1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to stuff Mom Never told You from how stupp 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: works dot com. Hello, and welcome to the podcast. I'm 3 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: Kristen and I'm Caroline. And today we're talking about larking. 4 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: Lark Yes, not to be confused with lark ing. Um, 5 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: let's go larking. We're talking about long acting reversible contraception 6 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: ing to make larking work, right right right? Yeah? And 7 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: you and I have been historically evangelists for our larks. 8 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: Our I U D s are intrauterine devices, which I 9 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: so often accidentally call either I E D S or 10 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: U T I S, both of which get a look. Uh. Dude. 11 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: Roommate when his girlfriend was getting an I U D 12 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: texted me to say that she was getting an EYE 13 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: E D and I laughed, and I laughed and I said, 14 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: I think you mean I U D And he said, 15 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: I think you're wrong. I think she's getting an I 16 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: E D. I really hope not. It's not going to 17 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: go well. If it is uh intermittent explosive device they 18 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: stand for. You could argue that it would prevent pregnancy. 19 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: That that is true, that that's one way to go 20 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: about it. Um, But I D s are not the 21 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: only thing we're going to talk about in the first 22 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: half of the podcast. Because i u d s are 23 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: not the only form of a long acting, reversible contraception, 24 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: we've also got to talk about the implant uh and 25 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: io d s and birth control implants are considered really 26 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: the guild standard of birth control. And this is according 27 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: to both the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists as 28 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: well as the American Academy of Pediatrics. So doctor people, 29 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: doctor people in the know, doctor people in the note 30 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: for human people's of all ages, right exactly. And it 31 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: turns out, according to these doctor people in the know, 32 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: that both i u d s and implants are just 33 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: as effective as sterilization. But of course they are reversible 34 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: and not invasive. I mean, one could argue that it 35 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: does hurt to get an i u D sometimes depending um, 36 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 1: but they're recommended as first line contraceptives. And since two 37 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: thousand two, i u D use among American women has quadrupled, 38 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: and anecdotally I've noticed in the past maybe two or 39 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: so years, UM, similar to the mainstreaming of menstruation, kind 40 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: of the mainstreaming of i u d s, everybody's talking 41 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: about i u d s mainstreaming of menstruation. Is that 42 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: what everybody on Twitter is talking about when they do 43 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: hashtag M S M Don't I wish? Don't we wish? Uh? Yeah, 44 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 1: it turns out that ten to of US women who 45 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: are on birth control use i U d s, which 46 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: is up massively from just about one and a half 47 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: percent in two thousand two. And it is worth noting 48 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: side note that of gynecologists who use contraceptives use i 49 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 1: U d s. According to Vox and over at the 50 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: Gootmaker Institute, we learned that, uh, just one point three 51 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: percent of American women who use birth control use the implant. 52 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: So how do these magical devices and contraceptive potions work? Well, Okay, 53 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: you go out during a supermoon and you you howl 54 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: uh into the phone to your gynecologist and make an appointment, 55 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: uh to get one of these devices which work extremely well. Um. Now, 56 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people say, oh, surely they're not that 57 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: different in their effectiveness from the pill. But you've got 58 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: to keep in mind that we are all imperfect people. 59 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: And when we use the pill or the new ver 60 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: ring or the patch with typical use as opposed to 61 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: perfect use, Uh, those three things have a nine percent 62 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: failure right right, and the birth control shot has a 63 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: six percent failure rate. In other words, that's how many 64 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: people will still get pregnant despite using those methods. So 65 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: with that in mind, let's hop into how i U 66 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: D s work. So there are two main types of 67 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: i U D s. First up, we've got the original, 68 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 1: the old copper i U D brand named Paraguard. It 69 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: can last for up to twelve years. Twelve years, and 70 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: this to me is the one that does seem like 71 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: magic because there are no hormones involved. They just in 72 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: certain this t shaped little piece of copper into your uterus. 73 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: But what happens is it essentially bathes our uterine linings 74 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: in copper ions that create and I'm not exaggerating here, 75 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: it really creates a sperm killing force field. Um, although 76 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: you can't expect heavier periods, But in exchange for that 77 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: that force field creates just a point eight percent failure rate. 78 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: I am hoping that it also has like that movie 79 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: magic sound effect when you have like some kind of 80 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: force field of wom are those the sperm running into 81 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: the force field, Yeah for sure and bumping their little 82 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: heads and being like never mind, guys, let's get out 83 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: of here. This also reminds me of those uh you 84 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: know those metal bracelets that people wear that are sold 85 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: like in the back of magazines. Yeah, but those don't 86 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: do anything. I don't think that those create sperm force field. 87 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 1: So a pareguard copper i u D can last you 88 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: three presidential terms. I don't know why I would say 89 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: anything like that, but I'm just saying three presidential terms, 90 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: yeah to Trump and one Pence. Dear God, I think 91 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,679 Speaker 1: my uterus just actually withered up and uh and died. 92 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: Next up, we have the hormonal i u d s, 93 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: same type of device, T shaped, T shaped, little little 94 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 1: piece of plastic that goes into your uterus. Brand names 95 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: include the Marina, which I have so do I. It 96 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: lasts five years. There's also on the market now sky Law, 97 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: which last three years. And I just learned there are 98 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: two others called the Liletta and Kylina. Yeah, and y'all, 99 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: Kylina is spelled k y l e e n A. 100 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: And I'm just saying that Kylie Jenner is really missing 101 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: a branding opportunity here. Um. So, with these hormonal i 102 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: u d s, they use a hormonal called lavana. Gestule 103 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: that thickens your cervical mucus, which is really the first 104 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: offense as sperm travel through the cervix on their way 105 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: to the uterus, so they're like, okay, let's try they 106 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: get things up, slow it down. And on top of that, 107 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: it thins out the uterine lining, which makes it super 108 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: hard for the sperm to travel to and uh, should 109 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: fertilization happened for implanting too, then uh two then happen. 