WEBVTT - Asking the Big Questions

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so today's episode, we are well, actually, I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>a hotel bedroom and well, I can't say where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the middle of nowhere, Arizona. So that's where

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<v Speaker 2>I'm at. Girls, where are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just in my office at home.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm at a lake house.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, didn't you just where's baby?

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<v Speaker 6>He's with She's with me, have baby will travel. So

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<v Speaker 6>we decided to just hunkerr for three days three sleep

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<v Speaker 6>really just two full days to like let the kids

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<v Speaker 6>fish and get outside. And we have a data home,

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<v Speaker 6>which is rare in June, so we're just hanging out.

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<v Speaker 6>We just moved, we relocated. It's just our family, the

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<v Speaker 6>Core five, so it's still quiet and cozy and we're

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<v Speaker 6>just doing life here with the little scenery for a

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<v Speaker 6>couple days.

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<v Speaker 5>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>I think my husband to avoid postpartum depression anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>I love I love that you guys are at a

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<v Speaker 2>lake that's amazing. Yeah, three times a trim mark and

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<v Speaker 2>you're in Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in beautiful downtown Burbank right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you are studio and so today we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>do a little Q and A episode because we haven't

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<v Speaker 2>done one of those in a minute, and we have

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<v Speaker 2>the pleasure of having Mark to ask the question.

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<v Speaker 1>So can I ask my question first before we get

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<v Speaker 1>into their questions?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, all right, Well let's just dive in, shall we?

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<v Speaker 5>Should we say to your question?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I could. I like mine better than theirs,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wanted to get it in and I like

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<v Speaker 1>it that. I feel like I can ask you very

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<v Speaker 1>personal questions and it doesn't phase you in the slightest,

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<v Speaker 1>which is great because there's other shows where we'll do

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<v Speaker 1>a Q and A and they'll ask a personal question.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can't talk about that, or I edit that out.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't talk about that. You've never done that to

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<v Speaker 1>us ever, and I did.

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<v Speaker 2>One time, okay remember the last It was maybe two

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<v Speaker 2>Q and A episodes ago, and I was like Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>I just I can't talk about this person or they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to keep going out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, legal reasons. Yeah that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well yes, and I think this person liked to

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<v Speaker 2>be talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, my question is the okay, I just the you're okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So to recap, you're pregnant. My question is that one

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<v Speaker 1>motivate the other. Did the pregnancy cause the urgency to

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<v Speaker 1>get engaged because you announced them in the opposite order.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering if it happened in the other order and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a reason for that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a really good question, Thank you. And I'm actually

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<v Speaker 5>let's see how do I say this?

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<v Speaker 2>So when we met uh and we had the early

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<v Speaker 2>conversation of not early conversation, it was probably like well

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<v Speaker 2>like February when you started having like all right, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you what do you see? Like what's a crystal

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<v Speaker 2>ball thing for? Like what are you kind of thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>And so that's when we kind of had the discussion

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<v Speaker 2>where he was like would you ever have their kid?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, well, I've already you know, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>like I've always said no, and I've talked about that before.

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<v Speaker 2>But I told him and this is I can't remember, Kat.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it you were Kristin I called crying about this

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<v Speaker 2>timeline of things? It might have been a new Kat,

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<v Speaker 2>do you remember or was it UKB.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean know we talked about it, but I think

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<v Speaker 3>you might have called Kristen upset about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I think this was the first class chat.

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<v Speaker 5>The woe wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>This the first class chat?

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<v Speaker 6>We were on a flight coming home and we had

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<v Speaker 6>this like really sentimental moment about the timeline and the

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<v Speaker 6>order and we were on a plane.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so basically what I was expressing. And I remember, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>having the conversation where I got emotional about it because

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<v Speaker 2>I've obviously had plenty of not plenty, but I've obviously,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, been married a couple times, even though in

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<v Speaker 2>my brain I just think the one, because that to me,

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<v Speaker 2>was my only marriage. But I with him, I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to do it the way that you grow up dreaming about,

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<v Speaker 2>where you get engaged, you get married, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Have a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>And I got really choked up about it because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't, right, So if we want to have a kid,

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<v Speaker 2>I and but we also want to be married and

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<v Speaker 2>engaged before that. My age most likely isn't going to

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<v Speaker 2>allow how I have thought and dreamt it in my

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<v Speaker 2>fairy tale brain as a kid.

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<v Speaker 5>Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>So I got really upset about it because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>damn it. I was like, I, of all of everyone

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<v Speaker 2>that I've been with, this makes me like an emotional gun.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like he's the one person that I wish

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<v Speaker 2>I would have given like all those like first too,

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<v Speaker 2>and so that piece was like, but I had so

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<v Speaker 2>I had to kind of go, Okay, well that's not

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<v Speaker 2>what it's going to look like because I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>the luxury of time, my ovaries, all those things to

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<v Speaker 2>go in that fairy tale order of what I wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>So when we kind of discuss things, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, yes, you know, let's try. And in his

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<v Speaker 2>brain he always said, he's like, you know, we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to get engaged and married no matter what. That that timeline,

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<v Speaker 2>so it kind of didn't really matter what became before

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<v Speaker 2>the other.

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<v Speaker 5>For me, I I really didn't like at first.

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<v Speaker 2>I really was like, yeah, we should probably get engaged first,

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<v Speaker 2>but it didn't matter that we got pregnant before we

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<v Speaker 2>got engaged. It truly was just like, I know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to spend my life with him, So the order

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<v Speaker 2>at that point became irrelevant.

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<v Speaker 1>How long into this relationship when you both knew that

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<v Speaker 1>this was.

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<v Speaker 2>Heading towards marriage, Well, I mean definitely when we I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>this is cheesy, but I definitely when we first met,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, Wow, I'm I'm like I've never

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<v Speaker 2>felt that before, like ever, not even with any my

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<v Speaker 2>other verse. So something felt really different about that. And again,

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<v Speaker 2>I just think, like how we are together, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>the respect and love that we have for each other

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<v Speaker 2>is any unlike anything I've ever felt, unlike anything ever

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<v Speaker 2>that he's ever felt.

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<v Speaker 5>So it just I don't know, it just worked.

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<v Speaker 2>And girls, I don't know if you have anything to

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<v Speaker 2>like at like it's just I'm so different, but like

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<v Speaker 2>a better version, like we would never have worked five

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<v Speaker 2>years ago.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll say that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I know that he you know, he knows

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<v Speaker 2>that too, So I don't know, girls, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that you knew pretty quickly?

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<v Speaker 5>And I think, what did I say?

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<v Speaker 2>What did I say to you when two weeks after

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<v Speaker 2>I met him? I even I even took a video

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<v Speaker 2>of it, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>That you were going to marry him. I know it's crazy,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm going to marry him.

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<v Speaker 2>I said that in front of Queendom. I'm like, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I raised my hand and I was like, I know

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<v Speaker 2>this sounds insane. I go, but I'm going to marry

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<v Speaker 2>this man. And Catherine's like, I know, and Kristen, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember what you said, but Sarah goes, wait, wait, what.

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<v Speaker 5>She's like, you just met him.

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<v Speaker 1>I go, I know, I know, now you know him

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<v Speaker 1>and you love him, and you're excited about this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the time, did that scare you? Addressing the queendom.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, No, because because I've never said it, I've never

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<v Speaker 2>said it, and that's the first time, right, Kat, you've

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<v Speaker 2>ever heard that mark.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you asking if it scared her?

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<v Speaker 1>If it's scared I'm asking if it's scared the queen them.

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<v Speaker 6>Nothing scares me anymore. With Kramer, my answer would be

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<v Speaker 6>yes and no. I think it felt very different. I

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<v Speaker 6>believe from the second she said it is they would

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<v Speaker 6>get married. But I think I still have a little

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<v Speaker 6>bit of that hesitation and fear as I think you

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<v Speaker 6>did at first too, just because.

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<v Speaker 3>Of being hurt so many times. Had nothing to do

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<v Speaker 3>with him, had nothing to do with anything other than

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<v Speaker 3>what if this happens again? But that was quickly, I

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<v Speaker 3>think for her and for me more normal, because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>usually the one that's like, oh God, like, what are

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<v Speaker 3>they going to do? You know more than her, But

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<v Speaker 3>that was quickly subsided, honestly on this one.

