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Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all's your girl? Lex p And is your girl?

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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Where speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today. So y'all know,

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Speaker 2: I gotta do an introduction every time. Yes, Like, I'm

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Speaker 2: really having a moment right now. I was trying to

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Speaker 2: a Love Island stand First of all, I was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're having bump uh, Like I love to have bumped

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Speaker 2: up with all the girls, my my accent band, my

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Speaker 2: put up on the lingo just from watching Love Island

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Speaker 2: and I watched your season actual, so when we was

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Speaker 2: like with detail, it's like, oh, we can get with you,

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Speaker 2: that slide, We're gonna have to switch that shp out

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Speaker 2: right now. So today we have with us the beautiful

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Speaker 2: Whitney out of Bate all from Love Island.

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Speaker 1: Myself. You gotta you have to be your biggest cheerleader.

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Speaker 1: So how are you? First of all, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you go off some specific questions I'm media training,

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Speaker 3: so I'm just like I'm good, okay, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, Look we don't have a ball. By the time

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Speaker 2: Room.

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Speaker 1: We should have took a little shot of room one

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Speaker 2: So yeah, speaking of the room, this episode is sponsored

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Speaker 2: by how do You?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say it wrong? Now, how do

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Speaker 2: It's called lost O Loss. I'll sound cutchy when I

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Speaker 2: say everything, but it's very tasty. Y'all. Make sure if

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Speaker 2: y'all are watching from the UK, y'all go cap that period. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into We're gonna start from the beginning.

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Speaker 2: So how was your life like before doing Love Island?

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Speaker 2: Because Love Island is really huge here, It's like a

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Speaker 2: you did Love Island?

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Speaker 3: Seven Wigs We Love Yeah yeah, And I was just

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Speaker 2: So it was just like normal every day to day

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Speaker 2: stuff like what So what made you be like, let

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Speaker 2: me go on this show because I would kill it.

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Speaker 1: I was just tired of routine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you know, when you're entrepreneur, you're kind of

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Speaker 3: I was like, surely life has more to give, yea,

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Speaker 3: you know the one. Yeah, I was just like, why

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Speaker 3: they hit you up? You know you were bad?

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Speaker 1: Please audition for what?

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: I would never wake up and be like I loved

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Speaker 1: But then I was just like why not. See that's

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Speaker 3: I'd formed the followers before. Oh I'm a low key babe, okay.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, oh, I wasn't checking for you,

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Speaker 3: So when you were responded to, what was the process?

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Speaker 2: So let me ask you this, Because watching Love Island

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I'd be horrified for them sometimes because

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Speaker 2: Like, ask you the question there because before did you.

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, but these are my non negotiables

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying from a consumer's point of view, it

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Speaker 1: You know, like it was like always giving like you

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Speaker 1: But because my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had nothing to lose, yeah.

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Speaker 3: But probably everything to gain, right, I might gonna be

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Speaker 3: I agree. I think you're right about that too. Like

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Speaker 1: They going there because they want to get fat me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so did you did you go in there with

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Speaker 1: Let me wik where you saying? Yeah, Like was that

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Speaker 3: I didn't think I was going to fall in love,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't go the intentions of I'm going to

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Speaker 3: promote my business. My business is Stilling stand By right

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Speaker 3: now rebranded. Yeah it's Dephinitely wasn't a money game for me.

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Speaker 3: I just went on for a break. Yeah, like something different,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I like that because sometimes like life get boring.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, I realized with my life too,

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Speaker 2: I can't, I cannot. I was like, I'm getting tired

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Speaker 1: So I get it. And even as like an entrepreneur,

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Speaker 2: So I just had to Yeah, I see what else?

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into this first topic. I know

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know they were like and she said.

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Speaker 1: You feel where I'm going.

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Speaker 2: So I think sometimes when you, especially a black woman dating,

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Speaker 2: It's like for real, that's how they look at it.

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Speaker 2: So how do you like handle that? Because I know

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Speaker 1: Do you get me?

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Speaker 3: And they come from a stance of all like what's

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's about race. Yeah, I honestly

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Speaker 3: feel like just trying new things. Yeah, and I'm a

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Speaker 3: switch up the science experiment. Yeah. If you keep going

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Speaker 3: for the same type of man, right, you're gonna get

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Speaker 3: the same.

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Speaker 1: Type of results. Right.

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Speaker 3: So I don't feel like there's any harm engaging what

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Speaker 3: else is out there. Yeah, I think you've got to

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Speaker 3: step outside of your box for sure. Yeah, one hundred

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Speaker 3: percent agree with her. If you keep trying the same thing,

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Speaker 1: See, I ain't gonna. I'm a little lectose and tolerance

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Speaker 1: now see we ain't bring. Now, we ain't bringing. It's

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Speaker 1: a new thing. First to deny you.

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Speaker 2: I am thirty four years old, Okay, I am anti status.

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Speaker 2: I grew up in an all white town though, so

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Speaker 3: It's so like something he's just good for the soul,

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Speaker 1: Like, y'all are Oh no, I'm Nigerian. They wasn't.

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Speaker 3: My mom she either likes you she doesn't. Yeah, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so how does she feel about you going on

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Speaker 3: I am weeks. I imagine nigerianppears be a real real

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Speaker 1: He's not like pure vanilla. Yeah, I know he had

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I like a little flavor because I can't

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Speaker 1: I do so a little. Yeah, yes, he's not sorry,

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Speaker 3: It's what about his father, Like is he close with

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Speaker 2: Okay, I like that because you know what, I'm not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm just saying, like I'm just a strong

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Speaker 1: Into consideration when I'm looking. Yeah, because when I was

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking a half hour bro, I was in the streets.

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying, even though, why you carried yourself on

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Speaker 3: Like I'm not really a love a girl for real,

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Speaker 2: But they're like he's like a dog, like he ain't

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Speaker 1: Is she a dog?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever had If you ever see as oh

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Speaker 1: If you ever look at my yeah you didn't even

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Speaker 2: Ever see a random American man crying, nine times out

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Speaker 3: Not in my twenties now now, Oh, I'm I want

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Speaker 1: Let always got a man.

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Speaker 2: I fall in love every day I will. I will

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Speaker 2: be hard down crying, hard down, crying while I'm getting

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Speaker 1: I think love is.

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Speaker 1: made me baby, he was tearing that thing up and

446
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Speaker 1: telling her I love you girls, Yeah, are you gonna

447
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 1: be yeah? Girl? That was making sweet, sweet love. So

448
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just a beautiful thing.

449
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 2: But I've always value that, Like I do think you're

450
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,159
Speaker 2: supposed to have your fun in your twenties, but I

451
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,240
Speaker 2: think what's good about you was like you're twenty six.

452
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: It really ain't nothing in the streets though it's nice

453
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Speaker 1: and that's the truth. Nothing now.

454
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:49,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like the fact that you're like from

455
00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 2: what I see, like I don't know your relationship like that,

456
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 2: but it's like you're happy, you know.

457
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 1: It's like y'all are flourishing. So it's like if you

458
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Speaker 1: found that, I wish I would have found that at

459
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Speaker 1: twenty six.

460
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 2: I wish I would bitch. I mean, I want to

461
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,719
Speaker 2: pop that pussy all them times across the flat, across

462
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 2: the pond, across the pond.

463
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have to bed out there doing what I

464
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Speaker 1: was doing.

465
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Speaker 3: I don't know, a good thing about being a lover girl, though,

466
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 3: is that you're like always ready for new love, Like, Okay,

467
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: this didn't work out, so like let me go find

468
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:25,479
Speaker 3: somebody else with me. Look if we ain't no switching up.

469
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Speaker 3: And when I go through break when I go through breakups,

470
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Speaker 3: I be stressed.

471
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Speaker 2: Bro.

472
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Speaker 1: I was like, you lost like lose weight that breakup. Oh, yeah, girl,

473
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 1: One time I broke up.

474
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 3: One time I got in this little situation and I

475
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 3: was so in love with this man and he was

476
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Speaker 3: way older than me. That's why I don't work to

477
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 3: me and Dayton oh the mad way. So I would

478
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Speaker 3: have prob girl there, but they how to manipulate too. Yeah,

479
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 3: and I think that's why they love to date women

480
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 3: that are way younger. So I was like twenty six

481
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 3: and I think he was like thirty eight thirty nine.

482
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Speaker 1: Girl. He had stressed me out, so I lost twenty pounds.

483
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 1: But you was looking was heartbreak? You eating?

484
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 2: So are you a lover girl like before him? Like

485
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 2: were you alive or were kind of like giving future vibes?

486
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 3: Oh no, I've never been the future baby. Okay, so

487
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 3: you've always been a lover Now. I'm a love AGirl,

488
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Speaker 3: but I'm a strong lover girl, as in like I

489
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 3: mean like, oh yeah, my heart's not on the line, like.

490
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Speaker 2: I would follow up with anything. Somebody hand me a

491
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: burger and actually touched my hand. I'm well, it's a sign?

492
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Speaker 1: Did you mean? Because did you give me an extra ketchup?

493
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: It's given you like me? I don't know.

494
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Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm hard one okay, so it's like you

495
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 2: fall in love, but it's hard to like break to

496
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: break that wall down.

497
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Speaker 1: Do you have siblings?

498
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

499
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Speaker 1: How many? Like a lot in total? Five?

500
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Speaker 3: Oh okay, So where are you in the in the

501
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 3: On my dad's side, I'm the second youngest. My mom's side,

502
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: I'm the youngest.

503
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: So you're kind of like the baby. I'm the baby too.

504
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 2: So do you feel like the way like your outview

505
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 2: is on like the world kind of like you kind

506
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: of like to be spoiled and babied a little bit

507
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: and kind of like, you know, I.

508
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Speaker 1: Don't even think so no, really, let's talk. That's why

509
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Speaker 1: I'm glad you hear, sister. Don't tell it. I just

510
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: feel like I get what I desire. See that's how y'all.

511
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Speaker 1: What's your son school? Oh yeah?

512
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Speaker 2: And tourists are like yeah really yeah, see that's what

513
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 2: I told you. I watched the show and that was

514
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Speaker 2: giving like my way.

515
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Speaker 1: On the highway. Yes, bitch, why do you say that?

516
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: It's not a bad way. That's not a bad.

517
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Speaker 3: See if the negative, but I'm kind of like I

518
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 3: like what I like, Yeah, this is what is seeing America.

519
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 3: We don't look at it like a bad thing. Yeah,

520
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 3: Americans really nice to Meteo. They want to sided me,

521
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 3: so they like America, America. You probably inspire a lot

522
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Speaker 3: of the girls, like they probably like, I want to

523
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Speaker 3: be like that.

524
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Speaker 2: I want to say, because I don't stand on bandings

525
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: at all. She said, So I said, when you're like

526
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 2: my way or the highway, that's, yeah, a good thing

527
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 2: because women in America we always been for a man

528
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: or we been for this and we're always getting.

529
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Speaker 1: Walked all a lot. What oh I'll be doing then,

530
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: but not in that way, damn it? See how she't see?

531
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Speaker 2: But I say it's a good thing because it's like,

532
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: it's a good thing to be like my way or

533
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 2: the highway.

534
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So it's not it's not

535
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Speaker 1: a negative thing.

536
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Speaker 3: How I feel like people look at the end result

537
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 3: like they didn't think about, oh how they got ahead.

538
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 3: It was a journey, yeah, one that's strong in what

539
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: they believe, like it takes a while together.

540
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Speaker 1: But when you're that, it's like why would I go

541
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: back right right? Why would I want to for you? Yeah?

