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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so today's episode, we are well, actually, I'm in

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Speaker 2: a hotel bedroom and well, I can't say where I'm at.

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Speaker 2: I'm in the middle of nowhere, Arizona. So that's where

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Speaker 2: I'm at. Girls, where are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm just in my office at home.

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Speaker 4: I'm at a lake house.

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Speaker 5: Wait, didn't you just where's baby?

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Speaker 6: He's with She's with me, have baby will travel. So

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Speaker 6: we decided to just hunkerr for three days three sleep

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Speaker 6: really just two full days to like let the kids

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Speaker 6: fish and get outside. And we have a data home,

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Speaker 6: which is rare in June, so we're just hanging out.

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Speaker 6: We just moved, we relocated. It's just our family, the

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Speaker 6: Core five, so it's still quiet and cozy and we're

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Speaker 6: just doing life here with the little scenery for a

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Speaker 5: That's awesome.

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Speaker 6: I think my husband to avoid postpartum depression anxiety.

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Speaker 2: I love I love that you guys are at a

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Speaker 2: lake that's amazing. Yeah, three times a trim mark and

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Speaker 2: you're in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: I'm in beautiful downtown Burbank right now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you are studio and so today we're going to

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Speaker 2: do a little Q and A episode because we haven't

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Speaker 2: done one of those in a minute, and we have

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Speaker 2: the pleasure of having Mark to ask the question.

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Speaker 1: So can I ask my question first before we get

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Speaker 1: into their questions?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sure, all right, Well let's just dive in, shall we?

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Speaker 5: Should we say to your question?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well I could. I like mine better than theirs,

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Speaker 1: but I wanted to get it in and I like

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Speaker 1: it that. I feel like I can ask you very

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Speaker 1: personal questions and it doesn't phase you in the slightest,

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Speaker 1: which is great because there's other shows where we'll do

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Speaker 1: a Q and A and they'll ask a personal question.

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Speaker 1: Oh I can't talk about that, or I edit that out.

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Speaker 1: I can't talk about that. You've never done that to

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Speaker 1: us ever, and I did.

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Speaker 2: One time, okay remember the last It was maybe two

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Speaker 2: Q and A episodes ago, and I was like Mark,

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Speaker 2: I just I can't talk about this person or they're

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Speaker 2: going to keep going out.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, legal reasons. Yeah that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well yes, and I think this person liked to

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Speaker 2: be talked about.

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Speaker 1: Oh, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, my question is the okay, I just the you're okay,

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Speaker 1: So to recap, you're pregnant. My question is that one

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Speaker 1: motivate the other. Did the pregnancy cause the urgency to

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Speaker 1: get engaged because you announced them in the opposite order.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering if it happened in the other order and

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Speaker 1: there was a reason for that.

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Speaker 5: It's a really good question, Thank you. And I'm actually

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Speaker 5: let's see how do I say this?

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Speaker 2: So when we met uh and we had the early

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Speaker 2: conversation of not early conversation, it was probably like well

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Speaker 2: like February when you started having like all right, what

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Speaker 2: do you what do you see? Like what's a crystal

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Speaker 2: ball thing for? Like what are you kind of thinking?

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Speaker 2: And so that's when we kind of had the discussion

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Speaker 2: where he was like would you ever have their kid?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, well, I've already you know, I said,

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Speaker 2: like I've always said no, and I've talked about that before.

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Speaker 2: But I told him and this is I can't remember, Kat.

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Speaker 2: Was it you were Kristin I called crying about this

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Speaker 2: timeline of things? It might have been a new Kat,

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Speaker 2: do you remember or was it UKB.

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Speaker 3: I mean know we talked about it, but I think

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Speaker 3: you might have called Kristen upset about that.

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Speaker 4: I think this was the first class chat.

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Speaker 5: The woe wasn't.

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Speaker 4: This the first class chat?

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Speaker 6: We were on a flight coming home and we had

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Speaker 6: order and we were on a plane.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so basically what I was expressing. And I remember, yeah,

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Speaker 2: having the conversation where I got emotional about it because

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Speaker 2: I've obviously had plenty of not plenty, but I've obviously,

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Speaker 2: my brain I just think the one, because that to me,

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Speaker 2: was my only marriage. But I with him, I wanted

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Speaker 2: to do it the way that you grow up dreaming about,

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Speaker 5: Have a baby.

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Speaker 2: And I got really choked up about it because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I and but we also want to be married and

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Speaker 2: engaged before that. My age most likely isn't going to

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Speaker 2: allow how I have thought and dreamt it in my

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Speaker 5: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So I got really upset about it because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: damn it. I was like, I, of all of everyone

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Speaker 2: that I've been with, this makes me like an emotional gun.

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Speaker 2: I was like he's the one person that I wish

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Speaker 2: I would have given like all those like first too,

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Speaker 2: and so that piece was like, but I had so

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Speaker 2: I had to kind of go, Okay, well that's not

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Speaker 2: the luxury of time, my ovaries, all those things to

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Speaker 2: go in that fairy tale order of what I wanted.

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Speaker 2: So when we kind of discuss things, I was like,

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Speaker 2: all right, yes, you know, let's try. And in his

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Speaker 2: brain he always said, he's like, you know, we're going

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Speaker 2: to get engaged and married no matter what. That that timeline,

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Speaker 2: so it kind of didn't really matter what became before

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Speaker 5: For me, I I really didn't like at first.

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Speaker 2: I really was like, yeah, we should probably get engaged first,

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Speaker 2: but it didn't matter that we got pregnant before we

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Speaker 2: got engaged. It truly was just like, I know, I'm

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Speaker 2: at that point became irrelevant.

