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Speaker 1: Wind Down Jane and Michael and Radio podcast. All Right,

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Speaker 1: we're back. What do you always say we're back? Where

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Speaker 1: would we go? Okay, yeah, you're right. Do you either

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Speaker 1: say you either say happy Monday? And I'm like, it's

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Speaker 1: not I don't I never know what like Ron Burgundy,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to do with my hands, like

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Speaker 1: we're back, like just like just like when we didn't

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Speaker 1: win the next week, it's Jane is gonna say we're here.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Hi, what about just like welcome to wind Down?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to wind Down. That's the best insurer ever. What

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Speaker 1: just happened the last thirty seconds? So hey guys, Um Sarah,

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Speaker 1: Hey Sarah, how are you doing all right? Sarah's bad? Sarah?

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Speaker 1: You are you had too much coffee this morning? A

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Speaker 1: little too much coffee? Catheine. Um. So yeah, Sarah is

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Speaker 1: here and she's back for this episode to talk about

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Speaker 1: wedding and right now you are you are hold up

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Speaker 1: in a cabin and uh okay, So Sarah, Janna, I mean,

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Speaker 1: we have so much to catch up on. It's insane.

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Speaker 1: But I just your wedding was like a week before

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Speaker 1: all this craziness. It's I can't even tell you how

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Speaker 1: like I still wake up with like a cold sweat,

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Speaker 1: thinking like it won't happen, because I almost feel like,

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Speaker 1: weren't you going to do it a little bit later?

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Speaker 1: To like weren't you weren't you considering March as well? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I just literally like I have no words

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Speaker 1: because I cannot believe how lucky we got, Like we

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Speaker 1: seriously got so lucky. One more week and it would

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Speaker 1: have been canceled. Oh my god, after everything, I just

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Speaker 1: after six years of waiting for like the wedding. I

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Speaker 1: mean I would truly I would have. I would have

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Speaker 1: cried for you. We could all zoom in for the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, there would have been no zoom. I mean

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Speaker 1: this poor child ties like, yeah, that is my worst nightmare,

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Speaker 1: like imagining what would have happened to you, And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I know, so you got really lucky. But also I

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Speaker 1: mean you were supposed to be in Italy too for

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Speaker 1: your honeymoon, so you didn't even get to go on

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Speaker 1: a honeymoon. So crazy is like I feel there was

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Speaker 1: one case, I think the day I flew to New York,

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Speaker 1: much about it. I was packed for Italy. I mean

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Speaker 1: I had already packed my backs for Italy. TI was

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Speaker 1: going to bring them. And then it was the Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: I think it was like February or something. I got

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Speaker 1: a hundred messages about like what was going on in

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Speaker 1: Italy and we were like, yeah, this isn't happening and no,

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Speaker 1: And at that point, I was like, I can't even

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Speaker 1: And then who would have thought. I mean, I'm so

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Speaker 1: sad for New York. It makes me want to cry. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's since, it's just it's awful. I mean, it's it's

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Speaker 1: just awful. So I feel like, you know, obviously you

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Speaker 1: were so lucky to have your beautiful wedding in New

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Speaker 1: for all those people that obviously there's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: all said weddings too. It's like I just feel like

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Speaker 1: it's so hard to like, but it's still sad, like

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Speaker 1: for those people like my No, that cousn't just had

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Speaker 1: can still be upset about canceling your wedding. That's what's

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Speaker 1: so crazy about this is that everyone is struggling, Like

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Speaker 1: people who were sick or struggling, people who had jobs

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Speaker 1: for everyone. But prayers that you know, I've talked about

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Speaker 1: at the silver lining of all this, and it's really

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Speaker 1: hard to do that because you've taken a consideration obviously

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Speaker 1: the people that are so negatively affected, which again to

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Speaker 1: your point, Sarah, everyone's affected in some aspect, no matter

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Speaker 1: what you do for a living, no matter who you are. Financially, anxiety,

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Speaker 1: like we have friends and relatives in the you know,

