WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Numbers Don't Lie But You Should

0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:04.000
<v Speaker 2>Welcome to your brand new Second Date podcast, and we

0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:05.000
<v Speaker 2>got one for you today.

0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:06.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we love you here.

0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:10.440
<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much for subscribing and sticking along with us.

0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:13.560
<v Speaker 2>In fact, we love your comments so much. We always

0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:15.800
<v Speaker 2>like to start the show by reading one we do.

0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:20.560
<v Speaker 3>And Terry Fowler from a Reno, Nevada said, I've been

0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:24.079
<v Speaker 3>listening for two years now daily and listener, I just

0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:25.960
<v Speaker 3>wanted to say my dog Lee, I just had nine

0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:26.920
<v Speaker 3>puppies this morning.

0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:31.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm so grateful. Name one after one of the members

0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:31.480
<v Speaker 4>of the show.

0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:33.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, we do.

0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:34.360
<v Speaker 1>Everybody on the show good.

0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but you don't want to waste like all those names.

0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:38.440
<v Speaker 4>You choose one.

0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.320
<v Speaker 1>You just want Jose one Jose.

0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:43.959
<v Speaker 4>Literally, no one wants the name of all.

0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Hey. That congratulations. I'd be in a new Would that be

0:00:51.000 --> 0:00:56.520
<v Speaker 2>a doggy grandma? Is that how that works? Yeah?

0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:59.480
<v Speaker 3>Well, we love it, I guess Yeah.

0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.760
<v Speaker 2>And uh, hey, I hope all the little puppies enjoy

0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:04.160
<v Speaker 2>this episode of your second Day podcast.

0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it starts right now.

0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:08.319
<v Speaker 4>Second Date up Date.

0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.480
<v Speaker 5>When your date plans change at the very last second,

0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:17.160
<v Speaker 5>not by your choice, but because of like an unforeseen

0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:23.800
<v Speaker 5>obstacle with the venue, like the baseball game got rained out.

0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.960
<v Speaker 4>The KFC ran out of Chicken. That doesn't happen. What's

0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:26.760
<v Speaker 4>your movie?

0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:27.360
<v Speaker 6>Like?

0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:28.479
<v Speaker 4>How do you respond?

0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:31.200
<v Speaker 5>You could instantly give up right there and say, no,

0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:34.160
<v Speaker 5>I'm not doing this. I'll FaceTime you from my bubble bath,

0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:35.360
<v Speaker 5>but I don't pivot on the fly.

0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, be flexible, Jeff, be spontaneous.

0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:40.600
<v Speaker 4>That is the other option.

0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:44.200
<v Speaker 5>Shake it up, do something new, And apparently that's what

0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:46.880
<v Speaker 5>one of our listeners, Sierra, had to do recently on

0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:50.440
<v Speaker 5>her date. And I'm curious what that looked like. So Sierra,

0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:51.400
<v Speaker 5>welcome to the show.

0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:52.560
<v Speaker 6>Hi.

0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.560
<v Speaker 1>You sound like go with a flow type of person.

0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:59.920
<v Speaker 4>I sound like a baseball the rain kind of lady. Yeah,

0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:02.600
<v Speaker 4>that's good.

0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.560
<v Speaker 5>Sorry to hear that your date plans crash, But tell

0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:06.360
<v Speaker 5>us what happened.

0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:10.280
<v Speaker 7>So I met this guy, Ashwyn on a dating app.

0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh, he sounds fancy and rich. His name is Ashwyn.

0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:16.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't know how to spell that.

0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:20.680
<v Speaker 7>Yes, not gonna lie. The name intrigued me. But what

0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:24.080
<v Speaker 7>I really liked the most was he was funny, which

0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:26.799
<v Speaker 7>is so important, but he was also playful, like he

0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:29.240
<v Speaker 7>was kind of saucy. But not disrespectful, you.

0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:32.840
<v Speaker 4>Know what I mean a little bit but like totally joking. Yes,

0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:34.120
<v Speaker 4>like talking to your grandpa.

