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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. I want everyone in studio and

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Speaker 1: driving to close their eyes right now.

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Speaker 2: Jesse.

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Speaker 1: Now, if you're driving, just think out of all the

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Speaker 1: places in the world, where would be the worst to

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Speaker 1: have a first date.

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Speaker 2: You're taking me somewhere nice?

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Speaker 1: Maybe next to an active volcano.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pretty bad, kind of romantic.

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Speaker 1: Inside of an off brand Hooters off best called Alley's,

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Speaker 1: or maybe the radioactive playground at Chernobyl.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, my date has three eyeballs if it's swing

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Speaker 3: moved by itself and one of our listeners says he

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Speaker 3: wishes he could have had his first date somewhere else,

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Speaker 3: but unfortunately he didn't really have a choice, and now

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Speaker 3: he needs our help.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk to Steve about it. Steve, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, thanks you guys for having me.

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Speaker 5: God.

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Speaker 2: I love when dates go wrong and people put blame

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Speaker 2: on something bigger than themselves. I appreciate that. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: Seat.

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Speaker 1: What was the name of the the woman that you

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Speaker 1: went out with?

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Speaker 4: I went out with Julie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm always just assuming these days that you met

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Speaker 4: We did, Yeah, we we matched about two months ago,

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Speaker 4: but our schedules just wouldn't match you up, okay, coming up?

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Speaker 4: And we finally settled on a date and suddenly the

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Speaker 4: day before I got dramatically sick.

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Speaker 2: No, no, did it feels like the universe is telling

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Right right, but like so bad I ended up in

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, are you okay? Now you're okay?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Now okay, you said dramatically were you acting?

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's the thing. From Julie's standpoint, it'd be

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Speaker 2: hard to believe that after a few months of like.

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Speaker 1: And then like, now I'm in the hospital.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, so this is what happens. I messengered the

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Speaker 4: night before to cancel and I kind of explained why,

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Speaker 4: and her response was, well, I'll come visit you.

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Speaker 2: What she was trying to call your bluff.

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Speaker 4: That might have been part of it, obviously, like I

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Speaker 4: wasn't bluffing, But all I was thinking is like, this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, did you agree to have her come visit you?

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Speaker 4: I told her no, let's please do another day. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but She's like, I don't care. I want to come

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Speaker 1: Oh. Now I'm thinking what Alexis said, Like she doesn't believe.

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Speaker 2: You that you sorry to hang out with someone sick you.

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Speaker 1: Would want to do an So did she show up?

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Speaker 4: She showed up?

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Speaker 2: What did you do to prep for that? You're like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you're not showered?

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Speaker 1: That's what I would do. I want to get the fancy,

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Speaker 2: Extra pudding or whatever. I mean, what was that moment

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Speaker 4: I mean, part of it was like, oh, this is cool,

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Speaker 1: And it sucks if you ever get excited on the date,

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Speaker 1: like you can't hide it because the heart monitor is

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Speaker 6: B b b by, she's beautiful and it's like your

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Speaker 1: Are very thin? Disgusting? I'm sorry about that. How did

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Speaker 4: So? I mean it was it was nice, It was sweet.

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Speaker 4: She showed up with a gift. It was a book

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Speaker 4: of like a hundred unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: Facts because she didn't believe that you were.

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Speaker 5: Good.

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Speaker 1: Liked that's a nice gesture.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, something to help pass the time in that we

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Speaker 4: split a hospital meal together in my room.

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Speaker 2: Okay, insurance. I mean, were you able to hold a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we you know, we were like she

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Speaker 2: So that probably was kind of awkward. How long did

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Speaker 4: I mean it was a couple of hours? Wow, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: she told them it was actually our first date. The

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Speaker 4: nurses then like went and took some flowers from like

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Speaker 1: Okay, it has the condolence's note still on it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So was there any like, I mean besides them giving

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Speaker 4: So I thought we had a good time, and I

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Speaker 4: thought the experience like kind of bonded us very unique

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Speaker 4: you know for sure, and that like one hundred percent

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Speaker 4: we would go out again. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if she's willing to come and visit you

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Speaker 1: on a first date while your bedridden in the hospital,

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Speaker 1: that speaks volumes about like where she thinks this relationship could.

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Speaker 2: Go wild to me to think that you haven't been

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Speaker 2: in contact or gotten another date with her, And how.

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Speaker 1: Could she complain like, oh, he wasn't that funny? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you were in the hospital.

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Speaker 5: What did she say?

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Speaker 1: How long ago was that?

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Speaker 4: So that was it was a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, And we've.

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Speaker 4: Been texting up until this past week and now she's

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Speaker 4: like hardly responding at all. Huh, And like I'm out

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Speaker 4: of the hospital. I was hoping to see her for

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Speaker 4: a normal date And honestly, I just don't know what

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Speaker 4: is maybe I really did look like I was in

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Speaker 2: That's understandable. And you were texting after if.