110 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: And with those, unlike the copper I U D, you 111 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: can expect lighter or in my case t M I 112 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: alert no periods. Yeah. I have actually had both of these, 113 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: so I can speak to both of them. I started 114 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: out with the Skyla. I was instructed or advised to 115 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: get the Skyla because I uh am teensy tiny inside 116 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: and also have never given birth, and my gynecologist was like, 117 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: the smaller one might be better for you. Uh. So 118 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,559 Speaker 1: I had that for three years and I still got 119 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: a monthly period, but it was very very light, very light. Uh. 120 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: Now that I have the Marina, I no longer get 121 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: a monthly period, which is awesome. I still do get 122 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: PMS symptoms, my boobs get real big and sore. Uh 123 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: hashtag humble brag that's right. But yeah, but no period, 124 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: It's awesome. And what's fabulous is you can really depend 125 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: on these products. Uh. The Marina has a failure rate 126 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 1: of just point two percent and the Skyla failure rate 127 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: is just point four percent. Now, let's quickly, though, take 128 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: a myth busting detour to clear up a little bit 129 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: of misinformation actually a lot of bit of misinformation that's 130 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: out there about i u d s. Because this is 131 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: something anecdotally that I've run into in conversations with more 132 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: conservative friends of mine in particular, and that I have 133 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: a feeling a lot of listeners might have seen or 134 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 1: heard or might just be worried about. Uh. I u 135 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: d s are not aborti factions, um and and this 136 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: was something that came up in that hobby Lobby birth 137 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: control h case that went to the Supreme Court. Uh. 138 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: I u d s were one of the things that 139 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 1: the hobby Lot Hobby Lobby founders did not want to 140 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: cover because of the misinformation the fallacy that i u 141 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: d s are essentially little little abortion machines inside of us. Yeah, 142 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: let's get something straight real quick. So pregnancy is when 143 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: a fertilized egg is implanted, right, But contraceptives prevent fertilization 144 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: of an egg from happening, or they prevent the implantation 145 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: of a fertilized egg, which therefore prevents pregnancy. And it 146 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: turns out, and we talked about this on a long 147 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: ago EPI sode, the copper i u d s are 148 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: actually a fabulous emergency contraceptive even when used up to 149 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: five days after intercourse. Those copper i u d s 150 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: can prevent fertilization and possibly implantation, but they do not 151 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 1: disrupt implantation. Therefore, there is a difference there. There is 152 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: a line between preventing a pregnancy and disrupting a pregnancy. So, 153 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: like Kristen said, the idea that an i U D, 154 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: whether it's hormonal or copper, can lead to abortion is 155 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: again a complete fallacy. Yeah, and this information too is 156 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: coming from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Were 157 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: not just We're not just reciting n SNBC headlines here, 158 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: folks hashtag ms and I don't know, I'm trying to 159 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 1: do a call back. Uh, So that's the situation with 160 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 1: i U d s. We also got to shout out 161 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: the implants. The brand names are implant On and next 162 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 1: plan On, and implants are really what they sound like. 163 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: They are thin, plastic match sticks sized progestin dispensers essentially, 164 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 1: uh and progestine is a synthetic form of the hormone progesterone, 165 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: and these little match sticks are implanted in your upper arm. 166 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: They last up to four years, and they work by 167 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: stopping ovulation and again thinning that cervical mucus. Yeah, and 168 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: so when you use an implant, you can expect spotting 169 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: in the first six months or a year, um, but 170 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: one out of three women who have the implants stop 171 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: having a period altogether. And you know, as we've gone along, 172 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: the failure rate has dropped and dropped and dropped to 173 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: the point where now if you get an implant, the 174 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: failure rate is just point oh five cent, which is fantastic. Yeah. 175 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: I mean, it was a while back, and I forget 176 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: what exactly it was about I U d s that 177 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: you and I were raving about, as we do on 178 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: social media, and there were a few people who helpfully 179 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: piped up saying, hey, hey, I E d s are 180 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: actually not the most effective, because in fact, it's implants um, 181 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 1: which I'm even after all the research we've done for 182 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: this episode, I've walked away still not quite clear on 183 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: why implants are as rare as they still are today. 184 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: Um So if anyone has any intel on that, please 185 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: give us a shout. And all of this might sound 186 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: too good to be true, right, I mean we're just 187 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: putting these like little match dicks and little T shaped 188 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: what's not inside our bodies and our youths are on lockdown? Yeah, 189 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that is that is the delightful truth. Yeah, 190 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: it's really not too good to be true, which warms 191 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: my freaking heart because so often, I like, we talk 192 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 1: about things that are But um, we're gonna cite some 193 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: research coming out of Colorado that would be fabulous to 194 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: send to people in your family who perhaps might have 195 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: quibbles with either birth control itself for contraception um and 196 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: providing it to teens, or the issue of having birth 197 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 1: control and contraceptives paid for. And we're gonna have all 198 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: of these sources over at stuff I never told you 199 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: dot com on our source post for this episode, so 200 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:33,319 Speaker 1: you can, you know, send those links onto your family. 201 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 1: So what happened in Colorado is a number of years back, 202 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: they received a substantial private grant to fund a program 203 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: which they launched offering low income teens and young women 204 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: free i u d s. And what happened is that 205 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: due to this program, between two thousand nine and Colorado's 206 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: teen pregnancy rate dropped forty percent. And also this is 207 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 1: important to underline for conservative family members as well and 208 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: people who are opposed to abortion in general. In addition 209 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: to the teen pregnancy rate dropping literally plummeting, the abortion 210 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: rate also dropped forty two And in addition to that, 211 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: people who are not too keen on taxpayer dollars going 212 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: to subsidize single motherhood, food stamp enrollment also dropped by 213 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: around between two thousand and ten and uh, and that's 214 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: just looking at the teen pregnancy rate. Pretty much the 215 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: same thing happened for single women under twenty five who 216 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: hadn't completed high school who also qualified for this free 217 00:14:55,440 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: i u D program. Um and money wise, do you 218 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: understand the impact back onto taxpayers? Each dollar a state 219 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: health department spends on long acting birth control i u 220 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: d s or implants translates to five dollars and eighty 221 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: five cents of Medicaid savings and Medicaid covers seventy of 222 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: team births. And these are a lot of percentages and 223 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: numbers that I've all tossed out, UM, but t L 224 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: d R. These i U D s literally changed these 225 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: young women's lives because the highest team pregnancy rates were 226 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 1: in the lowest income communities, as is often the case, 227 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: not just in Colorado but across the United States. And 228 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: the New York Times talked to one woman in particular, 229 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: UM who I believe she was one of the women 230 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: who was under twenty five and hadn't completed high school, 231 00:15:56,760 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: and she talked about how do to be able to 232 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: set and forget this contraception. It allowed her to really 233 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: set up the life that she wanted for herself, you know, 234 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: coming out of very disenfranchise circumstances. So Colorado has been 235 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: a standout example, UM of the power of these long acting, 236 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: