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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 2: Where a drunk mind speaks.

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Speaker 1: So were thy, what's up? Growl? I like this green

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Speaker 2: You know, I this is like one of my favorite colors.

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Speaker 2: Now it's like it was green. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's so crazy because you know, I'm like redoing my

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Speaker 2: It does, and I just feel like, you know, it's

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Speaker 2: the color of money.

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Speaker 1: And we know you like a lot of that. Green

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Speaker 1: is my favorite color. Yes, my nails are like a

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Speaker 1: little greenish yellow. We're not gonna talk about my males

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Speaker 1: right now. I've just been I've been having a lot going.

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Speaker 2: So what's been up, grown girl? I just been like

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Speaker 2: trying to stay focused. I've been like on a healthy journey.

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Speaker 1: You've been doing really good. Thang. Literally every morning when

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Speaker 1: I see you post, you like at the gym. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: at the little sweat house, a little sauna thing like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been going every day for like the past

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Speaker 3: It's been like two and a half weeks now and

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Speaker 3: I lost seven pounds right, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Trying to lose another six before we going to it.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I've been going to the sauna every day.

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Speaker 1: It's really been like a whole lifestyle change type of thing.

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Speaker 2: Like I barely drink.

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Speaker 3: I can't remember even today, like I've been I drunk titos,

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Speaker 3: which I never drink, but I mean calorie wise, it's smarter.

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Speaker 1: A little bit little titos.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm a tequila girl, but you know

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Speaker 3: how you have to make the adjustments if you want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm an extremist.

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Speaker 1: I think you know that I either really am gonna

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Speaker 2: It's like no in between.

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Speaker 1: But I think a lot of people don't realize, Like

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Speaker 1: the Taco Bell. And then they brought the Mexican pizzas

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Speaker 1: I can't even remember the last time I had Taco Bell,

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Speaker 1: I just love Taco Bell.

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Speaker 1: for y'all on tour whatever like that. We gonna see y'all.

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Speaker 1: I meaning with me, you're doing with me because I'm

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Speaker 3: But you always say that whenever I get in like

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Speaker 1: Muchy Bill Tabo, what are you doing? Calm down?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying you gotta go as hard as I'm going,

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Speaker 1: of the first topic, we wanted to talk about this

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Speaker 1: whole soft life, clean as clean aesthetic trendy that's been

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Speaker 1: Clean girl aesthetic, that's the new thing?

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Speaker 2: Nah, soft life.

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Speaker 3: And people, I just feel like people love to do

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Speaker 1: Like you can see one black girl that's kind of

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Speaker 2: I feel like by the textbook name, she's the clean

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Speaker 3: I mean I just feel like everything is about preference.

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Speaker 1: Now, I see, you ain't have to take it there

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Speaker 1: Like you could be like, well, girl, you can't do

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Speaker 3: So that's why I just feel like you don't have

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Speaker 1: You desire, right exactly, because I feel like they try

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Speaker 1: to tie in the clean girl aesthetic with being classy,

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Speaker 1: which it is a classy look it is. But who's

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Speaker 2: To in any certain shit, I'm wearing stoods too.

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Speaker 2: I wonder who I don't wonder who brought me periods

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Speaker 1: Domind's on you dancing, But no, I will say, cause

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Speaker 1: Get on the dance, on the dance.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 1: It was a textas song. You sure, I'm very positive.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember her name, but it was about it

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Speaker 1: Save she do you anytime? I've learned to say I

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Speaker 3: I'm glad I can't afford everything by myself because I

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Speaker 1: I think us as women. What we need to start

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Speaker 3: my new place I'm about to move, and so I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's about to be so high. I miss having a

439
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Speaker 3: nigga to pay my rent because like I haven't had

440
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Speaker 3: it in like a few years now. And so they

441
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Speaker 3: was like, well, if you still worried, if you still

442
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Speaker 3: thinking that you want somebody to pay your rent, you

443
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Speaker 3: ain't making enough money yet.

444
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Speaker 1: No.

445
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Speaker 2: Well, in that case, I ain't never gonna be making

446
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Speaker 2: enough money.

447
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Speaker 1: Because let me tell you who gonna always want somebody

448
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Speaker 1: to pay my views. I think we all want.

449
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Speaker 2: I don't care if I'm a millionaire. If I have

450
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Speaker 2: a boyfriend, you're paying for you.

451
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like if you're in a relation, well,

452
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Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship, y'all live togees. I'll say

453
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Speaker 1: that I wouldn't we be living together? Well, I mean

454
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Speaker 1: you could be in a relationship and not live with somebody.

455
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Speaker 1: Now my next nigga, we moving in after a month.

456
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Speaker 1: I'm tired of having mules. I'm dead. No, But I

457
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Speaker 1: definitely feel like I'm not gonna lie whenever I am

458
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Speaker 1: moving into like our next spot situation, like for real,

459
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Speaker 1: for real, It's gonna be like a conversation we have

460
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Speaker 1: to have, like what is we doing? You know what

461
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:07,959
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I feel like if you and your

462
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Speaker 1: boyfriend live apart, like y'all are in different cities or

463
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Speaker 1: something like that, Like I'm my rent is not his responsibility,

464
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,360
Speaker 1: of course, but if we're in the same city, Yeah,

465
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Speaker 1: we definitely need to live with each other at this age,

466
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Speaker 1: of course.

467
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Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm gonna have to chip in something.

468
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Speaker 1: You want?

469
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Speaker 2: Why need you want to pay? Someone's help me out?

470
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Speaker 1: So yes, let us know what y'all think about the

471
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Speaker 1: soft life and the cleans.

472
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Speaker 3: So expensive right now? Expensive right now, it's only any worse.

473
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Speaker 3: And I feel so bad, Like I feel so bad

474
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Speaker 3: because we're literally in the middle of o.

475
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Speaker 1: Yes, they they haven't officially declared Clary. But we're literally

476
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Speaker 1: in the middle, and I feel like so many people

477
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Speaker 1: are really like struggling to life right now. I'm gonna

478
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Speaker 1: I'm going a little easy on my nigga lately, Like

479
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Speaker 1: I ain't really tripping on the you know, the little

480
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Speaker 1: bullshit stuff that I used to trip on, be like,

481
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Speaker 1: oh I need this, I need this. I ain't really

482
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Speaker 1: because I think that I'm like, look bad. We got

483
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Speaker 1: to stack up. We need to just stack up. We

484
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Speaker 1: don't know if Randy Dad gonna come, whatever's going on,

485
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Speaker 1: because shit is wild out here.

486
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Speaker 2: That's beautiful. The recession is just teaching me, y'all need

487
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Speaker 2: to date higher. I need to date niggas that it ain't.

488
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Speaker 1: A BROLLI pro should proved.

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491
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537
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Speaker 1: talk about this next time because it was interesting. Every

538
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Speaker 1: time I wish I knew this guy's name because he

539
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Speaker 1: come across He comes across my page all the time.

540
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Speaker 2: He's on a podcast, Aways Forget, but.

541
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Speaker 1: He always got some crazy ass stuff to say. I'm

542
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Speaker 1: not gonna say ignorant or stupid because I'm the type

543
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Speaker 1: of person. It's a lot of people with platforms out here,

544
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: and just because I don't necessarily agree with somebody says,

545
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Speaker 1: I don't like to call people stupid and ignorant, and

546
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Speaker 1: I do think we all need to stop doing that

547
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Speaker 1: as well, Like just because you don't agree with somebody

548
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Speaker 1: or see eyes eye with them, like, it's not calling

549
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Speaker 1: people dumb and ignorant. But he basically said something that

550
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Speaker 1: women with money aren't bosses. They're just a woman with money.

551
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw that, and it was annoying as fun

552
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 3: because I was just like, huh, like, what do you mean?

553
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Speaker 3: And in his logic for me, it be the logic

554
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Speaker 3: when people try to say something, So was.

555
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Speaker 1: His logic behind it. I can't exactly remember his logic.

556
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Speaker 3: He was like, women be loving to say that they

557
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Speaker 3: the boss, but you're not the boss unless you're handling

558
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Speaker 3: all the beast.

559
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Speaker 2: Oh, like you're doing everything, every single job, which.

560
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Speaker 1: At the end of the day, nigga, that's how we

561
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Speaker 1: tell you ain't no boss, because if you was a boss,

562
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Speaker 1: then you would know niggas who really run shit, and

563
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Speaker 1: women who really run shit.

564
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Speaker 2: They're not doing all the jobs.

565
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Speaker 1: They're delegating tasks and they're paying people that they have

566
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Speaker 1: on payroll to do certain things for them.

567
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Speaker 3: If I am running a business, why would I do

568
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Speaker 3: every task on my own when I don't have to.

569
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Speaker 1: That absolutely makes that's not how you get to the

570
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Speaker 1: next level of making.

571
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Speaker 2: But then on top of that, it was like that

572
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Speaker 2: show point that show keepers.

573
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Speaker 1: He thought, he thought, he hate that. He really did,

574
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Speaker 1: like that's your reason and why you feel like women

575
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Speaker 1: aren't bosses. But see, okay, but this is the thing.