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<v Speaker 5>And you've never heard me say that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean, you've obviously been married before, but it

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<v Speaker 3>was about a I didn't know you for the first

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<v Speaker 3>but you know, no, And even though the marriage to

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<v Speaker 3>Mike was rather quick, it wasn't like it was not

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<v Speaker 3>like that at all, not at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I really, I just knew we were in.

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<v Speaker 1>But are you were you happy about that or were

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<v Speaker 1>you nervous about that? Or were you concerned about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I like my first thought was concerned. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know her as well as you guys do.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I wasn't nervous, and I don't know why. I

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<v Speaker 6>just there's something really special about Alan. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>just saying this because she's here, said this to anybody

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<v Speaker 6>that's asked. Like, Alan's a different accountability for her. He's

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<v Speaker 6>a different kind of guy. He's a very there's some

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<v Speaker 6>like old school pieces of him that I really love

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<v Speaker 6>and respect a lot. Like he's not going to just

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<v Speaker 6>go with the flow because that's what we all do.

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<v Speaker 6>He's he's like he challenges and he pushes back on

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<v Speaker 6>some things. And I've really liked that for her because

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<v Speaker 6>Janna and I are very similar humans, Like we can

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<v Speaker 6>we can make a homeboy a welcome at pretty fast

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<v Speaker 6>if we want to, I'm just gonna say it the

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<v Speaker 6>way I want to say it. So I really like

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<v Speaker 6>I felt something similar even to my own marriage, Like

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<v Speaker 6>when I had met Preston, I was like, this is different,

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<v Speaker 6>challenging and different and quick, but just so different that

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<v Speaker 6>it's like when you know, you know, and when you don't,

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<v Speaker 6>you don't. And so I saw that come over her

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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, Okay, I'm here for this. And

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<v Speaker 6>I would listen to some of the facetimes here and there,

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<v Speaker 6>and I thought, this guy is just it's like he's

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<v Speaker 6>going to make her level up to a different level

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<v Speaker 6>that even she hasn't been in a relationship and she's

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<v Speaker 6>capable of and is always wanted, but she just never

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<v Speaker 6>had somebody that's like helped her meet at that level.

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<v Speaker 3>Before I do say though, I want to go back

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<v Speaker 3>to the Christmas party for Queendom. And we all have

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<v Speaker 3>very different personalities when it comes to this. So you

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<v Speaker 3>definitely had Kristin who was like, yes, like love story,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm all in love, love, love, love love. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just kind of sitting back, half terrified, half she's

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<v Speaker 3>doing this so.

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<v Speaker 1>Or not that seems like your relationship up with her

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<v Speaker 1>in a nutshell, by the way, that emotion right there.

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<v Speaker 1>For a long long time.

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<v Speaker 6>Catherinees Cathroom's a relationship with Janna is okay, I'm a friend,

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<v Speaker 6>but also writing a press release at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>Got it too. But then you have like Pamela and

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<v Speaker 3>over here like can we please talk logistics? Like can

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<v Speaker 3>we just talk about logistics? And then you have Sarah

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<v Speaker 3>who was just like what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Like she was so confused.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wish we had a camera for that night

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<v Speaker 3>because it couldn't have explained all of us any better.

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<v Speaker 3>And Jana's just smiling like, yeah, I'm getting.

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<v Speaker 5>Mess it's happening. We're planning a wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, my reaction when I heard was like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a metaphor, you know. Jenna was she had

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<v Speaker 1>a very she was in a pool and she had

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<v Speaker 1>a really bad time in that pool and she almost

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<v Speaker 1>it almost took her down, she almost went under, and

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<v Speaker 1>so she was like, that's it. No more pools for

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<v Speaker 1>me for a long time. And now she's doing a

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<v Speaker 1>cannon ball.

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<v Speaker 4>And we're all on the sidewalk, porkcark.

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<v Speaker 2>The funny thing is is he had no idea even

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<v Speaker 2>that Queendom Knight that I did any of that that

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<v Speaker 2>I said, because we never even talked about it. That

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<v Speaker 2>was because that was just two weeks in denying each other.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, I would and I say this one thing because

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<v Speaker 6>this piece is really important to me, and this is

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<v Speaker 6>like all of our characters aside. I feel like the

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<v Speaker 6>one thing that I really liked about that night was

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<v Speaker 6>it was the first time I really watched you trust yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>And I had watched you not trust yourself for.

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<v Speaker 6>So long, and I have watched everyone you date tried

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<v Speaker 6>to chip away you trusting yourself, and this was the

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<v Speaker 6>first time that you were just kind of unapologetically like

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to get married the Scottish guy.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>For this, like because I didn't ask and normally I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like do you like him?

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<v Speaker 5>What are you saying like this?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always asking that do you think he's cute? Like?

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<v Speaker 5>And then I was like, I don't care what they think.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that was definitely a huge, like I think sign

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<v Speaker 3>for us for sure, like the Queendom wasn't blowing up,

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<v Speaker 3>like what does this mean? And what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>And do you think and do you know it was

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<v Speaker 3>just like it's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>By Sarah came back to the queendom check because I

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<v Speaker 4>got so quiet.

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<v Speaker 5>Queendom got real quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and one more question. We talked about this with

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about him knowing the past and everything

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<v Speaker 1>and reading up about you know, all that stuff. But

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<v Speaker 1>when do you reveal all that stuff to him? You

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<v Speaker 1>don't let him go look in the in the tabloids.

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<v Speaker 1>At some point you have to sit him down and say, look,

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<v Speaker 1>so here's the deal, here's what you're going to find

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<v Speaker 1>out there, here's what happened.

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<v Speaker 7>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>That's got to be a tough conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Catherine's laughing right now because.

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<v Speaker 4>There was literally the most perfect question.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, because Catherine, I can't even remember, was it I

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<v Speaker 2>brought it up to you, right, Kat?

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<v Speaker 5>I think so yeah, where I was like, or.

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<v Speaker 2>You might have asked like does he know? And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you might have asked that first in the

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<v Speaker 2>very beginning, and I'm like, well, he's never brought it up,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm like, I'm assuming he googled me, right like

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<v Speaker 2>I googled him, So I'm assuming he knows my past

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<v Speaker 2>and he didn't like when we first met, it didn't

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<v Speaker 2>really come up, which normally I feel like I'm always

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<v Speaker 2>on defense to have to have that conversation and be like,

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<v Speaker 2>I know my Wikipedia pages and blah blah blah. And

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<v Speaker 2>this time it didn't happen that way at all. He

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<v Speaker 2>didn't ask me, and so then I'm like, but then

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<v Speaker 2>it got so far into it that I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 2>have to address it because if he what if he

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<v Speaker 2>thinks I'm like hiding it. But he's never really asked me,

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<v Speaker 2>so like, and for the first time in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I've gotten to the place where I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not ashamed of it anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a past.

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<v Speaker 2>And sure again, in my weird, messed up brain, I

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<v Speaker 2>just think I've had one marriage. I've had two weddings,

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<v Speaker 2>one technical Elvis nineteen one, but like, you know, wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>that was a marriage, So like that to me is

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<v Speaker 2>like that one was like gone, but still it's still

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<v Speaker 2>a part of my story. It's still something a thing

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<v Speaker 2>I did when I was nineteen, so like, yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>walked down the aisle to my friend's now husband, But

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<v Speaker 2>then really my marriage, my seven year or almost seven

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<v Speaker 2>year marriage, is the one that like we talked about

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<v Speaker 2>because that was the most instrumental one in my life

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<v Speaker 2>and the one that impacted me the most. And why

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<v Speaker 2>would I bring up the other two because they weren't

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<v Speaker 2>They were just a relationships in my mind. And he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't say anything. So I'm like, but then I remember,

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<v Speaker 2>I think Colin Katkoain Like, I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 2>do because now I'm like, do I bring it up now,

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<v Speaker 2>like three four months later into the relationship because he

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't asked. And so then we were watching this TV show,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, he was looking through some of my like

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<v Speaker 2>he's like he had this like this little firestick thing

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<v Speaker 2>and he goes, so, what are some of the things

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<v Speaker 2>or movies where let's say, we can find him?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, oh no, no, no, no, like

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<v Speaker 5>this is silly.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do that. But he's like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>i'd be funny. So he's like looking through and he

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<v Speaker 2>searches my name and then he's like married Jonathan.

