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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to your brand new Second Date podcast, and we

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Speaker 2: got one for you today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we love you here.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for subscribing and sticking along with us.

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Speaker 2: In fact, we love your comments so much. We always

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Speaker 2: like to start the show by reading one we do.

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Speaker 3: And Terry Fowler from a Reno, Nevada said, I've been

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Speaker 3: listening for two years now daily and listener, I just

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Speaker 3: wanted to say my dog Lee, I just had nine

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Speaker 3: puppies this morning.

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Speaker 4: I'm so grateful. Name one after one of the members

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Speaker 4: of the show.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, we do.

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Speaker 1: Everybody on the show good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you don't want to waste like all those names.

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Speaker 4: You choose one.

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Speaker 1: You just want Jose one Jose.

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Speaker 4: Literally, no one wants the name of all.

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Speaker 2: Hey. That congratulations. I'd be in a new Would that be

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Speaker 2: a doggy grandma? Is that how that works? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well, we love it, I guess Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And uh, hey, I hope all the little puppies enjoy

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Speaker 2: this episode of your second Day podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it starts right now.

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Speaker 4: Second Date up Date.

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Speaker 5: When your date plans change at the very last second,

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Speaker 5: not by your choice, but because of like an unforeseen

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Speaker 5: obstacle with the venue, like the baseball game got rained out.

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Speaker 4: The KFC ran out of Chicken. That doesn't happen. What's

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Speaker 4: your movie?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 4: How do you respond?

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Speaker 5: You could instantly give up right there and say, no,

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Speaker 5: I'm not doing this. I'll FaceTime you from my bubble bath,

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Speaker 5: but I don't pivot on the fly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, be flexible, Jeff, be spontaneous.

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Speaker 4: That is the other option.

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Speaker 5: Shake it up, do something new, And apparently that's what

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Speaker 5: one of our listeners, Sierra, had to do recently on

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Speaker 5: her date. And I'm curious what that looked like. So Sierra,

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Speaker 5: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Hi.

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Speaker 1: You sound like go with a flow type of person.

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Speaker 4: I sound like a baseball the rain kind of lady. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's good.

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Speaker 5: Sorry to hear that your date plans crash, But tell

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Speaker 5: us what happened.

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Speaker 7: So I met this guy, Ashwyn on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he sounds fancy and rich. His name is Ashwyn.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how to spell that.

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Speaker 7: Yes, not gonna lie. The name intrigued me. But what

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Speaker 7: I really liked the most was he was funny, which

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Speaker 7: is so important, but he was also playful, like he

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Speaker 7: was kind of saucy. But not disrespectful, you.

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Speaker 4: Know what I mean a little bit but like totally joking. Yes,

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Speaker 4: like talking to your grandpa.

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Speaker 5: But sixty years ago, everybody has a grumpy grandpa who

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Speaker 5: likes to poke fun at them, right, grumpy?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, it's like he's not an old man.

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Speaker 6: He's flirty.

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Speaker 4: His name is Ashwyn. He sounds like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you got us there, Jeff, But the rests.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well we all have different images of what Ashwyn is.

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Speaker 4: But what was the plan for the date?

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Speaker 7: Well, you know, I'm happy to say that wasn't my

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Speaker 7: first impression. I liked him. I liked him enough to

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Speaker 7: which obviously is fine with me. Like he had made

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a rooftop bar. That's like not cool.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you like you put him in

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so you sound like you're excited to get

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Speaker 7: Oh I was so excited. I love this kind of thing.

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Speaker 7: And he seemed exactly like his profile. He was super cute,

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Speaker 7: for like some kind of a cryptocurrency event.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, the crypto thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, people who could afford to rent out

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Speaker 2: I just picture a bunch of dudes with receding hairlines.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, telling each other the same thing popper vests.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, careful, you're turning a Lexus on. Oh no, but

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Speaker 5: that's what a bummer. Your whole playing for the night

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean it was really disappointing, and I could

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Speaker 4: Shows you he was excited for the day too. So

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Speaker 7: So I just said, screw it, let's take a walk.

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Speaker 7: I'm not wearing the greatest shoes for it, but I

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Speaker 7: So we walked down the street and we walked and

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Speaker 7: up at this old like it was just like a diner,

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Speaker 7: It looked like it had just been there for like

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Speaker 4: Waffle house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the grease trap hasn't been kun in at least

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Speaker 7: But that's what makes the fries taste so good.

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Speaker 5: the location of the day, But what about the bond,

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Speaker 5: the connection between you and Ashwyd Did that change once

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Speaker 5: you ended up at the crappy diner?

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Speaker 7: No, I mean it was honestly, it was kind of perfect.

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Speaker 7: Like we were sitting there eating cheese fries and drinking

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 7: And probably because the plans had changed and we were

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Speaker 2: That's such a good sign for anyone. If you can

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Speaker 2: that means that you actually have a real connection.

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Speaker 7: Yes, and after our plans felt through, you know, like

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Speaker 7: it just felt so good, It felt so comfortable talking

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, how could he not become.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, how did this night end?