576
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Speaker 1: I get his statement, but I was how women I'm

577
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Speaker 1: saying women and men, though this is for everybody. I

578
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Speaker 1: hate when people be like, yeah, I'm a boss, I'm

579
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Speaker 1: a boss. You can really technically only call yourself and

580
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Speaker 1: boss a boss. If you have employees, are you have

581
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Speaker 1: to agree work for you? So I think we do

582
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Speaker 1: need to kind of lay back on the boss talk

583
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Speaker 1: a little bit. Everybody feels like, Okay, I'm a boss,

584
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Speaker 1: I'm a boss, but it's like, technically you're not.

585
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Speaker 2: If you're.

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Speaker 1: What Trouble said, noise, it's giving boss bach noise not

587
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Speaker 1: it's definitely not.

588
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Speaker 2: If you if you want one, if you want one.

589
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Speaker 1: Man band, it was not a ball and That's why

590
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Speaker 1: I say shut.

591
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Speaker 2: Out to a big lotto.

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Speaker 1: I love the song it's giving boss bach, but girls,

593
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Speaker 1: y'all have rent it into the ground because that's where

594
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Speaker 1: because not everybody it's a boss. And I'm not just

595
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Speaker 1: speaking on women. I'm saying, we're saying everybody, everybody as well.

596
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Speaker 1: Just because you can have a lot of money, it's

597
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Speaker 1: something you can be a millionaire and technically not be

598
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Speaker 1: a boss. Like if you're high up in your company,

599
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Speaker 1: you know you can be high up, but no, I

600
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Speaker 1: take that back, because you have people working working for you.

601
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Speaker 1: So I take that back. But I will say, you know,

602
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Speaker 1: you can be a person making six figures and having

603
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Speaker 1: a damn good job, but you necessarily still not a boss.

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Speaker 3: I mean because you might just have a company where

605
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Speaker 3: you can do everything yourself, right, Like you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I mean. But I feel like that's okay.

607
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Speaker 1: Not everybody is supposed to be a boss. You can't

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Speaker 1: have a bunch of bosses walking around because who's gonna

609
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Speaker 1: be You have to have workers for this world to

610
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Speaker 1: go around. Literally, I say this every time. I enjoyed

611
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Speaker 1: being a worker. I enjoyed being a worker. I didn't

612
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Speaker 1: have to worry about shit, I wasn't stressed out about nothing.

613
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: I used to go to work clock in and clock out.

614
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Speaker 1: Whenever I clocked out, I didn't have to do anything

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Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. I enjoyed my nine

616
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Speaker 1: to five. I was having a grand old time to you,

617
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Speaker 1: to me, to me.

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Speaker 2: I know, I hated and shit, I hated it.

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Speaker 1: I hated having to be at work at a certain

620
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Speaker 1: fucking time every day at fucking seven eight.

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Speaker 3: That shit was fucking trash. Then I gotta fucking listen

622
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Speaker 3: to people all them day.

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Speaker 2: I just did not. It was just a commuting. It

624
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Speaker 2: was a commuting for me too. I think that's what.

625
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Speaker 1: The traffic was just really bad because I worked in

626
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Speaker 1: midtime and then I was living on the East Side,

627
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Speaker 1: so the traffic used to just be crazy.

628
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Speaker 3: But I only get too you trying to tell me

629
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Speaker 3: I only get two days a week to myself.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like I said, I enjoyed it just

632
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Speaker 1: because of the stability.

633
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Speaker 2: Now, I know a lot of people like the like

634
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Speaker 2: it because of the structure. Like it literally.

635
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Speaker 1: Exactly what I was. I knew exactly what my paychecks

636
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Speaker 1: were going to be. I knew exactly what to do

637
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Speaker 1: every day. I'm not saying that I miss it. I

638
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: mean there's pros and constant, you know, both sides. I

639
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 1: do enjoy the freedom that I have now, but don't

640
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: get it twisted. I can do I'm very versatile. I

641
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: can do both, Okay. So I just don't think that

642
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: people realize, like, it's okay to be a worker, and

643
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: it's a lot easier to do that, and a lot

644
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: of people prefer that over not everybody wants to be

645
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Speaker 1: a CEO of a company. And a lot of times

646
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: that's why you see a lot of these companies they're like,

647
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, this business is so poorly rent. It's

648
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: because y'all keep saying, oh, everybody needs to own this

649
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: and own own own. But that's why you have these

650
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: people running these companies and they don't have no idea

651
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: what they're doing, and you're getting shitty service, you're getting

652
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: shitty products. Because we live in an environment where everybody

653
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: is supposed to be.

654
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Speaker 3: A bars I mean, and most importantly, everybody can't be

655
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 3: a CEO, right, you know what I mean. It's not

656
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 3: even necessarily about once. Sometimes it's just that everybody can't.

657
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you have definitely have to be built different.

658
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: I always say, I always have said this, and I

659
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: don't care what nobody say. When you reach a certain

660
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: type of money, you've had to do some fucked up

661
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: shit to get there. I don't care what nobody's say.

662
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily normal for one person to have like

663
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: one hundred million dollars or like, you've had to do

664
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: some fucked up shit to get there. I don't care

665
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: who you are. So it's like, yeah, and I'm not

666
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: saying good or bad, but I'm just saying. I'm not

667
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: saying that you have to kill somebody. I'm just saying

668
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: you've had to do some things that maybe take away sacrifice, Yeah,

669
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: like you take away from somebody else from eating, or

670
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: you've done some things behind me, some deals, behind people's back.

671
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: You have to you built a certain type of way.

672
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: You have to be really cutthroat to get there, and

673
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: not everybody is built like that. Like you know what

674
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, So you have to be a certain type

675
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: of person to be of a multi million dollar I agree.

676
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: We talk about We've talked about this a lot of times.

677
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: Like I definitely feel like most people.

678
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 3: That I have met, and I'm talking about people that

679
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: I've met in real life that like had a crazy

680
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 3: amount of money and were really really successful.

681
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 2: They wasn't really the greatest people.

682
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: They never be. They never be the greatest people. Like

683
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: And I'm talking about like millions of dollars.

684
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 3: It's not like somebody who's just making six figiers a year,

685
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 3: because I mean, you making six fieriers a year obviously

686
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 3: are making good money.

687
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: You steel comfortable. But I'm talking about people with extreme will. Yeah,

688
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: majority of them, they don't really be the greatest. Yeah,

689
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: because I mean I truly believe money is the root

690
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: of all evil.

691
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: Now, Yeah, money make people do crazy.

692
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, And when you chase money, like when you're a

693
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: money this I always say this. I enjoy make money.

694
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: I think we all do. But one thing that frightens

695
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: me is when I meet somebody and they're money hungry

696
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: and everything they want, everything, they do, everything that they

697
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: live and breathe. Well, how much money I'm gonna make? Well?

698
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: How much is this? Well I gotta figure out, Well,

699
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: if I'm not going, if I ain't getting no more,

700
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: It's like God, damn nigga can't even eat a taco

701
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: am I getting paid? D nigga, Like I do not

702
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: like people like that, Like, I ain't doing this unless

703
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm getting paid for It's like I I.

704
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 3: Mean because realistically speaking, I feel like in order to

705
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 3: become successful in the first place, you have to get

706
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 3: to a point to where you understand it in the beginning,

707
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 3: you're not gonna make money from everything, right, So people

708
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 3: who think like they they are like, it's like you

709
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: already got the wrong mindset because you're not gonna get

710
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 3: paid for everything in the beginning, you know what I mean,

711
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: It's gonna be a lot of sheep that you gonna

712
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 3: unfortunately do for I mean, we don't need a lot

713
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 3: of sheep for free.

714
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm still doing shit for free, Like what you know,

715
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: the huge?

716
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 2: What's the huge?

717
00:31:58,280 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: Just living life?

718
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, Yo, I mean like, I mean,

719
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 2: rarely do things for free.

720
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: No, I mean I'm saying, but it.

721
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 3: Was one point where we used to have to do

722
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 3: I mean I'm talking like years we was having to

723
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 3: do ship for free, Like we was doing this motherfucking

724
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 3: show for free.

725
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 2: We wasn't getting paid.

726
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: We got that eighty dollars, don't do we got that

727
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: eighty dollars deal. Yeah, but it took two years to

728
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: get eighty dollars. I worked, I worked, I too was

729
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: very I lost. I negotiating boss. It's giving boss, bitch.

730
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: I negotiated eighty dollars because they originally trying to pay

731
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: us Sea all be all here getting eighty dollars checks

732
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: talking about giving. I signed that check that said sixty five,

733
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 1: make it eighty, and we got a deal. Pal, I

734
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: did what I had to do. No, and I too

735
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: was very proud of us. So that was the first

736
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: time that we ever got paid. We're sitting here and talking,

737
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: so I was happy. But at the same time, that

738
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: was them near working for free. It was it was

739
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: and it was like that for me even I'm not

740
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: ashamed to say, but it's like, that's when you have

741
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: to kind of realize that you have to be consistent

742
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: in order to really start making like good money, you know.

