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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels Second date Update. Today's second date update is
Speaker 1: kind of the anti second date update. What that means
Speaker 1: The girl on the phone doesn't want a date with
Speaker 1: the guy that she wants us to call, but she
Speaker 1: does want some clarification. Her name is Steph. Steph. How
Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? How are you not too bad? Um?
Speaker 1: So this is a different kind of second date update.
Speaker 1: Huh yeah, I like how you're laughing. Thanks. Um, it's
Speaker 1: just a crazy situation. It's really why I'm calling you, guys,
Speaker 1: because there's nothing in the handbook about how to take
Speaker 1: care of this. What situation are you talking about? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm a teacher and um, you know, I have some
Speaker 1: lovely students and everything, and but I'm single. So on
Speaker 1: the weekends I go out. Yes, can I get a
Speaker 1: little pta conference? Okay, well no you may not. So
Speaker 1: you're a teacher and you have great students, yeah, but
Speaker 1: you know I am single, So I go out on
Speaker 1: the weekends, and I was at this bar with my
Speaker 1: friends and this guy comes up to me and he's like, hey,
Speaker 1: do I know you? And I'm like, uh, that's a
Speaker 1: pickup line or something, you know, because I didn't recognize
Speaker 1: the guy right, and and he goes, you're my son's teacher.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, So ends up he actually is. His son,
Speaker 1: Noah is in my class. So I'm hanging with my
Speaker 1: friends and then you know, he just sort of interjects
Speaker 1: himself into the conversation and is asking all kinds of questions,
Speaker 1: trying to like actually get to know me, and he's
Speaker 1: crossing that parent teacher Lyne. You know, it's becoming a
Speaker 1: little bit more intimateent and all of a sudden, he's
Speaker 1: like asking if he can buy me a drink, and
Speaker 1: you know, I say, no, I don't want to drink.
Speaker 1: I don't want to have that kind of a relationship
Speaker 1: with him. Um, which means he's not cute enough right Well,
Speaker 1: I mean he's decent looking, but I just I don't
Speaker 1: want to date the father of one of my students.
Speaker 1: Have you ever done that before? No? No, No, I
Speaker 1: have not. I have a co worker who did, and
Speaker 1: she's no longer a teacher because of it. So I
Speaker 1: just distanced myself, you know. Okay, So he was just
Speaker 1: like giving you the hard press, and I wanted to
Speaker 1: buy you drinks and stuff, yes, and you know, I
Speaker 1: clearly said, no, that's okay. I've got my own money.
Speaker 1: I can I can get my own drinks. And then
Speaker 1: he ends up ordering shots for all of us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it kind of seems like he was trying
Speaker 1: to get me drunk. I don't know. It just I
Speaker 1: had that feeling, and I just I didn't want to know.
Speaker 1: I didn't want that. So did you explain your boundaries
Speaker 1: to him? Well, I was trying, he just was not listening.
Speaker 1: I wanted to be nice because he is the father
Speaker 1: of one of my students, and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: cause a rift. But he actually asked if we could
Speaker 1: me and him could actually go somewhere private and talk
Speaker 1: and get away from my friends. He was like, just
Speaker 1: come on, let's just sit at the table and just
Speaker 1: get to know each other. And I was trying to
Speaker 1: be nice, so I said, okay, we'll sit for a
Speaker 1: few minutes, but then I have to leave. And I
Speaker 1: just kind of made a signal to my friends, and
Speaker 1: it kind of saved me, rescue me. But they were laughing.
Speaker 1: They were laughing at me. It was hilarious. I would
Speaker 1: have done the same thing if I was your friend.
Speaker 1: I really had no choice. So I sat down and
Speaker 1: talked to him, and he's asking all kinds of questions
Speaker 1: and yeah, it must be it must be awkward when
Speaker 1: you go to class and have to teach his son. Now, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's very, very awkward. But that's not the end of it.
Speaker 1: I finally, I finally escape. Essentially, it felt like I
Speaker 1: was having to escape. And then he offered to take
Speaker 1: me home and I was like, no, I've got to
Speaker 1: ride with my friends. And he's like, well, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: why don't we just buy some shots and then head
Speaker 1: on over to my place and just you know, keep
Speaker 1: the party going. Wow. I was like no, So I
Speaker 1: get out of that. And a couple of days later,
Speaker 1: he starts texting me. Here's the creepy part. I don't
Speaker 1: my cell phone is not public knowledge it I have
Speaker 1: a school line that they can call, but my cellphone
Speaker 1: is not public. So wait, did you give him your number? No?
