1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: The second date of date. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 2: If you go out on a really good first date, 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 2: it might end in a little kiss. It could end 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: in a tender hug, or, if you're lucky, a three 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: way chicken fight with your parents. 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 3: And I don't even know what that is. 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: Sitting on top of each other's shoulders inside of the 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: pool well. One of our listeners says she got something 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: else at the end of her night, a two word 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: whisper in her ear, and she's not sure really what 11 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 2: it meant, if anything. 12 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 4: So let's talk to her. 13 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 3: I just cringe. 14 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 2: Think it could be something really nice and romantic. Baby Angie, 15 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. I'm very curious about this whisperer. 16 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 2: But before we get to that, first tell us the 17 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 2: guy's name and how you met him. 18 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 5: Whisper it to us. 19 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 3: Nikola, no more whispery, No. 20 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 4: More whispery until the actual whisper happened. How about that? 21 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 3: It's easy the heat, I know, their car. 22 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 5: Their radios down or out there. 23 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,559 Speaker 4: I don't know, Cholas, how I. 24 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 6: Mean, it's kind of embarrassing, but we met on plenty 25 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 6: of fish, which I know people don't even use anymore. 26 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 3: But yeah, there's actual only fish on their question what 27 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: drove you to plenty of fish? 28 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. 29 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 6: It's just one of those that, like I said, up 30 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 6: a profile I don't even know how long ago, and 31 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 6: then I'll get in a relationship and I'll get off it. 32 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 6: But like I can just go reactivate it. 33 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 34 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 3: Okay, some question. Does it even have an app? Or 35 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 3: you have to use a browser? I don't even know. 36 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 4: Honest, it only operates over facts. 37 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: Now, okay, got me. 38 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 3: I thought it still was printed out on the back 39 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 3: of the weeklies. 40 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: That could be, I want to But the important thing 41 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: is that you matched with this Nicholas guy. 42 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 4: So tell us what did you do for your date? 43 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 6: We went to dinner. We went to a tie place, 44 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 6: which is one of my faves, So that was good. 45 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: Did you remember that it was one of your favorites 46 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 3: because that's always like really nice too. 47 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 6: Well, I picked it, so that made that. 48 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 4: He deserves credit a little bit for going along thing. 49 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 4: So let's get it. 50 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 6: And I'm a lady who knows what she likes and 51 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 6: it's pad Ti awesome. 52 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 4: So what did you think when you first saw each other? 53 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like we hit it off. I mean, 54 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 6: I will say, dating kind of sucks, and I feel 55 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 6: like a lot of times they get like flirty to 56 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 6: the point that you're like, all right, dude, calm down, 57 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 6: Like they'll ask you for sexy pictures before. 58 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 3: You've even met. 59 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 6: And he didn't. He was more like soft spoken, more 60 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 6: like a like a nerdy type. 61 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: But it was. 62 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: Cute and he was respectful of your boundries. 63 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: Wow. So a nice guy. That's sweet and considerate. I'm 64 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 2: surprised you didn't unmatch him immediate. 65 00:02:55,200 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that's really funny. Okay, was there any like know, 66 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 3: moments of real flirtation that happened. 67 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it felt like a good first day 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 6: for the most part, but like, I don't know, they'd 69 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 6: be like I'd ask him a question and there'd be 70 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 6: like a five seconds delay and then he would go 71 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 6: and the answer and it wasn't weird at all. 72 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 3: But like just staring at you for the five seconds. 73 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 3: You know, though, some people are just bad at timing 74 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 3: in a conversation. Have you ever talked to somebody who 75 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 3: like takes really long pauses and you're like, wait, do 76 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 3: I go? Do we not go? Like maybe his timing 77 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 3: is just a little off. 78 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 4: Maybe what are you talking about me. 79 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 5: Sorry he waited to answer. 80 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 4: So I like to think of it as I'm just 81 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 4: a good listener. 