542
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: Because that's how Dre is and I feel like, yeah,

543
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 2: I'm not doing the being no like why but relationships

544
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 2: do take compromise, though, Notice like a change. What changes

545
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: have you noticed yourself since like being not in front

546
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 2: of the cameras and you know it's real life now.

547
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: Talk about that transition and what changes you've seen in yourself.

548
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm definitely more nicer. Do you think

549
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm nicer?

550
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm definitely okay, Like, I'm definitely more feminine.

551
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 3: When you have someone that's more like, that's very masculine

552
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 3: in your life, you have no choice choice, but you

553
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 3: have to be double when you're with like feminine men.

554
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: Of course you want a row like, but I didn't

555
00:26:53,760 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: be rowing these days. That's not I feel And what's

556
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: his sign? He's aries what's your stun? I'm a Leo girl.

557
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: You know I'm a fire sign. So I'll say this.

558
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 2: I feel you in that way because obviously I'm very animated.

559
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 2: I have a lot of personality, and I'm very like

560
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 2: they gonna take this the wrong way, but I'm very

561
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: masculine in my every day like I'm very assertive when

562
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 2: in work and my relationships, my friendships, I'm very like that.

563
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: But I can honestly say this is the first relationship

564
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 2: i've been in where my soft side comes out, Like

565
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 2: if people.

566
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: Saw me with my man, it would be like, who

567
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: the fuck? Easy?

568
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 2: See, I'm posting on my close friends because I can't

569
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: let niggas know they gonna catch me slipping. Because when

570
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: you let niggas know you saw, that's when they start

571
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 2: being like, oh, I can't wait till something fuck up

572
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna baby.

573
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: I wake up every more. I cook for my man,

574
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: doing his laundry. I cook, I clean, I fuck, I

575
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: should up. You know what I'm saying.

576
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 2: I do it. I get the job done. But I

577
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 2: feel like it's a safe space to do that. I

578
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 2: don't feel like I have to be on all the time.

579
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I have to have this like

580
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 2: this mask up. And I think a lot of times

581
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 2: we as women, especially Black women, I can't y'all hear.

582
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 1: To be strong. Yes, it's gonna say that.

583
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 3: So do you feel like it's only certain things you

584
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: could do before you get the ring? Because I'm kind

585
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 3: of like, what the ring?

586
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: Yeah? What do you mean? Like like I just feel

587
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: like I don't.

588
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 3: In certain situations, like even with me, like I kind

589
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 3: of I have a boyfriend right now, we in a

590
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 3: Rocky Race a little bit, but like, but I just

591
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 3: think it's a certain thing. It's like doing too much

592
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 3: before you get the ring.

593
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: But I don't believe in doing too much. You don't.

594
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: Okay, No, what are some examples of like doing too

595
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 2: much to y'all, That's what I'm saying.

596
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: That's what I.

597
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 2: And my wife people have those views, because to me,

598
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: that's just like we're always in each other's space.

599
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: So it's like I gotta eat. But when I think

600
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: of like doing wifely things, but you don't normally cook.

601
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: But wait, but I'm saying doing wifely things to me

602
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: is like when I think of like, don't do stuff

603
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 2: in a relationship versus the marriage I'm talking about like

604
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: don't be buying property together, don't be having bank account together,

605
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 2: don't be buying.

606
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: The iverage pass and can't even the full.

607
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying when I when I think of, like,

608
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: don't do stuff for your boyfriend beforehand, Like honestly, when

609
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 2: I was in college and stuff, I enjoyed cooking.

610
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Speaker 1: And that's why I was like, it's crazy because my

611
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Speaker 1: sister's like not way max college because I was popping.

612
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Speaker 3: She didn't.

613
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: I was popping pussy. I was traveling around the world.

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Speaker 1: Ain't cook two made.

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616
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Speaker 2: and doing that stuff like that.

663
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: Ain't like wifely do these to me? I guess to me,

664
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 1: I consider them to be.

665
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 3: I feel like if I do in abundance, then I'm

666
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 3: trading in the wifey g Yeah.

667
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like once in a while and not a little brain. Yeah.

668
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: I can cook, I can clean.

669
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 3: I'm not this isn't my job. Yeah, I'm not cleaning

670
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 3: your house every day. I clean my house in your

671
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 3: house there.

672
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: When I tell y'all, I got a new apartment, right,

673
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: a beautiful new apartment.

674
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: I've stayed the night there twice. I've been in there,

675
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 2: like going on like almost a month now, three weeks now.

676
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: I've been in that bed twice.

677
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But to me, it's not

678
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: like it's a job.

679
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 2: I'm just like, Okay, I get up, you know, I'm

680
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 2: cleaning really essentially clean up after myself because I'm in there,

681
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Or like I'm gonna get

682
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: up and cook myself breakfast anyway, you know.

683
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: But I'm here. Of course I'm gonna make it. I

684
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: don't look at it like you. I don't go apartment,

685
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: why would you? Two days? Like you know what?

686
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 2: And you know, so one night I stayed thinking the

687
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: one night I stayed in my apartment he came with me.

688
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: Do he.

689
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 2: In my apartment though? No, I pay my rent be

690
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: that to not be there. But honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

691
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: It was like the way our relationship was moving though.

692
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: It was kind of like I didn't think I was

693
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: gonna be at his house like that either, because I

694
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 2: literally just moved out and I signed the new least

695
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: and all this stuff.

696
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: But lot of time together, I think, So I don't,

697
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: but I know what I'll be trying. My man loved

698
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: me down.

699
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 2: That I mean, I agree, No, No, we do talk

700
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 2: about that, like I'm saying, like, but I'm thirty four

701
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: as well, so it's like marriage is like something that

702
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: I want. These are conversations that we have, you know

703
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, so like jokes aside, I do feel like,

704
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: you know, it'd be different strokes for different folks and stuff.

705
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 2: And I think I am in a safe most importantly,

706
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 2: I'm in a safe space, especially coming from the relationship

707
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: I was in you know what I'm saying. So I

708
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 2: think for us, it's kind of like we're doing what

709
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 2: works for us and we're having a good time. You know,

710
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 2: it's a safe space and it's cool and we have

711
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: the conversation.

712
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: So we gonna see.

713
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 2: But hey, if i'm calling you crime this know, I'm

714
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 2: going on to day that night, I'm gonna be alone.

715
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 2: If you don't work out with me, she's gonna I'm

716
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: gonna be like next time we have it. Wait, let

717
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 2: me tell you, I'm gonna be in the dairy.

718
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: Wow, it's slept. Okay, we got what's up, y'all? Iss

719
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: your girl xp andy.

720
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: She girls ran to call and y'all do not forget

721
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 2: to call our shot line. I know you heard of

722
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,479
Speaker 2: a hotline, but this is the poor mind's shot line.

723
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all. Y'all need to

724
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,720
Speaker 3: call in, y'all, And this is not necessarily for questions.

725
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 3: You know, we just want to hear from y'all if

726
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 3: we want to know y'all, feed back, y'all, thoughts on

727
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 3: the show, or just what's going on in your life.

728
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: So you can always call six seven eight eight two

729
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 3: seven one eight two seed.

730
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute.

731
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 2: Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,

732
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 2: says a brother, cousin boyfriend.

733
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well I want to hear about that.

734
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 2: Actually, well you know they can let a little some

735
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 2: but you know, we want to keep it cute and short.

736
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 2: Like she said, this is not questions, This is not

737
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 2: pour your heart out. So just call give us a

738
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: little feedback. What you want to see on the show,

739
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 2: any suggestions, what you think about the show, if you

740
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 2: just want to simply give us our flowers, you know,

741
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 2: or any it could be anything. What's bothering you this week,

742
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: what got on your nerves this week? If you just

743
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 2: want to vent and get some things off your chest,

744
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 2: pull the shot line again. The number is six seven

745
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 2: eight eight two seven one eight two six.

746
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

747
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 3: So for the second topic, I really wanted to talk

748
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 3: about the difference between the London girls and American girls.

749
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: Okay, we having this conversation. Dim, Yeah, they are they

750
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: all night. It's I feel like it's a never ending battle.

751
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: But it's weird. Why is that?

752
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, And because I love the UK girl,

753
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 3: I feel like yawn the hair lay the face, the

754
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 3: face be.

755
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,959
Speaker 1: Now you say like the UK girls, Okay.

756
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 3: I my honest opinion in regards to the UK and

757
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 3: American girl is I feel like Americans are naturally great.

758
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: Okay, they've got that.

759
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: I know.

760
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: I think the water they're softer.

761
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 3: I think after what, yeah, you're gonna break out, be

762
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 3: careful really, but I feel like the naturally I feel

763
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 3: like the Americans on average they slay, but in terms

764
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 3: of like.

765
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 1: Like bad bet esthetic. Yeah, okay, So the UK girls.

766
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 3: I know, I feel like us UK girl, if you

767
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 3: can do our own hair dress, we just now to

768
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 3: put ourselves together, like you know, and the hair be

769
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 3: late like you right now I'm looking at you.

770
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm like up to class now. It's still lace, but

771
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: that's all about the way lace.

772
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 2: Where in America they'd be like lace there, Yeah you

773
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 2: can see lights there.

774
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: It's not yeah, yeah you can't see it be given

775
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 1: what is it called? Where did they find y'all have?

776
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: Like y'all have the screen doors out here? We're having indoors.

777
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: What's the screen doors?

778
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 3: So in America like in the hood, Oh, we'll be

779
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,280
Speaker 3: having like burglar bars on the door.

780
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: To stop somebody from breaking in your house.

781
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 3: So it's like these it's like a Yeah, it's like

782
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,359
Speaker 3: a door, but it's bar It's like you in jail.

783
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: So nobody you can't don't have that. And so then

784
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: they have screen doors too. Oh damn, you gonna be

785
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 1: seting see them.

786
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it looks like a screen, but people it

787
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 3: looks like people lace, but not your because yours is

788
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 3: you can't find it.

789
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 1: You can't find it. I mean thinking about the robbers

790
00:37:55,400 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: were lace. Oh yeah, like how many doing.

791
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 3: It's a few because you in the hood to make

792
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 3: sure nobody, you gotta have barricade anytime, like an MLK boulevard.

793
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: You know it's gonna go. I don't have no. But

794
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: of course important.

795
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 2: Important figure like in the States when they name a

796
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: street after them, it's.

797
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 1: Get you made it. It's in the hood. Oh wait

798
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: till I have a dre boulevard. It's gonna be real.

799
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: Get over there. It's'll be like lift gloss and lashes.

800
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: You can find all the lip gloss and lashes on

801
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 1: boulevard like that. But I will say for the UK girls,

802
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: what is it?

803
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 2: Because when me Andrea, like every time that we were

804
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 2: like going out, like y'all are American?

805
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: Aren't y'all?

806
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,439
Speaker 2: Like I can't look and tell unless like, of course

807
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: I have a conversation, but y'all can eye us down

808
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,720
Speaker 2: before we even say anything.

809
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: How we can tell you, like, what gives gives American?

810
00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: I didn't know.

811
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 3: I feel like because my hair not like, No, I'm

812
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 3: looking at you and I'm judging you guys, but you

813
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 3: guys look good.

814
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: Let's start that, Okay. But I feel like I feel

815
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: like you can just tell, you can just tell.

816
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 3: So if you've seen us walking outside, if we didn't

817
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 3: say anything, you would just know we're American. I would

818
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: presume so only based upon the fact that like usually

819
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 3: like UK boddies are like probably like.

820
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: You know them in the UK, Okay, you know it's

821
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: a small community like London small.