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Speaker 1: How long into this relationship when you both knew that

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Speaker 2: Heading towards marriage, Well, I mean definitely when we I mean,

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Speaker 2: this is cheesy, but I definitely when we first met,

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Speaker 2: I was just like, Wow, I'm I'm like I've never

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Speaker 2: felt that before, like ever, not even with any my

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Speaker 2: other verse. So something felt really different about that. And again,

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Speaker 2: I just think, like how we are together, I mean,

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Speaker 2: the respect and love that we have for each other

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Speaker 2: is any unlike anything I've ever felt, unlike anything ever

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Speaker 5: So it just I don't know, it just worked.

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Speaker 2: And girls, I don't know if you have anything to

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Speaker 2: like at like it's just I'm so different, but like

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Speaker 2: a better version, like we would never have worked five

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Speaker 5: I'll say that.

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Speaker 2: I mean I know that he you know, he knows

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Speaker 2: that too, So I don't know, girls, what do you think?

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Speaker 3: I think that you knew pretty quickly?

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Speaker 5: And I think, what did I say?

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Speaker 2: What did I say to you when two weeks after

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Speaker 2: of it, y'all.

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Speaker 3: That you were going to marry him. I know it's crazy,

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Speaker 3: but I'm going to marry him.

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Speaker 2: I said that in front of Queendom. I'm like, guys,

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Speaker 2: I raised my hand and I was like, I know

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Speaker 2: this sounds insane. I go, but I'm going to marry

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Speaker 2: this man. And Catherine's like, I know, and Kristen, I

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Speaker 2: can't remember what you said, but Sarah goes, wait, wait, what.

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Speaker 5: She's like, you just met him.

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Speaker 1: I go, I know, I know, now you know him

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Speaker 1: and you love him, and you're excited about this whole thing.

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Speaker 1: But at the time, did that scare you? Addressing the queendom.

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Speaker 2: Now, No, because because I've never said it, I've never

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Speaker 2: said it, and that's the first time, right, Kat, you've

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Speaker 3: Are you asking if it scared her?

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Speaker 1: If it's scared I'm asking if it's scared the queen them.

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Speaker 6: Nothing scares me anymore. With Kramer, my answer would be

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Speaker 6: yes and no. I think it felt very different. I

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Speaker 6: believe from the second she said it is they would

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Speaker 6: get married. But I think I still have a little

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Speaker 3: Of being hurt so many times. Had nothing to do

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Speaker 3: with him, had nothing to do with anything other than

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Speaker 3: what if this happens again? But that was quickly, I

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Speaker 3: usually the one that's like, oh God, like, what are

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Speaker 3: that was quickly subsided, honestly on this one.

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Speaker 5: And you've never heard me say that.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean, you've obviously been married before, but it

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Speaker 3: but you know, no, And even though the marriage to

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Speaker 3: Mike was rather quick, it wasn't like it was not

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Speaker 4: I really, I just knew we were in.

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Speaker 1: But are you were you happy about that or were

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Speaker 1: you nervous about that? Or were you concerned about that?

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Speaker 1: Like I like my first thought was concerned. And I

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Speaker 6: No, I wasn't nervous, and I don't know why. I

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Speaker 6: just there's something really special about Alan. And I'm not

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Speaker 6: just saying this because she's here, said this to anybody

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Speaker 6: that's asked. Like, Alan's a different accountability for her. He's

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Speaker 6: a different kind of guy. He's a very there's some

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Speaker 6: and respect a lot. Like he's not going to just

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Speaker 6: He's he's like he challenges and he pushes back on

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Speaker 6: some things. And I've really liked that for her because

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Speaker 6: Janna and I are very similar humans, Like we can

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Speaker 6: we can make a homeboy a welcome at pretty fast

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Speaker 6: if we want to, I'm just gonna say it the

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Speaker 6: way I want to say it. So I really like

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Speaker 6: I felt something similar even to my own marriage, Like

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Speaker 6: when I had met Preston, I was like, this is different,

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Speaker 6: challenging and different and quick, but just so different that

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Speaker 6: you don't. And so I saw that come over her

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Speaker 6: I would listen to some of the facetimes here and there,

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Speaker 6: and I thought, this guy is just it's like he's

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Speaker 6: going to make her level up to a different level

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Speaker 6: that even she hasn't been in a relationship and she's

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Speaker 6: capable of and is always wanted, but she just never

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Speaker 6: had somebody that's like helped her meet at that level.

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Speaker 3: Before I do say though, I want to go back

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Speaker 3: to the Christmas party for Queendom. And we all have

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Speaker 3: very different personalities when it comes to this. So you

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Speaker 3: definitely had Kristin who was like, yes, like love story,

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Speaker 3: I'm all in love, love, love, love love. You know,

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Speaker 3: I'm just kind of sitting back, half terrified, half she's

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Speaker 1: Or not that seems like your relationship up with her

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Speaker 1: in a nutshell, by the way, that emotion right there.

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Speaker 1: For a long long time.

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Speaker 6: Catherinees Cathroom's a relationship with Janna is okay, I'm a friend,

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Speaker 6: but also writing a press release at the same time.

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Speaker 4: And we're all on the sidewalk, porkcark.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, because Catherine, I can't even remember, was it I

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Speaker 5: It's a past.

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Speaker 2: And sure again, in my weird, messed up brain, I

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Speaker 5: Who's Jonathan?

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Speaker 5: Have to go through this right now?