reversible contraceptives. Because by the way, that drop in team 237 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: pregnancy rate is far and away faster than any other 238 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: states drop in teen pregnancies sounds great. I mean, how 239 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: could anyone not support this because people get squeamish when 240 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:51,359 Speaker 1: it comes to young women and the government subsidizing birth control. UM. 241 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: Republicans often aren't fans of it. So yeah, and so 242 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: this is according to an article about this from Colorado 243 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: and PR station. Uh. Despite the success of this program, 244 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,919 Speaker 1: when that private grant money began to run out, the 245 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: state's GOP ended up blocking a bill to pay for 246 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 1: the program with tax money. But they were able to 247 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: push through two point five million dollars in the state 248 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 1: budget for it. Yeah. And I'm just curious to know 249 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: from the foundation that delivered that first substantial grant that 250 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: got the program off the ground, if it's possible that 251 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: this can happen in other places. Um. But again, this 252 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: is just a real world example of how these things 253 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 1: can really work and not just work for you know, 254 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: college educated, employed, middle class white ladies like you and me, Caroline. Um, 255 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: but y'all, it's not all candy and roses. I don't 256 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: don't actually know that any of it is candy and roses, 257 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: although you your I D doesn't get you roses, No, 258 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:08,360 Speaker 1: just carnations. Um. But as a lot of people listening, 259 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: who are probably yelling at their phone or however they're 260 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: listening to this podcast right now, all is not perfect 261 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: when it comes to I U D s and implants 262 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: Because every body is different, and we're gonna get into 263 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: some of those not so fun facts when we come 264 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: right back from a quick break. Yeah, okay, so you 265 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: might imagine that when you are inserting something, inserting birth 266 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: control into your body, whether it is an iu D 267 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: into your uterus or an implant into your arm, it's 268 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 1: not the same as just popping a birth control pill 269 00:18:55,080 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: or wearing a patch. These things can hurt. Uh, But 270 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 1: we've got to get you the rundown right of what 271 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: happens when you're getting them. So when it comes to 272 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 1: an implant, Uh, you get an area on your upper 273 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 1: arm numbed, and then the insertion is basically like getting 274 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: a really big shot, she says, casually, pretending as though 275 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 1: she does not pass out when she gets shots. Um. 276 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: And the insertion, though, is generally faster and anecdotally a 277 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 1: little less painful than getting it removed, because getting it 278 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:33,120 Speaker 1: removed involves an incision to remove it from underneath your skin. Now, 279 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: that's pretty straightforward. Uh. And it's not that I U 280 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: D insertion and removal is not straightforward. There's just several 281 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: more steps when it comes to an i U D. Yeah, 282 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 1: because instead of putting it in your arm. You gotta 283 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: get all the way up to your ute. So and yes, 284 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: you is my preferred term for uterus, because why not. 285 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 1: So the way that I U d s get inside 286 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: of us is unfortunately, it wouldn't be cool if we 287 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 1: could like swallow of them and they're just like, uh no, 288 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm in your uterus. Nope, that's not how our bodies work. 289 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: So gynecologists, well, first you gotta go. You gotta get 290 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: in the stirrups. All right, So you're in the stirrups. 291 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: You're on a horse. You're on a horse. You gotta 292 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: find some stables. No, really, you're in the gynecologist room. 293 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: You're in your stirrups. And the gynecologist is going to 294 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: use something called a tenaculum clamp to straighten your cervical canal. 295 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 1: And they describe the discomfort with this as a pinch. Yeah, 296 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: Caroline is laughing because, um it, it's quite a pinch. Okay, 297 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: it's it's quite a pinch. Um think about think about 298 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: a pap smear. They're not comfortable. Now double or triple 299 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: a pap smear. You're getting close. So after they straighten 300 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: your cervical canal, they do something called sounding the uterus, 301 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 1: which is a term brand new now to Caroline and me, 302 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: and sounding the ute is our new battle cry. Imagine 303 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: me with a conk shell, but it's actually a uterus. 304 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: Whenever you want to gather nasty women everywhere if you 305 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: sound the ute. Actually sounding the uterus, though, is when 306 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: the doctor inserts a straw sized rod into the uterus 307 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: to measure its size and angle. And this is really 308 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: good because they got to figure out the right size 309 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 1: for the right sized i U D and the right 310 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: place to put it so it stays in place, etcetera, etcetera. Um. 311 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: So so that's how sounding the uterus works, not to 312 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: be confused with our battle cry of sounding the ute. Okay, well, 313 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: uh so then your doctor will remove the measuring rod 314 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 1: and pop in another rod that actually contains the iu D. 315 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: Christens making a face, girl, I know, Um it's because 316 00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: of pop in. I think just just popping in. Hey, hey, 317 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: just popping in, just popping in with I'm Skyla or Kylina. 318 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: Can't talk right now? Okay, no, because I'm screaming. Um, 319 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 1: we're scaring people. We'll give you the low down here 320 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: in just a second. But so that that second rod 321 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: comes on up and it has the I U D 322 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 1: in it, and the DOC positions it in your cervix, 323 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: sticks it in there, and it's hanging out like the 324 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: kitten in the hanging their poster in in the bottom 325 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 1: of your uterus, right at your servis just but it 326 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: does not feel like claws or inside inside of you 327 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: do once it's in there, no, no, no, and and 328 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: it it does, it does hurt there. There is a 329 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: lucky minority, um, for whom this procedure feels like nothing 330 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 1: more than a pap smear followed by some minstrel cramps up. 331 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: My friend Samantha is one of those people. She uh 332 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 1: literally went running the same day, went back to work. Yeah, Christians, 333 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: make it a face, dude, I know. Um, Samantha has 334 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: always had incredibly severe menstrual cramps. She is used to 335 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: a higher degree of pain than that with which I 336 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 1: was accustomed, and so I warned her about the horrific 337 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,360 Speaker 1: pain that I went through, and she proceeded to make 338 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:24,160 Speaker 1: fun of me, probably for about the next year or so. Um. 339 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 1: For the middle group of people, Uh, it's a moderately painful, Yeah, 340 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: moderately painful process. That's most of us. For most people. 341 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: It's going to be moderately painful. For the rest of us, 342 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 1: including your friend Caroline Irvin. Here, it is severely painful. UM. 343 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,919 Speaker 1: I I absolutely don't want to discourage anyone from getting 344 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: this procedure done. I think it's important to have really 345 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: effective birth control, and I U d s are incredibly effective, 346 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: as we have already laid out for you. UM. That 347 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: being said, I was not one of the lucky ones 348 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: who had low to moderate pain. I was one of 349 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: the ones who literally tasted color. UM. I developed apparently 350 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 1: circumstantial synesthesia during the procedure. It hurts so badly I 351 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 1: threw up. I almost passed out. I made the bad 352 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: mistake of taking no pain medicine, not even like a 353 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: tailean all um, and it it was. It was a nightmare. 