: maybe my brother was like, ah, everything's fine, we have 133 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: everything we need, and we always did have everything we needed, 134 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: and I never felt like we were wanting for anything. 135 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: But I also realized how important it was to not 136 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 2: waste the money. So I think I think that's a 137 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 2: really good point because I think one my age at 138 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 2: the time of you know, the divorce and maybe going 139 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 2: off and being raised by my mom predominantly allowed me 140 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 2: to appreciate money. But then also as a kindergartener having 141 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 2: a divorce and being like feeling like you're sort of 142 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: out of control. Then the math math doesn't lie, and 143 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 2: you can plan. 144 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 4: You know, you can. 145 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: Plan really and like the math doesn't lie if you 146 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 2: if you follow these steps and you add that much 147 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 2: and it's going to grow at this much, then that works. 148 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: So I think maybe that's what could have driven the 149 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: later stuff that, like the actual math fnd is stuff. 150 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, I have this control over my life 151 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 2: and maybe as a kid, I didn't feel like I 152 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 2: had that control. 153 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's really deep. 154 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 2: Maybe we've maybe we've broken through some here and I 155 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: can understand myself a little better. 156 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 3: Tools might might be taken a leave out of his 157 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 3: wife's book when it comes to counseling, but I. 158 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 4: Think that's that's so true. We talk about the different. 159 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 3: Ways that we seek to create control or you know, 160 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 3: we try to create order within our lives and just 161 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 3: the world. It seems like a very chaotic place. 162 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 4: And so if there's a way that you. 163 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 3: Can basically put your finger on it, I completely understand 164 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: the desire from an analytical standpoint to control something and 165 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 3: to understand how it is that something works where it 166 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,679 Speaker 3: feels like it's not just completely going off the rails. 167 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 3: But so for you, that was certainly a personal sort 168 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 3: of way that you saw that manifest in your in 169 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 3: your life. How is it that you came about actually 170 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 3: then publicly writing about personal finances and specifically I guess 171 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,239 Speaker 3: launching the mad Fientist blog. 172 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that that was the really exciting thing. So so, yeah, 173 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 2: you have to go back. I'm in my late twenties. 174 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: My twenties, I had all these big plans like this 175 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: is how I was going to live my life, and 176 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 2: I was going to create all these amazing things, and 177 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 2: I was really excited about it. And then the twenties 178 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: just grind grinded on. 179 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 4: And then when I. 180 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: Turned thirty, I had this meltdown. It was like a 181 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 2: middle life crisis. But when I was thirty, it was 182 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: very embarrassing, which it's a funny story now, but it 183 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 2: was super embarrassing at the time. We went up to 184 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 2: jp Vermont, I had I don't know, like eight six 185 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 2: or eight friends that we went skiing. We had a 186 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: great day skiing. I turned thirty and I was like, 187 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 2: what have I done with my life? I've done nothing. Jill, 188 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: my now wife was a girlfriend at the time, took 189 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 2: that personally, like, what do you mean You've done nothing? 190 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 2: Like We've built this amazing life together. I'm like, I've 191 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 2: done nothing. I had this it was embarrassing. Everyone went 192 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 2: to bed sad and we after this great day of skiing. 193 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: And but it was because I felt like that, because 194 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 2: I like, I hadn't accomplished anything that I thought I 195 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 2: wanted to accomplish. I hadn't built anything I wanted to build. 196 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 2: I overanalyzed everything that I wanted to do, like I 197 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: would just overanalyze it to death until I thought it 198 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 2: was a stupid idea. And that's I created the Medfientist 199 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 2: a few days later because I was like, I'm so 200 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: excited about this idea of financial independence. Because I got 201 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 2: introduced by to financial independence through get rich Slowly, which 202 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: those three words or exactly what I wanted to do. 203 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I just want to get rich slowly, 204 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 2: Like I don't want to live a flashy lifestyle or anything. 205 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 2: I just want to get rich slowly. I want to 206 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: be comfortable, I want to be secure. I want to 207 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 2: be able to do what I want because throughout my life, 208 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: I've always felt like I've known best and like I, 209 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 2: like I mentioned earlier, like I do like control, and 210 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 2: I like I've thought about things more than the average person. 211 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 2: So like taking instructions from a boss that I didn't 212 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 2: feel like they understood everything was very hard for me. 213 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 2: So like, I wanted to get to a place where 214 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 2: I could call the shots and be secure and all 215 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 2: of that thing. So when I found get rich Slowly, 216 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yeah, that's exactly what I'm gonna do. 217 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 2: I want to do it properly. I don't want to 218 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 2: just do the next fad. I just want to get 219 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 2: rich slowly. And then he interviewed Jacob Lenfisker, and Jacob 220 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 2: had written a book called Early Retirement Extreme, and he 221 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: laid out the math and it was just so simple. 222 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 2: But I'd never thought of it in that way before, 223 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 2: and it was just, Okay, yeah, you can stop working. 224 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 4: Retirement's not an age. 225 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: It's a time when your assets are a certain multiple 226 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 2: of your expenses. And that changed everything because I was like, 227 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 2: all right, here we go. That's simple math. I love math. 228 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: I can understand that. And yeah, it's not this dream 229 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: destination when you hit sixty. It's actually just a function 230 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: of your spending, and my spending can be reduced and 231 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: my income can be increased. 232 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 4: And it was the. 233 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 2: Thing that I was most I did about at that time. 234 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:05,079 Speaker 2: So I turned thirty in twenty twelve January and I 235 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 2: launched them at fientists like I think February second of 236 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 2: twenty twelve, because I was like, I could overanalyze. 237 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 4: This to death. 238 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 2: I could start in LLC when I don't need one. 239 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 2: I can worry about the legal ramifications of giving financial 240 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 2: advice on the internet, all these things that don't matter 241 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 2: because I have no readers. Or I could just start 242 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 2: it because my twenties were all of that stuff. 