82 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, but I was done talking. I mean, he was 83 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 6: checking his phone a lot, So I wonder if maybe, 84 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 6: like maybe I thought I was boring. I don't know, 85 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 6: you know what, I think. 86 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 5: This is mind blowing to me. He does something that 87 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 5: I could never do, and that is think before he speaks. 88 00:03:53,280 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 3: I'm thinking Google, before he speaks Google, I know that 89 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 3: he's having a I listen in. 90 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 6: The thing was one point, like early on, after we 91 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 6: sat down, like before we had ordered anything, he was like, 92 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 6: oh man, it's really loud over here, and he was like, 93 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 6: do you mind if we moved to like the back 94 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 6: where it's choire And I was like, no, that's fine, 95 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 6: and they moved us. 96 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know. I think I honestly think we're 97 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 3: over thinking it. 98 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: I was just thinking what jose was thinking, like, if 99 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: this is a really sweet, nice guy who's trying to 100 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 2: come off like he really cares, he might take a 101 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 2: second to try and come up with a really good 102 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 2: answer to your questions, I mean blurting stuff. 103 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: Wow. 104 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 3: The whole point is that the awkward pauses didn't bother you, right, 105 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 3: I know, I. 106 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 6: Wouldn't say they bothered me. I just it was weird. 107 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 3: It was noticeable because they probably didn't bother him. That's 108 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: how he communicated to him. 109 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 5: He was like, that was a normal back and. 110 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 4: Forth totally, so overall pretty solid date. 111 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm really really interested though in the end here when 112 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 2: he whispers something in the two words wait, I want to. 113 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: Know if he waited five seconds before he did the 114 00:04:58,160 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 3: run us. 115 00:04:58,520 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 4: Through what happened there? 116 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,239 Speaker 6: Okay, So end of the day, we are like outside 117 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 6: of the restaurant about to go our separate ways. I 118 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 6: give him a hug, and when I hug him, he 119 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 6: whispers in my ear, good. 120 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: Job, good job, good job. 121 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, like sums up good job. 122 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 4: Well, that's weird. 123 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 3: It's so bizarre. 124 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 4: Maybe he just doesn't know how to end a date. 125 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 3: Like maybe it was a new dialogue that came out. 126 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 3: Maybe he was talking to him. 127 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: Is it like the thing where you're you're wanting to 128 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 2: be like hey, good date, or like in two words 129 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 2: that you mix two things together and accidentally say something awkward. 130 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 3: It could be the whole reason he's not calling you back, 131 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 3: because he's like, God, what did I say that? 132 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 6: I mean maybe, but like even after he said it, 133 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 6: I was like, wait, what are you talking about? 134 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: What did he say? 135 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 6: He just he put his finger to his mouth, like 136 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 6: like it's our secret. But I have no idea what 137 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 6: he was talking about. 138 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 5: What is happening? 139 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 4: That romantic? 140 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 3: But anytime a man puts his finger to his I 141 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 3: don't like it. It's creepy anybody, nobody? 142 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 4: So have you texted him since the date ended? 143 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 144 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 6: So we were, you know, we were. We had like 145 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 6: a cute little back and forth before the day, you know, 146 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 6: we'd like send each other memes or whatever, so like 147 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 6: I did that, but no, I have not gotten any response. 148 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 2: Okay, something's up. We're gonna come back rate that's not okay. 149 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: We're gonna call this plenty of Fisher and we're gonna 150 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 2: see what he has to say when we come back 151 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: and get you your second date update right after. It's 152 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 2: the two words that every little boy is dying to 153 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: hear from his unapproving father. 154 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 4: Good job, Yeah, proud of your son. 155 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 3: We're proud of you, Jeff. 156 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 2: That's not exactly what a woman wants to have whispered 157 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 2: into her ear at the end of a first game. 158 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 3: I thought we were going to go into Jeff's therapy session. 159 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,039 Speaker 2: We do nearly enough time, okay, But it's what happened 160 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 2: to her listener Angie after she hung out with a 161 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 2: guy named Nicholas the other night. He gave her a 162 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 2: hug and then softly said, good job. 163 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 5: In girls are not happy about this. Well, she wasn't either, right. 