0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:39.880
<v Speaker 5>But sixty years ago, everybody has a grumpy grandpa who

0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:42.120
<v Speaker 5>likes to poke fun at them, right, grumpy?

0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:44.679
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Oh, it's like he's not an old man.

0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.080
<v Speaker 6>He's flirty.

0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:47.960
<v Speaker 4>His name is Ashwyn. He sounds like.

0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, you got us there, Jeff, But the rests.

0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:56.680
<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well we all have different images of what Ashwyn is.

0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:58.600
<v Speaker 4>But what was the plan for the date?

0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:01.240
<v Speaker 7>Well, you know, I'm happy to say that wasn't my

0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:06.800
<v Speaker 7>first impression. I liked him. I liked him enough to

0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:10.160
<v Speaker 7>uh say yes to a date with him, and I

0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:12.600
<v Speaker 7>think that he was kind of trying to impress me,

0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:16.320
<v Speaker 7>which obviously is fine with me. Like he had made

0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.919
<v Speaker 7>rooftop bar reservations at this like trendy place.

0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a rooftop bar. That's like not cool.

0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:26.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you like you put him in

0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:32.040
<v Speaker 1>a basement, not a but on a roof. It means something.

0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.000
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, so you sound like you're excited to get

0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:36.080
<v Speaker 5>some rooftop drinks.

0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:38.520
<v Speaker 7>Oh I was so excited. I love this kind of thing.

0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:43.400
<v Speaker 7>And he seemed exactly like his profile. He was super cute,

0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:47.560
<v Speaker 7>super nice, funny everything that I was hoping. We go

0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:50.680
<v Speaker 7>up the elevator and the guy at the door said

0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:54.600
<v Speaker 7>he was so sorry, but the whole place was closed

0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.080
<v Speaker 7>for like some kind of a cryptocurrency event.

0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:02.839
<v Speaker 4>Oh god, the crypto thing.

0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:05.920
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know, people who could afford to rent out

0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:07.360
<v Speaker 5>an entire money.

0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:12.040
<v Speaker 2>I just picture a bunch of dudes with receding hairlines.

0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, telling each other the same thing popper vests.

0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:20.719
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, careful, you're turning a Lexus on. Oh no, but

0:04:20.720 --> 0:04:22.640
<v Speaker 5>that's what a bummer. Your whole playing for the night

0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:24.120
<v Speaker 5>just got totally ruined.

0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:26.680
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean it was really disappointing, and I could

0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:30.320
<v Speaker 7>see the Ashman looked so disappointed, like, you know, that.

0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.760
<v Speaker 4>Shows you he was excited for the day too. So

0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:33.479
<v Speaker 4>what did you do?

0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:37.159
<v Speaker 7>So I just said, screw it, let's take a walk.

0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.440
<v Speaker 7>I'm not wearing the greatest shoes for it, but I

0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:41.320
<v Speaker 7>just really wanted to spend time with him at that point.

0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:44.560
<v Speaker 7>So we walked down the street and we walked and

0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:47.040
<v Speaker 7>talked for a while, and we just kind of ended

0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.599
<v Speaker 7>up at this old like it was just like a diner,

0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:52.800
<v Speaker 7>like a normal you know, Okay, Okay, it wasn't like

0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.000
<v Speaker 7>a cute like, oh, we're trying to be retro diner.

0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:56.800
<v Speaker 7>It looked like it had just been there for like

0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:58.160
<v Speaker 7>seventy years.

0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:00.000
<v Speaker 4>Waffle house.

0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the grease trap hasn't been kun in at least

0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:03.760
<v Speaker 2>two years.

0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:05.680
<v Speaker 7>But that's what makes the fries taste so good.

0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:10.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Okay, we're putting a lot of emphasis on like

0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:12.839
<v Speaker 5>the location of the day, But what about the bond,

0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.680
<v Speaker 5>the connection between you and Ashwyd Did that change once

0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.119
<v Speaker 5>you ended up at the crappy diner?