243 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 4: So I just started it. 244 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 2: I asked mister money Mustache to be my first guest 245 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: on my podcast because he was a software developer like me, 246 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 2: had no idea how big he was or how big 247 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 2: he would become. And yeah, just went from there. So 248 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 2: it was a lot of luck for timing wise, but 249 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: it was also just me reaching the end of the 250 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 2: rope of like overanalyzing things to death. I just needed 251 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 2: to take action. 252 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 4: That's funny. 253 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: When you were talking about kind of your goal behind 254 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: financial independence, not to become super wealthy or anything like that. 255 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 1: It made me think of our friends Julian and Kirsten, 256 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: who'd do rich in regular and I love kind of 257 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: that those three words in tandem, rich and regular, and 258 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: that is like kind of the aspiration of that Matt 259 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: and I have as well. It's wealthy over a long 260 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: period of time. It is nothing flashy. It is it 261 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: really old, pretty ugly minivans, and people assume when we 262 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: drive around town, oh, like that's that person doesn't have 263 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: any money. So talk to me though about that. Because 264 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: wealth can, I think, have a certain flash, you can 265 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: show it off. There are ways to make people understand 266 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: that you are a person of means. Why was that 267 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: never anything that you aspired to when you kind of 268 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: figure out figured out what money can do, what money 269 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: can be. How come that was never one of the 270 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 1: goals of money for you. 271 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: That was the luckiest thing I think about my journey. 272 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 2: It was the fact that not only was that not 273 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 2: important to me, but it was like actually the reverse, 274 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 2: Like I wanted to downplay it. I still want to 275 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 2: downplay it. 276 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 4: You guys are. 277 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 2: Sitting in the brand new house that we bought, and 278 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 2: it is grander and flashier than anything I've ever purchased 279 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 2: in my life, and I still feel very weird about it, 280 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: not to say I'm not happy, Like I love it, 281 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,959 Speaker 2: I love everything about it, but it is I would 282 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: I would be more comfortable if it was less grand 283 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 2: and less I don't know, it just stands out a 284 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 2: little bit too much. But the real estate market's crazy, 285 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 2: and this was the absolutely the best thing that we've seen. 286 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 4: On the market. 287 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 2: So I'm so happy that we got it, and I'm 288 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 2: absolutely thrilled about it. But yeah, I don't I don't 289 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 2: know where that comes from. I think it's my grandparents 290 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: struggled and they had you know, they had three kids 291 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 2: and all they had four kids, and they had a 292 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: bunch of foster kids, and they were always like every 293 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: penny was to be looked after and not to be wasted. 294 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 2: And the same with my upbringing. So it's like and 295 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 2: all my friends and every No, I don't. 296 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 4: Have rich friends. I don't have rich tastes. 297 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 2: Yes, I love going to like a really fancy restaurant 298 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 2: once in a while for a treat, but I'd be 299 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 2: much more comfortable getting like a really good burger and. 300 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 4: Stuff like that. 301 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 2: So it's like my identity is so tied to like 302 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: middle class that the fact that the money in the 303 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:14,599 Speaker 2: bank isn't that anymore is very hard to come to 304 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 2: terms with, because money is really useful, like this house 305 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 2: is in particular, is like testament to that, like using 306 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 2: money to buy nice things is really actually good, and 307 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 2: like for my entire life, I've always kept myself from 308 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 2: doing that because I was saving and saving and saving 309 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 2: to get to financial independence. But now that we've been 310 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 2: here for the last six years and the portfolio has 311 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 2: grown even despite just using it, it's like, Okay, this 312 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 2: is going to snowball out of control because compound interest 313 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 2: is an actually really powerful thing. So we got to 314 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 2: start spending it. And every single change we've made so far, 315 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 2: except maybe a business class flight that wasn't worth the 316 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: extra money or the extra miles I couldn't I couldn't 317 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: use money. I used miles, but it wasn't worth the 318 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 2: extra miles. 319 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 4: But every every other. 320 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: Thing that we've pushed ourselves to spend a little bit 321 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 2: more has been worth it. So for someone who's supernaturally 322 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 2: frugal has a blog about frugality and like saving a 323 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: bunch of money. I'm surprised over the last two years 324 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: that I've let myself relax a little bit. 325 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 4: How much fun spending is so Like, it's. 326 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: Weird to be talking about that because yeah, like as 327 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 2: a frugality blogger, but it's been it's been so much fun. 328 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: Like I money has been more fun to spend than 329 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 2: it has been to save recently. But it's only because 330 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 2: I know that I'm not like making a huge dent 331 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 2: into that before though, so I think that may be 332 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: the difference. It's like, yeah, spending when I didn't have 333 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 2: a lot now just stress me out because I wasn't saving. 334 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 2: But now that I know that we're set, like, it 335 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: has been nice to just relax a little bit, which 336 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 2: is a huge surprise. 337 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 3: You're you're talking about lifestyle and how it is that 338 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 3: you're spending money, and it's funny that you consider your 339 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 3: I mean, you mentioned like a frugality blogger when it 340 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 3: seems like so much of what you honestly what you 341 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 3: specialize in and what I think folks go to you 342 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 3: for is the number crunching. It's more of the analytical 343 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 3: side of things. But I actually I do have a 344 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 3: quick follow up about consumption and spending, and we're going 345 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 3: to talk a little bit about fire, financial independence, retiring early, 346 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 3: and we'll get to some of those questions right after 347 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 3: this break. All right, we are back from the break. 