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Speaker 2: So I cook at and I go, I don't know

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Speaker 2: We were like ask him if he wikipediaed you.

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Speaker 2: Like I don't think my uncle Roy or whatever is

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Speaker 2: But before that they didn't because I wasn't you know

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Speaker 2: He's like, what do you mean? I'm like, God, he

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Speaker 2: like googled Wikipedia relationships. He's like, yeah, I saw that

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Speaker 5: Like how many do you think I've had?

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Speaker 2: It was so awkward, and I was like he's like, well, Mike,

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Speaker 4: Not only the doorbell, the cast.

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Speaker 2: And he was just like he asked, I think maybe

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Speaker 2: Julie is still my best you know. Julie then married

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Speaker 1: And all the scandals all that stuff is you have

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Speaker 3: He?

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Speaker 2: I mean he he the one that one thing that

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Speaker 5: And I was like, m.

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Speaker 5: He's up to speed.

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Speaker 2: He knows and he's just like and but the thing

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Speaker 2: I can reassure them with things, with my actions and

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Speaker 7: Well.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of a quote that I heard.

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Speaker 1: It there's something about, yeah, scars, like you shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: like yours on physical scars. You've been through a lot

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we address like, you know, I was like, hell, yeah,

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Speaker 2: not you know, I think there will be a piece

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Speaker 1: Well, we've gotten to zero questions, so let's get to those. Uh,

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Speaker 1: do you mind if we take a break and then

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Speaker 1: we'll come back and do these.

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Speaker 5: Yes, please, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's start these. Let's see what what you will answer,

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Speaker 1: what you will not. Let's just tiptoe in here. Brittany

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Speaker 2: Janna, my due date or my c section date?

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Speaker 5: Those are two very different things.

441
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, my due date is funny enough. So remember I

442
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 2: don't know if I've spoken about this on the podcast,

443
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 2: but my queendom knows is that my fortieth birthday. I

444
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 2: said it's gonna like since I was how old cat

445
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,919
Speaker 2: like thirty one, thirty two, I've been planning this.

446
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, I'm going to have the.

447
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,880
Speaker 2: Biggest fortieth birthday party ever. I mean I'm talking, I'm

448
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: gonna fly my girls on like a plane and we're

449
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 2: going to go to an island and we're gonna dance,

450
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 2: and we're gonna have fireworks, and we're going to just

451
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 2: like have the best fortieth birthday party ever.

452
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,119
Speaker 5: My due date's on my fortieth birthday.

453
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 4: Wow, ruined it for all of us.

454
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding.

455
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,199
Speaker 2: So fifty is going to be the best fiftieth birthday

456
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 2: party ever, but we're going to deliver the week and

457
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 2: a half before.

458
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 1: Okay, but you still won't be in any partying condition.

459
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 1: Probably proy not it bees ready, No, but.

460
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: I would love to do something and I'm but I'm

461
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,360
Speaker 2: a very much like I want to do it on

462
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 2: my actual birthday. So in my brain I have to go, Okay,

463
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: my fortieth will not be moved to my fiftieth big celebration,

464
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 2: but I still want to do something like on my

465
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 2: birthday because I'm a big like. I don't want to

466
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: wait to go, oh, here's my fortieth birthday in April, Like, no,

467
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:17,479
Speaker 2: my birthday is my birthday.

468
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 5: On my birthday. I've always been that person.

469
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 1: Becca asks is it a boy or girl?

470
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 2: So kV Someone slid into Videms the other day, going okay,

471
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: is Lian going to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend?

472
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 6: Everyone wants to know. I tell everyone, I'm like, is

473
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 6: it a prom date or is it a best friend?

474
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:41,400
Speaker 5: Right?

475
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,120
Speaker 2: I was really hoping for Well, I think they could

476
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 2: be both, right, because gender like, you know, I don't want.

477
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 6: To mess up everyone's asking me too, because they're like, so,

478
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 6: you guys have done every pregnancy together, does this one match?

479
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 4: And I have no comment.

480
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 2: Right, Well, we did the blood work too, We did

481
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 2: the early blood work to check all the stuff and

482
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 2: then to check the gender, and then we had a

483
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 2: I did a had a scan.

484
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 5: I had to go check on.

485
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,479
Speaker 2: That fibroid in Los Angeles when I was fle out

486
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: there for filming, and they we did like the anatomy scan,

487
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 2: one of like the first and ones, and they saw the.

488
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 5: They saw the the part.

489
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 2: So we are having a boy.

490
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 5: Yay.

491
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 4: So it's great because now Jana and I can be

492
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 4: in laws with each other. Up until now.

493
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 6: We've had best friends, which is awesome, but then we've

494
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 6: never been able to like really seal the deal of

495
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,479
Speaker 6: this arranged marriage.

496
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 4: And now again it's great.

497
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, great news and breaking news. Congratulations, thank you.

498
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're I was. I was convinced it was a girl.

499
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 2: I was telling Cat from the second I got pregnant,

500
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 2: it's a girl, like, I mean, a thousand, million, trillion percent.

501
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 5: Sure it was a girl.

502
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 1: What was Jason Jolie's reaction to it's a boy?

503
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 5: Oh, it was so cute.

504
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: Well, so I got the paperwork, and Alan was in

505
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: England with his kids, and and so the doctor was

506
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 2: supposed to call Catherine with the gender and so. But

507
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 2: when I was there, she's like, oh, here's the paperwork,

508
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 2: like it was came on the same day as my appointment.