Speaker 1: I did not. Do you think one of your friends
Speaker 1: gave him your number, trying to mess with you. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but he somehow got my number and he's texting, Okay,
Speaker 1: you know that was great the other night. Why don't
Speaker 1: we continue on. Let's go on another day, you know,
Speaker 1: let's I've got some ideas, and I'm just like, why
Speaker 1: that kid, why didn't do that? Are you responding to him? No?
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say to him. That's that's
Speaker 1: the thing. Actually why I'm calling you guys, just because
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I mean, there's that
Speaker 1: fine line and this is this is such a freaking
Speaker 1: awkward position. And you know, he keeps asking me if
Speaker 1: we can go on another date. We've never even been
Speaker 1: on my first date, so he thinks. He obviously thinks
Speaker 1: that your hangout when he saw you at the bar
Speaker 1: and tried to get you drunk and take you home
Speaker 1: was a date. Yes, he thought that was a date
Speaker 1: and it was not an actual date. We did not
Speaker 1: not ask me out. I did not say yes. I
Speaker 1: actually was telling him know the whole night, and he
Speaker 1: I don't know why no means yes to him, but
Speaker 1: that's what he's hearing. And I don't know, he's delusional
Speaker 1: and why haven't you just texted him and said stop
Speaker 1: because I just don't want to talk to him. I
Speaker 1: don't want to engage with him. I don't want to
Speaker 1: I just don't want to continue the conversation. I just
Speaker 1: need I need you guys. So you want us to
Speaker 1: call him and tell him that you, guys never went
Speaker 1: on a first date to begin with, and no, there
Speaker 1: will not be a second date or any other dates
Speaker 1: in the future. Are you guys able to do that? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: I can do that. We'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call this guy and tell him why you're
Speaker 1: not calling him back. It's waited for than any second
Speaker 1: day update we've ever done, but we'll do it right
Speaker 1: after me. Thank you, King Jubil in the morning. I'm
Speaker 1: actually excited to call this guy for the second date
Speaker 1: update today because I always wonder what goes through dude's
Speaker 1: heads when they won't leave a girl alone when they
Speaker 1: obviously don't want to go out with them again. And
Speaker 1: I'm wondering what is going through this guy's mind if
Speaker 1: you're unaware of what's going on. Steph called us for
Speaker 1: a second date update. The only problem is it's not
Speaker 1: a traditional second date update because she never actually went
Speaker 1: out on a date with the guy that she wants
Speaker 1: to call. And she was out at a bar one night.
Speaker 1: Guy came up to her and said, hey, you're my
Speaker 1: son's teacher, and then started buying her a bunch of
Speaker 1: drinks and trying to get her drunk. Even suggested going
Speaker 1: back to his place. She said no, and then somehow
Speaker 1: he got her phone number and has been texting her
Speaker 1: NonStop to go out on quote another date. So he
Speaker 1: thought that was a date, and now he's trying to
Speaker 1: get a second date, and she wants us to call
Speaker 1: him and say go away. I think what I'd like
Speaker 1: to do, unless you're against it, I want to do
Speaker 1: this like we do a traditional second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to call the guy and tell him
Speaker 1: to go away right away. I'll be like you went
Speaker 1: on a date with Steph, so that we can hear
Speaker 1: him actually break down the date that he thinks she
Speaker 1: went on before we tell him to get lost. Can
Speaker 1: we do that? You know, whatever works? I mean, as
Speaker 1: long as you can just get the creeps to back off. Okay, wonderful,
Speaker 1: thank you, I appreciate it. All right, I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: the call right now, Hello. Hi, is this Chris? Yeah, Chris,
Speaker 1: how are you doing. I've been looking for you. Why
Speaker 1: is this? Well? This is Jewil from brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. Are you serious? Yeah? Man, how are
Speaker 1: you okay? You guys are calling me from the radio station? Yeah? Actually,
Speaker 1: I wanted to call you about a date you recently
Speaker 1: went on. What I heard that you recently went out
Speaker 1: on a date with one of your son's teachers. Yeah.
Speaker 1: How did you hear about that? Oh? Because Steph, the
Speaker 1: woman who you went out on a date with, actually
Speaker 1: emailed us and asked us to call you. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's weird she would email guys. Okay, Yeah, Well, she
Speaker 1: wanted us to find out why you guys haven't had
Speaker 1: a second date yet. You serious? Yeah? Yeah. We talked
Speaker 1: to her a little bit about the first time you
Speaker 1: guys hung out, and she told us about your date
Speaker 1: and she's wondering why you guys haven't gone out again.