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<v Speaker 5>Who's Jonathan?

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I kind of just like ignored the question

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm like, don't you know, and go, God, do I.

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<v Speaker 5>Have to go through this right now?

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<v Speaker 2>So I cook at and I go, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what to do, like do I be like by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>like and she's like, well, you should ask him, right,

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<v Speaker 2>We were like ask him if he wikipediaed you.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't really know what to do. So

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of like we didn't go into it that

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<v Speaker 2>night because I kind of changed the subject. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I was like when I flew back to the States,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, I almost feel like now I have

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<v Speaker 2>to sit him down to be like this is what

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<v Speaker 2>has what I've done. But and it was before Julie

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<v Speaker 2>came over, So I was like, I need to tell

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<v Speaker 2>him before Julie comes over that this whole, this whole

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<v Speaker 2>situation and even the first abusive relationship guy that I

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<v Speaker 2>married when I was nineteen in Vegas, that my face,

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<v Speaker 2>like half my family still doesn't know about so uh

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<v Speaker 2>how well, I mean unless they watch Dancing with the Stars.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think my family's googling me. They know me,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't think my uncle Roy or whatever is

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<v Speaker 2>googling you know what I mean. Like, I'm sure they

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<v Speaker 2>they found out from the Dancing and the Stars show.

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<v Speaker 2>But before that they didn't because I wasn't you know

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<v Speaker 2>so anyways, but I remember sitting on like the in

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<v Speaker 2>the little kitchen area. I was like, so, have you

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<v Speaker 2>like looked anything up, like with my past or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, what do you mean? I'm like, God, he

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<v Speaker 2>was making me like so hard, and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>like googled Wikipedia relationships. He's like, yeah, I saw that

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you had a few, and I'm like few

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<v Speaker 2>marriages or a few.

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<v Speaker 5>Like how many do you think I've had?

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<v Speaker 2>It was so awkward, and I was like he's like, well, Mike,

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<v Speaker 2>and then the mic and I go well. And then

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like, my best friend Julie, who you're about

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<v Speaker 2>to meet in about ten minutes, is coming over.

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<v Speaker 4>Not only the doorbell, the cast.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a good time to chat about it, Kramer, It's

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<v Speaker 6>a good time. Right down to the deadline, I was

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<v Speaker 6>like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, we had a wedding, but we were

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<v Speaker 2>never married. A week later, I was just like, this

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<v Speaker 2>isn't my person, and I didn't know how to cancel

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding, so on paper, yes we got married for

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<v Speaker 2>a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was just like he asked, I think maybe

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<v Speaker 2>one or two questions about it, and I said, but

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<v Speaker 2>Julie is still my best you know. Julie then married

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<v Speaker 2>him and we became best friends, me and Julie and

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<v Speaker 2>it's great. He's like he had like literally nothing, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>And all the scandals all that stuff is you have

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<v Speaker 1>to address that or is no?

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<v Speaker 3>He?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he he the one that one thing that

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<v Speaker 2>was talked about. I you know, I've never spoken about it,

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<v Speaker 2>but uh, we talked about that too and yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>it was like not an issue at all because he

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<v Speaker 2>knows he had been with me longer than that person

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<v Speaker 2>was and he's like, this is not you.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, m.

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<v Speaker 1>So and all this stuff with Mike, all the US

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<v Speaker 1>weekly all this stuff, like he's up to speed. Basically

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<v Speaker 1>he's up.

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<v Speaker 5>He's up to speed.

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<v Speaker 2>He knows and he's just like and but the thing

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<v Speaker 2>is he loves me more for it, and that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I love. That's why I love him so much too,

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<v Speaker 2>because he's never made me feel guilty shameful around it,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's just like, your your past is your past,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have a past too, and things I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>proud of and things that I've done and we've met

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<v Speaker 2>at the right time, and so I appreciate that because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to carry shame of it. I've let

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<v Speaker 2>it go because it's not my shame to hold on

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<v Speaker 2>to anymore. Someone feels uncomfortable about that, like that's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I can reassure them with things, with my actions and

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<v Speaker 2>everything else. It's not mine to mine to have to do.

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<v Speaker 7>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of a quote that I heard.

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<v Speaker 1>It there's something about, yeah, scars, like you shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>ashamed of scars because it means you were stronger than

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<v Speaker 1>whatever tried to hurt you. And it's kind of like that,

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<v Speaker 1>like yours on physical scars. You've been through a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff and here you are stronger than ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we address like, you know, I was like, hell, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I was controlling. I was so controlling and I was

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<v Speaker 2>like and then post that because I'm like, I'm so

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<v Speaker 2>scared of losing things and like, but that's not that's

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<v Speaker 2>not you know, I think there will be a piece

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<v Speaker 2>of me that will always not always, but that may

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<v Speaker 2>fear may come up. But it's also I know that

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<v Speaker 2>there's nothing that I can truly control. So I had

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<v Speaker 2>to like release those things and you know that hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>been in our relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we've gotten to zero questions, so let's get to those. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>do you mind if we take a break and then

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back and do these.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, please, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's start these. Let's see what what you will answer,

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<v Speaker 1>what you will not. Let's just tiptoe in here. Brittany

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<v Speaker 1>asks when'd your due date?

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<v Speaker 2>Janna, my due date or my c section date?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, because.

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<v Speaker 5>Those are two very different things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my due date is funny enough. So remember I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I've spoken about this on the podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>but my queendom knows is that my fortieth birthday. I

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<v Speaker 2>said it's gonna like since I was how old cat

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<v Speaker 2>like thirty one, thirty two, I've been planning this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm like, I'm going to have the.

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<v Speaker 2>Biggest fortieth birthday party ever. I mean I'm talking, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna fly my girls on like a plane and we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to go to an island and we're gonna dance,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna have fireworks, and we're going to just

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<v Speaker 2>like have the best fortieth birthday party ever.

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<v Speaker 5>My due date's on my fortieth birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, ruined it for all of us.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>So fifty is going to be the best fiftieth birthday

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<v Speaker 2>party ever, but we're going to deliver the week and

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<v Speaker 2>a half before.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you still won't be in any partying condition.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably proy not it bees ready, No, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to do something and I'm but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a very much like I want to do it on

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<v Speaker 2>my actual birthday. So in my brain I have to go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>my fortieth will not be moved to my fiftieth big celebration,

0:23:09.760 --> 0:23:12.040
<v Speaker 2>but I still want to do something like on my

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.000
<v Speaker 2>birthday because I'm a big like. I don't want to

0:23:14.080 --> 0:23:16.320
<v Speaker 2>wait to go, oh, here's my fortieth birthday in April, Like, no,

0:23:16.400 --> 0:23:17.479
<v Speaker 2>my birthday is my birthday.

0:23:17.480 --> 0:23:20.640
<v Speaker 5>On my birthday. I've always been that person.

0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>Becca asks is it a boy or girl?

0:23:26.960 --> 0:23:30.520
<v Speaker 2>So kV Someone slid into Videms the other day, going okay,

0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:34.359
<v Speaker 2>is Lian going to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend?

0:23:35.359 --> 0:23:38.439
<v Speaker 6>Everyone wants to know. I tell everyone, I'm like, is

0:23:38.480 --> 0:23:40.480
<v Speaker 6>it a prom date or is it a best friend?

0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:41.400
<v Speaker 5>Right?

0:23:41.760 --> 0:23:45.120
<v Speaker 2>I was really hoping for Well, I think they could

0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:50.000
<v Speaker 2>be both, right, because gender like, you know, I don't want.

0:23:49.840 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 6>To mess up everyone's asking me too, because they're like, so,

0:23:53.960 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 6>you guys have done every pregnancy together, does this one match?

0:23:58.480 --> 0:23:59.879
<v Speaker 4>And I have no comment.