509
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 2: She's like, you want to take the envelope and I'm

510
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 2: like sure, So I sent a picture to Queendom. I'm like, y'all,

511
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 2: I have the envelope. But Alan hasn't come home for

512
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 2: two days. So I'm like, what do we do? Like

513
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: do I look at it first? Do do I wait

514
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 2: to see until he sees it? And I was even

515
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 2: looking at the envelope and so Kat's like, open it,

516
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 2: open it.

517
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 3: I can't wait for stuff like that.

518
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 6: All of our personalities played out in this one too,

519
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 6: just perfectly. I'm like, no, it's the magic of being together.

520
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 3: You can surprise him and do something awesome for him.

521
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 3: It's fine.

522
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, So maybe I was like, Okay, maybe I'll just

523
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 2: I'll open it and then when he comes home, I'll

524
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 2: surprise him with like either a pink soccer ball or

525
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: a blue soccer ball, you know, and then they could

526
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 2: we could still celebrate together. But then I was like, no, like,

527
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: I really want that first thing together. So I ended

528
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 2: up waiting those two or three days however long. It was,

529
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 2: oh yeah, and it was sitting on my uh, on

530
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 2: my little table in my room. And by the second day,

531
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 2: I went over to the envelope to see if I

532
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 2: could maybe get the sheet of paper out of like

533
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 2: the creases because she she licked it, you know, So

534
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 2: I'm like trying to like see if I can like

535
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 2: tap the paper over, but it didn't work. The light no,

536
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 2: because she she like I saw her fold it like

537
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: a million times.

538
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 1: So why not FaceTime with him? Why is there a

539
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: happy medium you could do there?

540
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 2: Well, I wanted to like hug them and like embrace

541
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 2: them and have that like that moment.

542
00:26:59,040 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 6: Uh.

543
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 2: He wanted to do it over FaceTime, and I was

544
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 2: just like, no, I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't,

545
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 2: I ca't Because he really wanted to know.

546
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 5: He said, just open it, just open it, and I

547
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 5: was like, I can't.

548
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: So then he he comes back and it's really cute.

549
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 5: I have the reaction.

550
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 2: I filmed it and we opened it together and on

551
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 2: the you know, in the bottom, it said boy. And

552
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 2: I mean I was shocked, so shocked. And then and

553
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: then we told the kids. I told, uh, did I

554
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 2: tell Jolie? Oh no, we did the gender reveal for them,

555
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 2: that's right.

556
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 5: So then we did.

557
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: So we found out secretly together and then we did

558
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: the gender reveal for queendom.

559
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 5: So and the kids.

560
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 1: How did you do the reveal?

561
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: We had I ordered like these confetti things from Amazon

562
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: and so because I just wanted to have like a

563
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: little celebration for the kids and the little party and uh.

564
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 2: And then since the queendom didn't really know, I had

565
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: kind of shared it, so, uh, KB there, So I'm

566
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: I'm Catherine, So they knew.

567
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 3: You already knew KB already knew.

568
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,479
Speaker 5: They didn't Oh you didn't know. I told Katherine and

569
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 5: I told her. I said, no, oh, yeah, that's that's

570
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 5: what it was.

571
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: That's what it was. I keep forgetting. Yeah, that's what

572
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: it was. I told Katherine.

573
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 5: I was like, don't tell Kristen. She's going to be mad.

574
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,479
Speaker 5: You guys.

575
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,479
Speaker 4: I saw entry and I knew you were up to something.

576
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 3: We left and it goes you lied to her, and

577
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 3: I was like I had to.

578
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 4: This gets so deep so fast.

579
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: I felt bad because she was supposed to know originally,

580
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: so yeah, but it was really sweet.

581
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah she did.

582
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 6: I was surprised, guys because we didn't do a gender review.

583
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 6: I loved it like I live for a gender review.

584
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really it was really sweet and the

585
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 2: kids are super excited. At first, I wanted another girl

586
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 2: because I never had a sister, so I always kind

587
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 2: of wanted Julie to have a sister. But I think

588
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: with Jace's age and then having a boy, it'll be

589
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 2: they'll be good growing up together.

590
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: It was Joli disappointed though that she didn't get a

591
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: little sister.

592
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: No, she's so excited now because she wants to boss

593
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 2: around the boys.

594
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

595
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 5: So I was like, baby, girls, like you get to

596
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 5: be the boss. You are my only girl. And so

597
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 5: she's like, oh, yes, so she's she's she's puffed.

598
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: That's great. Yeah, let's see back to it. So then,

599
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: I mean, while we're always revealing like crazy, let's continue

600
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: the spree. Haley wants to know, do you have a

601
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: name picked out?

602
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 5: So I think we do. We're trying it on.

603
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: I really and it's not one hundred percent yet, so.

604
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 5: I'll tell you it didn't go.

605
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: I really want a Ja or an a That was

606
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: the question from Mindy. Will you continue with the Jays?

607
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 2: Yes, I really wanted a Ja Kristen Jagger's out. I

608
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: was gonna go with Jagger, but I just think Jagger

609
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: is a really cute kid's name. I don't know if

610
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 2: I love it for an adult name.

611
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 6: Don't not offend it because the love was going to

612
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 6: be Jagger if she was a boy, and then we

613
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 6: never named one Jagger.

614
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: So but it's a great name. I just yeah, I

615
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 2: just don't know if it fits like me and Alan, right,

616
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: And then I kind of wanted so that what I

617
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: really wanted. The name I really wanted was Jack's Jackson.

618
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: But his last name is Russell, so I can't Jack Russell.

619
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 4: I knew Mark was gonna love that.