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Speaker 1: first responder career paths. But to look at the silver

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Speaker 1: and we're not saying it's a cake walk. It is stressful,

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Speaker 1: and you know, but you know, in a year from now,

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Speaker 1: we you know, Jenny even made the point like a

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Speaker 1: no nothing anymore. And that's what I just like, you're right,

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Speaker 1: I just hope people are able to be positive and

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Speaker 1: find the beauty. You know, that's still you know, like

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Speaker 1: it's uninterrupted time with them, Like there is so much

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Speaker 1: ty and I are spending our first month as a

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Speaker 1: married couple. We have not left each other's side from

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Speaker 1: like you know, like you said, we'll always have those

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Speaker 1: memories of oh my god, remember when we got married

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Speaker 1: and then we couldn't like escape each other for so

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean crazy, but it all that

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Speaker 1: absolutely true. But it's still like I have a hard

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Speaker 1: like the movie was taken away and these things like

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Speaker 1: I still feel like we're still able, we should still

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Speaker 1: have a little grace with ourselves to be it's okay

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Speaker 1: to also go okay at the end of the day though,

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Speaker 1: like Mike said, our immediate family is healthy. We're controlling

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Speaker 1: back to normal. And you know what, this year is

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Speaker 1: maybe just not going to be a great financial year,

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Speaker 1: and we're going to have a lot of family time

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Speaker 1: I kind of mentioned that to someone the other day

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Speaker 1: said to myself, Okay, this year financially, it's gonna suck,

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Speaker 1: but it's gonna suck for everyone, but especially like in

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Speaker 1: our situation, it's just not going to be great. But

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Speaker 1: if we were working totally. But it's you just got

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Speaker 1: to know your audience. I mean, there's always someone you

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Speaker 1: homeschooling her. Yeah, mom and mom and dad. Mom and

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Speaker 1: and like I said, we've hit over two hundred. We

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Speaker 1: will have hit over two hundred hospital clinics, health care

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Speaker 1: facilities by the end of the week. And we're moving

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Speaker 1: very quickly now and we're accessing uh the PPE what

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Speaker 1: I call it AID, but it's basically protected gear um

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Speaker 1: all over the world. But really once it's come to

429
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Speaker 1: the United States, because we have to make sure that

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Speaker 1: it hasn't been compromised, that it's not counterfeit, that it's

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Speaker 1: been inspected, that it's been vetted. And there are different

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Speaker 1: types of masks, for example, that range from f D

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Speaker 1: A approved where uh someone maybe a receptionist at a

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Speaker 1: hospital might wear that, but then an e er doctor

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Speaker 1: we put in more of like a three M type

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Speaker 1: of masks. So we are just finding ways to distribute

437
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: throughout the country to so many suffering hospitals there. It

438
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 1: is so insane the amount of messages we get, people

439
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 1: pleading and begging as if it's a great depression for masks.

440
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's just so devastating and so

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00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: terrible for anybody who doesn't really know because they're not

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00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: getting the messages. It's it's horrible. And we distribute proportionately

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Speaker 1: based on how bad areas are within a state, So

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Speaker 1: that's how we distribute our our aid. With all of

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Speaker 1: the moving parts and logistics and resources that go into

446
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 1: something like this, I'm sure you're used to maybe with

447
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 1: the natural disaster stuff, quick turnarounds, getting things done right away.

448
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 1: Have you really been affected by the logistical aspect of

449
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 1: this are things. Is the timeline slower too for things

450
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 1: to process and everything. This is why we really thrive,

451
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: and this is why you have to be a business

452
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: person who can execute and you have to be a

453
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 1: run and gun type hustler that I am. Like, I

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00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,439
Speaker 1: realized why people say that I was born to do this.

455
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: I realized why I was born to do this. Growing

456
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Speaker 1: up on the racetrack, always kind of, you know, being scrappy.

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Speaker 1: This is for the person who you have to it's

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Speaker 1: a roller coaster. You have to have the stomach for it.