354 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: But the thing is, like they give you the night 355 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: before you take UH medicine that dilates your cervix so 356 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 1: that your service is open so they can more easily 357 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 1: stick the I D in. Then ideally you will take 358 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 1: some type of pain medication and if you are highly, 359 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,199 Speaker 1: highly anxious or scared, they might prescribe you like a 360 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: low dose of valium or something along those lines. UM. 361 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: I will say, and I think this is important to 362 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: say because I just told this to a friend and 363 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: colleague the other day, and this is what convinced her 364 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 1: after all this time of being afraid to go get 365 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: this procedure done. When I went to have my Skyla 366 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: removed so that I could get my marina, the removal 367 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 1: felt like nothing. I mean it did. It felt like 368 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 1: a p smear. It was uncomfortable, but not bad. In 369 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: the insertion of the marina was a little bit more 370 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,879 Speaker 1: uncomfortable than a pap smear, but I wasn't I didn't 371 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: taste color. We'll just say that it was. It was 372 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 1: really fine. And I don't know if that's because my 373 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 1: cervix was like, oh, hey, you, we've seen your kind 374 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: here before um, or if maybe my child and all 375 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 1: was really kicking in that day, But I think it's 376 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: important to acknowledge that, yes, this can be a very 377 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,959 Speaker 1: painful procedure. It is very helpful to have someone a partner, 378 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: a friend, a parent, someone go with you in case 379 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 1: you do need to be driven home. But I just 380 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 1: really want to hammer home that I don't want you 381 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: to avoid this procedure just because your pal Caroline throughout 382 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: the first time. Yeah. And and if you're nervous about 383 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: pain and have a low pain tolerance, just tell your 384 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 1: doctor and uh, they'll prescribe you something. And if anything, 385 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: definitely take the they're going to prescribe you. Probably regardless 386 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: like the horse pill, I'd be profen um. So just 387 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: take that. And even if you don't have someone who 388 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: can drive you, Uh, I survived both times driving myself, 389 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: so we can do it. Because also the great thing 390 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 1: is it is discomfort form. I mean the rest of 391 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: the day you're crampy. Um. But then you have birth 392 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 1: control for five years if you have the marina, which 393 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: is a presidential term plus a year, yes, which is good, 394 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: which is good to know. I think, uh my marina 395 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: right now. I'm on my second one and it should 396 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: last me right up through uh the end of Trump. 397 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: So happy for that. Um. We also don't need to 398 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: talk about possible side effects after you you get this 399 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 1: thing implanted, whether it's the i U D or the 400 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 1: implant um. And this info is coming from Planned Parenthood 401 00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 1: Box and again the American College of Obstetricians and Kynecologists. 402 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 1: So typically with i U D s, the main side 403 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 1: effects you're gonna have are some unpredictable menstrual spotting and 404 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: bleeding at first. UM, I experienced this. I'll just leave 405 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 1: it at that. UM, you may also experience headaches, nausea, depression, 406 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: and breast tenderness. UH. Speaking to the depression aspects, I 407 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: u d s were implicated in a recent study that 408 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: went viral about birth control and female mental health, and 409 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:39,199 Speaker 1: UH it was particularly like strongly correlated UM to women 410 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: getting iu d s and then UH later getting on antidepressants. Again, 411 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: there's some correlation causation issue there, but just something to 412 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: keep in mind if you struggle with mental health that 413 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: it's just something again to just talk to your doctor about. Right. 414 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: And again, personal experience. Obviously my experience is not everyone's. 415 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: But UM, I had been on the pill specifically yas 416 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 1: or yasmin for years, about a decade before I went 417 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 1: on an iu D and I never had never, never 418 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,159 Speaker 1: had PMS with the pill, and I now on an 419 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: I E D, I do get PMS. And that's again 420 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: that's not going to be the same for everyone, but 421 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: I noticed that that was something that changed for me. 422 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: So things on an iu D versus the pill versus 423 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: no birth control whatsoever, they're not necessarily going to be 424 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,919 Speaker 1: the same, and with implants, the major side effects sided 425 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: include change in sex drive. You might see a discoloring 426 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,679 Speaker 1: or scarring of the skin over the implant site. You 427 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 1: may also experience headache, infections, or pain in the arm, 428 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: although that's very rare, UH, nausea, sore breasts, weight gain. 429 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, these are side effects that you see 430 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: with a lot of hormonal birth controls UM. And there 431 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: are some worst case scenarios though that I know, some 432 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 1: stuff Mom never told you listeners have experienced because you 433 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 1: all have told us about them, specifically i U D 434 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: expulsion and this is probably the most common uh scary 435 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 1: story that you hear when you're, you know, talking to 436 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 1: two friends about i u D s because for about 437 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: three to five percent of people who get them in 438 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: the first year, your uterus might be like, now, girl, Kylie, 439 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: go back to to Cabo. UM. You know they don't 440 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: live in Cabo Calabasas, scalabas Is. I know that, and 441 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: I'm ashamed of that, UM, but that's likely because the 442 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: gynecologists didn't insert it correctly. UM. If you're concerned about this, though, 443 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 1: watch out for cramping UM because that that might be 444 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: a sign that your your uterus is not happy, and 445 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: they're also in much rarer cases perforations that can happen um. 446 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: Your i U D can actually puncture your uterine wall, 447 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: which could potentially harm your bladder intestine and if left untreated, 448 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: might lead to hemorrhaging and sepsis. But that sounds awful, 449 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: It is awful, take heart, it is very very very rare. UM. 450 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: It is about point one percent expulsion rate chance with that, 451 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: and these are just more even more reason to make 452 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: sure that you stick to your follow up appointment. Usually 453 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 1: your gynecologist will request that you come in about a 454 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: month after the fact to just make sure that everything 455 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 1: is where he or she left it. Basically, that's how 456 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 1: my doctor put it. UM. Another worst case scenario involves 457 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 1: a slightly elevated risk of pelvic inflammatory disease in the 458 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 1: first twenty days after you get your i U D 459 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 1: inserted um and when it comes to implants, incorrect insertion 460 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: can cause discomfort and in effectiveness. And in the very 461 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: very very super rare case of pregnancy with one of 462 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: these long acting reversible contraceptives, you do have an elevated 463 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 1: risk of ectopic pregnancy. When I put the call out 464 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: on Twitter to let people know that we were going 465 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 1: to be talking about this and they were welcome to 466 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 1: send us their questions or concerns. We did have one 467 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: