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Speaker 2: You give half your house? You you lay over, roll

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Speaker 2: you're going to give half your house away. We're not

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Speaker 1: We need to give her the full house, drain our

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's exactly what we need we need to do.

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Speaker 2: What's that like the financial dominance dominator? Yes, financially dominated

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Speaker 2: we can we start our careers as finn Dom's. I

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Speaker 2: send me a venmo? Do that are Yeah? Are you aroused?

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Speaker 2: You're not You're not aroused. Oh you got to send more? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: give me your cash to okay, run it? Oh baby?

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Speaker 1: sixty nine for saying this one. So I thirty two male,

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Speaker 1: have been engaged to my fiance Melissa twenty seven female

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Speaker 1: for sixteen months and we've been together for four years.

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Speaker 1: Our wedding was planned in two months, and we own

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Speaker 1: a beautiful house together. Melissa is the most beautiful, smart,

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Speaker 2: Sure yeah likely story.

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Speaker 1: She always took care of me in my needs the

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Speaker 1: same way I did to her, something I was never

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Speaker 1: used to since in my previous relationships I had to

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Speaker 1: pay for almost everything and take care of their needs

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Speaker 1: in exchange for doing it and an official relationship hikes yekes. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: from the age of nineteen to twenty five, I was

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Speaker 1: in a friends with Benefits click of four old friends,

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Speaker 1: just have five people just cycling through this like it happens.

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Speaker 2: Just bro talk about sloppy toppy. That is just like sloppy.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot that's a gotta eat baby pig pig

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Speaker 1: trough slap right there. We made activities together and did

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Speaker 1: our partners at the time. What the what the fuck

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Speaker 1: is this? What I oppee? You're part of the Okay,

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Speaker 1: so we love you.

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Speaker 2: But what the fuck? What the fuck? Oh uh, something

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Speaker 2: I am not very proud of, as you shouldn't be. Hey,

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Speaker 2: we also got slit any partner who started to feel

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. They were like this, like wall of

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Speaker 2: just like toxeemen and toxicity good gravy.

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Speaker 1: The click disbanded when one of the female friends left

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Speaker 1: the country for a better job opportunity. By that time,

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Speaker 1: our social circle got news about the nature of our friendship.

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Speaker 1: I ignored it and slowly started drifting away from those friends. Apparently,

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Speaker 1: someone from my past informed my fiance of this sordid

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Speaker 2: Wait, so the fiance found out a few weeks ago,

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Speaker 2: and she's been silently really just just baking. What is

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Speaker 1: Eventually Melissa confronted me about my past. She was pretty calm,

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Speaker 1: and honestly, I didn't think that my as was that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but not everyone has a romantic sex past where

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Speaker 2: they gas lit all their partners into thinking that there

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Speaker 2: fucking orgies all the time with your friend group, It's

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Speaker 2: not like. It's not like the uh, the uh, actual

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Speaker 2: If I orgy with your friends, fine, go for gaslighting

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Speaker 1: Uh, don't gas You can gaslight your genitals, but not

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, after telling her repeatedly how much I love

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Speaker 2: During all my troubles in the last four years. I

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Speaker 2: be a reform convict. You know, like just because you

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think the once a cheater, always

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Speaker 1: She asked if I ever apologized to my exes for

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Speaker 1: cheating on a question. Yes, it is with my female friends,

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Speaker 2: Yikes. Bad answer, God, bad answer. Oh the argument Also,

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Speaker 1: The argument went back and forth till she made her

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Speaker 2: Actually introduce us to each other.

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Speaker 1: She told me she wanted to break the engagement and

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Speaker 2: Oh, so she's ending it. She's just closing it out.

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Speaker 2: I mean, at least she's buying his share, right.

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Speaker 1: I was in total shock. I knew she had a

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Speaker 2: Ruthless sounds like being in a circle of cheating and

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Speaker 2: That's ruthless to me, bro, But I never imagined that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I begged her not to rush things. I apologize

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Speaker 1: profusely and cried for another chance. But alas here we

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Speaker 2: But the thing is, you like didn't resolve the trump,

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Speaker 2: Like like everything that you did before you didn't resolve it.