743
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 3: And that's something that I think a lot of people lack.

744
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 3: People lack consistency, but they want the money.

745
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 2: How that makes me?

746
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: How you feel like you don't ever get to being

747
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 3: somebody that's worth a million dollars, somebody that's worth ten

748
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 3: million dollars or whatever when you don't have no consistency,

749
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 3: and you don't have no structure and no dedication.

750
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: And I also like, I don't know. I feel like

751
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: the goal for me in life now is I just

752
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: want to be comfortable and do the things I want

753
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: to do. I don't know what networth that is or

754
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 1: how much money that is. But I'm not a person

755
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: who's like, yeah, I want to a by the end

756
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: of this shit, I want to be worth fifty million,

757
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: or I want to be worth a hundred million. I'm

758
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: not that way. I just want to be able to

759
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: live my life at the highest frequency and do whatever

760
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: the fuck I want to do. I don't know if

761
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: that's a million dollars, I don't know if that's ten

762
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: million dollars. Shit, I don't know if it's half a

763
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: million dollar. I don't know how much it is. But

764
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: I just want to be comfortable, you know, and be happy,

765
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people don't realize like

766
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: in the grand scheme of it, in the grand scheme

767
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: of thing, none of this shit really matters, you know

768
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. When like when you when you pass

769
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: away or you know you're gone, people are not gonna

770
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: talk about oh yeah, man, you remember that time she

771
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: signed that deal for three hundred thousand dollars, Like, nobody's

772
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: gonna talk about that. They're gonna talk about how you

773
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: treated them and what you brought to the table. Like

774
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: I don't ever think of somebody when they pass away

775
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: talking about, oh, they were so rich, you know what

776
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 1: I mean?

777
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 2: I agree, but I disagree. It just depends what your

778
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 2: motivation is.

779
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people you saying it

780
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: don't matter, but it kind of do, because it's like

781
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: the way I look at things is like, when I die,

782
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: I want to leave like a legacy for my children

783
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: and my grandchildren. I want I want to be able

784
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: to leave them things like I want to be able

785
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: to leave them properties and leave them money, and leave

786
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,479
Speaker 1: them stock options and leave them things that I wasn't

787
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: presented with the same opportunities. So I feel like, if

788
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: that's the type of stuff that kind to motivate you too,

789
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: then it does matter because I feel like so many people,

790
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: you know, unfortunately, so many, so many people, they they'll

791
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 1: like pass away and stuff and then like their families

792
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:16,720
Speaker 1: have to figure everything out because they didn't do anything

793
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: and they weren't financially responsible in all those type of things.

794
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 2: So I do think that that type of stuff does matter.

795
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,959
Speaker 1: But in that point of view, it doesn't matter because

796
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 1: it matters to your family. I'm talking about to everybody family,

797
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: I mean, but what I'm saying is like I'm talking

798
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 1: about the general public, Like for you, your kids, that's

799
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: gonna matter. You know, how much money you had in

800
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: your worth. But I'm talking about like people that are

801
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: just like listeners of the show, are people that follow you,

802
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 1: that buy your products and stuff like that, it doesn't

803
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: matter how much money you were worth to them, you know.

804
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: That's what I mean, Like all you're saying to other people, Yeah,

805
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: but I feel like the number one thing you should

806
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,720
Speaker 1: live your life for is for your own Like everything

807
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: that you do should be for your own reason, and

808
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be doing it because you care with other

809
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: people gonna think when you die.

810
00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: You know.

811
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: I just feel like the environment that we live in

812
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: is just very it's kind of money hungry, and we've

813
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: kind of like I feel like we've lost the plot

814
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: in a lot of things, like.

815
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 2: But you can't live a good life.

816
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: What I mean, I feel you being money hungry is

817
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: a problem, but you can't live a good life and

818
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: you can't be you.

819
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 2: I feel like you it's hard to be happy when

820
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 2: you'll have no money.

821
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: That's debatable, though, that's debatable.

822
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 2: I mean because when you didn't have no money, was

823
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: you happy?

824
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:24,919
Speaker 1: Huh?

825
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 2: I'm asking you, Well.

826
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: No, I'm not, but I have Even though I'm comfortable now,

827
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit up here and say like I'm

828
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: extremely more happy now. I mean, my life is easier,

829
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: I guess you could say, but imagine if you Okay,

830
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: so this is my thing, Imagine if you was going

831
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: imagine going through a lot of the normal shit that

832
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 1: we all have to go through in life anyways, having

833
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: to go through that, and then not having no money neither,

834
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: and having a stress about money and going through the

835
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 1: real life issues to deal with it. I guess I'm

836
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: just looking at things like it'll never become nobody's life

837
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: is ever gonna be completely perfect easy.

838
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 2: We all gonna have our struggles and stuff.

839
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: But I feel like when you ain't got worry about

840
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 1: how you're gonna pay oh reen, and you ain't gotta

841
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: worry about how you're gonna pay for certain stuff, then

842
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: at least you can kind of I And like I said,

843
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: I feel like it they take that time to be

844
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 1: said because it's like, Okay, I could be a little said,

845
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 1: or I could deal with what I gotta deal with,

846
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: because at least I ain't got a stress about how

847
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 1: I will paythoty. I agree with that, but I guess

848
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm just looking at stuff. Like I think there was

849
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: like some kind of research or something that I saw

850
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: a long time ago that they did about like happiness,

851
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: and they like went to like some villages way out

852
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: where like people don't have you know, running water, and

853
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: they gotta do it, like you know, they just pretty

854
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: much live on the land, and they were saying, how

855
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 1: much more happier those people were than the type of

856
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 1: like society that we live in. That's because they don't know.

857
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, they don't know. But I feel like

858
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,760
Speaker 1: we live in a society of pressure. Like people literally

859
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: you see stories all the time of like people killing

860
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: themselves because they went bankrupt, but they don't want to

861
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: tell their family type shit. Like you know what I'm saying,

862
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 1: It's just a lot of a lot more money, more problems.

863
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: It's a lot of stress that comes with that. So

864
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: like I said, for me personally, yes, money makes my

865
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: life easier, doesn't necessarily make me happier. The things that

866
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: I want and I need in life, money can't buy

867
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: just for me personally, you know. Like like I said

868
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: in the end, I just feel like none of this

869
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: shit really matters. I'm gonna do what I love and continuously,

870
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 1: you know, chase my dreams. You know. But it's I'm

871
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: not motivated by money. I'll say that.

872
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, money doesn't make you happy, that's for sure.

873
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 3: I mean because like you said, it's a lot of

874
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 3: stuff that money cannot replace, you know, money can't buy.

875
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent agree with that.

876
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 3: However though, However, however, though while I'm here, I would

877
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 3: like to have it because I also because it's like

878
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 3: also if I can't replace things, and I can't, you know,

879
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 3: it's like I can't replace.

880
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 1: A lot of things. I can't buy a lot of things.

881
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: It's like, while I still have to be here, I

882
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,320
Speaker 1: want to be comfortable, right right, I have one hundred

883
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: percent agree with that.

884
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 3: You know, I want to be comfortable. I want to

885
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 3: live a comfortable life. I want to be a soft life.

886
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 2: Soft. But yeah, I mean, I.

887
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 1: Don't know, it's it's it's really all about your mind

888
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 1: set for sure, you know. But back to the topic

889
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: in hand, Women with money aren't bosses. M I want

890
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: to say women and men. I feel like I can

891
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 1: agree with the statement, not the way he said it,

892
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: but like I said, I only feel like you're technically

893
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 1: a boss is if you have employees. Period.

894
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: Agree.

895
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: Alright, So now we I don't think I'm a boss.

896
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm a boss yet. Mm hmmm. I

897
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: mean I have you know, I don't. I don't feel

898
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: like I have like employees that work for me, you

899
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I don't feel like I'm

900
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:56,280
Speaker 1: a boss yet. Agree. I feel like I'm running a business,

901
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: a growing business. But to be like, yeah, I'm a boss,

902
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: I'm not giving Ricky Rose given boss, b it's giving

903
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 1: running a business Bach. How about that baby steps baby.

904
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 2: It's giving baby boss.

905
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,160
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906
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907
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908
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909
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:26,799
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910
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911
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912
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913
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921
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922
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944
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Speaker 2: The bow Bow Bow.

945
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Speaker 1: Okay, So just to give y'all a heads up, we

946
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Speaker 1: are actually releasing some episodes that we recorded in La

947
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: just on Patreon only. So one of these topics if

948
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: y'all are a Patreon remember, you're gonna hear it on

949
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: the Patreon episode that we had with Megan James shout

950
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Speaker 1: out to Megan from Bad Girls Club, But we wanted

951
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: to talk about it on the show as well because

952
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: this was actually an interesting or really really interesting talk.

953
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: So for today we're gonna talk about good sex doesn't

954
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: have to have an orgasm? Do you agree with that statement? Yes?

