1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Well, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARVFM dot com 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air, 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here, 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: right now, and you never know it could be yours. 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 2: So right us, right us, buckle up and hold on tight. 8 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 2: We gote it for you here. It is a Strawberry. 9 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: Letter, Thank you for you. Subject. My cousin owns the 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: car wash. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty nine year 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: old hopeless romantic and I got married too quickly to 12 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: a man that I barely knew. Now all of my 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: family is in my business, and I'm so disappointed in myself. 14 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: I met a man that's from another city, and after 15 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: we dated for a few months, he came to visit 16 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: me and never left. He quickly got a great job 17 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: and he got settled in. He has a friend in town, 18 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: so he's usually hanging out with him or he's at work. 19 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: I never suspected he was cheating on me until three 20 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: days ago when I found out that he's had sex 21 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: in his car. My cousin owns a car wash and 22 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: he specializes in wheels and detailing leather seats. My husband's 23 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: escalade is his pride and joy, so he gets it 24 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: washed often. I did not know he was going all 25 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: the way across town to get his car washed until 26 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,199 Speaker 1: I got a call from my cousin's wife. She said, 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: my husband has brought his truck to the car wash 28 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: a few times, and he's always got interesting stains and 29 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: pieces of weeds all over the truck. My cousin figured 30 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: out that it's my husband after he saw a business 31 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: card in the truck. See, my cousin wasn't invited to 32 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: my wedding because he is on the ghetto side of 33 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: my family, so he didn't know my husband. I just 34 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: hate that. Before my cousin's wife called me, she called 35 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: my mom and told her that my husband has been 36 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: having sex in his truck and getting it cleaned. Afterwards, 37 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: I asked my husband about the rumor, and he threatened 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: to fight my cousin and out him as a liar 39 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: and a bad businessman. I assured him that my cousin 40 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: is not the one to be played with like that. 41 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: If my husband is not cheating. Why would he be 42 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: so upset. I don't see my cousin hating on my 43 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: husband for no reason since my family knows can my 44 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: marriage survive this? Well, you really don't have much of 45 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: a marriage to survive anything. You know, you guys don't 46 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: even spend a lot of time together. You said he's 47 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: over at his friend's house or he's over at work. 48 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: It sounds like your man is cheating and everyone knows it. 49 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: Your family is messy, and you are right. Your cousin's 50 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: wife didn't have to bless the business to your mom. 51 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: But you said yourself that you barely know this man. 52 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: I mean, you barely knew him when you married him. 53 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: He's probably doing what he normally did when he was 54 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: single in that other town, but you didn't know him then, 55 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: so you don't have anything to compare his behavior to. 56 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: And when you asked him about it, he didn't deny it. 57 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: He didn't say absolutely not, no, he didn't blah blah 58 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, didn't even try to lie. He just 59 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: didn't deny it and said he was going to give 60 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: your cousin and beat down. It looks like your husband 61 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: is cheating, not if he's cheating, like you wrote in 62 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: a letter. Steve, that's what you need to wrap your 63 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: mind around. Your marriage is in trouble, and I don't 64 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: see how you're going to get past this one. Let's 65 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: see what kind of lies we can come up with 66 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: for this one, Steve. 67 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 3: Well, I don't think it's really got to be no lies, 68 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 3: because opou should analyze this letter properly. 69 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 2: I mean, let's go through this. 70 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: It's circumpedience. 