822
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, every wants to be a London girl like

823
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 3: London London small. So you kind of like you know,

824
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 3: you know that you know someone that knows someone like

825
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 3: and you've been in their story or you've been there.

826
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: It's very like interconnected.

827
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 3: Okay, So like I would be able to tell, like

828
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 3: I've not seen you around, Yeah, but you're bad, But

829
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 3: how did you miss it?

830
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 1: Where are you from? Yeah? Where are you from? Where

831
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: you came from?

832
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 2: But in America it's different too, because it's like it's

833
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 2: a new bad bitch every day, and how we get

834
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 2: on Instagram, somebody that got a bunch of files or

835
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 2: some rapping up hoasted her, and it's bad bitches everywhere.

836
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: But I feel like it's like they're out here too. Yeah, no,

837
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 2: I'm saying, but it's not. It's a small community though,

838
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 2: an American ain't community. Two bad bitches gonna be sucking

839
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: the same nigga fighting in the club.

840
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 1: Oh no, in the UK, no, we didn't do that.

841
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're doing it in America. They're fighting over there.

842
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: The future. Got two bitches fighting in Atlanta right now

843
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: because they're scarce in America.

844
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 3: Like yeah, it's like it's like twenty bitches to one nigga.

845
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 3: Yeah when you find one, Yeah, you.

846
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: Take at them a bit more. Like, no, we're a

847
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: bit more standard fish. So y'all not fighting over me.

848
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's considered like like that's bottom of the barrel.

849
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like, I mean, I agree because that's the

850
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 3: bottom of the barrel to very much bottom of the barrel,

851
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 3: but I mean that's bottom even below the barrel.

852
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the ever in my life over on me.

853
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 2: You know, I just feel like if you put me

854
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 2: in that situation to even have to do something like that,

855
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: even arguing with a girl.

856
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm not even going back and forth.

857
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: But I think that's something in the States to where

858
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,919
Speaker 2: like men take that as like a badge of honor,

859
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 2: like they think.

860
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: That's that's not like UK, Yeah, I know with him,

861
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: but it's not a bad thing. We hoold ourselves like

862
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: high regards.

863
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the girls in America they're gonna fight over there,

864
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: and I love the UK.

865
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 3: Girls because I don't know, like everything about y'all is

866
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:36,760
Speaker 3: just so regal.

867
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: What did you say? Real regal? What does that mean?

868
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: It means like classy bass, it's given like Queen Elizabeth

869
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 1: or palace or like everything about it. I don't know.

870
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 3: I just think y'all just sound y'all. Are y'all just

871
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 3: give class even if they not, because I know y'all

872
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 3: got like a we definitely have a what I mean,

873
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 3: like okay, Ratchet if you need to, if needs be,

874
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 3: Like everyone's got that within them, Like it takes a

875
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 3: lot and what would we go there? You know, I

876
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 3: don't know if you heard me earlier. But like we

877
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 3: know about the knees knees, yeah, oh so I know

878
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 3: it is ratchet of you, but the.

879
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: Knites don't tend to be like.

880
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 3: You thinking about the niggas are just that was like

881
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 3: that's a differ in the reader. Yeah, but I feel

882
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 3: like every country has a ratchet yeah, like no one's

883
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 3: clear off it.

884
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it would be like every part is good, bad

885
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: and everywhere.

886
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 2: But I feel like UK girls are friendlier too, Like

887
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 2: they're not, I mean, because they've been nicer since we've

888
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 2: been here.

889
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 3: They have now I say, no, I think they are

890
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 3: a little more stand off you. Yeah, I'll say up.

891
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 2: I feel like every time I see when they like

892
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 2: I was randomly we were on the train and girl

893
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, I love your jumper.

894
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 1: Where'd you get it from? Staid fashion Ova? Oh my

895
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: nine to nine? I'll be why do we do that?

896
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: Why would somebody ask us I love your hair? Girl

897
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 1: is fake? Why do we do that? Yeh, girl, this

898
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: is sixty don't know.

899
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 2: I did definitely say that because I got it on steel.

900
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 2: But but I feel like the girls have been nice,

901
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: like they've been just like, oh my god, y'all are so.

902
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 3: Pretty and this I thought, you take I was all

903
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 3: nice by passing for like Americans and I saw I

904
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 3: think so yeah.

905
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: I think Southern American girls are nicer.

906
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 3: I think black people nice. I think white people in

907
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 3: America not nice.

908
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 1: Really, yes, I feel like I said this on another

909
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 1: I think.

910
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 3: I don't know if it was another episode or I

911
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 3: don't know if we were just having a conversation, but

912
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 3: I was like in my building because like i live

913
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 3: in like Midtown in Atlanta, which is like a popular area,

914
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 3: and I live in a high rise, and so I

915
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 3: feel like every time I'm on the elevator with white

916
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 3: people and I'm like.

917
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: Hey, good morning, they're like they be looking at me

918
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: like a bitch, what the fuck you doing here? Why

919
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 1: are you here? Are you affording to live here? The

920
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 1: economy is fucked up? Right now? What do you do now?

921
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 2: I will say, but you can't girls don't say excuse me, like,

922
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 2: don't literally walk right in between you like I'm talking

923
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 2: to somebody and I'm like cheerio.

924
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 3: Okay, it's I feel like there's different kinds in the UK.

925
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 3: Goes okay, Southeast, Yeah, I think that's how it. I

926
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 3: mean it's the South, like the American South, Like, do

927
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 3: y'all have more manners in the South?

928
00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: South? Your son?

929
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like other women are. Now, if you did the

930
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: podcast with some New York girlies, it's gonna be gonna

931
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 2: be like, yeah, York, I'm aggressive, dead ass bitch. Everyone

932
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: that's all different. Yeah, guys, please the areas in the UK, like,

933
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 2: how are the different girls?

934
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

935
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 3: How like in the South South is more predominantly blacky

936
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 3: I would say West is is West? Yeah, West is

937
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 3: like East is like I would put them more with

938
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 3: the the black. It's more like predominantly black. I would

939
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: say it's East.

940
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, like Dagenham you said gentrified?

941
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So and then the North I personally like,

942
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 3: maybe I'm being biased, but North is like.

943
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: What ok.

944
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 3: Like, guys, am I lying I got some to No,

945
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 3: of course, we think, but I fly in the North

946
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:07,439
Speaker 3: goals the signing about the North.

947
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: You can tell a North from South, Okay, Okay, I

948
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 1: mean it's the same thing though.

949
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 2: You can tell a New York girl from a Houston girl.

950
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 2: Not really, not a New York girl gonna have on

951
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: a fitted in tims period. Now.

952
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 3: Actually, they think about New York girls in America. New

953
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 3: York girls are like very fast. They can dress from

954
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 3: the South dress.

955
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah that's me. You heard me. I'll be fashioned

956
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: over down you.

957
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: Worlds say, I'm I'm gonna fix you up. What I

958
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: was finna put on like ship country, bitch, go again,

959
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: I put it on, little.

960
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: Bit so dress South dress. I agree.

961
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 3: I feel like in America though, up north, the girls

962
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,800
Speaker 3: are way more fashioned, like New York d C.

963
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: Where New York DC even like Chicago. Yeah, Chicago girls,

964
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: I think girls are very fair. Detroit, Detroit girls they're

965
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: gonna put it on. Yeah that's all.

966
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, yeah, yeah, now there are there are

967
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 2: like southern girls. Nothing to do with Detroit but dress.

968
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. Se But honestly, I'm not gonna lie. Like the

969
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 1: reason I feel like Southern girls don't dress as well

970
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: but because it be high. What you want me to

971
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: put on?

972
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 2: I got on daisy dukes and a tank top. Bitch

973
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 2: is hot, y'all want me to have on this and

974
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: I'm not putting that ship on. I'm sweating the car.

975
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 2: Be high like when me feel like a bro. It's

976
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 2: it's easier to dress up when the weather's cool.

977
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, So that's where we come from a tool top

978
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 3: too good.

979
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: All she got on is a rapper bit. You look

980
00:47:49,239 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 1: cute one I know, yeah you podcast, I come on

981
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: properly like ten years. I love me a little wrapper.

982
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: Now I'm talking about a one piece. No no, no,

983
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: it's you were a teacher underneath it. Underneath it.

984
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 2: No, we don't want nothing underth talking about an overall.

985
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 2: So it's like a jumpsuit. Yeah, like a jumpsuit. Yeah yeah,

986
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 2: Robber is more of like a jumpsuit.

987
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: But it's like shorts were talking about the denim and

988
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: the chain, and I was thinking.

989
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 5: Which she when she said to speak up, I was

990
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 5: like a she said a band. Yeah, we was out

991
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 5: with the Tinks.

992
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:59,319
Speaker 1: Go tax this though.

993
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 3: I saw spinking you guys some Texas. Yeah, girl, I

994
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 3: know he's saying. And when I had them, was like, yeah,

995
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 3: you've gotta be.

996
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 1: But I'm not going horses.

997
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:17,760
Speaker 2: And I've seen some people wearing overalls though, like in Texas,

998
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 2: you'll seas like, yeah, it's in a real world country.

999
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 2: But it's like they most like mostly like guys will

1000
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 2: wear when they're working, like in the field, like if

1001
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 2: they have horses.

1002
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: Sound crazy, It is like they have fields out there,

1003
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: they're farming that think.

1004
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 3: I feel everywhere a fashion statement here though for reals ago,

1005
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was like it was a thing.

1006
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: And the shorts and that was a thing.

1007
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 3: Yeah that was a thousand Yeah, no, little bit of

1008
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 3: a T shirt like but she like the overall, Yeah,

1009
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 3: that was the thing you're talking about over I know,

1010
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 3: I'm in the two thousand.

1011
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah, I feel like people wore that

1012
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: in the early two thousands of the States.

1013
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 2: Did y'all ever wear the big ta big like a

1014
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 2: big white shirt, like the guys wore big white shirts

1015
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 2: and like baggy jeans, gowls were No, no, no, guys

1016
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 2: guys like the guys in the UK.

1017
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: Because that was stylished. We had a song called yep

1018
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:22,280
Speaker 1: in my White Teeth. Yeah we did. We are so different.

1019
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 3: The guys especially are completely I find American guys kind of.

1020
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 1: Like tacky, so fully dress it's okay, you could say, yeah,

1021
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 1: I know, and then accident as well, yeah, oh it's bad.

1022
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: You don't like the accident. No, it's like I could

1023
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 1: barely listen to you. No.

1024
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 3: I feel like the women it's very sexy, but the

1025
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 3: guys you got you have to have like a deep tone,

1026
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 3: okay for it to be played for sexy.

1027
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: Otherwise it's just like annoyin see.

1028
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 2: I think with me, I live in my tackiness. I

1029
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 2: don't ever proclaim to be a fashionista. Some times you

1030
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 2: might catch me slipping.

1031
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: It's all right.

1032
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 3: I don't proclaim to be a fashion I think sometimes

1033
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 3: I wear cute she but I don't feel like I

1034
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 3: could like dress dress.

1035
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I feel like something you.

1036
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 2: Can dress dress, But I'm also tacky. I can't take

1037
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: you don't think your fashion.

1038
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: Really you be putting that ship on?

1039
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 3: Give me that the same as you guys. Sometimes more

1040
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 3: times I like that. I'm like this, most of the trainers,

1041
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 3: I don't put that on.

1042
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: Ain't you cash?

1043
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 2: I mean no, I mean like I can't. It'd be

1044
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: like once a year they'd be like, oh looks nice.