955
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: Or no? Just off the top, Yeah, I definitely agree.

956
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: I agree because I feel like sometimes whenever you're you know,

957
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: having sex, sometimes it just feels good, but it doesn't

958
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: necessarily always lead to a climax.

959
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 3: I mean, let us be honest, Like, as women, I

960
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 3: feel like most of us don't really start having orgasms

961
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 3: until to you, like our mid twenties.

962
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: Facts super facts, especially during sex, and a lot of

963
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: times women don't ever experience orgasms.

964
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 3: Yes, I was gonna say, it's like, it's women in

965
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 3: their forties, it's women in their fifties, it's women in

966
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 3: their sixties who say that they have never experienced an orgasm.

967
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 2: Sixty that's a long life.

968
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: You need to give it up.

969
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 2: See, I would have been stop fucking.

970
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: I would have been became a nun or something.

971
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, what's the point that Sister Mary clearing?

972
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: Damn, Sister Mary is not getting that back beat. But

973
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: but besides that, I do feel like you can still

974
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 1: have because I've had some of the sex that I've had.

975
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: When I think about a lot of the good sex

976
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: that I've had, I'm like, oh, I didn't even have

977
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: an orgasm then. But I feel like orgasms for women

978
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: are very different than orgasms for men. Though, you know,

979
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: like a woman, we can have an orgasm and we

980
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: can kind of pretty much keep going. You know, we

981
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: kind of don't lose our you know, stammin Like we

982
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: still kind of want to go. Like guys, once they

983
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 1: get it, it's this pretty much. But for the most part,

984
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: some guys can get it back up. But it's kind

985
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: of like whenever I'm man nuts, it's pretty much over obviously,

986
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But like I said, I

987
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: feel like for men that's their goal though, Like that's

988
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: their goal, is to have an orgasm. A lot of

989
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: times when I'm having sex, I'm not looking I'm not

990
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,320
Speaker 1: looking for an orgasm going into it, just because I

991
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: know a lot of the times I don't have an

992
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: orgasm during sex, that doesn't mean I'm not gonna enjoy it.

993
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of times we as women,

994
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: we need to stop putting so much pressure to have

995
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: an orgasm every single time we have sex. Oh, if

996
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: you don't have an orgasm, then you not having good sex.

997
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: It's like, that's not that's not necessarily true.

998
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that.

999
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 3: It's definitely not true because, like you said, you can

1000
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 3: have really good sex and night.

1001
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 2: But but it's because, like you said.

1002
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 3: Too, it's harder for women to reach an orgasm anyways.

1003
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: But men, I mean it's a giving we.

1004
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: All y'all, Like I said, y'all can say, y'all digging

1005
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 1: a donut, nigga gon nut. It ain't that hard. I mean,

1006
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: all right, calmed down, calmed down. But like I said,

1007
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: I do feel like, even though you don't have to

1008
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: have an orgasm every time, you do still need to

1009
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 1: be having an orgasm every now and then from six,

1010
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: Like you shouldn't be having sex all year with.

1011
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 3: Zero orgasms, like or at least learn how to make

1012
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 3: yourself orgasm.

1013
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 2: I feel like why women I don't know.

1014
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: I like a lot of women are scared to explore

1015
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: the bedroom, Like y'all, we spend so much time faking.

1016
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 1: I said that for a long time I was. I

1017
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: definitely used to be a faker in the bedroom.

1018
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: Oh why they used to be faking if I was

1019
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 2: my owny news because it's.

1020
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: Good, Well you won't anyway, so m eve, we kept

1021
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: doing that in Las, y'all know how funny it is

1022
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: just some moan and people just feel so uncomfortable. We

1023
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 1: were at Chick fil A. Dre was like because like, ma'am,

1024
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: do you want to number seven? No?

1025
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 2: Not you trying to blame it on me, like you

1026
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 2: wasn't doing it too.

1027
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: It's so funny, like you be on the phone with

1028
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: somebody that just hear a moan in the back door.

1029
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 2: They just talking to me like, yes, I had a

1030
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 2: good day. I don't know why. I like, are you okay?

1031
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: People comfortable?

1032
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 2: It's really a weird sound, it really is. It's really

1033
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 2: a weird time.

1034
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: Like who decided to do that? I mean, I don't

1035
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: even think nobody decided to do it. I think it

1036
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 1: was a natural reaction. I think it's a natural reaction.

1037
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: That's why we all do it. Yeah, you just do

1038
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: it just because I don't you burn like this? Oh,

1039
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 1: Doctor Pepper was spicy.

1040
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 2: First of all, I'm not drinking soda is definitely never.

1041
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 2: I don't you ever know me to drink soda, especially

1042
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 2: not on Dr Pepper.

1043
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: You don't like a little not.

1044
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 2: Thirty one flavor?

1045
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: No?

1046
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 2: Wait, that's masking.

1047
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: Do Dr Pepper have like a they they slogan they

1048
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: have like a certain amount of flavors in it, right,

1049
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: I need to get what's the name was it? Dimind

1050
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: Princess and City Diamond. I can't remember like sweet, it's

1051
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 1: really sweet. I don't like no brown soda. I'm not

1052
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: a soda person at all either, but PEPSI coke, doctor pepper.

1053
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 1: I do not like brown soap.

1054
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 2: If I drink if I'm going to drink a brown soda.

1055
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 2: And when I d used to drink soda, it would

1056
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 2: always be coke with.

1057
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: A little bit of yeck, with a little bit of

1058
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: hen dog.

1059
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 2: I have to stop drinking that because they be going

1060
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:41,720
Speaker 2: straight to yo good.

1061
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: It do. I feel like that's the stuff just be

1062
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: too heavy for me. That's why I'm a t girl.

1063
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 2: If I do like hennessy has so much sugar in it,

1064
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: it does. That's why I drinking it.

1065
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,879
Speaker 1: The headaches be the worst. But if I do drink soda,

1066
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie every now and then. I do

1067
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: crave a little orange soda. I like orange soda.

1068
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: Oh you know what I used to suck up bacon

1069
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 2: the day, pineapple soda.

1070
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: Pineapple fans, Oh you have a pineapple soda with some

1071
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: boot in now, that ship used to go off.

1072
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 2: Now, that's a weird combination.

1073
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:17,240
Speaker 1: Pineapple sael like you be it in there at mixture

1074
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: you getting judy you Wow, I love budden Oh my god, No,

1075
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: I love booden too, But I never, you know, thought

1076
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 1: to parents with you with a good shot. They are

1077
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: good red or merlo. Don't with pineapple soda and a

1078
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: little hot chip on the side.

1079
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 2: Flex Now you doing something boot and hot chips? You

1080
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,360
Speaker 2: know what? I really want to try? Seafood, then seafo.

1081
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,959
Speaker 1: I never had every type of boden. I've had chicken bood.

1082
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: I've had regular bood, beef bood, vegan boot be, vegetarian booty.

1083
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 2: How was that nasty?

1084
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:03,479
Speaker 1: Just like you thought?

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00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 2: What did they use? Like impossible me?

1086
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know, but that shit was nice. And

1087
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 1: I said, mm hm, you need to go back to

1088
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Speaker 1: the drawing board.

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Speaker 3: It's like, I don't know, I just feel like buoten

1090
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: is supposed to be like unfortunately, it's supposed to be pork.

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00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 1: It has to be pork. I don't care what no about.

1092
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: I've had every single type of crawfish booting. I don't

1093
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: like none of that. Give me the pork. I want

1094
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: all of porky.

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00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it has to be pork for sure, that's

1096
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 2: the only way.

1097
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know how we got on booting.

1098
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't know how we ever get I was off

1099
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: from talking about orgas, so we talk about busting and

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00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 1: to talk about booting and Pineapple soda support mine. Welcome

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00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:45,839
Speaker 1: to poor Minds. Okay, girl, so we gonna break down

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Speaker 1: your little show you've been watching.

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00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 3: Girl with I'm done watching it. I watched this shit

1104
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 3: in two days and it was like a good little show.

1105
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not really a sitcom person just because

1106
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,319
Speaker 3: again my attentions and it's so short, so it's hard

1107
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 3: for me to like really binge watch it because I

1108
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,720
Speaker 3: get bored after like the first, first or second season.

1109
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 2: So luckily for me, this was only one season. Okay,

1110
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 2: it's a show on BT Plus. It's called Kingdom Business.

1111
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: So I don't have cable, but I have Amazon Prime

1112
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: and you can add you can do like the add on,

1113
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: So I have BT.

1114
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 3: Plus on Amazon Prime. So I was watching it on air,

1115
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 3: and y'all, this little show is juicy.

1116
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: So it's like I like to say juicy. Yeah, it's

1117
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: like a drama. Okay, I mean it's I don't want

1118
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: to say a comedy.

1119
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 2: I mean it's like little funny parts, but it's mostly

1120
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Speaker 2: a druma.

1121
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So is there anybody like notable in ye?

1122
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 3: Yolanda Adams is on the show. Soria, the girl that

1123
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 3: was on Empire.

1124
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: I remember her. I remember her.