listener who said, yes, I was one of those people 468 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 1: who had to endure an ectopic pregnancy. Uh So the 469 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: risk is there, and again it is very small. Uh 470 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: Now in terms of who shouldn't get one of these, 471 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: especially for I U d S, people with untreated S 472 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: t I S, uh no, because insertion can promote pelvic infection. Also, 473 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: a good kind ecologist is probably going to make sure 474 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: that you're tested before going anywhere near insertion. Speaking of 475 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,480 Speaker 1: pelvic infection, not surprisingly, if you have a recent history 476 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 1: with those not going to be a good idea. People 477 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 1: with untreated cervical or uterine cancers, and with the implants, 478 00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: people with breast cancer are advised against getting them. And 479 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: speaking of S T I S, it is worth emphasizing 480 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 1: that even though uh it, these these wonderful things dramatically 481 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 1: reduce our chances of getting pregnant, they do nothing to 482 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: reduce your chance of contracting S T I. So you know, 483 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: don't throw away your condoms folks. And we should also 484 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: mention UH when it comes to having sex with I 485 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 1: U d s that UH at the bottom of these 486 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: little T shaped devices, there are some strings that hang down, 487 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: just a little tiny strings UM. And if your sexual partners, 488 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 1: like I think I can feel the string, that's probably okay. 489 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: It's it's not terribly surprising, especially for a digital penetration UM. 490 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 1: But you might also want to monitor your string because 491 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 1: if you can't feel them at all, because you can 492 00:32:53,840 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 1: actually UM yourself uh reach up and and probably feel them. 493 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 1: And if you can't feel them at all after the 494 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 1: first few months, you might just want to call your 495 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 1: doctor to see if you need to come in, just 496 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: to ensure that it hasn't been knocked out of place 497 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 1: or that it's been UM expelled. I've actually called my 498 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: doctor before UM because a partner way back when was 499 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: concerned about feeling the strings UM and it was fun. 500 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: It was really fine. You know, just always pick up 501 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 1: a call, pick up the call and phone your nurse practitioner. Perfect. 502 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: So now we know what these things are today and 503 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 1: how they work and how effective they are, it's time 504 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 1: to get into the more fascinating story of how they 505 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 1: came to be. And we're going to do that when 506 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: we come right back from a quick break and as 507 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: we get into uh this history of the i u 508 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: D specifically, we want to go ahead and give a 509 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 1: shout out to Chicaco Takashita, whose dissertation Negotiating Acceptability of 510 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 1: the i U D Contraceptive Technology, Women's Bodies and Reproductive 511 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 1: Politics UH is a major source. It's a very well 512 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: as you might imagine, it's very in depth dissertation. Does 513 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: not even need to be said, it's full of chucks. 514 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: It's chock full of great information. Good job, um. But 515 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,799 Speaker 1: basically i u d s have been around for a 516 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 1: really long time. But as we kind of touched on 517 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,760 Speaker 1: at the top of the podcast, American women are really 518 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: just now coming around to it. It's much more common 519 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: overseas in Europe than it is here, and a lot 520 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: of that has to do with some horror stories that 521 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 1: we have and some terrible things that we endured in 522 00:34:53,880 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: the nineteen seventies thanks to this thing called the Delcon shield. Um, 523 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,359 Speaker 1: you also have issues in the way, hurdles like insurance 524 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: not covering this device, which can be four dollars or more, 525 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 1: and just general lack of awareness. I mean, I spoke 526 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 1: with some friends after I got my i U D 527 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: inserted who were still under the impression that i U 528 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: D s were as dangerous as the Delcon shield was 529 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 1: back mid century. And so we will get to that. 530 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 1: But let's take a trip down I U D memory 531 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 1: lane first. Yeah. So, uh, just important to note Europeans, 532 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,719 Speaker 1: by no means the first folks to figure out that 533 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 1: that putting a physical barrier between your vaginal canal and 534 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 1: your uterus can prevent pregnancy. Since ancient civilization. We have 535 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 1: used pessaries, we have used cervical caps, we have used 536 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 1: all sorts of of things similar to i U D 537 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: s um with with a similar kind of strategy in 538 00:35:56,160 --> 00:36:02,800 Speaker 1: mind of really blocking the sperm from reaching damn eggs. Uh. 539 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: But in the late nineteen twenties, even though a doctor 540 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: in Japan ten rae Ota was doing the exact same 541 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 1: kind of research and development at the exact same time, 542 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: German Ernst Graffenberg, he of G spot fame. Yeah, I 543 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: always forget that, even though we talked about him extensively 544 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:24,720 Speaker 1: in our claracy episode. Well Ernst. Uh So, doctor Ernst 545 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: is a doctor g cited as the inventor of the 546 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: modern i U D UM and his was a small 547 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 1: ring made of silkworm gut and coiled silver that was 548 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 1: inserted into the uterus. And the cultural climate in Germany 549 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: was perfect for Graffenburg to get his proto i U 550 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 1: D on the map because a sex reform movement was 551 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: afoot and he presented as a male doctor his device 552 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: as scientia fick hashtag credibility. But they weren't very effective, 553 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 1: uh and they cost a lot of infections. Um. Turns 554 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 1: out silkworm gut not perfect um. And once we get 555 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:21,360 Speaker 1: into the nineteen sixties, uh, interest in i U D 556 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: s is reignited thanks to the Population Council, which had 557 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,319 Speaker 1: been established in nineteen fifty two. Um, and they do 558 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: remain the number one developer of i U D and 559 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 1: Lark technology. They were actually initially looking for a pregnancy 560 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 1: vaccine and considered the pill too expensive and user dependent. 561 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,200 Speaker 1: But there are layers there to that idea of it 562 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 1: being too user dependent. Yeah. So essentially, what's happening m 563 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:55,279 Speaker 1: are mostly a lot of white dudes making a lot 564 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 1: of classes and racist assumptions about how poor women, especially 565 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 1: women of color, both in the United States and in 566 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: developing countries simply cannot be trusted with their own reproductive health. 567 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: So they are more fans of the set it and 568 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: forget it type of contraception. UM and I didn't do 569 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:19,760 Speaker 1: much deep digging on the Population Council, but in general 570 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 1: they I mean, their name kind of says it all. 571 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,359 Speaker 1: Really they are I want to say, an NGO still 572 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:33,600 Speaker 1: around UM whose mission is population control, you know, and 573 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 1: especially focusing in on developing countries and low income areas. Uh. 574 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 1: This does start to intersect, especially around this time UM 575 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,839 Speaker 1: with EU genesis philosophy UM and again just a lot 576 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: of classism and racism. But nonetheless they were the pioneers, 577 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 1: the scientific pioneers of the i u D. And in 578 00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 1: nineteen sixty two they hosted the first Inner National Conference 579 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 1: on the i u D. But they had great swag 580 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 1: bags of this world. Gut, how do I get through? Well, 581 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: what's on the bottom. It's just cigars, because it's just 582 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: all it's all dudes. Really, I mean, like in this 583 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 1: paper at least, I only read about dudes doing this 584 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 1: scientific research. And that's like another little question mark in 585 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: my brain of you know, what what is what is 586 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 1: really what is really the intent? But anyway, we'll get 587 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 1: we'll get into the more feminist lens that people have 588 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: looked at this R and D through in just a second. Yeah, 589 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: but a question mark was one was not one of 590 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 1: the shapes of early i U d s, but there 591 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 1: were several others. Early i U d s were rings, bows, loops, coils. 