71 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: Times has this circumstance. See we deal with circumstance. Okay, 72 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 3: watch how we do this. This woman says that I'm 73 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,119 Speaker 3: a twenty nine year old hopeless role manic. I got 74 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 3: married too quickly to a man that I barely knew. Now, 75 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: I don't know if this is the definition of a 76 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 3: hopeless romantic. This is not what this is. I think 77 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: this is called crazy. This may just be crazy. He 78 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 3: might not have nothing to do with you being a 79 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 3: hopeless romantic at all, because you married a man you 80 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: didn't hardly know what what what they got to do 81 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: with it. And I'm so disappointed in myself. Now, all 82 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: your family's in your business. You say, you say you 83 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 3: met this man from another city. Y'all dated a few months, 84 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 3: came to visit me and never left. That didn't sound 85 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 3: that didn't seem strange to you. How can a man 86 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 3: come from another city visit you and never go back 87 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 3: where he work, where he lived, where his house? 88 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 2: What's what's his least payment? What? What's it? He ain't 89 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 2: got no least, no way? What how you just go. 90 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: Visit and then don't go back. That's not being a 91 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 3: hopeless romantic. Something's wrong with this. He quickly got a 92 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: great job, okay, settled in, He got a friend in town. 93 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 2: He usually hanging out with him or he's at work. 94 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 3: Then the lady said, I never suspected he was cheating 95 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 3: on me until three days ago. Now here's what this 96 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 3: whole letter is about. My cousin owns the car wash. 97 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 3: And then I don't know why she threw this in here. 98 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 3: He specializes in wheels and detail and. 99 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 2: Leather seats, so he got a car washed. 100 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: Everybody got a car wash, wiping seats and doing wheels. 101 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 3: Everybody with a car wash. Anyway, My husband's escalade is 102 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 3: his pride and joy, so he gets it washed off. 103 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 3: Here's another precarious line. I did not know he was 104 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 3: going all the way across town to get his car washed. 105 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 3: What difference do that make where he get his car washed? 106 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 2: What? Maybe it's because it's a great car wash. 107 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 3: Remember your cousin, specially life has in wheels. 108 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 2: I love to see he went over there for a specialty. 109 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 3: And all of this was going good until you got 110 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: a call from your cousin's wife. When we come back, 111 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 3: I will tell you what's wrong with this whole letter. 112 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: All right, Steve? 113 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: All right? Hang on for part two of Steve's response, 114 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour today 115 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject my cousin owns the car wash. We'll 116 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. It's time to 117 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: talk about life insurance. It's one of those things that 118 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: everyone should have, and Globe Life makes it easy with 119 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: no medical exam, just a simple application and coverage options 120 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: up to one hundred thousand dollars. 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If a man is accused of cheating, if 130 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 3: a man has circumstantial evidence about cheating, then my partner 131 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 3: in crime. 132 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 2: Who we are supposed to give our. 133 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 3: Own opinions and separate, looks at this ninety eight percent 134 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: of the time gonna ride his ass to the police 135 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: station and locked his ass. 136 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 2: Up for cheap. 137 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: Absolutely, and in this letter there was no difference. But 138 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 3: I have several problems with this letter, all right. So 139 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 3: after she calls herself a romantic, hopeless romantic, meets this 140 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 3: guy she barely news. Guy believes town one time, comes 141 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 3: to visit her and never goes back. 142 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: That's odd. He gets a job quickly settles in. 143 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 3: She's embarrassed by this because now she met him, she 144 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 3: married a man she hardly knew, her family all up 145 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 3: in the business, and so everything is going right, and 146 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 3: she had no suspicions of him cheating until three days 147 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 3: ago when he took his car to a car wash 148 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 3: that specializes in wheels and leather seats. 149 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: Okay, we got that right. 150 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 3: Now, she gets a call from her cousin's wife. Now 151 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 3: this is where the letter takes a turn. She said 152 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 3: that my husband bought his truck to the car wash 153 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 3: a few times, and he's always got interesting stains and 154 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 3: pieces of weave all over the truck. This is what 155 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 3: your cousin's wife said. You've never seen the weave in 156 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 3: the truck, and you've never seen any stains. 157 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 2: Okay, that's just a fact. 158 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: So we're going based on what your cousin's wife told you. 159 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: Now listen to this. My cousin figured out. 160 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 3: That it's my husband's after he saw a business card 161 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 3: in the truck. 