0:24:00.880 --> 0:24:04.280
<v Speaker 2>Right, Well, we did the blood work too, We did

0:24:04.320 --> 0:24:06.679
<v Speaker 2>the early blood work to check all the stuff and

0:24:06.720 --> 0:24:11.080
<v Speaker 2>then to check the gender, and then we had a

0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I did a had a scan.

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:13.760
<v Speaker 5>I had to go check on.

0:24:13.720 --> 0:24:16.479
<v Speaker 2>That fibroid in Los Angeles when I was fle out

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:20.280
<v Speaker 2>there for filming, and they we did like the anatomy scan,

0:24:21.440 --> 0:24:28.400
<v Speaker 2>one of like the first and ones, and they saw the.

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:27.879
<v Speaker 5>They saw the the part.

0:24:28.560 --> 0:24:33.280
<v Speaker 2>So we are having a boy.

0:24:34.200 --> 0:24:34.680
<v Speaker 5>Yay.

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:37.280
<v Speaker 4>So it's great because now Jana and I can be

0:24:37.400 --> 0:24:39.399
<v Speaker 4>in laws with each other. Up until now.

0:24:40.800 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 6>We've had best friends, which is awesome, but then we've

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:45.480
<v Speaker 6>never been able to like really seal the deal of

0:24:45.520 --> 0:24:46.479
<v Speaker 6>this arranged marriage.

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:47.920
<v Speaker 4>And now again it's great.

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, great news and breaking news. Congratulations, thank you.

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're I was. I was convinced it was a girl.

0:24:57.720 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 2>I was telling Cat from the second I got pregnant,

0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:03.800
<v Speaker 2>it's a girl, like, I mean, a thousand, million, trillion percent.

0:25:05.119 --> 0:25:06.080
<v Speaker 5>Sure it was a girl.

0:25:07.480 --> 0:25:10.359
<v Speaker 1>What was Jason Jolie's reaction to it's a boy?

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 5>Oh, it was so cute.

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, so I got the paperwork, and Alan was in

0:25:15.600 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 2>England with his kids, and and so the doctor was

0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:26.399
<v Speaker 2>supposed to call Catherine with the gender and so. But

0:25:26.480 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 2>when I was there, she's like, oh, here's the paperwork,

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:30.920
<v Speaker 2>like it was came on the same day as my appointment.

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:32.520
<v Speaker 2>She's like, you want to take the envelope and I'm

0:25:32.560 --> 0:25:35.120
<v Speaker 2>like sure, So I sent a picture to Queendom. I'm like, y'all,

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:38.560
<v Speaker 2>I have the envelope. But Alan hasn't come home for

0:25:38.600 --> 0:25:40.879
<v Speaker 2>two days. So I'm like, what do we do? Like

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 2>do I look at it first? Do do I wait

0:25:44.320 --> 0:25:46.720
<v Speaker 2>to see until he sees it? And I was even

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 2>looking at the envelope and so Kat's like, open it,

0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:50.000
<v Speaker 2>open it.

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:52.120
<v Speaker 3>I can't wait for stuff like that.

0:25:52.800 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 6>All of our personalities played out in this one too,

0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:58.879
<v Speaker 6>just perfectly. I'm like, no, it's the magic of being together.

0:26:00.400 --> 0:26:02.680
<v Speaker 3>You can surprise him and do something awesome for him.

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:03.120
<v Speaker 3>It's fine.

0:26:03.200 --> 0:26:05.199
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So maybe I was like, Okay, maybe I'll just

0:26:05.320 --> 0:26:07.840
<v Speaker 2>I'll open it and then when he comes home, I'll

0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 2>surprise him with like either a pink soccer ball or

0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:12.520
<v Speaker 2>a blue soccer ball, you know, and then they could

0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 2>we could still celebrate together. But then I was like, no, like,

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:19.560
<v Speaker 2>I really want that first thing together. So I ended

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:21.760
<v Speaker 2>up waiting those two or three days however long. It was,

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, and it was sitting on my uh, on

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:30.199
<v Speaker 2>my little table in my room. And by the second day,

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 2>I went over to the envelope to see if I

0:26:32.040 --> 0:26:34.159
<v Speaker 2>could maybe get the sheet of paper out of like

0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:38.720
<v Speaker 2>the creases because she she licked it, you know, So

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:41.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm like trying to like see if I can like

0:26:41.760 --> 0:26:46.400
<v Speaker 2>tap the paper over, but it didn't work. The light no,

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:48.480
<v Speaker 2>because she she like I saw her fold it like

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:49.520
<v Speaker 2>a million times.

0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:52.440
<v Speaker 1>So why not FaceTime with him? Why is there a

0:26:52.440 --> 0:26:53.600
<v Speaker 1>happy medium you could do there?

0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:56.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, I wanted to like hug them and like embrace

0:26:56.040 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 2>them and have that like that moment.

0:26:59.040 --> 0:26:59.159
<v Speaker 6>Uh.

0:26:59.400 --> 0:27:01.399
<v Speaker 2>He wanted to do it over FaceTime, and I was

0:27:01.480 --> 0:27:04.200
<v Speaker 2>just like, no, I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't,

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:05.159
<v Speaker 2>I ca't Because he really wanted to know.

0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:06.639
<v Speaker 5>He said, just open it, just open it, and I

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:07.280
<v Speaker 5>was like, I can't.

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 2>So then he he comes back and it's really cute.

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:14.560
<v Speaker 5>I have the reaction.

0:27:14.640 --> 0:27:17.159
<v Speaker 2>I filmed it and we opened it together and on

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:20.520
<v Speaker 2>the you know, in the bottom, it said boy. And

0:27:20.800 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 2>I mean I was shocked, so shocked. And then and

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 2>then we told the kids. I told, uh, did I

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 2>tell Jolie? Oh no, we did the gender reveal for them,

0:27:31.840 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 2>that's right.

0:27:33.240 --> 0:27:33.920
<v Speaker 5>So then we did.

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:36.280
<v Speaker 2>So we found out secretly together and then we did

0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:37.960
<v Speaker 2>the gender reveal for queendom.

0:27:39.320 --> 0:27:40.399
<v Speaker 5>So and the kids.

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:42.439
<v Speaker 1>How did you do the reveal?

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 2>We had I ordered like these confetti things from Amazon

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:50.919
<v Speaker 2>and so because I just wanted to have like a

0:27:50.960 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 2>little celebration for the kids and the little party and uh.

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:59.040
<v Speaker 2>And then since the queendom didn't really know, I had

0:27:59.200 --> 0:28:03.960
<v Speaker 2>kind of shared it, so, uh, KB there, So I'm

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm Catherine, So they knew.

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 3>You already knew KB already knew.

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:12.479
<v Speaker 5>They didn't Oh you didn't know. I told Katherine and

0:28:12.560 --> 0:28:15.120
<v Speaker 5>I told her. I said, no, oh, yeah, that's that's

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 5>what it was.

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:17.119
<v Speaker 2>That's what it was. I keep forgetting. Yeah, that's what

0:28:17.160 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 2>it was. I told Katherine.

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 5>I was like, don't tell Kristen. She's going to be mad.

0:28:21.960 --> 0:28:22.479
<v Speaker 5>You guys.

0:28:22.560 --> 0:28:25.479
<v Speaker 4>I saw entry and I knew you were up to something.

0:28:25.920 --> 0:28:29.199
<v Speaker 3>We left and it goes you lied to her, and

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:31.240
<v Speaker 3>I was like I had to.

0:28:33.119 --> 0:28:35.760
<v Speaker 4>This gets so deep so fast.

0:28:36.920 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 2>I felt bad because she was supposed to know originally,

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:40.640
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, but it was really sweet.

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah she did.

0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 6>I was surprised, guys because we didn't do a gender review.

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 6>I loved it like I live for a gender review.

0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was really it was really sweet and the

0:28:52.160 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 2>kids are super excited. At first, I wanted another girl

0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 2>because I never had a sister, so I always kind

0:28:57.200 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 2>of wanted Julie to have a sister. But I think

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:03.360
<v Speaker 2>with Jace's age and then having a boy, it'll be

0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:04.840
<v Speaker 2>they'll be good growing up together.

0:29:05.640 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 1>It was Joli disappointed though that she didn't get a

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:07.880
<v Speaker 1>little sister.

0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:10.560
<v Speaker 2>No, she's so excited now because she wants to boss

0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 2>around the boys.