164 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 4: I don't think any woman would be happy about that. 165 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 2: But we've got a lot of questions about the good job, 166 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 2: about some of the other weird stuff that was happening 167 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: during the day. Angie said she's willing to look past 168 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: it if she can get another chance with him, because 169 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: he seemed like a great guy. 170 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 3: He said that he was like a little reserved, a 171 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 3: little nerdy, Like those are some of the quirks that 172 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 3: come with nerdy, you know. 173 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 174 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 6: I mean that's the thing though, Like it's so hard 175 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 6: to meet an actual, nice, respectful guy, and I just 176 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 6: feel like he was And I'm assuming I mess up, 177 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 6: you know what I mean? 178 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 3: You think you messed up, and that's why. 179 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 6: You like literally it's the person who calls in that 180 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 6: messed up. And like I said, maybe thought I was boring, 181 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 6: I don't. 182 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 4: Know, yeah, probably was. 183 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 5: She becoming self aware. 184 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 3: No, I don't like that. 185 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: Are you cool? 186 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 4: If Nicholas has an unapproving father? Is that okay? 187 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 6: I think I can deal with that. 188 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, it's good. 189 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 3: It'll be something Jeffrey and he can bond. 190 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 4: Yes, also, good about it. So let's call him. I'm 191 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 4: a Dallas number right now. 192 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 2: Let's see if he picks up. Hello, Hey, is this 193 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 2: Nicholas listen? Nick hey man, thanks for answering. You are 194 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: on a radio show right now called Brooke and Jeffrey 195 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 2: in the Morning. 196 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Nicholas, how. 197 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 5: Are you man? 198 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: Good morning? 199 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 2: Uh? 200 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: Why am I on a radio show? 201 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 3: Great question? 202 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't know. Have you ever heard of 203 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 2: something called a second date update before? 204 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? I think so. I think so. 205 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: Oh you have okay, congrats. 206 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, you almost know who we are. Now you get 207 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 4: to be a part of one. 208 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 2: So the way that it works is one of our 209 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 2: our listeners has reached out to us hoping that we 210 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 2: could get a hold of you. 211 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 4: A girl named Angie. 212 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: Angie's trying to get a hold of me. 213 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, do you remember her? 214 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: You guys went to ty food the other night. 215 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 2: She's hoping that she could maybe get another chance to 216 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: hang out with you again. 217 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think that's going to 218 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: work out. 219 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 3: Really, Okay, it sounded like such a good date. 220 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, before you even go there, Nicholas, I'm just 221 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 2: gonna let you know. She said that she really liked 222 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: you and that you two shared a good vibe. 223 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I thought Angie was nice. 224 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't mention that, actually, Nicholas, she mentioned a 225 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 2: few odd things that happened on the date, and she 226 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 2: wasn't sure if maybe those were early signs that you 227 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 2: weren't interested in her. 228 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 3: Which actually turns out could be true. At this point, 229 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 3: at first we thought she was. 230 00:09:55,920 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: Nuts, But well, well, what what did she what did. 231 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 2: Well, like we just mentioned, there's like a delay in 232 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 2: your responses a little bit during the normal conversation. 233 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 4: Almost like you're intently thinking of what you're going to say. 234 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 4: A delay, okay, almost happened again. 235 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 3: I think he doesn't notice that that is part of 236 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 3: your conversation. That's fine, that's okay. 237 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 2: And also she said that you had to move to 238 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: a quieter area. And I'm just going to let you 239 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: know what the room thought when we heard everything. The 240 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 2: room was wondering if maybe you had a I listening 241 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 2: in on your conversation to help you respond to your date, 242 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 2: because you were checking your phone a lot too. 243 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't know who the room is, Who's 244 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: who's the room? 245 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 3: It was mostly Alexis. 