1045
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: Oh I you It'd be like once they'd be like,

1046
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: oh my god, thank you. I'll be just tacky.

1047
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:49,439
Speaker 3: I don't know you stuff wrappers, blue wrappers and T shirt.

1048
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,560
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Speaker 1: There all right, by y'all? I want to hear Whitney America,

1068
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 1: yes to what to say? Tell me where I'm from

1069
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: as well? What is gonna give? What we're gonna tell

1070
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 1: her to say? I don't know what we're gonna tell

1071
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: her to say, but I know I want her to

1072
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: be from the South. Be from the South. I think

1073
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:16,399
Speaker 1: the difference In the southmoth wiest say say goddamn, it's

1074
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 1: really hot today, Yes, goddamn, And you got to say

1075
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,280
Speaker 1: in the bridge accent.

1076
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, let me see acting see, God damn

1077
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 3: is pretty hot today.

1078
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: That wasn't bad.

1079
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 3: That wasn't bad, really wasn't bad. So let me tell

1080
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 3: you how they staying in Atlanta. In Atlanta, they be like,

1081
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 3: god damn, oh god, God, goddamn, it's really hot.

1082
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: They're not in Atlanta. I don't understand the American language.

1083
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 3: I feel like y'all want to even say that out here,

1084
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 3: you'll be like it's quite say oh my, what's so hard?

1085
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 1: It's so hot, it's quite tasty, Like you don't say toasty.

1086
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 3: That you guys think we're like really pushed the average UKs.

1087
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's really hard.

1088
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: It's boiling, it's boiling. It's boiling, it's boiling, it's tasty,

1089
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: like to I just feel like it's tasty, toasty sound.

1090
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 3: It sounds like older British, so they would say that, Yeah,

1091
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 3: like hang out tasty.

1092
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 1: I need to be with like hairy and them, Philip. Yeah,

1093
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: that's what I mean. No, they're not old enough. Wait

1094
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: which what is the king right now? What's his name? Charles?

1095
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: You'll know what I mean. Hairy, y'all know what the hell?

1096
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: That's what I mean? Yeah, that kind of generation. Okay,

1097
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: talk like that. I mean for us, it just sounds proper,

1098
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: no matter what your You don't think like we sp Yeah,

1099
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: but y'all like, where's the tea? I don't even drink tea,

1100
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,399
Speaker 1: you know, like my child, I don't.

1101
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 2: I don't drink matchic. They'd be expensive, they be like

1102
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 2: an extra doller. No, no, you all stick to my

1103
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 2: upper water your face.

1104
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: I love my child a march. I pronounced things wrong,

1105
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: so no, you don't. It sounds good to me. It

1106
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: sounds classier. But how are we say it in Texas?

1107
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:43,760
Speaker 1: God damnity Like I don't know. I don't to be honest,

1108
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that's all I said. Goddamn. Yeah.

1109
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 2: It would be more like because they would say Atlanta,

1110
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 2: got damn, God damn.

1111
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: We would say like god damn, like a yeah, like

1112
00:55:54,160 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: got got there, that's clear, like be going. She likes it,

1113
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: she don't like it. Cut the part she said, what

1114
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: is this?

1115
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:16,879
Speaker 3: Don it's getting a little good, and that you guys

1116
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 3: have guns and Oh yeah, I keep that blinky on

1117
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 3: me and my Yeah, American, that's one thing about America. Yeah,

1118
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 3: I see everyone be gone, but I'm not gonna lie

1119
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 3: everybody say that. But he scared me more than y'all

1120
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 3: got knives in y'all pockey, you might go down, maybe a.

1121
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: Pink came up. God like find like, do you really

1122
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 1: is it stopping out here? Compared to America. Oh, you

1123
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: don't get stabbed in America, Like no, shoot you from afar.

1124
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 2: In America, if somebody gets stabbed, you know for a fact,

1125
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 2: it's like somebody that knew each other.

1126
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: In America, it's not even common to get getting this

1127
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 1: is like like personal.

1128
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because honestly, I guess that's a cultural difference. I

1129
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 2: never understood how people got stabbed so much, because like,

1130
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 2: how are you even that clothes?

1131
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: Because you gotta pull up to pull up? Yeah, I

1132
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 1: do you feel? Like?

1133
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 2: Yes, it's very like in America they have like drive

1134
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 2: by shoes, like yeah, homie, I'm gonna ride They'll ride

1135
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 2: by your grandma house and shoot.

1136
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: That bitch up. Y'all gotta ride by there and be

1137
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: like I'll get you. I'm know you know.

1138
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 2: Have you ever seen like a shoot in. I need

1139
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 2: to work at the strip club though, So okay, so

1140
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 2: let me tell you something like flash a gun like

1141
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 2: to let people know. They will flash to let you

1142
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 2: know stop playing. It's a warning.

1143
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: Sorry, but that up to you. How you proceed, you

1144
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: warn what they do. I'm gonna go part my trump.

1145
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 2: I mean, he got them things in their trunk and

1146
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 2: it's time to go home now. While she pulls up

1147
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 2: their picture, let me ask you, y'all be like waving

1148
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 2: knives or get.

1149
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 3: Like y'all be like, it's not a thing that don't

1150
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 3: happened in the UK. It's not it's not one. It's

1151
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 3: not cool.

1152
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: Okay, it's kind of like, no, it's not cool there either.

1153
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: It's not cooling like I don't know.

1154
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 3: It's really like glamorized America in the godd it is

1155
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 3: because in the hood, gonna.

1156
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: Be d Yeah you should be. Yeah, that's why I

1157
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:53,479
Speaker 1: could never live. But I'm training. I was actually paint.

1158
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 1: That's the gag. That's a what is that pop trump?

1159
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:00,760
Speaker 1: I thought, that's like a you know things.

1160
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 3: Let me see it's like a thing in Houston.

1161
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 2: That's not what is it?

1162
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,959
Speaker 1: It's like a pop trunk like so dudes be riding

1163
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 1: around and that's how they like. The trunk is to

1164
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: be inside that it's decorated. But it's like a pop trunk.

1165
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: If you see people guns in this, it could be

1166
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: why is it so pretty? Because you're gonna go out

1167
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:45,479
Speaker 1: and start this will not speaker? Wait could play some people.

1168
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 1: She said it's pretty and least it's somebody stuff you

1169
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: in there? You can see wait want what?

1170
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 4: Wait?

1171
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: Are you guys? This is very serious? Are you guys?

1172
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: Why are they decorating? Because it's a thing in Houston.

1173
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 3: So we'll be having like car shows and then everybody

1174
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 3: comes to the car show, everybody has.

1175
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 1: Like the COVID sign, thanks for being safe. This is so.

1176
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 2: This is so long, but if you see somebody grab

1177
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 2: that white tear, if somebody start unbutting their wrapper, that's

1178
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 2: why the wheels I mean, I'll say this though there's

1179
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 2: different parts. There's clubs that you can go to in America.

1180
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 2: Well you know you're gonna be safe. It's different areas,

1181
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 2: like I'm pretty sure that there is here. I don't

1182
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 2: feel like in the UK this is legal cause of

1183
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 2: sticks coming out the wheels.

1184
01:00:50,080 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 3: Sticks, swingers, swangas, swung as, sungers, what's the point of

1185
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 3: it because it looks nice, but it's not safe.

1186
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: It's not like in in Houston when got money, Like,

1187
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: oh my god, you guys are different kind of fish.

1188
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 1: Let let us really this is like but this is

1189
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 1: hood culture. This is oh wow, but it's it's fun.

1190
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 3: They got to say the cars like bump, but so like, yeah, no,

1191
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 3: now I see boys in the hood.

1192
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: The bigger the bump, like the more money here he

1193
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:37,919
Speaker 1: got them, he got them. I got six twelves, six twelve.

1194
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 2: If he got twelves in the bag, that means that

1195
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 2: them speakers is knocking.

1196
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 1: A twelve is a speaker.

1197
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So if he got six of them in the back,

1198
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 3: you know that thing bumping, I'm not going there. Like

1199
01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 3: but fun, She's like, yeah, yeah, I love you guys.

1200
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 3: Somebody who like he definitely got a good.

1201
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: Away. I just I wouldn't stay in l A.

1202
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, l A.

1203
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 1: I'm hydro. Yeah, they do hydraulics in l A. Yeah,

1204
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: so it's when the cars jump. How did you guys

1205
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: know these things?

1206
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 2: I told you just pushing and took me around the world. Man,

1207
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 2: I have seen something not around around the states that

1208
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 2: but I'm.

1209
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: Saying I have been the legos lubile. I have been.

1210
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 1: I've just seen all the cultus bitch. Okay, okay, we

1211
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: gonna move one.

1212
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 2: Oh, so now it's time to get into the bed

1213
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 2: owt the bed ball.

1214
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:51,919
Speaker 1: No, that's that's the hydra. It bounces up, upping down.

1215
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 3: But why is it in the ass because it bounce

1216
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 3: up And now this is.

1217
01:02:56,480 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: So it's very ghetto. We're gonna move on. You're ready

1218
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: to right, So now it's time to get into the

1219
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: bay the bow bow my bad.

1220
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're gonna keep it clean today. We're gonna

1221
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 2: keep we gonna do it real cute. We catch I'm

1222
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 2: from south said the girl from the north West.

1223
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: That's the first one to see that ratchet came out

1224
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1225
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 2: So from the bad topic today, you know, I think

1226
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 2: about the talk, the sex talk that your parents had

1227
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 2: with you when you you're younger. Oh gosh, yes, And

1228
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 2: I just want I'm just I feel like times are

1229
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 2: so different now. So I think about, you know, whenever

1230
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 2: I have a daughter or son, how I'm gonna have

1231
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 2: that sex talk because my.

1232
01:03:57,960 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: Mom sex talk was awful.

1233
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 2: So I want to hear y'all stories about like how

1234
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 2: your parents had the sex talk with you.

1235
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: I never got a sex you never got a sex talk. No.

1236
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 3: My mom is more like when she knows you've done it,

1237
01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 3: she's be like, so you're doing it, Mom, like she'll

1238
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 3: tell you about yourself.

1239
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: She'll never sit down and have be like this. She's

1240
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 1: more like for unication.

1241
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 3: And like bibles, the Bible. She's yeah, no, no talk,

1242
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 3: it's accusations. Okay, I'm Nigerian. That's all I was gonna say.

1243
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 3: I do feel like that's a little different. So whenever

1244
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 3: you did was she right?

1245
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,439
Speaker 1: Did she? Yeah? Mom's names.

1246
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1247
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: They always clock your so they don't have a conversation before.

1248
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: Because you know, we have sex education classes like education.

1249
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: Did we have that in school? Like in middle school

1250
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: or like junior high we have a sex class.

1251
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they because I mean Americans are horny, though

1252
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 2: violently horny.

1253
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: I mean, it's crazy out there. But I feel like

1254
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: a sex popry.

1255
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 2: I feel like a sex talk is common though, like

1256
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 2: in American culture, we always talk about like having to

1257
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 2: talk with your kids and preparing them because they're gonna

1258
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 2: do it anyway, so they might as well hear it

1259
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 2: from their parents.

1260
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: So when your mom kind of clocked your tea and

1261
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: she knew. Was she right though? I was eighteen? Damn?

1262
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 1: They wait, see we waited a long time. Well, I

1263
01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 1: feel like in the UK like having sex with.

1264
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 3: And glamorize like, oh, they was like, girl, you had sex, yell,

1265
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:34,919
Speaker 3: I was, I don't.