620
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: Oh the poor kid, that would not be good.

621
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 2: But like, honestly, but kind of Jack Russell, like, come

622
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 2: into the field, Jack Russell.

623
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: It's just dog jokes his whole life.

624
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 6: True, he's already in the field if he's Jack Russell,

625
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 6: because that's what Jack Russell's do.

626
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 5: But what if it's Jack's Russell.

627
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: I think that's worse because then they think they're being

628
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: clever with the dog jokes.

629
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 6: And then you have to start like, do you age

630
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 6: him by my unser? Do you agent by dog ears?

631
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 6: Starts to get really complicated. It's like only one, but

632
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 6: really he's seven because he's Jack Russell.

633
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: The bathroom. Just go in the backyard, Jack Russell.

634
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 2: I'm do okay, okay, Jack Jack's Jackson is now totally out.

635
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: I wanted to also name him Ace, but I can't

636
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: because Jace.

637
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

638
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 2: See so if you, if you come up with a

639
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 2: good A or J name, we do have an R name.

640
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 2: I think it's going to be the actual name, but

641
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: we're still we're still trying it on. I'm not ready

642
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: to say yet.

643
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: And our name with Russell, Yeah, there's a lot of

644
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: potential there.

645
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's strong too, So I think we've been

646
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: we've been calling the baby that name for about a week.

647
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 2: But I'm still open to suggestions. So if so, if

648
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: I've knew anyone wants to comment on suggestions, an A,

649
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: J or an R, I'm here for it. Axel was

650
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 2: thrown at us. I didn't love it, no offense. Yeah,

651
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,719
Speaker 2: so yeah, I had all the girl names, like I was.

652
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: That was our thing. I think a lot of people

653
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: I was talking to Daniel Rome about this girl's names.

654
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: It's about narrowing it down boys' names. Is finding anything

655
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: you can tolerate?

656
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know, so yeah, so taking suggestions, but

657
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 2: we are trying on one name.

658
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we're looking forward to hearing it and then

659
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: we all, Oh, Aaron wills to know if your child

660
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: will have dual citizenship. I thought that was kind of interesting.

661
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: That's a really good question, and I honestly I don't

662
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 2: know the answer to that because I think it's based

663
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: on where is it based on where the kid's born.

664
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: Or well, they'll automatically be a citizen of that nation, right,

665
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: But then I think because Alan is a citizen of

666
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: another nation, they would automatically have dual citizenship. I'm not sure.

667
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.

668
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: That's a really good question. I know, yeah, I don't know.

669
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: Because Alan has a he's getting he has a work

670
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 2: visa right now out and then when we get married,

671
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: he'll get his official visa or whatever that's called green.

672
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: I have no idea, Like I'm so bad with that

673
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 2: kind of stuff. But yeah, I would assume maybe that

674
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: the kid would, the baby would, I don't know. Probably

675
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 2: one would think.

676
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: Let's move on from the kid questions, We'll take another

677
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: break and come back with a whole polpourri of other stuff.

678
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:42,239
Speaker 1: Oh great, okay, here, let's do it Jeopardy style. Here

679
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: are your categories Alan, relationships, family or miscellaneous?

680
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 5: Oh girls, why don't you pick for one hundred.

681
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: Alan Alan question? Here we go. What was different about

682
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: Alan that made you fall in love with him? That's

683
00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: what Martha would like to know.

684
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: I would say how safe I felt around him? I

685
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: felt very safe and very respected. I know I keep

686
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: saying the respect word, but I just I have never

687
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 2: felt so respected in a relationship, like he truly respects

688
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 2: and loves me, and that just makes me then feel safe.

689
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: That's a good answer. Meredith wants to know when the

690
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: wedding is.

691
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 2: We are going to do next year? Thinking late summer fall, okay.

692
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: Hannah is wondering how you envision your wedding to look

693
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: with Alan.

694
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 2: Very small, y'all. I gotta send you the dress. I

695
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 2: picked two dresses.

696
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 4: What this is the sh that happens when we don't

697
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 4: like one?

698
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 3: It's just unbelievable.

699
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 6: First of all, that's not the date I have, And

700
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 6: Sarah Bryce has been blocking Lee Bryce's calendar for different days.

701
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 2: Well, did you hear that Lee can't come to that

702
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: one the date that I sent? And so my thing was,

703
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 2: I was like, listen, I was like, I can't. I'm

704
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 2: working around Lee Brice, low Cash, you know, family's summer

705
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: vacations because I want all of Queendom to be there.

706
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 2: So I'm trying to like, so the date that I

707
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: have is the date we're going with, but Lee can't come,

708
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:19,919
Speaker 2: and so now I feel bad. So I was voicing

709
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 2: on Moong Sarah last night. I'm like, Okay, if I

710
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: moved it up a day, would that worked better for you?

711
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 4: You know?

712
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: So I'm like, but I'm also like, if I do that,

713
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 2: then it's like in a mess at Preston and low

714
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 2: Cash and are.

715
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 3: We keeping the same day?

716
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 5: Yeah?

717
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 4: Okay, that's if it changes.

718
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 2: We have a dress, well, I think so. So I

719
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 2: have two. I'm going to send it to the Queendom.

720
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 2: It's one of two. So I need you guys to

721
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 2: heart the one you like, because I'm torn between the two.

722
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 2: I have my favorite, but I don't want to say

723
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: which one is my favorite.

724
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: In the are you in the dresses in the photos

725
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: of they just photos of the dresses.

726
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: I am not getting into a dress right now with

727
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: my belly bump. So I basically just told the people.