Speaker 1: Why didn't she just call me? I don't know, understand.
Speaker 1: I don't know, some maybe nerves or something like that.
Speaker 1: She wanted us to do it. I'm not really sure.
Speaker 1: Did you like going on a date with her? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean she's nice. She hasn't really been in touch
Speaker 1: with me, so I kind of want to you know,
Speaker 1: things kind of just fizzled out. I wanted to Oh weird,
Speaker 1: she didn't tell us that. She just told us that
Speaker 1: she went on a date with you and wanted us
Speaker 1: to get you on the phone. Oh that's cool. I mean,
Speaker 1: like I said, she hadn't got back to me, so
Speaker 1: I thought she just wasn't interested in me. You know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe she wanted to do it this way. So anyway,
Speaker 1: tell us about that date with her. Yeah, we went
Speaker 1: to a bar and you know, just hanging out, you know,
Speaker 1: had a couple of drinks and you know, you guys
Speaker 1: actually went to a bar together. Yeah, I mean, you
Speaker 1: know it was we were at the bar together. So oh, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: that's cool. Bar is always a good place for a
Speaker 1: first date. Yeah, I think so, you know, nice lively
Speaker 1: people having fun, dance and drinking. You know. Okay, but Chris,
Speaker 1: what made you think that you guys had a connection. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, we were again, we were having drinks and
Speaker 1: we were talking and you know, so you guys hung
Speaker 1: out and talked and she said that at the end
Speaker 1: of the night you did ask her to go back
Speaker 1: to your place. Yeah, you know, I kind of felt
Speaker 1: that party could have kept going, so we'd just invite
Speaker 1: her back to my place, and that's when she kind
Speaker 1: of lost interest or I don't know, it just seemed
Speaker 1: weird at that point. That's interesting because you feel like
Speaker 1: she likes you. Yeah, I thought everything was fine to
Speaker 1: that point. I don't Maybe she was just tired. I
Speaker 1: don't know, Yeah, it could be. Let me ask you,
Speaker 1: what were you Where are you hoping to get from
Speaker 1: all this just to like hook up with your son's
Speaker 1: teacher or actually like date her. Well, the thing is,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, my son is in her class,
Speaker 1: and my plan was I kind of had a plan
Speaker 1: to get her a couple of drinks, you know, be
Speaker 1: nice and kind of hang out because my son's having
Speaker 1: a little bit of trouble in her class. So I
Speaker 1: was hoping that maybe, you know, if things went well
Speaker 1: between us, not only would I be able to hook
Speaker 1: up with her because she's you know, she's attractive, but
Speaker 1: that my son would maybe you know, show him a
Speaker 1: little bit more you know, attention, you know, help him
Speaker 1: get along a little better. Wait, are you saying that
Speaker 1: you wanted to go out with her? To help your
Speaker 1: son do better in school. I mean yeah, but also
Speaker 1: I mean she again, she's attractive. She wasn't attractive, I
Speaker 1: would have done it. But yeah, okay, Chris, I do
Speaker 1: have another question for you too, Like, at the end
Speaker 1: of the night, when you got her phone number from her,
Speaker 1: were you excited about that? Um? Yeah, that's interesting. That's
Speaker 1: interesting because she told us she never gave you her
Speaker 1: phone number. I mean technically she didn't. Technical okay, So
Speaker 1: how did you get her number? Then? You know, Um,
Speaker 1: I just just came upon it, you know, I just
Speaker 1: found it. You know what, you just found her number.
Speaker 1: You are so creepy right now? How did you give
Speaker 1: her number? At this point, I don't think it matters.
Speaker 1: I mean, she obviously wants to go out on a
Speaker 1: second date because she had you guys call, So, you
Speaker 1: know what, I'd rather not comment on what you just said.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let her do it because Steph is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening right now, and I
Speaker 1: would like to talk to you. Wait what, yeah, Steph,
Speaker 1: you're there, Chris? Hi? What what's going on? Well, that's
Speaker 1: actually my question to you, Chris, What is going on?
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what you mean. First off,
Speaker 1: we were never on a date. Our paths crossed in
Speaker 1: a bar and we just happened upon each other. That's life.
Speaker 1: That does not mean that we went on a first date.
Speaker 1: Even if we had a conversation and there were drinks
Speaker 1: in our hand, that does not mean that we were
Speaker 1: on a date. That's kind of where you're saying this now.