0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.000
<v Speaker 7>No, I mean it was honestly, it was kind of perfect.

0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:24.760
<v Speaker 7>Like we were sitting there eating cheese fries and drinking

0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:29.240
<v Speaker 7>milkshakes in our formal clothes and just talking.

0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:29.080
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:32.719
<v Speaker 7>And probably because the plans had changed and we were

0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:35.160
<v Speaker 7>thrown in the situation, we ended up having just the greatest,

0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:36.360
<v Speaker 7>most real conversation.

0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:39.680
<v Speaker 2>That's such a good sign for anyone. If you can

0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.080
<v Speaker 2>be anywhere with someone and still have a good time,

0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.480
<v Speaker 2>that means that you actually have a real connection.

0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.640
<v Speaker 7>Yes, and after our plans felt through, you know, like

0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.400
<v Speaker 7>it just felt so good, It felt so comfortable talking

0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:52.120
<v Speaker 7>to him. We've talked for hours.

0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, how could he not become.

0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:57.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, how did this night end?

0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:02.479
<v Speaker 7>Well? Okay, so one thing led to another. He kissed

0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.240
<v Speaker 7>me good night, and he did, of course end up

0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:06.239
<v Speaker 7>at his place.

0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:11.040
<v Speaker 5>Really post chili cheese fries, you guys went back to

0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:11.520
<v Speaker 5>this point.

0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:15.400
<v Speaker 7>Hey, I'm telling you I felt very comfortable with him,

0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:20.240
<v Speaker 7>and apparently I didn't leave till the next morning, impact,

0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:21.800
<v Speaker 7>which is unusual for me.

0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:23.720
<v Speaker 1>But what did he say? Was he there when you

0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:24.240
<v Speaker 1>woke up?

0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:27.400
<v Speaker 7>No, he was just his sweet, playful SELFI give me

0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:28.920
<v Speaker 7>a little kiss on the nose, which I thought was

0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.400
<v Speaker 7>adorable and okay.

0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:34.920
<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't even awkward the next morning, Yeah.

0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:34.760
<v Speaker 6>No, not at all.

0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:36.440
<v Speaker 5>It makes me wonder if it was like one of

0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:39.159
<v Speaker 5>those typical guy things where it wasn't enough of a

0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:42.240
<v Speaker 5>challenge and it became too easy, so the guy gets bored.

0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:45.520
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't sound like a guy that is like that, though, Jeff,

0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:51.920
<v Speaker 2>this sounds like they never broken until they But it

0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:54.800
<v Speaker 2>sounds like they were just vibing on a deeper level

0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:56.840
<v Speaker 2>than that. If he just wanted to get in her

0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.800
<v Speaker 2>pants and that's all he wanted, or he was disappointed

0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:01.720
<v Speaker 2>in they could have gone anywhere and just gone and

0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:03.600
<v Speaker 2>drank and then gone back to replace it.

0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:04.960
<v Speaker 4>Sounds exactly like what they did.

0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:07.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh, they would to a diner, they talked for hours,

0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:10.440
<v Speaker 2>they walked the city like that is a totally different thing.

0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:13.080
<v Speaker 5>Maybe he knew that crypto event was happening and this

0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.520
<v Speaker 5>was all set up as like a little ruse to

0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:16.239
<v Speaker 5>be like, look.

0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.680
<v Speaker 4>At me, Look how spontaneous I could be. Let's go

0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:19.560
<v Speaker 4>back to my class.

0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.600
<v Speaker 1>You are so cynical against men right now.

0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:24.160
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm just telling you this. I've heard guys do

0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:26.080
<v Speaker 5>stuff like this and sometimes even worse.

0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:28.720
<v Speaker 2>I know, I still want to think for the best, Jeff,

0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:29.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.680
<v Speaker 5>All right, Well you can be naive if you want,

0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:34.080
<v Speaker 5>but let's call Ashwin and we'll see what he has

0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:34.560
<v Speaker 5>to say.

