WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Hot For Teacher

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels Second date Update. Today's second date update is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the anti second date update. What that means

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<v Speaker 1>The girl on the phone doesn't want a date with

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that she wants us to call, but she

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<v Speaker 1>does want some clarification. Her name is Steph. Steph. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I'm good? How are you not too bad? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a different kind of second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh yeah, I like how you're laughing. Thanks. Um, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a crazy situation. It's really why I'm calling you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's nothing in the handbook about how to take

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<v Speaker 1>care of this. What situation are you talking about? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a teacher and um, you know, I have some

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<v Speaker 1>lovely students and everything, and but I'm single. So on

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<v Speaker 1>the weekends I go out. Yes, can I get a

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<v Speaker 1>little pta conference? Okay, well no you may not. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're a teacher and you have great students, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know I am single, So I go out on

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<v Speaker 1>the weekends, and I was at this bar with my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and this guy comes up to me and he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do I know you? And I'm like, uh, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>pickup line or something, you know, because I didn't recognize

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<v Speaker 1>the guy right, and and he goes, you're my son's teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, So ends up he actually is. His son,

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<v Speaker 1>Noah is in my class. So I'm hanging with my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and then you know, he just sort of interjects

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<v Speaker 1>himself into the conversation and is asking all kinds of questions,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like actually get to know me, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>crossing that parent teacher Lyne. You know, it's becoming a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more intimateent and all of a sudden, he's

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<v Speaker 1>like asking if he can buy me a drink, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I say, no, I don't want to drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to have that kind of a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Um, which means he's not cute enough right Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he's decent looking, but I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to date the father of one of my students.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever done that before? No? No, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>have not. I have a co worker who did, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's no longer a teacher because of it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just distanced myself, you know. Okay, So he was just

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<v Speaker 1>like giving you the hard press, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>buy you drinks and stuff, yes, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>clearly said, no, that's okay. I've got my own money.

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<v Speaker 1>I can I can get my own drinks. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he ends up ordering shots for all of us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it kind of seems like he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get me drunk. I don't know. It just I

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<v Speaker 1>had that feeling, and I just I didn't want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want that. So did you explain your boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>to him? Well, I was trying, he just was not listening.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be nice because he is the father

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<v Speaker 1>of one of my students, and I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>cause a rift. But he actually asked if we could

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<v Speaker 1>me and him could actually go somewhere private and talk

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<v Speaker 1>and get away from my friends. He was like, just

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<v Speaker 1>come on, let's just sit at the table and just

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<v Speaker 1>get to know each other. And I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be nice, so I said, okay, we'll sit for a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes, but then I have to leave. And I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of made a signal to my friends, and

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of saved me, rescue me. But they were laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>They were laughing at me. It was hilarious. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have done the same thing if I was your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I really had no choice. So I sat down and

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him, and he's asking all kinds of questions

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, it must be it must be awkward when

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<v Speaker 1>you go to class and have to teach his son. Now, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very, very awkward. But that's not the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I finally, I finally escape. Essentially, it felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was having to escape. And then he offered to take

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<v Speaker 1>me home and I was like, no, I've got to

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<v Speaker 1>ride with my friends. And he's like, well, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we just buy some shots and then head

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<v Speaker 1>on over to my place and just you know, keep

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<v Speaker 1>the party going. Wow. I was like no, So I

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<v Speaker 1>get out of that. And a couple of days later,

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<v Speaker 1>he starts texting me. Here's the creepy part. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>my cell phone is not public knowledge it I have

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<v Speaker 1>a school line that they can call, but my cellphone

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<v Speaker 1>is not public. So wait, did you give him your number? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I did not. Do you think one of your friends

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<v Speaker 1>gave him your number, trying to mess with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but he somehow got my number and he's texting, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that was great the other night. Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>we continue on. Let's go on another day, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let's I've got some ideas, and I'm just like, why

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<v Speaker 1>that kid, why didn't do that? Are you responding to him? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say to him. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. Actually why I'm calling you guys, just because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to do. I mean, there's that

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<v Speaker 1>fine line and this is this is such a freaking

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<v Speaker 1>awkward position. And you know, he keeps asking me if

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<v Speaker 1>we can go on another date. We've never even been

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<v Speaker 1>on my first date, so he thinks. He obviously thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that your hangout when he saw you at the bar

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<v Speaker 1>and tried to get you drunk and take you home

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<v Speaker 1>was a date. Yes, he thought that was a date

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<v Speaker 1>and it was not an actual date. We did not

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<v Speaker 1>not ask me out. I did not say yes. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually was telling him know the whole night, and he

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why no means yes to him, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he's hearing. And I don't know, he's delusional

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<v Speaker 1>and why haven't you just texted him and said stop

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<v Speaker 1>because I just don't want to talk to him. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to engage with him. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't want to continue the conversation. I just

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<v Speaker 1>need I need you guys. So you want us to

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<v Speaker 1>call him and tell him that you, guys never went

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date to begin with, and no, there