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:29:12.200 --> 0:29:13.560
<v Speaker 5>So I was like, baby, girls, like you get to

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 5>be the boss. You are my only girl. And so

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 5>she's like, oh, yes, so she's she's she's puffed.

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:21.320
<v Speaker 1>That's great. Yeah, let's see back to it. So then,

0:29:21.360 --> 0:29:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, while we're always revealing like crazy, let's continue

0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:26.000
<v Speaker 1>the spree. Haley wants to know, do you have a

0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 1>name picked out?

0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:31.640
<v Speaker 5>So I think we do. We're trying it on.

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 2>I really and it's not one hundred percent yet, so.

0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 5>I'll tell you it didn't go.

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I really want a Ja or an a That was

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:48.640
<v Speaker 1>the question from Mindy. Will you continue with the Jays?

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I really wanted a Ja Kristen Jagger's out. I

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 2>was gonna go with Jagger, but I just think Jagger

0:29:55.200 --> 0:29:57.840
<v Speaker 2>is a really cute kid's name. I don't know if

0:29:57.840 --> 0:29:59.040
<v Speaker 2>I love it for an adult name.

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 6>Don't not offend it because the love was going to

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:03.960
<v Speaker 6>be Jagger if she was a boy, and then we

0:30:04.040 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 6>never named one Jagger.

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 2>So but it's a great name. I just yeah, I

0:30:10.480 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 2>just don't know if it fits like me and Alan, right,

0:30:14.360 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 2>And then I kind of wanted so that what I

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:20.080
<v Speaker 2>really wanted. The name I really wanted was Jack's Jackson.

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:23.880
<v Speaker 2>But his last name is Russell, so I can't Jack Russell.

0:30:28.160 --> 0:30:29.920
<v Speaker 4>I knew Mark was gonna love that.

0:30:30.160 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh the poor kid, that would not be good.

0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 2>But like, honestly, but kind of Jack Russell, like, come

0:30:36.720 --> 0:30:38.120
<v Speaker 2>into the field, Jack Russell.

0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>It's just dog jokes his whole life.

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 6>True, he's already in the field if he's Jack Russell,

0:30:44.160 --> 0:30:45.400
<v Speaker 6>because that's what Jack Russell's do.

0:30:46.680 --> 0:30:48.680
<v Speaker 5>But what if it's Jack's Russell.

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I think that's worse because then they think they're being

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 1>clever with the dog jokes.

0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 6>And then you have to start like, do you age

0:30:59.560 --> 0:31:01.520
<v Speaker 6>him by my unser? Do you agent by dog ears?

0:31:01.600 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 6>Starts to get really complicated. It's like only one, but

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:07.240
<v Speaker 6>really he's seven because he's Jack Russell.

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:14.400
<v Speaker 1>The bathroom. Just go in the backyard, Jack Russell.

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm do okay, okay, Jack Jack's Jackson is now totally out.

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to also name him Ace, but I can't

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 2>because Jace.

0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:31:24.200 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 2>See so if you, if you come up with a

0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:29.280
<v Speaker 2>good A or J name, we do have an R name.

0:31:29.920 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 2>I think it's going to be the actual name, but

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:34.600
<v Speaker 2>we're still we're still trying it on. I'm not ready

0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 2>to say yet.

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 1>And our name with Russell, Yeah, there's a lot of

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 1>potential there.

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it's strong too, So I think we've been

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:46.160
<v Speaker 2>we've been calling the baby that name for about a week.

0:31:47.720 --> 0:31:50.479
<v Speaker 2>But I'm still open to suggestions. So if so, if

0:31:50.480 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 2>I've knew anyone wants to comment on suggestions, an A,

0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:57.360
<v Speaker 2>J or an R, I'm here for it. Axel was

0:31:57.400 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 2>thrown at us. I didn't love it, no offense. Yeah,

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.719
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, I had all the girl names, like I was.

0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:10.960
<v Speaker 1>That was our thing. I think a lot of people

0:32:11.200 --> 0:32:13.400
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to Daniel Rome about this girl's names.

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:16.360
<v Speaker 1>It's about narrowing it down boys' names. Is finding anything

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 1>you can tolerate?

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I know, so yeah, so taking suggestions, but

0:32:23.560 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 2>we are trying on one name.

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, we're looking forward to hearing it and then

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 1>we all, Oh, Aaron wills to know if your child

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 1>will have dual citizenship. I thought that was kind of interesting.

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:35.040
<v Speaker 2>That's a really good question, and I honestly I don't

0:32:35.040 --> 0:32:37.080
<v Speaker 2>know the answer to that because I think it's based

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 2>on where is it based on where the kid's born.

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:43.760
<v Speaker 1>Or well, they'll automatically be a citizen of that nation, right,

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>But then I think because Alan is a citizen of

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:49.840
<v Speaker 1>another nation, they would automatically have dual citizenship. I'm not sure.

0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:51.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't know.

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 2>That's a really good question. I know, yeah, I don't know.

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:58.920
<v Speaker 2>Because Alan has a he's getting he has a work

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 2>visa right now out and then when we get married,

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 2>he'll get his official visa or whatever that's called green.

0:33:06.920 --> 0:33:08.920
<v Speaker 2>I have no idea, Like I'm so bad with that

0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:13.320
<v Speaker 2>kind of stuff. But yeah, I would assume maybe that

0:33:13.360 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 2>the kid would, the baby would, I don't know. Probably

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:19.480
<v Speaker 2>one would think.

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Let's move on from the kid questions, We'll take another

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 1>break and come back with a whole polpourri of other stuff.

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh great, okay, here, let's do it Jeopardy style. Here

0:33:42.280 --> 0:33:46.480
<v Speaker 1>are your categories Alan, relationships, family or miscellaneous?

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 5>Oh girls, why don't you pick for one hundred.

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Alan Alan question? Here we go. What was different about

0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>Alan that made you fall in love with him? That's

0:33:57.800 --> 0:33:58.880
<v Speaker 1>what Martha would like to know.

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:05.240
<v Speaker 2>I would say how safe I felt around him? I

0:34:05.280 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 2>felt very safe and very respected. I know I keep

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 2>saying the respect word, but I just I have never

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:14.920
<v Speaker 2>felt so respected in a relationship, like he truly respects

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:17.920
<v Speaker 2>and loves me, and that just makes me then feel safe.

0:34:18.400 --> 0:34:20.279
<v Speaker 1>That's a good answer. Meredith wants to know when the

0:34:20.280 --> 0:34:20.759
<v Speaker 1>wedding is.

0:34:22.080 --> 0:34:32.040
<v Speaker 2>We are going to do next year? Thinking late summer fall, okay.

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:37.000
<v Speaker 1>Hannah is wondering how you envision your wedding to look

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:37.640
<v Speaker 1>with Alan.

0:34:38.360 --> 0:34:40.960
<v Speaker 2>Very small, y'all. I gotta send you the dress. I

0:34:41.000 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 2>picked two dresses.

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 4>What this is the sh that happens when we don't

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:46.759
<v Speaker 4>like one?

0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 3>It's just unbelievable.

0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:53.400
<v Speaker 6>First of all, that's not the date I have, And

0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:57.600
<v Speaker 6>Sarah Bryce has been blocking Lee Bryce's calendar for different days.

0:34:57.840 --> 0:35:00.399
<v Speaker 2>Well, did you hear that Lee can't come to that

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:03.360
<v Speaker 2>one the date that I sent? And so my thing was,

0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 2>I was like, listen, I was like, I can't. I'm

0:35:05.120 --> 0:35:09.400
<v Speaker 2>working around Lee Brice, low Cash, you know, family's summer

0:35:09.480 --> 0:35:11.640
<v Speaker 2>vacations because I want all of Queendom to be there.

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:13.880
<v Speaker 2>So I'm trying to like, so the date that I

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:18.080
<v Speaker 2>have is the date we're going with, but Lee can't come,

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:19.919
<v Speaker 2>and so now I feel bad. So I was voicing

0:35:19.960 --> 0:35:22.120
<v Speaker 2>on Moong Sarah last night. I'm like, Okay, if I

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.560
<v Speaker 2>moved it up a day, would that worked better for you?