1266
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: Oh so you lost your virginia? She said eighteen. That's

1267
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing, because virginity when I was fifteen. Damn

1268
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 1: since slip down I was. I was a young tend

1269
01:05:55,720 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: of fourteen. Oh wow, I was fourteen. This is interesting information.

1270
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 2: I didn't know, like they don't have like the sex talk.

1271
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 2: Like it's very important because teen pregnancy was also a.

1272
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: Big thing in America. Yeah, so it's like the show

1273
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 1: Yeah teen Mom was like and you know what they

1274
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 1: did research. It's how crazy teen Mom was in America.

1275
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 2: Whenever that show tea Mom came out, teen pregnancy actually

1276
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 2: went down because we started seeing how it was to

1277
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 2: like have a child at a young ale.

1278
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 1: Y'all was petrified.

1279
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was really like but I think for

1280
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 2: like the sex talk, it's crazy because essentially my mom

1281
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 2: kind of did the same thing. I think she kind

1282
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 2: of knew I was like having sex, so I remember like,

1283
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 2: so I had a really big house growing up. We

1284
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 2: had an intercom system, so it's like you could talk

1285
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 2: from room to room through like this little speaker.

1286
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 1: And so I remember she.

1287
01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 2: Called me on the intercome She's like hey, and I'm

1288
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 2: like hey. She was like, do you need to be

1289
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 2: on birth control? And of course I'm like having sex

1290
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 2: and I'm like no, yeah, And I was like the

1291
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 2: last thing like she brought it up. But once I did,

1292
01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 2: like start being active, like I brought it to her

1293
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 2: and she was like really open. So I think one

1294
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 2: thing I did feel safe about was like she let

1295
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 2: me feel like it was a safe space to talk

1296
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 2: to her about it. So she let me know, like

1297
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 2: you don't want to have no kids, you need to

1298
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 2: use condom and this and that, because I think when

1299
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 2: kids sneak around, they don't know how.

1300
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 1: Serious it is to use protection. Yeah. Yeah, So did

1301
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 1: your mom have a sex talk with you or was

1302
01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 1: it like okay, So my mom was a nurse, so.

1303
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 3: It was a little different with us because from like

1304
01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 3: a very young age, I just remember her pulling out

1305
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 3: like medical journals and like showing me Harpy's pictures. Oh shet, Yeah,

1306
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 3: she used to show me like a little harp is crazy.

1307
01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 3: She used to show me like harpy sores. She would

1308
01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 3: show me like photos of like sickly yeah.

1309
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 1: Like crazy yeah. And then it was this one story

1310
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 1: that like always vividly pops in my mind. She taught

1311
01:07:58,360 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 1: me with this girl.

1312
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 3: She went to hospital weird and the girl was like

1313
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 3: so beautiful, Like she was like she was so pretty.

1314
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 3: She had really nice skin, really long luxurious hair. And

1315
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 3: then I guess she caught HIV. Oh, and so she

1316
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 3: was like yeah, she was like and she was just

1317
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 3: in that bed. Her skin was peeling off. We had

1318
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,879
Speaker 3: to like roll because I guess she being her patient,

1319
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 3: and she was like this is like in the eighties

1320
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:25,760
Speaker 3: when like HIV had just like yeah kind of came out,

1321
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 3: and so my mom was like we had to like

1322
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 3: roll her over. Her skin was peeling off.

1323
01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: It was just real bad. My mama was instilled the

1324
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: fear of God. I like that scared, Yeah, I was.

1325
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:39,719
Speaker 1: I was scared.

1326
01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 3: And then when I got to like middle school, high school,

1327
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 3: she was like, I'm gonna put you on birth control

1328
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 3: just in case. Like it was never a conversation about

1329
01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 3: whether or not I'm having sick She was just like,

1330
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 3: I'm just putting you on birth control because I don't

1331
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:54,559
Speaker 3: want you to. So I started taking birth control when

1332
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 3: I was like fourteen.

1333
01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 1: That's probably when I started.

1334
01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 3: Here too, Like it's coming like taking birth control. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay,

1335
01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 3: I feel like it's a thing.

1336
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1337
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 2: See, we just be using the pull out mythy and

1338
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 2: it don't be working. Oh I ain't got no kids,

1339
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 2: so it worked for me.

1340
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 3: We're gonna flow up? You say what flow up? I

1341
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 3: used to love to flow out, love it.

1342
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 2: It's it's always all the time here, and I'd be like,

1343
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 2: I know, okay, So sex talk are you're gonna have?

1344
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:36,799
Speaker 3: But are you gonna have the sex talk with your child?

1345
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: If you want children, I definitely want okay, okay, but

1346
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:41,839
Speaker 3: I plan having boys.

1347
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 1: You I want boys, okay, But you can't choose that

1348
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:53,719
Speaker 1: little Whitney junion come along. That's how girls are along.

1349
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 1: I want a mini me bad Oh No, I don't

1350
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:59,680
Speaker 1: want a mini Meeds. The world needs another meat. We

1351
01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:02,920
Speaker 1: got I continue this legacy. I'm too much of a fool.

1352
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,559
Speaker 1: I don't y'all. But if you do have a son

1353
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: or daughter, either way, are you yeah, okay, that's important

1354
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 1: to you don't have a talk.

1355
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a talk with my kids, but I

1356
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 3: want to know, like I want to be in a

1357
01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 3: space with my children where I feel like they could

1358
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 3: talk to me about anything. Like I don't want to

1359
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:24,640
Speaker 3: be one of those parents where like my child is

1360
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 3: scared to talk to me.

1361
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 1: If anything, if you think.

1362
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 3: About giving it up, letting me know so we can

1363
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:33,480
Speaker 3: talk about it, because you can relate.

1364
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:41,640
Speaker 1: In a way that I have been through it. And

1365
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying.

1366
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 3: I would rather than talk to me because what I

1367
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:46,559
Speaker 3: will say now that I'm older and I look back

1368
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 3: at like the situation with my mom, I'm glad that

1369
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 3: she was never scared to talk to me about these things.

1370
01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 3: So then when I got older and we started talking

1371
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 3: about sex and stuff, she was just like yeah, she

1372
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 3: was like, well I already knew what she was doing.

1373
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 1: Well, they always and I got caught. That's the story

1374
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:04,160
Speaker 1: for a.

1375
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 2: Little little Okay, it's time to get into the by

1376
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:13,679
Speaker 2: a bowl.

1377
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 1: The bop of the week. So the bop of the

1378
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 1: week is like whatever music you've been listening to, what

1379
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 1: you guys.

1380
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 2: To me, you listen to something something gets your Okay,

1381
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:30,759
Speaker 2: Well I'll start so you can think about it. Okay,

1382
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is about by Khalid.

1383
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:37,720
Speaker 2: Do you remember him singing me your location? So he

1384
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 2: has a say call please don't fall in love with me?

1385
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 2: And I love it because it has the unthinkable sample

1386
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 2: by Alicia Keys.

1387
01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1388
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 2: So I'm usually a person who doesn't like samples, but

1389
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 2: they used it very very well. I think Khalid is

1390
01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 2: super talented.

1391
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: And it's a cute little song. Y'all know, I love

1392
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:59,160
Speaker 1: me your R and B bop R and B K

1393
01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 1: H A L I D.

1394
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 2: So, yeah, it's a little cute song, a little I'm

1395
01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 2: a love girl, please don't fall in love with me?

1396
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 1: And yeah, I love it. Yeah. Yeah, So, like I said,

1397
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:15,680
Speaker 1: it uses the unthinkable saying for and it was just

1398
01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 1: a really it's a vibe.

1399
01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 2: Like I said, y'all know, I'm a lover girl, so

1400
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 2: I'm always have that R and B playing, Like I

1401
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 2: don't really turn up while I'm getting dressed unless friends.

1402
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,680
Speaker 1: But like I love a good tear, see you feel me.

1403
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:38,560
Speaker 1: I like what you've been listening to. Okay, So I

1404
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:41,880
Speaker 1: feel like we haven't recorded in a while until we

1405
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 1: came here. Okay.

1406
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so I don't think I've ever properly talked

1407
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 3: about the future album.

1408
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:52,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you didn't, you didn't. So I like the intro. Okay,

1409
01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: the intro. He got this song called we Don't Trust

1410
01:12:55,280 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: You because we don't. We do not trust y'all. Okay,

1411
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 1: and like it was.

1412
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 4: You.

1413
01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 1: That's my shout out to my brother.

1414
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 3: So he says, Oh Lord, fake written all over you,

1415
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 3: hate written all over you. Sometimes, oh he said, smiling

1416
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 3: faces sometimes pretend to be your friends. Those smiling faces

1417
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 3: show no traces of the evil that lurks within. It's

1418
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 3: a good song. I like you, you can't trust that

1419
01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 3: you should don't come through with a good word. But

1420
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 3: I just feel like that's very true, Like you just

1421
01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:44,599
Speaker 3: never know. I think that's one of the scariest things

1422
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 3: about people, encountering people every day, beating people you just

1423
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 3: even and even when you get to know people you

1424
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,679
Speaker 3: just never know. Always says you can have no pusle,

1425
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 3: you can never know of nursing. And when I think

1426
01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 3: about even like crazy situations like I'm sure maybe y'all

1427
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:03,679
Speaker 3: probably think about these two like us with the show

1428
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:06,439
Speaker 3: growing and then you being a big public figure out here,

1429
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 3: I'll just be thinking about ship like with the Beatles.

1430
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 1: Was that man named John Lenny? Was he him? What

1431
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:15,320
Speaker 1: happened to the didn't that man get killed? He got

1432
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:20,200
Speaker 1: killed by his fan? I think it was.

1433
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's so crazy because literally, girl, one thing

1434
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 3: about me. When I found out about something, I'm an

1435
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 3: fall into a black hole, like.

1436
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm one of those people.

1437
01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,439
Speaker 3: So like I had like did a deep dive and

1438
01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 3: come to find out like he had met the man

1439
01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 3: earlier that day, the man asked him.

1440
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:44,160
Speaker 1: For an autograph. He signed an autograph.

1441
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:46,760
Speaker 3: Of the men, and then later that night the man

1442
01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 3: shot him outside of his hotel. And that's how she

1443
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,640
Speaker 3: be so crazy to me, Like with us being like

1444
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 3: public figures, you just never know who the fu.

1445
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: No, that was his me, that was his man.

1446
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:03,840
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, you never know, like that

1447
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 2: was somebody was miling faces for seeding to me, your.

1448
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 1: Friend, You're right, future, You're right. You just never know. Okay,

1449
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:13,599
Speaker 1: what you been jamming? What you've been jamming? The tea

1450
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:26,599
Speaker 1: got hot for yees a bumping car like the bumping

1451
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 1: cars around the today. So weird, Lena, you didn't know

1452
01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:39,760
Speaker 1: about John Lennon though, that Yeah, yeah, I do.

1453
01:15:39,920 --> 01:15:41,640
Speaker 2: I kind of faintly. Remember, I didn't know it was

1454
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,679
Speaker 2: like the same day, but yeah, that is crazy.

1455
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 1: It's scary. He was how you know he said that

1456
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 1: because she just she was on TikTok. They told her

1457
01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:02,719
Speaker 1: he said that, well, he definitely for an autograph. So scary.

1458
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 1: Imagine looking your color in the eyes that it's fright.

1459
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:09,800
Speaker 2: Like a lot of times, like I watch a lot

1460
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 2: of true crime too, so it's like hate true crime,

1461
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 2: but it's like a lot of times.

1462
01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 1: You watch, Oh my god, you was like my twins.