348 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 3: And by the way, I wanted to mention Brandon, you 349 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 3: were so incredibly generous and we have already enjoyed a 350 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: couple very delicious, very amazing beers. And Brandon was not 351 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 3: joking when you mentioned how we share a love of 352 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 3: craft beer and we have some of the finest here. 353 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 3: I just took a sept from mine and it's so 354 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 3: stinking good. We'll talk about our thoughts on the beer 355 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 3: at the end of the episode. But right before the break, 356 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: I was we were talking about consumption, like was there 357 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 3: a point? Was there like did a light turn on? 358 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 3: Was there a switch that flipped that allowed you to 359 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 3: start spending money to kind of shift from that frugality 360 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 3: mindset to actually start enjoying some of your money, Like 361 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 3: when did that point in time come for you? 362 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 2: So I had created a software application prior to even 363 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 2: starting The Mad Scientist, and it started generating more income 364 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 2: than we actually spend. So it was at that point 365 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: where I was like, Okay, we have this five portfolio 366 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 2: that is meant to be providing all of our spending money, 367 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 2: we're not even touching it because this application that I 368 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 2: created a year or two before is actually bringing in more. 369 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: So it was at that point I was like, this 370 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 2: is ridiculous. So what I need to do is at 371 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 2: least spend what the fire portfolio could generate every year 372 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: in perpetuity, which is the whole point of saving up 373 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 2: a big portfolio and pursuing FI. So that amount was 374 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 2: about double what we normally spent over the last decade. 375 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 4: So I've never hit that target. 376 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: It's been a target for the past three years, and 377 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 2: I got I got fairly close the first year because 378 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: I was we were traveling a lot that was post pandemic, 379 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: so I was like, Okay, we're gonna We're gonna go 380 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 2: and see my family. We're gonna go and travel, and like, 381 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 2: we've been pent up in this one bedroom Edinburgh apartment 382 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 2: for a whole year, so let's go crazy. And we 383 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: got sort of close, but we didn't. We didn't hit 384 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 2: the target. Last year, we moved into a rental, which 385 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 2: I knew was going to be our last rental before 386 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 2: buying a place, so I was like, this will allow 387 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: us to buy the things that we want to buy 388 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 2: because we're only gonna have to move them one more time. 389 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: So I bought like a super fancy coffee grinder, which 390 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 2: you guys got the he got to reap the benefits 391 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 2: of with a nice coffee when you arrived, and things 392 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 2: like that, and we sort of got we got less 393 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 2: close because that was I had a list of things 394 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 2: I wanted to buy for a lot of years and 395 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: it wasn't It was a small list because I don't 396 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 2: like stuff. So then this year we were really, we 397 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 2: were really lagging behind the target. But then we just 398 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 2: bought a house, So I think we're gonna maybe hit 399 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 2: it this year because we're trying to furnish a house. 400 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 2: Even though it's been furnished when we bought it, which 401 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 2: was super nice, we're still adding a few things to it. 402 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 2: So maybe we'll get close this year. But this year 403 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 2: I've set the target that if I don't spend it, 404 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 2: I have to give it away because I also want 405 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 2: to try to get better at give it away to 406 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,360 Speaker 2: charity because I just feel like we've been so fortunate, 407 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 2: but old habits die hard, So I'm still gripping every 408 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 2: penny with an iron fist, which I need to get 409 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 2: better at not doing, because yeah, it's just counter productive 410 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 2: at this stage. 411 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 4: So whatever we. 412 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 2: Don't spender under that goal going to give it away 413 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 2: to charity, which is a whole other thing I need 414 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,360 Speaker 2: to explore. So yeah, so it was really the fact 415 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: that got to a point where didn't even draw down 416 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 2: on the fire portfolio and realized I needed to start 417 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: thinking about it. And then recently the Die with Zera 418 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 2: book has been really influential, and that's only because Matt 419 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 2: Fiintis readers and listeners actually recommended it when I was 420 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 2: talking about the stuff spend really impactful because he talks 421 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 2: about you need to enjoy your money at certain stages, 422 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 2: like right now, Like I'm forty one, and you know, 423 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 2: I love skiing, so I need to spend on skiing 424 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 2: now because maybe when I'm fifty, I'm going to be 425 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 2: in a lot less physical shape that. 426 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 4: Maybe it's not going to be as fun. 427 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 2: And my son's young, so doing stuff with him is 428 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 2: going to be more fun now when he's young than 429 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 2: maybe when he's a teenager and doesn't want to hang 430 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 2: out with me and things like that, So it's put 431 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 2: a whole news perspective on things. And like I said before, 432 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:39,199 Speaker 2: like I've enjoyed every little bit of the increase that 433 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: we've done it. And again, we're not spending even probably 434 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 2: what a typical American spends just normally. But every change 435 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: we made is spend beneficial so far. 436 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: It's so it's so interesting to hear you talk about 437 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: kind of those those trying to change the dial on 438 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: saving or spending, because they're really two different approaches to money. 439 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:05,880 Speaker 1: And those years of being frugal and you know, saving 440 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: and investing half or more of your income, which is 441 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:13,199 Speaker 1: kind of what the fire person is into, is like 442 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: one way of approaching money, and then spending down that 443 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: portfolio is a different, completely different way of thinking about money. 444 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: But talk to me about I'm curious a lot of 445 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: people who are in the fire movement. I guess at 446 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: a certain point in time they might say, Wow, this 447 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: is really difficult to be setting aside this much of 448 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 1: my income. It's a really hard thing than to change 449 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: your mentality. And so do you wish does any part 450 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: of you wish you could go back to some of 451 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: those early days when you were saving such an extreme 452 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 1: amount of your income and say, I wish I would 453 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: have lived it up a little more. I wish I 454 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 1: would have saved a little bit less. 455 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 2: Extremely Yeah, so I'm very lucky in the sense that 456 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 2: I don't have very many regrets. Joe and I we 457 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 2: travel to like fifty countries in our twenties and thirties, 458 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 2: and travel was like the big thing for me, and like, yeah, 459 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: I got really good at travel hacking and using points 460 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,679 Speaker 2: and miles to make it cheap. But yeah, I'm glad 461 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 2: we did that when we were young, because a lot 462 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 2: of that travel I wouldn't want to do now in 463 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 2: my forties, So I'm really thankful for that. I'm thankful 464 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 2: that we didn't sacrifice that to like some glorious like 465 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 2: around the World trip when we're fifty or sixty, because 466 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 2: it just wouldn't be as fun, because travel in the 467 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,719 Speaker 2: forties is definitely not as fun as it was in 468 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 2: the twenties. The only regrets I have from my entire 469 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 2: fire journey is missing out on a few things in 470 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: my twenties. So for instance, like my buddies were getting married, 471 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 2: so like the bachelor party would be a month before 472 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,200 Speaker 2: the wedding, and I'm like, I live in Scotland. I'm 473 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 2: not going to travel back to the States in June 474 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 2: and then come back in July for the wedding. 