1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we will 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: talk about Charlemagne and his interview with Vice President Kamala Harris. 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: As Kamala Harris laid out her agenda for black men, 4 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: we'll talk about all of that coming up. 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 2: Like I said at the top of. 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: The are interesting interview, very insightful, very good on both 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: their parts, very like yeah, yeah, they were in Detroit. 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: But we'll talk about that. But right now it is 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 1: time to ask the clo. This one is from for 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Reed in the Bronx. Fareed says, I gained some weight 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: and my wife told me she's not sexually attracted to 12 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: me anymore. I guess for better or for worse means nothing. 13 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: She said. 14 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: Marriage is about honesty, So is it cool to be 15 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: honest with her about a few things that I don't like? 16 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 3: No, don't do that, doll, don't do that. Look, man, 17 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 3: just gon't take this bullet. You done got your ass fat. 18 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 3: She ain't attracted to you know more. You know, marriage 19 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 3: is about honesty. I have told y'all about this honesty thing, 20 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 3: and here's a perfect trap for it. 21 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 4: She won't. She's don't you do that? Don't you do that? 22 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 3: Just say, hey, you know what baby, You know, I 23 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 3: appreciate the little heads up. I'm gonna take better care 24 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 3: of myself. You know, the better off of worse doesn't 25 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: mean that a person can't be disappointed in you. 26 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 4: She's still with you. She just you done gain so 27 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 4: much weight. 28 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 3: You ain't attracted, Noma, and you know you're not attracted though, 29 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 3: you know you know the next time you get nicked, 30 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 3: it's just stop to turn. 31 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 4: Go to the mirror and turn sideways. Sideways. It helps, 32 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 4: It brings you on sideways helps. 33 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 3: Man, quit looking at yourself forward, because when I look 34 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: at myself forward, I see I'm structured. You know, I 35 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 3: got older with you know, arm chest. You know the sideways. 36 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 3: Got to turn sideway because that's what she sees. She 37 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 3: sees side and back. She see a lot of what 38 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 3: you can't see. And dog, this ain't the time for 39 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 3: you to go in there and start telling her what 40 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 3: you really think, because then you the marriage is gonna 41 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 3: be all she did was told you. She didn't leave you. 42 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: So the better off of worse is hanging in there. 43 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: It's just that the worst is you. Now you're unattractive, 44 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 3: But dog, you was you was close to not being 45 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: attractive when y'all got married, you would just a better shape. 46 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: You don't know him. 47 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 4: I know men, though, you got to tell me and 48 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 4: the truth. You got to hurt men. You can't. You can't. 49 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: You can't play with men. Now, this is a woman 50 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 3: I find a more gentler way. But this is a 51 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 3: dude right here. Dog, You already know you was half 52 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: ass u when she married you. You know you just 53 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 3: had your money right, and you was promising to take 54 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 3: care of her. Then then you forgot to take care 55 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 3: of yourself, solo for them. 56 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 4: All right? 57 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 2: Moving on to Cara and Evanston. 58 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: Kara as, I'm dating a man that is frequently freakishly 59 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: attracted to women's feet, and not just mine. I know 60 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: he looks at feet on social media, but it's irritating 61 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: when he does it in front of me. 62 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 2: He says it's a. 63 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: Natural thing, but I hate it. Am I overreacting? Or 64 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 1: is he out of line? 65 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: Well, he has a foot fetish, seemed like Now, all 66 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 3: fetish is gonna get on your nerve after a while, 67 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 3: all of them foot fetish, clothes, fetish, you know, car fetish, 68 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: motorcycle fetish, fetish with food. 69 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 4: It's all gonna get on your nerves. 70 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 2: After why, because he's spending too much time over there. 71 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: Looking at stupidity that all them fish gonna get on 72 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 3: your last nerves. So yeah, you're not out of You're 73 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 3: not out of line. It's only gonna get worship you 74 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 3: don't say something to it, and he don't respect it. 75 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 3: He's not probably not gonna change his fetish. You just 76 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 3: gotta quit looking at it in front. 77 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: Of you, you know, okay, all right? Moving on to 78 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 2: your feet moving. 79 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 3: A lot of the people that's connected to the feet 80 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 3: probably ain't gonna have one to do nothing with him. 81 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 5: No way. 82 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 1: A lot of people have fetis too, all right, Moving 83 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 1: on to Jasmine and Jotan. Jasmine says, my coworker bragged 84 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: on his oral transaction skills, so I invited him to 85 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: my car during lunch to show me he was amazing. 86 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: But later he told the whole office what went down? 87 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: Why the chance of it happening again by gossiping? 88 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: He didn't gossip. 89 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 2: You. 90 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 4: This is too much. 91 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 3: He told everybody in office what he did. You took 92 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 3: him up on it. In the parking lot, he told 93 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 3: everybody in office. White is surprised at him. But what 94 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 3: the fact that you even knew that was his skill. 95 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 3: That that didn't tell you he talked too much, right, 96 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 3: But then you decided to take him up on it 97 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 3: in the parket lot. Then he came back and told 98 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: everybody in office. And then guess what your only concern is, 99 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 3: why would he mess up his chance if it happening again? 100 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 3: Because it's gonna happen again, because that's how. 101 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 4: Good he was. 102 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 2: She can't control herself. 103 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 4: Ain't nothing. 104 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: You know, she gonna be downstairs in that parket lot 105 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 3: I'm talking about in that car again. 106 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: And he'll come back and tell that we did it again. 107 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 3: No, no, no, she gonna try to fix this, so 108 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:44,919 Speaker 3: we don't put telling it you know now, Oh I 109 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 3: don't know how she gonna fix it. Well, she gonna 110 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 3: fix it with him. Listen, we're gonna do this some more, 111 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 3: but you gotta quit running in your mouth. And then 112 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: the only way to do that is, you know, turn 113 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 3: it around, turn it or turn around his fair play. Okay, So, 114 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 3: like I think, the only way this is gonna work out, 115 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 3: and she's gonna have to be able to get him 116 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 3: to comply is turn it around. And what I mean 117 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 3: by that is, if you want to get more of him. 118 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 3: M hm, you're gonna have to. How should I put this? 119 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 4: Give more to him? See it? 120 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 3: Because the old Christmas antis it is better to give 121 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 3: than to receive. 122 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 2: How dare you right here? 123 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 3: I was using as a crow. I thought it was 124 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 3: a Christmas saying. I didn't know that was in the Bible. 125 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 3: I wasn't reason the. 126 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 4: Biblical But that's what she's going far. 127 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 3: If she wants to turn this around and stop him 128 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 3: from running his mouth. 129 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 2: I think they need to break up. 130 00:06:49,120 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, but he gonna tell it he ain't got no choice. 131 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 4: Crazy. 132 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 2: All right, Thank you, Clo. Now coming up next. 133 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: Vice President sat down with Charlemagne and they had an 134 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: interview in Detroit. 135 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 2: Very interesting. We'll talk about it right after this. 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