162 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: Now, and then here we go. 163 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 3: See, my cousin wasn't invited to my wedding because he's 164 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 3: on the ghetto side of my family, so he didn't 165 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 3: know my husband. 166 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 2: This is very important information. 167 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 3: She didn't invite that side of the family because they ghetto. Okay, 168 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 3: then she says, I just hate that before my cousin's 169 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 3: wife called me, she called my mom and told her 170 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 3: that my husband has been having sex in his truck 171 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 3: and getting it cleaned afterwards. 172 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 2: Okay, how she know that, y'all. 173 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: I mean, really, the stains and the weave, the stains 174 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: in the. 175 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 3: Weave that the wife ain't never seen. You just said 176 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 3: they ghetto. You ain't invite him to the wedding. Now 177 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 3: I'm gonna show you something else in here that gets 178 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 3: a little crazy. 179 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: So that's pay that because they didn't come from to 180 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: the wedding, they didn't get no. 181 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 2: Listen to this. 182 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 3: I asked my husband about the rumor, and he threatened 183 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 3: to fight my cousin and out him as a liar 184 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 3: and a bad businessman, as he should. I assured him 185 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 3: that my cousin is not the one to be played 186 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 3: with like that. Now this is good information because you 187 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 3: just said you didn't invite your husband to the wedding 188 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 3: because he ghetto. 189 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: To the wedding because he ghetto. 190 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 3: Okay, And so now this is a fair water. If 191 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 3: you go over there and fight the dude that on 192 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 3: the car washing, go get your ass whooped. That's that's 193 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 3: what this is about. Get your ass whooped. But now 194 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 3: she's saying, if he didn't cheat, why is he doing this? 195 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 3: But I assured him that my cousin is not the 196 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 3: one to be played with. Why would he be so upset. 197 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 3: I don't see my husband hating. I don't see my 198 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 3: cousin hating on my husband for no reason since my 199 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 3: family knows, can my marriage survive this? 200 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 4: Now? 201 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 2: I think you know that your family on that side 202 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: is messy. 203 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 3: Versy and this word has speculated they had some stains 204 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 3: and weave in the truck that you've never seen. And 205 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 3: now you ain't invite us to the wedding, so you 206 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 3: must thank you all that in a bag of chips. 207 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 3: So now let me show you that you ain't all that. 208 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell your mama he was having sex 209 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 3: in the truck. How you know that what stains? 210 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: But see, just because she didn't see it, does that 211 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: mean that it didn't happen? 212 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 2: But so then you're going to end your marriage based 213 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: on that. 214 00:11:53,360 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: She has what stains Shirley James, that the cousin saw 215 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: in the back seat. 216 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 2: Yeah she didn't. 217 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: She didn't specify because she mes, Yeah, they're messy. 218 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: But see, hold up though, let me ask you something. 219 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 3: So does the cousin's wife work at the car. 220 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: Washing Well it sounds like she does. 221 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, so if she ain't washing cars, how she knows 222 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 3: what's in the car. 223 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 2: No doubt if he owned the cars car washed. His 224 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: wife is out there washing cars. 225 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 3: I doubt that this reeks of hate for not being 226 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 3: invited to the web that see y'all ruining your Well, Look, 227 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 3: you married the man too soon. The man might be cheating, 228 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 3: but you gona hate it on this speculation. You should 229 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 3: have ended it on something that you knew and not 230 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 3: on hearsay. And if you if you took this to court, 231 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 3: you would lose. I just want to tell you that 232 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 3: because you have no evidence. You ain't seen no pictures 233 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 3: of it, you ain't went through his phone, you ain't 234 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 3: got no text messages. You getting a DNA report off 235 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 3: of forensic science. Hell for that, ain't even a forensic scientist. 236 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 3: I don't think might not be cheating at all. 237 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 2: Sorry, Shure, and he might be. 238 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: Sorry Steve. 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