1125
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 3: What's that man name from? Why did I get married

1126
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 3: to Doe with the gap? I can't remember his name?

1127
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 3: I think like Michael or something.

1128
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, he fine. I can't remember his name though,

1129
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:04,959
Speaker 1: but yeah he's on there.

1130
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 3: Damn the the pastor, the guy that's the pastor on there.

1131
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 3: I can't remember his name either way.

1132
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: He doesn't been a mashy like you will be like,

1133
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I didn't see him the whole bunch of stuff.

1134
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 3: He was on the game like the last I think

1135
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 3: two seasons. He became the franchise owner.

1136
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: Oh I know, yes, yes, with the mustache. He was

1137
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 1: in soul Fool. Yeah. Faith, y'all know who I'm talking

1138
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: about with.

1139
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 2: So what is the family my cousins?

1140
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, So give us to.

1141
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 2: Give us the gist of it. So basically, it's just

1142
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 2: it's a show about a church and the man, the

1143
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 2: ball man.

1144
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: He's the pastor. Yolanda Adams remember the man? Can you

1145
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 1: please look up this man names? I canna stop calling

1146
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,479
Speaker 1: him the ball Michael who Michael Michael Beach.

1147
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 3: So Michael Beach is the pastor and well he's the beashup.

1148
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 3: And then Yolanda Adams is his wife, and she's like

1149
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 3: a really really popular gospel singer. Like she's one the

1150
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 3: equivalents of what Grammys are.

1151
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 1: Okay for the church, yes, for the church.

1152
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 3: So like she's a really really popular singer and like

1153
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:20,240
Speaker 3: basically that corrupt.

1154
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 2: The church is corrupt. And so then you gots to Ria.

1155
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 2: She's a stripper.

1156
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 1: And something very traumatic happens in the beginning of the show, okay,

1157
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:34,800
Speaker 1: and so she can sing. So she so she's like me, stripper,

1158
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 1: I can sing, not really.

1159
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:37,240
Speaker 2: Because you was never really a stripper.

1160
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: I did for one day. One day don't count and

1161
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: you're not a singer, so I don't even know how

1162
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: you got in this.

1163
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 3: But but yes, so right now she's a stripper. Traumatic

1164
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 3: happens at the beginning of the show. So she's trying

1165
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 3: to figure out how she wants.

1166
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: To get a better life, and so she starts singing

1167
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: gospel and so she kind of be getting into it

1168
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: when Yolanda Adams and like, because amen, okay, it just

1169
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: felt like the right thing to do. So is it

1170
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: given like Tyler Perry drama? Because I love the thing is?

1171
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 2: Yes, it really is.

1172
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 3: At first I thought it was a Tyler Perry show,

1173
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 3: but I don't think it is. So yeah, it's really

1174
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 3: really good. It's a lot of drama.

1175
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: It's real juicy in the way the fucking shit end,

1176
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: the way the first season end is gonna blow you out,

1177
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: fucking mind.

1178
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 2: Literally, remember I said literally.

1179
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I gotta watch this now. I'm going home.

1180
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 2: Watch it today because somebody mind, don't get blown.

1181
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: See take it too far. I'm just saying, so Kingdom Business,

1182
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:39,919
Speaker 1: we can watch it on BT plus.

1183
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 3: You said yes on BT plus. It's really really good.

1184
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 3: You know, me and Lix love some black cinema.

1185
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 2: I love a good black cinema now, so it was

1186
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 2: right up my alley.

1187
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 3: So now heart outside Jasmine was telling me that we

1188
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 3: need to watch that show all the Queen's means or the.

1189
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: Lauren watches that Jazz is good girl every time I

1190
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: call on you like I gotta call you thing like

1191
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: she really did good. It was I can't remember, but

1192
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,399
Speaker 1: the woman from America's Next Time Mom okay got you Okay,

1193
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna check that one out too, and we're

1194
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,439
Speaker 1: gonna let's watch that and review it next week. Let's

1195
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 1: do that, okay, Okay, So now we're gonna get and

1196
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: so they boo about Okay. So my bop of the

1197
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: week is by Bory So he just dropped his album.

1198
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 1: I really like Vory. I feel like I would always

1199
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: see people like talking about him, but I never like

1200
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 1: took the time out to actually go listen to his music.

1201
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: Bro Hard b He is hard. I really really I

1202
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:48,839
Speaker 1: love toxic music. He's definitely giving toxic energy. Like he's

1203
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: very toxic. He doesn't have anything too much positively like

1204
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:58,839
Speaker 1: toxic music myself days so not she said, he don't

1205
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:02,280
Speaker 1: have nothing positive this I love it. I love negative energy,

1206
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: negative energy music. Let me not say that. But I

1207
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: just feel like he's always going through it with these bitches.

1208
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: And that's the type of shit I like to hear

1209
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:13,439
Speaker 1: because why because we're all going through it and lets

1210
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: me know that I'm not along in this struggle.

1211
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 2: With my man, my man. Okay, see, I'm not about

1212
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 2: to play with shoot.

1213
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 3: So by mind Games, that's my bop of the week.

1214
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 3: Don't tell me that they're pussy mine when I'm just

1215
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 3: in town. Don't tell me you fucking off because you

1216
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 3: think that I get.

1217
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: A run exactly. Toxic King. Okay, bro, I love it

1218
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: here uh Lex goodbye, Okay, it's for this week?

1219
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 2: Is what happened to Virtue by Little Dirt and Gunna.

1220
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 2: I love this song.

1221
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 3: I came across it by accident to because one day

1222
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 3: I was listening to like I had listened to a

1223
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 3: little Baby playlist that was on title, and like, this

1224
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,760
Speaker 3: song just came up on the playlist.

1225
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, what Virgil?

1226
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 1: I feel like, I'm serious, I think that, And apparently

1227
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: he made the song because that's how he felt when

1228
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: he found out.

1229
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 2: He was like, oh my god, what happened to Virgil?

1230
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: And even though I knew what happened, I said, oh

1231
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 1: my god, what happened when I listened to the song?

1232
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how DUMBGRK is When that's the

1233
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 1: night of the Oscars that nigga gonna tweet, Oh my god,

1234
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: what happened to Chris Rock?

1235
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 2: I said, he probably watch TV.

1236
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: I can relate today because I'm the same way like

1237
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 1: you be, having to tell me about stuff a lot

1238
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: of time because I'm having no idea. Oh my god.

1239
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: But I do feel like it's crazy because I feel

1240
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: like whenever he was recording the song, he probably maybe

1241
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: got the news or something and he was probably like,

1242
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:49,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, what happened to Virgil?

1243
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:53,360
Speaker 2: Like, yes, that's what literally, that's why he named Okay.

1244
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: I just need him because apparently he don't be on

1245
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: the meetia, he don't be on the media like that.

1246
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: But it is. It is. I like a little Dirk.

1247
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 2: That's a nice little dedication, even though they don't really

1248
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: talk about him. Besides, I.

1249
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: Have nothing to do with virtual at all. Nothing to

1250
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: do with that man at all. I really don't have

1251
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: fucked on a stripper. And I took me to Roxy.

1252
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 1: How you my blood? You said you're gonna probably fall

1253
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: over loyalty, never about thotties. Get out my business mood.

1254
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: This ship don't concern you. I get to digging this

1255
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: ship when I learn you, I love the trenches. This

1256
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 1: ship is eternal. Oh my god, what happened to Virgil?

1257
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 2: Oh fucking word, man, you need this. I felt like

1258
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 2: I was in a poetry now.

1259
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: Shout up to Durkyo, Schmirkyo.

1260
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 2: That's what he's.

1261
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: I thought that the little boy that looked like him.

1262
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 2: I don't know he said that on the song. I

1263
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: think he might have said these on these So he

1264
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 2: said that on some.

1265
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: Song and he preferred thanks a little, Dirk. All right,

1266
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 1: let's move on and shut up to gun on a

1267
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Speaker 1: So yeah, go ahead to next Sygney.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment,

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Speaker 1: which is to depour your heart out segment. And you know,

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Speaker 1: if you have any questions, as always, send them to

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Speaker 1: at me like.

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Speaker 2: Job like from my son you I can feel you

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Speaker 2: like piercing your eyes looking at me like Ask for

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Speaker 1: If you have any questions you would like to sing

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Speaker 1: testimonials because you know, we also like to know we

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Speaker 1: fucked your life.

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Speaker 2: Amen, brothers and sisters.

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Speaker 3: All right, question number one. Hello, ladies. I'm writing because

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Speaker 3: I saw that Drell lost six pounds in a week.

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Speaker 3: I was wondering if you all have any fitness tips.

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Speaker 3: I'm five to seven and one sixty five. I finally

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Speaker 3: got an asked after years of praying for it, and

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Speaker 3: all it took was for me to turn thirty.

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Speaker 1: But baby loved the butt, but the gut in the

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Speaker 1: back that got to go. I served in a viction

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Speaker 1: notice and these bitches got thirty days period.

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Speaker 2: So girl, that's crazy because you're fab seven and.