1463
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: I watched that. I don't know. I don't want to

1464
01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 1: watch nothing that's real. That's what's house godlings, I don't

1465
01:16:25,120 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: want to now now, y'all, y'all getting it. Y'all picked

1466
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 1: up the clues. You are love, I mean, you know what,

1467
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 1: and I do be in be like oh yeah, then

1468
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,720
Speaker 1: you just like upcuse it's me and you.

1469
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 2: But I will say, if you watch you crime, literally

1470
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 2: like ninety ninety five percent of the stories is never

1471
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 2: a random killing.

1472
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:57,200
Speaker 1: It's always somebody future he knew. I would rather not. Now.

1473
01:16:57,320 --> 01:16:58,920
Speaker 3: That's why I don't watch that type of stuff because

1474
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 3: it's like, if somebody around you gonna kill me, just

1475
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 3: do it.

1476
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 1: I don't even want to. I don't want no clues.

1477
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:08,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drop a clue, I drop about the scary clues.

1478
01:17:09,400 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 1: Are you thinking it? And then I'll just pop out.

1479
01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:45,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Running will terrify me. Just do

1480
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:45,760
Speaker 1: it now.

1481
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna give you a little joke. I'm gonna like,

1482
01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 2: I might fake him out little, but I'm not gonna lie. Like,

1483
01:17:57,200 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 2: if you want to have I'm gonna at least some clues.

1484
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:01,720
Speaker 2: At least let me have fun before I go.

1485
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:03,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to have fun. I don't do what

1486
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna do. Y'all ain't no fun. I wouldn't want

1487
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: to leave me a letter like in Blood like I'm

1488
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:12,760
Speaker 1: coming No. But that's what I was saying.

1489
01:18:13,400 --> 01:18:16,679
Speaker 3: I don't watch those shows because I'm gonna be thinking

1490
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:18,720
Speaker 3: about what I saw on the show, and I'm gonna

1491
01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:21,439
Speaker 3: trying to kill you, not trying to kill me.

1492
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking. It's like I saw this in you.

1493
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 1: I know what this means. I mean like you have

1494
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: some flower and y'all don't want to a deep dive.

1495
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:36,560
Speaker 1: I overthink I can't do this.

1496
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 2: We know y'all don't like your cr Whitney. What you've

1497
01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:42,720
Speaker 2: been listening to since you said you don't listen to

1498
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 2: music that much. I know you've been listening to song.

1499
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 2: It could be an old school song. It don't have

1500
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 2: necessarily something like new. But I know, like when you

1501
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:54,280
Speaker 2: play music, what's your like go to song, your favorite

1502
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 2: song of all time?

1503
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:59,600
Speaker 1: My favorite song? Yeah, you got one? It would be

1504
01:18:59,800 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: like I love to me, Okay, I love to officially

1505
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 1: missing you like to me stranger, That's what I went back.

1506
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm impressed.

1507
01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 3: That's what I've been recently otherwise like David, but I

1508
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 3: feel like music is stubblish these days.

1509
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I say something. Yeah, it doesn't hit

1510
01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 1: my soul, but you got to dig deep tour. I'm like,

1511
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:26,759
Speaker 1: I don't really like like major music like on the charts.

1512
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:29,400
Speaker 3: You're like future like for me, like no, yeah, we

1513
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 3: never listened to a f I listened to a lot

1514
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 3: of You don't like future.

1515
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:36,679
Speaker 1: I just don't like rap on. This is Tupac school.

1516
01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah said Tupac. You all like them overall. I I

1517
01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:50,719
Speaker 1: know it looks good in him and will be bumping

1518
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 1: down the Yeah, you see how everything together, I'm so weak.

1519
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:02,479
Speaker 1: I would never so you've never listened to a full

1520
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:05,600
Speaker 1: Future album. I gotta sing you one. I feel like

1521
01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:07,479
Speaker 1: enjoy She don't be like this.

1522
01:20:07,960 --> 01:20:08,559
Speaker 4: You ain't.

1523
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 1: Real sisters. You might like it. I didn't know that

1524
01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:17,720
Speaker 1: was a classic Future album. I'm not even it was

1525
01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:24,719
Speaker 1: Real Sisters, which, yes, I didn't know. My song said,

1526
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 1: I ain't got no menace for no slops. I'm gonna

1527
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:29,439
Speaker 1: put my thumb in.

1528
01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:32,519
Speaker 3: A But she's like, oh, yes, music that this is

1529
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 3: something that gosh te box like my um child.

1530
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 1: Oh you like that? It's real? How do you want now?

1531
01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:49,320
Speaker 1: Changing in more than I asked myself.

1532
01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 2: But you see how Santana he was smarking today so

1533
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 2: it could go either way.

1534
01:20:55,479 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 1: He was smarking why why not it song?

1535
01:21:07,439 --> 01:21:14,960
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01:21:41,880 --> 01:21:43,040
Speaker 2: ready for the next segment?

1546
01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm ready? What's up y'all? As your girl XP and

1547
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:46,679
Speaker 1: is sugarl.

1548
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:50,160
Speaker 2: Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1549
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 2: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

1550
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:53,599
Speaker 2: or something that you want to promote and you want

1551
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1552
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:57,240
Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here period.

1553
01:21:57,720 --> 01:21:59,679
Speaker 3: If you have an item or you have a business

1554
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:01,559
Speaker 3: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

1555
01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 3: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1556
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 3: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1557
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 3: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1558
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:12,479
Speaker 3: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1559
01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 3: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1560
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 3: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1561
01:22:21,479 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 3: Send us an email and we'll work it out.

1562
01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 1: We gonna figure it out. Get your product, get your

1563
01:22:25,960 --> 01:22:30,240
Speaker 1: business sponsored, and yeah, make you some money. We love

1564
01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 1: some more to small business man and a black business

1565
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:34,559
Speaker 1: said that, but I mean.

1566
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 3: Scrimmaad any businesses welcome, So.

1567
01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:43,640
Speaker 1: Do you give good advice? I like?

1568
01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:47,680
Speaker 2: Okay, So our next segment is called pour your heart out.

1569
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,760
Speaker 2: All the girls get to write in and you know,

1570
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:52,920
Speaker 2: get their questions answered. So if you want your question

1571
01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:54,559
Speaker 2: to answer on the show, make sure you email us

1572
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:58,840
Speaker 2: at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. Okay, yeah,

1573
01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:04,759
Speaker 2: now who this second question along? Let's go thank you period.

1574
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read the first one because ain't no way boy. Okay, sort,

1575
01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 2: it's long night.

1576
01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 1: Hello.

1577
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 2: I hope Paul is well with you too. I'm a

1578
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 2: huge supporter of the podcast and I look forward to

1579
01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 2: watching and listening every week. My question is for some advice.

1580
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm thirty five, brown skinned man. My instagram is the

1581
01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 2: signature line. If y'all go yeah, oh, I'm gonna pull

1582
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:35,040
Speaker 2: up his instagram. So he says, I make I make

1583
01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:38,479
Speaker 2: about one hundred thousand year annually. I'm a homeowner. How

1584
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 2: do I find a relationship with a good woman. I

1585
01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 2: don't have a problem pulling woman pulling women, but not

1586
01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:47,120
Speaker 2: the ones I want. Help a brother out. Where are

1587
01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:49,439
Speaker 2: some places I should look? She has to be a

1588
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:53,360
Speaker 2: black woman. I do not date outside my race at all. Well, Dove,

1589
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:54,400
Speaker 2: I knew I.

1590
01:23:54,479 --> 01:23:57,640
Speaker 1: Was from me.

1591
01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:02,160
Speaker 2: I think you should go first, he said, Thank y'all

1592
01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:04,360
Speaker 2: in advance, and I would like to remain anonymous, and

1593
01:24:04,439 --> 01:24:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm in the d D MV area.

1594
01:24:06,200 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 1: Okay, so why y'all answer. I'll show y'all his Instagram.

1595
01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:14,240
Speaker 3: Because he didn't put his height, he didn't put well,

1596
01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:17,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna show you his I g yeah, Okay, I

1597
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 3: think this is him leaning on his Okay, so we're

1598
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 3: not gonna show.

1599
01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 2: The camera because he wants to anonymous. So he said

1600
01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:26,280
Speaker 2: he makes a hundred thousand. He's a homeowner, but he

1601
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:28,160
Speaker 2: wants a black woman and he usually does.

1602
01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:31,760
Speaker 1: This mine does not make a hundred thousands. That's what

1603
01:24:31,840 --> 01:24:38,559
Speaker 1: he said. Go oh, that's his problem. He stop lying.

1604
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:46,439
Speaker 1: I wish I could show you this mine. Let me see.

1605
01:24:46,520 --> 01:24:50,280
Speaker 2: Let me you guys, look this mine does not make

1606
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:55,799
Speaker 2: a hundred Look maybe he's not like this. I agree,

1607
01:24:57,080 --> 01:24:58,880
Speaker 2: you suppose like oh yeah, and.

1608
01:24:58,960 --> 01:24:59,880
Speaker 1: It gave any show.

1609
01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 2: That's why he booked and see not see see you.

1610
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:12,920
Speaker 1: Mind you Daddy was a real nigga because he loved you.

1611
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 3: It's crazy, but he was. He's looking for a stop

1612
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 3: at the picture. Okay, so let me say this.

1613
01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: This mine the money, he says. Okay, I okay, Well

1614
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:28,640
Speaker 1: let me say this.

1615
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 2: I don't know what I don't know what type of

1616
01:25:32,200 --> 01:25:34,640
Speaker 2: woman that you're looking for, but I will say this,

1617
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:38,200
Speaker 2: I think that maybe you should change your aesthetic a

1618
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:41,599
Speaker 2: little bit because it's giving. Like you're on the camera

1619
01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:47,160
Speaker 2: drinking out of a bottle of champagne around you're posing

1620
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 2: like this. So I don't think you're gonna attract the

1621
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:52,840
Speaker 2: type of woman that you want. So I think aesthetically,

1622
01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 2: if somebody is looking at your Instagram, you're not going

1623
01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 2: to attract the right type of woman. You're gonna be

1624
01:25:57,479 --> 01:25:59,280
Speaker 2: tracked attracting them the nitties.

1625
01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:03,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's yeah.

1626
01:26:03,680 --> 01:26:05,599
Speaker 2: So I don't want to say that you don't earn

1627
01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:07,639
Speaker 2: a hundred thousand, because I feel like one thing about

1628
01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 2: America is very different.

1629
01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:11,640
Speaker 1: You can have people making all types of money. You

1630
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:13,599
Speaker 1: would never guess how much they make, but I feel

1631
01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:18,559
Speaker 1: like one hundred thousand them will legally or illegally. He's

1632
01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:25,439
Speaker 1: not given me I'm trying. He's given like vibes. Okay,

1633
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 1: he ain't given me traps. We got the trapper. I

1634
01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:35,479
Speaker 1: know he's not. So, like I said, I think if

1635
01:26:35,479 --> 01:26:36,439
Speaker 1: you change your aesthetic a.

1636
01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:38,880
Speaker 2: Little bit, I think a lot of times like I

1637
01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:40,840
Speaker 2: don't know anything about the d M V area. But

1638
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 2: I feel like you have to kind of like be

1639
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 2: what you want to attract.

1640
01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:46,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1641
01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:49,240
Speaker 2: Like, when I wanted to attract like some like, I

1642
01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:51,759
Speaker 2: had to be a safe space to attract the safe space,

1643
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:54,040
Speaker 2: I had to stop being toxic. I had to stop

1644
01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:55,680
Speaker 2: carrying myself a certain way. So I think a lot

1645
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 2: of times when you carry yourself differently, you will attract

1646
01:26:58,360 --> 01:26:58,840
Speaker 2: different things.