0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 4>You know?

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:27.080
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, but I'm also like, if I do that,

0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:28.839
<v Speaker 2>then it's like in a mess at Preston and low

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 2>Cash and are.

0:35:29.880 --> 0:35:30.839
<v Speaker 3>We keeping the same day?

0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:32.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:35:32.680 --> 0:35:34.280
<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's if it changes.

0:35:34.560 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 2>We have a dress, well, I think so. So I

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:39.840
<v Speaker 2>have two. I'm going to send it to the Queendom.

0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 2>It's one of two. So I need you guys to

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 2>heart the one you like, because I'm torn between the two.

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:45.560
<v Speaker 2>I have my favorite, but I don't want to say

0:35:45.600 --> 0:35:46.680
<v Speaker 2>which one is my favorite.

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:48.600
<v Speaker 1>In the are you in the dresses in the photos

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:49.960
<v Speaker 1>of they just photos of the dresses.

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:52.040
<v Speaker 2>I am not getting into a dress right now with

0:35:52.080 --> 0:35:56.120
<v Speaker 2>my belly bump. So I basically just told the people.

0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:58.400
<v Speaker 2>I was like, can I have y'all send it to me?

0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:01.879
<v Speaker 2>Maybe in like mart Chish, so I can just try

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:05.040
<v Speaker 2>on to see which one I like. But no, it's

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 2>just the images of the model in them. But I'm

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:12.360
<v Speaker 2>thinking very small, I mean like small, small, small, small, small,

0:36:13.800 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 2>my queendom and just a few family members and I'm

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 2>thinking we're thinking overseas and beautiful, just just a beautiful

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:26.279
<v Speaker 2>celebration of it.

0:36:26.320 --> 0:36:28.439
<v Speaker 1>Could be a challenge for me and Easton, but let.

0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:34.160
<v Speaker 5>Us Okay, I have to be there, and I hope I.

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Heart would pay for it.

0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:41.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean, oh, whoa wedding in Scotland podcast? Hello, putting

0:36:41.800 --> 0:36:44.040
<v Speaker 2>it out there right now? We need Easton and Mark

0:36:44.120 --> 0:36:47.600
<v Speaker 2>there and Hannah and Jackie.

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:51.320
<v Speaker 1>So you're envisioning a big It's a pretty grand affair,

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:53.680
<v Speaker 1>is what you're envisioning. This isn't some quiet justice of

0:36:53.719 --> 0:36:54.239
<v Speaker 1>the peace thing.

0:36:54.520 --> 0:37:00.160
<v Speaker 2>No, no, small, but like small but beautiful in the

0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:01.840
<v Speaker 2>most likely Scotland.

0:37:02.200 --> 0:37:06.799
<v Speaker 1>Gotcha, this beautiful setting, ghose friends got it? And then

0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:10.920
<v Speaker 1>Lisa is wondering, will you legally be Janna Russell.

0:37:12.160 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 5>I'm old school. I'm going to go back.

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 2>I know it's the changes of Catherine's like, damn it,

0:37:19.280 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 2>not again, because we got to change the TSA is,

0:37:21.880 --> 0:37:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Theirlines and this. But yeah, I don't know. I'm just like,

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:29.080
<v Speaker 2>and I will say this too. I will be Then

0:37:30.480 --> 0:37:33.880
<v Speaker 2>I'll have last name of a kid, which is I

0:37:34.000 --> 0:37:35.839
<v Speaker 2>like that. I don't want both my kids to not

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:37.759
<v Speaker 2>have my last name.

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:41.400
<v Speaker 1>So professionally, you'll still be Jenna Kramer of course, yeah,

0:37:41.440 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 1>of course, but you'll be Jenna Russell legally.

0:37:43.360 --> 0:37:43.600
<v Speaker 4>Yep.

0:37:44.040 --> 0:37:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Great, good questions, all right, more relationship questions now, Okay,

0:37:50.239 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Hannah would like to know how's the cold parenting going

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:52.919
<v Speaker 1>with Mike.

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:58.239
<v Speaker 2>Hey, Hannah Winkleman, get off the questions. Girls, I'll at

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:00.800
<v Speaker 2>you answer that one.

0:38:01.000 --> 0:38:03.839
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think really well, as far as I know.

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 2>I feel really proud of both of you. Actually, yeah,

0:38:08.800 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I feel like we kind of hit a.

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:12.240
<v Speaker 5>Stride.

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:18.280
<v Speaker 2>The book coming out is going to be interesting because

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 2>I truly peeled a lot of layers back that.

0:38:24.520 --> 0:38:24.719
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:26.880
<v Speaker 2>He's like, oh, but I'm like, it's not about you.

0:38:26.920 --> 0:38:30.440
<v Speaker 2>The book isn't about you. It's truly about my journey.

0:38:30.520 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 2>And yes, there are a few stories in there, But

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:36.439
<v Speaker 2>I mean I started the book very angry and kind

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:40.080
<v Speaker 2>of mad, and then we've come to a better relationship,

0:38:40.080 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, you know, this just doesn't need to

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 2>be in there. Certain pieces, some of these pieces are

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 2>important to the you know, finding out of things and

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:51.879
<v Speaker 2>what led to it everything else. I'm like, it doesn't

0:38:51.920 --> 0:38:53.520
<v Speaker 2>need to be in there. So I've re edited the

0:38:53.520 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 2>book plenty of times, and he actually mark around that time,

0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:03.200
<v Speaker 2>He's like, maybe maybe we could have a conversation on

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:04.280
<v Speaker 2>the podcast.

0:39:04.520 --> 0:39:08.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, can we schedule that around my schedule

0:39:08.920 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 1>so I can be available for that?

0:39:10.520 --> 0:39:16.319
<v Speaker 7>And me, yeah, but oh I want to. I think

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:19.360
<v Speaker 7>it'd be a really I think, you know, when he

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 7>said it, I was just like wow, I mean, I'm like,

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:25.799
<v Speaker 7>would would you really want to do that?

0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:26.120
<v Speaker 6>You know?

0:39:26.200 --> 0:39:29.080
<v Speaker 2>And he goes, yeah, I think, you know, we're how

0:39:29.080 --> 0:39:33.280
<v Speaker 2>far we've come too, it could be a really important

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.239
<v Speaker 2>conversation because I think too, it's like.

0:39:36.880 --> 0:39:37.799
<v Speaker 5>With a book as well.

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:40.160
<v Speaker 2>I am like, of course, the press, I'm sure are

0:39:40.160 --> 0:39:42.040
<v Speaker 2>going to pick up certain headlines of things that I

0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:43.960
<v Speaker 2>said in there. But I'm like, there are so many

0:39:43.960 --> 0:39:46.359
<v Speaker 2>times when I go every time I talk about him,

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 2>I go, right, back to me, what I could have done,

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 2>what I could have done differently or better or been

0:39:50.520 --> 0:39:54.439
<v Speaker 2>more aware of and stuff like that. And I think

0:39:54.480 --> 0:39:58.440
<v Speaker 2>he deserves to have his voice on it too, you know,

0:39:58.480 --> 0:40:00.279
<v Speaker 2>And I think the fact that he is the one

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:01.799
<v Speaker 2>that brought it up. I was like, yeah, I mean,

0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:03.720
<v Speaker 2>I'll talk to the team, but I'm sure they would.

0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:06.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we can make that work.

0:40:06.440 --> 0:40:10.960
<v Speaker 6>I think, well, you're still on the podcast thing anyway,

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:11.760
<v Speaker 6>so it's perfect.

0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 4>I mean, right, everyone.

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Always says there like his face is still on the

0:40:15.400 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 2>host thing. But now I think, like, you know, because unfortunately,

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, and and people that you know, when I

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:24.480
<v Speaker 2>was talking to like Rachel, you could tell he's defined

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:28.320
<v Speaker 2>by headlines and when someone googles him, it's not fair,

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, and he has to go, okay, this is

0:40:32.080 --> 0:40:34.640
<v Speaker 2>so I think maybe having something out there that he's

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 2>spoken on, because he hasn't really spoke since our podcast,

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:44.200
<v Speaker 2>So I think, you know, I think that's a it

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:45.919
<v Speaker 2>could be helpful for all.