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Speaker 1: I'm fall two and I was like one seventy two,

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Speaker 1: so now I'm one sixty five, I think. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So basically, I just again, I'm very extreme, So I

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Speaker 3: don't be recommending that people necessarily do what I do because.

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Speaker 2: I be doing the lot when I be having a

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Speaker 2: goal to lose weight and stuff.

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Speaker 3: So I literally was going, I've been going to the

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Speaker 3: infrared SNA every day for the past two and a

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Speaker 3: half weeks. I be in there for forty five minutes,

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Speaker 3: sometimes fifty minutes, and that burns. I think three hundred

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Speaker 3: to six hundred calories a day. Then I work out

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Speaker 3: every single morning.

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Speaker 1: I do cardio first, then I do I switch up

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Speaker 1: between my arm and my leg days, but I also

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Speaker 1: do apps every single day. I have eliminated carbs completely

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01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: for my DIEI in the past two and a half weeks,

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Speaker 1: I've had.

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Speaker 2: A drink like three times.

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Speaker 1: It's good. Yeah, so I mean again, like very extreme measures.

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Speaker 1: And then some days I be even working out twice

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Speaker 1: a day, like tomorrow, I'm gonna workout twice because I

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Speaker 1: have a excuse me.

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Speaker 2: I have a class at Orange Theory.

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Speaker 3: Last week, I had a pilates class, and I also

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Speaker 3: still worked out that morning, and I walked to the

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01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 3: pilates class like, yeah, I be doing the life.

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Speaker 2: So that's why I lost so much weight.

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Speaker 3: I feel like in such a short period of time,

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Speaker 3: probably if I wasn't doing as much, because that's not

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Speaker 3: really that easy to lose six pounds seven pounds in

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Speaker 3: a week.

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Speaker 1: But people like trying to lose weight.

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Speaker 2: Oh when I need a cleanse. I forgot about that.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, y'all. You can't lose weight in just one area.

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Speaker 1: So I know you said you're happy you got your

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Speaker 1: butt and you're trying to lose it and your gut

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Speaker 1: and your back fat. But when you lose weight, it's

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01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: gonna come from all over. I hate when I see

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Speaker 1: these advertising like, oh, lose your belly fat or oh

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Speaker 1: lose your back fat, Like there's no way you can

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Speaker 1: lose weight in just one area. Yeah, so whatever you

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Speaker 1: do to lose weight, just understand that your butt is

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01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: probably gonna get smaller in the process. But I know, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe lifting the little weights can help, you know,

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Speaker 1: round it out, because yeah, I don't know, I'll just

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Speaker 1: be going to get surgery, so you can't ask me nothing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and that too, I mean before, But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just feel like the main thing is just being consistent.

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Speaker 2: And you cannot outwork a dirty diet.

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Speaker 1: What is it saying?

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Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna say.

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Speaker 3: You cannot outwork a dirty die if that is for sure, Like,

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Speaker 3: if you're going to be trying to lose weight no

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Speaker 3: matter how much you work out every day, if you're

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Speaker 3: not eating right, unless you're gonna run five miles a

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Speaker 3: day like Ryan, then you can eat whatever.

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Speaker 2: The fuck you want.

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Speaker 1: Think about Ryan, he gonna run, But.

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Speaker 2: That's a lie, Like five miles a day is a lie.

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Speaker 3: So unless you're gonna do that type of working out,

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01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 3: then yeah, you can't just be eating whatever the fuck

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Speaker 3: you want.

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Speaker 2: You have to be consistent, and you have to drink water.

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Speaker 2: Drinking water is key. I've been also drinking a gallon

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Speaker 2: of water a day, so yeah, and let's drink a

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Speaker 2: lot of water. Anyways.

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Speaker 1: I do. I love water. I actually don't drink. I

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01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: don't really drink nothing else but water and wine and

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Speaker 1: tito and cran beer and bean juicegine they had a

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Speaker 1: caprice on but would be fuck y'all, Okay, you're sixty strict.

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Speaker 3: It's just saying you say you got thirty days, so

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Speaker 3: I definitely feel like, you know, you could probably lose

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Speaker 3: like a good five pounds or six pounds in thirty

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Speaker 3: days if you like switch up, y'all dieity incorporate.

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Speaker 2: Working out for sure. I wouldn't track your calorie too.

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Speaker 1: I use my fitness m I ain't gonna tell y'all

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Speaker 1: the name because people be needing to cut the trees,

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Speaker 1: she said. I had to say ya.

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Speaker 2: I had because I had to think about it. But

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Speaker 2: see if you a dm ME or something I'll send

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Speaker 2: it to you.

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Speaker 1: Everybody, I may no matter of fact, because at least

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Speaker 1: just start putting yall emails. I'm gonna just email you

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Speaker 1: the name of app Okay, So question two high, ladies.

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Speaker 1: I broke up with my ex in October of twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty one. I hit rock bottom, lost my car, my job,

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Speaker 1: and damn near homeless. I'm thirty three, and this is

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Speaker 1: the first time I have ever not been able to

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Speaker 1: provide for myself or have shit to fall back. On April,

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01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: I find myself throwing up and feeling a little different.

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01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 1: When I actually put some thought into it, I realized

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Speaker 1: I hadn't had my period in months, and I didn't

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01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 1: question it at first because I blamed it on stress

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01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: and everything else going on. Made a doctor's appointment, and boom,

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Speaker 1: twenty six weeks pregnant. No abortions are performed after twenty

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Speaker 1: four weeks, so that's out of the question. I've never

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Speaker 1: wanted kids, so let's just know your baby's got plenty

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01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 1: of cousins to hang out with, you know where, So

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Speaker 1: now this is something else to add to my plate.

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Speaker 1: Told my ex, and he was cool. He's financially straight

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Speaker 1: and has an extra room in the house. But on

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Speaker 1: the other hand, I'm not financially straight, so I started

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Speaker 1: reading and looking into adoption agency. He's not totally on board,

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Speaker 1: but he is supportive. The only people in my family

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Speaker 1: that knows are two cousins, and one of them said,

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Speaker 1: I'll take it and raise it as my own. And

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the offer, but it's just too close to home.

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Speaker 1: So my question is, Drea, I know some of you

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Speaker 1: some of your adoption story, but when did you find

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Speaker 1: out or have you always known you were adopted? How

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Speaker 1: did you feel towards your biological mom Do you hold

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Speaker 1: any resentment?

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Speaker 3: So, yes, I always knew I was adopted my whole life,

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01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 3: well from the time that I could comprehend. So I

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Speaker 3: want to say I was like four or five when

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Speaker 3: my parents told me.

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Speaker 2: So I always knew.

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Speaker 3: And me and my biological mom have a very strange relationship.

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01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 3: But similar to how your cousin said that they that

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01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 3: she wanted to raise the baby or whatever, like, that's

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Speaker 3: pretty much my situation. Like I grew up thinking that

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Speaker 3: my mom was my cousin, and so we were around

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01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 3: each other my whole life, and so obviously, you know

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01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 3: that could make a situation very awkward, especially once well,

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01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 3: especially for her her whole life, but for me even

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01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 3: more so.

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Speaker 1: Once I found out. So, yeah, we have a very

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01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 1: estranged relationship, but I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's not bad. Like whenever she called me, I answered.

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01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:53,720
Speaker 1: Whenever I call her, I know she'll answer, and if

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Speaker 1: I ever needed anything, I know I could ask her

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01:07:56,440 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: and vice versa. So yeah, and I don't really hold

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01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 1: any resentment necessarily because I feel like both of my parents,

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01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 1: like my parents that raised me, were amazing, and I

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01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,000
Speaker 1: feel like, what kind of quality of life would I

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Speaker 1: have had if I was raised by a twelve going

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Speaker 1: on thirteen year old.

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Speaker 2: At the time.

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Speaker 1: That's wild to think about, but I'm just saying, yeah,

1465
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: like what kind of quality of life would I have

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01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:24,560
Speaker 1: had if I was raised by her versus going to

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01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,560
Speaker 1: a loving family and a loving home where both of

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Speaker 1: my parents were established and they were able to take

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Speaker 1: care of.

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Speaker 2: Me financially, and I was able to have a great childhood.

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Speaker 3: And then, you know, fortunately for her as well, because

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Speaker 3: she didn't have to worry about raising me, she was

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01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 3: able to go on and do amazing things with her

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01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 3: life and now she's super successful. And I feel like

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01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,719
Speaker 3: I turned out to be successful. I turned out pretty

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01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 3: great myself, So I mean, I don't I don't really

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01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 3: hold any resentment towards her for the adoption part of anything.

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01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 2: It My resentment with her was.

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Speaker 3: Just always because I grew up around her, the fact

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01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 3: that she never tried to have a relationship with me.

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01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 3: I used to be like kind of mean to me

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01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,720
Speaker 3: and stuff, as if I could control the narrative of

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01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:10,440
Speaker 3: the situation.

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01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 1: But I think it was also probably you know, a

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01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 1: little traumatic for her too, so that she probably didn't know.