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Speaker 7: Well? Okay, so one thing led to another. He kissed

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Speaker 5: Really post chili cheese fries, you guys went back to

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Speaker 7: Hey, I'm telling you I felt very comfortable with him,

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Speaker 1: But what did he say? Was he there when you

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: No, he was just his sweet, playful SELFI give me

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't even awkward the next morning, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No, not at all.

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Speaker 5: It makes me wonder if it was like one of

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Speaker 2: He doesn't sound like a guy that is like that, though, Jeff,

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Speaker 2: this sounds like they never broken until they But it

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Speaker 2: sounds like they were just vibing on a deeper level

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Speaker 2: in they could have gone anywhere and just gone and

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Speaker 4: Sounds exactly like what they did.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they would to a diner, they talked for hours,

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Speaker 2: they walked the city like that is a totally different thing.

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Speaker 5: Maybe he knew that crypto event was happening and this

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Speaker 4: At me, Look how spontaneous I could be. Let's go

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Speaker 4: back to my class.

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Speaker 1: You are so cynical against men right now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm just telling you this. I've heard guys do

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Speaker 5: stuff like this and sometimes even worse.

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Speaker 2: I know, I still want to think for the best, Jeff,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: All right, Well you can be naive if you want,

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Speaker 5: but let's call Ashwin and we'll see what he has

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Speaker 4: With your second date update right after this hold on

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Speaker 4: second date update. Wow, another first date blown.

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Speaker 5: Up by a pod of crypto bros. Every single week

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Speaker 5: we deal with this because our listener, Sierra was supposed

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Speaker 5: to meet a guy named Ashwin at a rooftop bar,

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Speaker 5: but of course, when they arrived, the entire venue had

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Speaker 4: Whatever they like to talk about. Look at these candlesticks popping.

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Speaker 4: All right, I've done a little training. You don't even

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Speaker 1: No wonder, I don't enjoy any of it.

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Speaker 5: Here's the thing. Sierra and Ashwin didn't let that kill

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Speaker 5: their night. They actually swung it into a really fun

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Speaker 1: Sounds so sweet.

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Speaker 5: It did, until Ashwyn is suddenly not calling her back.

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Speaker 1: Dude, he kissed her on the nose for goodness sake.

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Speaker 5: Like that is a romantic.

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Speaker 2: Moyah, Like that's a I really.

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Speaker 1: Like you move?

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Speaker 7: Is there another way to read that?

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Speaker 1: See?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so sweet, and you've reached out to him,

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Speaker 1: You're just waiting to hear from him.

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Speaker 7: This was what was so weird. We texted a little

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Speaker 4: Even through texts. Yeah, you feel that energy ship for sure.

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Speaker 1: I hope it's one of those where he's just scared

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Speaker 5: It's not stupid, but sometimes, like you had said, I'll

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Speaker 5: do no challenge, like.

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Speaker 6: If it's too easy, and everything is great.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes people don't like to be in that space. I

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Speaker 5: We'll see which category Ashwin falls into if we're able

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Speaker 5: to get him on the phone.

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Speaker 4: Number right now, perfect categories. Yeah, yeah, we're praying for

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Speaker 4: a Disney ending.

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Speaker 1: Getting her another nose kiss, jeff.

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Speaker 4: What a promise. So here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey is this Ashwin?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Hey, man, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show

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Speaker 5: right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey, good morning, Welcome to the show. Ashwin. Hi, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you might be busy or something right now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope you have a second to talk to

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Speaker 5: us because we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

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Speaker 6: Sure this is weird, Okay, Yeah, you.

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Speaker 4: Give him a lot of credit.

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Speaker 5: So the reason that we're calling is because you went

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Speaker 5: out on a date recently with a listener to our show,

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Speaker 5: a woman named Sierra.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, you mean he lost a nice.

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Speaker 5: So here's the thing, Sierra. We talked to her and

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Speaker 1: The diner sounded so cute.

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Speaker 4: It sounded pretty good.

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Speaker 5: Despite all the obstacles that came up, you two were

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Speaker 4: Would you agree with that?

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Speaker 6: I mean, we we did. It was probably one of

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Speaker 4: What heck, bro, why aren't you call it?

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Speaker 5: Or we're all over here waiting to find like this

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so sweet.

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Speaker 5: Sorry to be so emotional about it, but it's just that,

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Speaker 5: you know, Sierra is really confused.

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Speaker 6: It's just kind of embarrassing for you or for Sierra.

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Speaker 6: For me.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, if it's too much to share.

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Speaker 4: You should do it anyway, because.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to pressure anybody, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, and Sierra really deserves to know, wouldn't she say?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, I know she is. She's really awesome. This

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, if you're willing to open up to us,

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Speaker 6: We have this amazing, amazing night. And she told me

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Speaker 4: She ranks, oh, where she was where she ranks like

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I was very I was very thrown off. By

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Speaker 6: that question question a joke.

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Speaker 1: Totally. It was.