728
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: I was like, can I have y'all send it to me?

729
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,879
Speaker 2: Maybe in like mart Chish, so I can just try

730
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: on to see which one I like. But no, it's

731
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 2: just the images of the model in them. But I'm

732
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 2: thinking very small, I mean like small, small, small, small, small,

733
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: my queendom and just a few family members and I'm

734
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 2: thinking we're thinking overseas and beautiful, just just a beautiful

735
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 2: celebration of it.

736
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,439
Speaker 1: Could be a challenge for me and Easton, but let.

737
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 5: Us Okay, I have to be there, and I hope I.

738
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 1: Heart would pay for it.

739
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 2: I mean, oh, whoa wedding in Scotland podcast? Hello, putting

740
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 2: it out there right now? We need Easton and Mark

741
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 2: there and Hannah and Jackie.

742
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: So you're envisioning a big It's a pretty grand affair,

743
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: is what you're envisioning. This isn't some quiet justice of

744
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: the peace thing.

745
00:36:54,520 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 2: No, no, small, but like small but beautiful in the

746
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 2: most likely Scotland.

747
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 1: Gotcha, this beautiful setting, ghose friends got it? And then

748
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: Lisa is wondering, will you legally be Janna Russell.

749
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 5: I'm old school. I'm going to go back.

750
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 2: I know it's the changes of Catherine's like, damn it,

751
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: not again, because we got to change the TSA is,

752
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 2: Theirlines and this. But yeah, I don't know. I'm just like,

753
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 2: and I will say this too. I will be Then

754
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 2: I'll have last name of a kid, which is I

755
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 2: like that. I don't want both my kids to not

756
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 2: have my last name.

757
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 1: So professionally, you'll still be Jenna Kramer of course, yeah,

758
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: of course, but you'll be Jenna Russell legally.

759
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 4: Yep.

760
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 1: Great, good questions, all right, more relationship questions now, Okay,

761
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: Hannah would like to know how's the cold parenting going

762
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:52,919
Speaker 1: with Mike.

763
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 2: Hey, Hannah Winkleman, get off the questions. Girls, I'll at

764
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 2: you answer that one.

765
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 3: I mean, I think really well, as far as I know.

766
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 2: I feel really proud of both of you. Actually, yeah,

767
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 2: I feel like we kind of hit a.

768
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 5: Stride.

769
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 2: The book coming out is going to be interesting because

770
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: I truly peeled a lot of layers back that.

771
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 6: You know.

772
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, but I'm like, it's not about you.

773
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 2: The book isn't about you. It's truly about my journey.

774
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: And yes, there are a few stories in there, But

775
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 2: I mean I started the book very angry and kind

776
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: of mad, and then we've come to a better relationship,

777
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you know, this just doesn't need to

778
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 2: be in there. Certain pieces, some of these pieces are

779
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: important to the you know, finding out of things and

780
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 2: what led to it everything else. I'm like, it doesn't

781
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: need to be in there. So I've re edited the

782
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: book plenty of times, and he actually mark around that time,

783
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 2: He's like, maybe maybe we could have a conversation on

784
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:04,280
Speaker 2: the podcast.

785
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, can we schedule that around my schedule

786
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: so I can be available for that?

787
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 7: And me, yeah, but oh I want to. I think

788
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 7: it'd be a really I think, you know, when he

789
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 7: said it, I was just like wow, I mean, I'm like,

790
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 7: would would you really want to do that?

791
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 6: You know?

792
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 2: And he goes, yeah, I think, you know, we're how

793
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 2: far we've come too, it could be a really important

794
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: conversation because I think too, it's like.

795
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 5: With a book as well.

796
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 2: I am like, of course, the press, I'm sure are

797
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: going to pick up certain headlines of things that I

798
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: said in there. But I'm like, there are so many

799
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 2: times when I go every time I talk about him,

800
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 2: I go, right, back to me, what I could have done,

801
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 2: what I could have done differently or better or been

802
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 2: more aware of and stuff like that. And I think

803
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 2: he deserves to have his voice on it too, you know,

804
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 2: And I think the fact that he is the one

805
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 2: that brought it up. I was like, yeah, I mean,

806
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 2: I'll talk to the team, but I'm sure they would.

807
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:06,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can make that work.

808
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 6: I think, well, you're still on the podcast thing anyway,

809
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 6: so it's perfect.

810
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 4: I mean, right, everyone.

811
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 2: Always says there like his face is still on the

812
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: host thing. But now I think, like, you know, because unfortunately,

813
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 2: you know, and and people that you know, when I

814
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 2: was talking to like Rachel, you could tell he's defined

815
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 2: by headlines and when someone googles him, it's not fair,

816
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 2: you know, and he has to go, okay, this is

817
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: so I think maybe having something out there that he's

818
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 2: spoken on, because he hasn't really spoke since our podcast,

819
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 2: So I think, you know, I think that's a it

820
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 2: could be helpful for all.

821
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that'd be great. Yeah, two work. You know,

822
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: it didn't work out together, But like I you know,

823
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 1: I've always had great experiences with Mike, so I think

824
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: that would be good to get him back see him

825
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: again and uh and clear the air or whatever he

826
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: liked hear the air about. But I think it's great.

827
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: It sounds like you two in a good place and

828
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: that's yeah the goal.

829
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, you know, we we parent differently at times,

830
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: but I think we come together at the right times,

831
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 2: if that makes sense, Like and then we really uh,

832
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 2: you know, he's with the kids right now at the

833
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 2: beach and setting photos and and you know, I'm you know,

834
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: missing them extra hardcore. So you know, he's sending more pictures.