0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:37.400
<v Speaker 4>With your second date update right after this hold on

0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:44.000
<v Speaker 4>second date update. Wow, another first date blown.

0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:50.240
<v Speaker 5>Up by a pod of crypto bros. Every single week

0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:53.520
<v Speaker 5>we deal with this because our listener, Sierra was supposed

0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:56.080
<v Speaker 5>to meet a guy named Ashwin at a rooftop bar,

0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.520
<v Speaker 5>but of course, when they arrived, the entire venue had

0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:01.960
<v Speaker 5>been rented it out by a bunch of crypto nerds

0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:07.960
<v Speaker 5>over yield farms and stabilizing their coin pools.

0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.160
<v Speaker 4>Whatever they like to talk about. Look at these candlesticks popping.

0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.400
<v Speaker 4>All right, I've done a little training. You don't even

0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.240
<v Speaker 4>know what that means, but it disgusts me.

0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.160
<v Speaker 1>No wonder, I don't enjoy any of it.

0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:20.440
<v Speaker 5>Here's the thing. Sierra and Ashwin didn't let that kill

0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:23.240
<v Speaker 5>their night. They actually swung it into a really fun

0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:27.000
<v Speaker 5>evening at a local diner, which eventually led into a sleepover.

0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:30.800
<v Speaker 1>Sounds so sweet.

0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:34.000
<v Speaker 5>It did, until Ashwyn is suddenly not calling her back.

0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Dude, he kissed her on the nose for goodness sake.

0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.200
<v Speaker 5>Like that is a romantic.

0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:43.520
<v Speaker 2>Moyah, Like that's a I really.

0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:43.760
<v Speaker 1>Like you move?

0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:45.679
<v Speaker 7>Is there another way to read that?

0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:46.200
<v Speaker 1>See?

0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's so sweet, and you've reached out to him,

0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:51.120
<v Speaker 2>or you haven't.

0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:52.360
<v Speaker 1>You're just waiting to hear from him.

0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.040
<v Speaker 7>This was what was so weird. We texted a little

0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:58.079
<v Speaker 7>bit after that, but he just I got the vibes

0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.520
<v Speaker 7>that he was not interested.

0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:04.959
<v Speaker 4>Even through texts. Yeah, you feel that energy ship for sure.

0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I hope it's one of those where he's just scared

0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:07.800
<v Speaker 1>of real love.

0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:12.880
<v Speaker 5>It's not stupid, but sometimes, like you had said, I'll

0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:14.000
<v Speaker 5>do no challenge, like.

0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.160
<v Speaker 6>If it's too easy, and everything is great.

0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:19.040
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes people don't like to be in that space. I

0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:19.360
<v Speaker 4>don't know.

0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:23.080
<v Speaker 5>We'll see which category Ashwin falls into if we're able

0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:24.200
<v Speaker 5>to get him on the phone.

0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:28.200
<v Speaker 4>Number right now, perfect categories. Yeah, yeah, we're praying for

0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:29.439
<v Speaker 4>a Disney ending.

0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Getting her another nose kiss, jeff.

0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:35.959
<v Speaker 4>What a promise. So here we go.

0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:45.960
<v Speaker 6>Hello.

0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:47.840
<v Speaker 4>Hey is this Ashwin?

0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:50.760
<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.839
<v Speaker 5>Hey, man, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show

0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:55.760
<v Speaker 5>right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

0:09:56.080 --> 0:10:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Hey, good morning, Welcome to the show. Ashwin. Hi, it

0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:05.959
<v Speaker 1>sounds like you might be busy or something right now.

0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:07.439
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I hope you have a second to talk to

0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:10.320
<v Speaker 5>us because we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:17.480
<v Speaker 6>Sure this is weird, Okay, Yeah, you.

0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:18.400
<v Speaker 4>Give him a lot of credit.

0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.400
<v Speaker 5>So the reason that we're calling is because you went

0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:26.400
<v Speaker 5>out on a date recently with a listener to our show,

0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:27.440
<v Speaker 5>a woman named Sierra.