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<v Speaker 1>will not be a second date or any other dates

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<v Speaker 1>in the future. Are you guys able to do that? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>I can do that. We'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then call this guy and tell him why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back. It's waited for than any second

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<v Speaker 1>day update we've ever done, but we'll do it right

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<v Speaker 1>after me. Thank you, King Jubil in the morning. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually excited to call this guy for the second date

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<v Speaker 1>update today because I always wonder what goes through dude's

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<v Speaker 1>heads when they won't leave a girl alone when they

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<v Speaker 1>obviously don't want to go out with them again. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering what is going through this guy's mind if

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<v Speaker 1>you're unaware of what's going on. Steph called us for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. The only problem is it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a traditional second date update because she never actually went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with the guy that she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call. And she was out at a bar one night.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy came up to her and said, hey, you're my

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<v Speaker 1>son's teacher, and then started buying her a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and trying to get her drunk. Even suggested going

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<v Speaker 1>back to his place. She said no, and then somehow

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<v Speaker 1>he got her phone number and has been texting her

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<v Speaker 1>NonStop to go out on quote another date. So he

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was a date, and now he's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a second date, and she wants us to call

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<v Speaker 1>him and say go away. I think what I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to do, unless you're against it, I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>this like we do a traditional second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to call the guy and tell him

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<v Speaker 1>to go away right away. I'll be like you went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with Steph, so that we can hear

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<v Speaker 1>him actually break down the date that he thinks she

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<v Speaker 1>went on before we tell him to get lost. Can

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<v Speaker 1>we do that? You know, whatever works? I mean, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you can just get the creeps to back off. Okay, wonderful,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, I appreciate it. All right, I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>the call right now, Hello. Hi, is this Chris? Yeah, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing. I've been looking for you. Why

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<v Speaker 1>is this? Well? This is Jewil from brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Are you serious? Yeah? Man, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you okay? You guys are calling me from the radio station? Yeah? Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to call you about a date you recently

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<v Speaker 1>went on. What I heard that you recently went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with one of your son's teachers. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you hear about that? Oh? Because Steph, the

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<v Speaker 1>woman who you went out on a date with, actually

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and asked us to call you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird she would email guys. Okay, Yeah, Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted us to find out why you guys haven't had

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<v Speaker 1>a second date yet. You serious? Yeah? Yeah. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her a little bit about the first time you

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<v Speaker 1>guys hung out, and she told us about your date

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<v Speaker 1>and she's wondering why you guys haven't gone out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't she just call me? I don't know, understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, some maybe nerves or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted us to do it. I'm not really sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like going on a date with her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's nice. She hasn't really been in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with me, so I kind of want to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things kind of just fizzled out. I wanted to Oh weird,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't tell us that. She just told us that

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<v Speaker 1>she went on a date with you and wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to get you on the phone. Oh that's cool. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, she hadn't got back to me, so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she just wasn't interested in me. You know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she wanted to do it this way. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about that date with her. Yeah, we went

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar and you know, just hanging out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple of drinks and you know, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>actually went to a bar together. Yeah, I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>know it was we were at the bar together. So oh, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool. Bar is always a good place for a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Yeah, I think so, you know, nice lively

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<v Speaker 1>people having fun, dance and drinking. You know. Okay, but Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>what made you think that you guys had a connection. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we were again, we were having drinks and

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking and you know, so you guys hung

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<v Speaker 1>out and talked and she said that at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night you did ask her to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to your place. Yeah, you know, I kind of felt

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<v Speaker 1>that party could have kept going, so we'd just invite

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<v Speaker 1>her back to my place, and that's when she kind

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<v Speaker 1>of lost interest or I don't know, it just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>weird at that point. That's interesting because you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she likes you. Yeah, I thought everything was fine to

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<v Speaker 1>that point. I don't Maybe she was just tired. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Yeah, it could be. Let me ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>what were you Where are you hoping to get from

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<v Speaker 1>all this just to like hook up with your son's

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<v Speaker 1>teacher or actually like date her. Well, the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, my son is in her class,

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<v Speaker 1>and my plan was I kind of had a plan

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<v Speaker 1>to get her a couple of drinks, you know, be

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<v Speaker 1>nice and kind of hang out because my son's having

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of trouble in her class. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was hoping that maybe, you know, if things went well

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<v Speaker 1>between us, not only would I be able to hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with her because she's you know, she's attractive, but

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<v Speaker 1>that my son would maybe you know, show him a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more you know, attention, you know, help him

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<v Speaker 1>get along a little better. Wait, are you saying that

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to go out with her? To help your

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<v Speaker 1>son do better in school. I mean yeah, but also

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she again, she's attractive. She wasn't attractive, I

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<v Speaker 1>would have done it. But yeah, okay, Chris, I do

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<v Speaker 1>have another question for you too, Like, at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night, when you got her phone number from her,

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<v Speaker 1>were you excited about that? Um? Yeah, that's interesting. That's

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because she told us she never gave you her

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<v Speaker 1>phone number. I mean technically she didn't. Technical okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get her number? Then? You know, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I just just came upon it, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>found it. You know what, you just found her number.