475 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 4: Like I'll come to the wedding, that's the. 476 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 2: Important thing, you know, Like I'll give you my gifts 477 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 2: and get to catch up and all that stuff. But 478 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 2: I'm not going to come just to get wasted for 479 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 2: one night in June and then come all the way 480 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 2: back in July. But I do regret that because just 481 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 2: like the Die with Zero book says, those trips aren't 482 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: coming back. My buddies have stories that I'm not included 483 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 2: in because I wasn't there, and it would have been 484 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 2: so hard to spend that much money. Like even now, 485 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 2: knowing what I know now, it was still been a 486 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 2: really hard thing to spend that money to make two 487 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 2: translating trips within a month. But yeah, I didn't miss 488 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 2: out out on that stuff. So those are literally the 489 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 2: only things that I'm regretful of in my journey to FI. Like, 490 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 2: I'm glad I lived the lifestyle that we lived so 491 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 2: that we can live the lifestyle that we live now. 492 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 2: I'm glad that we just let our lifestyle gradually increase. 493 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 2: So even though our money was drastically increasing, with our 494 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 2: salaries increasing and side businesses increasing. We just gradually let 495 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 2: it increase, and that's what's made it fun all these years. 496 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 2: Like how do I let it drastically increase in my 497 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,640 Speaker 2: twenties When I could have, I would probably be sick 498 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 2: of whatever I was doing in my twenties, whereas now, 499 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 2: like just the fact that we own a house again. 500 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 4: Is like a glorious thing. 501 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 2: It's like, Wow, I can put stuff in this drawer 502 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 2: and it's going to be in that drawer for the 503 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 2: next X number of years. Like that is like amazing 504 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 2: to me right now. So I'm glad we did it 505 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 2: gradually because yeah, you get to appreciate it more. 506 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 4: And I say this on my podcast a lot. 507 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 2: It's like we're really bad at knowing what we actually 508 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 2: want in life, so experimenting is the only way to 509 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,160 Speaker 2: really know what you want. So we get to run 510 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 2: all these fun experiments and some of them don't work out. 511 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 4: And some of them do. 512 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 2: But but yeah, we could have easily just gone from 513 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 2: you know, broke students to like making whatever six figures 514 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,719 Speaker 2: and having that whole lifestyle. 515 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 4: But it's like, what would we. 516 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 2: Get to look forward to in our forties, like long 517 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 2: answer to your question, But yeah, there's only one thing 518 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 2: I regret, and that is missing just a few bachelor 519 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 2: parties with my friends, because I'm even if we did 520 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 2: those trips again, we wouldn't be twenty year old idiots 521 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 2: like we would have been at that time, and we 522 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: wouldn't have the stories that resulted from this twenty year 523 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 2: old idiot extravagances. So but yeah, besides that, thankfully we 524 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: uh I didn't sacrifice too much. 525 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 3: I've got one more follow up. I guess when it 526 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 3: comes to how it is that you spend money, but 527 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 3: it sounds like that you were frugal, but it sounds 528 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 3: like you also had Jill. So Jill is your wife, 529 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 3: and that it seemed like she was on board. I 530 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 3: haven't heard many. 531 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 2: Stories shared, at least about. 532 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 3: Maybe y'all you know, knocking heads when it comes to 533 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 3: whether it's spending money or saving money or some of 534 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 3: the different decisions. How were you able to get her 535 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 3: on board so easily? And you're shaking your head no, 536 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,719 Speaker 3: And so if you if you weren't able to, how, 537 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 3: I guess what lessons did you learn along the way. 538 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 2: Jill was never like she was never flashy or never extravagant. 539 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 2: But if the money was in her account, it was 540 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 2: spent it. It wasn't it was like, yeah, it's there, 541 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 2: I'll spend it. It was yeah, I'm gonna end was 542 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 2: zero at the end of the month, It's fine, it 543 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,159 Speaker 2: doesn't matter. It's like, there's my money, I'm going to 544 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 2: use it. So luckily, it wasn't like battling against some 545 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 2: sort of like I need to show how successful I am, 546 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 2: or I need to show extravagant I am. It wasn't 547 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 2: anything like that. It was more like, all right, the 548 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 2: money's in the account, I'll spend it. She never really 549 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 2: understood why I was so intent on saving. It wasn't 550 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,679 Speaker 2: until we really sat down. It was on our honeymoon. Actually, 551 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,119 Speaker 2: so we dated for ten years before we got married. 552 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,959 Speaker 2: So by the time our honeymoon rolled around, I was like, well, like, 553 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 2: what's your perfect life look like? She's like, well, what 554 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,239 Speaker 2: do you mean perfect life? I was like, well, if 555 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 2: you could design exactly how you want to. 556 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 4: Live, what is it like. 557 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 2: She's like, what do you mean that's a stupid question. 558 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 4: Like I just I work like everybody else. 559 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,400 Speaker 2: I cooked dinner and then you know, we just live 560 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 2: this normal existence. I was like, no, it doesn't have 561 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 2: to be like that, Like how would you design it? 562 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 2: If you could design it? And it was only when 563 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 2: we went through that exercise, and it wasn't a quick exercise. 564 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 2: It lasted well beyond the honeymoon. It was like lots 565 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 2: of discussions, lots of thinking about it, and like it 566 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 2: was only then that she realized, oh, you know, I 567 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 2: don't have to be driving to some office while she's 568 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 2: an uptomicist, but driving to some clinic forty hours a 569 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 2: week and being stuck there and having our whatever a 570 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 2: few weeks of vacation every year, Like we could actually 571 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 2: design it in a different way. 572 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 4: And that was the turning point. 573 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 2: So and then obviously starting the mad fientists help. So 574 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 2: I started that in twenty twelve, started interviewing other people 575 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 2: that thought like me. So she wasn't hearing it from me. 576 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 2: The last thing she wanted to do was get lectured 577 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 2: by me about how to deal with money. So hearing 578 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 2: from other people that thought differently about money was really helpful. 579 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 2: So I think it was the combination of those two things. 