0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:34.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh oh yeah, you mean he lost a nice.

0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:37.240
<v Speaker 5>So here's the thing, Sierra. We talked to her and

0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:40.240
<v Speaker 5>she told us about your hang the other night.

0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.320
<v Speaker 1>The diner sounded so cute.

0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:43.439
<v Speaker 4>It sounded pretty good.

0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:46.360
<v Speaker 5>Despite all the obstacles that came up, you two were

0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:47.760
<v Speaker 5>able to have a really good thing.

0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:49.240
<v Speaker 4>Would you agree with that?

0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:52.240
<v Speaker 6>I mean, we we did. It was probably one of

0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:55.679
<v Speaker 6>the most amazing dates I've ever been on.

0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:57.839
<v Speaker 4>What heck, bro, why aren't you call it?

0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:00.040
<v Speaker 5>Or we're all over here waiting to find like this

0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:01.679
<v Speaker 5>crazy reason.

0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:03.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's so sweet.

0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:05.599
<v Speaker 5>Sorry to be so emotional about it, but it's just that,

0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:07.840
<v Speaker 5>you know, Sierra is really confused.

0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:12.840
<v Speaker 6>It's just kind of embarrassing for you or for Sierra.

0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:13.760
<v Speaker 6>For me.

0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:17.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, if it's too much to share.

0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:19.200
<v Speaker 4>You should do it anyway, because.

0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:23.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to pressure anybody, you.

0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:26.320
<v Speaker 5>Know, and Sierra really deserves to know, wouldn't she say?

0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:31.240
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Yeah, I know she is. She's really awesome. This

0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:34.400
<v Speaker 6>is mostly mostly a me a mee thing.

0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.160
<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well, if you're willing to open up to us,

0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:38.960
<v Speaker 5>just even a little bit, and we could pass the

0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:41.760
<v Speaker 5>message to her, I think that would go a long way.

0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:47.280
<v Speaker 6>We have this amazing, amazing night. And she told me

0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:49.200
<v Speaker 6>that she doesn't do this a lot, where she goes

0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:53.400
<v Speaker 6>to a guy's place, and that she was curious where.

0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:59.280
<v Speaker 4>She ranks, oh, where she was where she ranks like

0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:00.840
<v Speaker 4>compared to other people.

0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:05.400
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I was very I was very thrown off. By

0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:08.040
<v Speaker 6>that question question a joke.

0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Totally. It was.

0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.160
<v Speaker 6>It was not a joke because I asked her to clarify.

0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:16.959
<v Speaker 6>I said, what do you mean? And she said, well,

0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:19.760
<v Speaker 6>I'm sure you've been with X amount of people.

0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:24.800
<v Speaker 4>Kind of a rude assumption or assumption person.

0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:26.679
<v Speaker 2>But you know what or it's a testament to your

0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:30.840
<v Speaker 2>experience that yeah, you could take it as a compliment.

0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.240
<v Speaker 4>What did you mean? Did you actually rank her?

0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:33.800
<v Speaker 1>God?

0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:36.440
<v Speaker 6>No, well, I told her that I'm not sure how

0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:41.040
<v Speaker 6>to answer that. It's good, and eventually I said top

0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:42.079
<v Speaker 6>three for sure.

0:12:42.320 --> 0:12:45.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's cute. That's what answer. I was like, what

0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:47.520
<v Speaker 1>a top three?

0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:50.760
<v Speaker 5>That's great, And you don't want to say number one

0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.160
<v Speaker 5>because then you're too eager and I don't believe.

0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:54.080
<v Speaker 1>It if you say number one.

0:12:57.400 --> 0:13:00.080
<v Speaker 6>But then I told her, since I answered it for

0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:02.160
<v Speaker 6>you, you have to reciprocate.

0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:03.480
<v Speaker 1>Why would you do that?

0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.000
<v Speaker 4>You WoT that she asked it to him? Oh god,

0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:08.319
<v Speaker 4>what did she say?