1647
01:27:00,120 --> 01:27:02,479
Speaker 3: For like, when you get to a certain point, it's

1648
01:27:02,600 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 3: kind of streamlined. Yeah, like believe it or not. The

1649
01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:10,360
Speaker 3: kind of person your tracked is the level you're at. Hello, Sorry,

1650
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 3: it's the truth.

1651
01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:15,879
Speaker 1: That's the truth. Wrong kind of girls. Check yourself.

1652
01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 3: It's not about the girls, it's about You'll see you

1653
01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 3: need you need to start with deleting the picture where

1654
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:23,280
Speaker 3: you're doing.

1655
01:27:23,680 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 1: As in delete the drinking now, just delete the gram. Yeah, start,

1656
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 1: like I want to start. Please start.

1657
01:27:34,560 --> 01:27:39,040
Speaker 3: That is like, but thank you for tuning in every week. Yeah, yeah,

1658
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:44,240
Speaker 3: you're a good man. Good man maybe and then like

1659
01:27:44,320 --> 01:27:48,479
Speaker 3: put a shirt on, put on some chinos, no rappers,

1660
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:51,400
Speaker 3: no rompers, like you know what I mean. You ain't

1661
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:53,680
Speaker 3: gotta do too much to get It was after a

1662
01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:55,800
Speaker 3: good start, he had a w I will say that.

1663
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 3: That's one thing I can command you.

1664
01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:01,920
Speaker 1: You did not have a wrong all right? Question number two?

1665
01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:04,960
Speaker 1: What we got this is it's very long. It is

1666
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:07,600
Speaker 1: a long one. Yeah, I think I need a shine m.

1667
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:11,439
Speaker 1: I don't think so done, shy. Why do we pick

1668
01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:16,960
Speaker 1: this long ass one? Okay, I'm ready, Okay, go ahead, Jesus.

1669
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:19,920
Speaker 3: I'm twenty five years old and I've been listening to

1670
01:28:19,960 --> 01:28:21,080
Speaker 3: you guys for two years now.

1671
01:28:21,160 --> 01:28:22,400
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you, guys.

1672
01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:25,479
Speaker 3: I feel like the growth I've witness makes me feel

1673
01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:28,280
Speaker 3: like I know you personally. When I'm just chilling, cleaning

1674
01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:30,840
Speaker 3: or driving in my car, I always listen to your

1675
01:28:30,920 --> 01:28:33,920
Speaker 3: old episodes. Ever since I've turned twenty five, I've been

1676
01:28:33,960 --> 01:28:37,040
Speaker 3: feeling like I'm getting so old. I'm turning twenty sixty

1677
01:28:37,040 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 3: this year, and there's still a lot of goals I

1678
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:41,439
Speaker 3: like to reach. I have one degree and I'm in

1679
01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:44,720
Speaker 3: school currently getting my bachelor's degree. I travel a lot,

1680
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 3: and I always pull bdb's everywhere I go. I attract

1681
01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:50,839
Speaker 3: a lot of attention in any city, country, or island.

1682
01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:54,519
Speaker 3: I pull rich niggask. I feel like I had to

1683
01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 3: put emphasis on that statement. I pull rich niggas, But

1684
01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 3: I feel like I always end updating guys who aren't

1685
01:29:02,600 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 3: on my level or who aren't my type in terms

1686
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:06,920
Speaker 3: of physicality and finances.

1687
01:29:07,320 --> 01:29:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why.

1688
01:29:08,200 --> 01:29:10,479
Speaker 3: I just feel more comfortable around niggas who aren't on

1689
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:12,639
Speaker 3: my level because I feel like I could be myself

1690
01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:14,920
Speaker 3: more around them, and I feel like I have to

1691
01:29:15,040 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 3: impress the rich niggas.

1692
01:29:16,680 --> 01:29:19,080
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, every nigga I fuck with spend

1693
01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:20,920
Speaker 1: money on me my egg.

1694
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:26,880
Speaker 3: Because I said, I know my ex bought me a car,

1695
01:29:27,320 --> 01:29:29,559
Speaker 3: but I know I could do better in the relationship area.

1696
01:29:29,680 --> 01:29:32,880
Speaker 3: And everyone in friends and family included, are always telling

1697
01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:34,920
Speaker 3: me that I could pull whoever I want, and I

1698
01:29:35,080 --> 01:29:38,720
Speaker 3: always settle for list in relationships. I recently just went

1699
01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:40,719
Speaker 3: through a bad breakup where my girl, Hold.

1700
01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:42,200
Speaker 1: On, what do you menut? We're gonna have to concise

1701
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,040
Speaker 1: this basically.

1702
01:29:45,560 --> 01:29:48,120
Speaker 3: Basically, she said she went through a bad breakup. Her

1703
01:29:48,240 --> 01:29:50,400
Speaker 3: ex was trying to break her down by calling her ugly,

1704
01:29:50,479 --> 01:29:54,519
Speaker 3: fat and basically saying anything negative that he could. Now

1705
01:29:54,720 --> 01:29:57,240
Speaker 3: she's been single for six months and she's still abate,

1706
01:29:57,360 --> 01:29:58,719
Speaker 3: and she's trying to find herself.

1707
01:29:59,479 --> 01:30:03,320
Speaker 1: She's been talking to a guy who's twenty one and she's.

1708
01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:05,600
Speaker 3: Never talked to anybody that's that much younger than her,

1709
01:30:05,640 --> 01:30:06,840
Speaker 3: because he's five years younger.

1710
01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 1: She really likes him, but she's a relationship girl and.

1711
01:30:14,640 --> 01:30:17,560
Speaker 3: She's trying to She says, she really likes him in

1712
01:30:17,640 --> 01:30:21,560
Speaker 3: the beginning, but he's starting to fizzle out and she doesn't.

1713
01:30:21,320 --> 01:30:26,720
Speaker 1: Want to be with him anymore. She needs to help.

1714
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:27,920
Speaker 1: She needs to help.

1715
01:30:28,360 --> 01:30:31,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, she said she's serious about She doesn't know if

1716
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:33,320
Speaker 3: she's serious about him. But she has her own car

1717
01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:35,560
Speaker 3: and she's still live at home because she's like she

1718
01:30:35,760 --> 01:30:38,680
Speaker 3: likes the comfortability of having her family. So basically, she

1719
01:30:38,720 --> 01:30:42,160
Speaker 3: still live with her parents, but they want her to

1720
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:45,639
Speaker 3: still live there until she's married because they're old school,

1721
01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 3: and she wants to move out at the end of

1722
01:30:48,400 --> 01:30:48,720
Speaker 3: the year.

1723
01:30:48,880 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 1: She lives in Canada, So what's the question. I'm just

1724
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:58,840
Speaker 1: I'm trying to so she want to move out at

1725
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:00,599
Speaker 1: the end of the year. She lives in Canada.

1726
01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:03,679
Speaker 3: She said, do you guys have any advice on bagging

1727
01:31:03,840 --> 01:31:06,479
Speaker 3: and keeping a high quality man? And if you guys

1728
01:31:06,560 --> 01:31:08,880
Speaker 3: were twenty five and in my position, how would you

1729
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:10,080
Speaker 3: go about life in general?

1730
01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:12,320
Speaker 1: Thank y'all. In events, I'm going to attach features of

1731
01:31:12,400 --> 01:31:20,120
Speaker 1: myself look she's cute. Yeah, she's cute. I feel like, oh,

1732
01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:22,800
Speaker 1: is she working about and she does bottle service? Okay? Cool.

1733
01:31:22,920 --> 01:31:25,120
Speaker 2: I think that now we're in a climate of you

1734
01:31:25,240 --> 01:31:27,400
Speaker 2: have to figure out what you want in a person, right,

1735
01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 2: and that's cool. But I feel like y'all be saying

1736
01:31:31,160 --> 01:31:32,920
Speaker 2: y'all want these high quality men that.

1737
01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:39,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's but also what is your love language?

1738
01:31:40,160 --> 01:31:41,719
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times we look at social

1739
01:31:41,760 --> 01:31:43,880
Speaker 2: media and you see these girls getting bags and shoes

1740
01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:44,200
Speaker 2: and things.

1741
01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 1: Is that even something that you really even care about

1742
01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:47,559
Speaker 1: that's gonna make you happy?

1743
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 2: Because a lot of times these women are getting all

1744
01:31:49,479 --> 01:31:53,160
Speaker 2: these things, they may not be getting quality time. There's

1745
01:31:53,200 --> 01:31:55,320
Speaker 2: a cool attraction, So you're trying to do something to

1746
01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:58,400
Speaker 2: live language to a standard that you don't even like.

1747
01:31:59,000 --> 01:32:01,280
Speaker 2: Y'all always talk about like things, because not once did

1748
01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:04,080
Speaker 2: you say, you know what, I want somebody who's God fearing.

1749
01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 2: I want somebody who works out, who was stability? All

1750
01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:10,080
Speaker 2: you were talking about was things material. I hate I

1751
01:32:10,240 --> 01:32:12,599
Speaker 2: hate that we are in this environment like that because

1752
01:32:12,600 --> 01:32:14,120
Speaker 2: it's always about things.

1753
01:32:14,200 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, I just found something else

1754
01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:19,720
Speaker 3: what she saying, he's saying, she said it the law.

1755
01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 1: She said he was trying to get his new girl

1756
01:32:23,560 --> 01:32:25,920
Speaker 1: to fight her a girl.

1757
01:32:27,040 --> 01:32:28,640
Speaker 2: But that's why I said, she's moving off in that

1758
01:32:28,760 --> 01:32:31,000
Speaker 2: situation that she wants a high quality man. You even

1759
01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:34,320
Speaker 2: entertain and stuff like that. And I think the level

1760
01:32:35,040 --> 01:32:37,560
Speaker 2: of your mental is not even all there yet for

1761
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:42,559
Speaker 2: you to yeah, like everything was very messy.

1762
01:32:42,840 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you are. Yeah, I know what you want.

1763
01:32:45,640 --> 01:32:48,840
Speaker 3: Take some time out, like it's not everyday relationship. Yeah,

1764
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:52,320
Speaker 3: enjoy your relationship with yourself, like you can't just.

1765
01:32:52,400 --> 01:32:54,080
Speaker 2: Have like just because a man. And I think a

1766
01:32:54,080 --> 01:32:55,240
Speaker 2: lot of times, let me say this, just because a

1767
01:32:55,280 --> 01:32:56,559
Speaker 2: man has money does not mean.

1768
01:32:56,479 --> 01:33:02,360
Speaker 1: He's high quality. It's just because a man has money

1769
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:04,320
Speaker 1: does not mean he's high quality.

1770
01:33:05,400 --> 01:33:09,479
Speaker 3: Okay, we got to teach them take a lot to

1771
01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:12,719
Speaker 3: get money, Like I don't even these days. I don't

1772
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:14,200
Speaker 3: even think you gotta be there's smart to be a

1773
01:33:14,320 --> 01:33:14,840
Speaker 3: rich nigga.

1774
01:33:15,040 --> 01:33:18,680
Speaker 1: That's the job. It's a lot easier now times. Opportunities

1775
01:33:18,800 --> 01:33:19,599
Speaker 1: just y'all.

1776
01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:19,840
Speaker 2: See.

1777
01:33:20,680 --> 01:33:22,760
Speaker 1: Maybe then came in and hardy to go on to day.