246 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: Okay because when. 247 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 3: We talked to her, you know, we all give our 248 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 3: ideas like, oh, maybe it could be this, maybe it 249 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 3: could be that. 250 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 4: These are just theories. 251 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,719 Speaker 2: So could you just be honest with us and tell 252 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 2: us did you do that? Were you using AI to 253 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 2: assist you? 254 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: I was having some help on the date, but I 255 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: wasn't using the AI some help on. 256 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 3: The date, help from your phone. 257 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: I was on the line with my ex and she was. 258 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: She was on the line with us the. 259 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 4: Whole time, your ex. 260 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean sometimes I just need help. So 261 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: she's kind of like a security blanket for me. 262 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 3: She wait, you date, did you have like earbuds in 263 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 3: and you were listening to your ex at the same 264 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 3: time you were listening to her? 265 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: No? No, she was just on mute, like she couldn't 266 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: say anything. She wasn't coaching me. I just wanted her 267 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: to hear everything. 268 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 5: So she's kind of taking notes. And then later you 269 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 5: will call her and she will go over the notes here. 270 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 5: That's what I'm thinking. 271 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 3: Your volunteers to listen to hours of your dates? 272 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, what, what. 273 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 4: A kind woman. 274 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: Well, it's part of our post breakup growth. 275 00:11:56,679 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 4: Agreement, post breakup agreement. 276 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: In that Yeah, we mutually agreed upon and I listened 277 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: to her dates too on occasion. It's just we help 278 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 1: each other get through our past breakup and move into 279 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 1: a new one. So it's healthy and very healthy. 280 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's a very conscious uncoupling like. 281 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 3: Your new dates. Oh yeah, well that is a good point, 282 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,239 Speaker 3: because he said sabotage. 283 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: You know, he was not a fan of Angie. 284 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 4: Okay, well, but how did you feel about her? 285 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 1: I was enjoying myself, but she mentioned that she seemed 286 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: like a try hard, and then when I was thinking 287 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: about it, I think that she might be kind of 288 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: a try hard. 289 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 3: Whoa wait, wait, don't you want people to try hard 290 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 3: on a first day? 291 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 6: Excuse me? How was I a try hard? 292 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 3: That's coming in hard? 293 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 4: Yeah? 294 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Nicholas, I'm my find this funny. But 295 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 2: your ex girlfriend and Angie have a lot in common 296 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: because she's actually been on the phone listening in on 297 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 2: this conversation. 298 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: Okay, that's not that's not fair. I didn't I didn't 299 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: know that. I didn't. 300 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, and Angie didn't know your ex was listening 301 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 3: to her either. 302 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it pays to be judging. But say hi to Angie. 303 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: But she was Hi, Angie, there you go Hi. 304 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 6: I mean you're saying this is a healthy thing. But 305 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 6: you also said your ex is your security blankets. So 306 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 6: it does feel like you're ready to be dating other people. 307 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 308 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: No, Well, in most relationships, people don't have the right closure, 309 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: and then they hold on to the past, and so 310 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 1: this is a way to move on to my future. Yeah, 311 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: you're not moving on. 312 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 6: You're literally still relying on your ex to make your 313 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 6: decisions down there, we're dating, well, we. 314 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: Spent a lot of time together, so she knows me 315 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: really well, and she sees things from opposite X that 316 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: I might not see. 317 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 6: Then maybe you guys should be together. 318 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's not. It's not like that. We're not 319 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 1: romantically involved whatsoever. It's just we have a year left 320 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: in our post breakup growth agreement. 321 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a long time. 322 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 4: We're kind of each other's life. 323 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 3: Coaches, really, can't you just recap the date with your 324 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 3: ex instead of having the whole time. 325 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: Well, see, there's trigger words and things that she'll say, like, well, 326 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: that's the red flag that I don't typically see. 327 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 2: This does make sense now why he whispered good job 328 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 2: at the very end of the date. He wasn't saying 329 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: it to Angie. He was saying it to his ex 330 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 2: girlfriend who was listening. 