592 00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 1: All of these different shapes were patented. Uh. And you 593 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,880 Speaker 1: even had this crazy straw looking thing. Uh, this loop 594 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 1: that became the go to. Yeah, the lip is loop 595 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,880 Speaker 1: became the what they thought was going to be the 596 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:13,760 Speaker 1: key to population control in developing nations in particular. And listeners, 597 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:18,279 Speaker 1: imagine your head how the I U D today is 598 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 1: very small and it's t shaped. The lip is loop. 599 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,480 Speaker 1: It's just this zig zag back and forth and back 600 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: and forth that looks It's really there to confuse the 601 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,399 Speaker 1: sperm more than anything, I think, So it just looks. 602 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: It looks incredibly painful. Um. But uh and I'm so 603 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 1: glad that it is not the current design. In nine though, 604 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: Population Council affiliated Chilean scientist Jack Zipper, who has the 605 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: best name of this podcast so far, Jack the Zipper, 606 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: Jack the Zipper Hold. Jack the Zipper discovers the anti 607 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 1: fertility effects of copper. He was doing some research on 608 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 1: fertility in rabbits and realizes this, this copper is a 609 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:11,719 Speaker 1: really effective contraceptive. Hello proto pareguard copper I U d W. 610 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: That's the force field again, the sperm force field. UM. 611 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: But when you hit the nineteen seventies and eighties, there's 612 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 1: a bit of a drop off, UM, because of the 613 00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:28,919 Speaker 1: nightmare that was the dell Con Shield disaster. So this 614 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 1: scary looking thing which can look like a cartoon I 615 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:38,439 Speaker 1: with eyelashes. It can also look like a bacterium or 616 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 1: some kind of fishing lure, depending on which way you 617 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:46,840 Speaker 1: hold it. UM. It was used by nearly three million women, 618 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: and not only did it sometimes fail to prevent pregnancy, 619 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: but it injured about two hundred thousand women. It caused 620 00:41:55,080 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 1: in fertility, and fifteen women died fifteen women eyed in 621 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 1: the process of miscarriage because of this Dalkon shield. And 622 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,759 Speaker 1: the thing is I had known about the dal Con 623 00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 1: shield by name for years, but researching for this episode 624 00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 1: was the first time I actually saw it. And seeing 625 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 1: is believing, y'all google dal Con shield d A L 626 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 1: K O N, because how it just it just looks 627 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,359 Speaker 1: very It just looks very painful because there are these 628 00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 1: little like protrusions off of it, and it just looks 629 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 1: like it would cut you up. Um. But surprisingly, it 630 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,560 Speaker 1: wasn't this frightening looking evil eye design that caused all 631 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 1: the problems, but likelier the thread that served as just 632 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:50,520 Speaker 1: bacterial infection canal um instigating all of these pelvic infections 633 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:55,800 Speaker 1: that lead to so many problems as a result. Especially 634 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,919 Speaker 1: in the eighties, as the company that released the dalco 635 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: On Shield was just flooded with lawsuits, insurance companies just 636 00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 1: moonwalk away. They're like, nope, we are out of the 637 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 1: i U D game. But that's the US. Yeah. Um. Overseas, 638 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 1: same game was not happening. China, for instance, in nineteen 639 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 1: seventy nine establishes its one child policy, So basically the 640 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 1: propaganda and the policies that are being pushed were like, hey, 641 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 1: you've had one child, go with an i U D. Oh, 642 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 1: hey you've had to be sterilized. So that's that right, Um. 643 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 1: But there was you know, as all of this delco 644 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 1: On shield nightmare was happening in the US, UM, China 645 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:45,840 Speaker 1: was definitely on the forefront of developing the i U D, 646 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: which in nineteen seventy nine when the program was kicked off. 647 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: They had gone to the Population Council and had been like, Hey, 648 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: what are y'all working on? We need something? Oh yeah, 649 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: this i U D thing. So it was fascinating see 650 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: how all of this globally is starting to weave together. UM. 651 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:10,320 Speaker 1: Back to the United States. After a couple of years 652 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 1: where i u d s were nowhere to be found 653 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,800 Speaker 1: in the US, the Pareguard the copper i U D 654 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 1: was made available to American uterus is once again UM 655 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 1: and in the nineties the Marina which Caroline and I 656 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 1: have was developed in Europe and became super popular quite quickly. 657 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: UM of French women on birth control today, for instance, 658 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:38,440 Speaker 1: use i U D sent of Norwegian women on birth control, 659 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 1: use i U D s all of us To say 660 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,840 Speaker 1: that I U D use in the US UM at 661 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 1: what ten eleven percent right now is still so much 662 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 1: lower than U USE abroad? Well yeah, and I mean 663 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 1: the FDA was watching for about a decade what was 664 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: happening in Europe, essentially making sure that there was not 665 00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:01,120 Speaker 1: going to be another del con Shield nightmare of death 666 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:07,560 Speaker 1: and injury and unexpected pregnancy. And so I was actually 667 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:12,640 Speaker 1: ignorant of that fact that the Marina and it's like 668 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 1: weren't even available until the new millennium. I kind of 669 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:20,319 Speaker 1: just I had thought that they had been around for 670 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: and they have been around for longer, but I mean 671 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,439 Speaker 1: available especially with insurance. Yeah, I mean, and and for 672 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,960 Speaker 1: a while too. Even when they were made available again, um, 673 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: most doctors wouldn't allow women who had been pregnant before 674 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 1: to use them. Um. They were all sorts of concerns. Understandably, 675 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: you know, because fifteen women died hello, um, but there 676 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 1: were a lot of concerns around whether they were truly safe. Um. 677 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 1: And it turns out yes they are. Um. But interestingly, 678 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 1: as we learned from a Time magazine piece, when the 679 00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: Marina was first marketed in the US, it was targeted 680 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: at moms, basically being like, we know, y'all don't have 681 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: time to take a pill every day. You're busy with 682 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 1: your kids. Well yeah, I mean, there is that side 683 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 1: of it of like, you don't have time to worry 684 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,439 Speaker 1: about your birth control. But there's also the side of like, 685 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 1: we are specifically marketing to moms over single women. We 686 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 1: don't want to promote uh, this birth control to single 687 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 1: women and have people just willing nillly ditch condoms for instance, 688 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 1: or think that they can just have unproductive sex forever, 689 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 1: unproductive set unproductive sex. Yeah, as then not having kids sex. 690 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: But that's the case today, I mean, thankfully, like people 691 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,320 Speaker 1: are people are all about I E. D S. And 692 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,399 Speaker 1: I wonder if that is at all correlated to like 693 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:46,800 Speaker 1: the growing population of female O, B G Y N s. Um. 694 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 1: Just just a thought. If anyone knows, let me know. Um. 695 00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:56,640 Speaker 1: So what's not to love about all of this technology? Well, 696 00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 1: there are some feminist scholars who haven'tterpreted their development and use, 697 00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 1: particularly as it relates to the Population Council and their 698 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 1: implementation in developing countries and promotion among poor women in particular, 699 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: as coercive and even violent. Yeah, we read a lot 700 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:24,400 Speaker 1: in the dissertation about sort of this history of forcing 701 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:28,760 Speaker 1: women to be either sterilized or to have some type 702 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 1: of contraceptive to limit expanding families. Whereas here in the 703 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: West we tend to view it as a way to 704 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:40,800 Speaker 1: control our lives. Uh. In a lot of countries, regions 705 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:45,880 Speaker 1: like Indonesia or India, UM, it's viewed more as almost 706 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:50,720 Speaker 1: punishment as a way to control women well, China, hello. 