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Speaker 1: But you literally we we were on the ground in

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00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 1: the Bahamas while the hurricane was still happening, so we

461
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,239
Speaker 1: I saw this. I literally said to my partners at

462
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 1: Global Empowerment Mission, this is going to be the problem.

463
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Speaker 1: This is where the problem is gonna be. You have

464
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: to pivot all the time because first you think it's

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Speaker 1: one thing, and then you're like, it's prevention, it's sanity,

466
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: you know, tan sanitizer, and it's immune systems and and

467
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: wipes and everything. But then once everybody gets shut down

468
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 1: in his home and the hospitals overloaded, I realized early

469
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Speaker 1: this is the thing. So then you have to be

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Speaker 1: you know, we're traveling all over the country going to

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Speaker 1: different warehouses and inspecting and seeing what's real because there's gouging,

472
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Speaker 1: there's boarding, there's interception from individuals from governments. There there

473
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: is corruption, there is counterfeit. So you have to have

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Speaker 1: that sort of personality and you have to have lawyers

475
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: at the ready. You have to understand how to read contracts,

476
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: how to deal with bank wires, and and you have

477
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Speaker 1: to be a hustler. So we have been first and

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00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 1: governments are working with us because we are faster than

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Speaker 1: the red tape for the government requires. So we we

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Speaker 1: UM just we delivered one million bio hazard has matt

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Speaker 1: suits to Andrew Cuomo and Albany. The day after I

482
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Speaker 1: told him I founder, the truck started arriving. Um I

483
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: started working with the Blasio's office and the next day

484
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: they had two hundred thousand masks. And we're now working

485
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 1: on orders and up to like fifty to eighty eight

486
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Speaker 1: million dollars where we need government help because of be strong.

487
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: Money goes directly to the effort, so we don't we're

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Speaker 1: not sitting around. We don't do like a rubber chicken dinner.

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Speaker 1: And you know one year where we just raised fifty

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Speaker 1: million dollars just waiting for a coronavirus to come. So

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00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: it becomes like the puzzle pieces. The pieces. The puzzle

492
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 1: pieces are everywhere, and every time there's a disaster, we

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Speaker 1: have to start over raising money. So UM and celebrities,

494
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: you know, some celebrities have really jumped in. Billy Joel

495
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: donated half a million dollars and he delivered a lot

496
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 1: of aid for him the next day throughout New York

497
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 1: UH from Amy Schumer, and I was gonna say, I

498
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 1: saw your tweets where you were kind of like okay, everyone,

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Speaker 1: I'm yea yeah. Billionaires, evangelists, anyone who has money, like,

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00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: shake your pockets out. We can spend fifty dred million

501
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: dollars like it's nothing by Friday. I mean, this is real.

502
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: It's not even gonna make a dent. So this is

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00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 1: the small donations are amazing and they add up and

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00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: those will help the small hospitals all over the country

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Speaker 1: that don't have billionaires on their boards. But we need

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Speaker 1: real money. UM Camilla and Matthew McConaughey UH have donated

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Speaker 1: UH a significant amount today. It came in yesterday, and

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Speaker 1: we will start delivering their aid to Louisiana and Texas tomorrow. Uh.

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Speaker 1: The First Standing Family Foundation, a person that I know,

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Speaker 1: Grant for Standing, he's in the healthcare business, donated one

511
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Speaker 1: point three million dollars today. Yeah, so like you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm being really I'm being pushier than I've ever been,

513
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: which is a big statement because one point billion dollars

514
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: our biggest donation, and we need people to come in

515
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: with ten million dollar donations. Like it's nothing like we

516
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: need billionaires to be like I need to write a

517
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: parking ticket paid be strong because we need a hundred

518
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: million dollars in ppe and we will go through it.

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00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: So are you on this year's presidential ballot? Because after that,

520
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, you got me the Independent coming in.

521
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about I really don't know much

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00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: about politics. I'm good at get anything's done. If that's

523
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: the only thing that's all the American people are asking. Yeah,

524
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: I guess I am, Sarah. Is that a Scorpio traite?