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<v Speaker 1>You are so creepy right now? How did you give

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<v Speaker 1>her number? At this point, I don't think it matters.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she obviously wants to go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date because she had you guys call, So, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'd rather not comment on what you just said.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna let her do it because Steph is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening right now, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to talk to you. Wait what, yeah, Steph,

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<v Speaker 1>you're there, Chris? Hi? What what's going on? Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually my question to you, Chris, What is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know what you mean. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>we were never on a date. Our paths crossed in

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<v Speaker 1>a bar and we just happened upon each other. That's life.

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<v Speaker 1>That does not mean that we went on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if we had a conversation and there were drinks

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<v Speaker 1>in our hand, that does not mean that we were

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. That's kind of where you're saying this now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because you know what I thought youbody listening

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<v Speaker 1>because the other night you are, you were flirting and

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<v Speaker 1>everything was fine. Okay, Chris, let me spell it out

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I am your son's teacher. I am not

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<v Speaker 1>a girl for you, okay. And second of all, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how you got my phone number, but you

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<v Speaker 1>better delete it and you better not contact me ever again.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a phone number at school that you can

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<v Speaker 1>reach me and leave a voicemail if it pertains to

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<v Speaker 1>your son. And third of all, do not use me

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<v Speaker 1>as some kind of tooy to get better grades for

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<v Speaker 1>your son. Yeah. Yeah, your friends didn't tell me you

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<v Speaker 1>play hard to get. This is kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this is kind of cool. Her friends told you that

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<v Speaker 1>she'd play hard to get. Oh yeah, yeah, they're the

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<v Speaker 1>ones that gave me the number. They said, she would,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be like this. All right, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>finally figured out what happened. Chris. I think you were

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<v Speaker 1>set up man. I think well both of you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were actually set up. Uh yeah, I honestly don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell is going on here. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>Steph was not into you, and her friends knew that,

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<v Speaker 1>so they gave you her phone number so that you

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<v Speaker 1>would bug her Steph. Does that sound right? Yeah? It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds about right. Oh, I get it. Yeah. They did

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing to set it up so we can

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<v Speaker 1>actually get together. I got it. No, no, no, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>just ignore everything that my friends said. Okay, I can

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I think, uh we actually need to discuss

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<v Speaker 1>it over like a beer or something. Not getting it.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not interested. I'm not interested, okay, okay? Hey wow,

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<v Speaker 1>So what about my kid though? How's that you? Are?

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<v Speaker 1>You still trying to get better grades for your kid? Chris?

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<v Speaker 1>I think you've lost this whole battle man. All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, well, I just you know, I heard

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<v Speaker 1>she favors on the kids. I just to favor my

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<v Speaker 1>kids the same. I okay, I don't know where you

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<v Speaker 1>heard that, but I treat every one of my students

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<v Speaker 1>with respect and dignity, and I treat them all the same,

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<v Speaker 1>they just weren't differently. That is not called favor and

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<v Speaker 1>it's called being a teacher. But stuff. Aren't you glad

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<v Speaker 1>that you finally have an involved parent? Though? Oh my god? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>teachers always want that. I guess not in this case.

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<v Speaker 1>I always have to ask this question on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll ask it a little differently for this one. Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to not go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with staff? We will not pay for it? And Staff,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to not go on a date with Chris?

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<v Speaker 1>We will not pay for it? Yes, Okay, wonderful. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>ra have to say no to the first question and

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<v Speaker 1>yeah to the second question. But I mean, I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>not sure what it really means. Well, I just think

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<v Speaker 1>it means that you guys aren't going to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. So will you stop texting Steph? Chris?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess I can stop texting her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really understand what happened. I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>broken jubil in the morning. Somebody texted in at seven, eight, five,

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<v Speaker 1>nine too, And all it says is take a hint,

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<v Speaker 1>where can you in the morning talking about the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, staff called us. She's a teacher, she really

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<v Speaker 1>want to do the second date update to tell this

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<v Speaker 1>guy to stop bugging her. Yeah, less of a hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see him again, more of a tell

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<v Speaker 1>him to go away because they hung out at a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually teaches his kid and they hung out because

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<v Speaker 1>he was at the same bar. And then he said

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<v Speaker 1>that they went on a date together and would not

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<v Speaker 1>stop calling her. Found out that's because her friends told him, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's really into you and gave him her phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>That they didn't even realize it was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>that bad, because she'll play hard to get, like don't

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<v Speaker 1>give up, don't give up, no matter what part of

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. And we tried and tried and tried

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him she wasn't interested. He still he finally

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<v Speaker 1>got it at the end, like oh, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to dat he so his kid could get

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<v Speaker 1>a better grade. Everyone's checked it in right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>can see why the kid's not doing so well in class.

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<v Speaker 1>Like father, like son. Yes, remember, if you want a

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<v Speaker 1>second date up, they just email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back,