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Speaker 2: You bring it up, aren't really taking any accountability? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: But let's let's say like he did, he doesn't talk

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Speaker 1: He was ashamed of it, Say that, Yeah, if you

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Speaker 2: It's such a beautiful thing, like go there. Yeah, like

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Speaker 2: It won't match. Get excited, Yeah, get excited. All right,

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Speaker 2: we will see you soon. Am I the a hole

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Speaker 2: for refusing my fiance's request to pay for his brothers

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Speaker 2: so that's fiance entitled. Correct.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Op owns none of the money that was given

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Speaker 2: But it transcends Op exactly goes straight to the fiance.

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Speaker 2: This is the law of Reddit universe. Yes, it's also

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Speaker 1: I believe it's uh so, like let's say the dad

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Speaker 2: there is like situations basically where the woman gets less

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Speaker 2: I am such a big fan of your work, Like

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Speaker 2: I like, really in Afghanistan, really, yeah, so what you get?

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Speaker 2: It did?

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Speaker 1: In afghanistans saw what you did? You know here you know,

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Speaker 1: and you know, our our home, our home, our home turf.

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Speaker 1: And I was impressed. I threw my resume in and

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Speaker 1: here we are.

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Speaker 2: I female thirty two have recently inherited money from my mom,

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Speaker 2: she was the only parent in losing her is beyond devastating. Rough. Ye,

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Speaker 2: the money can barely be called inheritance because my mom

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Speaker 2: and her family didn't have much, But it's better than nothing.

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Speaker 2: My fiance at first said I deserved it and have

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Speaker 2: a right to do whatever I wanted with it. At first,

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Speaker 2: at shirts whoever, he told his whole family about this

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Speaker 2: and this you know, recent windfall. And then his infertile

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Speaker 2: brother and his wife pull an infernal brother. That is,

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Speaker 2: infertile brother and his wife pull them aside for a conversation.

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Speaker 2: I love like throwing like infertile brothers, such a sub

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Speaker 2: so well placed, so well played, fertile brother, My brother

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Speaker 2: whose penis can't can't semonate my Wait what is it,

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Speaker 2: uh brother? Yeah? Yeah, uh my brothers. My brother's barren

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Speaker 2: penis that can't plant the seed in his wife's womb.

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Speaker 2: What a geezer, What a geezer. After that, he started

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Speaker 2: talking about wanting slash needing a nephew slash niece, basically

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Speaker 2: hinting about his brother's infertility issues. Then flat out requested

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Speaker 2: that I pay for his brother and wife's IVF treatment

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Speaker 2: for my inheritance money. It's Herden's money. It's not your money,

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Speaker 2: bro dude. Everyone who's getting IVF asking for other people's money,

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Speaker 2: we need to start like an IVF show. Why are you?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just like adopt, you know, just adopt

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Speaker 2: to stop studying other people's money. Adopted kid in foster here.

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Speaker 2: You know. I was taken aback initially, but then I declined.

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Speaker 2: He got mad, saying I was selfish. One, he and

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Speaker 2: I are blessed to never have issues with fertility because

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Speaker 2: he is such a very shooting bullets every single time.

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Speaker 2: His solami is just inminating everything inside big yep baby.

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Speaker 2: And Two I literally have nothing to lose if I

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Speaker 2: give them money. What are you talking about except all

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Speaker 2: the money from his from his dead mother. Yeah, Jesus,

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Speaker 2: it's easy money that I didn't work for, so thus

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Speaker 2: I should be able to give it up. See so easy.

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Speaker 2: This upset me to the point where I lashed out,

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Speaker 2: telling him to stop bothering me and guilting me about it.

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Speaker 2: I denied the request as a final decision, but he

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Speaker 2: got more and more agitated and went on and went

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Speaker 2: on a campaign to shame me for treating him as

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Speaker 2: if he's not my future husband. Therefore he gets to

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Speaker 2: therefore he gets to say, and therefore he gets to say,

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Speaker 2: and what to do about my inheritance? Yeah? Well, what

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Speaker 2: is this your money? Concept? It say, it's our money?

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Speaker 2: You know? You know? Not yet boyo, I say, oh Pee,

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Speaker 2: better send that prenup fast, Lock it down, lock it down. Yeah,