525
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: She can get done? Scorpio. I know you are, trust me.

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00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: I am. I'm a team Bethany from the very beginning.

527
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: So thank you. I'm so excited right now appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Do you do you have a question? You do you

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00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: have a question for bethany Um? No, I don't talk

530
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 1: watch and listen to her talk all day, but no,

531
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 1: I think you're a badass bit which I think anyone

532
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: who watches Housewives who really knows you also knows that.

533
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: But that's what I was gonna tell them is I've

534
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: actually seen what she's talking about, because you took the

535
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: cameras a couple of times down like in like to

536
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: her warehouses, and you went down to Puerto Rico with

537
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: the cameras, right, Yeah, so you live. It's Yeah, it's

538
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: really it's amazing. It's like I said, it's it's really

539
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: hard work. It's really intense, and it's very stressful, and

540
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 1: you get you get in the weeds and and in

541
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: the bubble. But you know, like it's just hard to

542
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: imagine anything superficial right now. It's hard to look at

543
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: superficial posts and it's hard to think about, uh, you know,

544
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: some of the things I've cared about and posted about

545
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: and been on TV shows about. So you know, I

546
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: hope that this global reset is changing people and the

547
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: way that they see the world and the way that

548
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: they see people around them, and I think it's bringing

549
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: out the best and the worst of people. I really do.

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00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: I think you're just there are people that I see

551
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,959
Speaker 1: that are doing like this. You know, this is this

552
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 1: is a big vacation. And every other day they're at

553
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,239
Speaker 1: a different takeout restaurant and at the supermarket every day

554
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: with all their kids, and and I'm treating this. I went,

555
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: I went to the market three weeks ago, and I

556
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: went this past week, and I felt like I was

557
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: committing a crime. And I ordered in food one time,

558
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: and I felt like I was committing a crime. Like

559
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 1: I've been eating out my freezer. Seriously, very same thing

560
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: with us. I'm like, all right, we're out of you know,

561
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: pretty much every two and a half weeks. I'm like,

562
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: that's it, like nothing else, because this is how it's

563
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 1: going to stop, as if we're following the orders, you know.

564
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: And we went out yesterday just to go look at

565
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: some houses that were being built, and there was I

566
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: was shocked how many people were out. I'm like, what

567
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: are you people doing? Like stay being selfish? Selfish, but

568
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: I mean selfish. You have to feel so good with

569
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: how you know, all the all the money you're raising

570
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: all everything that you're doing too, and bringing supplies. I mean,

571
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: that's got to make you feel good in all of

572
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 1: us too, because I feel like, you know, when we

573
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: did a um, we did a campaign and it was

574
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: acts of kindness, and it's it's you know, we gave

575
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: money to a bunch of moms that needed it in

576
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: formulae for their babies and groceries, and it's I was

577
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: so depressed over the silliest, stupidest things. And then when

578
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: the second I helped someone, I was like, oh my

579
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: stuff was nothing, like why am I? Like? What what

580
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: is wrong with me? And the second that I helped

581
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: someone else, it was like I was not in depressed

582
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: and then everything was perspective to after that, well, it's ships. Yeah,

583
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: you know, I could be wearing one of my brands

584
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: some things this week and I would feel disgusted to

585
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: even care about mentioning it, or you know, going to

586
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: sell on TV, which I was of course asked to

587
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: do this week, and I was like, just to know,

588
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's just but what about feeling good about it?

589
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: I feel good about it. But what I really feel

590
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: good about is changing the changing the narrative about charitable

591
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: work because you see a lot of high profile people

592
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: post links to things, and I know that they don't

593
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: really know what goes on with those links. They don't

594
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: know how much money that place takes, they don't know

595
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: exactly where it's going. So I feel that BE Strong

596
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: and shifting the way that people look at charity. So

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00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: they're they're saying, you know, every I'm so transparent, and

598
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: every day is a new post that the mission and

599
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: we call whish abc D here it is. You want

600
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: to call Cuomo, asked him if that's a million bio

601
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: has matt touits, I'll tell you yes. You want to

602
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: call the Blasio and ask him if those a two

603
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: masks and how much they were, He'll tell you yes.

