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Speaker 2: Are you asking for yourself because you've always wanted to

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Speaker 1: I mean, I do my song of the week here

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Speaker 1: all the time, so I fully support that idea. But

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Speaker 1: if I'm some rando going out with Alexis or Brook,

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Speaker 1: probably would not recommend a duet.

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Speaker 3: With them to hate on our singing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're so both vocally talented, thank you.

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Speaker 1: The band would just be so intimidated by the raw.

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Speaker 2: Music and art is more about effort than actual raw talent.

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Speaker 2: If you enough, I sound better, like, don't have that

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Speaker 2: surprise exactly?

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Speaker 3: Do you want us to sing right now?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: I don't want. I don't want the listeners to be

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Speaker 1: intimidated by you. But I only bring God exactly. Sure.

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Speaker 1: I bring it up though, because one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: apparently was singing during his first meet up.

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Speaker 3: I hope it was karaoke.

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Speaker 1: Well let's find out. His name is Charlie. Charlie, welcome

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Speaker 1: to the show you doing?

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Speaker 3: Why did you come in not singing?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: I just want to give a little That's what we wanted.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not much of a karaoke person at all.

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Speaker 1: I singer sol Back. It says in the email here

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Speaker 1: that you sang during your first meet up.

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Speaker 6: Well, I did not knowing what. I guess what I

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Speaker 1: Okay, we put way too much pressure on him coming into.

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Speaker 2: This, So starting to make sense musical, Yeah, I'm guessing

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Speaker 2: it's someone you met online.

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Speaker 3: Right to set up a date.

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Speaker 6: Well, no, not not at all.

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Speaker 5: Actually, I was just at karaoke and I signed up

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Speaker 5: for Bohemian Rhapsody.

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Speaker 6: What nice?

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Speaker 3: You know, like you a singer. I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: You don't like singing and you do a queen song? Yeah,

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I knew the song, so I knew all the words,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It is one thing when you hear a song

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The word singing with you, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like maybe you bit off more than you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and it's like seven minutes long.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, did you at least have friends with you to

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Speaker 3: make fun of you. I was going to say, to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they really tore me apart.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, Charlie, we are doing a second date update.

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Speaker 2: So although Jeffrey has been wanting to do karaoke reviews

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been petitioning to get rid of these stupid

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Speaker 5: Yeah. So after I just like ruined this song and

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Speaker 5: And then she went up and did her song and

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Speaker 5: And asked her if I could buy her a drink

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's the karaoke queen.

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely? Yeah, I asked her out.

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Speaker 2: So you have one drink and then you guys go

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we had a couple of drinks that night, hung out,

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Speaker 6: I think it was like two or three days later.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that's your official date. How did that go?

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Speaker 6: Wow? That was completely different. It's just such a different

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Speaker 5: You know, started off conversating over dinner, and she cried

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Speaker 2: Why was there? Like some I cry over everything? Like literally,

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Speaker 3: No, it's out of my control. It's like my emotional reaction.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what? Like started to crying.

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Speaker 5: We were talking about her sister and she she started crying.

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Speaker 1: So her sister's totally healthy. Her dog's totally healthy, and

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Speaker 3: But crying is it always about being sad or upset?

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Speaker 6: Yeah. But then the third time she cried was over dessert.

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Speaker 1: Because I've cried over some Were you eating dessert or

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Speaker 5: No? No, I said, let's change the environment. Let's go

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, And that.

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Speaker 1: Made her Just the suggestion of dessert made her cry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get her the flawn? Because girlfriend needs

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Speaker 3: She sounds like she didn't even want it. She needs

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Speaker 5: There was this great interaction that we had when I

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Speaker 6: Just went totally off the rail. She was crying about everything.

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Speaker 5: If I had to guess, maybe she's just going through

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so let's call her on the radio and ask

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Speaker 5: Tell us or Ellie, it was just a full moon

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Speaker 5: that night, and people act weird on that night.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to say, some people cry for good things.

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Speaker 1: your second Date Update Super Emotional edition right after this

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Speaker 1: thank you Second Date Update. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning, and if you're just joining us, our listener,

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Speaker 1: Charlie hung out with a woman named Janine on two

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Speaker 1: more on the first hangout, singing and complimenting and high

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Speaker 3: Karaoke, sharing drinks together.

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Speaker 1: That sounds fun.

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Speaker 1: The second hangout, where he's sitting across a table from her,

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Speaker 3: It wasn't fun for her either, Jess. Nobody had a

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Speaker 1: Because we don't know exactly what was going on, not

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Speaker 1: I really don't know what we're gonna get here if

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Speaker 3: I think that we shouldn't bring up the crying. I

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would assume it's something really personal happening

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Speaker 1: That's a good point, fair, We'll just say you hung

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Speaker 2: I mean, she spent a lot of time with him

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Speaker 1: Charlie, is that okay with you? If we take that approach?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I mean, but what do we

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Speaker 5: call her? I just I want to express it. She

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Speaker 5: Maybe she was just having a bad day, you say, if.