1778
01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I wouldn't wish that up on her. I

1779
01:33:26,680 --> 01:33:33,840
Speaker 1: thought they could grow together. No, he said, absolutely, man, Okay,

1780
01:33:34,280 --> 01:33:36,040
Speaker 1: but I feel like she takes time out.

1781
01:33:36,800 --> 01:33:41,000
Speaker 3: She's young, but she's your age. It's something different. But

1782
01:33:43,080 --> 01:33:45,840
Speaker 3: I've been around the way once upon a time. But

1783
01:33:46,080 --> 01:33:48,360
Speaker 3: I feel like I took time out, Like my first

1784
01:33:48,400 --> 01:33:52,800
Speaker 3: heart break was twenty two and it took me four

1785
01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:56,960
Speaker 3: years damn to get you get broke, babe, Babe. I'm

1786
01:33:57,160 --> 01:34:01,120
Speaker 3: real hard I'm real hardy. But I took time out

1787
01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:05,040
Speaker 3: to hell like gained the bunch a different basis. Yeah, yeah,

1788
01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:08,040
Speaker 3: and then I figured out what I want, why don't want?

1789
01:34:08,680 --> 01:34:11,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we're valuing the wrong things. I think

1790
01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:14,280
Speaker 2: you need to understand what a high quality man is

1791
01:34:14,680 --> 01:34:17,360
Speaker 2: before you just keep saying that's what you want. Because

1792
01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:19,479
Speaker 2: let me tell you what's gonna happen. You're gonna come

1793
01:34:19,479 --> 01:34:22,120
Speaker 2: across a high quality man for real. He's gonna be

1794
01:34:22,120 --> 01:34:27,680
Speaker 2: emotionally intelligent, he's gonna communicate properly, financially stay financially stable. Here,

1795
01:34:27,680 --> 01:34:29,720
Speaker 2: gonna run circles around your ass and leaving you like

1796
01:34:29,760 --> 01:34:30,639
Speaker 2: what did I do wrong?

1797
01:34:30,800 --> 01:34:31,880
Speaker 1: And he's not gonna want you?

1798
01:34:32,320 --> 01:34:35,000
Speaker 2: And he not gonna want you, So you have to

1799
01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:36,880
Speaker 2: prepare yourself for that high quality man.

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01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:40,000
Speaker 3: Vice high quality mind is subjective, yeah, right, and is

1801
01:34:40,040 --> 01:34:43,040
Speaker 3: subject but I think for her, the main thing she

1802
01:34:43,120 --> 01:34:45,240
Speaker 3: kept talking about was money and things.

1803
01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:48,400
Speaker 1: So I think we need to redefine what a high

1804
01:34:48,439 --> 01:34:48,920
Speaker 1: quality man.

1805
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:51,679
Speaker 3: Maybe she's to God then like got her own money

1806
01:34:51,920 --> 01:34:55,040
Speaker 3: and things. And when you're on that level doing that,

1807
01:34:55,240 --> 01:34:57,519
Speaker 3: you will attract to him. Maybe in the Goody store

1808
01:34:57,920 --> 01:34:58,680
Speaker 3: you'll see him that.

1809
01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:02,120
Speaker 1: You might see a whole hed nigga. You might see future.

1810
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:05,360
Speaker 2: You can run in the future in the Gucci store too.

1811
01:35:05,800 --> 01:35:07,600
Speaker 2: That's why I say, no, off, it's future. But you

1812
01:35:07,720 --> 01:35:12,160
Speaker 2: know how you get down, you know, fat, No, I

1813
01:35:12,200 --> 01:35:15,439
Speaker 2: don't hate you. I just think we know like if

1814
01:35:15,479 --> 01:35:17,519
Speaker 2: I ran it's a future in the Gucci store, Like,

1815
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:19,760
Speaker 2: I know, that's not a man that would be like, oh,

1816
01:35:20,600 --> 01:35:23,320
Speaker 2: let me Like if I dated Future, seriously, I know

1817
01:35:23,360 --> 01:35:25,360
Speaker 2: it would be like a fun time we would probably

1818
01:35:25,400 --> 01:35:27,720
Speaker 2: have a blast. But do I think it would be

1819
01:35:27,800 --> 01:35:30,920
Speaker 2: like my husband, he likes to have fun. Future is

1820
01:35:30,960 --> 01:35:32,880
Speaker 2: like a turn up guy. And that's okay because I

1821
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:34,960
Speaker 2: don't know if he wants marriage or not. But I'm saying,

1822
01:35:35,080 --> 01:35:37,280
Speaker 2: like I don't know him personally, but I'm saying from

1823
01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 2: what I Yeah, so I feel like, you know, but

1824
01:35:41,240 --> 01:35:44,000
Speaker 2: according to her, that that's a high quality man. To

1825
01:35:44,080 --> 01:35:45,800
Speaker 2: some women, you know, but according to her, if you

1826
01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:49,559
Speaker 2: want to settle down, but you know, like you said,

1827
01:35:49,560 --> 01:35:51,920
Speaker 2: it's subjective, it's very it's subjective.

1828
01:35:52,040 --> 01:35:55,280
Speaker 1: Okay, we went over on time Chat. I have fun.

1829
01:35:57,040 --> 01:35:57,760
Speaker 1: You have a good time.

1830
01:36:01,800 --> 01:36:03,840
Speaker 2: Yes, so let the people know where they can find

1831
01:36:03,880 --> 01:36:06,200
Speaker 2: you at what you got going on right now? Coming

1832
01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:07,320
Speaker 2: up all that good stuff.

1833
01:36:07,560 --> 01:36:12,240
Speaker 1: Gods, I'm just chip to be head okay, white, Yes,

1834
01:36:12,360 --> 01:36:13,280
Speaker 1: you're just that.

1835
01:36:14,520 --> 01:36:18,200
Speaker 2: I'm here and I'm so y'all, make sure y'all share

1836
01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:21,920
Speaker 2: the content, like subscribe, follow all that good stuff.

1837
01:36:21,960 --> 01:36:24,080
Speaker 1: And let me say this before we close off. Y'all,

1838
01:36:24,520 --> 01:36:27,920
Speaker 1: there is one Twitter account that is connected to pour minds.

1839
01:36:28,000 --> 01:36:32,000
Speaker 1: It's p O. You are underscore in my nds.

1840
01:36:32,200 --> 01:36:35,080
Speaker 2: Y'all are tagging the wrong poor minds page. If you

1841
01:36:35,160 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 2: see at poor minds with no underscore, that is at

1842
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:39,200
Speaker 2: fake page. Do not follow that page.

1843
01:36:39,240 --> 01:36:43,040
Speaker 1: Okay. They block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

1844
01:36:43,080 --> 01:36:43,400
Speaker 1: on both.

1845
01:36:43,479 --> 01:36:49,080
Speaker 2: So we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

1846
01:36:49,400 --> 01:36:52,120
Speaker 1: It is p O, you are underscore in my nds.

1847
01:36:52,280 --> 01:36:55,240
Speaker 1: I and we got a hell a fake Facebook page.

1848
01:36:55,640 --> 01:36:57,559
Speaker 1: The Facebook page it's our face.

1849
01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:00,439
Speaker 3: The crazy thing is our Facebook page. We have the

1850
01:37:00,560 --> 01:37:01,400
Speaker 3: least amount of file.

1851
01:37:01,760 --> 01:37:04,200
Speaker 2: So if you're on face, the one that's hours got

1852
01:37:04,240 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 2: the least amount of but one that's.

1853
01:37:06,120 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 1: Not us got like two hundred and fifty.

1854
01:37:08,960 --> 01:37:10,600
Speaker 2: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

1855
01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:13,639
Speaker 2: caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, because

1856
01:37:13,640 --> 01:37:14,480
Speaker 2: their captains.

1857
01:37:14,200 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 1: Are like, bumba claude should men? Should men pay bill?

1858
01:37:18,360 --> 01:37:19,680
Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Yes?

1859
01:37:19,800 --> 01:37:19,840
Speaker 4: No?

1860
01:37:21,040 --> 01:37:26,160
Speaker 1: Check answer below block block pull pull pull, Like that's

1861
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:28,960
Speaker 1: literally what the captions. I'm like, what that DG is?

1862
01:37:29,040 --> 01:37:30,960
Speaker 1: Bumba Claude claud.

1863
01:37:32,439 --> 01:37:34,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so you said you're an R and B girl, Yeah,

1864
01:37:35,120 --> 01:37:37,880
Speaker 2: you love R and B. Okay, now we sang this

1865
01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:39,639
Speaker 2: song before. Don't get mad. I picked this song.

1866
01:37:39,680 --> 01:37:46,800
Speaker 3: I feel like this is easing. Yeah, okay, she's ready

1867
01:37:49,200 --> 01:37:50,920
Speaker 3: her back up, all right.

1868
01:37:51,000 --> 01:37:53,960
Speaker 2: So we always karaoke. We always closed out with KaraOK

1869
01:37:54,320 --> 01:37:55,920
Speaker 2: So I need y'all to help me out. If y'all

1870
01:37:55,960 --> 01:38:00,360
Speaker 2: know this song, I know you know it. I scrub

1871
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:03,400
Speaker 2: is a guy who thinks he's flying, also.

1872
01:38:03,320 --> 01:38:06,800
Speaker 1: Known as a buster, already talking about buddy.

1873
01:38:06,840 --> 01:38:10,360
Speaker 2: He want wasn't just sits on his broken So no,

1874
01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:14,120
Speaker 2: I don't want your no, No, I don't want to

1875
01:38:14,240 --> 01:38:15,360
Speaker 2: give you my name.

1876
01:38:15,479 --> 01:38:19,200
Speaker 1: No, I don't want me nowhere. No, I don't want

1877
01:38:19,280 --> 01:38:22,719
Speaker 1: none of your side. No, I don't want no scrub.

1878
01:38:23,040 --> 01:38:26,439
Speaker 6: Scrub is a gotta ka getting nollah from me, saying

1879
01:38:26,560 --> 01:38:29,040
Speaker 6: out the passenger side his best friends.

1880
01:38:28,840 --> 01:38:32,759
Speaker 1: Right, trying to holler emmy, I don't want no scrub.

1881
01:38:33,000 --> 01:38:35,760
Speaker 6: A scrub is a gotta ka getting nollah from me,

1882
01:38:36,280 --> 01:38:39,080
Speaker 6: hanging out the passenger side on his best friends ride,

1883
01:38:39,400 --> 01:38:45,120
Speaker 6: trying to holler emmy, No, wit took it.

1884
01:38:46,120 --> 01:38:49,120
Speaker 1: Don't want say bunny. I'm saying sitting you guys are hanging.

1885
01:38:51,920 --> 01:38:52,240
Speaker 2: The same.

1886
01:38:52,320 --> 01:38:54,479
Speaker 1: We both speak English language.

1887
01:38:56,120 --> 01:38:59,640
Speaker 3: Literally, I'm just saying, sitting on the passenger side, you're like,

1888
01:38:59,760 --> 01:39:00,400
Speaker 3: hang and nothing?

1889
01:39:00,640 --> 01:39:03,599
Speaker 1: All right? Was I don't you know what this says? Hanging?

1890
01:39:05,520 --> 01:39:09,120
Speaker 2: That's all right, we got the job. Thank you so

1891
01:39:09,280 --> 01:39:13,200
Speaker 2: much waiting for hanging out on to Yes and make

1892
01:39:13,200 --> 01:39:15,519
Speaker 2: sure y'all tune into Poor Minds next week.

1893
01:39:15,600 --> 01:39:16,160
Speaker 1: We'll be back.