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Speaker 1: You take a really cold person to come into a

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Speaker 1: with whatever you had, and now she's in the hospital,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do your second date.

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Speaker 2: There have options for him, and none of them are

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Speaker 2: your fault so far.

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Speaker 1: That's so we're going to come back. We're going to

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Speaker 1: call Julie for you and try and get you your

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Speaker 4: All right, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Hold on second date update. I'm just super glad that

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Speaker 1: Steve pulled through and made it all Steve, and we

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Speaker 1: got to get him back. Get I'm here, ready, clear, clear,

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Speaker 1: because your timing is really off on this doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: We saved them. Second day back up and running with

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Speaker 1: our listener Steve, who is fully alive and his first

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Speaker 1: date happened in his own hospital bed. But Steve matched

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Speaker 1: with Julie a couple months before this. They had to

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Speaker 1: keep pushing back their date because their schedules weren't matching up,

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Speaker 1: and the night before they were due to meet each other,

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Speaker 1: to the hospital.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so she just wout him back down.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to visit you there, and showed up, brought

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Speaker 1: a book for him to read. They shared a meal.

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Speaker 2: Together, even told the nurses that it was their first date, so.

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Speaker 1: They thought that was super cute, and stole some flowers

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Speaker 2: Them, don't it's at that point.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, it doesn't belong to anybody. Yeah, but now

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Speaker 1: Steve is better, he is out of the hospital. Except

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Speaker 1: he's not getting a call back from Julie anymore.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she only liked sick boys.

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Speaker 1: You know, have you ever thought of that, Steve?

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Speaker 4: You know that must be what it is. I better

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Speaker 4: throw myself in front.

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Speaker 5: Of the car.

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Speaker 2: You have too much color in your cheeks.

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Speaker 1: Like, Hey, guys, so did you meet any like super

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Speaker 1: sick hot dudes in there? Maybe you need to work

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Speaker 1: on your sniffles and your coughs a little bit before

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Speaker 1: we reach out. That's a theory.

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Speaker 2: I bet there's a I bet there's a good reason

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Speaker 2: she's not calling you back.

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Speaker 7: We can fix this, I feel like, or, if not

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Speaker 7: a good reason, at least a reason whatever it is,

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Speaker 7: when you find out, let's call her right now.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, we're looking to talk with Julie.

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Speaker 5: Yes, this is Julie.

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Speaker 1: Hey Julie. You're on a radio show right now called

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Julie, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah, what's this about?

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Speaker 1: This is about a segment we do called a second

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Speaker 1: date update a really saucy sexy segment. I should add

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Speaker 1: I don't know how it was.

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Speaker 2: For you, though, probably not, probably not in her case.

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Speaker 1: We heard a little bit about a date that you

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Speaker 1: went on recently with a guy named Steve. Okay, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you know from the hospital Steve.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I remember.

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Speaker 8: Okay, can we just ask did you show up to

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Speaker 8: the hospital because you were trying to call him out

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Speaker 8: like you thought that he was faking.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, oh no, I mean you're just like a genuinely

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Speaker 5: I mean I was a little bit worried about him

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Speaker 5: because we had become friends talking online.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you had a couple of months of like

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Speaker 1: chemistry and that's good. So what did you think of

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Speaker 1: Steve when you saw him?

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Speaker 7: I r L I mean that, yeah, the interaction with

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Speaker 7: with old Steve over there.

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Speaker 5: I mean I was, I was liking him.

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Speaker 2: It's good.

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Speaker 5: I just I don't know if it's going to work out.

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Speaker 5: And uh, it has nothing to do with him.

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Speaker 2: So it has nothing to do with him. What does

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Speaker 2: it have to do with sorry to pry, Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: mean he's curious.

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Speaker 5: I had a friendly ghost appear like a Casper situation.

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Speaker 1: Haunting, No Casper situation.

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Speaker 5: It's like when there's a guy that you've been seeing,

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Speaker 5: we think you have future plans with suddenly ghosts and

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Speaker 5: stop talking to you. And then he's on your d

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Speaker 5: ms on Instagram and then you know he likes your stories,

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Speaker 5: but like he doesn't say anything to you, and why

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Speaker 5: would you.

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Speaker 2: Put any energy into that.

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Speaker 8: I mean, obviously those guys always come back around as

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Speaker 8: they can like sniff out that you have somebody interested

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Speaker 8: in you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook, speaking from personal experience, he's definitely gone back.

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Speaker 1: They're the guys haunted.

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Speaker 8: Let me tell you, They're the guys that only want

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Speaker 8: you when they can't have you.

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Speaker 5: Well, I thought he was really cool and we dated

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Speaker 1: And you're still dating this guy and love his coffee.