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00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: So to give people the power, even if they donated

605
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: five dollars, to know exactly where that five dollars went,

606
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: and for them to know that Billy Joel donated so

607
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: he chose to make New York important, and that Camilla

608
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: and Matthew McConaughey chose to make Louisiana and Texa is important,

609
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: and that Be Strong will then balance that out throughout

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00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: the country to make everybody important. I just feel like

611
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: that's a connectivity that has been missing in charity so long.

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00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: This is not something that we can, you know, host

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00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: a fundraiser once a year, uh and pay somebody a

614
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars to sling and do their hair and

615
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: makeup and and this is called give me the money,

616
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: and we're giving it to the people. And so I

617
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: think it's different money like put your money where your

618
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: mouth is and let's go. Let's go where can you

619
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: gave it to me? And there it is right there?

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00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: I love it. Can you remind our listeners where they

621
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: can find to be a part of this real deal

622
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: right now and help? So this real deal is Bethany

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Speaker 1: dot com, b E t h e n n y

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Speaker 1: dot com, slash be strong. Every dollar happens. The Twitter

625
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: follower just said, what if it was like years ago

626
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: the March of Dimes if everybody gave five cents, which

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00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why they didn't ask for a dime.

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00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: They were the March of Dimes. So I'm now everything

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00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: to give me um ten dollars and that would you know,

630
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: make a dent. I can't even say that that would

631
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: do it. That wouldn't do it. But and then get

632
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: some billionaires to to give some money and pressure people

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00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: to give to a place that you trust. And let's

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00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: get this thing done. We're just starting. I thank you

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00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: so much for badass. Thank you so much. I appreciate

636
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: everything you're doing. And we just we hope that um,

637
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: you know, more people like you know, go shake Bazos

638
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: pockets or something. Go go ask for a little shake.

639
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: You're evangelists today. Someone a list of all that and

640
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: I didn't even think of them. Nobody ever thinks to

641
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: ask them for money. Let's call Joel Olstein and I

642
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: want some money from Joel Olstein. Who's Tony Robbins. Oh, like,

643
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: no one's shaking arctuly. Everyone's on bezos is Jock Like? Okay?

644
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: But and I know he's the richest man in the world,

645
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: but I mean, let's go for some other people. True,

646
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: it's true, even it out a little bit. Bethany, thank

647
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: you so much. Have a great day and go get

648
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: on those TikTok dances with your daughter. Okay, thank you,

649
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: you have a good day. Thank you. Sarah. I just

650
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: told her I loved her. I feel like never been speechless. No,

651
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: you've never been speech us And that's I was like,

652
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: do you want to ask. I didn't know if you

653
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: want to like ask like a house last question or something,

654
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: and you're just like, no, I don't really feel like

655
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: it was the time. Um, I was definitely thinking how

656
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: life things. But I don't really know if she was

657
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: really here for it. But I was just like mesmerized.

658
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: I was just like staring at her like skin and

659
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: just like listening to her, like talk, She's so smart

660
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: and like I feel like when she talks, you listen.

661
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: So what happened with her was she she's not married

662
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: and see a ring. Oh my god, it's a really

663
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: really bad story. He was like, oh no, no, he

664
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: didn't die. But it was like one of those scenarios,

665
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: like you know, she she always wanted to you know,

666
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,919
Speaker 1: a baby and this and that, and like she meets

667
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: a guy and he comes on the show and they

668
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: have this whole they get married and and they get

669
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: their own little spin off and then like I think

670
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: after her daughter was maybe like one or two. He

671
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: just I mean, I think she um battled him in custody.

672
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: Like I think they were battling for like five years,

673
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: six years. He did not like go without a fight.

674
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: He was suing her for everything. He made her hell

675
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: literally a living Yeah, it was really like allegedly all

676
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: of this, but I'm pretty sure because it all plays

677
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: out on the show. So that's why I feel like

678
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 1: I know a lot of it. But it's crazy to watch.