707 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: I mean that's like state propaganda right there. I mean, um, 708 00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,560 Speaker 1: they refer to it as state imposed fertility control, where 709 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:03,200 Speaker 1: it's not you know, white women like jumping up fists 710 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: in the air choosing our choice, but rather the government 711 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 1: choosing your choice for you. And again going back to 712 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 1: those you know, classist and racist elements of you know, 713 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: let us let us choose on your behalf this set 714 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,520 Speaker 1: and forget it kind of thing, because you probably don't 715 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 1: have the wherewithal to do for yourself. Um. So, And 716 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:29,439 Speaker 1: and this was an area, these these biopolitics, feminist biopolitics 717 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:33,239 Speaker 1: or something that I hadn't read before. And um, I'm 718 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 1: curious to read more about also because a lot of 719 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 1: that information, um and that perspective was coming out more 720 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 1: in the late nineties early two thousands. And I'm curious 721 00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 1: to know whether there is still a similar sentiment now 722 00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,879 Speaker 1: that i U D s are more common and more affordable, 723 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:57,440 Speaker 1: um in in the US in particular, But there are 724 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 1: also still a lot of barriers to you, especially in 725 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 1: developing countries, even though it is recommended by the World 726 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 1: Health Organization, because increasing i U D use could be 727 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 1: a major boon to maternal health and of course managed 728 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 1: population control UM. Still, as of according to NPR, of 729 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:27,359 Speaker 1: women in developing nations have unmet family planning needs right 730 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 1: and so many of them more than get pregnant UM 731 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:36,440 Speaker 1: within two years of having the previous child, the important 732 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,520 Speaker 1: aspect of that stat being and many do not want 733 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,240 Speaker 1: to Many want to wait, and the World Health Organization 734 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:47,839 Speaker 1: does urge people in general to wait UH to I guess, 735 00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,320 Speaker 1: let their bodies recover essentially, especially if you've had a 736 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,359 Speaker 1: traumatic childbirth UM. But some of the hurdles that people 737 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:58,280 Speaker 1: are up against are things like menstrual taboos and very 738 00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 1: real aeralization fears because we do have this history globally 739 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 1: UM of forcing women, particularly women of color, to be sterilized. 740 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: And Jill Philipovic a couple of years ago wrote a 741 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 1: terrific in depth piece for Cosmopolitan about the situation of, 742 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,880 Speaker 1: or the challenge really of getting i u D access 743 00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:27,400 Speaker 1: to women in rural India because they tend to opt 744 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 1: for the pill over the paraguard. When it comes to 745 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 1: uh i u D s being sent, you know through 746 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,200 Speaker 1: nonprofits and NGOs, it's usually going to be the copper 747 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,320 Speaker 1: iu D because it is much cheaper than the hormonal 748 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:46,319 Speaker 1: version as you might imagine, UM. And in these areas 749 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:50,799 Speaker 1: the pill has chosen because with the paraguard, remember that 750 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 1: one of the major side effects is heavier periods, and 751 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 1: if you are in a developing area, you might also 752 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:03,640 Speaker 1: ally have entrenched me menstrual taboos. But also I mean, 753 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 1: if you're on your period because of it, you can't 754 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:09,399 Speaker 1: do anything really, I mean, it like puts you out 755 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,839 Speaker 1: of commission and they literally cannot afford to do that, 756 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,600 Speaker 1: right exactly. And you've also got the issue of the 757 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 1: difficulty of insertion um even right after childbirth. And you know, 758 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,480 Speaker 1: another benefit of course of the paaraguard is it can 759 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:29,120 Speaker 1: remain in for so much longer. So there there isn't 760 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,320 Speaker 1: the every three years or every five years. Even there's 761 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 1: that nice ten to twelve years stretch where you can 762 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 1: just I mean, you can just set it and forget it. 763 00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:42,239 Speaker 1: Not to sound globe, um, but there have there have 764 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,680 Speaker 1: been developments. UM. There is this new easy to use 765 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,879 Speaker 1: quote unquote i U D insert or developed by Population 766 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:53,279 Speaker 1: Services International, which I feel like these names need to 767 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 1: be improved. Doesn't Population Services International sound like something out 768 00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 1: of nineteen four I think they're related to the the 769 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,920 Speaker 1: old school population council. Well, all right then, um, but 770 00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 1: this new inserter could make i u D S more 771 00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,400 Speaker 1: accessible and on top of that lower the chances of 772 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:15,399 Speaker 1: getting i u D related infections. Um, the expulsion rates 773 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,719 Speaker 1: are still comparable to those in the US right now. Yeah, 774 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 1: and those easy to use inserters are super important in 775 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 1: those areas where you aren't going to have just you know, 776 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:32,360 Speaker 1: a buffet of trained obstetricians and perfectly sterilized areas and 777 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 1: instruments to use. Um. And apparently the existing inserter that 778 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,399 Speaker 1: tends to come with a marina or paraguard is really 779 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 1: flimsy and kind of hard to use if you don't 780 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,440 Speaker 1: really know what you're doing. Yeah, it's not as long 781 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,480 Speaker 1: as as would be ideal. And they mentioned I think 782 00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:54,320 Speaker 1: this was still from Philip iis article right. She she mentions, how, um, 783 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:58,880 Speaker 1: right now in the study, when i u D s 784 00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:03,000 Speaker 1: are inserted with these these new inserters that have been developed, Um, 785 00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,680 Speaker 1: the doctors leave the strings long still after childbirth and 786 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 1: want you to come back like a week or two later. 787 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:13,319 Speaker 1: But even that is still a barrier to overcome. Researchers 788 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,920 Speaker 1: and developers still want to get it down to know 789 00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 1: we just we do just set it and forget it, 790 00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 1: and that we do insert it and you go back 791 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:24,800 Speaker 1: to your life, You go back to your village or wherever, 792 00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:26,560 Speaker 1: and you don't have to worry about coming back to 793 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 1: find a healthcare provider to trim those i u D strings. 794 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:34,280 Speaker 1: And most often that does happen uh right after childbirth. 