835
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,439
Speaker 2: It's just like there's a lot of respect with that too.

836
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: And you know he's let me have them longer because

837
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: of the movie and so you know, he's very flexible

838
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: as well. So it's just it's it's good and I

839
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 2: like the flex I like the piece because when there's peace,

840
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: there's flexibility and there's grace and there's good conversations.

841
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm I'm going to tangent us again. I'm sorry those

842
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: of you have questions, but I have a question. Is

843
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: he seeing someone.

844
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 2: He was Yeah, he was who I met and she

845
00:41:53,120 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: was very sweet and they they're not together, but there's friends,

846
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 2: I believe. Yeah, But I think at the moment he's not.

847
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: But I just remember you talking in the past about

848
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:11,760
Speaker 1: how your biggest fear, your biggest concern, was another maternal

849
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: figure in their life. Is that still an issue for

850
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: you or is it now a little bit better because

851
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 1: you're in a happier place and you want the best

852
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 1: for him.

853
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 2: I think I think that was more so when they

854
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: were younger, Like they know now that I'm mom.

855
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 6: And that.

856
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,919
Speaker 2: With their ages too, That'll never change. Now it's if

857
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: someone comes in that's just a bonus person that gets

858
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 2: to love them, but they know I'm always going to

859
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: be mom, just kind of like with Alan, like they

860
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 2: know their dad is their dad, and Alan is just

861
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 2: a father figure that's coming in to love them and

862
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 2: you know, be there for them when they need. But

863
00:42:55,840 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 2: they always you know, Dad's Dad's number one. So I

864
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 2: can see that and know that. Where now I'm just like,

865
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: as long as they're good with my kids, I don't care.

866
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 2: I just want I want him to be happy because

867
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 2: that then trickles into the kids happiness too.

868
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: That seems very mature and well adjusted.

869
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 5: Thanks can.

870
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: I think that'd be hard for anybody to deal with.

871
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: You've gotten to that place.

872
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think it helps with the kids ages.

873
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 2: I really do like baby wise, i'd be like, that's

874
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 2: that's what I was like, you are not taking my

875
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: child that just came out of my body because but

876
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 2: really whatever age though, it's really not now seeing it,

877
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 2: there's just something different between the mother and the child,

878
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 2: don't you think KB like not taking away from the

879
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 2: step parents because they also bring such an important piece too.

880
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 2: But I'm also with the kids seventy percent of the time,

881
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: so like they're going to have and that's something you

882
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 2: know that my ex has, that would be I would

883
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 2: feel like that'd be a lot harder on my ex

884
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: because technically, since I have them seventy percent, Alan is

885
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 2: then around them more than he is, So I could

886
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 2: see that hurting and being hard for him.

887
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 5: That would affect me.

888
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 4: A question we should ask him when we bring him on.

889
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think like that would bother me, Mark,

890
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 2: if that's I'm being honest.

891
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:23,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, understandably, Sadie, I would like to know what your

892
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: mom's thoughts are about your pregnancy and your engagement.

893
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 2: My mom's yeah, hey, Sadie, well done. I called my

894
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 2: mom and is this when did she meet Alan? Oh?

895
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 5: So she met Alan?

896
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 2: So they FaceTime a few times, but she didn't meet

897
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 2: him until after the baby news. So I called her

898
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 2: and I said, hey, Mom, I have to tell you

899
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 2: something and she's like what. I'm like, I'm pregnant. She

900
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 2: goes shut up. I didn't believe me at all. I

901
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 2: was like, no, I'm serious, I'm pregnant and she's like, no,

902
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 2: you're like she it kept going on and on and on.

903
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, Mom, I'm pregnant. Would you like me to

904
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 2: send you the test? She made me send a picture

905
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 2: of the test to prove that I was pregnant, because

906
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 2: she did. She did not believe me because that's but

907
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 2: that's how like I was not having another kid. So

908
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 2: I sent her the picture and then I called her

909
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: back and she was like, oh my god, and she's

910
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 2: like I'm She's like, are you happy?

911
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 5: I'm happy for you.

912
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 2: And then she met Alan a few weeks later and

913
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: he had a talk with her. He asked for her

914
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 2: permission to propose, and my mom didn't make it easy

915
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 2: for him.

916
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: I'll say that, yeah, well, yeah, I get that. I

917
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: get I see what she's doing and I understand that,

918
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 1: as is covered with the podcast, Dad, I understand her concerns.

919
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: But that's good. That put them through the paces. That's

920
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: all right, I'm sure we expected nothing less.

921
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, my mom's been there through all the like,

922
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 2: you know, she's just like I think she basically threatened them,

923
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 2: like she's like you, if you ever break her heart,

924
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 2: I will find you pretty sure those were her exact words.

925
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 1: Wow, all right, we are almost out of time, but

926
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: let's grab a couple more of these quickly.

927
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 2: Oh wait, I have one for KB because someone asked me, KB,

928
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: what was your low and high of delivery?

929
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 4: Oh, that'll make me emotional?

930
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 2: The no, no, no, no, no, you have to end

931
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 2: on a high note.

932
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 5: It's the low. First.

933
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 6: The low was just how long it took this time

934
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 6: I have my babies. I've had both so quickly, and

935
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 6: I labored all like for twenty four hours, and it

936
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 6: just was like frustrating because I'm like, this isn't what

937
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 6: my body does, like I know what, like my body

938
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 6: knows what to do. So once we figured out what

939
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 6: was going on, they were able to, like I progressed

940
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 6: super quick by the time they figured out I had

941
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:03,919
Speaker 6: my water had broke.