679
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: And she's a tough bitch, like if you're if you

680
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: have an extra time, you should start housewives. She's awesome though,

681
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: And I love that she's so passionate about well and

682
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: you know it has to be strong, and that she's

683
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: helping as many people as she is, Like that's it's

684
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 1: people like like Bethany that are gonna get the job

685
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: done and get save save a life and help people.

686
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: And I just I really love that we saw her

687
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: at Catch in l a. We did. I almost told

688
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: her the story because I was like, like, because I

689
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: know she is like, you know, like the skinny girl,

690
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: but I don't know. And my my buddies were in

691
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:41,959
Speaker 1: town and my one buddy his wife again, his wife

692
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: Marissa is like obsessed with Bethany and like housewives and

693
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 1: stuff and so missed him given f So he's like

694
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: all right, he goes right over to her. He's like, Hey,

695
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to bother you, but my wife would like

696
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: kill me if I don't get a picture with you.

697
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: So he took up selfie with her table right next

698
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: he would have told her that that's funny. She's funny. Yeah.

699
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well let's we're gonna talk a little bit more,

700
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: but let's first take a break. But yeah, I just

701
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,439
Speaker 1: hope all of you guys go to be strong, um

702
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: and help in any way you can. I always say

703
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: this too, So I've got okay, let's say one point

704
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: nine million followers. If everyone gave one dollar, Oh, Sarah,

705
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: don't give But I'm just saying, like, if everyone gave

706
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: a dollar, like, that's a lot of people. That's a

707
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: lot of money. Well and even like she said, she

708
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: was like five dollars works, fifty works by you know

709
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. She's not greedy on any amount because

710
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: at this point anything helps. Yeah. Well I love is

711
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 1: that she has no shame in asking for money, like

712
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 1: asking big spenders like, hey, give some money, come on.

713
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: I love that, Like, why are you hesitating? Let's do this?

714
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: She's I feel like we don't even have that much money.

715
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 1: Okay here, Literally when she was talking, I was I

716
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: was about to text time and be like sure, like

717
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: donate money right now. I don't know what's my favorite

718
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 1: house wife, and I feel like I should like be

719
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: like here, take it all. I don't know if I

720
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: can go to sleep tonight without donating. Honey, let's do it. Um.

721
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: So that's the whole point. I think she wants to

722
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 1: make people feel that way. Mission accomplished. All right, let's

723
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: do like a d M before we get out of here. Yeah,

724
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: so I'm looking at d ms right now on the

725
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: Wine Down Podcast Instagram, So make sure if you want

726
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: to communicate with us, d M us there, um, and

727
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: we'd love to try to get to your question. Uh

728
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,439
Speaker 1: this one, says Hi Jian and Mike. I'm wondering if

729
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: on the podcast you can talk a little bit about

730
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: how you're staying motivated to plan for the future during

731
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: self isolation. My boyfriend and I have been together for

732
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: over five years, and he finally finished his school at

733
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: the end of April. This spring summer was supposed to

734
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: be our time to take a lot of big steps

735
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: in our lives, and he's looking forward to kick starting

736
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: his career and we were looking at moving into a

737
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: new home. All this before um COVID hijacked our plans.

738
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: I finally felt like we were making strides towards the future,

739
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: and now I feel hopeless. I feel so stuck, all

740
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: my motivations out the window. I know you're both hustler,

741
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: So any tips wait when I'm sorry? You know what,

742
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: you know what? You know who Janna is right now,

743
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: she's that's the opinion of epitome of Michael Scott not

744
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 1: being able to say, that's what she said. That's like Janna,

745
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: that's Joanna in those situations. Hundred and fifty. Let me

746
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: just agree with this. I know you're both hustlers, so

747
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 1: any chance to keep motivated for future planning during such

748
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: a bleak time would be greatly appreciate. It. Come on,

749
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,439
Speaker 1: it was funny. Well, since I'm an expert on this