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01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 2: How, yeah, for sure.

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01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 3: And I mean that's something that has came with maturity

1488
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 3: and then getting me getting older and becoming more mature

1489
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:25,680
Speaker 3: and understanding that she was just dealing with it and

1490
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 3: coping with it the best way that she knew how.

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01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 3: But in the beginning, when I found out when I

1492
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 3: was eighteen, my resentment more so came from the way

1493
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 3: that she treated me when I was growing up, but

1494
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 3: not the actual, you know, adoption.

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01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,000
Speaker 1: So I don't know she I think you need to

1496
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 1: just do whatever, yeah, make you comfortable. And if if

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01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 1: you end up giving your child to your cousin, I

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01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: think y'all need to have an understanding too that that's

1499
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:51,600
Speaker 1: her baby, and that you don't y'all need to just

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01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 1: make sure it's in black and white on how things

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01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 1: are going to be, because you don't want a situation

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01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 1: where she's like, Okay, well come get your child and

1503
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: it's like, nah, that's not yeah.

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01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 3: And I mean it's a different situation with you as well,

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01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 3: because obviously you're you're thirty three years old, so you're

1506
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 3: of age. Like with me, with my mom, it was

1507
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 3: really just kind of a situation where everybody was making

1508
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 3: decisions for her. She didn't have no say so over

1509
01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 3: and nothing because she wasn't even eighteen, you know what

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01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:18,640
Speaker 3: I mean. So you have to do what's best for

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01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,840
Speaker 3: you if you don't think that you could deal with

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01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:22,920
Speaker 3: that having to see the child and having to be

1513
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:25,120
Speaker 3: around the child and stuff all the time. I mean,

1514
01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 3: it's plenty of loving families that will take the child

1515
01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 3: in as well that aren't you know, related to you.

1516
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:33,640
Speaker 3: My family they really wanted to, like seem like it

1517
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,200
Speaker 3: was kind of like her parents, which are my grandparents,

1518
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 3: really wanted to be able.

1519
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 2: To see me grow up too.

1520
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 1: They had a lot to do with why they was

1521
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: okay with letting my parents adopt me, which is my

1522
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: grandmother sister is my mom, like I was raising the baby.

1523
01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:55,719
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what Barbara is, y'all. That's not she really,

1524
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 1: she's really my She was really supposed to be my

1525
01:10:58,120 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: great aunt, but.

1526
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,719
Speaker 2: She was my mom. I love Barb.

1527
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, so question three, what's up y'all? I

1528
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: think one of my friendships is coming Oh, it's your

1529
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 1: turn to read? Okay, no way, you just read that.

1530
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 1: I know that's what I say. It's your turn.

1531
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:13,839
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm a little.

1532
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: So No, I don't like to read.

1533
01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:17,439
Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? I think one of my friendships is

1534
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 3: coming to an end. We have been friends for about

1535
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 3: four years, and I love her like a sister. We

1536
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,360
Speaker 3: became friends in high school and we never hung out

1537
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:29,480
Speaker 3: outside of school. We were always oh we will always

1538
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:31,800
Speaker 3: just talk on the phone almost every day, which I

1539
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 3: have no problem with. She used to have a friend

1540
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 3: group that she would actually go outside with, but they

1541
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 3: are no longer friends. I have a friend group that

1542
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 3: I go outside with that I'm still cool with. Me

1543
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 3: and my friend don't hang out like that, and never did.

1544
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 3: I can count by hand how many times we hung

1545
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,639
Speaker 3: out in twenty twenty two, and I have no problem

1546
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 3: with that, and she seemed to not have a problem

1547
01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 3: with you. She had a birthday earlier this year and

1548
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 3: our birthdays all around the same time. I didn't go

1549
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 3: to her birthday dinner because I had to get a

1550
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 3: car for my birthday and I was low on Our

1551
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 3: birthdays are four days apart, and she never forgave me

1552
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 3: for that. It's been tensioning our friendship since January. She

1553
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 3: even tries to celebrate my birthday without me, but I

1554
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:12,519
Speaker 3: was like, no, not this time, just because I wasn't

1555
01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 3: in the mood this year, and she knows this. Every

1556
01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 3: time that I post I'm outside with my other friends,

1557
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 3: she will literally stop talking to me because I guess

1558
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 3: she feels some type of way that I didn't go

1559
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 3: outside with her. But we never hung out, so I'm

1560
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 3: confused on why it's a problem now. I was feeling

1561
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 3: some type of way about her too, because I feel

1562
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,559
Speaker 3: like she didn't support my business. But when y'all said

1563
01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 3: friends don't have to support, I let that go. I

1564
01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 3: come up with things for us to do, but it's

1565
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 3: always something on why we don't hang out. I believe

1566
01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 3: in different friends for different things. One more thing, my

1567
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 3: friend is bougie. I be scared to tell her certain

1568
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 3: stuff and live in my truth. I told her I

1569
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 3: didn't come to her birthday stuff because my hair wasn't done,

1570
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 3: but I really didn't have the funds. And I'd be

1571
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 3: scared to pick her to pick her up because this

1572
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 3: is my first car and it's not the best at all,

1573
01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 3: and I'm afraid of being judged, even though she and have.

1574
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: One what to do. First of all, I wouldn't be

1575
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 1: giving a fuck about being judged about somebody who faked boogie,

1576
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: because you fake boogie. If you ain't got no car

1577
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 1: and you judging other people for what kind of car

1578
01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:16,600
Speaker 1: they got, you should get a car. I think the

1579
01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:21,600
Speaker 1: best thing that I think the best thing about friendships

1580
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,760
Speaker 1: is having a judge free song with somebody that you

1581
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 1: feel safe in. Yeah, especially as women, that's very important

1582
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 1: that we have that space. So I feel like maybe

1583
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: y'all need to have a sit down and reevalue y'all's

1584
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 1: friendship because something is not seeing out eye for her

1585
01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 1: to be wanting to go out with you. You don't

1586
01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:42,040
Speaker 1: want to go out with her, and then you don't

1587
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:44,679
Speaker 1: feel comfortable telling her the real reason why you couldn't

1588
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: go to your birthday. She wanted to hang out on

1589
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 1: your birthday, you really didn't want to, So y'all need

1590
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 1: to really sit down, Like it seems like y'all are

1591
01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:55,600
Speaker 1: not friends, like maybe y'all think y'all are. And I

1592
01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 1: think a lot of times people don't realize you outgrow people,

1593
01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 1: and there's nothing wrong with that. A lot of friends

1594
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:02,640
Speaker 1: that I was friends with in high school, we're not

1595
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 1: friends anymore, not because if anything happened. It's just when

1596
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: you grow, you start getting into other things that maybe

1597
01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:10,719
Speaker 1: they're not necessarily into. Like you said, she's a little

1598
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:13,599
Speaker 1: more bougie and you're not. Y'all are just into different things.

1599
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 1: So I think maybe y'all need to sit down and

1600
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:18,280
Speaker 1: maybe just reevaluate things a little bit.

1601
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:19,800
Speaker 2: I mean, you gotta look at y'all.

1602
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 3: You have to reevaluate y'all friendship with somebody when you're

1603
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 3: scared to tell them. So when you're scared to tell

1604
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 3: them all, I couldn't come see your birthday dinner because

1605
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:29,639
Speaker 3: I didn't have no money because I had to get

1606
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:31,600
Speaker 3: a card. I feel like that should have been an

1607
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 3: easy conversation for you to let her know that. But

1608
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 3: then also as your friend.

1609
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 1: She shouldn't have been upset with you because you didn't

1610
01:14:39,120 --> 01:14:42,519
Speaker 1: come to the birthday dinner. Yeah, because a lot of

1611
01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: the time, people have to understand a lot of the time,

1612
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: when people do things or don't do things, it ain't

1613
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: always about you. Sometimes people don't come places, or people

1614
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 1: don't participate in things for their own personal reasons.

1615
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 2: She but obviously you was going through.

1616
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 3: Some sheep, and even though she didn't know what she

1617
01:14:57,080 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 3: was going through, she should have been able to understand.

1618
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 2: Thirty one years old. Now, every year that I've ever had.

1619
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:05,560
Speaker 3: A birthday dinner or a birthday something, all of my

1620
01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 3: friends couldn't always make eat.

1621
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 2: And it wasn't no hard feeling.

1622
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: Right, I mean, people got a life going on. So yeah, yeah,

1623
01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 1: y'all need to have a conversation, all right. Question four, Hey,

1624
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 1: Lexandrea loved the show, so I'm gonna get straight to

1625
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 1: the point. This issue is more about my friend than me.

1626
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:24,680
Speaker 1: But she's perfectly fine with me sharing. My girl has

1627
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: gotten herself in some shit. In college, she had this

1628
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: BDB who was strictly just fun and a good time.

