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Speaker 1: Do you leave me here? Kids? Stem So everybody getting

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Speaker 1: together with a family for Thanksgiving. You know, for us Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: everybody goes their separate ways. So Christmas world together Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: my parents to do their thing. I do my thing,

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Speaker 1: Merit does her thing. We kind of like spend time

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Speaker 1: with everybody else's families. It's just evolved into that. M

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Speaker 1: But I know a lot of people go home and

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Speaker 1: at some point at the table a parent or an

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Speaker 1: aunt or an uncle always asked that one question that

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Speaker 1: you know is coming, but kind of drives you nuts

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Speaker 1: always every year. I mean, for me, for a long time,

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Speaker 1: it was when my grandparents were alive, We're ever gonna

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Speaker 1: see you get married before we go. We're ever gonna

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Speaker 1: see a grandkid before we go. Pressure, pressure, And that's like,

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Speaker 1: that's not even about you. It's like they want a grandkid.

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Speaker 1: But see, I think at this point they look down

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Speaker 1: and go, we were asking for too much, you know,

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Speaker 1: some of the most common question to ask. So Ruby,

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing you were with your your family for Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend, my boyfriend's family came down, his grandma, parents,

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Speaker 1: and then my mom and my brother. Okay, so everybody

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Speaker 1: got together what's it like when the parents are all

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Speaker 1: sort of waiting for this proposal and it hasn't happened

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Speaker 1: to they talk about it amongst themselves. Yes, but it

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Speaker 1: was actually the grandma that was like bringing it up.

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Speaker 1: She's just like, I want to still be able to

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Speaker 1: walk at your wedding, Like, let's make it happen. It

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Speaker 1: could be something simple like and yeah. I find that

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Speaker 1: also as the day or the meal or the wine

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Speaker 1: or whatever goes on, the seriousness of those statements becomes

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Speaker 1: even more serious. Like they're kind of not kidding with

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Speaker 1: you know. It's not subtle. It's like very like and

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Speaker 1: what are they happening? Just have a good habit of

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Speaker 1: like saying it and sang it and sang it again, subtling. Right,

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Speaker 1: So what did you How do you respond to that

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Speaker 1: when when that happens. I just kind of let David,

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Speaker 1: that's my boyfriend's name, David, kind of like handle it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you could respond, that's your family, you

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Speaker 1: can kind of and I'm just like, hey, I'm I'm ready,

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Speaker 1: he's ready where it's going to happen, But we're not rushing.

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Speaker 1: I guess leave us alone. Thanksgiving, it's not. It's forgiving thanks,

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Speaker 1: not for interrogations. I know Ceceny always talks about when

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Speaker 1: she get together her family. She has three kids, and

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Speaker 1: they still say when you have more kids? Say guys

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Speaker 1: with respect, trying to through COVID this week. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've had everything under the sun. That was MICHAELA. Michael.

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Speaker 1: Did you get a question? Every year? I certainly do.

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Speaker 1: What's someone you? Could? You sound sick too? Are you okay?

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Speaker 1: I have a cold too? Oh my gosh? Can we

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Speaker 1: please just get to Christmas? What do they ask you?

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Speaker 1: Why am I single? They're always like why are you single?

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Speaker 1: And I never have an answer for them. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just living my life. Like if

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Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend, I have a boyfriend, doush it off?

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Speaker 1: I kind of do. I'm just I get I'm so

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Speaker 1: over it. Like even this year, I wasn't with my family,

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Speaker 1: but I was on FaceTime with my grandma and she

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, who are you with? And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, my friend ends. I'm having a friend's giving

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Speaker 1: and She's like, no boyfriend, no, grandma, no. You know.

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Speaker 1: Every time they get used to it, I would always

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Speaker 1: say when they asked what I was still single. I said,

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Speaker 1: I am intentionally single. Okay, dating is hard in l A.

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Speaker 1: It is, it is, That's what I'll say. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I always end up saying, you know, it's not as

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Speaker 1: easy as it was back in the day. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty hard these days. And I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just get from my mom. You know. I listened

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Speaker 1: to everything you say on the radio. Okay, I understand

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Speaker 1: like this right right here, right now, All right, let's

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Speaker 1: get to tell me something good coming up here. One

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