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Speaker 6: It was not a joke because I asked her to clarify.

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Speaker 6: I said, what do you mean? And she said, well,

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Speaker 6: I'm sure you've been with X amount of people.

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Speaker 4: Kind of a rude assumption or assumption person.

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Speaker 2: But you know what or it's a testament to your

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Speaker 4: What did you mean? Did you actually rank her?

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Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 6: No, well, I told her that I'm not sure how

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Speaker 6: to answer that. It's good, and eventually I said top

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Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. That's what answer. I was like, what

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Speaker 5: That's great, And you don't want to say number one

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Speaker 6: But then I told her, since I answered it for

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Speaker 1: Why would you do that?

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Speaker 4: You WoT that she asked it to him? Oh god,

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Speaker 4: what did she say?

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Speaker 6: She said, you're definitely in my top five.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's not that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it gets worse. I asked her out of how

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Speaker 2: That changed everything for you, okay soon, because it just

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Speaker 4: What did you assume?

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Speaker 6: It just kind of felt it felt a little humiliating.

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Speaker 1: Did you tell did you laugh? Or did you say? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's rude.

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Speaker 6: I didn't really know what to say because I already

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Speaker 6: and we've just been together.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's like getting a participation trophy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, maybe maybe there was some sort of

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Speaker 5: I'll give her a chance to explain herself right here,

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Speaker 5: because I need to let you know. Sierra is on

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Speaker 5: the other line of this call, listening, wanting to talk

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Speaker 5: to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh god, oh.

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Speaker 1: God, she's the one that should be embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: Hi, please tell us five is like the number one ring,

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Speaker 2: like it's the best.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were going backwards.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, She's like, I can't trying to save you.

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Speaker 7: I feel so bad. First of all, Ashwin, I'm so

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Speaker 7: so sorry. I can't believe I made you feel that way,

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Speaker 7: and you've been feeling that way this whole time.

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Speaker 1: Does that feel good?

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Speaker 4: Ashwy knowledge she did something wrong?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I mean you're still top five.

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Speaker 7: Yes, we address Okay, if I if I explain a

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Speaker 5: Yes, go into details about why.

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Speaker 2: You know what men that can take constructive criticism one

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Speaker 5: Half thing he could do better. Let's work on one

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Speaker 6: And for some reason I didn't do enough fourth place

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Speaker 2: Do.

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Speaker 1: Not interrupt that statement, Jeffrey, not enough men make it.

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Speaker 1: You should assume you didn't.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, you know, actually maybe we shouldn't be asking

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Speaker 5: why you said that to him?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 7: When I said, oh, you're definitely in the top five

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Speaker 7: of five, I was trying to be playful. I was

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Speaker 6: Yes, I was kidding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a joke.

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Speaker 7: He's definitely top four for sure.

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Speaker 3: Let's yeah, I think so it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: It's better. Yes, but you have to do anything that

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Speaker 6: Can we can we please stop talking about one number

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Speaker 6: I'm ranking?

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Speaker 7: Yes, I'm so sorry. I'm just so embarrassed. I was

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Speaker 5: But we mean this when we say we'd like to

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Speaker 5: if you're willing to give her one more chance, we would.

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Speaker 1: Don't let your pride stand in the way of this

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Speaker 1: one Ashwan.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. No, her explanation definitely definitely makes me feel better

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Speaker 6: Yeah no, I definitely would in another date.

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Speaker 5: All right, So congratulations. That means Sierra, you got what

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Speaker 7: Thank you so so, so so much.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like we just had two

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Speaker 1: Just wild on this show. It never happens.

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Speaker 4: Bead Jeffrey in the morning. Can we all agree? Where

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Speaker 4: do I rank?

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Speaker 5: Is a question that should not come up until at

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Speaker 5: least date number three.

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Speaker 1: Let them tell you you just don't ever.

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Speaker 4: You you've never had that conversation with your husband.

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Speaker 1: God no, why would you have that conversation?

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Speaker 6: You just let someone tell you that was the best,

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Speaker 6: that was great, or you just don't.

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Speaker 1: Bring it up conversation.

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Speaker 3: It's a funny joke, was actually really good.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if she really was joking. It was

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Speaker 1: Well, finally, finally, the right thing.

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Speaker 5: To say exactly, And I fully expect to hear from

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Speaker 4: I think, yeah, we're.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully by then he's climbed the rankings into her top three.

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Speaker 4: But what she hasn't added, like ten more.

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Speaker 1: Well, we know what type of relationship they're going.

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Speaker 4: To be, right, That's also true.

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Speaker 5: I can't say we are open to our listeners ranking

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Speaker 5: us on our podcast. I hope we're in the top five,

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Speaker 5: top ten, we'll take top thirty. Even as long as

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Speaker 5: we're ahead of j LD, than we are a big

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Speaker 4: You just lie and say we don't even have a

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Speaker 4: list Yeah this before go and find us wherever you

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Speaker 4: get your podcast. We're up Abroke and Jeffrey