750
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: subject matter. Um, that's tough, by the way, that is

751
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: very hard, knowing that you probably have the mindset like

752
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: my wife's a hustler and I not so much at

753
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 1: certain things. Um, you hustle like a like you're you're

754
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: you Dadding is hustling your a dad hustler. Yeah, we're

755
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: all hustling different way we do exactly A good point,

756
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,919
Speaker 1: thank you, Sarah. Um, I'm just agreed. To that, I said,

757
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 1: you like you hustle, like being a dad, like you

758
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: hustle your butt off. I would say, control what you

759
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,879
Speaker 1: can control, right, which is obviously easier shaid than done.

760
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: But okay, COVID nineteen happened, it's happening. You can't control

761
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 1: any of that. Take a breath, realize that. Okay, you

762
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 1: guys have been in each other's life for five years.

763
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: You've been together. You guys aren't going anywhere. Okay, God willing,

764
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: your life isn't going anywhere, like in a negative way.

765
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: So just understand that you have each other still. The

766
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: things that you want are going to come, and there

767
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be a set timeline for that. It's like, okay,

768
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: got pushed back. You know what. We're together though, we're healthy,

769
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 1: we you know it's gonna work out. Just the little thing.

770
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: I like that. That's good. Yeah, and just stay positive

771
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 1: too with that. Um, this is really funny. She's she's

772
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: from London. I think you should read. Michael and I

773
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: were just being delirious the other day and we were

774
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: speaking in like British accents, and he just took a

775
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: turn to like southern redneck. I don't know how how

776
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: would even happen? But I was going to attempt to

777
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: do this in a British accent, but I wasn't. Let

778
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: maybe you want to try it, Mike. My question do

779
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: you sound like from London? My question me both is

780
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: how do you deal with coping with pet peeves that

781
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: your loved one does? Um? For example, I love my

782
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: fiance so much, but it bugs me he's always on

783
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: his phone. I know I can go and do something

784
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: else while he does that, um, but man, it grinds

785
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: my gears and my mind um and turns so negative.

786
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 1: So yeah, any tips for dealing with pet peeves, especially

787
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: during isolation? Love you guys all the way from London, England, Olivia.

788
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I feel like right now people

789
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: have a lot more pet peeves than they did three

790
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: weeks ago. It's like, all of a sudden, time will

791
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: look at me and I'm like, oh my go ahead

792
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: when you look at me. Well, one that I've been

793
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: doing that i've been I was good at for a while,

794
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: but now the last week I've been bad is when

795
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:23,280
Speaker 1: I get Jason the morning. Sometimes I'll forget his diaper

796
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: like that, a ward in the night, like I'll take

797
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: it off right, change his diaper, and I'll leave that

798
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: dirty diaper like on his dresser, and then not not

799
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: if it's a poop, I'd never leave it up there

800
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: if it's poop, but the p I'll just be like, okay,

801
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 1: i'll get it later. And then Jana Janna happens to

802
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 1: be the next one to go up and she starts

803
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: coming down the stairs with just a straight face. I'm like, damn,

804
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: my bad bro. And I'm like, one day, I'm just

805
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,399
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna put it in your on your side

806
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 1: of the bed. I don't need the pillow, so you

807
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: can just your head like lays on it if you

808
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: do that. And I sleep all night and I even

809
00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: realize that, but he's I was like, Michael, I don't understand,

810
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: like why it's that hard to bring down the pp

811
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: diaper And he's like, I don't have enough hands, and

812
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: I was like, so where where are my hands? So

813
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: like when I know, because here's the thing, when I

814
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: come downstairs, because what happens is happens, I take Jolie

815
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,800
Speaker 1: back upstairs because usually she comes down by then I

816
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: make Jas's bottle. Jolie and I go upstairs. We get

817
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: ja'son we go in the playroom, so when we come

818
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: down for breakfast at eight o'clock, sounds like a personal

819
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: problem to make. When we come down stairs for breakfast

820
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: at eight o'clock, Jolie always likes to ride on my back.