795 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,320 Speaker 1: You know, they come in to have the baby and UH, 796 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 1: like a lot of women choose to then get a 797 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:42,520 Speaker 1: tubal ligation for instance, UM, you can then get an 798 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:48,400 Speaker 1: IUD inserted. UM. But here in the US even there's 799 00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,040 Speaker 1: still some mistrust around i u D s of course 800 00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:54,960 Speaker 1: their horror stories UM because of you know, people we 801 00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: might know or have heard about who have had to 802 00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:03,800 Speaker 1: deal with those very painful expulsion or even rare perforations. UM. 803 00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 1: And since though the election of Trump and even more 804 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:15,719 Speaker 1: troubling lye uh former Indiana Governor Mike Pence as Vice president, 805 00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:21,600 Speaker 1: i U D searches have skyrocketed, skyrocketed, my friends, I 806 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,319 Speaker 1: am not that is not hyperbole. You can see it. 807 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,800 Speaker 1: You can see it in the Google UM. Because people 808 00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,319 Speaker 1: are worried about the repeal of the Affordable Care Act 809 00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:34,839 Speaker 1: and the possible repeal of Roe v Wade and out 810 00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:37,640 Speaker 1: of pocket hormonal I U D s can run you 811 00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:42,480 Speaker 1: eight hundred dollars um. So, there have been a lot 812 00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,920 Speaker 1: of women ever since that happened, ever since November nine, 813 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:51,120 Speaker 1: who have said get an I U D. Yeah. Well, 814 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,120 Speaker 1: I mean I posted the question on Facebook of how 815 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 1: many of you out there are thinking about this, are 816 00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 1: in line or on the phone with your doctor to 817 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 1: at your contraceptives of whatever kind taken care of? And 818 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,920 Speaker 1: I mean the response was overwhelming from women of all 819 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:10,000 Speaker 1: ages and background saying I'm on the phone with my doctor, 820 00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:13,280 Speaker 1: I'm calling I'm going to plan parenthood. One woman literally 821 00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:16,920 Speaker 1: responded from her doctor's waiting room saying that she was 822 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 1: getting it taken care of. Yeah, so, I mean this, 823 00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:24,280 Speaker 1: this conversation is more relevant than ever before. Um and 824 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:28,600 Speaker 1: even though we were only able to offer just a 825 00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:33,879 Speaker 1: tiny snapshot of a more global perspective, uh, it does 826 00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 1: go to show how again, reproductive rights are very intersectional 827 00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 1: issue and affect different people and in such different ways, 828 00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 1: in the same way as birth control does. Um So 829 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:55,360 Speaker 1: perspectives that you can share insights, questions, send them to 830 00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,320 Speaker 1: us mom staff at how stuff works dot com. Is 831 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,400 Speaker 1: our email address. You can we Doesn't Mom Stuff podcast. 832 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:06,880 Speaker 1: You can directly tweet and follow me at Kristen Conger 833 00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 1: and me Caroline Irvin at the Caroline Irv And we've 834 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:21,560 Speaker 1: got a couple of messages to share with you right now. Well, actually, 835 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,919 Speaker 1: to be honest, we just have one letter to read, 836 00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:28,000 Speaker 1: and it's from Allison. So Allison saw on social media 837 00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 1: that Kristen and I were gearing up to do an 838 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,040 Speaker 1: episode on i U D s and she, a fellow 839 00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:38,200 Speaker 1: I D evangelists, had to write in. She says, I'm 840 00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,960 Speaker 1: not a medical professional or i U D. Salesperson. However, 841 00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 1: I am the owner of one set of lady parts, 842 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:48,480 Speaker 1: my lady parts. Allison writes, when I started college, I 843 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 1: was prescribed the pill for a regular minsie since back 844 00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:53,880 Speaker 1: in my day you couldn't get it covered if it 845 00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,560 Speaker 1: was just for stopping babies. And to make a long 846 00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,759 Speaker 1: story short, the hormonal birth control really made me sick, 847 00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:04,200 Speaker 1: serious depression, weight gain, mood swings, oh and debilitating cramps. 848 00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,480 Speaker 1: One time, I remember handing my roommate my car keys 849 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: while I curled up on my floor after class, telling 850 00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,120 Speaker 1: her to just take the car where she needed to go. 851 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:15,000 Speaker 1: I can't sit up. I took it four more years 852 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: because I don't know doctors are smarter than me. I 853 00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:21,720 Speaker 1: was not living my empowered truth. Eventually, I chewed hormonal 854 00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,920 Speaker 1: birth control altogether because my side effects were so bad. 855 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 1: But I met an Englishman in two thousand nine and 856 00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 1: I needed to get birth control stats. After talking to 857 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,400 Speaker 1: my amazing lady O B g y N, who sets 858 00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,240 Speaker 1: my heart alight, and doing a little research, I told 859 00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 1: her I wanted to try the i u D even 860 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,120 Speaker 1: though I am nella Paris. I wanted to try the 861 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 1: iu D for a variety of reasons, but most importantly, 862 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:48,120 Speaker 1: I wanted something effective, easy to use, and easy to reverse. 863 00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:52,720 Speaker 1: Oh that and it was covered by my insurance. Only 864 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,320 Speaker 1: my regular appointment copay would apply. This was before the 865 00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: legislation for covering birth control was passed, so my d 866 00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 1: her and I talked about it, and because I had 867 00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,880 Speaker 1: a bad reaction to hormonal birth control, she recommended doing 868 00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 1: the peaguard the copper i D. We giggled when she 869 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,440 Speaker 1: said that she liked that one because she likes to 870 00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 1: imagine the heads of the sperm popping off when met 871 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:16,200 Speaker 1: with the inhospitable uterine environment. The copper creates. Did I 872 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,439 Speaker 1: mention she sets my heart a light because she does. 873 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,880 Speaker 1: We talked about how it would work, that it would 874 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:22,960 Speaker 1: be good for ten years, and if I wanted to 875 00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,240 Speaker 1: take it out, she could do that any time, just 876 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:28,480 Speaker 1: come in. When I've told friends about the insertion process, 877 00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:31,120 Speaker 1: I've described it like sticking a straw in your huha 878 00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:33,600 Speaker 1: then shooting a dart into your uterus. But it didn't 879 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 1: really hurt. I did have cramping, and at ten to 880 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,680 Speaker 1: regret that I only took four hundred milligrams of ivy 881 00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:42,120 Speaker 1: proof in the weirdest thing was I got dizzy uh 882 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:43,880 Speaker 1: and the nurse brought me an apple juice box that 883 00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:45,400 Speaker 1: they kept there for the kids and let me lie 884 00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,120 Speaker 1: down for ten minutes. I advocated the i U D 885 00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:50,760 Speaker 1: to my best girlfriend. After she had two children fourteen 886 00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 1: months apart her, she and her husband decided their family 887 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,800 Speaker 1: was complete, at least for now. She wanted to know 888 00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,720 Speaker 1: about my experience, and she talked to her O B 889 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:02,200 Speaker 1: G y N and decided Marino was for her. I 890 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,080 Speaker 1: will pretty much talk to anyone about my I E 891 00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,720 Speaker 1: D if they ask, and have called out I U 892 00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,200 Speaker 1: D deniers for just being lying liars like those who 893 00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 1: say it's an abortifacient. Anyway, Englishman and I got hitched 894 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:17,000 Speaker 1: in and I have four more years of effective, safe 895 00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,640 Speaker 1: and fabulous birth control that I can decide at any 896 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,280 Speaker 1: time to keep or take out having children. It's not 897 00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,720 Speaker 1: something we want to do maybe ever, And that is 898 00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: cool with my PAA guard because she's just in their 899 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:30,520 Speaker 1: chilling popping the heads off sperm. Thank you so much 900 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,600 Speaker 1: for listening to my story time. I've listened to you 901 00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,000 Speaker 1: both for a few years and appreciate so much your 902 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:37,960 Speaker 1: candor and the important topics you discuss. Please let me 903 00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,960 Speaker 1: know if you have any questions I can answer. And 904 00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:44,920 Speaker 1: Allison signs her letter unicorns and empowerment and what a 905 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:49,040 Speaker 1: fabulous way to end a letter. Thank you so much, Allison, 906 00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,840 Speaker 1: and thanks to everyone who's written into us. 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