1629
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 1: Fast forward to now, she hasn't talked to this man

1630
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:35,559
Speaker 1: in five years. She randomly sees him on her new

1631
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 1: bdb's story and finds out that they are cousins. He

1632
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,000
Speaker 1: has been spending a lot of time with this distant

1633
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 1: relative lately, and she doesn't know what to do. How

1634
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 1: do you tell a man you really feeling that you

1635
01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:47,640
Speaker 1: used to fuck on his cousin and even went on

1636
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: trips out the country with him. What would y'all do?

1637
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:51,840
Speaker 1: Should she just let the issue come up on his

1638
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:53,640
Speaker 1: own or just go ahead and let him know.

1639
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 2: She should just tell him.

1640
01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 1: That's what I feel like. If it was five years ago,

1641
01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 1: I told y'all this, actually, well, not the same thing,

1642
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:03,280
Speaker 1: but I had went on a day with a guy

1643
01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:05,759
Speaker 1: with throwback Bay and I used to fuck on his partners.

1644
01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: And I literally told him on the first day, like, hey,

1645
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:08,519
Speaker 1: I'm just let you know I used to fuck your

1646
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:10,639
Speaker 1: partner back in the day. It was a long time ago,

1647
01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:13,080
Speaker 1: but right now it's about us and I'm feeling you.

1648
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: So that's why you gotta let him know. I think

1649
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,880
Speaker 1: a lot of people I don't think like that, but

1650
01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 1: I think you should let him know. Let him know,

1651
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 1: because I feel like men appreciate You'd be surprised that

1652
01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 1: how much people appreciate honesty, because let me tell you something,

1653
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,040
Speaker 1: he's gonna rather hear it from your mouth than somebody else's,

1654
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I would just get

1655
01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 1: ahead of it and go ahead.

1656
01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 3: And I mean they cousins. Girl, it's gonna come up.

1657
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 3: It's gonna come up, so especially if you come around.

1658
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 3: So I just feel like you just need to go

1659
01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:43,640
Speaker 3: ahead and say something because at the end of the day,

1660
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:46,400
Speaker 3: if he do decide to dump you or whatever, you

1661
01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:49,160
Speaker 3: could cousin. No, I was gonna say, at least you

1662
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:51,439
Speaker 3: could cut your losses early, like, at least you could

1663
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:55,800
Speaker 3: just you know, move on. But yeah, I don't know

1664
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:57,800
Speaker 3: because I don't know if personally, if I found out

1665
01:16:57,800 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 3: a nigga was another nigga cousin and we was fucking,

1666
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to fuck with that nigga on my own.

1667
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 2: Cousins You fuck the cousin, No, I haven't, but I would.

1668
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 2: You will fuck some cousins, why not? Would you? Brothers?

1669
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:16,799
Speaker 1: No, that's a little too close for comfort together.

1670
01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:20,400
Speaker 2: Cousins too. You still share the same DNA.

1671
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 1: But she said distant relative. God damn it, what was

1672
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 1: he in first? Second?

1673
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 2: Third? It depends.

1674
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:31,320
Speaker 3: Now that's true because in backwoods Louisiana, you know, people

1675
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:32,040
Speaker 3: be fucking.

1676
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 1: Alright, alright they they do. Make sure y'all subscribe to

1677
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 1: the channel. Y'all know we on tour, so make sure

1678
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 1: y'all get y'all tickets to the tour. We outide, we

1679
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:44,400
Speaker 1: outside anything.

1680
01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 2: Else you gotta add my good sess? No, not really,

1681
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 2: I have to think about it.

1682
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 1: No, are you ready for this one?

1683
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 2: Let me witting my whistle.

1684
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:56,439
Speaker 1: You want me to start it off? I feel like

1685
01:17:56,560 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 1: this part is gonna be the This part is gonna

1686
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 1: be the good part. This is gonna be good who

1687
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 1: I know?

1688
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:02,920
Speaker 2: That's why I have them.

1689
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 1: I'll start doing, make a scene. I really don't care

1690
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 1: if people staring at us. Times I think I'm dreaming.

1691
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: I pinched myself just to see if I'm awake or

1692
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:20,280
Speaker 1: is it rial?

1693
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 2: What I feel? Could it be with me? Until then?

1694
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 1: Time my heart hold my heart, hold it tired. It's true.

1695
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:38,680
Speaker 4: I gotta be no one you u and baby, I

1696
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:43,080
Speaker 4: gotta be the one you love. I gotta be no

1697
01:18:43,240 --> 01:18:46,880
Speaker 4: one you feel, and I gotta be no.

1698
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,600
Speaker 1: One to feel your life or sunshine.

1699
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 2: I gotta be no one you know, and I will

1700
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:58,600
Speaker 2: always love you so baby, I gotta be the.

1701
01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 1: One you need. I'm just telling you that I gotta be.

1702
01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:07,240
Speaker 1: That was good.

1703
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:10,240
Speaker 2: You gotta do the You make me whole, You make

1704
01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 2: me right. Don't never want to think about you leaving

1705
01:19:14,200 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 2: my life. You make me home, You make me right.

1706
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:22,320
Speaker 1: Don't never want to think about you living my life.

1707
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:33,719
Speaker 1: Oh that this was a boss.

1708
01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:39,160
Speaker 2: This was really what make used to make them hit.

1709
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:46,519
Speaker 1: Bro shut off to Jay's single all Reality.

1710
01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 2: Hello, I know shout they do it on that song

1711
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 2: with a shunt. That was my I love when you me.

1712
01:20:01,240 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 1: In it always moaning for no apparent reason.

1713
01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 2: I just, y'all, I went to a J and H

1714
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:09,600
Speaker 2: concept and I tell him now, I don't know.

1715
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 1: I don't think you did. I can't remember.

1716
01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:13,640
Speaker 3: I went to me and my best friend. She's a

1717
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 3: tourist like me, and her right day is like two

1718
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:17,880
Speaker 3: days after mine. So her mom had got us tickets

1719
01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 3: to go to the Jaggage as gene Wine concert in

1720
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 3: Houston for her birthday last month, and y'all, we had a.

1721
01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:28,000
Speaker 2: Mother fuck it blast. Okay, it's so fun. I was

1722
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 2: singing all the songs cause I used to love me

1723
01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 2: some jagg and gen one.

1724
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Speaker 1: Yes, I wonder I need to go to all like

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Speaker 1: a nineties concerts.

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01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 2: You do, we do. We need to find one that's

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01:20:36,400 --> 01:20:36,879
Speaker 2: in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: Okay, y'all. Before we wrap this up, I just want

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01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:43,560
Speaker 1: to say, obviously I have been going through uh. I

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01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 1: had a crazy last month of going on in my life.

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01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get emotional. I just wanted address this

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01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:52,560
Speaker 1: because a lot of y'all. Y'all have sent me so

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01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 1: much love and so many messages. If you're a listener,

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01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:59,360
Speaker 1: obviously y'all know my mom recently passed, and I just

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01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:02,439
Speaker 1: want to say thank y'all because y'all have literally sent

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01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:06,760
Speaker 1: me so much love. And I think you only know

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01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: how this feels if you've gone through it, and for me,

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01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 1: it's just been It's helped me a lot. I'll say

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01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 1: that that y'all have just been praying for me so much,

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01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 1: like I really felt it. It'd be like some moments

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01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:20,160
Speaker 1: where I'll just be feeling bad and I'll get a

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01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 1: random message from one of y'all and I just want

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01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 1: to say, y'all know my mom was like a big

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01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 1: listener of the show, so I felt like y'all knew

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01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: her too. Like every time, like I post a picture

1746
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 1: of it, y'all be like, ooh, Anny put that shit

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01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:34,559
Speaker 1: on and this and that. So I just wanna just say,

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01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:39,479
Speaker 1: like I appreciate everybody at like eighty five, everybody has

1749
01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 1: really been there for me, and this has been like

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01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 1: a weird transition for me. So, like I said, y'all know,

1751
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 1: we keep it one hundred percent real on this show,

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01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:49,200
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to address up. Look, I have

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01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:50,599
Speaker 1: to save it for the end because I didn't want

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01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 1: to get in too emotion show. But I've just been

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01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:55,479
Speaker 1: taking things day by day. It's gonna be weird being

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01:21:55,520 --> 01:21:58,560
Speaker 1: on tour and her not being there, but y'all have

1757
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 1: showed me so much and compassion. I had to take

1758
01:22:02,479 --> 01:22:04,599
Speaker 1: a lot of time off to kind of like get

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01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:06,960
Speaker 1: back in the swing of things. So y'all just bear

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01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:09,080
Speaker 1: with me here. And like I said, I read all

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01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:12,680
Speaker 1: of y'all's messages. I've literally read every single thing. I

1762
01:22:12,800 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 1: read all the Patreon messages, the dms, everything. I know,

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01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 1: I don't respond to everything, but like I said, it's

1764
01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:21,560
Speaker 1: been a really, really really tough time for me. So

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01:22:22,080 --> 01:22:24,599
Speaker 1: but I just want to thank y'all for like all

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01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:27,880
Speaker 1: the messages and all the love. So I appreciate it.

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01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:31,240
Speaker 1: I love y'all, and we'll see y'all on tour period.

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Speaker 2: By y'all, bye,