0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.440
<v Speaker 6>She said, you're definitely in my top five.

0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:13.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's not that.

0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:16.680
<v Speaker 4>She a little bit lower than what your.

0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:23.120
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it gets worse. I asked her out of how

0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:26.000
<v Speaker 6>many and she said maybe five?

0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:31.720
<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, so you're in the top hundred percent.

0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.880
<v Speaker 2>That changed everything for you, okay soon, because it just

0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:36.000
<v Speaker 2>changed everything for me.

0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:37.120
<v Speaker 4>What did you assume?

0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.840
<v Speaker 6>It just kind of felt it felt a little humiliating.

0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Did you tell did you laugh? Or did you say? Okay,

0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:45.280
<v Speaker 1>that's rude.

0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.280
<v Speaker 6>I didn't really know what to say because I already

0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:50.800
<v Speaker 6>felt so vulnerable. You know, we're in my bed, naked

0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:52.000
<v Speaker 6>and we've just been together.

0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:58.679
<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's like getting a participation trophy.

0:13:59.320 --> 0:13:59.560
<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:02.880
<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, maybe maybe there was some sort of

0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:05.800
<v Speaker 5>miscommunication or she didn't say quite what she meant. And

0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:08.120
<v Speaker 5>I'll give her a chance to explain herself right here,

0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:10.560
<v Speaker 5>because I need to let you know. Sierra is on

0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.959
<v Speaker 5>the other line of this call, listening, wanting to talk

0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:13.400
<v Speaker 5>to you.

0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:15.240
<v Speaker 6>Oh god, oh.

0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:18.240
<v Speaker 1>God, she's the one that should be embarrassed.

0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Hi, please tell us five is like the number one ring,

0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:25.880
<v Speaker 2>like it's the best.

0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:27.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you were going backwards.

0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:33.360
<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, She's like, I can't trying to save you.

0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:40.720
<v Speaker 7>I feel so bad. First of all, Ashwin, I'm so

0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:43.440
<v Speaker 7>so sorry. I can't believe I made you feel that way,

0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.280
<v Speaker 7>and you've been feeling that way this whole time.

0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Does that feel good?

0:14:47.600 --> 0:14:49.360
<v Speaker 4>Ashwy knowledge she did something wrong?

0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:54.760
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you.

0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:57.920
<v Speaker 4>I mean you're still top five.

0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:02.400
<v Speaker 7>Yes, we address Okay, if I if I explain a

0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:02.920
<v Speaker 7>little bit.

0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:11.040
<v Speaker 5>Yes, go into details about why.

0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:12.520
<v Speaker 2>You know what men that can take constructive criticism one

0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:12.920
<v Speaker 2>through four.

0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:16.400
<v Speaker 5>Half thing he could do better. Let's work on one

0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:17.120
<v Speaker 5>step at a time.

0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.800
<v Speaker 6>And for some reason I didn't do enough fourth place

0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:26.560
<v Speaker 6>stuff I am I am open to.

0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:27.240
<v Speaker 2>Do.

0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Not interrupt that statement, Jeffrey, not enough men make it.

0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:31.040
<v Speaker 1>You should assume you didn't.

0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.600
<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well, you know, actually maybe we shouldn't be asking

0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:39.400
<v Speaker 5>what he could change. Maybe it's better to ask you, Sierra,

0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:41.520
<v Speaker 5>why you said that to him?

0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:41.880
<v Speaker 4>Yes?

0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:44.880
<v Speaker 7>When I said, oh, you're definitely in the top five

0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:47.360
<v Speaker 7>of five, I was trying to be playful. I was

0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:49.640
<v Speaker 7>trying to make a joke. I was trying to be

0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:51.960
<v Speaker 7>kind of serd.

0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:55.280
<v Speaker 6>Yes, I was kidding.

0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:00.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was a joke.

0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:04.880
<v Speaker 1>After sound button or something we could have hit there.

0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:09.080
<v Speaker 7>He's definitely top four for sure.