821
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: I gotta hold Jason and then usually like his empty

822
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: bottle in my other hand. So you're being down of

823
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: the year and you just can't happen to you. I'm sorry.

824
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: The one thing I leave um one last question from

825
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 1: the wind Down Podcast Instagram. I will say if being

826
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 1: on the phone was a pet peep of mind, I

827
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: would really like if that was the thing you did

828
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: all the time and really bother me. That's a really

829
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: tough one. So my pet peeper is a little different,

830
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: but hers like him being on the phone that we

831
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: are good at not doing that. We are because we've

832
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 1: communicated that. Yes, but that would really really bother me. Yeah,

833
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: that'd bother especially right now because it's like what he's

834
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: probably like, what else am I doing? He's just on

835
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: his Well wait a minute, is it Is it comparable

836
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 1: to your iPad? Oh? No, because no, because if TI

837
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: comes in my room in my iPad, I put it

838
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: away because I don't have things on my iPad. I

839
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 1: just have Netflix, So it's not like I could scroll

840
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: on my iPad, you know, always on his phone. That's

841
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: not even like, oh my god, is it Bobby? Um No,

842
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 1: because then I can watch my shows and peace. No.

843
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: He started doing puzzles right now, three D puzzles. So

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Speaker 1: he's been very busy and yesterday he didn't touch his

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Speaker 1: phone for like five hours, and I was like, are

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00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: you okay? That's funny. It's very weird. Alright. Last question, Um,

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00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: how do I get my boyfriend to communicate with me

848
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: more more specifically when we have bad days or an argument.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about it later on or the

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00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: next day, And he just wants to be over it

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00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: and move on, which I want to um and move on.

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00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: But um, after we get it out, UM, it just

853
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: feels like the argument that drags on the tens in

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Speaker 1: Um then she ever wanted or intended. That's frustrating because

855
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Speaker 1: she's not saying she wants to do it in the

856
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: moment she wants to do it. I want to talk

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00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: about it later on or the next day, which is

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00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: something that I would normally say, like give it some

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00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: space and then revisit it from a yes. Two things.

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Speaker 1: First two, lean on his side just for a second.

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Speaker 1: Is every single argument or disagreement or confrontation are you

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Speaker 1: wanting to talk out and deal with? Because if so,

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00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: that's exhausting because we have moments where we just kind

864
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: of look at each other high five and we're like,

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00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: all right, let's move on. You need to have some

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Speaker 1: of those, because if every little thing you need to

867
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Speaker 1: talk out, you're just going to drive him further and

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Speaker 1: further away. It'll eat you alive. Yes, yes, be conscious

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00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: of that. Second is to be on her side. Um.

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Speaker 1: I mean if the former isn't the case, and you

871
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Speaker 1: are just doing it on this on the big or

872
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: issues and the more sensitive materials, then you're doing everything

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00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: you can. And I would just almost self self deprecate.

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00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 1: Leading off kind of helps sometimes where you can say, honey,

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00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: I know this is really annoying, and I know this

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00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: may seem crazy, but it just I can't get past

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00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: you know, the argument earlier. If we just don't talk

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00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: about it, you know, when would be a good time?

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00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: Would now be okay? Could maybe later, like you know,

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00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: could we figure that out? Yeah? And then we did

881
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: a like a really good way to communicate to on

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00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: if you go to our YouTube. We do a safe

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00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 1: talk process and UM that we learn from our therapist,

884
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 1: so you can um kind of go through that and

885
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: hear um hot ways to communicate. UM. But I would

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00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,959
Speaker 1: just say, like definitely lean in from a vulnerable place,

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Speaker 1: not a you always or stuff like that, because that's

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00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: that's not going to be very effective effective. Yes, UM, well, Sarah,

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Speaker 1: I love you girl, thanks for coming on. And um Billson,

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Speaker 1: you're the best. We love you and everyone out there.

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Speaker 1: We'll stay the second next week till TI we said

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Speaker 1: hi oh I will bye