331 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 6: That doesn't make sense. 332 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: No, I was talking to Angie. I did whisper good 333 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: job because I thought that we were going to get 334 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: to go on another date because I enjoyed myself and 335 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: I didn't want my ex to hear her. 336 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 3: Oh, Nicol, so you're. 337 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 6: Not to go out with me again? And you listen me. 338 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 3: I mean, here's the thing. I actually think Nicholas is 339 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 3: over his ex. I think your ex, Nicholas is not 340 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 3: over and I don't think you're seeing that correctly. 341 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: I mean that's the possibility and and I kind of 342 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: agree with that. But we still have our agreement and 343 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: I have. 344 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 3: Rip it up. 345 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 6: Okay, what are we talking about? 346 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? And if all she could come up with is 347 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 3: she's a try hard as the biggest red flag. 348 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 5: Oh man, that's a weak red flag. 349 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 6: And I didn't try that hard I didn't even shave 350 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 6: my legs for that day. 351 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 2: There must be some clause in your contract with her. 352 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: They'll let you get out of it when you find 353 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 2: an amazing new girl like Angie here. 354 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 6: Because I have a question. What if I had put 355 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 6: out on the first date which you have been listening. 356 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 5: Oh my god, that. 357 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: Our date where it's supposed to go over an hour 358 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: and a half. I know we were already pushing it 359 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: at an hour forty. 360 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 3: Wanted to agreement. 361 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 2: She was already breaking the rules a little bit. Yeah, 362 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 2: so the band aid's starting to come off, or he's. 363 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 5: Like, hold on, let me ask my ex, Hey, can 364 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 5: I sleep with this? 365 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 366 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 2: Angie, just real quick, first, are you still interested in 367 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 2: meeting up with Nicholas again after what you know? 368 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 6: Are you insane? 369 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: There's no way. 370 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 4: Oh I thought you were Okay? 371 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 5: No, Jeff, that would have been wild if she said, yeah, 372 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 5: lets she breaks the thing. Yeah, yeah, that's true. 373 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: Angie doesn't want to extend the offer anymore. So Nicholas, 374 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 2: we're not obviously going to give you another date with 375 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: Angie here. 376 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 5: But funny if his girlfriend has been on the line 377 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 5: this whole time too, Oh yeah, wait is she is? 378 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: She? 379 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 6: On the third line. What's her name, let's say hi, 380 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 6: brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 381 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 2: So his ex was on the phone on mute, listening 382 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 2: to the entire date for an hour and forty minutes, 383 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: taking notes, and she said no. 384 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 3: I mean that's shocking. I really thought that that was 385 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 3: going to walk out too. 386 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 5: I tried to call my X over and over and 387 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 5: she's gonna answer. 388 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 4: What's wrong with her? 389 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 5: I don't get it, Jack. 390 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 2: I guess the fascinating thing to me is if she 391 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 2: would have said yes. Could you imagine that conversation where 392 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 2: Nicholas is really excited and he calls you, like. 393 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 4: Hey, great news, we get to go out again. 394 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 2: My ex gave you the thumbs up, first one in 395 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 2: six months. 396 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 4: Congrabs, she prooves. 397 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 3: It really did sound like Nicholas was over his ex 398 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 3: and his ex isn't. 399 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 4: Overham Yeah, like girl or something. Yeah, whatever it is, 400 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 4: it is a messy situation. 401 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 5: Did she give him away at the wedding? 402 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 3: She's still hoping that she is the one? 403 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 4: Yeahless no, fine out. 404 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 2: But speaking of messy situations, our social media YouTube TikTok 405 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 2: Instagram mess you could see all of our second. 406 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 4: Dates on there, and those are messy for sure. 407 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 2: Make sure to comment, like, subscribe at Brook and Jeffrey. 408 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: We appreciate all of our listeners, and if you ever 409 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 2: need help in your dating life, email the show. 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