Speaker 1: I mean, because you know what I thought youbody listening
Speaker 1: because the other night you are, you were flirting and
Speaker 1: everything was fine. Okay, Chris, let me spell it out
Speaker 1: for you. I am your son's teacher. I am not
Speaker 1: a girl for you, okay. And second of all, I
Speaker 1: don't know how you got my phone number, but you
Speaker 1: better delete it and you better not contact me ever again.
Speaker 1: There is a phone number at school that you can
Speaker 1: reach me and leave a voicemail if it pertains to
Speaker 1: your son. And third of all, do not use me
Speaker 1: as some kind of tooy to get better grades for
Speaker 1: your son. Yeah. Yeah, your friends didn't tell me you
Speaker 1: play hard to get. This is kind of you know,
Speaker 1: this is kind of cool. Her friends told you that
Speaker 1: she'd play hard to get. Oh yeah, yeah, they're the
Speaker 1: ones that gave me the number. They said, she would,
Speaker 1: you know, be like this. All right, I think we
Speaker 1: finally figured out what happened. Chris. I think you were
Speaker 1: set up man. I think well both of you guys
Speaker 1: were actually set up. Uh yeah, I honestly don't know
Speaker 1: what the hell is going on here. I think that
Speaker 1: Steph was not into you, and her friends knew that,
Speaker 1: so they gave you her phone number so that you
Speaker 1: would bug her Steph. Does that sound right? Yeah? It
Speaker 1: sounds about right. Oh, I get it. Yeah. They did
Speaker 1: this whole thing to set it up so we can
Speaker 1: actually get together. I got it. No, no, no, Chris,
Speaker 1: just ignore everything that my friends said. Okay, I can
Speaker 1: do that. I think, uh we actually need to discuss
Speaker 1: it over like a beer or something. Not getting it.
Speaker 1: I am not interested. I'm not interested, okay, okay? Hey wow,
Speaker 1: So what about my kid though? How's that you? Are?
Speaker 1: You still trying to get better grades for your kid? Chris?
Speaker 1: I think you've lost this whole battle man. All right?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, well, I just you know, I heard
Speaker 1: she favors on the kids. I just to favor my
Speaker 1: kids the same. I okay, I don't know where you
Speaker 1: heard that, but I treat every one of my students
Speaker 1: with respect and dignity, and I treat them all the same,
Speaker 1: they just weren't differently. That is not called favor and
Speaker 1: it's called being a teacher. But stuff. Aren't you glad
Speaker 1: that you finally have an involved parent? Though? Oh my god? Yeah,
Speaker 1: teachers always want that. I guess not in this case.
Speaker 1: I always have to ask this question on a second date.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll ask it a little differently for this one. Chris,
Speaker 1: would you like to not go out on a date
Speaker 1: with staff? We will not pay for it? And Staff,
Speaker 1: would you like to not go on a date with Chris?
Speaker 1: We will not pay for it? Yes, Okay, wonderful. I'm
Speaker 1: ra have to say no to the first question and
Speaker 1: yeah to the second question. But I mean, I'm still
Speaker 1: not sure what it really means. Well, I just think
Speaker 1: it means that you guys aren't going to go out
Speaker 1: on a date. So will you stop texting Steph? Chris?
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I can stop texting her. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't really understand what happened. I know, I know,
Speaker 1: broken jubil in the morning. Somebody texted in at seven, eight, five,
Speaker 1: nine too, And all it says is take a hint,
Speaker 1: where can you in the morning talking about the second
Speaker 1: date update, staff called us. She's a teacher, she really
Speaker 1: want to do the second date update to tell this
Speaker 1: guy to stop bugging her. Yeah, less of a hey,
Speaker 1: I want to see him again, more of a tell
Speaker 1: him to go away because they hung out at a bar.
Speaker 1: She actually teaches his kid and they hung out because
Speaker 1: he was at the same bar. And then he said
Speaker 1: that they went on a date together and would not
Speaker 1: stop calling her. Found out that's because her friends told him, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's really into you and gave him her phone number.
Speaker 1: That they didn't even realize it was going to be
Speaker 1: that bad, because she'll play hard to get, like don't
Speaker 1: give up, don't give up, no matter what part of
Speaker 1: the whole thing. And we tried and tried and tried
Speaker 1: to tell him she wasn't interested. He still he finally
Speaker 1: got it at the end, like oh, and then he
Speaker 1: just wanted to dat he so his kid could get
Speaker 1: a better grade. Everyone's checked it in right now. I
Speaker 1: can see why the kid's not doing so well in class.
Speaker 1: Like father, like son. Yes, remember, if you want a
Speaker 1: second date up, they just email the show. We'll call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back,