942
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 4: I'll make it like fast, but my water broke.

943
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 6: But that she was Essentially there was a piece of

944
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 6: the sack of water over my cervix, so she was

945
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 6: just lowering into that and she couldn't come down, so

946
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 6: I was just laboring for nothing. So I labored all

947
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 6: night and got to two centimeters and was so defeated.

948
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 6: But once they figured that out and they were able

949
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 6: to move that piece out of the way, it was

950
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 6: two and a half hours from the time that happened

951
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 6: to the time she was born.

952
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 4: So that was the low.

953
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 6: The low was just the time and just like frustration

954
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 6: and the touring schedules wore me out this time, if

955
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 6: I can be honest, just the data being gone and

956
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,399
Speaker 6: then he's about to go really far away, and how

957
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,359
Speaker 6: am I feeling? And like I've never had a whole

958
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 6: management team checking in on my cervix quite like this,

959
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 6: So really quite frustrating.

960
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 4: But the high was.

961
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 6: That I had already seen this baby when I was

962
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:57,359
Speaker 6: pregnant with Legend, And when I met Legend, I was

963
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 6: so confused because God had showed me this baby.

964
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 4: It was a baby girl.

965
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 6: Her name was Lyon, and she had really dark hair,

966
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:08,240
Speaker 6: and I knew it was her. And so when Legend

967
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 6: came out, we didn't find out if Legend was a

968
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 6: boy or girl either, and so when Legend came out,

969
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 6: he didn't look like the baby.

970
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 4: He was a boy.

971
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 6: He had no hair, and I was so confused for

972
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 6: a second, I'm like, why would God show me this baby?

973
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:22,879
Speaker 6: And then my and my husband was so dead set

974
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 6: that we weren't having any more kids. So that was

975
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 6: for a while where our family was going to be.

976
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 6: It was just the two, and I was fine with it,

977
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 6: but my heart always wanted three or four. So the

978
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 6: high of delivery was meeting the person God showed me

979
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 6: five years ago. Had a hair baby girl name is

980
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 6: Lyon and she's incredible.

981
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 2: Beautiful, Mark, Do you want to Are you wondering where

982
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 2: he showed her?

983
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: Yes? I guess I was assuming it was some sort

984
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: of a dream situation.

985
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was like a I kept praying that the

986
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 6: baby would be healthy. Legend is a baby after a loss,

987
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 6: so he's a rainbow baby, and I just was really like,

988
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 6: I just had a lot of anxiety around that.

989
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 4: I think a lot of moms.

990
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 6: Jana and I've talked about this a lot, but like

991
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:11,919
Speaker 6: the scarcity mentality, it never goes away. It just even

992
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 6: to when he was like a year old. You know,

993
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 6: if he coughed wrong or something in his sleep, I'd

994
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:16,720
Speaker 6: be afraid he's like choking.

995
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 4: And so I just.

996
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 6: Dealt with a lot of postpart of anxiety around that.

997
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 6: But because he was a rainbow, I don't know. I

998
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 6: just like I had this dream. I like woke up

999
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 6: to this like vision of a baby, and then I

1000
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 6: was like, this is so like I could see the baby.

1001
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 6: I could see the baby for five years. And I

1002
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 6: know I sound like I'm nuts, but I was like,

1003
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 6: why would God plant a vision of a baby and

1004
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 6: it not be this kid?

1005
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 4: Like, it doesn't make sense to me.

1006
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 1: It's just whenever you pictured, whenever you pictured legend, you

1007
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: pictured a specific baby.

1008
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 6: Well, I I guess I thought it just would be

1009
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 6: that baby, because why would I see a baby in

1010
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 6: it not be that baby?

1011
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 4: That's strange. I know, I sound like completely crazy.

1012
00:49:55,440 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 6: I think that, Yeah, she just came at such a

1013
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 6: divine time for like our marriage and for my life

1014
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 6: specifically that I it's the most patient I've had to

1015
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 6: be to meet this blind date of a person that

1016
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 6: I feel like I've essentially known for five years and

1017
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 6: just to like see her, I mean in the birth video.

1018
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 6: I just weep, and you hear me saying over and

1019
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 6: over again, I'm gonna cry, but I just kept saying

1020
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 6: I knew it was you the whole time.

1021
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 4: I knew it was you.

1022
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 5: I'm sweet, sweet vibes.

1023
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 4: I know now that I sound like a psycho. Back

1024
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 4: to you, Kramer, you.

1025
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: Want to rapid fire a couple of these.

1026
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 5: Sure.

1027
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: Jenny wants to know what you love about making Christmas movies.

1028
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 5: Makes everyone happy?

1029
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:49,240
Speaker 1: Marissa? Are you making more music?

1030
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 5: Yes?

1031
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: Rachel, who do you still keep in contact with? From

1032
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: One Tree Hill, Chantal sues, when will your house be ready?

1033
00:50:58,600 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 5: August September?

1034
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,479
Speaker 1: And from Naida we'll end on this one. What song

1035
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: title best describes this season of your life?

1036
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 5: You see me rolling?

1037
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 7: No, let me see one of your songs.

1038
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but.

1039
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 5: Oh god, that's.

1040
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 4: The theme song from Braveheart.

1041
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 2: That's a good one. There you go, the theme song

1042
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 2: from Braveheart. O fun well. I love you guys. Thanks

1043
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 2: for the Q and A, and we'll be back for

1044
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: another one next week.