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think that'd be great. Yeah, two work. You know,

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:53.560
<v Speaker 1>it didn't work out together, But like I you know,

0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 1>I've always had great experiences with Mike, so I think

0:40:55.960 --> 0:40:57.920
<v Speaker 1>that would be good to get him back see him

0:40:57.920 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>again and uh and clear the air or whatever he

0:40:59.840 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>liked hear the air about. But I think it's great.

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:05.480
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you two in a good place and

0:41:05.520 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 1>that's yeah the goal.

0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:10.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think, you know, we we parent differently at times,

0:41:10.760 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 2>but I think we come together at the right times,

0:41:13.440 --> 0:41:17.279
<v Speaker 2>if that makes sense, Like and then we really uh,

0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:18.719
<v Speaker 2>you know, he's with the kids right now at the

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:22.120
<v Speaker 2>beach and setting photos and and you know, I'm you know,

0:41:22.200 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 2>missing them extra hardcore. So you know, he's sending more pictures.

0:41:24.960 --> 0:41:28.439
<v Speaker 2>It's just like there's a lot of respect with that too.

0:41:28.480 --> 0:41:30.600
<v Speaker 2>And you know he's let me have them longer because

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 2>of the movie and so you know, he's very flexible

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:35.279
<v Speaker 2>as well. So it's just it's it's good and I

0:41:35.400 --> 0:41:37.759
<v Speaker 2>like the flex I like the piece because when there's peace,

0:41:37.800 --> 0:41:42.000
<v Speaker 2>there's flexibility and there's grace and there's good conversations.

0:41:42.239 --> 0:41:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm going to tangent us again. I'm sorry those

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>of you have questions, but I have a question. Is

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 1>he seeing someone.

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:53.000
<v Speaker 2>He was Yeah, he was who I met and she

0:41:53.120 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 2>was very sweet and they they're not together, but there's friends,

0:42:01.600 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 2>I believe. Yeah, But I think at the moment he's not.

0:42:04.400 --> 0:42:06.719
<v Speaker 1>But I just remember you talking in the past about

0:42:06.719 --> 0:42:11.760
<v Speaker 1>how your biggest fear, your biggest concern, was another maternal

0:42:11.800 --> 0:42:14.560
<v Speaker 1>figure in their life. Is that still an issue for

0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you or is it now a little bit better because

0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:18.839
<v Speaker 1>you're in a happier place and you want the best

0:42:18.840 --> 0:42:19.920
<v Speaker 1>for him.

0:42:21.120 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 2>I think I think that was more so when they

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:34.920
<v Speaker 2>were younger, Like they know now that I'm mom.

0:42:33.440 --> 0:42:33.759
<v Speaker 6>And that.

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:38.919
<v Speaker 2>With their ages too, That'll never change. Now it's if

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:41.440
<v Speaker 2>someone comes in that's just a bonus person that gets

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:43.120
<v Speaker 2>to love them, but they know I'm always going to

0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 2>be mom, just kind of like with Alan, like they

0:42:45.760 --> 0:42:48.239
<v Speaker 2>know their dad is their dad, and Alan is just

0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 2>a father figure that's coming in to love them and

0:42:54.040 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, be there for them when they need. But

0:42:55.840 --> 0:43:00.080
<v Speaker 2>they always you know, Dad's Dad's number one. So I

0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:02.040
<v Speaker 2>can see that and know that. Where now I'm just like,

0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:04.680
<v Speaker 2>as long as they're good with my kids, I don't care.

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:07.800
<v Speaker 2>I just want I want him to be happy because

0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:10.359
<v Speaker 2>that then trickles into the kids happiness too.

0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:13.080
<v Speaker 1>That seems very mature and well adjusted.

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 5>Thanks can.

0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I think that'd be hard for anybody to deal with.

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:18.960
<v Speaker 1>You've gotten to that place.

0:43:19.120 --> 0:43:21.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think it helps with the kids ages.

0:43:21.360 --> 0:43:24.280
<v Speaker 2>I really do like baby wise, i'd be like, that's

0:43:24.600 --> 0:43:26.640
<v Speaker 2>that's what I was like, you are not taking my

0:43:26.760 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 2>child that just came out of my body because but

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:33.879
<v Speaker 2>really whatever age though, it's really not now seeing it,

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.600
<v Speaker 2>there's just something different between the mother and the child,

0:43:39.760 --> 0:43:42.880
<v Speaker 2>don't you think KB like not taking away from the

0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:45.879
<v Speaker 2>step parents because they also bring such an important piece too.

0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:48.719
<v Speaker 2>But I'm also with the kids seventy percent of the time,

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 2>so like they're going to have and that's something you

0:43:52.680 --> 0:43:55.879
<v Speaker 2>know that my ex has, that would be I would

0:43:56.280 --> 0:43:57.960
<v Speaker 2>feel like that'd be a lot harder on my ex

0:43:58.040 --> 0:44:03.480
<v Speaker 2>because technically, since I have them seventy percent, Alan is

0:44:03.520 --> 0:44:06.680
<v Speaker 2>then around them more than he is, So I could

0:44:06.680 --> 0:44:08.799
<v Speaker 2>see that hurting and being hard for him.

0:44:10.200 --> 0:44:11.040
<v Speaker 5>That would affect me.

0:44:11.600 --> 0:44:13.799
<v Speaker 4>A question we should ask him when we bring him on.

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:16.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think like that would bother me, Mark,

0:44:16.520 --> 0:44:18.520
<v Speaker 2>if that's I'm being honest.

0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:23.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, understandably, Sadie, I would like to know what your

0:44:23.360 --> 0:44:26.239
<v Speaker 1>mom's thoughts are about your pregnancy and your engagement.

0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 2>My mom's yeah, hey, Sadie, well done. I called my

0:44:36.640 --> 0:44:41.839
<v Speaker 2>mom and is this when did she meet Alan? Oh?

0:44:41.920 --> 0:44:42.880
<v Speaker 5>So she met Alan?

0:44:43.280 --> 0:44:45.480
<v Speaker 2>So they FaceTime a few times, but she didn't meet

0:44:45.560 --> 0:44:51.080
<v Speaker 2>him until after the baby news. So I called her

0:44:51.200 --> 0:44:55.799
<v Speaker 2>and I said, hey, Mom, I have to tell you

0:44:55.840 --> 0:44:58.320
<v Speaker 2>something and she's like what. I'm like, I'm pregnant. She

0:44:58.360 --> 0:45:01.400
<v Speaker 2>goes shut up. I didn't believe me at all. I

0:45:01.400 --> 0:45:04.640
<v Speaker 2>was like, no, I'm serious, I'm pregnant and she's like, no,

0:45:04.640 --> 0:45:07.120
<v Speaker 2>you're like she it kept going on and on and on.

0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:09.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Mom, I'm pregnant. Would you like me to

0:45:09.080 --> 0:45:11.200
<v Speaker 2>send you the test? She made me send a picture

0:45:11.239 --> 0:45:13.440
<v Speaker 2>of the test to prove that I was pregnant, because

0:45:13.440 --> 0:45:16.440
<v Speaker 2>she did. She did not believe me because that's but

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:19.839
<v Speaker 2>that's how like I was not having another kid. So

0:45:21.280 --> 0:45:23.080
<v Speaker 2>I sent her the picture and then I called her

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:25.560
<v Speaker 2>back and she was like, oh my god, and she's

0:45:25.600 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 2>like I'm She's like, are you happy?

0:45:28.280 --> 0:45:29.160
<v Speaker 5>I'm happy for you.

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:35.399
<v Speaker 2>And then she met Alan a few weeks later and

0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:43.000
<v Speaker 2>he had a talk with her. He asked for her

0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:48.839
<v Speaker 2>permission to propose, and my mom didn't make it easy

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:49.120
<v Speaker 2>for him.

0:45:49.160 --> 0:45:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll say that, yeah, well, yeah, I get that. I

0:45:57.040 --> 0:45:59.040
<v Speaker 1>get I see what she's doing and I understand that,

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:02.840
<v Speaker 1>as is covered with the podcast, Dad, I understand her concerns.

0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:04.759
<v Speaker 1>But that's good. That put them through the paces. That's

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:06.440
<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm sure we expected nothing less.