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Speaker 3: She has feelings. There's most women you date don't have feelings.

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Speaker 6: Oh they don't. They don't really open up like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh you like the vulnerability?

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I do.

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Speaker 1: Charlie, do you promise us that you're not going to

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Speaker 3: I don't want him to make that promise. Cry if

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Speaker 1: People are going to keep on listening to this. So

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Speaker 1: here we go. Text if you're also going to cry

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Speaker 3: It feels good, It really does. It feels good.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually hoping she doesn't answer it. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: is this Janine.

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Speaker 4: Who's calling?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jeanine, this is a radio show calling. We're called

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Positive Upbeat Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi Janine, Good morning, Okay, you have.

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Speaker 1: A good time today, Janine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, why are.

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Speaker 4: You doing that?

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Speaker 3: You're coming off like an infomercial salesman.

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Speaker 1: I love those commercials. Those are great, They're awful.

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Speaker 3: Hi Janine, welcome to the show. I hope you have

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Speaker 3: a second for us.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hope you have a second.

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Speaker 6: What is this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a This is a segment we do.

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Speaker 1: It's called the Second Date Update, and we try to

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Speaker 1: help out our listeners if they've gone out with someone recently.

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Speaker 1: We try to figure out if there's a reason why

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Speaker 1: they're not wanting to do a second hang the third Really,

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Speaker 4: I have no idea what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: We're really just calling based about a guy that you

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Speaker 1: hung out with recently, a guy named Charlie.

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Speaker 4: Who Charlie Charlie.

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Speaker 2: He's the one that's saying Bohemian Rhapsody at the karaoke bar.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, the karaoke dude. Yeah, I remember him, dude.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So we're trying to help Charlie figure out why

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Speaker 1: you haven't met up again.

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Speaker 4: I don't really have much reason. I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 4: really sure why. Jail's business.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's not I mean, Charlie asked us to call

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Speaker 2: you like on on his behalf.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know why he do that either.

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Speaker 3: Okay, because he likes you. Does that seem far fetched?

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Speaker 1: Do you guys?

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Speaker 3: Are you scared of her job?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. I don't want to know.

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Speaker 3: I think Charlie just really likes you.

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Speaker 4: Well, a lot of guys do. It's nothing new to me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that must be nice. She's a good singer. It

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Speaker 3: gets people's attention. That's true. Yeah, that's true. We did

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Speaker 3: hear your He had a lot of nice things to

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Speaker 4: I mean, he doesn't really know me and I don't

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Speaker 2: So it's strange because he was like, one thing that

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Speaker 2: he really liked about you is how vulnerable you were.

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Speaker 3: And I guess maybe it's just weird to have us call.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, guys are just super easy to be manipulated, Like

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Speaker 4: guys in general, all I have to do is tear

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Speaker 4: up and I'll get a free drink or food.

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Speaker 3: What wait, you're manipulating men. That's like what you get

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Speaker 3: off on?

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Speaker 1: You fake cried.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if it gets me a free uber or drink, food, whatever,

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Speaker 4: it works.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand what because can I just tell her

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Speaker 1: what we know? Because we didn't want to bring this

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Speaker 1: up to you because we thought it might trigger something.

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Speaker 1: But Charlie mentioned that on your second hangout, you cried

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Speaker 1: on multiple occasions and he wasn't exactly sure what was

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Speaker 4: I mean, he bought me the one drink. Everything was fine.

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Speaker 4: I cried again to you know, get another, but he

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Speaker 4: wouldn't buy another.

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Speaker 2: So so then you cried a third time or a

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Speaker 2: second time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what nor we're at it.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I had to try, sure, but he.

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Speaker 3: Mentioned you turned down dessert.

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Speaker 1: No one turns.

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Speaker 4: Why would I stick around if he's not going to

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Speaker 4: buy me any more drinks?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you were You were specifically crying, trying to

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Speaker 1: send the message to buy you a drink, and she

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Speaker 1: wasn't picking up on that message.

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Speaker 3: There's no message, Jeff, She's just manipulating him.

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Speaker 5: Hey, guys, I'm right here, I'm listening.

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Speaker 3: Good, I'm glad you heard all of that. Doesn't who

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Speaker 3: cares about her?

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Speaker 1: Jeanine? Wowro Come on, you said to be respectful about

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Speaker 1: her and her emotions. Right now, you're coming off very rude.

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Speaker 3: She's making all the other women that actually cry look bad.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that you make women look bad.

