1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, comedian Earthquake 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: will be joining us to talk about his two big 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: shows in DC this weekend. You don't want to miss that, 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: plus his TV show called Johnson and his upcoming Netflix special. 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: Earthquake is busy. That's all at the top of the hour. 6 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: But right now it is time to ask the CLO 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 1: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Shelley 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: and Carrollton Shelley Wrights. I'm a forty four year old 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: married woman and I want a bigger house. My husband 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: wants to renovate our current house. I've sent him listings 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: of houses and he finds something wrong with all of them. 12 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: How do I convince him that it's time for us 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: to upgrade. 14 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 2: Well, he don't want that financial pressure. 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 3: Office. You know you need to see I understand you 16 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 3: want the house and there's nothing wrong with that, and 17 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: you want to upgrade. He's suggesting renovate the house because 18 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 3: he don't want the financials. Wait, but what you all 19 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 3: gotta do is a couple of sit down and discuss 20 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 3: what his fears are. 21 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: Now, if you can reassure the man that you have. 22 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 3: Saved enough money or you have enough money to make 23 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 3: the move without him having to feel you know, inadequate 24 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 3: or like he gonna be under the gun trying to 25 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 3: make this note every month and decrease y'all lifestyle. Then 26 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: you can get the house, but you're gonna have to 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 3: have that conversation with him. I've been in that position 28 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: back right there before. You I got what you want. 29 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 3: I got all that, well, well not not always, but yeah, ok, 30 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 3: all right, but you got to show me how you 31 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 3: got to. You know, I'm gonna do this. I could 32 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 3: do that. I'm cut this. I'm gonna do that. Neil, 33 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 3: you know we can go ahead. 34 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's fair, that's fair, all right. Moving 35 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: on to Kiara and Baton Rouge, Kiara writes, my sister 36 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: called me today to tell me that my husband was 37 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: hugged up with one of his female friends at the gym. 38 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: He said, it's true. He hadn't seen her in a while, 39 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: so he gave her a bear hug. Should I be 40 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: okay with this? Since he was honest? 41 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: How was they telling it? What's that I don't? I mean, 42 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 2: you know? Should I be okay with this? Since he 43 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 2: was honest? 44 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 3: He said, Yeah, I did it. I gave her a 45 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 3: bell hug. They was at the gym. There wasn't at 46 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: the hotel. They wasn't not having dinner. He saw her 47 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 3: at the gym. He told you he gave her a 48 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 3: bear hug at the gym. He didn't say, I gave 49 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: her a ball hug. And then we laid down behind 50 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 3: one of them treadmills, you know, went on and reacquainted 51 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 3: ourselves with one another. 52 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 2: You know, he didn't. 53 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: Say tell her that part. 54 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 2: But it was it was. 55 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 3: It was nothing else to tell, right, you know, it 56 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 3: was nothing else to tell, So why make something out 57 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 3: of nothing? The man told you his old friend hadn't 58 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 3: seen her, gave her bell hug in the gym. 59 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: That was wifey. 60 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: If you ain't okay with it, what you're gonna do. 61 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,679 Speaker 3: You're gonna divorce the man for giving his old friend 62 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 3: a bad hug at the gym. 63 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: It's your sister that's creating the damn proud you know 64 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: who don't have no man. You know that we can. 65 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 2: That's how that's how y'all act. 66 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 3: When y'all ain't got no bound, you ain't happy for 67 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 3: nobody else. That's not true, you mean, no, no, no, 68 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 3: oh Sully I don't rock pack of dog. 69 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: The one that holler is the one you hit now 70 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: talking to you. 71 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: That was a generalization, though, Steve, I'm just saying that 72 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: all that doesn't always happen in every situation. 73 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: That women out there. 74 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 3: Who are not happy for some damn reason don't want 75 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 3: you to be happy. 76 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: That ain't no generalization. 77 00:03:55,200 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 3: You're saying, is damn fact saying where to say it 78 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 3: come from? 79 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that that's not hate. 80 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 2: Not we not talking. 81 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 3: The letter is about her and her damn we're trying. 82 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 2: To put this on men. 83 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 3: The man is the victim in here who gave his 84 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 3: old friend a ball, hugs her miserable. 85 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: Ass sister that ain't got no man. He died out here, 86 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: had a gym. 87 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 3: It says that if you read it, say that what. 88 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 4: If it was reversed and she hugged a male friend 89 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 4: of hers and your brother called and told you. 90 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 3: Now, because my brother, fat ass ain't got nobody. 91 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: Either, Oh so you'll be cool, you fixed it? No, no, no, 92 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 2: it ain't. No, I'll be cool. I'm telling you. People 93 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: who call and tell it's because they not happy. I 94 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 2: don't care necessarily, No, listen to me. 95 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 3: Ain't no nothing silly hate. Hate, hateful people hate. 96 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: You're saying, you're trying to say hate, it's gonna hate. 97 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 4: But here's the thing, that's her sister. And she's seen 98 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 4: her sister's husband booed up with another woman. 99 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 3: She wasn't booed up. He gave the girl a bare hub. 100 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 3: If y'all in a booth. 101 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 2: At a dinner restaurant, that's booed up. They all holding 102 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 2: each other, regular. 103 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 3: Standing, standing at the damn counter at the hotel room, 104 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 3: kissing in a public gym, knowing her sister is over there. 105 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 2: He knows she over there. 106 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna miss white ass on that same 107 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: treadmill every week. 108 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 2: She working out. I switched, I would switch gym. 109 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 4: Wanna stop giving out bear hugs? Yeah, as a married 110 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 4: man or you could do that. 111 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, then I have okay, gone to divorce 112 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 3: your hugs get out. 113 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: See all right, we're moving on. We're moving We're gonna 114 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: agree to disagree, like I said. Aiden in Burbank says, 115 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 1: my son's mother is a singer and songwriter. Her new 116 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: song is about me and how she will love me forever. 117 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: My wife thinks I'm sleeping with her, but I'm not. 118 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: I can't control what this crazy lady sings about. How 119 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: can my wife blame me for this? 120 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 3: We go again about it? Know the woman? Why is 121 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: this Helpa singing about you? 122 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 4: Yeah? 123 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: Question mark now here this man at the house? 124 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 3: Ain't she a singer and a songwriting a song about her? 125 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: New song? 126 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 3: Always love You Forever. 127 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 2: For all of my life. 128 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 3: Listen to me, I have never stopped loving you. 129 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: I always have you well all in my head because 130 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: we should have been together for. 131 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 3: I know you are, but oh no, but now you 132 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 3: left me for the. 133 00:07:47,320 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: The Hey all, baby, I'm gonna brush your windle, what happened. 134 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 2: I'm going to sniff your. 135 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 3: Tires, burn her in your household fire, but start your wishoeer. 136 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: Edding us out this time. 137 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: I've seen you next at the top of the hour. 138 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Hardy Morning Show.