0:46:06.520 --> 0:46:08.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, my mom's been there through all the like,

0:46:08.440 --> 0:46:12.359
<v Speaker 2>you know, she's just like I think she basically threatened them,

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:14.160
<v Speaker 2>like she's like you, if you ever break her heart,

0:46:14.239 --> 0:46:17.200
<v Speaker 2>I will find you pretty sure those were her exact words.

0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Wow, all right, we are almost out of time, but

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<v Speaker 1>let's grab a couple more of these quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, I have one for KB because someone asked me, KB,

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<v Speaker 2>what was your low and high of delivery?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that'll make me emotional?

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<v Speaker 2>The no, no, no, no, no, you have to end

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<v Speaker 2>on a high note.

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<v Speaker 5>It's the low. First.

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<v Speaker 6>The low was just how long it took this time

0:46:40.640 --> 0:46:43.799
<v Speaker 6>I have my babies. I've had both so quickly, and

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<v Speaker 6>I labored all like for twenty four hours, and it

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<v Speaker 6>just was like frustrating because I'm like, this isn't what

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<v Speaker 6>my body does, like I know what, like my body

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<v Speaker 6>knows what to do. So once we figured out what

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<v Speaker 6>was going on, they were able to, like I progressed

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<v Speaker 6>super quick by the time they figured out I had

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<v Speaker 6>my water had broke.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll make it like fast, but my water broke.

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<v Speaker 6>But that she was Essentially there was a piece of

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<v Speaker 6>the sack of water over my cervix, so she was

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<v Speaker 6>just lowering into that and she couldn't come down, so

0:47:13.880 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 6>I was just laboring for nothing. So I labored all

0:47:16.160 --> 0:47:18.360
<v Speaker 6>night and got to two centimeters and was so defeated.

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<v Speaker 6>But once they figured that out and they were able

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<v Speaker 6>to move that piece out of the way, it was

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<v Speaker 6>two and a half hours from the time that happened

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<v Speaker 6>to the time she was born.

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<v Speaker 4>So that was the low.

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<v Speaker 6>The low was just the time and just like frustration

0:47:30.560 --> 0:47:34.040
<v Speaker 6>and the touring schedules wore me out this time, if

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<v Speaker 6>I can be honest, just the data being gone and

0:47:37.760 --> 0:47:40.399
<v Speaker 6>then he's about to go really far away, and how

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:42.359
<v Speaker 6>am I feeling? And like I've never had a whole

0:47:42.360 --> 0:47:44.480
<v Speaker 6>management team checking in on my cervix quite like this,

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<v Speaker 6>So really quite frustrating.

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<v Speaker 4>But the high was.

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<v Speaker 6>That I had already seen this baby when I was

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<v Speaker 6>pregnant with Legend, And when I met Legend, I was

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<v Speaker 6>so confused because God had showed me this baby.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a baby girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Her name was Lyon, and she had really dark hair,

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<v Speaker 6>and I knew it was her. And so when Legend

0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:09.920
<v Speaker 6>came out, we didn't find out if Legend was a

0:48:09.960 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 6>boy or girl either, and so when Legend came out,

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:14.040
<v Speaker 6>he didn't look like the baby.

0:48:14.120 --> 0:48:14.760
<v Speaker 4>He was a boy.

0:48:14.920 --> 0:48:18.000
<v Speaker 6>He had no hair, and I was so confused for

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:20.480
<v Speaker 6>a second, I'm like, why would God show me this baby?

0:48:20.600 --> 0:48:22.879
<v Speaker 6>And then my and my husband was so dead set

0:48:22.920 --> 0:48:25.600
<v Speaker 6>that we weren't having any more kids. So that was

0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:27.480
<v Speaker 6>for a while where our family was going to be.

0:48:27.520 --> 0:48:29.799
<v Speaker 6>It was just the two, and I was fine with it,

0:48:29.880 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 6>but my heart always wanted three or four. So the

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<v Speaker 6>high of delivery was meeting the person God showed me

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:41.120
<v Speaker 6>five years ago. Had a hair baby girl name is

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<v Speaker 6>Lyon and she's incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful, Mark, Do you want to Are you wondering where

0:48:48.640 --> 0:48:49.319
<v Speaker 2>he showed her?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? I guess I was assuming it was some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of a dream situation.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was like a I kept praying that the

0:48:56.760 --> 0:48:59.480
<v Speaker 6>baby would be healthy. Legend is a baby after a loss,

0:48:59.520 --> 0:49:03.000
<v Speaker 6>so he's a rainbow baby, and I just was really like,

0:49:03.040 --> 0:49:04.879
<v Speaker 6>I just had a lot of anxiety around that.

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<v Speaker 4>I think a lot of moms.

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<v Speaker 6>Jana and I've talked about this a lot, but like

0:49:07.680 --> 0:49:11.919
<v Speaker 6>the scarcity mentality, it never goes away. It just even

0:49:11.960 --> 0:49:13.480
<v Speaker 6>to when he was like a year old. You know,

0:49:13.520 --> 0:49:15.520
<v Speaker 6>if he coughed wrong or something in his sleep, I'd

0:49:15.560 --> 0:49:16.720
<v Speaker 6>be afraid he's like choking.

0:49:16.800 --> 0:49:18.200
<v Speaker 4>And so I just.

0:49:18.120 --> 0:49:20.080
<v Speaker 6>Dealt with a lot of postpart of anxiety around that.

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<v Speaker 6>But because he was a rainbow, I don't know. I

0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:26.319
<v Speaker 6>just like I had this dream. I like woke up

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<v Speaker 6>to this like vision of a baby, and then I

0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:30.280
<v Speaker 6>was like, this is so like I could see the baby.

0:49:30.400 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 6>I could see the baby for five years. And I

0:49:32.239 --> 0:49:34.040
<v Speaker 6>know I sound like I'm nuts, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>why would God plant a vision of a baby and

0:49:36.400 --> 0:49:37.680
<v Speaker 6>it not be this kid?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, it doesn't make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just whenever you pictured, whenever you pictured legend, you

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<v Speaker 1>pictured a specific baby.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I I guess I thought it just would be

0:49:48.719 --> 0:49:50.719
<v Speaker 6>that baby, because why would I see a baby in

0:49:50.760 --> 0:49:51.800
<v Speaker 6>it not be that baby?

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<v Speaker 4>That's strange. I know, I sound like completely crazy.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that, Yeah, she just came at such a

0:50:01.200 --> 0:50:04.920
<v Speaker 6>divine time for like our marriage and for my life

0:50:04.960 --> 0:50:09.719
<v Speaker 6>specifically that I it's the most patient I've had to

0:50:09.719 --> 0:50:12.719
<v Speaker 6>be to meet this blind date of a person that

0:50:12.800 --> 0:50:15.319
<v Speaker 6>I feel like I've essentially known for five years and

0:50:16.440 --> 0:50:19.360
<v Speaker 6>just to like see her, I mean in the birth video.

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<v Speaker 6>I just weep, and you hear me saying over and

0:50:21.520 --> 0:50:23.440
<v Speaker 6>over again, I'm gonna cry, but I just kept saying

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<v Speaker 6>I knew it was you the whole time.

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:26.000
<v Speaker 4>I knew it was you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sweet, sweet vibes.

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<v Speaker 4>I know now that I sound like a psycho. Back

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<v Speaker 4>to you, Kramer, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to rapid fire a couple of these.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny wants to know what you love about making Christmas movies.

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<v Speaker 5>Makes everyone happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Marissa? Are you making more music?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel, who do you still keep in contact with? From

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<v Speaker 1>One Tree Hill, Chantal sues, when will your house be ready?

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<v Speaker 5>August September?

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<v Speaker 1>And from Naida we'll end on this one. What song

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<v Speaker 1>title best describes this season of your life?

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<v Speaker 5>You see me rolling?

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<v Speaker 7>No, let me see one of your songs.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure, but.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh god, that's.

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<v Speaker 4>The theme song from Braveheart.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good one. There you go, the theme song

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<v Speaker 2>from Braveheart. O fun well. I love you guys. Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>for the Q and A, and we'll be back for

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<v Speaker 2>another one next week.