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Speaker 3: But you're manipulating men for drinks. He would just buy

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Speaker 3: you a drink without you cry.

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Speaker 1: She's just a normal lady.

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Speaker 6: The reason why you fried is just so I would

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Speaker 6: buy you stuff.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you're like, honestly, that's like a toddler.

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Speaker 3: That's what my kids do.

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Speaker 2: They try to cry so they'll buy him something, and

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Speaker 2: I say, no, cry all you want.

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Speaker 3: I'm not buying you that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your emotions are getting the best of you right now.

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Speaker 1: I think you need to take a break. Everyone needs

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Speaker 1: to breathe. We're just trying to figure out what's going

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Speaker 1: on between Janine and Charlie out well, we need to

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Speaker 1: let them talk to over there. Yeah, Jeanine right now,

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Speaker 1: because Charlie has been listening this entire time. He does

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Speaker 1: want to talk to you, Yes, about what I mean, Charlie,

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Speaker 1: now's your moment.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean there's really nothing to say at this point.

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Speaker 6: I mean, she's just a child, and this like.

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Speaker 4: No, this is ridiculous to bring me on the radio

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Speaker 4: like this, Like, what is wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: I have a feeling he's not going to get another

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Speaker 1: date for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we all know this is I think

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Speaker 2: he's mad Jeff for some reasons.

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Speaker 1: He's not manipulating her back with his tears.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, listen, Janine, do you feel so bad for him?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: Why would I?

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Speaker 4: I mean it was a date. It's not like either

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Speaker 4: of us had anything like serious going and he was

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Speaker 4: willing to buy it, So why wouldn't I.

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Speaker 2: I mean, at any point where you actually interested in him,

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Speaker 2: because it sounds like you're just using him to get stuff.

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Speaker 4: I'm not just using him, I'm using all the guys.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, and you've you've figured out the key to

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Speaker 1: manipulating men is to shed a few tears and then

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Speaker 1: they'll do whatever you ask them for.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Like, I don't even have to be on a

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Speaker 4: date with them. You know, they could be sitting next

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Speaker 4: to me at a bar or something and I just

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Speaker 5: Everybody everybody's gonna think you're a basket case and you're

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Speaker 5: a crazy lunatic, or.

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Speaker 4: People can just think I'm controlling my emotions in a

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Speaker 6: I mean, I got five hundred bucks off a car

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Speaker 6: the other day.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, it's a good deal. Actually need to step that.

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Speaker 3: Listen.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like Janine, I hear that you're angry

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Speaker 2: at men and you just want to use them, Like,

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Speaker 2: maybe you could channel that energy in a different way.

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Speaker 3: Go big.

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Speaker 2: I don't know a person nic boat would be nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, an idea. Why don't you just shut the up?

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Speaker 1: I think that was directed towards you, Brooke.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I mean all of y'all everything to one of you.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, she just hang out for sure we were

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Speaker 3: going to get a date.

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Speaker 6: I can't believe that's all for that. I really thought

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Speaker 6: she was going to through something. I mean, you guys

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Speaker 6: did too.

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean, yeah, I know the whole room kind

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Speaker 1: of fell for it, but I didn't. I knew the

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Speaker 1: entire time that. I mean, let's be respectful of this goal.

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Speaker 1: Remember that that sounds like a perfect impersonation of Meroo

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Speaker 1: Jeff in the morning. You know, here's the question that

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Speaker 1: we didn't ask. Has anybody in this room fake cried before?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I feel like someone here has definitely tried

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Speaker 1: to cry to get out of a speeding ticket at

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Speaker 1: least once. And if that's true, then we are no

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Speaker 1: better than that woman on the phone. You fake it before.

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Speaker 3: No, I've really cried.

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Speaker 2: I've gotten pulled over, it really hicked, but it's still

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Speaker 3: I mean no, it was. It was real.

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Speaker 1: Though. The officer was like, come on, man, this is

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Speaker 1: not gonna work. You're the twelfth woman to try to

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Speaker 1: manipulate me with. I'm actually really see tears, but I

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Speaker 1: still don't believe that. I do like the idea though.

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Speaker 1: Crying isn't a sign of weakness. It's a tool of manipulation.

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Speaker 1: Frame crying into something positive. We can be manipulated into

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Speaker 1: helping our listeners if you send us an email with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of crying emojis on it, and I will

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Speaker 1: feel obligated to take action. That action might be to

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Speaker 1: drag your email right into the trash, or it could

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Speaker 1: be to help. You might as well reach out and

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Speaker 1: find out.

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Speaker 3: We could have just said the second part, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We will try to help. Just email the show. We'll

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Speaker 1: call that person who's not calling you back, and go

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Speaker 1: check out all of our second dates. Yeah, you find

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Speaker 1: them online where you get your podcast? That Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey Stick