0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:13.840
<v Speaker 3>Let's yeah, I think so it doesn't matter.

0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:18.280
<v Speaker 4>It's better. Yes, but you have to do anything that

0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:18.800
<v Speaker 4>was great?

0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:22.560
<v Speaker 6>Can we can we please stop talking about one number

0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:24.920
<v Speaker 6>I'm ranking?

0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:29.120
<v Speaker 7>Yes, I'm so sorry. I'm just so embarrassed. I was

0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:30.080
<v Speaker 7>trying to make a joke.

0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:33.120
<v Speaker 1>You definitely have said your apology.

0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:37.200
<v Speaker 5>I think gets the idea that you didn't mean it,

0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:39.520
<v Speaker 5>But we mean this when we say we'd like to

0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:42.480
<v Speaker 5>send you out on another date, the two of you, Ashwin,

0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.520
<v Speaker 5>if you're willing to give her one more chance, we would.

0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Don't let your pride stand in the way of this

0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:46.960
<v Speaker 1>one Ashwan.

0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:52.520
<v Speaker 6>Yeah. No, her explanation definitely definitely makes me feel better

0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:58.520
<v Speaker 6>and embarrassed that I can't take jokes about bed time.

0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:03.520
<v Speaker 6>Yeah no, I definitely would in another date.

0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.600
<v Speaker 5>All right, So congratulations. That means Sierra, you got what

0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:10.320
<v Speaker 5>you came for another date with.

0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:13.320
<v Speaker 7>Thank you so so, so so much.

0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I feel like we just had two

0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:18.480
<v Speaker 2>listeners who own their own mistakes, which was.

0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Just wild on this show. It never happens.

0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:29.800
<v Speaker 4>Bead Jeffrey in the morning. Can we all agree? Where

0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:30.600
<v Speaker 4>do I rank?

0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:33.760
<v Speaker 5>Is a question that should not come up until at

0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:36.199
<v Speaker 5>least date number three.

0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:39.360
<v Speaker 1>Let them tell you you just don't ever.

0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:41.879
<v Speaker 4>You you've never had that conversation with your husband.

0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.640
<v Speaker 1>God no, why would you have that conversation?

0:17:46.119 --> 0:17:48.240
<v Speaker 6>You just let someone tell you that was the best,

0:17:48.440 --> 0:17:50.200
<v Speaker 6>that was great, or you just don't.

0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Bring it up conversation.

0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:57.240
<v Speaker 3>It's a funny joke, was actually really good.

0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:00.439
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if she really was joking. It was

0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:03.040
<v Speaker 4>the right thing to say in that moment, in order

0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:03.680
<v Speaker 4>to say.

0:18:03.680 --> 0:18:05.760
<v Speaker 1>Well, finally, finally, the right thing.

0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:08.960
<v Speaker 5>To say exactly, And I fully expect to hear from

0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:11.320
<v Speaker 5>both of them when we do an update day.

0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:13.800
<v Speaker 4>I think, yeah, we're.

0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:16.600
<v Speaker 5>Hopefully by then he's climbed the rankings into her top three.

0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:20.120
<v Speaker 4>But what she hasn't added, like ten more.

0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:24.840
<v Speaker 1>Well, we know what type of relationship they're going.

0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:27.240
<v Speaker 4>To be, right, That's also true.

0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:30.199
<v Speaker 5>I can't say we are open to our listeners ranking

0:18:30.280 --> 0:18:33.720
<v Speaker 5>us on our podcast. I hope we're in the top five,

0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:38.560
<v Speaker 5>top ten, we'll take top thirty. Even as long as

0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.080
<v Speaker 5>we're ahead of j LD, than we are a big

0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:42.359
<v Speaker 5>win in our books.

0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:43.760
<v Speaker 4>You just lie and say we don't even have a

0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:47.840
<v Speaker 4>list Yeah this before go and find us wherever you

0:18:47.880 --> 0:18:50.240
<v Speaker 4>get your podcast. We're up Abroke and Jeffrey