580 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 3: It almost seems like so obviously the question of asking 581 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 3: what should like what would our perfect life look like it. 582 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 3: It seems like that was a turning point where you 583 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 3: could start to like, essentially you're starting with the end 584 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 3: in mind and what steps do we need to take 585 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 3: in order to get there. Sounds like that was huge. 586 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,640 Speaker 3: But what you're talking about now is like I hear 587 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 3: you talk about if you're not going to spend a 588 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 3: certain amount of money this year, like you're talking about 589 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 3: giving it away. So essentially for you, what seems to 590 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 3: be working now is essentially creating rules. You're basically creating 591 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 3: like an algorithm, a formula that is going to work 592 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 3: for you, and you know that if you don't follow 593 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,360 Speaker 3: through and if X doesn't happen, well why is going 594 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 3: to happen? And I think that's important to point out 595 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 3: that for some individuals, depending on how it is that 596 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 3: you process and how it is that you think, it 597 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:36,199 Speaker 3: might literally whether it's coming up with a formula with 598 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 3: an XL or even just writing out on a sheet 599 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 3: of paper saying that my goal is to spend X 600 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 3: amount of my expendable income this year, or my goal 601 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 3: is to set aside this much for retirement, whatever it is. 602 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 3: I think for the individual, you have to figure out 603 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 3: the different approaches that are going to work for you. 604 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 3: That is going to be able to move the needle, 605 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 3: whether it comes to how much you're able to invest 606 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 3: your money or even in your case, it seems like 607 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 3: how much money you're going to spend. And so it 608 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 3: seems like that that's actually working out for you. 609 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, my entire life is run by spreadsheets. 610 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 2: So once I wasn't having spreadsheets to figure out how 611 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 2: much I was saving, I need to have spreadsheets to 612 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 2: tell me how much to spend. And yeah, just the 613 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 2: way my brain works, Like, I do enjoy that and 614 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 2: it does take my brain out of it a bit 615 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 2: as well. It's like it was very helpful on the 616 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 2: saving path because I knew, like this is what I 617 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 2: wanted to do and this is how I was going 618 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 2: to do it. But it's super helpful now because it's like, 619 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 2: I know I want to spend this much. I know 620 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 2: that's going to be a struggle. So then when I'm 621 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 2: out and about and a potential expense comes up, I'm like, 622 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,959 Speaker 2: rather than before my entire life has been oh no, 623 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 2: spending is the worst thing that you can do. It's 624 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: the last ditch effort. It means you haven't spent twenty 625 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 2: hours on the internet trying to figure out a way 626 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 2: to come and get that same thing for way cheaper 627 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 2: or free. It means that you've failed. And so so 628 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,719 Speaker 2: this is what you have to do. You have to spend. 629 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 2: So it's flip that and now it's like, Okay, I 630 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 2: have to spend this much more. So that's the no 631 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 2: brainer thing to do. I just do that and then 632 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 2: it helps me reach my other goal of spending this amount. 633 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 2: And yeah, for a naturally frugal person, it's been absolutely 634 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 2: ga game changing. And I realize how ridiculous it sounds, 635 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: and I know this is going to be a small 636 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 2: subset of the audience, but for all the fire people 637 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 2: out there, they know how this feels. And like even 638 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 2: some very famous fire people, I see them struggling a 639 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 2: lot with how to how to actually spend and utilize 640 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: the money that they saved up, because yeah, when you're gone, 641 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,239 Speaker 2: money is meaningless, which it is all along, but we 642 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 2: at least trick ourselves into think it's not. 643 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I feel like we're such kindred spirits. We 644 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: approach money into completely different ways, but we have so 645 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,959 Speaker 1: many similar thoughts and approaches and feelings towards it too, 646 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: So that's just yeah, fun to hear your perspective on that. 647 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 1: But we want to specifically talk about your life post five. 648 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: You've got a kiddo now that changes everything, as we 649 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 1: all know, anybody who has kids knows that that like 650 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: throws a wrench in every single one of our plans. 651 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 1: So we'll talk about that and just really, you know, 652 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: what life post financial independence has been like for more 653 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: than half a decade. We'll talk about more along those 654 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 1: lines with Brandon the Mad Fientist right after this. 655 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 4: All right, we're back. 656 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: We're still talking with the mad Scientists, our good friend 657 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 1: Brandon Gansch, and he is I mean really kind of 658 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: the OG in the Fire movement or one of the 659 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: OG's right, And we were talking earlier about just the 660 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: different generations of firefolks who have like you are essentially 661 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: the grandfather, like you were one of the originals. Well, 662 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 1: I feel like early retirement extreme was probably where Brandon 663 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: got it from, was like the original original writing. Nothing 664 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: it's more original than that, right, yeah, which is pretty 665 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 1: Jacob Lundfisker. So, but yeah, I want to talk about 666 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: what life has been like after you reached that point. 667 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: Obviously a lot of sacrifices, a lot of years, a 668 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 1: lot of saving a lot more than you make. And 669 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: our audience, again, a lot of some of our audiences 670 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: into the fire stuff more. A big chunk of our 671 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 1: audience is also really into like basic personal finance, but 672 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: financial independence. Matt and I always come at this conversation 673 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: about money from that perspective that maybe not retiring early, 674 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: but reaching financial independence within a reasonable amount of time 675 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: is a really good goal. So talk about what life 676 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 1: has been like once you kind of hit that goal. 677 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: It certainly seems like in those first couple of years 678 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: there was a little bit of like wheel spinning that 679 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: you were not quite sure what life was going to 680 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: look like. Maybe you have this big old financial goal 681 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 1: that you wanted to hit, and then once you hit it, 682 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 1: you were like, I don't know what to do right now? 683 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, big time. 684 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 2: So for me, like I felt incorrectly that my job 685 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 2: was holding me back from everything that I wanted to do. 686 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 2: So I blamed my job on the reason that I 687 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 2: hadn't written an album like I'd always wanted to do 688 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 2: since I was a kid. I blamed my job for 689 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 2: the reason I hadn't started a business like I'd always 690 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 2: wanted to do. When I was maybe twenty plus, I 691 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 2: blamed my job for everything, and only after getting rid 692 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 2: of the job did I realize that my job had 693 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 2: nothing to do with any of that stuff. So the 694 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 2: first few years were weird. The first one was amazing. 