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Speaker 1: That's why she's not dating him. He's just like floating

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Speaker 2: So you're you're just putting Yeah, you're putting Steve off

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I know that sounds kind of rude, but if you

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Speaker 1: So he's this other guy. He's just like liking your

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Speaker 5: No, he just wants me to know that he sees me.

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Speaker 2: No, this guy sucks. You need to run from this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to get some backup on this too.

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Speaker 1: And we actually do have like a friendly ghost who's

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Speaker 2: Oh, he's a real person.

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Speaker 1: What what? Yeah, the way the segment works is we

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Speaker 1: waiting to jump in. Yeah, I mean, little scared Steve

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Speaker 4: I am so confused right now. So you're basically ghosting

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Speaker 3: It's a.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess that's one way to put it.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I mean that is how you put it.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I did not mean to hurt your feelings, but

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Speaker 5: I'm in a weird situation and I don't know what

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you don't dislike me. You actually like me though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I think you're a good person.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing, Julius, but you don't distribute coffee

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Speaker 8: So you haven't seen and hung out with Steve outside

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Speaker 8: of a hospital bed. I mean, if you can walk

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Speaker 5: Like I said before, this isn't really about Steve. This

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of waiting around to see how it plays out.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you're dealing with a ghost problem. And it's

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Speaker 1: not even the dead lady from the hospital whose flowers

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Speaker 1: ghost who's been looming around. There's a lot of.

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Speaker 2: Ghosts in the second it's haunted.

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Speaker 4: I'm just wondering, like if I was to hang around

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Speaker 5: No, ew, No, that's creepy.

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Speaker 4: What is literally the difference between me doing it and

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Speaker 5: Well, he's my ex, Like you and I haven't been

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Speaker 5: anything real enough for you to friendly ghost me, Like

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Speaker 5: you just be a creepy ghost.

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Speaker 1: Wants to be creepy ghosts.

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Speaker 4: What if I ended up in the hospital again, who's

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Speaker 2: Strategy? Come on, Steve, is funny.

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Speaker 1: You could bring the guy with the coffee business over

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep thinking the only time the coffee guy's

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a perfect place to get really sad.

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Speaker 8: I just gotta hold out.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just I'm just supposed to wait for this

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Speaker 5: Well he's not. He's not going to fully ghost me.

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Speaker 1: This is the time. Okay, have you actually talked to

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Speaker 5: Not yet, but he's getting closer.

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Speaker 1: But Steve, I know that you're trying really hard here

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Speaker 1: to get Julie bad, But it sounds like this doesn't

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Speaker 1: have anything to do with you. This is totally her deal.

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Speaker 1: She's just trying to figure her own stuff out.

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Speaker 2: So and I mean, honestly, she's gonna be single for.

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Speaker 1: A while, so it's probably pointless for me to even

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Speaker 1: ask this question, But I'm gonna do it. Anyway because

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Speaker 1: there's a ghost whispering in my ear to do it.

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Speaker 1: He's saying, you and Steve should go out on another

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know as close to yes.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I'm sorry. I just this is all very the end, Like,

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Speaker 4: I don't mean to rush you, Julie, but I've got

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Speaker 4: know where I'm at.

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Speaker 1: Dated in the hospital again.

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Speaker 5: I just don't think it'd be fair to you, Steve,

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Speaker 5: like I'm not in this situation.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean that's honesty right there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sorry, man, this isn't going to work out.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to be able to get you a

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Speaker 4: This is okay. I'd rather deal with this now than

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Speaker 2: That's true, that's true. That's a good attitude.

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Speaker 1: Don't give up, hope, man, Try to haunt her in

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Speaker 1: a month or two.

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Speaker 5: And then.

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Speaker 4: I know I know the game plan now.

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Speaker 1: A couple of months, man, good luck.

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Speaker 5: Don't do that, Steve. I told you it's creepy, okay.

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Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning, I've never heard the dating

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Speaker 1: term friendly ghost before. Like being caspired where if you

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Speaker 1: missed it, that's where a former love interest who ghosts

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Speaker 1: you comes back and is quietly hanging around your like

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna tell you this has been happening long

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Speaker 2: before Instagram was even invented. Okay, totally.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you were friendly ghosting people by hanging outside of

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Speaker 2: No, it's just like those exes.

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Speaker 2: Everybody has those exes that just like linger. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: they don't do it because they want anything, They just

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Speaker 1: Well, jose you mentioned saying like, oh this is me,

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Speaker 1: how many haunts would you say that you're currently doing

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Speaker 1: at the moment. I think me and a lot of

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Speaker 3: So it's like I see you and then like they

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because we've been liking each other. I didn't even

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Speaker 2: Supernatural world is hard.

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Speaker 1: We're more attuned to what's going on in the real

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Speaker 1: world with real people, So if you have an issue

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Speaker 1: with that in your dating life, we can try and help.

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Speaker 1: Email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back and make sure you go check out all

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Speaker 1: of our podcasts. All the second dates are up at

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey, wherever you get yours