695 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 2: So the first year after leaving my job, I was like, 696 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 2: this is amazing. Jill and I traveled all the way 697 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: around the world, used a bunch of our miles to 698 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 2: travel in like business class and try to try out 699 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 2: all that stuff. And we lived in Thailand and we 700 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 2: did all that stuff and it was amazing and it 701 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 2: was really fun. 702 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 4: You know. A couple months in, we're. 703 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 2: Like, okay, another temple who cares like this isn't the 704 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 2: like Jill knew it Jill. Jill wanted to do a 705 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 2: one month trip. I wanted to do a one year trip. 706 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 2: We settled on three months. By two months in, I 707 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 2: was like, God, Jill was right. She's always right, but 708 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 2: she lets me learn from my mistakes in practice rather 709 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: than lecturing me, So that's nice. So yeah, I was like, yeah, 710 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:15,320 Speaker 2: it's another temple Jesus, Like it's lost its appeal. So 711 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 2: so then it was like Okay, well I still haven't 712 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 2: written that album that I always said I was gonna write, 713 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 2: and like, I haven't been an entrepreneur like I thought 714 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 2: it would be, and all this stuff, and you realize 715 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 2: that your job's. 716 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 4: Not stopping you from that. 717 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:33,359 Speaker 2: It's self doubt, it's all the things that are the 718 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,240 Speaker 2: things that every creative person has to go through to 719 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 2: create anything that they like. It's like you feel like 720 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 2: it's the worst thing that's ever been produced, and you 721 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 2: just all that stuff. It's like, so, yeah, not having 722 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 2: a job lets you more or less be miserable for 723 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 2: twenty four hours a day because the reason you're not 724 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 2: successful was all in your hands. And that's a very 725 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 2: difficult pill to swallow. And it was only the pandemic 726 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,839 Speaker 2: that saved me, to be honest, because we had moved 727 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 2: to Edinburgh. 728 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 4: The whole city shut down. 729 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 2: The UK was way more lockdown than the States, I think, 730 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 2: and we had no options and it was like, all right, well, 731 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,320 Speaker 2: you know, I've got the money to not have a job. 732 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 2: I've got absolutely no distractions because we can literally only 733 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 2: leave our apartment for one hour day it's for exercise, 734 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 2: and you can't even sit in the park. You have 735 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 2: to walk in the park because sitting is not exercise, 736 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 2: and it's like, Okay, I have to do this thing 737 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 2: that I said I'd always want to do, and that 738 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 2: was writ an album. And I spent that entire year 739 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,720 Speaker 2: writing the album. I did it, and it is still 740 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 2: my proudest accomplishment of all time because I know how 741 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 2: much awful self doubt, in like just torturous hours trying 742 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 2: things it took to make it. And I think that 743 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 2: I think that's the big lesson because people like me, 744 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,720 Speaker 2: like I definitely did it, are racing towards five because 745 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 2: they think it's going to solve all of their problems. 746 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 2: And it literally solves because when you log into your 747 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 2: bank account and you see a number on the screen, 748 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 2: you know a slightly larger number on that screen is 749 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 2: going to do nothing for your actual real life or 750 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 2: your real happiness. It's what you do with the knowledge 751 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 2: that you have that extra larger number in the screen 752 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 2: that really matters. And that's tough and it's tough to 753 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 2: figure out how to do that when you're not practiced 754 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 2: in it, and I wasn't practiced in it because all 755 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 2: my focus and all my energy was towards saving and 756 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,840 Speaker 2: once I had saved enough, it was like, well, okay, 757 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 2: now what I haven't worked on that entrepreneurial muscle. I 758 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 2: haven't worked on that music muscle. I haven't worked on 759 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 2: the spending muscle. I've not worked any of that, and 760 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:51,800 Speaker 2: they've all atrophied to nothing. Yes, I know how to save, 761 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:56,760 Speaker 2: and that's something I really see in the fire movement 762 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 2: and which is why I've sort of backed away from 763 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 2: it over recent years. Is a lot of people it 764 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 2: seems like they get to fire and they want to 765 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,279 Speaker 2: just integrate themselves more into the fire community, and that 766 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 2: just seems kind of productive to me because it's like 767 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 2: reaching financial independence is like, you know, you get really 768 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 2: good at using a hammer because you want to build, 769 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 2: Say I want to build a model airplane and you 770 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 2: want to build a boat, and yeah, everyone, it's it's 771 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 2: fun to talk about that hammer while you're building. But 772 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,839 Speaker 2: then afterwards you want to hang out with boat people 773 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,760 Speaker 2: or I want to hang out with model airplane people. 774 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 2: So that to reach FI and then just want to 775 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 2: just hang out more in the financial independent space seems 776 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 2: kind of productive because it's like, well that that was 777 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 2: just a tool to do something else. 778 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,879 Speaker 4: So that's why over the recent years, it's. 779 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 2: Like, I'm trying to get more into the music community 780 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 2: and things like that, because that's that was the whole point. 781 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 4: So it's a it's it's tough. 782 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,160 Speaker 2: Because, yeah, you get so focused on something, you get 783 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,400 Speaker 2: so good at something, and then once you reach that goal, 784 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 2: the best thing to do is to leave it all behind. 785 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 4: And that's not natural. 786 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 3: I mean, essentially, you've in a sense won the money game, 787 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 3: and if you continue to focus on the financial independence 788 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 3: part of it, you are obsessing over that hammer. I mean, 789 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 3: this is why we so we call it the craft 790 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 3: beer equivalent, and this is a part of why we 791 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 3: taught we introduced every episode typically with a beer except 792 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 3: for our Friday flights, is because we're trying to kind 793 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,239 Speaker 3: of flex that small muscle of what is it that 794 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 3: you do when it spend money on get creative when 795 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,760 Speaker 3: it comes to the different things that you want to pursue, 796 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 3: and so in that way, like what are some of 797 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,360 Speaker 3: the other I guess areas of life. So you've already 798 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:41,919 Speaker 3: mentioned synthesizers in your pursuit of electronic music. You've also 799 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 3: mentioned the house, But I guess what are some of 800 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 3: the other ways that you not only see yourself allowing 801 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 3: yourself to spend money, but that you are intentionally trying 802 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 3: to see growth in other areas of your life, that 803 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 3: you are realizing that that's going to lead to long 804 00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,800 Speaker 3: lasting joy and fulfillment. 805 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great question. And I just reach only 806 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,319 Speaker 2: had a remat set to you on the podcast, my 807 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 2: podcast because I knew he would be the one to 808 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 2: push me a bit further. And he was talking to 809 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 2: me about like, okay, like what do you love like 810 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 2: And I've talked to you guys about this when you 811 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 2: arrived because I made you coffee and it's like, yeah, 812 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 2: I love my coffee ritual every day. 813 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 4: And he's like, well, how can you push that to 814 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 4: the next level? 815 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 2: And like he pushed me into levels that made me 816 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 2: literally sweat behind the microphone because I was like, that 817 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 2: is ridiculous, Like but I'm starting to do those and 818 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 2: they are great. So it's like he's like, well, what 819 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 2: if you could ten x that spend And I'm like, 820 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 2: I have no idea because the thing that you asked 821 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 2: me to spend on was already like a huge stretch, 822 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,960 Speaker 2: Like I couldn't even imagine spending on that. So to 823 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 2: tenx it is just insane. But talking to him through it, 824 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,319 Speaker 2: like it actually made sense, and it was like, Okay, yeah, 825 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 2: I could ten x the spend, make absolutely no dent 826 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 2: in the portfolio whatsoever, and yet maybe have this even 827 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 2: more elevated coffee lifestyle than I already have. And so yeah, 828 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,359 Speaker 2: so talk him was really important. But also it was 829 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 2: The Die with Zero book that again a bunch of 830 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 2: Matt fientists, readers and listeners recommended, And it was the 831 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 2: fact that it was like, all right, you need to 832 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 2: think about life in different stages, and yes, you could 833 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 2: save up now to have like the ultimate trip when 834 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 2: you're fifty, but when you're twenty, it may be a 835 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 2: lot more fun staying in hostels and getting drunk on 836 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:27,720 Speaker 2: really cheap beer with your best friends. And that really 837 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 2: resonated with me because I do find that, like I 838 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,800 Speaker 2: said earlier, the one regret is not, you know, having 839 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,359 Speaker 2: ridiculous bachelor parties with my buddies in the twenties, because 840 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 2: that's not that's not going to happen again. So thinking 841 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 2: about where I am at in my life right now, 842 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 2: I'd always dreamed of, like quote unquote proper retiring to 843 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 2: the mountains because I love pond hockey, I love skiing, 844 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 2: I love snow, I love winter. I love everything about 845 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 2: that whole lifestyle. And now that I have a son, 846 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,720 Speaker 2: like being able to ski with my son, like that's 847 00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 2: just sounds like the best thing in the world. That 848 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 2: was always the dream. So Joe and I were like, 849 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 2: well we can. We'll do primary school in Scotland and 850 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,719 Speaker 2: then maybe move to a mountain destination. But then when 851 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,239 Speaker 2: I read Dawood Zero, I was like, you know, when 852 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,399 Speaker 2: I'm fifty, I may not want to, you know, be 853 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,160 Speaker 2: putting my knees through all that skiing that I want 854 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 2: to do now. So rather than yeah, save up a 855 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,319 Speaker 2: bunch of money by the perfect mountain house and have 856 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 2: this perfect lifestyle with my ten year old son, maybe 857 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 2: every year we should just run him Airbnb for a 858 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,840 Speaker 2: month and have an amazing month. 859 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 4: And maybe that's enough. 860 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't need the house, and maybe I don't 861 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 2: need the community. If I have the community here in Scotland, 862 00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 2: maybe I can just you know, have a month of 863 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 2: super fun winter and then we have our community here. 864 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 4: So that's that's the thought this year. 865 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 2: That's it's going to use that money rather than just 866 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 2: keep stockpiling because that's easy. That's what I've been doing 867 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,320 Speaker 2: my whole life, rather than just keep stockpiling. And it's like, 868 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 2: all right, let's use it to have an amazing winter month. 869 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,479 Speaker 2: Let's teach my son to ski for the first time, 870 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:12,320 Speaker 2: and maybe that's going to be way better than saving 871 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 2: up all that money for this you know, mountain house 872 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,800 Speaker 2: that maybe we won't even get that much use out of. 873 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, it takes work to think creatively about how it 874 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 3: is that you can start to spend that money now. 875 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 4: But like you said before, you're old. 876 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 3: Into credit, before you're while your knees give out and 877 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 3: you're not able to ski, which the three. 878 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,000 Speaker 1: Of us are getting close to that place in our lives, right. 879 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 1: So okay, so I'm curious. Last question, So, thinking back 880 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 1: to young mad fientists, Brandon, and there are a lot 881 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,560 Speaker 1: of how to money lists who are in that camp 882 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 1: who are kind of learning about how to handle money properly, 883 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,880 Speaker 1: like what it looks like to be smart with money. 884 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,840 Speaker 1: And our thing is all about balance and some of 885 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,760 Speaker 1: the fire community, balance doesn't enter the equation no balance, 886 00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,359 Speaker 1: And so what would you say to someone who's in there, 887 00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:01,319 Speaker 1: you know, early mid twenties even early thirties, and they're saying, 888 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,320 Speaker 1: I just kind of I'm stumbling upon this. I really 889 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,360 Speaker 1: want to handle my money well, so I'm giving myself 890 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,560 Speaker 1: more options for the future, but I also don't want 891 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: to sacrifice everything in the here. Now, what does it 892 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,279 Speaker 1: look like for me to do that in a way 893 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,279 Speaker 1: that is like true too and good and good to 894 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,360 Speaker 1: my current self, but also yeah, but also good to 895 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: my future self. 896 00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:24,360 Speaker 4: That's a great question. 897 00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 2: And yeah, so I would say, you know, I'm talking 898 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,320 Speaker 2: down on financial independence. 899 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 4: But it's absolutely worth it. 900 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,799 Speaker 2: The security of knowing that everything is okay and you 901 00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 2: can do whatever you want. 902 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 4: That's priceless. 903 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 2: But I would look at every expense that you have 904 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 2: as Okay, is this something I can do in my 905 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 2: twenties and only in my twenties, then go ahead and 906 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,920 Speaker 2: do it. But if this is something like a fancy 907 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 2: house or a fancy car, like yeah, when you're forty 908 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 2: and you you know, are stuck at home because you 909 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 2: have kids and you can't travel the world because it's 910 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 2: too complicated, then yeahee cars going to make you super happy, 911 00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 2: So leave that for your forties. You don't have to 912 00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 2: have everything perfect right away. Like, some of my happiest 913 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 2: times are as a student, and we had nothing when 914 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 2: we were students. So yeah, don't let this seem like 915 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,759 Speaker 2: I'm talking down on five because there's not a day 916 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 2: that goes by that I don't appreciate the choices of 917 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 2: my twenties and thirties. But I would say, never let 918 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 2: your job be an excuse for what you really want 919 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,960 Speaker 2: to be doing, because you have time. If you're on Twitter, 920 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 2: you have time. If you watch YouTube, you have time. 921 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 2: If you play video games, you have time. And you 922 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 2: just have to do the hard thing and make the 923 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,160 Speaker 2: uncomfortable choices to do what you want to do. And 924 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 2: that's not going to change if you have a million, 925 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:47,279 Speaker 2: ten million, one hundred million in the bank. So don't 926 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 2: let your job be an excuse for not doing what 927 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 2: you want to do. Just do the hard work, because 928 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,400 Speaker 2: it's much harder to put off the hard work, trust me. 929 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a really good quote. 930 00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 2: I can't remember it and I'm going to butcher it, 931 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 2: but it's something along the lines like there's only you 932 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,560 Speaker 2: have to make a choice. It's either pain now or 933 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:09,720 Speaker 2: pain later, and that is that is really really the case. 934 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 2: So choose the pain now. Because it'll make later a 935 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,399 Speaker 2: lot more fun. You don't have to spend like everyone else. 936 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:16,719 Speaker 4: I think. 937 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 2: I think it just boils down to that you need 938 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 2: to experiment because you have no idea what you want. 939 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 2: You think you know what you want, but then you 940 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 2: don't because you try it and you're like, I don't 941 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:31,839 Speaker 2: want this, So experiment in low you know you don't 942 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 2: want to experiment and buy the boat and think, Okay, 943 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,480 Speaker 2: this is my experiment because the boat's expensive, but rent 944 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,800 Speaker 2: the boat. See if you want to live on the ocean, 945 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:44,279 Speaker 2: and you want because it's it's way, you're going to 946 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,879 Speaker 2: sleep terribly. But don't put off your perfect life to FI. 947 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 2: If you are one of the fire people like me 948 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 2: who thought everything would be perfect once you hit FI. 949 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 2: But you know, don't spend like everyone else, because everyone 950 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 2: else is crazy. 951 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,800 Speaker 3: I think that's why, Like I think that's so true. 952 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,160 Speaker 3: Pain now or pain later, whether that's when it comes 953 00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 3: to saving your money or in your case, spending it, 954 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:07,600 Speaker 3: which I think it is more rare. But what I 955 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,720 Speaker 3: hear you saying too is to pay attention to shelf 956 00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:12,560 Speaker 3: life right. Pay attention to the limited amount of time 957 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 3: and the limited exposure that you might have to certain experiences. 958 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 3: Don't short change those. And I really like too what 959 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,359 Speaker 3: you ended there. When it comes to experimenting, figuring out 960 00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,239 Speaker 3: what it is that you might actually enjoy, like what 961 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 3: is your craft beer equivalent, it takes some time, It 962 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,160 Speaker 3: takes some trial and error to figure out what that 963 00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 3: thing is. 964 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 4: But pick a lot of craft beer for us to 965 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,120 Speaker 4: get there. That's true, Randa. 966 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 3: We really appreciate you chatting with us today on the podcast. 967 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 3: Will make sure to link to the Mad Scientists and 968 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:41,279 Speaker 3: typically we say farewell at this point, but you are 969 00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 3: sitting here with us and we are all sharing the 970 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,880 Speaker 3: same craft beer. And so during this episode, we enjoyed 971 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:49,400 Speaker 3: a beer by a Verdant. 972 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:50,920 Speaker 4: This is Putty. 973 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,040 Speaker 3: This is a triple IPA Brandon, I'm gonna toss this 974 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,400 Speaker 3: over to you. What were your initial thoughts? What do 975 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 3: you think about this beer? 976 00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 4: I love it. 977 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 2: So Verdant is one of my favorite ukber and Puddy 978 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 2: with three t's is their triple IPA version of their 979 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 2: flagship once a year release Putty, which I love as well. 980 00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:14,439 Speaker 2: So yeah, Putty trip IPA is pretty impressive. And we've 981 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 2: already gone through some cloud water troubles to get to 982 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 2: this stage. So I can't believe I'm stringing any two 983 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,640 Speaker 2: words together at this stage because yeah, as a new dad. 984 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 2: As a new dad, Joe and I can maybe handle 985 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,440 Speaker 2: one half of a beer before. 986 00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 4: We fall asleep. 987 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 2: So the fact that we've got through so many triple 988 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,760 Speaker 2: IPAs to get to the stage is a pretty pretty 989 00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,319 Speaker 2: amazing feat. So thank you guys for coming all the 990 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,439 Speaker 2: way to rural Scotland to see me, and you guys 991 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,960 Speaker 2: are welcome back anytime. And now we're gonna move onto 992 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 2: the Scotch whiskey person of the evening, which is gonna. 993 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 3: Well, honestly, if you're sharing six different triple IPAs amongst 994 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 3: six people, it actually is not too difficult of a 995 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 3: task the accomplished. But man, this was I want to 996 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 3: just thank you so much because this is an amazing beer. 997 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 3: Like it's got the tropic little citrus notes going on, 998 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,399 Speaker 3: but at the same time it's got the sharpness from 999 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:07,399 Speaker 3: the hops. It's so incredibly fresh on a delightful beer. 1000 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,440 Speaker 3: So thank you for sharing a special one from your 1001 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 3: beer fridge. 1002 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 1: See the interesting thing about drinking a great ipa sometimes 1003 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 1: that first sip can be a little biting on the 1004 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,400 Speaker 1: alcohol content and then you have another sip and you're like, dang, 1005 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,239 Speaker 1: wait a second, that just changed a whole lot and 1006 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: this beer did just that, and so they had the 1007 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 1: verdant triple IPA putty is a delight and one that 1008 00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,760 Speaker 1: we don't have any exposure to back in the States. 1009 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 1: You gotta fly all the way to to freaking Scotland 1010 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 1: to enjoy. So thanks to Brandon for providing this delicious 1011 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,320 Speaker 1: beer and this wonderful conversation. 1012 00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 4: But that's going to do it. 1013 00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 1: We'll have links to everything Brandon related in our show 1014 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 1: notes up on the website at howtomoney dot com, and 1015 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: we'll see you next time here at the how to 1016 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 1: Money Podcast. Until next time, Matt, best Friends Out, best 1017 00:48:53,760 --> 00:49:01,400 Speaker 1: Friends Out the